Lifeline - 40. More Bounce to the Ounce

Episode Date: January 15, 2023

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forgot it and myself too dude let's talk about this guys brea california i'll be there tonight uh portland oregon seattle washington i got one show sold out the other one is uh january 22nd lakeland florida daytona beach oh it's so small thank you very much jacksonville florida is small dude wow i can't tell you texas i just added milwaukee i just added salt lake city so get your tickets get the good seats chicago theater land tulsa fucking col tell you texas i just added milwaukee i just added salt lake city so get your tickets get the good seats chicago theater land tulsa fucking columbus texas boise boise salt lake titty uh so that's what's up that's what we're doing with the uh with the tour the don't push me tour go get your tickets at chrisalia.com chrisalia.com thank you very much and if you

want to talk to me mano a mano man to man woman to man, one-on-one, if you know what I'm saying, go to mattdalia.com and book your session with me. Had some really sort of wet and wild ones this last week. It was crazy. Hey, I'm at a water park. What do I do? Some very personal stuff that I was able to help out with. Cool. That's great.

You want to go get the merch, you go to lifelinemerch.com. We've got new merch coming. So that's what's up. Oh, yeah. We've got to talk about that. We've got to talk about that. Off air. Uh-huh.

And that's what's up. Like and subscribe. We're changing the name of the channel because it's Shadow Band, unbelievably. Because it has the word... It'll be changed by this... Okay. So welcome to Super Good. We changed it just very, very minimally. Is that. It'll be changed by this. Okay. So welcome to super good. We changed it just very, very minimally.

Is that what we changed it to? Yep. Okay. And you know that. So it's all good. I don't really read texts from you. That's shitty. So what we're going to do is we changed it.

Yep. So that's it. So like and subscribe. And we did it, dude. Was it shadow banned because it had the word cult in it? For sure. Yeah. That's real stupid. so here's the deal we uh it's been absolutely a fucking mess outside i

don't know where it is how it's been when you where you leave live yeah it's been terrible but power went out been terrible all across the country we're getting the ass end of it got it so uh my power went out 9 a.m. It just goes like this. Gone, right? I knew it was out because why? Because the sound machine wasn't on anymore. And Kristen loves a sound machine, okay? It just goes, and I'll go, power's probably out.

Looked, power was out. So then I look out. Oh, you mean you figured it out the way everyone in history has figured it out? No, no. Interesting. I don't mean that. You know why? Because of how the the

darkness it was already the dark poetry it was the darkness because we didn't have any lights on dude because we didn't have any lights on because we didn't wake up yet because we don't wake up past nine because calvin sleeps till like 10 30 yeah but what i'm saying is everyone figures out the power went off when they realize a device that is usually on is not on my shit is like how do you figure it out if all the devices are off when the only device that is usually on is not on my shit is like how do you figure it out if all the devices are off when the only device that was on was the sound machine and it wasn't like the sound it was like that's how but it wasn't like there was a noise that was being made it was like there was no noise that was being made so i did it in like a good way and like oh wait a

minute usually there's a sound but now there's not a sound that's how everyone figures out the power's off no dude if the power's off that's how they figure it out so anyway i'm just saying i did it with deductive reasoning waking up knowing something was off because i have the gift of fear and i know what's up right okay i have that woman's intuition and so which woman haha um so what i so what i deduced was oh shit it's gonna be a day right guess what gate wouldn't open cars were stuck inside but also wasn't it already pouring there was like we were in the middle of a cyclone was getting to that right so then obviously you knew the power was out all the more reason to know but also but mostly it was the sound machine thing but then also i heard yes there was a so i go i go

i look outside dude it wasn't like fucking uh the water was coming down the street. It was like a river was coming down the street. Yeah. And it was unbelievable. And I go like this. I'm fucked. I just go like this. We're fucked all day.

Yeah. Depending upon where you, in LA, there's a lot of places you can live. If it rains like that, you're just, you're basically out of commission for at least a couple of days. Yes. You're stuck where you are because the roads close and it's so windy and already hard to get to that if one of those roads closes,

hundreds of people are just totally screwed. And also, check this out. And also check this out. They don't... Everyone's like, well, it's good.

LA needed it. Dude, LA can take about four inches of rain and then the rest of it, it doesn't help LA because they don't have the irrigation system all set up. If they could figure out when they built the city, when they built LA in every phase,

including all the way up to roads and highways, they built it as if it not rains infrequently. They built it as if it never rains, which is idiotic. Why? Because it rains everywhere at least sometimes plate it rains everywhere at least sometimes it rains everywhere at least sometimes so they actually built the freeways like this instead of everywhere else where you build them like this i know because it's obvious so the rain goes that way and you don't slip and slide on the road it's getting really hard to live in la it's getting

really hard to want to stay in la and that's why i'm moving 30 minutes away to fucking La Cañada. Cool. More bounce to the ounce. More bounce to the ounce. Nope. What do you mean? Why you even did that like Josh Groban? No. You even did more bounce to the ounce like Josh Groban.

Dude, I have my flavor that I do it, dude. Yeah, it's the Groban flavor. More bounce to the ounce. More bounce. Check it out. To the ounce. Dude, you don't appreciate my style of singing. You're absolutely right.

And it's because we grew up together, dude. No, it's because it sucks. And you're just used to it. Because it sucks. Dude, so many people hit me up about just do singing videos no no one has just do singing videos no one's ever done that dude quit your day job just do singing videos no well it will do that to me though for real okay they put in requests so now you know what they want me to do pearl jam stuff they want no no stone temple pilot stuff so look it rained like a shit storm i mean it's still going to be

raining a little bit but we're happy that it's kind of done raining shit storm i mean it's still going to be raining a little bit but we're happy that it's kind of done raining i don't think it's done i don't think it's done i think it might be done by the time this comes out is what i'm saying by the time this comes out it'll yes it'll actually have just ended that's what i do because i'm smart that was smart that was the first that was the first smart thing you've ever done i said i'm gonna be in brea tonight i'm not gonna be i mean right it's because we're filming it wednesday but i know i'm gonna be in brea on sunday so i say tonight you only did that better than me because you're more used to doing podcasts because you've been doing podcasts for 37 years that's not I have not been

doing podcasts since I was four hey guys I'd like to talk about Legos what's up with these new ones um so uh yeah so anyway we're here I'm glad you're here I'm glad I'm here we're having a good time and so the power was out. Kristen and I and Calvin, we hightailed it to the fucking, to a hotel, and we stayed in a hotel. Okay. And we had a really fucking, honestly, rip-roaring good time. Okay.

Because Calvin loved being in a hotel, and it was really fun, dude. And we got room survey, and it was, room survey, survey. Dude, I was going to do that, too. What? Room survey, survey. I say, bang me door. Is that a thing we do? Well, I think it's boom, mami, mami.

Right, but why do we both want to do that? We have done that before in the past. Oh, okay. A long, long time ago, we used to go on vacation together. Sad. Boom, sabi, sabi. And then what is it? Bang me door.

Wow. We say bang me door because the room service bangs on the door. I don't know if it's really bang me door, but anyway. Wow. That's so Rastafarian to be like bang me door. But anyway. Look at how bitch is putting the salt on dude you know what pisses me off dude how on everybody's ass you are about how they use salt you'd like that with me you're like that with somebody across the room while you're recording

it's like it's robocop yeah what is that on salt like a bitch so bitch drop it what is that shoot the fucking salt out but it goes remember the fucking in robocop when he shoot when he's like this and he shoots the wall and it fucking ricochets off the guy and it kills him like that do you remember that no but that's cool yeah so that is cool um robocop's great it is great so but no but what was i saying though i'm on people's ass because you put salt on one way like this but you put salt on one way like this you know how you put the salt on you know how you put the salt on and you know how it is it's very trying to wait i do wait hang on it's so dainty oh oh i go like oh dude that's so good this is how we put salt on dude this is how matt put salt on he goes like this yeah man that's bitch shit so you get it out the right

amount you're not just like fucking haphazard to the ounce you don't do it haphazard like this that's stupid you fuck up your food no when you have the finesse when you have the way to finesse that is finesse no that's not like this it's not it's jerky finessing it this is jerky jerky off jerking guys off finessing it is like this dude i take the salt i lay it in my hand i just lay it like i don't even fuck with it like i just lay it it's not even like i'm holding it and then i just fucking finesse it over the plate of pasta like what's the other hand doing there what's that it's balancing you're not even holding it i'm holding it like this i'm finessing it and i'm keeping my my weight nice so i'm just putting it on the salad like that i'm putting it on like that and but by the way i saw cookies i saw lots of shit you saw i know it's up

dude have you ever put salt on chocolate chip cookies no i've had salt on chocolate chocolate chip cookies a mexican folklore uh demon chip cookies okay hey go to sleep now before chacupi gets you that was such like a brain uh you know fart what but i did chacupis i was trying to check for chacupis under my bed yeah okay sure oh he's not there but go to sleep i mean mexicans don't talk like that you know well yeah have you seen training day talk like that, you know? Well, yeah. Have you seen Training Day? They speak Spanish. You know what Mexicans for real listen to more than anything? Yeah.

More bounce to the outs. No, no, no. It's what Pablo Francisco says. The Pablo Francisco thing. No, I'm saying Mexican Mexicans, but I'm saying like American Mexicans do. They listen to the shit Pablo Francisco makes a joke about. What's the joke? You can be as hard as you... You can be the hardest motherfuckers if you're mexican

but they still listen to that same old music yeah it's just every mexican song is the same as what the joke is but anyway dude um so anyway what were we talking about right before that the salt i lay it on like that and i balance out my other hand i mean that's a bitch it's not dude if you're at a restaurant and you see me doing the salt you go like this oh shit he's got it down i get no what else does he know um i would like to announce something can i do that before we even get into the show sure let me get comfortable fall asleep i am having another well no we are having another baby me and you not me and you yes dude we're having another baby and it it's a boy. How awesome is that? I'm excited. We're excited.

Thank you very much for your support and all that. We can't wait to have this baby boy. I'm not asking you to say it now, but do you know what you're going to name him? We have two things in mind. One is Firestorm. One is Megatron. Not Raiden? Raiden?

No. And then we also have another name, Vin Diesel. We might call him Vin Diesel D'Elia. That's good. name, Vin Diesel. We might call him Vin Diesel D'Elia. That's good. I'm already M. Diesel, so. Vin Diesel D'Elia. It's all in the family. Megatron D'Elia or Firestorm D'Elia.

Okay. We do have some names picked out. Yeah, but we're not sure yet. Well, everyone who's about to have a baby has some names picked out. We have two main ones. If you noticed, that's not what I asked. I asked if you have a name picked out. We have a name picked out twice.

Because everyone has some names picked out. We have a name picked out twice. Right. On two different occasions, you have a name picked out. We have a name picked out twice. Because everyone has some names. We have a name picked out twice. Right. On two different occasions, you have a name picked out? Yeah, yeah, yeah. We like two names. Okay. So we'll see what happens, dude.

Well, congratulations. Thank you very much. And it's very good. You obviously already knew this. I did. Not because I told him, because you're a clairvoyant. And it was amazing. No, I'm an OBGYN.

I could tell. Yep. Chukupi. Chukupas. Chukupas. Chukupas. All right. So, guys, say congratulations in the comments. Thank you very much.

I appreciate that. I'm sure you're saying it, so I appreciate all your comments. Wow. Getting a little ahead of yourself. So, let's get into the- Wait, does question. Does Calvin know? Yeah, he does.

What does he say? He knows he's going to be a big brother. He was eating by himself the other day. He says, I'm going to be the best big bro eating just eating pasta and then he says uh is the baby in mama's belly i mean he's pretty smart then he knows yeah he's really smart it's pretty crazy dude okay so we'll see how he how he is they say i wonder if he's gonna get jealous and shit you know you did but yeah you would bump me in the doors and my head would hit doorknobs and shit it was funny you didn't make it it wasn't a joke to you though you would knock me my body knock me body and i would slam my head into the doorknob because that's how how tall i was yeah so i good

on me for realizing your height and no knowing that the doorknob would rickish your head no company shoots the thing but i will tell you what i would do when one thing that made me laugh so hard when you were running around and we'll get to the episode but we're having a lot of good time bullshitting i would take the big pillows off the couch wing them at your head oh just the right weight that you would hit and then try to catch her and and you'd be walking like six steps and then fall down dude i would be crying i don't know man you must remember you're talking about that but i don't remember doing it four okay three so that probably added about two or three years of therapy to my life but that's cool uh all right cool well let's

get into the thing uh feeling good we're having a good time beautiful hair love the show quick question for you so friends and family are always asking to hang out, always asking to do stuff constantly. So popular. I don't want to do that shit. I got my own stuff I like to do. Yeah. Steve Buscemi. I just need your opinion.

What's the best way to not seem like a dick when I'm telling them no? Because right now, I'm a dick. Yeah. Steve Buscemi. Wow, Steve Buscemi. That's what I was saying. Just tell them you're on set making a movie because you're Steve Buscemi. Wow, Steve Buscemi. That's what I was saying. Just tell him you're on set making a movie

because you're Steve Buscemi. Yeah, be like, sorry, I'm busy being young Steve Buscemi. He for sure is, that's a spin move mentality for sure thing. Nah.

Dude, I don't think you're being a dick though. You're not being a dick because I'm like that too. I don't know. Be a person. You're a dick. Be a person. Be a person. You're a dick. You're a dick. Be a person.

Be a person that your family and friends, your loved ones know. Yeah. And by being a person that they know, be the kind of person that they don't even ask. I remember when you guys would have game night and you guys texted, hey, you coming to game night? And the group chat. And I was like, what the fuck? I never asked you.

No, no, no. Him. And I was like, what the fuck? Well, you guys were already talking about it. I was like, what are you talking about? He's like, we have game night and the group chat and i was like i never asked you no no him and i was like what the fuck well you guys are already talking about it we have game night i really for how long years i had no idea because my friends fucking know me and that made me so happy that you didn't invite me to that bullshit fucking whatever you were playing parchees here who cares the other thing is we didn't want you to come you did no so that was our i don't know if that's true man um yeah no i just think you need to you need to get it out of your head that you're being a dick yeah and and just because someone thinks you're a dick doesn't

mean that you are oh man preach people will call you a dick for a lot of reasons in fact one of those reasons is you don't do what they want you to preach okay stop it but it but you know uh just keep that in mind when people call you a dick. Unless you're being a dick, this sounds really stupid, but it's true if you think about it. Or it's insightful if you think about it. You're not a dick if you're not being a dick. You can be a dick and then everyone knows you're a dick, right? Beat poetry, yeah.

But if someone doesn't get what they want from you and they think it'll be fun and you say i don't want to do it they're gonna call you a dick but they're not right yeah let's put a bunch of marshmallows in our mouths i mean no one suggests that you say no no dick yeah i want to i don't i don't i don't know but it's about boundaries dude set your boundaries man be like you know what i don't want to hang out and it's all good. Love you. Don't pressure me, right? Well, don't. You could just say that all the first part.

You don't say, don't pressure me. Of course not. But if they do, then you'd be like, don't. If they're like, come on. Be like, nah, I don't want to. You're making me feel bad. I don't like that. Oh, block.

Okay, well, you don't need to do anything. Just say no. Thanks. Love you. We'll hang out some other time. Here's what I think, honestly. If somebody says, come on, man, it'll be fun. You be fun you go you write one month and they say what's that you say that's the amount that now we are not talking no then you're a huge dick then you and i think it would be fun

two months you want to add more are you telling him how to be a dick or no because here's the thing you need to respond accordingly if someone's like oh but come on we're all going and fucking this and that. One month, congratulations. Would you like to add more? No, that's not good. But I just think it would be fun. Because that person's not trying to be a dick.

And Ron really wants you to come. Two months. Would you like to add more? No. No. That's so bad. I think that you just need to know you're not a dick. Yeah, you're not a dick.

And then you're not a dick. He does seem like he might be a dick, honestly. At the end, I was like, he's maybe a dick. Yeah yeah yeah because steve buscemi is good at playing dickheads yep there we go so it kind of influenced my thinking yep there we go you know that's much better okay got it okay cool let's do it it's like the halo effect but just the buscemi effect the buscemi the buscemi effect worst effect cool let's do another one what's up chris what's up an amalgamation of every guy i know here's what's going on i just moved in northern utah and i'm having a hard time dating here because a lot of the

girls up here are mormon and i am not mormon so i met a girl the other day at a party thanksgiving party dry party you know nothing crazy going on but she was super cute super down to earth super likable but she has this affiliation with the mormon church you know and i have a hard time understanding if i should conform to that to be with this girl you know i mean what so let me know what you guys think about that and conforming to another person's beliefs to date them. Thanks. It's, I mean, you know. Absolutely not.

Yeah, what? That is the wrongest foot. He's like Val Kilmer in The Saint. You need to start dating the person and then once you realize, oh, this could really work, then you consider that. You don't consider that before date one. Yeah, it's backwards. And if she wants you to consider that before date one yeah it's backwards and if she wants you to consider that before day one then she's crazy hey you're cute want to be a mormon yeah oh yeah it doesn't work like that and pass the turkey i don't know who put it in this guy's

head that well the mormon should think like the mormon or that it's okay to think like that the mormons but that's okay stop but that's completely abnormal yeah to think that way and to be he's saying it like it's totally normal yeah because they're brainwashing him and that's the fucking thing over there he lives in provo or some shit and they're like well you know i mean look you don't have to be but it's great look at how friendly we are look at the chicks they got more bounce to the ounce would you like some turkey by the way want to be mormon put these underpants on and come into our church didn't someone try to make you mormon once dude many times no like they showed you a video and everything right yes oh really yes many times what do you what do you mean many times i let them have at it

how many times have you been courted by the mormons so many times i'm not even bullshitting man i've dated oh yeah i guess you have i've dated many mormons yeah and they all try to convert me dude and i've i've been friends with many mormons because i don't judge yeah right yeah obviously but i don't judge extra and and so when i was friends with the mormons they'd be like why don't you watch this video i watched the video it was the worst move of all time i'm like case friends not just intimate partners what friends dude friends and i gave it a good college try i was like look all right maybe it'll be good because i'm mr open-minded right so wait how many times have how have they put the press on press on you the full court press yeah maybe twice the full court okay but the like a half court kind of yeah yeah yeah zone defense

12 what yeah yep all same person different times no different people some different some different times yep the one time i got into deep trouble with a mormon kid that i was friends with uh it was in high school and i told him that he he looked mormon and he got really mad he is mormon yeah cool and he got really mad and i in retrospect i realized understandably he got mad because i was like profiling him and his people but well at the time blonde and fair skin yes at the time he was like what do you mean i look more and i was like welliling him and his people. But at the time- Well, let me guess, was he blonde and fair-skinned? Yes. Okay, there we go. At the time, he was like, what do you mean I look Mormon?

I was like, well, I don't know. Was his name Brigham? You look Mormon. No, his name was- Okay, well, don't- You look Mormon. And he said, he kept getting more and more mad. He's like, what is that supposed to mean?

What is that supposed to mean? I was like, what do Mormons look like? And I was like- You? Yeah, dude. Look at the- at the hey dude go in the bathroom and look above the sink yeah yeah uh i realized my the error in my ways in retrospect but at the time i was like they look like you because every mormon i've met looks like you profiling is profiling because profiling is a thing and sometimes you can just kind of yeah i mean the blonde guy. Yeah, I mean, it's like a cliche. Sometimes a cliche.

Yeah, I'm in Provo and they look at all these blonde hair guys. Well, we're obviously not in the fucking village of the damned. These are Mormons. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And it's okay, but profile away sometimes. Profile me. I don't give a fuck. Right?

Yeah, but the argument would be that that's your privilege speaking. Oh, right. The argument would be that. Yeah. The argument from cucks. Okay, right. The argument would be that. Yeah. The argument from Cucks. Okay. Well, going downhill fast. Yeah, but it's fine, dude.

So what I'm saying is- Doesn't even know what he's saying. Don't change your fucking religion because you saw someone. Yeah, yeah. At a party, dude dude yeah felt good with the fucking you know what i mean like oh this is all right you know you know he in his head he's like like having doing those he's a mouse oh wow and then someone came so high pitch the reasoning what's up oh hey what's up oh hey we're hitting it off they're probably not even hitting it off

he just thinks he is she's probably like well i would never hang out with the civilian he's not do you think she actually said yeah i think he's making it all up. No, he's making it all up. Yeah, she didn't do that. He's got the face of a guy making it all up. Yeah, he does. He's got a face that looks like every guy

and everyone's ever met all put together. My point is just meet her, maybe hang out with her, have a coffee with her. You can't, right? Because they don't drink caffeine.

But go to have berries with her somewhere and then, you know, feel it out. If you like it and be like, hey, let's hang out again. And she's like, I don't know because, and then be like, look, I'm kind of open-minded.

You know, maybe you have that video that Chris Lea saw. You know, I guess it wouldn't be a VHS anymore. It was a long time ago. What was it? Was it the same thing? It was something called like God's Army. It wasn't that, but something like that. Was it the same one that they showed you?

Like there was a recruitment video? No, it was a movie that was supposed to be. It was like something that, you know, it was like something, like one of the first tapes that they would have burned if there was a revolution because like, oh, we can't have propaganda. Wow. Okay. But it was the same one.

What does that mean? I'll tell you what it means. Okay. Even though it's utterly obvious what it means. The same one as what? It happened 12 times to you, you said. Oh, the full court press is different thing. They didn't always use the VHS.

The two full court presses, same video? No, they showed me one time, they showed me a video. And then they showed you a cliffhanger? They sat me down and talked to me. Oh, with full-court press is different thing. They didn't always use the VHS. The two full-court presses, same video? No, they showed me one time, they showed me a video. And they showed you a cliffhanger? They sat me down and talked to me. Oh, in a church. In a video. In a church. No video.

No video. They just did like a play version of it. Wow, dude. In the church, huh? In the church, dude. They let you in? You can go in the church. You can't go in like the temples.

Where the party's at? You can go in the church. You can't go in the temples. What's the difference? temples where the party's at you can go in the church you can't go in the temples what's the difference the temples are like where you get married and they're very sacred the church is like where you can go and people can get recruited and i didn't know there was a difference yep god mormons huh well no all of the religions what does that mean they're just insane dude yeah but some are more insane than well some are more insane than others yeah okay but like you know you gotta if you're gonna say mormonism you gotta throw catholicism in there yeah i mean i've talked plenty of shit about catholicism but we're not talking about catholics i'm just saying

don't single them out and also but he did i know but i'm saying i don't want it to seem like we're coming for that ass for them we're coming no it's every religious person and i'll go further anybody who's too into anything i come for that it's actually not even the people who are religious it's the religions themselves 100 how they make people think mormons are the shit okay it's such a 180 no mormons are the shit they are the shit dude yeah i mean you've known at least 14 oh bro i've known are you kidding me but i'm saying based on the ones that have tried to convert you You've known at least 14 Mormons are the coolest dude

Some of them won't let you swear But that sucks obviously because I'm going to do me regardless Because here's the thing dog I'm going to do me regardless So sometimes they won't let you do you regardless But I'll do me regardless and then they got to walk away With their white shirts and fucking black ties Alright cool

Let's go to another one see ya Matt Matt left Hi Matt and Chris They're white shirts and fucking black ties. All right, cool. Let's go to another one. See you, Matt. Matt left. Hi, Matt and Chris. A poet. What a pretty serious question to ask you. I believe you. Is it still cool to listen to Jamiroquai?

Yeah, yes. And have you heard his song Lifeline? Because I think it's a banger. Thanks. Really? The first part is absolutely it's still cool to listen to Jamiroquai. It'll never not be cool to listen to Jamiroquai. Virtual insanity. Wasn't that one?

Because that's the song. The famous video. What's his name? Glazer did. What? The guy that directed Sexy Beast. Brian Grazer. Brian Grazer.

Why can't I remember his first name? Glazer. Oh, because you're not a fucking huge dork. Jonathan Glazer. Dork. So, yeah, dude. why can't i remember his first name glazer oh because you're not a fucking huge dork donathan glazer dork um so yeah dude i mean like it's a good uh it's it's it's a good it's a good song but that what other song does he have dude how do you know any of jamiroquai's other songs jamiroquai well um oh excuse me dude jamiroquai was fucking huge dude it was for fucking 15 minutes he had the hat he had the hat that was had the hat. That was a piece of shit. Anybody that puts on that hat,

what do you think of Jamiroquai? But show it, show it on the thing so everyone knows because I'll tell you right now, about 90% of the people on this list of this podcast don't know who Jamiroquai is.

Come on. Dude, I'm telling you, man. Virtuo Insanity. The hat? And that's why because look at his hair.

Dude, I want that hat. I want that hat. Look at the one on the hair. No, that's when the hat and that's why because look at his hair dude i want that i want the one on the hair no that's when the hat melts he looks like josh hartnett oh dude a batman villain a batman villain is he appropriating native american culture oh look at that now that's good dude appropriating cowboy culture wow dude have you ever heard the fucking uh the guy who goes wait do the one with the shaman the q anon shaman next to him yeah dude i don't like guys no the headline is no jimmy rick why did not take part in the pro trump

but i thought that was jimmy rick why dude you know what i don't like is when guys who do singing and stuff do singing singers is the are. Are making it because of any other reason than they're fucking killer singers. Like, don't put the hat on, dude. Be about that music. But he is about that music. That song's amazing. Okay, fine.

But I don't know the new Lifeline song. Nobody does. People only know Virtual Insanity. How many views does it have? I mean, 80 gajillion 216 million oh that's not enough it should be one of the most viewed that's what i'm saying on 1996 and that's still in 2006 that is a ton yeah um look at that set that's cool man it is a really cool set it's very obvious how they did it i don't like that way of thinking though i know how they

did that yeah but i know it but it's fine but i know how they did that oh there goes the bird do you see the family guy thing i've been that's cool no it's funny anyway um all right cool so yeah i think it's final dude listen what you listen to listen to jamiroquai listen to maris yahoo listen to fucking zap more bounce to the ounce wow a nursery rhyme More bounce to the ounce. Rump-a-bum-bum-pum-pum. Oodly-waddle-oo. Wow. A nursery rhyme. All right.

All right, next one. Chris and Matt, good morning from Queensland, Australia. Cool, dude. Very cool. I need some advice. My ex-girlfriend of four and a half years is in the same friend circle as me. And I'm seeing this girl. I've been seeing her for almost a year now.

And every time we hang out with my friends, my ex is there. It's gotten to the point where we're going out for dinners. New Year's eve party just gone she was there um we're going camping and things like that um i don't really mind it i said to my partner that it's you know um it's so chill here nor there whether she's around or not it doesn't yeah of course it doesn't bother you seatbelt sonny's not even we know he's in or there, whether she's around or not, it doesn't mean anything to me. Yeah, of course it doesn't bother you. Seatbelt's on. We know.

Seatbelt's on. He's not moving. My partner doesn't like it, but she's kind of just, you know, she's expressed her feelings and she's kind of playing it cool. Okay. There's been no awkwardness or anything, but I'm just not really sure how to navigate it. I don't want to push my mates aside because then, you because then they're pretty much the only mates I've got. I was helping.

So yeah, I'm not really sure what to do. Choking himself. If you could help us out, that'd be awesome. Thanks, fellas. Love your podcast. Thanks, bud. Dude, Seapod on wasn't going anywhere. Better buckle up.

Go to do these videos. He was ready. He was getting ready. Yeah, dude. Why don't you take this one, man? Who cares? Yeah two percent who cares who cares no one cares your girl's not mad you're not mad yeah obviously your ex isn't mad such a non thing she's look if she's creating problems and like picking fights with your girlfriend she doesn't you cut me off and i didn't like that and i didn't like that but you didn't use it. But there's no, I didn't hear a problem.

So therefore there is no problem because if there was a problem, I would have heard it. Yeah. I am calling the lifeline, need some advice. My neighbor walks the dog. So like, what do I do? Hey, what's going on? Yeah, I've got some, I need some advice here.

I drink water. Let me know. Hey, Lifeline, what's going on? Uh, got, need some advice. Ah, love the pod. Thanks a lot. So wait, okay. So there's a number of ways it could be a problem.

Yeah. So let's maybe assume that he left that part out or something. I guess, dude, But he didn't. He specifically said it wasn't a problem. Yeah, he did. Yeah. I need some advice. Don't have a problem. Thanks.

So weird, dude. I think his current girlfriend kind of has a problem. And she's being cool. Of course she does. You know why? Schwabing. No, no, no. Dudes would have a problem.

Come on. Dudes would. But they wouldn't have a catty problem. Dudes would be like, what's up? And they would end that shit. No. Oh, dude. Dudes would have a problem. And then it would just be a different kind of problem yeah exactly but it wouldn't stop they wouldn't put a quash on it but you understand that you can't bring the dude around anymore and the dude's being a bitch about it

the chick is like oh hi oh nice purse oh oh you can get oh yeah no i've seen plenty of people with that purse and no it's, I know you agree with me. Dude, guys are definitely just as petty as girls about this kind of shit. Petty, bro. They do fisticuffs. What the fuck? What? Physically, they do fisticuffs on each other?

No, they don't. What is fisticuffs? Fighting. That's what that means? Yeah. Oh, okay. What are those things when you put your fingers in a lock? Chinese what? Finger traps. Oh. You can put your finger in it too, but that's... Oh, yeah oh okay what are those things when you put your fingers in your lock Chinese butt finger traps oh you can put your in it too but that's oh my god I guess you could put your dick in a lot of things it has to be it has to be hard but

and then you and then you're looking at each other you go come on and you put your no no no and then it rubs and you go and you know what I mean come right on each other and then you go no no on each other's we're gonna have to bleep a lot of that out you come on each other's comes so far okay um but yeah no don't move we'll come we're both not gay let's just breathe but i gotta go get soft and hug each other and then we'll be able to walk with me you like that you know? Okay, wait. Wait! You have to dance the same way. Walking out of that bar mitzvah. I already forgot completely what we were talking about. It's all good, though, dude.

Why are they Jewish? It's a Chinese trap. They get in because they're not circumcised. Dude, fucking... They are circumcised. Because they're circumcised, it's easier for they are circumcised because they're because they're circumcised it's easier for them but please please do oi please great now i'm kanye okay oi look oi i thought you're doing a fucking australian accent no it's oh god oh no we're trapped wow don't do that don't do that do australian make it an Australian thing. Oi. Why? Because it's less. Oi, how you getting on? Oh, no. Don't move.

Yeah. Don't move. Everything has an A in it. All right, cool. Next one. There's no problem. No problem. You're good.

The shit. So cool. So cool. Always make me laugh. Quick friendship advice. Me and my family recently in a fire, house fire. Oh, God. We very nearly died.

Jesus. me and my family recently in a fire house fire we very nearly died it's been obviously physically and emotionally draining and damaging none of my friends have messaged have rang none of them give a shit not one of them have reached out and said

hope yous are alright so what should I do should i speak to i should i confront them should i tell them you're shit friends yes or should i just leave walk away never speak to them again no no it's clear they don't give a shit about me or my family uh so just your advice please but thanks again for everything you do in the show make me laugh when i feel like i can't laugh keep doing what you're doing thanks buddy appreciate you oh yeah dude thank god you made it out dude here's the thing when somebody goes through something bad and you're sitting there thinking should i text them or should i not i don't want to bother them text them you fuck

yep just you're not gonna bother them them. What even is that, dude? Yeah, a guy fucking, a house caught on fire. The guy almost burned alive with his family inside their home. Text him. And just be like, hey, I heard you almost burned alive with your family inside your family home. Yeah, heard about the house. Everything cool? Heard about the house and the family.

Sup? But I think it's a cop-out to even be like i don't want to bother them i don't even think that's the real deal are let me just tell you man people are really fucking shitty but like they they i know a guy through a guy that was dying of cancer and everyone just kind of stopped talking to him because they were like i don't know how to deal with yeah yeah but i don't think that that's shitty though i think that that's like a glitch in the system because they're not, these people do care.

His friends do care about him. Yeah. Right. But he's sitting there thinking they don't. That's why it's shitty, but they're not being shitty. I don't think. I mean. Their nature is not shitty.

They're just, they're like uncomfortable with grief or pain or anything like that. Yeah. They're not thinking like, I'm not going to write him because I don't want him to feel good. But they are thinking, maybe I should say something.

I don't want to make it worse. I don't want to make him think about it. Yes, maybe, yes. Which is just not right. That's stupid. Just don't make it complicated. Text them. Hey, thinking of you, period.

Yeah. Send. The end. And if they don't text you, you text them, hey, I was in a fire, dot, dot, dot, question mark, LOL. Dude, I think that you honestly need to send them this video. And don't even send them your part. Send them our part. Just clip out our part, send our part, and then they'll be like, oh, I know who's talking.

Okay. You could also call them out. Well, yeah. I mean, if you want to keep that friendship, be like, yo, bro, I was in a fire. What the fuck? Yeah, but don't assume they don't give a shit about you that's wrong there you go dude and that's why matt does the one-on-one sessions and i don't that's that's not even right but they do they're just awkward stupid fucking humans yeah they're over complicating things for no reason and that's

why you do you but then again also i'll be in portland right and i'll be in seattle but you do you very different things i know i know you do you and you give good advices. But also for me, dude, I will be in New York February 18th. Okay, plugging yourself so hard. Making it about you at the very end. Alright, well, good luck to you, man. That fucking sucks a lot. If I had your number or knew you at all, I would text you.

Why don't you leave condolences in the comments for him? Hey, guy in the fire, sorry to hear it. Alright. Yeah. Hey man, Chris. My name's keith hey hey guy man chris it's keith heard what you said about me meet me at the schoolyard uh after school 3 30 i'm gonna hand you your fucking ass Thanks, Love and Pie. Justin Verlander. I appreciate you. On New Year's, me and my fiance had a get-together with both of our families.

It was a nice time. Me and the father started bickering. Uh-oh. He told me to stop using profanity. Uh-oh. Don't worry about it. Here we go. It's my house.

Here we go. Then he hit me when I wasn't looking. Scuffled for a little bit. It got broken up. There's a lot of people. And then I hear he's bleeding. He's bleeding. So I rushed to the front and my fiance's father stabbed my best friend in the

throat. Rushed to the hospital. Died twice. Thank God he made it. He's hurt, but he made it. My question is do you ever see us being able to have a normal relationship again after this that's her father i'm her fiance the father of a child she has nothing no consequences whatsoever for her obviously she had nothing to do with it but just a normality i don't know if things can go but i don't know if i could ever be in the same room as this guy again to kill your friend i don't bail because

the wedding i don't i don't know just because you tried to let me know this thing thanks so much okay so here's the thing you can never and should never ever no associate with that man again and your fiancee should also do that but if she doesn't because it's her dad she does need to understand that you will never do that yeah so here's here's the question oh there's the evidence just to break it down what the fuck that's unbelievable dude looks like halloween this is fucking unbelievable this picture thanks for taking the picture by the way this is to be clear this is the question that you asked i'm gonna just break it down okay to the question you asked. Okay. Hey, someone stabbed my best friend in my house.

Should I rekindle? The answer is no. It was his house? Yeah, it was his house. His house. Yes, dude. Hey, man, don't swear. Don't worry about it.

It's my house. Oh, really? Pop. Oh, shit. Just stabbed his friend. I thought he said, hey, it's my house. Don't swear. The guy's like, don't worry about it. It's my house. Oh, really? Pop. Oh, shit. Oh. Just stabbed his friend. I thought he said, hey, it's my house. Don't swear here. No, dude.

Yes. Oh, Matt's right? No. Chris is right. Sorry. We had it. Yeah, you're right. Yeah.

Yeah. Hey. I didn't know that. Dude. Dude, it's his house. Hey. Fuck. Hey, don't say that.

Well, it's my house. Well, dude. Pop. Oh, pop oh shit get him off where's your friend why did he stab his friend the guy didn't even die once he died twice the guy said he died twice he killed one guy twice he's like should i rekindle man should i work it out should we open up a business i'm thinking about opening up a pizzeria with the guy no knives but you know dude hey hey as a matter of fact break up dude get up come on i'm joking but also you gotta have a serious talk with the lady yeah yeah yeah you do yeah hey so about your uh dad that's that stabbed my friend i tried to kill my that killed my friend, that tried to kill my, that killed my friend,

actually. Twice. He came back. He died twice. Do I get extra dome or? Wait, why the fuck did he stab the friend? Let's make up for it. Dude, who the fuck knows?

Who cares? It doesn't matter, you know? Well, the friend was probably like, hey, motherfucker. Yeah. Fuck you. Yeah. Yeah. Stop punching my friend inside the house.

Dude. But wait, what the fuck? This he's got what he's got gray hair this this guy's like gotta be in his mid-30s right yeah yeah so the dad's like just some 70 year old guy stabbing people in other people's house absolutely insane that guy the dad i hate to say it needs to be locked up yeah lock him up yeah oh oh oh bro bro look at the scar he stabbed him in the neck he's just that's straight up attempted murder play it you're not gonna play it i mean you're taught you're literally talking about attempted murder you are actually just full stop you you are discussing attempted murder like that is an attempted murder wow this podcast is fucking good today wow wow i mean the guy fucking stabbed the guy looks like

fucking why so serious he's never gonna look fucking the same ever again i mean that'll go down a lot it'll go down a lot he will never look the same but this kind of thing makes he's gonna be fine okay but you're doing a thing that i don't like which is making it i'm minimizing oranges no you're not just minimizing he's gonna wet it i'm at a different thing he'll wet it up for sure but no one wants to look no one wants to look totally different for the rest of their life when it wasn't up to them i was what's up what's your name oh this yeah i got stabbed at my friend's house died twice by his fiance's dad they opened up a pizza parlor together yeah that's absolutely insane dude that is insane so update us by the way on going on with dad also

hey dad send in a video hey dad turn yourself in yeah because you committed a crime well i mean no yeah so much evidence i mean just you don't need to turn yourself in you don't need to do you don't need to interview anybody all you need is cops watch this episode he's on bail he said the dad is on bail that is in jail for what he did and he's out on bail. The dad is in jail for what he did, and he's out on bail. Yes. Okay. Well, good. Assault with a deadly weapon, something like that. Wow, dude.

I mean... All right. But honestly, though, hey, guy, just to wrap this up, that you're even thinking about it is... I don't know what's going on in your mind. You can't associate with this fucking guy anymore. Yeah, I'm not clear if he was talking about how should i deal with the father yes because just don't yeah he was okay i thought maybe there was how should i deal with the relationship he was

saying that's fine that's when he was like doing this shit he was like that's not even a thing she had nothing to do with it and okay oh yeah yeah but that he's right about that she's obviously you cannot and should not ever thank god the guy's still alive put any blame i mean wow but also you're 70 get over the desire to stab people when you disagree with them well dude if you're fucking 25 it makes more sense than if you're 70. Right, right, right. Stabbing your fucking daughter's friends in the neck. God, dude. All right. Wow.

Next one. So cute. My name is Nisa. I've been listening to you guys for forever. Aw. I'm a little in love with both of you, but it's probably fine. Aw. I'm here with Ollie, my son.

Hey, Ollie. He's 11 years old. He loves Roblox and soccer, and he rocks this sweet hairstyle. Look at that hair on Ollie. Our question is about the hair. When we go out, oftentimes Ollie gets mistaken for a girl, and it doesn't really bother him. He's actually kind of amused when people are embarrassed when they realize. Well, he's a good-looking dude, so I get it.

We're hoping you guys can help us come up with like a quick, witty response. Nothing hurtful, obviously, but just something kind of smart and funny to help people just know that he's a dude. Yeah. With some sweet long hair. Yeah. Thanks. Well, before Chris comes up with the retort i it well i used to have really really long hair like way way longer than it is now i lived in new york and i was a hypochondriac and i used to always

go to the health center in new york and the way that it was situated was my there were two places to sit sometimes you'd have to sit in the area where your back was to where the nurse comes out and calls your name and the nurse i kept hearing the door open and close open and close and i was the only one in the waiting room and i was sitting with my back to her the nurse and i kept hearing her come out and like maybe about to call my name and i was getting excited and she didn't call my name finally one time i looked back and her face was like oh because she just assumed that i was a woman because of my long hair and she was so embarrassed that i felt bad that she did it in the first place i wasn't insulted because like all the i don't really i don't take it personal that someone thought I was a woman just because I had long hair from the back.

But on my experience, the person already feels so dumb for thinking that you're not what you really are, that you may not need just a little push is what I'm recommending. You don't want to like body slam them because they probably already feel pretty stupid for getting it wrong in the first place. Especially for Ollie. He's young and like you don't want to like body slam them because they probably already feel pretty stupid for getting it wrong in the first place especially for ollie he's young and like you don't want to yeah insult a kid yeah ever you know yeah unless it's an adult that thinks he's a girl yeah but and then you feel even worse ostensibly no you go like this he says oh are you a girl i'd be like nah but your mama is and i just hung out with her oh wow the whole time i thought you were being rude and texting on your phone you were just getting ready to do that while you weren't even listening to my story that's cool are you a girl nah but are you a girl nah but your mama is and i hung out with her last night why are you putting your hair up yeah you're just doing this with a yeah yeah now i'm pissed at you

because you weren't even listening you're a girl nah i'm a dude why you you want me to be a girl what are you gay i mean that is the dumbest don't don't don't do that one don't do that don't do either one of those when you get a little older you can yeah don't do any sex jokes do one that's not a sex joke okay um you girl oh yeah yeah like because he's okay so your girl uh hey what's up girl um hey you might want to fix your eyesight yeah nice yeah um okay why because i got long hair why because i got long long hair what is this 1942 yeah that's good yeah yeah okay okay okay showing you yeah okay you got another one i don't know go ahead

you know just like more hey dude no dude huh no not for anything just everything else aside though i think ollie's hair was dope in fact i was seeing it in the image i was like wait is that his hair like off to the side i was like i hope that's i thought literally they were behind a horse yeah it was beautiful hair draped over his shoulder because that's how ill it was that was beautiful hair uh definitely don't cut it you look really cool you look cool as fuck and you and you could be a headbanger you could do like and do like that kind of he could be in a band but also it's you know 2023 you could be a you could be a doctor with that hair who cares right yeah it's 2023 i could be i could grow up be a doctor with this

hair that would be a good comeback yeah all right okay wow okay hey man chris how's it going podcast you guys indeed rip hell yeah so i'm calling to you know ask you guys right now my wife and i were having our first kid we're 37 years old and we're about 27 weeks into this pregnancy which is so way than we you're getting there ever have been at this point so are we and amazing you know due to you know us having a lot of pregnancy losses you know i'm finding i'm having a hard time trying to enjoy this process of it. And my wife, you know, is, you know, trying to find that joy in it also. And, you know, I'm just sort of, you know, in the back of my mind, always thinking that, you know, what if, you know, things are good now, but what if they aren't later?

And, you know, I was just wondering if you guys had any advice on how to sort of open up my heart to enjoying this, letting the walls down and everything. Anyway, have a good one, guys. Bye. Let me say something before you go, because you can speak to it a bit more than I can. But all I think is that, first of all, at 27 weeks, you're pretty close to viability, so you're getting really close, so congratulations on that. 8 if something happened you were and you and the baby was born now it's like eight or nine out

of ten chance that it would survive there you go so that's one but two i would say don't what you're describing and the difficulty you're having enjoying the process is so beyond understandable that i don't think you should judge yourself for not be not like being able to enjoy this part of the experience just be the way that you are feel the feelings that you're feeling and then when the baby is born then you will just be over the moon you will be enjoying it you won't have to worry about uh what's going to happen this what's going to happen that it'll be a whole series of other worries but in terms of your specific trauma you're not going to happen this, what's going to happen that. It'll be a whole series of other worries. But in terms of your specific trauma, you're not going to have to worry about that anymore.

So the end is near. The light is at the end of the tunnel. Don't be hard on yourself. Feel whatever you're feeling. It's fraught. It's scary. It's exciting. It's a lot of different things.

But don't be hard on yourself for not being able to, quote, enjoy it right now. It's totally understandable that you are having a hard time doing that yeah i feel for you dude i hear that you're scared and i think that it's okay i think that you should be i think that you know you're working with a little bit of ptsd because for sure happened and that's totally normal um i i am i am i'm scared also and i i we've never really had that kind of an issue. But it's a tough thing anyway. I think that just being open and honest with yourself, dude, because this is something that I struggle with.

Sometimes I don't even know what I'm feeling. I just think I'm angry. And the fact that you're like, you know what? This has happened before. I have fear. And that's okay. Live through it, you know what? This has happened before. I have fear. And that's okay. Live through it, dude. Talk about it with your wife.

And she'll understand. You guys will both have that connection together. And then you'll be able to work through it. The good news is you're at week 27. And like I said, you've got an 8 or 9 in 10 chance that the baby will survive if there is preterm labor and like a one in eight chance that the baby will have a serious issue so those odds are pretty good each week that moves on i mean those are amazing odds if that's yeah and also i'm very knowledgeable about this stuff right i doubt it but you don't sound like you're that far off to be honest so uh but i actually do know

that that's the truth so so yeah dude everything you're feeling is natural everything you're feeling is natural anyway besides the fact that everything that happened to you, the PTSD of it. You're going to be okay. It took those things to get here. And you're scared, bro. And also I am too. I'm 27. We're 27 weeks in as well.

And I have fear about it too. I'm scared of everything anyway. Okay? So now I'm going to be. No, not a pussy. I mean, you know what I mean? No, you just said. You just admitted it. It's not that I'm a pussy. You said you're scared of everything anyway okay so now i'm gonna be no not i mean you know what i mean no you just said you just admitted it i know it's not that i'm a pussy you said you're scared of everything i'm fuzzy but it's just it's life is scary life is real and that's okay here's the

other thing dude you can be fearful but don't be don't beat yourself up for being fearful because i do that and that's making it doubly worse and doubly hard. That's what I'm saying. Let yourself be the thing that you are without adding any kind of judgment to it because that's only going to make it even worse. Yes. What you're feeling is perfectly understandable. Don't beat yourself up about the fact that you can't enjoy it. Plus, from what I understand, tell me if I'm wrong, but pregnancy is fraught and is scary.

Don't put pressure on yourself to feel joy about a time period that is often just kind of scary. It is not. You know, some women love being pregnant. Some women just literally cannot wait to get that baby out of them. And so, you know, if she's uncomfortable and you're going through the thing, just know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. And, you know, Matt said the end is near. I wouldn't say that because that's not the good way to put it. Because you say the end is near. People think about other things, right? But I would say the light is at the end of the tunnel and you know matt said the end is near i wouldn't say that because that's not the good way to put it because you say the end is near people think about other

things right but i would say the light is at the end of the tunnel and when that is what i said and name them zap dude um zap the group that does that song yeah i think it's a guy right good zap is a zap and roger oh so zap is a guy. Yeah, Zap and Roger, yeah. Roger, you know? Really, Roger would. Staying with Roger even though the other guy was Zap? Zap and then also just some guy named Roger that I met. Boodly waddle loop.

Roger's the guy who does that. Zap and Todd. Zap and Frank. Yeah, so I feel for you, bro. And my heart goes out to you. But this is also realize that there is positivity mixed in with this negativity, dude. You have, this is what, this is, you're winning, dude. You're winning life. Charlie Sheen.

You have a beautiful. Winning. You have a beautiful, beautiful, this is a moment. And you're not going to get this moment again. I mean, you have another kid, but not this one. It's a different, it'll be a different kid. But you have this moment to live, and this is a beautiful thing to live through. And so soak it up, man, because these moments tick by, and before you know it, they're gone.

And man, I mean, Calvin's already, he's going to be three, dude. And I remember when he fit in the palm of my hand. And now he's saying the word actually and shit yeah so bro feel for you you got this thank you for the submission that was really sweet and i appreciate your vulnerability i really appreciate people's vulnerability when they call in um it inspires me to be vulnerable and i'm with you dude um and matt you know not so much he's not as good a person as i am so uh i appreciate you but that's it that's good man uh and then we could talk you know that's it i think we're good on on show on uh that was a great episode i mean the way i think

the way i think you have to take a shit so bad no i mean i don't have to i could um i think i could you know i ate four hours ago and um i feel grumbles but i can hold it in literally um uh i just added salt lake city i just added milwaukee but i will also but i will be in new york new york new york and uh not the song and uh what is it? New York, New York. What is it? Frank Sinatra? Oh, yeah. New York, New York. How's it go? I mean, you're asking me?

I'm not going to get it right. New York, New York. How does New York, New York go? Sing it. New York. New York. And da, da, na, na. And da, da, na, na.

And da, da, na, na. Start spreading my balls. No, that's not how it goes. These vagabond balls. New York, New York. That's what I was trying to do. There we go. Still off, but all good.

All good. So I'll be there. I'll be in Chicago. I will be in Seattle. I got that extra show added um i'm adding another show in springfield missouri because that sold out who knew who to thunk who to thunk the boys hot and sit in springfield so it's good but um yeah dude i'll see you tonight bray improv that's what's up dude these vagabond balls. No, dude. Disrespectful.

All right. Bye. Go to Torchrislea.com. You want a one-on-one session with Matt, go to MattDeLea.com. And if you got a question, go click the link in the description below. Also, dude, leave a comment for that ass. How do you like the new thing? Super good.

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