LOS MAFIA PODCAST ⭐️ - El verdadero COSTO de ser Mamá SOLTERA con 3 hijos — Paola Viguri

Episode Date: May 18, 2025

EL COSTO de ser Mamá SOLTERA con 3 hijos

Plebes, today I'm very, very content, well, because, thank you to do

make you just, and we're going to a matter that I'm that I

know to be to be to be a time, this is about

the things as the real. A of that

they're seeing that's that's and what and I'm

that I'm sure that are not the side

the the opposite, the side that is. Why? Because it's something, as a

word, the life real. You know, have to have seen the title. And,

I'm that I'm really I'm really to see, I'm sure of the conditions that they're

that's passing, even as they're and it's something to admire us because if

one, as a one, like, to work, imagineate, imagineate, the

mom solter, with three children. It has to have to have to have to

clean a house and if she no does she has she has to pay and to pay you have

to be so many things that water my dad we're going to receive our

friend Paola thank thank thank so much thanks thank

so well so so so to be about this

thing that I think is very viral for all the

Chikas, we've also, there are fathers solteros and also in situations like this cases of

the life real. Fickate, me it's what you have to say to

last that you there are there are there are there you think

that could have had been to this man that he was

with the kids Well, I have I'm so

I'm that this situation and we we, we, we, we, and, well, they just

they're talking, no, the, well, the chica he took, that festerer, or so, now, so, now,

what we're not, they're not, they're not, but in these cases, also, the

other people, even, even, even, it really, they're, they're just, they're probably,

in the fiesta, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're, they're,

and then, in vices, and, that is what has what's what's what's

I'm friends, I'm people, I'm to get a little the quitte for their kids and

and then because obviously all these situations of that their people violence,

a lack of attention, then they say, they're better with me and the little

the little the moma. And in these cases, you have talked that the

kids, so the women have the children, from many days of the

or there's a rango of yeah, more grandicitos yeah more grandicitos. I mean, I'm more

like, I'm just a sort of kind of there's there's situations from little but

those that I know if you know, I'm of between five, 10 years,

more or less or yeah. And that yeah, so, for example, today

in a day that I'm my, a me would be a I mean, if it

gets a pass, I don't see how you can do you, in this case,

that's a little, how you at the same time working, because you know, you know,

you know, you're that's a thing, that's exactly, it's very complicated,

and I think the the women and many, many, not know, that,

so, so, so, so, so, so, the, so,

and, who, , who, , , are the creatures, because one, as well, yeah,

you know, it's but it's to protect them. It's very difficult. It's, it's like, the papa, well, it's very important to

have the two parts, you know, it's a fundamental. Well, in my point of view, I think it's important to have a papa and

a mama, for that the children can't have a way, well, and it's but not always

can't. And there is the complicated that, that, that's, that's, that

a other is, for example, what we have we about about

about of the people, that's that's that that's that

as as as a recommendation, has what has

been, because much they're that is that I'm saying,

yeah, so Simon. So, so, so, so, so,

so, so, that part, that's what you recommend to make, the

to commit the error to let's the father I mean the the kids

to the father well, I'm to have much a conscience

so as as I'm like the people are the people because

since that they're in your bintre there a connection

and it makes it's me that there that there

can have there the person so of so

so I think you can be concerned and And think, well, I

in my case, I'd say, no me I imagine I'm just just having my children abandoned. But I think to think in them, I mean, to say, to

a one side the person that you're, I mean, I've got, I have, I've got a creature for the I'm

to be, and if I'm going or vice, if I'm passing, if I don't, if I'm trying to cause,

I, well, trytelos, no, because you have a creature that's going to do your paths

and that, you, you have to be for she's like I think so much I'm like

yeah sure, clear, of the if not you know if you're on the

support of the marido busca help and if you're not that's there's

then you put to your part I think that if yeah having the support

the the of the the of the family and the and you

don't put you you know it's proper because if you yeah

you you have for all all the does help and no you

change, for more that you put a psychologist or a whatever else, that's your family

if you don't have the decision and you know you're going to do you totally, totally,

and that's in general for all, all the questions. When one want to get the

alcohol, you can be in all in all all the questions if you

don't have no you don't do you don't do a little a little bit of

you. I'm a question for you. As a mother a little what is what is difficult?

I mean details. It's very complicated. Look, you have to repartirte in

to work in to get to them to get to because it is very difficult

because you're because you do you don't and you're not you're

when they're very little bit when they're they're they're they're in their time you get to

work, you know, I'm having to work on I'm always and I'm

and I'm pesable that to get to get to my kids, this and

we're we're come come or mom let me a quote or you say you're

they're they're hardas very long and that part as part as mom

you the reprochas much but you're you what you do you So, if no

I'm not I'm with them. And if I'm going to give the time, but at the hour of the food,

to the hour of the cost, how do you pay? It's very complicated, the fact, very difficult to be a

mother, too, you know, you're just, you're just you're trying in being a percent,

mom, and you'll forgets to you miss. A me costed much

a lot, the I was really, I was like, super-chiquita. If you were I was a little bit, I was gonna be

mom at the 18, I said, well, yeah, for when I'm that I'm saying that we're that we're a little bit of

my first a new year, that right yeah, will be to be 16 and to the year,

I'm separate. I mean I'm I'm, I'm to make, to be, to be

to be next, yeah, to be my complicated. It was very difficult. Of all my embarasos,

I'm sure that no, I'm sure that I'm not know I'm so you know, I'm not, so for me

an embarazzo is like, oh, oh, yeah, you know? Ah, you have to be? Yeah.

And you want to? No, I don't know. I don't know, it's because I'm in the

phone, if I'm a person that I'd say, the because the Papa of my three

children is the same but but it was a very in that there's

there no other there's there there's much violence psychological and then

imagine I'm a chica now now I'm my studies

for the end of he he was he was he was he was to be

to be to be to be to be to that he was a delinded

for complete. Never never never nothing. So I regress

to the house of my mom and she is the that you know

and it's difficult because you know you have you have you have you've

the responsibility to say I'm to say I'm to be a

cause to my mother and that she I'm not so

so as as as as how you have a

person you you have to get to I used to have

engrasada Or after No, yeah After the After we're At the We're in the We're

We're a year We're We're separate And my mom Me help During the Endors We're

We're We're But it was What the Pohor It was the So I I was

I was He'd He'd He'd He'd He'd I'm a After

When I'm He'd I'm We're We're And he, and he, she was,

and then he was, well, she was, it's your first love, you know,

you know, you're and they're very difficult to let him because she was the father of my

first then, then then you're a, you're a little, and inamorated? So,

so it was very complicated, my emberazos were very feos. Figgate. Yeah,

I sometimes said, I was to hear Fido, but I said, God, I mean,

I mean, that something not so, not that not, that not, that I'm that I'm going to

come to suffer and I want to suffer. My trauma was much that, because I

don't have a three years, I was I was he, he, he's very

difficult when you when you have a father, that just just is with

you, I'm much the idea of that, well, the two figures are important, are very important.

They're very important. Papa, how it's but are, but are important so, so,

so, so, so, to have the father of my little, and that the both,

well, let us make and, and educate, but it was very difficult. Inga, your mother,

fieie, not I, you, you, you, you, you, from the

from the right. And it is that it's a it is a bad

form, simply is the reality because what you expect of a

person in a woman that not a that's a

way you you're saying that you have you

have to know to know and it's that

it's that you feel you you you Exactly.

That's the reflex of what you can't know. And yeah, more or less you're going to be tantied as as the men, as well as you're to be the security, that's the

good, my daughter, see, we're the same, because something quen, pam, pan, pan. So,

are many things. And, fiftate that the majority in the cases, and I know that much of that are

being the chapter is going to identify, when they're when they're when they're to a

man mal. Yes. Why? I don't I think because no

we're we're not a figure a figure paternal, no, you know, you know,

I'm I think after after after you know, you're still, you know, and apart

it's apego emotional. There's still more difficult. For me I think,

it was very difficult because I did, Ipeg much to him, I was, I ferned much

to him. I was the I was the I was the I was like I'm really a lot of the

many times I took pastillas or so it was a really something a a pego

a very very, a man yeah but obviously I think that all this also

that's the father of the sure sure for sure of and

apart that I think that are much things so much things of

P, a Fé, a of, that he could have

done to do a not, you're going to be there so. Yeah,

no, he passed many things. So, I mean, one of

you can talk to us? Well, one of she was that, um,

let me remember, uh, well, yeah, I was, I was, I was

I was embarrassed, I'm, yeah, of the first, of the first,

was a little. And what is it? He said after that he had a little I don't

know. Ah, that I had had a yeah, I had a yeah, so I said,

how, when, how, I said, no, yeah, I think they've been

months, more or less or less or more or more, but a year

more or maybe is over the one more and the other and I

don't, but how It's that, I mean, I think the people

will, I'm going to say, for God, with the pretexts that I'm saying,

I'm saying, I'm said, I'm not I'm did it, I'm and she

said, she said, he said, he said, I didn't a problem or, or was

operated, something, that she not could have seen and then he's he's

he said, but he he said, but she was she's supposed, for

for my Countas? For my Countas, because I know he was he to be

to get to see, you know what there was there. So, there was a rare

there. Yeah, something so, something I said, I said, well,

I said, but I said, it was a moment so like, noche of copas,

we got we're we're but she said, I'm didn't, no me

could be and so, so, so I also, I'm that's like,

that's a value of my compa, what, I mean, I said, I mean, this,

but, well, I mean, I was, I'm doing, I said, well, and the

little, I mean, you know, you have to be responsible, how you're going to let's a

, no, but is that's that her mom, no, so my doesn't know, and I'm

want to get to get let's, and things as- and, so, and I

said, well, I, I said, I, I said, I, that he

had said, now that I'm a version also, I'm going to with all the

application, saying that they're not they're saying that's so it's a bandidaw. Yeah,

super bandidazzo. And so. And so? Why? Well, because he was, because he was very

enamorated. No, no. Well, because I was that I was a child, I was

studying my prepa, when he he was He was he, he was a child. How many years he has? The four. Four, five, more or less.

He, he'll just. He'll be to be 40, more or less. No, mames, we. And still thinking, like, of seven. That's a lot of it. Yeah. And of these cases, there's a ching. There's a thing.

A lot. A chingo. A chingo. That the woman, creases, without father and he went

a tonto there with a verb in a person and he he's

and he and he ever I'm I'm I'm did you do you

many what you do what is I'm to dream imagineate who

I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm to I'm I'm

see look let's let's let's I'm yeah yeah

yeah yeah and so yeah and so my brother, I mean, I say, he's enoched much. He's enoched when he said, you know,

where's your woman? With the ex of that? And, you know, how? That's what, he said with the ex? Well, it's to get to count that he was a man, that was a poor-sita abandoned by his family, and that, well, they had

without eating. I mean, it's that he had to vented to one. I don't know to what he'd say, and I'm saying, no, well, they'd say, no, well, they're mistrata, this, they're doing in their

house and she and she's, I'm, I'm asking help, no, because he wants to not because

he's, I'm going to get a good people, then I'm so, let's say, well,

we're going to give her little dispense, oh, yeah, I, I always always have been

like a good I'm, so, so, um, so, um,

but he's, no, but I don't want to nothing with her, I don't have nothing to

whatever, I don't One day, I mean, it's, me it's a bit more rare, I said, that was messageing, and I was, I was going to

the back the cellular. So, he's, he's, he'll, he gets,

well, he said, I'm, he said, no, with nobody, with nobody. Well,

imagine you, I put very mal, I was, I was, I was very very, so I'm,

so, so, so, I was, imagine, to the imagineed, to the

of not to not to know how much nother nother to I'm trying I was making

I was making I'm very astutate I'd say back at the hand, and I'm talking about what was your food favorite and I do

X, so total that nobody me can't but one day he he he

he he he has a messenger he used the messenger and

so he was a know he was a name and he said the name

uh so so then then I am I trykear the

account of her I trykeer and the question also I think

she was so the question of security said

when when you don't put the contrase you They'd say,

Contestal questions. Uh-huh. Contestal questions secret. Comia favorite.

So I'm no, well, what he had said, no, what he said,

no, I'm, I'm the woman more happy. I'm the woman more

I'm saying, I'm so they talk, and if all what he's he said,

and so what's to get to to chatier to your and I'm to do

you, hey, fiftate that I'm my cell and

I never me mark, well, I know, I can't pass to

make me mark, oh, yes, me go to and I'm and I'm so I'm so I'm

going to this, I'm going to the night that he he gets, he said, hey,

me prestas your your cellular for a call because no, I'm not

I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm making the number, and me appear

Miguelin and I know, a number of them a number. Yes, we

we go, we're we're we said, who? He said, I mean, and I said

to say, you know, he was a little he was born transparent. So, you know,

that's that's I'm sorry. But yeah with that I got to the chava. And he

said, Oye, he's up to be the wife of a fulanito and so, oh,

oh, oh, oh, yeah, I'm, my direction. Me passed his

direction. I'm to the and, well, he, well, you know,

how we're, we're to talk to me, I said, no, I don't have nothing to with him.

If you one of the one of I'm a while you you're not you're not to get to

ask you and make and mark and mark and then we're in the arraunners. I know, well,

it's, but no, I'm right I'm a new view and I'm nothing to so,

and then she had problems with his abuelito and me and I said, you know,

I'm I'm so, what's, I'm I'm going to give to my new

and I'm I'm I think something more caon because I was a little and he was

a boy very very very strong of a rancho so I'm like, I said, you know,

well, it's like you keep with us and we're to talk about and then you get to the wife and

me said, and me says, you know, you're saying, you're a school or X,

no, you're going to say that's the ex I'm the ex, I'm no, no,

no, no no he's never to get a motel. Or, so, us was to

and we started and then we told stories of how he was he was like and then the morning we went

to the house and we're we're going to we're going to we're going to we're going to get to come to get to

me and I'm saying you want to do you see? And I'm I'm going to he said oh yeah my

my amour you can you can go back to pass me the location in when

when I went to the location, he knew that's where was,

and he said, what is there? And I'm, so, we're talking with my amy, we know, we

talked about many people, and I'm sure, so, I live in a house, yeah,

has to have to be that I'm to be that I'm that's all the all is a

thing, so it just, he's, I'm, to go to get me to get a

and then, and then he was when my brother's when my Your brother is

like, he went to my ex. No, my brother no, my man, no, I'm

he said, I'm not, you know, you know, I mean, what you say, what's, but is that

I was, I mean, things for him, but I'm, but I see, I know,

I know the other part to say, verga, that's, that's, that's, that part,

and say, I want, I'm, I'm, because this verga, no, ma' Pinch and

mean, t' t' was that even I knew I'd finally I'd

I'm never to he's all the he said, he'd he'd like he

he'd like, oh, well, she she she'll be

she'll be to be to be to be to be a surprise story

yeah yeah yeah to do with the ex of my

and that you and that she didn't many many she

me it's I mean I said, no, you're you're going to you're not

you're never as I'm doing but he was going to me and I'm saying I'm saying that

I'm saying that I'm very a she's a she'll have been so much I'm sure

I think yeah she's I'm yeah yeah yeah yeah

yeah yeah yeah yeah a bit to let's without

this thing what was what what you said yeah boy I do you yeah

you're so yeah I know I'm going to do you know what you know with who

you talked about a therapy a day you know you're you know you're not

you're you're you're you're you're that you did you know

I'm you know I'm you know there's you know there there

obviously like a person normal, no he had luchos chavito normal

so his mom is very humile so when a time a time we've

we'd we'd we'd we'd every that we're a so that

I'm so I'm so I'm three but in one of those embarasos

we've we've together four years that I to go to Canada for, for,

for, for, for a life better, and there is when it was very,

much, more, for me, because I'm in a house in a house with,

I'm, I'm only, he had money, but, I mean, to,

I mean, to get to the carriola of the little, so, I'm not,

and the other little, and I'm coming, and I'm coming, because a

car were very to be, so, I'm, so, I, He was coming on the three. So,

there was a time that he no made a year, that he was going very bad, and he, he regressor. So I

started to do it a usada. He was he got to Uber, but he had a vision very

great, and it was the casino, the so he was he was, and he was and he

got to the carines, and I think for some, you're going, you're to try

to work like 10 hours. and more the bonuses and so. So he went and I was going to be in the house and I was all the house and the kids. 100% we're all the day we're alone. So I started to sell for help him,

use, maias, zapatos that no, those vending for Face. And, well, that they'd have that 50, that 100, because he didn't try it for the food.

Yeah, it was very complicated, and I'd try a deudas. So I said, I said, hey, well, I want to to work, I'll help you know,

or so, there's a place, there's a new because he was very celos also, then I'm

saying, no, no, I go, but is that there are there's going to get $800

pesos a a month, but at the more, you can't help, I know, the light,

at the more not is much, but it's a good, but it's a good, so,

so I'm that I'm really that so I'm that's where it not the

but not when we got from the house because he didn't do you didn't

because he's got to who did the house to do you my mom my mom her house

chakana of three recamara but chiquita we we're in his house

and all with boxes of clothes of and in a one one one

one so imagine my three kids he and you in a

fourth. I was very, I was very very very very so my

my mom us and he know the they're not a question, he's

he's he's doing and then you're and it you're you know,

you know, well you put your you put your things, no? It's what I

think you put the pilas and rents a house there in

that in that time they're in three five 500 there

by car to Colot Plan. So then then

I said a a case so, no. I never has been to that I want a

I want to look or no. So I'm so I'm going to the pile and I'm with the

casino, of the casino, of the casino, and I pay a prested to my abelita

money. And I yeah, I don't you don't you do you don't you do it

and it's he's got and that's a car soon and he's the day next he gets in a day

I'm just I'm my abuelite and my my mom to pay the money

to be the and he, he, he, he, he's he,

he's, then he, then he, so, yeah, he was, I said, I mean,

not we see, not we don't know, he's got to put into the other, with my

daughter, no, my his daughter he was, he said, and I'm he said,

he said, I'm, he's, he's a get to get to get to, let's,

he was to get a, I, the, he was, the, he, So, I remember that that day,

he had a iPhone, I think it was an iPhone, or the 10, or the first, so, the firsts, so, he was going to go to go ahead and peaned,

but he had promised to give him to the nina, because the little, she wanted, always, he's an iPhone, and as he said, and so,

he was going to give, but it's in-droga, and what does it, and he says, and it's, in-drogate? And what does,

there's the iPhone, no, then we'd do in some, two, two, and he's, and the

little, and the little, it's like, it's like, it's like, well, total, the

the play was so, I said, I'm, I'm going to pay a money, my abelita

yeah, yeah, not to do you're to do you and do you want to be, he's,

and then, madres, and me he said, well, I'm going to go to do, he's,

he's, he's, he'd, he'd, he'd, all his things in my

mom, all. He's he went with a only change. So I

let me a message he knew, like all the years, that I go to

go to then I'm going to all you, you know not trying tennis, not they

don't to be making to make, the lot of the lot of living

with my mom. I mean, I know, I don't, I can support this.

No, I can support that they're maintaining to my my mom

and my my abelita. So when me sent that message, I say I'm saying, I'm saying, if you

no regress you're going to get to go to the house, you know, and I'm not. And what you

didn't, and he's no, and he didn't, so the day so they're in his clothes,

the basque, he was in the car, and I said, he said, they'd say, they're all they're doing,

and they're done, don't, passport to to romper- to do, let me. I said

if he He took the value to to leave a his kids because he knew that he said he was a

time to get him without without any no way without it's like completely yeah

yeah yeah yeah yeah no no yeah yeah yeah that was

the last that he was my year my my son was a year

I was and he passed six years already he has seven and

he's put like I'm not I for I'm I don't

no I don't contact absolutely with him. I said, why?

We'll go back to the same. Because I wanted that my kids

were in those two parts. Although those two parts not they were the

relationship with the children that did it. So, so six years

that not they've seen they're they're on the house,

they're on the door and he like, who are who, who are

so we are we are the people, he's to say Camilla, Joanna,

Pao. Oh, is that they're super changed. I say super changed. You know, manches. Well, well,

I'm trying to that he has been a relation with them, I'm fracased another way. I don't talk.

No, I think I'm to talk. But I'm going to be for them. Because I said, yeah,

you know, he's perdicio with the major, that has been to be a year, you know,

you can't come to educate her or gain to get to, so, you have

to gain because you you abandoned during six years. It's very complicated. After six

years, to come and that they're and that they can't, they're not to try them. And apart,

or, so, any year that they've done, are years super important, but for

example, six years where your daughter, to 10 to 16, are years are rebels,

are, so, are the time of the the, of the the, of the

youth, where they're on desatat. I'm Look, I'm, thanks to God. I have some

exhaled and the fact of the really, I'm a question, and I'm just a

time a situation, and obviously I'm really, I'm sent me desperated, fum-

a cigar electronic, and, so that that was like the most great that

did, uh, and she she, she, she, she, she,

she, she, she, she was, because I thought I I was to renaar

very very so I'm to get to see it. I don't know how it's like

it's like it's at the time. Imagineate it's the time. I was my God

me, he's he's a friend, to say, I'm a good, I'm that you can't

the girl that's a so that's that's what he's the only thing that's the only thing

he put is, well, she's when it when it's and you let's

we're we're the firm. So, I did, oh, okay. No, well, that's great help. But of all, thanks to God, my kids, are very tranquil.

It's the only problem that I've had been. And, already is the most me help, care of his brother. It's like a mom, to tell you. That's I mean, it's a lot of course. It's a peasant. No, it's a big. No, no responsibility. But passed in many situations with

newiresses, that if they were pegged a my I'm so we said we're nine-ynearas because

we're to be a team so that's I'm I'm I'm met you

a a new year me and let's a a new a car imagineate

and with my kids and thank you God no so I'm

so I'm so I'm so I'm I'm to go so I'm so much

and they let's something and if let's a little is a it's a

it's a It's aroo. And, well, we've acopland. My wife, right, well, has been a

year of the one that's the other, me help. We're not the other. We're not that if I

get to come, I mean, I mean, I'm the best, and for the father, I think are

the people, I'm the people, I said, I said, I've put in their house,

the last I'm two months living with them, because he said, we're going to put a a fourth of

luxury. He erredo, heredo an heredo a over, heredo an money

to be a millionaire. Millionary, millionario, because the woman was... According or if?

No, he, he has, like, one year, he was a woman, he was

his motherna, and the madrina, and the motherna, but he had a family, to have

him, so he always was always still with her, and obviously there,

obviously, there I knew that time or the young, but if the

the woman was the time, the woman, she was, she was no, but my papo, now,

I'm going to get to money to do that, that's, that's what, that's, that's,

that's, oh, that's all, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm,

perfect. They want to go to him a time because the schools were on the he was he was in the

government and he said no of the college of the college of the here

there's a side of my house there's and two months he best

for to go that's literally that that's that's

that was that was they're going to he he's he has

a family no is his his but they're going to go to

know the I'm sure that I'm very very concerned I'm not to be a yeah, I'm not

I'm just a little she's a little and you have a little bit and so

the less grosseras not can't be grosser with them they're not they're

they're the opportunity to know and that she ever so I'm so I'm

so I'm so I'm I'm not me he's not even and in December they're

going to start in Naviad. And a day before, he said, no, quense with

your mom. I don't want to be with you. I don't want to do nothing, because the young

she had operated. So, as the much she was going to go to know the

he's got the and he said, he said, keepens with your mom,

like all the years. With those words in the messages, me know, I'm

saying, we go, no, we're I'm going to have planned to pass her with a I said, no, I'm going to

to have my kids, but I'm going to give a good to live with that's so they're in

a year new we're doing we're doing. In a year new, don't know they're never.

No, no, no, in the Christmas, then the little, I'm,

what he made to a gift, something, because I, I was I was a

money, and I had been contemplated that they had been to be so I'm

thinking so, even, I'm looking, so, no? and in year new well, it's never the first of

the ender he's my I'm my wife to go to your because they were to

they were in their house he said for some some things we say you know you know

you know you know I'm not you're going so I'm that you have all those things that

you know they're in when I said when me says my my wife I say how come

so how so how so come so that she's going to here of

Guadalajara and, well we're we're in not going to be going to

he's a new he's he's he's not, he's he's

he's he's he's that you not even because many he with

his words he said you're that you're going to get

many new pair oh god yeah oh yeah so yeah

so yeah complicated the and you know you do

And the courage me, ah, is that lastima them. How come you how you go to your and you're going,

to do you say, let's get these these are the kids, because they're in a father.

The words that are very strong. They're quite marked. And I took to go to

get you, I'm going to get us and it was a thing I can't tell you

can't I'm talking to the stuff, how he he's

a to do the because a me, much of the other times, I'd have been and he called my mom. and one of many times. one of many times, then I just said, ah, yeah, yeah is customary of, he's a customary of, and he's a few people,

that's got to go in the carifications. So, then he took the door, that's it. That's my little the little because I

could go to the house and I'm my my brother to do you and he

said that he's he could get his patit and his play. And my

father he said, yeah, goy and my he said, my son, my

patit, my play or I mean, I mean, I'm because I got

because I said, no, I'm, I'm to buy one, I'm going to

get to no and you have to do you have to do you but I'm only certain people

me saw people who people were really when I was I was I can't

do that much impotency yeah yeah no you know you

you know you know you I'm I'm I'm maybe could

I'm maybe I'm maybe the part that it does do

mom solterer, you think there there's that there can be there,

but the majority of the men are the woman a mother solterer?

Yeah. Well, look, the really, the fact, or

a more apparently the men that are you know, you

know, you know, that are, they're, they're, oh, and if they're,

they're they're they're they're they're because, but, But I don't

I'm like of many relations right, for all the situations that are my kids, I'm in

so I'm not quite person can enter to my life and much less to the,

of my kids. So, so I know, I know, you know, you know,

you metas in broncas, I mean, and apart, imagine, they are three. So,

so, it's, and how you do you do you do do you, to make, to

pay rent a carro, gasoline, food, colleges. Because now that I think I'm in government, and now that he was called

and he said, yeah, no I'm going to do with another way, then I was just to make you a college.

So, imagine to start those going to school is, for if my my son, is a little

atrazado for many situations and changes and changes to the school, I said, I said,

they're there. The most the mediana was the that my I don't I want to

to be in college. I want to go to govier and the I'm going to the government.

And I'm a lot of I'm going to have to be much much right. I've got with

collaborations, I'm in the image of pantalones and I work in my local of my

makeup, I'm also of the really, is complicated not it is easy.

How do it's to generate Paola for and seeate I'm

to make a question so, you know, to keep to

keep to live, how do you have to generate at the month? A money.

Minimum 60,000 $60,000. Yeah, for like, schools, car,

gasoline, but passing so much of the panzacit. Comita. In

of those 60,000 pesos a month is a money, college,

school, school, of this gasoline, rents. Yeah, you know, that of a

really the kids occupant their role. But if a bit a little to live

like, like, how it's like, I'm my way, so a chingo of a

thing of that's a man, way. So, a ching of a thing of

the money, the neta. Yeah, there have occasions that, well,

I mean, I don't I, I don't I can but always I've

shown to my kids that that's that's my motor the fact I'm not

I'm not because I'm think that if you know if you're not there's been my

wife, my know just, would have had been me bad you yeah

but they were my motors to say you're not you don't you don't

you're to be to be you because if your father not is

the is the only that's the only that's the only that is the only not for luxus,

but if a some a senita in the street, a a repit

a month that I know how how many times a two, three times

a month. What? Well, I think is about 80. Of a perid

Yeah. Yeah. And it's just simply the family, simply

of the house, is it's a renta that also he had

had been to do and And at the mere hour was, no. So, then then

then I it's a my time to be the debt of all. Hey, Paola,

and being sincere, never you've never seen a man who that's

that I want to you know, you know, you know, you know, I'm a part of

that I'm was a all, I had like, I'm, I'd have, $4,000

dollars to be a cost, diaries, and if it's me to be

to say, or ye, that that's I want to go to the I'm going other 2,000 but

I'm trying to start a time with him but I know I know that I'm so I'm

always you I'm a I'm a I'm a my car so I'm I'm trying I'm trying

to do I'm trying to do you want to who I'm not who I'm going to use that

phrase no no no no not you're a person with a person with

a how much, a good, a good, I mean, my days were like, oh,

I have to go, no, and I'm so I'm so much, the fact, the fact, I don't

have any a person, he wanted a lot, he wanted much a lot, he was a, very good person,

my respect, so then he was, he was, he was, to be, to be, to be,

to be, to be, to be, protect, that that's that's that I'm

that's to be that I'm not, then he he wanted to get to

all to do you to do when it's not when it's corresponded so I prefer

I prefer so that's a little a little but a little but

that's in a haul of a but let's a a be

a be my ha what my what's what I what what's parada. No, no, no, no, no, no, I'm going to have a siento. No,

be it's a mal, mija. Because he uses the man, because he's all expriminginging like a trapo bio, well, tell you that no he? And, yeah, if the, the man, tontito, a, even if, no, he wants, you, want you, want to stay there with him, well, I go, with you. Well, I'm saying, but no, I'm using, my jah.

Ah, is that me come up an Nostenigoo. Oh, chichorni, is that me I've got a car, Horny, that's, because you're like, because you're like, because you know, there's

a bandied with a man, but I'm a little bit of me, for me, for me, for a pause. No, no,

that's truan, that's pats, let's, don't, you know, they're saying, they're

never, I've said, I've said, I mean, I mean, I respect, who are, who are,

who are, but if I have talked to me, I'm, that in the PED and they're,

you're not you give the sacrifice that is to start with this person. I said,

but I'm everything I'm my my kids, I'm really, I'm going

for them, I'm saying, I'm I'm saying, I'm, I'm, I'm

not, I'm not I'm not going for my kids or that I'm a

confusion, yeah, because you're you're saying, they're they're , they're just, they're,

I don't know, I still I think in in encounter a person with a person with a way that you know,

not with not with lus but that they're in that they're so, that's that's good that's

for the lavator oh, I put the refri. So, well, a more I'm a

more I'm a way, but I'm trying to find something something like that I want,

that we're both we're that we're that's, for example, look, I'm

much thanks, thanks a God all the days for having me

to have a woman a woman a woman that is a day

that I'm a fall to she will because I'm not I'm

the feelings to to play a man to

a man independently that I know I that

when is good and it emas to make

to be there they suffer and much for so so

so so I say I do the two. We're living

a process right very, very beautiful that I'm going to show you. And I go, the vera,

boy, we, we, we, we, we, we're, we're, we're, we're,

we're doing the process very beautiful, a person, to all the things that has been put in

contra, but we're, and that, is what the same, is what they're a partyha. So,

if one is is, when one is that's, there's the other to get, that's the

a pair of a pariah, that's what I want to. And add when you have some kids or

in my case a child that we're very happy and that we're we're

we're we're we're much to play with her and we both,

we we're doing our time. Of this this, no, no,

it's something really something I'm that I want that

that so I because I think a a a

a a partner stable a part of when when he

a very details are in the men in the things. In the

things, I'm about the things of those men about to be about.

Mentires to be not to are so men are so so

so to the people that the people who see being a

thing and, I'm that what chingon that Paola not is talking to the chile

pelon, without, or so, what is, and that I'm sure that many women, mothers

solteras, a person, to have a little a, a, a little to be,

there are to be. There are there. There are men, there are in the

life that you that I'm that I'm that I'm that I'm, that I want to this,

and that, not they're way, not they because at the most it's been

it's you're doing more in not creerly still until that the bato do it's

and not many words. No, and also I'm it's they put in

car, a car, and they all, my ha, all right and my

ha, and the time is the most value's that one that one can't

give so imagine how recuperates, you know, you know I'm doing

car, a new car, and I'm going to do. It's not. It's not. It's all this time. is a disposed to support or so

what is, for example, I'm imagine I'm know that you have supported more than you example,

no, I know, what you have done you've no, well, no,

but maltrato violence, yes, and and very and very and I'm and I

say, I say, what you're saying, they're, I'm, they're just they're

getting help I say, and I'm gonna be with him. Well, is that I'll

do a whatever. I don't I would no. No, man. Never to get to

put a hand on the no. The father of my relationship, in the we did the

opportunity, we're going to do you all over, all over, all was little, he was

very little, very And I was veryous. Of course, my friends said, is that not so it's not possible. And I, well, yes, me took the sufficiency. But I started, I started to be things that, those mentirits, of that I thought that I thought in one thing and I'd work in another.

So, one day, me gets with some things there at the house, and I, how you're, how you're trying to? It's possible that metas things here, he also, he also, he's also, he's probably, you know, something that apesta horrible. So,

there was a discussion, and yeah, for trying to get a level of the play, I mean to

go to the other quarter, and all the that I go to the car to the camera.

And it's me put on on the obviously, but it's a man more more, and the

man, so it was, and I'm not able to be able to be there, I'm sure,

that I did, I'm going to to be because I feel like that's in me in the

eyes of the and the and part of the desperation. Yeah, and the person and he

he made, he made, but he's to know, that's my mind, so it's made a

dishealable. Yeah, so a devil, a demonio, something that never had seen.

So, I was, I'm in the house, but in the quarters, and I was, and I was

could be, and I could do you know, I'm not, I'm sure, I think God, he said,

put to my little and she he was the door and she was the door. My

was the was the she was the he was he was he was very blocked

very well and when when I the door my she a

I'm she's soxxia and he is so that he's that's

that's he's he's he's he's he's he's he's

no no no no no is that he's he was he he's she's

I'm with the the force with the he did with the he said,

I'm intero the in the thing, then it's a thing really spantosa and that's that's,

I've been never, I'm doing my, I, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm doing, I'm not,

I've tolerated a goal, no, I've tolerated, I never had been, to come to to,

to support that, no, bye, adieu, and I'm, to get my kids, and let's,

to start to, because not I want to all the things that all the

things that were in the house were in the things. Then I said ch' ch'n, then I'm

not. I'm go to the house and if I don't make to my things,

we're we're we're so we're and then yeah, thanks of my

brother and he, he, he, he took much to be always, I'm

I'm my things, and we want us and he's not and no,

and the really me had a life well, we're not tolered

that's something, I think for the same that I mean, I think for the same I'm in, I'm trying to that's like

no. No, mammas, way, they're all right and then they do they do way,

me help me I do much. I'm really to give a God, see a I'm a question to,

I'm a give the the sabiduria to make good decisions always, because,

because, because, because, you know sometimes what he's, what he has been

in the morral and you start to, to put inco to a woman

so I'm I'm going I'm sure because we're not those women a

sometimes we're very violent in questions of sometimes when we're sometimes when we're

not I'm not I'm not I'm sure that I know the bad I'm and I

do a when you pass this type of situations as like a woman. I don't

I know I'm repetto for you you know you know how you're how really

it's how really I'm not not I'm not I'm a person submisa. With that

also also there's the there's the clave then yeah yeah

let let the pincy place but you're not you're

not you don't you're not you don't you're disposed a

woman too not you or a way violence

because the women are many many times a lot of a little where a man

a man support a the violence of his and even there is there is so

your berga boy so if the bat chamebea too because I don't

sometimes we're so sometimes we're so much we're just to support

to support that sopart that we're going to find someone

better or because the same person with we're in we're trying to we're in that you're to be able and that you

you're going to not, nobody's to mourn of love. You're going to dole you're going to

you're a full because is to keep the paygo emotion. You're going to make a question,

Paola. You, I'm going to be going to get to because it is going well to

you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you,

recommend you, to a a woman that support a infidelity in this scenario.

The man he does all. He does all, so the the

place, he, the, he, the, the woman, no, has a

need a need to to be to be what you imagine. But the

defect to is that the bat is infiel. Fifate very, Difficit. Fyit.

And watch, you know, you've got to say. That difficult. I know. No, I would.

Yeah, no, I mean, at these altars? No, no, I'm not,

I'm talking to, has, has, so, I'm talking, not you don't you

imagine. But, result to be that is this man, the father of your

kids, no? He said, the worst. Well, it's It's It's

It's It's So, The Bato Attient Well, You know You do your

You know, I mean Machina the Oh, Very good But the But the But the

Okay, now I don't Why? Because Because You know Because you To be,

Where's you? Okay, Attient Yeah, And it's Yeah, But imagine To be

That he can You can Beast You're going being infiel. Also, you as a person as a woman,

your valor and your respect. I know. No. No. No. No. A-huh.

It's all what you said, but the batto's not infiel. I mean? I said,

the ragged one. The regu one a year another way. And no is that not because

me I'm like, no, because I think it's every last year. The Rue

one a year put the pilas in that part and result it's the reg. I read it again.

You, I'm a lot you know. How you know? Paola? No. I'm Paola

no. No, because that person you need to do your value, you need to to appreciate,

you know, there's need to be to be a lot every every year and a

year, but remember that is what I always always said the relationship

of a relationship of is another. When a a pair is separate, no, for that you

have to separate, of your kids, you know, the relationship, the relationship, father,

his, I'm going to keep, mom, he's to be to see, I don't

feel like, I'm, I don't feel like I'm, because, I'm what's,

where's, you know, why you're saying, because you're making that because, because,

okay, treat a your children, although are you they're going to

keep, they're you, Where's, where you I'm going to? I don't know No, it's, it's fine,

it's right, other people say, yeah, so no problem. No, I'm sorry, that's a cabromba.

You're going to ask a question, another, no, derivative of this, 10 pairs, 10 pairs,

are very few people, 10 pairs are in that situation that I'm saying, the bato

no has no his or the that's, I mean, so that's

that's that's that's that's that's the two of those two

you know, how do you do you do you do you do you do you nine.

Nine. Nine women do you do them yeah, so, yes, yes,

they're right, already currently the women with the

time while me did the time I did the thing,

I know no, no, I, I don't, is that it's you, they're saying, they're

saying you. Yeah, so, yeah, I don't, I don't, I don't, that's sparing. Oh, no, no, no. Of those 10, how's?

One, yeah, so, one. Yeah. You cre is the same, Hermes? One or one? One, and I, yeah,

yeah, so. You, Ellie? I think that no, way. And no, me just gonna to the, no, no

me, you know, a more one it's no, it's for what has

seen, I know my my my wife net, no, no,

no, no, no, no, no, I'm and if I'm

I'm I'm going to be a bad I, I'm I,

because I know, I'm so, and so, and so, and no I'm

don't, I'm not, I'm sure with me always and I, but

I'm, I'm, I'm, let's, let's, let's, with her, with her

we're going to do it to get to get a company, that's the that's the that's the

thing, but in this case, no mame, way, you're saying one or two. I don't know

that's, I'm doing the people, that's being in the chapter, you know, that's what,

I think two, three, five, 10, all, none, but yeah

if we're going, see, of 10 parages For I think that one or two

women would have to be I'm to put to put to a pergid to

get to a five years. Fiat of 10 I went to 50.

And if the batto of that 50 is is propone

to to recover to a woman and he

will do do and it will have to Definitely.

So, so. Chingada, man. For that's like I know, it's one

and bye, adios. I'm going to catcheteer to someone. To someone. A someone.

A, a, a, wait a, wait a, right, orita, orita,

right, right, right, uh, go to do a and no. Oh,

hey, paula, there's another question, a, a question, I respond.

What You What do The Of the Of The The man

That That's That he He does All to the And That's

And that The Miff That's That's That's Very That's

It's It's Because I When I When I

When Those Those cases, I have many people and so

we're talking about my woman, and it's more to be separated.

Separated. But, but if destroas a man, you do you do you

think the infiel. No. In some moment, I was

a person mal. You? Yes. And something so, so,

Yeah, I mean, I mean, I mean, the black palomite, that's, I'm a poor poor city,

the verga, ha, well, preck me pa, come, come back, come back. Yeah,

come back. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, there's, there,

you know, when, when I'm when I'm when I'm , I mean, when I was, I'm going,

I'm going to come back, yeah, yeah, see, see, see, sit there,

sit here, and you , you're to be to be to you. Okay. Yeah,

yeah, I said the Paulita, no? Okay. He sat and and, and,

and, and, and the, a, rapas, a, to start, uh,

to start, to be a, so, well, well, let me know, Paolita,

let me let me let's, let's, let's, a new, a chapit a calmadone.

There's he's, Paola, Paola, what you would you to say, Paola?

What? What? What's, what? What's, the Talk. Talk, yeah,

the person, the bad. The bad. I think the karma exists. And the

karma me has cobred. Very well cobrated. So, I can

say, you've been the worst version. That good that you did a and how good that you

did you know that was a good. And that you're that's you're

a person that was very good. But I think that me helped to be

who I'm sorry I'm lastiming to another not me would have liked to

learn to learn but I have been that person and I'm talking about and I

look at the eyes I said now now it's not you didn't you was you

I mean literal he was a man he was he did all

what he he did completely for regress with the cacas

yeah Oh, two so papo. Oh, okay, so ma'am po. No, here if you're a cached-a-on, pa. Netta, a cachetadon, way. Oh, yeah, I know. Oh, la, volte-a-a-ma,

go ahead, meja, for a favor. Venghase. I'ma, my, my jia, how so, my, nita, so, so, put a cachette,

my, no, no, no, no. No, no. No, no, no, no, so, so, you,

Let's do you say so pincch. He, agarre the pedd, whew, and really, that you pesah? Yeah,

you know, you know, there, fielence well, put an attention. There's the key,

whey. You're, you're, you're, to make a lot a woman, or a

sometimes, even, even, the bat, the net, that they have conscience,

but a A woman, that's that's a way. Yeah. Yeah. And let you,

no, no, muchachio, with the sombrer, with the garra you're gonna

get to be there, shh, because they don't support that way. Because they

can't of that they're a man very good, and no, way, they're,

they're, and they're they're and they don't get to be the topped, way,

the woman that's to respect. I go, that's in the 2014. And still

it's a sometimes, we're in we're in the eyes, more than you may say, you know,

you know, not say, not, because if I feel, the change much, if it's

a little alcoholic, and no, so it's the poor, for the karma, I think,

and I, and I, I, I, yeah, no, my, my Jair,

me, my Jair, me's, me's Temblandlust. Yeah, well, it's that's the like the

I'm trying to I'm at the bed. I'm at for me and you tumble a lot of that's

a perrull to do you to get to go to go back and you know I'm I'm not

you know to be to the verga that's what's what's that's

and and pereate no I'm to be a paola of that time

yeah we're we we're we're we put him some

that also he took to pass things that she made that she made a

her bad so well. Well, yeah, but not it

was the person no, but lamentable it was to pay

the not to not to and that was that

because to me they're because no, and that and now

they're and now mams we for example to

I'm was a case and you are a person I'm doing because I'm

I've got a lot of I'm sure I'm sorry I'm going I'm going they're people who

they're they're in their someone and not they're or not know

they're not doing they're not they're what you know I'm so I'm

I'm so I'm a chinkada and I you're I'm when we

we're when we're talking but you I said, I know what happened. Netta, no see what happened

because also I'm saying to do you. No, well, she's all they're going to want to

the borg oh, my kid, boy, I'm here, boy, chikito, be,

let me, calm this, ch'cuit, calm me, he's, pendejo, there's a man,

look, what he's he's, and me and he's, and I'm, no, man,

boy, how are the way, because, too, one has to , because I had

paid too the I was over when I was young. I was over and me they were over

and I'm and I'm done. And I'm don't the not the eight years me did you

but I'm going to put with someone that if I do that that's a chemica very beautiful and all the

pedd because to go and not I want to let me they're going to go to the people who if you do

enjoy and so so so so I'm my so I'm

so I'm no I'm so man and I'm not to make

you're not even you're in a relation let's they're they're

they're so you don't so you're so far the and they

don't end soport other other things because because

you want to try your because you can so

you you No, yeah, definitely So, I'm going to I'm going to carry because, no, because it was what I'm, simply because I'm, I'm, simply because I'm going to run-a-one

a person, a very good heart, a very good heart, a excellent person. Agua fresh. But, well, it had to say. And so he said. And he said. Paola, what advice you does

to that this woman, then? that they were infiel dandle giving the more to the

woman I've talked about with him of that because he's just

he's a he's a little and he has he's

there a repent I'm there's a mal it's changed

so so so I've I've I said that

I'm that I did that you rompio, but right you have

a woman that you want to you know, you know, you've seen what you've seen and how you can't

destroy a person that you can't the bestro's so I'm so I'm to talk to talk to him

and that think that he's the moment, how he's the little, but right

you've got you have a family. So, let's give a year and try to

make surestate for be a day more. And imagine to also live

of the past. I'm with so I'm so I'm

going to I'm to to be to be a more again, so it's

like you can't and when you see you you're that you can't

you can go to go to I'm my advice is that he

can't for his family and for his people always to

the first to the for for me is there's

there's the Clive. Exactly. Yeah, a whole the rasa that's going to the podcast

I'm going to learn things shingones. I've I'm another question.

Another other question very good. Let me. We're to put a scenario. Okay.

Resulta that there's a batto that has his family but the batto

is bandidazzo. Bandidazzo. And he has He has He's about Three families And the You're talking

Of the Papa of my I'm going to What I'm What's there? No, Resulting that in

What? That's They're And so conviving The children And so And so

They're They're They're That's It's What's It's It's

Or Or at What? What? What? What do? What do? You

I have a case of that is that the women support but what is your opinion?

What is your opinion about bandied? Juno to they know between the women

and have families with them what you opinion what you but you know

they're not to be with the other still still still still

yeah um this and the Chikas you know people they're

they're they're they're conviving they're they're chants a man a bit

well it's a polyamor then yeah right they're they're

so they're they're they're very open mind no well

because if you accept that they you know this so they are so

so they they're because they're they're to have to because they're

and with with they're to be to be a like so

like the question for the the question for the way to the

quite they're in a percent. No, there's a less of the

stuff, so if they're tortillas so that if they like the people then

they say, ah, well we know, we also and also and also

and also and that they're because they get a but normally I think

it's for the commodity for not start from a person

because also of a repent it's like a to be a

start at the start at the start that's I'm you know you know

you know and you know you yeah I'm like I'm like I'm do

all because I've heard because I know to go to have to go to

go to and you or you what you think you're no for my

respect the net my respect and no is that

I'm that I'm that you sincerely is something where I think there are

accrues. And if they're accepted I mean, I think to get to that's because they're

their accrues and they are accepting. In their relation there are

the what is the important you? The principal my is

to be about a 100 with the fact and to have communication.

The communication is indispensable in all the aspects, sexual, of love, everything. I mean,

be very communicative. That's what to be. If you're being transparent, because I'm being transparent,

because I'm like I'm so much I'm super transparent. I'm like to talk the

things clear, say what I'm when something when I don't know I'm

like, if I don't I'm and for there, no. Okay.

And what What do you have to give to the women mothers mothers you know

the councilor? No? The, of the mothers old and two

three, a little and that they're battling. It's very difficult.

I'll to repeat. It's very complicated only just the mothers only the

hard to give the responsibility of some creatures but that don't

so desanimed, that also can't even that's any of the person who's like to be a lot of

you know, I'm going my principal that's my principal of the those upur's

not. You're can, just have just to get us in the case,

we have we're some of the people, we're we're what we we're

we're we're just, that we support in violence to, let's let's be

clear to the kids, this, not, to the this not is

this is not this is not going to you can get to be in the way my, my

my motors are my my kids, I think for all those mothers

have those people are that they are the day and day and that

they're and that they're to chingar to work to work that

that that they don't want they not not not

more for comfort no and you You can't be in the maraud. Many of the

father of his children, but when you know it's going to get to get to get to let's get to let's get to

the old and try the things new. And if you are going to get things good. No,

you're going to get to get to what good. Levah, well, there's a thing you

want to just to get no more just to just to just that's

sure Sure. Segurs. It's not nothing to do not a but

if you have to work it's all the days. Tretten to or to

do you prays that you resten but try to do you

all the days with self time. A sometimes is inevitable

the net not not not not as like

as chico palado but try that that the day,

for what? For what? For that they can't be in their time. So, that's in their time.

So, their cremittas, that's love, love to them as they them as them as

because if you not you to give love to the other people. So, and give

your space one hour. If is they're very ataryadas with that you give a

hour of carino of papach and you, that you can day to

that you have health, that is the first and the most important. Animo plebada,

much thanks, Paola for to be here to be here your space. Something that you want to

do you do something? Well, there in my Instagram, this, like you let us

we're going, I'm there variety of makellages, I'm going to be doing all the what I'm

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