LOS MAFIA PODCAST ⭐️ - Paola Ochoa — La Violencia Familiar en la Infancia y el Desarrollo de Los Niños, ser Papá y más

Episode Date: February 8, 2023

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Plevada, here we now with all you're maintaining those occupied because there are in your

house, rascands, the panza the omligo, the orrega that's a sabrita, a coca,

a pan. A-vita and a hour of the food and because to be a waybone

and we're a chingada. Here we and we're we're doings for all, benditions singan us

here, for favor subscribe for the thing is about, little to and a

little. And now Plebes, we know a time very interesting that we go to,

fifte, we did we, we did we did we a sit, how we have done,

a consult with the psychiatrist, and we we're going the we're going to do with

a psychologist. And, well, here's Paola Ochoa. Thank you. Thank you. And yeah.

Yes. Thanks for the invitation. Ah, we. And for the flowers. Of that's

Right. Of that's the to put it to put a for that's a really, that's that's

a lot of, you know, you're you're married? No, a union and living. Ah,

okay, okay. Union Libre is a, junted, so you so,

and how do you do you? This year this year I'm, this year, I'm, okay,

so, so, so, with his situations, obviously the, it's a

in a pairha is a RETO because are people different, but there's you know, but there's this, there's the

thing you're going to be because I'm in union liberty. I'm here. I'm also I'm also.

And also for the woman, but you know, but you know, but you're getting chrisis. The thing

is very because we're going to be going to start being. We're going to start with

the question. Uh-huh. For example, uh, right we're talking about

of the situation that we're passing my woman and you, that's his wife

to live to live with us and the net I'm not I'm not not

I've never I've never been and I want to adapt to that

new life because because sincerely your daughter I want

I'm I'm I'm I'm doing to do that she me

that she was the that she with her not has never been never the

father and I'm because he's three years so

so I'm that you're to you're so that

the she and the one to and that you and that

all and that you have to have to many situations that

that one not not not not not got

got and you have to make you want to

have to have to be with all the power.

So, what are of the advice for someone that's being being being,

as they're for there's padrastro? That's. Yes. If it's padrastro,

not the word correct. Why? Because not is going to displace

not the figure biologic paterna for other person. When the children are

very very people, many times sometimes they're because they're they're

not. But the function of a padastro is the same or even a

more than a a father biological, yeah that is to know his necessities the

of your partner, even the and see how function in the dynamic family. A dadastro

has, for so call it, the grand task to learn to learn to to know

to their new his chastra, no? Because, over you, that is

your first your first child, no, your first hisastra. So,

the, the is protect, give love, a support inconditional, and convertice in something that we have to grab us in

this session, that's called Puerto. You're going to you're going to you're going, you're going, in that

Puerre of this baby, and that is the principal tarry and the advice, to put us all the tools,

to study, to study to us to us to us because that is very important for that I,

I, like I, like mom I can develop or can't or can

accompany to the first to be my first I'm not like I'm like a

woman, and now so I'm my dad I'm my friend I'm my

producer. Chalala no. Okay, okay. Very good. Tata

good. The good guy, ta' yeah. Fibate that I'm to know

to know what I'm sure rar machin or so

she gets, the how to treat her. Because I have sovereigns. But I'm a son-o-no, no, I'm going to try to, how I'm going to try to her, well? Because the form of how the sovereigns

get one, many of the ways, if you're juggot-ton, they're also, they're also, to make most they're the kids, to, the tio-juget-on. To me, they say, Pachi, in the family. My T-Pach, yeah, I go, my my T-O-Pach, T-Pach, you know. And I'm

do you to do it. And I'll just, you know, his time. Why? Because no I have kids. Now, that I'm going to have to her, at my side, the function is, I mean, I'm going to keep my head and see

what I have to do. Why? Because no I'm going to give me guide. Okay. Me, I'm going to be wrong, I know. But I'm going to learn it. And I'm to learn to, I don't

want to say it, but so, so, that no me cost much a because the time

and the time and the nia me termina me, I'm and then and obviously

the mom would prefer to the his first for that one if wants, you have

to have to chate that's that's that's, I'm very directive and very

clear would be to study not, study and prepare and as you

if no, I'm who I'm who look at the

support the support the We can support. The fact, the accompaniment that we're in our center to do our families is, as well,

tomados of the man, literally, and to be able to surging. Because in the age, for example, of the three years, three, four years, well, of the zero to the five years, is important,

not all the life. But in formation, of the zero to the five years, that is the first infancy, is the most important. Because there, we're not, to that personita

for that going form that man, that woman, that woman, that we're going to this world with certain values and the way. So, one

option is to take help with centers, but if you don't have the possibility or in what you you look as

someone that that you know, that you do that that's a opportunity, there's a thing that's

arm of two filers. For the part positive, there's an infinity of articles, of videos,

of podcast, of, the information that we can't to take to take at the

alkanes of a touch so on so really there's many

many books many authors the neurociences the psychology

the psychiatry are the are the because we're

not not not not not so and it is

like I want to you want to you want

to the family the the pattern is a

so is a way you going to go

scubriending a pass to a pass you, you, you and all those

those who are in this accompaniment in a cranesa. But that you know, a day

new, is an opportunity new to make a different. Because you this

scenario. Imagineate that you go to your work, you're in August, with the

time, no, and that and that does a house and that you get

to a house, and the little the famous berinche.

A the more, it's a little it's very different if your

frasco of the frustration yeah is a a a a

glass of and you you get a if you don't the frisor and the

and the power and the amount and you you

know you you know so in the first scenario

that that explode, and he pegas, he does the nail, and you say, oh, you always

do you see, oh, you see the need to get the more, no, in all the thing you

know, I'm saying, my papa, what's, or, or, no, I don't know, how it

says, but the point is, that if you go, and the regas, or you explotas,

no means that's good, good, bad, a man, mother, it,

means, that that you did you think, that you can't, and that

you can disculpire for the acts indebidious, or not indebid those acts that lastimed their heart or his body. If you you're pegas, you can't discus to say, you know, I'm desborded,

today I don't have patience, today, I don't see, I don't you need to be peg because I'm, or because I am. And we're going to we want to someone, then, we're going to be able to pay, right? Or no, we're to give, to say,

you're an inutil, well, no. That's a way to get that's a lot of the lot of the

people, I'm going to say, I'm going to give to give a malgat well, wait a

time to be what adult with that what you self-estim forms, so that that part

is very important that you know, you're going to be you're going to maybe a but I'm

that you need to that every error or that every that you take you repairs

and learn to you can this, Yeah, no, me will be to pass. If I'm going to enoched, I'm tired, I'm tired,

I'm going to meditate, to resty, I'm going to be, I'm going to the house, or me I'm going to be, the park, one minute, the strategies that you

know, that's important, that I relax, okay, me relax. And I'm going to get a house, neutral. Passed a situation, the abhorred, I accompany,

assertively, not from the violence, not from my fantasmas, of noho, of fear, of frustration, So,

so, getate with that in this way of that's because it's precious. You're going to

think things that never has seen, and not you feel that's bad for not to feel a full of

24, 7. Because no a papa it's not. It's in moments. Because it's like a

mountainita rusa. Obviously, we've we've used a equilibrium, but all the

and then there's that actions that are that the good tracts, the structure,

no, the discipline, the love, the affect, the connection emotional with our children, give us,

like parents, like parishes, to do that therapy, to learn, no, man, is an infinity

of situations that they a little, I recommend much that the parents, not, that they're

going to they're going to their there. There's a word that I'm

a person, that we say, we're so it's a phrase, no, like your,

how they like their , No, me want to get to get to the camera, we're not because if my son every day, I'm going to get,

to the hour that I'm to have to get to get to work, to get into the camera, this, I know, every kid, I do it,

I'm going to do it, I'm, I'm, do it, I'm, and I'm going, or what it my kids, learn with the example.

I can't have it in the good college and it's, I, I, can't do you know what I think is the

same, but if me be in the cellular all the day, if me be eating hamburgess every that's the

that's the that I'm going to go to work when I'm going to and I'm in a

discipline is nula, what will learn the child? So, it's a thing that

you're doing that you're getting to that's really, really is much compromise.

I'm with me my and with my family and my children.

Yeah, I'm going to let's what I do you and I want to know

obviously. Sure, for example. I want to I'm going to and also what you

think you opinion about this because a me me said something and I'm saying

you're saying you do you understand and you know, like in a like in a

value yes, I'm going to be a good because here I'm because here

I'm trying to and the other person no but is but is a fatherastro okay so

you can you, referent to this if the little bit of my need to say father or not she's a

that you're going to that you're going to accompany, that if she she wants a day, you know, you know,

you know, you know, or if you know, or if not that you say it's a name,

because, because many families, to the abuel, to the kids, or to

the fatherastros those are the people, and not is something, and so all the

people, and so when the children is a person that's in their life

actually, or that is a person, So it would be a beautiful

that this child to say a when she is a comod and when

it will do it will be because there was because there was a because she

felt for you because she is accompanied because she's a porto

because she knows that can she can find in you to that

person that that is you are there to help you to

help to if you want to cry to give a time to

help to help to do you and then to give that we're that we're that we're

really obligarce not so they're to be obligar if she

she to get to that is something it has to she has

that so is totally so that's and that so that is to

make to the that you make that you that's that click that

say no for me And many, I have patients that say that's that, for me he is my Papa, because he's been my son, he's my

years, he does all the time, and for me, he is my father, but he's always, not imposed for nobody of the family. How is? Agua fresh. Water fresh.

Hey, well, centrondon us in the thing, because that was personal, no? And for that for that the people stay interred a little and that's,

also of what you you can't attend to your consultory is part of this. This Cerebr, what on?

So, you know, it's like, is a luxury, no, no, no. But here no, no,

but here no, but all is to do you. All right. Well, fifted well,

this Cerever, he's to try to represent to physically and that the people that are being

being can be able can identify it. Really, the Cerebrero is an important

and so mysterious, that really a lot of to think to learn to do it, we're doing this people say,

oh, is that we're going to do you know, or some other say, is that just we're just the 10% of our

brain. That's a thing we're we're doing our own our own our own different,

there's that's going that's going to talk to that's what I want to talk about

when a baby nace, when a baby nace, taking in an

child without a a little a little bit of a son,

a man who has been obviously with a cerebral complete.

But the maturity, no, for so put to say, put it a

fruautist, I thinker, a formandos, no, so, he,

he, back, he, he, going, to be the way,

there, there, there are many, there many articles, and many articles that are the terrible

two or the terrible three. Because in that in that first infancy the children are very in a part

of our part of our which is the tally of the part of here down where is the part of

the impulse of the inojo so you can you can take it to you you're an explorer.

So you what is the black. That is the tally. That part. There's a part. There's the impulse, the berinche that they

call it, but, well, so we put him, the part primitive of the people, so. So, so it's going to the part inferior, we

call it, we call it, we're down, to be so, so, it's, it's, it's,

then a part of the part emotional, and for ultimately, it's termina to develop this area in front

that's a face, that's a front of that's super important and that

I'm going to do you to do and that you can see many many that's

respect to you, because there is they're more said, much

things important in the life. Muchism for example. There

we are the time of the attention the question the

concentration okay the thing of the the of the

reason of the right to get to do. There's a pesable yeah, yeah,

yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, so, so, yeah, so,

if you know, when a little down in the tally around, in the black,

that you don't to make that you don't there, that's, why he

he says berinch to my mom? Why not he's the thing, the

the new is the part primitive, the the new that they want to

that they do the the they get in the park at at the 12 at the night and is stanked

in that part? Because the the little is in that state in the

state of when a time chronologically in that time I as I can

permeate I can learn to how to resolve with messages

preventiv with a routine with a structure I do you I

presto my lovus frontals for that he can regulate that's that can regulate

mediant of my path, mediante my accompaniment and my understanding so

a little so is madurating chronologically all the cerebr it's that

after the more or the 30 culminate that

that that it's so when we're when we we

we're we we're that that that madurice is

more less less So, imagine a person that consume any type of substance

to a 13 years to get to get to this is a time, and apart it will be

more difficult that is imagineate how they're a pepegrillo no that that conscience

is this but but as not is maduro I'm I'm going to the

school, me go to my house and all what we know

so really to understand a little bit more the part organically

the part of the function of the brain is primordial because you know

I think you know you're you're that my father is that my person

not so not so it's a manned a man for example the three years

he's he desires and not that's do that he did, but

obtain that he want to do that does it not you know, is that I'm

that I'm a lot of other paleta yeah, there's many palettes and me

going to do that so that is the part important to understand the the children

not not there are there no, there's the need to

the need to the person to be the responsibility to the

way and be assertive in instead of a knald a nought a a rito a castigue you sit at the

end up the key to the iPad, so what adults we're going to do this manner?

When an addicto starts from the 13 years as how we're doing the

example for example there in the centers of rehabilitation we've heard we've heard

that all the addicts is chantagist is manipulator you say promises, not to them

and you make it, it's not it's not it's for it's for because they're thinking in

drugarsen it's the the same. The example that I said no there's the gen of the manipulation

in the children of three years because no exist. Yeah an adult of 12,

13 years that has a that has a addiction the profile that's

that the person to say what you want to you want to hear

to hear you hear it's to get to get a a other but that is proper

of the same addiction no so if is a consequence of the

okay the difference between the new and the child

and at what age 13 years to the 13 years a a

difference you you referes to you do you see

of the brain of the the of the that that

that that's that that's that that the drugs have an affectation

direct with with the neurons. The decisions that take a new that consume

to the decisions of a new son are going to dependient to the pregnancy obviously

of both very different. Because the because the child addicto

because he wants to keep consuming even even even even

after he's doing and all his that is active. A young of 13 years not going to

to be the contrary because at this age is something in the adolescence. So there different podas neuronales

they call. The Cerebrough a model of if you don't you use, it's a dishecha or

it's so what what? I think the first poda if no I'm a recall,

is of the three to five years in the first infancies and then

the adolescence, there's a other poda, for to say, all what was used and what no,

what no what we did get, so I'm heard, or you're when you're a adolescent,

that you were the mother's, you're a mariposa, your body was a different,

you're to get the voice, the bea, the be you, the brows long, as you

that's much, that's in the brain, so there's there's in there's

there, but it's there's there to have to refresh, and it to be to be the other

way the structure of, hey, no do you, the rope interior in the, in the piece tirade, the time, you

have done to be the job. And many people say, oh, is that it's a little more great, but they're

a little bit that's a new process, like a new level. Yeah, no I'm a oldicent,

I'm, I'm going to be a adolescent of zero, and now more is a refresh of the habits,

the values, the way, so this this, this, adult, that is an adult,

his decisions are not going to be the most assertive, because this not is

a 100 percent that's the corete's prefrontal. But, but it

can say, I, in best of being in the video all the day,

that's other type of addiction, me go to the food, I go to my friends,

I'm going to get other options or other other options or other ways to make sure your

better than a more more with the little addicto I'm

I'm a little I'm a good and the little the new the new

the child that he's had been the has been the other options they're in

their life that they get a a way a way a a way in

a life more a life more more prosperous no there

there there you're you're you're you're saying that

you're that me I said various. The first was. The first. The first. The, the, the, the, the, the, the types of

cranesa? The, the first, the, the first, the first point. The first point. Well, a type of creanza is a a child, no, I see, call you want to start, permissive, no? There are many, authors that have put many types of

numbers, but they englobant to the same. For example, the clienta permissive is a crinacy that, many times coincide not is a regular

but many times coincide to the family of a addict because the addicts

obviously not in their addiction because there is and he and he and he

and then when the family always is support that that that's

that that he doesn't that really really really really

so that's an addict what does I'm can't control it I'm

I'm I'm and the family and the family support. And how it soporta from doing

a little the visth like a lot of the way, yeah, it's not, it's much

that's a lot of it's a time, oh, it's that's a giving money, or permissos,

no, ah, it's too, you want to get to get to the school, then I'm,

I'm, I'm trying to try to try to try to try to but not I'm

doing, the overprotection to the children to the Honey, is a thing very, very complex.

But, it's a lot of strong in the children and the young, if I, I'm going to do you,

I'm going to the possibility that you acquires those and those resources for you to resolve, you know,

because I, because I, I don't know to be a way, you, you know, because I did chance to

that you did chance to that's over-protection, that's a style of a creanza also is very damnina.

And, well, me regress a little, to this part of permissivity. No, there are regals, no, there's limits, you know, you're back, if you're, you're, to doorms at the hour that it's. So, that's a style of creanza, well, obviously, generate much angustia in the and the children and the young, because no know what they're going.

For that you give us an idea more clear, and all those who are who are in a bitation, see it in the eyes. No, we're doing nothing. If I'm going to give a lot, that is the first that I'm going to I'm going to

feel so nervous and with so much my cortisol will be to get to get to because I don't

if there's there's a there's a there's a going to go to go to dark with much

fear because I know what I know I'm going to put my my foot

is going to go to or me to be to be to or me to lastimar.

That's so those limits null in a creans. The limits

us help us to have that lintner of this no, for here, so far you,

no. Lejos to be the And then and all the and all the whole of the whole.

Yeah, when he goes to the six, eight years, no, depending of the need of the need of the zero to the

eight years. Yeah, when you're going and you're and then you have the hands, you're going to the mess,

come, you, and you're going to get a and you're going, and you're back, you're a lot of,

that's a routine visual, where the the new thing is the sticker, the book, the photo, of the,

then the mom and the papa. Oh, Yeah, no, they're desgast, in to say, no, you have been asked. You said that you banished. When will you do, when you're going to do that

the time? The kid, with a, with a practice, no, you know, you're going to be there his dibujitos. And it's so, because there are little little, of four years, of five, that said, oh, yeah, I did the

task, and you know, now I'm going to go to play with my juggetes, and they're going, and you can't, and they're It's just like to go putting the palomita of what you

do you do do you do do you do do you know so you know that's a other than that's a

battle, the papas yeah no they have to live all the obviously at the

initial in what he they're in this part of the structure, of the routine

of the that's every day well it's a but it's an inversion good

because you go and you're going you're going to be the go to bathe, go to

football, the little the boy, the when you're going to be able to do you. when you're more grand, now it's the or area, no, that's the time, you know, a more,

my child, much accompaniment and he's sure, versus a

the creansa no, this permissive where there's or the clientza

authoritarian. A- -be, you're you're you know, you do you

do it, like, it's very fair the comparison, no, this, like,

like, you know, so, I, I do you the gift and the ,

what I want, the what I want, what I want to to pass with that that that's

imposed to that they do in things to do to do. What adult will be

that's that's that he can't do. That's that I'm that I'm that I'm

that I want to that I'm doing. What? What? What? Because a

time we're a lot of the conscience and it's something that's all the days in

session. It's you know, that Paola, between the prisa, it's a little to be

a routine, it's a me forget the way, it's, how they're their friends, then really

to be so much, not an option, is a necessity. So, to have that kind of,

to be that's, I need too, and have that's that's many things,

that are many things, when you're when you're the father really, of him, just,

for example, a me that's passing something new, I'm going to going to

little to go to and a little. And, I don't I'm to do you to be

to learn because I want to the day of that's my way to my and it's

and it's and it's so it so so so this here we see

a, a question when the when the papas and from

the time and the time and the children those they're they're

in guarderias with the abelos, primos, tios, et cetera, there that's that bad, it's because the papas

we're talking that going to get super-cansed. Yes, yes, totally. And they're going to do, how much, two hours to the children? There you go. Fifatty well, I'm, if you

you're incated in piedritas with two ladrillos in the sun, how much time it's a much time? Incaid in piedritas with two ladrillas in the sun. Well, for 10 seconds, no?

Why? Because you're going to be when we're going to be. When we're passing well, we're going to do a lot of a lot, no, or much time. That's the pleasure and the displeasure. Now, when those parents need to work for

to maintain a family, for the style of life, well, so, no, so, if you're if they're, if they're, if they're If they're in the because for good and for

the need to be more than so here is important to include in the cranesa to all

the caretory for so this, this is this thing of the this is for parents and

good for I've got in consulta abuelos that are those that all the day are with

the people and they're they need to get to the barco

of the acerer or the because it because it has much the

the pap all the day out. Hey, no, no, they're not

like, they're in the time, because they're going to the abelite, for favor. And the

abelito, and the mother, he's, hey, not table all the day because you

the time, no, they're doing, oh, boy, a while it, a bit, and a

time, and a few, not all, sometimes, so, there's, there's this ambiguity,

the thing, will be to go to go, not with the suya, with

satisfy, that desire, and thing and with the father's other. Here,

what I recommend is that we're going to we're in a kind of a child and that

the child. And that the little bit hour more when no they're to do it

or when they're to get to the limit, we're we're doing, we're

not, oh, with that. Now, a papa, a mama, a mom, that all the

day, are out and they're a half hour, but of quality.

there there's those moments of connection that is the connection emotional with our

children is that practice where I my my heart my my

my child do that I go that I'm that I'm that

I'm so I'm that has it's four ingredients no

one one is you do you see you you're you're

you're you're I'm you're that Fifate that, I don't know, the book, I'd recommend. How do you feel you? Well, I'm just

ignored. And if you feel you ignored, how you feel like your value personal? Mal? Yes, totally. I don't know I'm not important for Paola because it's with the cellular.

Just, you know, I'm just if I'm still talking, yeah? No, if you were my no. It's that if you're not, it's that I'm not, but if we're just

in a relation, mother and child, you'd say, And obviously, so what I pedgum, my mom? That's. So, all the day, he'stube in the street, no I'm important,

no me care, I'm for what I want, I want to work, if not is to be to work. That's what I said many people in the consult.

So, oh, with that. I can get very tired of the work. I can't to do you, to get a

the back the day's the day and they're to do the arropo. For me, the routine

of the night is very important. If you know you have more time for your child, the routine of the dream and the desperer are vitales. There I go with

the contact visual, which is the first ingredient of the connection. Ah, my amor, we're going to, get the quote that you want to you.

Then I go contact to physical. No. I think the 99.9 of the beings we can't or gustar, that we'll talk in the

head, that they'll give a barraso, a papach, a becito. That contact physical is necessary. That's something of

a little bit of a little, like, no, see, a salute special, or, or, to learn the story of Spider-Man with figures and that they

are presentiality, that I'm, that I'm that I'm not saying, that I'm that you're, you put this, you, the lavator? Put there,

this, no, the jabon. So, I'm, well, bette to be better to lave the role in

instead to be to be there. There, my amor, how you're the most beautiful or what what was the most

you liked of this day? There was something that not you had got to have been the three

activities that you most you're doing in the college, tell me what matter you liked

more, what class you're more, how they're that you're playing? So,

no, in, in interrogatorio not, some, some questions, but that they're going

more to go to the school? Contestame. Okay, there I'm going to Laver

There's Okay, so Well, well, Well, there's Okay, Now I I'm here

What I'm What did You know, What did you? I'm I, I'm, Yeah,

And who And who Seeked Oh, Tell me. No, well, Well,

And he, And he, he, he, I know, where he He, or,

this, for example, and the he did he or to him how he he was, or you've got to

you've got to you're in the recreau? I mean, I'm more more than subtilment and there

I'm information that's that you know, because at the most I think you like that

that's that you go to the primate and forgetate and I have done the other

game, so that's important to go not and it's important. And a

routine to do 20 minutes. I go connection, I'll take information I'm, that I'm, that I'm that I'm going to be

I'm going to be with the intention to give you the more and I'm the best of my day even though it's a moment short because

there are papas that are all the time with the children, but in the cellular, in the iPad, no, and

socessively or that they're outside, or the quality, obviously, never is to never to compare

with the quantity. That's good. Ta-one the information. Like, like, studied the Paola, fiatte,

like he said, way, well, I'm prepared because I'm much a chambah. Oh, this,

this, we're going to do you know, but a consult with you, where you? Ah, okay.

We're we're looking a country of the river, but much people it's the

place, the university of Durango, but there very, very, very,

we're, we're, we're, we're to the day, to the morning to 7

of the night. Very well well, so there they're informed a number of

telephonal for the number of for a website at 66, 7, 3,

89, 10, 21, and we can find in social as

social as private. Pemned has been not so we're

getting we're we're getting we getting here at

this you know there's there many there that I

have that I have I think I'm, and one of them is when the when the kid, he wants to play, no? He gets, I don't know, you get, you get at the job? You're going to, you're not going to, you're going to say, mom? No, no, I'm not.

Okay. Yeah, you know, more or the last, you know. So, is it. That's what good. Okay. That you, or that you gotsted, or you gotsted at the job, and where you left, you have to, you know, you're going to pass to recogel, and you're going to get to your house.

What is that That's That's That's That's Not He's And the

And the And the And the Yeah, Okay There's Some On the

Manga That's You know You know You know We're We're We're

We're We're We're To get Yeah So, I'm Yeah,

I'm I'm Yeah I'm I'm I'm You know I'm

You know That's What I'm in the heart I'm trying. I'm trying to if you're going to play

because I'm very really can't is, I'm I'm trying I'm quite empathic, that you like you're

that's a different, that's that's a different, and it's, but I'm not able to play with

because I feel very can't be really or because I have to do that cause or

because this came the agreement. What you do you do you're more

we've used the Saturday, of that's hour to a half hour. In best of

every time, we're going to be in the end of the time. I'm going to say, I'm patis, obviously,

you're important. In this moment, I'm not to attend your necessity, to do you know, but I'm

doing this other moment. And the little also is important that I'm a person that I'm

a person I'm a question, and that's a but you open a window, no. So, no, I don't do I'm going to

attend your necessity, I'm going to my motives, and it's other form, no. Obviously,

as my mom, is important to do, sometimes that is that effort, but if I can't, and me

to cost to pass and health mental, I, I'll, I'm a necessity, and I'm a new,

and that would be something for those two, I'll understand, and he's but we're going to

play the end of the time. Okay. And in what scenarios

if you can't get the knalgada to the one? And no?

And because they're saying, well right you were you that the

cranesa that was that's the creans traditional Mexican that

that that that that that that that that

that that that That my credence has been very violent to our

our own our own our own our I'm a question I'm a story of

my people yeah people who say I'm me me pegged

with the lus no me encabed the monjas

in peter in the college so so there a level

of a very very high physical there there

still there in the society but there more there

that that that creanza traditional that includes the goal, and they say that me

me peggarer and no me pass nothing. I'm so I'm in the session.

But if there's many things. Because the only the only the

violence, you know, is that you know, it's normalize something that that

affect to someone. It's like, you know, it's a thing that we

don't know, but I think there in some Notices to the other

of the world where they're normalize something the pedophilia of the

of the men that are I'm that I'm that I'm inamored to be

some people say, I'm a question, I'm a question that's not

a part of the society in other part of our in

Mexico in other part of the world that is that I think I

want to accept that they LGBT, and all those I want to include it, so it's important to know,

and to be clear those those values and say, I don't accept that I'm going to normalize or I don't

accept a level natural that a person abuse of a minor of that but as something is something

very palpable Jorni, you says, no, you say, no, you're inadmissible, not inadmissible.

also the violence psychological and verbal apply and daena a person so how we can't say not to the pedophilia but if at the nalgada or at cintarazo or al

you're a good for nothing. All those examples is violence to the menors but those that are those that are the morete or the yanto or the sand or the

that's impact more because we're doing and it has an impact or distinct or different to compared to a person depressive, with a bad autoestima, because also he received

a type of violence but not's the so I'm so I'm explain. So that part is important to discard it.

I know we're saying to our limit and I'm sorry and I'm sultar the goal of the example that

has a a lot, with a while, with a time, and I'm to get to and I'm

you're a lot and pass, no? is a and never will be recommended

the goal. Of course there's a little zero goal of a

author Mexican where we know, where we know that's the impact

and the affectation that have our people and the people when I

resolve with the because I do I'm to that

so they're to they're to they're they're they

they're they so one is so one's that's violent because he

is, I'm with the cholo there's, you know? So, you know,

only one that I remember, and I'm pegged a good ching. One way.

I'm gonna that's, but I'm a little a rio. Uh-huh. Is that that's

that's a role, you know, you know, that's, I'm not, never, because?

I'm, they're gonna get to again. Because it's you know, you know, you're

you're you're in a example, if you you're, you're, you're in a a commas

in a car and it's in a car and it's too no one and there's you pass? Or you you're there?

If no there's no you go but if is a transit to a other red you're all the

right? Why do you because I'm a multi? For me a it's the same

dynamic for fear you know you know you do you not make

to get to never to never I'm, not, because I'm

to, I'm a, to do to do a matter of and not to be a not.

So, no, for example, that great travesura that maybe you did that you

did it, you said, you know I don't to pay to me to my brother,

because my mom me will be to be to be but I want to you

see to you see a one, because it's your brother, and the

things can resolve resolve about because you know because

you know, and if he does a something that you know, make the does the use of your

good voice and say, he's that I'm like you have got my cellarres

but you can't. Because if you dole you dole you dawns and you can't be

a lot to you and apart your mom you know so you don't so

is so if fiat that you see um

So, we're going to a scenario, no, that the nine, five days that's

he's more, that you recommend you to do to the to be a bad,

without the need to need to have, okay, perfect, there's many many times,

there's, many times that a sometimes, not more, to know, to know, if that

that conduct of the child, I'm I'm putting in unportarse mal or what is. The path number one and the most important

is identify the necessity authentic of my child. There's a phrase of a person very recognized in psychology that says,

the kids the most more more they're when more they need. A little no,

no, well, taking in account, no, a new, a new physically

sano, when a when a child has a necessity affective for example I've

seen my mom a little the time and I've been a little in the cellular I

want that's that that's that's attention to my mom

I do the for example if I do you my put to come

I'm a minute and he he he's so

so I have my mom with my mom to

but it's got has been proved that that's what they're doing. It's maybe

but that's like the, the way, no, but that's, in the morning I'll start with a minute with a little time, I'm a

little bit more I'm sure, I'm I'm organized like a mom obviously and he he's got

to the school, he'll a little a little a little a little a little

a little I'm a time a difficult that's that's a that's a point in a

person that's that point that's because many people and you're and

they're they're so long they've done to do that connection

with your maestra or with her maestro and they're sitting solos or they're not going to to go back for them to school and then they're doing well, five days.

So if I go more than the conduct and I think, why my son is trying this or for what my my son is trying this, I can't find infinity of responses.

That is what I can recommend, indigar more there to the conduct, to be more there and say, what is what? point number one,

point number two, I tranquillize me before because if five days is the same cantaleta and my frasco of the frustration

is full, very sure I'm to go to or the or the maltrapto, physical, but by the

psychological. So, if I know that I feel in a postura to accompany assertively,

first I can't, first I'm and I'm and I go to be to be, to be,

because he pego to the brother the conduct that you want to

you want to be to be not a well because. Okay. Well,

there's a enough information and the net in the house

there's different and here the people have to get to the

thing because it could be that they they're to they're

going to get this me you're going to develop that

part of to say, I'm so I'm the I'm a like I'm there's a

like that's a guy who say, yeah, yeah, I'm going to say the plan,

no- he can't and make, and it's a case. And when we're not that notion

and that think I I'm I'm going to all to do to do and that

they're other form of that can be the can't that can't be

that you your past not you define. What your parents did with what were in

those moments was, but you have the election and the opportunity to do you know,

you know, you know, and you dole. So I don't want to my kids passen

for that. And if I know to do do something, I'm so I'm and I'm

not I'm the science. So, so you know? And so. Oh, and these books,

what on? Oh, so are those these little and they're to all. Before, before,

before the of the books, that's on the this, you know, you know,

you know, for that check the data, there's a thing in some, some, some,

how they call, piedrasas, or how? Corasone. This, for what what's why

you're going to give us? Oh, no, yeah. Oh, yeah. No,

Mentira. For that's, to get them in your heart. Because a year a year

a not I'm a not. You also have to give you

a man a man a angelical does and he and he and he

took a piece of a and a pallor that has a significate

and that's so that's when you when you me said that

this was like to connect a ritual of connection I

Why? Why? A-huh. What does this? Okay. Well, you, you, you get to with him.

Sackal the little. A-huh. And you're going to do. All right. All right. All right. Two, no,

how are? How about? Oh, how many? Oh, put it on a puny. There's a so, I'm sorry. So, okay? So,

there are other members of the family. That is a ritual of connection for that my son, you know, how you have to feel,

amado, tomado in in count, respected, sufficient, visto, no, in the

game, you're so an ritual of connection segregate the hormone of the heart,

that's the oxytocin, and a cortisol of the stress and this part. So,

in the night, we're in the can't, we're put this punnito of the

heart to your plato, and I do, this, I'm, or my

love, or, like, everyone we're, we're, we, we just

you know, that there are a lot of your place, because it's a habit of the family. And all this

month, we're going to give thanks. So, you know, the, the, that's a

thing about, that, that's a little, the basijita, so, what, this,

this, is that, is that I see, because is the thing, so,

so, so, so, is in the middle of the and I know,

ah, you know, oh, you know, oh, you do health and we're

there. Do I thank because our family is a unied and we're

very much and we're because you are a great because you are a really really and that's a

good and I'm the most thank you thank you for my work. Now you're

you do that you do you do you Thank you for the things that you want. And that's a ritual

of connection. What you did you? Oh, beautiful. In my house, never is it.

That's so about. It's the love. And the love can help not literal,

but the love contribute to that one person is a person's all of a

family. So the love the world literally. So, so if you see you

see that you do you do do it say, not maybe all the

days with this tone so a time but that is that I'm

that you that's that I'm that I'm thank you for you for your life and

at the maybe the other we do we do the ritual of of the what I

think I'm really of me? Imagineate that you say to let's say let's

let's say you of the thing? Well, the the work and the

the work of that it's very great for one and the family and the work of the

that I'm like I'm because I because I'm because I'm want the people that are my around

and because I'm what you know what you when you do you're and that you feel

you're sure you're you're you're full of the oxytocinac, the hormona of the love. If you're

a lot of now you tell me Corny if you all the days you know

that's even a thing beautiful or good or satisfactory in your house

of support of the and you learn you know and you

to learn and say and I know I'm so I'm so

you think as as to, no, I know, to to get a a, I'm going to to be a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a

to be able to be with me, or, so, with your family, then, so, you know, that's, you know, that's, you know, you're going to need that no, no, no,

I'm going to need to, and that's the same to you, that's that you're going to, that you think that, you know, the, the moment that is,

that person, that's, that person, that's, so enfade of so much. Oh, okay,

well, this not is all the life, no? A lot a moment

I go the ritual of or I'm the ritual of that I'm that I'm

I'm so I know, I know we're going to be going to get to

my mom yeah me I'm fed and you and you know, and you

have to be a dynamic and also the time the is very

the you're you're you're to be a lot to take because?

Well, it's a need to. This is an habit that's that gotita of love

to the because it's many people can get upurs but if they're

in the same dynamic we can do it there's there's many

many times this is one of the this is one so I'm being too

being used maybe And I do other things, no? Okay. Very well. If it's it's worth,

my app for that you inform you and this is. Okay. This is the second I'm going to

do to get to back. Because it functioned. You chand a fie. No,

no. Diggate well. I'm here. I'm going that those cubitos always

they're that because these are the things are the things of the state

of supervivency no? That part of You know, you what you said, the tally the tally

the tally the tally the entire and the world. And then I'm that my expectations not are

completed as as well, that this came to represent the part of the cortece prefrontal,

not like the cuspide of the motheress. So when we're we're a sometimes we're

in this state, a little we're going we're going in this. And this is for

you're for you that. But no, No, no, I don't tell you with that intention. No, yeah, but if I'm prepared.

No, no, you know, no, don't you. Well, yeah, I'm, yeah, I'm, boy, yeah. Now, so, we're going to

those books. The books, these are some of the tantos that exist for that. Yeah, totally.

For you, how is, well, how is, well, the formation, more than, no?

Yeah, this book is goody- that's good that's called Disciplines and Lagrim that I

recommend because here us explain the author Daniel Siegel, how function the brain

the how is a is a little, a a manned a manned a new new new a new primary, and so, no, was going to be explaining

and we're accompanying to come to in this guide, how much how farosio, that has done a rosa barosia, that has done many books I think

are like six, but all those they're doing to the discipline with love for adolescents to come to

the day-a-day solutions of day-a-day are-day- and this for the children-peachines for-a-

discipline-com love, the Rojo. There's another that is discipline with a love,

guide for the for example, that are the the of our children

a few so those are some of many many books. There are

digital there are physicals, there are ones that are, they're called disciplines and it's like,

discipline and that's, discipline conscientious, but all them, under the same line,

of the respect, of the companyment, of the security, and that our children and that

are, and that they're, that's that need to that need to that other things

or in other substances or in other other persons if out of my

home. Right just, did you a to, let me, what,

what happens? To do you know, that we're about the , of the many of the

many, uh, yeah, I, I said, I think we did a charla

in one of the colleges, and we about it was that was a series of, a sesinos

serial, uh, and then it was also, and then there's other,

and then was much the money, what I was the parents in that, in that that was

one of the common denominators of people, in this case of of those series,

no, the theme of the addiction, of the time of the time of assassinations,

is this that no there's that the person, this, sentiento that's,

feelinged, care, if you have the opportunity to see a particular, to this perspective,

and you know, I'm going to the people, and they're people, they're not,

they're people, violented, people, people and you don't you define that

in the life, but impact it a way a way negative so he not is

connected with my little he will over and I go over and I

do that and that God God God so it's important

unnors to know to know to be who we're that

we're that how I'm I know I'm like

that me you want the thing with and not with the chancla,

no? So it's very important the connection is that that pegament that we make a family

that we that we're that's how you? Well, yes. For example, in,

talking about of the movies, I consume and the net, the reality is that

I'm, I am, I'm, I'm, I'm, the ones of the love,

too, but those consume when me I'm so, like, like,

I'm of that person. Yeah, just. And, just. Yeah, my favorite are

those of action. It has been to my mind, with my, yeah, with my movie, see,

that's the type of movie. Violence. Violence. That, that, for example,

that movie, the net, no, me gave me to get to that's something, for the

thing, I'm, I, well, one, that's one, that's

one, that's The other form, as you you, invite to you,

invite to the movie to be, I'm going to see a much when assaults the bank, when,

when, when, uh, uh, there, uh, there, uh,

there's a, a series that shotter, it's called, in English, well, I know how it's pronounced,

uh, and I, and I've looked a machine, and he had, I've got to

to be a, again, but, because it has things there things that

you have to I'm much process and addivine what will pass ahead and and I

do it what he at you know what has what has if it has something or simply

is the good. When you see something that you that you attract

and that like it it's the it's the thing it's a adrenaline is a substance

that we have a a, a, a, a, a state placer

and I don't you can't say in this moment, because you do you use the

movie as what you do you get a movie of action, like you you're

you're you, you're you, and you and you empapes of something

that you don't live in the reality. I was, like, I'm, I'm, I'm,

I'm, they're, I'm, I'm a little, a The bank that's

for the Obregone could have assaulted it at all hour and I'm going to say to my friend,

that I'm to say, oh, but if you have you have the and you know, every

how you, every time, I don't know, I don't know I don't know I'm much I'm going, and the net,

I'm always see, I'm going to see, because, for example, the of the house

of paper, uh, that series I've seen, I've seen, I've seen, but

for what? I'm I'm in a I'm I'm that I know I'm I'm going

to go back to see that to see for what this and for that I'm

so I'm so that but I'm the same the same the same movies and the same

and if one for example no see I'm a black one I'm a

but I want to but I'm I don't know I'm that I'm that's

that can't be the adrenaline of the adrenaline to learn I don't know a detail,

but at the maybe you are the you're a person very active, very chispa that you

like to know, or a other than not. Like, no, me

I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, and I'm, and I'm, also, that's a

thing, is a very ample that's my camp, but I do, no, I'm doing,

I'm based to this. Okay, so, is something is something is like fantasy,

no more, because really I'm The net, I see because fantasize

with that I'm going to think I'm oh, what on we're going to get to get to get the

bank. So, now, I'm a little because you know, you're

a year if you have a years. No, well, I'm fresh. Because you

see what what's here in the country of the north, no. We're

the bio violento and I know, the forms easily to acquire certain

situations that me to get to violent to to people and like in the video

game, it's a a thing very, very interesting, but he not is here in this

posture, not, is there, like, at the 13, 14 years. So,

there is a dad, and he is, what are their children, control

parental, I have to know that I'm my children. And the time of

the things is a time too very, this, um,

in my studio for this practice, um, a a very recognized that

is called Marianne Rojas-Tape, that I suggest that you see you because you're to learn much too of her. I'm going to

a reunion, I think, of medical. In the 2017, I saw in internet that one of

the people of Facebook said, we've we've discovered the vulnerability of the human,

of the psychology of human. We did we do we're doing it and we know they're

you know me creas, to the post a link for that you So that part of the vulnerability of the

human, what situations have been to attract as a effect secondary, no? The example of these children,

who have attempted against the life of other people in secondary or in preparatory, is one of many,

many, the networks, the networks are there, no, there, addicts to to be

to be at the front of the screen hours and hours and hours and hours. So,

so much people say, is that the sector of the drug govern the world,

the arms, not, the tract of blackas, is a part, but really what the

world, is that the social, the, the, the drug dependent,

to be the the page, that me give them, that they can be, that's,

that part is, is something that is something, you do you do you

you know, you're in certain networks if you see a video and you get a enganchated in that video puros videos

you see. It's, how they they're called? The, how are they programmed? And you

see the algorithm. And just that's the thing, you know, for example. And right, yeah,

are some seconds. Because, because all we're all we're really, the panchions us do,

those photos that I've seen, no, that's the partey, we're, we're,

we're, we're a cellular, where we're going to be and start and start consuming, consuming, and I'm and I'm going to

and all the people who are people, it's more, for example, your memory is more great, and how many

numbers of telephone you know, you know, more? For example, and there are people that any the

they're not, or how you you're not, you know, you're just only, and so,

and so, and so, and so, you can, you can't, you the law that says,

what we don't use, is a deseched. For that now we're more more than we're because

we're not a lot of, and next. And then the video of this famous next. But a

book, no? So, the actually, even the book, you know?

Audio-libros, so is. It's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's a

percentage of a major effect, no. The audio book, persons, as they're

auditivus that retina much from the hear of the hear of the way, but really

taking in account the thing of the media social, no, of that that's

immediate that's, that's I'm a little with the part of the

infancy, the the children of one of two years, of three years,

of four years, that they they're on the restaurant, the

silenciator before, are the chupon or the bibbi, now is the tablet. So this

Cerebron, the corte prefrontal is active with three things. With the light, sound,

and movement. Dime that has a tablet. That's light, sound, and movement.

So, when you, if you say, I'm just, I'm I'm afraid to do

the tablet, you can get the possibility that you learn to doerulartes, to be

to learn to the frustration. For that the salas of the medical, no, or in the restaurants or in the

places where the little bit of the little bit of the night, or are you're trying, so we're trying to get into the possibilities of auto-regulars, to learn, to gestioning the frustration, because there you go. I'm, I'm sorry, I'm going to the tablet. When I'm more grand, I'm going to the cellular. And depending on my

cranesa, if I'm bored, if I want all the pleasure inmediate, you tell me that is a pleasure inmediate that is very nocive some addiction?

Totally. The pass pleasure immediate. The like pleasure inmediate. So,

not is exactly equal, but it comparer much that the videojewgo has,

for example, the same effect that the cocaine in our in the question

of stimulation. So, in the question of addiction, of the is an addiction

also. It's a it's a thing super, super-ample. That's a idea, we're at least,

we're saying, that's structure because we're going to go to get us for many, many, many,

many, and it all right and it and it comes, and all from a adult,

I'm good to be to be to be to be to come to my children,

to say when they they have to say, and to say, and to say, you know

when they're when they need to so this this creance is the creance

conscientious the cranes that he observe that goes that's that's my

my son is doing this is sure because emotionally he's he's

he reproved the matter and things that I can

know to my my I'm I'm I'm I

know all all all life with the children of preschool, of primary, secondary,

pre-uner university. It's, and we're evolutioning. And we're like we need to do it.

For that, we have to be a pass-it- a- little. So the tablet

is the other do you're in the children, no. At what age?

A part of what there, there, there, an organism encarged to situation, if I'm a mal-recurdo is for

times. For example, from zero to the two years, no, he recommends absolutely nothing. After that, they're in some for the periods of time. If you're going to me, I don't let me give a

iPad or any type of a screen, even in the primary. Because a, because a when they're small, when they're the first infancy, the most important in the formation, to do the preschooler Necessible,

Necessita To learn to explore a Toller the frustration Tollera the frustration To say, to this is this, to ask,

why this, Papa, why is your Mom? We're going to play, to develop, not that part

motorer, to bring, to bring, to get a ball, all that, the new needs,

all that that movement it needs. So, the iPad comes to keep to the possibility

that explore. So if the kid has the iPad, we're regulat me compromises to submit to

my stories of Instagram the pages where are the recommendations specific for the for that

you know because I know that's a thing very, very important. The the

screen in a rattito it and but it's so are hours. I've

had been patients that have taken two hours of two games two

12 hours or 18 if there's a marathon of a tournament of tournaments young that's youngs

that's so that part how not we can't we can't continue because because

question one a person a second prepa is is playing video games

so time time. Because it can be able to my reality. My papas are you have been

and then I'm put outifones and I disconnect. It's what to me say.

I'm going to be the audio. No, no exists the world.

My mom me grita me a door and it doesn't

make the time. My dad and they're all the day and all the

thing or cause and evado my reality. It's the absence. The

us the usensia. The The pandemic. The pandemic for the necessity and that we know we know

a lot of how to be not. Much of the kids were in the entire. Because they were

to be in the screen for the classes, no, in line. So, many, as you know, they were

engaged, and all the morning in the school and all the afternoon in the videohue. Because it

was the only way in the socializing with my people. No, they could

be physically then. So, we could we're we're for the other, regressamos

to the presensiality and I get engaged and I'm got to reincorporate to my

activities to a little. And the parents, we have the people, we're the obligation, we have

the obligation to get adapt us, not that part of, you know, we need in the

page, we can't get to a partke. The fact, a phrase, I'm

here, that I'm that I want to want to to share with much, much, much,

very, much, and we teach us our kids to connect to connect our real. A person that's

pospon the recompensate gets more less far than a person intelligent. If I

want to play another half hour, I go, no, I'm going to play the

Saturday, and me to go to because, what happens? I'm, I'm, I'm the

question, I'm, what pleasure inmediato could obtain easily any

any type of addiction and that that's not 100 because we're not we're

we're but we're we're we're our cards not to say no I can

postpone my my pleasure my satisfaction I'm I'm and you

know you know that the things that are the things that they're

they're they're their process for that's that's the most

possible All the most part of the things that are rapid are done ines. Cominia chatarra, addictions, the game, obviously the videojeworks also.

The immediate, no always is the more. And a person intelligent does what he is what he wants. Oh,

as you know, as you're fresh. Oh, okay good pinches platica we're here with Doña Pellos. Epa. No,

I'm a With all Respect, Paola. Dime. What podcast has seen of

us? Much of I've seen I've seen I've seen I've seen Petsito with you

I'm contacted with the title but it was for me a young of 33 years that had

a spa that had a expendium to be I'm how she this

this much Jasm Jasmin Jasmin Aha I see I also

I saw I don't I remember his name I've seen many many people that are

in annexes but no no me I've not learned but in general the majority

of my consumer in your channel has been in persons with addiction and the

day that I made the message was the day that was the chapter of the

psychiatrist and I said Horny me leo put to the

chican in my mind. So, I mean it's a vital importance.

I know if you're not a thing that you're a little a little a little

a story super difficult no, that I'm that I'm to go to get to give to

do that also, that, that, that, that, all those stories

that I've seen, I've seen much, but I'm, I'm not they can't

mention exactly all, all you all being the of Yasmin, I

I'd like to go to talk to the cranesa and the effect of the

connection of the port security with the thing of the because

a common denominator if you you put to analyze those stories is that

in the nuclear there much much dysfunction but much

if no it's that destruction no so that

that was the intention when I was I'm I

said this is important that all the people

know I do so I'm to my patients, I'm parted in the charlars to the college, but I know that this

media has a impact more great. So, for that's my interest. Because I was seeing all

those things and I said, this is important. And more here in Kulakhan, because you know that since you

know, that's not only only they're not only only in the parades in the universities,

this, the, the stras the stras of certain substances, no, of fentanyl,

for example, that right you're in that's done that's done to do you have been doing to the society.

And not only in Mexico, in the States in California is a zone, but yeah is

here in Kulakand since a time, and it's been in still, because it is still

because it's because it is a time, and it's not, or for the thing you're saying, it's

something is something for the community, but But, today, for the culichis, because if one is a tonto, so loco, naturally

the crystal the crystal, net, not is not the 10% of what you can occasioner the fentanylo. Cremere me that we're informed, machin, of that time. Yes, yeah. And, well,

if, is of fear, that, is of fear, because with a one one a little pastilla, you can't get up, and you no, you know like the

people like the people. I do do you do this I'm done.

And what you're they're saying, I'm just said just sitting down.

So, and I'm seeing the back the I'm and God.

And here I'm and I'm and it and so many things,

no but that's a basis of a substance that

was the crystal was the marijuana was the cocaine and

all that. But Fentanyl, I think of 100 people, one, is to doubt that they're saying. And it's a preoccupant. So, so, that's, so. Apart, no, and

it's an impact enormous, no, but, for example, the person that no, the rapidness with the that he's got with a life, how the family is dissolve, and also how we're exponement

as a citizen. Imagineate, two days disconnected, and know what does, He's, go to the and does it so much

damage, so that's so much anxiety, insecurity, all of this. You know,

you know, have you? Everything. All right. Okay. And, something that is going to

be passing there, because we want to the questions of the , uh,

I'm a accordion. Yeah, we'll know, we're talking, yeah, we're not, the first infancy,

of the use of the , the attitude, of the Reds social and

we we're we're not if there the public has the

importance. The importance. They're going to have to have. See it. It's

important to to show to our children to that they learn

and learn to learn to they're in what they they're very

important to have to have to to all my patients and

all my this this to take a decision, this me

is really or not me convienes? I want to come to eat 10 hamburgas

but me it? No. So, postergo the satisfaction inmediata

and I amu to my health. And you know, a new habit,

or an action distinct every day, every day, every day, me will

be a different to continue in the same, the same,

the So that's of vital importance. Okay. This, me they're

here some people that's what is anxiety progressive anxiety. Ancied

progressive. I don't where they're but so like in the

name are are indicators of an anxiety that that is

that is being being paulatin maybe more more more

more intense. No that is the name so formal. There something

that is a generalized, for example, that starts with an indicator,

no, with an ingredient of a pastel, and then I'm, I'm still,

10, indicators, and I'm formally the trastone of anxiety. The anxiety, like the

addictions, go to less to more, regularly. If no, there's a work,

so it's , you have talked to have talked to do it about, me,

what has been, what has been, what has been, a, as much as how you want to

share this. It has been good because the people that I've seen

that's a co-bihed and has accompanied and has brought

to places where experts in the time they they're they and I

and I do you I'm my work to that in

some other moments has been complex and professionally

and when when regularly when a person when a person

is active, no he's he's the process. I don't go to get to

get to I'm going to a and you're going to get, he's, he's

to robar to have to have to be a process, it's a angustia permanent

that the people really the family gets to get to get to more a way

to the angusia of the desperation of the frustration and obviously

that that's I do to the family I've had more

more than more than this with people people addictas because I'm

very honest. To try a person with an addiction active, you have to have a

formation and a specialization because it's a real, very, very, very great. I don't

say the but it's a specialization, well, you know, that you have to know,

that you have all the word saying, said, NACA, no, one of the

psychoanalysts, the word sana and also the word matter. So, so I don't

have the and I don't know how to accompany adequately that person, can be a part of the water,

so in my experience with jobs, with families, with addicts, if has been difficult for them,

but at final, many, many, if they're in the instructions, if,

if they're in a other, and if they're more than to establish the

dynamic of the family, because it's disulve totally. To you, I'm

getting to my to your side personal, if you're just to contested, no,

it's a thing? You know, you know, you know, or a substance? No. Joven?

Well, alcohol, no? Solomical. Uh-huh. So, you're not? You're not? In occasions,

yes. I'm not. So, but, yeah, because, well, with your

family, so. Yeah, uh, yeah, so, so, so,

so, okay, perfect. Mm-hmm. So, so, because I know,

a, I did I'm going to. To see you, I'll see in the double A, in the group that I'm going, I'm going to, I'm going to learn

of all, of all. And in that, in that case, A, that I'm going, there's a platica,

where there are three types of consumers of alcohol. A bit. The social, that is you, that's you, that's all,

chevere, with the family, a, tranquill, two, three, and yeah. there is the progressive

I think that is that every every every every every single there's him

fierro and there is the other last how is I don't I'm I remember the

name there that's in a has been in a group of a know

that is but is the the the that depends of that all the

days problems more, you know, that's that's regando yeah,

that infiel this than the other. That's the ultimate the bebever. That's the

we have to have to have to get a to get to get to get to that

that's because I remember that in one of the time you have you have

shared a story of a story of a thing in the public

no? So, and it and not a problem because he

take every time but to take to take every time

it's the need to when there's the need to the need to then it's a problem

more when it's a time when it's a same and why not the

social because there are there not I think that's the

beed chronic so yeah that's it's yeah yeah

okay if does say I'm I'm a Pah

of this, oh yeah, respect to the, of the, of the of the, how I'm

you know, Doha Pellos, not you don't you know, no, no, no,

if you put that I'm, I'm, I'm, because one is so, so,

no, no, so, no, so, you're, you're, so,

it's, you know, you're, you know, we're doing a, we're, Fatima,

no, Fata, no, Fattima, like, so, To this. He's a

here. Agarer therapies with psychologists. I don't my question. That if I go to

therapy with psychos? That if you go to a therapy? I'm a singlealalment. I'm okay.

Normally every quantity has a therapy? Depending to the necessity.

But regularly the sessions are seminal when they are certain objectives and they are making

more space. For example every 15 days, every 20, every

a month, and then then then then the other patient. But, well, I'm going to have to

go to be my life because I'm a psychologist. But a person that's a, so, that's,

that's, the ideal is that's a way way a way a way a way, if there's

a situation suicide, when there's a secretive, so when there's certain, certain cases require

a support more, more present, more circano, but naturally it's

every time or every 15 days. Okay. The says here, the assassins

are or they're doing? Good question. Very good question. I'm doing in some

not my speciality. That of the of the assassins not is but I'm

investigating a time and many and many authors said that a

person has seen a car genetic and that depending the

terrain fertile is but for example a person that

his you have the predisposition genetic, but sincerely, I don't me atrego to give a verdict official because not is my

specialization. But my postura is that are a whole group of many factors. You can't try a

cargeneatic like diabetes, but have a good alimentation, to do doport and that's a

second plan. But if is a child a person that, I know,

that has lived situations very complex, could have a brot psychotic

and to an assessino, for example, no? Information valiosa. So,

is. Dice, a theme more traumatic that has to have to have

to be to do. I, the most difficult has been abuse sexual

to be that has been for me complex in your moment because

it's much obligated to lead and it is to

contain a family destrozzasada, but in the therapy of a game, of form literal ludic, to boarder

the theme, no, with much tact. How you do you do that's the process? There's,

there's a thing, is a libritos where they're in figuritas and you make a

red, so you say, you're you're like this, you're more than the things

more social and very little of the body, and then then it has a certain

part of the part of the person, you know, the other the arms comodos and the

uncomodos. And it's and he's a little to get, to get into the time and that they're

saying, if me they've done I've done and I like, and it's going to be

the age, with the with the other people, with muckees, for example, a mukeita that has

got to the rome but behind that the children, sometimes say, yes,

yes, this, he, my abuel and me he went to the

father and he took here. For this the

importance of the education sexual of the children from the

very little very little and you know I

heard a one in a one recently a

two a life a for an an adolescent

of three years his he put put to

name a part of the person what he introduced to his and he put to

that declaration. Lamentably, the justice Mexican, in that case, was it were some hours, I think,

or something, the history, but the point for me, the more important to resaltar is that the child

affected, he was, I'm, and he said, and he could say to his mom, mama,

mama, my, I was this, policeia, me passed this, and

for so proceeded, I think, for the education sexual that his parents have done from because he was a child, if not I remember,

three, four years. That's, and it was. And it was a moment to his mom, he said, I said,

I'm exaggerate, and I'm so, I'm I'm sorry, I, I'm sent me a moment, and then I then I was,

I went, and I was to look to and I, I asked, and, but all the story, so,

so the education sexual, there are many books also very beautiful. Metance

to my Instagram. There I'm apart the numbers. Those

I'll I think are that they're not they're they're to get to

do it or to make it or do it important. The important

is that the children that the children that know their

their private that are the parts publicas that if I like

that I'm a little a a family to

a house of a be that of a abrass, to the

abelos, to the boys, then it's a little bit that's a little bit of your

then the back to the patio, also I'm you'll do you do that's my

my son is an obedient, and the worst that we're not even are the

people, because they're they're not they're they're they're they're they

they're an abusable, no? Obedeasy it's a Pacto, for so my importance to talk

to the grandes because here's different things or here there's impact on

a lot of a lot of a adult and a whole the life. For example, there are

there there's a father and the kid and he says, hey, of who

is this? The is of the muchach or of that? Yes, that's

that's a recommendable. No, because it's sexualized to the children. It's

is stimulars, so of If, if we're to be a ciphras as a

so-to- -all- in the entire the most of the abuse is for

people people or people that's not the part

private to your mom when you do when you when

you I do and I and that more

that the that the that the that the person that

no and when when something you do do do

it doesn't I call and he PID help, no. So, that part of education sexual,

to the children, to the zero to all the years, we have to, have to, because we're, it's very important. So, that's very important.

That's, that's, that's a, that's a real chill. Mandala me, thank you. I was to say that the time

was not, is that interesting. You know, you know, much people will care, second part. There,

if you, is still, that's just, of this, we do, we do we do. So, then,

well, thank you. Because I know, because I know there's there's going to be there, and you're going to

get to get, and you're going to say, Paola, what I'm so, so we're going, so we're

a disculpa to the patients because really, here's there's actually we're really,

we're very thank me for your words, your questions, because me's serving to

me, much people, Al-FIP, to all those who are people who are people

to be in the that are not even to have been to be in to get to get to them

they're saying I'm going to say, I'm going to a one of a question that just here

I think you can you can you can respond with few words, it's

is certain that that family is of the same not could not

to be to be they can't because all we

can but not is recommendable. Why? Because there's, that limit that's,

no. And apart, a lot of the objectivity or that other person, for example, if I'm

to attend to my mom, will say, oh, well, I'm, so, those,

those, things, can't be a problem, maybe, if a family my,

is in crisis, I can attender it, but in a crisis, in a moment, but there a process

therapeutic, not is recommendable, and apart that they are to gogeteeteer. No,

Mentira, plebada. Well, my Paola, other other ways, the reds for you see. Sure,

we are in Facebook, in Instagram, as a center integral familiar, and we're

and we're doing in Villas on the Rue, the Monday to the day

to the day to the time, and the WhatsApp for the Citas is 6-6-7-3-

8-9-10-21. Okay. Citas in on the on the both. Yes,

presensiales and line. Okay. Well, there's there's a little information, Plevada,

that they're to be able to hear of this to hear of the time, but you know, to us,

no, we don't know that's, that's a cost, that's a money, and be for the

mafia and no, no, here no, no, here, this is a whole, mental, and it's

something that is a little, it's all you've got to that's, good, that's

If you're in second part, commenten there to try it. Because yeah, we're going to to come to get her.

He's going to when we're going to go back. Because I'm going to be going to start reading those,

you're doing to the little, the recuperate, you know, you know, he's put to be a

good to be a good for all of all, cures much. Saganon on the

social and you know the the mafias with CTA the U. U.

Z. B. P.E. also I'm Eddard Daniel that the Chiquitin is a working with

his servitor I'm the horny the plebona with CET the last and the bea angel that's

there with the project for you know you is an addictor in recuperation the

the new is the the man who that you that said that said that said

he said he's the person and they're working with us let me want to

to send a one of the one of who wants to get to I'm I'm going I'm in

the heart in the in the heart in the pure carous my amor

oh my god yeah yeah