Love Life with Matthew Hussey - 7 Steps to Guarantee You’ll Kiss Him on New Year’s Eve

Episode Date: December 11, 2015

If I told you right now that the world was going to end if you didn’t find someone special by January 1st, what would you do?  You’d get proactive, that’s what!  So let’s pretend that’s the case, and follow my 7 Simple Steps to Guarantee You’ll Be Kissing Someone Special on New Year’s Eve!  I’ve got easy and fun tasks for you to try out in December – including a couple of genius lines that work on a guy every time.  Be sure you listen to the end of the episode, because I’m going to tell you how to get my free “Kiss Him at Midnight” guide. (KissHimAtMidnight.com)

Welcome to another episode of Love Life. I'm your host, Matthew Hussey. Every few days, I'll be bringing you a new episode filled with practical advice you can use right away to improve all of your relationships, romantic, family, friends, career, and most importantly, the relationship you have with yourself. If you've been listening to me for a while, please do me a favor and leave me a five-star review in iTunes. In the iTunes app or on your desktop, just look up the show, click on ratings and reviews, and then click write a review. I'm not asking for the ego boost. It's simply because the highest rated programs get the most visibility in iTunes, and together we can help reach more women

by helping them find the show. Thank you so much for your help. Let's start the show. Hi guys, it's Matthew Hussey here from Love Life. I have something very special for you today. We are all about putting our money where our mouth is here at Love Life and making sure that you know exactly how to get the results you want and also having a degree of accountability. And as we approach Christmas, the holidays, New Year, I want to make sure that we actually achieve something big by the end of the year. We're not just saying, oh, well, when New Year comes, I'll make some resolutions. So I have a big challenge for you right now. I want us to imagine that if you don't find someone special by the end of this

year, the world is going to end on January 1st. Everything you know, everyone you love is going to be gone after the new year if you don't find someone special by that time. Now, the reason I like this is because as soon as you start thinking this way, you start thinking in terms of how do I guarantee that I meet someone special? How do I make it an inevitability? And that's what I'm about is inevitability. How do you make sure that the result you want in life absolutely guarantees itself instead of hoping or wishing that it's going to happen? So what I've put together for you is a seven-step strategy, seven simple steps that you can follow to guarantee that you'll be kissing someone special at midnight on New Year's Eve.

So the first part, and by the way, this is for you to do over the whole of December. Okay, this isn't for you to do two days before New Year's Eve. This is for you to be doing all the way through this month. The first thing is say yes to all activities. All right, you don't get to say no to anything unless you're double booked socially. So whether it's a weeknight or a weekend, say yes to everything that comes your way. December is a great month because even people without social lives normally have a social life in December because there is so much going on. So say yes to everything. That's number one. Number two, when you're out, when you've said

yes and you're in that social location, spend 90% of your time talking to people that you don't know, not talking to people that you do know. It's going to make all the difference in your love life, I promise you, because even if you meet friends, even if you meet someone who's just interesting, trust me, they have more friends that are like them. Okay, so spend most of your time talking to people you don't know. Third step in this process is have two lines that you can use to go and talk to anyone anytime on autopilot. One of the reasons we don't take risks is because we're terrified of what we, what could I say? Would it be the right thing to say? And we sit there trying to make a decision on what we should say before we go over to someone. So I want to make sure that you have the lines

ready so that you can go into autopilot. You don't have to use these forever. Just think of them like training wheels for December. The first one is a more indirect approach. So this one you can use to go up to a guy or a girl. There might be men listening to this. You can go up to them and say, you know what? You have really great taste. I could use your advice. I'm trying to find a present for my brother, my nephew, my uncle. You have to help me. I have no idea what to get him. Great seasonal little opener there. The second one is more direct. The second one is where you say, I would kick myself if I didn't come and say hello to you. You look like you'd be worth saying hi to, and I hope I'm not wrong. I

hope you're not, you don't turn out to be crazy. And this isn't just the worst decision I've made today. All right. Which is a nice little disqualification technique because it gets them qualifying themselves to you. You know, obviously, as soon as you say that to a guy, his mission is to prove that he's not crazy. And he is, of course, as charming as you thought he might be. So I want you to use both of them whenever you see someone that you're interested in talking to. The fourth step in this seven-step process is to get in touch with three people in your phone book that you don't normally see. So these could be men or women, people you don't know very well, go out for coffee with them, go for a drink with them. The point is by spending time with people you don't normally spend time

with, you'll start getting invited to places you wouldn't normally go. You know, you go out to coffee with someone one day and then you text them in the days after that and you say, hey, you want to come to my thing? And they'll go, maybe, maybe not. But what they will do is say, by the way, I have this great thing that you could come to and they'll invite you to that. So you'll start getting invited to parties where there are whole networks of people you wouldn't normally spend time with. So I'm very excited for you to follow these. I have three more for you. And by the way, I also explained the four that I've already explained to you in more depth. I've had to go really fast right now to get these in for you. But I explain all seven steps in a document that I've created for you that is completely free. I just want you to pick the fruit. I've done all

of the hard work so that you can go out and just get the results. Here's what you need to do to get that. I have created a website called kisshimatmidnight.com. So that's kisshimatmidnight.com. Remember, this is about finding that special someone who you could be kissing on New Year's Eve. So go there now. Check out the three steps you didn't hear about and hear in more detail about the ones you did hear about. Thank you so much for listening. Have a wonderful December trying these things.

And also let us know your results. Hashtag love life. I can't wait to hear about the things that happen as a result of this challenge. Take care, my friends. I'll speak to you soon. I hope you got a lot out of the show today. I know I always do. Coming soon, I've got more amazing shows in store for you,

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