Love Life with Matthew Hussey - (Rewind): Say This to Him Then Watch Him Melt

Episode Date: May 6, 2022

Has this ever happened to you? You’re on a first date... and... He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry… But at the end of the night… he doesn’t ask for a second date (nevermind a third or fourth). If this has happened to you (or keeps happening), you’re likely missing one of the two essential things that make him reach across the table and say: “I’d really like to see you again.” In this clip, I tell you EXACTLY what to say so that he’ll ask you out again (and again, and again)... (You might be surprised at how simple this is AND how often you’re skipping this step when you’re interacting with a guy you like, especially in the early stages of dating...) It’s genuinely crazy to me how obvious the phrase in this video is, how simple it would be for people to say, how many more second dates it would get them… and yet, they still aren’t doing it. I’m excited to read your thoughts in the comments. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [e-mail] --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

And I really believe one of the things that people do wrong in the early stages of dating is that they don't actually show any desire for the other person. Welcome to the Love Life Podcast with me, Matthew Hussey. I wanted to introduce you to an idea I think could really benefit you in your life right now. So I hope you enjoy it. Let me know what you think over iTunes. If you want to leave a review, I very much appreciate them. And now let's get into the episode. We can go on a date and have a great chat with someone, have a great connection, feel like,

oh wow, this was fun. We got on really well. But that doesn't secure the next date. Simply having good conversation on a date isn't necessarily enough to create a second date or a third date. Because when we see someone romantically, there are two things that are really necessary. One is the connection that we often feel when we have great conversation with someone, when we feel like time just flew by. And the other one is the sense that we actually feel desired by that person. And I really believe one of the things that people do wrong in the early stages of dating is that they don't actually show any desire for the other person. They have great conversation. They can talk and talk and talk. Oh my God, three hours passed and we're still talking. But I still don't know if you find me attractive on that level. So how do you do this? Are you ready?

It's revolutionary. Tell them. Tell them that you find them desirable. There's an indirect way to do this. Let's say there was someone that you were particularly attracted to because of their passion about what they do. You could say to someone, when I first met you, I thought your passion was really endearing. Like I really enjoyed that about you. I mean, of course I also sent you a message because I thought you were really handsome, but your passion for what you do, I just found really intriguing. I'm slipping it in there as if it's a side note, but what I'm really telling you is I am sexually attracted to you.

And thereby I'm communicating that A, I am a sexual being, understated in its importance, by the way. And B, it shows that I have it towards you. I really believe that so often things don't progress because people might have a kind of connection, but they don't have chemistry. And even a tiny thing like this can fuel chemistry where before there was only connection. Thank you so much for listening today. I really appreciate you being here. If you want something fun to continue with today until the next episode, I have a free chapter I'm

giving away from my bestselling program, How to Talk to Men. This particular chapter is on flirting. So if flirting is something you want to work on, go download this free chapter now at getthefreechapter.com. That's getthefreechapter.com. I will speak to you in the next episode. Bye.