Love Life with Matthew Hussey - (Rewind): Unsure If The Person You're Dating Is Right For You? Listen To THIS

Episode Date: April 15, 2022

If you find you fall in love too quickly or feel you NEVER fall in love, this clip explains why either extreme might be preventing you from finding a relationship. Whether you want to stop chasing perfection or need to slow down and enjoy gradually getting to know someone new, it is possible to get out of your usual pattern (and enjoy the process!) --- Protect your time, energy & your heart... Reserve Your Space for FREE for My Live "Dating With Results" virtual event on April 19th here → http://www.DatingWithResults.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [e-mail]

What's up, everybody? It's Matthew Hussey with the Love Life Podcast. If you find yourself struggling to know whether someone you're dating is right for you, if you're plagued by indecision, doubt, worrying that you're compatible, not knowing whether to keep investing in this person you're seeing right now, this is going to be an episode that really helps you clarify. It's taken from a live moment from me on stage in one of my live events. We had an audience there in the room with me and I was talking about the early stages of dating and how to know if someone is right for you. I think you're really going to enjoy this.

Check it out and let me know what you think in the reviews on iTunes. And before you start the episode, I want to make sure everybody knows on the 19th of April, that's this month, I am holding a free live training called Dating With Results. It's going to last for about 90 minutes. You're going to be able to see and watch me live coming from LA talking about how to make the most of your dating life this year. If you feel like you've been banging your head against a wall, not getting results, if you feel like you keep dating the wrong people, if you keep getting involved in game playing with people or toxicity, or frankly, people who aren't serious wasting your time,

this session is going to change all of that. It's going to be highly practical. It is going to be me giving you a roadmap for finding love this year, for having your energy actually pay off in this area. All you need to do to register and reserve your spot on this live training is go to datingwithresults.com. I will see you over there. That's datingwithresults.com. If you have to pause the episode right now, go over there, register, and then come right back and listen to the episode. Now join me in this moment of me on stage

in one of my live events. When you are actually ready to know who someone is and to, and to sort through that. I don't mean sort through if they bring you immense trauma and toxicity and all of that's not your job to sort through that. But I mean to, to, you know, that, that gradual illuminating of who we are that happens when you actually take time with someone to get to know them and they get to know you. And, you know, sometimes there are things where you're like, don't love that. Don't love that. But you see that the raw materials that they have

are actually very, very good. They're quite beautiful. See that the raw materials that they have are actually very, very good. They're quite beautiful. Again, I'm not saying there's a giant red flag that gets thrown up, but you say, but they're really attractive and we have great chemistry. I'm not saying that. I'm saying when you can see that someone's, who they are as a human being and the kind of teammate they would be is really solid and and then

it's the business of of knowing what you're willing to make peace with and of course we always we tend to forget this someone else is going to have to make peace with certain parts of us right we don't we don't come perfect they were a friend of mine in London went through the thing you know where he his mom he kept leaving relationships over and over and over again and his mom said to him you know what's going on he said I just I feel like you know there's always something better there's always I there's, you know, there's more, there's, I shouldn't have to settle. I could get everything in one person. And she said, I hate to be the one to break it to you, but you're not perfect.

What you're asking for right now, you're not bringing. and and so I think that there's a when people fall in love too quickly I often think they're not ready and when people never fall in love I Often think they're not ready Both can be true Because if we never fall if we never like anybody it's almost we're discounting people all the time on things that we perhaps shouldn't be discounting them on. Assuming we're in the dating game. If we're meeting one person a year, then everybody is in a great sample group. But if you are in the process of meeting people, dating, getting to know people,

we, you know, there's, there really is, there's beauty in people. There's beauty in people and people come alive when they feel seen and understood and not judged. I hope you enjoyed that moment, everyone. Thanks for listening. And again, make sure before you go anywhere, you sign up to that Dating With Results live training that's happening on the 19th of April by going to datingwithresults.com. See you in the next episode.