Love Life with Matthew Hussey - The Cutest Way EVER to Get His Attention

Episode Date: December 12, 2016

It’s kind of ridiculous, when you think about it, just how much time and energy we waste stressing over how to make the perfect first move. What would happen if we just dropped the pretense and showed a little interest, for God’s sake? In today’s episode, I’m taking you back to basics with the simplest – and CUTEST – flirtation that will immediately get a guy’s attention. It’s brilliant because it puts the power in your hands to make the first move, but it’s so irresistible that, suddenly, he’ll be the one chasing you. 

Hello everybody, this is Matthew Hussey with Love Life. I have an incredible show for you today, but I want to make sure you listen right to the end, because I'm going to give you a special gift. A foolproof way to become the most intriguing woman in any man's life, and you're not going to want to miss it. So I was at a swimming pool recently in the daytime, which is something you get to do in Los Angeles. I know that's tough for the rest of the world, but it just is one of the bonuses of being here. You don't really do it that often, by the way. So if you are jealous, don't worry. It never actually happens. I happened to be at a personal training session where my trainer had duped me because he said,

oh, we're going to train over at the Roosevelt pool today. And I thought there was a gym there. I got there. It turns out he just really wanted to be around all of the girls at the pool. And I ended up swimming laps. So that was my lunchtime. But something happened while I was there that I thought was very interesting. And it's the most obvious way to get someone you're attracted to, to talk to you. And I know that it's going to sound obvious when you hear it, but oh my God, it just works. So here's what you do. I was, I was watching, he was, he was, I'm swimming laps in the pool, right? He's on the side. He looks over at a group of women and this is a group of women. So ladies, it's not easy for a

guy to just walk into a group of seven women, right? That's hard. So here's what he did. He looked over and he saw this one woman that he was attracted to and him and her kept looking at each other, but nothing happened. She didn't come over because of course she doesn't want to embarrass herself by walking out of a group of friends to over to one guy. He doesn't want to embarrass himself by going over to that big group of friends and having a bunch of girls giggle at him while he tries and hits on one of them. So it's a very difficult situation. By the way, many relationships are lost out on because in this situation where two people are both looking at each other, it's a stalemate. No one does anything. So here's what happened next. He was smart enough to pull this one little move. And I just think it's magical and everyone should use it he looked over at her

after 10 minutes of them looking at each other and he knew that we it was nearing that time where we were about to leave so he looked over again and this time he gestured for her to come over in a kind of in a kind of come hither fashion and as he did it he kind of he kind of mouthed like come over and she looked over and she what do you think she did by the way do you think she just ran And as he did it, he kind of mouthed like, come over. And she looked over and she, what do you think she did, by the way? Do you think she just ran over? No, she did the exact same thing back to him. She goes, no, you come over.

And she started waving him over. Now they're back in a stalemate, right? But here's what happened a couple of minutes later. He did it again. She then did it again. And in fact, she went one step further and she cleared a couple of minutes later. He did it again. She then did it again. And in fact, she went one step further and she cleared a couple of towels off of the sunbed next to her and patted it and said, like, come sit here. He then walks over, sits on the bed next to her. They start speaking. This would never have happened without that one gesture for her or for him to say, come over.

Now, ladies, you can do this as well. This isn't just a male move. If you've been looking at a guy for a while, whether you're in a bookshop, coffee shop, bar, it doesn't matter, daytime or nighttime. You've been looking at someone for a while. You can gesture for them to come over. Now, I know you're thinking, what am I going to say if he actually does come over? Well, here's what you do. Firstly, you don't say, I just had this really important question to come over. Now, I know you're thinking, what am I going to say if he actually does come over? Well, here's what you do. Firstly, you don't say, I just, I had this really important question to ask you. You don't go into weird, serious mode. When he comes over, you just say, I just

wanted to say hi. You go cute with it. I just wanted to say hi and let him now take the lead because you're now not doing the work for him. He's doing the work. He's come over. You said you just wanted to say hi. The onus is on him now to carry on the conversation. But guess what? He's doing it from a place of knowing that you wanted him to come over. That's something us guys very rarely get the privilege of, right? We look around all the time. I was in Vegas with a buddy recently. We were looking around. There were people looking at each other all the time. And we said to each other, wouldn't it be great if everyone just had a sign on their head that said, I'm attracted to you or no, I'm not attracted to you. If you knew for sure the people that were attracted, you just go straight over there.

Well, that's what this little hand wave does. Ladies, I promise you guys are going to love you for this. They're still doing the work because guess what? They're walking across the room to talk to you. You're the one gesturing like this queen for someone to come over. You're doing nothing. It's easy. Do it. Stop being a baby. That's it. I'll see you soon. By the way, if you're not following me on Facebook, go to facebook.com forward slash coach Matthew Hussey, I will see you there. intriguing woman in his life, get him to finally ask you out, reignite his interest if things cool down, and a lot more. But be warned, these texts are so powerful, he won't be able to stop thinking about you. So if you're okay with that, get your free guide now by going to lovelifepodcast.com forward slash texts.