Marketing Secrets with Russell Brunson - The Science of Scaling with Dr. Benjamin Hardy - Part 2 | #Success - Ep. 103

Episode Date: January 7, 2026

Part one of this two part series with Dr. Benjamin Hardy here on The Russell Brunson Show reframed how scaling actually works. Part two forces the decisions most people avoid. In this episode, Dr. Har...dy challenges the comfort zones that quietly cap growth.  This conversation is about the choices that separate people who stay busy from those who actually scale. It’s about why bigger futures demand cleaner focus, fewer priorities, and the courage to let go of paths that no longer fit. If you have ever felt like you’re doing a lot but still hitting an invisible ceiling, this episode explains why. Key Highlights: ◼️Why impossible goals force clarity by eliminating dead-end paths, complexity, and unfocused effort ◼️How stretch goals shift attention away from old routines and toward entirely new strategies and partnerships ◼️The danger of optimizing for activity instead of results and how systems always produce what they’re designed for ◼️Why scaling requires applying the power law by finding one “super who” instead of doing linear work yourself ◼️How raising your floor means letting go of good opportunities, old identities, and even businesses you love The real danger is not failing. It’s staying successful at a level that no longer matches your potential. This episode will push you to question what you’re holding onto, what you’re tolerating, and what needs to change if you want a different future.  If part one helped you see the problem, part two gives you the pressure to act! Listen closely, because once you hear this, it becomes much harder to keep playing small! ◼️If you’ve got a product, offer, service… or idea… I’ll show you how to sell it (the RIGHT way) Register for my next event →⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://sellingonline.com/podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ◼️Still don’t have a funnel? ClickFunnels gives you the exact tools (and templates) to launch TODAY → ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://clickfunnels.com/podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Do you have a funnel, but it's not converting? The problem 99.9% of the time is that your funnel is good, but you suck at selling. If you want to learn how to sell so your funnels will actually convert, then get a ticket to my next selling online event by going to sellingonline.com slash podcast. That's selling online.com slash podcast. What's up, everybody? I hope you guys enjoyed the last episode with Dr. Benjamin Hardy, the first part of the science of scaling. This next episode is the exciting conclusion of this presentation. these presentations that he gave while he was at Mastermind in Paradise, he'd just written
Starting point is 00:00:33 the book, Science of Scaling, he was talking about the science behind how to scale our businesses. And it's such a fascinating, timely thing. And I hope you guys really enjoy the part two of this presentation from Dr. Benjamin Hardy. This is the Russell Brunson Show. One of the things that I also want to actually say is that when you come to environments like this, you guys are in Cancun, you're out of your, you're out of your environment. this is what's called an enriched environment. The purpose of an enriched environment is to transform you.
Starting point is 00:01:06 But it's your choice. You can keep bringing your old environment back in and being distracted. The purpose of this environment, which Russell has engineered and which you all came here for, was to come and walk away different, with a different model, a different reality, a different, I hope it wouldn't be just a different tactic. I would hope you would come with a different future,
Starting point is 00:01:25 which leads to a different strategy. And then from there, the tactics you can select those tactics. So let me go into the science on impossible goals. So this is the definition. In the literature, it's called stretch goal. This is both in the management and the psychological literature. This is an article by Dr. Simpsett, Kenneth Duke, phenomenal. He researches such really, really good things.
Starting point is 00:01:48 He says, we define a stretch goal as an organizational goal with an objective probability of attainment that may be unknown. So the objective probability of attainment is unknown, but it is seemingly impossible given your current capabilities, which are your current practices, your current skills, your current knowledge. So a stretch goal is an impossible goal, which you don't know how to solve. Whether it's $100 million, $100 million for years, whether it's $5 million, $10 million, whatever your impossible goal is, it's one you don't know how to do.
Starting point is 00:02:14 A lot of people, so Dan Sullivan, who's one of my dear friends, who I wrote three books, he says, Ben, everyone wants confidence, almost no one wants courage. everyone wants confidence in the beginning they want assurance i'm not going to set the impossible goal because i don't know how to do it i want assurance ben okay so you want confidence you don't want courage so you can't have confidence you can have confidence in your past you can't build confidence towards the future courage commitment courage are how you start to build that knowledge those capabilities it's how you start to find and filter for those pathways it's how you start to build real confidence.
Starting point is 00:02:55 Confidence is earned. People want confidence right now. I'm not going to set that goal because I don't know how to do it. I don't know if it's going to work. I don't know how, okay, cool. So this is Dr. Denise Rousseau. Because stretch, oh, this is super important.
Starting point is 00:03:09 This is super important. So because stretch goals involve extreme redefinitions. And by the way, I will let Russell's team share my slides. You can have these slides. So you can keep taking pictures if you want to send them to people, but you can have these slides. Also, you know, I have a link that takes you straight to the audiobook of the science of scaling.
Starting point is 00:03:35 You can have that too. My publisher actually told me I could give it away for free. So I want all of you to listen to it. So you can have these slides. So let me read this because this is super important. It says because stretch goals involve extreme, not minor, extreme redefinitions of what an organization is capable of being. or achieving, they can capture, shift, and refocus attention. Everything I've been talking about with frame is about where's your attention?
Starting point is 00:04:01 What are you focusing on? Where's the signal versus the noise, right? So these goals that I'm talking about, they require you to redefine yourself. Rather than being this or these 50 things, you're this. You do this for this person, right? In the book Relentless by Tim Grover, he was talking about Kobe Bryant. Kobe Bryant says, I do this, I get out numbers. I get triple doubles. He didn't say I do 50 things. He said, I do this. The impossible goal forces you to define yourself more clearly to the
Starting point is 00:04:36 marketplace so that you stop being, so that you stop being noise. If you're doing five different things, your noise. No one can see you. They can see the person speaking clearly and honestly and truthfully. If you're, if you're doing too many different things, what that says is that you're You're not clear on your future, you're hedging your bets, you're pursuing impossible or you're pursuing lesser goals, and you're not committed. The quotation continues, according to Denise Rousseau, where performance expectations are elevated well beyond the limits of past experience and where previously successful frameworks are questioned, revised, or discarded. it. Prior experience is often a poor guide to stretch goal achievement, and this shifts the performers' attention away from old routines and assumptions towards novel and creative approaches. Those are pathways. So until you go for the impossible goal that redefines you,
Starting point is 00:05:36 you're not going to be filtering or finding the pathways and the partners that could take you to 10x or more in less than three years. This is the thing that I've seen, Even for companies doing hundreds of millions, you can 10x in less than three years. Some companies, some people who have talked to me and read 10x is easier than 2x, they walked up to me and said, Ben, I read that book and I have 52X to my company. The last two years. So you can do this, but it's not going to be on your current path. You can take aspects of your current path, but we've got to find the crux.
Starting point is 00:06:07 We've got to have a simple system. We've got to be more defined, clear and more better defined. So your goal shapes your psychology. your goal shapes the system you build. This is just, and I'm not going to go too deep into it. We're going to move into one or two more case studies, and then I'm going to give you guys some time. We're going to listen to some Tyco.
Starting point is 00:06:26 We're going to do some journaling. We're going to do some Q&A. But this is just, this is a really good book on systems theory, systems dynamics. And it's all about how you can build a system that's based on the wrong thing. Actually, they call it Good Heart's Law. Good Heart's Law in statistics is basically the idea that you get what you're optimizing for.
Starting point is 00:06:53 And the problem happens when you start optimizing for inputs rather than outputs. What I mean by that is when you're optimizing for, I need to do this thing, right? I need to go on this path, right? And so what it says at the bottom is it says, be especially careful. This is the last sentence on this page. be especially careful not to confuse effort with result, or you will end up with a system that is producing effort, not result. Right.
Starting point is 00:07:20 So, Goodheart's law is the idea that your system is going to give you exactly what you tell it to give you. The problem is you might be optimizing for the wrong thing. You might be optimizing for something that's generating a lot of movement, but not a lot of progress. Think about it. All of you have spent a lot of the last 12. 12, 36 months, doing a lot of things.
Starting point is 00:07:46 What is the system optimizing for? You have a bigger goal. You shape a different system. You could get 10x or 100 X the results. So this is further Dr. Richard Remelt. He says having conflicting goals, dedicating resources to unconnected targets, and accommodating incompatible interests
Starting point is 00:08:08 are the luxuries of the rich and powerful, but they make for bad strategies. strategy is at least as much about what an organization does not do as it is about what it does even Michael Porter Dr. Michael Porter at Harvard who invented the field of competitive strategy back in the 80s said that strategy is essentially what you don't do Steve Jobs said the same thing about focus strategy is scarcity's child and to have a strategy rather than vague aspirations is to choose one path and a shoe others.
Starting point is 00:08:47 Unfortunately, good strategy is the exception, not the rule. And he further actually said that you can know good strategy when it surprises you. When you see something that's surprising and non-expected, I'm not saying that's always good strategy, but where you see something, where good strategy is, the unexpected will happen because they're going a different way. I remember when I let go of my YouTube channel about a year and a half, and people were like, man, I watch the YouTube every day. How can you do that? I said, because it's bad strategy towards my future self. It's not going to get me to my goal. It's a
Starting point is 00:09:22 dead end path for me. It might not be a dead end path for you, but for the goal that I had, it was a dead end path. Even if I scaled that pathway up 100x and I had 10 million YouTube followers, it would not deliver me the result I wanted. It would be the optimizing of something that shouldn't exist. And so I surprised my audience and I surprised people and I walked away from that. And I walked away from other things, even my collaboration with Dan, because they were dead-end paths to my much higher frame, it became below the floor. There might be a gut punch for some of you, maybe not. So Jim Collins said, just because something is your core business, just because you've been doing it for years or decades, doesn't mean you can be the best in the world
Starting point is 00:10:01 at it. If you cannot be the best in the world at your core business, then your core business absolutely cannot form the basis of a great company. Good is the enemy of great. So oftentimes you have, and I'm not saying this is true of everyone, but often you're holding on to the old wave and you're unwilling to jump to the new wave, which requires a new identity, a new psychology, new strategy. This is Alicia Alt. I know that some of you have heard her story on the audiobook time as a tool, but just to make her story simple, Alicia for 20 years had a coaching company in the credit space. She's, by the way, just like one of the nicest people you'll ever meet.
Starting point is 00:10:42 So she had a coaching company in the credit space, and she would work one-on-one with people helping them improve their credit scores so that they could achieve financial goals, like getting a house or getting out of certain bad situations with their credit. And she invented this technology called level-up score. She wanted to do it for 10 years before she did anything about it. But 10 years later, she finally made the technology. So in 2019, she partnered with a who.
Starting point is 00:11:08 And by the way, if you want to get much faster progress, you want to get a who rather than requiring yourself to do all the how. If you were still requiring yourself to do everything, you're not going to scale. You need really good partners. And the bigger the goal, the better partners you'll need. I'll show you that in a second. But in her case, she partnered with a who created the software,
Starting point is 00:11:26 level up score, and this software was game-changing for the credit space. This is the only technology that if I'm someone who wants to improve my credit, I tell them first my goal. Here's what I want. I want a $200,000 loan so I can get a house. And then I input my data and it gives me my credit score and my goal. And it says, here's the path. And it's actionable.
Starting point is 00:11:50 It's tailored. It gives you vetted resources. Here's good credit cards, et cetera. It gives you an algorithmic good path based on your current credit and your current goal. nothing like this exists in the credit space. Instead, there are 50,000 credit repair companies in the United States, 50,000 credit repair companies in the United States that are very expensive and that don't give you tailored guidance.
Starting point is 00:12:13 So she created a simple technology that does that. But she did this back in 2019, and she's very busy in her coaching business. She's got a bunch of kids, and she can't do it because she's too busy. So it wasn't until last year that she finally did. are decided to focus on this because she knew that this could scale her coaching one-on-one business never could. And this was something that could actually make a big impact in the whole world. It might even change an entire field. But she loves those clients. She loves her clients so much that if she focuses on this, what does that mean for the clients that she loves?
Starting point is 00:12:49 Would she be betraying them in order to do something that might change an industry? And so anyways, she started to focus on this, and she called those 50,000 credit repair companies one by one, one-on-one, cold calls, and she explained level-up score, and every one of them said, I love it, we're going to use it, and they create a partnership, and they each got a few bucks every time that someone would use this and do an output. We then started to talk to Alicia. She learned frame floor focus, and we said, this goal is, you need a scale goal, Alicia. you need a goal that's going to get you to stop doing most of your current process. We need you to have a goal that's going to allow you to focus on this company and scale it because it's really important. And we want you to scale this company.
Starting point is 00:13:33 And so she said, okay, I'm going to go for 100 companies using this software. A hundred of those 50,000 are going to use my software in the next 90 days. And she realized that that was a cop out. That was not an impossible goal. That was a goal that allowed her to keep cold calling, people out of fear. That was a goal that allowed her to stay busy on her existing path. And so what happened was she said, okay, I'm going to set a real impossible goal.
Starting point is 00:13:56 I'm going to go for 1,000 of these software companies using level up score in 90 days. And then it hit her like a ton of bricks that she didn't know how to do it. She knew how to get to 100 because all she could do was cold call. And that would take her 100 hours. It would take a long time on top of her full-time practice, on top of getting her kids to school,
Starting point is 00:14:16 on top of going to church. She would make those 100 calls. Once she moved the goal to, I'm going to have a thousand. I'm going to go from 10 to 1,000, and 90 days. She had to sit on it. And she had to think about it, pray about it, journal about it. This is a really good quote from Buckminster Fuller.
Starting point is 00:14:35 He says you don't change things by fighting the existing reality. Fighting the existing reality means you're taking the present and you're trying to like force it into the future. That's not how you change. Instead, you have to have a new model that makes the old model obsolete. That new model is your future. Peter Drucker said this. A lot of people have said this. You need a future that allows you to simplify your presence,
Starting point is 00:14:58 allows you to raise your floor, allows you to be a little bit more honest with yourself, allows you to make powerful moves that maybe you've been thinking about for a long time. Or maybe that you weren't even aware. So what happened back to Alicia was that when she moved the goal from 100 of these companies using her software to 1,000,
Starting point is 00:15:17 she couldn't get there with her old path. She couldn't make 1,000 cold calls in 90 days. It was a physical impossibility. So she had to find a better path, and she had to find different people. Rather than going straight to the credit repair companies, she needed to say, what's a different path? What's a different way to get 1,000 of these credit repair companies
Starting point is 00:15:37 using my software rather than 100? And when you think from the goal, remember, when the goal is bigger, it allows you to filter the present better. And so when the goal is bigger, it forces you to find different paths and different people, different partners, right, that you can't find that you won't find
Starting point is 00:15:53 from a linear small goal. And so from that better goal, and remember, the purpose of the goal is to be a tool to allow you to find better paths. She then realized there are already other software companies, and she did not think about this before. She only thought about this when thinking from the goal. Your goal shapes how you even think about life.
Starting point is 00:16:14 It shapes how you filter, how you frame, right? And so she thought there are other software companies in the credit space that not only have thousands of clients, they have tens of thousands of clients of these credit repair companies. What if I just partnered with one of them? Again, rather than needing a thousand fish,
Starting point is 00:16:30 what if I just partnered with one of these software companies that already serves thousands of these? I only need one fish. I need one partner. That's a better path. That's a more leveraged path. Finding one who that's worth a thousand. There's a book on that called the 80-20.
Starting point is 00:16:49 individual, which I wish I had read when I wrote 10x is easier than 2x. So one who can get you to your goal. I call those super whos. So she then, a week later, was having a conversation with a guy who has a company called Credit Repair Junkies. That man with his software helps improve the client experience for 8,000 of these credit repair companies. It's a software.
Starting point is 00:17:13 She explained to him, level up score. He fell in love with it, said, this is going to change. changed the game. They formed a partnership. He merged it in large part with his technology. And boom. In one week, she went from 10 of these credit repair companies using level up score to over 8,000 using that software. That's called strategy. That's called Pathways Thinking. That's called, right? Cheer for Alicia. Cheer for this beautiful, amazing woman who was willing to do that. You will hear in my interview, it's on time as a tool. It's on the audiobook. I interview her, you can hear her voice, her prayers, the things that she did, she's just a
Starting point is 00:17:53 kind soul, but she ate 100 extra business in a week by a better strategy. And she did sell her coaching practice that she loved. She let go of her beautiful clients, which she loved, so that she could scale. Most people aren't willing to do that. Most people are committed to their existing model. they're not willing to actually scale. What I'm saying is, if you choose to scale, it will require you, yes, to let go of your existing model,
Starting point is 00:18:26 not all of it, maybe some of it. It will force you back to that thing that Jim Collins said to become great. It will force you to get really, really good at what you do and to do something very important than no one else is doing and is far more defined, far more specific, less general, less complex. It will force you to do something maybe you don't think you can do.
Starting point is 00:18:51 That's what happens when you let the future shape the present is you start to transform. You start to become a different person. You start to develop capabilities and skills that people in the past would have never thought you would do. They would have never thought that you could become that person. It doesn't really matter. It's just a tool. So to the idea of super who's. and then we're going to go to fairly shortly some exercises.
Starting point is 00:19:21 This is a book written by Reed Hastings. He invented, well, they bought Netflix, and then they scaled it, right? They bought it essentially when it was like competing against Blockbuster, and it was like little red things on the outside of Walgreens. He bought it, and it was not doing well, and then they scaled it. What he basically says here and again, you get these slides. If you look at the top paragraph, he says, I had a choice. Well, he said, I had a choice.
Starting point is 00:19:51 I could hire 10 or 25 average engineers. And he was talking about they were very low on cash. It was not looking good. He said, I could hire 10 or 25 average engineers or I could hire one rock star and pay significantly more than I would pay the others if necessary. Since then, I have come to see that the best programmer doesn't add 10 times the value. she adds more like a hundred times the value, right? Like I said, they actually called us the power law.
Starting point is 00:20:18 It's similar to the 80-20 principle. The power law is that the very few almost create all the results. In the S&P 500, there's seven companies that account for the majority of the U.S. economy or a lot of the U.S. economy, right? So when it comes to scaling, right, Alicia was looking for the wrong people until she went and applied the power law and got one person that got her 8,000, right? So what, and it's in the same quote, right?
Starting point is 00:20:46 He actually quotes Bill Gates. I steal the quote and I make it easier to read. Bill Gates said, a great software writer is worth 10,000 times more than an average software writer. That's the power law. Some companies generate 10,000 X an average company. Some writers sell 10,000 X an average writer, right? Some ads perform 10,000 X an average ad, right?
Starting point is 00:21:10 And so the question is, are you filtering and applying the power law or are you being linear and doing a lot of things that are average, right? In order to scale, you've got to apply that power law, which is exactly what Elysia did. Her goal required her to apply the power law and find a better path and find very superhoo's. Not just a regular who, someone that creates 10,000 X the results of just a regular who. And you don't need a thousand superhoo's. You might need one or two. But those one or two are going to change. your business. They're going to change your trajectory. And one of the things that really stops
Starting point is 00:21:46 people is that they need to be that center. They need to be the center of the business. And so because of that, they can't, they can't get those superhoo's. Because those superhoo's are partners. They change the game. They make 10x, 100 X, 1,000 X results doable because they bring the pathways with them. This is a really good book by John Doer. He's a billionaire venture capitalist, but he said a goal properly set is halfway reached. The reason for that, back to Elysia,
Starting point is 00:22:17 is because the goal properly set forces out the dead ends. It forces out the complexity. It forces out the lesser goals, and it forces you to be more honest, and it forces you to find only those pathways that can scale. It forces you to create a better model. Forces you to become more defined.
Starting point is 00:22:32 To the point of defined, and this is my last bit, before I give you guys a few journal prompts and we do some Q&A. This is Mark Young. Mark Young has an advertising agency called Jekyll and Hyde advertising. He is incredible. I love Mark Young.
Starting point is 00:22:46 He would love this room, right? He's big into advertising and marketing. So he's been in business for 30 years. Jekyll and Hyde has been in business for 30 years. They do $20 million in revenue, or they did when he read the science of scaling. What he realized when he read the science of scaling is that they, had fallen below the floor and that they had become diluted in their focus. What Jekyll and Hyde is, is they are the best in the world, and maybe even the only solution
Starting point is 00:23:16 in the world, that can get physical products like this into stores like Walgreens, right? They can get watches, paste, whatever. They are really good at getting physical products into retail stores, Walmart, Walgreens, et cetera, and then scaling those products through mass media, which is television. advertising. They are so good at that. Then honestly, he said that there's really not even a plan B for people who really want to do that. The problem for Mark is this. He got caught in a lot of FOMO. He said he heard that the world's going digital, right? And so they better leverage their bet or hedge their bets and start offering different services like Amazon ads or social media
Starting point is 00:24:01 ads. And so they began offering a multitude of different services, which diluted their focus, but also went away from their core philosophy of business. They stopped being signal. They started to become confusing. And so when he read this, he realized that we had created complexity in our business. We'd created diluted focus. And our clients, many of our clients who are below the floor, don't even know what we really offer.
Starting point is 00:24:28 So he went to his clients and he said, like one of his clients was on an Amazon ads campaign. And he was on a retainer, thousand bucks a month. And Mark went to that person and he said, I want to apologize to you. We offered you a lesser service because you asked for it. But if you go down this path, your business is not going to succeed. That was our fault, not yours. We're sorry. We were unclear on who we were. And therefore, we offered you a bad path. And we did it because you asked for it. But we don't offer that anymore. We're getting rid of these services. This is who we really are. We're going to help you take your, you know, your eye wax, your ear wax or whatever
Starting point is 00:25:10 product, and we're going to help you get it into Walgreens and Walmart. We're going to help you scale this thing rather than from doing $300,000 a year to $300 million a year. But in order to do that, you have to bring us a lot more money, and you've got to be a lot more committed to this. And if you want to stay on your bad path, then this is where we go different ways. And we're sorry that we got you in this situation. He took ownership. Remember, accountability in the system. Because his goal was, when what happened was, And I apologize. Before he did that, he actually set the impossible goal.
Starting point is 00:25:40 That's what allowed him to get clear. Again, it took him 30 years to get to 20 million. He decided, I'm going to get to 100 million, which is a 5x, in less than three. But again, like, that's a radical change. Like, it took 30 years to get here, and all of a sudden, so he said, I'm going to get to 100 million in three years. And so it was by doing that that he realized the only way they could get there was with their focused path of becoming truly the best in the world at what,
Starting point is 00:26:04 they do. Getting physical products into stores and scaling them through mass media, not doing what everyone else is doing in the Red Ocean. They're going to go a different way. And so with that honesty and integrity, first with his team, first with himself, then with his team, then with his clients, he then began to strip out the stuff that was below the floor and tell his clients that were below the floor. Either you come up here to this service, which is literally 100x more expensive and we'll take your success rate up infinitely or we just got to go our separate ways and you can go work with someone else. Here's some really good referrals. You can go work with these people. They offer those services. In less than two months of raising his floor and fully defining
Starting point is 00:26:45 themselves as a business, they had pipeline business of over 50 million and business that wasn't there before because he wasn't filtering for it. And he said, Ben, I imagine. in myself because we stopped looking for that business. We stopped looking for it, right? You get what you're looking for. And so within two months, they had a pipeline of 50 million revenue. He's a race car driver. He said that's already in the windshield. Like, he's like, it's done. He's like, we're going to be at 50 million revenue in about three or four months. And he said, and he said, my 100 million goal in three years was a small goal. He said, we're going to be there in about 12 to 18 months. Because he was willing to define himself. He's willing to define himself. He's
Starting point is 00:27:28 willing to reduce the complexity and the dilution, he was willing to build a focused model and to own it, and it becomes signal, not noise. This is making sense. This makes sense. You guys can do this. This is the science of scaling. You can absolutely do it, but you'd have to have the goal to do it. If you don't have a goal to do it, you're not going to probably get there.
Starting point is 00:27:53 All right. 30 minutes until lunch. I want to give you a few exercises and then just answer. a few questions and we'll call it, is that cool? Let's kick on some Tyco. Apply your journals. We're going to rip just a few questions. I'm going to throw a timer on my phone.
Starting point is 00:28:09 I invite you to be fast with these. Again, you get the slides. I'm going to just give you a few minutes. Just don't overcomplicate it. Just write down what comes to your mind, bullets, scratch. Just allow yourself to use this as a tool. So this is the first set of questions. I'm just going to throw out the full set and give you two minutes' stance with these.
Starting point is 00:28:30 Where are you still operating linearly in your life? That means letting the past shape the present and future. In what ways are you letting your past define you and your goals? What are you still optimizing which shouldn't exist? Whoops. So we'll just stick with that. Give yourself two minutes on those questions. And I love the quote from Alcoholics Anonymous.
Starting point is 00:28:52 All progress starts by telling the truth. Just write this for yourself. No one else is involved. Just write this down, whatever comes to your mind. All right. I'm going to kind of go quick, but these are just primers for you. Next questions. Let me get you guys two minutes on these questions as well.
Starting point is 00:29:10 We're going to go through actually multiple series of questions. So I actually want you to go back. Just thinking about transforming your past, reframing your past. I actually want to give you guys a second and think back on where you were in 2020. And that's a very different question. I want you to go back and just look at these questions. Going back to, you know, right at the peak, like, the peak of, like, just the pandemic. What are the biggest changes in your life and in you since 2020?
Starting point is 00:29:41 Be specific. Most important experiences you've had in the last five years. Most important growth in learning. This is always a fun one. How would your 2020 self think about your life right now? Just mess with that for two minutes, two minutes. What's different between now? Now in 2020.
Starting point is 00:29:59 Most important growth and experiences, what would shock your past self if they saw it? All right. Same thing, but only 90 days ago. I want to go back 90 days, say March of 2025. Actually, go back. What the heck was going on in March of 2025? And then that takes a second to think about, whoa, what happened?
Starting point is 00:30:21 Where were you in March of 2025? What are the biggest changes that have happened in the last 90 days? in yourself, your life, biggest forms of progress. Biggest forms of learning, maybe where you've raised your floor and let go of certain things, maybe where you've generated pathways? I don't know. What's happened in the last 90 days?
Starting point is 00:30:39 But also, what would your past stuff 90 days ago think if they could see a few of the things that have happened? Is there anything that's happened in the last 90 days that your past stuff would have thought were impossible? Just give yourself about two minutes to really think on what happened in the last 90 days. take one more minute remember it takes agency in the present
Starting point is 00:31:02 to elevate the value of the past you actually have to think about it you can't just I can't think of anything no it's like what actually happened in the last 90 days there's some important things that have happened that are crucial but we got to mine that gold what actually has changed in the last 90 days that's that's very important in your life and in your business there's a lot there there's very important things that have happened
Starting point is 00:31:26 in the last 90 days. Monumental things have happened for you in the last 90 days. What were those things? Okay, so using the future as a tool. Just do this as a tool. Don't get stressed about it. Don't get freaked out about it. I want you to think about an impossible goal for yourself.
Starting point is 00:31:48 Remember, it's just a tool. It's even just a draft. You don't have to get stuck to it. You don't have to commit to it. But what would a scale goal be for your company? either taking your existing goal and making a 10 or 100 X bigger or taking a massive timeline of
Starting point is 00:32:01 8, 10, 12, 15 years and moving it to 2 or 3. That's your choice, right? Either make your goal bigger or make the timeline shorter or do both. Sometimes you can keep the goal, right? Xavier's was 100 million. He just moved it forward, right?
Starting point is 00:32:20 So I want you to make an impossible goal for yourself just for the sake of filter, and using it as a tool. Mess with that for a minute. Oh, wait. And then basically, after you've decided that, think about what goes below the floor and based on that future,
Starting point is 00:32:37 what would an efficient model in Path be, including Super Hoos. I'm going to give you two minutes. Just think about that. This is called strategy. All right. Last set of questions. Help you guys like journaling.
Starting point is 00:32:50 I think it's very powerful, personally. All right. I told you guys the crux of scaling is raising your floor. This is the hardest part because people are empathetic. We get attached to things. We love. We even get to attach to things we know are mediocre. We do, but we don't let them go.
Starting point is 00:33:12 The crux of scaling is raising your floor. The crux of going from amateur to professional is raising your floor. The difference between Steph Curry and some basketball player you don't know is that Steph Curry's floor is much higher. He consistently performs at the level that the other player gets there like once every 30 games. The next 90 days operating from a different future, a better future. What would you eliminate? In the next 90 days operating from your future, not your pasts.
Starting point is 00:33:44 What would you elevate or renegotiate? Sometimes it's not all about eliminating. It's sometimes just about renegotiating. Raising the floor and the responsibility. and how things operate in certain relationships. What's the scariest thing you're considering raising the floor on? Just take two minutes to think about what's below the floor, creating complexity in your life and business,
Starting point is 00:34:12 stopping, honestly, keeping you a little bit more stagnant, keeping you a little bit more stagnant than you'd like to admit, stopping you from creating a better path in a model. this is the crux of the matter is raising the floor most people i've found either are unwilling to do this or delay doing this for too long and they miss the waves that life gives them and they stay on a wave for too long because they're not willing to let go of what they the majority of what they're doing so you missed the waves of transformation which each wave would require a different you a more elevated more evolved
Starting point is 00:34:54 version of you. Take 90 seconds on this. Take like 40 more seconds. Radical honesty and transparency with yourself, at least about what's below the floor. Or if you're operating more from a better future, what would become a dead end? It's a really good book on this called Quit by Annie Duke.
Starting point is 00:35:18 Annie Duke talks about how the amateur poker players play a lot more bad hands. where's the pros fold the bad hands very quickly. The sooner you can fold the dead ends and find the better paths the faster you grow. What's below the floor that is ultimately a dead end path?
Starting point is 00:35:41 Sunk cost bias says that just because you've invested in this path doesn't mean you to keep investing in it, but often people will keep investing in a dead end path. Just as a final little story and then we'll go to Q&A for like 20 minutes, and then we'll call it, maybe 15 or 20 minutes. We'll just see what happens. If you have a question, I don't know how they're going to find you.
Starting point is 00:36:02 But I was talking to Phyllis, who's here. Where's Phyllis? Amazing. You can say it, I love you. You're amazing. Phyllis came up to me when I was eating, and she said, Ben, and again, to the idea of good strategy is surprising. She said it was amazing that you let go of writing books with Dan Sullivan
Starting point is 00:36:20 and doing your YouTube channel, and then all of a sudden you had scale, like it was a total transformation she's like that was crazy i was not expecting that right um i didn't know i was going to create that but when you start operating from a future right ag laughly said that strategy is knowing where to play and how to win right and so often when your goal is really big there's a very few pathways to get there sometimes you have to buy very expensive domains right like seriously like because you're playing at the game at that level you're redefining a game. Right? The new model makes the old models obsolete. And so the only reason I share that
Starting point is 00:36:55 is, if you raise your frame and your floor, it will make your focus path better and more excellent and more clear and more defined and more powerful than even you currently think you can do it. And you'll start to build a team of Super Whoos that shock you. It's very doable. I'm telling you guys, you can do this. I love what Tony said. He said this at the bottom of his foreword. He said, this is not a book about scaling. It's a book about becoming the kind of person and building the kind of organization that can't help scale. I can say that if you apply this concept of frame, floor, and focus, you will scale. You have to let the future shape the present. You have to be honest about what's below the floor and what's creating complexity. You've got to create a focused path. And that takes work. As Steve Jobs said, you have to work really hard to get your thinking clean to make it simple. But once you do, you can move mountains. You can do this. Guys, thank you so much. Thank you. I'm getting some waves. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:37:59 Thank you. I'm very happy to be here. Let's take like 17 or 18 minutes and let's do some Q&A. Who's got questions? I'm just going to let Russell's team take care of this. Care of the who's. Hey, Ben, I'm Joel. So grateful to have you back again.
Starting point is 00:38:15 So were you here last time? I was here two years ago with you. years ago with you. Yeah, that's right. So I really resonate with Xavier, because we're about the same two and a half mil, I want to get to 100 mil. I'm 29, but I first initially set my goal for 100 mil by 40. And then six months ago, I cut it down to 35. After hearing this, I'm like, okay, that's still too far. That's six years away. But I think the biggest challenge I have is how do I align? Because I feel like if I did one year or two years, I don't think my brain can like. So do it three. Give yourself three. Okay. Give yourself three. Okay. Tool.
Starting point is 00:38:45 Use it to really look at everything you're doing and solve how do we build a hundred million dollar company and who do we need. Just use it as a tool. Give yourself to rate. Thank you. We're here, Beth. Let's get everyone around a lot of applause. These questions are awesome.
Starting point is 00:39:02 Ben, Dominic, sat next to you on the bus. Very awesome. That was one. Thank you for the, what's it called again? Hydrogen. Hydrogen, yeah. He gave us some of biohats. I'm on the bus with him and he's like giving me powders and potions and things.
Starting point is 00:39:15 things like that. It's awesome. Thank you for the hydrogen. You're all right. Yeah, for sure. A little bit of vulnerability because I think that's important. 2023, rocket ride of a year, you know, we had our best year ever. I got to speak on stage at Funnel Hacking Live, one of the absolute like joys and, you know,
Starting point is 00:39:32 most pleasurable things in my life, right, to be able to do that and inspire people. And then 2024 happened. It was like the year of how not to scale, how not to do what Ben Hardy talks about. and Hardy talks about, how to stay stagnant and just, you know, slowly die inside. And for me, it was interesting, removing the people that were not there to 10x and 100x was really the key, but I didn't even have the energy to do it because I had health problems that I wasn't even aware of. And so I went and did blood testing and found out I was messed up.
Starting point is 00:40:10 And so I guess my question is, obviously, 100x goal. and a 10x goal is really important. But do you have different 10x and 100x goals for, you know, you, Ben, right? You, the author, you the spirit, right? You're a human. Do you have a 10x goal for your family? Do you have one for your business? And then the, sorry, I'm talking so much.
Starting point is 00:40:34 The second question is, how do you align the other people with that? Because sometimes it seems absolutely, you know, bat shit, to be honest. That's beautiful. Give you a question. I definitely have higher order goals than even my business. Obviously, my wife's here. Sure. We're very oriented toward a similar future, which we're using to shape our present.
Starting point is 00:40:59 And then from there, you know, I have goals that fit within that bigger game. And so, but I don't have like 50 sets of 10x goals. I have a big future, very spiritual, shaping my present, shaping my family. And then from there, I continuously elevate my business goals, right? Business is just one thing, you know, one aspect of my life. But one thing that people mess up with business is that they make, yes, business is personal. You know, like even the things that Russell was saying was very true that a lot of why you're here is because you resonate with Russell. And so do why.
Starting point is 00:41:33 I love Russell. And it's very, you know, he's very unique compared to other places. So business can be personal. And it is personal. But the same time, a business also is a system that has a goal. And sometimes you have to make hard moves for the business to achieve a new goal. And it doesn't have to be personal. You know, for Tom, the example I gave, it wasn't personal that he let go of half of his C-suite or 40 of those franchises.
Starting point is 00:42:02 It wasn't personal. It was just that they were no longer going the same direction. And he as the leader was taking that company into a different direction. And the natural byproduct of that was that a lot of people didn't want to go. in that direction. So it wasn't personal, but he was making the right move for that system and for business, right? And business has a different goal than friendship. Even though you can have friends in your business, very good friends, it has a different goal. So I think that sometimes we let certain things get in the way of actually taking a business where it could go. And if you,
Starting point is 00:42:35 you know, if you really think about economics in the country, growth is important. The reason we're here and bless the way we are because, you know, the U.S. and other countries, like, it scaled. It grew. And they made hard decisions. They left Europe, right? I know that there's lots of, like, complexity there,
Starting point is 00:42:54 but they had to let go of a lot of things, right? Yeah. So, yeah. Thank you so much. I don't know where it's going. I'm not, I'm not the, you guys, don't look at me. Sorry, I'm just going to let them go where they go. I, um, the story about the guy that wanted to have the European
Starting point is 00:43:12 soccer club. Here, hold that a little bit. The European soccer club. It sounded to me that when you move the goal up or challenged that, it was more like a pipe train for him. He didn't really know if that's what he really wanted. So my question is, how do you really know? Because it's scary to think, oh my gosh, I'm going to go from here to there. And like his story, I really didn't think that was really a goal for his, him after you challenged like that. So how do you know? A beautiful insight. Very, very true. It questioned. And is it really a goal, right? And that's between him and himself, right?
Starting point is 00:43:47 I can't say if he should commit to it. Commitment isn't a one-time event. It's a continuous process, right? Your commitment increases as you start to really think about something, as you start letting go of the things that are counter to it. Every time you raise your floor and strip something out, your commitment raises to the new frame or to the new future. So it's not like he has to, like, get all-in committed right now.
Starting point is 00:44:09 But as he really begins to process it, you know, think about your own selves, there have been goals or things in your mind that really shaped a lot of the direction of your life, right? There was, you know, an idea in your head or a goal that really moved you forward in various ways, right? Many of the things I now do are because of a goal, right? And so these things can move you forward, and they can get you through very dark times. But just to the point, I think you're right. I don't know if it was a real goal. Even with Xavier, 100 million, I don't think it was a real goal until I moved it to three years and then he started solving it
Starting point is 00:44:45 and figuring out how to do it. And so now that forces him to say, do I really want the PhD and run the firm or do I really want to do this? It really forces you to start to get honest with yourself. So that's great. Let's cheer for this year. Yeah, I don't know where the mic is. Hey, Ben, so my name's Tyler Watson. I am intrinsically more of an artist. I don't like to
Starting point is 00:45:10 grow the business, any of that stuff. I just love my craft. It's beautiful. So I guess my question is, is as a really hardcore just artist forced into marketing business. You're here, though, really much. I've been to force to myself for years. How, or what would you say in 10xing a goal?
Starting point is 00:45:31 Because to me, it's like, my wife loves the numbers and loves me making money. But for me, I don't really care about that at all. like zero care about it. How do you get the motivation or 10 or 100x something that like for me I'm just, I just want to go help people and change the world and do that. So do you just switch what your focus is on more on impact base? How can you merge the two to where you can still find the motivation? I think that often we go too much either or. right you're here because you need to learn business or else your art's going to fail and so the either or is gonna is is is is tough right uh in order for your art to thrive and for you to continue to get better at your art you also need to get good at business otherwise you're going to be a starving artists and it's going to be a tough situation i give a really good example of this in the book in chapter one a woman who's a phenomenal photographer and what she did was she she wanted to create a simple business She was a photographer doing like 30 different forms of photography, optimizing for a bunch of stuff that was good, not great.
Starting point is 00:46:47 But she was actually like a really world-class photographer, but she was doing way too many things. And then she decided, I'm going to, you know, her and her case, she got an average commission of $8,000 per piece. She'd have someone come in, take a photograph, beautifully frame it, put on the wall, $8,000, very high end. What she did was she raised her floor in an impossible way. And she wanted to have her average piece be like, you know, $15,000 or $20,000, right? And she'd never charged that much for a piece. But it forced her to become more specific in her art. Rather than doing 15 different types of photography, she actually had to become an artist.
Starting point is 00:47:26 She actually had to figure out, how do I offer something that's so unique, so different, so incredible that someone would pay $20,000 for this? And so it forced her to actually become more specific. It forced her to become a better artist. It forced her to have a much better path and process, which she loved, and it forced her to start finding different people that she could serve with her. You know, you don't have to do that. I'm just saying art and business don't have to go against each other. For me, I'm sharing with you innovative psychological models that I invented, right?
Starting point is 00:47:55 To me, this is art, but it's also economics and business, and those things are really awesome. And growth in business can improve your art. So that's really how I look at it. I just think, you know, back to the quote from Wendy Rousseau or Dr. Denise Rousseau, the stretch goal forces you to redefine yourself, but it also forces you to let go of old assumptions, models, beliefs, and even identities that got you here but can't get you to the next level of growth. And so you might have a really big attachment and a goal to being seen
Starting point is 00:48:28 as an artist or being seen, you know, and maybe going for scale would force you to go from amateur to pro. Not saying that you're not already a pro, but I'm just saying it might force you to a level of art that you didn't know you could do, a level of innovation and direction that right now you're not thinking about. It could be, it could take you from good to great. That's what it would invite you to do. So, thank you. I hope that helps. I've grappled with it. Trust me. Yeah. I grappled with that 10 years ago. Hey, Ben. Over here. Hey. And I am like, Six minutes left, guys.
Starting point is 00:49:06 Hey, my name is Manning. So you said something very interesting. You said the difference between first world and third world is accountability. As the system, the economic system and structure. Right. That's what he said, is not me, the one who creates those. Right. And then you also went on to say that when you see low accountability, see a broken system.
Starting point is 00:49:25 Now, if you extrapolate this over to entrepreneurship, most entrepreneurs, at least when you are the founder to CEO, there is no accountability. You are the one at the top of the tree, and that's about air. Correct. That's a bad system. That's a bad system. That's a king and a dictatorship. So they need some sort of external accountability to solve this problem.
Starting point is 00:49:48 It's tough because you become an entrepreneur because you want freedom. But what comes with that is a lack of accountability. And you require others to be accountable, but you're not accountable yourself. Yep. And that creates confusion and a bad system, right? And so, yes, in order to scale, you've got to be accountable to something bigger than you and to other people. Even me, you know, in my new process and in my new venture, I have to be really accountable to my team in a way that I wasn't a year ago. And I had a few years where I was just like I was, I did whatever I wanted.
Starting point is 00:50:20 It was awesome, but I wasn't scaling, right? That's okay. Like, not everyone has to scale, by the way. Like, you don't have to do this. I'm just saying there's a science to it if you want to. And it's not as complex as you think it is. But yes, if you want to scale, you will have to be way more accountable. Even if you're the founder or co-founder, you have to be a lot more accountable
Starting point is 00:50:42 or else you're not going to get there. And that accountability is tough. And that accountability cannot be internal. It has to be external, right? Both, yes. It has to be both. The floor is the level of accountability in the system, both internal and external. So to go from amateur to pro, you need accountability.
Starting point is 00:51:00 Yeah. If you look at even the top performers, they're extremely accountable, right? They're very accountable. They're not, they're the ones leading the accountability, but they're also often the most accountable. And they take the most blame when it doesn't go well. Right. That's leadership. Right. Awesome. Thank you. Let's go here. I want to hear Myron. Let's cast it back to Myron. Yeah. Go over here. No, you go. You go. Dr. Binghardy, thank you for all of you're doing and the scaling is very profound. I think it was two years ago, Fundy Hacken Live. I took some of your books and gave it to members in my church.
Starting point is 00:51:46 I run like a business group. It's awesome. And people really... Hopefully you're scaling the good news, wasn't it? Hopefully you're scaling the good news. So my question. My question is from the B to B do have framework, because I know you kind of talked about that. Can you talk a little bit about not only just the goal, but like when I saw myself as a two-common awardee, that's when I actually achieved it.
Starting point is 00:52:17 So can you talk about like, so if I'm going to go that 100X, you know, to get that and the next go, Can you talk about the, what identity, how the identity works with what you have to do? Yeah. So I look at time as a tool. I look at identity as a tool. In this case, he's talking about the concept of B do have, right? B, you want to, you have to first start with being your future self, in this case, or being the bigger company and doing what they would do, right?
Starting point is 00:52:49 You have to start with B, then do, and then you can have 10 X, 100 X or whatever it is you want, right? And so you, being is simply letting the future shape the present. It's being the future. It's letting the future shape the present and just making the moves. It doesn't have to be perfect. It's often very sloppy, but you're actually doing it. You're having the hard conversations, the sloppy conversations. And over time, you go from thinking to feeling to knowing.
Starting point is 00:53:14 You start to just know that it's going to happen. You know, I recently listened to Jimmy Kimmel on the podcast, the big podcast, the diary of the CEO. And he got to the point because of how focused he was on it that he knew he was going to be on Saturday Night Live. He said it was knowing, right? And you can get to that level of knowing, but you can't start there.
Starting point is 00:53:36 First you start with thinking, right? Which Russell talks so much about thinking, right? And thinking about the future and then feeling and getting that point of commitment. And then over time, as you just start orienting your life toward it, you've reached that place of knowing, right? You go from being to doing to having. So, yeah, that's, that's how it works.
Starting point is 00:53:57 All right, we'll go with, we'll go with Myron. I think this will be the last. And then we'll let you guys, I'll go to lunch. So if I may, first of all, Ben, great, Dr. Ben, sorry, great stuff. Absolutely mind-breaking, mind-bending, beautiful stuff. I just want to share something about this gentleman's question about accountability, if I may, just from somebody who's been an entrepreneur for more than 40, almost 40 years. An entrepreneur is first and foremost accountable.
Starting point is 00:54:23 to the results. That's number one. Like everything that you are doing, the results that you are getting are telling you whether or not you are following the rules that can help you achieve that objective. That's number one. Number two, most founders are not good CEOs, right? Most of them. Present company not excluded, right? I'm a terrible CEO, great founder, terrible CEO. And our business, now that I've hired a CEO, and I am accountable to the CEO. I work for them. Now our business can scale exponentially. Yeah, we already do 15 million a year, kind of working part time because we're very selective in what we do and don't do. But even I have to make myself accountable to somebody who's good at what I'm bad at, who plays at what I work at, who can do things I don't even want to have a desire to learn to do.
Starting point is 00:55:12 And until I'm willing to do that, I cannot scale to the point where our potential actually is. And the interesting thing about potential, it's the difference between where you are and where you'd like to be. right but the more you reach towards your potential the bigger your capacity gets so your potential is a moving target it's not a stagnant target and I just want to say if you if you don't make yourself accountable to your results and to your team and to the people that you put in place who are good at what you're bad at the only thing you're going to scale is chaos you cannot scale order if you're not accountable anyway I I hope hope that's helpful. I just wanted to share. Thank you for what I was thinking as he asked that
Starting point is 00:55:57 question. Myron. Myron is so amazing. You probably already know. Please learn from Myron. I will continue to learn from Myron. One of the people, and this is my last thought, and then I'll conclude, one of the people who I talked to recently, she's a woman who runs a supplement company. It's doing 14 million revenue. She's amazing. But to this point, I'm not saying you can, can't be the CEO. But for her, they've stalled and are stuck and it's rough. And I said, what would happen if you went for a hundred million in the next three years in your supplement company? And she was like, she couldn't rack her brain arise. I said, you couldn't be the CEO. I'm sorry, you would need a real CEO that could organize this business and lead the team. And you
Starting point is 00:56:46 would be the artist, right? In her case, she's learning about herbs and supplements. And she's so good at it right um another guy and this is just the last one was a phenomenal CEO he he went into a different supplement company and took it from four million to a hundred million in five years and then i talked to him and i said ryan if you want to go for a billion in three years you think he could be the CEO he's like no he said i would hold the company back if i want to go for that level of growth we need to put in someone who can do that my role is going to change and then he would be in a different role and you'd be accountable to that, to that better, bigger system. So that's often what happens when you go for a bigger game is that your role shifts, you're less at the center, you're accountable
Starting point is 00:57:29 to something bigger, bigger, and more systematic, and you can become the level of professional that you can be. Everyone, Myron's, thank you. Everyone, thank you.

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