Mention It All - A RHONY Toilet Paper Tell-All Ft. Sai De Silva

Episode Date: July 26, 2023

To cap off week two of the new RHONY season, Dylan is joined by influencer-turned-Housewife Sai De Silva. They get into the stigma surrounding influencers on Bravo, and why Sai was so excited to bring all of herself to this audience. Then, they chat about the trip to the Hamptons, including Sai’s explanation of her toilet paper decisions and how she would’ve handled the lingerie conflict. Later, they play a lightning round game where Sai gets real about the Ubah experience. Check out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promos Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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With me, Dylan Hafer. We're going to check me, boo. Hey, everyone. Welcome back to the Mention at All podcast. I'm Dylan Hafer, and I am so excited to be joined today by another one of our brand new Real Housewives of New York City. Today, we have in the studio, Cy to Silva. Hey, Sy.

Hello, hello. Hey, everyone. How you doing? I am so excited to have you here. We have seen a couple episodes of the new show now. I think people are liking it. How does it feel now that it's out in the world? You were in this, you know, rony insulated bubble for so long.

I feel good. I mean, I was so ready to get the train out of the station. So now that everyone is finally watching what we've been working on for so long, it's exciting. Mm-hmm. When you look back at the last year-ish of this experience since, you know, the first stuff happened, And like, how do you kind of, you know, bird's eye view take it all in? I don't think you, I think you just have to go with the moment. You can't think about the future.

You can't think about the past. You literally just have to be present, stay in the present, and only think about that. Because if you're thinking about too much, you're going to lose your mind. Yeah. I have to imagine. I mean, so they announced your cast at BravoCon last year in October. Then obviously you are going and filming the whole season. It's like, you can't think too much about like, okay, this episode is going to come out.

in eight months and this is what people are going to think about this, you know, outfit and conversation. Like, it's too much. Because I, and you know, overthinkers, right? So like, there are some people who are overthinkers in our cast and it's just, you're going to drive yourself absolutely insane. Sometimes, yeah, sometimes you're like, damn, I can't believe I said that. But it is what it is. Right. You just got to go with it. I try my best not to live my life with regrets. So no regrets. Yolo over here. And let's just keep it moving. So we're not regretting the Rone. experience yet. I'm not regretting it. So far, I'm enjoying the ride. Yeah. So take me back. How did this

come into your life? And was it an easy decision once it did? Well, first, Bravo reached out to me. I think that they were really, when they were looking to recast, they were really looking into everyone's friend group or just kind of some sort of six degree of separation on who knows who. and then they reached out. Originally, I was like, come on, you got to be joking. Like me, a housewife? I'm definitely not a housewife. But then, you know, I found out about the reboot,

and it was very intriguing to me. I was like, you know what? This is the first time in franchise history that they're starting fresh, starting over again, and I can be a part of that history and represent New York City, a city that I love so much. I spoke to my husband about it,

and I said, you know what, I think that this is something I really, really want to do. At first, he was apprehensive and he said, I don't think so. I said, honey, you got to get on board. You got to get on board. So here we are. Yeah, I mean, I've talked to a lot of people who have done these shows. It is a full, it kind of takes over your life in a way, you know, your kids are on the show, your family is on the show. Obviously, when, when things are happening in your personal life, those are, you know, coming across on the show. So it, you know, it's a lot of people to get on board. It consumes your life, for sure. It definitely. It's,

is all of a sudden you've had your immediate family to now all of a sudden you have this other family. And I've also gained five best friends in my 40s. I thought I was going to have no new friends. You know, you get to a certain part in life. You're like, no new friends. Now all of a sudden I have five besties. So it's definitely been a ride. Yeah, I feel like in New York especially. It's like, okay, like I'm not, I don't have time to, you know, where do you live? Like what's happening? I don't have any time. I'm not leaving my neighborhood on the weekends. Like, I'm not going up to your house. And now all of a sudden, that's completely changed.

And you're bringing Brooklyn back to Roney. It's been a while. And I think it feels like it's more embraced this time by the cast. I mean, I think it should be. Everyone lives there. Brooklyn is such a vibe. It's not. I remember back on the day, like a taxi would not even go there.

This is like before Uber. You have to like shove yourself into a taxi. Don't get out. And then you're like, drive. And as soon as he starts driving, you'll go, oh, I'm going to Brooklyn. I mean, we get so pissed off. Because if you said you were going to Brooklyn before you got in, they drive off. And I'm like, I'm going to report you.

Like, that's how it was back in the day. But now Brooklyn is on the map. I mean, celebrities live there. Exactly. It's a great place. I live there, you know. You live in a, you have a beautiful space. You have a beautiful family.

It was fun right off the bat in, you know, basically the first scene of the season to see kind of your world there. It was nice. And then did you see my son who look unbothered at all times? I just like, are you going to react to anything? He's unbothered at all the time. But no, I'm fortunate. I have like this four by four backyard that makes New Yorker shooketh. Like, you know, to have, I'm pretty sure people who don't live in New York don't understand that.

They're like, you're backball. They're like, wait, they're sitting outside. Oh, my God. New Yorkers are like, wow, what a dream. We're living an American dream. Yeah. And I also think it's so funny that you and Jessel both have kids named Rio. Yeah, that's interesting.

Just like a fun little, you know. I mean, I didn't know. And then when Jocelyn and I got to know each other, she told me that her son's name was Rio. And I was like, wait a minute. Did you steal my kid's name? I need to know. You're like looking up the dates. I was like, are the dates math?

Is the math, mathing here? We don't know. No, but it's cute. I like that. They're both named Rio. Yeah. I want to talk about your career a little bit aside from doing housewives. when they announced that there was going to be this reboot,

I know that there was kind of this sentiment with Bravo fans that they were like, oh, it's going to be a cast full of influencers. And like, we don't, you know, who are these people like coming onto our Bravo lawn? And like, I think seeing right off the bat in these first couple episodes, you talking about your business, you know, you're an entrepreneur, you have all this stuff going on. I feel like it is almost a way to like expand people's minds of, Like, you're not just, like, posting selfies.

I think the influencers just get a bad rap, and I don't understand. Granted, yes, there are some that are just, they should not be calling themselves creators. I mean, and there are some of us that are really good creators. And it's a job that is very labor intensive. Yes, it's not, I'm not in construction. My job is completely different, but I am a 24-7 job. My life is my job. My job is my life, and it's very much so intertwined.

And, you know, when I'm doing brand deals, I don't think people understand that when a brand hires me, everything needs to be approved. They also have a brief. They have, I'm hired for certain amount of deliverables. You know, we do a lot of negotiating and going back and forth, you know, are you whitelisting? If you're white listing, I need more money. If you want me to be exclusive, I need more money. Like, there are certain things that, you know, that's why we have managers sometimes.

I do everything in-house because I've been doing it for nine, ten years now. so I would prefer to speak to all of my clients. You know, we do Zoom calls. We have to put in mood boards. We have to put in concepts. It's literally a modern day advertising agency. I just so happen to be the face of it. But there is definitely a lot that goes behind the scenes that people don't see, you know,

even when I'm scouting location. I have to scout location. I have to pick all the clothing. I need to reach out to brands and do all the polls. You know, fashion month. I mean, what you see is for me to make it look effort. list, but sometimes I'm crying on the inside because I'm exhausted. We make it look easy. And, you know, everyone has that one particular creator that they relate to. I've built my community

for a very long time now, and I think that they trust me. I really don't work with brands that I wouldn't normally use. For example, no shade to people who love McDonald's. I don't eat McDonald's. So you wouldn't necessarily see me with a happy meal up here hanging out with me and my kids. So there are things like that where you build trust within your community and this takes time. Yeah, I think if you haven't been in that avenue or like in that sort of like sector, it's easy to just see like the photos. Right. Like, okay, well, it's the photos. But like you said, there's so much that goes into it.

And I think it's, you know, it's cool. This cast is so has so many different flavors and different, you know, things going on and family situations and work situations and all that. And so it's like, why not have like all of these different vibes? I think it's great. Yeah. And yeah, you're right. I saw all the comments about, you know, people saying, oh, it's just a cast of influencers. I mean, it just so happens to be that that's my job and it is very lucrative for me.

I said, but at the same time, the rest of the cast, they're all complete. We're all so different. Right. And I think everyone finally is not everyone. Some people are still hating. But some have eaten their words and came out and apologized about it because, yes, I might have this particular title, but I also have a great personality,

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you were filming together? Were you surprised at how people were in the group, or was it kind of easy? I think it was kind of easy. I mean, you are learning a lot about one another, throughout this time that you're filming. And, you know, filming can be very intense. Sometimes you have to see each other every single day or at least once or twice a week. So, you know, for me, I'm busy. So all of a sudden, I have these five best friends

that I'm always hanging out with and you're getting to know each other's icks, you know? Like everyone on... Jenna Lions does not like Dill. And she does not like olives. She likes green but not black. Or is it not blacker, but it's something like that. So everyone has their icks.

you get to know. And it's just an interesting dynamic. However, we gel very well. I think the casting was phenomenal. The fact that we are all in these same circles is really great. Us having our own individual personalities, we're all so different from one another, but together we're dynamic. I kind of love in episode two already, you guys are going out to the Hamptons and putting

the group together in that kind of almost like claustrophobic context, I think kind of shows a lot of, you know, For you guys getting to know each other, but also for us as viewers getting to know how you all fare in a situation like that. Like I like that you guys are on a trip kind of so early in the season. So quickly. Well, you know, they say when you're dating someone, how you know it's going to last is you take a trip with them. You see how it goes. So that's the same thing with the friend group, right? Because I think we all have friends that you won't go on a trip with.

You're like, I love you. I love to hang out with you. But on a trip, no, I'd rather not travel. And it's like, I'll choose the hotel. Right, right. You're like, I don't know about traveling with you. You know, when it comes to this, it's the same thing with this girl group, you know. Like, Jenna's sneaking out of the house to go to her own house.

Like, no, girl, we're having a slumber party. You can't leave. Right. You know, so she's not used to being around a bunch of other women, especially at night. You know, we love a few cocktails. We like to turn up. We're a little liddy. But it's, it is what it is, is you just have to learn about one another.

And I think us kicking off and going straight into a trip gives people some insight on what we are and who we are. Yeah, I mean, I did not envy Aaron, though, having to be the hostess right off the fact. It's a lot. I didn't complain. I just want to say I want to put that out there. I was not the complainer, okay? Like, I carried my own bags. I did.

There's no assistant available. It's funny. The first episode, it was so funny, having seen the episodes a little bit early, and then watching as people were experiencing it live, the talk about this cheese situation. And then the infamous now bleeped restaurant. It was so funny watching people kind of these situations take on a life of their own once everybody was watching. Was it funny for you kind of having these scenarios from months ago all of a sudden be like the mystery of the internet?

I just thought it was so dumb. I was like, We're fighting about cheese. And it was also the fact that I didn't say it. Like I was like, I didn't say it. I want to clear my name. I need an attorney. Like, you know what I mean?

Literally, it was so absurd. I really did not think it would take off the way it did, you know. And Twitter is like cheesegate scandal. People are sending me, Matt, my friends are sending me message. So I really didn't think it would take off. However, I did like the fact that I did not subscribe to it. You know, even when I watched it back, I was like, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm actually very proud of myself that I did not subscribe to the Cheesegate drama.

It's just like, Aaron, you're an a-hole. Like, that wasn't cool and just moved on. But you do silly things with your friends, you know? Yeah. It's like the littlest things can really like tick you off. Totally. And I think I have to imagine that watching the show now is like a little bit of a trip. Like for the first time kind of seeing like, okay, this is what I said and how I looked and what I did.

And now it's out there. And now it's out there. It's actually, I did a friend. of mine upstate, she did a little viewing party for me, and she invited all of our neighbors, and I was kind of embarrassed to be in the same room with everyone watching me while I'm in the room at the same time. So for me, it felt very uncomfortable, I think. Like, if everyone is in their own place, in their own house, and they don't have to look over at me, that it's not a big deal. Right. Like, text me after and let me know that I did good.

Could you text me? I don't want you to immediately be like, why'd you say that? Oh my God, who's that? They're asking me as if we're watching a movie, you know, every step of the way. Who said that? Why did they say that? I'm like, just watch it. No, that sounds like my neighbor. I'm like, listen to the podcast and then tell me that it was good.

Don't like, don't like make me listen. Please, yeah, right? It's like that. But, you know, at the end, it was really sweet. Everyone really liked it. Yeah. So it was great. It was a great response.

So I think. I'm trying to my best to stay off comments on the internet. I only worry about the comments on my own platform. But for the most part, you know, my friends are still selling me screenshots. They get more defensive than I do, actually. They're like my bodyguards. Yeah, it's like I love this energy, but also like, please don't fight people on my behalf. Don't fight anyone.

Just let it go. Everyone's going to have their own opinion. You just have to have some very tough skin. Yeah. And I think like you said, this is the first time that they've done this with a Housewives franchise. And of course, people have a lot of strong feelings in lots of directions. but like, you know, social media, it's tough. And I mean, you would know.

It's very tough. Again, you just have to go in it with very tough skin. And at the end of the day, not everyone's going to like you. And you have to be okay with that. And I'm also not here to please everyone. God, if I was here to please everyone, I would lose my mind. It's a two-way street. I might not like you.

You might not like me. That's fine at the end of the day. Yeah. that seems like a healthy mindset. And like hopefully, like if you can maintain that over the course of a whole season, then it's like, okay, like, you know, I'll come out of, you'll come out of it like. I'm literally like, I can't see. I'm blind.

Blind. Yeah. I mean, I think it's tough. Even people that have been on shows like this for a long time, it's like you, you start reading a few too many comments or you, you know, you know, see one too many things and all of a sudden you, it can really mess with your. mind. It does and I'm trying to stay away from it. Yeah. Again, I've been doing it for so long. I have my community. I have my, my queen bee people, and I'm just going to stay and mind my business in my own lane.

You know, if you kind of jump into my lane, I'll block it, delete it. Sometimes I might clap back in a funny way, but it is what it is. Yeah. Have you seen people like your community that you've built up obviously is like separate from the Bravo fandom? Has it been like interesting watching your like new people kind of discover like what you've had going on for all this time. I don't know. Well, I mean, I think at the moment they're just kind of lurking. It's like, you know what I mean? They're not really commenting on everything.

I mean, I've definitely grown. But I don't, they're not commenting overly, only on new posts, not old posts. And then every, there's a future that trickle in like, hey, do you have a link to this? I'm like, I posted that in 2012. Like I don't. You're like, that skirt is not on sale anymore. The skirt is unavailable. It is unavailable.

So I get a few of those, but it's very, it's very rare. I want to ask you about a couple of specific things from this Hampton's trip. First of all, bringing the toilet paper to Aaron's house. Walk me through. What's the thought? Walk me through. I have standards. I have very high standards when it comes to toilet paper, okay?

I grew up on this cheap, one-plied toilet paper that came from the bodega. And I just feel like, you know, when I made it, I said to myself, I'm going to buy myself two-ply at all times. So I am a two-ply chick. Like, I need really great toilet paper. And I just, you know, if I'm going somewhere, especially, it's a house, you know. I don't really stay at Airbnbs or anything like that. Not that there's anything wrong with them. They're great. It's just I'm not used to it. I usually stay in a hotel or, so if I'm staying at a friend's house, I need to know ahead of time. What's your toilet paper game? Like let me, how is it? Should I bring my own? And, you know, I didn't show up empty handed at least.

you know, I showed up with enough toilet paper for every single room. So it was like sharing is caring. Uh-huh. Look, I relate to that. Like, I agree, like having standards in the toilet paper department is a good thing. You know, maybe Aaron didn't appreciate it. No, I want to let you know she had one-ply recycled toilet paper in my room. It was only me and she had no idea.

And then when I came down, I said, you do have one ply. And it is a good thing that I bought two ply. And it wasn't on the show. But definitely, I remember I took it out and I chucked it at her. I threw it at her. And I was like, is this a joke? And she was like, no, I swear, no, that's just my toilet paper. I said, exactly.

We need like a secrets revealed episode so we can get the footage of you like being vindicated with the toilet paper. I felt so good though. I wanted to look at everyone. I was like, there's a reason. There's a reason I bring my own toilet paper. So when I had Brin, Aaron Jessel in here, we were talking a little bit about Jenna and the experience of like getting to know her and filming with her versus kind of her persona that people are aware of. And it was really funny in episode two watching her call Jessel a fashion victim, I have to say. She was like, uh-uh, no.

She was so offended. It was like every bone in her body was breaking, watching her do the breaking the fashion rules. Yeah. She was like, uh-uh. You have Alexander Wang on your back? What was the bag? Valencia was the bag. I was like, and wearing Belantiaga?

No. Uh-uh. And Jessel looks so confused. She's like, wait, I can't do that. It was a really funny moment. What was your experience of filming with Jenna? Like, did you feel like there was kind of like a process of like breaking through, like, what you expected from her?

Yeah, I mean, I kind of grew up in that era. I mean, Jenna's a little bit older than I am. So I remember just always seeing her as this. boss babe at the top of her game doing all these amazing things. And, you know, when I look at Jenna's photos in the past, you know, she's always very strong. She didn't smile. So it was just, I had this impression of Jenna that she was completely different than what she was. I thought she was super outspoken, just very, maybe possibly bossy, maybe bitchy. I had no idea really what I was going to get into with her. So finally, when I finally got a chance to really

get to know her. She's very enduring, very sweet. She's a little quirky. You know, she's a lot more, she's a lot more different than I thought. I think the housewives experience of filming with the group of women and going on trips together and, you know, spending a lot of time, it's, it's a different thing for a lot of people. She says that she's not used to spending time kind of in like a group of women like this. But that's something a lot of housewives have experienced where it's like, I don't go on girls' trips. I, you know, I'm, I have a family, you know, like, I'm not always like out. with the girls, like, it's cool to see people kind of in a new environment for them. I think so, too.

I mean, also, we were like, where are you going? You're busted. Like, we see you trying to sneak out. What do you think you're doing? And it's funny because for me, I'm just like a chatty Kathy, and I am a girl's girl. Like, at the end of the day, I'm constantly going to my husband, like, today drain me, I need a girls trip. You know, it's, for me, I, girls trip is everything.

I love being around my friends, because at the end of the day, friends are the family that we choose. And I think it's great. Like I am a very, very loyal friend. So kind of meeting Jenna and she's like, no, I'm not going to stay here guys. You guys are too loud. I'm like, girl, where are you going? We just started the party. But I think she's coming around to us. Yeah. I think so. I mean, it's like, it just takes a second. It just takes a second. Now she's stuck. I'll find you, Jenna, if you leave. Yeah. Probably the lingerie situation didn't help though. you said in the episode you would have handled it differently

if you were in Jessel's position but what was your what was that kind of it was weird to watch like it felt like all of a sudden things were kind of snowballing there it was definitely spiraling really quickly but I can also I can also see on Jenna's face

that she felt horrible like her face was basically starting to melt onto the floor and it's a shitty feeling you know you're giving someone a gift and they're basically taking this gift and complaining about how horrible it is right to your face. No one feels good about that.

I mean, I definitely, because I'm so outspoken, the situation would have been a little bit different. There probably would have been some, well, take it off. You know, let me take it back. You know, it would have been a little bit different. But I did feel the need to stand up and say, you know, you're being really rude. Yeah. It was a rude moment.

Yeah. I think for, like you said, like obviously different people handle things differently, but also getting used to the idea of voicing your opinions and having disagreements like in front of the group and on camera also. It's something that doesn't necessarily come super naturally to everyone. Yeah, that's true.

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and, you know, now there's been tons of press and premiere party and everything. How has it matched up to your expectations or not? I think it's when a little bit above and beyond. You know, I didn't really expect it to be on the level that it is. I mean, even having your face on taxi cabs and billboards all over L.A. I didn't envision. I didn't see that one coming. I didn't.

I was like, whoa, budget. Bravo blew it up for this one. Okay, Bravo. I see you. I mean, even our main title shoot was very special. That was amazing. Shot at Pier 59. It was like super secretive, top secret.

I mean, as soon as I whipped out the phone, they were like, no. They were like, no, knocking the phone out of my hands. Like, it's a really great run. So far, I think it's phenomenal. I think I love the feedback. I think the feedback has been overwhelmingly. nice, positive. It's been more positive than it has negative, which was shocking to me because, you know, we were already the underdogs. And, you know, everyone was like, read the room. We don't

want it. And now, you know, people are like, sorry, sorry for what I said. I think one thing, if you haven't learned already, the, the Bravo fan community can be very reactive, but they can also, you know, they can go hot to cold, but also it works the other way. And if, you know, If they're watching the show and they're entertained, that's kind of all you are all you need. Well, anyone who is my stand, I just want to say thank you. You're making me feel warm and fuzzy. Yeah. I feel very warm and fuzzy.

I feel a very good welcome. So so far it's good. And it, again, it just exceeded my expectations. Yeah. And when you think ahead to the rest of the season, obviously we have a lot to come. We haven't seen you were there. How do you feel are you, are the things that you're nervous for or kind of, you know, less excited to see? or do you feel really positive about everything in the season?

I mean, there are some things that I'm a little bit nervous for. There's some vulnerability with me that goes in this season, goes on this season, that I'm just not a very vulnerable person. You know, I kind of hide my emotions and I'm just very sometimes. I just don't allow people to get beyond the surface. So there are things like that. I just, for me, because once it starts to air, everyone wants to talk about it. And it's almost like, all right, I talked about it.

I moved on. but now I have to relive that moment. Right. So I think that's the only thing that I'm a little bit nervous about. Other than that, we had a dynamic season. It gets every episode gets better and better. So you're not like, oh my God, like I said this thing in episode four that I'm going to hate myself for.

No, it is what it is. Again, no regrets. Yolo. Yolo. Well, I'm glad to hear it. I'm going to ask, we're doing a series of questions with all the New York ladies. So the answer can be anyone in your cast. Some of them are a little fun.

Some of them are a little shady, but nothing too deep. So who in the group is the worst texter? Worst textor, how? Doesn't respond? Text too much. Like, who is the least pleasant to text with that you've had, whether it's, you know, whatever that means to you. Brent.

Okay, that was the same answer that I got in the past. A little too wordy. A little too wordy. Yeah. Okay. Who turned out to be most different from your expectation? Oh, that's a good question. Jenna.

Who would not tell you if you had food in your teeth? I feel like Jess was a little polite. Okay. Who is the mother of the group? Me. No, Uba. Uba is the mother of the group. Okay.

Uba is somebody who I kind of didn't know what to expect from these first couple episodes, like so fun. She's so. So much fun. So, just big personality. Yeah. I'm really excited to like see more from her. I think Uba.

I like to wrangle everyone. I do. I'm like, let's go. Let's get it. Let's do this. I'm a wrangler. I think Uba is a little bit more patient and she is a little bit more empathetic than I am.

Okay. So you're like the logistics. She's like the emotions. Exactly. Okay. That makes sense. Who is chronically late the most? Jenna.

Okay. Who is the best at going with the flow? Hmm. Erin goes with the flow. Erin, Aaron goes with the flow, I think. I don't know what happens

if it's not with me. It's not the right flow. Yeah, I'm sorry. Maybe it has to be your, maybe it's your flow. I don't know. She goes with my flow,

so no problems there. Okay, that works. Who gives the most unsolicited advice? Bryn. She'll let you know what she's thinking. She gives me fun facts all day that I just don't want to subscribe to. Someone unsubscribe me to the newsletter.

do feel like Brin has the energy of like she read something on a snapel cap three years ago and it's going to bring it up like I'm busy yeah 100% she'll be like you know what did you know that raindrops are falling at one millisecond per meter and I'm like huh oh just a thought because it's raining yeah okay I just need an umbrella I just asked for an umbrella guys that is so funny Who has the best taste in music? Oh my God, definitely not Aaron. Aaron has the worst taste in music ever. I think they said before she likes disco or?

She likes Abba. Like her music taste. It's very, and not that there's anything wrong with Abba, but she's just very one-dimensional with her music. Like, there are some things that you're kind of like, Wop? Like, do we not know this song? Okay, interesting, interesting.

Who would be the best to be stranded on a deserted island with? Oh, gosh. Me. I will, I am McGiver. I'll start that fire. I can get us out of anything and everything. Start the fire. You know, I'll get us food.

Don't worry. I got us covered. That's perfect. I'll make us moonshine. Okay. You want to be left on an island. It's a party island. Okay.

We're going to get lit. Okay. Who has the most trouble keeping a secret? Um, a brain. Yes. Okay. That was not a surprise to me. And who is the best last minute plus one?

could take her anywhere. Uba. Uba is so much fun. She's a great plus one. She's there to have a good time. And you know what? She doesn't drink. She's naturally that energetic.

Yes, I was just thinking about that because I feel like she's the life of the party, but not a drop of alcohol. Yeah, no alcohol. There's no, there's nothing that is needed. Just that she is what she is. And she is a good time. And she will speak to everyone. Can I just tell you real quick?

We went out to eat. And it was just her and I were eating. And these guys were sitting next to us. She goes, can you hold my phone? And they hold the phone. And they're like, hold it, you know, camera facing. She records an entire video, walks away, comes back. And then the guy's just standing.

I could not believe he just didn't even move. And she has this guy in a trance. And then after that, she's like, thank you so much. Do you know what Real Housewives is? And then she just sells them on the show. And by the end, they were like, can we take pictures with you girls? She's just, she's captivating. She's like, if the billboards don't do it, Uba well.

Uber is going to be your spokeswoman, okay? That is amazing. I love seeing all of your personalities come together and kind of figuring out, like, who really clicks in the group and who has these kind of, like, fun interpersonal dynamics. And that, like, that kind of story is just amazing. They're great. Yeah. We've all had our own one-on-one moments that are really nice. Yeah.

Well, I'm excited to see more of them. Everybody can watch Roney on Sunday nights on Bravo. And where can we follow you and see all of your great stuff that you have going on? Well, yes, definitely watch us every Sunday, 9 p.m. on Bravo. Also streaming the next day on Peacock. Everyone can follow me on Scout the City. I am Scout the City on Instagram, Side to Silva on TikTok, and definitely look out. I will be coming out with a podcast very soon.

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