Mention It All - Dick Pics Are Not Elegant (RHONY, Below Deck Sailing)

Episode Date: May 19, 2021

Bari and Dylan kick off the episode by celebrating the news that BravoCon will return this fall. Then they recap the new RHONY, where the ladies had a Hamptons day for the ages. Did Ramona donate plasma? Is Leah wearing too many prints? And does Wells Fargo really have lower interest rates? So many questions. Finally, they discuss Below Deck Sailing, where some of the worst charter guests of all time managed to make the boat crash feel like a minor plot point. You can buy SkinnyPop at retailers nationwide, or go to the Shop Now page on skinnypop.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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With Dylan Hafer. Who don't check me, bro? And Barry Rosenfeld. I need to start drinking alcohol. Now go to sleep week. Hey, everyone. Welcome back to the Mention at All podcast. I'm Dylan Hafer.

And I'm Barry Rosenfeld. Oh, that was like, you're like, and I'm, like, and I am. Like taking center stage in a school play. and I'm very We're just happy to be here The sun is shining It's beautiful outside We're having some lovely spring weather

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Just do it I will say Like Or more than 10 minutes actually So we've been working From home for over a year now I feel like the first like few months, I was really bad at the concept of like, I can just like take a little break and it doesn't have to be like a whole thing. Like if I'm away from my computer for like 20 minutes, the chances of something, you know, like catastrophic happening in that time are pretty low.

I agree with you 100%. I remember in the beginning of when we were all working from home, I remember I worked harder like that month or two after because I thought I had a. prove, but I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, no, everyone is working from home. It's not like I asked for, like, to work from home for the next, like, two months. You're not like, okay, I can't come in, but I'm still going to be working. It's like, no, no, no, we're all doing this. Yeah. Everybody's fucking tired.

But, you know, better days are on the horizon, and I feel like the biggest signal of that yet. You know, the CDC guidance is nice, whatever, but we have BravoCon dates on the calendar for this October. Hell, yeah. It's just very exciting because, I mean, obviously BravoCon is exciting in and of itself. But the fact that, like, we can do a BravoCon again is just like, wow, like nature really is healing. Yeah, because in this, in dare I say, the year 2020, they didn't even, no one even held. Like, it wasn't even, like, everything was canceled. Right.

The most you could do was like a little Zoom party. Like, there was no BravoCon. Can we never, like, do that again going forward? is buying a ticket for a Zoom event. Like, oh my gosh. That just sounds horrible. Certain contexts it works, but like, no, it's not ideal. And, you know, BravoCon in person is ideal.

And then the very next day, Ms. Shaw, her trial starts. So, you know, if you're coming to New York for BravoCon, maybe stick around for an extra day and go to the courthouse. Bravo really, really threw us for a loop the fact that Jen Shaw is, like, currently in the seat. like filmed the entire season of Salt Lake City. That is crazy to me. Yeah. So the big question is, will Jen Shaw attend BravoCon?

You have to think there's going to be a Salt Lake panel, or at least some of them are going to be there. So it'll be interesting. You know, maybe she'll ask the judge if she can fly in a few days early to prepare for her trial. Okay, let's get into the shows at hand. We're going to talk about blowdex sailing. But first, obviously, Real Housewives of New York.

of the Hamptons where we're going to be for a few episodes. This episode made me really happy because they went to Crow Dove Vineyards in the North Fork. And that's like one of my faves. Oh, yeah. And so Luan's talking about the North Fork in Greenport, like nobody knows about it. Like she said, it's a hidden gem. And like, it's not. Like, there's people live there.

Like, it's fully populated area in Long Island. Like, I appreciated that, though, that she. I feel like it's a hidden gem if you're the kind of person who only goes to like four places in the Hamptons, though. I, yes, you're right. You're right. Because it's like, I'm going to the Hamptons and it's like, no, venture out. There's other places to go. Like Ramona probably thinks they're like in the middle of nowhere.

She's like, I've never been here. Luann, what is this neighborhood? Where are we? I have to say Luan did a fantastic day trip for the girls. Like, it was beautifully planned. It was a good day. They had their little limo bus that they were taking around. So we start in the morning.

And, you know, everybody seems like they're, you know, in a pretty good spot. Sonia and Ramona are talking about how Ebony felt comfortable with the group. And Luanne maybe cautions Ebony that an Irish goodbye doesn't really work in a group of five people, which I think I noted last week that it's like, I don't know if that is a good strategy. But, you know, we seem good. Ramona's already giving Leah some outfit advice. Ebony came back, though. Ebony said, though, that she explained that she didn't want to be looked at as the party pooper in that sense.

And I was like, okay, that's a nice comeback. I feel it. I feel it for the Irish exit. Yeah. So Ramona and Leah are really just not clicking this episode. You know, we've seen them kind of start off on a better foot at the very beginning of the season. but while they're still at the house, Ramona is basically telling Leah that she should change because she's, like, embarrassed by her outfit.

She says she looks like Tarzan, which is like... Yeah, it absolutely reminded me of, like, when I was younger, like, nine. And my mom was like, go change your shirt. It was, it brought back, like, full on, like, childhood memories, you know, when you're, like, come downstairs and you're, like, absolutely not dressed for the place that you're going, except Leah's a grown adult. And also, her outfit was, like, was fashionable in her own way.

That's what's fun about fashion is there's no rules. Well, and, like, they're going to, like, a winery day. They're not going to, like, the Kentucky Derby where there's, like, a dress code and you would be, like, frowned upon to wear something edgy. Like, she's just dressing her style. Like, it's, they just have different styles. And I'm fast forwarding for a second. We'll obviously go back. But when Ramona took a walk and Sonia was talking.

talking to her and she was like, she's wearing prints. And Sony goes, so are you. And she goes, she's wearing multiple prints. And so are you. Like, Romano was wearing. And leopard and leopard. Same print. Two colors. No. Like, that's even worse, to be honest. But like, who cares? Like, that is so childish to, like, be, like, to be arguing about what Ramona was arguing about. Like, coming for her outfit, grow up. I also, like, on the bus, Leah says that she got a dick pick the night before. And Ramona, of course, says that dickpicks are not Ellen. And it's like, I don't think they're supposed to be. Also, we've talked about this before when the premiere started and Ramona was like

walking up this year. It's like, Ramon, does Ramona scream elegance to you? She really, she clings to this idea that she is elegant and classy. And I remember last year when Elise and Leah made that cameo video where they talked about Ramona shitting her pants, Ramona responded to that and was like, this is where a of elegant, classy ladies, and it's like, Ramona. Ramona, Ramona. We have spent too many years watching you make a fool of yourself for you to claim that you're like this 100% tasteful woman.

It is, it's just funny because Ramona is so predictable in that way. And Leah knows exactly how to push her buttons. And of course, we get all into this at this wine tasting. First, Ebony does bring up to Ramona the comment about the help, which she talked to Luanne about earlier. And Ramona, you know, she's a little interruptee. She's not the best listener, but I do think she at least is making an effort to show Ebony that she is like, okay, I get it. And I don't know if she like fully, fully understands it, but she at least acknowledges

what Ebony is saying and doesn't respond poorly. Right. And even in her professional, she was like, listen, like, I tend to have a slip of the mouth, which then they showed a preview of her slipping up multiple times throughout her seasons being on Real Housewives of New York, but she said, I'm not stupid. Like, I explained it. And the way Ebony explained it to her was so, first of all, like, Ebony was smart enough to, like, lower it down to talk to Ramona as opposed to having conversation. But she said, she's like, I'm not here to attack. Like, I'm explaining something to you. And Ebony just has this, like, charm about her where she's, like, educating you, but also, like, not talking to you,

like you're stupid and just making sure you're understanding what she's saying to you instead. And it was like, I feel like a lot of people should like talk to Ebony. I think Ebony knows that she's in a tricky position in this group. And she says, you know, she says in this episode, I'm not used to hanging out with this many white women. She obviously knows that she's the first black woman to be in this group on the show. And so I think that she is making a good choice for herself and kind of protecting herself and not sort of like trying to ruffle Ramona's feathers too much because obviously like Ebony

should be able to be whoever she wants to be and I hope we really get to see her like stay on the show and thrive and you know be her full self but I think she knows in this situation like I have to put it to Ramona this certain way it bothered me enough that I'm going to say something but like I'm not trying to make Ramona the villain here and I think that is like You know, she's making smart choices with how she's kind of working her way into the group. Meanwhile, at the next seat down, you have Leah who's fully just like in the mood to start shit with Ramona. Yes, she is. But at the same time, like even Ebony stated they have a different way of communicating,

which is totally fine. But I don't think Leah was attacking. We've said this before. I don't think she was attacking Ramona. She was having a conversation. and she was simply repeatedly asking Ramona if she donated the blood plasma because you can tell in the beginning Leah was saying like you don't understand. I feel like donating blood plasma is like a whole ordeal. It's not just like you went to the place. So the women were saying like,

Ron, I feel like you got caught up in your like in your lie. Just say you got confused and you didn't know really what you were doing. She goes, we went to the center. I went to the center. I gave my statement to the press. I gave my statement to the press. That's what it is. And then I'm sorry. When Ramona was just staring at Leah and Leah took her sunglasses off and goes, why are you staring at me? She was like, those eyes are so like, she was just looking at her and like blinking slowly.

And Leah was like, I think you're fucking lying. And, you know, Ramona was embarrassed. She did get embarrassed, but she didn't have to be. She could have just said, fuck. Like, I thought I donated blood plasma. Like, my bad. She would never say that. blood for something. Maybe I said the wrong thing. I'm not an expert. I'm no, I'm no Tiffany Moon.

But yeah, it's funny because she basically explains why what she said wasn't true, but then still comes to the conclusion that she wasn't lying. And obviously, like, Luanne and Sonia are not buying it at all, which is part of why it's so funny because literally nobody thinks she's telling the truth. And then, you know, she calls Leah a vicious girl. She really is, she's getting pretty angry with Leah. The new girls can go talk about me. The new girls can go talk about me. Ebony goes, no one's talking about you.

We're literally sitting right here, but I'm sorry, I just can't. I kept laughing. I can't get it out of my head when Ramona kept saying, I went to the center. Did you not think that was so funny? I went to the center. Like she just kept saying that, but everyone was like, what does that mean? It's clear that she did some blood thing, but like getting tested for antibodies is not the same as donating plasma. And then she's like, I went. I saw, you know, I saw they were doing

testing. So I went. What do you know? I had it. I had coronavirus. What do you know? And then she pulls, she and Sonia go to talk. And Sonia says something about it being a cancellation consolation. She can't quite, she can't quite put into words what she's trying to say. Like, she, I don't know. And then Ramona is like, I heated the pool to 95 degrees for this bitch. I invited her into my home. It's, yeah. And she screams like a leopard, you know, there's a lot going on. I hated my pool for 95 degrees. Right.

So if Leo wasn't there, you wouldn't have heated your pool for anyone else because that's special treatment for one person. I don't think so. But like, forget about Ramona. We see Sonia getting more and more and more tipsy, shall we say, throughout the day. And even Ebony pointed out, she goes, this girl you would think was like hiding shots. under the table. And, but she goes, she wasn't.

This happened, like, this goes from zero to 100. She gets drunk. Like, Ebony, Ebony says that Sonia is evolving to very tipsy throughout the day, which is a fun way of putting that. When they're leaving the winery, they take the lobster rolls and we get a fun flashback to when Sonia did that a couple seasons ago. I thought it was very rude, however, in this flashback, we saw Sonia and Tinsley. And they labeled Tinsley, Sonia's friend.

It's like, we fucking know. She was a cast member. She was on the show. She was on the show a year ago, not like back in 2012. Yeah, it was weird. But also, since Ebony is new to the group and hasn't been around this behavior, whenever they do a pan to her, whenever Sonia, like, is drunk, her facial expressions are so funny because she doesn't know, like, how to react to this because it is. Sonia, we have seen Sonia drunk obviously, but this episode, I thought, I mean,

it's not, this isn't normal. Her behavior is actually not normal. Like something is bothering her, but at the same time, like this episode happened to have been a little bit more funny than her past. Like, it, it, it, the thing she was saying, the thing she was doing. She was just having a good time. No one else was, really. But she was living.

We're at this bar later on. And Leah is kind of stirring up the. shit talking about Heather Thompson, who is going to be coming in next week's episode. And we saw her having this conversation with Ramona last week about, you know, this woman has talked shit about you. And this week, she takes it one step further. Sonia and Luanne are there. And she's reading tabloid headlines of stuff that Heather has said about them. And like, I get it. Like, I understand where Leah's coming from. But at the same time, it's like, you're really like building this situation up to be a bad, a bad setup. And like, you're, you're purposely making

Luann angry and you're purposely making Sonia angry before they're about to see Heather. And it's like, I'm not necessarily mad about it, but like, it is very messy. I agree. I think it, it's like the type of thing where you'd be like, why are you doing that? You don't need to. But at the same time, she's like, I'm kind of going to defend myself and not make me look like the bad person in front of having her. I'm going to let you guys know, like, what's been going on. But they, Ramona and Leah, after that argument at the winery, we never saw them. I feel like they're like sisters where they fight and then like they just ignored each

other for the whole day. But then at that dinner, that particular dinner, they were sitting across from each other. And Ramona was like, oh, God, do we have to? Like, they just like kind of didn't show us like if they did make up or if they did have a conversation. There was a lot going on at that dinner. So I think maybe that got left on the. cutting room floor because then we see throughout the episode Sonia is just like not into Luann's

relationship with Garth Garth Garth Garth Garth. Garth? Not a Garth, not Garth. Okay, first of all, I have to just highlight earlier in the episode. We knew that Luan met Garth on a dating app. I think everyone assumed it was like Raya. She said it was on Hinge, which I was like, Luan was on Hinge. I mean, like, I'm on Hinge. Okay. But also. I mean, if you see me on Hymie. Hala. When they did another flashback, when Luann didn't like to be introduced as Luann, she was like, you need to introduce me as Mrs. Dayless Saps. And now we see her on Hinge.

Always an iconic moment. She's come so far. But yeah, so this thing with Garth is coming up, and Luan facetimes Garth while they're at the table, and Sonia is like super mad about it, which, to be honest, I think FaceTiming someone at a group dinner is like weird to me. I've always thought that's weird. They were seeing him the next morning. Like he was coming to do a workout. So I did think that was kind of weird also. But. But then Sonia is like already losing it. And so she facetimes this guy William who apparently, she facetimes him twice. Apparently he works for J.P. Morgan Chase. And she's thinking this is like

her still her family company. Ebony takes the phone. She's like talking about this work that JP Morgan has done, you know, to close the equality gap. And she's getting her mortgage with Chase. And Ramona's like, Wells Fargo's rates are lower. That is the most Ramona thing to ever say. It's like, bitch, she already said she's getting her mortgage. Like she doesn't, she's not like looking for a consultation. That, okay. So when Sonia heard that, it was almost like a snap of oh my God, that triggered her like. And that right there just showed. shows you that that really is the problem, like, deep down inside of her. I mean, not that we didn't know that before, but she just, like, that set her off. And she started screaming,

she shoved Ramona a little bit. Like, she was like, that's not my family. That's not my family. And we're talking about Ebony getting, like, her mortgage from Chase Bank. She's not even using Wells Fargo. But, like, I was joking. I wanted to see the stocks. Not that, you know, Bravo is a whole different like ballgame, but I was like, did, did the stocks go up or down for these companies? They were just mentioning them screaming in a restaurant, but yeah. Well, Barry, you know that the homeless are getting homeless lur. Yeah. Oh, boy. That was. Oh, Sonia. Yeah, I mean, I feel bad. You can tell she is hurting, but like the girl's taking away her alcohol, too, like cutting her off of the table. Like,

I feel like this is the type of thing. You just have to have a conversation with, like, don't embarrass someone like at the table. I feel like we've all been there with a friend too. I feel like maybe we've all done that before where you take away the wine. Then Luam was like, well, don't go put it in front of me. Like they're passing a wine glass around the table. These women. Oh, my Lord. It was a lot. It was a lot. We're going to get a continuation next week. I don't feel great about where this Hampton's trip is heading, especially with Heather coming into the mix. I have kind of an ominous feeling. But. Well, we knew that was going to happen when they told us it was five days because that right there is just incredibly long.

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My heart broke for Glenn. Like it really did. He was so embarrassed and it just wasn't his fault. It wasn't. And like you could tell I feel like it was just a perfect storm of things going wrong. And it was like definitely just a malfunction. It happened. They fixed it.

But this charter, oh boy. I was relieved to find out that the boat crashing wasn't really anyone's fault because I felt I just had kind of like, I don't know, that just felt so uncomfortable. I don't want to see anyone. Like, nobody's gotten fired this season. Like, we're in a really good place. And so I was just like, don't, don't. Yeah, I was glad. But honestly, by the end of the episode, like the door still opened, like the door still.

But by the end of the episode, I barely even remember that the boat crashed. I know, but I'll leave it to Daisy to be like eight years in yachting and I've never seen a boat crash and so far too this season. I was like, all right, don't rub it in. Like, it was a mistake. Just like let it go. Also, like, it hit twice in the same incident. It wasn't like two different times. Okay, so this charter is a, but they didn't say where they were from, but I feel like Florida maybe.

Like they just seem like this group of women is from. Florida. Like, I don't know. It's a Florida vibe for sure. And one of these women, one of these women was on the Bachelor before. The blonde one. Which blonde? Which one? Erica Rose. Oh my God. That's funny. I guess. She seems like she would be, she's more of a rock of love type. Like, she would be on rock of love. I think this was like several years ago. Like, I don't think it was, like, it's not a season that I've seen. This group of women, I can't tell the dynamic. I can't tell who's friends and who's not like it was almost like this girl the primary just like picked random women she knows to come on the boat because they're not getting along they're not they're all pissing each other off it's it's

bizarre but well so there's there's erika and her mom yeah who decides that she needs someone to unpack for her and then talks to alley for 90 minutes while she's unpacking which is just a nightmare it is so rude to do that. It is so freaking rude to do that. Like, first of all, these, I, this, this episode just screamed money can't buy class. I'm sorry, I had to say it because, like, you gotta be kidding me. Like, also at that point,

wouldn't Erica, or anyone, if that was your mom, go down and be like, mom, what are you doing? Like, come up, come up. Why are you sitting in the room watching the girl on Pack when you could just be doing it herself? And Ali doesn't want to hear what you have to say. She also has other things to do. Sorry, that pissed me off so much. Right. You know, it took her twice as long because she was, you know, listening to this woman talk. But then, so we, that's Erica.

And then we have, what's her name in the Trump bikini? Tatas for Trump? Titties for Trump. Like, she goes, I'm not trying to like make anything political or make anyone uncomfortable. I was like, are you fucking kidding me?

It's like, to each your own, but you're the one wearing a Trump bikini. Correct. Like, you can wear it. whatever you want. Like no one, but you, the fact that you just said, I'm not trying to, and your boobs are in everyone's face. They say Trump.

And you could tell, like, 20 minutes later, she was out of that bathing suit. Like, she changed. Yeah. It's, it's one of those things where you go to a costume party, like, wearing something intense and then nobody else is really dressed up. And you're like, okay, I'm going to, like, put on a sweater. But, yeah. And so we figure out, like, pretty quickly that there's this drama going on between, um, between,

between Tatas for Trump Girl and the other co-primary, who I think her name is Jessica. It's a jet. Yeah. And so they are, they have this tension. And, you know, she feels like the other women are like talking about her. She needs a massage to wind down. So Ali has to give her a massage, which like, Ali is really just, or no, Danny gives her the massage. I was wondering about that because I thought Daisy would like have called to shore and been,

And I agree. There was massage. In the past, we've definitely seen them, like, bring on massage therapists or whatever onto the boat. But maybe, like, they weren't close to a town that would have had those services. Like, it might be kind of a thing where you're not always close enough. Like, the girl was sitting in her own bed. Like, it was just, if you're paying for that, I would want, like, an actual legit spa day. You know what I mean?

Like, no, I don't know. I don't know. I mean, I guess it worked out. fine and it's these people would have been pleased with anything I feel so they would have been pleased with anything except for when they're told they're getting a five-course dinner and natasha just mentally downgrades that to three courses just because they're drunk like natasha i will say like i understand that she doesn't think they'll be able to appreciate like fine gourmet food but like the amount of food is different like if i'm told like maybe i'm not going to like appreciate like a delicate balance

of flavors when I'm wasted, but if you told me I'm getting five different kinds of food, I'm going to remember that. Also, her idea, her explanation made no sense because when you're drunk, you eat more. And they didn't seem like they were at the point of passing out. Like, they were just having a good time. They were like, they were like fun drunk where like I wouldn't want to be sober around that group, but they weren't like causing problems. Except for like fighting with each other.

Right. And the issue is Natasha said it. And then she almost like tricked them into saying like, no, three courses. And they were all like, the girls were like pretty well aware. And listen, you can't mess with food with people. They heard five. Like that is, that is what. Natasha has this bad habit.

We haven't seen it in a few charters. But where she like gaslights people about what she told them before. And she's like, no, no, three courses. And it's like, okay, like if the plan changed, that's a set. separate issue, but like you, you said five. And everybody knows you said five. I know. Also, she could have just to cover her own ass conversed with Daisy and been like, listen, what should we do? You know what I mean? And that could have like solved a bunch. But I feel like she's that we know they're obviously friendly in real life now. But she didn't, she doesn't want to like lower herself to Daisy. She wants to like be the one to make the decisions in the kitchen as opposed to like it could have just been made life a lot easier. Like figuring.

it out with the chiefs too. Right. She's like, she's like hyper aware of always looking like she has things under control, but sometimes that makes it so that you're lacking in communication, which would actually make things go more smoothly. Right. I don't know. But then the other main thing happening this episode is that J.L. is noticing some redness and then is starting to experience some pain in, you know, the lower regions. The groin area. Yeah. And he thinks that he might have chlamydia again. We don't get more of a backstory on that, which is I'm fine with. And as soon as he said that, I thought he had mentioned that before, but I'm not, maybe I'm making things up. I'm not sure. I thought he had mentioned chlamydia before. I think that was,

I think it was just in the preview. So you, like, you probably heard that. Oh, my God. Whoa. I do that too. I'm like, we've seen this before. And it's like, no, I just watch the preview four times. Yeah, I mean, it's just ask to go to the doctor. Why are you like, wait? You know, he's like, it's like escalating throughout the day. And he could just ask Glenn if he can go to the doctor. But he like weirdly tells Danny about it in like a very uncomfortable way. I don't know. He was like laughing. I guess there is no right or wrong way as long as he did tell her. That's a tough situation. I mean, he's. did the right thing by telling her. Of course. Because obviously, like, it's, that's information that you should disclose because asked you with their health. But, like, it's hard because, yeah, there isn't, it's a very, like, taboo thing to talk about. So there is kind of no right way to tell someone. And unfortunately, Danny does not respond well. I mean, she doesn't do anything wrong here. Like, she is, she's clearly just, like, having a reaction to this, like, news that she's,

getting, but it's, it's hard to watch because it's just like, to be honest, like, if you get chlamydia, it's not that big of a deal. Right. Like, it's treatable. It's curable. I don't know. Obviously, they don't know, like, exactly what it is yet because they haven't gotten tested. But it's like, I don't know.

It's hard to watch Danny kind of having such a big reaction to this because it's like, just, just go figure it out and then be upset if you need to, like, I don't know. It's, it's tough because it feels like. like they're just kind of like, I don't know. Well, because she keeps saying, like, I want to go home. Like, I don't belong here and better than this. And it's like what I feel like, again, there was something maybe else bothering her. And then this was like the last straw. But yeah. She was like, in her confession, she was like, and now what did you give to me? Like, and it's like, well, we slow down. We don't know anything. Like he needs to go to the doctor.

You should go to the doctor. Like also like J.L. honestly, he did like the non-fuck boy thing by telling her right away in this situation, like, whatever. I mean, it's going to be fine. They're going to be fine. Danny's now, like, about to have a baby. I hope that they're going to be fine. But I guess I, he was laughing in a way where it's like, I guess I'm going back and saying, I guess it is an uncomfortable thing to tell someone.

It is. It is. And he, um, I just hope he's like, okay. I mean, it happened very quick. He kept going to the bathroom and he was like, every time he went, he was like, oh, my God. So it like kept getting more red and more pain. So I was like, oh my God, go to the doctor. Right. I hope he does. Maybe they just have to make it through this charter first. Okay. Let's get into our grab the skinny pop moments of the day. Endless entertainment calls for

endless popcorn. And luckily, every kernel of skinny pop is so light, crunchy and delicious that we love to eat it by the handful or even the bagful. Barry, tell us all, tell the people, what's your grab the skinny pop moment of the day? My grab the skinny pop moment was Sonia, Miss Sonia. walking through the winery and just an older man just sitting by himself is complimenting her. She's beautiful. Strictly the girl in the white. So Ramona, not Ramona. The girl in the white is beautiful.

Your body is beautiful. And like I appreciated that because I feel like Sonia just needed that lift me up. And I thought that was almost I was eating the skinny pop as if I was watching a rom-com. But it was really just rony. And it made me feel good. to see Sonia feeling good. But yeah, I'm stepping away from the drama this week. But Dylan, what was your? Grab the Skinny Pop moment. Mine was when they were at the bar pre-dinner and Leah kind of got real with Luann for a minute and was bringing up this topic of Luan kind of seeming like she might be

using this Fosé as a little bit of a crutch. And like, you know, the fact that she still kind of has the bottle with her and she's drinking out of the wine glass. Like she might be closer to, you know, having a sip of the real rosé than she kind of is telling herself that she is. And I thought that this was interesting just because so much of the time on this show, the conversation has been about how much everyone is drinking and all of this stuff. And so to have this perspective of two sober people kind of figuring that out together, I thought it was super interesting. And obviously they are not on the exact same page about it. And so I'm curious to see kind of how that, you know, continues to evolve. We see in the preview, Luann is feeling uncomfortable. I just think it's,

it's a great thing to see this being talked about in a way that is, you know, it's still a tough conversation, but, you know, they're both talking about it in a way where they want to be supportive of each other and not like somebody yelling at somebody else that they're an alcoholic and like we've had in the past season. So I'm grabbing the Skinny Pop for that important conversation. That is, that is great to hear. Well, those are today's grab the Skinny Pop moments. You can grab Skinny Pop yourself at Retailers Nationwide

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