Mention It All - Mary Cosby on Lisa Barlow’s Shady Comments On RHOSLC Ft. Mary Cosby

Episode Date: October 21, 2025

On this week’s video episode, Dylan is joined by Real Housewives of Salt Lake City legend Mary Cosby for an unfiltered sit down about her growth on RHOSLC. Mary opens up about her evolving friendships with all the SLC women, reacts to Lisa Barlow’s comments about living a "different life" than the rest of the cast, and explains why she’ll never “save it for the camera.” She also gets candid about her relationship with her mom and son, the chaos of season 6, and why she’s “not into the nasty stuff.” Go to the BravoByBetches YouTube page to watch full length episodes every Tuesday: Youtube.com/@BravoByBetches Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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See Store Online for details. Hey everyone, welcome back to the Mention at All podcast. We are deep into the season of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City. And I am so excited to have here, another one of our OG Salt Lake ladies for the first time. Mary Cosby, welcome to the show. Thank you. How are you? I'm good.

I am so glad to finally get you in the studio. We've had a lot of your fellow Salt Lake ladies over the years. Good. And you have been highly requested. So people... That's an honor. People love some Mary Cosby these days. Good.

I think you're having a little bit of a moment. I hope so. I mean, I love them right back, you know. I always have. I think I'm more open and I'm more opening up and more dropping my walls. So people are liking it, I think. I think that over the, you know, it's season six of the show. You were there from day one.

You took some time off. You came back a few seasons ago. I think people really recognize. that kind of shift that you've had over the years of feeling maybe more comfortable, maybe a little more open and just kind of like jumping into whatever comes next on the experience. Because this show throws a lot of stuff at you. Yeah. It's a, I wouldn't say a challenge, but I think the hardest part is opening up to the people

and being vulnerable and being who you like really are, which. I came in like that. And I think in the beginning, people didn't understand it because I was also, I didn't know what I signed up for. I was like, I'm supposed to talk bad about her. Okay. I was like, okay, I got it. And I don't know how to do.

You know, I was like, I don't really care about her business. Like, I don't really care. There's not a lot of forums in life where it's appropriate or even encouraged to be right, making a shady comment to be. No, it has to be natural. behind someone's back. And so I can see for somebody like you coming into the into this experience, you do kind of have to like learn that. Yeah. When you're not raised like, yeah, I'm not into it. And I think the more importantly is you have to care. You know, you have to care about their

business even inquire or say, well, you did this. And I didn't do that, but you did. You know, it's like I'm an adult. I'm a full blown adult. I don't care about. I have my whole, you know, my whole life is a lot and I'm into it and I enjoy it. So what was it like in those first couple seasons for you kind of getting used to the the sort of cycle of like, okay, we are going to talk about everybody's business. I do kind of need to participate and to react and to have my own thoughts about, you know, this person that otherwise I wouldn't be in the same room as. But like, what was it like kind of getting used to that expectation? I don't think I ever got used to it. I don't think I ever will.

I just, I get by with being myself and my authentically self. And sometimes I blurt out stuff. And sometimes I'm like, that happened? You know, or is it true? Or, you know, just things like that. But I don't ever want to change who I am. I don't mind being to myself. I don't mind not reading people's shade or wanting to, well, I guess I do reshade.

But I mean, it's not intentional. but I'm just being myself. And so that kind of falls. And as you see, even this season, as you see, I'm not really into the mix or to the heart of the nasty stuff. I'm more, I got my own life going on and I'm willing to open up. And I think being in that place, people are interested. And they think I have a lot to offer, which I don't know what's going on, but they like it.

I think some of your best moments are that kind of, that kind of role in a group scene where there's so much commotion happening. There's so much chaos. And you're kind of like, what? Yeah. Is everyone okay? I think you, I mean, you have such a gift of, of facial expression, of just sort of like reacting to people.

And I think that's part of, part of what makes housewives work really well when it is, is like, whoever's involved in the, you know, the argument or whatever, but also you have to have people reacting and weighing in and things. And I think you give good, you give good reaction. And I think they're good because they're not, they're not practiced. It's just me. You know, it's like, like, you know, I'm just trying to make sense out of it and trying to gather my thoughts really quick because it's going down fast. And I'm like, okay, this is

happening. And I'm in the midst of it. And I need to, like either react or walk away. Well, I think in your, in your group especially, there are such big personalities. People have so much, you know, so much shade, so many, you know, little digs flying back and forth, like just watching. It's enjoying. I like it. Lisa's like dismissed press conference thing.

And all of the, all of the elements of that, it's like you're watching, you know, a three-act drama in one at one table. Yeah, but at the end of the day, it's real life. And it's kind of weird because you can't believe people are really like that. You know, it's like, are you really like this? And they're like, yeah, this is me. I'm being vulnerable. And I'm like, well, that's not good.

Do you know, put it down a little bit, tone it down a little bit. But yeah, it's good because Lisa's being Lisa. That's really who Lisa is. I don't even think Lisa's aware of. of who Lisa is, but we see it. And, you know, Heather's who she is. Angie is who Angie is. I mean, I feel like we're all just kind of,

we're showing people who we really are. And either you like it or you don't, you know. And I think it's enjoyable. When Angie said you do French fries, I do French. Isn't that good? I even had to say, I was like, I had to gather my thoughts. Because most of the time I'm zoned out. Like, I'm just like, you know, I can.

They keep you with. those tables for a long time. Yeah, yeah, a long time. And I love the French fry franchise dig. That was good. She's going to put that on a T-shirt or something. You do French fries and I do franchise. That's right. I heard that. I loved it. With Lisa this season, obviously there's a lot of conversation about these, you know, different legal situations and things like that and what's in the press and all of those things. But I'm wondering for you, there are some comments that she's made in her interviews or talking to Heather about kind of her doing all these big things and having all this success and this, you know, big, splashy life and that nobody else in the group understands

that. Right. Nobody else realizes that she's doing big things. What is it like for you to see and hear those things and kind of be like, I'm here, we're all here? Well, I just feel like, like I said, that's really who Lisa is. and I think she really believes that. I mean, for me, it's okay. Because I don't think she sees herself.

And, you know, we all have to evolve. We all have to be a better person and be a better person. And I don't think you can change until you see it. And if you don't see it, you're not planning on changing anytime soon. And I just think that's who she really is. Yeah. And she really believes that. I mean, for you guys, for you and Lisa and Meredith and Heather and Whitney,

you've been on this ride together now for a long time. You know, you've spent a lot of life experiences with them. You've traveled with them. You've done all of the crazy Bravo press stuff with them. At a certain point, like, you know kind of what to expect from each person when you've had all of this experience with them. So maybe that makes it easier to kind of be like, well, Heather's going to be Heather. You know, Meredith's going to be Meredith.

And maybe we're getting along today. maybe we're not. But like... I believe in people... When people show you who they are, it's important to believe them. And I go with that. I feel like that...

I use that in life. I feel like they're showing you who they are. It's just up to you to either accept it and believe it or try to put sense in their head. And you can't put sense in someone's head that really believes that their life is different. You know? Yeah.

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See you this summer. You saying that when somebody shows you that, you kind of believe them and go with that. What is it like for you to kind of go through the ups and downs in a friendship, in a relationship, and really feel like you should be working on those relationships and trying to get to better understandings with people, maybe knowing that it's like there's a side of this person that I'm never going to enjoy, but that I still should want to be in a good place with them. How is that for you? I think that's what I do. I think I'm probably the most observant out of the group. I kind of sit back and watch each one of them and learn how they are and kind of see who they are and believe them, believe who they are.

And so when they do odd behavior, I just believe it. And I'm like, God help her. You know, I'm constantly praying for them and asking God to give them forgiveness and hope that they one day will see the light and be in reality. because I don't feel like they sometimes live in, you know, our world. It's a whole other place that they're living in, and I just, I don't think I ever want to visit. I just, I'm good. So I just, I, I accept them and I kind of befriend the person that, I feel like all of them have something good about them.

I mean, I mean, you can't all be, like everything about you can't be bad, you know, unless you find it. but I find the good and I deal with that and that's how I maintain a friendship with them without getting completely into their life like not being like besties like I just and that's a it's an adult way to approach friendships that you're saying like I have my own stuff going on you have your own stuff going on we'll find the common ground where we can enjoy each other and have a good time that's how you do but you don't need to you arrange your whole life to have that person inside of it. Yeah. Yeah. And they're not there. I don't know if they're that important. See, I got to watch them. You know, you have to prioritize people. Yeah. And

take them, meet them where they're meeting you, you know. If they are into you, then you get back into them. If they're not into you, then I'm not going to lose sleep. I mean, I'm definitely going to get my rest and I'll see you in the morning, you know. I don't know. No, I get it. I mean, you also, you have stuff going on in your own life. And you've, you mentioned you've gotten more comfortable sharing things and being open about stuff that's going on with your family and with your, you know, the church we

saw is reopening on the show. What is it like for you kind of navigating those things, knowing that maybe you're not the most comfortable just being an open book like some people want to put it. all out there, but for you kind of buying into this idea that people are interested in your life. I don't know if I'm buying into it. I think that I'm willing to give them a little bit. I don't give everything to anyone, like only to God. I feel like I give what I feel is necessary that might help. And I show, I show things that could help my neighbor or could help my friend, could help another person. And I feel.

feel like that's necessary and I think that's why I'm here I feel like it's all the Lord's work you know and at the end of the day you I'm here to help I'm here to help somebody and I know that I'm not the only one that has trials and troubles and hard hard times and good times and you know I'm I'm comfortable my life is good but it also comes with bad and I think people should know that and I'm willing to share that part but there's a whole other side of me I don't I won't ever Give up. No, I'm kidding. You're like, okay, don't get too, don't get too nosy.

I mean, you're, you're, the way that you shared what your son was going through last season and into this season was really, really impactful. Thank you. And I think, I hope that you were able to sort of take in some of the reaction to that and the way that people were connecting with it. Yeah, I've seen it all. It was beautiful. It was something that, I mean, it's one thing to acknowledge.

that something is happening or to like, you know, share it in a more general way. But like to really have those conversations in a way that people feel, you know, that they have a window into what's going on. Like that's a, that's something not everyone would do. And I think it's, it's, you know, it's great that you were open to kind of sharing that. You know, I got a lot of emails, a lot of DMs, a lot of sliding in my, to my DMs. and they are telling me your son's doing this and your son's doing that. And I just thought, well, bring it to the forefront. You know, why not just display it and let them know that I know, which I didn't,

but I found out, I found out with you guys, you know. And I thought that was probably the one of the most beautiful things I could have done, because which we didn't even really talk about it. I don't think we planned it. I think that the cameras started rolling. We started talking. And even from day one, I told my son, never worry about. about the cameras. I will never take you down a road that exposes something that you don't want to be

exposed, but never worry about it. Like, always talk to me. When you're talking, look at me, focus on me, think about what we're talking about. And he does that. And I think that it translates to the audience very well. Like, he's a very good talker. He knows how to use his word. He word salads very well. But, you know, I just thought that, This would, this is an epidemic and it's a problem in our world and it's real and it's happening and it's happening in my home. And so what else could I have, you know, I mean, I'm not going to sit there and pretend. Right. And I think that even when you, like you said, you didn't talk about in advance what that conversation was going to look like or how it was going to play out and that, you know, you can be open to having the conversation, but that doesn't always mean it's going to go exactly the way you wanted to.

I know, but I never, I never plan. All my scenes, they're just, in that moment, they're happening. Even with my cousin, like, he's my brother, but he's my cousin, but I call my brother, Big Joe, in the scene of the church scene when we were talking, we didn't plan that. We just sat down and talked. And I tell everyone that films with me, don't worry about the cameras. Just talk to me and be authentic and give the world something, have depth. and have feeling to what you're meaning because why else are we here?

Why are we behind these cameras? You know, it's not just for me to be somebody important. It's for me to help. And I really believe that. I'm curious for you. So the church reopening after a couple years, I know that's a really exciting thing in your life, knowing that in the past people were, you know, trying to scrutinize or ask questions about that part of your life.

Lisa. Your life. Yeah. Was it at all, were you hesitant at all to, to bring that back onto the show this season? Of course. Yeah, definitely hesitant and not sure. Now, that's something I wasn't sure about. That was something I kind of got, had to, I needed to be encouraged. And I was. And, you know, I pray a lot. And I had, I just thought to myself, if I put my son on national television, I definitely could put my church on there. So I made it make sense and went for it.

Yeah. And here we are. Well, and I think that's something where obviously it's totally with your right to have certain things that you keep private. But that is such a big part of your life and your story that it makes sense if you're sharing this, you know, chapter in your life, that that would be at least a small piece of it. I think everything happens in its time. And I think it was just the right time to. open up and open up that side of my church too because I think it ties in with my life like every six

months I got something going on it's like my mom died you know my my son I my church like so is like I feel like every six months I'm I go through a big trial or a big test yeah and I share it with you guys yeah I mean it was it was really I thought it was really you know fascinating to hear about your mother and you know you guys had a complicated relationship and I think so many people too can relate to that. And even even in your in this group we see Bronwyn on the same episode having her mom or my I was going to say I was like she reminds me of my like yeah. It sounds like your relationships with your mothers maybe had some some parallels there. I really like her mom though. I don't know if that I like I really like the dynamic of her truth. I like that she's honest.

She can throw it though. She knows that she's good. I think so can Bronwyn. And it seems... I think that's what you got it from. Obviously, we're just seeing... We're just scratching the surface of their relationship. But it feels like there is love there and they just maybe aren't exactly lining up on how to express that. I think it helps us see where Bronwyn gets it from.

Because I think Bronwyn has... I think our moms are our example and we can choose to either go down their path and be like them or we can choose not to and make a conscious decision. I think because when Bronwyn was like, I don't want to be like that, you know, and I get that. The same, I didn't want to be like my mom. My mom was my example of how not to be and lead your life and live it,

you know, because they strongly put their opinion and put their way on you and expect it from you. And you feel like you're letting them down or you're disappointing them. But when my mom turned away from me, she did not want to reconcile. She didn't want to talk it out. I'm the talker. I like to talk it out.

I like to get through it. Let's get to the nitty-gritty. What's the problem? She didn't want that. And that taught me not to be like that. And I refuse to be like her with Mike's son. And I think that's why we do have a good relationship. That's why we do have a good communication style, you know.

Right, that maybe not everything is perfect all the time, but that you can talk through the issues that do arise so that it doesn't fester into something for the next 20 years or whatever. Yeah, and they're not afraid. They're not afraid to tell you and open up and tell you their dark, dark stuff. Like, that's something I think you have to build with your child. You just don't like, because you'll turn around one day and they're full blown adult like me. And they have problems with.

they don't like the way you raised them or something. I didn't want that with my child because my mom was like that. She didn't really, she didn't really care what we had to say. Well, she cared what I had to say because I always had something to say. You could give it back to her. I did, but I was raised not to disrespect my mom, so I didn't. I didn't, you know, you definitely respect them and you don't talk back. But I always saw the truth out of what she was saying.

Even to this day, I've never lied to my son ever. And my mom always lied to me. And I just feel like little things like that is so important to, you know, have, I don't know, the outcome of your life and your relationships. And I think that falls back to having a mom life. Yeah. So good, so good. Everything you want for summer is at Nordstrom rack stores now and up to 60% off.

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Own the Dream. I mean, it's been interesting, too, to hear Angie talk a little bit about, you know, her relationship with her mom growing up. And obviously she, you know, isn't around anymore. but she has such a lovely relationship with her dad. Like that is such a beautiful, beautiful, like warm thing to see. And I think it's, it's cool to see within this group, like how those different relationships and challenges and things have affected all of you. And maybe how you can find common ground over those experiences. I think we have.

Yeah. Because I feel like I'm, I mean, obviously I'm close to Angie, but I feel like I'm close to Brown one as well. Like I really like Bramman. Like she's cool. I think she's a great addition to the show. Like she's brought in us so much. You both bring the fashions? Yeah.

Not the costumes. She's, I don't know. She's better than her. She's like on a whole other level. I'm not wearing duck shoes. Like I'm not wearing any high heels that got ducks on the bottom. No,

I'm not doing that. But I can appreciate it. Oh, yeah. I appreciate what she brings in her style, her fashion, her mind. I think she's very, very well-spoken.

And she's, and I just, I enjoy her. I don't, I don't understand why Heather's problem is. Yeah. I like Browning. I was going to ask about that because I think, you know, they kind of, they had their issues last season two. And then this, on the, on the camping trip, there was that, you know, miskind of understanding of Heather talking about her, her daughter's leaving the house and Bronwyn, you know, responding

to that. Yeah. And I, I thought Bronwyn didn't align with what Heather was saying. I think some kind of way. something got missed because Brownwin kind of, I don't know, she was like, well, that's not me. And I can never, I don't want my daughter to leave. And Heather's like, I was like, did you not just hear what she just, are we in the same conversation?

Or are we, you know, so I don't, I think Bronwyn may have been cooking or something and maybe just sat down and just start talking. I don't know. I feel like that's, when you're in those group scenes sometimes, like you said, you'll space out. And then it's like, oh, if you check back in at the wrong time, it can be dangerous. I do it all the time. It's the dust between you and I.

Don't ever tell any more. I'm always checked out. I'm like, what happened? But yeah, that can happen. But I think that, I mean, those can be some great comedy moments. Yeah. Sometimes some great drama moments. You never know what you're going to get.

I love your shoes, by the way. Sorry, I had to say that. You look nice. Thank you. Yeah, they're cute. That's so good. Thank you. Thank you.

Yeah, I mean, you've had some looks in your time. What is it? How much thought, do you put into, I'm going to an event on the show. I'm doing my confessional interview on the show. Like, do you look at the season as a whole? Do you just kind of go into the closet every day and see what's pop in? I do a lot of thinking about what I have, what I'm excited to wear, what I bought, that I haven't worn it since I bought it.

And I just love getting dressed. I've been loving to get dress and go somewhere since I was, like when I was like in, kindergarten, I used to just change my clothes all day. My mom said I would leave a trail of clothes because I would change into a new outfit. So I'm getting dressed for me is exciting. I still, I mean, make sure you follow it with the bath and, you know, you have a smell good and you can't get dressed and you didn't, you have the same underwear on it. But I mean, I try to, you know, just that whole thing, the whole building up to it is exciting. And I, I've always loved clothes. I've always loved fashion. And I've always loved.

And I think about it first. It's like a thought process. I think about what I could wear. What would look good? What shoes do I have? And then I go and execute. And then I get dressed and I'm like, this looks horrible. Sometimes I, like, this is hard too because sometimes the vision is there.

But then on camera, it's not right. That's right. Or you have to think about a lot. Yeah, it's true. But I'm not wearing Doug shoes. Okay. So we're good. We're still good.

You're not wearing the like costume to the airport. Exactly. Yeah, I don't know what that. Do you think from from when you started the first, you know, the first couple of seasons you were on the show to now, do you think you put more or less thought into how you're going to show up on the show, how you're going to approach a situation, what you want to share? Has it gotten easier for you or do you think it's more complicated now? well it's easier in the sense of just knowing okay we're going to film it's almost like not work but you know what to expect perfect but it's it's harder in the way that every year you get closer to the women you get closer to some of them you get um you learn to start loving them and you

me personally tries to hold that back I'm like no I don't want to feel anything so I can just keep just losing my mind and saying what I want and You know, just doing whatever. But that gets harder when you're with them, filming and traveling and being with them. And a portion of your life is with them. And so, you know, they become real friends and they become real people. And you see them as real people. And you start to get more concerned about their feelings.

And then you know that you've got to make a scene and you know you got to make it work. And you do get really angry. Yeah. And you do say things, which you'll see. coming up. I say a little few things to Meredith. Okay. But yeah. I mean, you and Meredith have had

more ups and downs than a roller coaster, I think. I don't even know why. Like, but now she's best friends with Lisa. Mm-hmm. I don't understand. You know, I'm just trying to keep up. It's something different every year. I'm like, what?

Where did that come from? I think that's really interesting. That like for you, it's like being able to remove yourself from, the emotional part of a situation is like a little bit of protection and you're not going to get your feelings hurt. You're not going to get, you know, too attached. But then the longer that you're on the show, it's like, I can't pretend that I don't care about some of these people. Well, except Britney. I mean, you don't have to pretend that.

But I mean. She's always the announcements. The unannouncements is the problem. They're announcements, but they're not. As of today, do you think she's with Jared or is she not with Jared? She's 100% with Jared. Okay. I think I could be wrong.

Today. This, let's see what time is it. Yeah. At this very, yes. This New York time. Put the time stamp. They are together. They're probably together eating lunch.

Okay. Right now. Okay. But tomorrow they'll be broke up. Exactly. And she'll. Well, I think it's, it's hard too because when someone new comes in a group that is really like a well oiled machine, you want them to be bringing, you know, drama.

Well, oiled? What do you mean? You guys, you guys are a great cast. Okay. People love you guys together. So when someone new comes in, it can be challenging to, to establish yourself. For me, it's not, it's not someone, I don't mind someone new coming in. Like, I'm not, like, that hater type.

Like, this, this is not my energy. Like, I don't mind it. Like, some people just don't like new people coming in. group. They just don't like it. It's some type of threat. It's a threat. Yeah. Yeah. For me, I don't, I don't mind that. It's just when they come in and they're annoying. Right. And it's like, stop. Like, quit it. You know, it's like you want them to just act right and just like get it. And I think that was the thing with Brittany is that it always felt like she was trying to kind of grab that moment. That it's like, what about me? I have an announcement. It's like, we're

talking about something else. One time I, one time she said, oh, Mary, save it for the camera. And I thought, you need to be taught or skills. I don't save anything for the camera, honey. Like, the camera gets plenty. The camera is waiting for me. I'm not waiting for the camera. Yeah, and she has that mindset. And I thought, and I told her, I'm like, Brittany, you can't wait for the camera.

You have to always be real. And just whatever comes up in that moment, just that's how you get, you wait for the camera. I say what I mean and I mean what I say. And I'm saying that right now. And I think, I mean, it shows, I mean, in six seasons, people, people love this show so much. They love your group so much. I love it too. I think it's good.

But that type of passion and energy from the audience doesn't come from, oh, they're so ready when the cameras start. And you can tell they've been saving it all year. It's like, no, it's something new every time, but it's always, you can feel the energy that it is just kind of capturing whatever is happening in the moment. It's even I feel like like my scenes, even like with my son, I feel like you, I get touched. I feel it. You know, it's like a feeling and I feel like I, like I, if I'm touched, then I'm touching somebody. And I think long as you get like with our show, you get touched. You get moved.

You get invested and you feel it. And I think it's those, it provokes those big reactions from people. They're laughing out loud. They're, they're gasping. They're texting their friends. They're posting the memes. Debriefs. You need to talk about it.

It's a show that really commands conversation. And that doesn't happen because people are over rehearsing or over planning. It's because of the way you guys are together. Yeah. I think I brought that on. I brought that on being real. I refuse. I mean, some of those things that come out of your mouth, Mary, like little girl.

Just like. Right. She was like, why do you keep calling me little girl? Because you are a little girl. Like, everyone can see it. No, but maybe I felt, I realized, though, I think I was the only one that saw her as a little girl. I don't think anyone else saw it because people took to it. They're like, little girl.

Now it just kind of went out and went viral. But it's, that stuff just happens, you know. But you don't see Whitney as a little girl or no. I got where you were coming from. Okay, good, okay, good. I think I understood. The one of my favorite moments. ever was when you had your Metgala luncheon at Valtors and the champagne with the grape.

You were talking about the heat wave with the grapes? 2003, Don Perry-on had a heat wave in France and the heat was so bad. It killed elderly and babies. 6,500 people died. I heard about this. But it produced the best grapes of all time. That's so sad, right? It's sad.

I heard, no, but I heard about it somewhere else. I was like reading a book or something. Yeah. And it was referencing that there was this heat wave in France. And I was like, where? I heard that before. It's Mary Cosby talking about the grapes. But at least I'm not talking about gout.

You know what I mean? I feel like I keep it legal. You know, it's like I keep it clean. Oh my goodness. But it's still a sad story. But it's always something. Yeah, it is. I think it gets worse.

You keep us on our toes. I do. Let me tell you. And yeah. Well, I can't wait to see the rest of this season. You've given us a couple little tidbits. Where do you feel like season six, where does it kind of like stand of all the seasons you've done?

Is it, was it the most stressful one to film? Was it the most fun one to film? Kind of like, how do you picture the whole season? I think season six is a treat to the world. I think it's probably one of the best seasons we've. ever done. And I think that you'll see that. You'll see that. It's just packed with just interesting, not fast forwarding this section or, you know, get to Mary's part. Don't touch the remote. I think all of us did so good this year, like the entire cast. I mean,

including Brittany. She was an addition. You can say something nice about everyone. I can. I think I can. You can find the. The silver lining. I look for it hard, though. But yes. Well, Mary, thank you. Thank you so much for being here. I'm so glad we finally got to sit down and I can't wait to see the rest of the season.

The eat drink and be married, that's a good tag. Isn't that good? It's a good one. I wanted it last year too and I got it this year. They listened. They did. They gave it to you. I love it's good.

And it's real. It's true to who I am. Yes. I was surprised how people loved it to have the audience. It's simple. and it's clever, but it's just right. Yeah. And I am there to eat and drink, you know, drink Don Perry on.

And be me because I'm not, I don't have the energy to be anyone else. And I don't have the energy to kiss butt. I don't have the energy to run around and try to like this person or be with the cool people. I don't have the strength. I just have to be myself. And that's why I don't have it any other way. Okay. Thank you so much, Mary.

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