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Episode Date: November 12, 2025

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Wow. What do you think of that? What don't you think of that? I think that girl has got everything. I know the viewers love that. I hope. I'm saying, hang on, yeah. I'm saying, hang on, no, I'll keep scrolling, but I've now seen all the ones I've deleted.

Still on here. And I'm right, what? What's happening? We're having a technical issue with Reddit guys. Technical issues. Technical issues. Ah, I thought I deleted this one. You went, ha ha ha.

Do you remember the one? I've already read it, but it started with like three friends. We'll call them Adam Kahn's Steve and they got pissed and then they tried burying one of their friends. That's ages ago. That was with Jenna. It was really funny. What was that with Jenna? Oh no, but we did say that we should do that to Jenna.

that to Jenna. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. We haven't got round for that yet. It was like a year ago, we need to step it up. Because I feel like she'd let us. I'm horrified. I'm horrified. Daddy. We're just going with it. We're just... No, I was going to stop it from falling. What are you doing? Just stopping it from falling. Trying to be a good friend. What are you doing? I could move over if I need.

Oh, you're good. I didn't come over. Did you even press? Oh, you should do. Yes. It's fine. Well, they need a bit of our bullshit before we start. Oh, we've been here for fucking hours. I know.

Uh, right. Should we just go straight into it? Um. Yeah. Yeah, you're both like. Here comes the winter colds. Don't. Don't.

I feel like... No. I've done the colds already, so therefore there is no need for me to have any more cold. You've had one. Yeah, that's it. So you need. But I do feel like last year I had more than normal. Or maybe it's because we were a cord, we're noticing it more.

I had that, particularly throat, whatever. I didn't know. It was getting concerning. And then the headache, then that nerve pain. Oh. I was so bad. Me, I just like getting bunged up and a sore throat and I'm like,

it's like some sort of, you know, scag eggs that's always fucking ill but that's not what's happening. I feel like scaggis. Get ill. Don't they? I don't know. I feel like they're just always looking for meth. No, methony.

Do you remember that story? Is that my story or yours? That was your story. Methany. Methany. All right, Mephany. Right, hello everyone and welcome to, no, that's not what it is. Hello everyone, Michael, to Middle Age Opinion.

I am your host. Okay, well done. I don't have I forgotten. I've had a lot of information this last couple of weeks, yeah? I feel like I've got a lot of information just literally the last half hour. Right, hello everyone and welcome to Middle Age opinion. I am your host, Ellie. What are you doing? Just fucking taking it in.

What? Oh, okay, yeah. Yeah, we've had a lot of information. had a lot of information the last we're tired aren't we I've obviously as you know I told you last week college and he in right so I'm dyslexit so I should be doing better in practical than I am theory but he's moving so fast that my brain is like constantly stuck on you know when you see that circle thing because it's loading that is my brain so I've now got pipe and all sorts and I've been

doing that at home that's all I've been doing is bending pipe it's because she doesn't trust her own thought and her theory because she's got someone that's telling how to do it so therefore what she's doing is like is that am i doing it right am i'm overposting and then you're like you're just over guessing yourself and over thinking yeah and then so yesterday i was going to do more pipe bending because you know eight pipes aren't enough yeah i did like that um she's a medical bender but then yes i was like no i'm not doing that so then i got the paint out finally did one coat on the ceiling and kind of two little coats on the wall here and uh fuck knows how long it will sit like this before I

do the next do you mind you absolute trap I feel like he doesn't I feel like he actually doesn't mind at all if you he's proper on a like paying me attention attention thinking it's because we've had a lot of information about other people I've only speak from it he's on an attention thing he's we've had so much information that we can't even talk about it but me and Emily for two days have been like that. Rock am I. What? What? What? Kett? I need a holiday man. I need a holiday. Do you remember if I went in that holiday? It's just me and you. Yeah, I'm into it. Anyway, should I just go into the intersection? I can't remember if I did it or not. No, we've got to start again.

Okay. Go on. Hello everyone and welcome to be later to opinion. You're such a fucking mark. Can I look at least? This am I'm happy. Hello everyone and welcome to middle-aged opinion. I'm your host Ellie and I'm your host Emily and today we are just finding the best of Reddit. Although I've lost two of the best of Reddit. I don't know where any of mine are. I'm just going to scan through it as we come along.

So two of my stories I've pre-read and should get for them quite easy. Two I haven't pre-read but the titles look good so I'm going with them because something's happened on both of our Reddits where it's jumbled everything, so I do apologise. Or I've deleted them and not realised because I've got no brain cells left. They're all being used on Monday and Tuesdays at college. I do, I feel like I come out, I've come out like that. Like I almost just got hit by a car, I'm like. Yeah, I'm a bit, I don't know, bewildered.

Um, right, shall I kick us off? Probably should, but I can't find one. See? Right. This is one that I've just found, so unfortunately it's not what I planned on reading. How's not just looking at the dog? Look. I've got no words for him either.

Right. Husband's fetish disgusts me, but I don't want to leave. my 37 female husband's 39 male has a diaper fetish I've got I picked it I really am not familiar with the terminology I don't think it's an A-B-D-L thing I'm assuming that's like a bondage I think it is yeah for context we have been together for 18 years we have no children thank God Do you remember throwing the steak out of the window story? I'm sorry.

Yeah, sorry. I've deleted the ones I wanted to read and kept the ones I didn't want. What's happening here? We have been together for 18 years and have no children and purchased our first time together November 24. We previously rented and had been together for four years before moving in together. So pretty much knew everything about each other. habits and what to expect well didn't see that fucking coming did she the house we rented fell

under foreclosure and it was extremely stressful for both me and him uh it was a big deal for me to handle landlord tried to illegally affect us beginning of july 2024 us and it was just a fucking pain in the ass to be constantly stressed until we were able to finally purchase our house. I was aware of the we call it thing as I did find some diapers under the bed at the old house a few times and a receipt for them in his glove box while looking for the EZ paths. But the incidents were so few and far between, I didn't really pay it much mind. However, I'd admit that my housekeeping and cleaning suffered towards the end of moving and I guess I wasn't really paying attention or looking for or expecting anything like diapers. Whatever, uh, bitch. Anyway, I'll get into that. Fast forward to

the new house. It's been a week after Thanksgiving. We both work full-time, rent, retail, job so not a not a lot of time off we were living out of storage tubs and boxes for a while waiting for new furniture I noticed some liquid around my husband's clothes and to my husband some liquid around my club my claspin laundry basket and to my horror I open the bin and it's a piss-filled diaper leaked out of the cracks in the bottom of the bin. I was so disgusted, embarrassed, speechless before we moved, and speechless. Before we move, I had asked him if he needed to continue with this thing in our new home.

Could he please be more decent, i.e. dispose of use things and either throw out the garbage or cover in. really fucking well, so I couldn't see anything. I waited a week to confront him about the mess and he fucking snapped. He told me that he that he has been doing this since he was a boy and he likes it and that if I don't like it, there's the door. I was stunned. Not the first conversation about this. He does not wear them at least. not to my knowledge hence I say not a A-B-D-L can you Google that please A-B-D-L thing but I wouldn't know he says he likes the feel of A B-D-L yes I don't know it doesn't what we'd accept it Oh, for adult and baby diaper.

Put a niche fetish that exists, fringes of kinks, partly because of little research. That does, is it? So, yeah, adult babies and diaper lovers. Okay, that would make sense. Right, sounds with P-W. I say not an A, B, D, L thing, but I wouldn't know. He says he likes the feel of jerking off. of jerking off in them and using baby power powder because it's more comfortable than using

lotion or loom fine i like i have dildoes and he compares his thing to my dildos and i'm sorry i don't agree me neither i have even caught him using one of my toys by himself so riddle me that i've eat i have even worn some diapers for him but clearly neither of us went into it together and that's fine if that's what he wants to do in his alone time that's his choice it affects me when after we've done watching TV for the night and are getting ready for bed he tells me to go to bed but stays in the den he smashes things in the centre console of his truck oh he stashes things in the center console of his truck in his recliner and in our shared closet in the closet they're just thrown there i find i find the yellow closure tubs all over the

house stuck to furniture and carpet oh the tabs the late you know the the poor okay and carpets last week the toilet wasn't flushed properly i removed the tuck tank lid to find a fucking diaper like what the fuck i know he doesn't cheat on me i don't cheat on him but this diaper thing is getting ridiculous it is affecting my mental health my sleep my sanity our relationship i sleep on the couch almost every night i am disappointed disgusted when he wants sex after I know he's just used the diaper. He has been giving me grief lately for sleeping on the couch. We went on vacation the last week of August.

I booked a queen-sized bed, but the hotel made a mistake. He doesn't believe me. But sleeping in my own bed felt so fucking good. P.S. I'm now a huge advocate for sleep divorce. I don't know what that means. It means sleep from an indifferent bed. Okay.

Anyway, he is entitled to his alone time. I'm not denying him that. Just wish he would have more decency and respect. We are both so fucking stubborn, independent, wealthy, no joint account. And the house is solely in my name. So splitting up would be no problem. The problem is that I still want him. I welcome comments and advice.

Please be nice. I don't leave any mean comments. I don't know what I'm expecting by posting this. I just needed to fent. Okay. You go first. I mean, I've got nothing to say about it. I'm not for it. I've got nothing positive. I'm not for it either. It's not that I have a problem with what he's doing because I agree that you are allowed to have your sexual fetishes. The whole you do you boo is that's all I've got. Yeah, but it's not something that I would find desirable or sexually arousing in a partner to the point it makes me actually feel so sick that it's not going to work. It's not going to work. And that sounds really, really like I'm judging, but I'm honestly not. It's just not something.

Nothing to do with judging. That is not going to work for me. It's generally because I think putting anything to do with baby. in a sexual way makes me feel physically sick. I don't think there's anything wrong with him because I know that lots of people do this stuff like I've seen and read stuff on it. I don't know.

I do not understand the appeal of urinating and then wearing in it with talcum powder. I don't know how do you... Yeah, that would be a pack because you want to wake with talcum powder. That's rubbish. It's meant to be dry. That dries you up. He's pissed in it first

So it's like a suit I just I just I just I'm a suit I um I think that if I started finding diapers

rounds and Paul was like yeah that's a wank and mind your business I'd be like yeah it's not gonna work for me

because that actually repulses me and that's nothing against your individual kinks or whatever but I just and now he's using her dildo's

so what's he got the dildo up his and the nappy in the front I'm really sorry We're not into that I'm not I'm not into that I can't even come up with an excuse for him

To be like I like that she's like You know you do you And whatever But for me that is something That I wouldn't be able to be like You do you Because I think about it

And be repulsed And not be able to be intimate No the idea of that you've just been intimate With your husband Your man whatever And then he's like You go head and then you know he's now having a fucking wanking I'm like he's not coming to

bed because he's wanking in a diaper with his with your dildo up his ass he needed he needed to piss himself in it I just I'm you're thrown you're slightly thrown I mean so he's going and then and then at the shop they're like oh how old you're a little one but and then she's like he doesn't do it a lot but then she's like there's It sounds like it's, you're just not catching him a lot. Yeah. Or you are really turning a blind eye to this, that you're like, oh no, it's not so bad. And I feel like it is, they'll be judging, go away.

I'm not using diapers and putting dildas at my ass whilst wanking. Calm down. Yeah, no, no. I'm really sorry, no. I don't remember whether this was an, am I the arsehaw situation? or not but I just I'm I I know right so I'm not okay I'm not good with it so top comment I'm really uncomfortable he doesn't wear them question yes he does allow me to doubt that L I well massively second comment Opie found a piss soap diaper but he's

not wearing them does he just piss on them or I'm confused fucking gross exactly that's lazy go to the toilet? My confusion. Does he wear them to bed? Right, pull-ups. Right. So he would much rather get it to false than clean up his bio-hazard. Because it is dirty. It is dirty. I'm sorry, but your husband needs therapy. It is dirty. I am fine to have a kink, but not just, but not disposing of his kink products currently is hygienic, rude, damaging your home and just outright disrespect. It must smell. Can you imagine that...

You know what diaper smells like, you know, and now this smells like... Her home must smell. But stronger because he's a full-grown male. Can you imagine that one day, you moved in with someone, you're dating with someone, no, because we're going to have to talk through it. You're dating someone You're moving with someone And then you're like

Any of your friends got kicked Whose diaper is this And he's like oh that's my thing If I didn't know about that thing Before I'd moved in with someone I feel like I would not know that person And you need to move out Move out right now

Get out of my home I just can't believe She's like Yeah He is because she's in there But I love him stage Really? They've been together a while. Oh, she still loves him.

Right, yeah. He is repeatedly involving you in his kink by creating stinky and unigenic situations. This isn't accidental. He wants you to humiliate him with your... Oh, that would make sense. Like scolding like a child. He wants you to humiliate him. it's a huge part of the fetish

he made a put on a diaper as well for sex I don't think I could do that either no you do pulled a diaper to one side ask him to do this in private just like watching porn you aren't into you aren't into is totally responsible

and there is no way anyone thinks that leaving diapers more and more annoying he is he's dirty he wants to be scolded he likes it it's the whole thing is like I'm glad I chose that one though

Dirty man It's not my thing Listen I know that there are people With these kinks Have the kink It's something about it Yeah it's something

It's not something that I would Be able to overlook How's that? Without being a bitch Because I know that It's normal to have kinks but for me i'm just like that's going to be a negative so i'm sorry no doce leave no it's gross isn't it it's dirty yeah especially since he's leaving him everywhere yeah

again if that's your link fine to your own degree but uh tie it i'll tie it i'll put i I just don't, I just don't, I don't understand. And the smell, I can smell the smell, like it, it's coming through the laundry basket. In your wardrobe? No. In the toilet, the top of the tank. Why? Don't know, so she'd find it.

But why would you find it there? Who looks in their tank? It created a problem with the toilet, remember? Oh, could you imagine if you should. But that's what, that is why that person that broke your job. I don't think you make this is why it doesn't flush there is a diaper but that person who said he's involving you in on purpose is absolutely correct I mean obviously do it daddy I pissed in this one for you mix it with a bit of talc I mean

the talc would have made it smell a little bit more nicer yeah but you don't last You know that smell of cow can piss because we've all had kids. You know that combination. Now I feel like I can smell it. Yes, that's why I just... I feel like it's in the air. Smell the coffee. Yeah, it's a no, it's a no.

I just, I'm feeling a little bit. Sick. We need to move on. to move on. Go. Okay, I've gone back to a dating one. Okay. Dating on the man. Dated a married man. Oh.

I met a guy through Facebook and from our first call we were instantly attracted to each other. He told me he liked me and wanted to date seriously. I felt the same way. But two weeks in, I found out he was still legally married, separated but not divorced. Oh. that didn't sit right with me so I cut off all communication even though I really liked him he actually flew in from another country just to meet me and explain everything in person but the more he spoke the more red flags I noticed I kept turning him down even though

I had a strong connection with him, it was really hard to let go. He's still, he's, he's still trying to reach out, still says he wants to be with me, but deep down, I know it's not the right situation for me to be in. Okay. Um, what do you think? I think if he really is separated, because I just, I just, I'm not, I've got a lot of say from people. Then I don't see what the problem is.

Divorce takes a long time. It does. And I get it. I see, like, what's not seen right with her. Yeah. Yeah. I feel like it might be a little bit of an overreaction. Possibly.

I do like that he went to all that effort, but I would probably want to double check with these X that they are actually separated. and what he said is the truth. That's what Reddit has done to me, people. I have no faith in anyone. So someone says he flew in for the date. What the fuck?

She says, yes, from the other side of the world, our very first date, he kept insisting I should meet him and hear him out. So I did. I still liked him a lot and the date went well. He wanted to meet again, but I was so confused about how, to continue knowing he was still married we met a couple more times after that but I

eventually told him it wouldn't work out I mean it's not going to work out because he lives on the other side of the fucking world surely yeah there's a bit of a restriction there I just feel like I just feel like she's overreacting but at the same time if those are your boundaries then that's cool as well does he happen to come from a poorer country Nope, says O-P from a rich country and is an affluent guy I'm going to say Dubai

Sounds like harassment Someone said And she's replied with Honestly he usually gives quite a bit of time Before reaching out again About once every six months Or once a year Just to check if I'm dating someone

I was still single Yeah sounds like harassment to me too I just think, just move on. I just press that he still likes me. It doesn't really feel like harassment, but he knows I like him too. So I think he's just like keeping his options open. I feel like she should block him and move on

if this one is not that deep. You know what I mean? Yeah. But the married part, I mean, if those are her values, that's absolutely fine. But for me, I feel like, you know, I do know people that have been for a divorce, including you.

And I think that when you've separated for a long time and you're working and you're healing yourself, there's nothing wrong with starting the process of moving on, waiting for that divorce. Because it's not as simple as people think. You don't separate and then the divorce comes through the post a week later. It takes time. So, yeah, so I didn't, although I dipped my toe into the dating environment. Yeah. I didn't actually date until after I was divorced.

But that was my personal choice. Yeah. Not to mention, um... Yeah, not to mention yours was slightly more messy than the average. Than the average, do you know what I mean? The way things happened between you and your ex were... Yeah.

So, you know. Right, we ready? You're going. Husband had a happy ending. I keep looking at this. I'm like, have I saved this twice? Or have I just found the same story? I have no idea what's going on where in it.

My husband married, my husband married for eight years and together for 10. Just came back from his work trip to New York City. This was the first work trip and wanted to add a few days so he could explore the city. He was so excited and happy telling me about the food he ate and the places he went and, and would love to move there with me. The day after he got back, he attended Sunday Mass and did some grocery shopping. The same day, I found a doxy PEP medication from planned parenthood in his car. Antibiotics for unprotected sex to prevent STIs.

My heart sunk. I casually asked him what it was and he lied. He said it was meds for our dog. I asked why our dog would need antibiotics for unprotected sex and he went silent. He said he got a cheap massage blow job. He said he wanted a massage and did not know. I asked if he had sex and he said he stopped the penetration before he came

because he got scared I feel absolutely lost devastated and hopeless I have no one to turn to or tell and no support system my husband was the only person I had and was my best friend I always thought the marriage and partner is the only stable thing and identity that I have in my life. After all the challenges that we have been through,

we both have moved to Seattle from Asia without knowing anyone. I thought we became stronger five years ago when had found him to be messaging strangers in kinky and anonymous acts. Kink and Fat Life, I don't know. found shirtless photos and dickpicks and him wanting to meet up and pay for women's services. Now that even marriage has been compromised, now even the marriage has been compromised, I feel like I don't know who I am. My family is not mature enough to comfort me.

Where do I start and what should I do? Emily, over to you. pick your shit up love and leave that's it what the fuck I mean so he was already

looking there you'd already caught him with no what's interesting is he stopped the penetration I don't believe that no he did not

he did not he did not stop the penetration no he had sex he paid for sex actually he paid for sex yeah fucking hell and I'm not being funny that

if you go for a massage yeah yeah if you go to an actual place like a spa or whatever for a massage that's what they give you yeah if you go somewhere that you get can buy get happy endings

that's what you're going to get it was not a shock I feel bare for her no because she thought they'd move past that but he's a piece of shit right top comment also get tested those are two times you know of

and what you don't know of don't be immature anyone can leave I mean that was quite brutally harsh but yes true right it is true and also I'm in a position where I can say it's harder to leave but fucking how you've just got to find that little bit of self-respect and suck it up and run with it just a little bit this is interesting uh they obviously

are not going to do anything that he's not okay with they actually do discuss it as far as what I'm aware of. Never been to one. I ain't got the money. You giving him two chances, don't give him a third. Yeah, simple as that. Or is it one time shame on you, second time

shame on me? Yeah. That sort of thing. Yeah. Yeah. You're done now, darling. You're done. I do feel bad for her because she thought it had changed, but imagine like finding the STD description in the fucking car when you're putting away groceries. How thick is he?

but still he would have it's not even about him being fig it's about she he knows she knows the other thing is he would have come back from

New York and you know they would have had sex straight away because obviously they'd been apart all that time so fine he went and got the meds but he still had sex of his wife before knowing that he was clear of any STI's maybe he was going to like

lays her tea with it to make sure she got like treated I've heard a story like that before as well Take this I've got a cold Yeah take this This is to prevent you getting a cold Mate

Okay Why do I want to be in a relationship I don't actually know if I'm honest I mean I don't actually read anything In our podcast that promotes like Yeah but we don't look for that either We did once Do you remember what was that?

What was that? I remember about a podcast. We did. We chose one podcast and it was nice. What was that? Glitz in the matrix. No. It was something like, I don't know.

It had like a positive ending. Here, baby, that'd be good. It had like a positive ending to it. And I'm trying to think, what was it that we looked at? And then we were like, oh, that's nice and hansham. I've completely forgotten because they're just all negative. Anyway, all right. I've gone with glitch or go.

okay one time when I was staying in a hotel I was standing in the bathroom running a bath I stood in front of the sink scrolling on my phone when I entered the bathroom the amenity and amenities aminities immunities your mum I know what you're getting at though I can't worry about men as long as I know he's sitting on the think exactly how housekeeping had left it. The lotion was sitting there, front facing. I hadn't used it. Diper was on the side. Yeah. I looked up and immediately noticed something really off. The lotion that had been front facing when I got in there was suddenly perfectly turned around. Now back facing, not lightly nudged by something knocking it over or airflow.

perfectly turned around. I didn't see it actually move. I just saw it from perfectly front facing to perfectly back facing within a few minutes, but I had never touched it and nobody else was in the room and I was staying there alone. I thought that was really weird. How did the lotion perfectly turn around by itself? So I moved it back. I turned it back around to face to front facing. and then went back to scrolling on my phone. Looking up again, a couple minutes later, my bath was almost ready

and the lotion had moved on its own again. At this time, it was suddenly and perfectly facing sideways. I had just moved it front facing and didn't touch it again. Now it is suddenly perfectly facing sideways with no one touching it. But this time I didn't move it back I just left it as it is And took my bath Once I got out from the bath

I looked again and it was still sideways Had it moved on its own again And during all the following days It stayed put sideways like that Never moved again Sounds like a ghost thing to me Not a Matrix Yeah I'm not being glitch at all

No I'm feeling like something's fucking with you in the bathroom yeah and obviously got very bored because you do want to play the game yeah weird though that would freak me out yeah I wouldn't like it I'd be like all off the side into the but to be honest I don't think it's some things like that that I would notice in real life because I just don't pay enough attention do you know what I mean I wouldn't walk in a bathroom be like that was facing forward a minute ago I mean I do notice things like that as in when you go into a hotel whatever and they do have everything all like nicely placed and whatever but would i be standing there looking going oh that one's not like that and then that's what i'm saying it's not i would fuss

over it's not something that i would store in my memory yeah you know what i mean yeah so i was like interested is did the lotion stay in line with the other bottles could the counter have been wet opi said the counter wasn't wet i i don't know what you mean by with the other bottles and bottles there wasn't any other bottles okay oh okay well that rules that one then because i also thought she meant there was like maybe two or three yeah in a line that's the picture i had yeah water would move things yeah it does i didn't even think of that but that's what i'm saying me it's not something that i would even notice i'm sure i'm sure it's not something that i would pay attention to no i think i would have fussed over it no i'd get in and get out sort of thing you

don't you mean? Who's touching my joints and stontson? Where's my baby powder and my diaper? My diaper was missing. That's different. The fucking room's being torn down. Where's my diaper? But other than that, where's my diaper?

Right. My husband stopped eating me out because he remembered smart school boy nine. Right. I don't know what this is. No, but it does go on to explain because I was like, wash that. I, 21 female and my boyfriend, 23 male, went back to his place and we were having sex for the first time. He decided he wanted to go down on me as he had never done it before. It was all fine until we abruptly stopped and left the room for a quick smoke. I was so confused

and stayed in bed waiting for him to return. When he came back, he told me that the reason he stopped was because the tongue motion reminded him of smart school boy nine and the image flashed in his head and he couldn't continue and now I'm and now I think being eaten out is fucked for both of us so it does do the edit of who that is because everyone's like who the fuck is that smart school boy nine is a creepy guy that was posing as a child online using AI and manipulation school uniform images and made really disturbing posts overall was all over the internet at some point some of the videos include him and his tongue out at the camera so that's the co-colation I am going to have to Google this

You know I did on at the time Wait, hang on So he decided He was going to go down on her For the first time Yeah Ever Yeah

And halfway through He got a thought And then in that Thought process Oh my fuck So I'll send that to you He got a thought process Of that

And decided that He then needed to go out For a smoke why did that come in his head though do you know what I mean I feel like the whole process is really fucking weird why did that come in his head there's no need for that

I mean it's put me off oh man I'm gonna meet someone and I'm going like no you can't now Because now I'm like thinking about Are you thinking about? Yeah But why was he thinking about it? Why weren't you concentrating?

I don't understand how her clip was But he said that his tongue motions were making it Because I'm not going to watch a video of that Person Your algorithm will go all fucking corrupt Don't do it. Top comment I'm sorry but this is fucking hilarious

It's disgusting That poor girl She didn't even getting finished off Everyone's like, what am I missing? Yeah, I just, I don't know what to say. I think you're going to have to work through it if it's something you want to continue. I don't know why he's thinking about him.

But I haven't watched a video because I feel like then I'd be thinking about it. I don't want to want to. I've got enough problems this week. I've been told enough this week. Over to you. Why is he thinking of that weird bloke whilst licking her out? I don't get it.

I don't want to watch a video. I don't want to watch the video. I don't want to watch them. But my brain's like, watch the video. Watch the video. She's a fucking pervert. Yeah, he's fucking gross. I hope he's in prison.

So do I. Go on without his diapers. What is wrong with us? I don't understand. I don't get it today. There's a lot of messed up stories today, isn't there? I mean, we've chosen them, but it's not the point. Okay, go on.

Am I the asshole? Because I had to miss my daughter's final band performance. Bingham? Bingham. Backstory, I 43 female, was married to Donald, 46 male, and we had two kids. I think she means they have two kids. I hope that's what she means. Yeah.

Anyway, Ella. Or they came up with her plan. Ella is 18 female and Ethan is 17 male. We ended up divorcing due to different life plans. Oh no, they did have a real life. I wanted a large family. He blindsided me by telling me after Ethan that he was done having kids. I'm now married to Mike 44 male who we now have our

own kids. Ella D, 14 female. Evan and Eric, 12 male. Emily, 11 female, Ellis, seven female. She weren't joking. They're all thinking of E. That's fucking annoying. And Emma, four female. I also had three step kids. Luca, 21 male. Sadie, 20 female. And Stormy. 80 female. But they all live with their mum and have only seen them a handful of times. The incident. Mike works often and I am usually the only one available to watch the kids. Yesterday was supposed to be Ella's final high school band performance since she is graduating. Originally I told her I would be there but I had to take care of the kids since they couldn't be left on their own.

Emily's high need due to autism and Ellis has ADHD and we were told we couldn't bring her to any more performances by the band director since she was very disruptive the last time. Her and Ethan were at their dad so I called her and let her know I couldn't make it. She just said, oh okay it's fine and I thought I was off the hook. That night, Donald called me and asked me why I wasn't there and said that Ella was crying after because she was sad. I miss her final performance. I explained I had other kids to take care of and he knows I'm not allowed to bring Ellis there anymore. Mike was going to call his mother but she couldn't make it and he had work so I was the only one who was responsible for them. He told me off and told me that it isn't Ella's fault, I need to actually be a parent and make Mike step up more. He does step up, but we agree I'm better at the primary parent. We argued more about, we argued more, but now Ella refuses to come see me.

I get them every other week starting on Saturday and this was my week. them and since she's 18 the custody agreement no longer applies to her and she chooses to stay with her dad. Ethan says I was wrong but my mother-in-law and Mike say I did what I had to and Ella has to accept life isn't about her. Am I the arseal? No. I don't think she is because at the end of the day you've got no one else to watch the other mountain of children that you have. You haven't got anyone else to watch them. Do I think she could have been set prepared to find somebody to watch them? Probably, yes.

Because just because your child's 18 doesn't mean that you're done. But I'm not getting arselled because I just don't feel like it was done on purpose. You've got a different feeling? You think she's the asshole? Yeah, a little bit. What was she meant to do with the other children? I think if you've chosen to have that many kids. Yeah.

How many was that? You just kept reading. No, no. So she had two with Donald, which is Ella and Ethan. Ella is who had the thing. Yeah, she didn't go to the recital. And then she had one, two, three, four, five, six, seven with Mike. And then Mike had three of his own.

So that's ten children. seven, eight, nine, ten, who they don't really see. Listen, three of them they don't see. I can imagine there's more to this because the daughter has chosen to not live there, either because it's overcrowded or there's deeper rooted issues going on. However, I don't. I think if your child is 18 and they're coming to the end of their school and they've got a final thing and it's their final thing.

Yeah, you do everything. show up yeah yeah because they're not getting that one again yeah and are the school actually allowed to discriminate or are her children completely out of control because she's got so many she can't parent the one she's got I mean how out of control is this ADHD that I just don't I think it's got a lot to do a parenting bay because I just do I think a lot of people like to say oh they think you know they've got this that and the other but I see a lot of parents managing those conditions as well because you have to

put the work in but it's hard to put the work in when you've got 37 children I'm not going to be too hard to know because I don't know what the dynamic yeah and set circumstances are like when it comes to being able to have the other children looked after and that what happens if she doesn't have a network who wants to go and look after seven kids got me not really don't even look after the two I've got don't this. Do you want them? I mean, they're almost done. Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I feel like it wasn't on purpose. If you want a big family, you've got to be able to provide that time for them. Yeah, but you see it time and time again. I see so, you know, these programs

a-in and counting and whatever stuff and you can see that it then becomes the older siblings that are raising the younger siblings and this, that and the other. And I feel like it's like that every single time. You know, mean yeah my top comment was you're the arseile yeah you're so focused on big family that you want that you wanted that you found as a mother to the children who actually made you a mother in the first place i see why she went no contact with you i'm surprised you even noticed and for the record mike sucks as a father this is what i'm saying i'm not oh right so was he not a work yep so mike was too busy to be able to look after

So there you go, there you go then. So I'm assuming, to be honest, I change my answer. She's an arseal. I assume that Mike would work like a nine to five. And I'm excited would have been in the evening. That would have been in the evening. So why could he not be at home with the kids? Basically, right, that is what I'm saying.

Sorry, I feel like I completely missed that part. But. Yeah, she's not. She is not prioritising any of their children individually and they don't share those children so it's a less of a priority. Yeah, they're right. She's an arse old. Right. Let's finish us off and then we'll let these dickheads outside because I feel like we've been harassed this whole podcast.

Dickhead. Right. Right. Like, avoid getting murdered. Oh, for fuck, same. I thought it was a great one to endang. A boy getting murdered. Avoid getting murdered.

Oh, avoid. I was like, what's wrong with you? I do like a boy getting murdered stories as well. Right, my ex-boyfriend, 27 male and I, 26 female, had two kids. He promised we'd get married while I was pregnant with the first. He moved me in. He started cheating in our bed when I wasn't home. beating me, suffocating me in front of the baby, and never married me.

He kicked me and my baby out when I was pregnant with the second. He ended up giving the second baby chlamydia and didn't come to the birth. He kept holding our relationship and marriage over my head after he kicked us out. His whole family took his side, even my family did. historical abuse there too. He was a jailer, so the cops let him go from jail after two days from the suffocation incident and discussed charges and dismissed charges at first. I defended him thinking he'd change and follow through like he continued to tell me that he would.

He said it was my fault he went to jail. even though the neighbours had to call them for me, I was screaming for air and the baby was crying. I tried reporting other incidents of abuse, but the cops wouldn't do anything. He made false reports about me to DCS and threatened to make false reports to the police about me as well as murder me. He had a lot of guns. He basically stole the kids from me. he made me feel and look crazy for trying to keep in touch even about the kids. I feel like nobody believes me or will do anything about it. The police even have documentation of him trying to kill me. Nobody is taking anything he does seriously at all. I haven't seen my kids

in a year and he has moved away from the city 30 minutes out. P.S. He didn't even lose his job after the suffocation incident. He resigned and I was told his dad gave him a whole company. He and his dad tell everyone that I'm crazy and a liar. My ex isn't diagnosed with anything, but he's shown a lot of psychopathic traits. When we first started dating, he used to leave guns and bullets all over the house and abused animals pretty badly he always had a gun on him i brushed it all off being manly stupid i know he posts tictox and instagram of him jacked up truck putting on this farm boy just spat all over myself

this farm boy christian act in front of the girls online His sister told me he touched her growing up and his mum told me he almost attacked her as a kid. He's a big dude always has been. He's actually very personable and buddy and smiley. I'm assuming he's got a good personality. That's what drew me in. He's got this great sense of humour. He's got a twang and plays the wholesome role really well until you're,

you experience the other side of him and put the pieces together. Do you think he's a path, he's a pathological, a psychopath or a narcissist? All of the above. Oh, he's a fucking keeper, babe. Have another baby. What do you think about her? She's a bit of a knob, isn't she? Because it went the other way.

What do you mean? Top comment. You're a highly troubled woman in need of extensive counselling and therapy for you to say you, your taste in men sucks is dismissive and deflection amongst everything that you have done. Due to you seemingly unwillingness to take responsibility for your life. You're partly to blame. Stop there, because that person is friends with him.

How would they find her Reddit post? Very unlikely Same way they all find them Although I happen to agree Babe She mentioned so many things When they got together And decided to continue

And have more children with him And now he's confused How it's ended up in this situation Yeah no I hear it I hear it I don't think it's that easy For him to take the kids Without something

She's like I feel like I'm missing part of this story Yeah no offence But you've got a shit ton of work to do On yourself like these are the comments everybody's slightly confused as to her role in this situation yeah I feel like the common thing here is you need to do work on yourself I think that's just inevitable when it comes to anybody that has been in any sort of relationship that is not loving and caring because that is a if that's the sort of person you're

choosing she put him the sort of person you're choosing to stay with before pregnant back to before getting pregnant he was abusing animals and she stayed so she could see the traits then babe and she stayed so i have i the lack of sympathy i have is immense this is a woman who's like can see the potential so somebody's asking her to have a little look at herself and understand why she's in this situation. So now OP did respond. This was 24 days ago. I understand what you mean.

Pregnancy 3 was honestly a complete accident. I haven't been on birth control since high school. I really just was not thinking. I was really not thinking about the potential. I can't read any more on her. No. Because I feel like she is the cause of some of her situation. I think she's not all of it not actually helped herself in any way shape yeah and I do get that it can make you really ill but for God's sake

I think of notice go yeah no I'm not reading any more right thank you for joining us the dogs are getting up again because I moved um I don't know what else to say oh like follow subscribe that's your thing follow and subscribe that's your thing follow and and stop fucking hell just stop wearing diapers yeah at this point but see you're here I move you move you move I move bha nah nah nah say bye we're following mom