Middle-aged opinion - I went full bridezilla, I am not sorry

Episode Date: April 16, 2025

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Wow, what do you think of that? What don't you think of that? Well I think that girl has got everything that she deserves. I don't think there's any ugly girls in our group, do you know that? Does that mean we're all snobs? No. We're just stunners. We're just stunners love. We were talking, me and Alfie.

Me, Alfie or Harry, one of them. One of the kids. And Sarah got brought up, I can't remember how. Sarah. Oh, Sarah. Oh, Sarah. Yeah, okay. And they were like, oh, it was Harry.

He went, oh, I really like her. And I was like, no, I told her. I was like, Alfie really likes her as well. They did that after my birthday, oh, she's real nice. And I was like, yeah, it's Sarah. She is nice. Sarah, I've known her since, I've known her since I was six. Yeah you said that eight times mum. Yeah we know mum. Yeah well you've told me you liked her before so you don't hear me going you told me that eight times do ya?

Fucking kids man. They're so rude. What is that? If my lip shit but I I don't I how I'm feeling. No, you just keep putting it in your mouth The video Then my eyes like turn fucking the bluest of blue and I'm like I think we should have done that one I mean, I need to find another funny one like that, but we should have done it more with the Sun in my eyes so they look transparent like a vampire. It's just too technical babe. Too technical. That was so funny when I was telling Catherine this earlier I was like I did pee myself a little bit I'm not gonna lie like actual wee wee. Actual wee wee whereas laughing so hard

I don't think people realize how funny it is to get through stuff like that. I'm watching you go, that's it. I'm like, wah! Right, okay. It was funny though. It was so funny. I laughed all evening about that.

And do you know what? Even though we were like, proper pissing us, literally pissing ourselves, those golfers, they didn't look once over at us and we were they were like normal cackling normal yeah they don't look guys just don't look they're tension seekers tension-seeking girls over there ignore them you reckon people saw us down the path and walked the other way. Well, that old people didn't did they? You were going, I don't care. I watched it back and I was like, I didn't do the lip thing. I feel like your face was in love.

You were like scared but in love. I didn't do the lip thing. Yeah, but it was still so funny. You were like, I mean, when I come around, you go. You're like. I'm just roaring. Such a spank. And when I was editing it, yes, honestly, I just laughed so much and then people like,

that is hilarious. And then someone wrote, throwback. Yeah, I was like, I don't know whether you're being funny or whether you're like in you're happy they were happy I hope so everyone's happy about it not as happy as I was about it but take your throwback and so now I need to find another one that's funny that we can do with our acting skills because I feel like we can make that Broadway we're getting better guys I think we are becoming so I think we were now so relaxed with the podcast I am

anyway I'm fully well it's like there's a third person and I just include them in the chat sometimes most of the time you're like they don't need to know that and I'm like yes they do um but now the tick they cut it out she's jealous cut it out now the TikToks at first I was like robot folks don't look at me I'm shy now I'm like as if you could bite me up mmm I mean it's a true story do you feel more relaxed on the TikToks now? No. I didn't like that my neighbours were watching me that made me uncomfortable so I said you need to go inside. It was making me like I'm alright to rehearse just not with an audience. I don't mind them watching me do it perfectly. With an audience. Perfectly as high. Yeah because we've got 6000 on TikTok. I don't want an audience but people

watching me do it is like I'm like oh do you think Paul was watching us no he weren't he were inside didn't he he opened and he was like oh I'm gonna go inside he doesn't say a thing not one thing so except if I'm like this we're on this podcast so we're doing this he's like well done babe. Well done babe. It's like me I could go nipple tassels and a fanny patch and go look amazing. I can't thank you. Have a good night. Doesn't care. I think he just wants me to stop going on about things. It's great, stop talking about like me when he talks to me about football. Right, introduce. Okay, ready?

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Hi. Hi. Hi. Right. Uh huh. Uh huh. Macaroni with chicken strips. Hi. Hi. Hi. Hi. Right. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. Macaroni with chicken strips.

Oh my god. Do you like macaroni? I love macaroni. Do you? You have to homemade that though. I do. You can't buy a nice macaroni and cheese. Not here in the UK.

Uh, Bill's. Never tried. Bill's. Because they do it with truffle and sometimes and bacon never had never had truffle we're gonna have to try that but i don't know why but you've just brought it to my mind oh that um thing you sent me where they get the train and then they walk the mountain to the mountain yeah I want to do it okay no I mean I I did macaroni thank you but my brain went walk and it literally popped in my brain right sorry I like completely lost focus there yeah macaroni to climbing a

mountain yeah I don't know why but my brain went mounting maybe because macaroni's the shape of it maybe isn. I can't tell you how I put it together it just my brain went oh my god oh my god so I thought I better mention it because you didn't you didn't respond okay okay okay right we ready yeah you sure I've been ready the whole time. You're not gonna be upset that you're doing all this Right Hello everyone and welcome to middle-aged opinion, I'm your host Ellie and I'm your host Emily and Today we are looking at bride zealots. Good old bride zealots

One of my favorite subreddits. Love reading about the Bridesillers. Yeah, yeah. Why, why are you cry? Yeah, so angry all the time. Makes me happy. Does. I'm excited. Yeah.

When I was a little girl, Jesus Christ. I used to wake up screaming with the pains in my legs. And, Me too. Yeah, and I used to get up screaming with the pains in my legs. And, yeah. And I used to get in the hot bath. Mum and Dad would obviously give me pain relief in that, but it used to be Lisa that would see to me more. And that went on for years until I finally went on

to the doctors and they were like, it's growing pains. Cause obviously I was still young. Then it was still growing pains. Then I was in my twenties Then it was still growing pains, then I was in my 20s and it was still growing pains and then I just kind of gave up somewhere along the way but I still now get pains in my legs to the point you know I say to you I'm coming from a night out most of the time I'm in that much pain after getting the bath. When we do Tough Mudder or anything like that I'm in absolute agony, it's like spasms in my legs so super super hot bath as hot as I can take it and that helps I've no idea what it is. Mine really were

growing pains, they did stop but every now and then especially cold weather I get cramps like yeah it's where cramps I don't know if it's cramps but like I call them cramps in my joints and my left knee is always the worst. Mine like radiates down. I have no idea what it is. It hurts my skin. Yeah, when I am cold I definitely get them a lot but I am any hard, hard exercise. Although the weirdest thing was when we done the London to Brighton that was just normal leg pain, full leg pain. Probably leg pain.

Probably it wasn't normal, because I woke up at 11. We died. I was walking like I'd pooped myself. But, I have no idea. Like I say, we go on a night out and I start getting the leg ache. It's very weird, but I'm used to it, I suppose.

No idea. Do you think you get the leg ache because nine times a day you've got heels on? So you're on. It doesn't matter, even if I went out all day and had just trainers on, I would still be in... is that like a werewolf? I don't know, it was a bit bizarre. From the pub maybe.

But anyway, back to the story. Sorry, it was me, I did that. Yeah, but is he going to be alright though? Not sure yet. Until they remember. I'm assuming he will be. Yeah. Well they need to find out why, don't they?

Why? It's a real slow process so far. Yeah. He's not priority though. If it's not cancer then they're not... Have they biopsied? I think they did and that's why they're sure that it's not. He thought he was going in on

Friday, she had never said that to him at all but he was adamant that was happening. Have they given him at least proper pain relief to deal with it until he goes in for the surgery? I don't think I don't think they've given him anything different no. Come on NHS we know that you're struggling no no offense but mate like he's just a kid it's gonna be traumatic for him. It is really like she should watch the the video. No, yeah I don't like stuff like it was uncomfortable to watch Okay. Anyway, I'm ready focus

Bridezilla spreads false rumors about me up staging her at her wedding on her on purpose Well done. That was difficult Well done, that was difficult for you to overlook that for. I nearly did that, didn't I? Because it bothered you. It does. I'm like, I have to point out that the spelling and the grammar is fucking awful. But she can't help it, moving on. But she also says, was typed on a phone so this grammar sucks kinda.

I feel like the phone didn't make your grammar suck kinda. You did that. But we're not judging. Yeah, let's not. You did that. Yeah. But yeah. We're not judging. Yeah let's not. Go. I. I. 19 female had a, had a, have, have, have a sister, have a sister who just got married last week who we're gonna call Mary, 26 female. I was a guest at her wedding. On the day of her wedding I chose to wear this light purple dress, some gold jewellery

and my usual makeup look including false lashes which may not seem important but is later on. Okay. When I get to the wedding she gives me a nasty look but then goes back to doing what she was doing before. For the whole wedding she just kept giving me nasty looks and ignoring me even when it was time to take pictures when it was my turn to take pictures with the bride and groom she tried acting sick but as soon as I left she began acting normal again. After the wedding I get a text from my brother-in-law also known as Mary's husband.

We understood. Yeah sorry. Telling me apologize for upstaging Mary on her own wedding. I respond asking what he meant and he told me about how Mary was telling everyone I upstaged her on purpose by wearing a cake load of makeup and wearing a prettier dress. Her wedding dress was one of those extra long train and corset by the way so I don't know what she meant by that. I tell him that I would never upstage her at a special event like this and wasn't even on purpose or was I actually upstaging her. I got left on reds I got left on red soon after I sent that. I've tried talking to Mary but she keeps on ignoring me. I'll try to update if anything else happens." What do you think of that?

I think, right, so my initial thought is the bride is massively insecure because some people like me, I wear more makeup than most of the girls when I'm going out out don't know the lashes and all that and that's not because I'm trying to upstage you that's just lies yeah it's all about me that is simply because I feel like I'm look like a hobo most of the time so I make the most effort when I go out. I'll put a little bit of effort in. But I always think you... This woman recognises me from the streets. They'll be like, who are you? You look like this girl I know. But I don't think she was trying to upstage her. No. I think that the bride's insecure, although I have been tricked by a story before where she was like, she

said I tried to upstage her and and then in the end this woman Posted a picture of her dress and it was literally a bride gown in bright red She actually did that on purpose. She was the mother of the of the groom. She was the groom's ex wife She was there. She was there because the kids were were there but when she turned up to the wedding she had this red dress on. That's just embarrassing. It is embarrassing but the point is she made out like the bride was a bitch and then it turned out everyone was like okay well let's see let's see the dress then if it weren't all that she posted the dress and it was like bitch you did that on

purpose then the fucking bride found the um the post and put her version but yeah so I want to say that the the bride is deeply insecure but there is this little reserve in me from that story which says let me see the dress yeah I mean because now I'm like I'm not the makeup some people just choose to wear a lot of makeup I feel like you can't judge people for how they like to wear their makeup of makeup. I feel like you can't judge people for how they like to wear their makeup. That's entirely their prerogative, right? At every single one of the girls' weddings,

I had a full face of makeup with eyelashes. That's just me. And not one of them was like, oh my god, Ellie. There's Idris. And Poison, you're gonna have to, let me take a photo for you, because you're gonna have to post that on this story I mean I don't see that as up stage was she a bridesmaid no yeah she took it too far in my opinion do you

think I meet where's the bride I've clicked on it do you want me to take another picture I'll just send it to you so everyone can see. It's a pretty dress. It is a beautiful dress. And she's nice and slim, she's a really nice figure. This is giving brides insecurities. I'd love to see if there was one of the brides. I mean for me I want to know what the shoes look like because if the shoes are shit it wouldn't have made a whole outfit. Are there black straps here? It kind of does look like a black strap. If they're black strap you ruin that. Yeah. I wouldn't have made a whole lot of black straps here it kind of does look like if they're black so you ruin that yeah I wouldn't be worried about that she she fell on I wouldn't be worried about that anyway and I don't

believe that this sister had any intention of upstaging her sister I think she just simply wanted to um do you think there could be a slight jealousy of the younger sister thing? Yes. Yeah. Oh this is OP. She's fucking stunning. She's a very attractive girl. I don't know where we need to put... No. No. She is an attractive girl. Let me tell you, she's beautiful. She's absolutely stunning. She is. But to be quite honest, from this, I wouldn't be surprised if older sister was of something similar. Yeah.

This is her makeup look on the wedding date. So let me tell you, very neutral. So she had her foundation, her lips are neutral, and she has false eyelashes. She's got a soft blusher on so she doesn't look... It's not over the top makeup at all. It is very, she's very, very beautiful. Yeah. Right, come on. Someone's got to ask for the wedding dress. Yeah, we need to see the bride. Oh. No. Oh, she's stunning. That is absolutely not outdoing. It's very similar. Wait let me open it. Alright fucking chill out brav. It is very similar. It is but that is

distinctly a wedding dress babe. Yes. She's slightly bigger than her sister as well so that might be an insecure... There's nothing wrong with that. I'm just saying. When I say slightly, the girl's a size 10, the bridesmaid is a size 8. There are similarities, but... I wouldn't say that dress was upstaging or outdoing that dress. I would say the dress you'll see, that is a bridesmaid dress and that is a wedding dress. I would have put that down as a bridesmaid dress but...

The bride is stunning, we can't see her face but the bride's dress is absolutely stunning. The bridal gown is definitely a lovely bridal gown. Yeah. What I can tell, I just don't think, I just don't think she was trying to outdo her. I don't know, it seems like a whole thing here babe, in my opinion, between these sisters. Yeah, this is what someone else, someone says like, your sister wore a purple dress to your wedding and you've caused all this drama in your family about it. Girl, this clarification did not help the situation. Your title says she said these fake things yet your posts are practically identical. You basically confirmed everything

she said. Like you said, you acted immaturely by refusing to take a picture with your sister at the wedding. I would regret that later in life, but that's me. The only update we need is that you'll realise how ridiculous this is, and you've apologised and and laughing about it now. Congratulations on your marriage by the way. I just think it just gives insecurity doesn't it? Massive insecurity. And I don't think that actually there's any need for that. No I don't. Yeah I don't. I don't think the sister tried to do any upstaging. No. She wanted to look nice on your wedding day. Yeah. Which let's face it we all do don't we really? Yeah I mean for me my

wedding party, my mum, my sister who was obviously my bridesmaid but even my friends I wanted everyone to feel and look amazing and I think everybody did. As long as for me obviously I don't know if it's traditional or whatever, or my age, but I didn't want anyone wearing red or white because I was told that they take focus from the camera, so it should be the bride in white and no red unless obviously it's the wedding party and that is how I've grown up and known it to be,

but other than that, yes, wear a ball gown, whatever, look amazing, you know, I'm happy with that. Oh, you're looking for it. It ended up on TikTok apparently. No. So I'm looking. You see bits in there. I scroll, I did not. Oh, it's the story. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Fine. It wasn't like her face going in. No. No. Yeah. This bitch. This bitch. Right, we're ready to move on.

Yep. Yep. I'd like to see, because the... I realise her face. The sister's... Yeah, I want to see if she's as stunning as her sister. She won't be far off like you said. She won't be. It's impossible. Right. Is it normal for brides to make expensive decisions for you? Is it normal?

Basically the title I'm made of honor in a childhood friend's wedding and while I'm happy to be there for her on a special day Wow, I cannot believe how much she is seamlessly charging us for. With zero consolation on how much we are comfortable spending. She's not paying for anything for us. I had to pay 230 for my dress, another 100 for my dress another hundred for my rehearsal dress i spent one k on a initial beach trip a bachelorette trip sorry another grand on flight to the wedding this is not her fault i live far away but some level of appreciation would be nice but now she's saying the makeup and hair and that the Airbnb for the wedding weekend will be a total of 470 I want to say US

dollars when I asked if I could just do my own makeup she told me if I was you I'd feel insecure if other girls had their makeup professionally done and I didn't Which hurt my feelings Enough to make me fold We had no say in the spending money on a two-night Airbnb despite Realistically being able to drive in the morning and The morning of from another bridesmaids house near the venue. She just booked an expensive place and sent us the bill. I

love her but a lot of us in the party are getting sick of it. We're all early 20s sadly with student debt and early career salaries some of us are still in school. I get she wants to have her big day flashy wedding but my god she has no consideration or appreciation for the financial burden for this and that it has been and if I say anything about the cost she turns around and whines relentlessly about about how stingy I am to another bridesmaid who I essentially have trauma bonded with simply she got really upset with with me for nothing for not getting her an expensive of a bridal shower and not enough of

a expensive bridal shower gift as the other bridesmaids even though I have spent way more than anybody else there all in all the wedding is costing me around three thousand US dollars around three thousand US dollars. I know it would be expensive when I signed on but not this expensive. I value our friendship a lot but I'm kind of feeling like I'm at the end of my rope with her and I can't wait for this wedding to be over. Is it normal for the bride to make all these huge financial decisions on our behalf? Online it says generally brides should let the bridesmaid choose hair and make up and if the bride wants it professionally done then they should pay for it or at least subsidise it. or at least subsidise it rather than force the party to pay for themselves.

Same to some degree for the bride has a specific expensive dress that she wants. This was the case as I got lucky some girls had to... Hold on, I'm getting all right. Yeah, right. Sorry Expensive dresses she wants this was the case and I got lucky some girls had to buy multiple non refundable dresses Because she had changed her mind about them. Am I going good? Am I going crazy? Again, I know that I know the huge cost isn't entirely her doing since we are long distance friends but focusing us and forcing us into non-negotiable costs seems a bit out

of line. She's booked everything so it's too late to back out now but I am curious to see if this is normal as it's my first time in a bridal shower. I want to, I want to, why can't I talk? I went to my friend's wedding last summer and the bride couldn't have cared less. Demands for her bridesmaids from what I saw the cost was really only one part of the issue. Some true colors have come out since she started the wedding planning and could and I could honestly fill a book. So without the psychological warfare context does this just seem like a normal financial commitment to being a bridesmaid if so i'm never gonna agree to being in a party again laughing my ass off sorry i got a bit like oh my god yeah three thousand pounds three thousand pounds

it's out of it's out of fucking control out of control that is out of order it's out of control and then she's actually got the cheat to be like you're cheap I don't think she's giving me the option to go I can't afford that I'm gonna drive in I can't afford that blah blah blah I feel like nobody has an option to say no in this in this at all they either go with it or they're out yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah but yeah man what the fuck top comment comment. She's well out of order. She's fucking well out of order. I stopped at the makeup comment about

insecurities, what the actual hell. Like changing her mind about the dresses after she's got them to buy them. Yeah someone said well yeah my answer would be well you're not me and I'll be fine. I would have dropped out after that. She's already spent the money she may as well see it through but she has ruined her being a bridesmaid ever again. Ever again. People have like hit that part and they're like nah and then somebody said I stopped at the rehearsal dress. Now when I read rehearsal dress I thought what the fuck are you going on about so all the bridesmaids have to match at the rehearsal dinner we don't

have that here in the UK no there's only a few people I've never I've never known anyone have a rehearsal because we get it you walk down the aisle don't really understand what's left to rehearse Before the wedding so you get together the day before the wedding. Yeah, why I think it's kind I think it's kind of like I've a Hindu stag do thing, but not a Hindu sector, but where all the wedding party The main wedding party people can get together, have a drink, have some food, have a talk, sort of do a quick walk through sort of thing. Yeah.

I think it's just like a, just another excuse to all get together and spend more money. Yeah, really. No, it really is, because you're together the whole next day. A lot of people are stuck on this rehearsal dress thing. They're like, what are you talking about? Is this a new thing that we all have to pay for? No, yeah And one answer I failed to mention is that she keeps sending the bridesmaid I befriended a hundred and fifty plus dresses for her upcoming bridal shower like oh Sorry bridal shower like oh sorry bridal shower yeah so basically now the

bride is suggesting to this other bridesmaid that she spends a hundred and fifty pounds on a dress for the bridal shower and then someone went she shows addresses for the bridal shower I mean that she's she's completely gone she's gone it's time to say no yeah it's time you've all got to stand up time together yeah and be like look we love you that this is out of your yeah you're out of control you are out of control there's not one person i would if someone asks me i mean i have been bridesmaid before but if i was asked now and they were like you've got to do this you've got to do that I'll be like I feel like I don't but has that come with years? yeah but what what's the expectations of you got to do this you got to do that?

I don't know see mine because I think if someone was telling me I had to have six outfits before the actual wedding day yeah and I'm also paying for them but they've got to look like this. I think I'll be like, yeah, probably, I'm, no. Yeah, no. Are you paying for them? Yeah, unless that's what you are giving me to wear. I can't do that.

We've had this conversation before. So my wedding, my dad paid for the bridesmaid dresses, but that's because he's old school and it was way back when. I can't remember, I think Jenna paid for hers I can't remember exactly and then I got mine for Terry's but it was completely reasonable do you know what I mean and I'm happy to do so I think she brought us our shoes and bags I can't remember whatever way it was it was she gifted to us and then we we got the rest um there has to be compromise and if they were

dresses that I couldn't afford I'd be like I'm sorry I can't afford that. Yeah I bought my bridesmaid dresses and their shoes. Yeah. And I bought them matching earrings and necklace. Yeah I gave a gift as well. Then they all had a corsage and... A corsage? Because I didn't want them to have flowers. But I wanted them to have flowers. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's quite a good idea, actually. Saves them fucking lugging them round, doesn't it?

Yeah, that, you know, free hands, you know, two drinks. I have no idea what happened to my flowers from Jenna's wedding. Did I have flowers at her, or was drunk at Terry's wedding? I don't really remember. Drunk for like three days. I don't remember what I had at Helen's. You had flowers?

Did I? Yeah. I don't know where they are. I think Helen's got them. You looked really cute in that dress as well. I had no knickers on. Fair play. Well, Cassie was only a couple of... I remember.

And I was trying to do sucky neem pants. And you were like, nope. I did that. Terry's had to take mopping the limousine. I was trying to do sucky neem pan and you're like no no I did that Terry's had to go to the limousine I was like I'm right I'm right no shame Danielle no niggers yeah no shame well no one was looking how wrong how wrong how wrong sure okay you were you looked great looks amazing so you and Jenna looks oh my god and and she made me get hair extensions because she wanted me to have long hair, didn't she? And then she got it put in a fucking bun. I didn't do your hair, did I?

Yes, you did. Oh, did I do put my hair in a bun? A side bun. You looked gorgeous, though. I liked it, but the point was, I put fucking hair extensions in. Do you remember doing them? Yeah, your hair extensions looked amazing.

To be put in a bun. Yeah, Helen had the idea. I remember doing Helen I just all I know is that I had one glass of Biseko in Helen's room and Then that was that so that's all I can tell you from my point of view. I had a great time I had a great everybody told me so And a great yeah, I got drunk and then it was his birthday the next day and we went out. Oh yeah and I had a great weekend. But yeah it's time to... We stayed in that hotel for two nights. Did you? Yeah. It's time to... Where were the kids? With my mum. Okay. She come to the wedding? I really don't remember a lot. I mean I puked all the way home. No she

didn't. She didn't. Paul had to literally keep pulling over where I just could not stop for a minute. I ate breakfast I threw it up I ate some more breakfast I threw it up. Honestly that's Besseco for you though. I get blackout on Besseco do you know that? Yes, dangerous. But yeah back to her it's time to it's time to put your foot down and say, listen, I'm so happy that I've managed to do everything, I've done my part, I can't do any more financially, I'm going to be there for you for the rest and if there's other things you want to do, I'm really sorry but I can no longer. I can't afford that. I just can't do it. And do it in the nicest way,

because then if she bitches out, that's on her, mate. And then sue the bitch, sue the bitch and send her a bill. And that's that. Well, it's America, babe. Ain't it? You can. Go on, Judge Judy.

Bridezilla. Am I the asshole for going Bridezilla? Oh, we'll tell you. After my bridesmaids spilled wine on my wedding dress. Okay. We're going to need, yeah. This is a little bit... I'll let you know. Yeah.

I, 27 female, got married a month ago. My dress was this long lacy gown and my mum wore it at her wedding. My mum passed away about two years ago. Because the dress was so important to me, I had a big plan to keep it safe from any damages. I would only wear the dress at the wedding itself and I would switch it to a more casual dress for the reception. When I was wearing the dress I wouldn't eat or drink anything except water and I would stay inside at all times. I promise I'm not usually this crazy about cleanliness but this was my mum's dress. I get it. And the thought of it being damaged broke my heart but I also knew I wanted to wear it when I got married to have a piece of

her with me. She adored this dress and was and always dreamed I would wear it. The bridesmaids knew very very well about my particulars with this dress. I had a room above the venue where I was getting ready, my dress was hanging in a safe place in the room. On the day of the wedding I went down to check on something for the wedding leaving my bridesmaids in the room. Here's what happened as they told it to me. They opened a bottle of Pinot, my favourite, or Pinot Noir. Is that white, red? Is that red? As a celebration, they poured themselves glasses and began to walk around checking out the room. One of my bridesmaids, Anna, 27 female, wanted to get a closer look of my dress.

She got really close to it and she started touching the lace. Somehow her hand holding the wine glass slipped and wine spilled all over the bottom of the dress. When I came upstairs they told me what happened and I started sobbing. My maid of honour called several professional cleaners and they said there was no way they could get the dress in before the wedding. They told us ways to save the dress until we could get it into them. So my maid of honour started doing that. After that call I became extremely angry. I asked Anna what the hell she was doing holding red wine so close to my dress when she knew how careful I was being she dismissed it and said it wasn't such a big deal because I was planning to wear the dress so it could have gotten damaged that way too fucking bitch wow I couldn't believe she said that I called her thought

thoughtless and careless and stupid I told her that she was no longer part of the wedding and that I wanted her to leave she left and neither of us have reached out to each other since I got married in the dress I had planned to wear for the reception and was heartbroken not to be wearing my mum's dress. After the wedding, my bridesmaids joked that I was a bridesilla for kicking Anna out after she made a honest mistake. I absolutely don't think I'm the arsehole or a bridesilla

because Anna's reaction was so horrible and insincere, but I wanted to get the story off my chest and ask some people who might be more impartial and my PR so okay so now my mind is doing two things here so the first is I want to say it feels a little bit deliberate. I feel like, I feel like the fact that everybody knew that's her mum's dress and mummy's gone, this was in honour for her mum, right? That's the only reason she wanted to wear the dress was to honour her mum, walk down the aisle and say, here mum, there's a bit of you with me. It feels a little bit deliberate and I don't know why I feel that way. I don't know.

I felt that too. I think it's the response. I think it was the, oh, you could have ruined it anyway. Same thing that's really got my, because had she been a mess, because if I had done that, to even address that wasn't one of my friend's

mum's, I'd be, oh my god, I'd be hysterical, I'd be like, sorry, is there anything I could do, I will pay for all the cleaning, do you know what I mean, I'd be absolutely devastated. But that's not what she gave, she's like, oh well, oh well, like. It could have got ruined anyway. Yeah. Or it was an innocent mistake and she thought she was overre well oh well like it could have got ruined anyway yeah or it was an innocent mistake and she thought she was overreacting which tells me she's never lost anybody in her entire life and doesn't understand what it's the value of what the dress the value of what that means to her from her mum I got to go with she's nothing but a fucking bitch like I can't help it it's

her response babe yeah she won't even sorry she was like sorry not sorry yeah yeah I think I would have punched her straight in the face I'm I'm feeling like this dress was beautiful and she had some sort of jealousy even if it was a bit of shit it was it was her mum's dress it doesn't matter it the fact of the matter is that's why I think it was intentional yeah because her attitude dress was stunning and she had some mad jealousy over it it's weird right and the fact that her mates were like the other bridesmaids were like oh you're a bride too? ha ha ha ha ha I'm like is she though? no maybe they were just trying to

create a little bit of light-heartedness at maybe it's just too raw. Had she had she had been apologetic, mortified, what the fuck was she thinking taking a glass of wine over to the wedding dress anyway? A red glass of wine. Why take that over to something where she's only drinking... Anything, even if it was white wine, why would you go near it? White wine would have been fine. The point is, why would they even drink red wine when the bride is like, no, I'm only drinking water, no food, no this, no that, no that.

And then she's like, oh, bleh. Let's open red. I don't know, man. It's like, have I spilled wine in my life? Yes. Yes. Have I done it on purpose? No. Have I ever done it when I'm sober? No. No. It feels like it was on purpose. It's... What does Reddit think? The top comment. Why? Why would you wander around with a glass of wine next to a white wedding dress that had such extreme sentimental value?

Thank you. Not the arsehole. I just... They couldn't have waited. They couldn't have waited to have wine. Like, she's really questioning it. She's like, I don't understand this. I don't understand either. Uh, IMO? IMO. In my opinion. In my opinion. Even if the dress wasn't sentimental

because of your mum, the fact that it's your wedding dress automatically makes it VIP. It doesn't seem Bridezilla or OTT to take precautions not to have big ugly stains on your wedding dress and the

fact that Anna didn't seem sorry makes me feel like she deserved to be kicked out. I think the first drink we had for Terry and Jenitz was we were all ready we were calm we were ready there was no rushing around there was nothing that could have happened and it wasn't red it certainly wasn't fucking red. I didn't even have whiskey again I was on the Bosecco for some reason I'm like yay Bosecco! I was at Hellens. On Bosecco? Yeah. Fucking dangerous shit but my point is if that's Phil's babe you could dab that and you wouldn't even notice unless it's a silk dress obviously but yeah come on let's hear some more.

Even if they couldn't have waited for the wine, why are they running around the room with the glasses in hand? Are you telling me there wasn't a single table for them to put their glasses on? And even a wedding dress costs a ton of money and it's supposed to be worn for exactly this one only moment in your entire life. Yeah. I hope he was lucky to have a spare dress

but what would someone do if they didn't have any? Most people don't babe. Yeah Marry in jeans and a baggy shirt man I hope my future wedding party will have enough sense in their brain to not mess with my white stuff. Yeah, the fuck. Yeah. Even if they couldn't have waited for the wine, why are they running around with the room with glasses and hand? It's red wine, people! Most of those rooms are cream, aren't they? Maybe had a couple shots before the wine that's wine nothing but clear

liquids and champagne in proximity to the dress. There you go. I just feel like it was on purpose and I don't know why why she did that on purpose nothing from the Oh honestly, erm... No. No, lots of people have had to say. You're not, you're, first I know this isn't am I the arsehole but you are simply not a bridezilla and you are simply not an arsehole. We both get the sense that this was a deliberate... Sabotage. A deliberate act of jealousy. Yeah, someone said if I did that to a dress of a friend of mine I would just start

sobbing and apologising and hating myself for being so stupid. I would also hope I would never be in the situation because I have common sense and not bringing red wine near a wedding ground even I would cry I'm not cry babe I'd be absolutely devastated and the most apologetic in my entire life stupid bitch. Honestly. Listen all that OP needs to know is that our mum was with her anyway. Yeah. Simple as that you're not an arsehole and you're not a bride to her. And do you know what? Get it cleaned up and maybe renew your vows and wear it then. I don't know. Don't invite those girls. None of them. You don't need a bride made for a renewal either. All the rest of them have pissed me off. Yeah,

they're not, they're not on side. They're not grasping the very value of the situation. Like I say, even if it was just her wedding dress, it's still unacceptable. It was sabotage. It was sabotage. I think you're right, yeah. Right, this is a very, very short one. Gay.

I'm gay. I'm gay. Right, bridesmaid or weird? What? Yeah, that didn't make any sense. Let me go again. Why do it's my brain do that? Bridesmaid or weird? Better. I'm bridesmaid. It's because I read that bit. I'm bridesmaid for a wedding in August and the bride is asking us all to cut our hair the same style. Hey Bob! No! I can't stop laughing but she's super serious. I'm not going to do it and I would rather not be bridesmaid but had to share. The fuck.

That's it. That's simply the post. What the fuck? Yeah. I mean I know Helen wanted me to have longer hair but that's longer hair isn't it and yeah you could again you could have wigged it why did she want you to have longer hair? Because she had like this certain idea of ring lead hair and obviously my hair was a lot. I didn't even try that style on you. Because that's not what she wanted. Oh yeah. That's what she wanted. you because that's not what she wanted oh yeah that's what she wanted yeah but that's not what she wanted that's not what she wanted okay

and yeah so someone put oh hell no oh hell no that's insane that is insane okay I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks this yeah no way I'd cut my long hair into a bob I would never do that either. No. For anyone. Wigs. Let alone, I'd just get a wig, yeah, just get a wig. Not cutting mine, I love my hair. After reading posts, it sounds like being a bridesmaid is the worst. Whew.

It is the worst. Most thankless responsibility, and in many cases, it seems like it's difficult to say no when asked as if you decline you are somehow saying that you are less of a friend which seems crazy this seems like a great way to get out of the responsibility of being a bridesmaid do you know i had blue hair when uh i was going to be jenna's do you Yeah. And I said to her I'm not changing my hair and she was like fine no problem. When I say blue guys I'm talking electrical blue hair and my bridesmaid dress which was emerald green it would have gone nicely

together. I would look like a peacock. Oh yeah you're like mermaid, I'm like a peacock. But... A peacock. But I didn't want to look at those photos in 20 years and not have my black hair. That's what made me do it black. So I literally, a couple of weeks before I was like, no, it's got to be black. Because I want to look in 20 years and be like, oh, I look like me, not a peacock. Beautiful dress that, it's one of my favourite dresses. I had really short hair. I know, yeah, you had like the Kerrin-Bob.

No, shorter than Kerrin-Bob. Yeah, no, no, no, I'm not calling you Kerrin-Bob, I'm just talking about the roof at the front. Mine was probably here, but I had mine up anyway in a French twist but I literally had, it wasn't as long as this but I had quite long hair and then I was at work, it wasn't long before the wedding and the hairdresser was in, I used to care for people and the hairdresser was in, I went cut my hair so she cut it here and then it grew to about here by the time the wedding was I went home and Paul's like where's all your hair at work? Guys who married bride zilards what happened after the wedding? So this is just a question. I like that. Yeah. And we've got a couple of responses. Yeah. Got a couple of responses. Yeah. So first

one is, I was called the bridezilla. After getting back with my ex boyfriend I broke up, I broke up with from high school. His parents got into his head that he should propose his parents got married at the age of 19 and they thought that since there we're 19 we should follow in their footsteps we were only back together for over one month at that point nothing against anyone that married young or married suddenly. He proposed. I was excited because this is supposed to be an important moment in my life and I can plan the beautiful wedding I always dreamed of. I immediately started to look at venues since we had 10 months to plan. His mum complained to everyone behind my back that

I was planning too soon. His family are strict Catholics so when I said I didn't want to have a mass for our wedding they made sure the priest talked to me to convince me to change my mind. When I planned to go wedding dress shopping, she complained again about how I was doing it too soon, eight months out from the wedding, and then she brought some of her kids without asking me. On top of that I invited a mutual friend of ours and I got a text from that friend on my way to the bridal shop asking if she could bring her kids because my fiance's mum told her to. His mum also got mad at me for not including all seven of her daughters in the wedding

party. Whenever I tried to plan wedding stuff with my fiance, he couldn't handle it because planning the proposal took too much energy out of him. That lasted a few months. Whenever his family tried controlling the wedding I got bothered because they were planning around themselves. They said that this isn't about me and my fiancee, it's about their family. Because their family is a big deal and this wedding was about them. Mafia. Overall they called me bridezilla to my face multiple times because I didn't like how they were controlling my wedding. Within those few months I remembered why I broke up with

my fiance the first time so I broke up with him again. Fuck that. Yeah excellent. Yeah. Yeah not a bridezilla I was just trying to say actually can we do it this way and they yeah because mummy was always going to control their entire life when she had kids what she was doing right what she was doing wrong it was going to be an ongoing thing this one's sad go on i married a groomzilla bent over backwards to make the wedding uh add magic make the wedding add magic to as he wanted. Oh, that didn't even make sense.

That hurts my feelings. Make it as magical as he wanted. I would have been happy in someone's backyard with potluck. He admitted a couple, council, years later that he never really wanted to marry me, so much as he wanted a huge show and party. Everyone liked and approved of me so he wanted them all to see he was making a good choice and be envious. What the fuck? He wanted them to be proud of him. We used, we used most of the money I got from a car accident settlement, could have put it in a down

payment in a small house. He asked for a divorce in 2020. He's a piece of shit. That's sad isn't it? It's sad but I feel like I can kind of I think mine's unrelatable. Why you feel like yours was more of a pony show? Yeah there were there were elements about mine that I'm like why? Why did you do all that why did he want he wanted it I want a small wedding here we wanted a small wedding and it was my mum and dad that were like no no it was him he was like wanted to be abroad but the things he bought that were unnecessary. And you were just like yeah fine.

If that's what you want. Like it's your wedding too. That was the attitude. Yeah yeah yeah yeah. You know his outfit. The white suit. He had that made. Okay.

I mean it weren't a black. Just a white suit. Had that made. Like my dress I bought in sale because that was dress I liked. Yeah yeah yeah yeah. Not because it was in sale, it was what I wanted. But my outfit all in all was not even a third, nothing, it was nothing compared to what he spent on himself. That's crazy innit? My wedding dress I think was one of the most, mine was nothing compared to what he spent on himself. That's crazy, isn't it? My wedding dress, I think, was one of the most. Mine was about 25,000 back in 2004, which now would be between 50 and 65k wedding, easy. But we do say now

we should have put that down as a deposit, we have done it but we didn't and and that's fine listen we had an amazing day and all that I don't regret my wedding I'm glad that we had all those people there but I mean the whole more expensive food and all that because most of it was on the food that was like 15 was because my my mum and dad wanted that for everyone I think I was happy to have a buffet. Yeah. It does turn into a fucking pony show. It does. It does turn into all these things and it's stupid. But it's done now. You ready?

I'm gonna do one more. I'll go on then. You're like, no I found another one. Okay, first wife was a bridezilla during the honeymoon she realized she was married and the wedding day was history. What? Right start again. First wife was a bridezilla. My first wife was a bridezilla. During the honeymoon she realized she was married and the wedding day was history. Okay yeah. She wanted the big wedding which she had,

not the marriage. Yeah. The next two years were hell until she finally tapped out. I was young and stupid and the thought of divorce never crossed my mind. I didn't know why it didn't. I guess I just assumed I'd be miserable the rest of my life. Together! Together! Yeah. When she told me she was leaving, it felt as if the weight of the world was off of my shoulders.

On a happy note, her parents were still paying off the wedding when we divorced. That's what happens when you allow your daughter everything she wanted, including two wedding dresses. Yeah. Wow. Sad. Sad. I do believe some... Can I do one more? For fuck's sake. I do believe some people want the big day but not the marriage. The marriage is the hard part right? Yes. The marriage is the fucking worst man. Go on, do it you fucking knob. Alright, alright.

She stabbed me in the thigh during the meal hour wedding. Still in prison. What the fuck? She's a keeper. They've got to be still married. She's in prison at the moment. She's a keeper. What the fuck? This story needs more than two sentences even though they are admirably conscious i'm like honestly there's like 30 more replies to that

one yeah because it's like stabbed into five prison still in prison mate i mean that would have been a hillbilly wedding that would have you You blart. Didn't see that coming. Yeah, after you just spent three grand as a bridesmaid. Could you imagine? Right. Well, at least you came for a show. Do I wanna read this one? What am I on?

Am I on my third? Yes. So I feel like I wanna read this one. Right. Here's my bridesmaid, sorry. Here's my bridesmaid moment. Guys, I'm tired. Really didn't, don't want to be one, but the wedding is seven months away

and I finally cracked. Been engaged since 2023. Disclaimer I didn't say anything in the moment mostly because I love and respect this person and really don't want to believe this would ever be an issue. My fiance is more upset over this than I am if you can believe it. One of my cherished guests is my godmother, a highly intelligent, respectful 70 year old, retired but still sometimes asks to work cases out of reputation and accepts out of passion attorney and true lady no fucking idea what true lady is she's got a vag I'm assuming

I think identifies as he she is yeah I'm not he she she her her she your mum at lunch the other day yeah at lunch the other day after being complimented by me on her recent weight loss we were discussing her journey. She casually mentioned that she is planning to wear a white dress with white accessories describing it in detail. Now I'm not remotely worried that anyone will mistake her for the bride. Like I said she's lovely but married, husband obviously in attendance and 70. I changed the subject and avoided to comment. I am mostly thinking what? To my wedding? Yeah yeah what? This lady like I mentioned is a famous attorney and has been to many events in her lifetime certainly fancier ones than

my wedding even fancier weddings than mine. How could she be so clueless? I really don't think I've I've ever given any of my guests a reason to want to cause trouble. The wedding is in Sicily. We are both Italian. Me too, brother. You're like, here we fucking go. I've already decided your new name is Mario.

No, what are you gonna do? So for... Mario? So for those... Mario. So for those... I'm going to change it as well. Mario. Mario and M. Mario.

So for those who don't already live within driving distance, we provided transport and accommodation in a niche nice hotel. Sounds like a nice wedding. Sounds amazing. Sounds like a good bride. The personal expense is required. It's a sit-down dinner with a band and an open bar, a religious ceremony beforehand, children are welcome, babysitters and different menus provided on site. Bridal parties aren't really a thing here but my sister's cousins and my two best friends really want it to be bridesmaids so I'm also covering their dresses that they chose hair and makeup if they want it. All the particular to humble and show to say that I'm really trying to be mindful and

accommodating as I can. I may hermit when I don't travel, I tend to avoid large crowds and my fiance is exactly the same. The only reason we're having a wedding as opposed to a loping or a quicksibble ceremony is to celebrate with our loved ones. The Catholic-ness of it all is also for our loved ones. We don't... excuse me... we don't... what the fuck? We don't. And then it tickles. We don't excuse me we don't what the fuck we don't and then it tickles we don't see that's so weird we don't have a registry and don't expect slash need gifts I don't understand. There you go. What do we think? Weird right? I feel like she's putting on this beautiful wedding. Done it all right. All expense. Yeah. All expense right, being a perfect host for this. Yeah. I, I...

without permission I think is disrespectful. I don't really understand why she, she's not a stupid woman, why she's like, I'm wearing that, it does feel a little bit like I'm the most important person there. That's what it's giving Yeah, it's giving get over yourself It wasn't even that look I've got this dress, but it is white, but I would love to wear it How do you feel about that? Yeah, weird it feel weird about that. I don't know I'm my mum wore cream and so your mum by and so did my auntie Sharon and she's like do you mind?

I said no absolutely not as long as it don't look bridal. Yeah yeah yeah. I don't mind any of it. It was like a white summer's dress. I feel like one of the new things is to have the whole bridal party in white. Absolutely fine. But this only is the bride's choice yeah and top comment did you ask her why in choosing to wear the same color as the bride I was probably definitely too polite I suggest a color and shoes to match to offset the white and she quickly shot me down oh no my white shawl and pumps and clutch will go perfectly with this dress. I thought I was in a bad Twilight Zone episode. I just feel like she's there's no way she's gonna disrespect this woman. But yet this woman is disrespecting her. She is but she doesn't

sound like... oh this is interesting. Right hold on. Since you love and respect her, it goes on and then I just read something interesting. Since you love and respect her, call her and gently remind her that other people will be giving her the side eye and making unkind remarks. She knows better, you can even ask her, maybe she'll tell you the reason why she's wearing all white at the wedding. The person who she loves and cares about, very weird, that's not what caught my eye she may not care about the remarks from other people I'd say look I'd say look why at a wedding is not only a violation and it also bothers me that I hope I can respect my

wishes right that's not why I read hold on especially in Sicily Italian families I hear it's taboo for a guest to wear white oh there you go so it's even worse in Italy than it here than it is here in the UK unless she um makes all her guests wear the same color I know she doesn't want to be controlling in any way but that would really solve the problem here. Yeah. Like to send a memo out, hi guys I'm really sorry that I'm sending this memo out. If she would then wear white she would wear black. Even if she said can all guests wear black for example. But I feel like this woman would then be like no no then she's got too much self-importance and somebody's gonna have to put her in her

place I think it's lovely that this girl respects this woman and she clearly has nothing but kind words to say about her but this woman is disrespecting her. She is disrespecting her but she's also embarrassing herself. Everyone's just like this is well embarrassing. She's not though because in her head she is of importance. She's not even the mother of the bride. No. It's so weird. It's weird. I don't get it. It is what it is. She's either gonna say something or she's not.

It's a very strange thing considering the effort that they've gone to for all of these people. Can we come to the wedding? It sounds incredible. When was it? It does, I won't wear white. I won't wear white. I'll wear whatever you want me to wear actually.

Tell me. It was only 29 days ago There's still time tell everyone I've changed the color fit or you're just gonna have to fucking suck it in and like tell her Yo, bitch, you're out of control So engagement ring I'm nowing her profile. Scanning through what seems to be an incredible life. She's been Kenya.

She seems lovely. Yeah, I feel like you either tell her, you either speak up or shut up. It is one of those. It is. Unfortunately it is. Unless you get, what about your mum tells her? She's got to have someone bolting her life like us. I don't know, I don't know.

Because if someone else said don't, but I've told her and she didn't say nothing. See, the perfect thing would be to have a mate like me all go for a coffee together. This is Deidre. Oh lovely, I've got this dress what are you wearing white are you cray cray who wears white to someone else's wedding yeah that's another option sure you could hire someone to

do that you could fucking hire anyone to do anything You can hire someone to go to a funeral, stand up and tell everyone what they did wrong. What do you mean? So if I'm dying, touch wood I'm not dying, well I am dying but not anytime soon, and people have pissed me off but I know they're coming to my funeral. How do you know they're coming to your funeral? Say for example, it's my Uncle George, right? I ain't got an Uncle George but my Uncle George coming to my funeral and he's done things but I know that cunt's gonna show up to my wedding night with best mates and he's really sad I'm dead. I can hire someone to stand up at the thingy bob and tell Uncle George why he's a cunt. I feel like I'd be great at that job. Ellie wants you to know. Another one for the resume. I do feel like I'd be good at that job.

Yeah you can, you can literally hire people. You can hire people. There's this man that I watch, I think he's, I can't remember if he's UK or he's from somewhere else, but he rings people to tell them the bad news that those people don't want to tell him. And he's like, yeah, hi, I'm so and so from blah, blah, blah. And Emily wants you to know x, y and z. And they go, who the fuck are you? And he's like, oh, I told you who I am. And then when they, when they go, I'm going and he goes okay love you

fucking Amazing I'll send it to you next time it comes across my profile and then they're like don't fucking say that he's not okay Okay, love you Amazing pulled on the ice clean driver that he loved him the other day Amazing pulled on the ice clean driver that he loved him the other day By a text He went I'm really sorry. I just sent you a text saying that I love you. It was meant for my wife And then when we were getting in the shopping and when the bloke went I went bye. We love you No, you

Did you take it well he proper was laughing he went love you too Yeah, oh my gosh, because I couldn't stop laughing So of course he took it well when Paul said it in front of me really sorry me I sent you a text say I love you So then if you played along like oh oh man, you broke my heart? He did, he did! And then he goes, um, because Paul went, oh, baby, ain't that funny, but you know me,

what's that like, I couldn't stop laughing, and then when I said to him, oh, okay, love you, we love you, bye! And then Paul was like, it's not even funny, though. Yeah, somebody's got to tell her. If you're not, you've got to finish this off. If you're not going to tell her.

Yeah, you've got to finish it babes. It's all about you now. If you're not going to tell her, you're going to have to shut up. Or get someone to tell her, hide this one. Go on TikTok mate and search him. Bad news tell her just put that in and it will come up and he'd tell her that he loves her as he goes which would be amazing okay love you bye Sandra doesn't want you wearing white to her wedding okay

love you oh my gosh this is this is quite a shit human being one, yeah? Oh good. Right, I didn't marry the Bridezilla, but oh this is still on the M, the guys who married Bridezilla's, what happened after. Yeah. They're some real bad people in the world. So many bad people, what is happening? Don't you feel like it's gotten worse? Do you think we're just reading about it more? But we're definitely reading about it more? But we are definitely reading about it more. But I mean like on social media, do you feel like it's always been this shitty? Or it's just getting worse?

I feel like COVID changed people, you know? Do you think? Yeah. Fuck off. Fuck off. Sarah well laughs when I do that. Fuck off. That little boy in it, in the car. I didn't marry the bridezilla but I had co-ordinated, co-ordinated. Co-ordinated.

Co-ordinated her wedding. We had a deaf in the family, six month old baby, a few days prior to the wedding. I called the bride and told her the situation and said that my assistant would be stepping in for me so that I could attend the funeral. She told me to send my assistant to the funeral and that I had to had better be at the wedding I told her I would be sending her a refund and that no one would be coming to her wedding fuck you and your mum groom ended up leaving her after this whole thing went down surface to say he really dodged a bullet there. What an evil piece of fucking shit mate. Who says that? Nobody. Who says that? Nobody says that. Yeah fuck you and your mum because the mum's got to take some responsibility for the way you are.

Disgusting. Yeah fuck her. Honestly. I hope she sits on Lego Lego every fucking day every fucking day yeah it was I was just like whoa yeah that's Bridezilla on another level but that's that don't even know I actually think there's something wrong with her I don't that's like too far for Bridezilla Bridezilla that's like there's something mentally wrong with you babe. There's got to be something wrong with you to go, there's got to be. Yeah I'll tell you what, you send someone else to that baby's funeral and you will turn up to my wedding.

There's got to be something wrong. You what? Yeah. Can you imagine a mate saying that to you? Oh my god, you'll never guess what. I couldn't imagine anybody. No, I mean like your mate saying that. Oh my god, my wedding plan has pulled out and you'd be like, oh no, what happened? Well, a baby died and I was just like, forget that, it's all about me. You'd be like. You said what? I feel like. We're not friends anymore. Yeah, like I feel like it's not going to work between us because there's something wrong with you mentally.

You've gone bye bye. So wrong. Yeah, I bet people are like what the fuck. Yeah, there was quite a few messages after that one. But yeah. Not okay people, that's disgusting. No, let's do better. In it.

Fucking people people mate. He left because of her behavior towards you after the funeral or he left her in general but before or after the wedding did she even make it down the aisle? My stomach. Probably was the straw that broke the camel's back. He had other signals. It would be though babe, come on. It confirmed it. I would be willing to bet he left because of her response to the coordinator not being there. The bride was probably complaining about it to the groom. As someone else said it was likely the straw that broke the camel's back. You would be, you would, I would be absolutely mortified, mortified that you think for one second anything you've got going on is more

important than what's happened to whatever poor family that has just lost. She said a deaf in the family babe so it was a relative of hers or a friend it doesn't even matter it doesn't matter. It was a child of six months passed away in her family. I thought you said six weeks it irrelevant. What did I say? I thought you said six weeks. Six months. Oh six months. Six month old baby. So a baby that would have been known. It doesn't matter it doesn't matter if it was newborn and still but it's no fucking consequence to what that woman It doesn't matter if it was a miscarriage babe at the end of the day She needed to be where she needed to be and that stupid woman was like my arm and I mean refunded her No, I mean either I'd be like see you in court. Yeah. Oh my god my legs. Yeah, don't be a prick guys

Yeah, come on do better. Like you're not that special Nobody is But although I enjoyed today my darlings until next time like follow subscribe I need away my legs hurt anything else same shit different day My legs do actually hurt. Oh my gosh. Ow, ow, ow, ow, ow. Bye. Bye. Oh, fuck. It really hurts. Wow, what do you think of that? What do you think of that? Well, I think that cow has got everything that she deserves.