Middle-aged opinion - This is intense

Episode Date: May 8, 2024

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Starting point is 00:00:00 right you ready my brother-in-law is the reason why my husband left me i don't know what to do now ready i am female 38 met my brother-in-law, male, 38, at uni. He asked me out in our first year and I refused. He called me the C word and that I was shallow. My best friend told me that it was harmless comments from a drunken guy who was rejected. I never thought myself shallow. Hold on. I never thought myself shallow. It was his demeanour and awkwardness that was off-putting
Starting point is 00:00:50 to me. Anyway, he proved my friend right and other than these comments, I've never felt uncomfortable during my uni years because he never bothered me again, not even looked my way. because he never bothered me again, not even looked my way. Next time I met him was when my baby sister, female 28, introduced him as her boyfriend. I didn't even recognise him at first because it was like 10 years since the day he talked to me. He was visibly annoyed that I didn't recognise him and called me a liar. The family was sceptical at first about him but he seemed to treat my sister right and they seemed happy. He is very rich. Taking her all over the world and he seems kind which is uh he seems kind with it too they got married after a year of dating and they have three children together i met my now ex male 40 husband five years ago and the only odd comment from my brother-in-law was that I was still a shallow and superficial as I was in uni.
Starting point is 00:02:08 At the time, I took it as a joke. But in hindsight, when I found out the truth and started thinking back, looking for red flags, this was probably a big one. He never showed any signs that he disliked my husband. And he was always decent enough and his into in indifference to have a close friendship with my husband and i didn't seem odd because he was always a recluse okay a year ago my husband came home and accused me of cheating and he had evidence. The guy contacted him and he had nudes etc of me on his phone. The guy told my husband that he didn't know at first that I was married but as soon as he found out he contacted my now ex. He even apologized to my
Starting point is 00:03:02 husband. I have never met this guy in my life nothing i said or did made my husband believe me he left me and our divorce is pending then yesterday the guy contacted me he apologized for what he did and told me that he is friends with my brother-in-law he sent me conversations endless conversations my brother-in-law had about me for years he has never forgotten that i in his words didn't even give him a chance and only judged him by his looks he called me a c in the chat both through chats with his friends but mostly with this guy. They planned this attack and my brother-in-law somehow got access to my photos. The reason this guy contacted me now is that he felt guilty because even when my marriage is over my brother-in-law is still angry and hateful especially when he heard that I'd been on a date last weekend so the friend felt that I that I he didn't help that he didn't help his friend
Starting point is 00:04:16 but ruined innocent people's life not sure what to do my brother-in-law has actually been happier and more sociable than usual since my divorce. And now I know why. Although first I thought he felt sorry and wanted to support me. His jokes about me ending up as an old maid with cats as comparisons didn't sound like jokes anymore. He meant them. I don't want to ruin my sister's life. She's very happy with her husband. I'm not sure either if I can with her husband. I'm not sure if I should tell my ex or not. I'm very heartbroken that he didn't believe me I love him very much he is the love of my life but I'm not sure if I can forgive him for not believing me but he is a victim too so maybe he he needs to know for closure I may I'm terribly sad and hurt I'm sorry for the post
Starting point is 00:05:25 It got very long Go I told you it was brilliant I told you It's gobsmacking It is gobsmacking When I come across it I was just like oh my god
Starting point is 00:05:48 88 days ago this was so I don't even know how many months that is yeah hold on wow yeah this is from reddit post for off my chest wow yeah if this is from reddit post
Starting point is 00:06:05 threw off my chest wow yeah I think would you tell your ex yes
Starting point is 00:06:15 I mean I would as well and if she's actually got the evidence there yeah and maybe
Starting point is 00:06:21 even speak to that friend that person that guy and get him to say look i need you to speak to him too what about her sister because this is her sister's life is about to go to shit depending on what what side her sister takes i mean i don't know what their relationship
Starting point is 00:06:36 is i mean i i think my husband would be my priority at that point I need you to know I need even if he was like do you know what I'm still broken because you don't believe me the thing is but I feel like you need to know because actually the thing is evidence was given
Starting point is 00:07:00 he hacked he somehow got into her phone and evidence was given to the husband anybody would believe um anyone would believe that she was having an affair somebody showed me my partner naked with somebody else or even just naked pictures on somebody else's phone i'd be like what the actual fuck how did did they get it? Of course, that is evidence in anyone's eyes. You'd feel like you were going mad as well,
Starting point is 00:07:29 because you'd be like, nothing is going on. Like, I don't even know this person. Yeah, I think I would have to speak to that partner. The top comment with 4,400 upvotes is, it wouldn't shock me if the guy found your sister and he's dating her just to remain close to you. That is it. Feels too much like a coincidence that he somehow popped back up in your life
Starting point is 00:08:00 and got mad that you didn't remember him. Yeah. It's honestly, I want to see if there's any updates. Yeah, no. I think. That is a restraining order. It is more than a restraining. I mean, I'm the type that I would burn him to the ground.
Starting point is 00:08:20 But that is just, that is just, there would be so many casualties but because of the sister yeah but because of the sister i think that that makes it more difficult because of this the sister um someone said uh i wouldn't call him uh word will get to him along with screenshot proof. He makes... I want to see. Hold on. I want to know how he got hold of the pictures as well. This guy needs to be brought up into the open.
Starting point is 00:08:57 I mean, everyone is just... Yeah. How did he get those pictures to give to somebody else? This is what I'm saying. Let me see if I can... If there's any way... I mean, what... Maybe it's a case of she, you know...
Starting point is 00:09:13 Got an update. Go on. Update. My brother-in-law is the... Right, update. I'm so sorry that I have been gone for too long and I am overwhelmed by the support that you have given me I haven't read this some of you are still asking me like um asking me uh about me
Starting point is 00:09:35 I don't uh know where to start I have been in constant pain and stress about everything that happened but my brother-in-law is now exposed to everyone shut the fuck up um about what about what he did to me for those of you who think he is in love with me yeah go on he exposed himself no no no she's saying exposed i think he's exposed i think she's gonna explain for those of you saying he was in love with me he isn't he very much hates me and my guts he's also the driving force and not only like hold on sorry i skipped a little bit there it's because i'm excited i'm excited right uh he very much hates my guts and has done since the day I rejected him. Hate is also a driving force and it's not only love.
Starting point is 00:10:30 So for the stupid users that I would like to call losers who made fun of me about bragging. Honestly, about a man not being over me for 20 years. Oh, so some people in the comments, I mean, I didn't read all the comments, but I can assume some people are like, you're saying that he's loved you for 20 years. Get over yourself. That's not what she was saying. She's saying some dickhead has done, ruined my life. Um, anyway. That she met 20 years ago. Yeah, that it's not it uh unfortunately i have sent these
Starting point is 00:11:08 comments from a different sub about updates what a bunch of losers oh some people are actually sending her your bragging comments get over it i was in constant fear that my brother-in-law will be hurting my sister because of me and I'm not certain if he will um but that was the only reason I had uh like refrained from telling him I wasn't sure what the next right step would be with people like him he has hidden hidden his hatred so well for so long what more is he capable of i didn't want my sister and her children to be the collateral damage that's why i've been careful i'm so sorry to disappoint you but not being strong but because i wasn't a strong bad bitch. I have priorities. My sister, and I finally talked. I love her and her children very much.
Starting point is 00:12:10 She seemed just very hurt and questioned her entire marriage. And who can blame her? Yeah. I tried the baby steps approach. I wanted her to know I was there for her and I was honest with her about my worries about her and her children with a man like him it worked for a while and I was being hopeful but some something changed and it probably had to do with her husband giving her an ultimatum
Starting point is 00:12:48 with her husband giving her an ultimatum divorce or cut your family off she chose her marriage shut the fuck up it broke my parents and me but i don't think we can do anything about it it is her own choice even if it is an unbelievable one do you know know what? I'm going to butt in there. Yeah. She's chose her husband, she's chose her family because that's what she feels is the right thing to do. And in any other situation, choosing your family that you've made
Starting point is 00:13:15 is the right choice. But, if you're in that... She, she will not stay there. No, something else is going to happen she she will not stay there no something else is going to happen she will not stay there so they need to just stay patient because she will come back right she will come back but maybe there's this little chance that she knows him better than we do so she's giving her the benefit of the doubt basically. There's the little hope that
Starting point is 00:13:45 he is a better person towards his family. I am clinging onto that hope. She wrote us telling us to forget she and her children exist. She said, she wrote to us telling us to forget that she and her children exist
Starting point is 00:14:03 and that they will take legal action if we ever try to contact them. Brother-in-law has deleted social media accounts and his friends apparently all want nothing to do with him. I have heard he is planning on leaving the city because everyone knows what he did now and he is having a hard time with it. He barely leaves the house and he has been shamed even at work. Here we go, my ex-husband.
Starting point is 00:14:32 My ex-husband and I are moving on with the divorce. I don't blame him for believing the rumours but at the same time I wish he knew me better like I thought he did that I would never do such a thing and cheat on him I am so sorry that he moved back for me that he moved back for me and probably was hoping that we could give it another chance but I can't he has apologized so many times and said so many things that he never truly believed the rumors. But I have started to think that our marriage wasn't strong enough to overcome all the rumors. It is nobody's fault, but I thought our love was stronger than it actually was. I think we both thought that. I have started dating a new guy a few weeks ago um before this all started after over a year of me not being able to leave the bed he has seen all of this unfolding and he's been
Starting point is 00:15:37 very patient and supportive I think I have a real shot of happiness now. At least he knows everything and it will prepare and it will be prepared in case my brother-in-law isn't done with me yet. Thanks for reading all this. And again, thank you for being there for me. Fucking hell. The top comment, heads up OP, original poster. This message to your family does not sound like it came from your sister, is what you said.
Starting point is 00:16:08 She's being manipulated, likely abused. Find a way to contact her without him knowing. Maybe send a letter to her place of work. What do you fucking think of that? I told you I had to read it to you. What a shit show. I can't imagine. do you reckon your brother would choose his marriage over everything that if like for example obviously it would never happen but
Starting point is 00:16:37 it's you know for example if your sister-in-law did ruined life, your marriage, and it all came out. I don't think my family would, I think. I don't know. I don't know either. I know my brother's loyal to his family. Very, yeah. But loyal to his family that he's made, like his marriage. I don't know. If Paul ever did that to my sister, I don't know.
Starting point is 00:17:06 I don't think I could forgive. I think that's a really, really difficult place to be. And it sounds like he's incredibly manipulative. So when you're in that relationship, and quite clearly he's about to isolate her to shit. Yeah. Like, because people aren't going to talk to her knowing who she's married to it's so bad it's so bad i mean there's for me there's relatable content in that and i'm i know it's the sister will come about she She will get into that.
Starting point is 00:17:45 I think she will. I think something else is going to happen in the marriage. She needs time for it to settle. I don't think he's going to give her time on her own for her to actually think about it. I don't think so either. I mean, if they're going to reach out to her, they just need to let her know that they are there
Starting point is 00:18:07 and they will always be there for when she's ready. It's so bad that I don't even know... I don't even know what to say. It's sad that their marriage is done. It's sad. I get it. I get where she's coming from. But she's right. They weren't strong enough to overcome...
Starting point is 00:18:24 But... But I do... I get where he's coming from as well's right they weren't strong enough to overcome but but I do I get where he's coming from as well if this woman come up to you and she'll look naked pictures
Starting point is 00:18:30 of your husband like we've been dating yeah you know he was married you'd I believe that stabbing him and then it's too late
Starting point is 00:18:38 but yeah you would I would I would with evidence it's evidence that's my husband
Starting point is 00:18:44 yeah on your phone. Yeah. I just, I feel. And they're going, I'm so sorry. I know. I feel so sorry for her. That's why I had to tell you. Because she's probably thinking like she's going mental.
Starting point is 00:18:57 Because you know you read these stories about these people. And then in the end you start thinking, did I actually do that? Did I do that? Did I do that? I know. You know when you read a story about yourself, actually do that did i did i do that i know then when you read a story about yourself you're like what did i do yeah literally what did i do now you do like she must have thought she was going crazy yeah that's not a nice story it's a awful awful story so that knows you had to read it to you i told you it was good i'm sad though i'm sad though i know i haven't got the right story i haven't saved the right story unless i say it's so bad i'll tell you what though i had to read it i i feel like that needs to be loved
Starting point is 00:19:37 with the police i probably probably was no but it isn't but it isn't why because you think she's just trying to move on with her life? Yes, yes. Not me. I'm telling you now. I'd be like... That needs to be logged. Even if she's not going through with having a restraining order or anything like that, it just needs to be logged because that is psycho behaviour.
Starting point is 00:20:00 It's unnecessary behaviour. You're married with kids, you've moved on. Why are you attacking someone from your past? I don't understand how anyone can hate someone so much, which is good, really, because I don't think... Because she didn't give him a chance. Get over yourself, mate. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:20:19 I am... See, because people saying, you know, you're bragging that he loves you, I wouldn't have said she's bragging at all, But what I'm saying, what I'm saying is... Yeah, but he's like... He either loves her or hates her. She's right, there is a fine line between love and hate. I have clearly never hated anyone enough in my life to ever...
Starting point is 00:20:41 Excuse me. Attempt to destroy. To ever even be bothered. Love, I definitely... I've got no bother in me. No, none at all. No, you don't seek revenge. I'd be, like, so revengeful if I was you.
Starting point is 00:20:56 No. No. Because, actually, that destroys you. Yeah. No, yeah. Yeah. That destroys your inner happiness like how can you be happy and content with yourself with your life when you've got that mad rage over somebody else because they didn't do what you wanted them to do or say what you wanted them to say that's ridiculous i mean it couldn't be me but ridiculous i mean i can't even imagine what it'd be like to feel that way to have that much
Starting point is 00:21:32 passion you know like when you're growing up and all these people they're in love with this you know band and then people get really obsessed with that i've never had that either never never ever is there something wrong with us have i ever felt so low um there's never been anything but i don't get starstruck or anything like that no i don't care either i'm just like i know what it's love to i know what it's like to completely love deeply a hundred percent but i feel like i do too yeah but like that's as far as i go like because i think that if something's not right or someone doesn't want it i'm not a hater no me neither i haven't got it in me i don't have it in me either there are people that they probably could even like and i i think maybe if someone um if someone did something to my children then I could find it in me to
Starting point is 00:22:29 turn into some sort of nutcase but other than that because I think if if someone loves you and then they hurt you let them go because what is the point in being together if you're going to do all that stuff to me because you don't love me like i love you i think as well getting older i definitely see the love i have in the friendships that i have with my friends that is a massive thing to me because out of everything we've always been there and have and continue to be all these years later so my heart hurts for a bit Yeah, it's just, I don't even know what to... I hope that she has found someone that can... I hope she finds someone and I hope she's reported it to the police. He needs mental health help.
Starting point is 00:23:13 There's something wrong with him. For me, that level of hate is too much. For someone to say, no, I'm not interested, and then to go to that extent is like that's mental to me i can't even fathom beyond yeah i can't i can't get it like i can't get it together it doesn't make any sense are you ready for the next one this is another this is more of a ha ha yeah i need that now yeah yeah i mean I enjoyed this I'm just hoping it's the right story perhaps I should have read through again because I don't know if I've saved
Starting point is 00:23:53 the right story so I peacefully die I know that is that first one was it's a lot to take in it is a lot to take in I just can't it's too much I watch her sister and kids yeah I mean that's all going to turn to shit you know it is it's a shit show waiting to happen could you imagine that being your husband and actually you're his wife but yet he's obsessed over somebody else who happens to be your sister
Starting point is 00:24:21 to the point that actually he was happy to destroy their marriage. I actually don't think I'd let anyone destroy my relationship with my sister. The actual fuck. It's the same as our group of friends, one of their husbands doing that. It's the same because that is the same level of friendship that we all have. The same trust and everything like that. I couldn't find my way through.
Starting point is 00:24:45 But do you think that's because we're 40? Do you think that's because of where we are in our life and everything that has happened to us in our lives, that we are mentally wouldn't tolerate that shit? Or do you think, because look at yourself, look at Emily when she was 26, 27, 28 that's my point so you know I look at me
Starting point is 00:25:10 back then and I think the level of shit I would have oh my god I love you but I think the level of shit I would have tolerated back then to who I am now as a person is like a massive difference, it's like night and day
Starting point is 00:25:27 of I'm completely different change were my kids yes and then what I then went through through my divorce yeah but that's what that's what I'm saying that with me too. You know the level of rubbish I went through. It's too much for anybody. No. Yeah. It was nuts. Yeah. It's almost on par with that kind of nuts.
Starting point is 00:25:55 That's what I'm saying. I'm just like, like, for me, obviously, I'm not divorced. You know, I'm still with Paul. But for him having his stroke and then my mum dying six months after that who I am as a person now would never the old me and the new me are so different it's night and day that my level of tolerance and loyalty is completely different so my loyalty to the people that are in my life and have been in my life all the way through all the crap and all that sort of thing you know from when I was younger that's how long i've known you all my loyalty to you lot is so profound and to my husband and my children that i could never let some random you know say you started dating someone and then he
Starting point is 00:26:39 did that shit and then 10 years later he's you know trying to ruin i could never have my friend stay with that person or anything like that i mean for me it would be if it was my sister i'd be in a fight to get her away from that negativity do you see what i mean i wouldn't be able to just go i get it i'll see you later i know you love him vice versa, I wouldn't be the person going, I'd be like, you're fucking nuts. You need to spend some time in the psychiatric ward. There's something wrong with you. That level of obsession, I just don't, I can't relate.
Starting point is 00:27:18 Can you relate? I can't relate. Yeah, a little bit I can. To being obsessed like that. I had unconditional love for my husband yeah I've even said before that he probably could have killed someone
Starting point is 00:27:33 and I was like it's ok it's not his fault I love him I love him I was unconditional and I know I was because there were things that weren't right and i was like it's okay yeah we love each other yeah we'll work it i was always we'll work it out yeah it didn't work out but i understand and because we were married and because we had children i'm
Starting point is 00:28:01 like we can work it out we're a family we're We're a unit. We've got this. Yeah. So that may be her headspace. Yes, I do think that man is going, it's either me or her. Yeah, yeah. Without me, what are you going to be? Who are you without me? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:28:16 You're nothing. It's toxic. You're nothing. You're nothing. Yeah, yeah, yeah. A hundred percent that man is doing that to her. A hundred percent. Because actually, he's now scared. I just, I mean, her whole, she's had to cut off her whole family, probably most of their friends. doing that to her a hundred percent because actually he's now scared i just i mean her
Starting point is 00:28:25 whole she's had to cut off her whole family probably most of their friends i just i don't know if i would me now would never sacrifice that me then probably i probably would if i'm honest i think me now i'd be like you're a job on mate's jog on? Yeah, who I am now and who I was then. Yeah, we are different. We are two different people. Sometimes it is life events that actually really make who you are. Yeah, I think, I do think that sister will come out of that. Yeah, it's totally why.
Starting point is 00:29:01 I do not think. Something's going to happen and then that will wake her up. Long term, that will carry on yeah and you know what i also think he will make her life miserable so do i i think he needs help actually i think he's ill that you think a 10-year commitment a 10-year commitment of ruining someone's life that said i'm not to date you what happens when someone really upsets him what does he fucking do then do you see what i'm saying because that wasn't anything how many people reject people every single day i'm not interested thanks love to then go to that level for years years and that is all you talk about with your mates that cunt
Starting point is 00:29:42 saw that cunt today and it's like get get life i mean i'd be like emily you want to get a life he doesn't want you get over it in the fucking like anyway i'd be like it's time it's time to move on but that to me feels like where he's at for years i'd be like he's still he's still talking about that i mean maybe he's like she's the only one maybe he's the most gorgeous man ever and he feels that he is everything and he's and he's entitled pretty and he thinks yeah yeah get over yourself actually i'm seeing your aura here and i i'm i'm not feeling you and he's like hang on a minute what? it's still a massive level amount of commitment to go to
Starting point is 00:30:28 we have to move on we can go on all fucking day right new one so this is true off my chest true off my chest I'm so sad about that you're going to like this one this is the level of petty I want you to go to, but you never do.
Starting point is 00:30:47 Ready? I'm hoping it's the correct story. If it's not the correct story, then whatever. Tomorrow, I'm going to ruin his life. Yes. Go, sister! Is this the same person? No, unfortunately not.
Starting point is 00:31:01 I have been with him for three years now. We plan on getting married with our life settled down i wanted to start a family with him i love him more than anyone else in the world i love him i love him i love him i'm satisfied um so much for him sorry i've sacrificed she might be she might be um I've sacrificed so much for him moved away from my home turned down jobs so I could stay with him it's not enough and I stood by his side as he started to go back to school I gave him my world and he cheats on me all right are you ready I found out over a month ago.
Starting point is 00:31:47 Wait till you listen. Wait till you hear what she's done. Yeah, relax. Relax. This is a different woman. I found out over a month ago the scumbag got cocky
Starting point is 00:31:58 and I found out Literally. Literally. And I found like the cocks that people keep sending us and I found out he was cheating on me with two different women one is a ta teaching assistant at his university the other is his best friend's girlfriend you'll love this i'm livid i I write this post choking back venom.
Starting point is 00:32:26 I loved him so much. He was my world. But now he will be the world I burn down to nothing but ash. Now this is the type of girl. I love her. I pay for everything since he quit his job last year to go to school I was more than happy to help him I make enough to support us both the only upside is the student loans are in his name and no
Starting point is 00:32:55 Connection to me it will hurt to push this scumbag out to sea, but I will survive I Have held out But I will survive. I have held out... Oh, as long as I know how to love, I know I'm still alive. Anyway, I have held out for a month. Enough time to create what I call... Whoa, hang on. Love her.
Starting point is 00:33:16 She knows. She's got a plan. She knows. And she's carried on the lovey-baby for a month. For a month. Right? on the fluffy bed for a month for a month right i have held out for a month enough to create what i call the day his world burns oh moving on uh maybe you can do it on finger bob tomorrow we are hosting a party i arranged for his family to come but my family will sadly not be able to make it i have
Starting point is 00:33:47 packed everything valuable already and the suitcase is in the back of my car my brother will come during the event tomorrow to take my car that is in my name that the dirt bag drives to my parents house the joint account which is all my money anyway it's already empty the event will be great and he and he thinks it's for us to announce our engagement to his family what will happen in reality is i will announce my departure from his life. I've already taken a job out of state and I have lined up a new place to live. I will start by telling everyone what he is into. The screenshots of him asking his girlfriend, his friend's girlfriend to piss on him. And the many other fantasies his disgusting mind degenerate mind can come up with which will be passed around i will hand him the notice to vacate as i have already broken the lease we need to be
Starting point is 00:34:57 out at the end of the month i will then end off it by informing him I have already reported him with sleeping with the TA for one of his classes the previous semester to the university and that I am sad that I won't see the fallout from that. His friends also message him, also have a message ready for him that I will deliver, informing him that his friends group wants nothing to do with him ever again. And with that, I will leave. I will not look back. I will set his life on fire and walk away. Do-do-do-do-do-do! Yep. Two hours and over 5k upvotes.
Starting point is 00:35:48 I should have expected my story and plan to get popular. I will update once all is said and done. I've got to go and find the update. What do you think of that so far?
Starting point is 00:36:06 Wow. Brilliant. I mean, I've got to go and find the update what do you think of that so far wow brilliant I mean that's a master plan it's fantastic but that is the complete opposite and actually it's night and day between the stories right
Starting point is 00:36:22 good for fucking her. Oh, I love it. Now, this is where I try and get you to go, but you won't. And I really, really, really hope that poor girl hasn't got any STIs because he sounds absolutely vulgar. He's absolutely disgusting. Somebody explain to me what is this? Just, if you don't want to be with someone, just separate.
Starting point is 00:36:45 What is so difficult? She's paying his way. Why would he leave? Yeah. His money, cow. Honestly. I mean, normally it's the women that do that. You know, can't just be all men.
Starting point is 00:36:55 Right. Yesterday, I was supposed to ruin his life. Repost. So, I don't know why the post got removed. Don't ask me because I don't care here it is they say the herbius is the downfall of men h-u-b-r-i-s hubris not really sure what that means yesterday i planned to ruin his life in front of his entire family i worked for a month to create the scenario that
Starting point is 00:37:32 that would cut him the deepest i have i had plenty plenty waited for the chance to storm out of his world in a blaze of glory and then i hit the front page of reddit he's obviously found out i realized i'd fucked up when he had not answered any of my texts and had not shown up hours after he told me of course it hit the front page he told me he would come home i had hot i had hoped it would happen accidentally um literally a car killing killing him before i had it oh before i had a chance but no i don't know how many men in the world are currently cheating their soon-to-be fiancee and their best friend's girlfriend, Anna T.A. However, the one who mattered in the plan found out on a Reddit post. I called his mother and found out he had run home to his parents. He told them we had a fight and that we were probably through.
Starting point is 00:38:42 He found it on Reddit. Gutted. I was so excited. Why is he on Reddit excited many people are on reddit people love reddit that i mean that's our whole podcast day he's a prick basically um his mother asked me what had happened as he left out a few details so so I decided, yeah, so I decided to tell her, that he was cheating on me, with the TA, and his friend's girlfriend, I soon heard shouting,
Starting point is 00:39:12 before she hung up, I text my ex, that he had, literally, I text my ex, that he had until the morning, to return my fucking car, before I reported it stolen,
Starting point is 00:39:23 and sent the screenshots, of all his texts, his parents and siblings. We need to be friends with this girl. My car was sitting in the driveway when I woke up. Yes, it was. Yeah, I contemplated sending the screenshots anyway, but his mother sent me a heartful text yesterday apologising for her son's actions and I feel they deserve
Starting point is 00:39:45 to be spared from the you know actions I am I and my father will be moving all my stuff today and I won't be coming back after that I know you're reading this for cheating fuck um oh i know you're reading this you cheating fuck you're a coward piece of shit just know i am not above sending out all the screenshots if you ever dare try to come back into my life oh and your ex friends all want you all know about your piss oh your piss scratch fetish i can't control what they do with that information good luck with that absolutely fantastic she put the top comment i can't lie i expect this i expected this to backfire worse and i'm a bit disappointed that the original plan didn't go so well so am i you still have a chance to crumble that bastard i mean if she's got that on video as well that would have been fantastic yeah or like you know when you're like i've done you a slideshow and then
Starting point is 00:40:58 like a slideshow of all the sniff yeah yeah no basically just saying gutted that the original post didn't go to plan what do you think um I had to read you both you know what
Starting point is 00:41:12 good for fucking her yeah fantastic fantastic take no prisoners take no prisoners because
Starting point is 00:41:20 fucking hell she took no shit so if a month though of just pretending love you. The problem was she should have not posted on Reddit until after said event. Yes, but she obviously got excited. I mean, I would have been excited too.
Starting point is 00:41:37 Ha ha, that's what I'm going to do. So if you ever date again, not saying you will, but if you did, can we go for some sort of petty revenge like that? Will you think about it? I'll think about it. Sweet. Because it sounds great, right? Yeah, I feel I'm over being done dirty,
Starting point is 00:41:54 so the next person that fucks you over... They ain't going to get away with it. No, because they ain't shit. I mean, there are things that I could be saying, but I'm not. No, no, you shouldn't because it's you know inappropriate but i think that anybody yeah but anybody that ever comes into your life again if they show any level of disrespect that we take them down in a glorious blaze what do you reckon to be honest i don't think I'll get past a first date
Starting point is 00:42:25 with anybody ever again no me neither I'm like nope I don't like your hair it's a negative nope I don't like your knees
Starting point is 00:42:31 nope I don't like your hands nope I don't like the way you talk you move your knees I hate knees it's weird you like that extra
Starting point is 00:42:38 bit of skin that's how people can bend the skin people need the skin to bend the knees why do these look like baby's faces it's disgusting
Starting point is 00:42:45 If anyone wants to send Pictures of knees please do I mean we don't want the dick No we don't want the dick pics But please send knees Disgusting So we can show her Don't listen to her I hate knees
Starting point is 00:43:03 Knees are disgusting so we can show her thank you don't listen to her i hate news

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