Middle-aged opinion - Unpopular opinion

Episode Date: September 24, 2025

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Wow. What do you think of that? I think, what don't you think at that? I think that's how we've got everything. Right. So, none of you have seen this purely because I needed my phone, but we were just discussing. Oh yeah. So Emily's just shown me the shallow hole of sack of shits that she's on a waiting at, looking at.

So I have decided that I have invested September, basically, September, into looking into the whole day. whole dating scene uh you know just a uh put put a toe in you know take your toe back out bro hopefully i won't catch anything but uh it is a shallow pool it's a shallow murky pool i'm afraid she has tried because she's had conversations but they're like dead it's dry it's so it's about as dry as my badge it's dry so so magicus magicus yeah and some of them are like going into psychotic rant anyway

there's a man with baby teeth now now like all baby teeth now if any of you have ever seen a pussy cat they've got the big a pussy cat they've got the big fangs and then

in the centre of the smallest teeth you've ever seen this book okay so I was sharing images with she was showing me what I said the date of poor and all I can think about is pussycat man so initially taking my mind off pipes initially I had quite a big my criteria is quite large and I don't mean that's not me being like yeah he's got to have a big dick that would be nice

for once what a nice big dick a decent guy's dick Goerth. Anyway. Anyone? You know our email address. Taking I want to say Avlets now but that's not the right word. Taking... CVs.

C-Vs now. Send in your girth size. Oh, not a picture though. Yeah, we just send the size along with a picture of your teeth. You're not. Oh yeah. And never.

Nipples, because some have got large nipples. Not that there's anything wrong with that, it's just we haven't seen it before, so we're excited. I'm like a two-year-old, you know that. See, I'm... Are you dating? Are we dating for you? I've been really fussy with it. And not fussy, I don't think...

I don't think fussy. I mean, I don't have much to go on anymore because everything I've chosen by myself it's not been okay so I'm kind of relying on the universe and the stars to help align me a little bit I think we need to get out there

and you need to chat to people and meet the old-fashioned way you know what the problem is that is actually how I connect with people because I'm a body I read people's body language and that is how I decide whether I can deal with you or not

so to read a bio that someone has used AI to what about speed don't Is there speed dating anywhere? There is a few speed dating. So I'll go up with you, I'll wait by the bar, get drunk while you do your speed dating and then we're going to have a good night. Why don't we do that? Look, it sounds like hard work.

Listen, if you want something, you're going to have to put in a bit of work for it. Yes, I did. You see my bio. Listen, I'm telling you. I've got working to my bio. It was open and honest. But you can't, because you're of the same generation that didn't have, you know, have all this crap. I feel like the way

for our generation is to get out there. So let's find something. I'm going to look later tonight and send you some things. We'll go up. You do your speed date. I'll wait. But not too far because I don't want to meet someone that I would have to travel to go soon. Five minute walk radius.

I mean, that would be really handy if I could walk there. Yeah, but... But then you know that they need you if it don't work out. I'm just talking about like... I'm not interest in someone that lives in me on case. No, you want someone that's in surrounding boroughs. Surrey. Like, not boroughs, sorry.

Like, please be in Surrey for a start. I can, I can deal with maybe London. We must have some jokes that listen and watch us. Come on. Get your, get your... That ain't married as well. Oh, yeah, of course. No married. If you've cheated in the past, don't even bother.

Not living with your wife. Separated, yeah. There's one of those on there. I read that. Which means they're still together and he's just on there. We're not together. We haven't been in a relationship for two years. Oh my God. Talking of which.

So when I was finding the third podcast and trying to choose just stories that I went, I went on affairs, yeah, but actually I've gone on a different Reddit affairs where people are looking to have affairs. Let me show you. Okay. And then I was like, because I thought I was going on to the affairs that we looked at, and then we done that whole podcast about people that were actually having affairs. I mean, I could put it on that because I don't have the day.

time to actually have an affair so if I went on it to pretend I had an affair I had to put in my ID and I was confused at first I was like why am I but these people are actually having affairs hey I'm looking I'm not you know a lot of the stories are like I'm not looking I mean this would be a good podcast I'm not looking to separate to split up my marriage but this is what I want see look wow so I I've stumbled across this and I'm gobsmacked that it's a real thing. I'm looking for someone who's emotionally intelligent and communicates clearly. I'm a very attractive communicator. Fair warning, I can talk your ear off about exercise and music. I'm out. I love trying. It sounds

boring. They're married. I love trying all the new things and going on adventures. Where are you telling your wife you're at, brough? I need a partner in crime. to share some frills, some chills and frills. Weak spot for animals? Is that converted? Is that a perverted thing? About me. Married, medium, long hair,

brown eyes, personal hygiene, non-negotiable. HWP, muscular learning. I don't know. 420 friendly. Don't know what that means. Weak spot for animals. Is that perverted? Animal rape.

Sci-fi nerd. I'm out. You're out after that. Is that a girl or man? I'm going to say bloke. Male, male. I don't know what the four F means either. Oh, male for female, yeah.

That's sorry, bit thick. But babe. Female for male. Bored, but not broken. I'm a married woman in her 30s, looking for a bit of spark back in my life. My marriage is in a rut and I'm craving connection and chemistry

with an attractive gentleman for some discreet, filthy fun. I'm very kind, smart. She's not that kind. I'm a massive slag with a big hole who will cheat on anyone in my life. Oh! And then someone's like...

I've changed my mind. I don't want to go on that. DM. So I don't know what people are saying, but a lot of the comments have been removed I would love to explore some kinks with you so marry people go onto this site babe I'm sharp I've stumbled across this by accident and I'm absolutely gobsmacked seriously

but then I'm like where is the affair when we did maybe I typed in having an affair and those stories came up but either way I'm like brough but then I thought that's actually a good point podcast. Anyway, moving on from these slugs. So yeah, Emily's looking for a man, five foot seven and over, or five foot six and over? Five foot seven and over. I'm not being overly fussy with the, you know, I'm trying to not be. As long as you look like a human, that's a start. Yeah. Um, of normal stature. Yeah. And that's kind of your only requirement. Not in a relationship, not a serial cheater from other relationships. Preferably not a narcissist. Not that you never tell us, but we can sniff these out now. Kids don't matter.

No. But if you do have them, it'd be nice that you saw them. She's not having any more, so get that out of your head. Don't think I'm having anymore. Because that's gross, we're old. I feel like that's your only requirement. Jobs don't matter. You could be from, you could be from a, it doesn't matter. The cheapest pain job. Yeah, the lowest paying job to the, the highest paying job to the As long as you work, you have a job, you make a living. Passion is great, passion in stuff, that would be great. She likes a motorbike man, but it's not essential. It is.

It's not essential. It's not, massively, is. It's not essential. I want a biker. It's not essential. I want a biker. Then go where bikers go. See?

She doesn't want a biker because that means leaving the house. I want them to come and get me. She doesn't want a biker. They do want to buy it. She doesn't. She doesn't. I don't care what your face looks like if you've got a motorbike. Oh, really?

We've seen some shocking things today. You saw the thing I don't care about the face. And a motorbike. Right, so my week. I have started college. Yay. Yeah, I'm super excited, and I'm being super hard on myself because we were doing our first pipe bending

and I feel quite thick when it comes to angles. and I think I'm we've decided I'm overthinking it which is crazy because I know angles because I've done hairdressing but in my head I'm going backwards and forwards on

I'm never going to make it through this course to I'm going to be fine so that's where I'm at the minute but I've also had my dad's dog for getting on a month there's hair everywhere in my flat I'm literally on the edge people and she's trying to throw me over the edge

with sharp teeth I feel like I brought you back down, thank you very much. You actually took my mind of all my problems in them. You see what I'm doing. Some look like they had fecal, alcohol, seagull. She's judging, I'm not judging. One of them, I can judge. I'm never going to get another man nor do I want one.

She was laying in bed. One of the eyes would be looking at her hearing. I'm a really horrible person, but it's okay, I've accepted my fate. Oh dear, it just made me cry, I need to do that. I don't like people that put in their bio, don't take life too seriously either. I'm really sorry, it's a no, I don't like it. Why does that offer you? Why?

Because you've got nothing to say. There's no vocab in your brain that that's what you come out. What's yours in that section? Don't take life too seriously. I don't understand what you mean by that. And what is yours in that section? Take life seriously. No.

Like, of course, like, I had passions and, and obviously. Aspirations and goals. Don't, like, you really had nothing to say that you put, don't take life too seriously. They're the people that come at you by the fucking jugular because you've said something out of line to them. And they're like, how big are your tits? And you're like, I thought you didn't take life too seriously, mate. Yeah, calm down. Yeah, calm down now.

Yeah. No, I don't like those people. I said to M. Something wrong with those people. I think that when her Aries, right that, she's not into Aries, so even an Ares, don't bother. But I think that you are not ready to look for a relationship. Right now, you're not ready.

No, I'm not ready to look for one. What I want is to go out and meet someone and need to have more organically, yeah, than swiping and then going, Hi, how are your day? We just spent 40 minutes to me going, Hi, how are you up? I can't. Yeah, yeah. I mean, I get that.

Actually, I had a really shit day and I got a headache because of the fucking kids I work with. Do you want to know about it or do I actually have to fake this whole situation? They don't want to know about it. They don't care. Even your partner who you will live with one day won't care about your problems in that aspect and that's normal. But yeah. Anyway, let's get into this. Yeah. What can ask me for?

Do you actually even care? Right. I'll tell the dog. You tell the dog? Oh, she cares. I'm going to tell the cat. No, we're not getting with him. There isn't going to be a cat man.

No cat man. Oh, which is you screenshot? Can you screenshot? No, we're not screenshund. I want a screenshot and send it to Alfie. Really appreciate it. I'm going to say, cupcakes outside. You're like, man or cat?

And I can edit in some face. I'm gonna burn in hell. Right, okay. Hello everyone, and welcome to middle-aged opinion. You got no glasses on? Yes. They're nice. Do you like them?

Yeah. I've got the other ones, but I need to like mold them into shape. But when I turned on the hair dryer, because I stupidly got the plastic frames, they're a bit big. So when I turned on their hair dryer to mold them, Zeus attacked the hair dryer. The point was to take me. And I can't use the hair dryer.

dry with Zeus in the room. He's concerned that it's trying to hurt me. Same as the lawn mower and the drill and anything else because I put the mirror that was in the lounge in the hall now. It's on the wall. So I put it up

on the wall and he was concerned that as I was drilling, the drill was trying to get to me in some way. Okay, right. Anyway, hello everyone and welcome to belated opinion. I'm your host Ellie. And I'm your host, Emily. and I don't know what we...

Unpopular opinion And we're looking at Unpopular opinions subject It's our opinions around popular Yes, we're doing it Unpopular opinion Did I keep this one? Don't take life too seriously

Oh mate I have to say When I chose it I thought it would be We'd have really good debates But actually I found it quite boring Reading through But then I thought maybe

It's because I'm just reading through and I'm not debating in my own brain. Do you know what I mean? Yeah. It might be okay, so. And then I took off the long ones and just kept one long one and then three little ones. Right. Should I get going?

Yeah. If you judge someone for being dramatic over a breakup, you've never been through a real heartbreak. Okay. Yeah. Maybe being dramatic was a strong term and grieving deeply and possibly, for a long time is better. This excludes situations like being heartbroken over someone they never met or dated or delusional circumstances. Yes, you may have been dated or been in a relationship but if you tell someone who is clearly and openly brokenhearted, don't matter the age or

circumstance, anything else, but something along the lines of, okay, this is going to take a while to heal. You've never actually been in love or had your heartbroken. You've just been in and out of relationships that didn't phase you much. I understand the situations of wanting them to feel better quickly, especially if the heartbreaker was toxic. Yeah. Or maybe you're sick of hearing about it and you want to just get over it. Move on, Emily. But if you have been in actual love and then heartbroken from love, even if the marriage, even if it's a mutual breakup, the end will still hurt badly.

You should be able to very easily empathise and see the reason that they're heartbroken. Okay. Yeah, no, I'm finding hard how that is an unpopular opinion. that's just empathy that's actually just giving a shit for somebody's feelings just because you're not in that situation right now where they are

doesn't mean that what their feeling isn't real I feel like this actually goes back to what you were just saying about the way that you know when we did the whole catfish thing about how you can fall so hard for someone even when you've never met and whatever so people in circumstances like that

especially are definitely less sympathetic or if you've been with someone a few months but you're completely heartbroken because you're the kind of person that falls really heavy quickly because you gave so much into it that's what I'm saying so I do feel like people will be like get over it I can see that happening do you know what I mean but I'm not one of those people no I'm not either I do believe that no matter the time it it can relate back to I mean, do I say it or is it too wrong? But it can relate to when somebody has an early miscarriage and people are like,

you were barely pregnant, it's a, it's heartbreaking and it's a very similar. It's not the same thing, but it is, it's a loss. When you want something, yes, so much that you literally put your, what's to say, all your eggs in one basket, isn't it, for that one thing? Yeah. It doesn't have to be a relationship. And that's what I'm saying. Yeah.

And then it's gone. yeah and then people feel like you shouldn't be heartbroken you should be heartbroken over something that you didn't have yes didn't actually have long or clearly they weren't seeing that being reciprocated so why do you feel like that when that person wasn't being like that and that's what I'm saying I feel like it doesn't matter the set of circumstances if somebody feels away don't get me wrong some people are fucking dramatic and everything's a drama and they're upset about everything they are but that is how they feel and it's as simple as that and there's nothing wrong with being sympathetic and caring to that

person in that moment do you know what I mean even if you don't want to hear about it anymore is your responsibility as a friend to hear about that top comment it's been three years for me and I've always looked at it like I'm moving on in life instead of moving on from her which is still going through heartbreak, no? If you're moving on, you're moving on from something that's hurt. It's either that or you've squashed it and put it in a box in the back of your head and this is going to come out in a next relationship as an explosive, unhealthy thing.

Exactly. Just fucking let people deal with it. Second comment, I agree with you. Everyone comes from different backgrounds and experiences. If you were neglected emotionally or physically as a child, it's highly likely that you would take the breakup harder than others. For me, my breakups are devastating because of my abandonment issues and my parents give me no support whatsoever.

It was awful. How interesting, because me, I'll forget about you super fucking quick. Well, no. I detach. I actually have discovered that I can detach. quite easily. It doesn't stop my feelings. No, no. But actually I can walk away from something and never speak to it again. Yeah. And be okay with that. I might cry, but that's no one else's business but my own. Yeah. No one knows that because I just,

yeah, doors closed behind. I'm very, obviously it's not in a, in a love relationship because I'm still married, but like I've had friendships that have just stopped and I don't get even mad, try and find out why. If you're done with me, then that's okay, because I've either upset you or we're not meant to be in our lives at the moment. But I don't, that apparently is an Aquarius thing as well. So, but yeah. So, you know, everyone deserves the hurt. And if someone's not giving it to you, then speak to another friend.

Speak to someone else, yeah. Yeah. It's okay. There's no problems in needing support when you're grieving is there. No. And equally, you should really be seeking support because doing it on your own fucking hard of course okay she that doesn't you do well to be fair no i spoke every day i feel like i've done good you've done amazing but we have spoke every day when shit's gone wrong i feel like i've definitely come out of but all i do is actually have a go at her

she takes my mind of it actually she tells me about like her dad's crummy toes or something I said spit in my beds and I'm like that I sent you the picture did yes he did I'm like wow stored in my member bag forever

that actually went on the microphone I send it every few months in case you're deleting it I sent I sent it to Jason through birthday and then a picture of my dad's

toes for his birthday and put happy birthday all my love always and I asked him did you like it he said no I went out fucking ungrateful you I edited that I went I took time out of my day to make that for you ungrateful little shit I said Chris you want to swear out your kids mate I just sent some morpho is Lisa and Chris I'll show you them after this one go on mine's really short the rest of mine are yeah mine's short we went too hard on Karen's okay no one likes a Karen I get it but the wide strokes we went to discourage Karen behaviour also took out the beneficial Karen adjacent niche of person who speaks up

when someone is watching a TV show with no headphones on airplanes or public transport, like a dolphin cult in a tuner net. For fear of being labelled a Karen, no one wants to engage and maintain order and we are all a little worse off for it. We have no one left to defend us and the social contract is crumbling. I happen to agree I do I do actually agree

because I do think that even me everyone with Karen Karen Karen and you're right anyone that says anything is automatically labelled a Karen if you're a female and a Ken if you're a bloke

you speak up you're like you are literally just bashed down with Karen absolutely straight away which actually is not fair I mean don't get me wrong we understand what actual Karen yeah of course racist pieces of shit mainly aren't they you can't pop there yeah that's my

house over there yeah shit like that nobody cares yeah please go away i pay my car tax i paid my my road you know how many videos i see of that so many your part outside my house i'm gonna get my boyfriend it'll do you and we're like oh please oh yeah yeah yeah watch just to see and then the boyfriend comes out it's like what's the matter mate it's like she said i can't park here why can't he part there because we live over there. He doesn't live on the street. He's like, I'm just visiting. He's all right there. Well, you're not going to, and then that's it. They kick off as well. I'm like, do you know that when Paul had his strokes, he wasn't allowed to drive? So he'd come out of hospital. I went out and some woman down the road from where his car was

parked on the door, meaning that he had just started walking, he'd come all the way down the stairs, answer the door, she went, can you move your car? He went, I can't move my car. I wasn't driving at time because I've had some strokes and brain surgery um I can't move the car anyway three months later car's still there can't move the car and then now he's finally allowed to go and get in the car assessment whatever so he gets in the car car's broken down she not she waits for me to go out and knocks again I don't know exactly what door she's on but I'm I'm raging for her because I would have like obviously ripped her apart so you know where I lived there was no parking spaces on that you park wherever yeah who the fuck did she think she was he's just told you

he's that if he wants to leave the car there but ever yeah it's tax it's emotid yeah mind your business yeah so then when i passed i used to park there specifically if i could and then i'd get notes on my windscreen make sure your car's not in the way of the bin men blah blah blah blah blah blah and she used to do that straight in the bin i was hoping she'd come out and say something but she never did that enraged me that did oh my god i wasn't living life then no i was looking for a fight okay gone right uh right did i do that right you shouldn't bath naked in rivers lakes or beaches we saw someone naked at the beach yeah it shouldn't have been though um Then they'd be going,

Is that a bum? Yeah. You're saying, I'm right. Yeah, it's a bum. Can you say his duck? Who's deck? Then we got the binoculars out.

I can see a deck. Gareth's very big. Oh, the immaturity. Right. You shouldn't bath naked in Rivers Lakes or Beach. Forgive my English no matter if you are a woman or a man you shouldn't definitely enter naked in rivers lakes and or beaches the water isn't exactly treated and if somehow was it wouldn't be for long you can get parasites in your uretha or in your other holes okay that's it really yeah i mean i'm not being funny even if you had swim shorts and you can still get parasites that in that in your holes in your holes but um listen karen

10 of you can't go in water Just what a weird thought It's weird Of course the rivers and beaches and sea It's not treated There's fucking shit in England rivers We still get in And in the sea

That's what I mean Like we get in I mean I'm not being funny But That's not a reason not to get in the river It was just random I liked it

Just because there's parasites, there's always been parasites. Yeah. Always. A couple of comments. But guess what, we've got treatments for that now? Yeah. We certainly do. We know where to get them.

Right. I am sure parasites aren't stopped by garments. No. Is the top comment. Second, do you think that clothes will keep your genitals dry? I wonder if we keep chlorine the whole scene. But this is what I'm saying. So naked, listen, I'm with you, I don't want, if I had my young church, not so I don't care now

they're big, but if I was somewhere and people walking around naked and they're not meant to be, it's indeed an exposure, it's not really family, friendly, fine. But if you're going to those who I don't care, and whoever said this is absolutely right. Once you go in swimsuit or not, your vaj, your boobs, your ass crack, your hole, everything's in the water anyway. So it doesn't matter whether you're naked or not, it's all being exposed, right? right? Floader! Uh,

oh geez. Also, does this mean that we are all dumb now? Because obviously everyone's like, uh, someone said, clothes aren't waterproof, right? Like, people are confused with the whole, the whole thing is stupid.

The hole? What hole? The parasite hole. The poo-poo hole. Next time we go swimming, I go, I get a parasite. Oh, it's just your finger. Not my finger, it's my toe.

As long as your nose are lock. Don't we use to scratch my own. Mom would clamp off. He doesn't like to be accessed. Night showers are the only showers that actually matter. Okay. This was certified in unpopular opinion. Oh.

Certified. If you only shower in the morning, you're literally going to bed every night covered in the filth of your day before. Yeah, you're fucking... Especially been swimming naked with the parasite. And Emily put her toe up your dirty toe nails. Dirk from your commute, sweat from the gym, germs from touching everything in public spaces.

All of that is now on your sheets and pillow. Congrats, you're marinating in it all night. Yeah, you fucking tramp. Showering at night actually makes way more sense for hygiene. You go to bed clean, your sheets. Stay fresher, longer, and you're not dragging the day's mess into the place you rest. Fucking try. Morning showers, in comparison, feel like more of a ritual or a wake me up thing.

Of course, if you want to do both, fine. Thank you for that. But if you're only going to choose one, it should be the night shower, because that's the one that actually keeps you and your bed clean. what do you think well once i read it i was just like yeah i see your point i see their point but i do like to have a wash before going to bed to be honest like i do actually wash my hands my face uh you know a pits i change my clothes i change so i don't tend to get in bed in my day clothes

i wear night clothes i change my clothes i don't always shower or bath before bed i don't that's the truth excuse me I always shower or bath after a night out every time because it makes me feel better but I don't agree because that is why we change our sheets

our pyjamas etc etc I don't think you're a tramp but I also get where they're coming from yeah well if I feel dirty I'll shower at night and again in the morning that you do you

Yeah, I just shower whenever I want. Need to wake up? Shower. Not tired in the morning and work in construction? No shower. Go to the gym in the morning and work construction. Shower because I sweat a lot. Come home dirty.

I'll shower. Admit all day, no shower. Admin, sorry, all day, no shower at all that day, maybe. So many reasons. And lastly, wife tells me I stink. Then I'll shower. There you go. I don't think.

You have to shower every night. I really don't. But at the same time, I understand why this person does. Yeah, someone's just like it's really just logic. I mean, today I feel proper skank. I feel like I should have showered before coming, but I didn't. I thought I'd save my sweat and bum juice for you. Yeah, I have pee today, so I'm...

I do, I feel it's my hair, all of it. I feel skank. P and in the rain, so my hair is junk. I haven't started running again, but when I was running, I shower after I done that because I'd sweat everywhere Absolutely everywhere Including sweat from the gym

In this very odd choice Do you think people who shower in the morning Are going to the gym And they're not showering until the next morning Yeah Everyone I know who goes to the gym Shows after and in the morning But I just don't

I don't need a shower or bath To wake me up in the morning I'm not one of those people Jenna is she has to have a shower in the morning I'm not both my boys have a shower first thing in the morning and then obviously if Harry

in construction comes back super dirty he will shower again but they definitely need the shower in the morning me I can't think of anything but it makes me feel warm cozy and wants to go back to sleep that's how getting in hot water makes me feel but it did just remind me of something I want to just deed her oh yes

the running have you started running no are we still thinking of doing it yes then we will book it when we next get our money um and then we've got to start running otherwise it ain't happening brough okay right cats in europe i can't say cats now cats in europe should be allowed outside cats have been in the UK since at least the first century AD and mainland Europe since the second century BC Any damage they may have done has been done to the, say the word, the ecosystem, there you go. Americans love indoor cats and is very American-centered to have them indoors than most of the places in the world.

Turkey, North Africa and Europe to name. Yeah, she's screaming. She's missed me. But a few. What do you think of that? Yeah, she's saying, she says cats in Europe should be allowed outside. So Europe, right, I didn't understand it either. And in the UK, we used to be part of Europe.

You're allowed your cats outside. All my cats go outside. I don't want my cats to be outside. only one expectation is if we had large bells on them. The biggest reason is that cats kill hundreds of millions of birds every year. What? Yeah, it's the weirdest post, but I wanted to read it. They also keep vermin down, like mice.

They do. I mean, my cat brings them home live, but that ain't the point. They have a natural need for hunting because, hold on, no, because they don't have a natural need for hunting because they get fed at home. Domestic cats hurt for fun. Wild cats hunt for substance. Very untrue. What you're saying is incorrect. So basically, it is in their DNA to become hunt, to pray and whatever. And yes, they might not eat everything they catch, especially domestic cat, For example, mine will bring mice and birds and whatever and they're not always dead so I'm able to catch and release but a lot of the time is that they bring it home to the pack

and they bring it to you so you can learn how to hunt. It's quite cute. It's gifting, isn't it as well? Yeah. So, um... I think she needs to shut up. And then someone said if they don't need to hunt, then the amount of birds being killed

is overstated. This person does not like cats. Should we send her a picture of that bloke? It's probably a baby child. I mean, she's very, she's proper, don't like cat. I don't know why I chose that one, but it had cats in the title and you know me. Let's not pretend.

I like a good animal one. Um, okay. Yeah. I'm waiting for it to open. Yay! Good Zoom, Zoom. It's going to be a short podcast, this one. Good.

Right, dating out of your league isn't real. Really? Because I've just seen some cats. People love to say someone is out of your league, but I don't think that actually exists. Attraction isn't some universal ranking system, Everyone agrees who's on top. What makes one person desirable might not matter at all to someone else.

Of course. Sure, society tends to put looks, money or status on a pedestal, but most real relationships are built on compatibility, shared values, humour and how you make each other feel. Calling someone out of your league usually just reflects personal insecurity, not reality. if two people choose each other then they're in the same league period I agree

I actually happen to agree attraction so a lot of people like I'm polyamorous or whatever the fucking shit is that they go on about basically they're attracted to the personality what is that called is it pansexual no it's not called pansexual

that's isn't pansexual when you're Oh no, maybe it is, pain. Yeah. Describes the romantic, sexual and emotional attraction to people of all gender. Yeah, so basically, when someone says, I feel in love with their personality before them, we are not wired to do that.

We see someone and we, the first attraction, is the most important part of the attraction and they're absolutely right. I'm in love with my husband. I saw him, thought, oh, I sit on that. We're still together. Because she did. Yeah, shout on that.

But my point is, he found me, we both found each other attractive. Now, other people's opinion on whether I'm out of his league or he's out of my league doesn't really matter because that is not how we see each other. so I agree that it doesn't matter what other people think

yeah it doesn't matter what other people think the law of attraction is the and I don't care what people say about I fell in love with their personality is bullshit because if you're not getting that attraction first then you've given up on finding the attraction in other things and you've just gone with something else so but ultimately attraction is very important physical attraction that's what I'm talking about and yeah you do fall in love with somebody's

personality because that's their mental attraction of course of course but that's not it's not solely what you fall in love it's not but that is the first you have to still have some kind of physical attraction to them yeah to fully love that person that yeah not to mention when you're physical and yourself yeah but when you're physical and sexual with someone you need to think that they're good looking sexy whatever whatever you want to call it because obviously to relax and release yourself is to feel those things in my opinion obviously but i for anyone that says it was their personality i'm either wondering if that person's rich or sleep in the dark literally because i can't understand how someone can uh okay for example

someone that's openly admittedly a gold digger how someone can sleep and have sex with someone that they don't find physically attractive i don't i can't i think because it would be a very dry night you know what i mean Yeah, I'd be all claked up. I think some people can actually just switch off to it as well, can't they? Like it's mechanical. Yeah. Just do what you need to do to get what you need to get.

And then be done. And be done. I suppose prostitution. And is it called that anymore. But yeah, I suppose that that's a career, which I have no problem with. So I suppose they would be sleeping with people that they find unattractive. But I can't imagine. Yeah, but I'm still able to make that person feel attractive as well.

Yeah. But my point. is I can't imagine that they would get very much sexual pleasure from themselves for themselves because I think in my head it would just be a job yeah to enjoy myself when I'm intimate is to be sexually attracted that's just my is that a teenage mutant ninja turtle

where am I looking up there it's not Raphael no that's it I'm so Sorry. Fuck, say. That's Leonardo. Okay. And then you see the little white thing in front of it. That's actually Raphael off of the 3D printer.

Do you remember when we used to collect them in Kinder Eggs? Yeah. That's what I'm looking at it. It's just reminding me of the Kinder Eggs. My favourite was Raphael Purple. That's Donatello. Okay, then it was Donatello. It's been a long time.

Raphael was mine, which is the red one. That's why, yeah, you made me the 3D printer one. That's cute. Yeah. And what are the other ones? Monkeyhead. The one in the middle is Bulbazor, which is my favourite Pokemon. Okay.

And then the one on the end is a potato. Normal. Anyway. Because I wanted to call our dog potato or tatty. But you didn't? No, it called her hatty instead. Yeah, why? Why didn't you just call her potato?

Because I weren't allowed to. That's why you done me. Let these kids roll away. A potato. And she didn't look like a potato. She does look like potatoes. She looks like a potato. She looks like an old potato.

She's a sack of potatoes. She's gorgeous. I'm done with dogs, yeah, for this week, yeah? Give me some space, except obviously I love my baby. It was lovely up the woods earlier. Yeah. Until he saw a dog. And I was like, please, stop talking.

Stop talking. I just saw your tongue and then you made me think, think when the kids went I've got an earring in your tongue I'm like I haven't because I'm a heart an earring well it is an earring it's not it's in my tongue it's tongue off anyways or they go what's that in there like that get your hands out of my mouth yeah touch me I'm too hard on Suisse today because I was like shop it but he's gone from barking to go she does that normal Doesn't always do it, but she does do it.

And I was like, can you... Do you look, I'm sinking. Relax. Right, let me do the last one. Okay. Having weekdays off are better than having weekend. Yep. My Friday is Tuesday.

Having Wednesday and Thursday as my weekend is much better than Saturday and Sunday off. A lot easier to accomplish errands or to get to my appointment. the great bank hours, no need to call out work or take unnecessary leave, also less busy on weekends so never have to worry about traffic or large crowds. I agree. Well yeah, because everyone else is at work. Yeah. But if you want to go out on the weekend, that can be a bit annoying. No, because you, well, depending on what your job is, but you generally work during the day, don't you? Depends what you're doing. But yeah, it depends what you do.

But, yeah, I like having a day off in the week. Nine times it's 10 on me when I don't go out if I do have a day off the week. Yeah, well, you are. But it is nice. And then... I think it depends. Do you have friends? All only have weekends off.

It could end up being socially exclusive. Amazing. Are your friends on a similar shift? Hell yes. out of 10. Excellent. Love it. Less obligation. Can't. Sorry, I'm working. Being the only service industry working in friend group basically means you don't exist. Incredible. 100%. 100%. I work in hospital too, actually, and I'm the only person that works weekends in my family and or friends group. I miss out on a lot.

of things and it sucks yeah I mean sometimes it would be nice wouldn't it but other times I do agree you would be missing out on a lot and especially when you'd be like

oh I can't because I'm working that would be that would get old to never have a win case think of the money you'd save yeah it would be incredible but hopefully you'd have like one in four off that would be enough yeah and then if you've got good friends

they'd accommodate to that like we try and do with you when you've got the kids and that which is only fair but yeah that's it guys very short today because it was super boring compared to what I thought it would be yeah we spent a long time off camera looking at sharking at my prospects oh he didn't even like her back that one messaged me several times and he said here's Johnny say hello hello are you there do you want to talk hello mate no I don't wait oh like follow subscribe for more content yay bye wow what do you think that I think what don't you think that I think that's how it's got everything