Mind of a Serial Killer - UNCONSCIOUS KILLER: The Sleepwalker Murder Pt. 1
Episode Date: October 27, 2025Scott Falater went to bed next to his wife. Hours later, she was found stabbed and drowned...and all signs pointed to him. In Part 1, Killer Minds investigates the life and mind of a man who claimed h...e killed while sleepwalking, and the haunting question that followed: Was he conscious or completely unaware? Killer Minds is a Crime House Original Podcast, powered by PAVE Studios. Listen wherever you get your podcasts. For ad-free listening and early access to episodes, subscribe to Crime House+ on Apple Podcasts. Don’t miss out on all things Killer Minds! Instagram: @Crimehouse TikTok: @Crimehouse Facebook: @crimehousestudios X: @crimehousemedia YouTube: @crimehousestudios To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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From the time he was young, Scott Falater learned how to put on a brave face.
He was born on September 14, 1955, and grew up in Illinois.
The eldest of five, Scott was raised in a middle-class Catholic household,
where his mother, Lois, was a nurse, and his father, Frederick, was an HR manager.
Even though the philators were devout Catholics, their home was not always a peaceful one.
Behind closed doors, Frederick was reportedly a heavy drinker, prone to angry outbursts.
He fought with his wife, often violently,
and abused his children emotionally and physically.
As the eldest son, Scott bore the brunt of that stress.
He cared for his siblings through the hard times,
and despite the chaos and violence at home,
Scott excelled in school.
He played the clarinet and loved classical music.
Through these hobbies, he also made many close friends.
As far as anyone could tell, he was happy and well-adjusted.
Few people realized how good he'd become at compartmentalizing his role.
rough home life so that he could succeed on his own. So let's talk about compartmentalization.
Clinically, when a child or anyone is under chronic threat, the brain prioritizes survival
and compartmentalizing lets a child do that. They focus on school, friends, and hobbies while
attempting to suppress feelings of shame or fear. And that helps build coping skills and resilience,
but it also promotes emotional suppression, Alexa thymia, which is trouble naming feelings,
and a fragmented identity. Over time, chronic stress, elevated cortisol, and sleep disruption
increases risk for anxiety, depression, substance use, and poor emotional regulation.
Attachment and trust can also be impaired, particularly in instances like this when there is
an unstable home environment or abuse, because that can teach the child it's unsafe to rely on
others. That stress in Scott's home life manifested in maladaptive ways, which he seemed to have no
control over. It started when Scott was about 10, and he started wetting the bed. This was bad
enough for a child who was well past potty training age, but things only got worse. Soon, Scott
started sleepwalking. He never had any memory of what he did during these episodes. He only
heard about it from his family. At first, Scott's sleepwalking was relatively benign. He would
amble around the house, and even though his eyes were open, he was completely asleep. But without
treatment, and as his father's abuse continued, Scott's behavior while sleepwalking grew more
severe. One night, when he was around 12 years old, Scott emerged from his room stark naked,
walked into his parents' room, and told them he was ready for school. Frederick got out of bed
and placed his hands on Scott's shoulders to try and guide him back to his room, but Scott pushed
back with alarming force. His father couldn't get him to move at all. Frederick was saying,
stunned, and Lori was disturbed. The strength that Scott displayed was borderline aggressive.
His parents weren't sure how to help him after that, because they didn't want to trigger him
while he was sleepwalking. However, their inaction led to consequences, including another night
that followed when Scott left the house naked and walked to school in the middle of the night.
So parisomnia disorders, which you're talking about, are characterized by unintentional abnormal
behaviors, perceptions, or experiences that occurred during sleep or at the transition of sleep and
wakefulness. Examples of parisomnia disorders include sleepwalking, also bedwetting, night tears,
sleep paralysis, and even sleep-related eating. They are more common in children, and they're
believed to be caused by factors like stress, sleep deprivation, certain medications, or
underlying medical or neurological conditions. They can also be a symptom of another sleep disorder.
Scott's abuse of childhood is one that could create parisomnias because it's a chronically high stress
and traumatic environment. That raises arousal, fragments, sleep cycles, and prevents normal
emotional processing. If there's no adult to soothe him or to help him name and cope with those
very scary feelings, that unprocessed fear often resurfaces at night as night tears or automatic
behaviors like bedwetting, which we know clinically as aneurysis. Dissociative tendencies like
compartmentalizing, which it seems like Scott's already been engaging in, also weakens the
sleep-wake boundary so the child can physically act out traumatic material while they're asleep.
Are people usually unaware of what they do while they're sleepwalking?
So generally speaking, sleepwalking episodes commonly occur during deep non-rapid eye movement
or non-REM sleep where the brain is not fully asleep or awake. In this state, the brain is
actively consolidating and stabilizing existing memories, the thalamus, which is the sensory
relay center of the brain, is inactive, and the body is at work repairing itself. And because of all
of these neural processes occurring during the state and the low levels of key neurotransmitters,
it makes it nearly impossible for someone to form any new memories during the state. And that's
why typically there is no recollection of their sleepwalking. That said, partial recall can happen.
So sometimes people can remember brief fragments or lasting emotions like fear or confusion.
That is possible upon awakening.
Scott was clearly having difficulty coping with his homewife, but all the stress came to
a head during his early teenage years when his father abandoned the family. Now Scott's mother
Lois was left to raise him and his four siblings alone. Even though Frederick had caused the family
so much torment over the years, he was still Scott's father. Scott couldn't help but feel a huge
sense of loss. And those feelings of grief only got worse a few years later when Scott was 18 years
old and one of his friends died in a drunk driving accident. As a result of all the misfortune
he'd experienced, Scott's sleepwalking went from unsettling to sinister.
One night when Scott was around 20 years old, he walked into the kitchen, partially clothed, and began trying to open the back door.
His sister, Laura, was in the room at the time.
She knew that Scott was under a lot of stress because of his final exams.
So when she noticed her brother's trance-like state, she could tell what was happening, and she didn't want to let him wander off outside.
Laura reached around Scott and tried to secure the deadbolt before he could leave.
Then Scott turned and looked at her with an expression that Laura later described as demonic.
The look sent a chill down her spine.
But before she could do anything, Scott grabbed her, lifted her up, and threw her across the room.
People can be unusually strong while sleepwalking because the frontal control systems that normally inhibit force like that are offline,
while basic motor and autonomic systems are wide awake.
So why does violence sometimes occur in these instances, but not all instances?
So parisomnias can replay threat material.
If the person's sleep-based imagery or an environmental cue is interpreted as dangerous,
the brain can execute defensive behaviors like fleeing or striking without any conscious intent.
The risk of this elevates when there is already sleep deprivation, which could be the case here,
given the stress from the abandonment and exam pressures, and it definitely,
can escalate with drugs or alcohol, certain medications, unresolved trauma, which is what we typically
see supplying that threat content, as well as neurological issues. It's also quite rare that violence
occurs during sleepwalking. Sleepwalking itself does not cause violence. It's rather a combination
of the factors that I just outlined that can create the criteria for violence.
What advice would you give someone whose behavior during sleepwalking episodes is this dangerous?
That's an excellent question. So this needs to be treated with urgency. The first thing I would suggest is to ensure all potential weapons are secured, like kitchen knives or firearms if they are in the home. You have to ensure all windows and doors are secured, particularly if their bedroom is not on the first floor, and that's to reduce any risk of injury. Have them sleep in a supervised space if necessary or install bed alarms or door sensors, and then get a full medical workup. And that includes a visit to a
a primary care physician, a possible neurologist who specializes in sleep disorders, and a therapist,
especially if there's a history of trauma or prolonged exposure to stress.
Fortunately, it doesn't seem like Laura was badly hurt, but after this incident, Scott was aware of the harm he was capable of while unconscious.
Still, Scott's mother and siblings knew he would never intentionally hurt them, so whatever happened at night stayed between the family.
Keeping Scott's sleepwalking a secret let him maintain a normal academic and social life,
and his social life was thriving.
In high school, Scott met his first and only girlfriend, Yarmala Kleskin.
Scott, who was pretty soft-spoken, was drawn to Yarmala's confidence and dry sense of humor.
The more they got to know each other, the more they realized they had in common.
Yarmala was also the eldest of her siblings and was raised in a Catholic household.
We don't know if Scott told Yarmala about his parosomnia, but if he did, it didn't bother her.
Yarmala saw a future with Scott. Both had dreams of going to college and one day starting a family.
Not long after meeting, the pair became inseparable.
That changed after high school when Scott and Yarmala were accepted to different colleges, 50 miles apart.
However, they were dedicated to each other and made their relationship work by visiting each other
each month. Being apart so much was still difficult, though, especially because of how demanding
their schooling was. Yarmala pursued a career in microbiology, and Scott studied electrical engineering.
He also worked part-time to begin saving up for their future family. Despite how busy they were,
the young couples stuck it out. And in 1975, during the summer before their senior year in college,
Scott took Yarmala to her favorite restaurant and proposed.
Yarmala said yes.
It was a dream come true for both of them.
They planned to get married after they each earned their master's degrees.
Through this happy time, Scott didn't experience any sleepwalking that we know of.
However, big changes were just around the corner.
And when the pressures of adult life became too much for Scott,
his old demons crawled out from the shadows.
In 1976,
21-year-old Scott Volator was thriving.
He was engaged to his high school sweetheart, Yarmala Kleskin.
They were both on promising career tracks
and were already saving up to start a family.
Scott's past struggles with Parasomnia seemed to be behind him.
With everything he had going in life, he felt more content and fulfilled than ever.
He had everything he needed, at least so he thought.
One day, when a pair of Mormon missionaries appeared at Scott's doorstep,
he was surprised at how much their conversation moved him.
He and Yarmala were both raised Catholic, though neither felt deeply connected to the religion.
And when Scott spoke with the missionaries, he realized the Mormon faith called to him.
his relationship with yarmala was still long distance so on his own scott began attending mormon service soon he was making new friends there and regularly attending church events
he told yarmala how much his new faith meant to him and asked if she would be willing to convert as well yarmala was skeptical at first but eventually her fiancee persuaded her that same year they were both baptized in the mormon church and later god
married. Their life together progressed happily for the next few years. Then in 1980, when they
were both in their mid-20s, the young couple left Illinois and moved to Melbourne, Florida, to
start new jobs in their respective fields. Scott as an electrical engineer and Yarmala in a medical
lab. They bought a house there, and one year later they welcomed their first child, a daughter
named Megan. A few years after that, their son, Michael, was born.
Scott and Yarmala were living a fairy tale.
Their friends in Florida couldn't help but notice how happy they were together.
They never fought or complained about each other at all.
Once, while at a church party, Yarmala's friends played a game
where everyone had to write down 10 things they wanted to change about their spouse.
Then they passed their notes around and laughed at each other's comments.
But no one laughed at Yarmala's because hers was completely blank.
Her friends teased her and tried to get her to say something she didn't like about Scott,
but she genuinely had nothing.
In the end, Yarmala's friends couldn't argue.
They were well aware of how Scott openly doted on his wife.
He prided himself on the fact that they never fought and said her happiness was more important to him than anything.
Seemingly, quote, perfect relationships are usually one of two things.
There could genuinely be a very healthy relationship, or it's a very convenient.
convincing performance because there really truly is no such thing as perfect. Every relationship,
whether it's social, professional, romantic, or familial requires work. So why do some people
put on a facade? Not saying that that's the case here, but people do it. Firstly, it's important to
highlight that some people prefer to keep their private affairs private, and that's absolutely
they're right. Sharing any frustration or negativity about their partner can open them up to being
influenced by the opinions of others, and sometimes that can be more harmful to the relationship
rather than helpful. And this could also be related to their spiritual beliefs as well. Commonly, couples
put on a facade of perfection for impression management, especially if they have a more public-facing
life. Some do it as a form of compartmentalization. Partners keep painful material out of sight,
so the relationship looks calm, even if it's not. That can be for survival, especially if there's
intimate partner violence. In some cases, there is idealization and dependency, where one partner
may be elevated to a caretaker role, and the other learns to stay passive to avoid conflict
to keep the peace. Some actually have something to gain by presenting as perfect, like prestige,
even financially, or identity benefits, and that's especially true for celebrities.
None of this means a perfect-looking marriage is necessarily bad internally. Some are very resilient
and generally low conflict, but realistically, nothing is perfect.
Even if Scott was a little conflict avoidant, his intentions seemed pure,
especially because he treated his children with just as much love and care as his wife.
He was determined to be the loving father he never had.
He and Yarmala took active roles in their kids' lives,
taking Michael to Cub Scouts and Megan to piano lessons.
Megan and Michael always knew they could count on their parents.
Eventually, Yarmala quit her job so that she could be there for her kids around the clock,
and while she stayed home, Scott's career took off.
He was the kind of steady, family-oriented guy that his colleagues admired,
and soon his reputation helped him land a new role in Minnesota.
Yarmala and their kids were happy for him.
The only problem was that they'd have to leave behind the community they built in Florida.
And when they got to Minnesota, they realized it didn't have as much to offer.
This was mainly because their local church was smaller.
Since Yarmala stayed home, this affected her more than anyone.
She soon realized how hard it was for her to make friends in her new home state,
and she began feeling isolated.
So Yarmala has seemingly undergone a lot of change or loss in a very short time.
She left the workforce to be more present for her children,
and there's certainly nothing wrong with that.
In fact, they were fortunate to have that option.
But it's now compounded by a shrinking social community,
in possible identity crisis.
This transition seemingly removed everyday structure and purpose, peer networks from work
and church, a sense of community and her social role outside of the home.
And clinically, in some individuals, that kind of isolation and change can cause low mood,
loneliness, and a sense of identity loss.
In situations like Yarmilla's, people can compensate by becoming overly dependent on a singular
relationship, like perhaps her marriage,
develop poor boundaries, rumination, sleep and appetite problems, or somatic complaints.
Isolation can also increase vulnerability to coercion or suggestibility because that need for
connection can reduce cognitive awareness. When you're lonely, being accepted can feel more important
than being safe and that can lower your guard and raise the likelihood that you'll be susceptible
to risky situations. What's your advice for someone who's going through this?
I would suggest they start by restoring routine and purpose. And you can do this by keeping a daily schedule, including a sleep schedule, and setting daily goals that are both obtainable and sustainable. Start small and work your way up. Structure reduces rumination and it improves motivation. I would also suggest rebuilding social ties. And it can be hard to make new friends the older we get, or especially when we move somewhere new, but we can't make any friends without effort. So for that, I suggest volunteering someone.
where a few hours a week or getting a part-time job if that's possible, taking a class in something
that interests you, joining a parent group or anything with your children's school, and of course
continuing participation in the church if you're faith-based. And in some cases, I'd recommend
finding a therapist that you can meet with to help process the change and learn adaptive coping
skills. Yarmala had sacrificed her career and now her social life. The more time that passed,
the more isolated she felt. Scott could see how on
happy she was, and he didn't want her to have to keep feeling that way. At the same time,
he didn't want to lose all the momentum he'd gained at work. Fortunately, in 1987, he found a compromise
in the form of a new job in Phoenix, Arizona. Not only was it a corporate-level management position,
but Arizona had a much larger Mormon population than Minnesota. Once they were in Phoenix, the
philators quickly found a strong church community. Soon enough, everyone in the family was feeling at home,
and Yarmala was feeling happy again.
She even got a part-time job as a teacher's assistant,
and she loved it so much she planned to go full-time when the kids were older.
Both she and Scott decided that Arizona was where they wanted to settle down for good.
They were even saving up for retirement.
This bright new chapter was also thanks to Scott's success at work.
His employees loved him.
They viewed him as level-headed and a good example of how to strike a healthy work-life balance.
because no matter how hard he worked, he always went home to his family on time.
And the higher-ups noticed this as well.
Within a few years, Scott was leading some of his company's most important projects.
By the late 90s, Scott's work life completely changed.
One of the product lines he was in charge of wasn't performing well.
And if things didn't improve, Scott would have to be the one to lay people off.
He dreaded the thought of this.
So he began pulling all-nighters to get more work done and hopefully save people's jobs.
Soon, Scott was showing up to work bleary-eyed and tired, and even falling asleep in meetings.
Despite his Mormon faith, which prohibited caffeine, Scott started occasionally taking caffeine pills to stay awake.
One pill apparently had twice the caffeine as two cans of Red Bull would have today.
And in the end, it was all for nothing.
because Scott's superiors eventually informed him
that at an upcoming department meeting,
he would have to break the news to several people
that they were being let go.
That meeting was scheduled for January 17, 1997.
And while we don't know how much notice Scott was given about the layoffs,
we do know that it weighed on him heavily.
As the stress mounted, Scott began sleepwalking again.
By now, Yarmala had seen him sleepwalk a handful of times,
but nothing serious ever happened.
Usually he woke up in the living room
or even on their bedroom floor
with no recollection of how he'd gotten there.
However, as it started happening more and more,
Yarmala was getting concerned.
Scott's sleepwalking likely reemerged
because several well-known triggers lined up at once.
Firstly, he allegedly had impaired sleep
and stimulant use, which is the caffeine pills.
Sleep deprivation and substance use
can increase the chance of nocturnal episodes,
especially in someone who already has an established history.
But also, there appears to be high occupational stress
and moral distress from that as well as guilt
and even possible religious conflict about his caffeine use.
He may be using these pills in secret,
which adds more internal turmoil.
And when the brain is both sleep-deprived and hyper-aroused,
the sleep-wake boundary can weaken
and that can open the door to parisomnia episodes
in somebody who's already vulnerable to them.
How common is it for childhood parisomnia, like sleepwalking, to actually reemerge in adulthood?
And is it more likely to happen when someone's under a lot of stress?
Childhood parisomnia is often fade.
But according to research by the American Academy of Sleep Medicine, about 20 to 30 percent of children with recurrent sleepwalking will continue to have episodes into adolescence or adulthood.
But why that range?
Childhood vulnerability, like genetics or early parisomnia history,
creates a baseline risk, and then the triggers like severe stress, which is definitely
one of the things that contributes, sleep deprivation, stimulant or alcohol use, certain
medications, untreated sleep disorders, commonly reawaken old parisomnius. So this would actually
fit in Scott's case. Scott was so worried about work. The upcoming meeting became the subject
of every conversation at family dinner. His family could see the
pressure wearing him thin. To try and alleviate things, the philators came up with an idea.
They planned a trip to Sedona, Arizona. They thought a peaceful excursion among the vast
canyons could help Scott relax and regroup. They went to Sedona on December 28, 1996. While there,
they took in the views, had some quality time, and shared laughs together. At one point,
Yarmala turned on her video camera and captured footage of 41-year-old Scott with his arms around
17-year-old Megan and 12-year-old Michael. The trip was exactly what Scott needed. Little did the
fillators know that would be one of their last home videos. Because just a couple of weeks later,
Yarmala would be dead, and all signs would point to Scott as her killer.
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In 1996, 41-year-old Scott Falator took a hiking trip with his family in Sedona, Arizona.
The trip was meant to help Scott alleviate some of the extreme stress he was under at work,
because in just a couple of weeks, on January 17, 1997,
he would have to go into work and lay off several of his employees.
Even though the trip helped Scott decompress,
he was completely on edge the night before the layoffs.
Still, he did his best to stay calm and handle things the way.
he would on any other day. When Scott got home from work on January 16th, he had dinner with his
family. Then he prepared materials for the church youth class that he taught. After that, Scott's
wife, Yarmala, reminded him that the filter in their pool was broken. Scott said he would go outside
and see if he could fix it. He went into the backyard around 9 p.m. with a flashlight. When he glanced
at the filter, Scott noticed that part of it was rusty. He grabbed his hunting knife to try and
dislodge it, but it was stuck. Around 9.30, he decided it was too dark outside to be able to get
anything done, so he went back inside where Yarmala was asleep on the living room couch. Scott woke
her up, gave her a kiss, and said he'd try again with the filter the following day. Then he headed
upstairs, changed into his pajamas, and was asleep by 10 o'clock. But Scott didn't stay in bed for long.
Around 10.30, Scott and Yarmala's neighbors, Greg Coons and Stephanie Reedhead, began to hear unusual noises coming from their yard.
It sounded like faint moaning sounds. Then Stephanie thought she heard a woman's voice saying something like,
please help or please stop. Greg and Stephanie were friendly with the filators. They wanted to make sure everything was okay,
so Greg went outside to investigate. He stood on a planter and peered over the,
the concrete fence between his house and the Philators. It was pretty dark outside, but soon Greg
spotted a woman lying on her side several feet from their pool. She was groaning and moving
slightly. At first, Greg didn't recognize the woman, and he thought she may have drunkenly stumbled
onto the Falator's property. But then a light went on inside the Falator's house, and Greg
spotted someone moving in a second floor window. His eyesight wasn't great.
and he could only make out their silhouette,
but he watched as they entered the kitchen
where it looked like they washed their hands.
Then they went out into the backyard.
Finally, Greg could see that it was Scott.
He was in his pajamas,
and he walked over to the woman and stood over her for a few minutes
before going back inside.
Greg was silent the whole time.
So let's walk through Greg's mindset,
because there are a number of possible reasons
why he remains silent in that moment, starting with shock. Shock can literally freeze you.
It buys time for people to process the scene and figure out how they want to respond. And some
people remain silent out of fear. If they suspect a crime has taken place, stepping forward in the
moment can feel dangerous. And as a result, often people elect to anonymously call the police instead
of intervening. But I think given the way in which you described Greg's experience, that there were
two primary reasons he remained quiet. First, it was an ambiguous scene. And even Greg himself was
unsure of what he was seeing at least initially. He hears a commotion and he sees a woman on the ground
in their backyard and his immediate thought was she was an intoxicated intruder. When he saw Scott come
outside, he may have felt that Scott had managed the intrusion on his own. But perhaps most significantly,
there's a relationship bias. Greg knew and liked the philators. He saw them as upstanding neighbors,
and that alone can make him doubt his own eyes and minimize what he is seeing.
All of this can explain how fear, ambiguity, and even personal connection may have prevented his intervention.
Well, Greg remained standing there while Scott was inside.
Meanwhile, the woman barely moved.
At some point while he stared at her, Greg realized that it might be Yarmala.
This only confused him more.
He didn't understand why Scott wouldn't help her inside.
A few minutes later,
Scott reemerged from the house through a side door, wearing a pair of black gloves.
He went into the garage for a moment, and when he came back out, he motioned to the family
dog to stay quiet as he closed the door.
Scott walked back over to the woman, who Greg now believed was Yarmala.
Scott crouched down, grabbed his wife, and dragged her to the edge of the pool.
Then, to Greg's horror, he pushed her in and held her head under the water until she
stopped moving. Greg ran back to his house and immediately called 911. He told the dispatcher that
his neighbor had thrown his wife into their pool and was holding her down. The dispatcher asked if
they'd been fighting. Greg said he didn't know but that he was, quote, concerned. Shortly after,
a pair of Phoenix police officers arrived, they hopped the wall between the two houses into the
al-a-later's backyard. All the lights on the property were off, but what they could see stunned
them. The 911 dispatch had alluded to a possible drowning. The officers had expected to perform
rescue CPR, but there was clearly something more sinister going on. Not only was an unresponsive
woman floating in the pool, but the water was completely red. One officer thought to himself that
it looked like the scene of a shark attack, and that wasn't all. Officers also noticed a flashlight
shining on the pool pump, which was surrounded by blood. As one officer pulled Yarmala out
of the pool, another searched the premises. He went into the garage and found a blood-stained
t-shirt hanging out of the trunk of the fillators parked Volvo. When he opened the trunk, he
saw a plastic container full of more blood-soaked clothing, including jeans, socks, and
an undershirt, as well as a garbage bag with blood-stained gloves and leather boots inside,
and a hunting knife. It was clear that something gruesome had happened at the Falater home
earlier that night, and back outside, his partner realized the same thing, because Yarmala
was covered in stab wounds. The officer checked for a pulse, but he couldn't find one.
Yarmala was declared dead at the scene.
The other officer returned outside.
Now they had to find out what happened,
which meant they had to find the woman's husband.
That's when a light flickered on inside the house.
Through a window, the officers saw Scott walking slowly down the stairs.
His demeanor was odd, slow and measured,
not the typical body language of someone who had just killed their wife.
The officer swiftly entered the home through a sliding glass door,
which had been left a jar.
Once inside, they noticed a pebble at the foot of the staircase.
It looked just like the ones around the pool,
and it was smeared with blood.
Clearly, the killer had been inside the house,
and the officers believed that person was walking right toward them.
They pointed their guns at Scott and told him not to move.
He had a blank expression on his face,
which flashed to surprise and then fear.
Before he could do anything, the officers ordered him to the ground.
Scott complied.
At the same time, he asked the officers what was going on and why they were in his house.
He seemed genuinely confused, which in turn puzzled the officers.
They couldn't tell if they had the wrong man or if he was playing dumb.
More importantly, they needed to know if anyone else was hurt.
So they asked Scott how many people were in the house.
He told them there were four, including himself, his wife.
wife and their two children. Scott seemed to realize that a member of his family might be hurt.
He begged the officers to make sure they were okay. He claimed that everyone should be in their
bedrooms, but that he didn't know for sure, because he'd been asleep since about 10 and just
woke up. So let's walk through what happens in the brain when someone is woken up from
sleepwalking. When someone is sleepwalking, like I mentioned, they're a non-REM sleep, and there is a
temporary disconnect where the brain is partially asleep in some areas and partially
awaken others. As a result, when you attempt to awaken someone who is sleepwalking,
typically they will experience confusion, disorientation, and then struggle to regain
full consciousness. But why do some things wake them and others don't? It's about signal
salience and the brain's gait. Very loud, novel, or painful stimuli can't break through the
gating and cause arousal. But,
low-level sounds or soft touches could be filtered out.
This is so fascinating. I have a few questions. First, are there any risks associated with waking
someone up while they're sleepwalking? And would there have been any way for officers to know that
something odd was going on with Scott or any signs to back up his claim that he had no idea
what was going on? Okay. So firstly, yes, waking someone during a sleepwalking episode can carry real
risk. And the reason is the person is often, like I mentioned,
confused and disoriented because the frontal systems that govern judgment are offline.
That can provoke startle reactions, defensive aggression, attempts to flee, or even dangerous
movements. Shaking them or grabbing them and shouting at them can make that worse.
The officer's observations here, a blank stare, emotional blunting, and a sudden surprised
reaction are consistent with a partial arousal from deep sleep. These are all things that can
potentially back up the claims that he may have been sleepwalking at this time. But at the same time,
his surprise turned to fearfulness when he realized the officers were in front of him. And that I find
a little bit strange, because I would expect to see more of a defensive reaction potentially.
Also, there is something quite odd about the timing of it. Sleepwalking, as in getting into
non-REM sleep, usually occurs one to three hours after lights out, not 30 minutes.
That alone doesn't prove deception, but it raises the possibility of an atypical trigger or an underlying condition like severe sleep debt, stimulant or alcohol use, medications, any of the other triggers.
His rather quick ability to reorient to his surroundings and then provide officers with information regarding who else is in the home and where is also seemingly atypical.
It's not impossible, but it doesn't seem common to me.
To the officers, Scott's behavior was beyond strange.
They were used to suspects being argumentative and defensive,
but Scott seemed genuinely worried and confused.
Still, with all signs pointing to him as his wife's killer,
Scott was put in handcuffs and escorted out of the house through the back door.
He still didn't know where his family was.
But by now, backup had arrived and he could see more police gathered near the pool.
No one was telling him anything, and he felt groggy.
like he was dreaming.
Still, he could make out some of the officers' hushed conversations.
He pieced together that Yarmala was somewhere in the backyard, and she was hurt.
Soon, he was at the station, being led to an interrogation room.
Scott knew something was seriously wrong,
but it wasn't until he realized which unit was questioning him that panic set in.
The sign above the door read, Homicide.
Scott Follader was under investigation for his wife's
murder. His own neighbor claimed he'd witnessed Scott drowning her, and officers found a stash of
bloody evidence at his home. But Scott seemed to have no idea what happened that night. The investigation
into him and the trial that followed would breed more controversy and debate than any other crime
like it. And to this day, it continues to mystify and haunt people everywhere.
Thanks so much for listening.
We'll be back next time as we conclude our deep dive on Scott Volator.
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