Monday Morning Podcast 12-26-16
00:00Hey, what's going on? It's Bill Byrne. It's time for the Monday Morning Podcast for Monday, December 26th,2016. What's going on? How are you? Oh my God, it's the last Monday of fucking 2016.George Michael passed away on Christmas Day. Wake me up before you go, go,condolences to him. And you know what the best thing about 2016 being over is, isyou no longer, you're going to have to listen to people blaming a year for bad things happening.That's a big thing. Fuck you 2016. I saw Madonna tweeted that. Fuck you 2016.Fuck you, you fucking year, man. Why do people keep blaming the fucking year?You know, it has nothing to do with the fucking year. You're talking as people's genetics are
01:24involved. There's lifestyle choices. There's substance abuse. I mean, that's what's going on here. Idon't know why you're, you know, we're picking on 2016 like it's a religion from the Middle East orsomething. I have no fucking idea how it's getting the blame for all of this. You know what I mean?It's fucking 2016 with your liver cancer. You know, let's blame 2016 rather than the pharmaceuticalcompanies that fucking was given out opiates like Flintstone vitamins and created a fucking heroinepidemic. Fuck all of that. 2016 has robbed us of some of the greatest artists of our time. 2016did like it's a fucking person. How to fucking Madonna Madonna is world travel. She's been aroundthe fucking world. Haven't you talked to enough people to not know to blame a fucking year? Well,
02:20maybe she's saying it metaphorically, Bill. I don't give a shit. You know, if I try to see herside of the things, how can I come up with the comedic angle to try to fill out this next fucking60 minutes? Fuck you 2016. Oh yeah, you didn't like seeing the Cubs finally win a world series.Nothing good happened to you this year. You're just going to focus on the bad.Anyways, I like people also than try to have like a religious thing.Like when a prince's backup dancers had this whole fucking religious thing that she went onsaying like, you know, like, wake up people, you know, that's, that's when you know you're out offucking mind, you know, when you start telling people to wake up, like, like you're reading the
03:04fucking, you're reading the tea leaves better than anybody else and you're fucking, you know,garrison colonial, wherever the fuck you live, wake up people.He capital H is is taking a robbing us of some of our greatest artists. You know,like that's a sign, like all these these great musicians are leaving us, which means like what?Like Jesus is mad at all the fucking plumbers and electricians and shit.Granted, they fucking overcharge you and they lie about when the date, the date of whatever'sgoing to be done, the job's going to be done. Yeah, I don't fucking, I mean,I don't understand. I don't understand blaming them fucking year. You know,
03:50dude, I just can't wait for this year to be over and then it's going to be 2017.I'm not going to do any work on myself and I'll basically make the same fucking decisions Imade in 2016, but somehow 2017 is going to be better without me having to make any effort whatsoever.Jesus Christ, I mean, why don't you just get out your rosary and say all your fucking prayersrather than fucking making a positive step towards trying to make a real change?Anyway, so I talk about them a daughter thing when she was shaking her phone,she was twerking with that fucking woman. Jesus Christ, I mean,unbelievable. I just like, I hate that she does that because it makes me feel old.
04:34You know, when she was a hot piece, it was a fucking day. Anyway, so let's plow ahead. This isnot, this is not why I wanted to do this thing here. Did you guys have a nice holiday? Did youhave a nice Kwanzu? Did you have a nice Chahanukah? Did you have a nice Christmast? Did you? Hey,Jewish people, do you guys, like how many, you actually, when I was a kid, people who weren'tJewish told me how you guys celebrated Chahanukah and I realized, well, they weren't really Jewish,were they? Let me ask you this. Do you do, how many people do the traditional thing? Is it aone day thing or is it like a nine day thing? How many candles are on the menorah? Is it thesame as a baseball team? And if so, do you give fucking one gift a day for nine days, like total
05:18old school, you know, we're baking our own bread here type of thing, right? Is that actually,is that a religious story? Isn't that there's always bread. There's always bread, there's alwaysfish, there's a fucking leper, you know, and then there's always the one guy, Abraham,Muhammad, or Jesus, right, hogging up the whole fucking budget like the same way they make moviesnowadays where Tom Cruise gets all the fucking money, right? He gets all the fucking money.And what about those character actors that go fuck yourself, right?You know, back in the day, you could you could make a living as a character actor,you know what I mean? Not anymore. That's not how it works. Not in the age of
06:00the fucking superhero movies. So anyways, let me see how many days of Hanukkah? Why don't I lookthis up? Happy Hanukkah, happy Hanukkah. All right. How many days in Hanukkah is eight days,eight days a week. All right, so it's eight days. Sorry, nine guys on a baseball team, eight daysof Hanukkah. Do you fucking give a gift every that's the traditional way as far as the non-Jewishpeople told me that they give a gift a day. Now, if you do that, my question, my question to you ishow do you give out those gifts? You know, how do you do you do it like how I do a stand-up set?Well, you got to start with something strong. You got to establish that you're the fuckingman for the job, right? I don't mean to be sexist about that. But when you really think about it,
06:52men do a better fucking job. Just generally speaking, you know what I mean? Women havebeen nowhere near the fucking moon. Okay. And we were there like fucking, how many years? I'mfucking years ago, were we? You know? Oh, Jesus, I just felt, I just thought of one of the worstfucking jokes ever. And I will not say it, but I'll describe it to you. Okay. I will describe it.I can't do it. The only way to get away with it is if Nia's here also laughing. I was going to say,you put the guys out in space, you know, we get all the way to the moon, you know, you try tobring a lady up there, right? You see where I'm going. I can't do that. It's a day after Christmas.I would not do that. Anyways, eight days. So what do you do? Do you start off with the fucking
07:37something strong? You know, and then you establish like this is the level of gift giving, and yougradually start your ascent through days two, three, four, five, six, whoa, we're going to anotherlove of seven, then eight, you give me all hands, you fucking gift. Now fuck off for a year. That'show I would do it. If I was Jewish, all right, me and Nia were Jewish and I had to get Nia eightgifts. All right. What would I start off with? I'd start off with some shoes, right? Becausebitches be loving the Jews, right? I'd give her the fucking some shoes. Then Jesus Christ,fucking eight gifts. Then we gotta go close. No, you know what? I would start right out of thegate. I'd start with something silly, you know, like her stock and stuff for this year. Like, I
08:24know like she, you know, certain kinds of food she likes. Like one year I told her, like I said,I know I'm going to get you for Christmas. She go, where you going? I'm getting you a bag of Fritos,right? She just kept laughing, you know, thinking it was the funniest thing ever that I wasn'tactually going to do it. So of course, the first gift I gave her, she opened it up. It was a bagof Fritos, and I gave her a big bear hug. And I was like, Oh, this is the greatest Christmas ever.She thought it was the funniest fucking thing ever. So if we were Jewish, that's what I would do.I would start off with stupid fucking gifts. Because who's kidding who I'm not going to fuckingbroke here. All right, as a Christian, a non-practicing Christian, I don't get my wife eight
09:01gifts a year. You know what I mean? Dude, you guys should do it like a game show. Okay, do you wanteight pretty good gifts or one fucking great one? That's like when you win the lottery. Do you wantto get it all at once or have get paid a hundred grand over 20 years? And anybody who always takesthe payments doesn't understand money. And also, you know, it's just like, well, don't give it to meall at once. I'm going to blow it. You get it all at once, even though you're in a bigger tax bracket.You know what I mean? It gets you over the hump into being a fucking millionaire. I don't give afuck how much money you make. If they give you 200 grand a year, you're never going to get up overthe million because they're going to fucking, they're going to tax this shit out of you.
09:45If you take it all at once, roughly, I mean, you could do it if you just fucking sat thereeating cornflakes and shit. But like, if you take it all at once and then you invest it,but you're not going to know what to do. And there wasn't there a whole documentary on that?I have no idea. But my wife fortunately liked the gifts that she gave me this year. And youknow what was funny? I made fun of getting socks for Christmas. And she got me socks.And she was all embarrassed. She goes, you said it on Thursday that you didn't like it. I like socks.I'm just fucking around. That was that was the only thing in my stocking this year.She bought me a little box. Three pairs came in this little box. It was going to be cookies and
10:24I opened it up with some Tay Baker, Tay Baker socks. And I don't give a fuck. You know what Imean? Like I said, I'm an adult. Can you give me a choo choo train? It's over. It's fucking over.So anyways,okay, I'll tell you this quick story. Fortunately, Nia liked her gifts. And I always have a littlebit of anxiety whenever I give Nia gifts. Because the first my first girlfriend I ever had,I think I told you this story before, did I? My first girlfriend I ever had, I had to get hera gift. Now, I didn't grow up around the ladies. I just had brothers for the longest fucking time,right? And I don't mean black people. I mean, I mean, I had like, I was related to these people.
11:11I had brothers. So this cough is never going to go away, by the way, because the fucking prescriptionI got, you know, just fucking put it down on the mat. And now it's just fucking hanging aroundlike this thing that won't leave. I know you guys are thinking, Oh, you must be smoking like a chimney.I'm not, I'm not fucking smoking at all. Slash, I might be done with cigars.And I'm kind of, I'm kind of done with booze too. I just can't fucking do it anymore.You know, I love it and all that shit, but I just hate waking up in the morning.Like, I'm over, you know what I'm over hangovers. Fuck you 2060.Um, yeah, I'll have like a beer. I'll, I'll have like, you know,
12:00like one glass of scotch at this point, but I can't do the fucking, uh, I can't take the rideanymore. You know what I mean? And it just hit me one day. Like, you know how quickly BrettFarve got old, just bam, done over out of the fucking league, you know, he hung around and hehung around and he hung around. Then he took that last fucking hit when he was on the Vikings, youknow, and just looked like his clothes were just laying on the ground. Didn't even believe therewas a person in it, you know, and all the really religious people got all concerned that, you know,that they got left behind. And it's like, no, that's what it looks like when a fucking 42 yearold guy takes a hit from a fucking defensive end. Um, yeah, I'm fucking done with all of that shit.
12:44However, let me tell you the story of the first girlfriend I had. So it was her birthday wascoming up and, um, I had absolutely no idea what to get a, uh, a female. So I go to the mall andI'm looking around, I'm looking around. I had no fucking idea. And I came up to this tableand they had all these polo style shirts, nice shirts, shirt I would wear and they were on saleand all that stuff. And it just, all these different colors. So I bought her like four of themand I wrapped them up and I gave them to her eyes, odds and polo shirts and shit. And she fuckingunwrapped these things and the level of disappointment on her face. And she just was like, what,what, what is this? What the fuck? And dude, she just fucking went off. She flipped out. She started
13:34yelling at me like, like, uh, you know, like a head coach mad at halftime, you know, you know,I said, kick the ball away from him. You kicked the right toe of your jacket, you know, flippingout on me. And I literally did, I was so embarrassed. I like kind of put my head down. I looked at myfeet and then just sat down on the edge of the bed as she was yelling at me. Right. And, uh,I don't know what happened. Like I was so fucking embarrassed and she, you know, was young. I didn'tknow anything about women and shit. And she was just going off on me and about three quarters ofthe way into her rant, which was really a good 90 seconds long, by the way, which is fucking forever.I think she was kind of coming to her senses that she was taking in what she was doing to me
14:20by my body language and the fact that she had just given, gotten a gift and the way she was reacting.And, uh, she started to try to pull back on the stick and be like, oh, no, you know, it's kind of,and that's when the anger fucking hit me. That was one of the first times in my ute that, um,I actually addressed my feelings in the moment. You know, I was fucking one of those people brutallylike three days later, I'd be like, Hey, wait a minute, that person took advantage of me or thatperson was being rude. I should have fucking said something, right? Um, this fucking wave of angercame up and, uh, I just, you know, handle it classically like the German Irish guy I am.I didn't communicate anything. I just stood up. I walked over. I started putting my jacket on
15:09and all that. Now, of course, she's fucking, no, no, don't leave doing all that shit. You know whatI mean? And all you want to do is the, you know, the, you know, the swim move that a defensivelineman does, you know, you fucking push to the side and then you fucking bring your arm up andover. That's what I wanted to do. So of course now I'm walking towards the door and she doeswhat all, what every fucking woman does in that moment. She's blocking the door and now she's crying.She's crying. You know, it's like, what are you crying about? After everything you just said tome, I'm holding it together pretty fucking good here. So she's crying. Now she's between the door.I say, you know, I want to leave. I'm leaving. I'm leaving. No, you know, and then that said
15:49awful thing. They're standing there holding onto the fucking door jam and you can't put your handson them or else you're going to go to fucking jail. Even if you're just trying to remove it.So weird. You know what I mean? It's like you're a human being. You want to leave the room thatyou're in. You're in a free country. There's another human being preventing you from doing it.They're, they're holding you there against your fucking will, but they're a fucking lady.So it's totally fine. So what do you do? You just have to sit there, not looking them in the eye,just staring at the fucking door like I'm fucking leaving. You can stand here as long as you want.I am going to fucking leave. Right? Miss Brutal, you can't, you can't put your hands on them.
16:33You can't even try to like, you know, with the outside of your arms, sort of try to, you know,kind of shoehorn your way past them. Because then they start flailing around like deliberatelytrying to get themselves hurt during the altercation. So then you'll feel bad and then you won'tfucking leave. They're fucking lunatics. I want to leave. Right? Look at me. It still bugs me.So, you know what? I swear to God, you know, I've always wanted to come up with somethingthat you could sell for $19.95 late at night and all these mouth-breathing fucking moronsthat think Trump's going to make the fucking planet great again or fucking or United States greatagain and all these fucking dumb bras that thought that because Hillary also had a vagina
17:10that somehow their life was going to improve, those fucking morons, right? There's yet another dayof disappointment has gone past and they fill themselves up with buying absolute shit for $19.95.I've always thought, how can I take advantage of these people for $20 a pop? And I've, you know,every time I've come up with something, I find out somebody else has already invented it. Like,I came up with this fucking thing that, you know, you stick between the car seat and theconsole. So every time you drop something, it doesn't go between the seats. Someone alreadycame up with that, right? That was the only thing I ever came up with, but somebody already came upwith it. So it'd be great if for like $19.95, you could come up with a device that gets the woman
17:52away from the fucking door so you could fucking leave when they're blocking it. What that does notinvolve like hurting them or her at any point also being able to say that you put your hands on her.So figure it is like, I don't know what you have. Like you have like giant fucking like these nerfhands, okay? And you just put them on either side of her, right? And once you stick them on,they just stick on like, you know, when they have like those plastic explosives that you just slapon the side of a tank, it's like, once they're on you, they're fucking on you, you're gonna owe her anew shirt. All right, but at the end of the day, that's worth worth the fucking price of just gettingthe fuck out of there. Okay, so you put them on either side of her and then you have, you know,
18:37those blood pressure pumps, as you can't fucking move, you know, and then you got an inflatablebeanbag, right? And then you just guide her over, you put it down on the fucking beanbag,you open the door, and then you fucking bring the blood pressure pump just to the outside of thedoor, you close the door and right as you're about to close it, you release it, you close the doorand then you're fucking run to your car, right? You know that thing where you're fucking runningand if you feel lightheaded and shit, and she's gonna become running down the hall after you,now it's like you're in a horror movie, you're trying to get your keys out, and here she fuckingcomes, you get in the fucking car, hopefully you get the car door closed before that fucking lunatic
19:22comes up to stick her fucking arm in, you close the door, you lock it, and then you know what she'sgonna do, she's gonna stand behind your fucking car, then all you do is you just start the carup, right? You rev the fucking engine, get those emissions in her face, you listen to some tunes,eventually she's gonna have to go to the bathroom, and who knows, maybe an hour later,maybe a fucking hour later, you know, you get the fuck out of there, right? 1995, I can put thatin an infomercial, not even infomercial, that's too much money, I can do that in a fucking 30second spot, right? Fellas, have you ever wanted to lead your girlfriend's apartment but she won'tlet you? What do you do? You've tried moving her out of the way, right? She yells fucking rape,
20:11that the cops come in and fucking tackle you, and then show you in a cell with a fuckinggiant cellmate looking at you, like he's gonna bang you in the ass, right? That's the first sixseconds of the commercial, and I think you guys can do the rest of it, maybe that's a reasonto have a four-wheel drive vehicle, so when she's like standing behind you can't back out, you justput it in drive, go right up and over a curb, I don't know, I guess what I'm really getting at hereis I hope you guys all enjoyed your holidays, your nice fucking days off here, you know,it's been so long since I've had a day job yet, do you guys have to go back to work today?That sucks, man. You know, the day after Christmas you're right back, and then let's see, what is it?
20:54New Year's Day is what? It's Sunday.Yeah, New Year's Day is Sunday, but then they play the bowl games on Monday, so maybe next weekendyou get the fucking three-day weekend. I have no fucking idea. All I can say is fuck you 2016,glad this year's over, man. You know, a while ago when they came up with the college footballplayoff, somebody playoff, somebody asked me to comment on it, and I was too fucking busy editingthe goddamn show, I never really looked at it, and it just dawned on me that Ohio State is inand Penn State is out, how the fuck does that work? Somebody please explain that to me.Penn State won the Big Ten championship, and they beat Ohio State. Penn State's in the fucking
21:47Rose Bowl, and Ohio State's in the playoff, and I got a friend of mine who's a Buckeye's fan,and he's bitching about Alabama, oh, they had an easy schedule, all this fucking, he's whining,it's like, dude, you shouldn't even be in there. Ohio State should not fucking be in there.That makes no fucking sense whatsoever, and all you fucking cunts who are gonna go, well,Alabama had a really easy schedule, SEC sucked this year. So what? SEC was the whole fucking year,was basically playing a national championship game, like fucking two, three times.The conference was that good for 10 years. Alabama had to fight through all of that,so one time they get an easy year. Anyways, having said that, I'm still rooting against them,
22:35because you have to, they're so fucking good, it's fun. It's fun, and I told you my favorite thingin sports, Alabama down at the half, and then Nick Saban has to talk to one of those sidelinereporter women, you know? All he wants to do is fucking slam some lockers and chew out his punteror some shit, and he's gotta sit there, like I'm telling you, if anything is gonna put that guyin an early grave, it's that fucking interview he has to do. So anyways, yeah, I don't, I mean,I'm not like anti Ohio State, but that does, that does not seem fair to me at all.How does a team that didn't win the big 10, didn't even win their fucking conference championshipis in the final four? It's all bullshit. It's all fucking money. It's all money. Ohio State is gonna
23:21get better ratings, I bet. It's gonna give them better ratings than fucking Penn State. Otherthan that, it makes no fucking sense on paper, you know? And I love those kids that are gonna sitout their bowl game and everybody's just like, well, what the fuck are all these sports talkradio guys? It's like, dude, it's fucking slave labor. Remember that dude on Ohio State? Playedthat fucking Penn State. Was it Willems McGay? He got his fucking knee blown out for free,cost him a career in the NFL. If he didn't have such a great fucking agent.Yeah, fuck you. You're gonna sell a jersey with the kid's name on it. You're gonna make millionsmore. The fucking players are selling out 100,000 seats stadium and don't get a fucking dime.
24:08Figure that one out. All those players throughout the fucking century of the damn teamthat have created the excitement, gone out there, blown out their knees, got concussions,got paralyzed, died early fucking deaths, do not get one dime. Fuck you and your bowl game.They got to start giving these kids money, man. It's fucking brutal. It's brutal. I love all thefucking nerds that actually go to class and they get mad at the athletes because they don't show up.It's like, hey, fuck it. If it wasn't for that kid out there, you would have a class in a tentright now. What do you think paid for this fucking biology classroom?People showing 100,000 people showing up to look at you, look through a fucking microscope.
24:53It didn't. All right. You don't have a sexy job. Deal with it, right? I don't get it. Having said that,I'm still gonna watch and I don't know. I like Clemson too, but I don't know. I'm kind of a big10 guy too. I probably still root for a house date, but that's so fucking. It doesn't make any fuckingsense. I mean, there's always going to be a reason to complain because football is such a violent gamethat they can't have like March madness. They just can't be too many fucking games and too manykids getting hurt, right? So every year someone's going to get mad. And so I usually blow it off,but this year Penn State got fucked. I mean, maybe it's leftover sand dusky shit. You know what Imean? Like not enough time has gone by. I'm just going to pause here to listen to all the Penn State
25:46fans go. You know, it's funny is the fucking Tom Brady deflate gate story lasted longer thanthat sand dusky shit. And that's the world that we live in. Fuck you 2060. All right, let's get tosome of the questions here for this week. Shall we? Oh, how about the fucking Celtics, man? ThatCeltics next game was great. The NBA too, by the way, Bravo for saying, all right, NFL, you getThanksgiving, we get Christmas. They actually muscled the NFL out of position on a footballSunday to the point that all the fucking games were on Saturday. Saturday. Were there any NFLgames yesterday? I didn't even look. The NBA games were so fucking great. I missed the first one. Iwatched the Celtics, Nick's great fucking game. Then we almost blew it. Here's a funny thing is
26:42Michael Rappaport still owes me dinner from the NBA finals. And that because he's a cheap motherfuckeror anything is because we're both fucking busy and we just we run into each other like monthsevery six months. So Celtics are playing Nick's on Christmas day. And I saw I text him, I said,Hey, Mike, you want to go double enough? I'll take the Celtics straight up. And he goes absolutely.And then he goes, wait, he goes, so if, if I lose, do I owe you two dinners? I go, no, you owe mebreakfast, you owe me dinner and now you owe me breakfast and then we'll bet on the Super Bowl.And if I win, you know, if you, if you win, you don't owe me shit. And if I win, you owe mebreakfast, lunch and dinner, and you're going to fucking take me out. We're going to do a YouTube
27:25video of you taking me out of the town for the entire fucking day. And so he said, all right,so he's in. So what I'm hoping is that there's going to be a Patriots giants fucking the trilogy.And of course I'm taking my Patriots and I'm hoping this is the year that our defense doesn'tlet Tom Brady down. Because the first two times we played the Giants, he drove them at the Patriotsdown the field for the go ahead score both times. He is six for six in Super Bowls.When it is counted, right? The time when Donovan McNabb fucking throws up, Neil O'Donnell throws apick, Peyton Manning throws a pick six, Tom Brady has manned up all six. He's gone six and oh,unfortunately his defense has gone four and two. So I want to see that rematch. And
28:24of course I'm going to take the Patriots and I text them. I said, okay, so Patriots and Giantsplay each other. What's going to happen? Are the Patriots going to go 0 and 3? No, the Giantsgoing to go, I said, the Giants going to go 3 and 0 against the Patriots, or is MichaelRappaport going to go 0 and 3 against the menu? So hopefully that's going to happen.You know, I want the Patriots to play. If we go back to Super, we have to play the fucking Giants.I don't give a fuck about Seattle. We already played them. We already beat them. I don't give afuck about anybody else. We got to go back. You got to do it. I talked to some fucking Patriotsfans. They're like, oh my God, that makes me sick to my stomach. So what are you going to do? You're
29:09going to quit? Now you're going to put your Paul Revere hat between your fucking legs and go home?You know, I think the biggest thing this year is they as their coach, even though their coach isdoing like a good job and everything, but you know, I don't know, I just still, this is sostupid. I just look at a coach. I judge a book by its cover and I just look at that guy and I'mjust like, yeah, you know, I'm not feeling it. I'm not feeling this guy. This guy just looks likehe looks like a diehard Giants fan. That's what he looks like. He does not look like a head coach.Um, so anyways, we shall see. And I told you, I'm not buying into the, I don't, I don't buy,I'm not, I don't believe in the Cowboys. I don't like that coach. I look at him. I'm like, I do
29:52not, I just don't like that guy. Not like personally don't like him. I just look at him and he justdoesn't look like a head coach, like a head coach. You got to look at him. You got to be like, oh man,I would not want to get yelled at by that guy. I know what you guys are thinking. What aboutPete Carroll? Pete Carroll looks like he's going to Bible study. Yeah. But if you look into it,Pete Carroll has sharp eyes. Okay. I'm telling you that fucking guy, you know,I'm not trying to put rumors out there, but if that guy had like a dead hooker in his past,okay, or at least, you know, one that lost consciousness and he brought her around,you know, it would not surprise me. That is so fucked up to say, I'm sure he's a hell of a guy.
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35:31slash burr Jesus fucking Christ. Those ads are so overwritten. All right, hold on one second.All right, I'm back. I'm back finally to fucking clear my goddamn throat. You know what happens?I woke up this morning, but do we do do and I just started doing the podcastbecause I got to do a bunch of shit today as always, as always.Hey, Billy Balden, Billy Baldan, you get it? Billy Balding. This is Billy Baldan is brother.I heard you ranting about how New England keeps offloading defense,defending players. You're half right, but this year is a big year for salary cap.Don't we mean I'm half right?
36:13Name one person that has finished their fucking career with the Patriots on the defensive sidesince fucking Teddy brusky or fucking Willie McGinnis.We never keep them. I'm not half right, dude. Richard Seymour,lawyer, Maloy, Ty Law. Who's a big fucking? Oh my God, I can't believe I forgot hisfucking name because they're only with us for a few years. Who's the big fat guy? Our nose tackle.He's gone. I don't know. Anyways, he said you're half right. Dante Hightower, Malcolm Butler areboth in their mid twenties and in contracts years. Expect both of them to get big contracts in theoff season. I don't expect that. I don't expect that at all. Maybe one of them will. So what you're
37:02saying is I'm half right. You're saying expect them. So on your forecast, I'm telling you whathas happened. You're saying on your forecast that what you are projecting, that that's one of yourpoints. Okay. Your first point is out the fucking window. All right. That's science fiction there.Okay. Expect to see both of them get big contracts in the off season. Patrick Chung,the strong safety is 30 now. And we have a great young backup in Landon Collins,who was also in a contract year. Okay. So expect Patrick Chung to get the fucking heave hoebecause he's 30. And now we'll probably be like, Hey, I'm a veteran. I played in this league. I'vedemonstrated that I can do the job. And that's when they go, okay, fucking see you later. Finally,
37:41the pro bro free safety, Devin McCordy is getting top dollar. So it isn't just the offense.Okay. So in all of that shit, you just said you only named one guy who's getting top dollar.Okay. Everything else was projecting shit. Right. Hope that brings some clarity to BillySuperbowls, a pre-trade deadline move, sending Jamie Collins, another middle linebacker enteringa contract year who was underperforming compared to high tower. Thanks for a great podcastunderperforming. All right. Whatever. I like how you, I like how you ignored, uh, uh, ChandlerJones, who's having a fucking pro bowl year with Arizona. Um, you basically told me thatDevin McCordy is getting paid. That's basically what you told me. And, um, they've always paid
38:38guys who were in their mid twenties. What I'm talking about is that next contract, that nextone, they're like, yeah, get the fuck out of here. You out of here, Patrick Chung, get the fuck out ofhere. All right. Um, here we go. I mean, look, as much as I'm complaining, it is working, but itdoes get frustrating to see these guys that just shut down their side of the field and every coupleof years we get rid of that guy. And, um, Mike, I always feel like, you know what? I always feellike our defense, you know, sense the McGinnis, Vrable and, uh, Teddy Bruce, key years. I alwaysfeel like it goes in. It's like my pie. It looks like it's done, but inside it's still soupy.You know, so when we go up against the Giants, I just feel like we don't know those two times
39:28we went up again. We didn't match up well against them. They had a monster defense, you know,and we're coming in there. You know, we had like, I don't know. I just, I don't know. I love, I,that's why I love the Giants. I love the Giants because they always have a great fucking defense.I always have a great fucking defense. I, that, you know, that's why I like the Steelers back inthe day, the doomsday defense, the Cowboys. You got to love those teams, you know, because thenyour offense can just be like good and you're going to win the fucking game. That's how fuckingMark Sanchez, everybody else, they started calling him Sanchez. Their fucking defense was great.Then they lost everybody and all of a sudden, you know, uh, uh, USC boy there couldn't just
40:12manage the game. He had, then he had to play from behind and he's like, Hey, where'd I go?Where'd I go? And he runs right into the fucking ass of his alignment and got a concussion.Well, you would have got a concussion. No, I probably did get a concussion. That guy probablydid too many squats. His ass is probably like an elbow. All right. Podcast inspired girlfriend toquit job that was making her miserable. Oh Jesus Christ. This should be on the Oprah Winfrey network.Are we, are we actually going to have like a feel good fucking story here?What the fuck is going on with these blinds? Open the blinds. Okay. What do we get here?40 minutes in. Okay. Somebody got to stretch this shit and do another 20 minutes of ignorance.
40:52Okay. Well, Bill, you've been doing great for the first 40 minutes. All right. Podcast inspiredgirlfriend to quit job that was making her miserable. Hey, Billy Billichick. Um, my girlfriendand I love the podcast and we listened to it together whenever we're on a long road trip.A few months ago we put on your interview with Joe Rogan. Uh, when you guys started talkingabout jobs you hated and how you knew, uh, and how you had to, to know when to walk,my girlfriend started crying. Oh Jesus. Up to that point, I knew that she had issues withthe job, but had no idea that our company was putting it through so much grief. Um, so muchgrief that it was making her absolutely miserable deep down inside. Once she heard the interview,
41:35it convinced and inspired her to take action as quickly as possible to seek new employment. Goodfor her. Yeah. And that's a great habit to get into and you do it when you're fucking youngbecause you don't have any kids, no wife, no husband, no mortgage.That's when you fucking make your moves. Um, not to say you can't do it after that, but it'sobviously, um, you know, there's, there's no reason not to do it when you're young. Okay.Now she's on the right track for a really great job and the possibilities of a permanent hirewith a really good company seem to be in the works seem to be in the works, knock on wood.I would like to personally thank you, Mr. Rogan for not only providing us with great
42:16entertainment, but also inadvertently helping out someone I truly love and care about toseek a positive work environment. Dude, is there going to be anything I can make fun of in this?This is just like a nice letter. She is also, she is already in better spirits than ever before.And it's in part, thanks to you. Hope to see you come through the Carolinas next time around.Thanks again and have a wonderful holiday. Well, that's great. All I can do is reiterate.I can't even remember what the fuck I said, but yeah, um, you know, I, I had a friend of minethat was working for, uh, was working for the Nestle company. I think it was Nestle. It wasone of those fucking corporations and they were running this person ragged and I literally
42:58watched this person go from a positive person to somebody that I started to avoid his phonecalls because like it was getting so fucking negative. And then, uh, one day this person justsaid, fuck this quit and actually started working for like a nonprofit and was happy asfucking hell. And it's now back in the corporate world at a company that he fucking loves and likeyou have to fucking do that, man. You know, that whole fucking fear of like, you know,how am I going to pay for shit? We'll keep you in these bad relationships with thesehorrific fucking companies, right? Um, but what you have, you have to always be willingto sacrifice for your own happiness. And if that involves downsizing your fucking life
43:50and just getting, just looking at all the shit on your shelves and all of the stuff that youfucking have and be like, how much of this shit do I even fucking need? Cause I'm sitting here,you know, in our guest room where I have all my drum videos, my magazines, all these fucking books,they've just sat on the shelf for fucking years. Like if you literally took everything off ofthese fucking shelves, okay, other than the sentimental value of a few fucking things,I wouldn't even, you can empty all the fucking, there's little cabinets that if you emptied allof it, other than when I walked in and I didn't see it, I wouldn't miss any of it.Um,
44:29except for, I have the 1970, is it 1972? It's the most expensive years of football cards.I have the complete set that I would miss. That I would miss. There's a couple otherthings I got up there, but other than that, I said, you know what, I'm, you know what,I'm going to get rid of all that fucking shit. I'm going to downsize my fucking, I'm saying,you can do that. Think about when you first fucking, you know, moved out of your house.What did you have? You had to close on your back, a couple pieces of shit, things of furniture,right? And then other than that, just over the years, you get subscriptions to magazines,you say, they just start collecting shit, people give you stuff, you go on fucking trips and you
45:09buy shot glasses. And then all of a sudden what you really, your house is just this giant storageshit for a bunch of shit that you don't need. Your apartment becomes the same way. Soif you downsize all of that to get out of a fucking job, you don't want to be in and youreduce your fucking overhead. In the meantime, you can actually make less, you know,there's all different ways to get out of the job. Start spending less saving up fucking money soyou can quit your job and live for months without having to fucking work or whatever or making alittle bit less money. In the meantime, just get rid of a bunch of shit that you don't even fuckingneed. I got to do that with the baby coming any fucking day now. I got to, I got to get rid of
45:57a bunch of shit because God knows she's going to have a bunch of shit too, right? I don'tfucking know. Anyways, here we go. Let's fucking, let's, let's plow ahead here. Return gifts.All right, dear Bill, I got to get into a debate with my fiance. I got into a debate with my fiance.She seems to think it's rude. I don't want to be rude. It seems to be rude to ask someone for a giftreceipt for a gift they did not like. I told her that it would be worse to keep the gift and neveruse it than to return for a better size or something different altogether. I take you forthe type of guy to just say thank you and throw it out if you don't like it. Good call, man.I absolutely, if I don't like something, I would never, I just don't do that. I just,
46:45I take it down to goodwill. I got a jacket for my aunt that I don't like and doesn't fit. She thinksI should just exchange it for a proper size and call it a day. I know for a fact that my auntwouldn't be offended because we're close enough that I can tell her that thoughts on this. You know,this is one that is up to you. I think it's a good exercise to tell somebody what you're reallyfeeling at the price of their feelings. I just don't know if it's with a Christmas gift.I think you can do it once to somebody, but if next year if they come back with something uglyagain, then you're just saying, you know, you have bad tastes, but I don't think there's anythingwrong with it. I think there's anything wrong with it. And look, I gotta be honest with you,
47:39if I got somebody a fucking gift, right? Now, if they didn't start screaming at me and make me sitdown, like if I ever got, if I ever got my wife a gift, she was like, you know, I don't like this.Can I exchange it? I'd be like, yeah, fuck yeah. Absolutely. Here's the receipt. Have fun. Go intothose crowded malls. I'm done. I have fulfilled my end of the verbal contractual agreement thatwe have that I will buy you a Christmas gift. But you know, when you go to return the fucking thing,I mean, that's on you. You can go back in there with all those fucking animals again. I'm notdoing it. Yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I think that's maybe that's apreference thing. You know, if you want to fucking, if you want to go that route, you know, God bless
48:19you. You go that fucking route. If you don't, I respect that too. All right, I slapped my sisteron Christmas Eve. I don't believe this. I don't believe this at all. Dear Billy bitch tits.I'm bitch tits and you slapped a woman. Hey, Billy, recently my family celebrated my dad'sbirthday, which is on Christmas Eve. And like every year, we went to a local Mexican restaurant.My mother bought him a very expensive bottle of Middleton triple distilled Irish whiskey.Never heard of that shit. I hope I said it right, which we proceed to drink once we return to myparents house. All right, how many of you are on this bottle? And there's a woman slapped in theend of this Jesus Christ. This is like a fucking country music video. Once we were back, my sister,
49:09who's 30 asked if she could collect pictures of us as little kids. She could make an album. Isee I knew exactly where some great ones were of her as a baby and my mother's drawer where she,my mother had previously shown me. You know, I don't know what's going to happen in this thing,or if it's even a true story, but I'm already saying at some point, somebody should have saidfair enough before somebody gets slapped. Okay, he goes, my sister has a different father than I,and from what I gather, her dad was a not so great guy. And my mother doesn't seem to have any funmemories of that relationship. Okay, I presented the pictures to her, expecting her to have eitherseen them before, or to be thrilled to be seeing them for the first time. The pictures were of her
50:01and her father with my mother's family. I'm getting lost here. Okay, okay, you guys havethe same mom, but different dads. Okay, also her birth certificate was in the envelope,which apparently she had never seen. She's 30, she never had to produce a birth certificate.Once she saw them, she freaked out. She began to berate my mother for never showing them to herin a full blown fight ensued. Of course, I was mortified. I had no idea this was going to happen.I'm going to go out on a limb here, sir. I say at this moment, this is not about you anymore.Okay, I mean, she didn't have a good relationship with her dad. This could be, you know, somethingthat she needed or something. This seems to be between her and her mom. And if you're going to
50:50go third man in, that's a game of conduct. And I would say a fucking 10 game suspension, at leastshe said horribly hurtful things to my mother and tried to storm out. Once I stepped in andtried to stop her. Oh shit, now you're doing that thing. So women need this product to fuck.I'd make a zillion dollar the male or female person remover. How ignorant am I that I neverthought that a woman ever had to fucking try to get through the door with some fucking assholeguy stand. My apology to all the ladies. All right, once I stepped in and tried, once I steppedin and tried to stop her, she began to attack me and shout out everything that was wrong with mein my life. I defended myself yelling back all the fucked up shit she's done. That's not defending
51:40yourself, sir. What you did was you went to her emotional level, which you should have done wasjust laid on the fucking ropes, let her go. And then afterwards she would have owed you an apology.Anyway, she goes then with my this is this is why you don't go home for the holidays.This shit always ends up happening. Then with my mother and father there.She charged me and punched me square in the eye with this insane look on her face. Well,she wanted to leave and you weren't letting her. I was trying to keep her at arm's length andtelling myself over and over, don't hit her. The final straw came when with both my parentstrying to hold her back, she managed to kick me in the face with their boots on.
52:23Aren't you standing up? How the fuck did she do that?Oh, they held her back and that gave her leverage or she like Anderson Silver.And she just gave you that front up kick that you didn't see. What the fuck you call it in MMAterms. Then I proceeded calmly and coolly to pick the exact moment when to reach in and give heran open palm slap right across the whole left side of her face. You did that calmly and coolly.Jesus, she immediately stopped at tirade and went in her car to pout.Wow, dude. You slapped her in the face. I don't think she's pouting. She laterchilled out and fell asleep on the sofa Christmas being tomorrow. I need your help.
53:04Did I do the wrong thing? And how can I keep things from being fucked up from here on out?Thank you and go fuck yourself. Did you do the wrong thing? You slapped a woman.Yes. I mean, she's coming at you with a knife. Then yeah, you can go close-fisted at that point,but I mean, all she was trying to do was leave. Here's the thing, dude. She hada valid reaction to something that really hurt her. In her pain, she said a bunch of mean thingsto her mom. All right? Now, she comes from a broken home. I mean, this shit's going to happenduring the fucking holidays. You're fucking drunk on whiskey, right? You guys, from what I can tell,there's only two of you on that bottle, maybe three or whatever, but you know, three, four people
53:50killing a bottle of whiskey, you're all going to be hammered. All right? Then she wanted to leave.Now, if she's drunk and she wants to drive, that's one thing. You did not put that in there.If she just wanted to leave to go be by herself, there's nothing more frustratingthan when you're hurt and you're emotional and you want to leave a room and people won't letyou leave. It's fucking annoying. All right? If she has no history of trying to hurt herself,she's not drunk, you got to let her leave. The fact that you just said you calmly,coolly waited for the fucking exact moment to reach in and slap her across the face meansyou contemplated this shit. It's not like she hit you and then you reacted
54:31and did it. You made the decision, you thought about it and you waited for them. So that wentfrom like fucking second degree to first degree. So yeah, no, you didn't do the right thing and youshould, I would feel terrible if I fucking did that. And how can you stop things from beingfucked up from here on out? Well, I would sit down and I would just keep playing over and overagain. How it escalated and you kind of zigged every time you should have zagged and just try tothink of what you can do the next time. But calmly, coolly picking the exact moment to slapyour sister in the face on Christmas Eve is, yeah, I would say you did the wrong thing. I mean,like I said, literally, unless she was literally going to be doing physical harm to, well, I guess
55:22she hit you. God, that's so fucked up. I'm not even thinking that she kicked you in the face andshe did all of that type of stuff. I still got to say, because they were holding her back.It's just one of the things that women get to get away with. They get to get away with thesalt and batter and you're like, you shouldn't fucking hit them. But how fucked up is it thateven as a guy, I wasn't even validating the point that she kicked you in the faceand punched you square in the eye with an insane look on her face. I think it's very easily forme to be sitting here in bed, not emotionally invested in any of this to say whether the fuckyou did the right thing or the wrong thing. Your family's going through a fucked up time.
56:07You threw alcohol in there and some old fucking pictures andyou know, your sister, you know, puts her hands on you and you hit her back. I mean,I don't know. I don't know. I would have to look maybe because you said you calmly and coollypicked the exact moment when to reach out. I don't know. Maybe that's what fucking threw me off.But like, if this all went down in like fucking three seconds,you know, I think you guys all need some fucking group therapy. All I can say is I'mglad I wasn't there. I'm glad I wasn't at that party.That's all I can say about that one. However, I do feel that I owe you an apology for judging
56:46your actions without even taking any consideration that you took two hits to the head, to the face.You hit me in the face, right? And you know, I've seen women like that and I know how hard theypunch and kick and all that shit. They have no fucking concernfor the fact that they're wearing shoes and they kick you in the face or just said, you know,if they weigh over a hundred pounds and who wants to get hit by somebody weighs a hundred poundsright in the fucking face, you don't. And that the natural reaction to getting hit is to hit backand they got that whole, well, because I'm a girl, you can't do it yet. I can just fuckingbreak all the fucking rules in the, you know, it's, it's, it's one of the things. But you know,
57:28something I, maybe that's just one of the, one of the perks you get for being a woman, you know,they got to have their period every month. They got to go through fucking labor, you know what Imean? They got to get all those free drinks. They always get the house during a divorce. I mean,there's a lot of things that they have to go through that maybe, maybe it's okay that theycan hit us. I have no fucking idea. All I know is that, you know, if a woman ever hits you,you just, you just fucking walk away. You just walk away. And if they're not related to you,you just end the relationship. Like this is over. Yeah. You know, are you coming back to,are you going to give me a gift now? I'm like the battered woman now. I'm like, oh, she's usually
58:10not like that. She shuts a good person go fuck yourself over. All right. So what I would do ifI, okay, did I do the wrong thing? And how can I keep things for being fucked up from here on out?Okay. This is the first thing you do. I would not drink whiskey around volatile family members.I wouldn't do that. I would try to be the sober person. I think if you were more sober,I probably wouldn't have done that. Or at the very least, she would have saw the punch coming.Sounded like she threw a straight right, you know, should have made a little slip that, you know?I'm fucking with you. Sorry that that happened. And, you know, I don't know.You guys had kind of evened out. She hit you twice. She only hit her once. Maybe that's fair.
58:51Who the fuck knows? I don't fucking know, but I don't, I don't buy into that whole shivery thingthat, you know, the, you know, once somebody starts swinging on you, it's they have, they've,they've fucking, you know, they've waved all rights of shivery and, uh, and rules between thesexes in my own opinion. But like it's the fact it's, but for the guy though, is, is if he reactsimmediately, I give you a pass. But the fact that you thought about it, it shows to come back toeven though she deserves it. She's still a lady and then you don't. I mean, personally, I could,I could, uh, well, I guess you never say never, but I've never run into that. And I've had a lotof women hit me. I mean, I'm an asshole. I've had a lot of women hit me. Uh, I've had women throw
59:37shit at me. Um, but it's never, uh, it's never gotten to that point where I, I would, I couldn'tdo that. She doesn't be like, it's like hitting a fucking kid or a dog or some shit. You know,I couldn't, I couldn't do it like an animal. They're defenseless. You know what I mean? Unlessit's like Rhonda Rousey who's fighting this fucking weekend, everybody, you know, the fuck, if you,if you're, there's a question for you. If you're dating someone who is not just takes karate orfucking MMA shit is actually in the UFC, then what does that become? You know what I mean?If she fucking hits you, say you survive that.Oh God. There's not a woman who's even remotely thought about getting into the UFC that couldn't
01:00:33kick the shit out of me. I can't imagine fighting one that was actually in the UFC.That'd be fucking hilarious. Then later they're apologizing as I have a stake over my eye.I'll make it up to you freckles. All right. X girlfriend is a cunt. Jesus.Fucking James blunt here. X girlfriend is a cunt. Hey Bill, I am a lady and a huge fan of yours.I love Nia as well. Get her on the case if possible, please. Oh, well she's still downstairssleeping. Okay. I dig other ladies and recently I broke up. I broke a very important relationshipin my life. I was dating this girl on and off for many years and felt totally in love with her.All the while she claims she loved me more than anything, which she still does claim by the way,
01:01:28by the way, and says I am the only person she has ever wanted to spend her life with.However, she's one of these people who just needs her freedom and can't function in a fuckingrelationship. Well, then you got to let it go. Before we broke up, we had this huge fuckingargument about commitment and I said, I didn't see the point in continuing this relationship.She reflected on it and said, I was absolutely right that I don't deserve to dedicate my entirelife to someone as complicated as her. Well, yeah, agree with her and walk. I agreed. She then said,she tried, but can't reciprocate my feelings in the same intensity. All right. That was eight yearsbefore this broad was jerking me around saying I'm the love of her life and she wanted to marry me
01:02:11and live with me forever. All these years, every time I confronted her about her troublesome behavior,it was never cheating at least. She didn't tell me, hey, I don't think our feelingsmatch. This may not work. She led me to believe she loved me enough. She's still saying I'm thelove of her life and whatnot, but feels horrible for all the pain she's caused me and the time Iwasted. I said being in love, the love of her life wasn't enough to make her act like a good girlfriendand that I wanted to move on with my life. So we parted ways. Good for you. Strong move. I likethat move. Now I'm not sure what to do. Way to start. My identity is so intertwined with thisperson and how we used to be in the beginning. I want to start over, but I don't know who I
01:02:53am outside of this relationship. I like to hear your thoughts about it because I think you guysgive some good advice. All right. I would say this. What you're feeling is totally normal.And what a lot of people do is when they feel those feelings of like, well, now what do I do?Who am I? How do I pick up the fucking pieces? There is that initial feelingwhich does not feel good. And your natural reaction is to go for the quickest fix, which is to goback into that fucking horrible relationship. What you have to do as the song goes, you got to walkthrough the fire here. I would write down, you know, I'd start a journal or something. So you cankind of, you know, it's something to just be feeling your thoughts versus writing them down.
01:03:39And then you can see them and then you can kind of get outside of yourself, which is what youneed right now. And, you know, friends help with this too. We have to be like, look, you can't goback to this person. You know that. Okay. But right now is like the worst part is now you'regoing to be lonely and heartbroken by yourself. And this person that usually comfort you is thecause of it. So you can't go to them for comfort because it's going to fuck you all up and getyou back to square one. So you're asking what you should do is I think that you shouldacknowledge the fact that you're going to you have to go through some pain, you're going to gothrough some pain over the next like, you know, certainly three months. But what you do during
01:04:27that time is you gradually build a new life without this person. So the first month, you'regoing to be in the fetal position crying and just, you know, going through the next, it's like goingthrough detox of this person. But what I would try to do is introduce a new fun activity,you know, that you could do like, I don't know, whatever the fuck it's into, even if it's likea fucking TV show that you meant to binge watch, something as simple as that, that is somethingthat you do and that it's yours that you don't do with this other person. And then you just introducesomething else when you're ready for something else. Maybe you always want to learn how to ridea horse. Go fucking do that. God knows you got the goddamn time. Something fun, like there's
01:05:18something that you've always wanted to do, but you didn't have the time with work and beinginvolved in a relationship. Go do that fucking thing. Take a trip, do something and all the timewhen you're feeling sad, give into the sadness and cry some of that fucking pain out. I'm a bigbeliever in crying. It's something that guys are not allowed to do. It's why women get pastshit and guys carry shit. Women still can look back and see the sadness, but they're done feelingfucked up over it because they didn't hold onto the emotion. They let the emotion out. Guys holdthe fucking thing in like, I believe that guys should, you know, cause it's too embarrassing forpeople to see us cry. They should in every house, the way you have a bathroom, a bedroom, a kitchen,
01:06:01there should be a crying room for the man he goes into closes the door. It's soundproof and he'sallowed to go in there and wail out all of his fucking pain the way women are and everyone flocksto him and hugs him and gives him comfort. And, uh, you know, I'm a big believer in it now thatafter, after half a century holding it in, I believe that you should fucking let it out.You should go Chris Bosch if you're a guy. Um, so that's what I would say to you and just acknowledgethe fact that this is going to hurt. I'm proud of you that you got out of this relationship,you know, eight years of this person jerking you around and you know what you did? You got outof something toxic and you opened the door for the right person to come into your life.
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