Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin - GaryVee on How To Build a Social Media Following, Why You Haven't "Missed Out" On TikTok, and Which Companies He's Betting On

Episode Date: May 15, 2024

Today Nicole sits down with one of the foremost experts on entrepreneurship and social media: Gary Vaynerchuk (GaryVee). In this conversation, Gary gives advice for anyone hoping to build a social following— for business or pleasure. He tells Nicole which platforms he’s bullish on, why you haven’t "missed out" TikTok— or any platform for that matter, and how to cope with social media anxiety. You can find more gems from Gary in his newest book, Day Trading Attention, which you can preorder here: https://garyvaynerchuk.com/attention/

One of the most stressful periods of my life was when I was in credit card debt. I got to a point where I just knew that I had to get it under control for my financial future and also for my mental health. We've all hit a point where we've realized it was time to make some serious money moves. So take control of your finances by using a Chime checking account with features like no maintenance fees, fee-free overdraft up to $200, or getting paid up to two days early with direct deposit. Learn more at Chime.com slash MNN. When you check out Chime, you'll see that you can overdraft up to $200 with no fees.

If you're an OG listener, you know about my infamous $35 overdraft fee that I got from buying a $7 latte and how I am still very fired up about it. If I had Chime back then, that wouldn't even be a story. Make your fall finances a little greener by working toward your financial goals with Chime. Open your account in just two minutes at Chime.com slash MNN. That's Chime.com slash MNN. Chime. Feels like progress. Banking services and debit card provided by the Bank Corp. Bank N.A. or Stride Bank N.A. Members FDIC. SpotMe eligibility requirements and overdraft

limits apply. Boosts are available to eligible Chime members enrolled in SpotMe and are subject to monthly limits. Terms and conditions apply. Go to Chime.com slash disclosures for details. I love hosting on Airbnb. It's a great way to bring in some extra cash. But I totally get it that it might sound overwhelming to start or even too complicated if, say, you want to put your summer home in Maine on Airbnb, but you live full time in San Francisco and you can't go to Maine every time you need to change sheets for your guests or something like that. If thoughts like these have been holding you back, I have great news for you. Airbnb has launched a co-host network, which is a network of high quality local co-hosts with

Airbnb experience that can take care of your home and your guests. Co-hosts can do what you don't have time for, like managing your reservations, messaging your guests, giving support at the property, or even create your listing for you. I always want to line up a reservation for my house when I'm traveling for work, but sometimes I just don't get around to it because getting ready to travel always feels like a scramble, so I don't end up making time to make my house look guest-friendly. I guess that's the best way to put it. But I'm matching with a co-host so I can still make that extra cash while also making it easy on myself. Find a co-host at Airbnb.com slash host. I'm Nicole Lappin, the only financial expert you

don't need a dictionary to understand. It's time for some money rehab. I have a problem with my business and my problem is social media. I do not love it and I don't understand how I am supposed to both run my business and find time to take super clicky, sticky, shareable videos. But today, I'm getting advice from the pro, Gary Vaynerchuk. You know Gary Vee, he really needs no introduction. But just to remind you of some of his accolades, he's the chairman of VaynerX, a collection of businesses that includes VaynerMedia, the creative agency that has worked with some of the biggest brands out there, Pepsi, Burger King, Zoom, TikTok, and many more. Gary also co-founded

VaynerSports, Resi, and Empathy Wines. He is also a five-time New York Times bestselling author, and he is about to be a six-time New York Times bestselling author because his newest book, Day Trading Attention, is so good, and it comes out May 21st. His book is all about helping people navigate the ever-evolving landscape of social media. It is such a helpful and powerful resource for brands and really anyone hoping to build a social following for business or for pleasure. He tells me which platform he's bullish on now, why you haven't missed TikTok, and how to get through social media anxiety. There were so many lessons that I had to split the episode into two parts.

So stay tuned for the second episode where Gary talks about his relationship with money. We also play a game of financial never have I ever that I have to say really surprised me. And I have known Gary forever. But let's start Gary Vaynerchuk, welcome to Money Rehab. Thanks for having me. Have we known each other for 100,000 years? I was thinking about that the other day. I think it was South by Southwest 2006 or 7. You have amazing memory.

We were on like a panel about the internet. Web 2.0. Like social media hadn't even been coined yet that's actually not the first time we met that's the first time we met in person but we have an amazing research team and i want to show you what we found oh my god i'm excited okay this was circa 2009 love it was the first time you were on c.com. Oh my God, I remember this. Valentine's Day is just a few days away. Can you feel the love in the air? Well, if you can, you probably made some big plans with that special guy or that special girl of yours. Dinner, maybe some vino. Well, if wine is in the plans, but you're a little overwhelmed trying to pick the right, perfect one for Valentine's Day,

we brought in some help. The wine guy is back. Gary Vaynerchuk is here to steer us in the right direction. Gary, we are kind of cramming here. We only have a couple days left, so let's get to it because this is like a big wine test on Valentine's Day. This is like the Super Bowl of wine. It's huge. Yeah, so help us.

Well, let's talk about one thing. I'm huge on bubbles this season, so definitely look for sparkling wines from Spain, Cava, C-A-V-A. I was just watching all the economic news. No reason to overpay for champagne. Look at Cava for $12 to $15 a bottle. A great, great play.

Look at us. for $12 to $15 a bottle. A great, great play. Look at us. How cool is that? I was like 24, maybe 23. You literally look like you're in high school. You look like a baby. So when you see this guy, what do you think? I think that that dude knew what was happening, which was he intuitively, he was, you know,

even though I look fairly young there, I'd already been through a real decade of business building, right? That's 10 years into my career, Gary. I'm probably 32 there or something like that. What I really understood there was, oh shit, this is what I saw in 95 and 96 and why I launched winelibrary.com. But at that point, we were a small local liquor store doing back to money.

What that dude knew was I'm seeing the same movie again. It was only the second time I'd seen that movie. Now I'm probably at four times seeing that movie, which is, there's a substantial shift going on. And holy crap, this is so cool that I'm doing CNN, but I have a feeling that this Twitter, YouTube, Vidler, all these things at the time, that this is gonna become the thing. Tumblr.

Tumblr. You were an investor, right? I was. And so, that was a funny time for me because it was the first time i felt like i was sitting on information and i had a little bit that i could do with it in a way that i couldn't do anything the first time the first time it was like it we were back to money we were doing 3.8 million dollars a year in revenue as a liquor store on 10% gross profit. So $380,000 before actual expenses of electricity, payroll.

My father was living his American dream by paying to own his own property and building, like many immigrants. So that's what he was focused on, and that made sense, and coming to this country with 100 bucks, that is a massive accomplishment. I obviously was next gen and that made sense and coming to this country with a hundred bucks. That is a massive accomplishment I obviously was next gen and had a lot of big dreams

There back to being an investor in tumblr and facebook and twitter was the first time I was able to take advantage From a money standpoint back to the theme of this show and And knew that I was going to build a lot of personal brand. And I didn't know that that's what it was called back then. I just knew that I was going to be known in the wine business, in the wine world, in a way that I could have never dreamed of even two, three years earlier, because it's just not how the world worked. Now you're on your seventh business book. So eight altogether. I called you when I was

launching Rich Bitch. That was my first book 10 years ago. I didn't know what the fuck I was doing. And you were on, I don't know, number three at that point. And you said to me, you were so, so generous with your time. I came in in New York and you said, do podcasts. And at that time I was like, okay. And I told my publishers and they're like, where do you find podcasts? It was a different era. And here we are like a podcast network later. And you're absolutely right. That was where the conversion was happening. You also told me to, uh, write a list of everybody I knew go off the grid for two weeks, contact them. It is still advice I give to anyone who's selling books.

If you're selling books, you've lived a life where you've done a lot of good things for a lot of people. And asking is okay as long as you don't judge them if they don't deliver. The reason people struggle with my advice in selling books is their feelings get hurt when someone doesn't buy a bunch when they know they've done great by them. I've had some extreme, I mean, I have one example that I will never forget the day I die and it does not bother me one bit, but I use

it all the time and I'll use it right now because it's an opportunity to teach people a lesson of what happens when you have expectations and how happy you can be if you don't. So you're right. when you have expectations and how happy you can be if you don't. So you're right. When someone's selling a book, I really think it's a good idea to go off the grid for a week, which is nice.

You get some rest before you go hard. It's a lot easier to just lay on the beach and go literally A through Z in your phone and your inbox and say, hey, this means something to me. I've gone really serious about this. I feel proud of it. It would mean the world to me

if you could buy a bunch. One or a bunch. Or something else, right? Or be really specific, like can you send out this tweet, whatever platform, maybe they have more people. But it's funny.

To your point, I think it's, I believe that if, and I'm saying this out loud so I expect friends to reach out to me in the future, I think I make a bigger impact and I'm saying this out loud, so I expect friends to reach out to me in the future, I think I make a bigger impact. And I have a very big platform. I still believe me buying 300 books

for a friend that I really know, that really asked, and put them in the lobbies of all 10 of our VaynerX offices is going to sell more books potentially than a single tweet of like, hey, Johnny's book is awesome or sally's book is awesome now it could be the other way but like really actually asking the problem is when i used to tell that advice and i've been telling it for a long time i didn't realize how many people were so grounded in insecurity and envy and resentment early on

the first three or four people that i told to do that, they would reach out to me and be like, this was horrible. I was like, what happened? They're like, well, I did get on the news, like it did work, but like now I'm really mad at Rick. And I'm like, why? Well, I didn't buy anything

and I've been so nice to Rick and I was like, and it made me think about the most impactful story I have on this, which is I asked someone who I reopened, reopened, meaning an investment was closed. It was done. I went to bat for this person to the founder to reopen around and let them put $50,000

in or a hundred. I don't remember an investment. The company went on to have a massive exit. This person made heavy eight figures and when I went and asked for a book buy they bought none and ghosted me and I remembered that being a really exciting moment for me because it was when I was able to call my bluff on myself I genuinely mean what I'm about to say. I've continued to have a relationship with this person,

like, you know, later on. I genuinely don't judge the person, because my brain goes to, maybe they were busy. I asked, by the way, I asked four times, because I knew I made this person lots and lots of money. I was like, this guy could buy 500 copies, you know, like I really knew. I'm so grateful and thankful for my parenting,

my DNA, my circumstance. The fact that I have no real feelings against that. I just only know how to deploy optimistic compassion. Maybe he was in a bad place. I don't know. Who am I to judge? And don't forget, here's the big key to this, Nicole, and I hope this lands for people.

I was asking. When you ask, you're not allowed to judge? And don't forget, here's the big key to this, Nicole, and I hope this lands for people. I was asking. When you ask, you're not allowed to judge. Like don't look a gift horse in the mouth or whatever the saying is. I just believe there's something very powerful around expectation. If you're able to get into a place where you're just not expecting,

you're only in control of yourself. You were pissed. Honestly, I'm being dead serious with you. When I realized, oh my God, this person's not gonna buy it, I was in order, baffled, because he just made tens of millions of dollars. B, I'm being just very vulnerable and transparent,

baffled, B, quickly to, I hope he's okay. To C, I really don't give a shit about this. This is epic. I actually eat my own dog food. I talk about no expectation. I literally know every detail about what's happening here and I'm not that upset about it. Fuck it. Let's move on. It's kind of like real life jab, jab, jab.

Is it jab, jab, jab? Three or four jabs? Jab, jab, jab, right hook. Ironically, it's like give, give, give. By the way, day trading attention was originally literally up until the final hour called jab, jab, jab, right hook. Ironically, it's like give, give, give. By the way, day trading attention was originally literally up until the final hour called jab, jab, jab, left hook. It's literally the follow up to that book. Part two. Part two, but it got so nerdy

and it's the most detailed marketing book I've put out that it just felt like it was different. It was more of what now I realize I've been doing for 20 years, which is day trading attention. And what does that mean? First of all, I love the day trading part, obviously. Yes. I would love to know what long-term attention investing is,

but explain to me what the concept of day trading attention. Well, listen to what just happened in the meta right before this part. You told the audience in our relationship through the years, I've had an ability to be like, I think this is happening. I think this is happening. And obviously you also know, because you've relationship through the years, I've had an ability to be like, I think this is happening. I think this is happening.

And obviously you also know because you've been in the game, there's many examples of that with me, whether it's YouTube or Twitter or TikTok, or just a lot. It's been the story of my life. Day trading attention is the core asset in the world is attention.

For governments, for parents, for businesses, for media companies, it's attention. And the history of the world, attention platform distribution evolves. So if you wanted to sell something way back when, you probably had to draw something in a cave and other cavemen walked by it and were like, I need that club.

And then obviously newspaper and radio. I think a lot about that. I studied newspaper and radio transition to television a lot and have a lot in the last 20 years. I think a lot about this classic political story where JFK loses the debate on radio to Nixon but wins the debate on television, which was a new medium.

He goes on to win the election. He was sweating, Nixon was sweating. Correct, Nixon looked like crap, JFK was fucking. A stud. A fucking stud. And so, and then I was also born in the Soviet Union, so I'm growing up in the 80s during the Cold War, the end of it, and I'm thinking about propaganda, and I've always been fascinated by even weird things

like coup d'etats, like when you're overthrowing a government why they why they would always go to the newspaper and radio station at the same time they would go after the palace somewhere at a very young age i understood communication mattered so and then obviously i was very affected by it i had a small family liquor store business that i was coming into that i was very very very and I mean very Hyper focused i'm building a very big business for my parents and I was like i'm gonna do this for a while and then i'll do my own thing and

I Got very fortunate. The internet was just emerging so All of a sudden I launched winelibrary.com in 1997 There's not a liquor store that has a website in America. There's literally three or four at the time. There was three or four of us. And I watched our family business go from a three

to a $40 million business in a nanosecond, aka five years, with no money. I didn't raise VC. We didn't even have a credit line on the business. This was all using its own cash flow. And I did that through email marketing while every other wine store in the country was doing catalogs.

So day trading attention. I was getting attention in 1997 and 98 and 99 from people that worked on Wall Street that were early to email, signing them up and sending them a daily email about Opus One and Chateau Lafitte and I was out flanking the biggest stores in the country at the time,

Zaki's and Sam's and K&L out here in California, these iconic wine stores that I looked up to as a teenager that I used to buy the New York Times when I was 15, the Wednesday dining in section and look at their full page ads. One day I'm gonna be like them. They're spending four to six months making catalogs, spending lots of money making the catalogs.

So they were spending more money, and they were slower than I was. I was spending no money on email or the distribution, and I was doing it daily. So I was getting to the customers, the biggest wine customers in the distribution, and I was doing it daily. So I was getting to the customers, the biggest wine customers in the country, and selling them Insignia and Caymus and Silver Oak and Chateau Lafitte, and then two months later,

they would get a catalog for Morels or Sherry Lehmans with that same stuff for more expensive, and they'd already bought it from me. And so I was able to outflank the entire industry with a new medium, which was email and having a website. And then later when we met, that was starting to happen because I saw this thing called YouTube. And a couple of months after it came out, I started a wine show, right? And, and, and then obviously social change the name, right? Yes. The store was originally called

shoppers discount liquors, and then we rebranded it to wine library and and so i was very affected by day trading attention which i define as right this second as we sit here there is overpriced and underpriced ways to get attention right yeah you you could run a super bowl ad for this podcast. It would cost you $20 million between the media, the production. CBS would force you to buy other inventory in their ecosystem that is bullshit inventory. It might cost you more than that. So that would be a bad idea.

Even though the Super Bowl is my favorite ad. You say though in your book that it's still undervalued. I agree with that. With all those millions of dollars. I agree with that. With all those millions of dollars. I agree with that. And remnant as you have to pay. And I think if you're Nike or Coca-Cola, then that is going to be a good idea because their marketing budgets are enormous. The only reason that's not a good idea for you is my intuition is you're not spending $20 million a year promoting this.

Not yet. That's right. this. That's right. And so, but if you are spending a thousand dollars or a hundred thousand or 500,000, you want to spell spend it as wisely as possible. Right. And so to me, right, as we sit here and record today, the number one thing that has happened in marketing is that organic reach in social has changed in the last couple of years compared to what we grew up with. When we were growing up with social media, it was more like email marketing. You would get as many people to follow you as possible, and then when you would post, a percentage of them would see it. Today, one clip from this show has the ability to get 10 million views on TikTok, and another clip

from this exact show might get 4,000. The creative is the distribution now with these algorithms. And that is a substantial, massive, massive land grab that I want people to know about. And there's a million others, whether it's influencer marketing or Hulu pre-roll, something you should be doing is running ads of video of this on what is now modern television.

You can buy Hulu ads now if you have $100. And if you put that in front of other financial content, that's awareness, just like pre-roll YouTube has been established. So these are all the things running through my mind all the time. Hold onto your wallets. Money Rehab will be right back. One of the most stressful periods of my life was when I was in credit card

debt. I got to a point where I just knew that I had to get it under control for my financial future and also for my mental health. We've all hit a point where we've realized it was time to make some serious money moves. So take control of your finances by using a Chime checking account with features like no maintenance fees, fee-free overdraft up to $200, or getting paid up to two days early with direct deposit. Learn more at Chime.com slash MNN. When you check out Chime, you'll see that you can overdraft up to $200 with no fees. If you're an OG listener, you know about my infamous $35 overdraft fee that I got from buying a $7 latte and how I am still very fired up about it. If I had Chime back then,

that wouldn't even be a story. Make your fall finances a little greener by working toward your financial goals with Chime. Open your account in just two minutes at Chime.com slash MNN. That's Chime.com slash MNN. Chime feels like progress. Banking services and debit card provided by the Bancorp Bank N.A. or Stride Bank N.A. Members FDIC. SpotMe eligibility requirements and overdraft limits apply. Boosts are available to eligible Chime members enrolled in SpotMe and are subject to monthly limits. Terms and conditions apply.

Go to Chime.com slash disclosures for details. I love hosting on Airbnb. It's a.com slash disclosures for details. I love hosting on Airbnb. It's a great way to bring in some extra cash, but I totally get it that it might sound overwhelming to start or even too complicated if, say, you want to put your summer home in Maine on Airbnb, but you live full time in San Francisco and you can't go to Maine every time you need to change sheets for your guests or something like that. If thoughts like these have been holding you back, I have great news for you. Airbnb has launched a co-host network, which is a network of high quality local co-hosts with Airbnb experience that can take care of your home and your guests.

Co-hosts can do what you don't have time for, like managing your reservations, messaging your guests, giving support at the property, or even create your listing for you. I always want to line up a reservation for my house when I'm traveling for work, but sometimes I just don't get around to it because getting ready to travel always feels like a scramble, so I don't end up making time to make my house look guest-friendly. I guess that's the best way to put it. But I'm matching with a co-host, so I can still make that extra cash while also making it easy on myself. Find a co-host at Airbnb.com slash host.

And now for some more money rehab. What is undervalued and what's overvalued right now? Because when you were also promoting Wine Library, you bought AdWords and you thought that they were overvalued, but they were really undervalued at the time. The clarity on that, let me jump in, is I bought them so cheap, like day they came out at five and 10 cents a click, that when they went up a year or two later to like 40 and 50, because other people were doing it,

cents, 40 and 50 cents. I was like, it's over, right? Because I was like, damn, it used to be so cheap. I didn't really know at the time what CAC and LTV was. I didn't think in terms or never thought about customer acquisition versus lifetime value. I inherently did. I was like, if I invest in my business

and we're good at what we do, we'll keep these customers. It'll work out in the long term. But I didn't have the math down yet. So to your point, what you're referencing is I wish that I spent more money on Google AdWords in 2001, two, three, four, five. It was that I was so goddamn early that I got confused and tricked my own self

that it was like, it's over now. I should have still been buying those things at 50 cents a dollar, even $2, because they were worth it to the business. They were just too, like when you bought the word wine for 10 cents on Google and were the first result, you can imagine when that word went to $16

a couple years later per click, you were like, fuck this shit. What I didn't know yet was it was still worth for my company to pay $16 because the client was worth more. Or that could go up to $100. Like you don't know where you are. Correct, correct.

And so I think people think of TikTok right now and say like, I've missed it. It's too late. Like I can't put my stake in the ground anymore in the same way as like, you know, maybe you thought that you were at the peak of AdWords, but it was just in the middle. You don't know until you zoom out. Correct. And then there's a game of best.

There's not only is it underpriced, but then are you good at the creative? So is it harder to quote unquote go viral on TikTok today than it was four years ago when I was yelling about it on every platform? You were yelling so hard. Yelling. I know. It was pre-pandemic and you wanted everybody to go on musically first.

Yeah. That's right. It had already happened. So I knew, like the thing that has worked for me is I don't predict because I want to keep good reputation. Anytime I'm yelling about something, it has happened. So I knew like the thing that has worked for me is I don't predict because I want to keep good reputation. Anytime I'm yelling about something, it has happened. I'm just there early enough that it doesn't feel like it's happened. But to your point, like what's really fascinating now that everyone needs to hear is you've missed nothing. Today, somebody will start a YouTube channel. YouTube has been rocking and rolling since 2005, right?

For the last 19 years. Today, as we're doing this right now, somebody will start a YouTube channel and they will go on to fucking crush it because they were better. That'd be like saying, well, there was no room for Billie Eilish because Madonna and Cyndi Lauper

and Whitney Houston were pop stars and all the pop star opportunities are done. It's a merit-based game on the creative. And so no medium, not podcasting, not YouTube, not Twitter, not Facebook, every one of them is fertile ground for best, but best takes creativity once things get overpopulated. What skill set creatively it took to go crazy on TikTok four years ago, today is the mundane.

That doesn't mean you have to be crazy. It means that you have to provide something new and different that has depth. The other thing I wrote back to, we're giving flowers here. The other thing that I always thought was going to work for you was the depth of what you were talking about. You were talking about substantive stuff. The stuff you were saying was right. Financial literacy continues on this day as we sit here to be still way under penetrated from what I wish the world knew. I wish the world knew. So the other thing that people need to hear that I think has been very substantial for both of us

is you can have sizzle, and we both have sizzle. That matters, charisma, ability, character, that happens. But if you do not have steak, you have no chance of longevity. Back to that South by Southwest, I remember the keynote I gave that year. I remember, because I used to read every single tweet after every talk I gave.

And I remember many people during that era thinking that I'd be gone in a year or two because they thought my over-the-topness was just sticky and like all sizzle, no steak. And I remember enjoying that back to like, because I knew that, no, no, I'm doing this forever. Like I'm a real businessman. Like I think I, like at that point already, I'd already accomplished things. I wasn't guessing. Like I knew I had the work ethic and the talent. And, and so I really think that people

need to hear, like, if you're thinking about starting a podcast or you think you miss TikTok or you want to do a YouTube channel, like there's nothing stopping you. Do I believe that the next big platform that comes out, if you move fastest on it, that you'll get even more upside if you're good? Of course. It's just applying a demand of attention.

But there's never a bad time to go on a big platform if you're good enough. Well, I say that about investing too. Like you're never as young as you are today. Some people say they're too old. Today is as good a day as any. Or you missed something, right? To that same point, if you missed investing in a good business

and you're like, damn, I should have bought it at $18 a share. Now it's $42. Well, guess what? If it's actually a good business. I mean, I remember people telling me that they missed out on Apple stock in 2011. Really? Really? Right? You know, right? I mean, I remember people telling me that they missed out on Apple stock in 2011. Really?

Right? You know, right? I mean, Facebook, I invested in Facebook 40 years before the IPO. I've never sold a share. It opened at 42, went to 19. A lot of the people that worked at Facebook at the time at the six-month lockout sold at 19. It's 500. That's weird because you don't know

where you are in that chart, right? That part. And what are you yelling about now? Twitch? I do love live streaming, but I'm yelling about Twitch for a different reason. I don't need to yell about Twitch. Twitch has clearly long established that it's important.

Ninja popped on Twitch seven, eight years ago. This is nothing new. Clicks, Aiden Ross, all this stuff. I know Aiden's on kicker, but streamers have won. What I'm yelling about with live streaming is I see something really interesting. I think there's a new genre coming

that's gonna blow people away, which is what I will call the mundane. People that are streaming almost like an ASMR of something. I said something the other day, I'll say it again. I believe someone, I'll use an example. I believe in the next 10 years, there's currently a hairdresser in her little salon, six seats in a small town right now. She's got a nice business. She's a killer. I admire that entrepreneur a lot. The fact that she is on the, maybe she's listening right now. If she puts a laptop or a camera in her salon and starts to stream the day, literally, I believe that that

person is going to become famous and make a lot of money by not playing to the camera, by literally living their life on their core activity. Like Truman Show style. That's right. Now, I also use an analogy in a recent podcast that I'm really excited about. I believe a stay-at-home mom and dad

is gonna stream their 6am to 8.30 of cooking, cleaning up the kitchen and getting the family ready for the day. That that will be the stream and that person will go on to make seven figures. What I wrote about in Crush It, which has come to be true. I didn't call it influencers.

That humans would be able to make money on what they were passionate about. I believe is about to happen with streaming. That I am encouraging influencers that humans would be able to make money on what they were passionate about i believe is about to happen with streaming that i am encouraging people that are listening right now that if you can stream the mundane the mundane i i used another analogy if you mow your massive lawn for three hours there's going to be a big movement in next three to four years where live streaming of what seemingly is not interesting, because don't forget, you were there. You remember what everyone said about

Twitter. Everyone was like, I'll never forget this. When Twitter, when I was yelling in 2006 and 2007 about Twitter and when we're at these kind of conferences, everyone was like, this is so stupid. Who gives a shit if you're having a pizza? Nobody cares that you're walking the dog. And I remember in a Q and a session at South by somebody went really hard at me, said, this is actually idiotic. And she, she was, he, she said, Gary, you seem like something was kind of like clever in how she posed it. You seem like a smart guy. Do you actually, like who gives a shit about what you're having for dinner? And my answer was everyone.

And I remember the oxygen coming out of the room. Like that moment, you know, where you're just like a mic drop. And it was fun because half the room was like, couldn't like comprehend what I was saying. And I just remember looking at certain eyes and energy and obviously people I talked to after I got off stage. It clicked for a lot of people.

My belief at the time was what has now transpired. It's how human communication works. And when somebody was listening right now, probably breathing to themselves while they're on the treadmill or driving listening right now or walking their dog and hearing me saying that I think somebody who owns a small salon will make millions of dollars through ad revenue, subscriptions and merch and books and speaking after she

accomplishes what I'm saying, that someone's gonna make millions of dollars a year only by live streaming what she's doing Monday through Sunday now, which is just running her business. I think people struggle with that leap, but it's fucking crystal clear to me. So how would you start doing that? You know, there's only one issue at hand

in this entire conversation, which is, is it okay for privacy of the other people that happen to cross paths with what you're doing? So if you're a person that works at home all day, a painter, if you paint, if you fucking paint, put a fucking camera and go live and paint. Obviously for the salon woman, the thing that's a concern that everyone's gonna have to figure out is,

a salon is like a therapy session. So if she's streaming her day and a woman's coming in and she's doing what she normally does with a person who's been her hairstylist for 11 years, that's now her therapist. If she's now complaining about her husband to that person, obviously that's live on the internet.

That could cause some, so a lot of people are listening. You're gonna have to figure out the privacy thing. A lot of people are gonna be You're going to have to figure out the privacy thing. A lot of people are going to be fine with it. They'll adjust. They'll like, I can't talk about shit about my husband here because it's being filmed. Can we do a little game?

I'm always up for a game. I'd love to do a bullish and bearish game. Bullish and bearish. Meta. Bullish. Reddit. Bullish. Alphabet.

Bullish. Alphabet. Bullish. Waymo. I'm not educated enough to give an answer on that, to be honest. Nvidia. I feel like, again, not educated. It feels like, I'm just not educated enough,

but it definitely feels like it's so hyper big that I'm like, I feel like if I spent 10 hours educating myself, I'm like, okay, this is not sustainable to be this crazy. Disney. Disney? Very bullish. And I know Disney gets dragged into politics a little bit,

but I think intellectual property is one of the most underrated businesses of the future of VR and everything. I don't think people understand how big owning IP is going to be. Tesla. Tesla. Bullish.

Microsoft. Very bullish. I've been very impressed with what they've done the last five years. Amazon. Very bullish. Zoom. Bullish. ByteDance.

TikTok's parent company. Bullish. Even though it might be banned? A pimple in the ass of the overall thing not a company but nfts bullish but i understand so actually this will be a good pause because i know that one probably caught people off guard given where the brand of NFTs are. Everything I just said bullish to is you've asked about very contemporary front facing going forward businesses, right? Like, like some of those people may have changes. I was thinking very heavily when you said those companies who's running them right now. So, but every one of those companies is on the right side of history right now. The world is only going more teched out advancement.

It's not going backwards, right? So, you know, what's really fascinating about that is if you're a legacy media company, you can only win if you make very smart decisions, right? Liberty Media, buying Formula One. You need to make that kind of level of brilliant decisions to stay ahead of the curve because your business models are getting crushed, right?

Being a cable network, tough business right now. No more free money from bundled subscriptions. So, so far the ones you've talked about are all going in the right direction. They may not have the same stock value. They may have bumps in the road. They may get lapped, but they're all right now heading that way. NFTs is different. The reason I said that I'm bullish on it is because NFTs have just gone through the recalibration of short-term greed, right? Just like internet stocks had to do that

in the nineties, late nineties, internet stocks, pets. that in the 90s late 90s internet stocks pets.com was worth billions of dollars with zero sales the market was right that the internet was going to be big it was just everybody got ahead of their skis the reason they said bullish on nfts is i'm going to clip this in 20 years because there's going to be five 10 NFT projects that are gonna be the Jackson Pollock and Andy Warhol and Pokemon and Hello Kitty of this generation. I work every day feverishly to make sure VeeFriends is one of those things. I want it to be the Sesame Street meets Pokemon

of this era. And I know right now, even though I don't know who she or he is, I don't know who they are, but I know for damn sure there are two artists right now making NFTs that in 20 years, everyone's going to collect and they're going to be the most sought after. What people got confused with NFTs, I don't know. And fuck, if I did, I promise you I'd be buying them. And you know what's cool about NFTs? It's on the blockchain. People would see that I'm buying them. So it's like a cool world. But I would say this, where everyone has NFTs wrong is the following.

NFTs are stuffed animals. NFT projects are beanie babies. So NFTs is a macro genre. And so everybody got caught up in the up and the down. But at the height of NFTs, I was making content saying 99% of these are going to zero. And I did it because I wanted to be, again, historically correct, and I wanted people to hear

what I was saying about why I'm bullish on NFTs. But do I think NFTs as collectibles, just like trading cards? 99% of trading cards are worthless. Michael Jordan's rookie card is worth hundreds and hundreds of thousands of dollars. 99% of trading cards are worthless, but Charizard, the best Pokemon from the first time,

is worth tons of money. Sneakers, 99% of sneakers don't sell on StockX, but the 1%, watches, 99% of watches are not worth something in secondary market, but 1% is, and art. 99% of art that's made is not Rashid Johnson, it's not Jackson Pollock, it's not Monet. Same with NFTs.

99% of collectible NFTs will be worth zero. But the 1% for the next generation will be the collectible of choice because of the way digital will work. And that's why I'm bullshitting. It'll be the Lafitte. That's right. thank you for that. I'm sad at myself and way to pick me up.

99% of wine is not collectible. Right. It's drank fucking within the year that it's made and people drink it this weekend for Easter, right? At the time of this recording. But 1% of wine is collectible and that's where people got the NFT thing wrong, but it's really interesting what you asked.

I love having a mix of bullish and bearish, but I struggle to not be excited about the companies that are at the forefront of technology. Most of the companies you just mentioned have such an obnoxious advantage on AI, and then I'm even scared a little bit back to government involvement because people are so scared of AI.

A lot of these biggest tech companies might really get lucky where the government's gonna pass certain laws around AI and they're gonna be sitting there nice and pretty because they're gonna be the ones that control it, not the open market. I'm concerned about that. Hold on to your wallets. Money Rehab will be right back. And now for some more Money Rehab.

From a business owner's perspective, this is what I struggle with. And I remember being on CNBC, we'd have analysts come on who are always available to come on TV. And we were like, if you're always available to come on TV, like what the fuck are you doing? Like, are you really a big fund manager? Cause like, how do you have time to leave whatever you're doing and come on TV? And I think about the same thing with social because I'm running a business. And so I'm supposed to be on all the time, but like I'm knee deep running a business. And so how, well, it's why I suck at streaming. Right now, my streaming, because I always want to,

if I'm going to talk the way I'm talking right now, I need to taste. I'm not talking from thesis or hypothesis or professor land. I'm streaming my office right now. My problem is, is I'm in such operations mode between VFriends and VaynerX right now that my day-to-day is so goddamn boring, I'm literally sitting at my desk,

literally doing 12 straight hours every minute on minute of meetings. I'm operating. And the entire stream is on mute because the meetings I'm having are sensitive information. And so I unmute for a second, be like, thanks for hanging out guys.

But like, so the, to answer your question, a couple of things. One, there's ways to be clever. When I started realizing that I wanted to vlog and I was like, Oh,

Casey, nice. That's so amazing. But I was like, I can't do that. So I took, and you probably remember this. I took a crazy step and hired DRock, right?

And that became a term. Like, I need a DRock. Like, that was very early. I was one of the first people that had a human being following me around 24-7. I remember you, first before that, didn't you have a human trainer following you around and taking us out of your hand?

Yes, that was the same time. That's exactly right. In first class. I literally started, this is true, I literally started vlogging, D-Rock following me, and Mike Vacanti, who I worked out with this morning, virtually, that was 10 years ago when I started getting serious about my health.

It happened at the same time. I had two human beings following me around. One was filming me, and one was making sure that I wasn't putting non-needed carbs into my fucking body. So but then how do you run a business successfully and also make sure you're doing content all the time? Because you're like content, content, content.

Well, I was gonna answer why those analysts were probably either one of two extremes. Either very smart or what you think, which is faking the funk, right? Anybody, this goes back to the premise of the book, if you're one of the top hedge fund operators, managers, or whoever you had in private equity people or public CEOs,

they were extracting the attention from CNBC. Listen, I am very busy. But if I am given the opportunity to have 30 or 40 minutes or 17 minutes, especially with Zoom, 10 minutes, that I allocate to that level of awareness of what I'm doing, that's ROI positive. So CNBC's a no-brainer.

The ones I'm more skeptical about is like they're on every little thing that has like 19 viewers, but even that they might be smart about. One of the main reasons I do podcasts is A, for the attention of the audience, which is happening right now, but B, for the recordings of it for my own content.

I like doing two for ones. You know, I love public speaking because I enjoy it, right? It's lucrative for me, but luckily for me, it's become not ROI positive to the amount of time that I need to allocate for it. One of the main reasons I still do it, there's only two reasons I still do it. I genuinely enjoy it, and I want to do it occasionally.

It's still fun for me. And two, I need content. I have a problem. To your point, I'm so operating right now that I don't have enough content. And so I need to actually allocate time for podcasts or keynotes or other things just to have content creation because my life is my production facility. I love a twofer. I love a twofer. I love a deal. So what does that look like? And what about the people

that are maybe faking the funk on social media that are like, I'm making millions of dollars in one day and this and that. Well, you know that. I mean, I think if you're rich, you don't have to say you're rich. But it's become more of a trend to say.

Look, honestly, I don't even think about that because this goes back to what we talked about earlier. That just plays itself out. You and I have been around the block at this point a little bit. We've seen people come and go. And so, like, you know, look, as long as no one's massively hurting someone, you know, like really bad stuff, then it just becomes like I surely,

I have no feelings towards anything that someone's doing that might be faking the funk. Cause they're, you know, from my perspective, you know, honestly, I go to compassion. I'm like, I hope they get into a good place where they don't have to do it this way. So explain to me who's on the team now. Meaning what's happening like for this twofer, what are we doing? Dustin's recording. We have about a 25 person team at this point, I think.

Bunch of international people. The content goes into a hub and we go through the content. Now more than ever, starting to use AI tools to go through the content and pick out the moments that we think have validity

or upside to be meaningful short form content and away we go. And I distribute through every platform. I think what's unique about me still is there's not a lot of people who go coast to coast from Snapchat to LinkedIn and everything in between. I post on every single platform at scale every day.

Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube Sh shorts, TikTok, Instagram, all of them, Twitter, like all of them. And you have that distribution plan that goes out automatically. Somebody's doing it. What tools are you using? Is it on Asana? What kind of AI? Yes. Are we just switching from Asana? Yeah, I think so. Everything you just said, and again, like literally human beings with tools, project management tools, editing tools,

whether it's CapCut or Adobe or whatever it is, honestly, I'm not even close enough to it anymore because it's really, those things are agnostic. What the key is is creating scenarios where you can capture content

and then putting as much talent or science against the ability to extract those individual creative pieces. And then what I wrote about in the book, this concept of what I call PAC, platforms and culture, right? So one of the reasons I love, let's go very nerdy and deep into details.

One of the reasons I love the greens, this is something you could crush. I apologize, I'm not sure if you're doing this or not. Green screens, you would crush green screens. It something you could crush. I apologize, I'm not sure if you're doing this or not. Green screens. You would crush green screens. It never takes so long. No, it doesn't. That's so weird you say that

because green screens is one of the biggest reasons I- On TikTok? Well, I do mine on Instagram, but I mean, let me rephrase. I reacted the way I reacted because it's one of the few things that I can do fast. Get a headline of something I have an opinion on, put it in the

green screen filter, flip the camera, look at it, speak my piece for 60 to 90 seconds and send it to the team with copy and we're done. I see, but not like several cuts. Correct. Correct. Got it. If you're talking about like the Alex or like that, no, not that. That's different. That's the, I don't even know what the proper terminology for those stop cuts like that, which is amazing. I've actually been talking shit for six months with my team. I've been wanting to do a show like that

with those hard cuts called Winding Down where I do my recap of the day while reviewing a bottle of wine. Clever name, right? But to your point that it's hard, I've been talking shit, I'm like, I'm gonna do it, I'm gonna do it. And I never do it,

because it is, especially for me after 10, 11, 13 hour day, to then go and do another. That's how I feel. That's hard. Green screen is different. And for me, I actually use a lot of mainstream media headlines

and talk over it. That's been huge. I was about to say why that's huge because that hits on the C in PAC. PAC stands for platforms and culture. Culture is pop culture and timely pop culture matters, right? And so if you can speak on social commentating on what's going on,

and then if you understand platforms, is a carousel ad better than a reels? Should you post in text should you you know instagram over tiktok or the answer is always going to be both but how does youtube shorts act differently than facebook reels like there's a lot of science to this and there's a lot of ai that's changing the game like what are you guys using is it opus or minvo like can you give us some nerdy blocking and tackling? You know what's funny?

I don't think we fully, like we're just onboarding all. I'm thinking about editing tools. All the things you just brought up or chat GPT or things of that nature are mid-journey and things of that nature. They're supporting tools for thinking. We haven't really fully, like we're on, one of the big things I worried about

and the reason we have been slow to using all of them, was the terms of service. A lot of these AI companies were very spooky to me because if we ingested our content, it wasn't clear if they could use it for the overall platform, which as you can imagine was something I needed to think through. By the way, on the record, it's not like I'm scared of that because I think it's an inevitable outcome. I have unlimited content on the internet so anyone can take it, ingest it into an AI tool and think like me or do me.

I get all that. That doesn't scare me. It was more of when the laws are written by America, the EU, the world is gonna have to address this issue when it's written. I just wanted to make sure that if I, it's one thing if someone went on the internet and took my stuff and did it, if I self deposited it in, I wanted to know the TOS, we're finally in place where it seems like the AI tools are starting to write terms of services where they say, and we have

no rights to this. You can use our tool, but it's not like we can ingest all that information and do something with it. So what is scaring you with AI? The same thing that scares me with anything in life. Nothing scares me per se, but the thing that everybody should always be vigilant on is what don't we know, right? That's all. Like, you know, the thing that scares me with AI is the same thing that scares me with sugar. There was a time when the world didn't understand sugar completely.

Now, there's a lot of science and understanding that a lot of sugar leads to dementia or Alzheimer's or a lot of other things we don't want to happen. I'm not overtly scared of the robots killing our children, but I don't eliminate it as a possibility. Anything can happen. I just don't demonize new technologies. I look at the optimism.

I don't think about all the jobs that AI is going to take out. I think about all the jobs that AI is going to create. When everyone cried about the car being invented, which was something people cried about, they said, look at all these people in the horse business that are gonna go out of business. This is real stuff.

I mean, there was, God, I hate this. I always promise myself, don't forget the number because then you can use it and I can't remember it so I'm not gonna make it up. There was a shocking amount of people in the United States of America whose jobs were directly correlated to horseshit. I'm being dead serious. The amount of people in Manhattan, Chicago, Pittsburgh, Cleveland, Baltimore, that's job in life was to go around the city and clean up horse shit because horses is how we moved around.

There was articles written about this car is terrible. What are all these people going to do? The tractor, when the tractor was invented, Nicole, the amount of people that worked on farms in this country and this world was insane. It put them all out of business. You know what that meant? They all went on to do more profound things.

Everybody who's going to lose a job because of AI in the next decade, not maybe that exact person because they may be in a life cycle where they can't, but that person represented as an 18-year-old is going to do a different job. For example, let me give you one that is gonna be a massive job.

Prompt engineering. The ability to be good at asking AI questions is going to be a skill set. So for every kid that is gonna be like, oh my God, I can't do Adobe design anymore, that's not a job. I remind that kid, first of all, I'm old enough to know when that wasn't a job either.

You took the job of the people that used to do it on paper when I was a kid. So I think people get caught up in these things without realizing how the world has worked forever. But how does that change with VaynerMedia, right? It becomes a potential vulnerability. So what's the balance between AI and people to manage this stuff?

Or do brands even want to work with agencies? Do they? I don't know. But I'm not scared of that. I'll put myself out of business before I let someone else do it. Meaning, I will adjust to the reality of the game. By the way, I can't cry about that.

We've built one of the largest global independent agencies in the world by making videos and pictures and marketing and social media and we've taken that money directly out of the Don Drapers of the world. Every dollar that VaynerMedia has is a dollar that Wieden and Kennedy

or Crispin Porter or Ogilvy or Leo Burnett or MindShare or Starcom had. So if I'm taking from someone else, I can't be a hypocrite if something's coming along that might take from me. This goes back to the earlier energy. I don't think that I am entitled to benefit from entrepreneurship.

I think I need to respect entrepreneurship and be a good entrepreneur, and then I will reap the benefits of it. It's actually my biggest problem with fake entrepreneurs that make a lot of money and then go use their money in politics to try to change laws to keep their money. I don't respect it because I think that they're a loser. I think that they used to be a young lion, but now they're an old lion. And instead of being honorable like

Obi-Wan Kenobi and just letting yourself get killed, they go try to fucking do politics and change the level of cynicism and judgment. And I don't have a lot of that in me, but there's something so romantic of pure entrepreneurship to me that I really get disappointed when I see people start from little or people that start with a base and build it big. And then when they're done being in the arena, because they don't have it anymore, they're tired. They didn't put in the energy that the young bucks are doing. They go try to change the laws in America

to benefit them. That's a fucking loser. I can promise you right now that will never be a chapter in my career. If AI is destined to come and kill me, I will Obi-Wan Kenobi that shit. I feel like you're never leaving the arena. There's no chance.

And by the way, I think that's right, comma, if I wake up one day at 81 and I'm like,'re never leaving the arena. There's no chance. And by the way, I think that's right, comma. If I wake up one day at 81 and I'm like, you know what? Fuck it. I'm leaving the arena. This now has my attention or this will bring me greater joy, then that's how I see it. Not let me go fucking be an old dude who's going to use all my power

and money to make it good for me to continue to make money when I don't deserve it. You don't see that with athletes. Wayne Gretzky's still not playing hockey, right? The merit of the game is respected and too many people in modern capitalism, like I don't, good, you've got more money because you figured it out.

Like the cynical, let me phrase, the counterpoint to what I'm saying, which I've heard from people that i've said this right to their fucking faces no that becomes the game and i'm like cool if you think so but that's bringing no value to anybody but you okay so we're not gonna see like senator you're not gonna see no that's different that's being a politician you probably won't see that. But what you definitely won't see is a Vayner super pack that bans AI because I'm scared that it's going to fuck up Vayner media. That you will not see. How often are you on your phone? Like how often are you actually checking social media?

Where are your boundaries? Well, you know, it's funny. Like things have been flow. Because I'm so office-based and, like, very meetings-based right now, I'm not on my phone a lot, believe it or not, because I'm so in meetings. I literally, Nicole, like, my normal Monday through Friday is something like 8 a.m. to 9 a.m., somewhere in that range, to minimally 7 p.m. straight booked in meetings every minute. And then I have dinner meetings, right? And so, like, you know, it's hard for me to get a lot of phone time in on that.

when I'm traveling like definitely more but I'm checking social media for the piece what I talked about in the book PCSing post-creative strategy I'm looking for sentiment of I read the comments to the content I put out to help me inform what I'm going to put out next or where is their value what didn't I see that people like or you know so know, so I am spending time on it, but less right now I'm really in meeting life. You talk a lot about your parents. You talk about your grandma. You don't talk a lot about your kids. You're a great dad. Like I know in, in real life, but why is that? I think too many parents are putting their kids on blast without their kids wanting it. I'm a very well-known person at this point in my life. I don't want to force my kids into notoriety

if they don't want it, period. Some people think like, oh, I have to be so authentic and transparent and show all the things. Like you don't show all the things. I don't show shit. I think that's unfair to children. Now, I jumped in real hard here. I do not judge others.

I don't think any, I love talking about parenting in the macro. I hate talking about it in the micro. I am not saying that every parent that's doing that is wrong. They might be 100% right. I don't know their children. I know for me that it's very important

that I don't do it for them. And so I think it's not understood yet because we've never lived through an era where everyone has the potential to be known. And I think that there's a lot of children that will end up resenting their parents for putting them on blast like that. And there's other children that will learn so much from it and it'll be awesome. I just don't know the outcome of mine and I'm not willing to take that risk. For someone who didn't get self-esteem and confidence from her parents just asking for a friend, what would you say to those types of feelings of depression and anxiety around tracking social so much? Well, that's incredibly normal. Like there was people who were older than us that had massive anxiety watching Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous

and massive envy watching MTV Cribs. And the reason I brought up those two things is I'm trying to get the parents that are listening to realize envying people of wealth or status or perceived happiness is not a new phenomenon, right? And so I would say that makes sense. I think for everyone who's listening right now who has envy or anxiety or things of that nature, that's a natural human trait that's part of almost everybody's journey. And as someone who has the

reverse, which is why I have such admiration for my parents and my circumstances, I would tell you that the quicker you get into a place of just loving yourself regardless is how fast you're gonna start being okay with it. And here's what I mean by that. I think the biggest issue in the world right now is that we put people on a pedestal that we don't know. And I'm one of those people.

People, like I get my emails and my DMs and I'm very grateful, I'm flattered. But what I want to remind everybody from me for damn sure and anyone you could be thinking, I actually want everyone to, I don't know if I want you to close your eyes, but I'd like for everyone to really think about this. I mean like in the room. I want you to think about who you admire that you don't know if I want you to close your eyes, but I'd like for everyone to really think about this. I mean, like in the room.

I want you to think about who you admire that you don't know, right? Like real talk, Rihanna, LeBron, I don't know, right? Okay, let's do a dramatic pause for a second. Think about the person. Good. Do you know how many things they suck at? Do you realize that they have right this second

a child, a brother, a sister, a parent that could sit with you for an hour and shit on that person so heavy for what they're not good at, what they don't do. This is human life. I think for the people that you're talking about, which is almost everyone who's listening, why are you putting someone else on a pedestal and shitting on yourself?

Stay tuned for the second episode where Gary talks about his relationship with money. We also play a game of financial never have I ever that I have to say really surprised me. And I have known Gary forever. potentially have your questions answered on the show or even have a one-on-one intervention with me. And follow us on Instagram at Money News and TikTok at Money News Network for exclusive video content. And lastly, thank you. No, seriously, thank you. Thank you for listening and for investing in yourself, which is the most important investment you can make.