Motley Fool Hidden Gems Investing - Sahil Bloom on the 5 Types of Wealth
Episode Date: October 25, 2025Sahil Bloom writes The Curiosity Chronicle newsletter and is the managing partner of SRB Ventures, a venture investment firm. He is also the author of The 5 Types of Wealth: A Transformative Guide to... Design Your Dream Life, which became a New York Times bestseller. In this rebroadcast of an interview from earlier this year, Motley Fool personal finance expert Robert Brokamp caught up with Bloom for a conversation about: -Why social, physical, mental, and time wealth are just as important as financial wealth-The transformative power of creating an energy calendar-What social media gets wrong about health advice-Why to never think twice about an investment in yourself Host: Robert BrokampGuest: Sahil BloomEngineers: Rick Engdahl and Bart Shannon Advertisements are sponsored content and provided for informational purposes only. The Motley Fool and its affiliates (collectively, "TMF") do not endorse, recommend, or verify the accuracy or completeness of the statements made within advertisements. TMF is not involved in the offer, sale, or solicitation of any securities advertised herein and makes no representations regarding the suitability, or risks associated with any investment opportunity presented. Investors should conduct their own due diligence and consult with legal, tax, and financial advisors before making any investment decisions. TMF assumes no responsibility for any losses or damages arising from this advertisement. We’re committed to transparency: All personal opinions in advertisements from Fools are their own. The product advertised in this episode was loaned to TMF and was returned after a test period or the product advertised in this episode was purchased by TMF. Advertiser has paid for the sponsorship of this episode Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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The question that I love to ask people to raise awareness around this concept is,
would you trade lives with Warren Buffett?
He's worth $130 billion.
He has access to absolutely anyone in the world.
He reads and learns for a living.
He flies around on a Boeing business jet.
It sounds pretty good, but you would not trade lives with him,
simply because he is 95 years old.
there's no way you would agree to trade the amount of time that he has left for all of that money.
I'm Robert Brokamp and that was Saul Hill Bloom. He writes the Curiosity Chronicle newsletter and
is the author of The Five Types of Wealth, a transformative guide to design your dream life.
We're rebroadcasting that conversation with Bloom from earlier this year since we fools were busy
this past week with our annual Fool Fest gathering. So enjoy this discussion about focusing on the true
priorities of your life while you still can. How to simplify building financial wealth and
what Bloom learned from having Apple CEO Tim Cook as a mentor. One of the key messages of your book
is, frankly, life is fragile, time is fleeting, and we should use those truths to make the most
of the time that we have while we still have it. And there was an event in your life when it really
hit home for you. So tell us about that lunch you had with a friend back in May of 2021.
I think it's important to set the context for that one conversation, that one event. And the
context is that I spent the first seven years of my career chasing the definition of success that
we are all told to chase. I was running the race that we're told is the race that we should want
to run. I was working in finance. I was trying to get promoted. I was doing the things that
you're supposed to do to live the successful, happy life. And along that path, as I got more
and more focused on money being the sole means to achieving that success, achieving that happiness,
I started to see other areas of my life deteriorating, namely my relationships. I was
living far away from my family, from my parents, from my sister. I had started to see my health
suffer. I was drinking six, seven nights a week. All of these other areas of my life had started
to show cracks, while on the surface, it very much appeared like I was winning the game,
the game that we're all told to play. I was getting promoted. I was making money. I had the
things. But on the outside looking in, what seemed like I was winning the game, to me,
I started to have this sensation that if that was what winning felt like, I had to be playing the
wrong game. And that all came to a head for me in May of 2021. This one conversation, as you said,
I sat down with an old friend for a drink and he asked me how I was doing. And I told him that it
had started to get difficult living so far away from my parents who were on the East Coast. We
were living in California, 3,000 miles away. And I had noticed for the first time that they were
getting older, that they were slowing down, that they weren't going to be around forever.
And he asked how old they were. And I said, mid-60s. And he asked how often I saw them.
And I admitted that it had gotten to the point where I was seeing them about once a year.
And he just looked at me and said, okay, so you're going to see your parents 15 more times before
they die. And I just remember feeling like I had been punched in the gut. The idea that
the amount of time you have left with the people that you care about most in the world
is that finite, that countable, that you can literally place it onto a few hands,
just shook me to the core. And in that moment, I realized my entire definition of success,
of what it meant to build a wealthy life, was incomplete. That I had been chasing this one
thing of making money at the expense of all of these other things in our lives. And it was that
moment that sparked a whole bunch of changes in my wife and my life. The next day, we had a
conversation about what we wanted to build as our center, what our true north really was, if you
will. And within 45 days, we had made a dramatic change. I'd left my job, we had sold our house
in California, and we had moved 3000 miles across the country to live closer to both of our sets of
parents. And in that one decision, there was a really powerful realization, which is you are in
much more control of your time than you think. We had taken an action and fundamentally created time
with the people that we love. That number 15 more times before they die is now in the hundreds. I
mean, I see my parents multiple times a month. They're a huge part of my son, their grandson's
life. We had taken an action and created time for the things that we really care about. That was
the spark that changed everything. So you had the financial wealth, you were doing very well,
you were working in private equity. And you decided, at this point, to, I guess, to put it
in economic terms, to diversify into other types of wealth. And that's what your book is about,
right? The five types of wealth, it's time wealth, social wealth, mental wealth, physical wealth,
and financial wealth. You save financial for the last in the book. But let's talk about that first,
because after all, we're a financial podcast, but also I think some people have to get to a
certain level of comfortability with their finances to say, it's okay for me to devote
a little bit more of my energy to some of these other things. You obviously had to do that,
right? You left a lucrative job, had to take a bit of a risk. So how do you suggest people
reach that level of comfortability or maybe even reframe how they think about their personal
finances and how much they actually need before they can devote energies to other parts of their
lives. This is a very important point because the most common response when you hear someone
talking about different types of wealth or what it means to build a good life is like, oh, okay,
you made money and now you're saying money doesn't buy happiness. And very much the book
rejects that idea. Money does directly buy happiness, especially in the early days of your
life. This is Maslow's hierarchy of needs. In the early years of your life, money is what enables
you to take care of your basic needs, food, shelter. You're able to take care of the people
around you, create basic pleasures and experiences, a couple of vacations a year. Money very directly
buys happiness in the early part of that curve in your life. The challenge is that once you get
beyond that early part of the curve, you have patterned yourself into thinking that an incremental
unit of money equals an incremental unit of happiness, because it did in those early years.
But that equation no longer holds beyond a certain point. But when you've created that pattern in
your mind, we're like a mouse, you know, the money bell rings, and you get the cheese, and you keep
following that over and over again, when it no longer actually holds true. And so the way that
I frame it in the book and the way that I frame it when I actually work with people is money isn't
nothing. It simply can't be the only thing. Your wealthy life may be enabled by money, but it will
be defined by all of these other things. So to answer your question more specifically, in the
early years, as you are getting on the early part of that curve, the focus needs to be on creating
value. My fundamental belief is that money earned is a byproduct of value created. I think that the
vast majority of financial content out there over complicates what is actually pretty simple,
which is you are going to receive value in response to value that you create. You can do
that in a variety of different ways. It doesn't matter if you are working in a nine to five job
working for someone else, or an entrepreneur, the reality is that your job is to identify problems,
solve those problems, and then scale those solutions. That is how you create value. It
is working on one of those three things. And when you create value, and when you scale the value
you're creating, you will capture a portion of that value in the form of money.
I was happy to see you mention The Millionaire Next Door in your book. It was a big book back
in the 90s, kind of faded a little bit. So probably a lot of people haven't heard about it,
co-written by Thomas Stanley and William Danko. What were your lessons from that book?
Really, the most important lesson that I draw from that book is that we overcomplicate what
it means to build a life of financial wealth, and that the path to building financial wealth
does not have to come through these extreme risks or these extreme elegant shots, if you will.
I think that in the age of social media in particular, one of the greatest risks to you building the life you want is that you get caught up in these like complexity traps, if you will, meaning the complex, sexy solutions are the things that get clicks and shares on social media.
Like if you and I were to go to a cocktail party and we're standing in a circle and people ask,
oh, what are you guys doing for investing right now? If I say I'm dollar cost averaging into
index funds, people are going to very quickly move on to the person who is talking about their
crypto covered call arbitrage strategy, right? Like it sounds more interesting. So everyone's
going to be attracted to that thing. That's what happens on social media. That thing gets shared.
And unfortunately, the path to actually building a life of financial abundance, to financial
wealth, to financial security, to financial independence, is actually through executing
the daily boring basics over long periods of time.
Morgan Housel has talked about this before.
When you look at the equation around compounding, time is the exponent.
Time is the thing that matters.
So doing the simple boring basics on a daily basis over long periods of time is how you
generate financial wealth.
And I think that Millionaire Next Door is one of the greatest examples of just bringing that
idea to life in a very clear and visceral way. You talked about conceptualizing the gap between
your expenses and your income as something to be tracked. And I think that's an interesting
concept. A lot of people know they should track their expenses. They should track their income.
But that gap, you want that gap to be growing because it's almost like a superpower.
more. That gap is your number one weapon in your journey to building financial independence. The
reason I focus on the gap is because the gap is what you can invest into those compounders. The
gap is what you are actually able to stack over long periods of time. And the thing that people
miss here is it's great to be growing your income. It is great if your income is growing 5%, 10% a
year as your skills build, you're leveraging those skills, you're generating more income.
But if your expenses are growing at the exact same rate, or if your expenses are growing faster than
your income is growing, that does you no good. You are not actually increasing the size of that gap
over periods of time in order to stack more and more into your compounders. And so what we need
to think about as we grow our income is how can I manage my expenses not to just be flat, because
yes, we're going to, you know, increase our costs as we improve our standard of life, our quality
of life, but to make sure that that rate of growth of your expenses is lower than the rate
of growth of your income so that that gap is scaling over time. Yeah, a good rule of thumb
for that is every time you have an increase in income, whether it's a raise or anything else,
enjoy half, but use the other half to increase your savings rate so that gradually over life,
you are saving more and investing more. One final thought on your discussion of financial wealth.
You talked about the single greatest investment in the world, and that is to invest in yourself.
Tell us a little bit about that.
Yeah, when I graduated college, I was asking my dad for what advice he had for me as I
entered the quote unquote real world.
And the piece of advice he gave me was to never think twice about investments in yourself.
And that qualified as books, quality food, fitness, mental health, personal development.
The idea is that those are all things that can be easily viewed as expenses, but in reality,
they are investments into you. And those investments pay dividends for a long, long time.
So to make a rule to never think twice about those investments, because they are the things
that are going to contribute to your long-term growth, whether that's in income or life growth.
That's a good segue into the other types of wealth, because a lot of them will involve
maybe some extra expenses, but they're probably good investments. So let's move on to those other
types. Tell us about time wealth. Time wealth is fundamentally about freedom, freedom to choose
how you spend your time, who you spend it with, where you spend it, when you trade it for other
things. It's about understanding that time is your most precious asset, the one thing that you cannot
get back. The question that I love to ask people to raise awareness around this concept is, would
you trade lives with Warren Buffett? He's worth $130 billion. He has access to absolutely anyone
in the world. He reads and learns for a living. He flies around on a Boeing business jet. It sounds
pretty good, but you would not trade lives with him simply because he is 95 years old. There's no
way you would agree to trade the amount of time that he has left for all of that money. And on
the flip side, he would give anything to be in your shoes, to have the amount of time that you
have left. So with that one simple question, you've recognized, you've created awareness around the
fact that your time has quite literally incalculable value. And yet, on a daily basis, how much are we
really treating our time that way? How much of our time are we wasting scrolling around on these
things, comparing ourselves to other people, leaning into things that drain our energy,
spending time with people who drain our energy, truly disregarding that one most precious asset
that we really have. You provide some tools in the book on helping determine where you should
spend your time because there's lots of stuff on the list. One of those is the energy calendar,
which I found very helpful. Tell us about that. This is my favorite tool, and it's one that anyone
can go do right now, which makes it really useful. The idea, fundamentally, is that your
outcomes in life follow your energy. When you are spending time on things that create energy,
meaning they lift you up, you feel interested, you feel pulled towards them, your outcomes follow.
When you're working on things that create energy in your life, that is when you generate the 5,
10, 100,000x outcomes that create those step function improvements or changes in your life.
But the first step is identifying what actually creates energy in your life.
The energy calendar is the strategy I've developed and that other people have used to actually do that, to create that awareness.
It's very simple.
So at the end of the day, let's say it's a Monday, look at your calendar from the day.
Color code the activities according to whether they created energy.
Mark it green, meaning it lifted you up, you felt interested, you felt pulled into it.
You mark those green.
if it was neutral, mark it yellow, and if it was energy draining, if you felt physically drained
from the activity, mark it red. If you do that for a week, you zoom out at the end of the week,
you will have a very clear visual perspective on the types of activities that create energy
versus drain energy in your life. That perspective, that awareness, then allows you to make slow,
steady incremental changes over a period of time to try to lean more into those energy creators
and lean away from the energy drainers. That applies, by the way, to professional pursuits
just as much as to people. We all know those people in our lives who lift us up, who we feel
energized from spending time around versus the people in our life that we feel drained from
being around, the people who make us feel like we need to take a shower after spending time with
them. Your life will improve if you spend more time with those energy creators and less time
with the energy drainers. Turning back to another Buffett related story. Tell us about the two list
exercise, which I had heard about in the past, but I was so I was I was very happy to be reminded of
it. Yeah, this is one of my favorites. And this is a story of Buffett going on a flight with his
private pilot. And he's having a conversation with his pilot. And his pilot is basically bemoaning
the fact that he has so many different things that he's trying to focus on. He's not making
progress on these things in his life. And so Buffett asks him to make a list of all of his
professional priorities, all the things that he's focused on. And Mike Flint is the guy's name. He
makes this list and it's 25 things. And Buffett says, okay, now take that list and circle the top
five, like make circle the things that are your true top five priorities on this whole list.
Flint takes the list, and it takes him a little longer.
That's a challenging exercise, but he circles the top five.
And then he brings it back to Buffett.
Buffett says, okay, these are your top five priorities.
Now, what are you going to do with the other 20?
And Flint says, well, I'll turn to those once I'm kind of done working on these five.
And Buffett says, no, you're wrong.
Those other 20 things are your avoid at all costs list.
You have your priorities, which are the five, and then the other 20, which are simply a
distraction.
that framing completely changed my life because it's the recognition that when you have too many
priorities, you have none. You are simply chasing all of these little distractions in your life
that are just pulling your energy and attention away from the few things that really matter.
That rule and that kind of system for actually framing up your priorities is a really good way
to narrow in in your professional life and in your personal life on what are those like three
to five things that are really going to drive the ball forward in those areas in your life,
and then enable you to actually avoid all the shiny objects and distractions that are
drawing upon your attention.
Let's move on to another type of wealth, social wealth.
I think most people know that it's good to be around people, but tell us a little bit
more about your take and why it's so important.
Social wealth is all about relationships.
It's about the few close, deep relationships, and then your connection to something bigger
than yourself, your communities, local, regional, spiritual, what have you.
The reason social wealth is so important is grounded in a scientific one.
The Harvard study of adult development, I would argue, is the most important study of
the last 100 years, followed the lives of 1,300 original participants and then 700 of
their descendants over the course of 85 years.
They found that the single greatest predictor of physical health at age 80 was relationship satisfaction at age 50. Not what you had for your blood pressure, your cholesterol levels, not your smoking or drinking habits. How you felt about your relationships was what determined how well you aged.
And so in that learning, we find the key.
This is what we need to be investing in on a daily basis.
And unfortunately, relationships are the first thing
to fall by the wayside when we get busy.
We get busy in our careers,
and the first thing that we drop the ball on
is the annual trip with our friends.
It's calling our mom.
It's not texting the friends anymore.
It's not finding time to get present energy
with your wife, with your kids.
Those are the things that we drop the ball on
when in fact, those are the things that are going to contribute to the life that we are actually
trying to build. So the mindset shift that we all need to have here is to recognize that investments
in your relationships compound just as well as any financial investment. We know, everyone listening
to this podcast knows compounding is the eighth wonder of the world, right? Albert Einstein
reportedly said that. It's true. Financially, put away $50 today or $100 today, that's better than
zero because it's going to compound. Same exact rule applies to your relationships. Sending the
text to the person when you're thinking about them is going to compound in your life. Calling
your mom for two minutes during your commute is going to compound in your life. Doing the one
annual trip with your old friends is going to compound in your life. Anything above zero
compounds in all of these areas of your life. Now, so to double down on that, I mean, that was
the Harvard study, often known as the Harvard Happiness Study as well, found that it is good
for your health to have strong relationships. And we are hearing more and more about the opposite,
right? Loneliness is bad for your health, as bad as smoking or not having any exercise.
When you talked about social wealth, you break it down into depth, breadth, and earned status.
Tell us a little bit about those.
Depth is about the few close, deep relationships.
This is who you can call at three in the morning when you're down and out, when everything
has hit the fan, when nothing is working, when you're really feeling lost.
Who can you pick up the phone and call that is going to pick up?
And you might have a couple of people, and that's great.
Those are your true, I call them front row people, the people that are going to be in
the front row at your funeral.
That is true depth. That depth is built through vulnerability. It's built through shared struggle.
It's built through crawling through the mud with people over long periods of time. Breath is about
your connection to broader circles, the acquaintances, the looser friends, the communities,
local, regional, spiritual, et cetera. That is what extends you beyond yourself. That is acting
in the service of others. And then earned status. This is a really important piece because when we
talk about social wealth, when we talk about social connection, we need to understand that
representing ourself in the context of these social hierarchies that form is an important
social mechanism. Status is a very useful social mechanism. It's how we actually organize as
societies. But unfortunately, in modern society, the way that most people seek to acquire status
is through buying it. It's through the purchase of the fancy thing or the car or the watch or
the house or the club membership. People are trying to buy the respect and admiration of
their peers. And unfortunately, what you find over and over again, and what C.S. Lewis wrote
about in an essay that he entitled The Inner Ring, is that those things are fleeting. You buy
them and they're sort of like a mirage. You think that they are going to garner the lasting respect
and admiration of your peers, but they are just going to be like peeling an onion, as C.S. Lewis
writes. You're just going to keep peeling it away until there's nothing left. There's always going
to be a bigger boat, as I like to say. Yeah, a good way you put it is basically
earned status is something that the richest person in the world could not buy and have by tomorrow.
Yeah, it's a very important way to think about it. It's like, what are you actually chasing?
What are you working on?
You know, and it applies to your career and your career decisions as well.
When you take a job, ask yourself before you take it, do I actually want this job or do
I want other people to see me having this job?
That is a pretty simple and very powerful separation between those two things.
Because sometimes you are doing things purely for the benefit of other people.
You want the status that you think is going to be conferred upon you from doing this thing.
not actually the utility that you are going to be getting from doing it.
If you decide to get married, who you get married to is going to be going to be one of the biggest
components of your social wealth. And you talked about in your book, how you ask people who are
married for 40, 50, sometimes 60 years for their advice. What were some of the tips that they
passed along? This was an amazing exercise. I'm a big believer in like wisdom from the end,
if you will, turning to people who have experienced much more time and experienced
much more ups and downs as a source for these ideas and for this sort of timeless wisdom that
exists. And so I got to spend time with all of these people that have been married 50, 60,
70 years in certain cases, and ask them for what advice they wish they knew.
I think one of the most interesting pieces was marriage cannot always be 50-50. Sometimes it's
going to be 90-10. Sometimes it's going to be 10-90. But the important point is that it always
adds up to 100. I thought that was a brilliant articulation of something that I have experienced
in my own life, that complementarity is much more important than anything else. You need to come
together to be a complementary unit that adds up to 100 in your life. And I think that that is just
a really important way to think about your partnership and your collaboration with the
person that you're going to go through life's ups and downs with. I think my favorite tip from that
part was the person who said, never stop dating. The quote was, marriages don't get boring. You
stop trying. So I'll keep that in mind for a while. Let's move on to mental wealth. Tell us
about that. Mental wealth is about purpose. It's about growth and it's about creating the space
necessary to wrestle with some of these bigger, unanswerable questions in your life, whether
through spirituality, meditation, solitude, what have you. Mental wealth is easily overlooked
in our path as humans. We very rarely zoom out and actually think about the things that we truly
want to do. We very rarely think about the races that we want to run. What is our race? We walk
down these paths that we've been handed, that we've been indoctrinated into. And we do not
create the zoom out. We do not create the perspective to actually think about whether
we want to be running these races. You talk about it in some ways in terms of
somewhat religious terms. You mentioned Dharma, which comes from the ancient Hindu traditions.
You mentioned Ikigai, which is a Japanese term most associated with the people in the island
in Okinawa, one of the blue zones in the world where people tend to live longer. I, as someone
who was once studying to be a priest, might think of it in terms of my vocation, but it is more than
just my purpose is to make a paycheck. You describe it as the intersection of what you love to do,
what you're good at, and what the world needs. Yeah, this is really important because the most
important piece of that articulation is how you define world. And a lot of the debate over purpose
fundamentally comes down to people that define world differently. So if you define world as
being the actual world, you are going to go off and want to do something enormously grand and
ambitious, right? Like Elon Musk probably defines world as all of humanity. And so he wants to
create an interplanetary species. And that is how he defines his purpose on this earth. That is one
definition that you could have. But my world, and frankly, how I really think about it at my most
core atomic level, is my world is my wife and son. And what they need from me is to provide,
to create the world where we are able to have our needs met, take care of my wife and son in that
way. Under that definition, it is very clear to me that that is my purpose. At the most atomic
level, I need to make sure that I am providing for these people that I love and care about in my
life. That does not have to be that my purpose is my work. And that is an important clarification
that I think a lot of people need to hear. We've been convinced and you've been told over and over
again that you have to find purpose in your work. I disagree. Your purpose can be something that
exists on a higher order than your work. Your work can be in service of that purpose without
it actually being the same thing. I spent all this time during the book research process with this
man who works in a factory. He works on an assembly line. He puts together widgets basically
for eight, 10 hours a day. He hates his job. He doesn't like showing up and doing this assembly
line monotonous work day in, day out. But he defines his purpose as being the type of father
that he never had, as providing for his boys in the way that he didn't feel his father showed up
for him. And that allows him to draw energy every single day when he goes to his job, because he
connects his work to the service of this higher order purpose as a father and as a provider.
That is a really beautiful thing, because he gets energy every single day doing something
that he doesn't necessarily intrinsically like, because it connects to his higher order purpose.
You provide a tool or a system for helping people maybe zero in on where their purpose might be. And you talked about Gay Hendricks' zone of genius, high competency, high interest. Tell us a little bit about that.
I kind of created when I first started working and I was starting to progress in my career,
this idea of a pursuit map and a pursuit map. If you just think about it visually,
and there's a breakdown of this in the book is this two by two matrix where you have competency
on one axis from low competency to high competency and energy on the other axis from low energy to
high energy. Fundamentally, you are going to find the best outcomes when you are spending time on
things that you have high energy for, meaning you feel this intrinsic interest and energy,
and high competency, things that you are good at, things that feel easy to you that are maybe hard
to others. That circle, that kind of quadrant is really your zone of genius, Gay Hendricks concept
of this zone of genius. When you spend time in your zone of genius, you are going to find that
the results follow. And the interesting thing when you think about this on an organizational level
with your teams, with people you work with, is that everyone's is different. So the ideal scenario
is that you are actually working with people who have complementary zones of genius. Like my chief
of staff on my team has a very complementary zone of genius to me, which is an incredible thing as
a team, because the things that I am not good at or that I get low energy from are things that he
has high energy and competency for. And so our zones of genius actually match in a very complementary
way to allow us to continue to progress as an organization. You also highlighted in that part
of your book, the zone of danger. This is where you have high competence, but it does not give
you energy. It drains you because you have high competence, so you might get acknowledgement for
it. You might get paid for it, but in the end, you do it after five, 10, 20 years, and you may
regret spending your life doing that. Yeah, this is the trap. This is the trap in a lot of
corporate tracks in particular, because humans love getting recognition. We love getting patted
on the back. That's normal. You start having that when you're a little kid. I have a three-year-old
son. He loves when we clap for him when he does things, right? That persists throughout your
entire life. When you get the claps from the crowd, you like that. That feels good. There's
a dopamine hit. The problem is when you're getting those claps and you're getting the
cheers from the crowd for something that you fundamentally don't get energy from,
That feels like chewing glass.
You can be good at it, but you don't want to spend your whole life doing it.
And if you allow yourself to exist in that world, you're going to keep getting progressed.
You're going to get promoted.
You're going to get those paths on the back.
But if it's not something that is creating energy for you, you are living someone else's
life.
You are walking down someone else's path.
What I often say in this regard is that the worst thing in the world is not being on a
bad path.
The worst thing in the world
is being on a good path that isn't yours.
A bad path screams at you every single day
to get off of it.
You know, I mean, it's abundantly clear to you
that you need to make a change,
that you need to step off,
you need to do something different.
But the good path that isn't yours,
that is the zone of danger.
That is something where you are getting paid,
you're getting promoted,
there's all sorts of reasons to stay on that path,
but you know that it's not your hero's journey,
It's not your path in life.
And so stepping off of it is very difficult.
Every year that you stay, there's more gravity,
there's more momentum.
So we all need to think about
what are the slight adjustments that we can make
if we are on that good path that doesn't feel like ours?
What are the ways that we can start testing
into those higher energy areas?
What are the ways that we can make adjustments
to the things that we're currently doing
so that we do feel more energy around them?
Let's move on to the final type of wealth,
and that is physical wealth.
And I'm going to kick this one off with a quote from an 80-year-old father of one of
your friends, treat your body like a house you have to live in for another 70 years.
My absolute favorite.
Look, physical wealth is about your health and vitality.
This is about taking the controllable actions on a daily basis to fight the natural decay
that your body is going to go through as you age.
that quote is a powerful articulation because it is the recognition that your body is quite
literally your house and making the daily investments in a solid foundation making the
minor repairs along the way recognizing that if you ignore them minor repairs become major repairs
over time that is a really important way to think about your physical wealth is to to understand
that we need to invest in some tiny way on a daily basis in this area if we want to avoid
real big challenges later in life. You included a quote from Peter Atiyah,
the author of the great book Outlive. I'll just read it here. The data are unambiguous. Exercise
not only delays actual death, but also prevents both cognitive and physical decline better than
any other intervention. I think for a lot of people, they may not be too afraid of death or
that eventually it has to come at some point. But I think most of us are afraid of what happens
between now and death. We don't want to be in a situation where we saved our entire lives for
retirement, but then we get to retirement and we're too immobile or too in pain to enjoy all
the things we wanted to do. Or even worse, our mind starts to go down and we can't enjoy those
final years. And exercise is one of the best things you can do to prevent that.
over and over again you see in studies that this is true this has been proven out unambiguously
as peter attia said i would argue though that it is difficult for most people to think that far in
the future one of the reasons people do not invest in their physical wealth in the way they should
is because if you're a 40 year old if you're a 50 year old you don't really think about your
80 year old self and you know how you're going to feel how you're going to be able to take care of
your family, you know, how you're going to be experiencing life. The thing that I think is
important for people to think about is how it makes you feel today. The reality is that exercise
is one of those things where you are doing a hard thing right now that actually contributes to every
other area of your life almost immediately. People that exercise, that take care of themselves,
show up in the world better in every other area of their life. It is a catalyst for the other
areas of your life because it is doing a hard thing that proves to you that you are capable
of taking an action and creating a desired outcome. When you're feeling lost, when you're
feeling stuck in your life, it is because you have lost that sense of agency. You have lost
the sensation that you are capable of taking an action and creating an outcome. Engaging in
activities related to your physical wealth is the fastest way to reassume that agency, to recognize
that you are capable of doing that.
That if you, for 30 straight days,
go out for a 30-minute walk
and eat mostly whole, unprocessed foods,
you're going to look and feel much better.
That is recognizing that you are in control.
You are at the steering wheel of your own life.
And when you do that,
you start having ripple effects
into every other area of your life.
You start engaging with the world differently.
So there is actually a present, right now benefit
to how you make money,
to how your relationships are,
to your mental health,
to all of these other areas of your life.
So you don't even need to think 30 years in the future
to recognize the benefits of this.
I understand exercise can be hard,
but you can feel the benefits right now.
You make the point in the book
that there's a lot of information out there
about exercise and nutrition and gadgets and toys,
and that a lot of that you don't really need.
In fact, you suggest the Pareto principle,
the 80-20 rule, when it comes to your physical wealth.
It's just basically moving, eating right, and sufficient recovery, and it's pretty simple stuff.
Yeah, and it's unfortunate because it's probably even more stark than the Pareto. It's probably more like 95.5 at some point within this domain.
Social media has allowed for the propagation of the longest tail of information in this domain, of all of the crazy, sexy, fancy, complex solutions,
generally speaking, because someone is then selling you
that solution on the other end.
They're telling you, oh, you have to do this, this, this,
this, and this in order to be a healthy person.
And oh, by the way, here's my product or my course
on how to do that exact thing.
The reality is you can get 90, 95% of the benefit
totally free.
Move your body for 30 minutes a day,
eat whole, unprocessed foods, 80% of your meals,
sleep seven hours a night on average.
Do that, you're ahead of the vast majority of people
within this domain.
you talk about the power of waking up early, at least for yourself. You wrote, you rarely find an
early riser who isn't winning. Tell us about that. And tell us about how, if you get up early and go
to the gym, you might just end up with a mentor who happens to be the CEO of one of the most
valuable companies in the world. You got to tell us that story.
I started working my first job in 2014. And, you know, I was going to be working in finance. And
I knew that the hours were going to be long. It was going to be a lot of late nights. I had played
baseball in college. I was a pitcher at Stanford and I wanted to keep up my health habits. And so
I knew that if I was going to get to the gym, it was going to have to be early before going to work
because the day was going to be too chaotic. So I started by getting to the gym at 4.45 every
morning because I had to get done. I had to get into the office by 6.30 to be there when I wanted
to be there. And it turns out not that many people do that. So there was a group of five to seven
people that you would see every single day that were crazy enough to show up at the gym. It was
the Equinox in Palo Alto at 4.45 in the morning every day. One of those people happened to be
Tim Cook, the then new CEO of Apple. And for the first six months, I had no idea who he was.
I would chat with him every single morning because there was only five people there. We'd spend time.
And then six months in, someone came up to me after I was talking to him and said like,
oh, do you know who that is? And I was like, I don't know. That's the guy that I talked to in
the mornings, they were like, that's Tim Cook, the CEO of Apple. And I just thought, oh, crap.
Like, I have probably been saying the dumbest things to this guy. And he's the CEO of one of
the biggest companies in the world. Like, I must sound like an idiot. Following up on that, I ended
up asking him if he'd be willing to get breakfast, provide some guidance, insight as I was starting
my career. I wasn't looking for a job. I wasn't asking for anything in particular. He took me up
on it and ended up building an incredible bond and relationship, friendship, mentorship over
the years. He was one of the big driving forces behind my decision to go down this path, creating,
writing. He was the first endorsement for this book and has just been an incredible mentor and
guide on this whole journey. That's such a great story. Let's close here with my final two
questions. So the truth is someone who reads your book, they're going to leave with tons of really
good, actionable ideas, many ideas. So how do you suggest that someone decides which to prioritize?
I'd say that the first step that I would tell anyone is to establish sort of a baseline of
where you are currently in your life. There's this idea in the book of this wealth score,
which is sort of a way of looking at the broader pillars in your life. With that,
you get a very clear sense of the areas where you want to focus. Once you have that,
all it comes down to is just do one tiny thing. My fundamental perspective here on life is that
dopamine from information gathering is a dangerous drug. Too many people are getting all of their
dopamine from information gathering. We're reading the book and then thinking that we did something,
when in reality, you need to go and take action on something in order to actually make progress.
So what I want people to do is go and do one tiny thing.
It doesn't really matter what it is.
There's 50 plus different systems, ideas, actions that you can go take.
Go start on one of them.
If you listen to this conversation, go do the energy calendar.
It'll take you five minutes today, but it sparks the action and that action creates
momentum.
The momentum is what fundamentally could change your life for the better.
the final lines of your book are quote you have the tools you have the information only one thing
remains do you want to take a leap of faith so what would you say to someone who is almost ready
to make a significant change in their life but they just need a little nudge just a little bit
more confidence? Go do it. At the end of the day, the truth is that fear comes from inexperience,
not incapability. You're afraid because you haven't done it yet, not because you can't do it.
And inexperience then is the problem to be solved. And it is only solved through having the courage
to act. So go and take the action, go do the tiny thing, whatever that might be. And that tiny thing
may just change your life. Well, Sahil, this has been a fascinating conversation. Thank you so
much for joining us. Thank you. I appreciate it. As always, people on the program may have
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