Muscle for Life with Mike Matthews - Adam Schafer on the Keys to Building a Successful Business
Episode Date: September 4, 2024What’s the secret to building a successful business that lasts? How do you overcome the common challenges that entrepreneurs face? And what steps can you take to ensure your business continues to g...row and thrive? In this episode, I sit down with Adam Schafer, a prominent figure in the fitness industry with more than 15 years of experience. Starting as a personal trainer, Adam co-founded Mind Pump, the #1 rated fitness podcast on Apple with over 2 million downloads per month. Adam delves into the challenges entrepreneurs face and how to turn setbacks into opportunities for growth, offering practical advice on building a thriving business in the competitive world of health and fitness. In this interview, you’ll learn . . . How to reframe business setbacks as opportunities for growth and innovation The critical role of networking and relationship-building in accelerating business success Why embracing extreme ownership is essential for effective leadership and scaling your business Key lessons in hiring and managing teams for sustainable business growth And more . . . So, if you want to understand how to navigate the challenges of entrepreneurship and build a successful business, click play and join the conversation. --- Timestamps: (04:41) Is inconsistency in friendships a personal trait or a byproduct of success? (09:48) Will you ever consider slowing down in your business pursuits? (12:42) In the future, how will you balance financial achievements with non-financial achievements? (24:34) How do you evaluate the significance and magnitude of your goals? (26:24) Can you share more about the new service you launched for fitness professionals? (40:24) What lessons have you learned from hiring the wrong people in business? (50:12) How can you transform past mistakes into valuable lessons for future growth? (59:34) How can you build friendships with successful people even if you don’t feel successful yourself? (01:13:25) How can surrounding yourself with uplifting individuals lead to greater success and personal growth? --- Mentioned on the Show: The Little Black Book of Workout Motivation Phoenix Legion Training Quiz Mind Pump Media Mind Pump Trainers
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Probably one of the things I am most proud of is that year over year we have grown.
And to grow, and you know, to grow consistently year over year for 10 years in any space is
really, really difficult to do.
And it's not like a few bucks, we're into millions of dollars.
So to continue to incrementally go up by millions of dollars every year, I mean, I'm really
proud of that.
And I'm proud we've been able to do that. And there's a part of me that the natural side of me is to share and to help others
do that. And there's been kind of a lid on me for a long time about teaching and helping that because
part of that kind of has to I have to kind of share some of that stuff. Hello, hello, I am Mike
Matthews. This is Muscle for Life. Thank you for joining me today for an interview
I did with my buddy, Adam Schaefer,
who is one of the co-founders and co-hosts
of the Mind Pump podcast,
the biggest fitness podcast in the world.
And as you will hear about in today's episode,
one of the biggest fitness podcast businesses,
in fact, probably the biggest, I don't know of any biggest fitness podcast businesses in fact, probably the biggest I don't know
of any other fitness podcast that has as successful of a business as mind pump that generates
not just as much revenue, but more importantly, as much profit.
Now the success of the mind pump business isn't something the boys have talked all that much
publicly about because it wasn't really relevant
to their mission with the podcast,
which was to teach people how to build muscle,
lose fat, get healthy in an enjoyable and sustainable way.
However, now that Mind Pump is offering a course
and a community specifically for trainers
who want to build a business.
Adam finally has an excuse to talk more about the part of mind pump that is most interesting to him,
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like Audible, Amazon, iTunes, Kobo and Google Play. Mr. Adam Schaefer, it's great to see you again.
Always good seeing you, man.
We were due to catch up as we say,
just because for people listening.
So Adam, we always enjoy any discussion that we have.
We just live busy lives and end up in our routines.
I understand, I was telling Adam,
you know this, I was telling Adam that, you know, this, I was telling Adam that,
I mean, really, I even have to think about maybe not go as far as scheduling, but I have to keep
in mind that I need to make some time to even make phone calls to just kind of maintain relationships.
I don't see many people in person these days just because of my living circumstances and my routine.
And so I never take it personally when somebody I would consider even a good friend
hasn't reached out in a while because I know.
I know what it's like to be busy and to have so many things going.
And I know what it's like to feel like you actually just never have enough time
to fit in everything that you want to fit in.
Do you think that's a actual individual thing or do you think that's something that you acquire as you reach a certain level of success? Like for example, in my opinion,
like as I've kind of climbed that ladder over time, I've recognized that my friends who are like uber
successful are like that. What I've derived from that is that, you know, if you got to that level
of success, you understand the amount of
things that you have to manage and relationships and this and that. And so you could not talk to
each other for six months, a year. And there's not this animosity of, oh, we're not friends anymore
because you didn't call me back, you didn't talk to me or something like that. Am I just not important enough?
Yes, yes. But at lower levels of climbing that kind of,
say, success ladder, I would have that a lot
with certain friends, especially friends that I grew up with
and stuff like that.
They take it personal because it's like, man, I love you.
But it's not that.
I've just got so much on my plate
and so many other people that I'm always having to manage.
And it's just, it happens, right?
So do you think that's a thing that's like built in you
or do you think it's something that once you reached
a certain level, you had more of an understanding?
I would say it's the latter for me personally,
because when I was younger, just trying to figure out
what I'm gonna do with my life, I always had a work ethic
and I always was a kind of a goal oriented person,
but I also had more of a social life
and just did more random things
just because they were fun. And when I was dating my wife, she lived in Germany, we did
long distance for two and a half years. So I would go there every month or so and we
would just have fun on daddy's money and just go cavort around Europe. I mean, really, I'm
not saying that to brag. I'm just saying I was that guy for a period.
And then though, when I got a little bit older
and came out married, getting ready to start a family,
it's time to quote unquote, get serious,
more serious about work and really figuring out
how do I find something that I enjoy,
find something that I feel matters,
find something that is more interesting
than just selling widgets for a profit, you know what I mean?
And that can provide a certain quality of life that both my wife and I would like.
That's when there was a bit of a shift for me because, and maybe again, this comes back
to I mentioned that I've always been a goal-oriented person and I've been willing to work hard
for things that I care about.
So once that thing that I cared about crystallized for me, then that's when it changed.
And I'd say it changed pretty markedly.
I went from, I would say, just being maybe a moderately hardish working person who had a fair amount of free time to also just savor, to enjoy life, and a lot of that involves other people,
because those generally are the most enjoyable experiences
that we have, is doing stuff that's fun,
that we enjoy with people we like, right?
And so, it went from that to I just was gone,
I was a hermit.
I was a very hardworking person seven days a week,
took very little time for anything,
was very conscious of,
I'm not going to say every minute,
but certainly every hour.
I was very conscious of every hour of every day
and what was I doing with that time
and how was it contributing to the goals
that mattered the most.
And for many years, that for me was building my businesses
because that was the one thing
that was going to make all these
other things irrelevant or make them all a lot easier.
And so I've seen that also with very successful friends of mine, where I can think of one
guy actually not sure.
He's made hundreds of millions.
Maybe he's even a billionaire.
Not sure.
And stay in touch with him loosely.
He's very busy, CEO of a big company.
We'll catch up from time to time.
And he's conscious of the time.
I've noticed that he has, it's about 30 minutes,
30 or 45 minutes.
And then he's got to move on to the next thing.
And I have another friend, very successful.
And sometimes catch up calls,
they might go a little bit longer.
But typically, he has a schedule and there might be a gap in his schedule.
So he has 45 minutes and we catch up, but then he's got to move on to the next thing.
And I may not hear from him for a week or two weeks.
He might go off traveling and he's got a lot of work and it might even be three weeks.
And so, yes, that is in my experience personally and then with the some of the most
successful people I know who are still in that mindset of striving, like they're still trying
to achieve things. That's the rule rather than the exception. And I suppose I've seen with some very
successful people a little bit later in life where there there seems to be a change in terms of what are they trying to do now?
And they've strived, they've succeeded,
they've accomplished the biggest goals that matter the most to them.
And now the goal is actually to savor life a bit more
and to put more time and energy into relationships
and to consciously just enjoy life more.
And that makes sense to me.
I'm just not there yet personally.
Do you believe you're going to be?
I mean, do you think because you know,
some people think you just keep moving the goalpost, right?
And then you wake up one day and you're 75,
you're uber rich and you never stopped and smell the roses.
Or do you think, I mean,
to me you strike me because I feel like we have this in common. in common where like I have a pretty set kind of plan and idea of where
I want to be comfortably, both financially, business-wise, where my family and then I
feel like, okay, I feel like I could shut it down or at least turn a big portion of
it off.
Do you feel like you have a very clear picture of that? Based on my experience with myself, I'll say this.
I'll be surprised if, so long as I have my health
and I have mental acuity and I have energy,
I'll be surprised if I can just take it easy, quote unquote,
and not really have much on the agenda,
not really have much that I'm trying to achieve at all.
That sounds boring to me and I've never been the person.
Again, I haven't been who I am now,
and I've liked to think that I've improved as I've gotten older,
and I'd like to continue improving.
But I have always had that part of me that likes to have very clearly defined goals that are challenging, that require a lot of hard
work. I like that. I like going through that and seeing if I can do it and so forth. So I doubt
that would change. I mean, I'm open to experiencing whatever, but I think there are certain things that are just baked into
whatever we are at our essence of our consciousness that maybe there's some wiggle room, but you
can never just flip that switch off. Now, those goals could shift. I mean, maybe there
is a shift and it has something to do with developing deep relationships with a lot of people.
But to me, I don't know if that's an end unto itself, aside from just enjoyment.
And that's fine.
And I like to have some enjoyment in my life.
But if we're going to go to the cliche of 80-20, right?
I'm okay with 80% work and do hard things and be uncomfortable and 20% take it easy, enjoy, go on trips,
eat the food, look at the rocks and so forth.
Yeah.
I mean, I apologize for hijacking your podcast and asking you the questions, but this is
on my mind a lot.
I think about this a lot at the current stage of life and business that I'm at.
And so not sure if I've completely formulated
what that will look like exactly.
And I mean, I have days where I feel more of this way
and less of that way, but I do feel like that's a lot
of what's on my mind right now.
So I always like talking to guys.
I have a question for you then.
So for you currently with where you are
and how everything's going,
which I wanna get into on the business side of things,
and you look to your future of not necessarily
at what point would you feel like you've done enough
and now you could just sit in that chair indefinitely
and be happy, right?
Or be satisfied with yourself smugly.
But with where you want to go, is it, how much of it is
financial versus non-financial considerations, which could be many different things.
Maybe it's specific accomplishments or something else.
You know, I thought it was financial for a long time. Like I thought it was financial for a long time. I thought it was this dollar amount of security.
Yeah. Saying, if I just had $30 million or $50 million,
then I could finally check the box.
Yeah. I really did think it was a place like that.
But recently, I've had something happen that has really made me rethink
that because we have got to a place. like that. But recently I've had something happen that has really made me rethink that
because we have got to a place, I don't know if I told you this because it was after you
and I talked last, but we in January of this year, we moved to a three-day work week. And
so that's been interesting and it's been a really interesting experiment. I find myself
on the days off, this would be a day off, doing stuff that
would be considered somewhat work, right? Even though I'm going to hang out with a buddy
and talk to you and catch up, like it's a scheduled thing where I'm on, we're doing
an interview, right? So I found myself getting a little stir crazy, having four days off
for a week. Now, of course, there's been times where it's like, this is amazing, right? We
take off for the weekend to go to the lake for a four- Now, of course, there's been times where it's like, this is amazing, right? We take off for the weekend,
we go to the lake for a four-day weekend,
and feel like I get plenty of fun and play and recovery,
and then back to work again.
But I find myself missing the job, missing work,
more than I would have realized,
especially if I'm not busy doing something active,
like that we're, you know, like I say,
going to the lake or going on a Yosemite trip
with my best friend or something like that.
If I'm not doing that,
I can't just sit around at home.
I feel like I've lost purpose and fulfillment.
Yeah, there's this part of me and that has nothing to do with a dollar or not.
It's not like I need,
because I don't have this.
Yeah. An extra X million dollars wouldn't change that at all.
It wouldn't. Exactly.
It would not satisfy or change that feeling that I'm having.
It's purely like, wow,
I really do love,
like what you said,
having a goal and working towards that.
There's something to be said about the struggle.
I don't know if I've ever told you this,
but there was a really interesting moment that I had with Katrina.
This was like, I don't know, five years ago or so,
somewhere around there.
And I'm driving home from work
and I'm really like frustrated with my partners.
I'm like cussing them out loud,
fucking sour, and like,
and what I'm mad about is like,
I think that, you know, I feel like I care more
about this scaling or moving or these other things
and the other guys don't care as much and I'm bitching and I'm yelling and I'm like,
she's on speakerphone in my truck as I'm driving home and she lets me go on this rant and
then I stop and I like, are you there?
Are you listening?
And she's just like, yeah, yeah.
And she goes, are you done?
And I'm like, yeah, I'm done.
What does that mean? What do you have to say? She's just like, would you done? I'm like, yeah, I'm done. What does that mean?
What do you have to say? She's just like,
would you have it any other way?
Would you want it any other way?
It really stopped me in the heat of that emotion,
and it made me really think about it.
It's like, man, if it was all easy,
and there wasn't this struggle of frustration and difficulty,
and wanting to give up.
She's right. I wouldn't want it any other way,
because then it would be boring and it would be miserable.
I do think that that's a really important thing to teach yourself to do,
because those moments come for everybody.
No matter what level you're at in your stage of making money or scaling, whatever it is,
everybody has those moments.
Everybody has those moments where they want to pull their hair out or
scream at a partner or a co-worker.
It's like, can you, in those times,
remove yourself from that and actually think even bigger about it and go,
wait a second, if it was easy and I just got all the answers and it wasn't difficult,
would I actually really enjoy that?
It reminds me of the famous show,
what's the black and white show that was so famous right now,
I can't think of the name of it right now.
But they had this episode where the guy,
he gets shot and then he comes to it.
You think he's dreaming and all of a sudden,
he's in this heavenly place and there's
huge luxurious chandelier and a piano playing in the background,
and someone walks up and serves him with a drink.
How can I help you, sir? He's like,
I can't figure out where he's at.
He realizes quickly that everything he wants is getting handed to him.
Oh, you want something to eat and beautiful women come in,
and would you like to come over to these tables and gamble?
Every time he throws a dice,
he wins and everybody celebrates and his money keeps stacking up.
He's just like, man, this is amazing.
The show fast-wards a little bit.
And it's like a week later.
And you could tell he's like, he throws the dice, he wins again.
And now he's not even accelerating.
He's just over it, right?
And he's like, I don't understand.
This is heaven.
Why?
What is going on?
And the guy looks over and goes, what makes you think you're in heaven?
And obviously, the moral of that
in the story is that he's in hell and part of hell would be literally getting everything
you want when you wanted it, always winning, always succeeding. And it's like, he was a
robber, right? So I should have told that, I know I butchered that, but he was robbing
a bank and he was running away and like the police officer shot him and then he died.
So it's kind of the poetic justice.
You like getting things the easy way?
Here, let's see how you like this.
And I think it's such a, like a, it's like a very powerful exercise for you to think
about that and go like, you know, you, we think that we want this dollar amount or we
want all these things.
And it's like, you know, really it's, it's the process, it's the journey, it's the struggle where the beauty lies.
And I think the older I get and the more experience
and as I climb the ladder of success
or whatever financially, I realize it isn't.
It's not a zero, a dollar amount and whatever.
It's literally like finding these things
that I enjoy struggling at.
Finding goals that I like to set or like to go after,
recognizing that it's going to be difficult,
I'm probably going to fail along the way,
but learning to love and enjoy that process.
Then when those moments happen,
being able to remove yourself from it and be like,
hey, this is one of those times right now where I'm really frustrated,
I'm angry at either a person or a situation and I need to be able to,
and I just think that's like a,
I feel like it's a super hack into learning how to be uber successful.
I find this in common with all my friends and people I know that are really,
they have figured this out.
They have really figured this piece out that
the beauty is in that struggle so that when these moments come that happens to everybody,
they just look at it differently and reframe it.
Because of that, I have thought a lot different about what later years look like.
I'm like you, I don't think I could ever,
or I don't think I ever want to stop at everything.
In fact, even just scaling back to three days a week has made me feel like,
I don't know if I even like scaling that much back to your 80-20 rule.
I'm starting to realize too, maybe mine's not 80-20,
maybe mine's like I want to struggle 50 percent of the time and have,
or maybe it's 60 percent of the time and 40.
I think that's what I'm trying to hone in on is because I definitely realize,
if you think three days a week is working four days technically not, you know, I'm more what is that?
That's more like the 60 40 of me not working and that's too much. I don't like already
It's already find myself booking things on Thursdays like yeah, I'll do it in every
Checking your inbox like come on something interesting. It's gotta come in here
Yes, so, you know, I know obviously there's people probably watching
you like, oh, it must be nice. It's like, well, I mean, it is it is nice to have that
option. It's and I think that I'm very blessed that I can I can make that decision. But I
guess the hack there, though, is understanding that along the way. Because if you think it's
going to be when you you reach a certain dollar amount,
I think that you will find yourself probably pretty miserable.
The people I do know that have a lot of money that are miserable, this tends to be it.
This tends to be they just keep moving the goalpost.
They just keep, oh, it must not be a million dollars.
It must be $10 million.
Then it's like, oh, maybe it's not 10 million.
It must be 100 million.
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would have known that until this kind of recent transition of the three-day work week. And it's
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Do you think about the magnitude of the goals
and how big do you wanna think?
And that would be a reflection
of your own estimation of your abilities,
but also your appetite for pain, right? Like how much how much pain are you willing to take? And
how far might that take you? Yeah, yeah. You know, I do think about that. Like there's a part of me
that always wants to like, set goals or go after things that are stretching my capacity. At the same time, I'm also trying to balance this like,
at what point though do I sacrifice
the other things that I've already decided in my life or form of my example?
I know that my wife and my kid are,
especially being a father now,
fatherhood to me is a relatively new five years now,
new thing for me to have all of a sudden
it was was non-existent and is now the top of the chart and so I think like
okay I definitely want something really hard I definitely want to pursue
something I know that's gonna make me work challenge I'm gonna fail at but not
at the sacrifice of that it comes above being a good dad and so I think I'm like
when I think about things it's kind of the lens that I
look at it. And I don't know if that's something you can relate to or not. Or if you remember what
it was like, you've obviously been a dad longer than me. But I definitely know that once that
happened, it did shift the way I kind of look at some of these things. It's like, yes, I want to
go after something. Yes, I'm willing to sacrifice time, all these things like that. But not if it's so much that I start to not spend time with my son,
or I become this absent father who's building his empire,
because I don't have a desire to keep going at the sacrifice of that.
So that's how I feel like I look at how big of a goal am I willing to go after now.
Let's use that as a segue to business.
We started on a tangent that is interesting to us,
hopefully interesting to the listeners,
but the primary topic that I wanted to speak with you about
was business, and it's something that,
I don't want to put words in your mouth,
but I think it's at least as interesting to you
in all the time I've known you as fitness.
And in some, maybe it's sometimes you're even more interested
talking about business and thinking about business
than fitness, maybe you vacillate back and forth.
And so over at MindPump, you guys have had a lot of success.
You don't talk about it much publicly.
If people really follow and pay attention to things,
they can maybe connect some dots and figure out
that you guys are doing quite well,
but maybe not as well as,
I don't think that many people know
you guys are doing as well
and you've done as well as you have,
because that's not the focus.
The focus is helping people with their fitness
and with their health.
And recently, you launched a new product,
a new service to help fitness professionals
do better in their business.
And so you had mentioned offline
that finally you have a good quote unquote excuse
to talk more about business
that your partners are okay with.
They go, okay, fine.
I guess it is kind of part of our business now. And
so I'm just going to leave that with you and see. I'd love to talk business with you and
this new product and service.
Yeah, it's been funny because it is, I mean, what's true is that I actually 100% enjoy
the business talk more than the fitness science talk. It's just, who I am, I think a lot of
why the four of us guys
have worked so well together at Mind Pump, that is not Sal.
Sal is science guy, study guy, and I love that part of him.
Justin's like performance sports guy.
Doug is like number crunching in the back
and systems and all that stuff guy.
And so we all tend to have these different things
that we're more passionate about.
Now we share the fitness thing in common, but we're more,
and what's been tough for me about the business side is that,
this whole process has been an amazing journey and a lot of learning lessons.
When I learned something,
especially if I failed something and figured it out,
I like to share.
I like to share, I like to help others.
It's helped me grow and be a better version of myself and be successful is by doing that,
giving to others,
sharing the things I'm learning. And it's been tough for me because Doug's really put a lid on
me when it comes to talking about the money and the finances. And rightfully so. I think that we
did a really good job of not talking too much about that to convolute our message of helping people.
But you're right, we are now,
we've transitioned the business
into helping other coaches and trainers
scale and build and have a financially successful business.
And now it makes a little,
by the way, it's still a little bit of pulling teeth.
We got into it a little bit
because Doug made a comment about me saying some like,
putting our numbers out there and some of that.
I said, Doug, you gotta understand that
this business that we're doing now is teaching other trainers and coaches how to build a successful financial
business. And there's still people, believe it or not, that don't think MindPump is that successful
and just think we're forgo- Well, they might just listen to the podcast and they like the podcast.
As far as they know, okay, it's a podcast and you guys sell some workout programs.
Is this your full-time thing though?
How many times you've been asked?
People will still ask me that.
I take no personal offense, of course.
I've been fairly open with
Legion's numbers because I've thought about this.
Should I share this?
I don't care to get attention for it.
But if it's relevant to a conversation,
and to your point, I'm trying to establish some bode fides.
Like just for some context, Legion
will do about $50 million in sales this year.
OK, so there's some context.
Now maybe I'm going to share some business advice
or some marketing advice.
And it's not for the purpose of making me look cool.
I don't care at all.
But it's just to make what I'm going
to say a little bit more credible than,
uh, okay, so Mike has a podcast and it's like kind of,
it's kind of popular and I'm going to take business advice from this guy and,
and, and Legion, I guess I've heard of that. I don't know.
Everyone has a supplement company.
I think it's a bit even more extreme for people like, uh,
you and I'd say us fall in this category
because in today's era the you know the formula is as soon as you get a little
bit of success you can you can afford a payment on the Lamborghini or anything.
As soon as you can start faking it you start faking it. First you start with
renting it you rent that that's what you do first.
Yes, so as soon, and that's been kind of the formula
on the social media, and really the four of us,
everybody was pretty successful.
Now obviously we're far more successful today,
but everybody was good financially.
Everybody had already had houses, cars, retirement,
a lot of stuff before we even all got together.
So for us it wasn't like that,
and plus we were all turned off by that formula that was happening,
especially in the fitness space because we know
like there's not a lot of money in fitness.
I know these trainers aren't that rich.
I know how it is to make money in this space,
but yet that is the social media game.
As soon as you've got a little bit of money and success,
even if you're faking it and renting it.
I think that because of that,
somebody's comparing me to
this 25-year-old fitness influencer
who's been rocking his Lamborghini for the last two years.
Whether I like it or not.
Or now you're competing with the be-your-own-boss,
work from home crowd as well.
Yes. I do it for the same exact reason for you,
is just to build some credibility of who's this guy
talking about business and telling us or giving us advice around this.
He's got a little podcast,
he's like, well, no,
the business has done pretty well for quite some time.
We've scaled.
I mean, we're going 10 years in January.
Probably one of the things I am most proud of is that year over year, we have grown.
And to grow, and you know, to grow consistently year over year for 10 years in any space is really,
really difficult to do.
And it's not like a few bucks,
we're into millions of dollars.
To continue to incrementally go up by millions of dollars every year,
hey, that's it. I'm really proud of that and I'm proud we've been able to do that.
There's a part of me that the natural side of me is to share and to help others do that.
There's been a lid on me for a long time about teaching and helping that because
part of that kind of has to, I have to kind of share some of that stuff and so Doug's like
finally let up, you know, okay I get it, you know, I know we're about this and so you know I'm playing
that dance right now of trying to you know be transparent, be honest, share with us, doing it
in a way that I'm not trying to come off like we're bragging, I'm not, I want to, it's not me to
show that. So it's really about that, it's not me to show that.
So it's really about that is building that credibility
before I go tell other trainers and coaches how to make money.
I best have been doing it for long enough,
making a lot of money.
And so I think that's kind of where we're at
with the businesses.
And yeah, this business has been, it's been interesting.
Challenging from what you've told me.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I knew that the size, there's kind of a, I'm curious if you've told me. Yeah, yeah. Yeah.
So I knew that the size, there's kind of a, I'm curious if you're aware of this formula,
trying to remember where I first read it or heard it.
But they say about 4% of your consumers will spend 10 times the revenue.
So you could basically go like, okay, if my average sale, in our case, is about $97 or so,
and 4% of our buyers should do 10x the revenue. Now, that might not sound very much, but once
you've scaled to a size volume-wise, like where we're currently at now, like the business,
currently at now, like the business on average, we do between 250 and 300 program sales a day at that average dollar of $97 to give some context.
So I remember sitting down, this was like a year ago, a little over a year ago.
Now it's almost a year and a half ago.
And sitting down and kind of number crunching that and going, oh my god, we literally are missing out on $2.5 million a year
by simply not having a product our consumers would want for that dollar amount. So instantly,
it was like to the drawing board, what made the most sense for us and what we're doing?
I could have went the route of, I guess, big training packages for the general population
and sell big programs and that that we kind of went,
you know what, like we love helping coaches and trainers.
There's an opportunity to help them scale
and build their businesses.
That's probably a more likely product to fit
in the 900 to a thousand dollar range.
And so then we went to work and then,
and rule one, I mean, the same rules apply
to this business as every other business we've been before
is like, okay, can we go out and deliver something
that is so valuable that when somebody
pays that kind of money, they get it.
They go like, oh my God, this was worth 10 times that,
that I got that.
Or can they take things from that,
tactically go implement it into their business
and see the difference in revenue for themselves
that trumps any dollar amount they spent on the thing or invest on the thing with us? And then can we also find a way to build into it and grow the
value of it over time so it just keeps getting better and better? And so that was the first
problem to solve. Could we create that? And we spent a year building the content around the course.
I felt like I saw or we saw a massive need in the market. I think in
your experience when you look at like national certifications, some of the best
ones out there, NASM, NCSF, ISSA, all these great ACE, all these great certs, they
primarily focus on the core things to be a good trainer, meaning like how do you
take you know nutrition, biomechanics, program design, all things that you need
to know if you're gonna take care of clients. None of them put a lot of energy or any focus on, okay, now that you're a trainer
and you're knowledgeable and you can really go help a person, how do you get people in
front of you? I feel like there's such a massive need in the market for that. And this is also
this harkens back to my journey in the space. So I admittedly have shared on the podcast many times that like, I don't think I was
a very good trainer.
I wasn't.
Like I was the youngest, least experienced, probably you could even say least buff trainer
when I entered the space at 20 years old.
And I quickly was thrusted into leadership and managing 20 trainers underneath me that
were smarter,
more experienced, better looking than I was, but yet I was leading.
Well, why?
I had a knack for business.
I had a knack for numbers.
I had a passion for that, and I've always been passionate about business.
What I naturally do when I learn, I give.
I was doing that with my peers at an early age, they were all having more success. And so it made the natural
progression from the leadership team.
They saw that in me like, hey, this kid's
young, but he's helping all of his peers
make more money. Let's put him in a
leadership role. And so that's how I got
to that position. So for me, this was
like, like I went a long ways
working for a company, 24 hour fitness,
and had a lot of success, not being the smartest
when it comes to the physiology, nutrition, biomechanics side of being a personal trainer,
but because I understood the business side.
And honestly, there hasn't been a lot of people that have entered that space and done a really
good job of helping coaches.
So I thought there was a massive need in the market to create a product
like that to help people. And there's a lot of like sales courses and sales gurus out there,
but we wanted something very specific to personal trainers that, but the stuff,
the conversations, the challenges they're having with. And so that's the product. I mean, we put
all this time and effort into building that and it's an at-home course that they can go through.
It's about 40 hours of content. So It'll take you probably a few weeks,
maybe even a few months depending on how fast you
learn to make your way all the way through it.
Then that community is inside a private forum.
Once you purchase that course,
you're now in a private forum of all the other trainers that have,
and then I allow them to steer the content going forward.
One of the things that's been awesome is I've been able to leverage the popularity of Mindpump
podcasts to garner the attention of any science, doctor, medical professional in our space
that would love to get on our platform, of course, for themselves.
What I do is I ask my coaches every month, hey, where do you guys shop?
Oh, you have trouble training clients
with menopause? Let me go get the New York Times bestseller
for that or let me go find one of the most experienced doctors
with clients that are challenged with menopause, get her inside
of our forum, have her speak to you trainers and coaches how to
help these people for an hour, then I take that content and
bolster the certification course.
So now going forward, that's in the course.
And so that's really what this year has been about is, you know, first delivering a product
that everybody bought and said like, hell yeah, this was worth it.
Now using that community to help steer on how do I make that product even more valuable
and then bolstering that content.
And then what I'll do is I'll actually slowly increase the price on that product over the course of the next
say three to five years. So as I build out the content and what we did we've
closed enrollment. So it's like we open enrollment so people can come in then we
shut it down so we can focus on the community on what their needs are and
then I'll open it back up say in a month or two and every time I do that I'll
incrementally move the price
as cause we're building more into it up.
And so people that are in it from the beginning
will get it as it can, they'll automatically
get all that value.
And then it offers me the ability to continue to scale
the product as we go.
And so that's kind of been the formula
for that business right now.
And it's doing really well.
It's more so now that I've fired the CEO that was running it before.
I mean, this is an example of what we were talking about earlier.
A mistake I made was thinking this was the right person for the right job.
We really wanted to build it and then set it and let it go and allow,
pay someone really well to be that person who oversees it,
manages it and does all the things that I said,
and then the guys and I can just focus on
the podcast and steer leads in that direction.
Well, what we found is that that was not happening and it wasn't happening for a while.
So I've now reinserted myself back into that business.
Currently, I'm going to run it.
I don't know at what point if I will relinquish leadership to it.
Certainly, not until I feel comfortable that I have built
the right systems and found the right person to remove me out.
Ultimately, that is the goal.
But for now, I'm scaling it,
I'm running it, and the guys are, all of us.
I say me, it's not just me.
Obviously, my partners and I are all working on it,
but I'm spearheading it right now for us to scale and grow.
Some context for numbers. when we launched that business, it did three quarters of a
million dollars in two weeks, right?
So we did about $750,000 in the first two weeks it launched.
After that big launch, which of course the podcast, all four of us were focusing on building
all these leads, we had about 3,000 trainers show up to the live launch. After that, the thing just went and was trending at about $7,000 a month after doing three
quarters of a million in two weeks. And I allowed it to stay there for a good six or
seven months kind of hoping that this guy would figure this out and turn it around and
just hadn't. And then just by reinserting the four of us back into the business,
we saw a 10 X within two weeks of what I had been doing.
So it's often running again.
And then hopefully I can fix a few things and keep scaling it.
What mistakes do you feel you made with, do you think with this guy,
it was the wrong hire? Did,
did you not do your due diligence on the front end?
Or I'm just curious.
What lesson have you taken away from that experience?
And it's obviously not, well, yeah, the guy sucked.
That's the lesson.
No, no, no, no, no, definitely not.
It's not the lesson.
Probably for me was, there's a couple lessons in here.
Mistake number one was,
and I'll tell you why I did it,
and not to make an excuse or justify this,
but the thought process of like,
because I'm part of a network of other high-performing CEOs
that would think a mastermind group that we all meet and talk about business with that.
They're all like, man, why did you pay him so much right off the gates?
Why didn't you attach some of his to his performance?
And why didn't you only pay him this kind of salary?
And then he can make, well, because I was afraid it was going to do too good.
Like I wasn't sure.
I knew the power of the brand and the size of the podcast that my guesstimation was,
it should be about a $2.3, $25 million dollar business out the gates if we do everything correctly,
but the upward potential was bigger and I didn't know.
And so I didn't want to give this guy a salary
and go, oh, and I'll give you 10% of the business
or a 3%, whatever, a percent of the business.
And then it just explodes and it explodes
because of the power of the brand
and not particularly because of what he did.
So that was mistake number one was thinking that way.
I thought that way.
I was more afraid because I, by the way, I also have made that mistake in the past.
I did that early on in this business when I first started the advertising department
almost six years ago or whatever it was.
And I had somebody early on and I gave them percentages of everything.
They had like a base, but then that thing just,
that took off so much and it got to a point where
we were such a demand to advertise on our show that there was
no work that he had to do other than sending over a contract and getting it signed,
because people were trying to sign for
the next year before the year was even up with us and book out.
Yeah, it's the salesperson who just has to resign and actually gets commissions when
it happens without their involvement.
Yes. And so, like, I mean, literally it was because also when I let go of that person,
I mean, I took that back over myself personally, and I would basically spend
about 30 to 45 true days of hard work of the people.
Because it's not like it's no work.
I started to organize everything, sign those contracts, negotiate some of them,
get the details all ironed out, the scheduling, blah, blah, blah.
I mean, it would take me about 45 days and I would do their entire work for the year.
And the amount of revenue that you would be making almost a half a million dollars
based off of how I originally structured it.
So I made that mistake and so I was really hesitant to do that with this thing.
I was like, man, I don't know.
One of the things I'm learning about this media business is that most of the time I'm
wrong and I'm not sure and I don't want to estimate that it's supposed to be this and
then tie this guy, basically make this guy a millionaire for just showing up.
I want him to earn it.
So anyways, mistake number one was that, was just giving him a very know, I want him to earn it. So anyways, mistake number one was that was just giving him a very high,
you know, higher, I guess, standard CEO, executive salary
right out the gates.
Standard maybe for a business of a certain level of income, like
you've shared the number with me, that's a generous, that's a
generous salary, probably something that you'd have to be
the CEO of a business doing probably
at least, I mean, 10 million is probably low for talking about a business with normal margins,
at least. It probably needs to be a bit more than that. It's probably 20 plus million a
year would be.
So I definitely, and my thought, this is, you know, again, my partners and I, you know,
want to believe in people and the idea. In fact, this was like an off air or whatever kind of conversation.
Sal and I debated this back and forth.
I actually did want to pay him a little less and then make him earn it with benchmarks.
He's like, hey, why don't we give him right at the top and see if he
elevates to that and lives up to what his judge of his character at that time was that,
hey, if we pay him substantially well and take good care of him, he will want to show us or he
will want to live up to that standard. Well, that didn't happen. So that didn't happen. That was a
big mistake. Unfortunately, I think it's probably just an example of you get what you reward,
right? So if you are heavily rewarding what could be almost nothing, at least
in the beginning, most likely because you guys are launching it, you're driving it and it just goes.
And it's going to just go for at least some period of time. I don't think Sal is necessarily
completely wrong in his line of thinking, but I think he was probably looking for the exception
rather than the rule. Because as a rule, if you're rewarding somebody for not having to do anything,
well, they're probably just not going to do much.
Now, the other thing was, and this is a lesson I feel like I'm always remind, I
know this lesson, I know this rule yet I still, and I'm sure you have examples of
stuff that like, you know better, and yet you still, you know, bang your head
against the wall or
allow yourself to continue to have to learn this lesson the hard way.
Which is like, this is for me,
it's like when my gut tells me to cut it or to let go or move on,
the soft empathetic side of me tends to allow it to drag on longer,
and I always know the sooner I would have done that.
Looking back, I probably know like, the sooner I would have done that. I mean, so looking back,
I probably would have saved the company,
I don't know, at least 100,000 or more
if I would have made that decision sooner
and who knows how much faster we'd already be on track
because look at how on track we are already.
So maybe even more that I hurt the business
by not doing it faster.
So those were the two learning lessons.
Now, the positive side of this
and the foresight that I did have,
and part of what led to the salary and all those things was,
I remember having this conversation and I said to the guys,
I said, listen, the reason why I want to hire and do this with somebody else,
is because we have so much on our plate and we were
already attempting to build towards this and we just weren't.
We were getting distracted with everything else.
It was like an afterthought and it's like we need to financially commit to somebody
that we know we're paying a bill who's going to spearhead and drive this thing
because at this point we're leaving so much revenue on the table that every
month that goes by that we don't have it we're losing potential revenue and so
I'm willing to pay this much because I know how profitable this business
will be. So somebody who gets it out six months, a year sooner than us is worth this much money for
me. So even if I realized later on that he's a terrible fit and we got to get rid of him,
the time that he executed the project in, in comparison to what we would have done pays for
his salary and some and the
potential mistakes.
So I actually said that and had that kind of foresight going into it of like, I needed
this to get done.
None of us were spearheading it because of all the projects and things everybody else
is doing.
Let's financially commit to somebody who is good.
And that is the one thing he did do.
He did move that along because that was his only, or was supposed
to be his only focus was moving that. We definitely got it finished way faster than what we were.
What we were done in six months, we accomplished in like two weeks with him leading it and
like making sure we were chipping things off. Right. And we needed that. And so that part
of it, when I look back, like,
I don't know how much I would have done differently. I mean, obviously, I wish I would have hired
somebody who was maybe a better fit, but we needed that. We needed somebody that and we
needed to be financially committed. We needed the accountability to execute in time because
I knew how much revenue that we were potentially at. So all in all, it's like, and it's like
how I try and look at all failures or mistakes.
Like it was an opportunity for growth, it was a learning lesson, and we fail forward, right?
We learn from that mistake.
I think that last point, I think it's an important mindset, something that I consciously do,
and that is find how I can not only learn a lesson, so think back, what could I have done differently?
Kind of extreme ownership,
let's assume this is completely my fault,
what would that look like?
And without blaming myself, but more just owning up to,
I could have done something different here,
so let's look for that.
What could I have done different to get to
at least a slightly better outcome?
So that's looking back, but now,
you're sitting with the mess.
So now it's, well, how do I take this mess
and turn it into something even better?
And sometimes it's hard, and you have to really think about it,
and you have to get over your own emotions
about what's going on.
But I find that to be a constructive way
to deal with problems, to deal with failures,
to deal with your stone worker for your house that you're building,
ruining three slabs of stone and now you're out of stone,
and now you get to go and find
new stone and a new fabricator and so forth.
For people who don't know, I'm building a house,
and that literally just happened.
But to my point, so what I told my wife, she was pretty upset about because she chose this
stone like two years ago, one of the first things like materials that she bought and
she wanted in these different rooms.
And now we can't use it anymore because the stone fabricator broke, I think three slabs
and one, okay, what are we gonna do now?
And they started to talk about taking pieces
and cutting them and putting them together on-
Did some duct tape on your-
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
That conversation ended quickly.
But what I was saying, I said, okay,
we're gonna get credited for the finances.
So let's, you had mentioned some time ago that if you hadn't bought that stone then,
you thought you had to buy it then, you actually had more time than you thought, you would
have actually probably picked something else out.
You really liked that, but there are other types of marble that you like even more. You probably would have gotten something else out. You really like that, but there are other types of marble
that you like even more. You probably would have gotten something else. Let's use this
as an opportunity to do that. Let's take the money that we get from the stone that's now
ruined. We can add some money to it and let's get something that's even better. And just
an example, it's silly and it's first world problems and oh, it's nice. Yeah, it must
be nice. I understand.
But it's just an immediate example I'm dealing with right now of how I try to deal with setbacks
and deal with situations that could spiral emotionally in the other direction.
There is zero productivity in dwelling on the negative of any situation, like zero.
There's no benefit at all to do that.
There's a difference between dwelling on the negative and then looking at what you could
have done better.
That's not dwelling on the negative.
That's like observing.
I think part of that is from right out the gates, reframing the way you look at it as
this is an opportunity.
Always, to your example of what you're using right now,
is like, yeah, okay, this really sucks.
We can all agree on that.
And this really makes me,
my initial knee-jerk reaction is upset.
But right away, getting out of that mindset
and right away trying to get in the mindset of,
okay, how is this an opportunity?
How can I turn this into something better
than the situation that I'm currently in?
The faster I can get my brain over there,
the quicker I can get to a result and the better the result is going to be.
The better you feel.
There really is an emotional,
I think catharsis that comes with this,
again, to give credit to Jocko for using his extreme ownership concept.
Now, of course, many people have spoken about this going back,
well, thousands of years actually, but this idea of radical responsibility,
so to speak, I think that there's a lot of power in just the emotional catharsis
of it, that it takes you out of that victim mindset.
It takes you out of the blame.
Look what you did to me, to your point.
That's very unproductive.
And also, it's unhealthy mentally, it can become unhealthy physically, it can become
habitual and that's a disaster. If that mindset becomes habitual, there's very little you
can do for that person.
Nobody who is really successful wants to hang out and be around somebody who's like that.
Probably one of the greatest hacks that I've ever hacked into in elevating my success is
surrounding myself with other people that are doing more than I'm doing,
and attaching myself to those people.
And those people would never allow me to be around them if all I talked about was how
difficult it was for me and all the challenges that I've had and all the stuff that happens
to me.
If I was that, there's no way those type of people would allow me in the room or allow
me to hang around if that's how I talked.
And so I think that's important.
So all the reasons you said it's important, I agree. And then in addition to that, if you believe that
you're an average of the five people you spend the most time with and how valuable it is
to evaluate the circle of people that you communicate, you talk to, you spend time with
in your ability to elevate, then you've got to understand this because nobody is going
to want that person. Nobody of real nobody is going to want that person around.
Nobody of real success is going to want that person around.
That's another common trait when we talk about these people that you've met that are uber
successful is they do not have time to gossip and talk about negativity like they're problem
solvers.
That doesn't mean that they're immune to challenges,
hardships, and problems. It just means they have the ability and the skill to reframe it right away
as an opportunity or right away move into how do we fix this? How do we solve this? I'm not talking
about what happened to me and how bad it was. I'm talking about what I'm doing to solve it and
solving problems. You learn that as you hang out with more and more people like that.
And so I think it's important if you are going to, because I get this out when I talk about
the five people thing and elevating your circles or that, people always ask me like, well,
how do you do that?
Or do you have to go meet people like that?
Well, it starts with your mindset, the way you talk, the way you act, because people
like that will not be attracted to that.
Trust me, everybody normally has an opportunity where you will meet a family friend or if
you go to church or you go to a sporting event.
Like you'll eventually cross paths of these uber successful people.
What will allow you to build a relationship and a friendship with them is a lot of how
you carry and conduct yourself.
And if the first time you meet that sent a millionaire,
and you're sharing how difficult your life and all these like victimhood type bullshit to them,
they never come back. They're not calling you back. They're not talking to you.
You know, and so I think that's important to understand that it first starts with you as the
individual and your mindset reframing having the the right attitude like that. Then we can talk about how you attract
other people of success like that who want to be around you.
I think that's so important.
At least for my journey,
I lean on the fact that I've been able to
build relationships with people like yourself because I
think those people like being around me
and the character that I've been working on for 40 something years.
I'm pretty sure that if I had that victim mentality,
and I'm not immune to a lot of shit that's happened in my life.
If I talked about that when we got together,
I just think that you would be so unattractive that you would find
a way not to call me back or not to reach out or not form that relationship.
And so you have to be like that if you want to attract other people.
And if you can't do that for yourself first, good luck trying to find a network of other
people who want you around.
And so I think that's so important that those that are listening that are in their journey
of success and personal growth and they're
heading to that track wall, it starts with the work that you do first internally, your
mindset and having that type of attitude and then learning how to put yourself in that
position and those rooms because you have to first develop that character.
If you think that those people are going to, I mean, Sal and I have this guy right now
who met us and he's like, you will mistake giving him our cell phone number.
He has no social skills whatsoever.
He's annoying as hell.
It's like, here's this person who got close enough to us,
for us to share our personal number,
and he's now lost this probably ability to build a relationship with us,
because we're both so turned off by the stuff that he talks about,
he communicates and how annoying that this person can be.
So you may get in a possibility to get in these networks or circles, but you could easily
blow it by how you carry yourself and conduct yourself.
I think that it's something to, I don't know, speak to or pay attention to because real
quickly you'll become a very unattractive person to be around
if all you do is talk about how hard it is for you
and how difficult, it's like those successful people
don't wanna be around that.
I've thought about this because in some ways
it can seem kind of like a chicken and egg problem, right?
So, okay, if you're somebody who recognizes
that your inner circle is mostly populated with
people who you really don't want to emulate, who don't have the same types of goals and
so forth, and you want to upgrade your inner circle, and if what you're focusing on is,
let's say you're focusing on success, financial success, business success, and you
haven't achieved any success yet. And this is, I'm just repeating things. This is how
this conversation has gone in times that I've had it with people. And so what they are asking
me is, well, how do I be around successful people? How do I cultivate friendships with successful people
when I'm not successful myself?
And I think it's a valid question.
It is a valid question, and I have a spiel for this
because I love to talk about this, okay?
And I draw the parallels to a really important part
of my trainer journey.
So there became a time in my fitness journey training people where I really started to
evaluate like, man, nobody is following and adhering to these diets or very small percentage
do, even the ones that do after they're done with me, they put all the weight back on.
It's like, they're not very successful with it.
And part of this is I think too people can be rebellious at nature and so if you tell
them you can't have these things, you can only do this, you know, sure they can probably
discipline stuff for a while but then eventually that rebellious side comes out.
Okay, so how does that have to do with this?
Well, later on in my career I fell into this hack of how to get people to adhere to their
diet better.
And what I started doing as a coach and a trainer is I stopped writing meal plans.
I stopped telling people these parameters to live by.
Instead, I told them to go get something, go after something.
And what I found out was if I told clients, instead of telling them, stop eating McDonald's,
stop doing the Coke, stop having the candy, I just went, I would have them track so I
could see their stuff for a week.
And then I, and everybody everybody is like under eating on
protein, under eating on healthy fats, overeating sugar, not enough fiber.
I mean, there's a whole host of like common things that you see.
So there's plenty of stuff that they're not doing that they can't be doing.
So what I do is instead of saying you can't do anything, I go, all I want you to do for
the next two weeks is hit your protein intake every single day.
Well, what about McDonald's?
Are they ice cream?
I'm not worried about that right now.
Just commit to getting that. And then what happens is, in order to do that, some
of those things naturally just kind of fall off.
Yeah. All of a sudden, they're not as hungry as they normally are. And they're eating the
McDonald's, but they actually, they just cut their McDonald's in half simply because they're
not hungry.
That's right. And so, and then we and then that we're having success with that.
And then I, okay, let's go, let's go add fiber.
Now I want you to track fire.
I'm not gonna tell you what you can't have in the house.
And then all this stuff.
And it's like, it's, they have this like epiphany of like, oh my God, it's like crazy.
You didn't tell me I couldn't have these things.
I just had to go get that.
Well, it's yeah, when you start to fill your life or your diet in the situation with the
things that your body needs to be successful, to be healthy, like it's. It's amazing how much the shit doesn't make its way in there.
So I think the same thing about people in your life.
Instead of overthinking it like, oh my God, I need to know the exact meal plan, I need
to know the exact people and where do I go for this?
It's just like networking events and...
Yeah, yeah.
It's like you overthink this person.
It's like, don't worry.
The shitty people will start to fall out of your life.
And by the way, this is really difficult because I get it when,
let's say you're core five, because this was me,
is like high school buddies,
go all the way back to high school.
You guys have loyalty and a bond,
and you went through lots of trauma together as kids,
and so you're extra bonded,
and this is your five, but then you recognize you're an adult now,
you're in your mid-20s, you're trying to climb,
you're trying to get better, you're trying to grow,
but your five friends are losers.
They just aren't.
They're not.
I mean, you love them, but they're smoking weed, sitting at home all day, and they're
not doing shit with their life, but you love them because they're like a family member
to you, and you're like, fuck, how do I do this?
How do I go improve my circle when this is my circle?
I don't want to tell my best friend who would go back to seventh grade with, I can't, I
don't want to hang out with them. Like go back to seventh grade with, I can't, I can't, I don't want to hang out with them.
Like, do you break up with these people?
No.
What you do is you just start filling your time with these other people and you attack
it that way where it's just like, you know what, like we've, we all have these opportunities,
like he said, church events, uh, you know, we're gyms, business meetups, events, like
you, there's lots of things where you can start to put yourself where other successful people are hanging out.
And you start with building a relationship with that person and you focus on adding value
into their life.
And that's how that that relationship, and then that person starts to take up some of
the time that you would be spending with this shit butt friend.
And you're not breaking up that friend is you're filling the time with other productive people that are adding
value to your life that you're learning from that you're growing.
And what that might look like this is,
and for this young generation has a hard time not to be a jab at them,
but I talked to a lot of 20 year old kids and this is like, what go work for free.
Like, yeah, okay.
I was helping this kid who wants to work on real estate right now. And I'm like,
dude, right now you are not at the earning phase of your journey,
you're at the learning phase of your journey.
So stop looking about trading your time for dollars
and how much money you need to make and think of like,
right now I need to get 10,000 hours
in order to be a master at this.
So go learn, okay.
I'll tell you right now in the real estate space,
if you go show up at some random realtor place,
find out who are some of the best,
the best guy or girl in the whole place and be like,
hey, I would love my, introduce yourself and say,
is there any way that I could help you set up houses,
pick up your signs, free on my time?
I'm interested in this industry,
I'm interested in this space.
I heard you were the best in the whole town.
And I just want to see if there's anything I can do to help you for absolutely for free.
I'll go pick up your signs.
I'll go stage your houses.
And if you want to look like a unicorn, bring a good idea to them and offer.
Yeah.
Oh, whoa.
Whoa.
That's next level.
And then if you want to be the rainbow unicorn, well, you bring a good idea
that you've actually already put some work into
and you've already started implementing it
and you have a proposal like, hey.
I mean, that's next level.
That's like home run.
Like if you do that, like that's even,
I'm even talking baby or steps.
Anybody, if they say no, it doesn't matter.
Move on to the next person because they're a fool.
Yeah, exactly.
And somebody will recognize that.
And let me tell you, there's a lot of kids that work for me today
that have listened or heard me say this and have found a way into our jaw,
into our ecosystem by doing things like this,
because I will always bet on someone's character.
Skills to me are can be developed, can be taught,
but character, you either got it or you don't.
And when I see that in somebody,
I'm almost always willing to give a shot to that person.
And so if you're trying to build your circle
and fill it up with people that are going to add value
to your life and elevate you,
then go after those situations.
And like I said, plug in any industry,
go find who the best is,
and go find a way that you can add value.
I mean, a home run is like you said,
like if you can solve one of their problems
and actually bring it already handled for them.
I mean, it could be something simple you imagine.
Somebody comes to you and says,
hey, love your YouTube content.
I'm really interested in YouTube marketing.
I've studied about this.
This is what I wanna do. I see an opportunity for you. Here it is. I'm really interested in YouTube marketing. I've studied about this. This is what I want to do.
I see an opportunity for you.
Here it is.
I've already done some key work research.
I've vetted this.
I would love to implement it.
And I don't need to get paid.
I'm here to learn.
If it could go my way, I would love to just intern,
do more free work, prove that I'm worth something.
And if I can do that, maybe I can get a job.
That's a great example, right?
That's a great example.
If you came to me and you said,
hey, Adam, I watch your YouTube,
I went ahead and changed some of your thumbnails
to these images and I changed some of your keywords
and this like that.
If you wanna try and implement it,
I'm pretty sure you'll get 10 to 15% more views from that.
Yep, here's the logic, quick little explanation.
Yeah. Then set it,
and then I go plug it in and do it,
and I go, holy shit, that kid was right.
We just increased our views by 10 percent.
I'm calling that kid back, he's going to jump.
We can play this game all day and give
all kinds of examples to every industry,
but this is where these young kids get stuck.
It's like, how do I do that? How do I build this circle?
Well, that's how you do it.
And you don't you don't measure your time to like your hourly pay.
Like, well, I know you paid this much an hour.
And so why would I go set up homes for a real or worse?
I think I'm worth this much.
And I think I'm worth 10 times what I normally get paid.
Yes. Yes. Go prove that.
Go prove that you are that way.
And when you do this, okay?
This happens, okay?
Like you mentioned, maybe some idiot dismisses you, he's rude, he doesn't spend any time.
That's okay.
So what?
Like somebody will, the right one will.
Like the person, you wouldn't want to work with that guy anyways.
That's his character and he's too dumb to see the type of character you have and not want to find a way to help or work with
you, well then shame on him because you'll eventually get to a guy like me. You'll eventually
get to somebody like me in his industry who sees what you just did and goes like, whoa,
hold on, I know I'm not hiring right now.
Yeah, but I'm always hiring the right people.
That's right. That's right. And so, and this is how you do this. You don't need to have a breakup conversation with your five loser friends. You need to go seek out the type of people doing the
things that you want to be at the level where you want to go find ways to provide and add value to
their life or their business and be willing to do that on your time.
And you start relationships this way,
and it's incredibly powerful when you've done that
and when you've led that.
And this philosophy doesn't change,
no matter how big or how successful you get,
this is how I've approached all my relationships.
One of my favorite things about,
it's got like compounding interest too.
So, and I like to use real examples of like
how this plays out in my life today.
Like just 20 something days ago,
I reached out and I believe I reached out to you too,
a bunch of my friends that once I fired the CEO,
I took over that position,
I had a couple of things that I wanted to do right away.
Right away, I knew that I could drive up
that Instagram page that has tremendous value, right?
Giving all kinds of free information to.
I knew that I could hold a webinar, so boom,
I was like, booked a webinar,
I got involved in the Instagram page.
What I was able to do,
because I had been doing this for years,
was to tap all of my friends.
And there was probably about 17 or 18 of you guys
in the health, fitness, podcasting, and Instagram
space.
I just sent a quick message.
Hey, could you do me a favor?
I'm trying to get some traction on this page like that.
It's a free channel.
I'm not asking for money for them.
I'm asking for you guys to sell anything for me.
Can you share a free valuable page that I've built?
Instantly, I took that page from 700 to I think it's at 3,500 followers like that and it was but it was all because all the years of
doing things for others and spending time with these people and building these
relationships and so now I have I have built the credit with these people to
be able to do that like it wasn't like right after Mike I did something for
Mike one time that I could call Mike and ask for a favor,
I would never do that.
It's that over time I've built a relationship with Mike,
therefore I felt comfortable with asking a small favor
like this that I know isn't a big ask.
And they would all, and instantly everybody did it.
There was no hesitation, it was quickly,
everybody responded and did it for me.
And right away it had this huge impact.
And now that's a source of where we get our leads.
I'm now at, got 3,000 more people that we're talking to
just from two weeks ago that I wasn't,
all because of the time and effort
into building relationships that I've been putting in
for the last decade or two decades of time in business.
And so this starts now, no matter what age you're at,
and the more of this that you do, the greater this circle.
You know, one of my favorite sayings is your true net worth
is your net circle, right?
And so that is so, or your network, excuse me.
So that ability to grow that
makes it so much easier now for me,
or like how I got this YouTube guy.
So I told you before on, we got on air,
that once I got rid of our let go of our producer
that was running the YouTube department,
everything like that,
immediately I was out looking for somebody else
who can assist me and help me.
I did an interview just like this
with a relationship with somebody
that I've continued for five or six years
that by the way, even my partners are like,
why you keep taking calls and spending time with this guy?
Like he's not, it's like, that's just who I am, dude.
I like the person.
They have good character.
Yeah, I may not see how they can help me right now,
but that's not why I build these relationships.
I build these relationships to build my total network,
regardless, because one day maybe it will.
Well, guess what?
Five, six years later, I call him up.
And I go, hey, Doug, the episode that I did with you, I didn't
think I did a really good interview. I know when I do an interview and I'm like, Oh man,
I'm flying, I'm hitting good points. There's like viral clips there. And then I know other
times when I'm like, that wasn't the best conversation, right? And it wasn't one of
the best conversations, but it's gone viral. It's got like 300,000 views on a channel.
It's very small. And I'm like, Hey, what are you doing on YouTube to get that kind of
views? He's like, Oh, man, I tell you, I hired this guy who, who works for Tom Bill, you work for this
person. He's like, I actually, before I even interviewed you, I had the title already decided,
and I had questions already pocketed that he gave to me. And I was like, What? Okay, let me talk to
this guy, because I just read from it. And now he works for us, first week of him working, all? Okay, let me talk to this guy because I just record and now he works for us first week of him working. All
of that, okay, doesn't happen. If I don't first focus on
building my network and the people in my circle, I would
have never been able to tap that person, I would have never
found that out. Or if I were to have ever been through a long
period of trial and error. But it was like overnight was able
to fix that have it up and long period of trial and error, but it was like overnight was able to fix that, have it up and running.
This is the stuff that people on the outside that see the business or hear maybe the numbers
and success, they don't see the inner workings of those little things that we're talking
about right now that are massive things, that are massive.
To be able to reach out to the Mike Matthews, the Jim Cohans, the Ben
Pukolskis, the Ben Greenfields, to be able to text them and within hours they all do
something as a favor coordinated for you. That doesn't happen had I not put hours
and hours and years and years into keeping relationships and doing for
others. But because of that, I've built a lot of credit
all over the place that allows me to do that.
And that has helped me be very successful
and I couldn't do it without all of you guys.
There's no way.
And I can't stress enough on how important that is first.
When I first put that time and effort
into my relationship with Mike Matthews,
with Jen Cohen, with Ben Pekolski,
I'm not going like, oh,
I get paid this much and so if I'm going to spend an hour with them,
I should get this in return and oh,
if I did this for Ben or Mike.
Or making a note like,
did a favor for Mike on August 25th, 2017.
After two more favors,
I will be asking for a favor.
Yes, because that's a follow-up I give for people.
How long do you do that?
I said, you do it forever.
And you know what?
One out of 10 may reciprocate it.
Because let me tell you, I told you that I reached out
to about 17 people that did it.
But I probably have done for 50 other people
who wouldn't reciprocate that.
That's just part of the game.
Like you just have to know that part of building your network is,
along the way, you're going to find people that don't have
the same character or don't value that the same way,
and you can't allow that to deter you from this vision or
this goal of building your network out and stop giving and
stop adding value to others because one bad apple or
five bad apples that don't reciprocate
that.
That's okay.
The way I look at that is I wouldn't want them in my circle anyway.
That's the type of person they are where I have continued to do things for them for a
long period of time and never asked anything.
The one time I asked for something that's really simple and basic and they blow me off
or they don't do anything.
It's like, oh, okay, we're not what I thought we were.
Good. I don't have to spend any more time investing in this person anymore. It
now opens up that opportunity for somebody else who will. And that's kind of how it works.
And then one day you look back after two decades of approaching your life this way and you're
like, I've got a pretty good Rolodex of people that are far more intelligent and successful
than I am. And I tell you what, that may be more powerful than being
the most brilliant person in the room is to have
a network of people like that that I could reach out
to that are far more intelligent and successful than I am.
The great sounding board too.
I found him just speaking personally in having close friends who are smarter, more
successful and so forth than I am.
I think that it also can produce a little bit of the effect of anybody who played sports
knows that when you're playing a game with a lot of people who are worse than you, if
you're the best player, one of the best players on the team, and that's just generally the experience and from game to game to game, it's very hard to continue
to grow as an athlete in that type of situation.
Whereas, if it's the other way around, if you're one of the worst players, you're good
enough to be on the team, but basically everyone is at least a little bit better to a lot better
than you,
that is going to produce as a rule, there can be exceptions, maybe you have an exceptional
individual who's just so driven internally.
But even in that case, what do they say?
You know, you need the flint and you need the steel, right?
So even for that person, they're going to grow faster by being surrounded by people who are better than them
and being okay with that and deriving motivation from that.
Well, I mean, what you find out, and I love sports analogies
because I'm such a sport nut too, is like, as you level up in sports,
you know, if you compared, if you compared rec league to organized league to high school,
to college, to semi-pro, to pro, what you start to realize too is there are different
types of characteristics and behaviors that each level tends to have.
If you are the lowest of the wrong and you get to be in this, let's say I'm a decent high school athlete
and I get lucky enough to make a college team
and I barely made the team,
but now I'm around all these great college players
and I realize like, oh shit,
dude, they all get up at five o'clock in the morning
before school and they run and they,
oh wow, a lot of them are actually following their diet.
Like damn, nobody in high school was doing that.
These guys are all doing that. Then you get to the pros, you're like, holy shit, a lot of them are actually following their diet. Like damn, nobody in high school was doing that. These guys are all doing that.
Then you get to the pros, you're like, holy shit, these guys are investing in their recovery
and they have specialists for this and they don't leave a practice until they've shot
a thousand more times.
Like damn, I've never seen anybody.
Business is the same way.
As you move up the rung of like, you hang out with your nine to five friends, they just
clock punch, they just do their job, they don't care anything about what's going on.
It's like there's habits, there's behaviors,
there's characteristics about,
even if there's a bunch of individuals,
they still share a lot of things in common
with how they approach life and business.
And then you move up and you're like,
oh, these are entrepreneurs that have a little success.
They make six figures a year
and have made a living for their family.
It's like, I see some things that are in common.
It's like, then you make it up
to the million dollar guys and girls, and you're like, oh shit. It's like, I see some things that are in common. It's like, then you make it up to the million dollar guys
and girls and you're like, oh shit,
there's like another level to how these people approach life
and business and then you get to the cent to millionaires.
And you know, it's like, as you go up,
you start and what's beautiful of being the weakest link
in that situation and putting yourself in those rooms
and getting in those circles is you're right.
You will naturally, you'll start to pick up those behaviors
and it works in the reverse too.
Yeah, it'll happen through osmosis,
whether you like it or not, it's gonna happen.
Yes, yes.
And that's why this is so important
because it'll either pull you up or it'll pull you down.
So I can't stress enough to the young entrepreneurs,
aspiring entrepreneur that's listening to this that if you are not evaluating your circle, or to pull you down. So I can't stress enough to the young entrepreneurs, aspiring entrepreneurs
that's listening to this, that if you are not evaluating your circle consistently, that's step
one. You have to be pained. Open your eyes and pay attention to who you're surrounding your time with.
And if you were the smartest one in the group, they are pulling you down. I don't care how motivated
you are as an individual and it doesn't mean you can't be growing them, but they are pulling you down. I don't care how motivated you are as an individual and it doesn't mean you can't be growing,
they are pulling you down.
And if the other opposite is true, you're actually in a room where you've got everyone
who's smarter than you, they're pulling you up.
Even if you keep falling and struggling, they're helping pull you up.
And so you have to pay attention to that because, like you said, by osmosis, you're going to
adopt some of those characteristics, the way they
communicate, the way they act, the behaviors that they do, for either good or bad. And so,
to me, it starts with understanding that. And I wish I knew that. I didn't learn that until
mid-20s. I wish I understood that at a younger age, because I think if I would have hacked into that
earlier, I think I would have climbed faster because I can
definitely look back at my life.
And I definitely had these like stagnant periods where I was comfortable, you know, where,
you know, paying the bills, having fun, having a good time.
But when I evaluated where I was at success and business wise, I was really plateaued.
Well, guess what was also happening at that time?
My circle was plateaued.
I was surrounded. I was hanging out with the same dudes.
I had already elevated above all of them.
I was the most successful friend of that group.
Because I had all this loyalty and attachment to them, I continued to hang out with them.
I wasn't proactively seeking to add other people in my life that were going to add value
and elevate me.
Once that light bulb went off, it was game on and still end to this day.
I just kind of have that.
I step back and go, who am I spending a lot of time with?
Or who am I not spending time with that I should be spending time with and proactively
go after?
And just to pick up on this comment of being pulled up or being pulled down, if you're
somebody who's trying to network up, so to
speak, then you do have to understand that in your case, Adam, and in my case to whatever
degree, if we're being cognizant about who we are investing our time and energy into,
we do want to make sure that we're not investing time and energy into people who are going
to pull us down. So it's okay if we're talking strictly success, business success.
It's okay if we're going to invest time and energy into somebody who has not achieved
as much business success as we have.
Totally fine.
But, and this comes back to character that you've been talking a lot about, but they
cannot be somebody who has not achieved as much business success and who has the character
or has a character that is going to direct bring us down.
And so in this conversation that I've had with people who have asked me, similar to
the people who ask me about this point of network and how did I approach this and how
can they better cultivate an inner circle
of people who are going to bring them up.
I always try to make this point that you have to think about it from the other person's
perspective and even coming back to giving value, reaching out saying, hey, I came up
with this new YouTube strategy that might work.
It's not that you're trying to, you're not trying to feel good about yourself.
It's not about stroking your ego. You're so important that people should give you their
time for free. Not at all. It's you can only invest so much time and energy into your relationships,
into your work, into anything that is outside of the hours that you spend in bed sleeping.
And if you are trying to be conscientious with your time and energy, you're very resistant
to investing it in places that is just going to produce nothing.
And that doesn't necessarily mean a financial return, but just nothing, or even worse, it's
going to be a negative return. And so coming back to character, if I heard
you right, what you are really looking for is evidence that this person has the character
that is not going to, if I bring them in, that they are going to help me pull them up. They're not going to drag me down.
I'm okay helping pull people up, but I need them to be all in. I need as much of their
assistance as they can give because otherwise it becomes too much of an impediment in my
own life.
Again, this is something I've tried to explain to people. I think that if I think about the people who are in my inner circle, I don't actually for me, I don't care too much about how successful quote unquote somebody has been. It's not so much about have what have they achieved, certainly not about how much money that they've made. However, I do very much care about who they are as a person. What I've found is the people I seem to resonate best with, they just have certain character.
They are a certain type of person who also just happens to, on average, succeed at something.
Maybe the something that they chose, it's never going to make them a centimillionaire,
but they chose it because they love it and they're good at it.
That's great.
Maybe it is something that makes them hundreds of millions of dollars and they're really
good at that.
That's great too.
I don't even instinctively admire the latter more just because they're richer.
I'm not personally impressed at all by money, really, but it's more about what does that
money represent? How did that person make's more about what does that money represent?
How did that person make that money? What does that say about them? Again, coming back
to who is this person? And it sounds like you go about it more or less the same way.
I do. I'm actually really glad that you made that point because I know sometimes it can
get misunderstood as like, I have this measuring stick of like, oh, you have to make a certain amount of money for me to do that. No, like, it's what I value. So I have men in my life
that don't make a lot of money at all, but they're incredible fathers, and I admire that attribute
about them. And I want more of that attribute. And so I make an effort to keep that in my circle,
because my definition of success isn't just a dollar level, it's also
being a great father, it's also being a great husband. So I'm attracted to character that,
now what tends to happen is those people many times are successful in all these other realms,
right? That's what you start to find is like, if he's a good dad, he's a good husband,
he's probably pretty good at his job. Takes ownership, solves problems, does all those things.
It's actually hard to not also succeed in your work if you're that kind of person.
You almost have to intentionally not succeed somehow.
That's exactly right.
I'm glad you clarified that because sometimes it can sound like I'm saying,
just go find all the rich guys you can hang out with. It's like, no, it's not like I'm saying, or just go find all the rich guys you can hang out.
I was like, no, it's not what I'm saying at all.
It's like, but what you tend to find out is something that a lot of
very highly sensed people have in common that also transfers
into other behaviors and habits in their life.
And so I'm looking for that characteristics in those people.
And yeah, so I have men that I surround myself with that, you know, I admire
something about them. To me, that's how I look at it. It's like, you are successful in an avenue
that I find a lot valuable in my own life. And if I admire that, like, I want that in my circle,
because I want that to bleed into me. Like, I want to pick up some of that energy. And it can be,
it can be fatherhood, it can be husband, it can be financial assets, spiritually. I have spiritual leaders in my life that are
broke. I mean, those guys don't make any money, right? They live off of a church type of income
but they help keep me grounded and focused on my highest value, that it's not money or
myself or something else. And so, you know, I admire that their ability to do
that. And so I want that in my life. And so, yeah, I think it's important that that people
understand that too, because I know it can be turned off for somebody who isn't motivated
by money. It doesn't you don't have to be motivated by money to attract that type of
person. And so it's important that you understand what that is. And I 100% have continued,
and I'm always evaluating that.
I'm always looking at what that looks like sometimes,
and that can kind of adjust and change.
If I, sometimes I can be so heavy in the business side
that I know like, man,
the other things that I know are really important to me,
I need to spend some time with my other buddy
who's like this.
Like I admire that about him,
and you know, because maybe I'm right in the trenches of
scaling a business or or firing somebody.
And so like all of a sudden my attention goes here.
And what I try and do is kind of evaluate that I might look back and go like, oh, wait
a second.
I've been focused so much here that my my spiritual guy and my my buddy who's a great
father that I love like I haven't been spending much time with him.
I need I need to do that.
I don't want to lose that balance in my own life.
Therefore, I want to make sure I keep that.
So yeah, I think that it doesn't have to be just a money thing.
To touch on the point you made about,
and this is such a great point too that you made,
about me evaluating,
because Katrina sometimes will do this.
She'll be like, what are you doing talking to that kid? Because I'll do this. When I see a young kid that I think is doing a lot
of the right things and putting the effort for, I will make time. Because I see a young
version of myself and I want to be able to give back and to do that. And so long as I see that in him,
and when I give my time,
I see them take those things and go apply it
and stack on the things, there it is.
That is enough return for me
because I feel like I'm not just spitting hot air
and the kid is actually looking for tactical advice.
Like they listened, they understood, and they
applied and got results. That's it. That's all that's in there. And that's how a kid like that.
Well, and that's why I say to her, I said, listen, I see something in this kid. And so I'm doing it
right now. Okay. Like to have these two kids that are, and I meet with them once a month, every
month, plus we're on text, right? I'm coming in spin it She's like and she's like, what are you doing? Spend all this time with these 17 year olds, right? And I'm like these two boys
Okay, showed up at my house. I was at home and
Knocked on the door to offer a car wash and Katrina's like hey, I met these two young entrepreneurs
I know how much you like young kids that are go-getters and doing like that
And so I booked one of the cars to be washed.
I'm like, well, what car do you wash?
I want this 17-year-old.
And she's like, oh, just that one.
I'm like, okay, well, that's fine.
We'll let them practice on that.
Well, kids come out, they do one of the best jobs
I've ever had detailed on my car for like super reasonable.
And I went, whoa, that was really good.
So then again, I booked another one
and then now I get to, I meet them for the first time
and I see there's young kids that are
hustling door to door and doing whatever and you know They're asking for advice from me and stuff like that and I go, you know, I tell you what let's meet sat down
Give them all these things like this is what I want you to do
Go to these car meetups go to these people that you know go offer some of your services for free
And then what they do that Adam we did that I want you to track these numbers. How many people did you call? How many people of them answered?
How many people show up? What are your average? What's your average wash turning out to be?
They bring me back in a spreadsheet all these things and my honey is if they're doing those things that is rewarding for me
It's rewarding for me to be able to give something to someone else like that to see them apply now
those same kids, if you
know every time they see me they're complaining about how hard it is and it's this and then
I ask them, yes did you did you do this and this that I told you last time? They go oh
yeah we haven't we haven't done that or oh I forgot about it. It's like oh I'm not talking
to those kids again. I'm not spending any of my time. It's not worth it. It's not. But 100% will do that
for someone that I see doing that. And it's in my nature to... And who knows? Maybe those
kids become uber successful in the next 5, 10 years and they can actually help me out
at one point in my life because I've seen that happen. I've seen me spend that time
early on investing in helping somebody even when there's no monetary return in me, but
I get the value of watching them apply the things
that I've learned and then go do
and build something for themself, very rewarding to do,
and also sometimes does pay back down the road.
So yeah, that's like something literally happening right now
in the last like three months and to that point of,
if I didn't see those characteristics in those kids,
I'm not letting them come in my house and spend two hours
talking to them about their car wash business that makes 40 grand a year.
You know what I'm saying?
That is, most people, that's what my wife is like, what are you doing?
Like, this is not any, this doesn't give you anything or help you with anything.
I said, no, it's not about that all the time.
You know, it's like, if I see something in somebody like that, I really admire that character.
Even though they're not at a financial level as I am or business level yet, I see characteristics
like that and I admire that.
If I can help foster it and sprinkle a little water on it and help it grow faster than what
it would without my input, then I'm very much so will carve out time in my busy week to
do that.
And so, you know, again, lesson to the kids that are listening to this, like,
you don't have to be rich to get in those circles. There's other ways to do it,
but you got to have the right character. You have to have the right attitude and work ethic
and lead with that and looking to add value to those people.
And, you know, eventually you'll have some people that are assholes
that don't give you time to date, but eventually you meet a Mike Matthews, you meet an Adam
Schaefer and we do see that we do value that. And then you keep doing that. And now you've
met Mike and Adam and a Sal and you know, and now your list has grown of all of these
people you can look up to that can help you, that can
answer questions for you and accelerate your growth.
And then one day you need some Instagram stories to go up, you send a text message and 18 Instagram
stories goes up and gets you thousands of followers overnight.
I mean, that's actually, that's how it works.
That's exactly how it works. That's exactly that's exactly how it works.
And it's the long game.
And it's hard for this instant gratification generation because it's not
like investing.
You can't look at it as as as mere transactions, right?
Because you're going to get really frustrated and disappointed
if you look at it that way.
That's right. Yeah. You're going to work a lot more than
the time you get paid to do a job or something like that for the time being.
But like investing in say real estate or stocks or the compounding interest over time builds
momentum and actually gets easier.
It gets easier as you get older and more experienced because you've been doing this for years.
You've been doing this consistently, not expecting a massive return.
And then as you get older, the returns on those relationships really start to pay dividends.
And it's an awesome place to be, but it takes a lot of time and a lot of work and a lot
of people aren't willing to put the work in and the time.
Well, we've been going, I think, over an hour and a half now work and a lot of people aren't willing to put the work in and the time.
Well, we've been going, I think, over an hour and a half now and probably could go another hour and a half. But for the sake of time, I think this is probably a good place to wrap up. We've gone all
over the place. I think it's been a great discussion. We got to a lot of what was on the list. It took a
little bit longer, which I hope is okay. But I thought it was a good discussion.
No, no, of course. I think what I'm going to do is I'm going to start having
Katrina like a book a previous hour so I can catch up with you first,
and then we could be more tactical for the list.
Hopefully, I mean, I hope everybody enjoys.
I mean, it's as authentic as real as you can get, right?
I mean, this is sometimes how you and I get caught up is over here,
and this is what it looks like.
I don't think we were formulating anything.
It's just good conversation with good friends.
So it's good to get caught up with you.
Absolutely.
And let's wrap up with where people can learn about this new service for this new product
and service, I guess, for trainers to help them build their business as well as anything
else specifically that you want people to know about
I'm assuming most listeners know about the podcast of course, but yeah, of course the podcast
But really the thing the focus is the trainer side
So really speaking mostly to all coaches and trainers or aspiring coaches and trainers
and I would even add in that category anything really in the
Health medical field where you're an entrepreneur.
So if you're a physical therapist, an acupuncturist, anybody who is building their health wellness
fitness business, even though we've titled it mind pump trainer on Instagram, I think
that the advice that we're giving is very related to all the fields, all fields of scaling a health and fitness business,
both in the digital world and the real world, right? So we address a lot of that stuff. So if
you're building that business, and I would start there with all the free stuff and on there,
you will see the connect to like all the free webinars that we do. And we're writing a lot of
white papers right now. So we have a lot of stuff on the back end that's happening that,
and again, this is the formula for how the other business was settled as we lead with the
giving giving lots of value to people and that's I don't need you to buy go take up all the free
stuff. Give give your best stuff for free because then people go wow they're giving they're giving
that away for free this information I wonder how good their paid stuff is. That's exactly it then
that that's exactly what I would say on here
is just go to the MindPump Trainer IG,
follow that, pay attention to the content,
engage in there with us
and take advantage of all the free content that we have.
And then you'll see the stuff that we have
when enrollment opens up and everything like that.
But at least go take advantage of all the free stuff
we got there, MindPump Trainer.
Awesome, love it.
Thanks, Adam.
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