My Favorite Murder with Karen Kilgariff and Georgia Hardstark - 300 - The 300th Episode!
Episode Date: November 11, 2021On the 300th episode of My Favorite Murder, Georgia and Karen cover the case of Patty Stallings and the story of the Chippendales murder. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and ...California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Hello.
Hello.
And welcome.
To my favorite murder, the 300th episode.
That's Karen Kilgareff.
Oh, that's Georgia Heartstar.
Thank you.
This is three freaking hundred.
This is their 300th episode.
How many times can we say it?
Wait for it.
What does it even mean, really?
I don't know.
I was just a, you know, arbitrary number in the world.
Uh, it certainly isn't our 500th, they'll tell you that.
But it feels much different than our 200th.
It does.
I mean, any of these little milestones, like in January, it'll be six years.
That feels like a, you know.
That feels like a biggie.
A hugegie.
If you think about it in terms of every episode is a day, we're coming up on our full first
year of episodes in a row.
Right.
365.
Sure.
Okay.
I mean, then maybe that gives some, some kind of context to the number.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But it kind of feels like turning like 44 or something.
Right.
Where you're like, okay.
Sure.
Great.
No, that's good.
It's like another year for sure, but I don't, but it's not like 40.
You know, we're not getting a facelift yet, but we certainly didn't just graduate from
high school.
That's for sure.
This podcast is in its mid twenties, you know, but it had a serious drug problem for
a while and it kicked it and we're all proud of it.
It's been strong.
It's been strong, but it's also been pretty fucked up.
Yeah.
It had to move home a couple of times and restart its life.
Who hasn't?
Well, truly.
And then it like got back on its feet.
It's fucking, you know, living its best life.
We've had a full apartment.
We've had a pod loft.
Yeah.
We've had our own studio.
Yeah.
And then we had the quarantine journey.
We forgot live shows.
We also had live shows all the time.
Yeah.
And now we have nothing, but Karen's room in Karen's house.
I wouldn't say we have nothing.
That isn't nothing at all.
It's not nothing.
It's so much.
It's so much.
I mean, that's the thing about all of these milestones.
Every single time is like, what the fuck happened?
We started a podcast for fun and now it's like the biggest career we've ever had.
We started a podcast for fun as two people who weren't even sure what the podcast was
going to, how it was going to go.
Yeah.
I was just talking recently and maybe it was the last episode of this podcast about the
time that I tried to do the, the Toronto rapist, the Carla Hamulca and whatever the rapist
name is.
The Ken and Barbie couple, couple rapists.
And I thought I was going to be able to tell you that story off the top of my head.
Right.
That's what we thought we were doing.
You can go back and listen to that absolute failure of an episode on my part with no paper
in my hands.
Well, you also were working on baskets at the time, right?
Talk show, the game show, talk show, the game show, and something else and, and some
other show.
Yeah.
So you didn't, we didn't know yet what was going to happen in our lives.
There was a, it was like podcasting was a thing that I had done in the past that was
easy because you just get together and chit chat.
But then we entered into the world of true crime podcasting, which is an entirely different
beast as we, as we now understand.
Yeah.
Like 300, I'll just say that this has changed my life so incredibly that, I mean, I never
expected my life to look like the look like what it looks like right now.
And I'm so fucking grateful, grateful to you, grateful to our listeners, grateful to Stephen
for coming along with us.
Yep.
Same.
And I just can't, I can't believe how lucky we got.
I mean, it is kind of funny to think about if you were a listener and hey, what's up
day one listeners, I wish I'd, we had a list of your names because we used to meet people
like at live shows instead of be like day one random scrolling through the podcast listener.
But we definitely have those people.
Imagine the journey they've been on.
I mean, it's so fun.
And I think that's true in a lot of the people who listen from the beginning and are like,
it's so crazy to hear you guys be like, we have 5,000 people in the Facebook group and
yeah, it's like now we have millions and millions of fucking downloads.
It's crazy.
I think the ultimate, the ultimate sign of success is we had to shut that fucking Facebook
down.
It got problematic and that's how you know.
It got trolled out of control and it wasn't a quite happy, fun, safe place to be anymore
for anyone.
For anyone.
No.
No.
That's where the fan cult exists.
I mean, that's kind of the thing of like as things changed, as things grew, there was
just all kinds of lessons that we had on tape, like recorded for everyone to hear.
Yeah, for sure.
Pretty insane.
What lessons await us?
I mean, in a month and a half and when it's six years, what are lessons are we going to
learn in that little period of time?
You know what?
Start journaling about the lessons and then we're going to read our lessons on year six
anniversary.
Yes.
The biggest thing that this podcast shows is that you just got to fucking try something
and do it and have fun with it and good things will hopefully come from there.
And do not expect perfection or make that some kind of a qualifier before you do something
as two people who were insanely far from it and thought it was kind of no big deal.
To start with, we then had to grapple with the idea that now we're exposed as being intensely
imperfect.
Yeah.
What are we going to do now?
I'll just say for myself, I think I can speak for you these days, but I'll say for myself,
it's okay to fuck up and it's okay to be imperfect because that's what evolution is about.
That's what actually learning and growing is about.
Yes.
And that's the part that you have to pay attention to is the point is to learn and grow.
If you insist on perfection from yourself and everyone, you're never going to be happy.
And then not learning and growing from your mistakes is just this huge miss, it's just
huge missed opportunity for you to become a better person.
But you also have to be selective about who you listen to and why you're listening to
them.
Yes.
Looking at you, Twitter.
Looking at you, all of social media.
But it's like we have been, and we joke about that, but we've actually been insanely lucky
because 99 point, I'll say 8% of all of you listening are some of the most lovely, generous,
open and cool people that we could hope to have a connection with.
Yeah.
Absolutely.
I just want to say it is really, you mentioned live shows.
It is, we're sad to not be doing them yet.
And we hope to soon.
But that really is, I mean, on top of the fact that we've all been locked in our houses
for a year and a half or more, that's the one thing I really, I miss so much.
Those live shows were some of the greatest moments of my life.
Wow, yeah.
Me too.
Walking out on stage like that and fucking hearing the reaction from the beautiful audience
is like, it just fills your entire heart up.
And then in all these cities where you're just like, oh, Pittsburgh can't be, they can't
be that interested in us, it's a boom, or like fucking Oslo, Stockholm, Sweden, I mean,
just nuts.
Oh, we've had so many experiences.
You me and Vince have had so many fucking crazy ass travel live, not even the live show.
That's amazing.
The travel and the fucking just planning and the meals and the crazy car drives we had.
Many car drives.
Many car drives.
And many cracker barrels.
Many cracker barrels, the fucking Starbucks we've enjoyed along the way.
The Sephora's where we've met new friends.
Yes, because we forgot our makeup.
One of us forgot our makeup that day.
All the phones I've left in all the bathrooms and all the airports around the world.
Thank you, bathrooms.
Oh, Jesus.
I miss traveling.
It'll come back.
It'll come back better than ever.
It'll be really, it'll be even sweeter when we get to do it.
That's right.
Yeah.
Just thank you.
300.
Yeah.
You got us here.
You just kept on tuning in.
Yeah.
You keep on tuning in.
Uh-huh.
We can't thank you enough.
We cannot.
And we won't ever.
And we won't.
We refuse.
So we're going to stop.
It stops here tonight on the 300th episode.
I'm never thanking you again.
This is our promise.
Uh-huh.
Okay.
Speaking of learning things, I have a quick thing.
I learned like a week ago, this hand gesture, do you know that?
Like the TikTok is making it big, the hand gesture of domestic violence incidents that
you can do to a stranger or someone else to let them know that you need help and to call
authorities.
Yeah.
And it's just like, it looks like sign language.
It's the thumb tuck into your palm and then you close your fingers around your thumb.
Yeah.
You hold your hand up like you're taking an oath.
Yes.
You fold your thumb in and then you curl your fingers down over your thumb like the thumb
is trapped and that's letting other people know I am in a serious situation and I need
help.
That's right.
So I just read like a couple days ago that it turns out that a fucking teen who was missing
from North Carolina, did you see this?
Yeah, that's how I found out about it.
Oh, okay.
She was rescued by Kentucky police after using that exact fucking hand signal that she learned
from TikTok.
She was 16 years old.
She was missing and she was in the car with her-
A doctor?
A doctor and did the hand gesture to someone in a car next to her.
They followed her for like seven miles on the phone with the police.
They pulled the person over and they arrested him because of that fucking hand signal.
Yeah.
How amazing is that?
Yeah.
It's also because it's like, I've also heard stories of people in a like a domestic violence
situation where the actual abuser is the one that answers the door and is telling the police
everything's fine and then the person stands up.
It just goes behind the person and does that.
So they-
I think I know it's not.
Yeah.
Oh, it's amazing.
It's very cool.
You know, the children of TikTok, some of whom are grown adults, they're really, it's
not just dancing over there.
No, it's not.
It's not-
A lot of social awareness going on.
Can I tell you my favorite thing I've seen on TikTok lately?
Yeah, which is the exact trite opposite of what you just shared.
My favorite is, it's like every morning I wake up and then I look at the news stories,
right?
Yeah.
And it's always something that sends you over to TikTok.
There's always some-
Yes.
They have to be telling you about what's popular over there.
About two different animal species hugging each other or playing.
God bless.
Gotta go over there every time.
The things that come up in my feed are often makeup based.
Oh.
Let's try this new TikTok makeup trick that makes men fall in love with you.
And I'm just like, wow, really?
Yeah.
So I hit it.
And essentially, it's little dots that you put on the outer, inner, lower, and upper.
So the inner corner, outer corner, up and-
Around your eye.
Yeah.
Like basically your eye is a compass and those are the four points.
Got it.
But tiny white dots.
So I'm like, interesting and these, the women showing that this is the trick are just like,
I did this and a guy at the club walked up and is like, oh my God, I can't stop staring
at you.
Meanwhile, this girl is so gorgeous where I was like, honey, you could smear shit under
both eyes like a football player and they would do the exact same thing.
It's not the-
Oh my God.
It's not makeup tricks, baby.
Yeah.
It's beautiful enough skin and a face that you can do front facing, close up makeup tips.
Yeah.
Right.
There's no-
It's also like, it kind of is, feels very bad to be like, do this thing so a man will
fall in love with you.
And it's like, that doesn't exist and that shouldn't be your goal in life and makeup.
I mean, true.
Well, I'm not telling people what to do.
I would hope that it's not, you know.
Of the many goals that you have.
How about the makeup trick that gets you an MFA?
Yes.
How about, you know, I mean, but look, that's not the kind of stuff that people, I wouldn't
click on that.
I'm like, well-
Oh, right, right, right.
What would work?
But then it's just like, you know, really what works of a guy coming up and going, I can't
take my eyes off you is being exceptionally beautiful.
Yeah, is being someone who men can't take their eyes off of.
Literally when my phone acts, if like I accidentally opened FaceTime, what I see in that phone
makes me drop the phone.
So God bless.
You're gorgeous.
No, I'm not.
I'm gorgeous and God loves me.
I'm saying it's great to be 22 and talk.
What I love is they're always like, use this base that makes your skin glow.
And it's like, bitch, your skin's glowing night and day.
You're 22.
You couldn't have more estrogen in your system.
You're a fucking oil, oh man, if I had thought of the word of it, it'd been great, but.
An oil, Derek?
No, like a hippie lamp.
What are those things called?
Oh, a love lamp?
Your face is a fucking lava lamp.
People can't stop staring at it, like go away.
You don't need tricks.
You don't need tricks or trips.
You don't need fucking makeup, actually.
You're looking great.
Just slap up in some lip gloss and be like, you're lucky to be here, friend.
That's the trick.
That's the true trick.
Oh.
Ken Mulder.
Still.
Ding, ding.
Could you imagine?
No, it also looks ridiculous, probably.
First of all, part of that, I know that makeup trick from the stage because that's how you,
that's how I should say people on Broadway make their eyes look bigger is you stick a
bunch of white makeup in the corner, in both corners of your eyes and it basically fakes
out.
We knew that in the 90s, TikTok girls, okay?
But I like, this is just like, it's these tiny, it's tiny white dots.
So also, somebody could walk and be like, were you painting your house earlier?
Maybe they're just, they're also a house painter and they're just excited to talk to you about
your trade.
It just doesn't sound like something I want to spend my time on, you know?
I had enough energy to put today a little concealer over the bruise that we talked about
on the mini-sode.
And that's about all I had time for, took the makeup off from under my eyes, which just
never seems to go away, even if I don't wear makeup for weeks.
And then covered my bruise and maybe a zit or two, and that's all I've got fucking energy
for.
Yeah, the people that are like, first you put on this primer, then you put on the concealer,
here comes the bronzer, it's like, what are you doing?
How long, every Zoom call I'm on, I have wet hair and, you know, a little bit of mascara
if I like you.
Do you know what it is?
It's like, the older we get and the more we need makeup, the less we have patience for
makeup.
And I was in my 20s and fucking glowing, like a fucking lava lamp, I put all the makeup
on, I didn't need it.
Now that I am older and graying and, you know, dehydrated most of the time and I can't use
a little makeup.
Slowly turning into an apple doll.
That's right.
I don't fucking care.
Can't be bothered.
I don't care.
Even the grays I'm getting, which I'm only graying in my right temple, which is really
a sexy look I would highly recommend.
Oh, dude.
You know about my skunk part.
I do.
We talk about it a lot.
Oh, God, it's just, it won't go away.
But I mean, yeah, that's, that's exactly it.
The less, the older you get, the less you care.
And the more you should be caring, but I don't know, because sometimes I see when the older
ladies do care and you're like, ooh, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's, you know, these days are
over for us.
I don't know.
All right.
What do you have going on?
What if I then just read a bunch of makeup tips?
Oh, this is becoming a makeup tip.
I mean, I do like, here's what I do like.
There are people, I think it's amazing and so cool that so many women and especially
young women have gotten so good at makeup, because then there's some people are like,
here's your five minute trick or whatever.
They're fucking artists.
They're artists and they get to be good at that and make money off of it.
Amazing.
That I love, because that wasn't real before.
It used to be for four shades of that cover girl shit.
I always had a clown mask on.
I was always like, it's got to get better than this.
And it did.
It does.
It did.
So, you know, do all the contouring you want.
It just doesn't work on me.
Like anytime I have like a, what's that highlighter on my cheeks, I look like I'm sweating and
a clown.
Like I'm a special kind of clown.
Hey, it's sweaty the clown.
Sweaty the clown's here to yell at you.
Oh, we didn't want her for our birthday.
Too bad.
My thing is, and this is, this is the first time this has ever happened to me.
I've watched a series, of course it's British, of course it's a procedural, of course it
stars Martin Clones from Doc Martin, which if you need a break, I think I'm definitely
in quarantine.
You and my mom love Doc Martin.
Because it's shot on the, I think the west coast of England as if it ever sees the sun.
So when you watch this TV show, it's like every day is a beautiful sunny day in this
port town of Port, whatever, I was going to say Port Charles, but that stays for our
lives.
But of course.
Can I also tell everyone that you're, you're doing the gesture of walking around?
I wish I could see it.
This is me walking around in this TV show.
It's like, that's how you know it's sunny and beautiful every day, it's because Karen's
working.
She's moving her shoulder.
Like she's walking around.
I walk with my shoulders like I'm actually in like some kind of a video.
Yeah.
Or like hearing a douche commercial, walking down the beach, waving to people, hey, so
Alexa, I'm here to talk about Maxi paths.
But that show is a great escape.
If you want to just.
Doc Martin you're talking about.
Doc Martin.
It's beautiful.
It's also, it's very entertaining, but it's also visually great.
Okay.
But the star of that show is a man named Martin Clones is a wonderful actor.
And he is now in a TV show called Man Hunt.
There are two seasons of it, and it's about a real Scotland Yard inspector, I believe
Scotland Yard, or real, let's say London detectives who has headed up to, he's a bunch
of, but they've made TV series about two of the big cases that he's worked on.
And so I just finished season two and it's on, I think it's for Acorn, unpaid, clearly.
But I did a thing last night where I was waiting like checking every day for the fourth episode
because it was for a four episode series.
And the build I was like, they got to catch this guy because there was a rapist in London.
I think it was the north side of London for 17 years and he got away with it and he was
only attacking old people.
So it was just like they, and they couldn't, like they did everything they could and they
still couldn't catch him and they finally did.
And so I was waiting for this final episode for so long to spoil or they got him that I
checked and then it basically had, it showed that the episode was there.
So for a long time it was just up to episode three.
Episode four came on, but then you couldn't hit play.
And I was like, what is it?
Is it the one where it says like it will be available on November 20, whatever?
No, it just says.
It says that on fucking HBO and it drives me fucking crazy because you think you have
another episode.
Yes.
And then it's like, no.
It's a teaser kind of.
Yes.
It'll look like this when you can hit play.
Yes.
Yes.
So frustrating.
So frustrating.
But I just kept going back kind of like, like my OCD kept bringing me back over and
over last night.
And then finally, I think going on to the actual Acorn page, I got to watch it.
Nice.
It was so good and then there's a series about the real guy in real life and he tells other
stories of stuff he's solved.
So I'm just like, oh, I'm in a whole new, manhunt is the series.
There's two seasons of it.
Really good.
And there's a bunch of people that we've, I've already talked about from other TV shows
that are in it with him.
Because they use all the same ones all the time because they are fabulous.
I'm still deep in the oxycodon, oxycotton fucking bullshit.
There's a, there's a documentary called The Crime of the Century about what essentially
we're watching on the TV show Dope Sick.
And they're both fucking incredible and so infuriating, but it's so important to find
to know about.
Yeah.
So I highly recommend this.
And Dope Sick is a series also?
Yes.
Dope Sick is a series.
Fucking Rizaria Dawson is awesome in it.
Like it's just a really.
And Michael Keaton, right?
Michael Keaton is fucking fabulous.
Come on.
It's great.
So literally today, just to watch this, just to talk about it, I finished season one of
Game of Thrones.
Finally.
Congratulations.
Oh my God.
Thank you.
How do you feel?
I feel good.
I already started watching the second season.
Right.
I did love fucking, she was fucking feeding that baby dragon off her teeth.
Mother of dragons?
Yeah.
Oh yeah.
Like you get it girl.
Cause I'd do that to a cat.
I gave birth to a cat.
Feed that thing off my teeth.
She could reach into the fire.
I have them.
That's how everyone knew she was the real deal.
Yeah.
Pretty cool, right?
It was pretty cool.
I liked that last scene.
I'm going to keep going.
I'm fascinated by the boy king.
Like what a little bitch.
Oh.
He's such a bitch.
I love him.
He's a legitimately bad person.
And I think there were lots of stories of that poor boy actor that got confronted when
that thing was at the height of its popularity.
I bet.
Yes.
And Peter Dinklage, I could just watch him on screen all day long.
I mean, truly a gift.
All of, I mean that whole cast, you know, so the hound, I've already bragged about this.
But that's, I like to say my friend, but I mean.
The dog?
The hound, the guy with the partly burned face.
Oh, I thought you meant the dog that belongs to John Snow.
Oh, the dog.
The durable.
Oh, the hound was cool.
So that's where McCann, he was in the book group.
Oh, that's right.
He was one of the stars.
So I got to meet him when I, when I went and worked on that.
Yeah.
He was really one of the sweetest, nicest, it's Scottish gentleman, I mean, of all time.
And he, seeing him in that, I'm like, God, he's a good actor.
He is.
I really like him, that character.
Yes.
But he's like, but he's mean and he's like all business and he's whatever.
And you're like, God, but then it's like, oh, he's so not like that in real life.
My favorite was when we used to go out after shooting, he was the one that he never understood
that I don't drink.
So we'd always go, he'd go, oh, do you need a drink?
And I go, oh, no, I don't drink.
And then he'd go, okay, I'll get you next round.
He always thought I meant right then.
Oh, I get it.
It's like when your grandma's like, you know, when you say to your grandma, I'm vegetarian
and she goes, but what about some chicken?
Yes.
Do you just haven't considered?
No, it's not.
How about a cider?
How about a cider?
How about a cider instead?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Oh, that's great.
You're in that.
You're in the club now.
I'm in it.
I'm in it till in it.
It's, it's gonna get so good.
Okay.
Dragons, dragons.
Dragons.
Should we do exactly right corner?
Let's do it.
Corner.
I mean, there's too many great things happening on the network.
Always.
We, we're only able to highlight a couple or would we be talking about it all night?
That's right.
Instead we have to talk about our own gratitude.
That's much more interesting.
We're very excited because on Burger Weineger's legendary podcast, I said no gifts.
He has from, you know him from Veep, you know him from Detroiters, you know him from being
one of the funniest people around, Mr. Sam Richardson is the guest.
So you should definitely go over and listen to those two talk about GIFs and whatnot.
Legendary comedian.
And we didn't say it on the episode last week, but it was the one year anniversary of I Saw
What You Did, our film podcast.
Yeah.
And so you should definitely go listen to Danielle and Millie talk about that because, you know,
they've been doing it for a full year.
They know what it's like now to podcast for a living.
And so you have to listen to their movie reviews or doing some amazing ones these days.
Female hosted movie review podcast, you guys, we got to support that.
And then also, so now you guys know Karen and I are doing a third episode every week,
the celebrity hometowns where we bring a celebrity friend on and they tell us whatever the fuck
their hometown is or their favorite story, which is so great.
So this week, you guys, it's already up.
Our guest is none other than Paul Frickin' Halls.
That's right.
He comes and tells us how he got interested in true crime and criminal justice in the
first place.
It's incredible.
That's an origin story.
Everyone wants to know.
Yeah.
Why are you yelling at it?
Why are you mad at us?
Oh, by the way, I talked to Michelle Bouteau.
She was horrified that she said Sondra instead of Chandra Levy.
She was horrified and she was like, I was so nervous to tell the story correctly.
And I was like, hey, I didn't catch it and I covered that story.
Right.
I didn't either.
We were both just so focused on our friend Michelle and being so excited to talk to her.
But obviously, nobody wants anything like that to happen.
So we had a couple of people let us know and correct us, which please understand that we
knew that the second it happened.
And so apologies for that.
Obviously, that is a mistake and she was horrified if we could have gone back and somehow
dubbed it.
We would have, but we couldn't.
Yeah.
So that was just a mistake.
And as we all know, mistakes do happen sometimes.
And yeah, acknowledging that.
All right.
Yeah.
Let's see.
We have Christmas ornaments for sale.
We think Frank is just tied up in all of the wiring right now.
Lowering your volume to Georgia.
Oh, no.
It's raising your volume.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Oh, no.
See, get up here, please.
Sorry.
See, that's, I told you, I'm okay.
Okay.
Frank just walked through all the wires.
He's very klutzy.
He pulled one, turned Georgia's volume up and then made me kick that fucking metal table
with my bare toes.
So hard.
Oh, that happened a long time after.
No.
I'm not klutzy.
You're klutzy.
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Yes.
Anything else?
I think that's it for the biz.
All right.
Well, I'm first today, right?
Yeah.
Do it.
Okay.
And I will.
In a way, we go, let me just put my dots around my eyes.
Oh, now I'm listening.
Now you're going to look at me while I do this.
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All right, today I'm going to tell you about the case of Patty Stallings and her conviction
for killing her infant son.
This one's twisty-turny.
The sources used today are the National Registry of Exonerations, Three St. Louis Post Dispatch
Articles by Tom Eulenbrock by Virgil Tipton, and then one by a staff writer, an Associated
Press staff article, People Magazine article written by Paula Chin, and the National Institutes
of Health.
And also, there's a forensic files about this.
So here we go.
In 1986, Patty is working at a 7-Eleven in St. Louis when she starts dating a frequent
customer named David Stallings.
They're both in their mid-20s, they're like flirty stuff, and then they eventually get
married on August 27th, 1988.
And on April 4th, they welcome a son named Ryan.
The new family moves away from the big city to Hillsborough, and they get, they move into
a home overlooking the lake, so they're starting their life together.
Around two weeks after his birth, little Ryan starts experiencing health problems.
He can't keep his formula down, he's vomiting at least once a week.
The problems don't go away, but the Stallings is, quote, kind of get used to it.
According to People Magazine, over the July 4th weekend that year, Patty finds three-month-old
Ryan, quote, listless in his crib, staring at the ceiling, breathing heavily, and his
lips are shut tight.
I know, it's awful.
Patty immediately gets in the car and starts driving Ryan to see his pediatrician at Children's
Hospital in St. Louis, but she's like panicking, so she gets off on the highway too soon and
ends up instead going to Cardinal Glen and Children's Hospital.
This is a mistake that will haunt her.
So Ryan is immediately put on a respirator, and many tests are conducted.
On July 7th, blood results show a high level of ethylene glycol and acetone in his body.
Ethylene glycol is a colorless, it's sweet, it's found in radiator antifreeze, it's found
in industrial solvents and in resins, and it can be fatal in large enough doses.
The hospital tells the Stallings is that their son has been poisoned with antifreeze.
So the officials at the hospital, they call the Sheriff's Department and also the Missouri
Department of Family Services.
So they start interrogating the couple separately, of course.
The police ask questions, like, does the couple ever fight if Patty's jealous of the baby?
And they even tell David that Patty failed a lie detector test, which isn't true.
The results were just inconclusive, and of course, lie detector tests either way are
bullshit.
David, of course, thinks the police are crazy, that he doesn't believe his wife would ever
harm their son, and it doesn't matter what he thinks, of course, because the police are
convinced that Patty poisoned her baby.
They theorize that she did it by putting antifreeze in his formula, and when they do a search of
the family home, they find two bottles of antifreeze in the basement, and one of them
is half empty.
So of course, real quick, we all know about Munchausen syndrome by proxy, WebMD describes
it as a psychological disorder marked by attention-seeking behavior by a caregiver, often the mother.
And essentially, that person gains attention by seeking medical help for exaggerated or
made-up symptoms for their child or whosoever in their care, and it often makes the symptoms
if there are any worse.
So over the next two weeks, Ryan remains in the hospital and his condition improves.
When it comes time to go home, CPS shows up, and instead of going home, they take Ryan
into custody.
So Patty and David are only able to see Ryan like one day a week at 10 a.m., the visits
are totally supervised, they're not allowed to give him anything edible.
On August 31st, Patty and David visit Ryan like normal, except this time, Patty's left
alone with her son from like three to eight minutes only, like a very short time, which
wasn't allowed, but somehow happened.
And then later, she feeds Ryan a bottle of formula that the foster mother had prepared.
And everything seems fine, the stallings leave after their weekly visit, but four days later,
Patty and David are notified that Ryan is back in the hospital after showing signs of
poisoning again.
And the next day, September 5th, Patty is arrested for assault.
On September 7th, Patty is notified that Ryan only has a few hours to live, but she's not
allowed to visit her son, and little Ryan dies in his father's arms.
I know, it's horrible.
She's not allowed to attend his funeral either.
And then she's told that she faces first degree murder charges and that the death penalty
is on the line.
I know.
So, around the same time, it almost seems like this different case contributed to this
river around parental murder.
So, in 1990, this woman named Paula Sims is convicted and given a life sentence in the
death of her six-week-old daughter, Heather.
And she later admitted to also the 1986 death of another one of her infant daughters, Lorelai.
And in both deaths, she initially claimed that an intruder broke in and kidnapped the
girls.
And it turns out she suffered from postpartum psychosis.
So, it's just this horrible story, and I think it must be in the front of people's minds
at the time, too.
So, it didn't seem that far-fetched.
A month later, Patty is in jail awaiting trial when she finds out that she's four months
pregnant.
On February 17th, Patty is transported from jail to a hospital where she gives birth to
another son named David Jr., and they call him DJ.
Patty is allowed to see her baby exactly two times before he's placed in protective custody.
Less than a month after his birth, on March 3rd, a social worker tells the Stallings
that DJ is sick.
He's, quote, listless, he won't eat, he's frequently vomiting, and he has problems going
to the bathroom.
Of course, Patty is immediately familiar with these symptoms, since they're exactly what
Little Ryan had experienced, but Patty hadn't been anywhere near him since his birth.
DJ sent to Children's Hospital in St. Louis, the hospital where Patty meant to take Ryan,
but had taken the wrong exit.
And this hospital diagnoses DJ with something called methylmalonic acidemia, or MMA.
According to the National Institutes of Health, MMA is a rare genetic disorder that affects
the body's ability to break down certain parts of proteins and fats.
This leads to a buildup of toxic substances and bouts of serious illness.
So, today, most hospitals screen newborns for MMA, but that was in the case when Ryan
and DJ were born.
So, why wasn't Ryan diagnosed with MMA?
To explain this, we're going to talk about some science shit real quick.
MMA produces propylene glycol, which is a single carbon atom away from being ethylene
glycol.
So, yeah, their makeups are so similar that confusing them in the lab is super easy.
So, essentially, these babies' bodies make something that's so much like the antifreeze
poison that it looks like it's being given to them when actually it's what their body
naturally makes.
Exactly.
Wow.
Exactly.
And if you don't have experience with that exact very rare genetic makeup, you won't even
know what to look for, especially in a random lab.
And I bet especially, too, when they're like, can you test this baby's blood?
We think the mom is poisoning them.
And if the lab already knows that, of course, they're going to be like, yeah, you're right.
Look at this.
Yeah.
And it turns out that's exactly what happened in Ryan's case.
The lab misread Ryan's blood test results and thought he had the presence of ethylene
glycol when he really had propylene glycol.
Had the lab properly diagnosed Ryan, he would have been treated with vitamin B12 and he
would have lived.
Oh, that's simple.
That's horrifying.
I know.
And Patricia wouldn't have been charged with murder, but that's not what happened in this
case is still just beginning.
So the Stallings believe Ryan most likely had MMA, of course, so new tests are performed
on Ryan's blood, which had been saved.
Patty's released from jail, pending results before her trial, and the assistant prosecutor
tells the media that at the test show that Ryan had MMA, he'll drop the charges.
However, he adds that he has no reason to believe the original tests are inaccurate.
So the blood tests come back and they're the same as before, except this time one lab
concludes that both ethylene glycol and propylene glycol are present in the blood.
So it doesn't really exonerate her in any way.
And Patty's taken back to jail to face the first degree murder charges of Ryan.
Patty's attorney tells the trial judge that based on one of the lab's results, Ryan could
have died from MMA, but the attorney can't find any medical experts willing to testify
and the judge won't allow DJ's results in court because of that.
So it doesn't seem like the defense attorney fought hard enough to find evidence to exonerate
her.
Well, also, I think that's really saying something.
If the defense attorney was saying they can't find someone, it's like people are saying
they don't want to get involved in arguing for the fact that that rare disease exists
or something.
Right.
And as you'll hear, there are experts in it that could have been found.
Paid for.
Right.
Maybe.
Yeah.
That's true.
Yeah.
Maybe.
It's been money.
In January 1991, Patty's three-day trial begins since her attorney can't bring up Ryan
dying of MMA, so they can't even mention that disease.
Her attorney instead tells the jury that he could have died from natural causes to which
prosecutor George McElroy III responds, quote, you might as well speculate that some little
man from Mars came down and shot him full of some mysterious bacteria, like calling bullshit.
He says there's no other way to explain how ethylene glycol made its way into Ryan's body.
And police and social workers testified that Patty showed little emotion upon learning about
Ryan's death when she was in prison, which we all know, of course, can't be quantified.
On January 31, Patty's convicted of first-degree murder and assault and is sentenced to life
in prison.
After hearing the verdict, David, the husband faints it has taken to the hospital, so he
totally still supports his wife and doesn't believe she did anything to the case.
Well, especially he knows what happened.
Right.
Even before, yeah, now, of course, but even before that, he would, he was like, there's
no fucking way.
Yeah.
For her first month in prison, Patty can't sleep or eat.
She loses so much weight that she goes from a size 11 to a size 7.
And then she finds Buddhism, which teaches her to do whatever it takes to survive.
And it's her only way she survives this, she says.
What?
I've never heard Buddhism described like that.
What?
Buddhism is like, do whatever, I was a tire.
You know what Buddha taught.
Anything it takes.
That's right.
That's right.
Squash the little eye.
May I counter suggest that maybe it's, Buddhism is accepting that life is suffering and that
essentially being in the present moment and accepting, you know, that that not wanting
things to be different, that level of acceptance actually releases a lot of the pain that people
go through, always thinking their life should be different.
Right.
All right.
I mean, maybe that, maybe that.
Karen, there you go.
I would just like to be the prosecutor here and argue.
I appreciate that clarification.
Just a personal clarification.
I could be wrong.
I don't think you are.
I'm not a Zen master.
You don't think it's that, do whatever it takes, eye of the tiger.
I mean, I bet you there are certain sects of Buddhism where they're like, we can kill
you with our hands.
We just are choosing not to in the present moment.
That's what it is.
Okay.
In May 1991, Patty's case is featured on Unsolved Mysteries and this dude, Dr. William
Sly, who's the professor and chairman of the Department of Biochemistry and Molecular
Biology at St. Louis University, happens to be watching.
Thank God.
Uh-huh.
He contacts Dr. James Shoemaker, who's the director of the university's metabolic screening
laboratory, and he says yes, and he ends up testing samples of Ryan's blood.
He concludes that Ryan did die of MMA, so thank God this guy was watching.
Yes, for real.
Dr. Shoemaker sends the samples containing MMA, so he sends the sample to seven different
commercial labs to see who will get it right, and out of the seven labs, three of the labs
come back with the wrong results.
So that's how easy it is to read the results incorrectly.
So it's just, it's the lab technician reading them wrong.
It's not even them coming out, you know, wrong.
Right.
Because it's such a fine difference.
It's human error or a human inexperience, I guess.
So prosecutor McElroy still doesn't believe Patty didn't kill her son.
He asked Dr. Sly and Dr. Shoemaker to find an expert on the matter.
And so they go to this guy, Pirro Ronaldo, who's a renowned geneticist from Yale.
He looks over the results.
He spends the next six weeks investigating the case and determines that the two doctors
are correct.
So according to People Magazine, Ronaldo says, quote, the scientific findings used to convict
Patty were grossly inaccurate, and he says, technically speaking, I've never seen such
a lousy work.
It's a classic case of misdiagnosis.
Whoa.
I know.
So finally, this guy, McElroy, the prosecutor, is convinced he actually asks a judge to
drop the murder charges and orders a retrial due to the inadequate legal defense she had
gotten, not due to the new blood test findings.
So on July 30, 1991, Patty's released and placed on house arrest while she waits another
trial.
And then McElroy tells the media he hopes to bring Patty back to trial again, briefly
mentioning that the blood test might put a hitch in his plans.
So he's still fucking trying to go after her.
Then this is kind of surprising to me.
On September 30th, he announces that all charges have been dropped, and he personally
publicly apologizes to Patty and her family.
Whoa.
I was totally fucking wrong.
He goes, we can't undo the suffering the stallings have endured during this ordeal.
And I apologize.
I hope their lives will be happier and fuller in the future.
Holy shit.
I didn't think it was going to turn like that.
No.
Wow.
Well, you never, you see so many of these prosecutors just ignoring everything and going
after them, or then being like, I still think they're guilty, even though it's proven
beyond a reasonable doubt that they're not.
Or there's some offense, those stories where it's like, and then they were up for re-election
so they couldn't lose a case like it turns into stuff that has nothing to do with what's
actually happening.
Exactly.
Well, good for that guy.
Yeah.
And Patty says to the media, they can't put a price tag on what they've taken from me.
No.
Once she's released, she's finally able to mourn the loss of Ryan.
She tells the St. Louis Post Dispatch quote, I've not concentrated on that a lot because
I knew that it would break my strength.
And I needed what little strength I had left to make it through this.
Maybe now I can start accepting this now that the big fight's over.
Little 19 month old DJ who has spent his entire life in protective custody is finally allowed
to go home to his parents.
And what I heard mention about this that's interesting is that for some reason he still
wasn't allowed to go home with his dad, even though it was Patty that was accused.
But if he had gone home with his dad and gotten sick, maybe the dad would have ended like
they wouldn't have because, you know what I mean?
Yes.
That makes sense that they couldn't risk, they weren't going to risk another child's
life thinking that she or she or they somehow poisoned their first child, they couldn't.
But if he had gone home with the dad and gotten sick, they would have just said that they
both poisoned him instead of them finding out that he was actually sick.
So it's almost, it sucks, but it's kind of, it's a fortuitous thing that he didn't go
home with his dad.
I'd say the protection actually served everybody.
So he had only met his mother the day he was born.
So not having a bond with her child is extremely difficult for Patty.
She powers through it.
She has to learn how to care for a child with MMA since she never got the chance to do that
with Ryan.
DJ has to be fed through a tube, sickness like the flu or colds can be life-threatening.
So get your healthy kids vaccinated for the ones who can't.
That's right.
But Patty and David try to focus on spending as much time as possible with their son while
they can.
So David and Patty, they sue Cardinal Glennon Hospital.
They sue the St. Louis University Hospital.
They sued the doctors, Smith Klein Beach and clinical laboratories where the labs were
misread.
In total, in 1993, they're awarded several million dollars.
Yeah, I bet.
The next year, McElroy, the prosecutor's up for reelection, Patty donates $10,000 to
the campaign of McElroy's opponent.
Oh, shit, Patty.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah, you did it.
Shit.
And the opponent ends up winning.
That's Robert Wilkins.
Still, that guy apologized.
That's big.
I'm sorry.
That's big.
That's what we were just talking about.
Yeah.
Like, you've got to take responsibility for your attitude.
He did the bravest thing, yeah.
Yeah.
And Patty's heartache doesn't end when she's paid in millions.
She and David eventually split.
In 2013, DJ passes away at the age of 23, although I can't find what causes his death.
There's so little information after the 90s on this entire family.
David Stallings, the father, dies after a long illness in 2019.
But I can't find a lot of information about Patty after that, but clearly she was a very
strong woman who powered through with the help of Buddhism and being a badass.
And that is the case of Patty Stallings.
I mean, I would imagine she wants nothing to do with being in the public eye in any
way, because that's what a horrible situation to have been in and the amount of loss even
before she went to jail.
I mean, just like, that's horrible.
Yeah.
Terrible.
Unbelievable.
It's fascinating, it just, wow, I've never heard of it.
Yeah.
I think I definitely saw the unsolved mysteries way back when, when I was a kid about it.
So it's always kind of stuck with me.
I think there was definitely a law and order SVU that was similar, where the mother was
arrested for poisoning her child, but it actually, they traced it back to something in the formula.
Yeah.
Okay, this week for our 300th episode, I'm going to tell you the story of the Chip and
Dale's murder.
Ooh.
Do you know this one?
I've been hearing things about it lately, but I don't know about it.
Okay.
So this has hit, hit the pop culture scene that you, I know you love to hang out in lately
because there's all kinds of projects going on about it.
And I just saw an article and was like, the what?
Yeah.
I just looked it up and I simply can't believe that it's real and that I never heard about
it before.
Yeah.
I don't know the details at all.
Okay.
Awesome.
I'm going to tell you.
So sources for this, a lot of the names of the articles give away what I'm talking about.
So I'm just going to tell you, there's an article for ABC 7 Chicago by Emily Wipp, Boaz
Halliban, Jack Tate, Glenn Ruppel and Lauren Ephron.
There's an LA Times article by Edward J. Boyer.
There is a New York Times article by Todd S. Purdom.
There is an article for grunge.com by Karen Corday, Wikipedia article, a couple of Wikipedia
articles.
There's an LA Times article by Henry Weinstein.
The heavy.com had an article with no byline in it about this topic.
And of course, People Magazine, there's an article by Christina Duggan.
And then there was one for The Independent by Phil Reeves.
Those will all be listed in detail in the show notes.
Okay.
So this starts April 7th, 1987.
So we're back in the height of the triangle neon pink.
You know it.
You love it.
The 80s.
Coke fueled.
Coke.
Coke.
Coke classic.
New Coke may have already been premiered, I'm not sure.
Crystal Pepsi.
Crystal Pepsi was out and about.
We had, Jazzercise had already hit and peaked.
It was an amazing and very fertile time in America.
So 46 year old Nick DeNoya is working in his Manhattan office on the 15th floor of his
West 40th Street office building.
He's a TV producer and director.
He's also a choreographer and a two-time Emmy Award winner for his NBC Kids show Unicorn
Tales.
Don't remember that and that's prime kid show time for me.
Yeah.
It was an Emmy Award winner.
Maybe that was too high quality for you.
Oh yeah.
I want trash.
Give me trash.
In 87.
But Nick's most recent and arguably most lucrative venture has been choreographing original dance
numbers for the world famous male dance review, Chip and Dale's.
Yeah.
That guy's got a fun life, I think.
I think so.
So if you grew up in the 80s, you knew about the Chip and Dale's dancers, which is very
strange.
Definitely.
Because they were male strippers.
Right.
That had basically been brought to pop culture.
Well, it's almost like Playboy a little bit too, where it's like, if you're a kid you
still know what Playboy is.
Exactly.
Oh, taboo fun thing.
Now I just tried to look it up to see.
It felt to me like I'm sure there was a Donahue episode about Chip and Dale's because I feel
like I saw them.
Of course, there's the infamous and insanely hilarious Saturday Night Live sketch with
Patrick Swayze and Chris Farley, where they are both Chip and Dale's dancers.
That really is one of the funniest and most legendary sketches of all time.
That was from like 1990, I think.
But Chip and Dale's was so huge and they were such a kind of like a cultural turning point.
They were really big.
But I also, like it's too early, but I had memories of them making like a guest appearances
on like The Love Boat.
Yeah.
But The Love Boat is 270 years.
Yeah.
I just knew that they were around and as like a...
Maybe Dallas?
Were they on an episode of Dallas?
Yeah, I bet you on shows people would go see Chip and Dale's.
And then that's how kind of like I as a 13-year-old wouldn't know about them.
Right.
No, it was a known quantity.
They were everywhere.
Yeah.
So, Nick DeNoyer was a big part of the international national success of Chip and Dale's.
Yeah.
Are you going to talk about what they wore too?
Because I feel like that you need to have a picture in your head of what they were wearing.
Okay.
So, if you are a Gen Z-er and you're just like, I don't know what you're talking about.
This was an all-male stripper dance troupe.
And they wore black spandex pants, no shirt, white cuffs, like tuxedo cuffs.
Tuxedo cuffs and tuxedo collar and like little bow ties, which was actually, and I will talk
about this later, a rip off of the Playboy outfit that women used to wear.
So they kind of appropriated that slightly.
This was very like the 80s idea of sexy men, which is a ton of like feathered hair, mustaches,
very hairy chests, very oiled chests.
Like cut and fucking worked out to high health.
Yes.
They were, these were, you know, strippers, male strippers, but they were like, you know,
the real high class, real, like they look like male models.
And when you look at pictures of them now, you're like, oh, these actually all look
like gay porn stars because that was like the big mustache and the chef's kiss of male
models.
Yeah.
Truly just real adonises.
Okay.
So essentially this is a business that in 1987 was just like, couldn't have been huger.
So around 340 on April 7th, 1987, an unnamed business associate goes to Nick's office to
go talk to him and he finds him dead on the floor of his office.
He's been shot through his left cheek.
And when the police arrive on the scene, they note a bullet wound from a large caliber gun
has been used.
And based on the position on the floor, it looks like Nick was shot as he was just sitting
at his desk when the murderer fired.
There's no signs of a struggle and nothing seems to be missing or stolen.
So it's immediately very suspicious.
Captain Edward Minogue leads the investigation and witnesses tell him that they saw a man
about between 35 and 40 years old, possibly Hispanic, approximately 5'7", 145 pounds,
who had been hanging around Nick's office and around the building before the shooting
and after the shooting.
They describe this man as being clean shaven, having either black or salt and pepper hair,
wearing a dark tan jacket and jeans.
So they immediately start digging into Nick DeNoy's business history for possible suspects
and motives being that the murder took place in his office.
So the year before, DeNoy ran a traveling Chippendales troop under the name Chippendales
Universal.
So the troop was associated with the official Chippendales Company, but Chippendales Universal
was an independent organization that paid royalties to the original Chippendales Company.
It was like a, what's it called?
Like a franchise.
So the general manager of the New York Chippendales Club was a man named Thomas Lord and he said
that DeNoy had recently parted ways from the Chippendales Company altogether, Chippendales
Company altogether.
So we'll go into the history of Chippendales.
So it was started in 1979 by a Los Angeles entrepreneur named Soman, but nicknamed Steve
Banerjee.
So Steve Banerjee was born in what's now Mumbai, India on October 8th, 1946.
He emigrates to the United States in 1969 and settles in Los Angeles.
So when he first gets to LA, he owns a couple gas stations.
He works at them as an attendant.
He tries to do a bunch of other business things like he tries to kind of work his way through
different businesses.
None of them go very well.
Born in 1975, he decides to buy a bar that's over on the west side of LA and he names it
Destiny 2, Roman numeral 2.
So he has these dreams of like a successful nightclub.
So to drum up business, he tries all kinds of entertainment.
So he tries, of course, exotic dancers, magic acts.
There's even female mud wrestling, which was, remember all the rage back in the late 70s,
early 80s?
It was.
So gross.
But none of that really hits and nothing takes off.
Then in 1979, Steve takes some very fateful advice from a bar regular, a guy who calls
himself the Canadian Pimp.
This man tells Steve that he should try hosting an all-male strip show so that women come to
his bar.
And this man's name is Paul Snyder.
So that name might sound familiar to you and that's because he was the boyfriend of Playboy
Playmate Dorothy Stratton.
And the two had very recently moved to Los Angeles from Vancouver, Canada, because Paul
Snyder had sent Dorothy's nude photos into Playboy and she immediately, they were like
moved down here, you're in the magazine.
She immediately got into, got movie parts.
She like, her career took off huge.
The next year she was Playmate of the Year, 1980.
And of course, Paul was like a Spangoli-like guy.
He made her marry him.
He became her quote-unquote manager.
So he is thought he was a mover and shaker in Los Angeles.
And the more successful Dorothy Stratton got, the angrier he got, there's a lot of cocaine
involved.
He ended up murdering Dorothy Stratton and then killing himself.
It's a plot of the movie star 80.
It's very infamous.
And Paul Snyder is the guy who gave Steve Bangerie the idea to start Chippendales.
That is wild.
And it was Dorothy Stratton's idea for the dancers to wear cuffs and, holy shit, just
like Playboy Bunnies.
She basically was like, oh, you got to do this.
Isn't that insane?
What a weird little tidbit.
It's like the creepiest true crime crossover ever because apparently their apartment was
in West LA, probably near where this bar was, so like, I guess it was their hangout.
It's so strange.
What the fuck?
Yeah.
And here's the thing, you know, Paul Snyder, he had, he was trying to be a mover and shaker
in the business.
And the truth was, he was right.
This was an idea whose time had come.
Because basically the timing of this, of like turning, you know, the 80s beginning was this
time or women for the first time were like going to work on masks.
They were working women.
Women were independent.
They had their own money.
They weren't getting married right away.
Right.
With the birth control pills.
Birth control pills.
I mean, women were, it was the beginning of like first wave feminism where people were
like, I don't immediately have to get married and have a kid to have my life be full.
And suddenly there was this place and this was, aside from, of course, gay bars where
men would be dancing for each other.
This was the first ever all male strip show that was catered toward women.
Wow.
So immediately he starts doing this, this all male strip club night and women are lining
up around the block.
So he decides to rename the bar Chippendales and he, and the idea is, because he's naming
it after an 18th century furniture designer, like Chippendales furniture is like the most
expensive, fanciest furniture because to Steve, that name represented Cure Class.
And that was one of.
Oh, I did not know it was named after that.
Yeah.
So he's basically trying to do upscale strippers for women because now instead of it being,
you know, like down by the airport or whatever, it's kind of like saying, this is a high class
kind of form of entertainment where you can come and essentially, like it was allowing
women to arguably for the first time ever go out with their friends, celebrate their
sexuality freely in a public space and feel like safe about it and good about it.
And almost feel like it's this commercial endeavor as opposed to they're sneaking into
some bar and it's kind of dirty.
And it's empowering too, because you get to make the cat calls with the men now, like
especially back then, it was like that cat calls were like, everyone thought it was a
form of fucking flattery all the men did.
And now it's like the women get to take that back and start being the fucking objectifiers.
Exactly.
It was complete role reversal.
And essentially these men of Chippendales were gorgeous, smiling, boiled up into it.
They were voluntary sex objects.
They were dressed like construction workers, firemen, doctors, and all of these all female
audiences were basically saying, it's our turn to objectify you now.
And they were fucking coming in droves to do it.
They were throwing their money at these men.
The whole thing was, you know, would we say empowering?
I don't know, but it was freeing.
It was freedom, the freedom to kind of do the thing you thought you would never be able
to do.
Right.
And it really was like a lightning bolts culturally.
So Steve obviously sees and knows that he's got a hit on his hands.
So he aims to make Chippendales the most lucrative club in Los Angeles.
So this I love.
There's the fire code capacity for his building was 299 people.
He consistently exceeds the number.
At some nights he had 600 women in this club.
Oh my God.
And there's a picture.
There's an amazing picture I'll show you after.
It's a stripper leaning into a crowd so that a woman can give him money or two.
I think they're kissing actually.
First of all, every woman looks like everybody looked when I was a senior in high school.
Like that kind of like your hair was really curly, but it was also a by level.
Yeah.
And a lot of triangle earrings, shoulder pads, tons of shoulder pads, but like they're sitting
so so normally it would probably be, you know, like there's the floor where the dancers
are performing.
There's some steps up and then there's, you know, cocktail tables along the back.
But there are women sitting on the steps, sitting on the floor.
The way the guy is leaning, his package is right in this girl's face.
Like it's hilarious.
There's women packed in and they're, they're all like overjoyed.
Every woman is like smiling and going crazy.
Oh my God.
I love it.
So it's, I mean, it must have been, I would have killed to be those early days.
It must have been insanity.
Yes.
Yes.
It must have been those like the early Beatles concerts where it's like teenage girls screaming
out all of their anxiety and all of their like, oh my God, I love John Lennon, pent
up anger and all these things.
All of it where it's like this, this thing is happening that they've never been able
to do before.
And now they get to do it.
And everyone's into it.
Oh my God.
I got to ask my mom if she went there because Janet was fucking in the front row, you know
it.
I bet she went after work one time, like with her girlfriends, right?
Do you want to text her?
Do it.
Oh my God.
Okay.
So I'll keep telling you.
So basically at least twice the LAPD had to raid the club because of capacity and safety
code violations, but then the raids made the nightly news, which then spread the word
that there was an all male strip club in Los Angeles.
So even more customers flocked to Chippendales.
And then the rumors start to circulate that Steve was the one who was filing the complaints.
So he could get free PR on TV.
Smart.
Genius.
And of course, word spreads across LA like crazy.
And because it's LA, the club gets more and more hotter and hotter young men who are of
course acting hopefuls that have moved to town.
They're like, man, I could dance, I could strip or whatever, you know, they want to make a
quick buck.
There's an endless supply of guys like that, like untapped.
So these dancers really were like, if you look up, they were the picture of like 80s
and 80s male hotness, which is so weird now because you're like, that looks like a dad.
It's like a 40 year old dad.
It's like a 22 year old actor.
It's so funny.
Everybody looked so much older in the 80s.
What is it?
Like, I guess it could be perspective, but do they drink a lot of milk?
Well, also it was just like, it was the style, I don't know, but like the guys that were
seniors when my sister was a freshman, I remember looking at your book, they looked like 30 year
old men.
It's a weird thing.
Yes.
It's a weird thing.
So yes, 100%.
There was a guy that was a senior and my sister was a freshman, she would talk about how when
they would do volleyball for PE, he would hit the volleyball just with his elbow.
Like it was no big deal.
And they, it would just like make them go insane.
It was a different time.
It was a very different time.
It was a very footbally kind of like jock, the steals, the Steelers and the Rams and whatever.
Yeah.
It was jock central.
And this was like the jocks were dancing for your pleasure.
Okay.
I mean, that's a pretty nice turn.
All right.
I think.
I'll take it.
Okay.
So one such talent was a man named Reed Scott, who auditioned to be a dancer in the early
80s, probably like 81.
He gets the job, then he works his way up from dancer to he becomes the emcee of the whole
show.
And then he eventually starts working on the business side and the business is exploding,
of course.
So in 1981, Banjari hires TV producer and director Nick DeNoya to choreograph the dancers move.
So I think in the beginning, it was kind of like, just come out and strip and do what
you can.
Nick DeNoya comes in with that, you know, the TV show biz kind of thing and is like,
no, no, no.
This needs to be like, this needs to be a show where...
Like put on a Vegas style show almost.
Yes, exactly.
So at first they all come out in their cuffs and their bow ties.
They all the same outfit on.
A woman named Candace Marin, who was the associate producer for Chippendales at the
time said, Nick DeNoya's real skill, quote, as a choreographer and a director was coming
up with moves that a great big muscled guy could perform and look graceful while doing
it.
Amazing.
So they were essentially casting for obviously for looks.
You didn't have to be a great dancer, but then, you know, so they would make dances
that you could get away with it.
But then of course, I'm sure after a while you had your Patrick Swayze type.
Sure.
Like, oh, and guess what?
I am also a professional dancer.
So watch this.
Five, six, seven, eight.
Chippendales becomes so popular.
Steve opens a second club in New York City in 1983, then one in Denver, then one in Dallas.
Damn.
Yeah.
So that's when Nick DeNoya comes up with the idea of starting a traveling Chippendales
dance troupe.
So they could bring the exotic male dance sensation to all the cities in the country
that didn't have their own home Chippendales club, which is genius.
So smart.
So smart.
It's immediately a hit and it starts earning the company additional millions every year.
So as we all know, with great success comes great bickering, Steve Bangerie and Nick start
fighting over their differing creative visions for both the club act and for the company
itself.
Reed Scott was there watching his bosses go quote, toe to toe and just scream and curse
at each other.
That was from Oracle People Magazine.
So in 1984, Steve and Nick settle on a deal.
And this was literally written on a bar napkin where Nick DeNoya can continue running the
touring troupe under the Chippendales name, but they, he and Steve will split the profits
of that 50-50.
But Steve is incredibly competitive.
He is incredibly paranoid and he wants it all to himself.
Yeah.
It's kind of that mistake a lot of people make where it's like, hey, guess what?
This was actually Paul Snyder's idea.
Right.
Right.
First of all, and then, you know, whatever it was when it started, which would be, I
would love to see when it started.
The cool thing is, well, there's movies coming out.
There's actually, there's been a bunch of like made for TV movies about this case, which
is crazy.
I've never heard or seen any of them, but more importantly, there is a podcast that
came out this year by a historian named Natalia Petrizella, and it's called Welcome to Your
Fantasy, and it's all about this case and about Chippendales.
So if you want, I didn't listen to it, but I bet it's amazing.
So if you want the like drilled down details that is what you should listen to, Welcome
to Your Fantasy by Natalia Petrizella.
So anyway, so Steve is trying to basically hold on to everything and keep it for himself.
So he starts getting really paranoid.
He hates seeing that Nick is getting the like recognition with the success of the Turing
Act.
It's like almost like Nick's getting everything in his mind, and he also, he's bummed at that,
like that Nick's getting the credit and that also he starts to get paranoid that Nick is
keeping more than 50% for himself.
So this jealous paranoia builds and builds as the company grows in fame and popularity.
So it's just getting worse.
I didn't see anything that said anything about drugs, but it was the 80s.
Of course, at a club, a nightclub.
A nightclub in the 80s.
This is alleged.
This is editorial.
I'm just saying my opinion, Coke was fucking everywhere.
Coca-Cola.
Coca-Cola.
And also these are like male dancers.
So like, I'm sure you need a little toot to get out there and get your, you know, like,
come on, that it must have been part of it.
Absolutely.
But that's my opinion.
That's mine too.
Could be made up, listen to, welcome to your fantasy to get the real story.
Because that'd be hilarious if Natalia was just like, guess what, this was an AA strip
club.
There was not a dime of Coke to be had.
Okay, so, so we're back to 1987 when the, when the murder took place.
There's two years of investigating Nick DeNoy's murder.
It's the, the case has gone cold.
In 1988, Steve Bangerie buys back the full rights to the Chippendales Touring Company
from DeNoy's family.
So now he has everything again.
In the early nineties, other entrepreneurs follow in Chippendales footsteps and launch
their own male exotic dance acts.
One is a British based strip act called Adonis.
They started in 1991 by several ex Chippendales dancers and it's managed by former Chippendale
employee Steve White.
So this is a 16 man dance troupe that's operating out of England and they hire Reed Scott as
their emcee.
So the original guy from the club goes to do this.
Reed Scott just left Chippendales the month before and he's really excited to be in England.
It's like a new country, new venture, but Steve Vines out about Adonis and he is enraged.
So then in July of 1991, an informant by the name of Strawberry, which is everyone thinks
this might be a fake name, contacts an FBI agent in Las Vegas named Scott Garriola.
And Strawberry tells Garriola that an LA based man named Ray Cologne has offered him $25,000
per person to kill three targets in Blackpool, England.
Holy shit.
Adonis dancer, Michael Follington, Adonis manager, producer Steve White and Adonis emcee
Reed Scott.
Oh my God.
So dude, they're all as I just said ex Chippendales dancers and employees.
And according to this informant Strawberry, Ray Cologne gave him an eyedropper filled
with cyanide and he was instructed to inject it into these men.
Holy shit.
Where do you get cyanide from?
The same place you get coke from?
I mean, I guess.
It seems like it's a different trip.
It seems like it'd be really hard to find.
It seems like it's the end of it's like, yeah, that would, it wouldn't be a nice combination.
No.
Okay.
So the same month Reed Scott's on stage kicking off an Adonis performance in the resort town
of Blackpool, England.
One of his bosses goes on stage and pulls him off mid sentence.
He's taken to a back office where he meets officers from Scotland Yard who inform Reed
that a hit has been taken out on him, him and the two other Adonis employees and that
their lives are in danger.
Reed Scott would later tell People Magazine, I got this cold chill as the detective told
me, you can run and hide or you can stay and we can catch the killer before he gets to
you.
It was like something you hear in a movie.
It didn't seem like real life.
And then that's when Reed told the officers, this has got to be Steve Annergia.
So Reed Scott, Michael Follington and Steve White, they didn't run and hide.
They did continue to play it cool and let the investigation continue as they did their
job.
So the FBI follows strawberries lead to Ray Cologne and when they search Cologne's home,
they found 46 grams of cyanide, which is enough to kill 230 people.
So Cologne's arrested on the spot and he's charged with conspiracy and murder for hire.
So Cologne remains in custody for the next seven months before he decides to cooperate
with the authorities.
He confirms that it is indeed Steve who hired him as a hit man, not just to kill Michael
Follington, Steve White and Reed Scott, but also for the 1987 murder of Nick DeNoya.
Cologne reveals that in the case of DeNoya, he farmed that hit job out to another man
named Gilberto Rivera Lopez.
So when the FBI look up Lopez, they see he's already in prison for an unrelated crime.
So Annergy knows that Ray Cologne was recently arrested.
So he suspects that this is a sting operation.
So he enters the restaurant, he greets Ray Cologne by putting a finger to his lips and
directing him to follow him into the bathroom.
And there, Annergy has Cologne stripped down to ensure he's not wearing a wire.
But luckily the mic had been sewn into the boxers.
So Annergy can't see it.
But anytime still, anytime Ray Cologne asks a question, Annergy writes his answer on
a post-it note, holds it up and then rips it up and throws it in the toilet.
That's kind of smart.
So nothing's on tape and the eye hop sting is a failure.
So the FBI has to come up with a new plan.
So they take Ray Cologne to Switzerland where he tells Steve Annergy that he's fled police
custody and found asylum abroad.
Smart.
So the idea of an escape rather than a release makes Steve feel more comfortable about talking.
So he agrees to go meet Cologne in a hotel room in Zurich.
So there the two men discuss the murder for higher plots.
Steve's a bit apprehensive at first.
He even goes so far as to say at one point that he feared the FBI might be listening
in the next room, which they literally were.
Of course they were.
But Ray Cologne is able to calm Steve down, they end up talking for three to four hours.
And during that conversation, Steve brings up the code word for Nick DeNoya, which is
the D, they say, unfortunately, and he asks Cologne if the FBI knows anything about that
or about the fact that he'd given Ray Cologne the money to buy guns for these hits.
The FBI catches Banergy on tape not only confessing to hiring Ray Cologne to murder Nick DeNoya,
but also the attempted murders of Reed Scott, Michael Follington and Steve White.
So on September 2, 1993, Steve Banergy is arrested and he's charged with conspiring
to kill his three former employees.
He pleads guilty to the charges as well as the charges of racketeering and a surprise
twist, two counts of arson, because it turns out that in 1979, there was a Santa Monica
Club called Moody's Disco, and they attempted to run a mail strip show of their own.
So Steve Banergy hired someone to burn Moody's Disco to the ground.
Holy shit.
Just like they talk about in the songs.
Burn it down.
Luckily, the fire did little damage and Moody's was only temporarily closed, so they didn't
really do anything.
But then five years later in 1984, Banergy launches a similar attack on the popular Marina
Del Ray nightclub, The Red Onion, because they started a mail strip show, but again,
the arson attempt is unsuccessful.
Banergy pleads guilty to all the charges he faces 26 years in prison and he'll be forced
to give up ownership of Chippendales, but on October 23rd, 1994, the day before his
sentencing, Steve Banergy uses a bed sheet and a wall hook and strangles himself to death
in his jail cell.
Fuck.
Yeah.
So Gilberto Rivera Lopez, who's the man who's hired to kill Nick DeNoya in his Manhattan
office, gets charged for Nick's murder.
He's convicted of second degree murder and he's sentenced to 25 years to life.
And then Ray Cologne, the hit man who orchestrated Nick DeNoya's murder, as well as the failed
hit attempts on Steve White, Reed Scott, and Michael Fullington.
He pleads guilty to conspiracy and murder for higher charges, but his sentence is reduced
because of his cooperation with the FBI and his help with taking Steve Banergy down.
He's released from prison in 1996.
Wow.
That's a quick.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Because he collaborated or cooperated.
The informant who contacted FBI agent Gary Ola Strawberry is later revealed to be a man
named Lynn Bressler.
So basically, if it wasn't for Lynn Bressler getting cold feet in 1991, no one would ever
have known about any of this and those cases would have gone unsolved, like who knows what
would have happened.
So that guy really, really is kind of the hero for coming forward.
The Chippendale Murder has been covered across film, TV, and podcasts.
There's a made for TV movie called The Chippendale Murders in the year 2000.
There's a movie called Just Can't Get Enough from 2002.
The Discovery Channel, it was on the FBI files in an episode called Backstage Murder.
And then of course, the podcast, Welcome to Your Fantasy, that came out this year.
There's also a biopic that's currently in the works by director Craig Gillespie who
did Eitania and Dev Patel's playing Steve Banerjee in that, right?
And that is the unbelievable and to me unheard of story of the Chippendales murder.
Yeah.
Holy shit.
Crazy, right?
Twisty journey.
But also like I can see it all in my mind of it's like over there, it was on Overland
on the west side.
Yeah, I'm picturing exactly where it was.
It's just like you can just see that kind of like that nightlife and that 80s thing going
on.
Well, I promised to talk to my mom before next week and find out because there's no way
she didn't go.
I cannot wait to hear if Janet has a Chippendale story.
I'll let you know for sure.
Or if anybody, if you, if you have a Chippendale story from the 80s.
Yeah, or your mom or your grandma does.
Like an OG.
Yeah.
Was your dad a dancer?
Like, please, were you a dancer?
Or your dancer?
Fucking email us.
Oh my God.
For your hometowns.
That'd be amazing.
But also, you know, I love that there's all this, I love when there's a thing like that,
that to me is such a, oh my God, that was so, that's so right at my alley, time and place
and everything.
But I had never heard of it.
No.
There's still those out there.
Yeah.
Oh my God.
Just cause we're on our 300th episode.
Don't give up.
Oh.
It always feels like I just don't know anything I'll ever talk about again.
But now we, of course, we have Hannah Creighton as our producer who's like, give me ideas and
I'll plan it for the next eight months and then I don't panic every week, which is so
nice.
No, we have some really good support and nice help.
You know who we've had supporting us for 300 episodes?
Who?
Mr. Stephen Ray Morris, who's right there with us.
Thank you, Stephen.
Thank you so much.
You're welcome.
Thank you.
Yeah.
He's been in all the lofts and all the apartments and all the studios and some of the live shows
and.
He really has the patience of a saint.
True.
Those early days were pretty rough, got to say.
Those current days can get rough too.
It's all pretty rough, but you know, I think we're also having a good time and yeah, yeah.
Thank you guys for listening.
We appreciate you as always.
Here's to 3000 more.
Stay sexy and don't get murdered.
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