My Favorite Murder with Karen Kilgariff and Georgia Hardstark - 300 - The 300th Episode!

Episode Date: November 11, 2021

On the 300th episode of My Favorite Murder, Georgia and Karen cover the case of Patty Stallings and the story of the Chippendales murder. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and ...California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is exactly right. We at Wondery live, breathe, and downright obsess over true crime. And now we're launching the ultimate true crime fan experience, Exhibit C. Join now by following Wondery, Exhibit C, on Facebook and listen to true crime on Wondery and Amazon Music. Exhibit C, it's truly criminal. Hello. Hello.
Starting point is 00:00:46 And welcome. To my favorite murder, the 300th episode. That's Karen Kilgareff. Oh, that's Georgia Heartstar. Thank you. This is three freaking hundred. This is their 300th episode. How many times can we say it?
Starting point is 00:01:01 Wait for it. What does it even mean, really? I don't know. I was just a, you know, arbitrary number in the world. Uh, it certainly isn't our 500th, they'll tell you that. But it feels much different than our 200th. It does. I mean, any of these little milestones, like in January, it'll be six years.
Starting point is 00:01:20 That feels like a, you know. That feels like a biggie. A hugegie. If you think about it in terms of every episode is a day, we're coming up on our full first year of episodes in a row. Right. 365. Sure.
Starting point is 00:01:35 Okay. I mean, then maybe that gives some, some kind of context to the number. Yeah. Yeah. But it kind of feels like turning like 44 or something. Right. Where you're like, okay. Sure.
Starting point is 00:01:46 Great. No, that's good. It's like another year for sure, but I don't, but it's not like 40. You know, we're not getting a facelift yet, but we certainly didn't just graduate from high school. That's for sure. This podcast is in its mid twenties, you know, but it had a serious drug problem for a while and it kicked it and we're all proud of it.
Starting point is 00:02:09 It's been strong. It's been strong, but it's also been pretty fucked up. Yeah. It had to move home a couple of times and restart its life. Who hasn't? Well, truly. And then it like got back on its feet. It's fucking, you know, living its best life.
Starting point is 00:02:25 We've had a full apartment. We've had a pod loft. Yeah. We've had our own studio. Yeah. And then we had the quarantine journey. We forgot live shows. We also had live shows all the time.
Starting point is 00:02:37 Yeah. And now we have nothing, but Karen's room in Karen's house. I wouldn't say we have nothing. That isn't nothing at all. It's not nothing. It's so much. It's so much. I mean, that's the thing about all of these milestones.
Starting point is 00:02:52 Every single time is like, what the fuck happened? We started a podcast for fun and now it's like the biggest career we've ever had. We started a podcast for fun as two people who weren't even sure what the podcast was going to, how it was going to go. Yeah. I was just talking recently and maybe it was the last episode of this podcast about the time that I tried to do the, the Toronto rapist, the Carla Hamulca and whatever the rapist name is.
Starting point is 00:03:24 The Ken and Barbie couple, couple rapists. And I thought I was going to be able to tell you that story off the top of my head. Right. That's what we thought we were doing. You can go back and listen to that absolute failure of an episode on my part with no paper in my hands. Well, you also were working on baskets at the time, right? Talk show, the game show, talk show, the game show, and something else and, and some
Starting point is 00:03:48 other show. Yeah. So you didn't, we didn't know yet what was going to happen in our lives. There was a, it was like podcasting was a thing that I had done in the past that was easy because you just get together and chit chat. But then we entered into the world of true crime podcasting, which is an entirely different beast as we, as we now understand. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:04:11 Like 300, I'll just say that this has changed my life so incredibly that, I mean, I never expected my life to look like the look like what it looks like right now. And I'm so fucking grateful, grateful to you, grateful to our listeners, grateful to Stephen for coming along with us. Yep. Same. And I just can't, I can't believe how lucky we got. I mean, it is kind of funny to think about if you were a listener and hey, what's up
Starting point is 00:04:40 day one listeners, I wish I'd, we had a list of your names because we used to meet people like at live shows instead of be like day one random scrolling through the podcast listener. But we definitely have those people. Imagine the journey they've been on. I mean, it's so fun. And I think that's true in a lot of the people who listen from the beginning and are like, it's so crazy to hear you guys be like, we have 5,000 people in the Facebook group and yeah, it's like now we have millions and millions of fucking downloads.
Starting point is 00:05:12 It's crazy. I think the ultimate, the ultimate sign of success is we had to shut that fucking Facebook down. It got problematic and that's how you know. It got trolled out of control and it wasn't a quite happy, fun, safe place to be anymore for anyone. For anyone. No.
Starting point is 00:05:32 No. That's where the fan cult exists. I mean, that's kind of the thing of like as things changed, as things grew, there was just all kinds of lessons that we had on tape, like recorded for everyone to hear. Yeah, for sure. Pretty insane. What lessons await us? I mean, in a month and a half and when it's six years, what are lessons are we going to
Starting point is 00:05:53 learn in that little period of time? You know what? Start journaling about the lessons and then we're going to read our lessons on year six anniversary. Yes. The biggest thing that this podcast shows is that you just got to fucking try something and do it and have fun with it and good things will hopefully come from there. And do not expect perfection or make that some kind of a qualifier before you do something
Starting point is 00:06:19 as two people who were insanely far from it and thought it was kind of no big deal. To start with, we then had to grapple with the idea that now we're exposed as being intensely imperfect. Yeah. What are we going to do now? I'll just say for myself, I think I can speak for you these days, but I'll say for myself, it's okay to fuck up and it's okay to be imperfect because that's what evolution is about. That's what actually learning and growing is about.
Starting point is 00:06:49 Yes. And that's the part that you have to pay attention to is the point is to learn and grow. If you insist on perfection from yourself and everyone, you're never going to be happy. And then not learning and growing from your mistakes is just this huge miss, it's just huge missed opportunity for you to become a better person. But you also have to be selective about who you listen to and why you're listening to them. Yes.
Starting point is 00:07:12 Looking at you, Twitter. Looking at you, all of social media. But it's like we have been, and we joke about that, but we've actually been insanely lucky because 99 point, I'll say 8% of all of you listening are some of the most lovely, generous, open and cool people that we could hope to have a connection with. Yeah. Absolutely. I just want to say it is really, you mentioned live shows.
Starting point is 00:07:49 It is, we're sad to not be doing them yet. And we hope to soon. But that really is, I mean, on top of the fact that we've all been locked in our houses for a year and a half or more, that's the one thing I really, I miss so much. Those live shows were some of the greatest moments of my life. Wow, yeah. Me too. Walking out on stage like that and fucking hearing the reaction from the beautiful audience
Starting point is 00:08:19 is like, it just fills your entire heart up. And then in all these cities where you're just like, oh, Pittsburgh can't be, they can't be that interested in us, it's a boom, or like fucking Oslo, Stockholm, Sweden, I mean, just nuts. Oh, we've had so many experiences. You me and Vince have had so many fucking crazy ass travel live, not even the live show. That's amazing. The travel and the fucking just planning and the meals and the crazy car drives we had.
Starting point is 00:08:53 Many car drives. Many car drives. And many cracker barrels. Many cracker barrels, the fucking Starbucks we've enjoyed along the way. The Sephora's where we've met new friends. Yes, because we forgot our makeup. One of us forgot our makeup that day. All the phones I've left in all the bathrooms and all the airports around the world.
Starting point is 00:09:10 Thank you, bathrooms. Oh, Jesus. I miss traveling. It'll come back. It'll come back better than ever. It'll be really, it'll be even sweeter when we get to do it. That's right. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:09:22 Just thank you. 300. Yeah. You got us here. You just kept on tuning in. Yeah. You keep on tuning in. Uh-huh.
Starting point is 00:09:30 We can't thank you enough. We cannot. And we won't ever. And we won't. We refuse. So we're going to stop. It stops here tonight on the 300th episode. I'm never thanking you again.
Starting point is 00:09:41 This is our promise. Uh-huh. Okay. Speaking of learning things, I have a quick thing. I learned like a week ago, this hand gesture, do you know that? Like the TikTok is making it big, the hand gesture of domestic violence incidents that you can do to a stranger or someone else to let them know that you need help and to call authorities.
Starting point is 00:10:01 Yeah. And it's just like, it looks like sign language. It's the thumb tuck into your palm and then you close your fingers around your thumb. Yeah. You hold your hand up like you're taking an oath. Yes. You fold your thumb in and then you curl your fingers down over your thumb like the thumb is trapped and that's letting other people know I am in a serious situation and I need
Starting point is 00:10:20 help. That's right. So I just read like a couple days ago that it turns out that a fucking teen who was missing from North Carolina, did you see this? Yeah, that's how I found out about it. Oh, okay. She was rescued by Kentucky police after using that exact fucking hand signal that she learned from TikTok.
Starting point is 00:10:42 She was 16 years old. She was missing and she was in the car with her- A doctor? A doctor and did the hand gesture to someone in a car next to her. They followed her for like seven miles on the phone with the police. They pulled the person over and they arrested him because of that fucking hand signal. Yeah. How amazing is that?
Starting point is 00:11:02 Yeah. It's also because it's like, I've also heard stories of people in a like a domestic violence situation where the actual abuser is the one that answers the door and is telling the police everything's fine and then the person stands up. It just goes behind the person and does that. So they- I think I know it's not. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:11:22 Oh, it's amazing. It's very cool. You know, the children of TikTok, some of whom are grown adults, they're really, it's not just dancing over there. No, it's not. It's not- A lot of social awareness going on. Can I tell you my favorite thing I've seen on TikTok lately?
Starting point is 00:11:36 Yeah, which is the exact trite opposite of what you just shared. My favorite is, it's like every morning I wake up and then I look at the news stories, right? Yeah. And it's always something that sends you over to TikTok. There's always some- Yes. They have to be telling you about what's popular over there.
Starting point is 00:11:54 About two different animal species hugging each other or playing. God bless. Gotta go over there every time. The things that come up in my feed are often makeup based. Oh. Let's try this new TikTok makeup trick that makes men fall in love with you. And I'm just like, wow, really? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:12:13 So I hit it. And essentially, it's little dots that you put on the outer, inner, lower, and upper. So the inner corner, outer corner, up and- Around your eye. Yeah. Like basically your eye is a compass and those are the four points. Got it. But tiny white dots.
Starting point is 00:12:31 So I'm like, interesting and these, the women showing that this is the trick are just like, I did this and a guy at the club walked up and is like, oh my God, I can't stop staring at you. Meanwhile, this girl is so gorgeous where I was like, honey, you could smear shit under both eyes like a football player and they would do the exact same thing. It's not the- Oh my God. It's not makeup tricks, baby.
Starting point is 00:12:55 Yeah. It's beautiful enough skin and a face that you can do front facing, close up makeup tips. Yeah. Right. There's no- It's also like, it kind of is, feels very bad to be like, do this thing so a man will fall in love with you. And it's like, that doesn't exist and that shouldn't be your goal in life and makeup.
Starting point is 00:13:19 I mean, true. Well, I'm not telling people what to do. I would hope that it's not, you know. Of the many goals that you have. How about the makeup trick that gets you an MFA? Yes. How about, you know, I mean, but look, that's not the kind of stuff that people, I wouldn't click on that.
Starting point is 00:13:37 I'm like, well- Oh, right, right, right. What would work? But then it's just like, you know, really what works of a guy coming up and going, I can't take my eyes off you is being exceptionally beautiful. Yeah, is being someone who men can't take their eyes off of. Literally when my phone acts, if like I accidentally opened FaceTime, what I see in that phone makes me drop the phone.
Starting point is 00:13:57 So God bless. You're gorgeous. No, I'm not. I'm gorgeous and God loves me. I'm saying it's great to be 22 and talk. What I love is they're always like, use this base that makes your skin glow. And it's like, bitch, your skin's glowing night and day. You're 22.
Starting point is 00:14:14 You couldn't have more estrogen in your system. You're a fucking oil, oh man, if I had thought of the word of it, it'd been great, but. An oil, Derek? No, like a hippie lamp. What are those things called? Oh, a love lamp? Your face is a fucking lava lamp. People can't stop staring at it, like go away.
Starting point is 00:14:29 You don't need tricks. You don't need tricks or trips. You don't need fucking makeup, actually. You're looking great. Just slap up in some lip gloss and be like, you're lucky to be here, friend. That's the trick. That's the true trick. Oh.
Starting point is 00:14:42 Ken Mulder. Still. Ding, ding. Could you imagine? No, it also looks ridiculous, probably. First of all, part of that, I know that makeup trick from the stage because that's how you, that's how I should say people on Broadway make their eyes look bigger is you stick a bunch of white makeup in the corner, in both corners of your eyes and it basically fakes
Starting point is 00:15:06 out. We knew that in the 90s, TikTok girls, okay? But I like, this is just like, it's these tiny, it's tiny white dots. So also, somebody could walk and be like, were you painting your house earlier? Maybe they're just, they're also a house painter and they're just excited to talk to you about your trade. It just doesn't sound like something I want to spend my time on, you know? I had enough energy to put today a little concealer over the bruise that we talked about
Starting point is 00:15:34 on the mini-sode. And that's about all I had time for, took the makeup off from under my eyes, which just never seems to go away, even if I don't wear makeup for weeks. And then covered my bruise and maybe a zit or two, and that's all I've got fucking energy for. Yeah, the people that are like, first you put on this primer, then you put on the concealer, here comes the bronzer, it's like, what are you doing? How long, every Zoom call I'm on, I have wet hair and, you know, a little bit of mascara
Starting point is 00:16:04 if I like you. Do you know what it is? It's like, the older we get and the more we need makeup, the less we have patience for makeup. And I was in my 20s and fucking glowing, like a fucking lava lamp, I put all the makeup on, I didn't need it. Now that I am older and graying and, you know, dehydrated most of the time and I can't use a little makeup.
Starting point is 00:16:25 Slowly turning into an apple doll. That's right. I don't fucking care. Can't be bothered. I don't care. Even the grays I'm getting, which I'm only graying in my right temple, which is really a sexy look I would highly recommend. Oh, dude.
Starting point is 00:16:37 You know about my skunk part. I do. We talk about it a lot. Oh, God, it's just, it won't go away. But I mean, yeah, that's, that's exactly it. The less, the older you get, the less you care. And the more you should be caring, but I don't know, because sometimes I see when the older ladies do care and you're like, ooh, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's, you know, these days are
Starting point is 00:17:01 over for us. I don't know. All right. What do you have going on? What if I then just read a bunch of makeup tips? Oh, this is becoming a makeup tip. I mean, I do like, here's what I do like. There are people, I think it's amazing and so cool that so many women and especially
Starting point is 00:17:19 young women have gotten so good at makeup, because then there's some people are like, here's your five minute trick or whatever. They're fucking artists. They're artists and they get to be good at that and make money off of it. Amazing. That I love, because that wasn't real before. It used to be for four shades of that cover girl shit. I always had a clown mask on.
Starting point is 00:17:39 I was always like, it's got to get better than this. And it did. It does. It did. So, you know, do all the contouring you want. It just doesn't work on me. Like anytime I have like a, what's that highlighter on my cheeks, I look like I'm sweating and a clown.
Starting point is 00:17:55 Like I'm a special kind of clown. Hey, it's sweaty the clown. Sweaty the clown's here to yell at you. Oh, we didn't want her for our birthday. Too bad. My thing is, and this is, this is the first time this has ever happened to me. I've watched a series, of course it's British, of course it's a procedural, of course it stars Martin Clones from Doc Martin, which if you need a break, I think I'm definitely
Starting point is 00:18:20 in quarantine. You and my mom love Doc Martin. Because it's shot on the, I think the west coast of England as if it ever sees the sun. So when you watch this TV show, it's like every day is a beautiful sunny day in this port town of Port, whatever, I was going to say Port Charles, but that stays for our lives. But of course. Can I also tell everyone that you're, you're doing the gesture of walking around?
Starting point is 00:18:47 I wish I could see it. This is me walking around in this TV show. It's like, that's how you know it's sunny and beautiful every day, it's because Karen's working. She's moving her shoulder. Like she's walking around. I walk with my shoulders like I'm actually in like some kind of a video. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:19:03 Or like hearing a douche commercial, walking down the beach, waving to people, hey, so Alexa, I'm here to talk about Maxi paths. But that show is a great escape. If you want to just. Doc Martin you're talking about. Doc Martin. It's beautiful. It's also, it's very entertaining, but it's also visually great.
Starting point is 00:19:19 Okay. But the star of that show is a man named Martin Clones is a wonderful actor. And he is now in a TV show called Man Hunt. There are two seasons of it, and it's about a real Scotland Yard inspector, I believe Scotland Yard, or real, let's say London detectives who has headed up to, he's a bunch of, but they've made TV series about two of the big cases that he's worked on. And so I just finished season two and it's on, I think it's for Acorn, unpaid, clearly. But I did a thing last night where I was waiting like checking every day for the fourth episode
Starting point is 00:20:01 because it was for a four episode series. And the build I was like, they got to catch this guy because there was a rapist in London. I think it was the north side of London for 17 years and he got away with it and he was only attacking old people. So it was just like they, and they couldn't, like they did everything they could and they still couldn't catch him and they finally did. And so I was waiting for this final episode for so long to spoil or they got him that I checked and then it basically had, it showed that the episode was there.
Starting point is 00:20:40 So for a long time it was just up to episode three. Episode four came on, but then you couldn't hit play. And I was like, what is it? Is it the one where it says like it will be available on November 20, whatever? No, it just says. It says that on fucking HBO and it drives me fucking crazy because you think you have another episode. Yes.
Starting point is 00:20:56 And then it's like, no. It's a teaser kind of. Yes. It'll look like this when you can hit play. Yes. Yes. So frustrating. So frustrating.
Starting point is 00:21:04 But I just kept going back kind of like, like my OCD kept bringing me back over and over last night. And then finally, I think going on to the actual Acorn page, I got to watch it. Nice. It was so good and then there's a series about the real guy in real life and he tells other stories of stuff he's solved. So I'm just like, oh, I'm in a whole new, manhunt is the series. There's two seasons of it.
Starting point is 00:21:29 Really good. And there's a bunch of people that we've, I've already talked about from other TV shows that are in it with him. Because they use all the same ones all the time because they are fabulous. I'm still deep in the oxycodon, oxycotton fucking bullshit. There's a, there's a documentary called The Crime of the Century about what essentially we're watching on the TV show Dope Sick. And they're both fucking incredible and so infuriating, but it's so important to find
Starting point is 00:21:56 to know about. Yeah. So I highly recommend this. And Dope Sick is a series also? Yes. Dope Sick is a series. Fucking Rizaria Dawson is awesome in it. Like it's just a really.
Starting point is 00:22:06 And Michael Keaton, right? Michael Keaton is fucking fabulous. Come on. It's great. So literally today, just to watch this, just to talk about it, I finished season one of Game of Thrones. Finally. Congratulations.
Starting point is 00:22:20 Oh my God. Thank you. How do you feel? I feel good. I already started watching the second season. Right. I did love fucking, she was fucking feeding that baby dragon off her teeth. Mother of dragons?
Starting point is 00:22:32 Yeah. Oh yeah. Like you get it girl. Cause I'd do that to a cat. I gave birth to a cat. Feed that thing off my teeth. She could reach into the fire. I have them.
Starting point is 00:22:41 That's how everyone knew she was the real deal. Yeah. Pretty cool, right? It was pretty cool. I liked that last scene. I'm going to keep going. I'm fascinated by the boy king. Like what a little bitch.
Starting point is 00:22:51 Oh. He's such a bitch. I love him. He's a legitimately bad person. And I think there were lots of stories of that poor boy actor that got confronted when that thing was at the height of its popularity. I bet. Yes.
Starting point is 00:23:05 And Peter Dinklage, I could just watch him on screen all day long. I mean, truly a gift. All of, I mean that whole cast, you know, so the hound, I've already bragged about this. But that's, I like to say my friend, but I mean. The dog? The hound, the guy with the partly burned face. Oh, I thought you meant the dog that belongs to John Snow. Oh, the dog.
Starting point is 00:23:27 The durable. Oh, the hound was cool. So that's where McCann, he was in the book group. Oh, that's right. He was one of the stars. So I got to meet him when I, when I went and worked on that. Yeah. He was really one of the sweetest, nicest, it's Scottish gentleman, I mean, of all time.
Starting point is 00:23:45 And he, seeing him in that, I'm like, God, he's a good actor. He is. I really like him, that character. Yes. But he's like, but he's mean and he's like all business and he's whatever. And you're like, God, but then it's like, oh, he's so not like that in real life. My favorite was when we used to go out after shooting, he was the one that he never understood that I don't drink.
Starting point is 00:24:08 So we'd always go, he'd go, oh, do you need a drink? And I go, oh, no, I don't drink. And then he'd go, okay, I'll get you next round. He always thought I meant right then. Oh, I get it. It's like when your grandma's like, you know, when you say to your grandma, I'm vegetarian and she goes, but what about some chicken? Yes.
Starting point is 00:24:25 Do you just haven't considered? No, it's not. How about a cider? How about a cider? How about a cider instead? Yeah. Yeah. Oh, that's great.
Starting point is 00:24:34 You're in that. You're in the club now. I'm in it. I'm in it till in it. It's, it's gonna get so good. Okay. Dragons, dragons. Dragons.
Starting point is 00:24:43 Should we do exactly right corner? Let's do it. Corner. I mean, there's too many great things happening on the network. Always. We, we're only able to highlight a couple or would we be talking about it all night? That's right. Instead we have to talk about our own gratitude.
Starting point is 00:24:57 That's much more interesting. We're very excited because on Burger Weineger's legendary podcast, I said no gifts. He has from, you know him from Veep, you know him from Detroiters, you know him from being one of the funniest people around, Mr. Sam Richardson is the guest. So you should definitely go over and listen to those two talk about GIFs and whatnot. Legendary comedian. And we didn't say it on the episode last week, but it was the one year anniversary of I Saw What You Did, our film podcast.
Starting point is 00:25:28 Yeah. And so you should definitely go listen to Danielle and Millie talk about that because, you know, they've been doing it for a full year. They know what it's like now to podcast for a living. And so you have to listen to their movie reviews or doing some amazing ones these days. Female hosted movie review podcast, you guys, we got to support that. And then also, so now you guys know Karen and I are doing a third episode every week, the celebrity hometowns where we bring a celebrity friend on and they tell us whatever the fuck
Starting point is 00:25:58 their hometown is or their favorite story, which is so great. So this week, you guys, it's already up. Our guest is none other than Paul Frickin' Halls. That's right. He comes and tells us how he got interested in true crime and criminal justice in the first place. It's incredible. That's an origin story.
Starting point is 00:26:17 Everyone wants to know. Yeah. Why are you yelling at it? Why are you mad at us? Oh, by the way, I talked to Michelle Bouteau. She was horrified that she said Sondra instead of Chandra Levy. She was horrified and she was like, I was so nervous to tell the story correctly. And I was like, hey, I didn't catch it and I covered that story.
Starting point is 00:26:36 Right. I didn't either. We were both just so focused on our friend Michelle and being so excited to talk to her. But obviously, nobody wants anything like that to happen. So we had a couple of people let us know and correct us, which please understand that we knew that the second it happened. And so apologies for that. Obviously, that is a mistake and she was horrified if we could have gone back and somehow
Starting point is 00:27:01 dubbed it. We would have, but we couldn't. Yeah. So that was just a mistake. And as we all know, mistakes do happen sometimes. And yeah, acknowledging that. All right. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:27:13 Let's see. We have Christmas ornaments for sale. We think Frank is just tied up in all of the wiring right now. Lowering your volume to Georgia. Oh, no. It's raising your volume. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:27:28 Oh, no. See, get up here, please. Sorry. See, that's, I told you, I'm okay. Okay. Frank just walked through all the wires. He's very klutzy. He pulled one, turned Georgia's volume up and then made me kick that fucking metal table
Starting point is 00:27:50 with my bare toes. So hard. Oh, that happened a long time after. No. I'm not klutzy. You're klutzy. So get your, not just Christmas, but get your holiday gear, my favorite murder, holiday gear at my favorite murder.
Starting point is 00:28:05 And also follow exactly right on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, and for updates on all of our shows there. Yes. Anything else? I think that's it for the biz. All right. Well, I'm first today, right? Yeah.
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Starting point is 00:29:35 Goodbye. Hey, I'm Aresha. And I'm Brooke. And we're the hosts of Wondery's podcast, Even The Rich, where we bring you absolutely true and absolutely shocking stories about the most famous families and biggest celebrities the world has ever seen. Our newest series is all about the incomparable diva, Whitney Houston. Whitney's voice defined a generation, and even after her death, her talent remains unmatched.
Starting point is 00:30:02 But her incredible success hit a deeply private pain. In our series, Whitney Houston, Destiny of a Diva, we'll tell you how she hid her true self to make everyone around her happy, and how the pressure to be all things to all people led her down a dark path. Follow Even The Rich wherever you get your podcasts. You can listen ad-free on the Amazon Music or Wondery app. All right, today I'm going to tell you about the case of Patty Stallings and her conviction for killing her infant son.
Starting point is 00:30:34 This one's twisty-turny. The sources used today are the National Registry of Exonerations, Three St. Louis Post Dispatch Articles by Tom Eulenbrock by Virgil Tipton, and then one by a staff writer, an Associated Press staff article, People Magazine article written by Paula Chin, and the National Institutes of Health. And also, there's a forensic files about this. So here we go. In 1986, Patty is working at a 7-Eleven in St. Louis when she starts dating a frequent
Starting point is 00:31:06 customer named David Stallings. They're both in their mid-20s, they're like flirty stuff, and then they eventually get married on August 27th, 1988. And on April 4th, they welcome a son named Ryan. The new family moves away from the big city to Hillsborough, and they get, they move into a home overlooking the lake, so they're starting their life together. Around two weeks after his birth, little Ryan starts experiencing health problems. He can't keep his formula down, he's vomiting at least once a week.
Starting point is 00:31:41 The problems don't go away, but the Stallings is, quote, kind of get used to it. According to People Magazine, over the July 4th weekend that year, Patty finds three-month-old Ryan, quote, listless in his crib, staring at the ceiling, breathing heavily, and his lips are shut tight. I know, it's awful. Patty immediately gets in the car and starts driving Ryan to see his pediatrician at Children's Hospital in St. Louis, but she's like panicking, so she gets off on the highway too soon and ends up instead going to Cardinal Glen and Children's Hospital.
Starting point is 00:32:16 This is a mistake that will haunt her. So Ryan is immediately put on a respirator, and many tests are conducted. On July 7th, blood results show a high level of ethylene glycol and acetone in his body. Ethylene glycol is a colorless, it's sweet, it's found in radiator antifreeze, it's found in industrial solvents and in resins, and it can be fatal in large enough doses. The hospital tells the Stallings is that their son has been poisoned with antifreeze. So the officials at the hospital, they call the Sheriff's Department and also the Missouri Department of Family Services.
Starting point is 00:32:54 So they start interrogating the couple separately, of course. The police ask questions, like, does the couple ever fight if Patty's jealous of the baby? And they even tell David that Patty failed a lie detector test, which isn't true. The results were just inconclusive, and of course, lie detector tests either way are bullshit. David, of course, thinks the police are crazy, that he doesn't believe his wife would ever harm their son, and it doesn't matter what he thinks, of course, because the police are convinced that Patty poisoned her baby.
Starting point is 00:33:24 They theorize that she did it by putting antifreeze in his formula, and when they do a search of the family home, they find two bottles of antifreeze in the basement, and one of them is half empty. So of course, real quick, we all know about Munchausen syndrome by proxy, WebMD describes it as a psychological disorder marked by attention-seeking behavior by a caregiver, often the mother. And essentially, that person gains attention by seeking medical help for exaggerated or made-up symptoms for their child or whosoever in their care, and it often makes the symptoms if there are any worse.
Starting point is 00:33:59 So over the next two weeks, Ryan remains in the hospital and his condition improves. When it comes time to go home, CPS shows up, and instead of going home, they take Ryan into custody. So Patty and David are only able to see Ryan like one day a week at 10 a.m., the visits are totally supervised, they're not allowed to give him anything edible. On August 31st, Patty and David visit Ryan like normal, except this time, Patty's left alone with her son from like three to eight minutes only, like a very short time, which wasn't allowed, but somehow happened.
Starting point is 00:34:35 And then later, she feeds Ryan a bottle of formula that the foster mother had prepared. And everything seems fine, the stallings leave after their weekly visit, but four days later, Patty and David are notified that Ryan is back in the hospital after showing signs of poisoning again. And the next day, September 5th, Patty is arrested for assault. On September 7th, Patty is notified that Ryan only has a few hours to live, but she's not allowed to visit her son, and little Ryan dies in his father's arms. I know, it's horrible.
Starting point is 00:35:11 She's not allowed to attend his funeral either. And then she's told that she faces first degree murder charges and that the death penalty is on the line. I know. So, around the same time, it almost seems like this different case contributed to this river around parental murder. So, in 1990, this woman named Paula Sims is convicted and given a life sentence in the death of her six-week-old daughter, Heather.
Starting point is 00:35:39 And she later admitted to also the 1986 death of another one of her infant daughters, Lorelai. And in both deaths, she initially claimed that an intruder broke in and kidnapped the girls. And it turns out she suffered from postpartum psychosis. So, it's just this horrible story, and I think it must be in the front of people's minds at the time, too. So, it didn't seem that far-fetched. A month later, Patty is in jail awaiting trial when she finds out that she's four months
Starting point is 00:36:07 pregnant. On February 17th, Patty is transported from jail to a hospital where she gives birth to another son named David Jr., and they call him DJ. Patty is allowed to see her baby exactly two times before he's placed in protective custody. Less than a month after his birth, on March 3rd, a social worker tells the Stallings that DJ is sick. He's, quote, listless, he won't eat, he's frequently vomiting, and he has problems going to the bathroom.
Starting point is 00:36:34 Of course, Patty is immediately familiar with these symptoms, since they're exactly what Little Ryan had experienced, but Patty hadn't been anywhere near him since his birth. DJ sent to Children's Hospital in St. Louis, the hospital where Patty meant to take Ryan, but had taken the wrong exit. And this hospital diagnoses DJ with something called methylmalonic acidemia, or MMA. According to the National Institutes of Health, MMA is a rare genetic disorder that affects the body's ability to break down certain parts of proteins and fats. This leads to a buildup of toxic substances and bouts of serious illness.
Starting point is 00:37:12 So, today, most hospitals screen newborns for MMA, but that was in the case when Ryan and DJ were born. So, why wasn't Ryan diagnosed with MMA? To explain this, we're going to talk about some science shit real quick. MMA produces propylene glycol, which is a single carbon atom away from being ethylene glycol. So, yeah, their makeups are so similar that confusing them in the lab is super easy. So, essentially, these babies' bodies make something that's so much like the antifreeze
Starting point is 00:37:45 poison that it looks like it's being given to them when actually it's what their body naturally makes. Exactly. Wow. Exactly. And if you don't have experience with that exact very rare genetic makeup, you won't even know what to look for, especially in a random lab. And I bet especially, too, when they're like, can you test this baby's blood?
Starting point is 00:38:06 We think the mom is poisoning them. And if the lab already knows that, of course, they're going to be like, yeah, you're right. Look at this. Yeah. And it turns out that's exactly what happened in Ryan's case. The lab misread Ryan's blood test results and thought he had the presence of ethylene glycol when he really had propylene glycol. Had the lab properly diagnosed Ryan, he would have been treated with vitamin B12 and he
Starting point is 00:38:30 would have lived. Oh, that's simple. That's horrifying. I know. And Patricia wouldn't have been charged with murder, but that's not what happened in this case is still just beginning. So the Stallings believe Ryan most likely had MMA, of course, so new tests are performed on Ryan's blood, which had been saved.
Starting point is 00:38:49 Patty's released from jail, pending results before her trial, and the assistant prosecutor tells the media that at the test show that Ryan had MMA, he'll drop the charges. However, he adds that he has no reason to believe the original tests are inaccurate. So the blood tests come back and they're the same as before, except this time one lab concludes that both ethylene glycol and propylene glycol are present in the blood. So it doesn't really exonerate her in any way. And Patty's taken back to jail to face the first degree murder charges of Ryan. Patty's attorney tells the trial judge that based on one of the lab's results, Ryan could
Starting point is 00:39:29 have died from MMA, but the attorney can't find any medical experts willing to testify and the judge won't allow DJ's results in court because of that. So it doesn't seem like the defense attorney fought hard enough to find evidence to exonerate her. Well, also, I think that's really saying something. If the defense attorney was saying they can't find someone, it's like people are saying they don't want to get involved in arguing for the fact that that rare disease exists or something.
Starting point is 00:40:03 Right. And as you'll hear, there are experts in it that could have been found. Paid for. Right. Maybe. Yeah. That's true. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:40:14 Maybe. It's been money. In January 1991, Patty's three-day trial begins since her attorney can't bring up Ryan dying of MMA, so they can't even mention that disease. Her attorney instead tells the jury that he could have died from natural causes to which prosecutor George McElroy III responds, quote, you might as well speculate that some little man from Mars came down and shot him full of some mysterious bacteria, like calling bullshit. He says there's no other way to explain how ethylene glycol made its way into Ryan's body.
Starting point is 00:40:46 And police and social workers testified that Patty showed little emotion upon learning about Ryan's death when she was in prison, which we all know, of course, can't be quantified. On January 31, Patty's convicted of first-degree murder and assault and is sentenced to life in prison. After hearing the verdict, David, the husband faints it has taken to the hospital, so he totally still supports his wife and doesn't believe she did anything to the case. Well, especially he knows what happened. Right.
Starting point is 00:41:15 Even before, yeah, now, of course, but even before that, he would, he was like, there's no fucking way. Yeah. For her first month in prison, Patty can't sleep or eat. She loses so much weight that she goes from a size 11 to a size 7. And then she finds Buddhism, which teaches her to do whatever it takes to survive. And it's her only way she survives this, she says. What?
Starting point is 00:41:34 I've never heard Buddhism described like that. What? Buddhism is like, do whatever, I was a tire. You know what Buddha taught. Anything it takes. That's right. That's right. Squash the little eye.
Starting point is 00:41:52 May I counter suggest that maybe it's, Buddhism is accepting that life is suffering and that essentially being in the present moment and accepting, you know, that that not wanting things to be different, that level of acceptance actually releases a lot of the pain that people go through, always thinking their life should be different. Right. All right. I mean, maybe that, maybe that. Karen, there you go.
Starting point is 00:42:20 I would just like to be the prosecutor here and argue. I appreciate that clarification. Just a personal clarification. I could be wrong. I don't think you are. I'm not a Zen master. You don't think it's that, do whatever it takes, eye of the tiger. I mean, I bet you there are certain sects of Buddhism where they're like, we can kill
Starting point is 00:42:38 you with our hands. We just are choosing not to in the present moment. That's what it is. Okay. In May 1991, Patty's case is featured on Unsolved Mysteries and this dude, Dr. William Sly, who's the professor and chairman of the Department of Biochemistry and Molecular Biology at St. Louis University, happens to be watching. Thank God.
Starting point is 00:43:01 Uh-huh. He contacts Dr. James Shoemaker, who's the director of the university's metabolic screening laboratory, and he says yes, and he ends up testing samples of Ryan's blood. He concludes that Ryan did die of MMA, so thank God this guy was watching. Yes, for real. Dr. Shoemaker sends the samples containing MMA, so he sends the sample to seven different commercial labs to see who will get it right, and out of the seven labs, three of the labs come back with the wrong results.
Starting point is 00:43:32 So that's how easy it is to read the results incorrectly. So it's just, it's the lab technician reading them wrong. It's not even them coming out, you know, wrong. Right. Because it's such a fine difference. It's human error or a human inexperience, I guess. So prosecutor McElroy still doesn't believe Patty didn't kill her son. He asked Dr. Sly and Dr. Shoemaker to find an expert on the matter.
Starting point is 00:43:57 And so they go to this guy, Pirro Ronaldo, who's a renowned geneticist from Yale. He looks over the results. He spends the next six weeks investigating the case and determines that the two doctors are correct. So according to People Magazine, Ronaldo says, quote, the scientific findings used to convict Patty were grossly inaccurate, and he says, technically speaking, I've never seen such a lousy work. It's a classic case of misdiagnosis.
Starting point is 00:44:23 Whoa. I know. So finally, this guy, McElroy, the prosecutor, is convinced he actually asks a judge to drop the murder charges and orders a retrial due to the inadequate legal defense she had gotten, not due to the new blood test findings. So on July 30, 1991, Patty's released and placed on house arrest while she waits another trial. And then McElroy tells the media he hopes to bring Patty back to trial again, briefly
Starting point is 00:44:53 mentioning that the blood test might put a hitch in his plans. So he's still fucking trying to go after her. Then this is kind of surprising to me. On September 30th, he announces that all charges have been dropped, and he personally publicly apologizes to Patty and her family. Whoa. I was totally fucking wrong. He goes, we can't undo the suffering the stallings have endured during this ordeal.
Starting point is 00:45:16 And I apologize. I hope their lives will be happier and fuller in the future. Holy shit. I didn't think it was going to turn like that. No. Wow. Well, you never, you see so many of these prosecutors just ignoring everything and going after them, or then being like, I still think they're guilty, even though it's proven
Starting point is 00:45:34 beyond a reasonable doubt that they're not. Or there's some offense, those stories where it's like, and then they were up for re-election so they couldn't lose a case like it turns into stuff that has nothing to do with what's actually happening. Exactly. Well, good for that guy. Yeah. And Patty says to the media, they can't put a price tag on what they've taken from me.
Starting point is 00:45:54 No. Once she's released, she's finally able to mourn the loss of Ryan. She tells the St. Louis Post Dispatch quote, I've not concentrated on that a lot because I knew that it would break my strength. And I needed what little strength I had left to make it through this. Maybe now I can start accepting this now that the big fight's over. Little 19 month old DJ who has spent his entire life in protective custody is finally allowed to go home to his parents.
Starting point is 00:46:20 And what I heard mention about this that's interesting is that for some reason he still wasn't allowed to go home with his dad, even though it was Patty that was accused. But if he had gone home with his dad and gotten sick, maybe the dad would have ended like they wouldn't have because, you know what I mean? Yes. That makes sense that they couldn't risk, they weren't going to risk another child's life thinking that she or she or they somehow poisoned their first child, they couldn't. But if he had gone home with the dad and gotten sick, they would have just said that they
Starting point is 00:46:52 both poisoned him instead of them finding out that he was actually sick. So it's almost, it sucks, but it's kind of, it's a fortuitous thing that he didn't go home with his dad. I'd say the protection actually served everybody. So he had only met his mother the day he was born. So not having a bond with her child is extremely difficult for Patty. She powers through it. She has to learn how to care for a child with MMA since she never got the chance to do that
Starting point is 00:47:17 with Ryan. DJ has to be fed through a tube, sickness like the flu or colds can be life-threatening. So get your healthy kids vaccinated for the ones who can't. That's right. But Patty and David try to focus on spending as much time as possible with their son while they can. So David and Patty, they sue Cardinal Glennon Hospital. They sue the St. Louis University Hospital.
Starting point is 00:47:43 They sued the doctors, Smith Klein Beach and clinical laboratories where the labs were misread. In total, in 1993, they're awarded several million dollars. Yeah, I bet. The next year, McElroy, the prosecutor's up for reelection, Patty donates $10,000 to the campaign of McElroy's opponent. Oh, shit, Patty. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:48:05 Yeah. Yeah, you did it. Shit. And the opponent ends up winning. That's Robert Wilkins. Still, that guy apologized. That's big. I'm sorry.
Starting point is 00:48:16 That's big. That's what we were just talking about. Yeah. Like, you've got to take responsibility for your attitude. He did the bravest thing, yeah. Yeah. And Patty's heartache doesn't end when she's paid in millions. She and David eventually split.
Starting point is 00:48:29 In 2013, DJ passes away at the age of 23, although I can't find what causes his death. There's so little information after the 90s on this entire family. David Stallings, the father, dies after a long illness in 2019. But I can't find a lot of information about Patty after that, but clearly she was a very strong woman who powered through with the help of Buddhism and being a badass. And that is the case of Patty Stallings. I mean, I would imagine she wants nothing to do with being in the public eye in any way, because that's what a horrible situation to have been in and the amount of loss even
Starting point is 00:49:11 before she went to jail. I mean, just like, that's horrible. Yeah. Terrible. Unbelievable. It's fascinating, it just, wow, I've never heard of it. Yeah. I think I definitely saw the unsolved mysteries way back when, when I was a kid about it.
Starting point is 00:49:30 So it's always kind of stuck with me. I think there was definitely a law and order SVU that was similar, where the mother was arrested for poisoning her child, but it actually, they traced it back to something in the formula. Yeah. Okay, this week for our 300th episode, I'm going to tell you the story of the Chip and Dale's murder. Ooh. Do you know this one?
Starting point is 00:49:54 I've been hearing things about it lately, but I don't know about it. Okay. So this has hit, hit the pop culture scene that you, I know you love to hang out in lately because there's all kinds of projects going on about it. And I just saw an article and was like, the what? Yeah. I just looked it up and I simply can't believe that it's real and that I never heard about it before.
Starting point is 00:50:18 Yeah. I don't know the details at all. Okay. Awesome. I'm going to tell you. So sources for this, a lot of the names of the articles give away what I'm talking about. So I'm just going to tell you, there's an article for ABC 7 Chicago by Emily Wipp, Boaz Halliban, Jack Tate, Glenn Ruppel and Lauren Ephron.
Starting point is 00:50:38 There's an LA Times article by Edward J. Boyer. There is a New York Times article by Todd S. Purdom. There is an article for grunge.com by Karen Corday, Wikipedia article, a couple of Wikipedia articles. There's an LA Times article by Henry Weinstein. The heavy.com had an article with no byline in it about this topic. And of course, People Magazine, there's an article by Christina Duggan. And then there was one for The Independent by Phil Reeves.
Starting point is 00:51:13 Those will all be listed in detail in the show notes. Okay. So this starts April 7th, 1987. So we're back in the height of the triangle neon pink. You know it. You love it. The 80s. Coke fueled.
Starting point is 00:51:34 Coke. Coke. Coke classic. New Coke may have already been premiered, I'm not sure. Crystal Pepsi. Crystal Pepsi was out and about. We had, Jazzercise had already hit and peaked. It was an amazing and very fertile time in America.
Starting point is 00:51:52 So 46 year old Nick DeNoya is working in his Manhattan office on the 15th floor of his West 40th Street office building. He's a TV producer and director. He's also a choreographer and a two-time Emmy Award winner for his NBC Kids show Unicorn Tales. Don't remember that and that's prime kid show time for me. Yeah. It was an Emmy Award winner.
Starting point is 00:52:17 Maybe that was too high quality for you. Oh yeah. I want trash. Give me trash. In 87. But Nick's most recent and arguably most lucrative venture has been choreographing original dance numbers for the world famous male dance review, Chip and Dale's. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:52:37 That guy's got a fun life, I think. I think so. So if you grew up in the 80s, you knew about the Chip and Dale's dancers, which is very strange. Definitely. Because they were male strippers. Right. That had basically been brought to pop culture.
Starting point is 00:52:52 Well, it's almost like Playboy a little bit too, where it's like, if you're a kid you still know what Playboy is. Exactly. Oh, taboo fun thing. Now I just tried to look it up to see. It felt to me like I'm sure there was a Donahue episode about Chip and Dale's because I feel like I saw them. Of course, there's the infamous and insanely hilarious Saturday Night Live sketch with
Starting point is 00:53:15 Patrick Swayze and Chris Farley, where they are both Chip and Dale's dancers. That really is one of the funniest and most legendary sketches of all time. That was from like 1990, I think. But Chip and Dale's was so huge and they were such a kind of like a cultural turning point. They were really big. But I also, like it's too early, but I had memories of them making like a guest appearances on like The Love Boat. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:53:44 But The Love Boat is 270 years. Yeah. I just knew that they were around and as like a... Maybe Dallas? Were they on an episode of Dallas? Yeah, I bet you on shows people would go see Chip and Dale's. And then that's how kind of like I as a 13-year-old wouldn't know about them. Right.
Starting point is 00:54:00 No, it was a known quantity. They were everywhere. Yeah. So, Nick DeNoyer was a big part of the international national success of Chip and Dale's. Yeah. Are you going to talk about what they wore too? Because I feel like that you need to have a picture in your head of what they were wearing. Okay.
Starting point is 00:54:15 So, if you are a Gen Z-er and you're just like, I don't know what you're talking about. This was an all-male stripper dance troupe. And they wore black spandex pants, no shirt, white cuffs, like tuxedo cuffs. Tuxedo cuffs and tuxedo collar and like little bow ties, which was actually, and I will talk about this later, a rip off of the Playboy outfit that women used to wear. So they kind of appropriated that slightly. This was very like the 80s idea of sexy men, which is a ton of like feathered hair, mustaches, very hairy chests, very oiled chests.
Starting point is 00:55:02 Like cut and fucking worked out to high health. Yes. They were, these were, you know, strippers, male strippers, but they were like, you know, the real high class, real, like they look like male models. And when you look at pictures of them now, you're like, oh, these actually all look like gay porn stars because that was like the big mustache and the chef's kiss of male models. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:55:29 Truly just real adonises. Okay. So essentially this is a business that in 1987 was just like, couldn't have been huger. So around 340 on April 7th, 1987, an unnamed business associate goes to Nick's office to go talk to him and he finds him dead on the floor of his office. He's been shot through his left cheek. And when the police arrive on the scene, they note a bullet wound from a large caliber gun has been used.
Starting point is 00:56:00 And based on the position on the floor, it looks like Nick was shot as he was just sitting at his desk when the murderer fired. There's no signs of a struggle and nothing seems to be missing or stolen. So it's immediately very suspicious. Captain Edward Minogue leads the investigation and witnesses tell him that they saw a man about between 35 and 40 years old, possibly Hispanic, approximately 5'7", 145 pounds, who had been hanging around Nick's office and around the building before the shooting and after the shooting.
Starting point is 00:56:32 They describe this man as being clean shaven, having either black or salt and pepper hair, wearing a dark tan jacket and jeans. So they immediately start digging into Nick DeNoy's business history for possible suspects and motives being that the murder took place in his office. So the year before, DeNoy ran a traveling Chippendales troop under the name Chippendales Universal. So the troop was associated with the official Chippendales Company, but Chippendales Universal was an independent organization that paid royalties to the original Chippendales Company.
Starting point is 00:57:08 It was like a, what's it called? Like a franchise. So the general manager of the New York Chippendales Club was a man named Thomas Lord and he said that DeNoy had recently parted ways from the Chippendales Company altogether, Chippendales Company altogether. So we'll go into the history of Chippendales. So it was started in 1979 by a Los Angeles entrepreneur named Soman, but nicknamed Steve Banerjee.
Starting point is 00:57:38 So Steve Banerjee was born in what's now Mumbai, India on October 8th, 1946. He emigrates to the United States in 1969 and settles in Los Angeles. So when he first gets to LA, he owns a couple gas stations. He works at them as an attendant. He tries to do a bunch of other business things like he tries to kind of work his way through different businesses. None of them go very well. Born in 1975, he decides to buy a bar that's over on the west side of LA and he names it
Starting point is 00:58:10 Destiny 2, Roman numeral 2. So he has these dreams of like a successful nightclub. So to drum up business, he tries all kinds of entertainment. So he tries, of course, exotic dancers, magic acts. There's even female mud wrestling, which was, remember all the rage back in the late 70s, early 80s? It was. So gross.
Starting point is 00:58:34 But none of that really hits and nothing takes off. Then in 1979, Steve takes some very fateful advice from a bar regular, a guy who calls himself the Canadian Pimp. This man tells Steve that he should try hosting an all-male strip show so that women come to his bar. And this man's name is Paul Snyder. So that name might sound familiar to you and that's because he was the boyfriend of Playboy Playmate Dorothy Stratton.
Starting point is 00:59:04 And the two had very recently moved to Los Angeles from Vancouver, Canada, because Paul Snyder had sent Dorothy's nude photos into Playboy and she immediately, they were like moved down here, you're in the magazine. She immediately got into, got movie parts. She like, her career took off huge. The next year she was Playmate of the Year, 1980. And of course, Paul was like a Spangoli-like guy. He made her marry him.
Starting point is 00:59:34 He became her quote-unquote manager. So he is thought he was a mover and shaker in Los Angeles. And the more successful Dorothy Stratton got, the angrier he got, there's a lot of cocaine involved. He ended up murdering Dorothy Stratton and then killing himself. It's a plot of the movie star 80. It's very infamous. And Paul Snyder is the guy who gave Steve Bangerie the idea to start Chippendales.
Starting point is 00:59:59 That is wild. And it was Dorothy Stratton's idea for the dancers to wear cuffs and, holy shit, just like Playboy Bunnies. She basically was like, oh, you got to do this. Isn't that insane? What a weird little tidbit. It's like the creepiest true crime crossover ever because apparently their apartment was in West LA, probably near where this bar was, so like, I guess it was their hangout.
Starting point is 01:00:25 It's so strange. What the fuck? Yeah. And here's the thing, you know, Paul Snyder, he had, he was trying to be a mover and shaker in the business. And the truth was, he was right. This was an idea whose time had come. Because basically the timing of this, of like turning, you know, the 80s beginning was this
Starting point is 01:00:48 time or women for the first time were like going to work on masks. They were working women. Women were independent. They had their own money. They weren't getting married right away. Right. With the birth control pills. Birth control pills.
Starting point is 01:01:02 I mean, women were, it was the beginning of like first wave feminism where people were like, I don't immediately have to get married and have a kid to have my life be full. And suddenly there was this place and this was, aside from, of course, gay bars where men would be dancing for each other. This was the first ever all male strip show that was catered toward women. Wow. So immediately he starts doing this, this all male strip club night and women are lining up around the block.
Starting point is 01:01:37 So he decides to rename the bar Chippendales and he, and the idea is, because he's naming it after an 18th century furniture designer, like Chippendales furniture is like the most expensive, fanciest furniture because to Steve, that name represented Cure Class. And that was one of. Oh, I did not know it was named after that. Yeah. So he's basically trying to do upscale strippers for women because now instead of it being, you know, like down by the airport or whatever, it's kind of like saying, this is a high class
Starting point is 01:02:12 kind of form of entertainment where you can come and essentially, like it was allowing women to arguably for the first time ever go out with their friends, celebrate their sexuality freely in a public space and feel like safe about it and good about it. And almost feel like it's this commercial endeavor as opposed to they're sneaking into some bar and it's kind of dirty. And it's empowering too, because you get to make the cat calls with the men now, like especially back then, it was like that cat calls were like, everyone thought it was a form of fucking flattery all the men did.
Starting point is 01:02:48 And now it's like the women get to take that back and start being the fucking objectifiers. Exactly. It was complete role reversal. And essentially these men of Chippendales were gorgeous, smiling, boiled up into it. They were voluntary sex objects. They were dressed like construction workers, firemen, doctors, and all of these all female audiences were basically saying, it's our turn to objectify you now. And they were fucking coming in droves to do it.
Starting point is 01:03:19 They were throwing their money at these men. The whole thing was, you know, would we say empowering? I don't know, but it was freeing. It was freedom, the freedom to kind of do the thing you thought you would never be able to do. Right. And it really was like a lightning bolts culturally. So Steve obviously sees and knows that he's got a hit on his hands.
Starting point is 01:03:42 So he aims to make Chippendales the most lucrative club in Los Angeles. So this I love. There's the fire code capacity for his building was 299 people. He consistently exceeds the number. At some nights he had 600 women in this club. Oh my God. And there's a picture. There's an amazing picture I'll show you after.
Starting point is 01:04:04 It's a stripper leaning into a crowd so that a woman can give him money or two. I think they're kissing actually. First of all, every woman looks like everybody looked when I was a senior in high school. Like that kind of like your hair was really curly, but it was also a by level. Yeah. And a lot of triangle earrings, shoulder pads, tons of shoulder pads, but like they're sitting so so normally it would probably be, you know, like there's the floor where the dancers are performing.
Starting point is 01:04:34 There's some steps up and then there's, you know, cocktail tables along the back. But there are women sitting on the steps, sitting on the floor. The way the guy is leaning, his package is right in this girl's face. Like it's hilarious. There's women packed in and they're, they're all like overjoyed. Every woman is like smiling and going crazy. Oh my God. I love it.
Starting point is 01:04:55 So it's, I mean, it must have been, I would have killed to be those early days. It must have been insanity. Yes. Yes. It must have been those like the early Beatles concerts where it's like teenage girls screaming out all of their anxiety and all of their like, oh my God, I love John Lennon, pent up anger and all these things. All of it where it's like this, this thing is happening that they've never been able
Starting point is 01:05:17 to do before. And now they get to do it. And everyone's into it. Oh my God. I got to ask my mom if she went there because Janet was fucking in the front row, you know it. I bet she went after work one time, like with her girlfriends, right? Do you want to text her?
Starting point is 01:05:31 Do it. Oh my God. Okay. So I'll keep telling you. So basically at least twice the LAPD had to raid the club because of capacity and safety code violations, but then the raids made the nightly news, which then spread the word that there was an all male strip club in Los Angeles. So even more customers flocked to Chippendales.
Starting point is 01:05:52 And then the rumors start to circulate that Steve was the one who was filing the complaints. So he could get free PR on TV. Smart. Genius. And of course, word spreads across LA like crazy. And because it's LA, the club gets more and more hotter and hotter young men who are of course acting hopefuls that have moved to town. They're like, man, I could dance, I could strip or whatever, you know, they want to make a
Starting point is 01:06:18 quick buck. There's an endless supply of guys like that, like untapped. So these dancers really were like, if you look up, they were the picture of like 80s and 80s male hotness, which is so weird now because you're like, that looks like a dad. It's like a 40 year old dad. It's like a 22 year old actor. It's so funny. Everybody looked so much older in the 80s.
Starting point is 01:06:43 What is it? Like, I guess it could be perspective, but do they drink a lot of milk? Well, also it was just like, it was the style, I don't know, but like the guys that were seniors when my sister was a freshman, I remember looking at your book, they looked like 30 year old men. It's a weird thing. Yes. It's a weird thing.
Starting point is 01:07:04 So yes, 100%. There was a guy that was a senior and my sister was a freshman, she would talk about how when they would do volleyball for PE, he would hit the volleyball just with his elbow. Like it was no big deal. And they, it would just like make them go insane. It was a different time. It was a very different time. It was a very footbally kind of like jock, the steals, the Steelers and the Rams and whatever.
Starting point is 01:07:26 Yeah. It was jock central. And this was like the jocks were dancing for your pleasure. Okay. I mean, that's a pretty nice turn. All right. I think. I'll take it.
Starting point is 01:07:40 Okay. So one such talent was a man named Reed Scott, who auditioned to be a dancer in the early 80s, probably like 81. He gets the job, then he works his way up from dancer to he becomes the emcee of the whole show. And then he eventually starts working on the business side and the business is exploding, of course. So in 1981, Banjari hires TV producer and director Nick DeNoya to choreograph the dancers move.
Starting point is 01:08:06 So I think in the beginning, it was kind of like, just come out and strip and do what you can. Nick DeNoya comes in with that, you know, the TV show biz kind of thing and is like, no, no, no. This needs to be like, this needs to be a show where... Like put on a Vegas style show almost. Yes, exactly. So at first they all come out in their cuffs and their bow ties.
Starting point is 01:08:26 They all the same outfit on. A woman named Candace Marin, who was the associate producer for Chippendales at the time said, Nick DeNoya's real skill, quote, as a choreographer and a director was coming up with moves that a great big muscled guy could perform and look graceful while doing it. Amazing. So they were essentially casting for obviously for looks. You didn't have to be a great dancer, but then, you know, so they would make dances
Starting point is 01:08:52 that you could get away with it. But then of course, I'm sure after a while you had your Patrick Swayze type. Sure. Like, oh, and guess what? I am also a professional dancer. So watch this. Five, six, seven, eight. Chippendales becomes so popular.
Starting point is 01:09:07 Steve opens a second club in New York City in 1983, then one in Denver, then one in Dallas. Damn. Yeah. So that's when Nick DeNoya comes up with the idea of starting a traveling Chippendales dance troupe. So they could bring the exotic male dance sensation to all the cities in the country that didn't have their own home Chippendales club, which is genius. So smart.
Starting point is 01:09:31 So smart. It's immediately a hit and it starts earning the company additional millions every year. So as we all know, with great success comes great bickering, Steve Bangerie and Nick start fighting over their differing creative visions for both the club act and for the company itself. Reed Scott was there watching his bosses go quote, toe to toe and just scream and curse at each other. That was from Oracle People Magazine.
Starting point is 01:09:59 So in 1984, Steve and Nick settle on a deal. And this was literally written on a bar napkin where Nick DeNoya can continue running the touring troupe under the Chippendales name, but they, he and Steve will split the profits of that 50-50. But Steve is incredibly competitive. He is incredibly paranoid and he wants it all to himself. Yeah. It's kind of that mistake a lot of people make where it's like, hey, guess what?
Starting point is 01:10:30 This was actually Paul Snyder's idea. Right. Right. First of all, and then, you know, whatever it was when it started, which would be, I would love to see when it started. The cool thing is, well, there's movies coming out. There's actually, there's been a bunch of like made for TV movies about this case, which is crazy.
Starting point is 01:10:50 I've never heard or seen any of them, but more importantly, there is a podcast that came out this year by a historian named Natalia Petrizella, and it's called Welcome to Your Fantasy, and it's all about this case and about Chippendales. So if you want, I didn't listen to it, but I bet it's amazing. So if you want the like drilled down details that is what you should listen to, Welcome to Your Fantasy by Natalia Petrizella. So anyway, so Steve is trying to basically hold on to everything and keep it for himself. So he starts getting really paranoid.
Starting point is 01:11:27 He hates seeing that Nick is getting the like recognition with the success of the Turing Act. It's like almost like Nick's getting everything in his mind, and he also, he's bummed at that, like that Nick's getting the credit and that also he starts to get paranoid that Nick is keeping more than 50% for himself. So this jealous paranoia builds and builds as the company grows in fame and popularity. So it's just getting worse. I didn't see anything that said anything about drugs, but it was the 80s.
Starting point is 01:11:59 Of course, at a club, a nightclub. A nightclub in the 80s. This is alleged. This is editorial. I'm just saying my opinion, Coke was fucking everywhere. Coca-Cola. Coca-Cola. And also these are like male dancers.
Starting point is 01:12:13 So like, I'm sure you need a little toot to get out there and get your, you know, like, come on, that it must have been part of it. Absolutely. But that's my opinion. That's mine too. Could be made up, listen to, welcome to your fantasy to get the real story. Because that'd be hilarious if Natalia was just like, guess what, this was an AA strip club.
Starting point is 01:12:34 There was not a dime of Coke to be had. Okay, so, so we're back to 1987 when the, when the murder took place. There's two years of investigating Nick DeNoy's murder. It's the, the case has gone cold. In 1988, Steve Bangerie buys back the full rights to the Chippendales Touring Company from DeNoy's family. So now he has everything again. In the early nineties, other entrepreneurs follow in Chippendales footsteps and launch
Starting point is 01:13:04 their own male exotic dance acts. One is a British based strip act called Adonis. They started in 1991 by several ex Chippendales dancers and it's managed by former Chippendale employee Steve White. So this is a 16 man dance troupe that's operating out of England and they hire Reed Scott as their emcee. So the original guy from the club goes to do this. Reed Scott just left Chippendales the month before and he's really excited to be in England.
Starting point is 01:13:34 It's like a new country, new venture, but Steve Vines out about Adonis and he is enraged. So then in July of 1991, an informant by the name of Strawberry, which is everyone thinks this might be a fake name, contacts an FBI agent in Las Vegas named Scott Garriola. And Strawberry tells Garriola that an LA based man named Ray Cologne has offered him $25,000 per person to kill three targets in Blackpool, England. Holy shit. Adonis dancer, Michael Follington, Adonis manager, producer Steve White and Adonis emcee Reed Scott.
Starting point is 01:14:15 Oh my God. So dude, they're all as I just said ex Chippendales dancers and employees. And according to this informant Strawberry, Ray Cologne gave him an eyedropper filled with cyanide and he was instructed to inject it into these men. Holy shit. Where do you get cyanide from? The same place you get coke from? I mean, I guess.
Starting point is 01:14:40 It seems like it's a different trip. It seems like it'd be really hard to find. It seems like it's the end of it's like, yeah, that would, it wouldn't be a nice combination. No. Okay. So the same month Reed Scott's on stage kicking off an Adonis performance in the resort town of Blackpool, England. One of his bosses goes on stage and pulls him off mid sentence.
Starting point is 01:15:05 He's taken to a back office where he meets officers from Scotland Yard who inform Reed that a hit has been taken out on him, him and the two other Adonis employees and that their lives are in danger. Reed Scott would later tell People Magazine, I got this cold chill as the detective told me, you can run and hide or you can stay and we can catch the killer before he gets to you. It was like something you hear in a movie. It didn't seem like real life.
Starting point is 01:15:33 And then that's when Reed told the officers, this has got to be Steve Annergia. So Reed Scott, Michael Follington and Steve White, they didn't run and hide. They did continue to play it cool and let the investigation continue as they did their job. So the FBI follows strawberries lead to Ray Cologne and when they search Cologne's home, they found 46 grams of cyanide, which is enough to kill 230 people. So Cologne's arrested on the spot and he's charged with conspiracy and murder for hire. So Cologne remains in custody for the next seven months before he decides to cooperate
Starting point is 01:16:12 with the authorities. He confirms that it is indeed Steve who hired him as a hit man, not just to kill Michael Follington, Steve White and Reed Scott, but also for the 1987 murder of Nick DeNoya. Cologne reveals that in the case of DeNoya, he farmed that hit job out to another man named Gilberto Rivera Lopez. So when the FBI look up Lopez, they see he's already in prison for an unrelated crime. So Annergy knows that Ray Cologne was recently arrested. So he suspects that this is a sting operation.
Starting point is 01:16:49 So he enters the restaurant, he greets Ray Cologne by putting a finger to his lips and directing him to follow him into the bathroom. And there, Annergy has Cologne stripped down to ensure he's not wearing a wire. But luckily the mic had been sewn into the boxers. So Annergy can't see it. But anytime still, anytime Ray Cologne asks a question, Annergy writes his answer on a post-it note, holds it up and then rips it up and throws it in the toilet. That's kind of smart.
Starting point is 01:17:20 So nothing's on tape and the eye hop sting is a failure. So the FBI has to come up with a new plan. So they take Ray Cologne to Switzerland where he tells Steve Annergy that he's fled police custody and found asylum abroad. Smart. So the idea of an escape rather than a release makes Steve feel more comfortable about talking. So he agrees to go meet Cologne in a hotel room in Zurich. So there the two men discuss the murder for higher plots.
Starting point is 01:17:50 Steve's a bit apprehensive at first. He even goes so far as to say at one point that he feared the FBI might be listening in the next room, which they literally were. Of course they were. But Ray Cologne is able to calm Steve down, they end up talking for three to four hours. And during that conversation, Steve brings up the code word for Nick DeNoya, which is the D, they say, unfortunately, and he asks Cologne if the FBI knows anything about that or about the fact that he'd given Ray Cologne the money to buy guns for these hits.
Starting point is 01:18:28 The FBI catches Banergy on tape not only confessing to hiring Ray Cologne to murder Nick DeNoya, but also the attempted murders of Reed Scott, Michael Follington and Steve White. So on September 2, 1993, Steve Banergy is arrested and he's charged with conspiring to kill his three former employees. He pleads guilty to the charges as well as the charges of racketeering and a surprise twist, two counts of arson, because it turns out that in 1979, there was a Santa Monica Club called Moody's Disco, and they attempted to run a mail strip show of their own. So Steve Banergy hired someone to burn Moody's Disco to the ground.
Starting point is 01:19:15 Holy shit. Just like they talk about in the songs. Burn it down. Luckily, the fire did little damage and Moody's was only temporarily closed, so they didn't really do anything. But then five years later in 1984, Banergy launches a similar attack on the popular Marina Del Ray nightclub, The Red Onion, because they started a mail strip show, but again, the arson attempt is unsuccessful.
Starting point is 01:19:42 Banergy pleads guilty to all the charges he faces 26 years in prison and he'll be forced to give up ownership of Chippendales, but on October 23rd, 1994, the day before his sentencing, Steve Banergy uses a bed sheet and a wall hook and strangles himself to death in his jail cell. Fuck. Yeah. So Gilberto Rivera Lopez, who's the man who's hired to kill Nick DeNoya in his Manhattan office, gets charged for Nick's murder.
Starting point is 01:20:11 He's convicted of second degree murder and he's sentenced to 25 years to life. And then Ray Cologne, the hit man who orchestrated Nick DeNoya's murder, as well as the failed hit attempts on Steve White, Reed Scott, and Michael Fullington. He pleads guilty to conspiracy and murder for higher charges, but his sentence is reduced because of his cooperation with the FBI and his help with taking Steve Banergy down. He's released from prison in 1996. Wow. That's a quick.
Starting point is 01:20:40 Yeah. Yeah. Because he collaborated or cooperated. The informant who contacted FBI agent Gary Ola Strawberry is later revealed to be a man named Lynn Bressler. So basically, if it wasn't for Lynn Bressler getting cold feet in 1991, no one would ever have known about any of this and those cases would have gone unsolved, like who knows what would have happened.
Starting point is 01:21:06 So that guy really, really is kind of the hero for coming forward. The Chippendale Murder has been covered across film, TV, and podcasts. There's a made for TV movie called The Chippendale Murders in the year 2000. There's a movie called Just Can't Get Enough from 2002. The Discovery Channel, it was on the FBI files in an episode called Backstage Murder. And then of course, the podcast, Welcome to Your Fantasy, that came out this year. There's also a biopic that's currently in the works by director Craig Gillespie who did Eitania and Dev Patel's playing Steve Banerjee in that, right?
Starting point is 01:21:45 And that is the unbelievable and to me unheard of story of the Chippendales murder. Yeah. Holy shit. Crazy, right? Twisty journey. But also like I can see it all in my mind of it's like over there, it was on Overland on the west side. Yeah, I'm picturing exactly where it was.
Starting point is 01:22:04 It's just like you can just see that kind of like that nightlife and that 80s thing going on. Well, I promised to talk to my mom before next week and find out because there's no way she didn't go. I cannot wait to hear if Janet has a Chippendale story. I'll let you know for sure. Or if anybody, if you, if you have a Chippendale story from the 80s. Yeah, or your mom or your grandma does.
Starting point is 01:22:24 Like an OG. Yeah. Was your dad a dancer? Like, please, were you a dancer? Or your dancer? Fucking email us. Oh my God. For your hometowns.
Starting point is 01:22:35 That'd be amazing. But also, you know, I love that there's all this, I love when there's a thing like that, that to me is such a, oh my God, that was so, that's so right at my alley, time and place and everything. But I had never heard of it. No. There's still those out there. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:22:50 Oh my God. Just cause we're on our 300th episode. Don't give up. Oh. It always feels like I just don't know anything I'll ever talk about again. But now we, of course, we have Hannah Creighton as our producer who's like, give me ideas and I'll plan it for the next eight months and then I don't panic every week, which is so nice.
Starting point is 01:23:04 No, we have some really good support and nice help. You know who we've had supporting us for 300 episodes? Who? Mr. Stephen Ray Morris, who's right there with us. Thank you, Stephen. Thank you so much. You're welcome. Thank you.
Starting point is 01:23:18 Yeah. He's been in all the lofts and all the apartments and all the studios and some of the live shows and. He really has the patience of a saint. True. Those early days were pretty rough, got to say. Those current days can get rough too. It's all pretty rough, but you know, I think we're also having a good time and yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 01:23:39 Thank you guys for listening. We appreciate you as always. Here's to 3000 more. Stay sexy and don't get murdered. Goodbye. Elvis, do you want a cookie? This has been an exactly right production. Our producer is Hannah Kyle Crichton, associate producer Alejandra Keck, engineer and mixer
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