My First Million - #5 - The First Viral Website: "Hot or Not"

Episode Date: July 23, 2019

James Hong (@jhong) is the creator of Hot or Not? He sits down to tell us how the silly website went from 42 friends, to 2 million page views per day within a week. I love his philosophy of running it like an "internet laundromat" - collecting nickels & quarters from the machine (up to $20,000 per night!) Great guy, great energy, checkout the episode. - shaan (@shaanvp on twitter)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Basically, I had nothing to do. I was just going out drinking with my friends all the time, like almost like five days a week. We had the system sending us stats like at noon and at midnight. $10,000, $15,000 on a good day, like $20,000 something thousand. Okay. And is it recording? Okay. Okay, so what is this?

So something that entertains me. And so I wanted to create a podcast, which was first and foremost, just an excuse to hang out with people who I haven't been able to hang out with as much. So one way is to say, hey, let's go grab a coffee. And the other way is to say, what if we recorded this? So other people could be a fly on the wall and hear stories or chatter. Yeah. And I'm not trying to do it educationally. So for me, it's stories.

So stories is the part where, so the podcast is called My First Million. And the reason I picked that is because the audience that listens to this, they are, you know, entrepreneurs already or entrepreneurs kind of thinking about, hey, you know, that's the dream. I'd love to sort of quit my job and start a business someday. Yeah. And I remember for me, and I think this applies to many people, which is the idea of a million bucks is like a magic number. Even today when everyone's a billionaire, still, if you're a thousand there, a million bucks sounds like all the money. Totally understand. And so.

In fact, when I made my first million, I put it all in one account and I went to the ATM. Just to look at it. Yeah. And I withdrew money, so I would have a slip of paper that said I had a million dollars. You framed that? What did you do with the slip? Yeah. Well, you know, the funny thing is like, then we had all these jokes because I had these ATM slits with a million dollars on it. And we were just joking around. We're like, man, we should like keep these in our wallet. And then like when you give a girl your phone number, it's like, oh, uh.

Casually. Yeah, like, let me write it down. Let me write this before everyone had phones. Oh, let me write it down on a slip of paper. I have one. I have one right. Never actually did it, but it was a funny, it was a funny idea. And actually it turned, I remember like, then I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, Googling the idea and like there were companies I remember that sold fake ATM slips online oh wow so you weren't the first guy thinking about doing this that's a whole new

industry yeah so basically it's called my first million I'm talking to be about how they made a million bucks in all different ways so yeah some people are tech entrepreneurs from start a business some people made a million bucks selling mushrooms and they're mushroom farmers someone's did it in crypto CBD you know all the different types of thing, real estate. And so I want to tell stories so that the listeners basically hear, man, first there's a million ways to success. You don't have to follow a particular track. Right. And B, just a little bit of inspiration and entertainment about how, you know, these stories tend to be really interesting. They kind of come out of nowhere. It wasn't a perfect

plan. It wasn't a straight line. It usually has ups and downs. And so I want to tell those stories. You know, like in Harvard Business School, they have these HBS cases. And everything in those cases is like, oh, you know, Sean was looking out the window at the Charles River, thinking about what he was going to do for his company. And the solution is always, they give you all this data. And then at the end, it's like, oh, he did this and this and this and this and this. And then he did that and that and that. It's like how, everything's like the solution was like a neat package.

And in reality, you like, you know, like the guy was, you know, he was not sleeping. And like he probably did 20 million things before he did what he actually ended up doing or she, whatever. But, you know, it's funny because like it's always like that. but reality is never like that. You know what I mean? Exactly. And so I'll give the brief intro. So we have James Hong on the show.

Entrepreneur started famously a company called Hot or Not. One of the first tremendously viral product before viral was really even a thing, I would say. And now Angel Investor, all-round good guy. I'm excited to be talking to you. Last time I talked to you was like five years ago. Yeah, a long time ago. So it's good to reconnect. And so I always start with, you know, not.

kind of how'd you do it, but a different sort of question, which is really, did you always want to make a million bucks? Like, when you were growing up, did you want to be rich? Was that a goal of yours? Not necessarily. I wasn't really like, oh, I have to be rich. My mom tells me that I drew, I kind of remember this. In third grade, I drew her a picture of my house. And I just remember it was on the waterfront and it had like two helicopter landing pads. And so maybe I did. But by the time I grew up, by the time I went through college. I was, I wasn't really like I need to be rich, but I did want to do something. You know what I mean? Like, I didn't want to be bored. The thing I learned at my first job, which was at Hewlett-Packard, I remember this is when the web first came out and I was doing basically sales support for a technical product. And I created a website because I was tired of all these people calling me with the same questions. I basically eliminated my job and the job of two other people. My coworkers, we all got deep. deployed onto other things. But I remember thinking, like, they gave me a bonus of, like, you know, they gave me a raise of, like, five grand or something like that. And I'm like, I just

eliminated, like, you know, three jobs that was probably like, you know, back then, like a couple hundred grand or something like that. And I got five grand. And I just remember thinking, like, I'll never make as much money as a value I deliver in a company because a company, a big company, at least, has to kind of pay people based on kind of like the median value that any given person that the company will provide. Right. I think that's kind of the one thing that's changed a little bit like at Google and that Facebook is that they're now willing to be like, oh, wow, like you created like hundreds of millions

of dollars in value. Maybe they still don't give you a couple hundred million, but they'll be like, we'll give you 10 million. Right. So at least maybe it's not that different today except that things operate at a higher scale and that they're able to because the margin is so high. But in any case, I was like, you know, screw that. Like, I'm going to go work for myself because then I can actually extract, you know, what

actually created. Most people don't see that. So if you're at a company, and this is not because companies are evil. This is really just the standard way you have to operate. If somebody's 10 times more productive, 10 times better than their peers, you can't pay them 10 times as much usually. Yeah, that's exactly the point. People make straight up more money at these big companies than they would being fairly successful as an entrepreneur, you know, hitting a double or hitting a triple even, you know. And that's because the scale of these companies is absurd now. Yeah, because scale and the margin. The margin is high. Right. That's really the difference. So. And so you were, was this straight out of college that you were at Hewlett-Packard?

That was straight out of college. So I was like, forget it. Because in the meantime, you know, the funny thing that happened is this is 90, I got out of college in 95. And where'd you go to school? I went to Berkeley. Okay. And did engineering, electrical engineering, computer science degree. And the funny thing is like, you know, in 94, I remember summer of 94, that's when Mosaic came out, the first web browser. You know, coming out of Berkeley, everyone who got good grades, went to grad school or, you know, at worst, got the good jobs, which the good job was like going to Intel or HP or whatever. Right.

And I went to HP. And meanwhile, our friends who were not as strong students, who couldn't get into a good grad school, who couldn't get a job at HP, they ended up taking jobs at other places that we'd never heard of, like eBay and Yahoo or whatever. So like around 96 or around 97, maybe 96, whenever Yahoo went public, all these. friends got rich and that's kind of like when you realized that like oh like what game should I be playing exactly right because it feels like I lost when you're when you're at a you know when you come straight out of school you're still thinking oh whoever gets the best grades whoever works the hardest blah blah blah

deserves the you know the big prize and then you're like wait what just happened and that's kind of like when reality hit and it's like you know what like life is not I mean there's a lot of things in life that determine how you end up doing and I mean a lot of it's luck a lot of it's just or whatever. And so anyway, I realized that I was like, I'm not going to get rich at HP. And not only that, I didn't get the value of like the jobs I destroyed that I got made more efficient. Yeah, exactly. And so around that time, I was like, okay, screw this. Like at that point, I was like, I'm out of here. And then I was like, well, I was either going to go to business school because back then everyone thought business school was a path. And actually to some degree, it kind of was because back then to start anything. you needed to raise venture money. And it was easier to raise venture money if you had either a lot of experience on the engineering side or, you know, like, it was MBAVC's funding other MBAs, right?

So it was kind of seen as a path back then to get an MBA to become an entrepreneur. And today you don't have to do that because mainly because the cost is so much lower of starting up, right? Like, you know, like... Back then, what did you need to start a business? Well, back then it was like, oh, to start any company,

well, first of all, certainly you needed a sun machine, right? You need a box from Sun to run the web server. And, you know, that might be like half a million bucks or something. I mean, like, just to get started cost a lot of money. Plus, there weren't as many tools. The kit was expensive. Right. If you want to buy the box to play.

Just to put up a website with, like, you know, like, with a database on it, like people thought you have to have a million bucks at least. Right. And so nobody has a million bucks lying around. And today, what do you need for that? Nothing. I mean, you know. Five hours and.

I mean, like, you get your, you get a free box, you know, free instance from Amazon, you know, whatever. It's nothing. It's virtually free. Actually, when we started hot or not, when it first started taking off, it was built on a PC I got for free from E-Trade, I think, for opening an account with $500 in it. It was like the dingy's machine had no memory or anything,

but it could run as a server. Not very well, but it got us online, right? And the first thing we thought was, like, we need to get a sun machine when things took off. And so we got a sun machine. We were leasing through rack space, I think, at the time. I remember distinctly hanging out in front of some restaurant in Palo Alto and Larry Page saying, oh yeah, you should buy from rackable,

which was a one new rack mount system company. And it turned out that like my neighbor, two doors down, was the guy who he was like number 20 at Google. And he was like the, remember they used to say we have a neurosurgeon on staff, or whatever, that was him. And he was in charge of scaling all their data center ops. And so he was hand and he was like, yeah, guys, you should get.

And this is kind of an untold story about Google's, you know, one of the reasons where they were able to win and scale so crazy. People don't talk too much about this, which is they were using command. commodity cheap hardware. Yeah. And instead of these expansive specialized systems that were harder to scale. Right. Because the robustness of a system with a thousand machines was much better than one sunbox.

You know, it's basically centralizing all your problems. Single points of failure. Right. You know, one single box. And you saw them, and that was like your Roger Bannister, four-minute mile where you're like, oh, we can do it with that too. Yeah. If they're doing it. Basically.

And it was cheaper. I mean, like, we didn't have money. So I was in debt from business school. And my partner was a Ph.D. grad student. We didn't have money. We were a negative net worth. So hot or not kind of was like Tinder in, you know, 2000, right? It was a website where people would submit their picture and other people would rate them on a scale of 1 to 10 on how hot they were. And this was kind of in the day

when everyone was scared to post their photo online. Like if you posted your photo online, it was behind a password protected page that, you know, was for shutter flyer Ophoto back in the day. So the concept of posting a photo for other people to see that, You didn't have full control over who could see it. It was completely foreign at the time. Forget about the rating. That was obviously a controversial. Actually, the rating actually, as an idea, came slightly second.

It was originally about voyeurism. I was addicted to reality TV back then. What were you watching? Still am. Back then, I used to watch a lot of like Jerry Springer, Ricky Lake, all that kind of stuff. The best part of those days was I actually ended up going on some of those shows. You were on Springer? Yeah.

I was on like Ricky Lake, I think, or one of the... Maybe one of those. As a guest or as a audience. Or as a audience. I was a guest judge. They had people come out like, they had, the themes would be like, my friend thinks she's hot and she's really not. And then like, they would come out and talk about it.

And then I would come at the end and tell them their score. So anyway, like. So where did that idea come from? Post your photo online. And then you said, you added later. Yeah. Yeah. So then we, yeah, the rating was like just kind of an add on.

Like, oh, it'd be cool to have a mechanism where like the audience could give data back. Right. And make it, there was this whole what they called the two-way web at the time. The web is about conversations, right? And so it was like the concept that the audience could actually give response back was new. So you liked people watching. Right. But that's still like still where did the lightning bolt strike?

You know, actually there's a backstory to all of this, which is that in the late 90s, there was this guy called the Turkish stud. I don't know if you know about. I've never heard this. Actually, I think Borat was based on him. I think the guy who does Borat denies it, but it's so clear. There was this guy in Turkey who had a web page with pictures of him, like playing ping pong or whatever. And somebody, I don't think to this day anyone knows who did it, but someone took those pictures and made another web page that was a fake web page. And it was like, he called himself the Turkish stud.

And he's like, who wants to come to my country? I can invite you come have sex. It was Borat, basically. Oh, come with sexy time. Right. And it blew up. There was this company called E-Tor. that kind of like jumped on it and brought,

E-Tor was like, it was kind of like the equivalent then of Stumble-upon, I think. And I don't know if people remember, stumble upon. Which is the equivalent of whatever, like. Reddit maybe today. It's basically like, it just took you to random things on the web, because back then there wasn't that much on the web, right? So this company, E-Tor made a big deal out of this guy, and he ended up on Letterman and whatever, you know,

like within a month, he had like a million page user or something like, like that, right? And we just, my friend and I just thought it was fun. My co-founder, Jim Young, he and I just thought it was hilarious because there were all these companies back in those days that were raising tons of money, throwing lavish parties and stuff like that. He couldn't get a 10th of the page views. Who couldn't get any page views. And, you know, this was when, like, C. Jersen was starting to talk about viral marketing with Hotmail. And we're like, this is so fucking awesome because it was just the irony, right? It's like, this guy is like, he didn't even do it. Someone did it to him. And he ended up, like, on Letterman and getting all these

tids that all these other people were dying for. We just thought it was funny. And so we kind of had in the back of our mind, like, someday I want to do, I want to build a Turkish stud. Right. So it wasn't even about money. It was about, I want to do something that goes viral. Right. If you want to make that first million, you've got to do your homework. Our sponsor Monday.com is back to help you prepare with another weekly dose of the Monday.com motivation. Got a goal? Get yourself a roadmap and do research before you dive in. An educated brain is like a roadrunner. holding knives. It's really fast, it's hard to stop, and it's a little dangerous. Visit Monday.com, backslash pod, backslash million to get 10% off and see how their

color-coded platform can prepare you for success. It'll increase your workflow, manage your workloads, and get you one step closer to getting that money. And I was obsessed with this guy. Like I remember I had like, I had him as my screensaver, like him playing ping pong. And so, so when we were talking about the, the just various ideas one time, this voyeurism and whatever came up, and then like, oh, you know, then you could rate them or whatever. We're like, hey, this could be our Turkish stud, right? And so actually when we built it, you know, like Jim was a grad student.

I was working at a friend's company at the time. We were just killing a lot of time and we were ready to set up in this house to do a startup. So anyway, Jim just disappeared in his room and like three or four days later he came out. He's like, okay, it's done. You know, today you could build it in like literally like 20. 20 minutes. But back then, you had to do a lot of extra stuff. Right. And so he came out. He's like, it's done. And then I let you upload a photo. Yeah. And I clicked through other people's photos. Yeah, basically. And then I tested it that weekend. I was just playing with it. My dad

came into the room. What do you mean by you tested it? What are you testing? I was just looking at. He sent me a link. I didn't look at it for a couple days. Then I started looking at it a couple days later when I was at home on the weekend. My dad was looking over my shoulder. He kind of walks in the room. He's like, oh, what are you doing? You know, and like, I was supposed to be like working. in. By this point, actually, no, I had quit my job. I'm sorry. So I was unemployed.

So now I remember, I was supposed to be looking for a job probably. So I lied and said, ah, this is just something Jim's doing. And so my dad starts playing with it. And then I see him, he's the first person I ever saw, get addicted to rating swip. Girl. Click, click, click. Which is hot or not.

Swipe, swipe, swipe. Yeah. And we just had, like, I had just taken photos from Excite Personals to, like, seat it. Yeah. And so he was like, oh, she's hot. She's, oh, I'm like, oh. my god, like it's my dad. He's like 60-year-old Asian engineer who was supposed to be asexual, except, you know, the three times he had sex with my mom, which was, you know, immaculate

conception. Exactly. Exactly. Practically. So I was like, holy crap. Like, this is pretty interesting. So then we launched it like a couple days, like that Monday, I remember, Monday or Tuesday. I think it was Monday. And I just, we launched it by sending it, I sent an email. I put myself and Jim on the site, and then I sent a link to our pictures and sent it to a bunch of our friends. And it was like, I'm not. It was like, it was 42 people, which I counted it later, but, you know, because 42 is a magic number, right? Yeah, of course.

But anyway, so I sent it out and, like, it just immediately took off. And I think by the end, that was at 2 o'clock in the afternoon. And by the end of the day, we had had, like, 30-something thousand IP addresses in our logs, distinct, wow. And so that's probably, you know, back then a lot of people went through proxies or like AOL and a lot of these dial-ups used proxies. So there's probably like, you know, 100,000 people. or more. And we're like, holy shit. That was crazy. So people were

just sending it to their friends. Yeah, people were just sending it. And like within an hour, we had, you know, had like 20 or 30 submissions. And so I was like, okay, we can take off the fake photos now. Because like, you know, that was because it was so slow because it was running on that one machine. I think like one, like after you

voted, it would take you to the next page view where it would tell you the score of that person and then show you someone else to rate. And that, the turnover of that page was about 20 seconds. People were doing it and like clicking away to like going to their other browser window doing whatever and then coming back. But people is amazing. Like people were just doing it.

And so we're like, holy shit. Like this is nuts. Like it just took off like crazy. And so by the end of the week, I think we were doing like a couple million pages a day. And this is all still running on the laptop or at this point you start scaling it. But yeah, yeah. Like there were all these crazy stories about how we scaled it. But like it got to two million a day.

And then like within two months, like we were in people. magazine. I think like we were one of the top 20 most trafficked websites on the web at that time. You had your Turkish stud. Yeah, we had, we beat the Turkish stud, right? You know the funny, the funny thing about that is that it turns out that the Turkish stud got popular because he first hit the scene because there was this woman at salon.com. Salon was like an online magazine back then. That was pretty popular. And there's this woman who was a writer named Janelle Brown. And she wrote about the Turkish stud. She made the Turkish stud happen, really, because I think that's how you. e-tore and everyone else found out about them.

Well, my friend called me up. He's, like, the first day that we were running it, he's like, hey, I got a friend who works at salon.com named Janelle. Can you talk to her? I'm like, okay, you know, like, we'll talk to her, but, like, we have to remain anonymous. Because we didn't know if we were going to, like, get in trouble. Or, you know, like, people were going to be offended by this or whatever.

And so he's like, okay, she said she'll talk to you anonymously. And then, so I did, I was talking to this woman, Janelle, and she was interviewing me, and she's clicking on the site that while she's doing, it and then she's like, and we didn't have that many photos on the side of the time, so she hit mine. But there's no way for her to know that, but she's like, wait a minute, is this James Honk? I'm like, uh, yeah. How did she put two and two together? How did she put a phone call? Because Janelle Brown was the very first person I met in college. Her door literally faced my door in the dorms at Berkeley. So I was like, she's like, James, it's Janelle Brown. I was like,

Because at that point, I just knew her, his friend, Janelle. Right. So I was like, oh, my God, like, Janelle, like, please don't tell anyone I'm doing this. So she's like, okay, okay, no problem. You know, I said you would be anonymous and I'll respect that, right? Wow. So she did. Actually, but the traffic actually got so bad that first day that I called her saying, hey, Janelle, like, thank you.

Don't run it. Yes. I was like, can you please not run it? Because, like, remember, like, we were running on a. server that was at a time when we were hosting the photos and it was $1,000 a megabit per second. So I figured like at the end of that day or whatever, I was like, man, this thing's going to cost like the run rate was like, you know, $50,000 a month and it was doubling every like whatever hours. And so the trick with bandwidth pricing, like no one knows this anymore because

everyone just goes to AWS and gets charged on throughput. But back in the day, like when you, when you pay for bandwidth, most carriers will give you, will bill you at the 95th percentile of your usage, which means you have 5% of, you can spike to infinity and you're fine, right? So that basically is a day and a half in 30 days, right? So we had basically a day and a half of 40,000 to do as much as we want, but we were approaching that day and a half and we're like, holy shit, this is going to be $40,000 a month or whatever. Like, we were actually, we almost shut it down.

Yeah. And so I told Janelle, I'm like, or asked Janelle, I'm like, can you not run this? She's like, I would love to help you, but it's a slow news day. So, you know, like, now I understand how journalists work. You know, like, they're on a daily, like, they've got to put out something every day or whatever. And so I was like, oh, shit. So our solution was to, that night, we moved it to Berkeley. Because, like I said, my partner was a grad student at Berkeley.

Right. So we used the university resources. I remember we drove to Berkeley at, like, three in the morning. and we went to his grad student office and we set up the box, we hit it under his desk, we stacked books in front of the box, it was just like this lone wire coming out from under his desk. That's costing the university, 50,000 a month. That was going to cost the university.

And doubling, like I said, it was doubling every like four hours. Anyway, we turned the, the site was down for a couple hours. We turned it back on and, like, we looked at the logs. You know, we tailed the log. and it was like, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, right? So, like, we're like, holy shit. Like, because we weren't sure if it was going to die once we turned it off for a couple hours or whatever, right? Anyway, so I remember we, that was at, like, 5.30 in the morning. We got it, like, finally back up, and then we, like, drove home and, like, crashed. And then Jim got, like, a call from his advisor at, like, nine or something. Apparently, like, the IT guy at Berkeley, like, spit his coffee out when he saw the logs or whatever, the, you know, the knock management

tools, and followed the wire. Must have followed the wire. It's like, what the hell is this? Luckily, he didn't turn the box off. You know, actually, I remember we taped, I took, like, a box of thumbtacks and took half the box and put it over the power switch and taped it. So, like, maybe that was a signal to them not to turn this box off. But anyway, luckily, Jim's advisor was a, he was the dean of engineering at Berkeley, and he was also one of the co-founders of, like, cadence and synopsis. He was like a father of that, and he was also a venture partner at Mayfield, venture partners.

So he was like a very entrepreneurial guy, right? And so he's like, okay, look. This wasn't a problem. This was an opportunity to him. Yes. Well, in his wisdom, he saw this is an amazing thing. He's like, okay, look, I will buy you a couple days, but you got to figure something out. And so we did.

So we ended up calling Rack Space, which at that time was a rinky dink, very small company still relatively. But they were the leaders in managed hosting at the time. And I just happened to know, you know, I looked at their About Us page and their VP of BizDev went to Stanford Law School around the same time. as a guy named Josh Becker, went to law school at Stanford. So Josh put me in touch with him, and then I was like, hey, listen, you know, like, we don't have any money, but I think we're a good poster child for you guys, because that's their whole stick is like you don't have to have money up front. They can scale you up today because they have machines ready to go.

You know, because back then, if you wanted to buy machines, even if we had the money, it would take time, a month to get the machines and to wrap. them up and all that kind of stuff. So you said this is the best marketing money can buy. Look, this is perfect. So they're like, okay, put a logo of rackspace above the fold. We love what you're doing. We love the growth.

And I business said, look, I'm getting a ton of inbound inquiries about press. Like, I will mention you guys everywhere I can. And so they're like, perfect. Let's do it. And to the ground, they didn't even, we didn't even know how many machines we were going to end up taking. And they didn't care. They're like, look, just when you need new machines, tell us. And we ended up calling them every night saying we need more machines.

Right. And they were like, yes, let's do it. And we're like, we hadn't even worked out the terms. A full deal, yeah. Yeah, like there was no paperwork at this point. Sometimes things move too fast. Well, yeah. And this is how the web really was back in the day.

Like everyone just kind of helped each other. You know, like, you know, I think eBay hosted Yahoo. Or maybe it was the other way around. But anyway, you know, or maybe it's Netscape hosted eBay. Anyway, everyone used to help everyone. And so, yeah, so they're like, yeah, don't worry about it. Like, just get big and then we'll figure it out later. That's what we did. And so it grew and grew.

What did the traffic get to kind of at its peak? Gosh, it's been so long ago. Like, I think we were doing about maybe like 15 million, 10 to 15 million pages a day. And you have to remember, like, today that might not seem as big. But at the time, it was hard for things that grow as fast as they do because there was no social media. So like when things got passed around, they were passed around by email or, you know, it wasn't as easy as just clicking a button. which, you know, any bit of friction reduction can increase the liquidity of any system by, like, 10x, right? So, like, things did just did not grow that fast back then.

And it just, I mean, like, today, like, it would have probably been, like, insane. Anyway, it was insane by those days standards. And like I said, within two months, I think Net Nielsen or whatever had us as, like, we were bigger than ESPN, you know? And it was just, like, two guys, like, in their underwear, like, in their living room, like, coding, right? or whatever. And yeah, so anyway, we cut that deal with them. But we still had the problem of like, they gave us, when we finally worked out the numbers, they're like, okay, you can have a year. They gave us a half a year of free hosting, and then a quarter of like 50% off, and then a quarter of 25% off, and then in the year we would have to start paying. So, but that

was more than generous, right? That was just amazing. But we did know that, like, and at that point in time, like, we're like, okay, we made our trick of stud. We want this thing to keep going, but Jim needed to get back to his dissertation, and I needed to go back to finding a job or whatever. We didn't think that there was any business model in this. In fact, we stuck ads on the site when it first started. I remember we were going through like 24-7 media or something, some ad network back in the day. That was pretty big. The CPM at that time was 0.25 CPM, which means for every thousand pages, we got 0.25 cents. You know, today it's like dollars.

or so it basically wasn't enough, it was barely enough, like, it wasn't going to cover anything, right? So we still needed to figure out how to, like, make this thing last. So the first thing we did was that's when we stopped hosting photos and we started sending people to Yahoo and saying, hey, just send us a URL of the photo on Yahoo and let Yahoo basically pay for this, right? And that cut the bill by what? Well, I mean, that killed almost all of the bill. Right now we just have to pay for the machines. But basically all of the cost was basically all of that 50,000 in doubling was bandwidth for the pictures, right? And, you know, the funny thing is a month or two after we did that, Yahoo shut off all ability for anyone to host, to use pictures that were hosted by them.

But somehow we got whitelisted. And like two years later, I was speaking at Berkeley, and I met a guy who worked on GeoCities. He was your angel inside there. Yeah, basically. And I was like, hey, listen, I don't want to look a gift horse in the mouth. I'm kind of nervous to ask you, but why are you doing this for us? And they're like, oh, yeah, you know, we love hot or not. We just didn't want to be the guys who killed it.

So like I said, people used to help people out. It was really cool. But anyway, we knew we had to get off of them. So the first thing we did was we cut a deal with Ophoto. People were starting to get digital cameras at the time, and they were willing to pay a bounty, you know, a dollar for every user that has a digital camera. So what we did is we said, hey, if you don't. don't have a digital camera, which most people at the time didn't, go to GeoCities and Yahoo

will host it for free. But if you have a digital camera, please go to Ophoto, and they would pay us a dollar, basically. And they even paid us $25,000 up front. Again, really just to help us out, you know, there's a guy I knew named Mitch Brown who worked there who did BD. And at the time, the company was run by this guy, James Joaquin, who he was CEO of Ophoto. He's now running obvious ventures with Evan Williams. Anyway, Zem and James, awesome people. James loved it too. So they were really just doing it as a favor to help us out. And they didn't really know us, right?

But that's how the web was. And so did it ever become a business or what ended up happening? So we realized it had to make money because we needed to hire somebody to run the thing because clearly, like, we weren't going to run it. We were going to go back to getting a real job or going back to finishing Jim's PhD. And so, but you know, like the ads were started, you know, slowly the ads started making more money. It wasn't enough to pay for the bills. that's why we added the dating side of it.

So we were the first ones to do, like, the concept of what you would call double opt-in dating. Like, if you say you're interested in someone, then they can say they're interested in you too. You know, like what Tinder is today, they have swiped. We invented the, to my knowledge, we invented the JavaScript auto-submit radio button. Because back then you remember, you had to hit submit every time you clicked a button. So, Hidernaut, was the first one that, yeah, it was two clicks. So we made it one click. We'd never seen it before.

so we think we invented it, but you never know. Someone probably did it. But we had to figure out how to do it on our own. But that's amazing, because now there's no rejection. It's like if we got connected, it's because we both said we think each other are hot. Right. Because our whole thing was you have a highly liquid marketplace. There is no rejection because you don't even remember everyone you said yes to you.

And the other thing that it did was it protected the woman who, like, you know, because basically we saw Match.com and all these guys is basically pimps, right? Like, oh, look at my, you know, all these, you know, women or men that you might think they're hot. Like, oh, you want to talk to him? You know, like, oh, you got to give you $20. You got to pay, right? And what that did is that what that ended up doing is, like, that led to lots of men paying and flooding women with messages. And we're like, the women, just look at their photo.

I'm like, no. And then that guy just, like, got basically ripped off. And the women got, you know, the signal to noise was too low for the women. And so we thought that was. just kind of an inefficient thing, right? And so we thought, you know, doing it, basically it was speed dating. And doing it as speed dating, bringing speed dating online was a good idea. And so that's what we did. And that actually, so we turned that on, we turned on charging for it. So the way it worked was like one of the two people, once you matched, had to be a paid member. So it was

equivalent of, look, a guy smiles at a girl in a bar, she smiles back. At the end of day, someone's got to buy drinks. Right. Right. And it's usually not the girl. And that's how we had a payment model. So all of a sudden, like, as soon as we turned that on, I think it was, like, within a month, it was, like, by the end of that year, we were at, like, a half a million dollar run rate, which was enough to, like, hire someone and pay the cost or whatever. I mean, like, actually, at that point, the cost was zero because we had the free hosting or whatever.

Right. But even, you know, if you have any, if you can find any model that can convert even a small percentage of, I think we were converting, actually, we were converting, like, 5% of our users were, paid, including the women. And then by the end of it, we had optimized it to like 20% of people who joined paid, right? Awesome. It was enough to pay for everything. And then, you know, it doesn't matter. If you have scale, if you can even have any model that makes enough money, if you are a lean operation, you can definitely pay your salaries and have like a lifestyle business if you want, right? And so that's what we had. Basically, we were doing half a million and it just kept growing, like organically. And so all we had to do, at that point, we were basically

like we were the modern day equivalent of people who ran a laundromat. Like we just have to keep these machines running and, you know, we have to install new machines to support. And, you know, like we have to like, but we're just collecting quarters. And yeah, so that, so we kind of stumbled upon, it wasn't, you know, like it sounds much more intentional than it was. It was like, we kind of stumbled into having a very profitable business. And then you decide to sell the company at some point? Well, yeah, so we ran it for eight years. Around year three or year four, we fired. finally started, we hired people. So what happened is we ran for three years or so out of the

house, just the two of us. And at that point, we were doing like three to four million in revenue. Almost all of it was profit. My co-founder started riding motorcycles. And at some point, I was like, hey, you know, like, if you, if something happens to you, that's probably not good for it or hot or not. And also, like, frankly, he was tired and I was tired. Not to be a bus kill, but. Well, I mean, like, look, I mean, at that point, we were running, like, he was running ops on, like, 100 machines. You know, it was having to go to the data center all the time. Running the ops probably got tiresome. He automated it as much as he could, so he wouldn't have to go in that often.

But at some point in time, we brought in a friend of his from high school, Greg Lynn, and we brought in Don Polack, who did customer service. Because by that point, I was doing a lot of the customer service emails and stuff like that. And so we brought her in. And so we basically had now a company. We had employees. And then we started hiring more people and more people, not that many, but we hired a few more people. And then it kind of became like we had responsibility. We had employees and we had to, you know, we have to manage people to some degree.

And that wasn't really either of our thing. And so we both kind of flamed out on it. We're just not very operational people, either of us. or it's, I wouldn't say we're not operational, but it's not the part we enjoy. And so the more people we hired kind of like the more of a drag it became. And yeah, we both got tired probably year, four, year five, I would say. And then I took a break and Jim took over. And then Jim left and I took over.

And then at some point we're just like, let's just, we're just going to sell this thing. It was right before the 2008 crash. So it was a good timing in that sense. But we probably let it go for a lot less than it was worth just because it was a downturn. Right. Because at that point in time, it was doing like $6 million in earnings. But both of us, frankly, were so tired of it. And, you know, our good friends had just started.

Jim's really close with Steve Chen at the time from YouTube. And we watched them go from zero to $1.6 billion in like how long? You know, like a year. And we didn't really see Hot or Not getting to that scale that quickly ever. Arguably, you know, you see what happened with Tinder and maybe that's true. Although it's not clear Hot or Not would become Tinder because Hot or Not had the rating part, which made it grow, but could also hold it back from being pure play dating. But in any case, we were just like, screw it.

You know, like, we both just wanted to do anything else. At that point, when I had left, I had started this thing with Al Leib. He was a co-founder of Evite called Save My Ass, which would send your girlfriend or wife flowers on a regular but semi-random basis. It was one of the first subscription commerce. It was one of the first subscription commerce things we'd ever seen. But then I had to go back to Hot or Not, so I stopped working on. Al started a clear slide, which took off.

So he ended up shutting it down just because it was actually doing decently well, like the scale was. But anyway, neither of us could deal with it. So, yeah, we ended up selling the company mainly because we were just tired of it and wanted something else to work on. And so how did, again, because you make your first mill, and you made it basically during that while you were collecting quarters, like you said. You're running the laundromat. Dude, that was an awesome period of time because I was like, I was still in my late 20s. We had the system sending us stats like at noon and at midnight. And that was mainly so we would know like how the system is doing.

If it had problems or not, you know, how many matches were made per hour, blah, blah, blah, or up to that point in time. But it also had how much money we had made up to that time for that day. And so at noon and at midnight, I would basically get this thing saying, oh, today you made $10,000, $15,000 on a good day like $20,000 something $1.000. And, you know, I would have to divvy it up and figure out my portion, but I was like, holy shit. Right. This is magic. Yeah, it's funny is like, I had a bunch of my friends always knew, like, when we, because basically I had nothing to do. I was just going out drinking with my friends all the time, like almost like five days a week.

And at midnight, it would be like, I remember like, I think it was my friend Philip Kaplan. I just remember him, like, you buy in? Yeah. Because like, because he saw me pull out my phone at midnight and I'm like, I'm buying, yeah. But it's funny, like, back in those days, like no one was making money on the web. This was like the dark period, right? I mean, I used to, like, go out drinking with Philip all the time. Evan Williams from, you know, at that time he was doing blogger, he was like, you know,

I met Evan because I sent him a message saying, hey, like, he was about to, like, practically shut down blogger. It was just him by himself at that point. And I was like, hey, you know, we had all this excess bandwidth at this point. So I was like, hey, if you want free, you know, photo hosting, happy to help you out, right? So that's how I met him, and that we became good friends. And so, like, I remember I would pick up Evan. from his apartment in Noi and, like, you know, like, he didn't have much money at that point in time. So I was the, like, I was like the, you're the ringmaker.

I was the baller, right? So, yeah, so like, you know, how times have changed, right? Yeah, yeah. This one's on you, right, Evan? Yeah, yeah, yeah, basically. But, I mean, like, anyway, like, those were really the days because the people who were still around, no one knew that we were going to make money at the time. And, like, we were one of the few people who were making money.

Most of the people were having a hard time. But, you know, like, a lot of, like, really famous. names were still like after the dot-com crash happened all like the MBAs kind of disappeared and the only people who were stuck around were like the people who were just like passionate about it so many people that are like huge today were just hanging out back then and it's like you know because people are like oh how do you know all these people it's such as you know the silicon value there's so many people you know running around like how do you know all these people it's like dude like there were like 10 of us back then we used to hang out right it's very simple yeah and so you're kind of

amazing in that you've been here so long. You built one of the kind of staple named products that everybody remembers fondly. And since then... Everyone over the age of X. Yeah, if you don't know, that's like the litmus test. Were you really around or you just... Right. If I was single, it'd be like, no, I probably can't date you. Yeah. Exactly. And so since then, you've transitioned to being angel investor. Do you, I mean, how do you think about stuff now? Do you think about getting back on the horse and starting a new thing? Do you love investing? That's what you want to do? Yeah, you know, like, so I got, I mean, I was never an angel investor. I just invested in my friends, right? And so like people, and you know, like I said, people back then, we all, everyone helped

everyone. So like we would invest in friends, you know, like, you would invest in people, you didn't even, they didn't even know what they were going to do yet, right? And like, it was pretty cool. And what were the results of that? Because, you know, some people would say, invest in your friends, that's a crazy strategy. This is a crazy financial strategy, but it seems to do really well. I mean, it probably depends on how well you pick your friends, right? Like, I stupidly passed on a lot of friends where I'm like, I don't see it or whatever. And now in retrospect, it's like, I passed on Uber. I passed on like, all these things where like, I mean, literally I would be like a billionaire post-tax. If you just, if I just invested in the people

that I actually liked. You know, but I think it depends on how you pick your friends. Like, all of the people that I enjoy talking to and being friends with tend to be like really smart and really quirky too. Like people, yeah, like smart creatives or. whatever, like people who are like a little crazy, but really smart and can pull stuff off, right? And so those people tend to do well. And so, I mean, yeah, I mean, I've definitely done pretty well, I think. I mean, actually, I've never really compared to other people, but I think I've done pretty well with my angel investing. But, you know, like I mainly just invest in my friends, and I don't really see myself as an investor. And it's actually, in reality, being an angel

investor is basically my cover for not working. Because I'm basically mostly mostly just. just hanging out at home with my kids. You know, I'm Mr. Mom driving. I'm like my kid's chauffeur, basically, taking them to school, taking them to swimming or whatever. But I think about that a lot. And the other person, the person who introduced us, Michael Birch, he's another person who I feel kind of got out of the rat race.

Yeah. He definitely does things. He does lots of interesting projects. But he's not just saying, okay, you know, he sold Bebo for $850 million. The next one's got to be a billion, right? He's not just endlessly in the rat race. Well, listen, I'm not going to criticize anyone if they choose,

to be in the rat race and if that's what they want, that's what they want. I'm all about everyone has to figure out what makes them happy. And the only advice I have to people really about this is, look, you only have to make yourself happy. Don't try to make other people happy. Live your life for yourself. But be honest with yourself about what makes you happy. Because society wants to tell you, oh, you should want to make a ton of money or you should want to like not make a ton of money and go meditate or whatever. And I'm just saying, you know, whatever is right for you is right for you, you've got to be honest with yourself. But if you can be honest with yourself, go do whatever you want to do. Like, I have friends who have to be billioners and like, look,

that's not my thing. But if that's what makes them happy, go do it. Right, right. But for me, like, you know, like, I always thought I would do something else again, but then I had kids and then, like, you know, like how that can be like all encompassing. And, you know, like, for me, I just realized, like, you know, I built an app that was like a YouTube for kids. Before YouTube kids came out, I was like, I just wanted to learn to code again. And I made an iPhone app. And my son at some point was like, and I'm a shitty coder, so I wasn't very efficient. I was always like coding until 4 in the morning, but the bus still comes at 7.30, so I was getting no sleep. And I was always grumpy and I'm kind of like, it doesn't matter if it's a hobby. I'm always

thinking about it, right? And basically at some point my son was like, Daddy, when are you going to play with us again? And I was like, oh shit. Right. That got you. So, well, I mean, like, at that point it's a choice. And I'm like, okay, fuck it. I can't do this. Like, I am so obsessive about anything I build that like the dad that I wanted to be, I wasn't able to be it. And so to me, I was like, what's the recipe for you now? What, what's the recipe that makes you happen? Listen, look, it's not to say that I don't love the idea of starting a company.

And look, it's not for the money. It's for the adrenaline rush, right? Like, it's basically like gambling. Like, this thing's likely to fail. It might succeed. It might win big if it, you know. So it is like gambling in a way. But like we're, and so it's a huge adrenaline rush when you start a company.

And the highs, that's why the highs are high and the lows are low. It's like being an entrepreneur is like volunteering to be bipolar, basically, right? And so, you know, like, but I had to decide. And I said, well, okay, screw it. I'm not willing to sacrifice these things. So the next best thing is that like I can just angel invest more. And so that's kind of what I've done. And, you know, like I think I've been pretty successful at it.

Not as successful as if I just invested in my friends. That's kind of like my new strategy is like, okay, if I have a friend, yeah, like I have a friend who just ping me the other day. and I'm like, you know what, I don't even need to know. Right. Because we had a call scheduled, and I brought in a friend. And then I was like, hey, guys, I've got to go take my kids to swimming. But I'm in.

But it doesn't matter. I'm in. You know, and the funny thing is, like, that's what happened with audio and Twitter with Evan. I was like, hey, after blogger got sold. Because actually, blogger, before it got bought by Google, he was in trouble. And Nick Denton and I were both kind of talking to Evan about maybe we could invest in it just basically to bail it out. Keep it going. And ended up not happening because.

he ended up selling to Google for, you know, whatever million, you know, in 2002 or something like that, 2003. And so when that happened, I was like, Evan, I don't care what you're doing next. I'm in, right? And basically, and then when he returned the money for audio, I was like, let me know when to put back into Twitter, you know, and then there's a whole long story. I ended up not. Oh, no.

There's a whole long story about that. It's a tragedy, but it's fine because. We're going to make another podcast. My lost million. I basically decided I wanted to choose friendships over money. And that's how that ended up. That's a long story short. And I don't regret that, actually.

But anyway, so. So the other, you know, we got to wrap up. But the one question, so normally I have these like five questions I ask at the end. Sure. But there's one that I'm really curious about for you because I see you as this incredibly creative guy who has very humble, not saying, you know it all and all that stuff. I'm just curious, if you were 21 today, if I basically, if I took all your money out of your bank account, but I gave you back years and I say you're 21 today, you know, how would you make your first million today? What would you be curious about? What would you be playing in? What spaces would you be playing in? If you were back in the game at 21 today? Well, listen, I mean, I think you can, as you alluded to earlier, you can make money in any space. So I'm not going to speak about what space. I mean, you should probably work in whatever space you're going to obsess about. And that can be, you know, like you said, you know, like you said, It can be anything. It doesn't have to be tech. But like whatever you're, whatever you're obsessed about, that's probably a good place to start because it's the people who like know a product inside and out that kind of can take it to the next level and do something innovative or whatever that'll kind of get you attention to make money.

So forget about advice for us. I'm not just curious what you would do. But what I will say to someone who's 21 is this. After the crash happened, we actually got a buyout offer for like $6 million in 2000. It was for the four of us and it was vesting over five years. And it was very tempting. we thought about taking it, but then at the end of the day, we basically decided that was not enough money to sell out our youth. Because when you're young, you have no liabilities. Like, you don't have a mortgage. All you have is time. Right. You're drinking five days a week. But the reality is time is all any of us have. Even at my age, time is all I have. Right. Money is like a man-made concept, right? Like, I have my time. And I will never have time with no liabilities ever again once I like get a family or have a mortgage or whatever. Like so at this point, we're I was living a really cheap lifestyle.

It's also true of lifestyle. Once you lease that car, it's hard to go backwards. Right. So if you, I would say this. Like, keep your life as frugal as possible. Don't, don't, you know, don't borrow money to live lavishly. You know, like basically live as frugally as you can. Team up with people, co-founders who also can live that lifestyle with you so you don't

have to raise any money. Even though it's easy to raise money today, I would still probably start things without raising any money. I mean, look, you got to live. So maybe you got to raise a little money to pay rent. You know, you don't have to be in Silicon Valley. You can be in an apartment in Houston, you know, paying $200 a month rent or whatever or $500 a month rent, you know, as long as the two of you or three of you can live and build. And then just keep building until you come across something that has traction and then go scale it, right?

And look, like I said, like nothing is like an HBS case. Like, very few people I know have something hit on their first try. Nobody knows what's going to happen. You just kind of like meander in whatever kind of seems to be sticking. You, like, go in that direction. And so it sounds like what you would do is you would keep your burn rate low. You would live frugally. You'd get in a house with a couple of friends and you would bang out ideas that you were just curious about or interested in.

I would. Personally. I had the benefit of, like, we were living in Jim's parents. They had like an investment house. and so I was living there rent free. No, actually, no, I was paying him rent, actually, like really nominal rent. And then when Hot or not took off, I was like, dude, I'm not paying you rent anymore. He's like, okay.

I'm like, this is going to be big. I'm not paying you rent. But to the extent you can keep your burn low and just keep building. The lesson to me is not save money. The lesson is value the time. And make sure that you're spending every year of your life the way you want to be spending it. And one of the ways to do that is to get that reserve capital so that you're not going to go trade your hours for dollars. Right.

I'm probably an extreme example of this argument. Look, I have enough money where I don't have to work anymore. I don't have any fiscal constraints, but I'm still not able to do this because I got my kids and I'm choosing to do that instead. So, you know, like, so money is not the only limiter out there. And so when you get older, you're going to, you only accumulate liabilities in life. you're willing to like, you know, just abandon everything, which is, you know, like not, you know. Different strategy. Well, yeah, I mean, like I said, people can do whatever they want for themselves, but like, that's not my strategy, right? So life is not easy for everyone, you know, equally. And so, like,

everyone has their own challenges on that. But like I said, if you can get, if you can get a job at one of these companies, go work for a while, save that money. Don't increase, don't live like you're making that money and then go do it. And do it with a friend because it's very, very mentally hard to do it alone. Wonderful. Well, James, it's been awesome conversation, man. I really appreciate you. Yeah. You're coming out. It's a great, great seeing you again, great talking to you again. And I think a lot of people are going to both enjoy the story of hot or not. A lot of people won't even have ever heard of it before. So this will be the first time they hear about it. People I can't date if I'm single. Exactly. That's like the line too young.

And then I think what you've said at the end here about valuing your time and making the choice that makes you happy and not playing by other people's playbook. I think that's a great, great message. So appreciate you coming on, man. All right. Thanks. Awesome. Bye.