New Rory & MAL - Episode 312 | 3rd Leg Of Separation

Episode Date: October 18, 2024

Big Friday tings! The guys recently discovered that Angel Reese has a podcast, and recently hosted an episode with model Kayla Nicole that went viral when Kayla explained why dressing up as Teyana Tay...lor was her most embarrassing moment (2:16). Meanwhile, Mal is having a hard time understanding why women allegedly don't take accountability for being wrong or apologize, which leads into a conversation about being self-aware, as Julian presents us with a study (and Mal presents Rory with examples) to show us just how unaware we are (16:15). Julia Fox said that dating Kanye West was the worst thing that ever happened to her, and Azealia Banks tore her a new one (34:35). Kanye's mental health becomes the topic, and we ask each other about the biggest mental health hurdle we've ever had to deal with from a significant other (41:52). Speaking of issues, a man named Gucci3rdLeg exists. We don't STD shame, but we encourage everyone to never provide fellatio to a Corpus spongiosum that has an open lesion, for their own health and safety (48:35). We have voicemails! The first one is from a man asking if his coworker is mentally off for buying her own flowers (1:05:16), and the second is a woman who's boo has some friends crossing boundaries (1:17:31).For MORE Rory & Mal, make sure you subscribe to our Patreon community, for exclusive episodes, first access to tickets and merch sales, private live chats with the team, + more! https://www.patreon.com/newrorynmalFollow Rory: @ThisIsRoryFollow MAL: @MAL_ByTheWayFollow Demaris: @DemarisAGiscombeFollow Julian: @Julian__nicholas To watch the podcast on YouTube: https://bit.ly/NewRoryAndMALYouTube Don’t forget to follow the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: https://bit.ly/NewRoryAndMAL Thanks to our sponsors: Download the PrizePicks app today and use code RORYMAL and get $50 instantly when you play $5! Start your free online visit today at https://Hims.com/RORYMAL! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed human. Sometimes we say things that we really don't mean. We should do more to stand out. I'm sorry if I made you feel. We are. How many days was that? One?
Starting point is 00:00:55 Yeah. Twelve hours since I saw you? If that. How are you feeling? You got a haircut. I did. Hold on. Let me check you.
Starting point is 00:01:03 Let me see you. A little earth tone. on a day? On the barberscharts. You really think I walk in the barbershop and point to that. Don't say you haven't done that. I swear on my life.
Starting point is 00:01:14 Even as a kid? No. Really? No. Don't see, you ain't a real. I thought you was one of us. I'm not a black man. It was only black people on that chart.
Starting point is 00:01:22 No, that's not true. Depending on what barbershop you went to, we had some Latinos, some white boys on the charts. Rory pointed out the low-cut Caesar with the deep waves. I'm on the side that Dominicans are also black. That's why.
Starting point is 00:01:34 Well, I mean, naturally. Roy walked in the barbershop with a picture of Travis Kelsey and said, I'll take this. I'm not going to lie. I was watching the... Shout out to the Yankees. My barber did say that to me
Starting point is 00:01:44 six months ago. Whenever that whole thing happened with Travis Kelsey, I sat in the chair and he's like, you want the Kelsey? I was like, I'm getting the fuck out of here.
Starting point is 00:01:50 I was watching the Yankee game was it last night? Yeah. And Travis Kelsey was there. I ain't going to lie, man. Ever since he broke up with Kayla, he lost all his, like... Like, he's a white boy now.
Starting point is 00:02:04 He definitely does. have the possibly racist mustache, possibly gay or racist. You're not sure which one. Like he, he definitely lost all of the back to his roots, man. Sauce that Kayla, you know, she had, she provided him with. Your friend and Kayla had a little back and forth. My friend? Over this past weekend. We're like a week late. Who? Tiana Taylor. Really? What happened with Tiana and Kayla? Kayla, a friend of the show. She went on Angel Reese's podcast and they were having girl talk. You know, back and forth.
Starting point is 00:02:36 Angel Reese has a podcast? Yeah. She's a multimedia experience. You didn't know the brand? She's everywhere, Mom. She's a double-dun. Just don't sexualize her. I mean, I was about to say she's a double-double.
Starting point is 00:02:45 Better not do that. She's a double-double machine. Don't sexualize the woman in a thong. Apologetically Angel. That's the name of her podcast? Yes. Well, I watched the Kayla episode. She's actually pretty good at podcasting as far as, like, an athlete that's just
Starting point is 00:02:58 jumping into the genre. I got to check Angel Rees. I like Angel Reese. I like her person. Every time I see her speak and, you know, come across a clip, she seems to be like, you know, a cool, cool girl. I'm shocked you didn't hear about this. I know we're late to this, but it was girl gossipy talk, so we'll be late to it.
Starting point is 00:03:13 So Kayla and Tiana, shout out to T, that's family, and I don't know Kayla that well, but... They were having their little kikis back and forth about, you know, past relationships. And... Let him watch the clip. Angel had asked Kayla, what's the pettiest thing you've done? And we can play it. Actually, I don't know. The WMBA's established now.
Starting point is 00:03:31 They'll probably flag us if we play that. Okay. So they're going back and forth. talk about relationships. Angel asked, what's the pettiest thing you've ever done. And Kayla explains what she said wasn't exactly petty, just kind of crazy and weird. She was not petty, crazy. I mean, there's really no explanation for it outside of that, which she admitted as well. I appreciate her accountability. Yeah. She was dating this guy. They weren't in like a real relationship or whatever, but back and forth, you know, seriously talking. He ended their
Starting point is 00:03:59 situation ship and then got, I mean, we could just say it. It was Shump. Left. and then married Tiana. So that following Halloween, Kayla dressed as Tiana at her Halloween party. Oh, okay. All right. All right. So the internet...
Starting point is 00:04:17 I see, I see where Kayla was going a little, you know, if you know, you know, a little sublime shot at Shump. Okay. All right. So the internet got a hold of this. And over the past weekend, it was like the most trending shit ever. They were kicking Kayla's back in.
Starting point is 00:04:31 And I feel for her because she's already been getting her back kicked in by all the swifties for the last two years. For what? Just because Swifties are fucking weird. Yeah, but kickin, has Kayla, like, said anything about Taylor Swift? No. So why they...
Starting point is 00:04:45 Because they go after any X that's in relation. See, that should be, that should be considered in a, uh, bullying, cyberbullion. Oh, she's definitely, like, if she didn't say nothing about Taylor Swift and her fan base is just online, like, saying demeaning things to her. That should be... And I don't believe her and Travis had been broken up for quite some time before he got with Taylor.
Starting point is 00:05:05 Like, it wasn't even no over. overlap. Yeah. Just weird. That's why I don't understand why they would do that. But in the midst of the Swifty world, at least Kayla had black Twitter backing her through that whole thing. Okay.
Starting point is 00:05:16 Because they were cyberbullying a black woman for no reason. Right. Beautiful black woman at that, that just minds her business. Beautiful. But the tides turned. So now Kayla no longer has black Twitter either. She has a friend in me. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:05:28 I'm here. That's as far as it goes. We've all made mistakes in our past. So it was mad. because she brought that story up? Like she... No, rightfully so. They found it really weird.
Starting point is 00:05:41 What was the back and forth between her and Tiana? Well, we can pull up Tiana's response. But basically... Tiana and Shump are divorced. Yes. Right?
Starting point is 00:05:49 Okay. But so basically what happened was when she went on the podcast, she didn't name drop Eamon. She just said she dressed up as this person's wife and they were in a very... They were in a very public,
Starting point is 00:06:00 very love relationship. No names? Yeah, but all people got to do is go look at your Halloween costumes and see what celebrity And Kayla should know that as well because unfortunately the Swifties have like found her parents' address and like she knows how easily the internet fine. So no, listen, pull up to my parents' house. I love killing fans on my lawn.
Starting point is 00:06:19 I love it. Come over if you want with that internet. And what are they going to do? Borrow their mom's a minivan to plug to the house. Like, these are Taylor Swift fans. What are they going to do? No, pull up though. I keep cleaning my guns for no reason.
Starting point is 00:06:30 He's standing some use for these things. I can't wait. I cannot wait. Please pull up. Right outside of my second floor when you're duck hunter. Can we? Please. Please.
Starting point is 00:06:37 So, yeah. So basically, they found it and the internet was going crazy. So Tiana posted like a slideshow of all the movies that she's going to be in. After all that was going on, she posted a slideshow all the movies she's going to be in. And she basically put a Taylor Swift song in the back and was just like something like they're going to hate to see a Taylor coming because Tiana Taylor, Taylor Swift. Like she was throwing shade. So everybody kind of got on Tiana like, you know what? You know, Tiana saw some responses to what she said.
Starting point is 00:07:04 And then she said it's really crazy that everyone. is allowed to bother me and be distasteful. Everybody gets to play while I move with grace always, but now I want to have a little Sagittarius fun too and I'm the problem. Fuck the Ema part. I'm divorced and happily so. However, her choice of words were very distasteful
Starting point is 00:07:17 and uncalled for. She knew exactly what she was doing. That lady said she was famous at the time, quote unquote, also said, I don't care who sees it. Because Kayla during the episode said, well, I don't care who sees this, whatever. It was very distasteful and uncalled for.
Starting point is 00:07:29 Most importantly, she knew people would dig. So automatically my name is attached to the nonsense. At that point, she didn't need to at me. That was very clearly a quick search. My name was trending without an app before even saying a word. That's how I seen it. On top of the fact, the math ain't math and the facts weren't facting. Talked about the cringe factor.
Starting point is 00:07:45 Talked about her intentions being Ellen Petty. She pulled the black car when it came to Taylor Swift, but in the same circle, turned around and tried to bully the black woman that was married to her situation. She claimed dumped her for me. Dressed up like me for what? Crazy part about it all. I actually showed her love under the pick when she posted. Like I did the other three million something people that dressed up as me for Halloween.
Starting point is 00:08:04 Whole time, I didn't even know she was being shady. Now I do. So in that case, Petty Panties on. I had my little fun. I said what I said. I love when they wear petty. Petty Panties is funny. What color were they, T?
Starting point is 00:08:15 It's funny. It's definitely like a cute, op-o-marine. Petty thorn? It's funny we've fallen into this topic because what you said right before we started recording mall, I thought you were referring to this topic. That's why I wanted to start with. I wasn't referring to this. So this was like a news for me, y'all y'all telling me this.
Starting point is 00:08:32 I understand Tiana's. position on it. Now, while Kayla didn't say any names and, you know, she didn't... Objective journalism. Well, you know, she didn't say any name. So she's telling her on the story. Now, if Tiana's saying her timeline, you know, doesn't add up and things like that into her story, then that's probably where the situation comes in like, oh, so you was
Starting point is 00:08:58 messing with him while I was with him. Like, so I guess that's where that comes in. And, you know, listen, man. I mean, Kayla, she seemed like she didn't care what she was saying. She knew obviously there was going to be some type of backlash. I think she feels like because Tiana and Shump are no longer together and divorced, it was like, okay, it's not like their ticket. It's not like I'm breaking up a house and home.
Starting point is 00:09:17 They are already divorced. I'm just telling a story of my past. And I don't think Kayla was saying that they were together when Tiana and Shump were together. Maybe that was the case. No, that's what she said. She was dumped to go. No, she said he was. For Shump to go with Tiam.
Starting point is 00:09:33 Yeah, and Tiana's saying he didn't dump you and like choose me. I'm saying she could have been lying about that. But in the interview, she didn't say that there was crossover. She said, I was dumped and then he moved on. No, no, no. That's not what she said. She said I was talking about moving up there. And then he literally told me he dumped me and then the next day moved in with Shorty.
Starting point is 00:09:55 He was dating him at the same time. Yeah. So your mom was sloppy. That's not her flop. No, that's not Kayla's fault. And I don't think the internet, like you said, Kayla in the show. We always show Kayla love on here. And I don't know her personally.
Starting point is 00:10:07 But the internet is killing Kayla because even if it wasn't Shump, that is just a story that you just die with. You don't tell nobody you today. But she didn't say no names. It's not about, no, no, it's not about saying name. It's it doesn't matter who. It could have been with Lary from third grade. They're saying it's just losers.
Starting point is 00:10:23 Yeah, that's what the internet is killing her for. Angel asked her what's one of the wildest thing she's ever done. The point being she's too truthful. See that now see, that's what I have a problem. When you say somebody's too truthful. What do you mean? They're divorced.
Starting point is 00:10:36 That's what I would say. Too true. No. You're bringing it. It's not about I'm. Listen, I know that. But they are divorced. So it's not like she's saying that to a couple that is in a happy relationship and together.
Starting point is 00:10:47 She didn't say no names. This couple is now divorced. It's separated. They don't even probably communicate. So she's just telling, yo, this is the pettiest thing I've done. So I think that Kayla is willing to wear whatever comes with that. Like, yo, it was petty. I shouldn't have done it.
Starting point is 00:11:01 Whatever, whatever. But I don't think that. she was wrong in saying that if that's the pettiest thing she did. The only wrong part was what Tiana did point out, which was when she said she was famous at the time. That was petty and unnecessary. I feel like trying to allude that. On, Taylor's not famous now.
Starting point is 00:11:18 Yes. On Taylor's map, I have to call as a friend, that's nuts. You can't. Yo, she was famous at the time. You're not saying about Tiana Taylor. She's famous. No, that's a bad. I get what you're saying, but I don't think she meant it like that.
Starting point is 00:11:30 I guess she was saying, you know, at the time, she's, she was famous. like she, you know, she's popping. I think, I think that it was a bad choice of words. Because it might lead towards like, are you saying she's not anymore now? Yeah. And I don't think that's what Kayla was doing. I guess she was saying at the time, yes, she was like, she was lit. She was popping.
Starting point is 00:11:47 But what about the implication that, like, she pretty much outed Eamon. I don't know I'm saying protect Eamon in any of this, but I'm saying she pretty much outed the fact that he was, he was seeing with me the same time. Like, that was intentional too. she slid that in there as like Hey, seen with her? Right before he moved in with you,
Starting point is 00:12:05 we were still fucking. She did that on purpose. She muddied the timelines on purpose. I mean, yes, again, telling the story, it's going to expose some things. People are going to dig. They're going to put the puzzles together.
Starting point is 00:12:17 But I think Kayla was standing behind. Again, this is just me or for which I'll tell me. Which is the truth. I think she's standing behind. It was the truth. They are no longer together. It's not like I'm revealing this in there,
Starting point is 00:12:27 like a happy, I'm causing turmoil and a happy home. they're divorced. So it's like, okay, like, yeah, this is what happened. I'm sure a reason why they had divorced is because there's probably other stories just like that about Imana. And Tiana was like, man, fuck out of it. No, of course.
Starting point is 00:12:42 And I think our point is that, yes, Tiana has a reason to be upset. But the internet is not killing her because it's Tiana. The internet is killing her because they're calling her a loser for saying that. That's what the backlash is. She's a loser for saying what the pettiest thing she ever did was? She's a loser for doing it. Of dressing up as the girl that your man left you for. Yeah, she said it was this was the petty shit I ever did.
Starting point is 00:13:05 But you keep saying petty and I'm like, no, people aren't saying that that's petty. They're saying that that's loser shit. Looser's shit. I mean, petty, petty and loser shit is like cousins. Yeah. A lot of petty shit ends up being losers. Yeah, for sure. They're like first cousins.
Starting point is 00:13:17 Yeah, I get it. On the immature side, like, we need to let women know. When you do shit like this, it just makes us feel like more of the man. Like, if I see one of my ex-joints who I love, left dressing up as the girl I'm with now, you look like the man at that point. Like that didn't hurt anyone but you. Yeah. And I think that was part of the story.
Starting point is 00:13:38 She was like it was petty. You know, she gets it. Like it was some petty shit she did. She knew that was intense. Like they were in the locker room like, yo, shum, I know you had it like that. My bad, bro. You got them in line. Like that's really how that shit looks in the immature life as men and eagles.
Starting point is 00:13:52 Yeah, that's a tough look. I mean. That's a tough look for who? She went on the timeline after she got smoked and said, listen, I was just telling the truth about something that was embarrassing. Like, I'm going to continue to do that. I'm not proud of it. It happens, man.
Starting point is 00:14:06 And I don't judge. I'm not, I don't think anybody should completely hold that against her and judge her for it. Twitter is very mean and they were the ones up in arms. But, I mean, we've all done embarrassing shit. I can't imagine me being with a nigger and being madly in love. And then the next day, like, he's all over the blogs with one of the finest women in the world. I don't know how I would react. What's the pettiest thing you've ever done?
Starting point is 00:14:28 Well, it's not petty but embarrassing, which I told early days of this podcast. When my girl had left me when I was like 21 or something like that, I took the bus in Jersey City to Hackensack, which is local. It's like a two and a half hour bus ride with a DVD of hers to return. And she liked subway cookies, so I had a bunch of subway cookies and the DVD, which she told me she didn't need back. But I was like, no, I got to return. Like, she needs the DVD. What was the movie? Mighty Ducks three?
Starting point is 00:14:57 It might have been like notorious or some stupid shit No, nah, I need that back So you gotta bring my If I break over the chick, yo, you gotta bring notorious No way cookies are fire though But yeah, that was like And remember I told y'all her mom Had to be there and her mom was telling me
Starting point is 00:15:13 Like the loser shit I was doing Didn't she drive you home? Yeah, she gave me, no, she drove me to like a closer bus stop Okay And gave me the speech like yo, you're doing some loser shit Get over there, she doesn't want you You look weak right now Like she gave me the best mom pep talk
Starting point is 00:15:26 and was talking about her own daughter in a good and bad way. Like, treat it like a piece of pussy and leave. Like, you're caught up on someone that doesn't want you. It's just some pussy. Leave. I was like, damn. Yeah, but at 21, that's... Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:15:39 Yeah. Because at that age, you don't know when you're going to get some again. I don't know now. Yelling. Why are you making it a 21 thing? Wait, hold on, man. Because I wasn't expected if you were saying. What you mean?
Starting point is 00:15:56 You don't know now. It's different with kids, man. It's tough. It's tough for a toddler, man. A dick of having a family and not knowing when he cook is supposed to. Only for baby number two. Only for procreation. Ovulation and procreation.
Starting point is 00:16:16 Yo, that is hilarious, man. All right. Maul was saying off mic that was related to the Kayla thing, that women never apologize and he can't figure it out. So speaking of ages, it took you this long to realize that it's never going to happen. Generations of men are still trying to figure that out. Not that I don't realize it, but it's just like, it's always like, because I'm the type of person, if I'm dating somebody, I'm going to have a relationship with somebody and I'm wrong.
Starting point is 00:16:41 I have no problem apologizing. I think that the sooner you apologize, the quicker y'all can get past the situation to move forward. So if I'm wrong, I'm like, I like, you know what? My bad. I fuck that up. I was wrong. I don't understand why women can't do the same thing. when they're like dead wrong though like completely wrong like you got caught doing some
Starting point is 00:17:03 shit you were wrong don't try to go silent and avoid the conversation and avoid having to talk about it and take accountability just say you sorry like just say you was wrong you got caught up doing some shit you wasn't supposed to do it's nothing else you can do it really has to do with anatomy and DNA like the same way you can't give birth is the same way they're wired you don't Don't say that because you don't know who and what I identify. Men are giving birthdays, dude. Yeah, I don't know. We're like, you know, like, like, she horrid.
Starting point is 00:17:31 Okay, you as a straight, cisgender male cannot give birth is the same way a woman cannot apologize. It's just scientifically not wired that way. That's not what Marklema on Hill thinks. He thinks that men can in fact happen. No, he doesn't. He said it. What? He said it.
Starting point is 00:17:48 Candace Owens, he said it. Oh, that's right. I did today. What are you talking about? He said it. He said men could have it. In the angle he's saying, I guess. No, you don't guess.
Starting point is 00:18:03 See, this is what wrong with me? I'm pissed. I'm scared. What? What are you scared of? Be it right? Whoever they are. But yes, I'm sorry. Go ahead.
Starting point is 00:18:12 I ain't me to cut you off. I'm sorry. I didn't. I didn't. I didn't. I didn't cut you off. I'm sorry. In that scenario, yes.
Starting point is 00:18:18 Okay. Somebody with the reproductive organs that identifies as a man can give birth. I'm talking about. Like I can't, no matter what, I identify, cool, call me, I cannot. Right. A child cannot come out of me. Right. That's what I was referring to. I think everyone should be whatever they want to be.
Starting point is 00:18:37 Love whoever they want to love. Yeah. Raymond J. Just want a proper quote. That's how I feel. So, Mark, I get it, man. I'm with you. I don't know what Candace was talking about.
Starting point is 00:18:47 Oh, man. Yeah, I just don't get why it's so hard to just, especially when you're birth. No, well, that too. But I just don't understand why it's so hard. hard for women to just say, I'm sorry. What made you think that? Was it something specific? Like, are you going through that currently?
Starting point is 00:19:01 Like, you were on your phone. Yeah, that's what I wanted to do. Some paragraph texting? A lot of blue? No, it wasn't nothing. It wasn't nothing in particular to me. It was just in reading like a girl that I used to date something she posted. And it's like, it's always the, you know, the
Starting point is 00:19:17 motivational, you know, relationships are hard work. They take time and they take, you know, just say you did some wax shit. It got caught and you sorry. Like what you posted all this motivational shit for? Because that's all it is. That's their way of saying sorry. That's crazy though, man. I just say you, it saves so much time. It saves so much like further unnecessary like not speaking and not being happy and being depressed. If you just take accountability for what you did, especially if you know you're wrong and you got caught
Starting point is 00:19:49 doing some shit you wasn't supposed to be doing. I don't understand how you still try to move and pivot out of saying like, yo, it's like, if you're, it's like, if you know, it's like, if you're wrong, you stealing something and I'm looking at you steal some shit. It's like, yo, what are you doing? I think it's because women are also wired to like hang things over your head and bring up the past and never live shit down. So they think if they apologize, we're going to treat them the same way they treat us. So they're terrified to apologize and say they're wrong because they think, okay, now he can
Starting point is 00:20:15 do the same matrix tricks to me and bring up the past of when they were wrong. So they try to avoid that at all costs. Yeah, but if you think of you with somebody that's what they're going to do, you just don't need to be with them. Well, then, if you think that they're holding that, if you think that they're holding that for another time
Starting point is 00:20:30 to throw that shit on the table like a draw four, it's like, why are you even in a relationship with this person? You think they're going to use that against you in the future? Because I'm attracted to women.
Starting point is 00:20:38 That's my thing. So you're saying all women are like that? Yeah, everyone. Okay, got it. They're all the same. Got it. Well, this conversation reminds me of, uh,
Starting point is 00:20:47 that one time at band camp? No, of a recent study that I just read where, I thought you're about to say that you, you conducted it. I'm about it's like, Now you conduct the service. Julian and LES on the weekends
Starting point is 00:20:58 conducting studies would be hilarious. Well, I guess this will count towards research. I'll ask the room, who in here, including you, Peach, who in here thinks that they are self-aware? If you were to raise your hand, Demaris is raising her hand. Peage is raising his hand. Everyone's raising their hands.
Starting point is 00:21:14 So, okay, so just for the sake of it, I'll raise my mind. So that's five out of five in the room are self-aware. Well, this study says, although 95% of people say that they're self-aware, scientifically only 10 to 15 people are actually self-aware. Well, I told you I was a 5%. Only 10 to 15% percent. Damn it.
Starting point is 00:21:31 I forgot to say the percent. I said it last time. They're self-aware. The fuck? 10 out of 6 billion? Yeah. 10 to 15% of people are self-aware. Yes.
Starting point is 00:21:41 How did they conduct a survey? This is why I knew Roy was going to come in with data and fuck research and all those things. No, I'm legitimately asking. He just asked how they did. A complete opposite. You may want to tell Roy. we have for a minute. He was holding that. Every time we say numbers and data, he's like, that came up.
Starting point is 00:21:56 There was a lot of fire behind that. Especially because I asked the opposite. I said, so how did they conduct the survey? I continue to read. It says this disconnect is due to, you're not selling very self-aware right now. Yeah. This disconnect is due to blind spots, the tendency to view ourselves to view Jesus, the tendency to view ourselves positively in social media's cult to self. So those are like the factors that kind of usually, you know, deter someone to believe that they're self-aware. Oh, they must have, they must have survey genes. What, what's you all, generation? I'm a millennial.
Starting point is 00:22:27 What's the one right after? You're millennial too, right? Am I? I think it's 80. Baby boom. I think it starts at 81. Millennials, 81? I think you're the first millennial, yeah.
Starting point is 00:22:37 I think the new ones past Gen Z, the younger group. I think they're called Gen Alpha. Yeah. There's nothing alpha about that generation. That's what I'm saying.
Starting point is 00:22:46 I was like, they should be called Gen Beta or something. Well, they're just starting at the top of the alphabet now. So the next generation will be beta. Oh. really? Is that the new? I didn't know they were going down that route.
Starting point is 00:22:57 Yeah. Mall was the first millennial, like the first iPhones. Yeah, I was the first. They had to get the money. He's a millennial one. He didn't have FaceTime yet. Millennium Falcon. So there's two types of awareness. Self-awareness or internal and then there's external self-awareness.
Starting point is 00:23:11 Internal, knowing your values and goals and external, understanding how others see you. To improve external self-awareness, the study suggests finding a trusted colleague or getting honest feedback. So I guess like therapy would be a good thing. Yeah. But I think that's where like a lot of depression can derive from is hyper self-awareness. You start feeling bad about yourself because you know too much about yourself. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:23:38 And self-awareness is probably being self-aware is probably the cause for most of my insecurities. It's being hyper self-aware of everybody's like face when I say something or like just everything. Really? But you're just saying that's why it doesn't smoke. Same. I get so paranoid. But to me, I don't know if that's like an accurate representation of what's going on. I think it just paranoia sets in.
Starting point is 00:24:01 It doesn't make you more self-aware. It just makes you more paranoid about what you think is happening, which isn't self-awareness. Like, you're on the couch fine. No one's really looking at you. It's not self-aware. No one's judging you in the corner. They didn't even notice you. But I will now make Julian happy.
Starting point is 00:24:17 How do they do this bullshit test? They ask 10 people, and that's how they got their percentage? Same as family feud. the exact same people. The exact same people. We asked a hundred people. They went from the family feud focus group to the self-aware focus group. Yeah, it was like a whole lot.
Starting point is 00:24:30 They had a lunch break in between. It was conducted by an organizational psychologist. But I don't know. Yeah, I'm not, I don't see like exactly how many people were pulled and how and how can you, to your point, like how do you quantify if someone is self-aware or not? Yeah. You know, like what's the measuring factor? Just us raising our hands.
Starting point is 00:24:51 And it's like, all right, guess that. okay guess that's 100% of this room but yeah I mean I guess I'll ask you guys like if you feel like because I feel I've been in situations and I all of us have where you might see yourself in a situation and you think
Starting point is 00:25:08 like you're reading the situation right whether it's your relationship with someone or a job or whatever and then usually for me at least a moment clicks or something happens and that triggers that like oh shit I'm the one maybe not necessarily in the wrong,
Starting point is 00:25:24 but like, oh, maybe I'm just like analyzing or understanding what's actually happening a little different than what it actually is going on. Like,
Starting point is 00:25:32 how do you kind of rewire and reevaluate things, even if you feel like you're right? You know what I mean? To kind of reset yourself, to look at it. I mean, I think it's subjective.
Starting point is 00:25:42 It depends on what exactly it is that you're talking about or dealing with at the moment or who you're dealing with at the moment. I think it's different circumstances for different, obviously, situations.
Starting point is 00:25:54 But one thing I think that, speaking for myself, the myself awareness, I think that's a lot of the reason why I'm always by myself. Go on. Because I know the type of person I am. And I know that, you know, like, especially now with the world we live in now, people are hypersensitive and people have a real high victim mentality. Okay. Like, there's a lot of people that walk around with victim mentality every day.
Starting point is 00:26:17 I've never been one of those people. And I kind of feel left out and people like, yeah, no, it's fucked up. because I'm like, I've never experienced that. All right, so why would you want to isolate yourself in that regard? Because you're like, I've never seen you be an asshole to someone. No, no, no, I'm not. Everyone's hyper-sensitive. So you can't be around because you say shit that would offend people.
Starting point is 00:26:36 Like, I don't think you're really like that. No, no, I mean, outside of like a few rap takes and some Trump stuff, I don't think you're really like an asshole to anyone. No, no, no, I don't push, like, asshole energy onto anybody. I don't, I'm not that type of person. But again, that comes, I think even that is part of being self-aware. It's not pushing that onto people and not being that person. Like, if you go to a room, like, if you invite me to a party, and I'm like, all right, cool, because you're my guy, like, all, I'll pull up. I'll know within the first 20 minutes, like, all, this room is not really for me, but this is my boy.
Starting point is 00:27:12 I'm here to support him. But I'm out of here in like 10 minutes. I think that's part of being self-aware. You know who you are. You know yourself. Yeah. and you know where you mix and where you don't mix that. Yeah, I think that's like the first surface level of the self-awareness, though.
Starting point is 00:27:26 Of like who you actually are as a person, I think doesn't just start with social situations and the rooms that you go in and out of. Because in that scenario, like, I would know when I wouldn't want to go to a spot that I might even enjoy because I'm in a mood where I feel like down and I'll be an asshole. I will suck the life out of this room with my negative energy. That's your bag, though. I know when you on that type of time. I know.
Starting point is 00:27:56 My self-awareness is knowing I feel that way and trying my best not to be around people at that time. Rather than, oh, I know I would either like or dislike that event. Like when we were in London at that first event, the first night, like I saw it. Like you had like your meter, your self-aware meter was like on 8% and like your social media was like on 2%. I was like, I have to get him out of here.
Starting point is 00:28:21 Yeah. All right, but that had, there was a lot of factors into that one. I know. After we went 45 minutes the wrong fucking way in Uber, the meter started to go lower and lower and lower. Like you could try me off at the hotel. But see, that's my problem. Like we're passing the hotel.
Starting point is 00:28:36 I'm cool. That's the thing. I don't care to go to this. Why does that drain you though? Well, outside of jet lag and being tired, it was the first night. Also, it was something I already didn't want to go to, but similar to what you were saying. That's right there. You started off.
Starting point is 00:28:52 You didn't even want to go. No. Yeah, so you forcing yourself. Because when it comes to work in your career, sometimes you have to force yourself to go do things you don't want to do. In no way did I want to go to that fashion show or do a live podcast. I was exhausted. But it was for the show, man. Let's do it.
Starting point is 00:29:12 Going 45 minutes in the other direction didn't help. And then when we got there, I was already pissed off. And then other things started to ensue. And I was like, see, this is why. I say, I'm going to stay in the fucking October. Should have went with your first thought. But I didn't see. All right, maybe I'm not that self-aware.
Starting point is 00:29:28 I didn't realize that I was coming across that way. I was feeling it. Don't get me wrong. Oh, no, it was. I thought I was smiling. I was taking pictures. You was feeling it and I was paused. And I could see it.
Starting point is 00:29:38 I was like, oh, yeah, no, it's time to go. Like, he's. And the thing is, we felt the same way. Like we echoed each other's like, sentiment's like, oh, like, all right, man, what are we doing? I just think that I handle it better than you. I think, what was the two or three categories, Julian?
Starting point is 00:29:58 Oh, what do you mean? Internal and internal. Internal self-awareness, I think I'm very high in. How I come across, I think I lack self-waters. Okay. That's good insight. There is a lot of times where I probably don't realize I'm coming off, like, how I'm coming off.
Starting point is 00:30:13 Because in my head, I'm, making sense in what I'm doing. Like, it makes sense in my head, so it's got to make sense. Exactly. It's just that, again, I just, you know, I understand that now it's, it's easy for people to have this, um, this victim mentality and this, this hypersensitive energy that people walk around with every day. It's like, I just can't, I'm, nobody is, why do people take things so personally these days? Like, everybody takes everything somebody says as a personal dig, a personal attack. And it's like, that person doesn't even know you. Well, this is going to sound a little fucked up. And I'm probably going to word it wrong. Everyone in this generation feels
Starting point is 00:30:55 like they're important. Everyone feels like their voice matters so much because they're able to post it anywhere they want, talk about anything they want, even if they have no background about it whatsoever, i.e. podcasters. We all feel like we're very, very important. As my dad says, the moment they put the baby on board sticker. Yeah. On vans, that was the day humanity died. Because we made the baby more important than the adult.
Starting point is 00:31:21 Like, no, you're just here to work. Everyone feels very, very important. And like, they matter more than... Your dad feels like... It's one of my favorite theories that my father has. That's why I fuck with Jake. Because he's from that cloth. I was born so I would go into the workforce.
Starting point is 00:31:39 Your dad feels like babies shouldn't feel like they're more important than adults? that we put the babies on pedestals. Like, they are the most important possible thing to the world now. Jake was so against that, he left. Yeah, the more I'm worried about Jake, the more he makes sense. The more Jake moves makes sense, though. Like, the older I get, I kind of understand what Jake was coming from. Do you not think that that's him justifying his actions, Rory?
Starting point is 00:32:05 I love that Bill Burbitt when he's talking about his pops. And then he's like, then I got a little older. I'm like, this guy's making some pretty good points. he didn't do it in a healthy way, but he's making solid points. They looked weird to me at the time. But yeah, he explains it better, but that's his theory.
Starting point is 00:32:19 Once that sticker added on there, like we all have to stop what we're doing for this kid that we don't know that's in the car. Like, I have to change my life because there's someone else's kid that has to be the most important thing on the highway.
Starting point is 00:32:31 We never knew who the fuck was in anyone's car. You just drove. Right. But that's... So to answer your question, I think everyone has a bit of self-importance. I'm not saying you shouldn't feel good about yourself or think you're important.
Starting point is 00:32:42 But be honest with yourself. Yes. Some of y'all are not important. And some of y'all opinion. Oh, my God. And that's where I think that's a victim mentality and where everything that you can come from. Ask them if I'm right.
Starting point is 00:32:53 That's all I'm saying. Everyone is important. Don't get me wrong. Everyone is not important. Not everyone's important in every single part of life. I just drove past a few niggas that ain't important today. They're important to somebody. Shit.
Starting point is 00:33:05 And I'm some niggas I saw it. Trust me. Where they was at in life, that means they pay. It's like the last person off that was holding them down. That's a fact. Like everyone in every situation now feels like, well, what about me? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:33:16 We're not talking about you. That's where I think the mentality comes now. And I don't think I probably, in a self-aware way, worded that correctly. People are probably going to think I'm an asshole. Makes sense in my head. Everyone is very much self-important. Yeah. Self-love is great.
Starting point is 00:33:31 Have that. Be confidence within yourself, but also understand that everyone else is going through their own problem. Like, you're not above anyone else. The one thing that I do find myself doing more, the old that I get is, like, observing and figuring out where or who people think I am in their movie in their head. Like, in there, because, you know, every day we, you walk outside, people, you just, it's like, you probably hear theme music in your head when you walk down the street. Everybody has their own movie that they're directing in their head.
Starting point is 00:34:01 I've definitely had my, my AirPods in and did my, you know, music video, walk to the train. Nothing hits better because you just. just got the haircut, then getting out the barber chair, putting the AirPods in, and having that, like, fresh cut out the shop walk. That's a good walk. You start walking like you 10 feet tall. I had that last week. It was great. It was great, huh?
Starting point is 00:34:19 Start leaving chicks on red. They go crazy. And then you walk past the bus stop and saw your reflection and thought what? That's still, Julian. Still his poor depressed soul. That guy. Still his poor depressed guy. Walking down orchard.
Starting point is 00:34:36 Still never amount to what black magic was. that's black magic's boy in fact that's black magic's boy right there well I wanted speaking of people that aren't self-aware did you guys see
Starting point is 00:34:49 Julia Fox released Julia Fox that's crazy well she no I'm saying well wow that sounds like I was talking about her I was saying she went on
Starting point is 00:34:58 and said that Kanye dating Kanye was her biggest regret and she felt like a pawn throughout their entire relationship we felt that way Julia let me explain something to you we all knew that you were upon.
Starting point is 00:35:10 How did you not know that? Probably fuck. Well, I was getting, the thing with this is like, Uncut jams. Kanye being your biggest regret. Uncut jams. Which, but, and I don't want to. Which I am.
Starting point is 00:35:22 Uncut jam. What a 180, it went from her in that movie to like now. She was addicted to heroin. It's like a different person. Connie's the worst thing she was ever involved with. Listen. She was a heroin addict? Yes.
Starting point is 00:35:33 Really? That was like when George Bush said his worst moment in his presidency was Kanye West at a telethon. Fuck, 9-11. That interviewer was like, I can think of one day that was probably a little worse. Probably stands out a little more than.
Starting point is 00:35:48 There's a famous photo for shooting. Yeah, this was like a big, there was like one of those ad things. That's her. That looks like a Supreme. I mean, I'm not trying to like drag her for a drug use, but she was like using it 17.
Starting point is 00:35:58 I think she overdosed when she was 17. But to say that Kanye's worse than, come on. Worse than heroin? I mean, different kind of high. Because, well, I mean, at least heroin felt good. Kanye, Connie, no, I'm not even going to say what I'm going to say.
Starting point is 00:36:13 Y'all was going to say, gay. He was about to say that. Not at all what I was going to say. He was about to say that. Your vacation was going to start early. Must be like, yo, get out. Kanye, what? We shouldn't police what makes people feel good?
Starting point is 00:36:26 You're right about that. But what do you guys think about this criticism? I mean, we've been, we've seen this with Amber. I don't know. We weren't in their relationship behind closed doors. And we don't know what she went through. with Kanye, which she had to deal with. So I can't, I'm not gonna shit on that.
Starting point is 00:36:42 But it is, that is kind of crazy to say that Kanye is your biggest regret. Yeah, Zalia Banks had a lot to say. So, Demaris, can you read that? I don't want to read that. Do you have to do all the girl voices? Girl, you literally were contracted for this job through a celebrity madam in Miami.
Starting point is 00:36:57 You knew you was there to be a comfort girl. Calling yourself a pawn is giving yourself way too much credit. You wasn't even on the chess board, sis. Laugh, that eight. Laugh my eyes up How long is this bitch Gonna ride this?
Starting point is 00:37:08 I ate chicken Alfredo with Kanye and he got me secondhand burking from the real real brick and mortar shit out shout to the real
Starting point is 00:37:14 that's a bar bitch flew to Los Angeles Nothing wrong with the real real bitch flew to Los Angeles and was flocking the streets looking for him
Starting point is 00:37:21 while he was at Noble with Drake laughed my eyes of these white women or something he was at no boo with Drake that's
Starting point is 00:37:27 that's the craziest part I took out of that all sentence At that era when was this They weren't cool with that time? Doeselia just be talking
Starting point is 00:37:34 sometimes yeah Okay, but also she'd be right sometimes She'd be right so does Jack Wired right Oh my God, she kept going Broke and clock First of all, how does Zizillion know this much about Julia Fox?
Starting point is 00:37:50 Kanye better learn his lesson about these white girls They all have this fucked up sense of racist entitlement And foolishly think there's some special coveted thing to him because they're all white Not understanding that Kanye got all the white pussy in the world already Then when their egos get bruised They go trying to act like they're somehow above him and too good for him.
Starting point is 00:38:05 Laugh my ass of these bitches acting like they wrote Jesus walks. Only rhyme fest can feel that way. Wait, no, no, no. I gotta keep reading. Azealya's really good. She goes off. And Julia, you fucking blew it by being a fame whore and interviewing about Kanye every five fucking seconds.
Starting point is 00:38:22 I told you to shut up and at least write it out long enough for Kanye to get a new apartment where you ain't got sneaker boxes in the kitchen. But you didn't listen. Dummy Kanye has kids. You have photos of yourself shooting heroin on the internet. Little girls aren't. impressionable you're a fucking liability julia get the fuck over it sneaker boxes in the kitchen is
Starting point is 00:38:39 crazy how impressionable are little girls like come on i've been a little boy and saw someone shoot heroin oh my god this last one like imagine a dirty white bitch with a needle on her arm and photos of her sucking them gay niggins from salem dicks having that's i'm done i'm done i'm done having the nerve to try to posture like she's above conge west lm f ao piece of bird shit. He's a bird shit. She hates her. If somebody said, well, shit, the more you know. Well, didn't she, wasn't there in exchange between
Starting point is 00:39:15 the two of them and DMs or something like, like, they used to be cool together, Julia Fox and his alien. They look like they were in history. I think that happened at some point, so. You guys have to fill me out. And then that turned. Well, she did say I told you shut up. Like, basically I told you to play a row. You know, how paid is that madam that's giving Kanye West relationships? That's a different level of
Starting point is 00:39:32 madam. Why you say that? You think Laine's pulling those strings. She's, I mean, she's queen. You know, Madams. Yeah, but like for like, whole shit. Not relationships. Yeah, that's whole shit.
Starting point is 00:39:47 That's what relationships. That's what Azelia's trying to say. Like, you was a whore. No, I know, but just like... But they were in, like, a real relationship. Didn't they get married or something? No, that was Bianca. They didn't get married.
Starting point is 00:39:58 I can't keep up with these white chicks, man. They all look the same to me. Why doesn't Connie get killed for that? just because he's so far out there no one cares he only dates white women no one has ever talks about that with Kanye I mean I think at that point is nobody is it because of he's so out there
Starting point is 00:40:17 that it's like whatever he's been pretty uh he's been pretty self-aware in his music about that the point that he said y'all would do anything for a clown dyke I'll do anything for a blonde dyke which is a wild bar in itself and also I don't think he knows the definition of dyke there's a few times he's used dyke and I was like someone in the studio should tell Kanye would dike me Or maybe he does.
Starting point is 00:40:35 It's a lot to us. But I think it's because Kanye's so crazy that it's just kind of like, let them white women deal with him, child. Well, he did, I mean, before he got rich and famous, he was dating black with him. It tends to be like that, huh? Amber. Amber.
Starting point is 00:40:51 What? Amber Rose? Amber Wupp. I mean. She's Cape Verdean, right? Yeah. I don't know her 23 and me. Is she white?
Starting point is 00:41:03 Well, I know she's KVerdian, which has a lot of, like, Portuguese. I think ancestry. Yep, that's what I am. Some of that. Shout out to CV's love KVordians. Same. But I wouldn't consider KVurdians white by any means.
Starting point is 00:41:18 No, I wouldn't consider them white. Island in Africa. Well, there's whites in Africa. What am I talking about? That part. Look at Elon. Fucking alien. Where's his birth certificate?
Starting point is 00:41:30 Fucking alien is so funny. That's who I want to see. That's, yeah. I guess. She was black when she was with Kanye. Yeah. I was like Travis Kelsey was black when he was with him. I was going to say Connie does a good job of making every white woman he's been with look black.
Starting point is 00:41:45 He did it with Kim. He did it. I suppose. I'm not here to victim playing because I really don't know what happened between Julianne and prayers to her and everyone involved. But I think there is some responsibility going into a relationship knowing somebody is mentally unstable and still dating them and then crying victim afterwards. Well, I mean, again, we don't know what... Kanye West and his doctors and everyone have told... Kanye himself has said, I'm bipolar.
Starting point is 00:42:11 Yes, he has. This was well before he started dating this woman. I don't know how much of cry victim you can do when you go into a relationship knowing someone is completely unstable. Yeah. You got to expect some unstable shit to happen. Yeah. Yeah, I get it.
Starting point is 00:42:26 Have you guys dated? Have you guys ever did somebody who was bipolar? I have. I have. It was a couple, but I have. It's not... Not fun. What's that? And I know it varies.
Starting point is 00:42:34 per each case, but is there like a tell? You know what I mean? When they switch from one personality to the other? Well, that's, I mean, that's multiple personality. That's, you're thinking of them's different. Yeah, it's not like they start using like a different voice in between another character.
Starting point is 00:42:48 Yeah, it's a drastic mood shift. And sometimes those moods can be pretty fucking crazy. And they, like you know somebody's bipolar and choose to get into relationship with them? You've done that? Oh, I didn't know that they were bipolar. Oh, you found out later into the relationship.
Starting point is 00:43:03 They, they weren't. yeah, that's why I said you should probably get checked out. That didn't go over well. That's like saying, yo, you're on your period. I took it to a whole other level. Like, you should probably get checked out. Didn't go well, but I was right. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:43:15 And what sucks is when you finally want to have you, like, I told you some moment, you can't do it in a doctor's office. Why not? Not the time. I feel like that's where the doctor's supposed to high five me. Like, I was right. I helped you. Thanks for bringing a customer.
Starting point is 00:43:28 I helped you. Like, I helped you. I'm brought money to your pocket. No, no high five. How'd that go with you, DeMaris? how did you handle that? She left? No, with, I didn't know at first.
Starting point is 00:43:40 There were some scares in there and I don't know. I don't know. The marriage don't care about it being bipolar. It wasn't, I would never be with a bipolar man. It wasn't a man. A woman? Oh my God. That might be worse than being a bipolar man.
Starting point is 00:43:53 She was somebody who was aware of what she had going on and she worked her hardest to deal with it in the correct way as far as medication, as far as therapy. so yeah but it's not always easy and i want to make clear like i'm not here saying bipolar people should not get in relationships or be loved or anything like that but it should be something that you are aware of in the relationship or it's going to go wrong like especially if you're going into it knowing their bipolar you should as a partner start taking the steps to prepare and work with them to be the healthiest option i'm not saying they don't deserve love because i know this can get
Starting point is 00:44:27 flipped yeah i get it sounds like that's your answer for the question i'm about to ask but i'll ask at Damarison Mall. What's the biggest bomb someone dropped into like a relationship? After you've already been talking, you're like a dating or something. What's like the biggest? Oh yeah, by the way then they like say, I'm pregnant. Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:44:47 Okay. That's a good one. I'm not mad at that one. Classic. I think I win. A girl A girl told me one time because I didn't understand why her and her she hated her brother. Like hate it. And I like whenever I
Starting point is 00:45:03 met him, I thought he was cool. I'm like, yo, like, but you go over tell like she did not fuck with her brother. And I'm like, it must be something he said some shit or did some whack shit. And we had went to her house one day. And then when we left, we was in a car and I was like, I said, yo, why? Like, you and your brother's relationship is so, because, you know, I got sisters. So I'm like, and me and my sisters get like, you know, I mean, our relationships are great. Like, we love each other. We crack jokes. We, it's like a fun relationship. And she just like blurted out. She was. like because my fucking brother molested me and I was like oh that sucks I was like damn like
Starting point is 00:45:39 I don't even know how to respond to that like yeah yeah you know what I mean because it's like whenever we around me and like her brother we hit it off watch sports that whole thing so I'm like yo he seemed like had conversations like shit he says like okay he seemed to be level headed he went to school you know he got a couple degrees I'm like okay not a no attractive guy I can see girls liking him. I'm like, yeah, why are you and your brother don't have a little, a better relate? And then she threw that on me and I was like, damn. Like, I don't even know, like,
Starting point is 00:46:08 I go punch this nigga in his face. Like, should I? I don't know what, now. There definitely don't want to be around the family no more. Like, so it just, that to me was like the biggest, like, and I could tell when she said it, she was happy she finally told me because she could see how much me and her brother was like, I'm like, yo, I rock with him. Like, oh, he's cool. Like, I fuck with your brother. Like, that's why a lot of people never say anything.
Starting point is 00:46:29 to exactly what you just said. It can make everything awkward and weird for the rest of your life. So that's why so many people, when it comes to family members doing that nasty shit, they just stay quiet because it's like,
Starting point is 00:46:41 all right, this is going to change everything forever. So I'll just be quiet and try to forget about it and just move on. So, yeah, I feel why she didn't say anything. And that's also sometimes
Starting point is 00:46:54 when I noticed stuff and my partner won't outright just tell me what's going on. I leave it alone. Because clearly there's something there and they'll tell me when they feel comfortable in you. Because if things aren't adding up
Starting point is 00:47:05 like, why? What's your family? This isn't that? And if you don't have a real answer at that time, I'd be like, all right, cool. Yeah. Not even going to ask about it
Starting point is 00:47:13 unless you want to talk about it. Yeah, that was tough. But I mean, I didn't, I think I handled it well. I was, you know, I was listening. That's crazy? Nah, I wouldn't. I wouldn't see.
Starting point is 00:47:23 See, that's what you think. You think I'd get down like that. You think a girl that I'm dating with something like. You probably, Yeah, everybody got a problem. I was like, that's crazy. You want Chick-fil-A?
Starting point is 00:47:32 Yeah, I hate this victim mentality shit. Well, I do, but not in that case. That was valid. That was one million percent valid. I just think going into relationships, everyone should check people's medical charts. Purses. Okay.
Starting point is 00:47:50 When you go to the bathroom, make sure your watch is still there. But I know that kills the whole mood when you're talking to somebody. but yeah like do you have any weird like medical past shit I should know about are you mentally stable have you been to a psychiatrist is there something I should know because a lot of people which they shouldn't feel this way but I get it may be a bit embarrassed about some chemical imbalances they have and it probably dated in the past and people found out
Starting point is 00:48:18 and ran the fuck away so they're reluctant to say certain things yeah but I think that should be a conversation people should be able to have especially if it's not just chemical imbalances if it's herpes. Is that your segue? I try. Sick segue. That's great. Both sort of a chemical imbalance.
Starting point is 00:48:43 Yeah. I don't really try it in. I get it, but no. I don't really, what is herpes exactly? A Gucci third leg definitely knows. It's a virus. Can I start by saying I had never heard of Gucci third leg
Starting point is 00:48:55 until this weekend? And I'm invested now. Why would you want to hear about somebody named Gucci Third Leg? You're not in the sex industry. So he's in a sex industry. industry. Yes. Because I don't,
Starting point is 00:49:04 sex content creators. He's got a only fans. Oh, so he's an only fan, uh, content creator. He has sex on only fans. Yes.
Starting point is 00:49:14 Okay. Content creator, professional content creator. Um, from my understanding, what is a professional content creator? He makes money off it. Yeah,
Starting point is 00:49:22 from my understanding, he's leading the industry. Hmm. I mean, he's got Gucci and a third leg. He said he had over 5,000 body. He slept with over 5,000 women. Nice.
Starting point is 00:49:31 And he said that ain't a lot because, ex told him like she slept with over 2000 so. When you put it like that. It was the Splash Brothers. So over this past weekend. I'm glad we didn't talk about this on Tuesday because more more information is developed. But to give a backstory for those that don't know and trust me, if you don't know, you should be happy.
Starting point is 00:49:52 You're about to know. You're about to know. Over the weekend, this 19 year old woman went on her TikTok, clearly upset crying. She said six months ago, I collabed because. that's what it's called. It's not called fucking. It's called collabing. She collabbed with Gucci third leg on an only fan's piece of content, which I get, yes, verse swaps, like, feature for a feature. Right. On only fans. Interview for an interview? Yeah. We've done it. We've collapsed.
Starting point is 00:50:17 She then found out after the collab that she had contracted HSV2, which is general herpes. Six months later, she came on TikTok and said, she wishes she didn't hold that information back, but she was scared and embarrassed, but he just continued on to fuck a bunch of women for six months, and she started to feel guilty. Everyone should know that he has HSV-2, which he then replied,
Starting point is 00:50:43 well, let me go on to Aidan Ross to clear up these rumors. Yeah. Like anyone was. From Trump to Gucci Third lick. And before I play it, Dene Davis was the woman that he shot with. And I guess that day, they shot four scenes that day. So they fucked throughout the entire day creating content.
Starting point is 00:51:01 Swag. And this was his pulling up his test results. What's a boom? What are you positive for? What is that? Can you read it? It says you're positive for HSV-1. Yes.
Starting point is 00:51:14 So what is that? Can you explain what that means? So positive for HSB-1 means that you have had probably like a kusor, more so stuff like this. And this is very common in the whole world. Right. Two or three people in the world have HSV-1.
Starting point is 00:51:32 Let me look at, let me just look at it up. Most adult stars, they do not test for HSV-1. In this situation, I understand she is a victim, but I'm sorry, Dene Davis is not my victim. Also, to kind of backtrack. Where do we start? First of all, the sentence of saying, I have HSV, I don't have herpes is kind of a contradiction in itself. As DeMera said earlier, what do you think the H and HSV stands for?
Starting point is 00:52:05 And also, she's a victim, she's not my victim, is also an insane fucking sentence to say in this situation. Why? Word that differently. She's a victim. She's not one of my victims. I mean, that's like, what's wrong with saying that, though? That's implying you have victims. No, it's not.
Starting point is 00:52:25 I know he misspoke there So what I took from it was saying I'm not saying that, you know, yes, she contracted this disease but I'm not the one that gave it to her. That's what I took from that. I know, he misspoke. I'm not trying to say she's lying about anything,
Starting point is 00:52:39 but it's not me. That's what I took from that. I saw a lot of people online because, you know, Twitter will become a lawyer, a doctor, everything when these stuff's happened. But a lot of people on Twitter, which I believe is completely true,
Starting point is 00:52:53 there's only a real certain way with blood work to definitely be cleared of or test positive for herpes. If you don't have a breakout, I think you have to request a certain type of blood work. Yeah, a certain type of blood tests. And on top of that, those blood tests often have false positives. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:53:13 So. So he very much could have HSV2. It just showed up as a false positive. But again, we don't know. And on top of that, you can, And so what people don't understand, and this is why people really need to pay attention in sex ed. You can, so HSV-1 and HSV-2 are just two different types of the virus. HSV-1 usually shows up on the mouth.
Starting point is 00:53:36 But there are rare or not so rare instances where if you are giving head to someone and you have HSV-1, that HSV-1 can be passed on to their genitals. So no, it won't show up as HSV-2 because that's not the strand of the virus. that you have, but it is still considered genital herpes. It's because it's a cold sore that you now have on your genitals. It can be transferred that way. So him saying I have HSV-1 doesn't mean anything because you could have HSV-1 and it's just on your penis.
Starting point is 00:54:08 And you also had sex with this woman with an open sore. They're both absolutely astronomically insane. Like you can see in their footage like it's right there. I can see it through a phone screen. So putting your tongue on it. It was wild. But yeah, especially after like four scenes,
Starting point is 00:54:26 I feel like start to. On the stream with Aiden, he also explained that he, it wasn't an open sore. It was a cut because he shaved his penis. I know some men who do that. But the cut was like, the cut was like
Starting point is 00:54:44 in the upper third of his dick. Yeah. I just have so many questions. It's a hairy dick. How did you attain this? information research. When he was collecting data and the lower east side of it was, I was going to say
Starting point is 00:54:58 if he said, if the cut was located lower, like towards the base, I would shoot and bail because, yeah, hair can kind of do his thing. Hair doesn't grow up off the tip of your dick. That's fucking stupid. Just you're lying. You're just lying.
Starting point is 00:55:14 That's why I wanted to make sure I could confidently say it's full of shit. I did always think about that with only things. But what if he was trying to like trim his head while he was like, while I was soft. He got distracted? Yeah. Closer to the base, right?
Starting point is 00:55:28 No? No, no. Not the third leg. That's a soft knot. Fan, fan, fan. First of all, don't ever look me in my eyes and say not the third leg. My bad, Gucci third leg. Is that better?
Starting point is 00:55:38 No, it's not. Just stop looking at me saying third leg. But it's Gucci. I just don't understand people, man. Yeah, once Only fans, like, started it was just girls, like, touching their pussy and being naked, then shifted to, to, like, full-blown fucking. in porn. Definitely crossed my mind
Starting point is 00:55:55 of how they were doing STD checks. Because from my understanding, like with the real porn shit, you have to come in with your results, like every single time before a scene for everything, correct? You get tested, I think the week of your shoot. And this is all, you know, guerrilla style.
Starting point is 00:56:12 This is, you know, back to the old days of just, you know, we try to get this shit done. Like, it's how hip hop starts. Shooting and clapping, that's all. You know, this is the mixtape day. Like we recording in the bathroom type of thing. We'll figure it all that later. We're just trying to get a record.
Starting point is 00:56:27 We're not here yet. We'll do the paperwork after the record pops. This was havoc making the shook one's drums with the stove, like, and actually cocking real guns into the microphone. That's what this only fan shit. We don't have those plug-ins yet. So, you know, something gave me a hunch that nobody was really asking for test results in these guerrilla-style only fan shit.
Starting point is 00:56:50 and these people collab, but they also fuck civilians. Yeah. So if this guy has actually fucked 5,000 people. 3,000, by the way. That was the, yeah.
Starting point is 00:57:03 That's still crazy. You have to think of what that family tree of 3,000 people. There's a list of going around of other women, other content creators that he shot with that are kind of floating around the internet. So obviously the only the woman woman spoke out,
Starting point is 00:57:20 But now, like, obviously, he has, like, a treasure trod of content. So now people are just kind of, you know, throwing herpes on every single person that he's collabed with. Which they shouldn't do. Yeah, that's crazy. But, I mean, if you think about, I don't know Gucci Third Leg whatsoever. Nor do I know any of the women that he said. I never, I never once. I never once thought that you knew Gucci Third League.
Starting point is 00:57:41 I just want to make that clear. I know the fans were waiting for this episode for me to address the rumors of if I knew Gucci Third Legg. I do not know the gentleman. Oh, ew. Sorry. But if he's fucked 3,000 people, that's in Atlanta, right? I just assume Gucci third leg is from Atlanta.
Starting point is 00:57:59 I'm gonna guess. Wouldn't be surprised. There's no way his family tree has not touched your family tree. Who family tree? I think it's impossible. I'm not saying everyone has herpes. I'm just saying if he fucked 3,000 people in the metro Atlanta area,
Starting point is 00:58:17 somehow you have a third or, fourth cousin that has been involved in that whole mix. 3,000 bodies. Yeah, damn, this girl got 3,000 people in their family trees. You guys don't think anyone in this room has touched that hole?
Starting point is 00:58:34 Yeah. He's like the he's like the gangas con of like OnlyFam. It's the third leg of separation. You know, fan. You keep looking at me saying third leg. That's a good title. That's not a good title, Julian. That's a really good.
Starting point is 00:58:50 He's going to be in the artwork. You're going to be the third. No, I'm not. Not even close. Couple spread legs. I think, Louie, as much as we're joking, this should be a big wake-up awareness call for everyone that somebody has 3,000 bodies. Like, no one's exempt.
Starting point is 00:59:06 I don't care if you're a virgin and fuck once. Everyone's fucking everyone. That's why you got to be detested. Our circles are not that big. Like, this isn't a sex worker thing. this isn't a, this is just in general. It's nasty out there. It's disgust. Let's play. This was the clip of him speaking on how many women he's
Starting point is 00:59:27 They count was like 3,000 and 100, but I was really, I didn't feel too bad about it because my ex-chick down in the body had like 2,000 or whatever. So it was like when I was dealing with my chick, she could immediately be like, oh, your body counts too much because her body count like 2,000. My body count like 3,000. So it's like, damn, like I ain't feel too bad about it. Now, which generation is he from? Is he a millennial? That's an alpha right there.
Starting point is 00:59:52 No, he's going to be an alpha. Wife and a girl that got 2,000 bodies is fucking crazy. But porn people, but porn people life other porn people. Like, that's not uncommon. Yeah. In that profession, that's like kind of preferred, I think. Sex workers do that. His ex-girls is a sex worker?
Starting point is 01:00:10 I mean... For 2,000 bodies, I would... I would hope. I don't know the name. You know how they say to people, like, to perfect your craft, you got to put it in 10,000 hours. Maybe for them is you got to... 10,000 bodies.
Starting point is 01:00:21 I was watching the interview when Tiana Trump was talking about when she fucked Bill Maher. Like, it's out there. Wait, who? Oh, Tiana. It's out there.
Starting point is 01:00:28 I think she said Tiana Taylor. I will say, wait, what? Because we saw my Tiana Eras. There's not a podcast where Tiana Taylor is talking about fucking Bill Maher. That's what?
Starting point is 01:00:35 Like, what is happening? I'm not missing all of this. But she's discussing that whole thing. But she said her boyfriend dropped her off at the house and waited outside. Like, that's a regular thing with insects work.
Starting point is 01:00:48 Her boyfriend did what? drove her to Bill Maher's house, dropped her off and waited outside until she was done. More thoughts on that. Yeah, just call BetterHelp, man. That's all I got to say, but you need. She's in the porn industry. I don't think that that's crazy for the-
Starting point is 01:01:08 Yeah. She wasn't like talking to Bill Maher. He paid. Yeah, but it's... Didn't go there for, uh, what was it, the hard questions? What is the... Final thoughts? Final thoughts?
Starting point is 01:01:20 I get it, but I guess I'm more. on the side. He definitely talked her ear off though. If I'm in a porn industry and I have a girlfriend, she's in a porn industry, I would just think that we're both only shooting with each other right now while we're together. Am I crazy for thinking that? Yes, because you're also not going into their mind state where they don't view sex the way you view sex. Yeah, but I just don't know if...
Starting point is 01:01:44 Just because they get in a... I'm self-wear enough to drop you off to Bill Morris House while he thrashes you all over his bedroom and I'm sitting outside. Big Bill? I'm sitting outside on World Star waiting for you to come back outside. What am I doing? That's how you wouldn't read a book. What am I doing while my girls is upstairs getting thrashed by Bill Maher? You know they have those like chess boards you could attach to your steering wheel.
Starting point is 01:02:05 Maybe he was just playing some chess. Okay, playing chess in the car on the stairwell while your girls upstairs getting thrashed. Where are you at in life? Like how did you get that to that level? I think you're being a bit judgy. I am. If they were civilians, yes, I would find that a bit odd. But in that industry, I don't think you're at.
Starting point is 01:02:22 it's as crazy as you think it is. Yeah, but I'm saying. They view that way differently than we view it because it's their industry. I get it. I would just say if I was in that industry and I have a girl for now and she's in that industry,
Starting point is 01:02:30 we're only shooting with each other. No. I mean, are y'all going to eat? You go to Adam 22, right. No, because he still lets other men. Oh, yeah, I forgot about black. He does reality shows. That was one time, though.
Starting point is 01:02:43 No, he did a reality show. They do a show together where they end up talk with porn stars and then it's just women. No, it's not. Oh, that was the flagged. He's since that whole. big thing with that guy. He did a reality show with
Starting point is 01:02:56 his staff to fuck his girl. And then after that, they did a letting your team. He just told Aiden Ross. Y'all, y'all lame. I'm going over there to no jumper. Y'all ain't never let me fuck. Just say you want to fuck Adam 22. Yeah, that's part of the job. I said that. See that gaslight and shit? I said that. That's part
Starting point is 01:03:14 of the job, though. It is. You think Sharp is more her type? Nah, Brick Baby definitely hurt type. Who the fuck is Brick Baby? I don't even know Sorry. Fine. Who's Crip Mac? Who's Cree the guy?
Starting point is 01:03:29 Fy Fy Fribe! You know Fy Fri. The one that you guys did the interview with wasn't too bad looking. Who was his name? He's no longer there. Oh, this is who Roy was trying to put on you. Free the guy. Free Crip Mac.
Starting point is 01:03:41 He could probably... For sure. He'd look like he could... Never mind. Never mind. Fy crap. Treat the clip like a pinball. He's going to pour
Starting point is 01:03:53 O.E on that shit. Treat a clit like a pinball. What? He looks like he go crazy. I'm just saying. He going to scream 5'5 while he... 5.5 clit. Oh, shit.
Starting point is 01:04:14 Five the guy, man. Three to guy, Crip Mac, man. Oh, he's in jail? Yeah. What did he do? I think he got caught with him. Just guess. Guess what Critt Mac got in trouble for?
Starting point is 01:04:25 He's cripping. He ain't playing. That's real Cripping right there. Crazy? You don't know Crip Mac. See, that's the... They got the right guy. He's not telling us to wit no free Crippax.
Starting point is 01:04:36 He know he did it. To arrest for being a felon in possession of a firearm and attempted second-degree armed robbery, grand theft, and transportation of a controlled substance. So he did everything. Listen, that's real Cripping going on. He's not playing? Facing 15 years.
Starting point is 01:04:50 Oh. Damn. Jail the Crip. Yeah, for sure. Let Crip Matt come home. I like Chris Mackle. And be a star. He's a star.
Starting point is 01:04:57 Oh, sure. And I felt, I felt for him because I feel like his shit was just taken off. Yeah. When this whole thing happened. But, yeah, I'm a Chris Matt fan. That's when it happens, man, when you got one foot in the game, one foot out. No. He had two feet.
Starting point is 01:05:10 He was double dutching with two feet. He was 20 toes in the game. On 55th Street. He was 20 toes in the game. For sure. You've got mail. Do we have voicemails? We do.
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Starting point is 01:05:37 Yo, so I work with this girl, right? And first of all, I'm all about self-love and shit like that and treating yourself and things of that nature. Some bullshit is on the way. She kind of takes it to a different level. A few times. I've been working with her for about a year now.
Starting point is 01:05:53 A few times throughout that year, She'll just randomly send flowers to herself and, like, other gifts to herself. Like, she'll send them to herself at work and shit. It is, is that mental illness? Yeah. Or am I tripping? Is that a normal form of self-love or, or am I tripping? No, you're not tripping, sir.
Starting point is 01:06:15 That young lady is crazy. Hold on. Is she pretending to, like, is she getting surprised at work? Like, who are these from? Yeah. Did she write herself a note? Because if that's the case, yes. Mental illness for sure.
Starting point is 01:06:29 She wrote a notice a guess from who. If she's looking at her coworkers, like, oh my gosh, I have a secret admirer. She's doing that 100%. Writing secret admirer on a card that you ordered to yourself, it's mental illness, bro. He's so romantic. Like, mental illness for sure. Yeah. But if she's just ordering herself flowers to have flowers at work, then she's not mentally ill.
Starting point is 01:06:50 Well, then that would make me mentally ill to. Yeah. I send myself. there's like services. I like flowers in the house, so I've done like monthly services. That's different. That's different.
Starting point is 01:07:01 But we don't know if she's pretending that they're coming from someone else or is she just ordering herself monthly flowers. Well, I would assume that... I would assume that she's not because he didn't bring it up like, this bitch is crazy, like making up scenarios. He said, how much love is too much self-love
Starting point is 01:07:14 and he said that she's sending them to herself. Like, if she wasn't sending them to herself, he wouldn't know that. So he just works with her. So I think it's well known that she's sending them to herself. I don't think that there's anything wrong with that. It's a little uncony.
Starting point is 01:07:27 And this isn't the self-important shit I was talking about earlier. That's fine. If you want to send yourself flowers at work, especially in those fucking dull-ass offices, you want some nature around you? Send yourself some flowers. Again, if she's telling him in the cubicle, like, you know, I can't keep these dudes off me.
Starting point is 01:07:43 They keep sending flowers. Yeah. That girl is mentally fucking ill. But no, what's wrong with sending yourself flowers? No, it's nothing wrong with sending yourself flowers if that if you're sending it to yourself and you know that, know these are for me I've ordered them but if you're pretending like you said like they just keep popping up at your job with flowers for you I mean just you know if she gets
Starting point is 01:08:03 mad and she storms out of the office I think that's your cue to leave too I think you should leave right after that's all I'm saying because I'm trying to think in my mind this is no different than say someone that's like okay every Friday I get a massage it's like it's just treating yourself like that's how I'm viewing it every Friday massage, flowers. There's nothing wrong with that? I'm nothing wrong with that. I mean, it's an expensive habit.
Starting point is 01:08:30 Flowers aren't cheap, especially the delivery shit. But, I mean, if you got it, why not? I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I think he's weird for thinking that it's odd that a girl wants flowers at her desk. Yeah, I don't think that's what it is. I think she's ordering them and then pretending like they're being sent from somebody.
Starting point is 01:08:46 She doesn't know. Again? Yeah, she's acting surprise. It's crazy. Acting surprise when they're emailing you saying that they're on the way. what can what like you could track the order like I'm trying to think like what he's outside the receptionist comes you have another one you have another one from guess who yourself
Starting point is 01:09:04 guess who your card is on file no but no I could see my I don't like buying stuff like that for myself but I can see like you know setting that like up every month so that every month like I receive followers and it's like oh it's a nice surprise not surprised but like it's a nice gift for myself. Like, I don't see anything wrong with that. I think that's nice. Somebody got to do it. Shit, you supposed to wait for a man to do it? Yeah, I bought flowers for myself, too.
Starting point is 01:09:30 I just bought like three O's last week. Some fire. Of that flower? Oh, man. That flower power is great. But see, what's the difference? That's self-love. I'm not mad at it, but I'm also not acting surprising. I'm not...
Starting point is 01:09:44 Oh. He's so out of touch with the culture, man. I thought you were saying flowers like women. No, women are flowers. Yeah, that's what I thought he was saying. Do you think Maul bought three women last week? He could. I could, but you think I did? That's who we asked.
Starting point is 01:09:59 You think I did? That hand is working. You think I did? You know the same madam that Julia Fox was under? Yeah. Do I? I don't know if I know that lady. Probably do.
Starting point is 01:10:08 It wouldn't surprise me. Found out one of my home girls were the matter. Three legs and separation. I found out of my home girls was the madam. That shit fucked me up. Did it or did you start to realize? Ah, it makes sense. No, it fucked me up because I didn't recognize it like before she told me.
Starting point is 01:10:20 But then it made sense. Yeah. I was like, oh, I thought. I thought I was, I thought I was just like taking vacations and yeah, I'm like, oh. Yeah, I like, damn. So let me get this. The madam doesn't put out, they just recruit women? How does that work?
Starting point is 01:10:34 Madam is like the gym. She's like the gym. The madam will sleep with, with a guy depending on who he is and like his status. But she's like a female. Like if he owns the yacht, she'd probably sleep with him. She's top dog. Yeah. Like, the celebrities team will know where the madams are at, reach out to them, and then she'll pass the roster off
Starting point is 01:10:55 so he can go through the book and pick which ones. It's like a brochure. He wants. Yeah. GM is probably the best way to put it. Yeah. Got you. Which one she's going to put on the trading block that night.
Starting point is 01:11:05 You know. You said a general manager, general madam. You know how to go. You've seen a few. I feel like madams would be way better to deal with than pimps. Just the overall better experience. I think business would go better. No, I know one madam that don't play.
Starting point is 01:11:19 She'll slap the shit out one of them. Yeah. She don't play. You missed that flight. And she told him it was four girls coming and only one, and only three show up. Oh, yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:11:28 She for show slapping the shit out too. That's coming out of her pick up. Yeah. Sure. Yeah. I feel like I would be a good madam. If it was legal. I feel like if you're, if you're a whore and you miss your flight, like,
Starting point is 01:11:40 you should retire. You don't have to do much. You don't have to do. All you had to do. All you had to do much. All you had to do much. You couldn't do any other job at that point. You have no admin skills whatsoever.
Starting point is 01:11:50 You miss your flight. to Turks to go tan and get fucked. And it was a late flight. It was like 7 p.m. You know how early I would be to a flight to Turks if I got free steak? I'd be the day before. Free steak. You can't. Like if every meal was paid
Starting point is 01:12:05 for at the resort, I would be there. I'd be at JFK the day before. You're roaring Goosey third leg. Like, I feel like a lot of, and I'm not even saying the actual working escorts. Women in general, I think, are spoiled and take for granted.
Starting point is 01:12:21 Those trips, like that's some regular shit. Can you imagine if somebody flew you out all expenses paid to a resort for you to just relax? No, you ain't just relax. I would be so grateful. You're getting thrashed. The sex is cool. I'm about to say, I mean, is that not, it's consensual, like, that's not enjoyable? Okay, okay.
Starting point is 01:12:39 It depends on who is with. That's what I'm about to say, like, they're whores. It ain't like they're going off what their own wants and needs are. It's not like they're going to be pleased. They're going to be somebody. Tell that to the guy that's working 80 hours in a mine shaft. Like her job is okay Have you ever been fucked an ass?
Starting point is 01:12:54 No, okay So you don't know Yeah, but like the girl That doesn't get fucked in the ass If I'm a madam That's just crazy to throw out of a man But if I'm a madame and I know my roster I like getting fucked in the ass
Starting point is 01:13:09 Exactly And then also had a full resort All expenses paid first class trip That's a job? Thank you Yeah, but then you're taking for granted everything But you factor you see what you're doing is you're banking on everything being like great. What if you get there and it's like this
Starting point is 01:13:25 hideous investment banker from China that doesn't smell good, his breath stinks, and he's all over you, he's trying to like kiss you in your mouth and like, you're not going to, that's not enjoyable for you as a woman? Sometimes you have to work a holiday. Sometimes you got to work a double when you get to want to. It's not the same. It's not the same. Like in every profession, there's always days you don't want to work. And I will work three shifts in the stock room on Christmas before I fly out. Okay. Some hideous,
Starting point is 01:13:55 unattractive woman with bad breath and a stink butt. Try to sit on my face because she owns a yacht. Okay. This is going to sound, this is going to sound, I'm not talking about those escorts that are fucking, that are getting shitted on by Saudi billionaires. They're earning their keep. I have respect for those women.
Starting point is 01:14:12 That's a day's work. She came home with calluses and dirt on her hands. She was shitted on. She got all, she deserves every dollar. I'm talking about the women and it's going to sound kind of gay that are flown out by these amazing NBA players like is that that bad of a fucking job
Starting point is 01:14:28 for a NBA player and being Turks for the week you're talking about the same crop of women by the way the women that got shit in Dubai are some of the people that walk the Victoria Seeker one way okay so those are their half days and Dubai is their full days fathers hug your daughters man
Starting point is 01:14:45 I agree just hug them and hold on to them tight Yeah. It's hug him and hold on to him tight. What was the question? Yeah. She does have a mental illness. Yes.
Starting point is 01:14:55 That girl is crazy. She does not have a mental illness. All right. Buy yourself some flowers so you don't have to get shitted on in Dubai. Yeah, I think you should buy yourself flowers. And when she gets hers, you kind of look at her like, mm-hmm, me too. Somebody love me. Now you got a flower war at work.
Starting point is 01:15:11 Flower War. It's like bottle wars. Yeah. Like, I get flowers too. No. Why not? I don't know if it works that way. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:15:21 I don't know if the sellers are. We need our flowers. Men need flowers too. I agree. Yeah. You guys me flowers? I like what she does. I bought a man flowers.
Starting point is 01:15:28 To be fair, I was in a relationship and he bought me flowers every week. I always have flowers. So I always felt like men didn't get like enough flowers. So I bought him flowers. I bought him stuff all the time. What kind of flowers? Crabgrass. Crabgrass.
Starting point is 01:15:41 It's showing up with crabgrass in a vase. It's crazy. You pulled it out of the, you know what he's pulled out. It's like dirt still on. Damaris had dirt up Paul. This is for you. She dropped it like this.
Starting point is 01:15:54 You can make it grow. It's another project for you. No, what kind of flowers you got? Here's some more shit you can do for us. Here's something you can work on. Why has all women's gifts some more shit I have to do? Work. They gift is work for us.
Starting point is 01:16:11 I always felt like that like when my mom would like buy like a grill for my dad. Like you buy shit for him to cook. Go pick up a propane. Thank you for this chore that I now have My girl bought me a Supreme Drill set I said just because it's Supreme You think that
Starting point is 01:16:29 Bitch I'm not drilling up these fucking drapes Get out of here That's fine No that's fine That's fine But I feel like all men I'm sure you have it on display now though It's under the same
Starting point is 01:16:38 I feel like all men should have a nice drill set But Supreme I got mine at Lowe's You said what I got mine at Lowe's I don't want the Supreme Dries set And she got her some stock eggs. Why are you shop shaming?
Starting point is 01:16:52 Mm-hmm. I'm saying. Wait, so what flowers did you get him? I got him roses and sunflowers, I think. I know it was roses and I think there were like two sunflowers in there. And he left them shit. He was like, oh, thank you. But like, you could have bought me this, this, this, and that.
Starting point is 01:17:06 And I'm like. He said you could have bought me a stripper. Or he ain't bring your cute girl with the fat ass in here. Jesus. Fuck these sunflowers. Where is sunflower? Where is sunflower? You could have gave me head and.
Starting point is 01:17:19 And we've just been quiet for the afternoon. Yeah. That's better than flowers for me. Suck me and shut up. Dot com. Do we have another. Do we have another voice mail? That's your only fan slash.
Starting point is 01:17:32 Suck me and shut up. Yeah, here we go. What's up, Roy? What's up, Ma. My name is we're going to call me Kay. I'm calling from the Bay Area. One of your older. Bay, I think.
Starting point is 01:17:44 Bay? Yeah, sure. Listeners. A little bit older than Mall. Very young at heart, though. So the situation I'm calling about is the person that I've been dealing with for a very long time, me and that person were not official, we're cool with that. But he's had some friends who don't know that I'm dealing with him that have tried to get at me. And I've shut it down, point blank period.
Starting point is 01:18:09 The problem is I didn't go back and tell him immediately about the situations. So one particular situation he felt out on his own. another situation, I told him later on down the line. With both situations, he was very upset at me because he felt like I should have told him off rip about what happened and that he felt like, you know, with situations like that, he felt like he can't trust me if I'm not telling him right away. I get his logic partially, but I also feel like me not telling him was to protect his friendship. and I feel like I should get some type of credit because I didn't entertain the situations. So I just want better clarification or better understanding from you guys.
Starting point is 01:18:51 How am I wrong in this? All right. Thank you. Bye. Well, thank you for that call. First of all, I think it's you're wrong because while granted, you're not official because I think that's her sticking point. They were not official. So does she owe him that to tell him that if, you know, they're not a couple officially.
Starting point is 01:19:11 But you would be upset if the rolls were reversed and one of your home girls was trying to talk to him and he didn't tell you about it and you found out however you found out. So that's how you can, it's that simple. If the rolls were reversed, you would feel some type of way if one of your home girls tried to talk to him and he didn't tell you that. You got bitches in my face smiling. I look stupid. It would have been all of that. So, yes, you're wrong for not telling him. And just because you're not official doesn't mean you don't own the person.
Starting point is 01:19:41 and honesty and to be forthcoming with information like that, just because you're not a cup. I have a bunch of questions, but I see Demaris like Mayweather on the ropes bobbing and weaving over there during that whole entire exchange. No. I mean, I get Maul's point. I think her intentions are what's important, though, because sometimes it's like, yeah, I'd be mad about this and I'd feel some type of way, but it doesn't mean that your intentions were bad.
Starting point is 01:20:06 Her intention, I don't think her intentions were bad. I think her intentions were, okay, nobody really knows this. and this might cause a rift in their friendship. I don't want him acting funny towards his friend. I shut it down. There's really nothing to know. So I'm going to be quiet. If you that overprotective of a girl,
Starting point is 01:20:20 then you need to let your homies know that she off limits. All right. First of all, first of all, first of you. Did I have to take the Demaris role on this? I thought you were going to go a whole different route. His homeboys was comfortable hitting you up. Yeah, that's what I said. He told them you were a slide.
Starting point is 01:20:35 No. See, you always go. How do you know that man told him dudes that? That don't mean that. They don't know that she's in a relationship. They don't know that they're in the relationship. I've been very vocal that I'm not one of those people. I've had friends that have even asked me like,
Starting point is 01:20:50 oh, what's up? It's cool, whatever. I don't like to do that type of shit, but I'm not going to pretend like that's not a common thing. Yes. If those are his actual, let me finish. You've done that to me. Don't do that.
Starting point is 01:21:01 I'm not going to let you get that off. You told me to stop leaving money bags under somebody's picture. That was my ex-girlfriend. You still be leaving them, too. I just was not her picture another day. Do I? I'll be forgetting. So who's in the wrong here.
Starting point is 01:21:12 I also did jokingly say that. I really don't give a little. I know that. So we're going to assume, let's just assume for the sake of this conversation that him and his friends are actually real friends, right? Okay. If that's your real friends,
Starting point is 01:21:25 they are not hitting on the girl you're talking to unless y'all have had a conversation of, you know, that's for the team. Like, do what you want. No, no, but if they don't know that they're dating. They don't know that they're dating. Yes. His boys don't know that he's dating.
Starting point is 01:21:40 her. Doesn't know that they're serious. I'm sure his friends know he's fucking. They've been dealing with each other for a while, she said. Yeah, but even if your homie know you're fucking a girl, sometimes you'll still try to holler at her. That's what I'm saying. But it's not because I'm saying, yo, she's a slide.
Starting point is 01:21:56 I'm not saying that. You have no, she's not my girl. I know, but he has made it clear if those are his real friends that that's just something like it don't really matter. I think you're putting an assumption. I'm not mad. That could be. They would be comfortable reaching out to her.
Starting point is 01:22:10 because they know that's just somebody he fuck every now and that could be the case that could be the case but she didn't paint it like that but also girls sometimes women are not privy to you know what she's doing she's keeping up she's keeping the door open and because it's like she's going to use that as well if you don't want niggas island at me then shit make me a girl but she well how is she going to use that when she never said anything the dude like he eventually found that out and like she used it like but i'm saying he found it no he found it out And now her response in that conversation can be, well, if you don't want your boys trying to holl at me,
Starting point is 01:22:44 then tell them I'm off limits. Tell them I'm your girl. Yeah, that's what I said. Now, how about you tell them like, yo, me and homie is dating, like, get out of here. I'm not. You think I'm going to tell your friend, and now I'm off limits, when your friend not telling you I'm off limits,
Starting point is 01:23:00 that don't even make that you going out sad. No, it's not. Going out sad would be entertaining the friend after you just love. No, that's going out terrible. That's going out. horrendous. You might as well dress up as him for Halloween. See?
Starting point is 01:23:12 Blah. Love you, Kayla. But I just feel like it's not my job to tell. It's not my job to tell your friends. Like, because I'm not, I don't know, I never know where shit is. And I feel like if your friends feel comfortable hollering at me, just from my personal experience, I'm not as old as her, but for my personal experience, if a man feels comfortable hollering at you and you talking to his homeboy, then it is like Rory said.
Starting point is 01:23:33 Like, either he completely doesn't know, which means that man don't talk about you to his friends. or he does know and he don't care because he know his homeboy don't really rock with you like that. Either way you need to get the fuck up out of there or ask or press him because I would immediately press him like,
Starting point is 01:23:45 yo, why is your homeboy trying to get at me? The fuck is going on. That should have been the case. She should have immediately brought that up just like that. Like, yo, what's up? Why are your own boy DMing me? And not only one.
Starting point is 01:23:57 Multiple. Yeah. So either she got that snapback. She got, ooh. She's a little older to that thing. She knew how to put the chicken on fry and go upstairs and rock you to sleep real quick. Go back downstairs before it burn.
Starting point is 01:24:11 Tuck you in, too. Ooh, that old, that groan. That's sophisticated. She doesn't seen some summers. For show. She knows how to put that chicken off. She has scars on her knees. Oh, man, she knows how to go upstairs.
Starting point is 01:24:23 I got seven minutes to rock this nigga world and go back downstairs. You could do a lot in seven minutes. That's what I'm saying. It's a long-ass time. Seven up. Hell yeah. When that thing warm, too, she comes up there and sit on you like that? And then go right back downstairs?
Starting point is 01:24:36 You start looking around like, like. Like, what is life? You curl over and start sucking your thumb. You double wrap the blanket over you? Yeah, that's when you start. You get on Snapchat while you under the blanket. Like, yo, I don't even know what's happening right now. This bitch just rode me to sleep and she's downstairs finishing dinner.
Starting point is 01:24:55 You take a nap. Tomorrow's dinner. What? She's meal prepping right after putting me to sleep? Man, listen. Shit, if I was the homies, I might have to hit up too. I want to get mill prepped. shit, fuck it, why not?
Starting point is 01:25:08 Prep my meals. To answer her question, I think she should have told him from... Yeah, man. Always tell him. I would still have that conversation with him. Like, why do you think your friends felt comfortable doing it? You know why? You know why? Because I've seen this happen.
Starting point is 01:25:21 Dudes have tested the chick. I know dudes that'd be like, yo, hit her up, see what she do. Like, let me see what she do. I've seen it. I've seen it happen. I've seen that multiple times. Yeah, I've seen it. That's a very common thing and I've always found it odd.
Starting point is 01:25:33 No, it's odd, but I've seen it. Like, dude's like, I don't want to see it. see if she going or not. Because it's kind of gay. Which friend are you picking? Like now you're thinking about you're thinking about which friend you're going to send to really test her. That's why I've always found that odd.
Starting point is 01:25:47 Like now you're looking at your friends like, all right. I'm trying to trap someone. It's just that's so lame because it's like that's not. But I'm saying that that's probably what this could have been. Like I want to see if she's going to be truthful with me and forthcoming and tell me like, yo, he tried to holl at me. But she did say she should. I think the most important part that everybody is overlooking.
Starting point is 01:26:05 Yes, she didn't tell him, but she said I shut it down immediately because that's what's important. Telling you or not telling you, that's her intentions, like she said, I didn't want to be awkward. I didn't want, like, you know, it to cause a riff and friendship. Like, I know how that can be, especially if you continue to be friends with the nigger, because then it's like, if I tell you this and you continue to be friends with him, this, like, I told you for no reason and now shit awkward with us and we can never be around. You know, so I get her good intentions, but she shut it down and that's what was most important. No, I'm sorry, this can't happen. I've done that.
Starting point is 01:26:32 I've done that to girls. I've literally text. Ooh, I'm telling you. And when a girl DM me, that ain't supposed to be naming me? Ooh, I'm telling. Oh, I'm telling. He's so childish. Might as well, you might as well come to him as a man.
Starting point is 01:26:42 Because delete a whole account. Ooh, I'm telling us fucking up. Ooh, I'm telling. Ooh, you're trying to fuck me. I knit that whole shit in the bud early with my friend group. When they found out I wasn't the cool, like, yo, it's for the team. Let's have orgies. There was two occasions when I had friends reach out to chicks that I was just, you know,
Starting point is 01:27:03 like, just fucking. No real shit. And they came to me. like, yo, your friends would, like, be hitting on me. I said to all them, I like my hose. It's not for the team. Just because I'm not wife and doesn't mean that y'all can do that. I'm not one of the, she's for the team people.
Starting point is 01:27:15 I like my hose is crazy. I like her. Don't do that. I like my hoses, wow. Y'all like my hose. Hey, what's the homies' response to that? They laughed at me. Rightfully so.
Starting point is 01:27:24 Yeah, you got to laugh. You got to be like, what? How you just, she's for everybody. No. This you got her right now, but it's like, that's like renting the car and I love this car. Fair. What? Fair.
Starting point is 01:27:35 but while we're in this city for this time, that's my rental car. Okay. And it's a one-seater. Okay. I'm not mad at that. I'm not mad at that. No, that's ain't for the team.
Starting point is 01:27:47 I respect that. And first of all, we're here for the weekend. So, like, I'm taking Saturday. You're taking Sunday? That's gross. Small window.
Starting point is 01:27:52 I respect it. That I respect. I'm talking about, same city living in. No, no, no, no. This was tour shit. Like, that's one that would be. A roadie?
Starting point is 01:28:01 A roadie? Oh, no. A roadie? I ain't tripping. Like, niggas love they rode. But we would go back to those cities, though. Yeah. Them niggas can stop booking Houston Palusers. It wasn't a one time.
Starting point is 01:28:12 We was going there like every few months. We was doubling back. Not even for a show. Yeah, not. Just like, you know, research. Yeah, research. We would purposely do connecting flights. Yeah, research.
Starting point is 01:28:24 There's directs to L.A. Yeah. But sometimes you got to have a layover. Sometimes. Sometimes. You're going to break up. I think it was more expensive for that length. Yeah, I get it.
Starting point is 01:28:31 But I've always been, maybe that's the like, beta mail on me. Yeah. I don't, nah. If we're all friends, I don't do the for the team thing. I feel you.
Starting point is 01:28:39 I'm aware of right on that. Like, I don't fuck with somebody else's shit. Even if they say that's for the team, all right, well, I'll be on the bench for this one. There's mad players out there.
Starting point is 01:28:47 Pick it over one. I never understood that. There's so many other ways as friends to bond. Yeah, I'm not trying to run. Like, let's do CrossFit together or something. I'm not trying to go for a job. Chicks that my homie sleep with.
Starting point is 01:28:58 I never was that type of guy. And all Rory friends are like black. So it's like, if she like me like why you think she like like like like you like you like you know every girl i've slept with only sleeps exclusively with white guys no but i'm just saying they treat roy like the same way we would treat a white girl in the hood that lived on our block pass her around you got to braid her hair and let her say the unwork yeah i've never been with a i never been with a redhead let me see what that's about all the black men i know love white
Starting point is 01:29:27 white redheaded women it's like the redheaded women though only only redheaded white women They love them for some reason. I never understood why. Too much of me. Can't get into it. Not saying they're not beautiful. It's just not. Fire crotch to fire crotch is now.
Starting point is 01:29:40 Yeah. That's like HSV3. Three to guys. Burning. Tickets available now. So much right there. We will. Well, if you're listening to this, we're in Toronto tonight.
Starting point is 01:29:52 Yes. No. We were in Toronto. It just happened. We were in Toronto. What a show. Drake came out. Drake did a full interview.
Starting point is 01:29:58 He addressed everything. He addressed not like us. He leaked the new disc track that's going at Kendrick Lamar live at the show. I guess if you missed it, you missed it. We'll be in Atlanta and he said he's going to do it again in Atlanta. Yeah, he's going to follow us the rest of the trip. He'll do it again. Yeah, he'll say it again.
Starting point is 01:30:16 Wait, he's our supporting act for the rest of the tour. He's the opening act. Tickets available now. New Rory Mall.com. We will be in Atlanta, November 22nd. And then finishing out the year home, New York City, December 14th at the Gramacy Theater. The tickets available now. Hope to see y'all there.
Starting point is 01:30:32 Let's have some fun. Let's have some laughs. It's getting cold very fast. I just wanted to throw that out there. Yesterday was kind of like a wake-up call from me. I was like, shit. It's like fall, fall. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:30:44 But yeah, everybody, be safe. Be blessed. And we'll see you on a couple of days. I'm that nigga. He's just ginger. Peace. This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed human.

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