NFL Daily with Gregg Rosenthal - Remembering Chris Wesseling

Episode Date: February 5, 2026

Gregg Rosenthal looks back and talks about his friend and NFL Media legend Chris Wesseling on the five-year anniversary of his passing. NFL Daily YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/nflpodcastsSee o...mnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed Human. Welcome to NFL Daily where we're always thinking about Wes. I'm Greg Rosenthal. I'm here in the Chris Wesleyan podcast studio. I'm taping it in the studio that bears my great friend's name before I head up to San Francisco for this Super Bowl 60. And I did want to just kind of stop in the middle of,
Starting point is 00:00:33 what's a crazy season, a crazy week, and recognize that it has now been five years since West died. And this week is always tricky because it's the Super Bowl, but it's also the time of year that West died. And if you've lost anyone, grief is so interesting that the dates are important, like those anniversaries, you kind of feel it and you feel them in the air. And it almost makes sense that it's all combined.
Starting point is 00:01:11 It's the Super Bowl. It's Wes. And for me, especially, you know, Wes was such a special person in my life. But initially, as a special person in my football life, I met him. I'm putting in air quotes online on a message board. and his life force just leaped off that message board so strongly that I wanted to get to know this guy and get to meet him and eventually to hire him and become a great friend. And then we were out here. And so this time of year you think about him because I share a birthday with Wes too. It's in a couple weeks.
Starting point is 00:01:51 It's the two of us. Me, Wes, and the three of us, if you want to include Roger Goodell, the three pillars. to joke about of NFL network NFL media. We all share a birthday. Shout out to the people on the Pisces Cusp. And yeah, it's to me a cool thing that it's a time of year. And of course, it's mixed feelings and it's heavy too and it's sad. But I like the idea that it's a time to think about the person because the last thing I want to do is ever forget them, not celebrate them, not talk about them. I know if you're listening to this now, you're not going to forget him. And it didn't feel right to go through this week without recognizing this anniversary in five years. And it's one of the first things Keisha taught me.
Starting point is 00:02:42 You know, my great friend and the love of his life, Keisha, so early on, she really just had this feeling that it felt it feels good to talk about the ones that you love and that you lost. and I'm far from a person who has like learned wisdom over the years. But that is something that really has stuck with me that I think helps people. And it really stuck with me the response we got in the aftermath of Christyne, not just in the days after, but in the months, in the years. And even now, right before we started, Eric, our producer was saying, And look, anytime we talk about Wes, it gets so much response and people want to be able to share their memories because for so many of you, it felt like losing a really close friend. And it was.
Starting point is 00:03:41 You had our podcast, around the NFL podcast, originally around the league, in your ears, three, four times a week for so long. And I think especially with Wes, he gave all of himself to that podcast. What you heard was what you got. And I think for a lot of our listeners who, of course, are younger and just growing up, and some people joined us in middle school and high school and in college. And it runs the gamut, certainly. But a lot of younger listeners, we heard, and this really stuck with me, that it was the first time a lot of people experienced a loss like that.
Starting point is 00:04:21 And it almost makes me think now, like, oh, here it is, like Wes teaching us life lessons again, because Wes loved a good time. And that's one of the reasons why he made so many great connections here at NFL media. Everyone's relationship with him was really different. But how I connected most with West beyond the football and just working side by side and loving to, like, figure out his mind talking football, was he loved to ponder the meaning of it all. Like he loved to debate the stupid stuff, but he also loved to talk about why are we all here? And spirituality and what it means to be a good person.
Starting point is 00:05:07 And yeah, death. And I almost think I can almost hear Wes's voice because we heard from a lot of listeners and I understood all the responses. And for a lot of people, it was really so difficult to lose Chris and I understood that. The hardest thing that we ever did
Starting point is 00:05:23 was do a podcast that week and write in the aftermath and just continue to do it. And a lot of people told us, like, I love you guys, but I can't deal with it anymore, basically. Like, that they stopped listening at that moment. And I do totally get that response,
Starting point is 00:05:42 but part of me also hears Chris in my head being like, come on, like face it, face it, head up. This is life. This is what happens and it is terrible. And I don't want to get stuck in the bad stuff. But this week, I do think about the fact, look, I drive past the hospital where Chris died every other day. It's just sort of part of my life. It is not hard, you know, it's hard not to think about that to always be next to like the bar where me and in Dan Mark and met up with his brother, Phil, you know, right afterwards. And, you know, I always think about that because it's right, it's right next to. the Trader Joe's, and I do think about that week, because it was the worst week of my life.
Starting point is 00:06:23 We're doing shows. For God knows what reason, trying to kind of think that maybe what we think we're watching happen is not happening as it was. But I bring all that up just to say, like, I think it's a trap to get stuck in those moments. Again, I can hear, like, his voice in my head, which is like, yeah, that sucks.
Starting point is 00:06:46 But it was a miracle that the four of us all got to come together. It was a miracle that Wes existed. It was a miracle that Wes got to meet Keisha in the first place and have Lincoln and that he had this life force that was so strong that it brought him all the way to Tybee Island
Starting point is 00:07:03 at a part in his life where he didn't know exactly where he was going and that we ended up connecting and that he eventually, you know, found a lot of meaning, not just with football,
Starting point is 00:07:19 but more importantly with the friends and the relationships that he made through football. But football was the start to it. Like I saw this guy writing down every dynasty league ranking that he had. And he was such a, you know, to use a west word, like a rassable. Like he was just so opinionated, but stubborn, but open, but warm. But man, it was tough to get him to move off of a. position, but you always respected that position. And part of this week, for me, I had a little fun like going back and listening to some of the shows from that week. And I can almost, I'm amazed how
Starting point is 00:08:04 concise we were. It's four of us and we're doing a 48 minute Super Bowl recap. And it's just moving around. Eric, I'm looking at him. And like, I could learn a little bit something. It was great show around the NFL. And it was fun to go back and listen because we have Seahawks Patriots. And so I thought, okay, well, that's a nice tie in here. Obviously, that was a long time ago. That was 11 years ago. That was only the second Super Bowl that the four of us covered together. We had one before Wes was fully on board and hired. And so that was the second Super Bowl. We were all together. And I thought it'd be cool to go back and just listen. Here were some takes that Wes had.
Starting point is 00:08:53 This was actually from the recap show. I listened to all of them from that week, but he was embedded with the Seahawks during the week, and then this was some of the takes he had after Super Bowl 49 between the Patriots and the Seahawks. I think when you factor in the ridiculous curse catch, how well the Patriots defensive backs played on that entire drive, and then the final play of the game, to me, the greatest Super Bowl, I've ever seen.
Starting point is 00:09:18 Everyone always wants to say the greatest Super Bowl of all time right away, and I think it probably was, I don't know. Well, let me add some more points. Okay. You're talking about, in addition to the back and forth of two great quarterbacks, right. The best defense we've seen in at least 15 years and possibly the best past defense we've ever seen, you've got Belichick and Brady going for their fourth title in their sixth
Starting point is 00:09:41 Super Bowl, and you're doing it the caliber of opponent. You're doing it against the reigning Super Bowl champions. Against the best defense in the league for three years running. First team like that since the late 60s? I don't want to hear that the Patriots Panthers game was better. It wasn't. No. We're here last year and we're talking about Peyton Manning's legacy.
Starting point is 00:09:58 And going into that game, most people considered him greater all time than Tom Brady. A year later, we're not even bringing up Peyton Manning in the discussion. Brady has distanced himself a little bit from Peyton Manning. It is really interesting just to think about that game specifically. and how things change. And one of the great points Wes made, like there were a lot there, which it wasn't even included,
Starting point is 00:10:22 was how he said, while we're in the press box watching it, that this next drive with the Seahawks moving the ball down the field and eventually getting right up to the goal line is going to impact, like, how we talk about Tom Brady. And it shouldn't impact how we talk about Tom Brady, because there's nothing really
Starting point is 00:10:43 do with Tom Brady. Tom Brady just orchestrated two touchdowns in the fourth quarter against the best defense in football. And I'm not planning to do like football talk on this show, but to me that that was the relationship I had with Wes and certainly that you guys had with Wes that it could go from the deepest stuff to the football stuff in the matter of seconds. And that's why I really enjoyed kind of looking back at all these episodes. Like it was all combined. And I'm thinking to Nick Wesleyan today too, because I think of talked to him, and I was supposed to include this on the preview, the pick show, that it's
Starting point is 00:11:17 already been out with Cynthia Freeland. And I'm reminded of it because Wes and I, and Mark I believe, did have the Patriots winning this game, you know, against the Seahawks back in the day. In this Super Bowl, by the way, Big Bro Nick
Starting point is 00:11:33 says Seahawks by 30. I mean, just totally disrespectful. He's like, well, maybe not exactly 30, but that's what I said about the Eagles last year and he got that one right. So I'm just putting that out there. Another clip we have here was a pretty famous one if you're a huge diehard of around the NFL. And also if you go even now to the Around the NFL Twitter page, it includes a part of this clip, a really great edit where had a lot of the great moments of Chris's time doing the podcast.
Starting point is 00:12:11 and it's still pinned to the around the NFL Twitter page, which I love. And it has part of this clip. And I decided to go back and listen to it. And what I found was it was, you know, even longer and had a little more depth and breadth to it than you even heard in that video. And I thought it would be cool to kind of play this on the show. And the crazy thing is to set this up is it just comes out of nowhere in a random week 14 Tuesday show, about 20 minutes into the end of the news, where we're just basically talking
Starting point is 00:12:51 about how Reggie Wayne, who was in the final season of his career, was playing through a triceps tear and didn't look good. And that was all that set this up. And I'll let Wes take it from here. Well, I think I've been a little flipping about this, that I haven't given it the nuance it deserves. Reggie Wayne is playing through a torn triceps and is playing as bad as any wide receiver in the NFL. He's also a respected team leader and I'm sure within those walls, they want him to battle. They want him to battle through this and show what he can do. So I feel like maybe we should give it a little bit more thought. I mean, you and I have talked about what what adult, why would adults be interested in sports? And I think this kind of speaks to that
Starting point is 00:13:37 that you mentioned a few minutes ago, I'm thinking like an analyst when I watch Game Rewin. I think Mark's probably read this book. Zen in the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, he makes the point, the analyst, something has always lost in art or experience when you analyze it.
Starting point is 00:13:53 Like, Mark Twain, once he became a riverboat pilot and learned the technical side of it, the Mississippi River was no longer beautiful for him. And I think that's part of being an analyst in football. We kind of lose track of what's important about sports. you know, when you get old, you know, athletes naturally rage against the dying of light.
Starting point is 00:14:13 And I think Reggie Wayne's doing that, and we have to let him do that. I mean, I guess I just wanted to get that off my chest. You feel badly for being negative to a guy. It's been a great player for a long time. Well, I think if I was to hire a sports writer, the first question I was going to ask him is, how do you reconcile the essential meaninglessness of sports? Wow. I should use that in my interviews with the new editor.
Starting point is 00:14:37 Because there is an answer. I mean, how do you reconcile watching young men bang into each other and try to advance an inflated pigskin against marked territory? I mean, that's what you're doing. How do you reconcile the importance of that? And I think it's that at its best, sports is look at what humans can do. This is the best that we can do. It's like Shakespeare's poems or Beethoven's Moonlight Sonata. This is going above and beyond. We're sending somebody out there like, you know, we can't get to Mars so we send the rover. This is, we're going above and beyond. And I think we've seen examples like the best.
Starting point is 00:15:14 Willis Reed hobbling out of the tunnel, Kirk Gibson limping up to the plate against an unhittable closer, Michael Jordan in the flu game. When an athlete is injured, and especially towards the end of his career like Reggie Wayne is, look, older players can still get it done. It's just that those plateaus are fewer and far between. And I think there's something to be said for an older player trying to do that.
Starting point is 00:15:35 there could still be something left. There could still be some light and reggie wings. Look at what humans can do. The crazy thing to me there is that's just in the middle of a Tuesday show off the dome. A lot of it. I mean, out of nowhere.
Starting point is 00:15:54 And you know, it makes me emotional hearing him get to that look what humans can do. Because I think like, yeah, Chris Wessling podcast. look at what humans can do.
Starting point is 00:16:08 And it's such a unique relationship, I think, between really regular listeners of a podcast and a podcast like around the NFL that you get to know the hosts. And the crazy thing was like Wes was born to do that. Now, he was even better in life. A raconteur would be another way that I would use it. And so many of my best memories with Chris and Keisha are just sitting around the fire outside their house and just talking late into the night about whatever.
Starting point is 00:16:49 And sometimes it'll be ridiculous talk and sometimes it'll be that. But it was brilliant and it was open-hearted. And when he says, like, look at what humans can do. like look at what how humans can be. I think good and bad. Like Wes always showed sort of a full breadth of like, look at what humans can be. They can contain a lot.
Starting point is 00:17:18 And it's so crazy to me that that's just dropped in the middle of a random episode. And I swear 20 seconds later, we just immediately go into Jimmy, Jay Cutler getting benched for Jimmy Clausen. And it was just like, oh, Greg's got to go handle the news. Let's get into Jay Cutler, getting benched by Jimmy Cossett. And meanwhile, I'm thinking, listen to this back all these years later. No, bros, like, stop.
Starting point is 00:17:43 He barely got any pop or response from that a little bit. I give TD a lot of credit because we did move on a little bit 30 seconds later. And then we did kind of mention like, oh, and he was just like, West was on fire there. That was awesome. And I guess it's a reminder. Just, look, when you have those sort of moments, when you have those sort of people in your life, just stop and recognize it in those moments and appreciate it.
Starting point is 00:18:16 And look, I'm thinking about Chris today. And we think about Chris all the time here in the Chris Wesleying podcast studio. And, you know, I'm just thinking about everyone that's there too. And so I love all y'all that are still listening. And I know so many of you have such love for Chris and everyone who is listening out there today. Yeah. Think about him a little bit. That that mean a lot to me and Keisha and everyone that's so close to Wes over the years. Hell, look what humans can do. This is an I-Heart podcast. guaranteed human.

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