Nip Tuck - Bonus Babes: 'Forget Servant 2, My Sister Was Camel Hump 2!'

Episode Date: December 8, 2023

It's ramping up to Christmas and after Ashley shared her story of how her daughter was fuming at getting the role of servant 2, the girls were inundated with your hilarious stories of other weird roles kids have been given in their school nativities.Ashley and Lauren discuss how to deal with partners liking girls pics on socials and what do you do when you find out your mate is a snake?To sign up for Patreon for full video episodes every week and more exclusive content, click this link: https://patreon.com/niptuckpodTo get involved with the show, you can send us a DM on Instagram and TikTok, find us @niptuckpod.Or you can email [e-mail] can also send us your beauty questions, dilemma's and Slutty Susan confessionals via WhatsApp! You can text or voice note the girls on [phone] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

guys hi welcome to nip tuck not giving a fuck their bonus is the bonus it is it's the bonus it's friday it's friday oh you're struggling ashley is really struggling she has now got like in our time which is maybe not live but like four weeks to go and you're just done aren't you she's got sciatica she needs a back rubbing two weeks to go yeah but i mean like in in terms of full term it's like maternity leave time right now two people who would you literally within days of me have had their babies genuinely what will happen if you go into labor i don't know and you end up in with the hospital pushing the baby out pooping yourself because i'd laugh i'd cry for you but i'd laugh no genuinely have you not thought about this mate what happens you go

into labor it's my third baby it's not gonna happen surely i thought they came quicker the further you went along i don't know more babies but i need to rest i need to rest no but what will you do then i'll just have to do you have to push it out or will you get there and then maybe have a section there if possible if you're not gonna give a fuck about me there are they but like do you get there emergency people all take priority as usual of course yeah so if you're already in labor the baby's coming you'll have to just push it out imagine that does that scare you or not really thought about no because if it comes out vagina virgin comes out if it comes out virginally then that is all cool yeah talking about babies and we've not actually like can

you believe we've gone through this whole pregnancy and we've minimally talked about pregnancy and babies i think partly because you don't want to like you yeah you're over it like it's a lot it's the third one and like sometimes when you're pregnant you're like i don't want it like your first one it's all you want to talk about yeah pregnancy pregnancy every time you have a conversation it leads back to the baby yeah i think by like i reckon by a third you just be like i want to think about something else but my q a is like honestly it must be because there is so many people that follow us that are having their first baby do you get a lot of baby and pregnancy absolutely none because i've not had a baby for six years mine recently have been a lot

of fertility baby pregnancy postpartum like all of them and i got um a lot of breastfeeding questions the other day why do people make such a big deal about somebody not wanting to or not being able to breastfeed it's so unfair and i'm sick of it so i got i'm really honest like and like i said on my thing i said breast is best like that's what we're naturally meant to do we are naturally meant to breastfeed the children but i just don't want to do it and you shouldn't have to no and i feel like in a lot of situations in hospitals you are pushed to do it and by other women you are made to feel guilty if you don't do it everyone has their own reasons for not breastfeeding sometimes you can't yeah um sometimes it might be your lifestyle it could be anything

it's how you feel it's just up to you it's up to you why are we asked about it with other women and i feel like you kind of always women as well it's a loaded question are you breastfeeding did you breastfeed and then it's like the answer makes you the answer makes you less or more of a good mom whether you know it's like weighing you up did you breastfeed if you did then oh you're a good mom then and if you didn't then why not well because i didn't fucking want to fucking shoot me because i didn't want to basically this um someone said um have you ever breastfed any of your children that is such a loaded question and i put no and a picture of pamela anderson good you um and like we said i'm all for it but i just it's not for me and then um someone else

was like can i ask why and i thought do you know what i'm gonna that's a decent question that's fair enough so people sometimes just want to know i had a section my milk hadn't come in so by day five when the milk came in i was already in my little this happened to me routine thing so i was like fuck it this is how we're carrying on and this girl has sent me a message no shade but no shade but also she's learned that bit off us no shade no shade but i'm gonna give you some shade no shade but uh you shouldn't blanket this statement and i was like i'm not blanketing anything it's about me she said no shade but you shouldn't say that milk doesn't come in when you've had a section because with some people it does and i was like i don't give a fuck about anyone

else apart from the question was about you um i'm i'm a nurse and um the baby's stomach is the size of a blueberry i already knew that anyway um so they only need a tiny bit of milk off you which you know right i was like this is what frustrates me you are open enough to do a q a yeah yeah and you're not a doctor you're not saying you are you are being asked questions about you and your choices you can't then sit there and caveat every different person's opinion it is yours which is why the q a is with you and it's not a fucking poll the amount of questions i get every because i do one every sunday and i try not to miss them and yesterday you could tell i was pissed off i only did about three or four usually i'd do about 10 but it's um the two questions that really piss

me off are are you breastfeeding and why do you have c-sections okay right like is that though is that because you got your back up could they just be asking because they're interested in having they want to know your no because then the c-sections on the comments of like videos we've done oh my god i agree i agree sometimes people could be asking generally because they're considering okay number one i even if you're not giving birth privately and paying for it yourself you still can do whatever the fuck you want my friend is now 16 weeks and she's made the choice to have a section she's having a section the reason she's doing it she is petrified same as me she has heard a million horror stories including a lot we've got like a group of seven of us

including some horror stories me ending up having an unplanned one another one of us having an emergency one and a lot of people that she's heard it's not only about that though like you can have such beautiful amazing stories she's petrified she's petrified to her yeah absolutely petrified of any pain relief needle the whole thing she's petrified of not being in control and it's ruining her entire experience so she's made the decision and she said to me the other day she said in the group she was like do you know what i find really weird every time i tell someone i'm having a section i feel like i have to then really quickly explain myself because they look at you a bit like don't even tell them you know i wouldn't even tell them so she's made that decision and that is her

decision and she said actually the hospital have been the midwife's been very supportive they have said that is on you they have to be you know you want to do that and i to be honest quite possibly would would have a section planned as well i don't know if i'd give birth naturally no it's if you want to give birth however one of my friends oh has the most amazing births yeah one of mine does as well i'm jealous yeah yeah and i think it's beautiful which is why i would really want to still try but i just think let's fucking leave each other yeah um it's always women on women and it's not very nice and whatever so that's one of the questions so there you go i'm having a section because can't be arsed pushing the baby out of my fanny and i'm not gonna breast

feed because i want to drink wine afterwards do you want me to answer the questions like that yeah like what do you like that's what they're asking for that's what they're basically saying and i have botox yeah at the same time and i will drink i will have a five bottle of wine i'll do whatever i want after this baby yeah no i just think we're joking we're joking it is what it is anyway now this is this is fun have we done this bit yet get in touch no so tell us your opinions tell us what you're thinking not no no shade ask your questions yeah like i think it's how you ask them and if it's a genuine question absolutely but i think you can tell within um how the how the questions are written to you you can sometimes tell what kind of person it is anyway having said

that we do want to hear your stories and we want your questions you can email us at hello at nip tuck pod.com you can send your ex hello your dilemma hello um voice notes everything stories slutty seasons questions get them all over to us and we'll look through them basically we don't give a fuck we don't we've digressed right lauren we've all had this before where and i feel like we've grown way out of this but especially when you were younger whether it was on facebook whether it was on instagram whatever it'd be have you seen dead is like the death picture the main question i've got here for us to debate is is it okay for somebody who's got a girlfriend to like bikini and slightly sexy and selfie pictures of other girls no i mean thank god

for the death of the explore page is it okay now i don't think it is either right these are the reasons though if you approach a man these are the comments you can tend to get back go on actually These were the top responses of guys who, when you say to them, have you liked another girl's picture? Slighting. Anyway, here we go. Let's practice. Steve, I'm absolutely fuming at you.

Why have you liked Cheryl's pictures in her buddy bikini? She's just me mate. Fine, Sharon, I'll just delete Instagram. I didn't even know I'd liked it oh classic Sharon I don't even look at what I'm liking I never

I don't know I like everything on Instagram Sharon it's not that bloody deep you don't Steve because you don't like mine but this is the main response from men and I think it's absolutely gaslighting personally I don't think

if you've got a girlfriend you should be liking bikini pictures of other women i just don't yeah i don't does anyone think differently is there an explanation as to why this might be but girls don't go like liking topless pictures so i've got like guy friends absolutely and i would like pictures of them in the family i would like pictures of them and the girlfriend if they put a topless picture on i ain't liking it also i always think like girls that like guys pictures like some are doing it for the wrong reason yeah like i don't know like see what i'd like to know i'd like to know people's opinion on this yeah do you ever i mean ed doesn't really post but and james is private with a very small

following but i bet a lot of girls and i have done in the past every picture the fella puts on clicks the likes checks throughs liked it see if there's any anomaly girls in there that you don't now it's true isn't it i can see i'm blind anyway right i've got shit that's on my fucking tits more you've already gone really have you got more if i hear that jack harlow song which one i don't know that one because i'm still scarred from flying first no no are you ready are you ready are you ready like that scarred me if people getting on the plane i'm flying first i bet it'll be well let me find it for you right it's the jack carlo song and the bad bunny song what is this i'll play you them and please stop putting them

on your pictures this one i also find it weird when people put music just for a picture Can I get a new song? Yeah, but it's because they were all down with the... I mean, it bangs. It bangs. Oh, no, I don't agree. I love that. You're not going to love it after hearing it.

And then this one as well. I love that song. Really? Oh, my God. No, but I've had enough. It wouldn't go with any of my videos, though. Me at the grotto. I'm Vanilla Baby.

It's not. It wouldn't go with my content. well this is now just turning into anyway yeah it's bad bunny monaco fuck off okay do you know what do you know what drove me mental last year this is the last three to year of 2022 we're gonna get all that again i'll do it if it's a good one no i'm not doing it and then there was that one that's why we're low-grade influencers You only have three years with your kids. No, that is a trigger for me.

Fuck off. That's a trigger. I hate them like that. Anyway, and this is the final season. And then do you know what we're going to be getting this week as well? What? It's begun. Oh, yeah.

It's begun. And then people's Christmas decorations. It's begun. Right. It's beginning to look a lot like shit. I can't say that word. Sorry. um we're in a ranty mood today guys right nativity on the christmas vibe we told our

night nativity everyone fucking loved the nativity story okay so we spoke the other week about ashley's little girl being really upset that she was servant two in the nativity and we spoke about that and we asked for your stories about servant servant servant servant two um and her line is yes caesar well that's what servant would say i think that's fair enough um and we've got your stories right so you're ready for this who the fuck is caesar in a nativity i don't fucking know you know schools just make the whole thing have you ever seen the program i think it's like a film like an english one called nativity it's fucking hilarious it's about an english school and it is very funny it's quite old but i would watch that right this one and i mentioned that

one of my friends once was the back end of a donkey right this is what they've said never mind the back of a donkey my little sister came home when we were kids and she was so proud to tell my mum that she was camel hump two in the school nativity so she was a hump and then we've got one two she was the second hump i'm vanilla baby okay hi girls and lucas i love the pod i was just listening to you talk about the nativity plays and i've got a story for you so when my son was in reception he was absolutely idolized by the teacher anyway he came home from school one day and all he kept saying was i'm not talking about the nativity play that's like me i don't want to talk about the nativity play and i couldn't get anything out of him so i took him to school

the next morning i asked his teacher what had happened she says we've asked hunter to be joseph but he got really really upset obviously i've turned to him and said why are you upset and he said you know it's amazing to be off with joseph and his reply completely shocked me but i'll never let him live it down when he's bigger and all he said while bursting into tears is i want to be the camel oh cute needless to say he was the camel that year and he was as happy as a pig in shit to this day me and my old teacher still laugh i couldn't change i couldn't change from servant to servant to well he got to change from joseph to camel maybe it's because it was a downgrade yeah true a swap and then we've got another one which you mentioned as well

loads of people have been wind the north wind as in fart wind just wind so what does wind do i don't know i do not know it's not a bad role you if i was wind this is what i would do i would isn't it because um the inn is full and maybe there's wind but where who's the sun rain it wouldn't have been raining in bethlehem would it anyway where did you become the fuck me no when jesus was born it wasn't raining um oh my god this one it's quite funny pissing at the nativity episode last year my nephew got cast as a chicken which made me fucking raging so I made him the best costume ever. He even got a rouse of applause

when he came on stage and do you know what? What's the year? I'm hoping she's fucking Mary because they won't, surely after listening to this podcast, they won't dare make her a servant. I don't even know anything about it.

I don't know when it is. I bet I can't go to the nativity. It'll be when I'm having the baby. I'll be honest, last time I went, I was sat at the back, I couldn't even see her. She didn't even wave at me

and she spent the whole time looking over her shoulder and I missed that big event for that. That big, our big agency party. Oh yeah. She didn't even know I was there. She didn't.

It could have been anyone. Anyway, there's another one as well. There's a picture if you want. Oh, let's see. Oh, yes. We're going to see the chicken outfit. Do you know what I think this story symbolizes? No matter what you are, own it.

If you end up being the chicken, you'd be the best fucking chicken that there could be. It is good. Check your WhatsApp. I don't like no wood. I'm vanilla, baby. Oh, my God. That's amazing.

look at the feet look at the oh my god he's got right they've put marigolds on his feet what a fucking clever

that is amazing whoever did that for your nephew and that is the story whatever you end up in life be the fucking best most bougiest version of it like us

like us I mean I don't know make the effort baby oh my god someone's written in and said from the whole of Salford Children's

Community Nurses we love the pub I asked Lucas to put this in a lady messaged me saying we love it and you know your usual lovely messaging

she said the whole of the soul for children community they listen to it when they're driving they talk about it we make the day so i just wanted to say well done ladies and a little shout out thank you right now we've done nativity now let's move to b.a. your hacks your bits your bobs your questions we know we love this love love go on send them in baby right so we've got a beauty hack here if you want an instant cheap lash lift yeah curl your eyelashes with a normal lash curler and then put vaseline on them so she's put it keeps them for hours but adds a slight gloss so it looks like a light mascara perfect for natural makeup and saves you a bit of money now my only question to this is it takes the same length of time as putting mascara on i um when i

use my eyelash curlers i dry put the hair dryer on them to get the heat to get the heat yeah makes sense so there you go and then i always tint my lashes as well yeah i tint my brows and my lower my lashes are white um and i love a lash lift but they are expensive how much are they i've got falsies so 50 quid and how often once a month you have to be careful because they're quite um quite abrasive are they i thought i've heard this because i am even the brow lamination yeah can we talk about a fucking over eyebrow lambs guys like yeah it's not i like the idea i saw someone today and i thought i like the idea of them being like a little bit lifted and stuff but when they're fully stuck up it's not my vibe like a wizard yeah it's not my vibe but um but

when i did say to my lady i was like can you like make mine stick up not up just like a bit because they're so thin um and fine and she was like lauren you it damage it would damage your brows you've not got enough hair fall out yeah she was like you've not got enough hair and i thought fucking story of my life that you've not got enough hair honestly you've been using that uk lash stuff honestly however we were talking about the progress that stuff in it the ingredient the yeah that people are saying gives you a hollow eye does it have it in it yeah it does um however listen i'm gonna pick i'm gonna fight my there's there's different battles i don't know if the one that i've got that nouveau lash don't know and i'm gonna pick my battles and on this one i'm

gonna take it for a long you've been using it on your eyebrows as well there's a brow one really good genuinely my bottom lashes right i have none i'm just not like that to you they'll look shit because yours are unreal but they are double that like double as good as no and i've only been using it for like i love the lash and brow serum i've used them for years yeah you have yes so if it does make my eyes hollow i'm guessing like my long eyelashes should hide that um okay next one i'm 23 weeks pregnant and a friend of mine asked if i was going to save my placenta to make it to capsules i've heard so many benefits is it true so i have done both i've not done it and i've done it so i feel like that makes me qualified to answer the question right so your placenta

when you give birth animals eat their placenta okay so it's like because the baby's been living off it it's like a bed of nutrients for the baby and it's got so many good amazing you your body's body's made it to grow the baby yeah um so it's full of nutrients and obviously when you give birth or when you have a section you birth the placenta as well i didn't know that you push it out don't you if you give it yeah yeah um now i actually ate and took mine it's what so i used my placenta remedies so she comes to the hospital when i get birth and she takes the placenta away straight away so what what did you take away i do two things like a tesco bag no you get given two bags i do two things okay i do stem cells yes i've heard this heard this and a deep placenta

guys if you've got enough money to do stem cells i cannot tell you i've heard this enough because um it can cure cancer the stuff that's in there it's absolutely amazing so um smart cells is the one that i use for the stem cells and then i use the my placenta remedies so anyway they give you a box right the the stem cells is a lot higher tech than the placenta because the placenta is just so what she did was with the placenta she came in and she cut two chunks out do you know what a placenta looks like by the way lucas it's like about this big and it's like a massive steak like a bag like a jellyfish all blood and and she made me two smoothies out of my placenta and i drank them right and you could taste like you could taste yeah but did i get like baby

blues as bad don't know if it's because i'm in a different time in life don't know but it worked then i took the tablets amazing so she takes the percent away and dries it out what comparison have you got obviously you didn't do it the other time did was there really any difference there actually was i i personally think yeah do you and and also it girls it's not just about like the taking the tablets of them i think that the drinking of of it straight away was i'm not gonna do that would you not the stem cell i would do and i'll tell you why that's because it would be for the baby so i feel like i've got that kind of thing and it's for the baby and it's for you and james as well you know what the stem cell stuff yeah all right so basically um and don't like quote me

again we don't always get this right but the stem cell stuff if your child gets leukemia i think or certain types of cancers it's called stem cell banking so what they do is they get a piece of babies could and bank the stem cells right um and then if people in your family are a match to those stem cells then they can use them there's certain things that i get that and i would probably do that the placenta i'll be honest that's not something i could be arsed doing maybe i need to research it a little bit more um and look into it a little bit maybe you could change my mind it's something and also i'm not pregnant i feel like when you're pregnant you think more about these things when you're not like it feels like a million miles away from me i think if you can

afford it and it's not going to impact you in a negative way there's nothing negative about it i personally think it works yeah well you've done it there's a company that make them into like face creams and i don't know we've got we've put enough on our face and look at the fucking state of mind but i think that the tablets and the the smoothie i i really rated so yeah there you go okay girls catching up on the pod and i hate to say it but i do love listening and you're both hilarious my little girl is 10 nearly 11 and she's obsessed with skincare this is a new thing where girls i think it's sad i think it's a real tip top i think it's a real bloody shame that at 10 and 11 they're thinking they've got the whole lives to think about this shit um all the influencers

are making skincare the in thing and i'm worried that she's doing her face more harm than good and obviously i'm the worst person in the world for even thinking yeah teenage pre-teenager girls so i mean at my her age i was playing with barbies yeah i it's i think it's really sad her obsession is drunk elephant no and bioma but i get it it's because they've made the packaging look appealing to children that's not why that is a ridiculous first of all that he's not made for children's skin it is not made for kids skin kids don't need it i know but all the young girls are obsessed with the biome and the drunk elephant they are and they come in the little cute minis they come in the colorful packaging and they've got like cool names totally is so

basically i'm gonna tell you this now i was the same from 10 11 i used to go in my mum's cupboard and i used to put all the shit on and my mum basically looks a different race to me doesn't yeah she does yeah she does you would not think that my mom is my mom like she's so much darker than me anyway um she had all the clarins range yeah because that was that was the thing back in the day and i remember i saw one it said tan and i was always oh my god i dread to think she'll have the picture somewhere i will ask her for it right and i put this tan on my hand and it was when fake tan was first not that yeah and i put it just all over my face and then i went to bed the next day i had black hands and a black face and she sat me down in the living room and

she went i've got to just take a picture can i just and i'm like you know i still potted around with all her shit this this young girl unfortunately if there's a world is away and she wants drunk elephant and bioma and she's gonna get it and we can say go and take her to the body shop do the boots one pound range we'll say that to you but if that's what she wants that's what she wants at least she's not vaping and talking to weirdos on chat i know but the thing is it's probably not good for the skin this is the issue i know but what you at 11 imagine me telling you no lauren you can't have that what would you have done you would have been the same as me i would have gone and put my mates on you would have shoplifted

the drunk elephant out of boots wouldn't you i would have gone and put my mates on right we need to think about this though because make sure you're not buying anything with acids in yeah maybe look at the range like that baby facial so strong yeah and it's called baby which then makes people think oh it kids are fine with it it's so strong i personally would be saying no i really would like wouldn't that be a good thing like if she's gonna do it fine but buy products the right ones that will not do yeah but this is what she's saying at the minute the the crazy is drunk elephant which is a brand um and biome which is again a brand and they are not for children they are for adult skin so you can't yeah like i buy like a cleansing balm and a gentle moisturizer

from the range and say you're allowed to use that yeah i think you need to put your foot foot down here and this phase will move on so she'll hate you for a bit but listen my mum made me add braces i fucking hated her for it now i don't yeah my mum made and every time i got them tightened i would sob all night and i'd go you did this and she'd feel awful and think she said she used to think i made her do it and now thank god many of my children will have braces if they need them and i went through that weird fake tan obsession where i used to wear rimel what was it called oh on my face and everything and my mom and you were horrendous you used to like shave your eyebrows off and shit yeah i did and so do you know what i mean like we can preach but at least

they're not doing the shaving eyebrow and Rimmel sun shimmer trend and those bloody Oxypads. Do you remember Clean and Clear? Clean and Clear. It's illegal now. It's not illegal but yeah. I know. No the Oxypads they have benzoyl peroxide

in them. Well they're way like yeah we all did it. Good luck with that because she's only going to get worse. Anyway we're going to be back after the break with your dilemma as I'd say that was a dilemma that we just hard um but before sort of before that are you a loyal listener do we help you do you set an alarm ready for our podcasts do you get excited to listen on the way to work please tell everyone

about us give us a good rating share it with your friends pop it on your insta the bigger the reach the more we will carry on and the more you will see us my loves welcome back you're not i'm manila baby i'm a no um i don't like no whips and chains but you can't hold me down very odd i'll tell you what else tell you what else he's doing the rounds what make me scream make me higher that one's doing it as well right i like it actually okay we've got dilemmas go on Ashley it's a love tape

it's a love tape anyway hi girls and Lucas please keep me fully and on we won't just keep you and on we'll keep you

fully and on love the part you never fail to brighten up my day you're both so funny never change I wanted to share

my current we've all got different ones at different points in life my current dilemma with you so

I was with my boyfriend for four years we've recently broken up over all sorts of reasons i'm pretty certain that i don't want to be with him now in the summer i went to ibiza with my friend and we bumped into some boys that we know from around where we live they were sitting on the table next to us so naturally you start talking to them and you obviously you know you're gonna say hi because you know them natural and that's okay they're

they're in opposite sex but that's still okay to be friends yeah nothing happened at all they know that we've got boyfriends and my friend was talking to them just as much as i was which really wasn't a lot this friend is in a relationship with my ex-boyfriend's best friend so the boys are both like when we were breaking up he randomly brought up that her boyfriend told him that i was talking to these boys in ibiza despite the fact i was mad that he kept it to himself for so long i'm also livid at my friend because she's obviously made it look bad to her boyfriend for him to tell

right so what the girl's done is dropped her in it and been like she was speaking to the guys in Ibiza I don't know if I should even bother saying anything to her

or just never speak to her again because is she actually my friend fuck her off mate no I don't think she is the thing is what you don't look

I would speak to her this is the thing that I do now I tackle everything I would go to her you're just gonna bullshit away no find out

and then decide if you think she's bullshit and go to her and say look it's caused a nightmare now we were splitting up anyway but now he's got this bloody digging

about me chatting to guys in Ibiza which by the way he's gaslighting you and he's just throwing that in there oh you were chatting to guys so what probably because he's done something and he's trying to make you feel bad um and then go to her and say why does he know that we were talking to those guys and he seems to think I was the bad one and you weren't like what's going on there because he could well be making it fucking up to try and catch you out so speak to her first she's your friend and then decide on her answer what you got to do from there personally I wouldn't want to be friends with my ex-boyfriend's girlfriend so this is the other problem so you are now you've now split up with this guy and your friend is with his best friend so whatever you do with her

it looks beggy as well but whatever you do with her is going back to your ex-boyfriend if you go on a night out he's going to be digging it's not ideal but you also you don't know how long they've been friends actually they could have been friends for 10 years you're not going to lose a friendship i agree lauren but when you are going through something you have to protect your energy and i honestly believe and i've been in these situations before that when you split up you need to stay away and you need to protect yourself your business and like what we always say like we say to people i don't want to hear it yeah i don't want to hear it yeah and and if you're hanging around with your ex's best friend's girlfriend you're gonna hear stuff and also

it puts in an even if you have to have a break up from her for six months then then find out if you really do miss it yeah you know but at this moment in time going for a breakup's hard enough you don't want to be hearing stuff you don't want to be it's gonna put her in like why are we even talking about this now you've split up split up yeah like this isn't cool yeah i agree whether you spoke to someone to be through or not the point is you've split up so it doesn't matter distance when you're having a breakup i think one thing that's really hard to do but extremely important is to draw that line where you say i don't care okay you think i did that i think you did that we've broken up oh my god going over it again and again no one's gonna win no one's gonna

win we're done i had it with an ex who literally like nine months after we split up still going on ring me and be like and i've heard you and i was like we're done i think the only reason there's any point in having this back and forth with a partner is if you're gonna make it work because you have to iron out and if you find anything out about an ex then don't say anything but i think if you're done keep it in your notes you're done yeah write it down if you're done you're done like I wouldn't even entertain the conversation with him about the boys in Ibiza we're done so really nothing matters and I think it's going to put your mate in a difficult position because if she sees that he's meeting new people because her boyfriend tells her yeah I would honestly distance now it's

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