Nip Tuck - Bonus Babes: We've Been Up The Wall...

Episode Date: July 28, 2023

In today's Bonus Babes, Ashley's got a lengthy list of treats in her Bargain Bucket, just for you! Lauren's got a new Man Of The Week for all you single ladies out there and as always we share some of your amazing stories.To sign up for Patreon for more exclusive content and full video episodes, click this link: https://patreon.com/niptuckpodTo get involved with the show, you can send us a DM on Instagram and TikTok, find us @niptuckpod.Or you can email [e-mail] can also send us your beauty questions, icks & dilemma's via WhatsApp! You can text or voice note the girls on [phone] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

hi guys hello again hello hello hello welcome to nip talk not getting gay fuck this is the bonus bonus baby it's the podcast where we celebrate being positive aspirational women this is all about being unapologetic unapologetic unapologetic no you don't like that you don't like unapologetic okay unapologetically okay on nip talk we need you to get your voice heard we want you to we need you to you can email us at hello at nip talk you can also send your x dilemmas via whatsapp we will keep you anonymous so if you're ever worried about sending us anything in case we see it we don't anyway luki does but yeah it's always an on head to this episode's description for more information because we

want to know your hacks your slutty shoes like what's going on in your life your dilemmas any questions you've got for us your dupes just like stuff that we can all share together and be one big happy family we love it and ask us questions question for ashley as i can't be the only one wondering about this since friday's episodes after a few weeks back ashley mentioned she could not sit down to do a pee after a bum up and she used a shiwi what did you do when you needed a poo side note from a Glasgow girl it makes me laugh so much when you do the Scottish if I'd have read that at the beginning I would have read it Scottish what do you do when you need a poo Ashley what did you do when I was in Scotland I did notice people looking at me do you think

it's because you've tried to do their accent really badly and they're like like you dick I feel like they would have come over maybe I just looked like a twat right so when I had my bum implants um by the way keep getting questions are people like where did you get the bbl done and i love being fucking obnoxious and responding back didn't have a bbl i've not had anything bbl ish done to my bum yeah i like being obnoxious sometimes do you know what i mean yeah um anyway i actually very rarely pooed so the morning of the bum art yeah do tell us every poo They give you a suppository. They do?

They do this now the morning of your C-section as well. Stop. What a good idea. What a good idea? So, well, this is what my doctor recommended. Obviously, we're not doctors. We need to keep saying that. So it was just a glycerin suppository.

Okay. And you put it up your bum. Okay. Like a few hours before you have the op and have a full clear out. Does it happen quite quickly then, the poo poo? It comes straight out. Oh. Have you ever used one?

Never. Oh, you'd love it. After I had Thea, apparently something went up my bottom, but I think it was a painkiller. Painkiller, yeah. So before you have a section, it's all a good idea to do it as well. If I put a paracetamol up my bottom, or any form of painkiller... Yeah, I think it still works.

Would it work more? Why up the bottom? People put, like, pills and shit up their arse, don't they? Why? Don't know, it's just like a novel thing to do. Because after the section, they did put something on my bottom. So I can't walk for Wall Street when they put coke in the arsehole. Okay.

I just wondered why sometimes, like... Because maybe it's like a pain relief for that area. Localised area. I don't know. Anyway, so they gave me this suppository. So all I had to clear out... Did you do a massive poo? Yeah, it's just like everything came out.

And then, obviously, when you have surgery, you're on painkillers. And antibiotics. And antibiotics. so um i didn't need to go for one for a few days but my doctor had this nurse that you could hire alongside him i don't know what's going to come now so um it was uh quite expensive to get the nurse but because i lived that was the problem wasn't it yeah yeah and obviously you can't like get on a train to go back to see the doctor as part of the package she came to see me that's incredible isn't it like it was so worth it for me i'm fucking trained to so incredible at the

minute anyway this nurse put me on this special diet shout out paulina and it was like a really high fiber diet and i had to drink this special stuff and basically she was like if you do everything i tell you to you will be fine because i was like i'm really worried about how you go and also you've seen my incisions they're not actually near my bum hole they're at the top of my yeah they're not in your hole they're at the top they shouldn't get poo on them no but still it's the infection risk the pushing yeah i remember after a section it's the it's the pushing and i think i had my first poo like two days after and it was fine did you sit on the toilet to poo though he the doctor gets you sitting on your bum an hour after the operation

holds the poo isn't he wants you sitting on it i thought you couldn't sit on it i don't understand You're not allowed to sit on your bum for extended periods of time, but to sit on the toilet for ten minutes or, like, he wants you sitting on it. Because I remember when we did them, well, we used to work, we did about three and none of them were great. I remember a girl literally couldn't sit on her bottom. Because it hurt so much. She was allowed.

This was a long time ago, though. So he wants you to sit on the toilet. Yeah. And the poo just... Came out, fine. when i had um you had to wipe back to front there you always should though no front to back front to back yeah yeah i can't remember what operation it was and i had one of those on one of those things with a hole and i managed to poo onto the garment through the no i didn't get it on the

garment i managed to open it enough and poo through the garment hole that's fucking skills that isn't it yeah i think i got a lot of like hemorrhoids from post-surgery like being on painkillers and stuff yeah so the poo that's how she pooed guys with not that much difficulty there you go there you go um bum implants 10 out of 10 would recommend they look good yeah they do look good to be fair do they feel weird like ever do you ever like know you've got them or is it like your boobs where literally you do not feel like you've got them did they at first or yeah yeah at first and like some days you'd have one side that was a bit like off but oh really obviously curls going to the gym is a lot fucking a lot easier and i don't know is it long term

it's up to you a lot of gym trips just be careful anyway bit of a live rant go bitch tell us i just had to do a weekend of solo parenting whilst my partner slash baby dad went on a stag do to ibiza firstly go enjoy yourself on weekend to myself with our 15 month bald son no sarcasm involved i remember the days i'd have been a psycho bitch with him going away on a lad's trip but now it's absolutely utter bliss i even packed for him dropped him off at the airport to make sure he's out of my hair house is tidy don't need to consider him in the weekend agenda i can have a long bath watch what i want when the baby's down absolute yeah you'd have to Tidy up after them.

You can make the meal for one. You can lazy pig around. Anyway, to the rant. Why is it when a man who is surgically attached to their phone usually goes away, forgets how to use it to connect to Wi-Fi? Now, again, it's a lad's holiday. So I don't actually expect much. I'm very chilled on that front.

however when i just make a quick passy ag comment more for my own amusement to him about forgetting he had a family all weekend and your son is fine thanks for asking he's just gone into full-on bitch fit mode like oh you're the only one probably playing billy big bollocks all weekend sitting on your overpriced tables with the leeching girls trying to get a free go goose hey bitch we've been there um you want it expensive you want to ignore us don't then get on the defense when i decide to make a passing comment on the wind-up anyway i was gonna be nice and go and buy him some recovery food for later when he gets home but i decided with his attitude he does not deserve it so we'll pretend that you don't have a caring girlfriend and family now you can sort yourself

out tomorrow pal while you're dying in your pit also bit of a petty polly he asked me to shave his back before he went oh my god ed does this i said of course hon tactically leaving weird all over his back and i sent him on his way think he was all smooth and fresh that's brilliant oh my god that's so funny she's right do you know they sometimes go away and imagine for a second a mother went on a hen yeah which is fine

and then didn't check how the baby was all weekend didn't ring up didn't check we would then be a what a bad mother

but then men they can go they can forget that we even exist I don't talk to Ed when he's away I actually ignore his messages

that's clever because you always have like you and then he thinks what's she doing do you remember that day me and Ocean Beach what's she doing

we were in bed at mine and he got who it's when he got he said what was it not when he got his watch stolen and he'd come back

from that Ibiza stag I was in bed and I was like I'm gonna have to go I'm gonna have to go and he came home and she was like right

and he literally looked broken he was broken and I was like and he was trying to like we were like oh did you have a heavy one and he was like

I'm fine yeah he came and was like oh I'm a bit rough are we no you're absolutely fine it's fine it's quite quiet there's nothing the watch

and he's like oh it's only a watch arm looks lighter than normal ah well it's one of those things it happens doesn't it and then i knew it was about to go down i was like i'm gonna get out of bed and go now and i could think i know that ed was thinking please don't go please um yeah i do the other way around because then if you're the one that's constantly blowing their phone but she's not is she she's chill she's chill but in general we'll find them we won't

talk yeah if you don't want to talk you're not gonna know where i am so it takes you two hours to respond to a message it'll take me six yeah where am i you want to know do you know it annoys me though right do you know it really annoys me with men they know that you're at home with the baby because you have to have the baby whereas with men you don't know what they're up to women they know you're at home but the kids so they're not scared yeah so maybe next time you go on a girl's night you need to be like yeah i've sorted a sitter so i can do and then don't reply and let's see who's playing isn't it wild that you have to keep these games up even when you're like married with kids and stuff something interesting i saw on the podcast i mentioned it about the sex

thing there was another little point that i wanted to say this woman who was um a sex therapist or whatever she was was um on this podcast and she was saying always keep your own shit right never ever because she's a proper professional on this she was like never just make it you and him always have your own life and always let him have his own mates you have to and she said one time that she realized and how important this was she said that she'd gone for a meal she was going for a meal with her husband and a few others and she for some reason they came separately maybe they came from work and she got there earlier than him so she watched him arrive she watched him greet everyone she watched him go to the bar to get a drink and she was like i forgot that my husband

wasn't just my husband that he's somebody else he was steve and she had now watched steve come through the door and his charm watch the girls look at him watch him go and ask for a drink rather than just seeing him as dad husband comes in and leaves that he's a person and it made me fancy him so much more to see him in like an outside and i thought that's a really fucking good point remember that when you just think they're your husband they get boring remember they are somebody and that one of the things i always do which really helps which keeps on your toes if you're feeling whatever i think what would i think now if i wasn't his girlfriend yeah so like do you know what i mean so say you go somewhere say like you're not there right and

you work at a butty shop and he comes in for a butty you think fuck yeah and you go mate look at him look at it like that sometimes how would you feel if you were on holiday and you saw him playing the pool with the kids you'd think fucking hell there's a mcdill over there i think that's a nice way to you are right though babe about this rant like it's so unfair that as women we have to logistically me and lauren were just having a conversation then like thea's going to her dad's house and she was saying she needs to pack a raincoat and wellies and this and that like we have why do we have to think of this everything falls onto us and including like when ed went away on that stag do i think teddy was five yeah he was very little wasn't it and then everyone made

a bit of a thing about me not going to the wedding which was when he was about 10 weeks and i was like hang on like yeah i was just a bit like well if that had been me just giving birth and then fucking off like but it was him and oh he's fine he needs a break yeah it's just one of those things and we're allowed to run and that's what we're here for so if anyone else got around do you know what i do now don't fucking do anything that i don't want to i agree with that i'm trying to get better one thing catch me doing one thing that i don't want to fuck i like that i don't i don't go to family things i don't want to i don't hang around with people that i don't want to i don't need to be in these situations i don't want to fucking be in i like that i think

that's a very good way to get a lot of people off along but you're in a calm it's worth it isn't it and as well though i don't want people to do things that they don't want if you don't want to come to my kids party don't like fine let's all do what we want to do yeah okay oh when they has a birthday party no one's there here we go a zen pic warning oh hey guys i'm an og listener here just listening to this friday's episode and got to the part about a zen pic lauren do you want to give a bit of a backstory about what a zen pic is no basically it's an injection that you take and it's meant to be suppresses your appetite or something and people are taking it so they and like crazy lose weight anyway i was listening um to the diary of a ceo we might as well get

started getting paid from them because i've mentioned him loads about fasting and they got onto a zen pic and how it actually works i've heard this bit as well it's really scary oh my god this is the same episode about fasting that i've just told you all about a zen pic depletes your muscle mass rather than your fat and that's why people are getting a zen pic face and their face because they're losing the muscle hello yeah some people might not mind but remember we use muscles every day i feel like in older age i want to look not skinny toned like as in like not skinny i'd rather look toned and curvy totally agree then as mp totally great one thing i've noticed is people that are a bit bigger when they're older their face looks so

much nicer yet and now she's on a zen pic yeah honestly i agree and i think when i'm older i'll be the same i don't want to be thin actually when i'm older toned yeah i'll try and look after myself actually you need that weight for your face but funny you don't even need to listen to any of the podcast guys because we listen to them for you our listener listens to them and then we just give you the best bits zen pic as well has that'll go soon be gone long gone there'll be something else it's been linked to like birth defects and stuff what was that other thing everyone was taken not a zen pic before a zen pic saxander yeah that's the one i had everyone there's something hated it there'll be something else there'll be something else anyway just

whatever eat what the fuck you want as well who gives a flying fuck anyway well you would if you were if you felt overweight and you're uncomfortable yeah but then i'd kind of do it healthily i honestly think like these quick fixes for things don't work some beds fuck you up in the end nice long time and i can vouch for that crash dieting can actually mesh a whole reproductive system and makes your skin fucked because it makes your skin loose hair teeth and skin loose because of the weight loss and causes premature aging what's the point so honestly like look at look into biohacking that's all i'm saying i'll look into it whole foods you know i only cook with whole butter i only drink whole milk and it sounds fatty and stuff but it's actually really good

i only like a whole lot of cock whole um right do you want me to read this one hi girls love your pod i am a long time listener but i haven't written in until now congratulations ashley thank you yesterday i found out i'm four weeks pregnant at six months postpartum so she's got a six month old and she's four weeks pregnant for a bit of context it took me and my husband three years to get pregnant with my little girl plus i had to have fertility treatment on top of that due to my pcos this will be our second child and there will be a 14 month age gap as they're due in march should everything go well i haven't lost my baby weight yet i'm literally just getting into a routine starting to feel like myself my daughter sleeps through the night most nights or is up max

one time oh my god well done babes but i feel so much guilt that it's taking me away from her any advice about going from one to two i'm absolutely terrified and in so much shock my husband's really happy because he's always wanted to i bet he is and he didn't want a big age gap but in my head i thought it'll probably take another few years i've had a great postpartum period of antenatal classes mum groups baby classes going out for lunch bonding with my daughter i just feel like my world has turned upside down i get that don't forget though babe you've still got another eight months to nine months yet because we're actually pregnant for ten aren't we you've actually still got i know you're gonna be pregnant but you've got a good

almost a year left of still doing all that babe you don't want to see why i haven't this is a blessing so just honestly like imagine if this was 18 months on and you were still trying you'd be like i'd do anything to be pregnant right now that's such a good point ashley i never like to moan about my pregnancy because i'm so grateful to be healthy and pregnant like i know that sounds really silly but I actually am and I'm that's why like you always say to me like you don't actually moan that much when you're pregnant I don't like I'm so grateful and feel so blessed so I think that's because you've had a loss as well yes and I think that makes you and I think because you had the panic with your egg count yeah and all that type of thing I think that has

given you made you think that babies aren't just given to everyone it's not a given remember that and I think that's why you're so grateful now. Yeah. I think everything happens for a reason. Yeah, you're right. And the thing is, I've got friends, I've got one friend who has got kids in the same school year. Woo!

So they're like twins. Listen, that's better. You've not thrown all the plastic shit away yet. I agree. You're still in baby mode. You're still up to date with all the baby shit and all the gadgets and all the this and all the that. Okay.

The fashions of the outfits haven't changed that much. You can probably hand straight down. exactly so if it is another girl um but even if not like baby girls things like that you can reuse you've got all the stuff out you're in the routine of baby life and also like just remember like when you're doing school pick up and drop off very true you've only got really a year whether in high school and primary exactly do you know what this is great i think yeah everything happens for a reason and i think what you're doing now and i understand i do understand why i think i would have been exactly the same with thea anyone would anyone would but i think in these situations what

you have to look at is there is no point sitting here worrying about the bad things because it's not going to change no focus on the positive don't worry about your weight my advice with the way we roll with it now just try your best to keep you know keep yourself active and keep your steps up maybe 10 000 steps a day buggy walks imagine imagine you've got your body just back how you kind of wanted it as best as possible like ashley you've lost the way you've got yourself feeling good and then you get pregnant again after all that it's all the same it's all relative so i think keep going you're gonna have two gorgeous babies you know what to expect i would honestly look at the positives of this i understand why you're not but i would look at this everything's

going to be over and done within one big chunk and i honestly think when your husband's thrilled do you know when people are like oh going from one to two going from two to three going from three to four hun going from nought to one agree is the worst i haven't done one to two but i've gone from it's fine i've gone from one to four i think that's a nice age gap that we've got with the agree i think nought to one is the most traumatic experience and then anyone that hashtag two in detail who gives a fuck yeah i agree enjoy it crack on enjoy it and wine is your friend after you've got the baby out remember that brilliant i think we gave good advice there right bargain bubba bargain bubba bargain bucket bargain buckets is bargains it's dupes it's hacks

it's tricks it's tips we want them all send them in because sharing is caring and hot girls don't gatekeep now lauren are you happy with me to get cracking you get cracking i've got some men to look for as well okay right aldi slip silk hair band dupes i've got a few packets of these they're absolutely stunning so slip is a brand that makes like really lovely silk pillowcases and hair bubbles the aldi ones are 100 silk oh that's good for the cost i was seeing if i've got one on my wrist i honestly and they've done them in like really cute summery colors like a lilac um a nude oh my god they're so cute and i think they're like four pounds 99 so silk um bobbles and hair ties little hack for you don't snap your hair that's why you should always use them and you should

always sleep on a silk pillowcase another rabbit hole that i've gone into as well little hack again is copper pillowcases are anti-aging so i've read i've read gwyneth paltrow's um book and she is obsessed with copper pillows and pillowcases what do you mean copper like it's got bits of copper in it because it's really good for anti-aging okay um liddle do a perfume that smells exactly like the lancome one really she's not put the name but i'm sure someone will send this is a big one have you seen them the Ego Hermes sliders

how how they're the exact same they are the exact same and the colourways are so much nicer so nice have you seen the glittery ones

yeah how but have you seen they've done the chyprees and no I've not seen them all I've just no I saw the chyprees

I saw those no they've done both and they're like 15 quid the colours are stunning how so yeah and from the distance you cannot tell

unless you know they don't do that colour you don't even want to be yeah no do you know can i be honest seeing so many dupes and stuff nowadays is making me think about twice about spending such big amounts of money because tilly floss down the road has saved herself 550 pounds she can gone on the fence she can go to ego she spent 550 pounds less than me so she's got more money in a bank to buy loads more stuff than i have for something that from a distance and who looks up close anyway looks exactly the same who's the clever who's the sensible one here tilly floss down the road is super drug have done

a dupe range of perfumes and they have santal blush the tom ford one and she said it's really really good the pimple stickers that ashley talks about i love my pimple stickers um what is the brand called i can't remember does it go something like a weight something i've got the hello kitty ones something it's no it's not patchology it's something i'll tag them um anyway she said home bargains have done a dupe 24 pack for 99p fucking hell there's loads of korean skincare in home bargains at the minute is there they've got like tons of korean skincare run and it's all three pounds 99 and this girl sent me like a video of all the stuff that she got and she added it all up like she went online it should have cost something like 180 quid and she got it for like

20 pounds perfect she's got retinols like everything hanky panky knickers no are on brand alley really the lidl fake tan didn't know they even did i don't even go i'll be honest i don't going to little's really really really good um the dior lip oil dupe and aldi we've spoken about that before it's really really good um epiderm cream for anyone with psoriasis or oh okay epiderm cream three quid and it's absolutely amazing it's a lot of people suffer with that i'm just gonna reel through this really quick because we need to wrap up but i've got something for you celebrity beauty routines and how much they cost coming in first margot robbie 1900 i'm not surprised and that's just on this is just skincare number two zoe kravitz have you seen her before

she's fucking beautiful and his skin is perfect 1200 vanessa hudgens is a month 727 um hayley bieber 500 jennifer aniston 500 selena gomez 300 kylie jenner 249 and ariana grande i mean the realistically zero because they'll get it all free so actually it's nothing anyway anyway do you want to know my man of the week uh well let's have a little break okay and then i'm a bit keen i'm keen you are keen but we'll have a break and then we'll hear all about the man of the week welcome back welcome back welcome back welcome back okay i'm going to tell you a dilemma of a listener and then i'm going to give you a man of the week go on yeah hi girls this is something

I'd love to hear your opinion on and also the audience if they could to paint the picture I'm in my mid-20s with no children my best friend has a little son who I absolutely idolize since she became a mum I feel she hardly makes the effort with me anymore despite me always making a conscious effort to do things one-on-one and also with a son he's four now by the way and the most understanding friend however I do feel like this is becoming a one-sided friendship I always give her the benefit of the doubt but just because she has a kid why does that mean I always have to be the one to initiate a meet-up do you think it's just important for mums to make them as much effort as it is for us who aren't mums she's always saying she's up the wall but aren't we all

that's what people without kids say i think i also feel that there would be a lot of friends who would have stopped making the effort a long time ago but how do you have this conversation without sounding like you're jealous of a life or something makes me sad to even write this because deep down i know what your thoughts would be but i'd love to hear them i don't think she's in the wrong i think she should what she maybe needs to do is be the instigator and just be like babes are you free because if no one said that to me i would never do this is what she's saying so what she's saying is i'm sick of being it if i'm not the instigator i don't do it same she's saying i'm sick of doing it and i don't understand why just because she's not saying this in a nasty way just

because she's got a child why i should always have to be the one trying like i'm getting nothing back and it's because she says she's busy but aren't we all my comment to that and i hate being that person that's got kids and says this you don't know up the wall till you've got kids yeah so i remember and i think of this quite a lot do you remember um we do you remember well it doesn't really matter about name allison at work we were really good friends at work and i never and i look back now and i never understood the child thing she had children a lot earlier than me and i used to think i don't fucking stop blaming everything having kids i did and when she had a day off like when they used to leave work because the kids were old and we'd all sit there and we'd be like

oh the kids the kids are real again honestly and we think that they just go home and watch loose women all day and i remember thinking i remember she'd be like oh i can't work every saturday because i've got the kids and i used to think to myself shouldn't have had kids then honestly i'll be honest because i didn't understand it when she was like it's a get to eight and i'd always stay later to tidy up she'd be like i'm so sorry i've got to go bang on eight and i used to think oh fucking nice for you but it's so that she could put the kids to bed or because her mum was yeah i'm sorry i'm sorry because i did it too i did it too and the funny thing is one of our directors there didn't have kids either and then she went and had kids and when we both came back

off maternity we had like a little meeting she was sound and i was like she was never sound she was sound to me and i was like and i was like wow and she went don't because we both had kids at the same time i was like wow that's yeah and she's like how funny that i used to she was basically saying she used to think the same as us about the staff like oh you got your kid oh your kids ill great i've got fine staff i feel totally differently now and i understand it so i would say she probably is up the wall yeah um and i wouldn't take that as a criticism i wouldn't take it as a negative i would just continue to make the effort maybe make a couple of jokes about it but unfortunately for a while yeah i wouldn't do anything if it wasn't me um i wouldn't say leave

the friendship i don't think it's that dramatic i just think yeah she's up the wall mate right gave the week baby we've not done this for a while i'm gonna make it quick we've been up the wall sam from northampton would make a fantastic boyfriend he's 30 he's a homeowner and he went to you i love that he went and he's important and he went to uni in the usa which means he's well traveled and he's got an idea of other other people and he's good looking um okay show me a picture one minute he's tall are we gonna put a picture yeah yeah i'll put in the picture if i just need to confirm that he said yeah but she says he has but i just want to check it oh you're gonna have to zoom in the one in the yellow he's like he looks muscly and quite big hi sam now

swipe and he's in the middle then and the suit nice big hands what watch is he wearing ashley no uh-uh give me that phone back give it no okay we don't do that right one minute what is it it looks premium it's like a brightling sorry um anyway that honestly doesn't matter james doesn't even have a watch he hates what just wear it he just doesn't wear them ed's got his robbed so it's fine okay so yeah that's what we know about him this has come from his friend his instagram name is samuel j heath oh mrs heath so samuel j heath and he's from northampton i don't know don't want to say it they can find it if they want to be that weird i don't know if stuff has started freaking me out you know

yeah about saying names they said i'm just becoming more aware of just all sorts you know people that are really nosy and that want to stalk and stuff they could maybe i don't know i don't know it said i watched this tiktok i'm not keeping it a secret don't get wrong you could easily find out i just feel weird any of your like close family or kids birthdays on social media and their full names you could find it out it's not a secret i just i don't know i just lately i feel a little bit protective of my bubble but then i still post pictures anyway guys you can get in touch you need to stop doing that lauren if you really care about your kids you wouldn't post them on instagram sorry i've said it so i have been really seriously thinking about this lately

i never show his other kids because they're not mine so the faces don't go on anything that's not my thing but um yeah i've been really really thinking about this thinking about just stopping completely what's the point yeah no are you gaining from apart i only show her because i'm just so madly in love with her and I want everyone to see how beautiful she is but really is it that big a deal

why just because I love her I'm proud of her that's all and she's part of my life she can't get consent no I get it and I am very seriously

considering stopping which I would never have thought I'd do okay anyway you can get in touch and on that very serious note

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