Nip Tuck - D*ck Tattoo & "The Downfall "of Women?

Episode Date: November 19, 2025

Ashley tells us a hilarious story about a past client who had a crazy tattoo. And why is the press so quick to cancel women? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hi loves! I've been opening more than you lately. You're the opener, you start. Hi guys, welcome to Nip Tuck, not giving a fuck. Nobody calls it, nobody, isn't it weird? The progression, the progression from Nip Tuck, not giving a fuck to just Nip Tuck and do you know what I feel really like quite smug about? I feel like you've made it when your name's been shortened that Let people know it as, you know, like, Nip Tuck. Yeah, like Madonna. No, that's her name.

JLo. Yes. So it's like Nip Tuck. Do you know, like, it's not... When we started, it was, oh, have you heard Nip Tuck? And now it's like Nip Tuck, the Nip Tuck girls. We did a giveaway on Patreon. Did we?

To win the Katie Price tickets. Oh, you did. So I bought three tickets, but we didn't end up going. Because it was on Halloween. We did. And the girls did a really gorgeous... They sent us a selfie, didn't they? And they said they'd not been out for like a year

and it was their first night out and they had a really nice time. That's really cute. I love that. That's very nice. We need to do some more giveaways. Is there... This is mainly for our...

Do you remember when we threatened that we were going to do a Louis Vuitton bag giveaway and we've not got around to it, mate? We need to do a Christmas giveaway. We need to stop false promises. We're going to sort it out. Why don't we do a Christmas one? Yeah, obviously.

What, guys, what would you want? What do you look for in a giveaway? Within reason. Do you look for, I don't know, a night at Grantley Hall? That would be a good one Or do you look for a handbag or a Dyson Airwrap or

Is it a hall? Do you like a box of stuff? Grantley Hall might be a good one, yeah Okay, right Do we promise we're going to do a giveaway at Christmas? We'll text Tony P and we'll sort it out now. Okay, there we go

Darlene's will put that on Patreon. Also I'm going to London soon i'm going to learn and i booked to stay in claridge's oh that's actually one of ed's birthday presents because he's never stayed in claridge's before and it's at christmas did you see the videos of them putting the decorations up the other day so yeah we're going to stay there but now i'm a bit upset that i didn't book the rosewood the rosewood is meant to be so it's the new rosewood oh the new rosewood so there is no check-in or out time now that there's no when you're traveling there that's important because how annoying when you

get somewhere and you think i'll make the day of it i'll get their first thing and you're like what do i do now room start it's i've heard oh god go on it's 1700 pounds no that's no No, no, that's extortionate. So it's got the new Bob-omb restaurant inside it. That's extortionate. Maybe we could... Yeah. But no, that is really...

It's between two rooms. It's between two and then, you know... Right, no, wait. So there's no check-in or out time. It's got the longest swimming pool in Mayfair. Great, can't wait to swim across that. Me and you bombing it. Bombing it and doggy paddling to the other side.

then um all every room is a suite there isn't like an option of just a room so you get like a little living area which explains the cost a little bit more then you get the room and um i like to just go to expensive hotels and stay in the the cupboard though have like 24 hour butler service as well do they not and you get the rolls royce oh okay free car within a perimeter so now we're thinking half it between two people what would we have spent that day anyway on coffee like on ubers yeah and then you've got the car yeah the swimming pool i've always wanted to see how long i can swim london leisure center would be like a tenner yeah so we've saved on that practically and yeah so pretty much at this point i would say it's free yeah we need to go we need

to go girl math so basically yeah the rosewood in london i was a bit like but then at the same I'm going for Christmas and that is the place it is a place so yeah going there what are you going to do while you're there you're going to get some form of shop like so I'm going to get there and I'm going to check in leave the car do you're going to drive there yeah Ed doesn't get trains okay just because it's like stinky people and stuff well also don't forget he was a lorry driver for years so he absolutely james doesn't mind driving either buzzes off driving does he do this thing where if he beats some the traffic or like gets a few minutes off the thing like get a grip and he loves that big drive so then gonna get there gonna book him for well we're

booked in for afternoon tea i took my mum there for a birthday do you remember yes have a bit of a mooch then gonna have dinner in the big restaurant there and it's like a tasting menu thing go to bed wake up the next day check out get to harrods for opening go in harrods i take pictures of every person's so we have a list right of who we need to buy for yeah and while i'm there i take you say we me and you probably have photos right everything so we'll go in the toy bit and i'll go saskia teddy yeah then on the drive home i fully organize it and i send to my pa what to buy to get delivered at the house that's already wrapped right so you look and then you don't order online no so i go around the shop you pick and i pick

what i want and i take a picture of each thing and i write on the picture like snowy yeah like mom yeah and then when i'm in the car on the way back i get we decide our finals what we're getting then i send to joe like can you order these for snow can you order this for ted can you order this for whoever yeah because then i'm not carrying shit around that makes sense and they order it all from harrods still or just wherever you just get the info necessarily and also now like online you get so bougie actually i go to smiths and run around like a headless chicken throwing shit into the bag but then it's such a nice no it's not don't get me wrong yeah like i've done that before and you panic yeah you do you do and then they don't want any of it

and and also like with my house at the minute it's absolutely so stupid having all these toys because they've got all these toys so they get those Ikea boxes they pull them out I then shout at them to tidy it up or I have to tidy it up for ages if they all have four toys

and they're on a circle of one in one out I totally agree I always just before Christmas because I obviously know what I've got them I have a cull and I get rid of a load of stuff it's nice to do like a let's donate to charity yeah and then just after Christmas we have another cull

because then they've got all the new stuff and I'm like, right, realistically, what are you going to use from your... The first cull is a secret one where they don't know if they're throwing things away or took them away. But that's like bits of broken toy and stuff. Shy, yeah, shy.

And then we have a second cull in January and get rid of what we can there. But I do agree. I think it's unbelievably ridiculous. Really ridiculous. It's gluttonous. It's gluttonous. It is because we just spend so much money.

We actually don't, and I never have with Thea, I'll be honest. I've never been one of those where she comes downstairs and the whole downstairs is full. I've never done that. quite like

things that like extra at the last minute because I think oh no. You panic and then you think I've not got them enough

and then you panic and you go to Primark and buy them a load of crap. Like do you remember the guinea pig that had babies? Yeah, I bought two.

I bought a guinea pig and a rabbit that had babies and the babies and no. To be fair that was quite a good present. And then they go like this

and you go and the babies are there. And she did love it. I did like that actually. But yeah, I agree. I do think you're very sensible

and you're like we're not doing it this year Frank I'm not having it and then a few days before Christmas you look at what

you've got and you think there's not enough there's not enough this is their childhood and then you run and buy them crap and it's so stupid

the good thing when they get older is so the good thing we have now especially with James Aldis who's 12 he's now at an age

where he wants expensive shit and he wants so many of them is he into the gaming stuff one of them is yeah but he's more

into the like I want a not designer but maybe like a stone not stone you know what I mean not designer designer but a whatever coat um and i want these cool trainers that are 150 pounds and

he by the time what my mom and dad at that age used to do was say there's 100 quid in a card yeah and then my nan would give me 50 and it'd add up to whatever you wanted and then on boxing day i'd go and buy yeah and that but when they're younger oh my god so thea's birthday is just um after saskia's saskia's 21st yeah theirs is 29th and oh my god god love her she's such a little cutie she was i was like right what do you want and she gave me this list and it's just a list of utter shit but like really cheap shit and i was like theo is that like hair bubbles or something yeah and things um labubu clothes but fake ones obviously i'll just get my farmers in and and then she was like there's something else it was like a squishy and then another squishy like 50p things

and i was like yeah but say what enjoy i know i was just like all right darling that's fine she said and then she went i was thinking because i'm eight eight presents and the tiny shitty things but however having said that what we tend to do with her and what i've done with her and it's just naturally fallen like this she always has everything like and she's not a big toy girl she's not so and if she wants something through the year i get it so but what we tend to do is we have a birthday weekend and this is clever for two reasons number one you don't have to have a party because if you sell it to them correctly and you go right up to you darling we can have a party it'll last a few hours it costs hundreds of pounds like but it'll last a few hours or you

can have a full weekend of whatever you want they generally pick the weekend you don't have to have she's never had a party because i've sold it to her this way yeah so what we're doing is on the friday we're going to the everyman cinema yeah just me and her on the evening and we're going to call it last date before i'm eight i know and i did start and there's a chance that i'm going to message added extras for tickets saying i thought that would like picture of your and her face on i think i might do that okay i did when i as soon as i said the words last day before i'm out all of a sudden i got a little bit that sent me that little phrase got me going with with extras so we're going there which on its own is expensive she's like can we get a milkshake

we love cheesy chips she's like can we share some cheesy chips so we're gonna go and watch zootopia 2 don't know so we're doing that and then on the saturday on temu on you oh my god absolutely and then on saturday um we she i said to her do you want to invite some of your friends like what should we go to like a bouncy thing that they do jumpy up and down anything and she went no just just my family because she's got two brothers and a sister so she's like i don't need my friends there three brothers well he tommy's not gonna do anything is he so we're going to bouncing him around so we're going to imagine them all stood doing that bounce oh they will ninja warrior yeah um but again that is then 50 quid then you've got my so it adds right up then

she wants her ears pierced so we've made more rather than buying the presents somewhere near me is there somewhere yeah but i rang him and i said can i book and he was like we don't book for children the reason being he's like i'm gonna be dead honest with you love why it is is we waste our time he said because a lot of the kids come in and chicken out and chicken out and i was like get it done to them when they're when they can't run or when they're just before they can run away at the portland they pace them as soon as get in the bedroom what color diamond would you like would you like some three to five cc's some tape extensions oh those ears look like they need pinning back let's do that now but they let's do it while we do your mummy's tummy tuck

so she i said i said to him i was like look i totally appreciate it my kid is not a chicken or outer but i totally appreciate it so he said the only thing we'll do you come in you pay us cash straight away and if they get there and sit down and they won't do it you're not getting the cash back and he thought i think he thought i was gonna argue back i was like then at the same time i think maybe have that chat with the mum and take a deposit so that the kid doesn't see mum handing over the cash and then feel pressured in well i don't know but i just said listen i'm not bothered i told thea i explained it to her and i was like if you don't do it you don't do it i'm not bothered but she was like no i'm doing it i'm doing it sass had hers done at claire's accessories

and they did both i think i sent you the video yeah they did both at the same time one two three and she was like and then snowy had hers done at a chemist yeah so in hail there's a really really good chemist did they come to the house um or was that someone else did somebody have actually no i thought someone came to the house and did megan and but she's not doing it at the minute right um because she's got that really big business now with the evil eye bracelets right yeah tori so she came to the house to do it and that was like fully wow amazing but they do it a barry bladen's hail you know where they can have their chicken pox yes are you gonna do that by the way i don't think james will allow but let's not even go there on the vaccine chat okay because

that is a that is a ton of that is a piercing on babies yeah but people are triggered but i mean i'm not either do if you want to do it don't if you don't people get triggered as a message no i don't want to know your opinion um but i have heard piercing horror stories do you know what you need to get for her if she's getting the spray the hydranity spray yes but you need to get the hydranity one right can you send me send you the link now i'm also going to get another piercing while we're there because i thought it's like when you go to a wedding shop and your mate puts the wedding dress on i'll be the mum like can you pierce my ears too but i'm going to get mine done again because my thirds have healed up so we're going to go and do that together so yeah

my point is if you can push them to activities it's more fun they get to do more and you spend your money on that rather than plastic shit and tell me about your tattoo removal right so as i mentioned on the boner i'm having some surgery done in the new year and i've got a tattoo that is going to be it's that one uh so it was jane three line one the whatever the hell that is it was james that actually said to me lauren the tattoo and i was like oh it'll cut out and he went lauren it goes around your back the scar's not gonna i was like fuck do you not remember when loads of people used to oh my god do you remember the dick oh my god yeah can i just retell this story because no retell that but no we i can't cut mine out half of it's going to be

cut away so i need to get it off right so as you guys know lauren and i worked in cosmetic surgery for years and years that's how we came to fall in love and i had a lady and her son come into my consultation room one tuesday afternoon and she came in for a tummy tuck and she was saying you know i've i know i want a tummy tuck and she lifted her top up i said can i have a look to check that you need because she was like a tiny lady and i thought might not be suitable yeah anyway there was a tattoo um on her hip and it was an erect penis with balls with balls and it no like a hard dick and in swirly writing underneath it it said i love dick she looked like a normal person

and i just was like oh yeah oh so i was like well so you want to keep you we'll get rid of but we would like what are we doing with the dick do you want the dick cut off so she was like oh no i want to keep the dick okay so then i bet you were expected to say can we remove the dick and you were ready to say yep we can get rid of all that for the main reason i yeah sometimes people would say i've had this silly chinese symbol here by the way no shade i don't want it out yeah you know i've grown up whatever so anyway then i of course was like okay so the the dick like may cause or maybe a smaller dick you know we're gonna have to navigate around the dick to do this procedure so i'm gonna have to take a picture of this yeah because we need to check with the

surgeon i ran into the back office and i was like guys wait till you see this give me the digital camera give me the digital camera right now so they're all like where's the digital camera so get the digital camera and okay back sweating right okay just just take a picture the dick and then i was like right anyway we've wrapped up that and show the surgeon as well i go to the assistant i throw in the sd card like take a look and i'm like plug that in everyone's crowding around like with the brew like oh but in the office depending which surgeon it was if it was my very very favorite now retired um

lovely loved him irish surgeon i would have loved to have sent that to him dead serious and be like hi thingy um no probably say his name gets better can you have a look at this so then um i got like i forgot about the dick and whatever next thing like she wanted the surgery quite soon so she had to go to london to meet with the surgeon so she could have it in this he rings me what the fuck why did you not friend me for that and he's like so like deadpan and he was like what the fuck i love dick what i love but she just didn't look like someone that loved dick like she was like you know like she clearly did but also her son was in the room her son that was probably like our age as well the whole thing was off was just like really really fucking weird have i ever told

you that story no like it's just the the shit that yeah there's just so so so many so yeah i'm getting my tattoo so yeah that was like that was an interesting there were some wild stories from that day i feel like any time that you work with the public there's mad shit oh my gosh no lauren the tiktok that i sent in i haven't looked at it right let me get it open i feel like our podcast is all you saying i sent it and me saying i didn't look like and you just continue to send them listen to this right so we've got loads of girlies um especially on patreon but we know that listen who are in the industry yeah and whether that's the industry of brows lashes makeup hair um all the things so there's this tiktok and this girl has put i'll share it on patreon i'm bored people

in the beauty industry tell me your worst client experience i'm not talking about a no-show i'm talking something bad mental right here's the tell us lauren i've sent it you turned up at a client's house to do her makeup at 2 30 p.m and she offered me a line wow a line do you remember when i did that solo episode um and i spoke about my career when i used to do a lot of hollywood and vaginal waxing and i got bollocked proper bollock for that clip i got bollocked for that basically what i said i said about the time like and i'm sorry but it's true like when i've been farted on and when there had been yeast infections and I'd had to go down there and listen at the time though they would never have known this was fucking 10 years ago they would never have known I was so kind so

professional like when I got farted on I didn't even like I was just so nice about I was like it's fine but then obviously 10 years later I'm retelling these stories and people were writing like this is gonna put people off having intimate waxing oh fuck off just clean your fanny before you go for one that's it like oh it's not difficult and no one felt sorry for me as the victim in all of this like what the fuck if you do a sneaky fart like it's fine i was begged to do a pregnancy test by a brand new client as i was heavily pregnant so she could take the test back to her mum who wanted to send her back home to her country but wouldn't force her if she proved she was pregnant what she must have found her on facebook i wonder how many pregnant people

have been asked like will you do this for me so i can pretend i bet that's a thing no one ever asked me but i bet that's the thing you know oh my god stop i left a woman to get dressed after her spray tan once and she was taking forever and ever i knocked on the door for a second time and slowly opened it to see if she was okay she was knocking back a bottle of wine and had dribbled wine all over herself i think that's great well she clearly had a well a tan and wine makes you feel better yeah absolutely something must have gone on for her to feel the need to do that oh my god right another topic i want to talk about we're a little bit late with it but i as you know don't particularly go on tiktok and stuff so i sometimes miss what's going

on molly may i want you to tell me i watch the series i'm going to tell you my opinion in a minute but first this isn't your opinion actually of course but i want you to tell me i've heard there's been a lot of backlash on socials from about that program can you tell me what the backlash is um because i know there has been but i don't watch it and then i'm going to tell you my opinion because i watched it and i have an opinion on it so right what did she get what were people saying what was the problem like quite old it is but i still feel like people are still fucking talking there's a couple of women i want to talk about that we've spoken about that are getting this shit unfair like and we're a bit like what so molly's the star like this week though me and

lauren have had a few chats on different things because we're just absolutely fucking sick of the press tearing women down you know every year i talk about the aintree thing and the way that the press are with women that are at aintree and all that kind of stuff but this is the new like women aren't allowed to be boss bitches like right you if you are assertive as a woman then you can be deemed now as being a bitch right like it's not like you're this business powerhouse genius you are a bitch like look at the way that like people ridicule deborah after dragon's death yeah yeah you're right actually and she was just compared to the other if it was a bloke yeah and like listen yeah molly's done this thing it's her choice whatever

if she wants to show a kid doing a shit in the bath or you know there was different things so i believe so i watched it right and i'll tell you what my takeaway from it the kid that i didn't have anything to say about that but my takeaway was when she did the first season right everybody said it wasn't enough there was it didn't feel like there was enough day-to-day stuff there wasn't enough work stuff the people were saying they wanted more they wanted a little bit more truth a little bit more kind of behind the scenes day-to-day so what does she do she gives them that but they're not happy with that that's not good enough so from what i can gather there was some they were pissed off that she went i watched it and i totally understood it maybe it's because i

my job is is similar she'd forgotten to take a product there she'd forgotten she told them that she'd done it we all kind of do that sometimes when you said you replied to an email and you kind of haven't and then she was really stressed about it because they'd gone away with the kids and it's fucking stressful having two children anyway especially when you go away when i went to the caravan i said didn't i you unpack everything you read it is really stressful she's forgotten the product that she's got to shoot and it's stressful right and she was saying like i'm just not enjoying it i feel really stressed now what people forget all the time is that everything is circumstantial based on your life there and then so at that moment that was her

job and she was pissed off that she'd forgotten a product she had to drive home whether it's an amazing job whether she was getting paid a fortune for it whether it's people's dream jobs it doesn't matter you can only you can't sit there every day and think well there are people with a lot less than me it's not reality in reality we together whinge about things that someone else may listen and be like fucking kidding you're whinging about that however everybody does it because you only have you control your own life so if she was a bit fuming that she'd forgotten a product and if she was going i'm just sick of this i'm fed up of doing instead of looking at it and being like well you're so lucky how about just thinking that moment it doesn't matter whether you have a

gorgeous car to drive home in the fact of the matter is you've forgotten something you've fucked up you've got kids stressing you out getting shit done then these brands probably wouldn't still be working exactly and then she's gone home and got it done yeah and whether she drove home in in a g-wagon whether she went to the most amazing it doesn't matter the problem was she'd forgotten something it was work it was stressful and there were children when you're doing these reality shows like you've just got to know that you are going to be like open but then what do you want because people want to see the true inside of a life so she showed that and then you judged for it no yeah what did she do with the mud like don't worry molly it'll all be forgotten

everyone's forgotten about the mud see lauren's forgotten about i forgot the different one it was when jlo was doing that um music video yeah she was doing the reality show about making that big music video right yeah billions of pounds on types of murder yeah but the thing is if people want to see reality you can't then well you can because you can do what you want but then judge the reality she's showing you behind the scenes you're just not happy with what that is so would you prefer it to be toned down well then you're gonna say we didn't see the reality i just find it a bit people are just such dicks and they're so jealous and small-minded whether you are a millionaire whether you have the best job in the world stress is stress in that moment yeah like yeah so what

what do you want from it then look at like amy odd muse all of the you aren't a tiktoker no you're gonna have to fill me in i've seen it i get it you've sent it i get a brand called odd muse yes and she did some things which are by the by of what I'm going to talk you through which I'll touch on but I'm not one to bitch whatever and I think maybe she was advised not the best of like but you know at the time she responded to the video emotionally so there was a video and don't quote me on it say you just go but whereby something about copying designs of other brands and the fact that her dresses were really expensive and they're polyester okay and she came on saying it's not polyester it's something else and it right and then it was polyester i don't

know right so there was that but then like with molly p louise and her they cling on to any little thing so it's like well i'll just shut the fuck up and disappear then yeah what you got one thing you say like the we've all got 24 hours in a day one comment jumped on is that not true yeah we have got 24 hours but i think she said the same did she say the same anyway whatever yeah basically the point is but yeah you're damned if you do some people and you're damned if you don't like yeah tony yeah i want to be like molly may so when people what about people use this as a as a as a fight they're like we've all got the same hours as beyonce like that kind people use that as a as a as a good thing is it aspirational right the way they read these books

and and they've got like all the fucking joe roger and andrew and they quote them and it's yeah rich dad poor dad oh rich mum poor mum like all this shit and i just think women get shit so anyway basically amy odd muse getting attacked by the press her one of her old staff members sold a story to the sun saying allegedly saying um that and we don't know that we don't know anything but saying that she wasn't given a promotion and she was promised one and all this stuff and you know she's telling people in the office and yeah well how do you know what's true matilda jerf as well got a lot of stuff but to be fair there was some very questionable videos um and then now as well page is yeah so i've only seen a bit about that and again we're not i don't

know what happened but it's something to do with she she promised this pink mess and then she made this place for it and then everyone's saying it got shut down but the point of it is we don't we don't know the truth but the point of it is move on it's done the the more worrying thing is it's the headlines isn't it that's the more worrying thing and people saying is this the downfall of xxx why why does it have to be the downfall when the girls are a bit more assertive and they get called a bitch yeah but what like why is everyone keen to find the downfall but why have they done that to a man no and why i've not seen and also why are we looking for the downfall why are we noticing it in life there are ups and downs you make mistakes or things that you think oh didn't

go great that and then you do absolutely incredible things as well yeah and it's up and down so when there is a blip in some way why is it always oh this is the downfall why why can't it just be this was a point that something perhaps should have been done differently anyway let's move on forward and do something great it's always trying to cancel people yeah and i don't understand that but like you say it's very rarely men that you know that man who had the affair what's he called bosh bish bush yeah there was a lot about it but did it ever say is this the downfall of bish bosh nope it didn't it commented they commented on what happened but it was never as if this was the end of his career in fact he went on strictly so and when he got booted off it was never is this

the downfall whereas with women it's waiting like you will build you up and then we'll fucking cancel you but i don't just think it is the press i think there's a huge amount of people it's women a lot of the time and social media that are actually wanting people to get cancelled they will watch you they will take your recommendations but only to a certain degree then when they think you're doing too well they want you to disappear and that it's amazing how who was it i follow and it really summed it up i think it was ruby road it was someone that follow anyway in this screenshot a message and i think it might have been on the close friends to be fair because influencers often have close friends that are influencers um to kind of you know whatever

and someone had messaged them and it said the first message was like six months ago and it was I love you so much. You give me so much hope. Your tips are absolutely amazing. Keep doing what you're doing. And it was in their request. They'd not seen it. Six months later, you are fucking triggering me. And the way they switched and the person screenshot it and was like, six months difference. I've done nothing different, but I've pissed you off today. And you've gone from telling me how great I am, how happy you make me feel and how much you love my recommendations to you don't agree with my point and i'm a fucking bitch and that just says it all that is the public a lot of the time they fan people they fan people what did sonja morgan say oh yeah um a fan is short

for fanatic yes where they will praise you praise you praise you and then they will turn yeah and they will drag you it's not like all of our corporate girlies will know that like people support you when they think you're not as good or you're doing quite well but then when you come up like especially if you're new to a workplace or something like that and you're not a threat they've not worked you out just yet they're lovely yeah and then when you're a threat in their eyes they'll use stuff that you've like been vulnerable and told them and people are just crazy but i think if someone's a threat to you it is a purely a you problem absolutely if you find someone a threat obviously not physically in the workplace or whatever that is a hundred

a you problem because nobody should be a threat to you if anything you should be inspired by them and think what are they doing that i'm not like what can how can i learn from these people there should never be a threat because you just go out and do better and try your best exactly you they're not a threat if you unless you let them be no so there's there so that's that right girls we haven't done this for a little while i think we should do a dilemma we do a lot on the bony but we were often chatting so much catchy uppie that we forget so let us do a dilemma are you ready hi girls please keep me anonymous i'm in a bit of a dilemma and could really use some advice my boyfriend's friend keeps sending him videos on instagram things like girls in lingerie or doing really

sexual poses it happened i'm laughing i'll tell you why i'm laughing it happens most days and it makes me feel really uncomfortable right okay so the first thing here is this the last sentence it makes me feel really uncomfortable so it doesn't matter whether we think it's okay whether your boyfriend thinks it's okay or his friend thinks it's okay it makes you feel uncomfortable so your your body's already like oh it is no matter anyone's opinion if it makes you feel uncomfortable then you've got a right to say something anyway let me carry on with the dilemma i thought that was it i've asked my boyfriend to say something to him but he thinks i'm overreacting i even messaged his friend something in a light-hearted way like he doesn't

really need these videos you keep sending just to make it clear i've seen them but instead of stopping he sent even more and he thought it was really funny my boyfriend has since spoken to him and told him i don't like it but honestly i don't think he was firm enough because these videos keep coming now my boyfriend's getting annoyed at me for bringing it up but i'm just sick of these messages popping up when we're together it gives me anxiety every time his phone goes off and now he's even avoiding instagram so it doesn't cause an argument i find the whole situation weird especially his friend with married with kids and apparently his wife doesn't care am i being unreasonable for feeling this way or is this as strange as i think it is so as i said my halfway

through if it makes you feel uncomfortable like genuinely then yeah it is a problem however me so this is quite funny because men are just depends what it depends on you james and his friend got that relationship with his right so james and one of my friend's husbands and one of his other friends continuously send each other women with huge tits continuously no continuously right what like massive massive tits or funny videos of girl like yeah sexy ones but not not like only fans creators more like a woman with huge tits bouncing or whatever or a huge arse or whatever yeah and they continuously do this right and it was two of them at first i'm not gonna name you mate because i don't want your missus to tell you off but as they come through

and i i don't care that doesn't mean she shouldn't i don't so i said what the fuck are you laughing at turns his phone it's some woman with his older lady with big tits and i was just laughing i was like fucking disgusting and then again they come through and he sends them back to him and it's just what they do i don't it's their banter and then what happened is one of my friend's husbands i actually don't know if she knows this i'm gonna tell her somehow got in on this thing so he was like i keep sending them to lewis as well me and you would send massive dicks yeah and and then he was like i keep sending them to lewis i think we do so so we just so let's be frank we do so we just um i just found it funny and i didn't give a shit and i when they come through he turns his phone

and he goes thing he's sending me pictures again i said tell it so i sent him a voice and i said you do whatever i want because one wrong move and i'm telling your missus about these videos she i don't think she would care so i am in that situation and i find it funny and i don't care however that doesn't mean you should and if you are actually bothered by this well she has then but i i honestly think take it with a pinch of salt in my opinion what do you think do you think absolutely wrong like i don't really care i think it's kind of what they do and we send each other what about i showed james what about the videos of the work the workmen and they step forward and ones are lecky and they're like fit as fuck and he's like i'm a builder and i think the porno

people aren't they it's not real is it and he pulls down his top he's got a six pack and we send each other just as like as and i show james i'm like do you do this at work and he didn't give a fuck i don't think it's that big a deal but then you do but you do you do have the right to say stop that but if james said to me ashley keeps sending you videos of massive dicks stop it then i would yeah i wouldn't think wet lettuce yeah i and i wouldn't stop i wouldn't yeah i wouldn't stop sending them if you if i said if he said it's bothering me that ashley keeps doing that i wouldn't tell her to stop doing it i just wouldn't show him if i'm on it look stop sending the big dicks but that's just my honest you're always going to get the honesty

from us i'm not saying i'm right but i don't really care about that however you do so all i can suggest if you do number one just think it's fucking lads like fucking whatever but if it really is bothering you then i think afraid another sit down is required where you say this has to stop i don't think you're gonna get anywhere though in all honesty and i think the best thing to do is push it out your mind agree yeah as long as he's not he's not doing anything shove it out your mind mate it's just stressing you out yeah and and on that stellar advice we'll end it there any more dilemmas please do i mean listen we are here to help and we do answer a lot of dilemmas on especially on the bonus but also we've got the um the group chat on there i we constantly

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