Nip Tuck - Guest Special: Amy Gwynn

Episode Date: March 15, 2023

This week the girls are joined by special guest Amy Gwynn, owner of Britains biggest strip club. Amy shares her wild stories of how she manages the girls, customers that get a little too loved up and spills the goss from behind the red silk curtains. To get involved with the show, you can send us a DM on Instagram and TikTok, find us @niptuckpod.Or you can email [e-mail] can also send us your Icks & Dilemma's via WhatsApp! You can text or voice note the girls on [phone] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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whatever you want to tell us because basically we don't give a fuck okay so we are back guys and today we are joined by a very very special absolutely stunning

I must say guest all of our guests have all been stunning so far yeah they have very lucky is it us so we're joined today by Amy Gwynn

and she runs her own strip club in Liverpool it's a fucking massive one as well It is, yeah. Isn't it, like, the biggest in the country? It is.

It is. Yeah, it's the biggest strip club in the UK. That's big dick energy, that, isn't it? That is massive dick energy. So, Amy, like, start from the beginning. How did you get into this, and when did you start? So, I started nearly 13 years ago now, so I was an absolute baby.

I was 22. Wow. That is a baby. It is, I know, for such a, you know, a harsh industry. um how did I get into it it's always a bit of a blur to be honest because obviously you never you never kind of go to school and think like that's what I'm gonna be yeah I'd never danced before as well so um so you weren't a stripper no no so initially that was um I almost felt like I had to not I never lied to girls I was always honest but when they'd be like so you know when

did you used to dance or when did I felt like I would never be taken seriously because obviously i didn't have a clue yeah you know um now you know what that was kind of like my weakness that i'd never i'd never even stepped because i was 22 not that i would never went to a strip club it's just that you know i'd never really had the opportunities to do those kind of things um now in hindsight i feel like my weakness what i considered my weakness then is my biggest strength because it meant that i'd done it obviously made all the mistakes it was absolutely dreadful um but I learned my way not how so I never ever followed suit you know in like you had nothing to follow on with man of course yeah yeah um so getting into it is a bit of a mad one

really so I was um I was working in the modeling industry so I was you know touching with all like the glamour model and things like that so I had a circle of friends who were you know glamour girls are out every saturday um some girls were you know had been dancers so i had those connections but i was trained i was trained to be an accountant what i know i know but that's your business yeah that's good you need to say i say i'm a spicy accountant yeah i'd like to be a spicy accountant yeah so i was doing business studies and studying accounts because i was kind of like didn't know what i wanted to do i don't think you do with that age Oh, I still don't know.

I say this, I think I'm going to be when I grow up. Yeah. So I thought, well, that'll give me a good background because I was like

absolutely shit at anything else. I thought if I can do numbers, you know, maybe go into book it. I don't know. I'll have something. And it sounds a secure job,

doesn't it? Of course, that's it. It sounds like a really mature person's job, doesn't it? I hated it. So I was doing that and my husband was a DJ,

so he was most well-known for the Pleasure Rooms, which is... Oh my God, I remember that. Yeah, yeah. so it was it was iconic in liverpool you know scouse house and so um that's what he done is what he did so we were complete opposite yeah um and then i fell pregnant at 21 which is free i

know i know but it's kind of like the midst of the make or break isn't it you know it's like so i had to grow up really fast so i went on maternity leave and carl was um still djing and he was like doing all his nights as we was running this club with like his family and everything um and then i feel like all of a sudden the culture changed so we all went from like you know back in my it was like the 051 pleasure rooms like it was all you know you used to go out to party everyone was on ecstasy yeah yeah like a rave vibe then it went like news bar society you know where everyone stood there like yeah and it became more Stosh and more like

Posing Posing Of course yeah Tables Tables Yeah Yeah So yeah

So the pleasure room was closed I was on the scene So we were on a loose end And I don't know how But he'd just come home to me one day And he was like We'd been talking You know

To such and such And he said like If you open We called it a lap dancing bar At the time Yeah What is the right terminology? I call Ruda Strip Club

So I think Strip Club Is more of an American name because in America it is, you know, if you watch things like Hustlers, you know,

it is like a club and men and women both go, you know, somewhere that you will generally engine it. Yes.

In the UK, the more, you know, a lap dancing bar because it's generally a sleazy place. That's it. You're like,

oh, I'm dancing on a, it just doesn't sound as good. So he came home and he was like, right, shall we start? And I just went,

yeah. I love that. I don't even remember it being a thing. You know, maybe I would because i just had this baby maybe i was just naked yeah yeah you know i was like yeah go yeah whatever like just go yeah fine so i was always going back to work i was always going to jump

back on the accountancy and you know do this whole you know because my parents were very much like you know you need to have that secure job have disability and all of that oh yeah so she you know i was like she's gonna have to go to nursery then you gotta pay nursery fees and this that and the other so anyway um we sat i was like yeah you know because we were skint at the time as well so it was like and he was like there's different kind of ways in which you can earn money and the years so it's very much different from a normal bar because obviously you've got your bar takings you've got your door entry and you can justify charging in because you've got women and then you've got your money that you generate from the girls as well so i remember

sitting there he was like well you can call it like such a lounge all day and i just went rude and it just loved it i needed a strong name and a name that you could kind of bounce little things off you know rude girls rude girls yeah yeah not to all these you know that's so good i'm so bad at things like that that's brilliant yeah but you know what it's never come to me since you know so um yeah i was like it's rude and then you could do like we had like because dancers are nude so it's like we can have rude dance so we can do yeah so um yeah we started with nothing so we had this what was originally the bottom floor of the pleasure room so it was tiny um it was shocking it was awful was it oh it was terrible it was just put together you know

and painted and we had no one gives a shit after 3am and it's dark anyway yeah i was like again because i'd never been in one i was like the room was very small anyway did you not do any market research um did you go for a load of dances no i didn't because i think at that time i was i was petrified yeah you know i was too scared to and i didn't think i'd be allowed to go in one as well Yeah, that is what some women think, Amy. Yeah, this is the thing, and I think that's where the kind of negativity towards it comes from, because you think it's that sacred...

It's the unknown. Of course, somewhere that you're not allowed to go, that your man can go. But men can, but you're not allowed. Yeah, yeah. Like a club that we're not allowed. Like a secret club. Exactly, like a secret society that we don't know what goes on.

So I contacted these girls, and I started with five girls, so I went to audition the girls, and again, I didn't know, you know, what you do, so I'm chatting away. So you're sat there like, right, go. so i called my friend and i was like look will you come with me because i was so scared so sat down and they were all lovely these girls and imagine you being the scared one though i know i know but i was petrified um but i was petrified for three years to be fair lauren like

because i went when i started i started with really established dancers yeah and i think um and i still that's good yeah it is good but i think they seen i think what it was i actually thought of this fucking dickhead baby yeah yeah you had to get your yeah yeah yeah you know obviously it was great for me as well because i learned the hard way so had say for instance making mistakes then was of course now i look at rude girls and you know they're like uni university girls and they're all so nice and i think i would have been shit if i'd started with you because i would have thought that this was how so it's my job you've learned easy now because I feel like

I've dealt with every I'll ask yeah yeah so yeah I remember sitting down and chatting to the girls and everything and they were like

so what's it going to be and I was like oh I don't know and then this girl does a dance for me and she went on to be like a huge like porn star

and everything after it really she had these humongous like tits and everything and she started dancing and she got her boobs out and I was like

oh yeah yeah and then she took her knickers off I'm getting really embarrassed I'm so bad at stuff like this yeah see now like I go into the changing rooms and I talk to girls

and I could not tell you if they were clothed or unclothed because you don't see it yeah it's so normal so we'll be like chatting we'll be eating cake and you know

one of the girls will be taking her knickers off and you know just getting ready for the night you just don't even it's just completely normal but then in saying that

I can go on holiday and see a woman topless and be like ooh yeah I can see different environments yeah of course I do when they've got

I always look when they've got the boobs I'm like yeah it's always ones with shit there yeah you always think

why is the gut tick sometimes i feel like saying oh you want that i'll raise you these so to you it's just totally it was totally normal of course having a dance for the first time though that you're like yeah have you ever had a dance i'm really embarrassed right how weird is this i'm not bothered about like you know what i'm like i'm so open sex but when it comes to women being sexual towards me have you never had one no i've had loads so i you're the opposite i've never been it scares me i go in strip clubs all the time like love that all the time tonight isn't it yeah every time because i've never been in one i'm probably like you were and i'm a bit like

what happens and i make friends with all the girls i get dances off them and i've told lauren about this before um one night i had fallen out with an ex of mine and on the way to town i stopped at every cash machine with his card and drew the maximum amount and i had a little clutch bag full of cash and she went and made it rain a tuesday night and i was like and all the girls were like oh here's these bitches and i was like no girls we're gonna have fun and one of the strippers fingered me right can i no wait i guess i'll wait i've got a question but i'm gonna wait till later for that one i'm gonna wait till later there was a mirror i was in a tiny room and there was a mirror you know the route like and i i was just stood looking at myself like at what point

did i get like how did we get in like a nipple in my mouth it's almost like when you go to the toilet in the middle of the night and like at two in the morning you look you think how how did we get in there but that's why i think i understand it so for people like lauren can you explain like what is a typical night in a strip club um do you know what i think that's the joy of a strip club is that it isn't a typical night really because it's one of those

like you walk in and anything could happen. Is it open every night, Amy? Five, six nights a week depending on football. Because isn't football like the busiest night? Definitely, yeah.

So they go and play football? No, they don't play football. No, they go and play football. A little five a time. Let's go see some tits, lads. No, so it's like obviously they'll go and see Liverpool

so it's literally like watch the match, food and then all in kind of that why do you think men go uh i think it's a blokey thing isn't it it is um but i think there's there's two different types of men that go so i think um that men go generally just for entertainment yeah so that's fine you know that they've got no kind of issues it's just it is what it is lads lads lads all that you know they go watch some stage shows have a dance have a drink and i feel like it's a it's a chilled out place for men to go as well okay so it's actually

the atmosphere of the place is different today like we said before some don't get to dance some do yeah if they just get you know

a couple of dancers watch maybe put somebody on the stage then you get the other kind of men who were just like maybe coming on their own coming a lot

is it an addiction yeah I'd say so really yeah do you think it's because they're lonely Amy yeah

yeah definitely and they fall in love I bet they do and if I was if I was one of the girls working there I would absolutely play on that

and fall in love What, do they get obsessed with the girls, though? Yeah, they do, yeah. And do you have to, like, step in and, like... No, because it's fine. They're happy, you know. If it's safe, I guess. Yeah, of course.

And, like, they send them presents and we get, like, fan mail to the office. I want to be one! So we get those guys that are, like, too scared to come in, you know, like, that are sat behind, like, watching. So they'll get to know the girls through, like, maybe... Instagram. And they'll write them, like, cards and things

or they'll put, like, £10 on her card. Have you ever had to deal with anyone that's, like, been maybe a bit stalkerish or weird? Yeah, like, too far dangerous. The girls have, yeah. Like, waiting for them. Yeah, we've had issues with. And sometimes you think, hmm, what have the girls said? You know, have the ladies emulated something?

Okay. You know, that, like, oh, see you after work. You know, absolutely rinse them and put them on, baby. A bit of a promise. And then they're angry that they didn't get what they thought they were going to get. Yeah. Okay. Yeah.

so yeah there's definitely been times where we've had to like kind of let the girls out the back way or we've

we've had the security have to escort the girls to the car because they're like they've had that much money on them they're like shit really

how much do they like this is one of yeah what's your what's your like I mean everyone I'm sure is different but like

what kind of money are these girls making so again it varies massively and I think the thing to remember because when new girls come in

like how much money can I make and I'm like well you have to build your client up of course and then you could just get lucky like we've had like you know girls who were shit yeah like not very kind of on it yeah just got lucky and got upstairs and had a good night um and the way i

kind of put it into context to the girls as i say to them it's like driving a taxi you still got to pay yourself whether you're ranked up or you're you know because they have to pay you rent don't they is that how it works do you take a percent or do they pay rent so it works differently in different clubs i work very old school so rude to cash club in the sense that i take a set fee yeah um so they know that exactly a certain amount is ring fan almost like is it like renting a room yeah exactly like that yeah exactly like that so a lot of clubs um will do like a dollar system i tried it i've tried everything yeah obviously i've learned from scratch hated that absolutely hated it and i feel like the men after that harder to rinse because they've got to actually

think right i'm gonna go and buy these dollars and then take them over here and they have a minute to think am i really getting silly here buying all this money right yeah where the little head as they say yeah i love that the little head can think and you stood over them you know with the card machine or the cash whatever they haven't got that time you're right you know to think and you maybe make contact or so for me um the house fee thing i i prefer that because i think girls are there it helps me to keep the best girls right because if you do commission it's generally around 30 you're looking at a third so if you're you know obviously you've got your average strippers so when i say you've got you've got girls that put minimal investment into

themselves should i say yeah and then you've got girls that deserve to earn more money because you know they've got their boobs they've maybe you know had like work done of course and then it's like their lingerie is expensive of course and this is your makeup done professionally yeah so they deserve so what is a favorite stripper to who is the most popular girl or do you think it is all about like the way you walk the way you hold yourself definitely yeah i think um also times have changed like for me when i started out in this like i'm very like i'm still in that like pamela anderson yeah yeah like big huge blow-up boobs tiny waist big blonde hair now girls are coming in and they're bigger and men like that and then boobs are no longer like more than the

boobs yeah yeah for me like i have my favorite girls for instance like there's one girl um eva who for me i like i'm open and she's my favorite in the sense that like i fancy her the most like right okay you think of like hustlers jlo that's what she looks like so she she goes on stage she's got like this presence sexual yeah and she's just shown to me she's like wow and she does she will she be one that earns one of the most what what what's like a top figure do you think yeah just different no no so the um so there'll be a set price so it's 20 pounds for a dance now when I came into

this industry it was five and ten twenty quid's not a lot not a lot I need to ask you about a dance in a minute let me answer so I pushed it up

to twenty twenty pound roots and then and how long does a dance last about three to four minutes right and is that tits out

or is it fanny out it's or whatever the girl decides yeah so again I feel like the lesser the more baby stripper

you are the less you've got experience you're going to give Maybe a little bit more, but I'm quite strict in that the gales are, you know, no touching and everything's in line so that you're not going to favourite one girl. So you're not going to go, I'm going to get her because she touches my willy or she lets me touch her tits. Yeah, yeah. She lets me touch her because then this is where you get into all the org.

And then you're competition. Of course. Yeah. So it's no touching. So might you, it'd be a 20 quid dance, but a girl might be very clever and get a little bit more if she gets her vagina out. Yes. That's where it comes to the VIP dancers. Yeah.

So they will take the knickers off, but it'll be kind of like front view. so they might say do you want to get a double dance do you want and I say to the girls it's very much these are the prices

you know don't break the rules but of course sell it how you want to sell it so if a girl's going to be like would you like a dance

the guy's going to be or you know the girl can be chameleon you know and right let's meet you

a bit of time on our own oh my god I think I might be a good one chameleon so the girls I think that

in the most money obviously they want to get them upstairs and things like that are generally like the girls that have you know long-standing girls they've built their confidence it's the it's the power of manipulation yeah it's

like a sales job yeah the things you're saying you're reminding me of when i used to work at maya it's a almost salesy isn't it and it's it's keeping that kind of the power connection yeah yeah so it's like um you know if you put if i put a girl a young girl on the floor who i don't know say like 19 to 25 she's never danced before you look at them and i because i vet all the girls before they go on the floor you know because some girls will make the decision like you are going to get eaten alive because you know men are shit yeah and they want to feel powerful and so if they see a girl that's vulnerable and stuff yeah yeah in a little white set they're just gonna be like yeah yeah they're gonna be mean to her because you get you know they get a kick out of

that okay so thing with um i feel like the men will spend and treat you how you act exactly you tell them your worth yeah yeah i think that's true in general life a man will treat you how you tell how you allow him yeah to treat you yeah yeah and if you allow him to like pay little or then that's gonna happen amy has it changed your perspective on men definitely yeah in what way can't take them seriously no like i have they're all little boys aren't they like i i i do have like issues with men like i had a mentor and he was male and i couldn't do it because I was just like because you just had

no respect for him because did you just think like yeah men you go and wank or like yeah god what I've seen men like you we talk about it

because obviously me and the girls we live in our own world that like no one really understands and it's like they just

and I love this we just you just assume any man that he looks to yeah like they must fancy them you know like

so girls will be like she was in the petrol station like the man behind was trying to talk to him he's like fuck off cash on the car yeah

but you take it and i think it's great that like you have that confidence that like because you these girls are so used to obviously just being adored and you know like these men are watching them and they're just like throwing money at them that definitely like if i wasn't married and i would really struggle yeah with men yeah yeah definitely and like you see sorry you see them at their most pathetic yes and that's what you have to remember with men not to bash them so this is different to us aren't they they have a need and a want and this is why a lot of people have said to me over the years like would you not open like a women's strip club and have like and i'm like no because

women are silly enough to spend all that money any woman can walk out and get a shag within probably an hour or wherever the fuck they are yeah yeah so we're a bit harsh with men aren't we sometimes do you get men in there that actually are sound are normal that are coming in because it's the end of the night or they just like to relax there like do what what's that balance yeah or lonely they just want to be around people majority of our customers are absolute gents to be fair yeah they are um but i think you know that it's kind of like there's a strict door policy so any like divvies they're not they're not allowed to come in anyway they're not going to get in um our clientele are older clientele and they are they the a lot of them

have built kind of like friendships with the girls we have guys that come in they bring like they're corporate clients and stuff and they just you know the girls they just buy drinks and the girls will go over and you know yeah they're great and they kind of you understand what it is as well a lot of them you know it is we point out certain stories but they only stick out because they're rare it's not right okay you know so you're like oh that guy that like sends you presents or falls in love with you and you know you remember it because it's a bit unusual yeah of course but generally um the guys are as i say because they're an older clientele as well they're just they understand what it is they know it's a service they know what the game is that's what

we're here for we all have been around for years like you said but i i had a friend who did it and she literally could earn monthly like i'm sure she had like 10 grand once like something in a month do you think only fans is that quite normal things for you um yeah i think since covid and we've come back everything because you know people i think people are like just generally scared to go outside aren't they and they're on the internet and i think that's really concerning and people put us in the same brackets i don't understand as porn and only fans and it's not like i don't understand only fans so i don't want to obviously offend anyone and say too much but the perception i get of it is that unless um you've got a huge following you you know you have to do more yes and

then you are sat at home alone in your bedroom in front of a camera like that to me maybe you feel like you're almost selling yourself for less with only fans as well because i feel like you don't get paid that much unless you go quite extreme with it literally yeah like you know i've seen as far as i know yeah yeah and it has changed i think it the only fans and how accessible porn is to men and yeah has probably massively affected amy's business because now the the average like customer that we were saying before maybe an older guy that gets a bit lonely he probably is getting really preyed on maybe by a few only fans like the webcam industry as well because they get that connection back and forth a bit as well and i don't think that men realize that it's 99.99%

of the time i mean don't quote me on this but it's usually not the girl sending you the messages yeah we all know this yeah you know there's and they're professionals in just getting of course of course yeah and they're taking a commission on um you know on these girls and stuff and obviously we we know that as women we're not stupid and again this is why you know a strip club for men with you know with men it would never work because we're on to all of this but i think the um the great thing with going to an actual club is that you're physically like in contact you can smell the girl you know it's real you know you can you know you've got it's social of course of course um but yeah all those kind of like single men on their own they're a

little like we get them calling up and it's like how much is it to come in that were scared anyway yeah it is yeah obviously a lot easier for them to just kind of go one line and then with only fans it's it's obviously different to porn in the sense that they think like you maybe you know if it's a girl with that's just started that hasn't got a huge profile or everything they are maybe speaking to that girl maybe copy and pasting to numerous men yeah um so they they feel then that they can have that kind of relationship online with someone as opposed to coming in but the two things for me are just so different because it's entertainment you know even if of course and the thing with rude as well as that um i feel and i learned this obviously through going you know

for being a customer in other clubs and things and I remember going to like a big club in London and I was I must have been about you know

it wasn't that long ago so it was maybe like 10 years into the industry I thought I went in quite soon but I think I've had like two drinks I was going in for food

and I felt quite Is it the one is it Yeah yeah I've been in there as well and it is isn't it because right all the girls line up

at the bar They are professionals Yeah and they're not majority of the girls are not English No the one that i had looked exactly like rosie huntington really but they're quite harsh yeah

yeah there was no like the strip clubs i've been into in manchester and liverpool i've gone in and there has been a few girls that are like yeah because they may be expecting you to be a bit yeah and in london no it's robotic amy what do the girls so if when how many women do you get in what what not working more than we'd like tell me about the women obviously they're not the best money makers because let me tell you i would not be throwing my money i would not you might be i would not be giving my money away so amy you know when you go to other strip clubs do you ever tell them that that's what you do as well no no too scared um i've never actually been to another strip club in liverpool sorry yeah because i wouldn't you know i don't i don't feel the need

to like my i wouldn't say competition but what my inspiration doesn't come from liverpool and i'd never liverpool's never taught me anything anyway so i don't owe it anything because everything i've done i've done yeah my you know without kind of the knowledge of what anyone else was doing um when i go to strip clubs in london i'll be recognized by the girls but i've never gone in and been like hi yeah um one because i think how the club's being set up so for instance like literally having 40 girls lined up at the bar has instantly made me feel intimidated so i get even for someone who's used to it week in and week out i feel a bit scared and think like yeah and i'll be eating my food and i know that the girls can't approach you when you're eating

so i'll be like yeah and then even i remember them one of them coming over straight away and i turned her down and it was intense and it was yeah it was just because of the way it was done it was like i just don't feel at ease no um so i ended up just like i stayed had some drinks watch stages and things like that um but that's always been great for me to kind of put myself in the customer situation and you know so then i can go back to the real girls so i have a yeah a rule that when the guys come in let them get comfortable first do not speak to them until they've bought a drink yeah i agree you see some guys that are looking around like hello but it gives them an opportunity to walk down the stairs the first thing you see is the stage so they're going to

see a girl on the stage they can kind of scan the room because i would say as many as 50 percent of men they come i see their feet because where i i stand yeah i say i call it the fresh me coming in the club so i see the shoes and shoes are always they are you know i know what's coming in i see the shoes and sometimes i would say 50 percent of the time you see them turn around and you're like and they go to the toilet and i don't believe they need the toilet i think it is just like shit yeah you know you go to the toilet decompose themselves and then they come back out yeah um so no i've never gone in and be like hi i'm amy from rude i do get recognized because girls will come for instance the races girls will come from london and come down and dance for the weekend so

and then obviously you've got instagram so you get to know them you know yeah they're stripping stuff on tiktok's huge at the minute it is and i feel like um see that wasn't a thing when yeah when I love it I follow see for me because I'm just like oh yeah yeah are you using my platform yeah to get yourself yeah um when I started with rude like Instagram didn't even exist you know so it was like so now um it's it's it's difficult because yeah because you've got like Instagram and TikTok so I think people are I think it's great in the sense that um people are able to see and like you know interact with strippers and hear funny stories and so i think it's great for the clubs and for the girls as well because you've got a

lot more girls now that are i think once you get one girl that comes out and says yeah i'm a stripper like and owns it yeah yeah can i ask you you know it's like people are like oh yeah and then they overcompensate them to like to kind of how cool they are to you yeah

what do you think so we get a lot of messages in about partners that are upset that their boyfriend on a stand who went to a strip club

and lied about it I mean for you it's fucking brilliant but what do you genuinely think about that about women being pissed off

yeah so naturally I'm supposed to sit here and go oh you know leave them alone yeah

because it's your business but the people that are listening are women they're not going to make you any money so tell the truth okay

of course of course tell the truth so I think it depends in what kind of context they went to the strip club

and what kind of man they are in the strip club which one they are if they are the nightmare customer and you do get bless them

you do get men that come in so say for instance the stag show I hate stag shows I bet you do because it's the aggressive

energy that they've got no do you know do you know what it is Ash it's the fact that it's very much kind of like they're just ticking

something off the itinerary strip done it's very you know kind of like it's pre-planned they've messaged us six months before they've booked in

and I'm like oh we don't want you we have a guy coming downstairs at 2am who's been in the casino exactly and they're finishing up

for another drink and wants to blow his money exactly not a statue that have already set an itinerary out on a kitty yeah it's £200 in the kitty

we can afford and they buy one person a dance woo they get the stag a 20 quid dance you're like wow

I can do better than this so this is the thing so you get like 40 guys in the club straight away so it looks great it looks busy

only two girls are making money off that because they go and get so they get their beer included they're all like yay

men men men and you're like hmm you take them upstairs and they'll take two girls and they do a stag show

so they go upstairs I hate them because you hear like yay or scream around the club so we do them early on so you wouldn't be bothered about that if you were a girlfriend

because you're not getting anything else out of them you might get what if they went at 4 in the morning on their own after a night out when they could be coming home do you get their seedy little ones then yeah so as I say with a stag show

girls will go up to them and be like oh no I'm married so you're like oh bless them and they probably do My husband wouldn't do that. Actually, who? I get, like, a couple of maybe the younger ones that'll go and get a dance and the dads will be like,

right, I'll get you it, son. So I think... This one's on me. That's fine. You know, that's fine. And then even kind of, like, work do's. Yeah. And even if we just get, like...

Again, it's entertainment, I guess. Of course. I think what we need to remember is men generally are very different to us. Like, we will get... And we get emotionally attached. Yes. You know what I mean?

if we we fancy someone emotionally like we are men are the visual creatures so they can just be like oh she's fit and she's fit they don't and then it doesn't mean anything of course okay but i do think that see for me i would struggle with the thought of my husband especially if say like your partner is one of those guys that has you go 50 50 on everything oh you imagine like pay 50% of the mortgage and he's given his money to another girl and won't pay for your

fucking toenails but he's paying her bills that's a good point that I 100% would that would piss me off Amy what is the weirdest request or like is there anything that you guys have like

in your career what's the weirdest thing to do that you've thought ugh and you've always remembered it um any proposals to the girls oh gosh yeah i think this is definitely a question for the girls obviously they do it yeah um but i think generally the it's always that you know it's like that kind of like dominatrix thing like that oh yeah like stamp on my balls yeah yeah so um i we've got really shocked coming into the industry of how obsessed men were with things like feet so this was one of the reasons why all the girls in route have to wear pleases so i'm really

um strict on the footwear so it's hair and shoes and things so we get like we have like a a certain customer who's a very like professional man um and he's a big guy as well and he comes in he pays a lot of money to just be stood on like and he takes his top off and just i could do that And lets the girls stand on it Is this in public? No, in the VIP room And then you'll have the guys That want to buy the girls shoes

After they've worn them But they want them as smelly And dirty as possible And the girls will message them And they'll be like They stink Do they buy the girls underwear as well? They can, yeah

So we've had incidents where the girls have been, say, like, dancing or they've been in VIP and they're over the balcony, like... And I'm like, OK. They're like... And I go, well, but she's like, he's took my knickers.

He's took my knickers. And we've had to, like, get the door open to, like, stop the girl. He's got, like, the girl's knickers in his... So he's going to go home and he's going to go... He's taken the knickers. So he's going to go home and put them on his bed like a mask and sniff them.

And the bouncer stopped them at the door and got the knickers back. We have to, like, search them to get the girls' knickers back, yeah. What do you say to people that might have a negative view of what you do and say that you are making money, because there will be. Yeah, of course. And I'm sure you've had it before on girls that are selling their bodies and it's derogatory to women, these poor women.

And it doesn't sound like it to me from what you've said, but these poor women that, you know, have got no money and they're having to take the calls from men and you are taking money off them like a pimp. Oh, it's terrible. Tell me, because there will be those women that listen, those men that listen and feel that way is it because they don't know enough what what's your answer to them definitely because they don't know enough um you know this industry is always going

to be sexual entertainment sex yes it's always you know it's always going to be here it's how we're all here you know yeah what would you rather have would you rather have a woman that's coming to the industry and this is what like it doesn't piss me off because i laugh about it because i think you don't know actually you don't know you don't know what you're talking about but it's like okay you've got a woman here who is coming to a male-dominated industry that was designed for men um that's overseeing girls making sure that and then making sure i turn down more girls than i let through and not and it's not because of the looks it's because they're not ready i'm not comfortable you know like i've got got four daughters my eldest is nearly 14 no way so i've

got another question so i look at some of these girls so for instance if a girl applies and she's 18 i'm like oh no you know you're like literally four years older than dolly like no can't do that um so you've got a woman that's taking control yet these women are sexualizing themselves for their financial gain men are always going to sexualize women yeah but you've got far worse and this is what like and like something went in the papers recently because i opened um the poll studio so it's like we want to come in yeah well like that's you know that's a huge thing at the moment isn't it for fitness and someone commented and was like you know one of those like keyboard warriors oh yeah amy needs to stop a prostitute and women for money and i was like

it's a pole like fitness dance studio yeah how's that yeah you know what i mean so yeah i'm like there's four ways that's going on you know what i mean you can literally like you your husband your boyfriend wherever could go and get like a you can buy sex yeah yeah you know probably at the bottom they're everywhere yeah and no one says nothing about that um because you're open about it and there's no secret i also feel that because i'm a woman if i'm easier to attack yes i agree and it's like you should be looking after women but you are looking after them aren't you in a way and obviously the way you look you're very glamorous and yeah that well that's another thing i should think oh because you get like oh she's just a stupid like barbie doll or she's

and i'm like well maybe if i didn't take care of myself yeah yeah no do you know when i found that some women prefer women that don't look after themselves because it makes them feel more comfortable with themselves so they're happy i love about dancers lauren is that it's it's a culture of girls who are all gorgeous all glamorous yeah they're so self-confident assured in themselves that you know we'll be in and be like oh my god you look gorgeous you've lost so much love what are you doing and that is what we want when you walk in looking you up and down and rolling and being jealous yeah instead they're like look at you yeah yeah so there's a lot to be said for these girls that they are so you know they're so uplifting to each other

that when i come out of that world and go into normal you know like i don't know you see the difference yeah you're just like walking around tesco yeah and you think it's because these women are generally just so unhappy with themselves that they have to agree agree when they're unhappy that's when they swipe so i love it like we get so many girls that come in that are great like they might not go and get dancers but they'll throw money on the stage or they'll get fellows they'll be like come on you know yeah and they're great and we love them you know you'd be like that You really, like, kind of, like, applaud the girls on stage. And the girls love that.

And, like, you look fit. You look amazing. Don't go in to scowl at us. Yes, of course. Also, they're never going to kill that vibe anyway. So, bye. Amy, thank you so much for answering those questions. So, we're going to do, like, a few more fun bits with you

while you're here. We're going to go into a break. And we are going to do our... Favourite. Our slutty season. Back soon, girls. Boys. welcome back do you know what slutty susan is amy yes yes yeah i'm familiar so um people send in

like their slutty stories and we are here for it so we've got one here um here's an idea amy while i'm reading this one out okay just have a thing now this doesn't this doesn't have to come from you i don't want your you know what you're getting divorced at this point any slutty susan stories that you might think of any that your friends have told you anything that jumps into my oh my god my mate once did this let us know at the end okay okay doesn't like i say we ain't getting any divorces here don't tell me what you've been up to i'm not gonna take any credit for that okay hi girls please keep this anonymous as lots of my friends listen to this and i hope they won't realize that this is me absolutely obsessed with the pod you are fucking wild and it's great i wish

i could go to dubai with lauren you'd have some stories then and have every cosmetic procedure under the sun with ashley really funny story from when i was a horny 21 year old i've been seeing this boy for a while while seeing others. Good girl. But for some reason, I kept going back to him. And then in brackets, there's an aubergine. So something tells me he had a schlong. One day, we'd both been day drinking with our own groups of friends. The drunker you get, the phone comes out and the calls and the texts start, which is so true, isn't it? The more drunk you get, what you're up to. We were like, yeah, we'll meet up. I'll go to his and we'll start the usual drunken shag. However, this time I arrived to his

house and he wasn't there which by the way he lived with his parents still i banged on the door horny and drunk however there was no answer i proceeded to call his phone still nothing sorry i've just seen a little bit further on it's really minimal i noticed the front room window was open bearing in mind the window was one of those windows which opened at the top no bigger than a microwave i would say i then thought it would be a really good idea to basically break into the house i climbed on the wheelie bin and wiggled through his front room window he lived with his parents legs in the air full show whilst i fell flat on my face in the front room window still ah so she'd gone in her legs are hanging out imagine you walk past that i took myself to bed

but i fell asleep oh my god about 4 a.m he wandered in wakes me up and says what the actual fuck you've broken into my house argument commences i book a taxi and leave that wasn't the end of the shags he forgave me and it continued until i got a boyfriend well now x because he's also a massive wet wipe hope you enjoyed my psycho sex story so she broke into the fucking house and waited there for him i hope she got a shag i think she got a shag in the end an angry shag yeah well she You broke into my house. Everyone loves a psycho bitch. Men do love psycho women, don't they?

Right, actually, the next one. Hi, girls. Just discovered your podcast, and I don't know how I survived without it, nor do I. So I have a story. I was going out with this lad a few years ago, and we had been seeing each other for a while. One night, we were sat talking about things we like in the bedroom.

Love it when that conversation comes up and you can drop a few bombs. fantasies and things like that he said that he wanted us to watch porn together hope it was fake taxi i was more than happy to go along so we got ourselves a nice glass of wine and had a scour through porn to find a video to stick on after scrolling for a few minutes we picked one and got to watching after a few more minutes he looked like he wasn't really that into that one and started looking for something else he then put on the gayest porn video probably on the whole of porn hub i'm talking a big male gangbang fisting each other and all sorts i literally did not know

where to put my face all of a sudden i felt very uncomfortable i'm not too sure what happened next but we're still seeing each other after a few weeks i had completely forgotten about this incident we were chilling and his phone was on the couch next minute it lights up and i glance over there was a notification from grinder so he was secretly gay i swear to god i've never ended a relationship that fast in all my life i kept wondering why he was always asking to do anal right this i've got leading off of the back of that do you think that men who want you to do bum stuff yeah okay a bit yeah do you think so as well i do i've never ever done it in my life and i never get requested it no see so i had a boyfriend i'm not gonna say what age i was because people will know who he was

and he was quite into the bottom stuff and he actually so i didn't go as far as putting a strap on and pegging him where you actually i would love to peg someone but he did like a vigorous dildo in the back passage in his bum in his bum yeah and then it actually came out years after we split that there were rumors that he'd been a bit gay but i've also a bit okay so i do think that but then i do think like a finger in the bottom though ash like that do you think that makes them gay no no no no a finger or yeah a small not really thing but just not full on you can see my face my face is panicking here because i'm trying to work out like who's been gay and who wasn't in the past i'm thinking like was he gay no i'm not like i

mean you do you whatever everyone whatever you're into yeah do you know there's a there's a place between the in the they've got a g-spot yeah you can get to that and if you yeah and if you touch it just before they come then they're like yeah so you can i've realized you can get to that externally so between the in the gooch between the balls and the bum probably about halfway if you press from the outside yeah the same thing happens so just thought i'd share that there you get sex tips it's not a ring door but it's just said it's not um right okay so amy have you got any slutty susans for us um not off the top of my head no that's quite a hard one yeah to ask especially when you know that all the ones that have come into your own head have been your own

probably so you're now thinking i feel like i've been married far too yeah you're boring now yeah that's the problem you're just boring well we've absolutely loved having you and i promise we are gonna come in soon and i'm gonna get lauren's first lap dance for her oh god i'm so awkward I'd just I think Lauren would be the best you'd love it you'd absolutely

I'd have to be pissed and you can pick the girl that you fancy the most I don't fancy girls you will when you get in there you will

you will when you get in there I find girls attractive don't get me wrong I appreciate a beautiful woman the energy they've got in there but I just don't get I just don't get a wide on

right well you can we'll get a double dance no honestly like I've stood behind the bar before today and I had like a girl do her thing

that she's told me she does and I'm like that's fucking clever because they all have their own little tactic and then I've seen it in action

and been like wow so like you've turned into the Neanderthal man and they take all my money keep your commission

keep your money this week I love you I love you okay I'll come I'll come I need to be a bit drunk though

I just think the whole thing's scary I don't know why I'm like that because I'm so I've just been talking about like all that but then when it comes

to women I'm just like listen I'm going to try it yeah I'd love to I would like to come for an evening

and just wander around in a not in a weird way where men are like who's that fucking girl that's wandering around I think it's one of those bucket list things

it is I'd even like wouldn't mind like fitting in like slowly fitting in even just and I'd just like to see what the girls do in the back

how they come out what they do when they go back in it's so interesting we'll sit you in the changing room yeah I'd really like that I'd love that hey that'd be a great pod

in the changing rooms with the girls yes why can't we do that and like set it up and they can come in and be like how was that like that'd be really fun

would you do that yeah that'd be really fun let's do it and they could give you lots of Slutty Susans they could right Lucas

can we did you hear that can we do that right okay so Amy thank you so much thank you and you can follow Amy

on Instagram Amy what's your insta handle amygwinnxx there you go spell it spell it gwynn

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