Nip Tuck - Special Guest: Chloe Mediumship - What happens when you die?

Episode Date: October 29, 2025

What really happens when we die? And what’s the difference between a ghost and a spirit? 👻In this special Halloween episode, we’re joined by the incredible Chloe Mediumship, who shares her fascinating journey into discovering her gift - and even gives us a few interesting predictions! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

right guys hi hello this is the halloween episode so it's not halloween until friday but it's halloween week and we just thought how are we gonna do this we could dress up like dicks um it's just a lot but we're just a lot and we just couldn't really be arsed and then i have been talking about this lady for quite a while now this lady did a reading for me and we and she's a lovely lovely lady and i know now we know that in the past when ashley has spoken about this type of thing any ghosty stuff anything like that i'm literally like don't talk to me about it because i will lie in bed at night like goosebumps when you were a kid and i will shit myself up but ashley loves it and whenever we've spoken about anything like this you guys have been really into

it yeah and we both have openly spoken about like our experiences with psychics before we go and visit psychics we'll not go it's kind of an as and when thing yeah and then i've got a couple of ghost stories and i really believe in like manifestation visualizing all of that kind you believe in like the after they believe in something there i can get a bit deep so anyway we have invited the one and only chloe mediumship oh my gosh oh i'm so excited to be here welcome like both your energies are beautiful oh thank you would you have said if they weren't though i would have walked out the door yeah it's like when you have a baby and you see a baby you look in the pram you're not gonna say beautiful that's a that's an ugly one that you have to but thank

you for that thank you do you pick up on like an do you get yeah so i'm able to look at somebody and just get a vibe straight away so don't think of mediumship as just the dead think of it more as your own emotions and feelings we're all human beings everybody's heart is beating like we've all got emotions we've all got these feelings and i'm able to pick up on that okay so you're yeah yeah pretty much but auras are different so we could we could go down the whole rabbit hole of everything if you really want your podcast then chloe because you've got a podcast as well it's called we talk to the dead yeah and then so explain to people that are new to you so like i said chloe's uh at chloe mediumship on instagram she's very famous on instagram and we're more

i'm not so what exactly are you how would you describe what are you what what gifts you have i'm a weirdo right same so i connect with the dead but i'm able to predict the future tap into your emotions feelings no certain things i suppose but it all comes at different times like i don't really have control spirit have control over me right so they'll enter my body physically to show me how they passed and it's so strange because we the plan today was not to do mediumship right yeah but on my whole journey here it's about an hour away i was driving i was like who the hell keeps telling me this name so the lady was coming forward and she kept giving me a name of somebody who's alive and really hope this makes sense but it could make sense to you guys as well um bev

who's bev mate that's my mum right okay so she's struggling with something at the minute it's almost like she's got breast cancer right it's almost like she is worried or bottling up her feelings and not knowing how to express them so she is so the message that i needed to say straight away was who is bev because she's going to be okay but she needs to talk more so i'm glad i got that off my chest i feel like i can well i'll bring my mom so we before we did this i understand and we understand that this kind of thing what we didn't want to do is bring chloe in and be like do the reading right now doesn't work like that and it's not fair and that's not so we wanted really to know more about everything but then chloe like she said things

well yeah if stuff comes through you need to tell us yeah yeah so can we start at the beginning okay how on earth did you realize that something about you was a little bit different i suppose growing up was i i've got an older brother and older sister and i was always like the weird kid you know like you always look at a kid and you think oh my god i bet they're just weird yeah i was that weirdo hated school but I was a troublemaker at school like I was like oh let's have a fight let's do this like I would not think that yeah I was horrendous I used to I was just awful so bitchy and so oh just so the opposite of what you are yeah and I suppose you go through those things I always say if somebody is not a nice person well what are they going through in their life

to make them that way projecting yeah so I always try and see the good through the bad and I suppose people are like well what do you get with people who have killed people and they're in prisons you can't always think the good of that if you know what i mean but i always think well what made them get to that point so i was this troublemaker and i always had imaginary friends and i always seen things but i suppose i didn't know i was any different to anybody else my family we never really had that conversation of what i'm seeing is what i'm seeing like you just thought it was normal because like that's your life yeah everybody was seeing what i was seeing why did it need to be spoken about um and then obviously i grew up i had children really young

so i got pregnant at 18 oh my god i had three children at the age of three so yeah one after each other you are a weirdo yeah honestly um got pregnant less than a month after giving birth and i had a c-section like i cannot remember this were you really was it horrendous time yeah like awful so i was on the maximum antidepressants anyone could take it was just a point in my life where it was blurry do you know when you just can't remember certain things that's a trauma response yeah that's the first time anybody's ever said that you know it is i've got sections of my life where i couldn't even like black black out it's so strange isn't it like i literally try and think there's been times i'm like should i have another baby just so i can remember it because

i literally cannot remember when they were little when they were crying brain's way of protecting it's so strange um and then my parents live in france so i haven't got the support network i really needed it was just basically me my partner three kids and i was like oh shit like when you're 18 and you're that young it's just awful right so um i was closer to my nan than anybody she got cancer during covid they decided to not treat terminal ill patients yeah and which is horrendous they just basically turned them away so she got worse sadly she passed went to a funeral and she was there and i was like what like you could see i could see her but she she'd lost loads of weight she was about eight stone and then all of a sudden she'd gained loads of weight she was chubby she

was happy and i was like what the hell and i was like i've got to tell somebody i'm seeing her and i thought no i won't because it's the grieving process you sound like you're losing where were you when you say you were seeing her she was walking around she was she was stood next to a coffin right and you were like what oh my god i've got goosebumps yes i looked up and i saw her and i thought no like i'm not going to tell anybody they're going to think i've lost the plot like they would you would instantly think you're grieving section yeah i'm gone yeah so um didn't say anything got home she was at my house and i thought what the fuck like why is she here and was she talking no she was just staring at me um and then i went to tesco and i started seeing

more and more people following people and then i almost like had an out-of-body experience where not even my own thoughts of being going up to somebody and saying somebody's with you automatically i was just doing it so i'd be like there's a man with you he looks like this and is telling you this and would they react yeah they'd be like what the hell and i used to be like okay this is strange oh my god but all of a sudden so i don't recommend this because you're supposed to get off antidepressants gradually of course overnight i was off them like this is dangerous like you're not supposed to do that yeah no we spoke to tanya about that um all of a sudden overnight completely off them i was helping so many people and helping others helps me and that's

how what i generally believe um so yeah i've seen more and more sensing others emotions and feelings knowing if somebody was going to conceive a baby knowing if somebody was going to have health issues but I only focus on the positive I decided to block out all negativity but you do see the negative no like I really don't I don't know if somebody's going to die like why would you want to know that but the amount of people that book a reading or a question they're like Chloe tell me the date and the month and the time I'm going to die and I'm like that's such an odd question I'm like for what why would you want to know that yeah like that would scare the hell out of me and you'd be trying to spend your life trying to prevent it which would then change the course of

your life probably the way it's meant to go so when you say you were seeing people did you know that they were passed away yeah so it's almost like a huge it's almost like us but you can see the features sometimes so they all they have control they can show show me what they want to show me um but it's almost like very cloudy the outline or you can put your hand through them so when i touch a spirit it's almost like um fireworks sparks so it wasn't a physical person like you are out sat there it was more of like a yeah like an outline yeah yeah um but you just get this overwhelming feeling of love and peace and they're protecting yeah the person one thing i always question myself is why do i look different to anybody else how do they know that i can connect

so there's been times i put my head down i'm like no i don't want to connect like i'm just don't want to do it and then i'll look up and they're there and i'm like for fuck's sake not today yeah like i just think please is it when you're out with your kids as well yeah my kids oh it's my kids like honestly how old are your kids now so now george is nine charlie oh so you're the embarrassing mom yeah but i'm finding it really hard you know at school and things because i'm such a people the school gates yeah like but it's not only that it's people like fangirling me right and even though i'm such people i'm like hey like oh my god hi it's getting to the point where the teachers are going up to the kids and being like i follow your mom oh yeah and

i'm like please guys like yeah i want to protect my babies yeah um but my oldest son george c spirit my middle child doesn't ivy she is so psychic it scares the hell out of me so a psychic ability sensing something to happen before it's about to it's almost like that feeling i knew that was gonna happen yeah what's it called deja vu but times a million and do you have that yeah i suppose i'm very psychic but it just comes naturally so is it more of like a feeling or do you see the future a feeling more than anything right has someone ever come to you chloe saying like i need help because i feel like there's a bad spirit around me i get it quite a lot but because i focus on the positive i'm only asking that because it's the halloween episode so i'm

bringing it back to like spookiness again a lot of people ask stuff like that and a lot of people are into like spells and things whereas that's not really something i i have um a few witchcraft books but one of them's called like the good witch or something and it's all the good stuff it's all to do with candles i think isn't it you're like one yeah um and there was one where you had to put a note in a piece of ice or you put someone's name on the bottom of your shoe walk all over exactly um anyway we're not we're only focusing on the positive but basically for example my grandma definitely like was a bit psychicky or something and she kept seeing a spirit in the house all the time and she kept saying there's a lady here there's a lady here

there's a lady here everyone thought she was yeah and then everyone in the house all of a sudden started fully seeing this lady and like even asked my dad i love that though but that's a ghost and yes it was and then they went and did research back on the house and someone had fallen off a horse and like died in that point but yeah like i fully believe but i've never seen with my own eyes can i ask you if there's anyone in this room no you can't see but the only reason i say no is because i needed to give you that message to start with i can see another man trying to come forward but i put myself in a bubble at the minute because you're concentrating yeah so what i just wondered i was just like um i keep getting the number two which gives me the symbol of something like

two of something so maybe somebody has something that gives them a link to them it must be quite hard for you i guess to work out what the things mean yeah it's literally like a puzzle so sorry to go to go back because you know what we're you know what we're like you realized you could see these things you knew something was off doesn't it well no that's why you're here how did you then turn you start you came off the antidepressants what happened then so how did you make this a career i just started helping so many other people and my nan come forward to me she goes you need to start helping more people so my dead nan comes forward and says that do you think she had the gift as well never spoke about it never this is what they do you say that it runs

in family yeah it was never ever spoken about in my family so you can think of me and my family getting together now and be like hey i talked to the dead yeah you wouldn't do you know what i mean they'd be like what are you going on about so i decided to launch chloe mediumship and i suppose from there it went crazy which is is kind of my calling in me like i'm such a hard worker but i did like dog grooming i did like crafting like i did all these things and never found something i stuck at until now like i'm always thinking of ways to help others whether that is candles or a crystal or yeah whatever it is mentorship as well yeah so do you help people in business sometimes like i'm i'm trying to do everything at the moment and i guess it's working out where

you want to be yeah it's really hard so i'm writing a children's book that's something i'm really passionate about because when my children died it died oh jesus god jesus when my children lost my nan and she died um basically there was nothing out there for me to give to them and be like this is where she's gone because they have got questions in a really that's really hugely important yeah i've bought them before but they're not yeah so i spoke a lot to kelsey parker so she lost um terrible time and her kids were little recently and i yeah and i was you know i've got a story about that she won't mind me telling telling you this story but poor kelsey i cried for weeks because basically i'd done we speak quite often so i whatsapped her

about two days before she announced she lost the baby yeah I was like everything's gonna be okay stop worrying because obviously I only focus on the positive then she announced it I was like oh my god so I felt I felt like I want to stop Chloe mediumship like I just can't like why have I not seen this coming yeah um and we still talk now and she's like it's nobody's fault and it was such a hard thing and she notices so many signs she's so spiritual herself like incredibly spiritual really amazing um and we've just got this connection like she'll give me advice and i don't go to mediums i don't go don't go to psychics something tells me not to but i trust calci with my world i really do um so yeah when that happened it was like oh my gosh like

what you don't deserve this like some people will say well she's just lost her husband she's with somebody else then she's had a baby and she's lost that it's like you just want to hook her you want to protect it because it's the worst feeling in the world so yeah when um she obviously lost Tom and her kids were little I wanted to give her something I'm always giving away my products I'm like have some products yeah um and there was nothing I could give her kids and I thought right this there's a gap in the market I need to give something to children that can help them so there's a book coming out and it's based on my daughter Ivy and my nan and basically it's a grief story but it's not dark and yeah gloomy if you know what I mean it's not like because

with children you don't really want to that's not the point it's basically noticing the butterflies around you in the feathers and things like that it's really bright and wonderful because I can imagine when you do you know when there is a death it is really hard to know how to speak to children about it so that if there's something that you can read with them that's not intense yeah that sounds like a really good idea now you said that you focus on the positive have you always or did you used to see a bit of negative how do you only how do you do that how do you only focus on the positive like you texted Kelsey and said everything's going to be fine yeah is that because you wanted to text is that because you need to or is that because you not mediumship Chloe just

Chloe was like like you would to your friend or did you miss it but how how do you stop I suppose a bit of me even when I message my friends now I'm like it's always Chloe mediumship it's never just Chloe yeah because I am Chloe mediumship like it's always running through me and in terms of like texting Kelsey it probably was a feeling but overall she is okay yeah she is is going to be hard but she is okay everything's okay and she is actually using that power now I'm not saying that loss and grief is is can help you but sometimes it can shake you to be a better person and she's helping more people going through the things she's been through so sometimes that can be for a reason as well I'm not saying that that is because no but there can be a bigger picture

right you said before that there's a difference between you've got loads of questions i love it ghosts yeah and dead people like what in your opinion what is the difference what do you think happens right when you die okay so your soul leaves your physical body yeah you go to a higher place so it's like so where is this higher place i don't know i haven't been there right but think of this it's not just the end yeah it's not the end because how do i connect with yeah people believe in reincarnation you turn into something else i don't right okay i don't believe you turn into something else how else how do i connect yeah so that is always my question mark because people are like you turn into something else there's been children here who've lived their

life before and you're like well they wouldn't connect with me then yeah so how would they somewhere yeah um but think of a vibration as a higher place so let me do my demonstration which i always do so we are living here at the bottom i raise my vibration to connect in the middle spirit are higher they move themselves down that's why it's called mediumship we're meeting in the middle ah we're raising that vibration anybody can do it you've just got to be happy be positive see the brighter sides of things yeah um and the more you raise that vibration the more it is opening doors yeah so if you're going to doubt so much like the dead is not existed like da da da then your your vibration is low you're not going to connect anyway so it's all about raising that

vibration if you're scared to connect if you're scared to connect with spirit and see them like I think you're a bit like that. If you saw a dead person in your house, you'd be like, ah, do you know what I mean? So you won't connect. I don't know, I'm not, I just don't, a dead body I'd be all right with, but I don't like spooky things because it frightens me.

And also, like I've lost people in the past and I am, probably how my brain deals with it is I just close it. Do you have something matching with somebody? I think that's where the number two comes from. Yeah, I've got a matching tattoo with someone that passed away. Might be that. But that kind of thing, I, for my own sanity, don't go there.

So I guess for me, if I'm not going there, then it's not coming. Do you mean that kind of thing? You have to be open to it. You bottle a lot of your feelings up, though. Like, it's almost like you put a big brave face on, but at home you're like, what's the point? Yeah. Don't start crying.

You had a bad day yesterday. I can feel your emotion because you try and be this strong person. everyone else yes yeah and it's okay to have them shit days like it's fine everybody's gonna have them but you need to be able to express your feelings and be like if you're not happy i think you need to walk away do you know the problem i have this is turning to lauren therapy session the problem i have right is that i have got that much trauma from being about 19 to probably being about proper horrific trauma and then and then they're not as bad but still trauma and if uh yeah if i but i mean like bad trauma death trauma uh when i was in my early 20s if i go there

it is that bad that i i've got children i'm too busy i've got too much going on that if i open that door it's um i've got rid of that for like it's too i haven't got the time so it's much easier for me to just be and i'm really happy just to carry on i don't need to i feel like i don't need to open that box you don't um involve yourself with like dramatic things no because i've had bigger dramas so nothing's important to me like a plaster okay so if you break your leg or you've got a cut on your leg and you put plaster on it it can heal but it can't heal yeah but i'm all right with that no i'm all right with that i'm okay i'm fine with that but thank you i'm okay with the plaster i wanted to pull you two cards i was focusing on your energy a

little bit and even though even though your guard is very high and you don't want to go back to that point that's okay but you need to the reason why you have these thoughts and you have these blips like just listening to you there and talking about how much pain you'd gone through you're still talking about it because it still does hurt yeah and you need to kind of go back to be able to release that feeling okay like what may are you i feel like i get like a scared feeling with you as if you're scared of losing somebody else yeah so maybe that's what you're so terrified of yeah and that's why you always have those thoughts okay yeah so whether you need to journal or you need to express your feelings i feel like tonight you're going to feel very exhausted to the point

oh yeah that does happen a lot where you feel quite heavy though i feel like you've got a heaviness about you like do you know what right i don't want this to turn to therapist for me but while you're here I get this dream right about my dad and my dad died of cancer and it was really unpleasant the whole thing was like a really it is unpleasant for everyone but it was loads was going on it's like a really unpleasant experience and whenever I dream about my dad he's never well and healthy he's never he's he's always dying again every time he comes to my dream I'm screaming and crying and i wake up probably probably maybe four times a year and i'll be in hysterics and i'll be going dad dad and james will be like and he's dead and it's like all over again yeah that's

the only time it feels really real yeah it's like he's died again in my dream i get told he's got cancer again and again i never think about him to the side a little bit when he was going through all of that no no i was forefront of looking after him and organizing everything and looking after everyone else and not like so i'm wondering is is that my dad visiting me in a dream on is that more so spirit do connect firstly within your dreams you always remember what is needed but on your case i feel like it's more of your own feeling that's pushing that forward like a trauma thing that comes out when you're asleep even when there's going to be times even if you don't even realize it where you probably want to share a memory or a thought with your dad

and then you're having that dream because you feel like he's not there but he's kind of giving you that acknowledge that he is but you need to brush to the side of all the the pain you've been yeah you need to heal yourself in order to see the yeah i'll work on that so this is why i pulled these two beautiful cards for you um there's a lot to do with work actually and i feel like independently there's something you need to do more so i don't know if you've got a thought or a feeling of something you want to extend on you need to go for it basically so because you're a little bit hesitant you're like i've got four businesses i think it's my vintage but a lot is to do with a great time of joy and success so believe me that's really good

fucking well done yeah i do feel like it's july a rough time for you i feel like my dad died in july oh okay so it's almost like i get the month of july being quite bumpy do you remember the date and stuff like like seventh or ninth or something i can get a seven and a nine no the 50 i think it was the 15th of july but he got i think he got a diagnosis i think something happened on the seventh because do you know what oh my god right yeah because i will this is really weird when i found out that my dad had cancer it was the 7th of july um and do you know how i know this he already had cancer but i found out on that date and it was just it was six days before he died and the reason

I know this is because I remember thinking this is the worst day of my life ever of my entire life and I remember thinking of the date and thinking this is the worst day of my life how has this happened so that's interesting but that is stuck in your mind and I'm picking that energy up because it was such a traumatic day yeah to remember that date I remember thinking I'll never forget this day for the rest of my life this is this is hell so that's might be where the 70s from it shivers through you doesn't it it's like oh god um but a lot is coming up to do with work and it's able to see things in black and white so you need to separate your feelings and emotions separately so again it's stemming back to trauma and things you need to separate

them and deal with them you need to do head on yeah when i've got time i absolutely will so i feel like at night time when you're sat in bed almost like everything yeah maybe you need a notebook by the bed or something she won't do that no you won't do that so you're not gonna do that I want to put my LED mask on and I keep forgetting. I really want one. Oh, I'm sure they've sold you one. They're absolutely fantastic. Oh my God.

So back to, sorry, we've digressed there. My trauma dump. So you found out you had a gift. You started helping people. Did you get any people? Have you ever had any kind of, you're talking shit type people? Yeah, of course.

Like it is very, it's sceptical, isn't it? Loads of people have opinions and I'm all for that. I'm like, well, what is your opinion? tell me what your opinion is but then i don't think that that type of person should be visiting i think that that is as so negative to do no one means you know like instagram and even like your family if you ever had any family that have been like really chloe yeah from at the start they were like are you doing like why are you doing your attention seeking i started to grow a little bit and it's almost like everyone wanted to be my friend and i'm such a people please i'm like come

on let's go but then sometimes i have to trust my own gut feeling because i'm so busy helping other people i don't connect with my own past loved ones because i don't have time yeah so i created a bench at the end of my garden and this bench wherever i whenever i go to the bench my loved ones are waiting for me just there and that's the only place i connect with them that's so lovely yeah so you talk to them as in a conversation um it's usually within your mind so spirit obviously they can help you in so many ways they enter my body physically to show me how they passed which gives acknowledgement that that's how they died but also they can give you emotion they can show you symbols signs they can talk but you'll most likely hear it's a feeling

kind of thing um but a lot is to do with clear senses which is such a long-winded story but a clear sense is basically how you would connect with spirit in a certain way so you can have more than one clear sense right um i'm quite a nasal person if you haven't noticed so i sound like i got cold all the time right and it's because you lose a sense to gain a sense so i have the ability to smell spirit more so if they're a smoke or if you've got a nice perfume i'll smell them so it's indicating what your Claire sense is to be able to connect god mine would be BO might be portrait of a lady so I'm kind of going back a little bit again yeah no you're fine the the ghost thing yeah right we all have ghost stories scary ghost stories what do you think

about that do you believe like are they ever nasty ghosts is it true like that they come and like so it goes to different to spirit goes to energy okay so it's the same event happening over and over again i've had loads of stories okay can you tell us um so i always talk about this story because it's really scared the shit out of me so i was driving i had gone to smith's toy store did the kids shopping i was driving home i was on my own and do you know on a dual carriage where you get the bridges and i saw somebody looking over and i'm like oh no and you know you get that feeling i'm like oh please don't he's gonna jump and he did and i'm there beeping the horn i was like no i swerved in the road but there was no cars there and it was a busy dual carriageway

and i was like what the hell swerved in the road i was beeping sobbing phoned my other half i was like mason somebody's just jumped in the road oh my god i need to pull over something's happened looked in my mirror nothing there so it's a ghost it's energy i got home i actually googled it i was like did somebody die somebody died the exact day a year ago so it's the same event happening over and over so that's what a ghost is so a ghost is energy or it can be a loved one tied to the location of their death it's simply because the caretakers of that like that lady in my dad's house they feel safe must have died there yeah i know you don't like the negative but can't so the reason i'm scared of ghosts is because they freak me out that they've come to be mean to be mean

would you say that alter guys have you ever heard of a real ghost story where somebody's died like a real one no yeah nothing can hurt you it's just energy that's quite good to know yeah i think that though people now have a re there's like a resurgence of like you said all the witch craft and you know crystals and the moon and there really is because it went off for a bit and i do think that some people are tampering with stuff that perhaps they shouldn't yeah a ouija board i would never do that no but when i when you were little we all did one i did one did you i tried to do one yeah there was loads of really scary films though when we were of like teenage age do you remember like scream yeah and then that saw saw the do you remember the blair witch

project that film frightened me to death for most that's probably why that is really scary what was the one with the ring so ghosts can be just an energy it's not necessarily a bad thing yeah so that's quite comforting for me to know although i always wonder if i got with my partner so we've been together over 10 years um for a reason because he grew up seeing scary stuff i never had like ghostly stuff yeah like what when i first started playing mediumship he's like i don't want you to do it you should you shouldn't be doing this because he was that scared he he always tells me a story he went up to the attic in his house with his brother went up there and it was all um there was people up there they were all like loads of beds and stuff screamed to his mom

saying we've got like people in the house his mom went up and nothing there and he could see the scene and do you think he was then seeing something that was once there yeah i think but he shuts it off he's like yeah don't do all that because he got loads of scary stuff people running down the hall banging on his walls that would scare me that's the kind of thing that's what i think of when i think of ghosts so that's why i don't like to even speak about that open that up basically what's like the best thing you have ever spot on predicted i don't know you know because i'm always the most what about the most did you about jamie and sophie's

what so i went on their newlyweds podcast yes um said they were going to have a baby something with the third um like the third is like an amazing celebration it's going to be an announcement um they're gonna have a baby this time next year they announced on the 3rd of june which was my birthday they were having a baby and i predicted it down to the day and when they were it is you know i watched um one a video and you'd done an event and there was a lily one that i not much makes me a little bit emotional that did chloe said didn't you there's someone in the room lily lily and then it was a lady wasn't it the weirdest thing about this event um is there was a few influences there people often say oh you could have just googled them whatever and i suppose i

do read a lot of celebrities you can google things but you have to dive in deeper you need to know their emotions their feelings what's going on at home their future like it's more than just what you can find on bloody google do you know what i mean um and basically i had my makeup done by makeup artist called summer and i never met her she was just turning up doing makeup and she was like you know what Chloe my sister and I think it's her auntie are coming can can they come in I was like yeah okay fine whatever just so they weren't meant to be there they weren't meant to be there um I got on stage my producers like right this is what you need to do in terms of talk about everything how you connect and who you are and then do reading at the end I went on there and

I was like I just blurted out couldn't concentrate yeah I was like and I was like there's a girl here has been with me all day um and she died quite young but she was overseas and I was like sometimes you just have to say these things yeah pray for god somebody stands up and says whatever yeah yeah so i was like there's this girl coming forward and the lady puts her hand up and this was summer's auntie i think who would never knew and um yeah i went back on stage and i said it's her name lily and she was like yeah and she just sobbed her heart out but she needed that so she messages me all the time now and she's like you've helped me so much her daughter her daughter died abroad how i think she had a seizure so she wasn't little she was no she i think she was like um

i was in 19 so she wasn't meant to be there she was an extra add-on so when people say you could have done your research yeah well how do you do your research about 100 people in a room for one or whatever and i don't get to see the list anyway no and she's a last minute addition do you you think that there are people out there that are taking advantage yeah of it annoys me it annoys me because don't get me wrong you can be overwhelmed with how many readings you've got to do i completely get that but when people try and say different things just to get the money annoys me there is loads of fake accounts under my name you type it on tiktok loads people have said yeah like when people come and seek your help guaranteed it's because they're going through

yeah something it's more the energy can't you feel the energy right now like you feel the environment it's that emotion that you get healing from like you'll probably leave here today and you'll feel heavy you'll feel emotional and that's normal because you've had the presence of spirit being close to you or just the connection of energy so a lot of it from what you're saying is energies is there any way for people because this is really god we're talking about how pathetic I am um when I split with a boyfriend and I was having a really rough time I googled um YouTube uh frequency music and I went to sleep that's how bad I was I went to sleep with a higher frequency thinking it might do something is that like how can you lift your frequency and your energy if

somebody wants to in the moment people always look back at the past which gives anxiety see that's what I do not do yeah never that's good you're doing that but if you live in the now and you embrace every single moment in this moment then there's nothing to worry about is there there's nothing to worry about your frequency or anything because you're living in the future yeah you're present there's always that saying isn't it if you live in the past it gives you depression yeah anxiety it's anxiety whereas if you embrace the now there's nothing to worry about so how would somebody what would you say if there's somebody that thinks they might have a gift like have you met a lot of people with the same gift as you yeah but a lot of people doubt themselves like

you have the ability to connect but you doubt it before you've even tried it's almost like that gut feeling you know something's gonna happen you have that feeling but you're like oh no it won't happen and then it happens you think oh god i should have said something yeah yeah you need to trust that and the more that you do that you more you'll be surprised to the things around you and maybe the more you say it out loud and if and then when it does happen like i said that then you get the confidence more like yeah that's absolutely amazing can i ask you i know you're doing could Is there any cards you could pull for Ashley? Of course.

For fuck's sake. Yeah, well, I've got one. Have you had a bumpy start within love? Yes. I don't know why love was mentioned straight away. I don't know if there's arguments at home at the moment. Actually, there actually isn't. At the minute, there has been.

She's going to go on and boot off. She's going to kick the door in. Get me a wine. No, usually, usually there is. No, it's all very calmed down now because I've got my own way with something I've been wanting for a very long time. And if she gets her own way...

Then everyone's happy. Everyone's happy. Everyone's good. And your mum we mentioned, she's struggling a little bit, I think. She's going to be fine. Yeah, but she just needs some more attention. Yeah.

I am guilty of that, especially at this time of year where people don't seem to see or hear from me because I'm so busy. overwhelmed busy's good though I used to moan about being busy like I can't do it anymore but then people were like busy's good

I sent you that message the other day literally we were talking the other day about being busy and stuff and what a great thing what a great thing and I said the other day if the phone stops ringing because my phone never stops and I said I guess when your phone stops ringing that's when you've got more

of an issue then constant opportunities coming to you that's like a good thing isn't it it's good she's pulling out the bitch card you're a bitch okay so we're gonna do quite a few if that's okay so the first two cards i pulled for you are to do with you and how you're feeling in the center it's the core of you everything to do with you and it's almost like you need to seek advice or help but you don't like to ask for that you're very independent and that's good it's really good but the need to just ask for a little bit of help at times just to take the load off a little

yeah um you have a lot of angels with you so angels and spirit are completely different angels have a lot higher level okay um and angels i see in a form of light basically but if you notice perhaps ringing in your ears or angel no she's had tinnitus the way i said to lauren i have had ringing in my ears and it's always a very intense buzz sometimes yeah that's your angel and i said it to you because i said it's probably i told her that it was because she'd had her teeth done it's an angel yeah it's your angels kind of giving you a lot annoying sometimes it's because they're wanting you to get the message across how do they get the message from buzzing how you're getting that you're getting that ringing because they want you to know that they're there

right and you need to just be like okay and then it'll stop it'll suddenly stop just say okay i've been having it for probably like i get you okay okay um there's a lot of personal growth within yourself so i don't know if there was times that you lacked confidence you come across you come across really confident but i feel like deep down you do lack confidence sometimes not not not really now and then we've also got a lot about you standing tall and it's almost like you're big and stronger but people come into you for advice do you find you get that quite a lot so much we both do don't we a lot yeah i think you're both very much empaths anyway yes you absorb other people's emotions yes it's like you get home and you've just took everybody else's

so the need to just try and have a nice shower and a bath and just get all that i said that last night i need a bubble bath james always says to me you're on the phone again with someone else's problems and i'm like so we've got three months future card it looks a bit a bit sad and down in the dumps but it isn't okay it actually shows you're working too hard or too many hours and they need to just relax book a holiday go and do something yeah um have you got a child three oh wow okay i didn't expect three for some reason i kept seeing a little girl so i don't know why i kept getting a little girl yeah um did you lose a baby yeah okay so that might be the little girl yeah going forward um sorry we kind of went off subject then it was

just like come out um but working too hard or too many hours but there's a lot of stress around you so you need to again like the other card was to ask for help at times you need to have that help and then we've also got a lovely six months which is somebody you can completely trust i feel like this is not a relationship but a new friendship so i'm not pushing you to the side we always say no new friends yeah we do yeah but i feel like there's somebody coming into kind of your circle a little bit being able to give you advice it could be on i need that yeah it could be like on a work level as well but it's being able to trust somebody new so that's within six months okay so somebody new is coming and then you are being handed a lot of money which is always a

good thing she's got enough right pull mine again so nine months is actually but the one thing that it says is showing um and giving others to the less fortunate do you find you've ever been into doing charity well we have literally said to each other yeah we want to start doing well we gave we gave some stuff free and i've been giving loads of stuff to charity i do you know what this morning while i was driving here um there was a bus oh my god i'm gonna cry and it said manchester royal infirmary hospital and i looked at all the people on the bus going to the hospital and i wanted to just get off and give them all my stuff because i was like that's and it's like raining and they were all sat there and it made me feel i wanted to cry

and i need to do more stuff like that because it gives me so much gratitude and i want to like know where everything's going that's what we said didn't and it's so hard at the minute like dealing with got bags of baby stuff and all this stuff and getting rid of it i'd rather like give stuff to some so we need to figure that out we just literally the other week we spoke about in the pod so last week's pod so i won't go on about it but we gave a load of baby stuff and we wanted it to go to somebody that we knew needed it not a charity shop by anyone for a bargain we wanted and it ended up going through a through a social worker to two women that and i heard their stories that needed it yeah that was amazing and i want to we need to book in some kind of we should do

like a full reading next yeah yeah and a workshoppy thing as well where we can get maybe some guidance on stuff yeah because we'll invite everyone yeah yeah because i think from what i've gathered from you you have you you know your your amazing gift but a lot of it is also just about like you've said being positive being being at higher energy and that's there's nothing negative no one can say that's negative that is always a positive i've been at rock bottom and i had no one so if i can help somebody else feel like they're not alone yeah then i'm doing my job i saw as well you're not taking on because this is going to be the message we're going to get kind of get a reading with chloe you're not taking on new readings i am now you weren't the other day because yeah i had

someone so i'm not doing any more one-to-ones at the minute face to face i do a lot of typed email readings and i love an email that you can look back on i love that i don't know if you look back well yes i went to see someone and she made notes and then i've got the note and every now and then i get it out and i think sometimes things don't make sense at the time and then remember when you sent me mine i felt awful i was that busy that i read it i ignored it I know but then but then when I was driving along I got this urge to message you didn't and I was like I'm and I read it again and then I read it again and then I just didn't have it in me and then I started reading and I thought oh my god yeah oh my god and it made more sense I think

I always say a reading always arrives at the right time yeah and when you ever process it it's the right time it wasn't for me and then all of a sudden it was so that's very bold putting things down on paper for people isn't it because you're kind of saying this is what i think yeah some people have had future readings and they'll email back as soon as i've sent it they're like it doesn't make sense i'm like it's a future reading yeah going to you idiot it's a future reading and then they'll email back oh my god it happened i'm like it's a future reading yeah so believe it or not it doesn't have to be straight it will happen don't send me a question the amount of people that book in a question and be like should i have a chinese or an indian tonight

shut up is my boyfriend gonna get back with me yeah he's my boyfriend cheating on me i don't mind doing those i do like doing them but then because i'm a people pleaser i'm like yeah but then sometimes i'm like no no somebody better is coming yeah and that's it that's that is the advice that we all want to put in here somebody somebody and something better is if a relationship does not work out and it's hard to get over believe that something better is waiting for you it always is because yeah i've seen it myself as have you well thank you chloe so you can follow chloe on instagram at chloe mediumship you can also listen to her podcast and we talk to the dead there you go and her book for children when do you think it's coming out next year and then

i have another book the year after bloody hell she's a busy she's a busy girl thank you so much thank you guys Thank you! That was amazing, thank you so much! That was so much!