Nip Tuck - Your Dream Woman?

Episode Date: October 22, 2024

Have you heard of Bonnie Blue, lots of chat about her at the minute so we give our thoughts.We also chat about Lauren's recent encounter with Michelle Keegan and what we would be like on I'm a Celebrity Get me Out of Here?If you want to hear an extra episode this week then you can Subscribe on Apple or sign up to our Partreon patreon.com/niptuckpod Email us [e-mail] courtesy of BMG Production MusicThis week's episode is brought to you by Love Honey - use our code NIPTUCKADVENT for a little discount site wide. Click the link below for Love Honey's advent calendars www.lovehoney.co/niptuckadvent24 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

so lauren we've already spoken about advent calendars on the podcast but we cannot ignore one of our absolute favorites the love honey couples advent calendar mine actually arrived the other day is the perfect treat you can enjoy it on your own or every day you can have a little game with your partner as well let's have a look inside go on she'll open it up actually let's see okay here we go lauren a bullet vibrator oh you can't go wrong with them so it's really small it's waterproof discreet so you can pop it in your handbag if you're frisky at work it's got 10 different vibration functions as well so you can really mix it up and it's waterproof love that could you bloody want them love that there you know what with a bullet vibrator it's

not a very intimidating thing to add into your bedroom totally agree and you can get an extra type of stimulation in a really natural you know a really soft way not to frighten them yeah there's also have you seen this the we vibe sync light oh my god i was looking at this and i was like what is this it's a couple's vibrator right so it's hand-free clitoral stimulation as well when you're having penetrative sex but it vibrates and it kind of gets both of you love it's got 10 intensity levels you can build it up and it is really slim and delicate so it doesn't feel again overpowering i've heard that that one hits you g-spot give it a try girls and then we've got the fave look at that ashley oh it's my favorite pastime the womanizer

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because we we want to help people do business yeah really good but sometimes shit gets a lot doesn't it and we're very bing bong boo and this week yeah bingity bongity boogles heavy yeah it's been a lot so you did your product launch last week yeah and sold fucky shit loads everyone's given a great response haven't they like the feedback honestly as it's made it all worth worth it because i knew it was an amazing product yeah waking up every day to messages that are like i've used it and my skin is unreal when can i use an x1 and then like pictures and oh guys don't get overexcited and think i love it i'm gonna use it again tonight on the day after and the day after because you know it's quite strong stick to the instructions because it's

very easy to think i'll do it tonight as well well that's the whole point of it like i do sometimes use two or three depending on my skin i could yeah but if you're not used to it just take it one step at a time it's all the product basically is all about consistency with exfoliating your skin in a gentle yet effective way so it's a treatment that you leave on overnight you wash your face you pop the treatment on and then you wake up the next day and your skin and cell turnover speeds right up yeah exactly so always say no to any exfoliating scrubs or polishes if you are using what am i gonna say what what scrub am i gonna have you forgot scrub from st ives and i'm not your friend like put that in the there's one that's a blue one in another range as

well that i i do not understand people that use that and that range is very well known yeah and it's a great range it's a great range i don't get it why would you scrub and it hurts i've used it part of the reason to use that range is that that tip does yourself yeah so then to be scrubbing your face i use that scrub sometimes i've got tan on yeah that's the thing to remove tan not your face skin so yeah i've had some really good feedback oh olivia atwood post i know and she did a really nice one as well i know and you know what that just proves guys like what a nice girl she is she wants everyone to do well and she'll do well we have everything's blown up i feel like since olivia hasn't it yeah listeners have gone right oh we were in the daily mail again oh what

a surprise and it wasn't about the podcast again what a surprise talk about the facelift thing oh my god so we've tried to ignore it's like when i was in there for disneyland like i didn't even look at it didn't read it didn't look and look at it not interested but people love to tell you um and it was like what was the headline woman spent ruins ruins face i did not look like myself anymore honestly like and i'm sure they said it was 60 odd grand the facelift i'm sure i saw something that said that and it was like she begged for like she went round to several surgeons and this is the whole point of like what we always say if you're a woman and you speak about cosmetic surgery you're guaranteed to get such shite headlines yeah you're damned if you do and

you're damned if you don't to be honest with it so yeah there was a lot of that and we we've had a back and forth this week because we were asked to go on a tv thing right and we've undenied about whether to or don't think we're gonna um but we we nearly did we didn't we did and we've undenied about it and it sounds great but it's just we have to be careful sometimes like what you do and it's live and it's live and you can't swear on live tv can you so i was a bit scared i had argument with a journalist not long ago yeah what happened told her to do one basically yeah journalists are interesting aren't they they're a different breed but i respect the hustle that's their job exactly they've got to do what they've got to do yeah if you trigger me then i'm like

we've had a really busy week haven't we so weekend let's talk about our weekend we both did wholesome things didn't we so you went to grant the hall yes and you went to a baby show which by the way look gorgeous and you did the cloud nine the necklaces cloud box sorry not cloud and that's so that's megan's favorite jewelry brand i've got the necklace on now she's got that one as well really like it guys have a look at their stuff um really pretty basically it's like personalized jewelry it's not too expensive but also it it's very well made it's not tarnishing is it doesn't tarnish and i wear a lot of perfume and mine and that's what megan was saying that like she's had the most compliments on that necklace i had a lot yeah and i like things because i'm lazy

i'm busy i like things that i don't have to keep taking off i'm not going to take it off every time i get in the shower i'm not and i'm going to spray my perfume on it so without having to spend the big bucks on you know really expensive but it's not cheap enough that you're a bit it's like a nice middle ground exactly and then um the pajamas were the sleepover club i love the sleepover club yeah um have you seen their christmas girl ones no are they nice they've got like little christmas ballerinas on them i've not seen those oh the girls would love that the only issue i have personally myself is with satin pajamas they're not satin they're not satin oh are they not no they're that stretchy um lycra fabric and oh i'm happy about that they're like christmas pajamas

but not christmas pajamas yeah so you don't put them in the bin you don't look like a dick if you're still wearing them in march exactly because that has happened to all of us no teddy's favorite pajamas are some velour m&s elf outfit yes i've seen him in that i have seen like whatever like but we all know that nice below pajama feeling and i don't think they make a lot of boys pajamas in that so he when i open his pajama those elf pajamas i feel like though that is like an ultimate you see someone and they're still wearing christmas pajamas like oh your life is not together you have not got your shit together you're still wearing christmas pajamas exactly i did the actual pattern of the ones that you had

they do baby grows to match oh in pink and blue yeah i liked i really like nice um grant the whole good tell us about it did you have a good time and then doll gave us some stuff as well current body gave us oh have you tried the current body hydrogel eye masks yet no but oh my god they were so good you put them in the fridge and you put them on because you know

I love the 1111 yes but they're so expensive we'll get you some when we go to space I'm sure I've got 80 quid for six

they're so expensive but you know Wonder Eyes and her issue like a little dupe out yeah stunning and then

Kelly Louise did like the cake she is just the best it looked I'll tell you what else looked good who Kelly Louise did Sasha

her baby shower with the cherry theme why can't I think of these themes but did you see him baby on board did you see the one that Megan did for her little girl's birthday and it was Miss Rachel Thiep and Kelly's so good amazing thinking I could not I could not but yeah I loved that I went to somewhere called Everything Retreat tell us about that oh gorgeous was it a gifted stay yes gorgeous who sorted it out for you i know her i know her anyway so who is it she's called louise she's amazing she's friends it's about half an hour it's in don't ask me somewhere about half an hour from my house blackburn what's it about so it is it felt like soho in the north basically so it was gorgeous

so you get there so basically all these cabins they are gorgeous they have hot tubs outside it looked honestly and very private then they've got a little bit we had afternoon tea there we had our meal there there's like pubs nearby there's walks you can go on the rooms were gorgeous the staff really attentive can i get you anything do you want me to bring that to your room so we were just having afternoon tea and i was like i'm really full and the guy was like i'll put it in a box i'll have it sent to your room these touches um and it was just honestly you'd really like it so why is it called retreat is it like a health yeah so they've got um i mean i wasn't going to do that but there was a teepee in the middle you can do yoga and stuff like that but nearby so a lot of

retreats a lot of girl weekend so that leads me on to seeing as everyone's been asking about the keegs michelle keegan so really weird michelle keegan was there the night before we were now if you've listened to the pod from way back when me and james first got together one of my concerns you know you meet a guy you look at your mutual friends you look at who they follow who likes the pictures we've discussed we've discussed this and it was michelle anyway that was back when i first met james if you were listening back then you'll you'll know that but anyway she was there and she was coming in for afternoon tea as we were um and as i've said before when i did a deep dive why do you follow michelle they have been friends since

they were teenagers they grew up together they grew up together she was with like five girls and they were on like a little retreat and they'd done sound bath they'd done yoga afternoon tea they'd had cocktails in the hot tub they'd had like a little sleepover um so it's amazing for that kind of thing for the girls as well and she came in as we did and i was like not michelle keegan and she is fucking lovely so my friends were texting me what does she look like she looks like the female version of god she's like she's so tiny but natural not you can tell tiny gorgeous gorgeous came over me and obviously as i say she's known james for years she came straight over to the table gave james a hug gave me a massive hug and was like the wedding looked

beautiful you both look so gorgeous like she was so nice we had a little chat her friends i knew a couple of them anyway and so did james they were all really lovely her skin was gorgeous but i've been thinking about this go on i'm not taking it away from sure she really tries with her skincare but do you know when someone has just got good skin you can tell i'm sure she does all of it she's just got genetics her skin was amazing she what how old is she like 36 she's 37 36 37 she looks about 24 do you know when you just know that i'm sure she does all her skincare but you just know that she didn't have her so you saw her in real life she she gave me a massive cuddle she was just lovely she literally came straight over huge hug and was like the wedding look beautiful

guys she's like james you look gorgeous lauren you look beautiful like how was it oh my god i couldn't stop looking at the pictures she was just so personable and lovely which i knew she would be because james wouldn't be friends with a dick like she said she's lovely i've heard off so many people that she's such a nice girl as well and then we had a little chat um and mates were with her as i say we know some of them we it was she was just really sound so for those that were messaging like did you see her is she sound yes she's sound yes she's beautiful and yes she's very naturally thin uh and she's very kind and her teeth are very nice that's like olivia as well yes it was so just like perfect it was so funny though because i'm molly may

but it was so funny like when she came do you know when you're having one of those days where you're just not fit i felt a bit sick that day and i just felt a bit shit and i came and then she was there and i was like oh great michelle keegan's here um but yeah she was absolutely lovely but yeah the place was stunning and you can do girly retreats that i've got a code lauren10 i get nothing for it but i on the way out i was like i'm gonna have to ask i'm gonna have to ask and then it just came out of my mouth it discount code but yeah everything what a nice little thing to do with your friends it was yeah friends boyfriend hot tub was gorge yeah really really nice so we've had quite a wholesome one haven't we trying to think what else i did this weekend

um i had something to tell you all and i can't remember coming on soon but we can't say who it is and oh christina got a hard-on over it it's a belter she's a belter i mean really good so yeah that is our week but do you know what lauren you've got me thinking when we're sat here like perving over michelle keegan and stuff like that who's your dream woman so she's a bit nutty but megan fox if it looks wise for me in fact she is for me gothic as well she's just weird but like almost like oh do you know james fancies who sofia oh the spanish she yeah he fancies her um who's yours naomi campbell's absolutely sensational i know but is she not nuts she's nuts yeah yeah she's absolutely nuts she's allowed to be nuts she's one of the most beautiful women

in the world yeah she's like 53 yeah have you seen her she still goes to ibiza parties like i just think she is she is like an alien that's landed in on the planet and she's not she defies age and she defies gravity i don't actually think she's had that much cosmetic surgery who knows though me i don't know but i think she looks incredible i love margot robbie as well i think she is absolutely beautiful i need to say her abby clancy's gorgeous oh god i forgot guys kazza's going on i'm a slug is it true is it true i saw it but i didn't know if it was real if it was like right this is gonna be the best she's gonna win i mean it's all it's written in the stars like she's gonna win she's like the highest paid person i bet she bloody is but i don't know

if i'd do it i would she can get her story across her side but she already has i'm just not sure if i was her i'm not sure i'd feel the need to eat cockroaches it's one of those shows though that's quite um prestigious in that in the reality in the reality world it's not a big brother yeah so it is kind of you'd probably say it's the ultimate one to do personality wise as well it shows you it shows you've got balls it shows who you are but i just don't know whether i could be asked like having spiders crawling on me what how much to be the highest pay how much is she but i think you would be asked my love i don't know i would and also do you know what i think once you get to like a certain age now i always think right i'm pushing boundaries yeah so she's she's

not doing this for their money she's challenging herself it's a challenge and she is quite hardcore as well you know and i think she's gonna surprise everyone like she could you do it i would yeah i would i would no so i often think to myself yeah i'd do it and then when i actually think right lauren would you lie there in a coffin with spiders i'm not i don't know if i could i'd love to be like yeah i'd go i could i don't know if i could know that i'd be the person that got voted oh they'd get you again and again and again and again lauren and me and you need to get a job presenting that that would be so i mean i think and deck are good for now but if they ever want to get rid of them then like we absolutely could you imagine if

you were asked to do it but you were asked to do it as a duo would you prefer to do it together yes because she'd tell me to shut up yeah and then yeah and then you tell me and if she was eating it i'd be like well i'll fucking eat it yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah and i think i've just got this really funny thing do you know when they have to do it as a group like and one has to steer the other one and you'd be like lauren you're going to drop me and be like shut the fuck up i can't steer it i've just got a very funny started as well guys isn't it i don't know If anyone watches that now, I'd do it. I saw that there was a girl that works in a Chinese takeaway

and she was eating her boogies. Ew! And people have been asked for her to come out. She needs to be taken out. Yeah, like, because she's like... No, that's... Eating her own boogs. No, that's not good.

And she works in a takeaway, so then it made me think, well, what does she do in the takeaway? What has she been eating? Absolutely. Have you been watching Married at First Sight? No. No, I watched Love is Blind, but I haven't been watching Married at First Sight.

there was this thing this article going around about this guy was saying that he would he banned his partner from farting like i think that's that's quite common yeah if i started farting ed would be like that's um so you don't fart in front of ed i absolutely not i'd rather like actually eat poo than fart in front of him do you must fart in front of james oh of course yeah yeah of course absolutely like he champions a fart he loves a fart he thinks it's hilarious yeah yeah absolutely but i do know a lot of people that don't do that and i understand why i understand that there's a level that you want to keep the romance and i do agree that now and again one of us will do a fart and then like right let's start getting down to it and he's just far like

i totally get that i think some relationships work with it and some it's just not right for and me and my friends were actually talking about this and one of my friends said that in the five years she was with someone even through childbirth and she vaginally delivered he has never seen her like poo this that the other because one of my friends has seen someone like recently she was texting the group like i need a shit i need a shit what do i do and i was like but is it a new boyfriend yeah yeah no yeah oh my god no absolutely not you need to go to a certain level i said go to asda go to asda pretend you're getting a few bits and nip to the toilet have asda got toilets in rochdale i mean they've probably got blue lights so no one can inject themselves in there

have you ever been to the doctors where they have blue lights you can't see the veins to inject themselves if you you don't live anywhere like that yeah so no so it's a thing yes so it's a thing right so public places in those kinds of areas like for example doctors or i'm making up about asda i don't know about asda but i have been to a doctor's where the light when you go in is blue and the reason it is blue is that people that are going in to inject drugs can't see their veins so it's no good for them yeah yeah yeah i was today years old when i learned that yeah that is true but yeah the farting thing yeah me and james do we we love a fart like we find it really really funny that's just reminding me the farting hasn't but the tv thing i've been meaning to say

and i'm gonna forget if i don't podcast program it's brilliant me and james don't ever watch series we don't quite short though wasn't it well 10 episodes i guess it's gonna finish it very quick we did um i loved it i thought it was brilliant so it's called no two sisters with the podcast what's it called nobody wants this nobody nobody wants this i think it's called and it's on honestly watch it it's on netflix normally when people say watch this i'm like yeah we'll do and i never ever do but we needed something really light-hearted and easy and i actually found it very funny like i laughed which i don't want to watch telly normally um what is it called nobody wants and it's like google it so they've got a podcast basically but it's about their actual

it's on netflix yeah it's about their own lives as well and one of them starts meeting um a guy who is a rabbi and his jewish family don't want her in so it's actually very funny um i really enjoyed it so i would i would absolutely recommend it and there is going to be another series so i'm looking forward to that but it's very funny some of the stuff like that they were saying and one of them saying our podcast about shagging and then the other one's like no it's more than that it's about empowering women and then the other one's looking at her like no it's about shagging we'll put it on patreon patreon girls told us it was the girls on patreon did tell us to watch him do you know what patreon has been such a vibe this oh my god so there was an abercrombie and

fitch sale which i would never have known about but one of the girls was was like girls this code gets you 15 off on top of the already sale so i got loads of bits from that well um one of the girls is just putting now a 20 off everything on revolve code oh really and i'll tell you what else they put in there the other day uh skims the skim sale and there was a chelsea piers sale as well so it's really good like what's chelsea piers fantastic sleepwear lovely yeah actually lovely pajamas stretchy material loads of different really nice yeah like pinky cute guys send in your christmas pajama recommendations because we know that they sell out really quick so i mentioned the asda one asked and sainsbury's have got honestly i just think i love the asda

kids clothes do you know you can buy five zip sleep suits for 25 quid really you know the full on zip yeah yeah i love a zip one yeah oh my god if i had another baby now then so good i get loads of stuff from asda and the boys clothes are very nice in asda boys clothes are hard i think much harder than girls much much harder i'm i'm upset with zara i feel like zara for me now for girls is gonna love it zara i rarely shop there now i mean i got my wedding outfit for your wedding from there oh no i like it for me i just don't i think for the girls horrendous in zara now it depends what you get doesn't it but yeah it can be a little bit like that but for the girls clothes at the minute i'm a bit like oh it's all very um bows floral and bows but like floralizing beige

floral which is not made frilly it's not my vibe at all um but christina's found the name nobody wants this let us know what you think about it i'll tell you what else i've just been watching which is really old but it was on netflix netflix something called cuckoo oh yes where the woman moves in the house and oh weird i liked that so if there's any records for tv shows please do you know what i need a day watching telly you do everyone just comes in i sit and watch telly and the kids come in and just take the remote off well i have probably one day a week where i have half a day in bed watching telly that is a good idea because i'm sorry but i have to i'm so busy my head is gone with so many different things and i have to commit to doing like three four hours

where i've turned my phone off see that's the problem where i only have it where a school or nursery or ed rings me and i've got this rowan holmes expensive expensive oh not that bad no and it's really good quality and then i've got my electric blanket put my fluffy socks on i get a nice cup of tea and i get those marx and spencer chocolate coated biscuits and i put what i want on and my brain switches on my question is on that when you finish your session how do you get up and do anything after that then i get up because i'm done then i can't i am i keep my pajamas on oh i get up and then i think right okay clear the fridge out now with a podcast on it's a potter day right i put a podcast on clear the fridge out decide what we've got left for like

tea and stuff like that then i'll just get into like cooking too by the time you stay at home everyone's back at home yeah right okay i could do it if it was a potter day if it was a day where then i'd have to get up get dressed and do the school run i'll get up and fuck that once i'm in bed i'm in bed i don't have to get out of the car either so i can get in the car how does that work then do they get them from you i don't get this so pull up in the morning yeah and it's staggered by five minutes per year what year they're in and this isn't even a private school no no wow why don't all schools do this i think it is moving more that way with how busy schools are getting the school run gives me anxiety because there's nowhere to part i panic before i set off so you

pull up and then they've got like walkie talkies what the radio the kids that they get the kids out of the car so i've had to move all the car seats around they get the kid out of your car you don't even get out you don't and then they put the kid in your car i this and this is not guys this isn't a private so this is just a school yeah they get them out you open the door saskia bye and push push them out now if you've got babies or smaller kids that perfect because this is the thing that you want how do you get them out i've got the other two that are in these very complicated big baby where you've got the baby bit in the yeah you know what i mean and then she hers isn't as fun isn't as full on yeah but how annoying it is having to unclip the babies

then teddy's too he's running riot like doesn't really understand then snowy i have to carry her in my arms if it's raining then obviously saskia i have to hold her hand as well so i'm like so this is perfect like i am actually considering relocating just for this for the drop just for the drop off yeah mine you have to park get out walk five minutes stand in the fucking rain get the kid there's nowhere to park you can't get in you can't get out oh my god imagine that with a baby exactly trying to get the baby in and out sometimes i put her in after school club just to not i moved that first school do you remember when i was pregnant and i had saskia because there was nowhere to park outside and the gate was so tiny and everyone just queued and i was

like i'm not not doing this no because it adds so much time onto your day as well school run is the the absolute bane of my life so i mean twice a day you have to be at a certain place that's too much it's too a lot of dads do the school run at your school no no they don't know mine some do but not it's mainly women i'd say mainly women so something that's come up quite a bit in patty and a few people have sent me directly on instagram is a girl called bonnie blue on instagram open profile blah blah blah so it's fine to talk about she is can i say sex worker yeah yeah yeah so from what i can gather this is what i can gather i think she does porn right i don't know but i think only something like that and what she does is she films herself and the content that she

gets then obviously people pay for that's how she makes money but i have never seen i'm not saying it's right or wrong i'm just shook so i saw a thing where she said she was going to freshers week she was going to stand in a certain location um and then in that location she was gonna let people make a queue freshers that did wanted to lose their virginity very clever marketing very good marketing yeah and she was going to shag every one of them or as many as she could yeah film it all in a room and then obviously people pay for porn i just googled it then to see like the most recent update and it says here i helped a uni student lose his virginity but his dad got jealous so he drove hundreds of miles and i had sex with him too so and she's hot is she she's really beautiful

she's like very natural which is probably what they like i think like i would hate for her to do all of this get all this attention all this money and then a few years time be a very low point convert to christianity and admit that her head was fucked well i've seen a few people doing same same uh which nothing against that fine but my worry is how much do you fuck your head up before making that do you go through like um i don't know i don't know i totally agree with what you're saying i totally get what you're saying there but then are we are we just missing the point here that she's having sex because she wants to and it's safe sex i hope um and that is her job and that's what she enjoys and there's no head fuckery with it other than that's her career

she's going to make a fortune she likes shagging and she enjoys it and mentally is fine there's that side of it as well and i don't think we can judge it unless it's us i do it's shocking we don't know the ins and outs no and it's shocking to me though it is it's really shocking from like the tiktoks that i've seen her do herself and she's like okay guys today i'm gonna be outside this university and i wanna fuck as many of you in it it's a lot it's yeah her vagina must be really sore and she said i and don't quote me on this because it might be wrong it might be a different person but i'm sure i listened to a podcast that she was on and she said something like where she puts on a forum or whatever somewhere like this is my hotel room and

i want to fuck as many in and there was a queue of guys outside the hotel room like yeah we're about to fuck her but again right this leads how much money is she making though she's not charging them to fuck her no but she's then getting the content that people are then paying for but also can i just say at what point would a man put i'm going to be in this room as many women no what he would do and watch women would stand outside the room they wouldn't men are predators what he would do he would secretly do it on snapchat and text about 10 girls like hi and he wouldn't tell them that they were all at least she's been honest and said i'm shagging all of you what a man would do is text them all separately make them think that the only girl in the world

and still shag them all one after the other but let them think that they were the only ones getting shagged that's what i think a man would do whereas at least she's saying like openly there's no secret what i would like to know is what her her parents think about it like how would that as her father don't even know if she's got one i don't know but how would that make a father feel to see the daughter being sexually i don't know what the word is i think she's spoken about that on one of the podcast i'm sure i saw a clip of her saying something like that her family are because she's making so much money yeah i think they're behind it yeah maybe she pays them um it's a tough one it is a really tough one girls we've asked this before but i'm going to ask it again if any of

you guys are sex workers in any way shape or form i would be so interested to hear from you and all these questions that we've got about this bonnie blue being curious we're just curious we're not like you know no not at all i'm just interested my brain works a little bit too hard yeah for me to be able to be you wouldn't be you wouldn't be able to um process that that's a lot knows how much of an overthinker yeah so you'd be like do you imagine fuck me i'd end up section yeah so i would like to know girls if you are sex workers if you are paid for sex if you i would like to know these questions we've just asked about bonnie can you answer them can you tell us from your perspective how that feels anonymously of course but i would love to know a little bit

more should we carry this chat over on page let's talk about it can i just say one last yes do you know how we spoke about the stem cells tell that yeah so we spoke about stem cells and basically like the stem cells the science behind it don't like you go and go look at it because there's conflicting information whatever but i personally just think for example a girl that i know has just had a baby and her dad's got cancer right and they recommended that she did yeah so she messaged me and sorted all of that out um but i was saying that i didn't do it with saskia and you didn't do it with yeah it wasn't really a thing it wasn't was it and one of the girls in patreon has message saying that if you get one of the kids baby teeth that really creates something about

i'm not i'm a bit weird about teeth as well but like how mad so apparently if you get and i don't you have to go and get it taken out yeah half of it did they say they basically said that if you still want to get the same goodness you can take your child and have this makes me feel so sick half of the tooth removed or something and there's enough in there to be good enough as the stem themselves something like that allegedly allegedly guys we're not doctors um but worth researching if it is something that you're really into i think if i was to have another baby i probably would do that because i think why not why not it's not going to harm anybody if i do do it and if it is expensive that's the thing and if it's helpful then great and if it's not then you know

nothing's lost there but it is quite an interesting i did a lot of research on it and i did decide that it was for me and a lot i'll tell you what else as well since we did the video about placenta eating i know that's not the correct terminology cannibals so many people felt that encapsulating their placenta and drinking that blood smoothie thing was really beneficial to them loads of people said that so i'm glad you know what guys like let's just be open to talking about all of this because you just hear so many different things and like the placenta thing i had heard bad things but for me i think what like what you've just said lauren if you've got the money to do it and the time and the resource why not why not it's not gonna it's not gonna harm you

by doing it as long as it's not gonna maybe okay some people think it doesn't work fine well okay it didn't harm anyone if you've got the money and the resources like you say it's worth looking into but yeah i like the debates and i like how you guys tell us your experiences as well because it's just really helpful and as women these things are always helpful to discuss so before we move over to the bonus we've got a dilemma and you know we love a dilemma so it's quite a long one so bear with but i'll get through it okay girls have a dilemma and i need some advice i've been seeing this guy for a while now at first he was really lovely took me on a few holidays this year he's never been one for compliments but just recently started saying backhanded negative

comments to me and i've just been picking up on a few little red flags so he likes girls pictures on instagram comments on women sometimes every time it's girls that god this is sounding very familiar every time it's girls that are the complete opposite to me i'm small petite dark hair it's always blondes large curvy big boobs anyway i've let this go and i've just thought whatever not really asked we all find other people attractive right but god this is so similar but he keeps saying i've got a child's body telling me i'm too thin and need to put weight on this is what that guy did to me yeah we're not talking about strip clubs we got talking about strip clubs recently and he said they wouldn't want someone like you with that child's body

when i've pulled him on it he says i'm being defensive and oversensitive he sends up says a lot of things to me like i'm the nicest guy you'll ever meet nobody will look after you like me he doesn't think he's doing anything wrong by saying stuff but i feel like he's trying to put me down and it's not and it's not even something i was initially insecure about i don't think i am too thin i like my body he'll never apologize and he always says i'm in the wrong there's been another thing as well i've got kids from previous relationships and he'll say things like you best start saving up that csa hadn't you i don't really know what to do because he was great for the first eight months and now this has started there have been positives in the relationship but i do i walk

away now before this gets worse as i'm writing this i keep thinking if this was my mate i'd be telling her to put him in the bin am i thinking into it too much or is he a narcissist well he's a narcissist he's dangerous and you need to run away right now imagine like you ever commenting on james's body like never in a negative way or even thinking that about one of your friends who's got a different body shape or type to you it doesn't even go through my mind never and as well the fact that there's kids involved i think that's very you know even more so a reason to try and get away from this is not a normal situation what this man is doing right now is laying the groundworks to emotionally manipulate and abuse you now they have to be nice at the beginning of

course they do because you wouldn't go near them if on the first date he mentioned your child's body would you have gone on a second no they have to be nice at the beginning you find that most men that are like this are actually in a crowd they are the most charismatic people everybody loves them they are funny they are jokey they have got a presence about them they have to give that vibe because the rest of them is so bad that there has to be a positive so the positive of course begins at the beginning taking you on holiday all that kind of stuff and then what happens is either they fear that you're going to realize the true them and so they start to think i need to knock her down a peg or two he probably realizes that you're probably too good for him so his way of then

dealing with that is to knock you down a peg or two so that your confidence is lower it makes him feel better then because you are more on a level with him because he wants to feel good the lower you feel the lower you are the better he feels about himself so that's when it starts and it starts with comments about things that you can't really change for example the shape of your body i've said it before this is very similar to me the guy began with and i really liked my body actually i didn't have any problems with it and it was like you two thing you've got no arse he would comment on his ex all the time who was a totally different body shape to me he would make comments about girls that were gorgeous but totally opposite to me and then

i would be like a head fuck basically and something that you can never achieve so you can't become you can't change your body shape so you fucked basically then what they will do is make comments like about how nice they are how good they are because then you start to think validation valid he is really good he is no he's right i'm never gonna meet anyone and over time your confidence drops it's an absolute head fuck and then the money of the mention of the csa with the kids all these things you think i just throw away comments yes chipping away it's not a little bit every day he may not know he's doing it because these people fucked genuinely fucked um but this will happen and this will continue to continue to

happen until you get to a level where you've got no self-confidence you feel shit about yourself you think you're lucky to have him because fucking hell he likes girls that are curvy and blonde and i'm not how lucky am i that he's picked me it is so obvious behavior i have nothing other to say about this then if you carry on you're in danger your kids are in danger um your head will be fucked and it will take you many years to get over this so if you've got anything about you listen to me right now and fucking run okay she says on there as well as i'm writing this i keep thinking if it was my mate i'd be saying bin and run which shows that there's already some damage being done but that's the thing like you always have to say what advice would you give to

your friend and take yourself out of that situation because if she isn't it yeah but she's saying i would be telling my friend but she still isn't been in which means that the the abuse and the mental fuckery has already begun. You know it's wrong, but you're still there. Why is that? Because he has already begun. And please trust me, this will never end in any way other than you being in a really awful position

with your children. So let's fuck this one off. Yes? And Google narcissist. That always helps. Watch YouTube videos. Ashley has just sent something very funny into our little group chat.

It's not funny. Is it not? It's not funny. It's disgusting. i've not looked at it let's let's take right okay sorry you said funny i thought it's funny as in like fucking out yeah someone's being mean okay but we're gonna let's talk about it on patreon don't look at it now don't look at it now i love you guys we'll be over on the bonus if also also really quickly you probably think we know what patreon is but we are still getting

and i think it might be a new influx of olivia followers which is bloody amazing asking exactly what patreon is i'm going to tell you again patreon is an app that you subscribe to and you will get an extra bonus episode every friday on there there is also a group chat with all different chats there's thousands of people in there you can message us directly about facelift surgeons you can contact us directly you can also ask advice in there's loads of girls in there discount codes that is going off yeah a lot of advice girls will put their you know advice in there like what do i do have we had one the other day did you see the snapchat no the snapchat oh yeah the ex girlfriend and she's like girls i don't know how to use snapchat i've just seen that my boyfriend's

ex is on his best friends what does this mean and it is such a safe space it's an amazing space so yeah you don't have to say you are that's what patreon is and you can dm us direct yes you can yeah yeah because we're getting a lot on insta now that we just can't we can't no so we will see you over on the bonus episode now because i need to know what the hell this message that was not good right we'll see you on the bonus love you so much