No Judgment Zone: Exploring Pleasure and Healing - Setting the Ground Rules

Episode Date: June 11, 2025

In this episode, we discuss the context of how this podcast came about as well as what you can expect going forward. You'll learn why the host chooses to be anonymous, what we stand for, and what this platform is NOT. Tune in and stick around. We are JUST getting started! Don't forget to follow us on Instagram @nojudgmentzonepod

Welcome back to the no judgment zone where your secrets are safe, your truth is sacred, and pleasure is the path. Before we dive into the raw, unfiltered conversations that this space was built for, I need to set a few ground rules. One, I want to explain why I decided to start the podcast. It was actually, I was at work, and my coworkers said that because of my voice and because of the conversations that we have, because in real life, I talk about sex. I love sex. They said that I would do great as a intimacy coach or a sex educator. And at first I was like, y'all bugging.

No, I'm not putting my business out there like that. And then, so that was one shift, literally the very next one. The conversation came up again. And I was talking to my man on the phone. And I was like, baby, you hear what they saying? And he was like, actually, that's not a bad idea. Wait, what? Sir, you were supposed to be on my side.

And so just to add a little caveat to that, earlier that day, I had did a card pull. So for those in the spiritual community, sometimes when you know, you're going through life, you need a little bit more guidance or you need some answers on certain things, you can set the tone, set the intention. and have a certain deck that you want to pull from. And so for me, I have a lot of the things in my life that I want, but it's just that one area that I feel like would just push me over the edge that would just seal the deal on everything. And for me, that's financially. So I was asking, what is blocking my receiving a financial abundance?

And I did an African goddess pull. And the three goddesses that I received, one was Tannett, the goddess of pleasure. Let me pull it up, so I am speaking exactly to it. But one was the goddess of pleasure. And then the other one was Satira, the wild woman energy or wild abundance. And the third one was Mayat, which. just balance and giving and receiving. And so as we're having this conversation, the second day in the row, it was like,

wait a minute, is a podcast where we are exploring pleasure and being a wild version of ourselves, not trying to fit into a box, exploring the taboo of life. Can I really do that? And for me, as I said, I love sex. I speak about it anyway. I've had my own journey with sex, which is something that we'll get into as these episodes unfold. But it was an alignment.

However, I am very big on no judgment zone really being a safe place. One of the reasons why it is anonymous is because it's a safe place for me. as well. I don't want you to feel like in order to be your truest authentic self that you have to share every single thing about you with every single person you come in contact with. Part of being authentic, part of being yourself and protecting yourself is knowing who can receive that access to those sacred parts of you. So this podcast now is because we don't need another space for performance, how to show up, how to clean your house, what schedule you should be on, how to work out. We don't need that. We know all the things that we should do. We know all the

responsibilities that we have to take care of. However, we need a space for permission. And this podcast was born from my own healing, from everything I couldn't say out loud until I finally could. this space is anonymous not because i'm hiding but because i'm honoring some truths need the veil of anonymous of being anonymous to breathe freely and fully and for me i need that i need this safe place to show up a hundred percent as i am not sugarcoat not watered down but give it to you just how you like it baby and that's raw right and so So that's where the No Judgment Zone podcast came from. That is why I have an anonymous submission form on the Instagram site where you can fill it out,

submit a question, a confession, whatever it is that you want to share, that you want to get off of your chest, you absolutely can do that. on the Instagram page you can DM me you can leave me a voice note I will respond I will be your virtual bestie okay because I really hope this space can become a sense of community because life is messy it's not always black and white there's a lot of great areas so there are things that we are processing that doesn't fit the set of rules that we were given. It doesn't necessarily fit the morals that all of our friends may have. And so no judgment zone is your soft place to land. This is a place for truth without performance. And this is a place where we explore pleasure,

pain, and everything in between. There is absolutely nothing. nothing that is off limits for no judgment zone. And because of that, I want to be extremely clear. This is not a place for judgment or shame or cancel culture. Although this show may be therapeutic, please understand I am not a licensed therapist. All I can give you is from the resources that I have used, the methods that I employ daily, and I may be able to direct you to other places, but this does not replace therapy. Okay?

Also, this place is not just for women. All identities are welcome. If I say something that may not be politically correct, let me know in love, enlighten me, educate me, not in shame, not in hate. I really want this to be a place of community. Now, please understand, triggering topics may arise. I am a survivor of sexual abuse. I have been through different things in my life that I will share with you all on this platform. There may be things that people write in that may come up.

Whatever applies to you, I want you to take what resonates. But if it does not, there's no. need to speak on it. If you need to skip an episode and then come back when you're ready, you are absolutely free to do that. Your boundaries are sacred here. That is the biggest thing. This is no judgment zone, exploring the pleasure and the healing, a safe place not to just you all, but also me on the other side of this microphone. And hopefully, as time goes on we may have guests who knows i may even reveal my identity at some point you'll just have to wait and see and stick along for the ride but there'll be episodes where we talk about the anonymous

stories that were submitted there'll be episodes where we talk about different concepts or just ask bold questions and like i just said there may be guests that pop up here and there people who know me for real for real life um but always always always i hope to include invitations to reflect to question your reality and to reclaim your own story so now that the rules are on the table let's break every box we've ever been put in you're safe here you're free here this is our no judgment zone and just in case you forgot baby you deserve pleasure