No Jumper - Angry Reactions on Being Falsely Accused, Changing His Name, Pearly Things & More

Episode Date: May 15, 2024

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No Jumper. Coolest podcasts in the world. And today I'm bringing you an interview with a man who's been in the news. I feel like he's been massively misrepresented. And I think you very much deserve to have your story told. And I'd like to get the whole scope of things. For sure. I don't really know what to call you at this point either, though, because I understand we're in a little bit of a transition name-wise.

Yeah. Plus, most people don't even know how to pronounce my name. My name is One-Yea. Okay. Spell it? O-N-E-H-Y-A. Okay. Yeah.

And where are you from initially? Let's just go from the beginning. I'm from Mississippi. Okay. Yeah. And what was your upbringing like? I was raised by my dad. I ain't really know my mom like that too much.

But, yeah, six brothers, three sisters, all raised by my disabled father. Really? Yeah. And, I mean, that's a lot of kids to take on for one man, especially. I don't know what kind of disability exactly. He, like, bear-ridden. Really? So he can't even get out of bed.

Wow. Yeah, for sure. And was it a bit, I hear Mississippi, and I think a picture, like, you know, more of a country upbringing. Is that accurate? I was born in Mississippi, but I was mostly raised in Chicago. Oh, really? Yeah, so it wasn't really country, but it was ghetto. What part of Chicago or?

Southside. Really? Yeah. So you were in the shit? Yeah, for sure. Until what age? until like four years ago I moved away like four years ago

and I mean we interviewed so many like Chicago drill rappers but throughout my life I've also known a lot of like normal people from Chicago so where did your life kind of fall on that spectrum? I was in like a trencherous area you know but I ain't try to like become a you know I ain't try to become like my environment you know so I

I typically like stayed out of certain shit, but, you know, it, I couldn't avoid certain at the same time. Yeah, because I feel like we always kind of end up in that conversation about how difficult it would be for somebody who grew up in a certain gang neighborhood to basically just be like, no, I'm good. Like, I don't want to have anything to do with that, knowing that their rival gangs might view you as just as much of a target as a result of being from there. all kinds of stories in Chicago lore about people getting killed for just being from somewhere,

even if they weren't actually, like, part of a gang. Yeah, for sure. And it's like, we all, like, usually how that shit go, like, we all went to the same school. So it all really depends on who you hang around, too. So I had a very small circle growing up. I just tried to stay out of certain shit, but like I said, some shit was unavoidable. I don't been shot at before. Really?

Yeah, multiple times, actually. Wow. Just like being at the wrong. place the wrong time with the wrong people so but yeah majority of the time I just like stayed out the way right and uh what kind of kid were you like how would you describe your personality i was like I was a you know I was a kid bro I was a kid in Chicago I did some like crazy shit you know but I wasn't like a menace I went terrible like some people I know but yeah I was I was a pretty cool kid I think so

most of the time. So on the scale of Lupe Fiasco to Fredo Santana. Right. I was like... You're like closer to which one? I'm like closer.

I'm like closer to the... Sorry, Lupe. I don't know what Lupe was doing when he was a kid. Oh God, you don't know. Nothing about that man. Yeah, he might have been into some crazy shit. I don't know.

And also Frato Santana certainly probably not the most extreme. Right. I would have said like Rondo number nine or one of them dudes. Oh God. Yeah, they're a little bit more wilder, I think. But okay.

So you, because I'm just saying that based on the fact that we kind of came to know you from making online content. So were you kind of more into that state of mind as a young dude or did that come later? Yeah, I've been making content since I was 14. Oh, yeah. Yeah, I blew up on Facebook a couple times. I had like Tyrese share my video when I was 14, Ludacris, P. Diddy. You know what I'm saying? It was different.

It was different back there, bro. Different era. But yeah, I never really had like a fan base. People used to just take my videos and post it on their shit and not give me credit. But all of that changed like during COVID time. So what was your content like early on? Was it always kind of the same vein of just you freaking out and reacting to things? No, it was just like comedy mainly.

I'm like a funny person like overall outside of this angry action shit. I'm just naturally funny. So, like, I used to just, like, make, like, shit I used to just think of on some funny shit. But, you know, it never really stuck as far as, like, an audience. Hmm. Because it's like it's one thing to go viral. It's another thing to actually have hundreds of thousands of people or whatever really paying attention to you on a consistent basis. And I've known so many people over the years who've had that problem.

And it's actually like that with music, too, where it's one thing to have a catchy song. And you could have millions of people making TikToks to it, but that doesn't necessarily mean that they're going to know your name. Right. My shit would just, like, get big enough for other people with bigger platforms to see it. And then they take my shit. Majority of, like, every time I went viral, it was always on somebody else page. And they never, like, tagged me or anything like that. Right. But shit.

So do you think you, like, sort of found your style during COVID or was it before that? No, no. Around, like, August 23rd, actually, exactly, August 23rd, 2020. That's when, like, I post my first TikTok video, and, like, it blew up overnight. I got a million followers overnight. Overnight. Yeah. What?

Like, from zero. I had made the account that day. And what was the video? It was just, like, angry reaction. I just reacted to, like, a girl making cake. And she was like, oh, the audience, like, talking about me. And I was just, like, defending home some funny shit, you feel me? And that blew the fuck up.

People ate it up. Wow. A million followers is insane because. even like people who get, if you have a viral video that gets 10 million views, it's not like you're getting a million followers off that. Usually, if I got a video

they got 10 million views, I would assume maybe I'm going to get like 20,000 followers. For sure. Extra, you know, like added on. I guess a brand new account might be a little different just because there's probably like, you always hear about people who like get on the TikTok and just kind of explode in followers right away

because they're already identifiable. Like we've seen that with a lot of pop stars and stuff, but I guess maybe to a lot of people they had seen your memes and then this was was like, oh, that's how we can actually follow. I think it was just like a breath of fresh air during those times. Because like, even though I'm angry reactions, all of my content was like on some positive shit.

So I was just like positively like taking up for people or positively motivating people just like acting angry as hell. So like the world does shut down. We all in the crib, you know? And it was just like this positive type of content creator doing it with a, a weird spin. So, like, I think that's what made people gravitate towards me. Yeah, because, like, you know, that energy and enthusiasm, a lot of times is what makes

things go viral. But, yeah, I guess that is kind of the main difference with your stuff stylistically is that it's one thing to be acting angry and being mean. It's another thing to be acting angry, but also kind of being, like, positive in a way and, like, life affirming. For sure. Taking the right side, like, something people can believe in or be behind. but then also like framing it as you being pissed about it.

Right. Something that would typically be negative that had like a positive twist to it. Who would you say was the influences to your style in that regard? I would give a big one of my big motivations to like Mr. T. Really? Wow. Did not expect you to go that deep into the archives.

I was a huge Mr. T fan when I was little. Yeah. And that is kind of him too. Like his whole delivery is like he's pissed, but he's also like saying, all this positive shit. Right, for sure. Yeah. And he was just funny to me with all them damn chains on. Yeah, yeah.

So, yeah. And he's still, like, I'm watching the Super Bowl and he's still got a Super Bowl ad. You know, like, his show has been, I don't know, off the year, off the air for like many decades at this point. And he still looked at as somebody who's so famous and so ubiquitous that people, that brands still want to use him for that kind of shit. No, for sure. As far as my content go, he's definitely a pioneer.

Wow. That's crazy. Yeah, I was watching him as a kid, but I feel like his show was already, like, maybe even off the air when I was a kid and it was just reruns. Yeah, my dad was a Mr. T fan too, so I think like he got me into that shit. A lot of rappers really probably owe a debt to Mr. T. No, for sure. You know, style-wise. Okay.

And so the content kind of starts blowing up and how do you, like, like, what's that like for you to finally have all these followers and to be having presumably like money coming in and attention? Well, at that time, it took a long time for money to actually start coming in. And at that time, I was homeless, bro. I was living in my car. In Chicago? No, no, no.

I was all the way out of Indiana. Oh, okay. I used to stay with, like, my home girl for a while. And then, like, that eventually, like, went left. So I was just, like, homeless living in my car out of Indiana. Wow. And then, like, I made my, literally my first, like, 30 videos in my car. So when it blew up, I ain't even know how to react to it for real.

Like, I didn't even know what to do. I just kept doing what was working. and then like eventually like money start rolling in brand deals was hitting me up and even at that time I didn't know how to deal with it a lot of brand deals finessed me I ain't gonna lie how so they like low balled the fuck out of me and I didn't know because I didn't have any knowledge of any of this so like I would just do shit and get people like millions of views for like $500 but $500 probably felt gigantic yeah to a homeless person hell yeah for sure And they knew exactly what they was doing.

I ain't had no management or nothing. So that's the only thing I look back on like, damn. Wow. I could have got way more paper. So how long we actually homeless for? Because we always kind of have this conversation about how people end up homeless and how quite often it's not somebody who's just actually psychotic, hooked on drugs out of their mind.

It could be somebody who just gets hit with one hospital bill that fucks them up and they miss rent or they lose their job and it just completely sucks them and they are forced to live on the street for a while. Yeah, I was homeless for almost two years. And it's because, like, my upbreak, to be honest, I went to military school when I was 18. And then, like, after that, when I came back, my family weren't doing too good.

Like, everybody was living with different family members, so I didn't really have no place to stay. So I just, I looked around, and I'm like, I don't want to be like, none of you niggas. Like, no offense to my brothers. And then like that, that's just what the situation was. So I just went to a completely different state and I just like tried to build something on my own.

Yeah, when you were looking at your family thinking, I don't want to end up like, y'all, what were you thinking that you wanted to do with your life at that point? I always been telling people I was going to make a name for myself since I was like 13, like right around the time I started making videos. So I knew I didn't want to struggle. Of course, nobody wanted to, but I wanted to be something. Like, I wanted to make away for myself.

I wanted to be like, known like around the world in some way, shape, of form. So that was always the motive. I didn't know, like, how I was going to do it or exactly what I was going to do. Because I also liked to do music. I've been doing music for a long time. But I used to do music and the videos. And the videos was always working.

It's way harder to, like, you know, do music. Get people to take you serious as an artist. Exactly. So, like, I just stuck to what was working, what was giving me results. Definitely. So, okay. you moved to, what actually happened with that girl

that you ended up homeless, or do you not want to talk about the details of that? Nah, like, she just, like, got tired of taking care of me, which is very understandable. You feel me? Well, you're in a relationship,

and you don't really have anything to fall back on, and it's so easy for a relationship to kind of go poorly, right? Yeah, and I wasn't even in her relationship with her. She was just a very good friend, just trying to help me out.

And, like, she would go to work every day, and, like, as a man, I would feel like shit. Like this woman working six days a week and I'm just sitting to her crib, eating her food. I ain't got no money and none. So like she didn't really had to put me out.

I wanted to leave in a way. And we just came to an agreement. Like, yeah, it's time to get the fuck about here. Okay. So it ain't, it ain't no love lost towards her. So what were you doing to try to make something happen while you were homeless at that point in Indiana?

Like, what did you think was going to actually get you off the streets? I was still doing like content on Facebook, though. still like making Facebook videos, just trying to make it work on Facebook for some reason. Like I'm 40 years old. But you couldn't get any money off of Facebook? Right, no. So once my cousin,

she actually a TikTok creator too. Her name Baby Tariana. I think she got like 2 million followers. She's the one who introduced me into TikTok. I didn't even know shit about it. So that's what made me like really start focusing on that app. Okay. And so then the stuff just,

just randomly starts blowing up and then what kind of happens in your life from there. Were you able to actually like get a spot and like kind of get your life together just from the money that you were getting from TikTok and shit? Yeah, yeah. Because August, see, everything happens so damn fast, bro. Like August is when I blew up on TikTok. And like around like October, November is what I met, Pearl. So she played a big part in like helping me like get my shit together.

because I ain't had no ID. I ain't had shit to my name for real. I was just staying in hotels once I started making money. So she, like, helped me get an apartment. She actually let me stay in her crib. And she was, was she living in London at the time, or she was still in? She was in Chicago, right?

Yeah, she was in the suburbs of Illinois. Right. I think, like, Huntley or some shit. How did you actually start talking to her? And for the record, we are talking about pearly things in case anybody's not sure. Yeah, yeah. When I blew up on TikTok,

I was just scrolling on my For You page and I just seen She had made a video like shooting her shot at me Really? Yeah, she was like Oh this nigga, well she ain't said that Not probably, yeah She's like oh angry actually looked Kind of good or whatever so that's like

How we start talking really? Yeah I just Randomly seen a video and was she big yet Or was she still kind of the beginning stages of her career She wasn't necessarily big but she had a lot of viral moments Right okay Because she would like show off like her parents mansion and shit like that. Right.

And so you go and link with her and just hit it off? Yeah, for sure. Like before we even start dating, like two, three days after we met, she let me stay at the crib. Really? She let me stay at her parents' crib. And her parents, like, was completely fine with it. I'm like, what the fuck? Wow, that's interesting.

Yeah. And so what was she on at that time? Because it's like, I've kind of seen her go through this crazy transformation where it's like, when I started paying attention to her, she's doing like dating content. and now she's doing like 16 year old girls are hotter than grown women content on Twitter. I've just seen her like progressively do like this weird slide into more and more extreme content to get people to pay attention to her. Brother, listen, at that time, this is what I tell everybody, because everybody always say like, oh, she had to be a certain way when y'all was together. But at the time that I was with her, like, as far as,

as what I'm seeing on social media about her, like, it was never none of this. It was never no weird shit like this, bro. Like, she was cool. She, she like, if I'm being honest, she like the best girlfriend I ever had, bro. Like, she, she helped me a lot. She helped me a lot, bro. Like, like, she helped me get in the gym more, start prioritizing my health. Like, she helped me, she gave me a place to stay.

She helped me move in. She helped me manage my money. Like, even her parents was, like, helping me and shit. So it's like, as far as who she is today or what the fuck she got going on? I don't know, bro. I think London changed her. Yeah.

She became a whole different person when she went out there. I think that the incentives of the internet really changed her because, like, that dating conversation thing was like a real thing in like 2020, 2020, 2021. And then it kind of turns into more like, oh, people want to talk about red pill shit.

Andrew Tate's blowing up. So she starts going more and more into that. And I don't even know what the fuck she's doing now, honestly. It just kind of like gotten more and more extreme, but she's felt that pressure to change her content over and over to like appeal to an audience when from my perspective, she is not a thought leader. She's not like a brilliant mind. She's just kind of like watching what's going on in the space and she's able to kind of like provide her version of it. Yeah, yeah. Because at the end of our relationship, that's when she started making this type of content.

And shit was just getting a little weird. Like, when we were still together, she told me like, oh, I'm about to go to Vegas to go to this, like, pick up coach thing. And I'm like, what the fuck is you talking about? Like, she's like, oh, it's his pickup coach thing. He, like, he teach guys how to pick up women in, like, bars and shit like that. And I'm just going to make videos about it. And that was the first sign of shit, like, becoming weird. But, like, I let, she'll be a grown-ass woman.

I let her do whatever she wanted to. to do as far as content. It was a little weird to me, but, you know, she could do whatever. Right. Because you never could have guessed that it would have ended up as strange as it got. But I think that's where it started. Because even I interviewed her in maybe 2022 or something, maybe 2023, but like she, you know, like she was starting to like really dabble in some of them like more weird,

all right slash like Manosphere talking points. But it wasn't as extreme. and to see where she even got to be like a year or two after that has been very strange. I feel like a lot of people probably want to know, though, did her, was the fact that you're from like a lower class background

and that you're black, how much of a factor was that compared to the fact that she clearly comes from a more well-off family and is white? Was that much of a factor? I don't think so, bro. I don't think so. Or if it was, like,

I wasn't able to tell. like genuinely she would just like she would just like really try to help me and certain shit like do certain shit or whatever maybe I don't know like what that was for her what her intentions was with that but as far as like how I perceived it like she was just being a good girlfriend of me

and all of this started she didn't even know my situation before she made that video like saying she was like she wanted to with me so like oh no I don't think so I think she was just being genuine That's dope. Well, good for her then. I feel like, you know, I do have like a somewhat negative opinion of a lot of the moves she's made, but that's dope.

No, yeah, I do too. You guys have a solid relationship, you know? Yeah, I do too. Like, I don't agree with a lot of shit she say these days, and that's what I'd be trying to tell people. She was not this person when I was dating her. I don't know why she chose this as the route she wanted to, you know, go down. But I'm just confused as everybody else. But I get slack because I dated her.

And how much content were you guys really doing together? Like, do you talk about that a lot? Like, how are you guys going to work together? Or how much of that was really going on? We shot a couple videos together. Like, I actually, like, gave her, like, her biggest TikTok, like, video. I think it was, like, like, 40 million views. She took it down when we broke up, of course.

But, yeah, she was just, like, she just made a video like, oh, my boyfriend is, like, so positive. You feel me? And I just put the camera towards me and I said gorgeous. And that shit went crazy. You feel me? Wow. But yeah, we never really talked about doing content.

It just like happened most of the time. Mm-hmm. Most of the time we ever did content. So when do things start to go bad? As far as what, our relationship? Yeah. When she went to London. Okay.

She said she was moving to London and you didn't plan on going with her? Hell no. Okay. I'm like, you want to go to London? She's like, yeah, I want to play basketball, volleyball, do this type of shit. And I'm like, okay, that's what's up. And then, like, we try to make it work, bro. Long distance.

Yeah, that shit terrible. Yeah, it's rough. And then she'd be like, she wanted me to, like, fly out there tour and shit. And I'm like, I didn't even have my passport at the time. Right. So, like, she wanted me to fly eight hours and shit out. I'm like, yeah, this ain't going to work, bro. Was there part of you that was like, well, fuck, maybe I'll give it a trial.

I'll move to London, see if I'll. like it. Hell no. I ain't never want to move to a lot. I was thinking about gone because she used to make me feel back. She used to come, you know, she used to come back to the States to see me and shit. So I used to feel bad. Like, yeah, I ain't never went out there to her crib or whatever.

But yeah, it just never happened. We ended up breaking it off before I can even, you know. Yeah, like I love London. It's a great time. But I'll be real, like moving out there, getting this insane culture shock and having the only thing, the only relationship that you have, the only connection that you have to anyone being your girl, just sounds like a recipe for disaster.

Because you, as somebody who hasn't lived out there and stuff, it's going to take you a while to even get in, like, a groove of life. And, like, it's just going to be so much pressure for the relationship to work. Like, I don't know. And I don't like long flights, bro. Right. I don't like flying in general,

but, like, eight hours in the sky gang. Like, come on, bro. Like, you... I'm a nigga from the hood, bro. My family... Everybody in my immediate family has... never been on a flight. Nobody except me. Right. So, like, even when

I had to start traveling for business, I ain't want to. Nigs were scared. I'm like, bro, what the fuck? You hate being up there? I don't mind it. Most of my issue come from like, traveling in entirety. You feel me? Right. Like, baggage

claim and shit. Like, I got to walk 30 minutes to the other side of the fucking airport to get my bags and shit. It's just the whole thing. But, yeah, being in the sky, I fucking hate that shit. At this point, I feel very adjusted to flying, but I totally know where you're coming from because all of my early memories of flying, I was just so stressed out

by, just everything felt like it was going to go wrong. It's just like, yeah, it's a very stressful thing. Yeah, but once them doors lock on the plane, I'd be like, all right, bro, it's my time. But it's always this little weird feeling. I feel like with everybody when you travel, it don't matter how many times you don't flew before,

you never just on there comfortable as hell, like, yeah, no. You ever took a Zan? Yeah, no. That'll do it. That'll get you comfortable. Yeah. But don't go down that route.

Okay. So that relationship ends. What's your thought process at that time in terms of like talking about it to the public and making content and stuff? How does it become public? That we broke up? Yeah. I ain't really like addressed it publicly for real. Like, because I never did content with her on my page.

I never did content with nobody. on my page. It's just all me. So, like, my audience didn't really know that I was in a relationship for real, but her audience did. So, yeah, I never addressed it.

I think, like, the fact that we dated start coming out when people's trying to, like, dig up shit on her. Like, oh, you're talking about fat women. Like, you date this fat-ass nigga. What you're talking about? That's when people start to, like,

recognize me as her ex. It was never really, like, a thing that we created. Right, because it's like easy to make you a target when she's always talking about high value men and shit. I'm like, leave me to fuck out of this, bro. What you mean? Holy shit. So then like, do you end up feeling like you have to speak out against her in terms of just like making it clear that you're not aligned with some of her wackier ideas?

Yeah, I post a couple videos like explaining the situation like, listen, it's not, I ain't. got shit to do with that. She was not like this. You know, because everybody was attacking me, bro. They like, she had to have been like this when y'all was together. I don't know what's going on, but it wasn't like this. And a lot of the narrative, I'm assuming, was like, look at what a, like, bad black man you are for having been with this person.

Yeah. Or you clearly were like. Have the same views and shit. I'm like, bro. Hell no, bro. No. So I just, I felt at a certain time. I felt like I had to address that shit

But after I made a couple of videos I ain't really talk about it for real And did she reach out to you about it? Yeah When she wasn't happy Do you distance yourself or? We were still like We still had a look

Communication behind the scenes for real Because like I was annoyed With the shit that was happening to me Because of her So like when we was talking I was like bro Like look what the fuck is going on

Now if I go and say this about you and say that, I'll be wrong because you got, but like eventually, like, we just, we just left it at where it was. Right. She's always talking about how women should basically be virgins when they get married. Yeah. I mean, I don't want to be too crude or anything, but do you take her virginity? No, listen, listen, listen.

I ain't take that girl virginity, okay? Somebody way before me did. Right. And I ain't even, listen, listen, listen. That would be so legendary to just be like, I took pearly things. Hell no, no, it ain't like that. That's a crazy claim to fail. I get a tattoo.

Unfortunately, I know who did, though. Why you met this? Oh, my God. But, like, listen, it's, I ain't even. It's probably a long time ago, right? I ain't even trying to say nothing too crazy. But no, I didn't take a virgin. Hell no.

It ain't like that. But. No. No. Nah. Nah. Because look, look. Initially, because I hit you up a couple months ago.

When all of this shit was going on with her and I was still like a little bit tight about her. But like I feel like in this point of my life, bro, I don't turn to new leaf. I ain't going to lie. And in reality, that girl ain't doing nothing to me. Right. She was actually a fantastic girlfriend. We just didn't work. So, like, I ain't even try to cover, I ain't even trying to say nothing too crazy.

No, I feel. I respect that because, like, it would be super easy for you to just, like, trash her knowing the internet would eat it up. But I respect you not. Yeah. If she didn't do bad by you, whatever. Yeah, she told me some shit in confidence. And, like, it's, no, I ain't trying to come out like that. She did a gang bang one time?

Take my silence as an answer, bro. I'm just saying, I'm just saying, if I was still pissed, but I'm not. She cool. She was cool with me. And we really, what reason do we have to shame somebody about their past sexual behavior anyway? Type shit, right, yeah. I don't want to be judged for that. I've been doing all kinds of freaky shit my whole life, you know?

Yeah. Fuck it. Okay, so that relationship ends. How long is it before you end up in this other relationship that ends up being especially tumultuous? Well, me and Pearl broke up probably like. like in the we we officially like stop talking to each other like around the end of 21 and I met like this new girl like beginning of 2022 and we started dating like we started messing with each other around like July of 22 and how did you meet her she was working at my um apartment complex okay

yeah she was one of them people who like so you'd already tried meeting somebody through content creator stuff. Now there's a more normal human way. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I was trying to stay like out the way. But I learned like all these women like to a certain degree like care about that shit, bro. They'd be

all wanting me to like post them and shit and like they don't like that the world don't know that I'm in a relationship or messing with them or whatever. And I'm like I post specific type of content. I ain't trying to like force you in that because you like want the world to know. But that always been a problem.

Yeah, totally. Especially, I think the way that you approached to it is genius, because me in my early days on YouTube and shit, I would just be hanging out with a different girl, making vlogs, just kicking in with different girls, and it would just be non-stop problems where they would get hit up by some dude they went to high school

with who would be like, what the fuck you're doing and kicking it with that fool, he's a scumbag, whatever, or like, you know, you make a video hanging out with one girl, there's some other girl you're seeing, she's pissed, she ain't fucking with you anymore. It's like, if you get, known on the internet for doing one type of content. From my perspective, you should stick to that content, but be very deliberate about

anything else that you're going to do. Like, if you decide that you want to share your girlfriend with the world, do it. But make that decision very carefully and deliberately, because you realize a lot comes with that. And that's what I'd be trying to tell these women, like, you don't understand how the internet is until you actually in that shit. Once you put the internet in your business, they stay there. You can't like, you can't like separate certain situations like, oh, I wanted the internet to know this about us, but not this.

You feel me? And then let's say like, I do something to you that you don't like. You're going to feel the need to go tell the internet just because I gave you this platform. Just because you feel like you owe them an explanation, like, why we ain't making videos no more and all. So it's just like, it's too messy, bro. I like to keep my private shit private. And plus, like, she really pretty, bro. And like, I ain't want to post her like, show.

going off because even after all this crazy shit, when I'm posting like videos of her beating the shit out of me, people still like, you could beat me. They're still in her, and her DM's like, you could beat me. Right. Like, so it's like, I just like to keep my shoddy to myself type shit. Definitely. That's a wise move. You were wise beyond your years at that point because that's something that I think

a lot of people, it takes them a while to figure out that that's probably the best move. Like, if I was single right now, I would probably. probably be honest with any chick that I was going to date. I'd be like, listen, like, it is going to be many, many months before I acknowledge anything is going on with us publicly. But unless, like, I'm also in the porn world. So it's kind of different. But it's like, unless you're like a content creator and we're just going to kind of be

like hanging out and just making content about us hanging out. But also, like, I would be down to make content about us hanging out. Even if we didn't have anything going on sexually, we could just kind of troll people and fuck with the world and just like presented as if we're hanging out. but I'm like if it's a real relationship I would want to you know respect the sanctity of that relationship by not putting it out there to the world because as soon as you put it out to the world you got thousands of people are going to be weighing in on it and the reality is is I might be mentally strong enough to just be whatever through all that but chances are you

aren't exactly but they don't be seeing it like that they just be like I want all these bitches in your comments to know you take it that's that really be the issue 100% yeah And I'd be like, bro, you don't know what come with that. Yeah. And ain't nothing you could say to them, those specific type of women to, like, convince them otherwise. So it's like, it's nothing you could really do about it for real. For sure. But so how long, like, you get into that relationship and does it seem like everything is perfect?

Or are you seeing signs kind of right away that she might not be all there? In hindsight, bro, when I look back at the shit, like, I ignore a lot of signs. That's why when it comes to the position I'm in right now, I, I, I, I, I, I blame myself, to be honest, because I allowed certain shit for too long. Like the first week, I still got the text message right now. I text her like, the first week of us day, and I'm like, it's not cute how easily angered you get. Like, I still got the text message. I'm like, it's not cute how fast you get mad.

So like, when I look back on shit like that, I just like, I just shake my head because she pretty. It's easy. to like ignore certain shit with a pretty female, with a pretty woman, bro. It's too easy. You want her to be the thing that you are imagining in your head.

So you'll just kind of let shit go because you want to have this cute-ass girlfriend, but, you know, that might make you kind of ignore a lot of shit. Exactly. And I ignore, bro. I ignore hell of shit. And it end up biting me in my ass at the end of the day, bro.

Okay, so from the very beginning. But like, was it physical from the beginning? Like, was she someone who was, like, quick to just start attacking you it made argument? It didn't start off like that she had just like get verbally like abusive like it started that way and it came

like it wasn't immediate either because like in the beginning of relationship it's the honeymoon phase it ain't really no issues for the first couple of months but like it started to happen like three four months like after we made it official and that's what I was

really started looking at her like, you crazy. You're insane. Like what kind of stuff? Give me an example. Like, I'd never forget. The first time anything got physical between us, I was living in a high-rise downtown Chicago. This was in 2022, end of 2022. We were standing in my game room.

She was mad as hell about something. I don't even remember. I just remember her smacking the dog shit out of me, bro. I swear to God. I just remember her smacking the dog shit out of me. And it was one of them smacks where you, like, feeling woozy after. I'm a big-ass, I'm a big-ass dude, bro. You look like you could take a punch.

Bro, she smacked the dog shit out of me, bro. And I'm just sitting there, I'm just sitting there trying not to react. So I grab her, I pick her up, put her outside of my room, and shut the door. Because I was pissed. And then, like, I stayed in the room for, like, two hours just playing my game, trying to calm myself down. She came in all apologetic. I'm sorry.

I was drunk. I was, you know, I was in my feelings. I'm sorry it had never happened again. She was lying. Oh, God, it happened again. But that was like the first time anything ever got physical with us. Do you think that her drinking was a big part of it? Yeah.

Many women throughout my life were like totally cool whenever they were sober and just the worst person ever, as soon as they were drunk. Bro, this situation while I went to jail, it happened while she was drunk. Right. I don't drink at all. I don't drink at all. That shit, disgusting. Smoke weed?

I smoke weed. Okay. Well, I stopped like two months ago. Okay. I was. But that shit was, that shit disgusting. But she was drunk as hell when we got into it. And that's why she was making all of these, like, crazy decisions when it came.

Like, it's like talking to a brick wall when I was speaking to her, bro. I ain't going to lie. Like, I would try to break shit down the best way possible, and it will never get through to her. Sober person plus drunk person is very unlikely. to work from my perspective. Because, like, if I'm with a chick and we're both drunk, chances are we can have a good time. If she's drunk and I'm sober, there's almost no chance that we are going to be able to have a good time.

Like, and you could be like lightly buzzed. But as soon as you get like really drunk and me as a sober person, I'm not the most tolerant person. Like, I'm just probably not going to really be fucking with it. I'm probably going to leave. I'm probably going to like kick you out. See, I'm, I'm chill though. Yeah, you do seem pretty chill.

I'm, bro, I'm chill as fuck. 99.9% of the time the only time you will see me ever get out of my character is if somebody fucking with me and like when I say fuck it with me, I don't mean like it takes a lot to really get me out of my character

somebody got to be really fucking with me to get that side of me out. You feel me? So like she could be drunk she could be whatever like she don't been drunk plenty of times and shit was cool but once you start getting aggressive and once you start like doing too much and like that's when it gets

It's like annoying. Especially like if you create a situation while you drunk and for some reason my dumb ass trying to talk to you while you drunk and like explain how you doing shit, of course it's not going to get through to a person who's drunk. So it's just like. So what was the actual situation the night that you got arrested? What were you guys doing? Bro, we was we was at a Super Bowl party at her friend crib and like she was.

she was hanging out with her friends in the living room and I was hanging out with her friend boyfriend and he had some friends over right? So one of her friends, boyfriend, friends, he had like a pistol on him,

Glock or whatever. So he was talking real big macho like in a driveway when we were smoking and shit. So it's like he was basically trying to clown me for dating a white woman. Really?

So I'm like, and in a, In hindsight, bro, everything that nigga said that night, he was absolutely right. Shut up. Like, what kind of shit? Like, he was saying, like, specifically about her, like, she going to get you in some fucked up situations. But at the time, like, that's my shoddy.

Like, that's the mother of my son. Like, what the fuck? Like, so I'm like, I- Oh, you had already had a kid together at this point. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. This was like February.

Okay. So I'm like, I'm like, watch your words. You know what I'm saying? you can have your opinion about black people and white people or like intimate interracial dating and all that shit cool but when it comes to my woman I don't get to fuck what her color is you're not fin to disrespect her in any type of way so like he was threatened to go to the car get his pistol all of that macho shit bro but like I end up letting them have it I'm like my son and now like I ain't even trying to play too tough right now also maybe like the worst possible reason to shoot somebody I could ever imagine he was drunk he was drunk he was He had a bottle of Casamigos in his hand. This is why I got to stop hanging around people who drink, bro. Because he was drunk as fucking, like, talking about, everybody trying to calm the situation down, it end up calming down.

So when I, when we go back into the living room, she don't even know, I'm pissed. She don't even know that he was just sitting there talking about her and shit like that. So, like I said, I make music. And she drunk at this time. She's like, baby, let me play your music off YouTube on her. And I'm like, I was trying to explain to her without causing, like, a scene.

I'm like, you don't know what the situation is. Like, this audience is not as friendly as you're thinking. So I'm telling her, don't play, don't play my song. She played one song. I'm like, okay. I don't play another. She play another song. And I'm like, okay, it's the last one.

She play another one. So at this point, I'm just annoyed. And that right there is what started all of this shit. that small situation right there is what started all of this shit. So we got an hour long drive back and she's still drunk and I'm telling her because this doesn't been a conversation before. Like when I ask you to do very simple shit, like just please do it. I pay every bill.

I take care of you with my son. I protect. I provide. I treat you with respect. The only thing I ask is for you to do the small shit I ask you to do. You don't got to clean. You ain't got to cook. She don't even ought to cook.

You ain't got to do none of that shit. Just do the simple shit I ask you. So she didn't. And I was trying to explain to her what the situation was. But because she's so, she drunk and because she, like, she quit to get angry in any type of situation, the conversation went left. I wasn't mad. I didn't approach the situation, like, aggressively and none of that shit. I'm like, how many times have we had this conversation to I ask you to do something and you don't do it?

niggas she started she started like going crazy on me in a passenger seat bro like just going crazy I'm damn there pulled over on a on a on a highway bro because she like going crazy and my son in the back and like

and that's what started all of this shit that whole situation went to the crib and like that's when she started to get physical bro like and and I end up getting arrested of course on a felony charge So she's attacking you, to what extent do you restrain her?

Or like, what's your response? Because I'm assuming that you're a fucking giant compared to her. So it's kind of a weird position. Bro, anytime that woman get physical with me, the only thing I do is restrain her. That's why I'm so pissed at her right now. Right. Because she is a small white woman and I'm this big black dude, right?

So when I do grab her, when she acting crazy, when she attacking me, I leave bruises. Right. But when she's showing these bruises to anybody with a normal IQ, you can see, like, these are not you being beaten bruises. This is you being grabbed bruises, right? But she's given this narrative that, like, I don't know how to control myself and my emotions. when she knows it's the other way around. So I never bawled up my fist or even open hand smack or hit any woman.

Right. But it's always the women, because I don't have been in this situation before with a past girlfriend. It's always the women who put their hands on me accuse me of being a woman abuser. I'm a million things, right? you could call me whatever. I'm not a nigger who put his hands on women. I'm just not. What I am is somebody who's not about to allow anybody to put their hands on me.

And is that so fucking crazy? I don't care if you got a coochie, a penis, a combination of a tool. Because you don't know how to control yourself, you want to put your hands on me, and then when I do something about it, when I react in any type of way, now you want to say I abuse women, that's fucked up bro. So you're just like grabbing her by the wrist? I'd be grabbing her by her arms

like because she's short like five six, five seven so like when she acted crazy yeah I grab her by her wrist sometimes when like her hands are swinging but like most of the time when she like charge it at me I grab her arms, you feel me?

So all the bruises and shit that she posted that whoever saw it's on her arms like it's fingerprints and I'll be like but the internet just see a woman with bruises. And I'm like, bro, if you actually think about how she could have got these bruises,

it's very easy to understand what the fuck is going on right now. Right. And also, like, if you were to hit her one time, I mean, it's going to be pretty fucking obvious. I could knock her head off her shoulders if I wanted to, bro. Like, what do we talk? Her having bruises on her wrists or arms is just like that's almost, like, what dude beats the shit out of his girlfriend and just aims for the fucking arm? Bro, that's literally what I was saying to my father on the phone.

No dude who beats his girl has the self-control to constrain themselves to that. And most of the time, dudes who put their hands on women is not good at communicating. That's why they go to physical route. I'm very, it's very clear that I know how to communicate and get my point across. So I'll be talking to this woman. I got video evidence of this girl putting her hands on me and me not doing anything back. I got so many videos of me talking to this woman, just like I'm. I'm talking to you.

And she's mad, she pissed, she whatever. And I'm just trying to calm her down. So it's very obvious what the fuck be going on. But like I said, bro, what hurts me the most about all of this shit is because there's no way I could convince you what actually happened. There's no way I could convince anybody who watching this video right now what actually goes on behind closed doors. You got a choice, whether you want to believe what she be saying or what I'd be saying.

But this girl know me, bro. This girl knows me. She had my son. we was locked in a few months ago this girl knows me and she's trying to push this narrative and destroy my reputation that's what fuck with me the most bro

because she knows that that's the only way that she can really get at you literally yeah she don't boy it's the most powerful route towards fucking your life up literally it's better than stealing from you it's better than I mean getting you arrested which obviously that was part of it too

but to ultimately be able to destroy somebody's reputation without having to actually prove any of the shit that you're saying is such a powerful tool that a pretty large percentage of women at some point in their life are going to deploy. Bro, you don't understand how much money I lost just behind those accusations. Just the fact that TMZ posted that I went arrested, everybody pulled out, everybody. It's not even, they didn't even wait to see if it was true. It don't matter.

It's the fact that you was child friendly and now everybody's saying you put your hands women. I lost millions, bro. Wait, okay. So go back to this night. How do the cops end up getting involved? She calls them? She didn't call the police. The neighbor? No, no, no. Actually, she did call the police. Okay. She didn't call 911, though, for some reason, for some reason she called the police department. Okay. And she's like, oh, I want to report what happened, but I don't want them arrested. This is what she was telling me. She's like, I just,

wanted to report what happened. I didn't think they was going to arrest you. I'm like, what the fuck did you think was going to happen? First of all, the story you telling them didn't happen. The story that you told them, and this was proven, her friend, her friend that we was, her friend house that we was over for the Super Bowl party, we went there to talk about everything. It was me, her, her friend, and her friend, boyfriend. We all had this long conversation about what happened. And we all came to the conclusion that she fucking, I could call them right now to back up my point. She's a fucking liar.

So you telling them all of this shit and you showing them bruises, what the fuck did you think was going to happen? Right. She wants them to come over and give you a slap on the wrist and say like, hey, cut it out. I mean, obviously, if she had a fucking ounce of knowledge about this shit works, she would realize that the cops pretty much like any time to get called for domestic violence are going to have to arrest the guy. It's so much shit that makes me upset about like how she did me, bro. Like, because she doesn't put her hands on me more times than I could count. I ain't never caught a police on her. I'm just not the type.

You a little-ass girl for real. You ain't hurting me, but you are slapping the shit out of me. You ain't throwing shit at me and leaving scars and shit. You is like hitting me with shit. I could do this to you if I wanted to, but I'm not. We locked in. You my shorthy. It don't matter if you're mad right now.

Like, I'm not going to do that to you for real. I don't want nothing on your record. And, like, when I defend myself from her, and I don't even hit, I don't even hit when. I will never hit a woman, bro. Like, but I'm going to do something if you're putting your hands on me. I'm not going to just, I'm not one of them niggas who like, babe, stop, please.

This isn't like you. No. You're going to curl up in a ball. I'm not one of those nigg. this, bro. I'm gonna, I'm gonna do something to stop you from hitting me. Right. And it's people in my DMs to this day. Like, hell of a man, you are. And I'll be, some messages I open, I'd be like, bro, I got video of this girl like beating the shit out of me. And I send that video to them and they're like, it don't matter, bro. She's a fucking woman.

You should. And I'm like, so let me get this track. She's, she's hitting me. And instead of going to talk to her about what she did to start the shit, you want to. scold me for how I reacted? What the fuck? What the hell is going on? It don't matter if you're a woman. None of that shit matter to me. But the society we live in these days, bro, everybody is convinced that.

Oh, it's worse when a man put his hands on women. Physically, yeah, of course, males typically is stronger. As a man, you pretty much are always going to have to show a lot of restraint in the situations. And I do. Like I said, if I was a menace, bro, you would know if I actually put my hands on this. woman, bro, I got hands for real. And you know, like I know, especially coming from Chicago, that there is a lot of fucking guys, including guys who will sit on this podcast and will say, if my bitch puts

a hand on me, I'm beating the dog shit out of her. That is a very normal disposition for a lot of guys from your background. And so for you to say that you would not choose to engage that way, I'm the same way. But all I'm saying is that there are a shitload of dudes who do not think that hitting a girl after she hits them is a big deal at all. I know a few. Yeah. That's what I'm saying.

And I'm like, bro, it just hurt that she's trying to spin this narrative knowing that I'm damn near the victim. Yeah. But I don't see myself that way. I'm a grown-ass man, bro. You're just trying to spin this shit and, like, ruin me, bro. So the cops come and what do they do? Oh, it was five of them.

Bro, the cops came the next day, bro. I got my son. She had a hotel or something shit. I ain't even going to call her bitch. She doesn't stole my car. She doesn't run off. So it's like, I'm with my son. It's like 10 o'clock at night.

I'm making me some noodles, nigga. I'm chilling. I got my jammies on, bro. I'm like, oh, me and my son, we're feeling asleep good. Five police officers lock at the door. I look at the people. I'm like, I'm going to jail. I already knew it.

Because there ain't no way in hell. Five police officers are showing up to talk to me. When I open a dough, because, like, my son was sleep. I ain't want to open the door for real. but they was banging so hard they woke my son up. He stopped crying. So I'm like, whatever. I opened a door. They like,

we had to talk to you about what happened and I'm like, bro, if y'all came here to arrest me, just do it, bro. And they're like, oh no, we didn't come to arrest me. We just want to hear you outside. It was fucking lying, bro. So I told them what happened and they arrest me. They're like, on a felony charge, I had to pay five grand to get out of jail. I ain't getting

money back and the case was dismissed it was dropped she she she felt bad she was crying and shit that I went to jail oh she didn't think she didn't want that to happen up but I did so they took me to jail bro that's that's what the fuck happened right and so did you get the feeling though that they actually thought that you were a fucked up person or did it feel like they were just doing what they had to do as a result of any kind of yeah V charge being reported yes bro That's literally what they said. Like anytime calls like this happen, we have to make an arrest and all that.

Bro, like I said, I have my son. I'll never forget this day. This girl done traumatized me, bro. My son ain't in nothing but a diaper. We're sitting there chilling. So when they told me they had to arrest me, they took my son out of my hand. Put me a handcuffs, bro.

And they walk in the other way down the hallway with my son. I'm hearing his cries fade off. While I'm in some fucking handcuffs going to jail, bro. and I will never forget that day, bro. I will never forget that I still think about that shit. Just the fact that the kid's probably not going to forget it either, too, man. That's insane.

And that's her kid. Like, she initiated that, you know? Yeah, yeah. And, bro, it's clear as day she don't respect me as a father, bro. Because even after all of this shit, this is how much, this how hard I love, bro. Even after all of this shit, I still was trying to make it work with this girl. The reason we're not together right now, she left. It was, it would, shit was just getting worse.

It was to the point where I couldn't talk to her about shit, nothing. Like any conversation I tried to have, she'd be like, I don't want to talk. I don't want to talk. Aggressive as hell about everything. So we kept getting into it about small petty shit. I ended up getting a hotel for two, three days just to leave her to herself and let everything calm down. I came back She didn't pack

All her shit and left Really She in Wisconsin With her family With my son I ain't seen my son In a month Bro

I ain't seen my son In a month And he about to be He about to be Nine months on the 12th My son Couldn't sit up by herself When I said

He couldn't hold his bottle He couldn't walk I'm missing important milestones right now And she don't give a fuck I'm begging this girl FaceTime with me At least

So I can see him Right I couldn't, I FaceTime him one time since she left. I was begging that girl for three weeks and she would not budge. And she's just using this to like piss you off and get you into a bad emotional state by withholding the one thing that she knows that you can't get away from how much you care about. And she justifies her actions with lies, bro. This is what she's putting me in a, in a position. Like publicly I can't win.

she telling her friends, her family and the internet that I'm this abusive monster and that's why she ran away oh oh but like I got this long ass messages of a million reasons why she told me she left and not one of them was because

I'd be putting my hands on her not one of them she never once said I fear for my life my safety of my son you be hitting me you be whatever she said I left because this this this and everything she named a nigga on my mother's grave

everything she ever get on me about, be reactions. After she do something, after she do something fucked up. She will skip over the shit she did to talk about how I reacted. What type of shit is that, bro? I've never in my life dealt with a person like her. I swear to God, bro. She ain't the type to self-reflect and like, yeah, I know I started it by doing this. I could talk for 30 minutes.

Like, yeah, I reacted wrong. I shouldn't have said that. I shouldn't have did this. In the minute I said, but none of this would have happened if you wouldn't. Oh, see, there you go, trying to blame everything on me. What? I swear to God, nigga, right hand of God. I'm like, I couldn't win, bro.

I couldn't win. So I ain't heard shit from my son. None of that, bro. We're in a weird custody battle and shit like that now. And it's just all fucked up, bro. She's trying to ruin me publicly and privately, bro. because like I said bro,

understand something at him and I know I'm rambling right now It's important because you're speaking for a lot of fucking dudes out there

to deal with this shit Understand something Understand something Bro This ain't my first breakup I'm not upset That she left Right

If she didn't feel like Like this relationship Was for her She's a grown ass woman That's your prerogative You can do whatever The fuck you want Leave

I'm not gonna beg you To stay with me I'm not a upset that she left. I'm upset how she left. I'm upset how she left. Like, she didn't even respect me enough to sit down and have a conversation like, this ain't working, bro. I don't want to do this. Let's figure out a way to be co-parents. Let's figure out how we're going to go about this because this ain't for me no more. She up and leave with my son. And I'm begging her. I'm begging her. Long ass emails, because she doesn't block me on everything. Long ass emails. Like, let's

figure out what the fuck is going on because you still got hell of shit here my son crib and his bassinet and everything that was too big for you to take on the flight it's still here what the fuck is going on how we're going to do about what's going on bro a week a week after she left she already fucking with something new do a week after she left she already out there fucking with something new do with my son won't let me see my son and just like she then already destroyed my image The only thing I ever posted about that girl was me defending myself. Like, I'm not this type of person.

I never publicly tried to come at her, ever. I can say something right now about some shit I know about her that will have everybody who come in contact with her perceive her differently. I can say something right now that she told me in confidence, but I won't because I don't want to destroy her life. But she told the internet, I was beating her while she was pregnant. I was dragging her across the apartment. I was cheating on her.

all of this shit because she was mad at me gang she was mad it wasn't even a situation to where she was like okay we just got physical and I really feel like a victim I can't let this I can't let this keep happening and I got to tell my story no she was mad

that I was on live talking about how difficult it was being with her and nobody knew who the fuck I was talking about nobody knew who she was when I got arrested nobody knew who she was her name wasn't in a document and none of that no one knew.

So I was just talking about a Jane Doe. But she got mad that she knew that I was talking about her. And she posted all of these videos with all of them bruises and shit from months and shit ago of me defending myself from her to try to push this narrative that I'd be putting my hands on her, bro. Right. Damn. So, okay, how long between the incident and it being reported on TMZ and shit?

Is it like instantly? It was like three days, three, four days. And does it just open the first? floodgates where you're because there's probably so many people that don't even know you who are attacking you as well as all these people who are calling you or calling themselves fans of you and you're probably turning on you left and right and you've never really dealt with this before you never been like you as far as I know you never even had like a mini cancellation bro I've never had I've never had like negative comments right like I was the positive creator I didn't even have

negative comments. So I wake up and everybody sending me these articles and shit and everybody posting me like angry reactions arrested for domestic violence against a woman. Now, all of the people who don't know my content, they just see me as an angry black man. And that's why that story was so viral is that you don't even need to know that there was a content creator named angry reactions,

but it's just the idea of a person with that name who was caught up on some domestic violence shit. It was just so, automatically viral that people just had a feeding frenzy about it. Hey, can you pass me a paper towel, bro? These lights hot as hell, bro. And I'm stressing. But yeah, thank you, bro. Yeah, that's exactly what it was.

Most of the people who was commenting on that didn't even know who I was or what type of content I made. The people who was fans of me, it's like, bro, I know, I know you didn't do this. I know you didn't do this. it like bro it's been a worst couple of months of my life

and that's a fucked up part too is that because you were keeping the relationship part of your life private that when this comes out it's like

that people haven't observed you guys together because if you had been showing your relationship consistently and showing what you were dealing with and showing that she had

this sort of crazy side to her a lot of people that were in your fan base probably would have been more sympathetic but because you decided

to try to keep stuff as off camera as possible it was it was worse I'm assuming and bro it's just overall bro it's a sad situation overall because like everything

it took me years to build up this shit bro it took me years from nothing like literally the modern American dream is being the dude that has fucking no resources and is able to get it out the mud YouTube or TikTok or whatever. Like that is what all these kids want to do. Bro, everything I had when I met this girl,

I no longer have. Everything. I lost everything. And like I told you, like I told you, it's not about her leaving as how she did it. You're not only trying to leave, but you're trying to leave me with nothing.

You're trying to destroy me. You don't destroy my reputation. You don't destroy my income. You don't took my son. You got people looking at me sideways. Like, and you run in the smear campaign. Bro, when I posted the video of her putting her hands on me, she told me like, I'm getting death threats because you posted this video.

I took it down and she still refused to take the videos down of me. She still had videos up of me painting me out to be a woman beater. Right. Because when we were supposed to do this interview the last time, maybe a month or two ago, you had made a couple of YouTube videos where you were breaking down where you were at and what the whole situation was. But then she came out soon after that and put out another video where she basically said like, no, you are not innocent. You're actually guilty as fuck. And the only reason I didn't press charges is because I felt bad for you or whatever.

But she, it felt like, you know, maybe things were calming down. And then she decided that she was still pissed and she just wanted to amplify the shit again. Once I got arrested and there was a felony charge, she was scared as hell. She was so apologetic. She felt so bad. And then she was on my side. She kept sending emails like,

I don't want to do this. I don't want to press charges. He's innocent. He's whatever. She was on my side. The case got dismissed, nigger, we went out to celebrate. She was happy.

She was all of that shit. But a couple weeks later, like I said, I went live. That one live, That one live made her do all of this. Made her do all of this. And she was like, oh, I could have pressed charges, but I didn't want to. And like I said, bro, I'm a, I'm a, I'm a keep saying this, Adam.

The main part that hurts me, bro, is this woman knows me. She know who I am. This woman looked me in my eyes and told me she was going to die with me, bro. I'm telling you, when we went to the hospital when she gave birth to my son, she had a C-section because he was breached. They had to cut her open. Like, they asked me to step out of the room for two minutes so they could prep her for surgery.

She's screaming for me, bro. They let me back in. She got tears running down her face and all of that shit. I'm kissing her face telling you, you strong, you beautiful, you got this, you whatever. She thinks she's going to die on that table. I ain't never in my life been through no shit like that with anybody. I ain't never in my life been through no shit like that with anybody.

And even after all of this shit, a couple weeks before she left, she told me because I told her, I told her like, I feel like you, you mentally checked out because I can't talk to you about shit. I'm trying to solve shit.

I'm trying to fix shit. And you're not budging. You don't want to talk about shit. I feel like you don't moved on already, but you're still here. And she's like, no, I don't want nothing more to still be like a family

and whatever that shit. But I was absolutely right, bro. She left and she was fucking with somebody a week after, bro. A week after. A week, my nigga. And she don't even want to be a decent parent. She don't even want to like figure out how we go.

You just can't up and leave with my son. And then I find out this is how she left her last two relationships. What? This is how she left her last two boyfriend. She up and left without telling them shit. And I'm thinking I'm different. I'm thinking it's different. We have a son.

You didn't have a child with these other niggas. and you still do this shit you still just up and leave and now you're taking my son when I finally FaceTime my son after three months bro he wouldn't take his eyes off of me bro he's smiling he laugh and he giggling

you think my son don't miss me right now you think he don't understand you think he he's not confused as to why he don't see me around I'm missing all these important milestones and all of this shit that I want to be around for and she not showing no signs of giving a fuck, bro.

At the same time, trying to simultaneously convince the world that I'm this terrible person. And you're creating this lifelong project that you're going to have to be on of basically, like, explaining this to your son and how you didn't want to have to be apart from him and shit as he gets older. And all because of her trying to make this kind of statement.

It's just, it's fucked. Bro. I'm at the point now, because I don't got lawyers involved to try to like see my son now like we in these weird ass court cases bro and like we in this weird ass custody battle

and we're doing all of this shit because I wanted to see my son she don't know how deep this shit is going she don't know because she doesn't threaten to take shit to the internet before and I'm telling her like you ruining money for my son and a few

This is his future, bro. Like, this ain't just for me. This ain't just for you. I'm stacking his bread for him. You ruining this shit because you mad, bro. And Adam, you can only understand this shit to a certain degree, bro. You don't really understand this shit.

Nobody do. Because, like I said, I can't convince you of the type of man I am, bro. You just got a choice whether you want to believe me or not. She knows, bro. she knows this girl was my best friend and she treated me like this she treated me like she never gave a fuck about me bro

and trying to convince the world that I'm this terrible person that girl didn't never love me bro and it's showing after the break up bro because even after you done did all of this shit done ruined all of this shit I'm still not putting dirt on your name I'm still not out here exposing your business and making you seem a certain way

or making, I'm still keeping a certain amount of respect for you. You don't even respect me as a fucking father, bro. You don't give a fuck that I don't see my son for a month, bro. The thing that killed me from watching your videos about it soon after this happened is realizing that you had basically lost faith in your ability to make the kind of content that you had been making that the character of angry reactions or angry reacts was like,

just you didn't feel like you could really do that anymore because now your image has been compromised where she's painted you as this person that actually is like an angry monster. So before you were saying positive things in kind of an angry tone and now you feel like you've been forced to kind of split from that persona, which is the thing that had, you know, endeared so many people to you. Yeah, my decision to do that was 100% based on. the reaction I got from the public. 100%.

You should have seen my DMs. You should have seen my comments. I had a Hyundai, a Hyundai video I had posted. That was the last video I posted. They didn't even want to pay me because they said I did more damage to their company than good

because everybody was flood in that video. Hyundai, y'all work with woman beaters and all of that shit. So it's like, think about it like this. Everything that angry reaction consists of, that whole persona, when shit got rough for me

it was used against me it was used against me that very thing that brought so much joy to millions of people saved millions of lives was used against me everybody was saying the same lame-ass joke

oh angry reactions had an angry reaction and like I said on my YouTube video I couldn't even get the benefit of the doubt people didn't even want to wait it out the companies, the brands that made it sound like we was all one big family. That was my third year working 100 day. They came back around the same time every year. That was my third year working with them.

They pulled out before anybody. They said, take that shit down and we're not paying you. So that's why I let that shit go, bro. Because, like, it'll never be the same. I can't be all aggressive and shit. It don't matter what I'm saying. And millions of people still think I'll be putting my hands on women. I don't know how to control myself emotional.

emotionally. So it's like it's forever it will forever leave a bad taste in a lot of people's it's fucked up too because TMZ should give as much light to this interview or to the case being dropped or to the charges not being filed or to like all these different developments like that shit should in a in a just world receive just as much air time as the initial accusations. And now I do think that a lot of people are going to sit this interview and be like oh fuck like this dude is the real deal. Like he's a good person. I personally, I didn't know anything specifically about you before this interview,

but I am fucking sold. Like I'm 100% behind you. You just seem like an incredible person. I just hope that, you know, people are willing to like give you another chance because that was killing me when I was hearing you act like it was over. Because I know having been canceled many times and shit,

that there's always a light at the end of the tunnel. You just have to continue on and like just really be able to persevere through that shit. But like realizing that you were having opportunity is like this Hyundai shit and everything, like just having those kind of corporate brand deals. I mean, that is a reality is that a lot of that shit kind of goes away at some point as soon as you have even a semblance of controversy. But at the same time, bro, I've seen people go through worse shit publicly than what you've been through and still come out the other side, like over and over. Like this is definitely not the end of you as a person. And do you agree with me that in some way maybe you're,

are ready to move on from that character in general and that like you have more to offer as a content creator do you spend much time thinking about that no yeah it was it was something i was thinking about like i just didn't imagine it happening like this yeah and who knows maybe just the universe or god or whatever you believe in like forcing me to to do what i'm supposed to like what I should have been done. But like as of right now, bro, and I'm not even going to get too personal. You and everybody else don't even understand

the type of position I'm in right now. Y'all don't understand. Y'all don't understand. This shit fucked me up. This shit, I can come back. I plan on coming back. I don't think this is the end of me as a creator, entertainer, whatever.

But as of right now, I'm in a situation to where I don't even know what the fuck I'm going to do to get myself out of this. And every time I get so, every time I get deep in thought about all of this shit, I remember like this shit all happened because the woman who claimed she would die for me was mad. all of this shit happened because my best friend the mother of my son was upset and she's dying on this hill

she's not going to listen to this interview and feel bad she's not that type of person she convinced herself that she's the victim in every fucking situation Adam every situation even in situations where she come at me crazy and I don't even react

It's still somehow my fault. Still. Especially as of late before she left, I couldn't get through to her at all. So she's not going to watch this and feel bad. She's not going to watch this and drop her case against me or she's sticking to the shit she's telling her friends and family.

I was a victim. It ain't shit I could say to her sister to make her understand what type of person I'm in. I am. She don't even know me. and she hate my fucking guts only because of what her sister been telling her.

Got my own family looking at me weird. I'm out of big kicked out of Ubers because people think I put my hands on women. More than ones? No, one time. Oh, okay. That's fucked. What kind of person was it?

I don't know. Some Indian dude if I had to guess. What the fuck? I don't know. Kick me out of an Uber like people looking at me different. Like I could tell people recognize me in public because I've been doing this shit for four years.

But people will just look at me now. They don't come up, ask for pictures. It's a whole different ballgame for me, bro. And she doubled down and made that shit worse. She was on my side when I got arrested. She felt bad, niggas. She got pissed again and doubled down on that shit. Because I went live.

You coming at my whole character as a man. Because I went live. to talk about you and niggas didn't even know who I was talking about. Dang. And I still blame myself. I shouldn't have went live. I shouldn't have went live. I wouldn't be in the situation right now if I didn't.

And it's so fuck that you have a kid with her. So you can't just completely separate. You can't just completely never have anything to do with her because she's the only person that could help you connect with the one thing that means more to you than anything. And that's what I'm saying, bro. If she'd have left and we ain't had no kids. What ought to have been salty about it? Yeah.

It'd have been a lame-ass move, but what can I do? You're your own person, gang. Go ahead. But you up and left and took my son, and I can't even get a FaceTime out of you. And there's a lot of guys who wouldn't really give a fuck who would just, okay, whatever. I don't need to see my kid. I'm going to just go do my thing and not really care. And it's like because you have a big heart, because you're the kind of person that wants to have a relationship with your kid and won't be happy.

unless you do, you're able to be hurt. Bro, you, Adam, you don't understand how much I miss my son, bro. You don't understand. And it's like, anytime I try to make anybody understand what's going on, she just doubled down on the shit she's been claiming about me, bro. And now at the most people can do is, I don't know. I don't know how you is.

I could believe what you, but I don't know. And that's reasonable. That's understandable. But it's like, I can't be upset with nobody except her. Because like you, I'm going to keep saying,

you know me, bro. You know how much pace is I don't show with you. You know how many times you don't put your hands on me and I never reacted. You know I'm not a woman beater. You know all of this shit. You know I'm a good fucking man

and a good father. but because you're done with this relationship, you want to leave me with nothing? You want to fuck up my whole life on your way out? Bro. And I always thought, because I got this, when I hear somebody talk,

I always thought like everybody can just understand when somebody is being 100% genuine. It is not like that for everybody. It's not like that. It's not like that, bro. So a lot of people still don't know if I beat women, and that's so fucked.

up, bro. I spent four years dedicating my entire profile to uplifting people, saving lives, bro, telling people how important they is. I open the door for elderly women, for women in general, I give up my seat on public transportation. I'm a good

fucking dude. I'm a good dude. And she's taking me through hell publicly and privately because we didn't work? Because you're mad about some shit that happened in our relationship? I don't understand, bro. I don't understand.

And simultaneously trying to convince everybody that I'm a terrible person. Get the fuck out of here, man. Get out of here. And I know, just like I said in my video, I know my aggressive tone right now probably don't help my point when it comes to this aggressive shit.

To me, it's very convincing. But yeah, I mean, I could imagine some people having an opposite reaction. But in general, bro, like I feel like more than anything thing this interview is going to be the rebuttal that you actually need to make people realize that they row you off without reason. And like I, bro, I could get over this internet shit, bro.

I could get over this internet shit. I will never get over the fact that this woman who had my son, everything we done been through, everything we done been through because you doing this to me. You doing this to me. You treat me like you never gave a fuck about me, bro. bro, you don't understand, bro. You don't understand. And she's the type of person.

She needs to be around people. That's why she's fucking with a nigga already, bro. She need that validation. I've been at the crib by myself, processing everything, thinking about how I'm going to go about everything. I don't need people. I don't need her.

She probably out thinking, oh yeah, I told him. See, I don't need you, gang. I don't need her. Her leaving is cool. You could do that. How she left will never sit right with me, bro. Bogus is hell. Bogus is hell and you're not just some girl, bro.

You're the mother of my son. You're the mother of my son, bro. And you're using them as a fucking pond. Trying to hurt me, trying to destroy me as a person. It's beyond this relationship shit. You could go on the internet and say, whatever you want about me, what I did till you how I treated you. You know I'm a good fucking dude.

And anything she tried to make me look back. bad wit is was me reacting and she still tried to emphasize it to make it seem a certain way. She treated me bad damn that every fucking day for the last six months. And I held on to this woman. And that's why I blame myself. That's why I blame myself for sticking around a motherfucker I should have been let go of, bro. That's why I blame myself. I mean, I just want to tell you that I've seen so many people go through the ringer on social media and shit and come out the other side of it. Once they are able to like really show the world who they are,

and in particular when they're able to like double down on their content, continue to be somebody who makes shit that people love. But I feel like the problem with you is that you're so fucked up mentally over not just her doing this to you, but then also the shit with the kid. Like the fact that you're bringing up your kid and how much you miss your kid, just as much as you're bringing up or more than you're bringing up, the fact that you've had this devastating blow dealt

to your career, to me, is kind of a testament to who you are as a person because, you know, there are a lot of guys who would be able to not see their kid and not have it be the worst thing in the world for them. I know I'm not that kind of person, and you could definitely tell that you're not that kind of person. Bro, yeah.

As far as this internet shit, I'm in a fucked up position because what I was doing, like, I can't do as, like, and that's just the decision I made. So, when I do, come back is going to have to be something completely different. So my audience may not receive that.

But I ain't worried about that shit. Like, I feel like I'm a good entertainer and I'm a win at the end of the day. I'm just, I'm just a naturally good entertainer. So, yeah, I can win the internet back or whatever, bro. It's like my issue, my main issue, bro, I cannot believe she doing this to me. because like I said, you don't know me, bro. This girl, if anybody know I don't deserve this shit, it's her, bro. It's her.

She knows. She know I'm not this type of man, bro. She knows. And she doing this shit because she's mad at me, bro. She ruining my fucking life, bro. Because she's mad. I miss my son, bro. bro

I ain't seen my son in a month cause I ain't seen my son in a month bro I miss that nigga every night bro she could leave bro

she can leave I don't need her bro how you gonna go to across the fucking country with my son bro and don't even want to don't even want to

FaceTime me man I don't understand I don't understand bro I don't understand bro I don't understand. And I used to tell my family when they used to tell me, watch out for her.

I used to tell her. I used to tell me, he was like, bro, she ain't that type, bro. She ain't going to do me like this, bro. She ain't going to do me like this. Nick, I was wrong. I was wrong, bro. I was wrong. Because she doesn't, she don't put her hands on me. She done did some foul shit, nigga, before and after our relationship. I know, I know so much about this woman. She told me shit. She ain't, she ain't never told nobody.

Her parents don't even know. She told me so much shit that I could look at her sideways about. And not only am not, I'm not exposing that shit, but I, I understood you, bro.

I stuck by you. It was rough, but I did that shit. She just disposed people, bro. Once I learned from her ex, that this is how she left, him and her ex before her ex

that's this how she loved him and she was fucking with another nigga within two weeks just like she doing me. I understood this is the type of person she is. I understood that and she convinced me that I was different. You had my son bro. We went through that C section together.

I thought I was different. I thought this was different. And she just up and left and took my son and already getting her back blown out by other niggas. Why I'm sitting at the crib hoping that this shit gonna fall back in place somehow.

Man, it's very easy to move on when you under another nigger. I understand. I understand. Bro, I'm telling you that I can tell, I feel 100% confident that you're going to make it out the other side of this shit. In terms of being able to show people who you really are, I feel like this interview

is like open and shut, showing people who you really are. In terms of the family shit, in terms of being able to maintain the relationship with your kid, I mean, that's going to be harder. That's going to be probably to have to be worked out in the courts and shit in terms of all that. But I feel like, you know,

you're going to come out the other side of this. I just, I want you to have that fucking confidence. I've seen people been through worse shit in terms of being publicly shamed. And I just, you know, I believe in you. As a creator, as a personality, as a person that people are going to want to rally behind

because you really speak for a shitload of people out there that, don't really have their struggle documented or spoken about. Yeah, bro, I'm knowing because a lot of people hit me up on Instagram saying, yeah, bro, I went through a similar situation or whatever. And I'm doing my best to hold on, bro. I ain't folding under none of this shit. It's hard, though, bro.

It's hard. Most days I be chilling. Like, I don't stop, like, checking up pages and all of this shit that you do once you just, fall out with somebody or whatever and it's just like you know I'm holding on but some days bro some days I ain't gonna lie this morning was hard for me bro

this morning was real hard for me I'm getting tired of waking up without my son bro I'm getting tired of doing that and I know he missed me bro you should have seen his face when she called me when she finally let me get a face time I don't I don't deserve it

shit, bro. On dessert is shit. And it's exactly this what happened when you hold on to somebody that you should have been let go of, bro. This is what happened. It's a tough lesson learned because the truth is that if you had been around the block a few more times and dealt with crazy ass chicks more times, maybe you would have been a little bit better of a judge of character and you would have been able to avoid getting into this situation with her. It's because you had a big heart and you were

open and you chose to like look past all the red flags that maybe somebody who had you know dealt with more women would have noticed it's because of all that that you're basically ending up in the situation I'm already knowing bro and and just to set the record clear bro I ain't perfect I don't want nobody to think that that's what I'm trying to say I don't did some fucked up shit to that girl I don't say some fucked up shit to that girl I ain't a woman abuse her, bro. I don't put my hands on nobody in any way, shape, or form unless they put in their hands on me.

Then I'm going to do something. If you're a guy, I'll probably handle it a little different. If you're a woman, bro, that woman don't hurt me for real when she put her hands on me. So I ain't going to knock her head off her shoulders or none of that shit, bro. But to do that shit and then spin it on me publicly, I can't believe. I cannot believe she doing this to me, bro. I still can't believe it. I still can't believe it.

That girl was my best friend. That girl was my best friend. Even when I get good news these days, she'd be the first person I be thinking to call until I remember what the fuck is going on. I still be wanting to talk to her. I still be trying to, bro. And she doesn't already moved on.

She doesn't already put herself back on the market. I don't know. I don't know what to say. This is a really shitty situation to be in. And I do think that you're going to come out of it a better person or a stronger person, a person that's a little bit more resilient. But, you know, I'm sorry that you've even having to deal with this shit in general, because it's especially the shit with the kid. The double whammy of, like, having to not be able to see your kid

and then also having all this reputational damage slash damage to your career done is just, it will be too much for a lot of people to take. I mean, how dark is your mental state gotten throughout this? I ain't the type that, you know what I'm saying, do anything to myself? And I was just telling my brother this yesterday, I understand why guys do. Yeah.

I understand why people do. And I ain't never had the thoughts I deal with these days ever in my life. But I understand. I get it. I get it, bro. I get it. Because this girl, she torturing me, bro.

She torturing me. She torturing me, bro. And the more I try to make it work for the benefit of me, it just keep getting worse. It just keep getting worse. Like I said, I'm taking her to court

to get my son back. She don't file as a rebuttal. She'd unfiled a domestic violence case against me because I did that. Why you didn't do it before? If you Why you wait until I try to get my son back to do this? This can't be real life, bro.

This cannot, this cannot be real life. I've seen this relationship going a million different ways. This was not one of them. This was not one of them, bro. It's fucked up, man. But you just got to, I don't know, keep the faith and just know that you'll see a better day. Like, I think you're going to come out

this stronger and better and I know it's not going to be easy it's not it probably sounds easy for me just saying that but you know you're not done no I believe that I'm just just trying to hold on to my moment calm bro I saw I can do I still appreciate your words though even though you don't think it got that much of effect it do I appreciate you bro I don't even want to like throw any specific people's business out there but I'm just saying I seen a lot of people who have been crushed, publicly shamed, destroyed by the internet to the point where even I didn't really think they were coming back and then they fucking did it. Yeah.

And it's like ultimately it was because of them being great content creators, being good people, and just being able to like get past all that shit. And I know that it's not going to be easy for you to get back to the kind of mentality that you need to be in in order to be able to show people who you really are. but I feel like this interview to me, like I guarantee we are going to look at this fucking comment section and it's going to be the opposite of what you were getting when this shit happened on,

and TMZ was reporting about it or whatever. Like people are going to see this and they're going to say, fuck. Like, we can't just let this kind of shit happen to good people with no evidence. Hopefully. Hopefully I can only do what I could do. You know, I'm just trying to make the best of the same.

situation until shit changed, bro. That's all I can do. There's so many people that I talk to on here who are basically very surface level self-serving people. And I could absolutely tell that you're not that kind of person. And I think that the people out there are going to see that too. And I feel like hopefully, fingers crossed that when you look back a couple of years from now at this whole thing, that this interview might be part of where the tide started

to turn and things started to get back on track for you. I believe that. I actually believe that. But I don't know. I don't know. I mean, you have put it out yourself on YouTube and everything, but I feel like people seeing it in this kind of length. Like, it's just,

it's going to have an impact. And the people are going to, are going to want to see this whole thing get righted. I appreciate you for having me, man. I know it wasn't easy for you to sit down, because we had to reschedule this shit a couple of times where you just straight up said, like, bro, I'm not in the mental state.

Like, I can't do it right now. I told you, I was still trying to, to make it work. Oh, and that. So I ain't even want to come over here and like, you know what I'm saying? Make her look a certain type of way. I was still down to forgive her, bro.

And she's up and left me. Crazy. Crazy, bro. Crazy. But yeah, I appreciate you for having me, man. It was hard for me to come on here, but I felt like it was necessary. I'm crying and shit. Bro.

This content shit will take you in crazy directions. you didn't know that you were going to go in life, huh? Man, bro. I ain't see my career ever going like this, bro. I swear to God. Well, it is what it is, man. You're going to come out of all this shit. Good.

It's going to be all right. I appreciate that, bro. For real, man. Like, I can tell clear as day that you're a good person and that you're not bullshit in me. I appreciate that, man. 100% anything I could do. I want to, you know, throw my weight behind that.

Anybody watching this? Just we'll link everything in the description. just show them some love because I'm sure that the likes in the comments and shit mean a lot more right now than they have ever before back when everything was going good. Yeah, for sure. 100%. What do we title this? Because you got the angry reactions thing, but then you got your new identity. We'll figure it out.

Yeah. Like what are you more comfortable going by at this point? You can just do whatever, you know. I tell people to address me as one yay But like if you want more people to see it They don't know who one yay is yet Right You know so do whatever you feel need you need to do about

For sure man I just want to see everybody out there Get behind you I'm feeling Oh What the fuck? Oh Oh

Oh Wait a minute Bro Oh That was good That was good I didn't know Chicago dude Zit back. Every time I say pause, everybody

looking at me like I'm crazy. Yeah, bro. God damn, I didn't see it coming. Hey, man, I appreciate you so much for real. I appreciate you. Thank you. I know you're going to come out all this shit, a better person with a great career, and we're going to get that fucking kid back, man. I don't even know what he looks like, but I'm really

investing in this little motherfucking hour. Bro, that's, he the cutest baby you ever lay eyes on, bro. I'm telling you. I can show you. I'm about to show you. Let me see him. All right. Let's do the dad thing. Yeah, bro. I got some good snaps of my kid the past couple days because my girl had to get surgery,

so I've been like way more of a dad the past couple of... What she had to get surgery for? I should have to get a C-section scar fix and shit. Oh, yeah. Three and a half. See, my son's going to be nine months, bro. Oh, yeah. He's still fresh out the coochie.

Oh, yeah. That's a good-looking kid. He's light-skinned, shit, blah. I miss my son, man. Wait till he finds out about what the last couple weeks have been like for Drake. He's going to be like, my light skin brother. Thank God he, like, all this happened when he was young. Yeah, man.

All right, man. Hey, I appreciate you. Everybody, you know what to do. Turn my men up on all social platforms and whatnot. We'll link them all below. I appreciate you, man. I appreciate you, man. Keep your head up, dog.

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