No Jumper - Defund Simping on Beta Males, Body Counts, Hafeez vs Just Pearly Things, & More
Episode Date: November 22, 2022Flakko and Defund Simping talk about getting canceled, dating, double standards, high-value men and more! -- 00:00 Intro 1:15 Defund Simping explains his mission statement 3:05 Defund Simping explain...s what a "simp" is 5:00 Defund Simping speaks on getting his heart broken 7:45 Why body count matters 09:50 Defund Simping speaks on what it takes to look past a high body count 12:35 Why men take cheating more serious than women 14:15 Defund Simping speaks on men's mental health 15:25 Flakko talks about Kazumi with a blind guy 16:48 Defund Simping speaks on sharing girls with the homies 18:25 Flakko's new favorite p category 19:50 Who is the Godfather of the "Red Pill" Community? 25:15 Women that see potential and bet on that potential 30:10 Defund Simping speaks on if men are more valuable than women 34:25 Defund Simping's thoughts on marriage 39:00 Defund Simping on men exercising Hypergamy 44:05 Men pandering and becoming weaker 45:00 Defund Simping breaks down what being “light skin” means to him 46:18 Defund Simping speaks on dating “hood girls” 47:00 Defund Simping speaks on why he got canceled 48:15 Defund Simping speaks on going viral for standing on his message 50:15 Defund Simping on how he inspires more male creators to go "Red Pill" --- NO JUMPER PATREON http://www.patreon.com/nojumper CHECK OUT OUR NEW SPOTIFY PLAYLIST https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5te... FOLLOW US ON SNAPCHAT FOR THE LATEST NEWS & UPDATES https://www.snapchat.com/discover/No_... CHECK OUT OUR ONLINE STORE!!! http://www.nojumper.com/ SUBSCRIBE for new interviews (and more) weekly: http://bit.ly/nastymondayz Follow us on SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/4ENxb4B... iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/n... Follow us on Social Media: https://www.snapchat.com/discover/No_... http://www.twitter.com/nojumper http://www.instagram.com/nojumper https://www.facebook.com/NOJUMPEROFFI... http://www.reddit.com/r/nojumper JOIN THE DISCORD: https://discord.gg/Q3XPfBm Follow Adam22: https://www.tiktok.com/@adam22 http://www.twitter.com/adam22 http://www.instagram.com/adam22 adam22hoe on Snapchat Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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No jumper, coolest podcast in the world.
We're here we're here today with one of my buddies, man.
You feel me?
Defund.
Chad, or Defund Simping, I should say.
Yes, sir.
Yo, like, you're in Portland Podcasts that has kind of like similar names to where like,
I'm not going to just like talk to y'all and just call y'all deep like, right?
Like Defund Simping.
It's a brand.
Yeah.
Yeah, right.
So, okay.
So, Defund Simping.
So first of, like, where did that name come from?
Is that your goal to Defund Simping?
Yeah, so it started off.
So during the Black Lives Matter movement, you know.
There was defund the police.
And black Twitter never takes anything seriously, right?
So I saw defund my child support.
So it was a whole movement.
Everyone was saying defund something.
So I was like, how can I join this trend right now?
So I said defund simping.
And they got like 30 likes and like 20 retweets.
I did pretty good.
And then I started my TikTok, my boy in the back, Etsy.
He kept pushing me to go on TikTok.
I was against it because it's like, dude, this kid's shaking their hips.
And I can't be doing all that weird.
Gyrating.
Some fruity shit.
Gyrating, bro.
Pause, right?
So.
So I was like, no, I can't join it.
So I joined TikTok.
I was thinking of a name.
I was like, wait a minute.
Defund simping because when people hear the name,
they already know what I'm all about just from my brand name.
So that was the goal with that name, 100%.
Defund Sipping.
Yep.
All right.
So what's the mission of like defunds simping?
Yeah.
The mission of defund simping is to help men with their confidence
and give them the proper strategies in the dating world.
Because to be honest,
girls are running circles around these guys.
So I'm giving them the education to go about dating the right way.
So they don't get finessed.
and, you know, buy only fans and be an idiot.
Wait, okay, but then my question is this, right?
If folks will say don't buy it only fans, right?
Now, there's a bunch of, let's say, like, these, like, dating coaches on, like, YouTube, right?
Yeah, right, correct.
And those say, listen, don't buy their only fans because you don't want to be a sim,
but then come and buy my course, pay $800 to me.
I'm like, isn't it, like, just, like, both parties just kind of, like,
fighting over, like, these vulnerable men, right?
Because again, like there's no difference between
OnlyFans chick extracting 20 bucks a month
times that by 12.
That's like 200 bucks a year, right?
From a lonely desperate sip.
And then there's the, you know, like the 6'4-7 bodybuilder
who is having these courses on how to self-improve
and how to get chicks.
So pay my $1,500 to know how to get chicks
and don't pay that to, you know, the only good chick.
Yeah, I hear you're saying.
Both parties are out for their own selfishness.
needs, right? But I think with, with me, you know, with a content creator, not myself,
someone else, right? You pay that money and you actually may learn something versus
giving a girl money who just posting bikini photos. Like some girls legit post the same
photos on Instagram. They do on their only fans. So at least with, with when you buy a
course from somebody, you're at least getting some value versus only fans. I don't think you get
value from a girl shoving a cucumber up her in it. It's not much value there. So yeah, both people
are both extracting currency. But you may get more value from the other. But you're
You are right. That means a good point.
Yeah. Hey, right. So how does, so how does somebody, I guess, like, first of all, like, what's a Simp?
So as simple is a guy that's, it's all about uneven exchange of value, right?
So, for example, if I, I'll say I'm messing with a chick and she comes in my house,
she's cleaning the dishes, you know, she'll help me with my business and I buy her a bag.
It was an exchange of value.
She gave me value.
I gave value back, right?
But let's say I never met a girl in my entire life.
I just walked up to her at Delilah.
You know, Drake was there.
And I'm like, hey, baby girl, can buy you a burkin?
Yes.
Right?
So dudes think, okay, let me buy my way in.
That's simple because she never gave you any value.
Right?
So it's an exchange of value.
So as long as you're getting value from the woman, do whatever you need to do to make
her happy because she's actually giving you value.
How about for men who says, man, bro, listen, man, like, I got some cash.
I just love tricking on the woman, you feel me?
Right?
I just love tricking.
So, like, I guess like, where's the line for, yo, I just love tricking, mate, right?
Right?
Like, it just makes me feel good to give this girl who don't deserve it.
This OnlyFens dim wit, you feel like a thousand bucks a month?
I think every guy has different types of game, right?
Yeah.
So, for example, I want to say your name.
But some people who are popping on YouTube, their game is, okay, I'm going to have the best car.
I'm going to take girls and the best experiences and hopefully doing that for other women,
women will come to me, right?
Where I never really believe in that.
I believe having a slick mouthpiece and being confident because I think that's, in my opinion,
the best way, you know, to attract women is to, you know, be yourself and attract women like with your life,
kind of with who you are as a person, opposed to what you can do for them.
I think a lot of times men think when they get money, they'll get women, but they get the wrong type.
of women because they're just, you know, whatever you validate yourself with, that's what people
are going to want for me. Yeah. You know, so if I validate myself with Rolexes and nice trips to this
and nice trips to there, girls are going to want that for me naturally. Then they get mad and call
girls gold diggers, you know what I mean? Absolutely. So, yo, here, so Chad, so, okay, so
I feel like every, like guy, right? Yeah. Or every red pill guy and has the, yo, my coming to
a real pill moment. So what was your rap moment? Like, did a girl just break your heart? Yeah, so
I'll say this, right? So if the longest time, it's the longest time.
I was fighting it. I always knew there was a game being played, but I don't want to play it.
Right? So I was like in high school, like I watched Disney movies. Right. So okay, if I'll,
basically my thought was I'll have her in the end. Right. But here's the thing with the end,
right? The end is when she's ran through, like, you know, she's ran through the football team,
trains, right? I don't want her when she's had done having her fun. Yeah. I want her, you know,
I tell guys, you want to be like Adam Silver where you're up on stage with the number one jersey,
number one draft pick. I don't be like Cam Newton, right? On the stage.
Number one draft pick.
That's what I want to be.
I want to be the 12th round pick, the 13th round pick.
So my thought process when I was young was if I do this, this, and this and this,
I thought girls like a math equation.
If I did this and this, it should equal this.
But when I kept not getting the result I want, I'm like, okay,
I should maybe stop blaming women for my inadequacies and maybe blame myself.
So I, then this one girl, basically break it down real quick.
We talked online through FaceTime and stuff like that.
for five months.
This girl even told me her about her promiscuous days.
But I thought I'd be different.
Okay.
I thought I'm the different one.
She's going to change for me.
Yeah, it's never different.
All right, it's never different.
All right.
So I pulled up on her on Melrose Boulevard for the first time,
meeting her in person and she went to school in a city.
I want to give her, you know, because then people were kind of put two and two together.
Quinshaw.
Yeah, she went to school in a certain city, right?
So she pulled up on me first date.
Hickey on her neck.
Woo.
Here's the thing, right?
She's not my girlfriend.
Was I messing with other girls?
girls, yeah, but don't show up with proof of you just got dunked and your back obliterated the night before.
She clop it. Yeah, I don't want that, right? So the whole date, I was like, I was half, I like this girl,
half like, you know, anyway, I'll keep a PG. So I was, I was upset, right? Yeah. So then I called her out.
I said, hey, yo, like, I appreciate the date, but I don't appreciate the hickey. I thought you should
be having more respect for me. Absolutely. She was like, what, hickie? I'm like, don't play dumb.
FaceTime me right now. Show me your neck. Seen. Never talk to me ever again.
And I was like, you know what?
This is where I need to change.
So I get in the car one day and my friends like, hey bro, you ever heard of AMS?
I'm like, who's AMS?
Alpha-low strategies.
And then he's like, man, fuck, he bitching to sleep.
I'm like, I relate to this guy.
I relate to this guy.
So I started like binge watching on the way to school, on the way to work, on the way home
from a friend's house, on way to go see a chick.
I'm playing alpha male strategies.
And things started to finally make sense.
And then I was able to relate it and then teach my friends about it.
And then I started making TikToks about it, YouTube, and here we are today, you know?
Now when you talk about being like a ran-through chick, right?
Yeah, yeah.
Now like some folks say, yo, like why is sex the most important thing?
Meaning if she's a female who's bringing, you know, she's nurturing, she's feminine, she's like submissive,
why do her 1,500 bodies matter?
Yeah, so what matters is it shows about her morality, right?
I think a girl that has high morality wouldn't be sleeping with a bunch of men.
And usually women who would sleep with a bunch of men.
women who sleep with a bunch of men, it usually stems from something. No girl, you know, as a young
kid goes, I can't wait to get ran through by the YSL gang. I can't wait to get ran through
by the OVO crew. It usually stems from a trauma sometimes, you know? So I just, and also it's like,
I don't know, man, it's not the same thing because I go, well, why can you do it? It's like,
well, the reason why I can do it is because like usually if a guy can get with a bunch of girls,
he usually has, you know, he usually has some status.
He had he had to earn, you know, money he had to earn.
So it's a bit different.
But I don't, I don't tend to want to, mind you, well, fun.
Yeah.
Girl with a thousand bodies, DM me.
We can have fun.
We can kick it.
You're not wife.
But you're not, as far as meeting my mother, here's the thing.
It's like, how can I tell my daughter to not to sleep around?
Well, you married mommy.
She's on only fans right now.
Oh, you know.
So it's like, I have to, you know, practice what I preach.
So I can't be telling guys to, you know, stay away from girls who are very promiscuous.
And then I'm with one.
So I think it goes with that too.
I just, I would prefer low mileage if I can get it and I'm going to get it.
Listen, low mileage in 2022 is almost impossible.
It's tough, bro.
It's tough.
I'm not going to lie.
But I'll say this, you know, a lot of times girls from flyover states, right?
I met a girl who live in the suburbs of Michigan, right, who didn't really understand
the hookup culture, right?
Whereas in L.A., Miami, New York, these more competitive dating markets, you're going to
find girls with a lot higher, more people, more clout, more status.
They're going to end up having more fun.
Yeah, of course.
Versus a girl who lives in a small town in Michigan
or a small town in, you know, Wyoming,
the chance of them being run through here.
Because there's more consequences, right?
Because when they do it, the town talks.
Absolutely.
Right?
Versus L.A., dude, it's too big.
You know?
Yeah, yeah.
You know, like people aren't going to talk.
So I think, you know, finding girls in those flabber states
is probably a gem.
Now, if you let's meet a girl,
you know, she's a reborn Christian.
Okay.
Yeah.
Like, she then did the Yani steam
and on a vagina to rejuvenated.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
She's now back in church.
Her morals is up.
She's feminine.
She's nurturing.
She's done, you know, like taking classes on how to be a wifey.
Yeah, yeah.
So she's now coming to you as high character.
True.
High morals, feminine, nurture, divine.
And would you be able to overlook the 2,500 bodies?
Okay, so I think, you know, the woman you choose to be with is representation of you.
Yeah.
Right?
So I think men, we almost get disgusted when we're out with a chick and guys are
murkin like bro we used to freaking flip that chick we used to run trains on her bro we used to
fucking paint her face Picasso you know bucockeys yeah all types of stuff right even though she's
coming to kind of brand new that pain is still there and you know like for example I know one
chick where she had a past and she'd have to really control what she says like for example like
one time she's out with her ex and her boyfriend and floy mayweather calls her right so it's like
now mind you that was 15 years ago and she's I'm a new woman but
also she has to watch what she says.
Like, for example, her man will show her picture.
Oh, like this is, like, for example, Magic Johnson.
She can't say, oh, we used to hang out.
She has to like, oh, like, she's basically like living this life where it's like she can't.
She's always in secret of her past because she knows her past will point, you know, get a pain point on her man.
So I think for me, I still would like a woman that has a good, because here's this thing.
Girls will say you can't judge me on my past, but you're judging that same dude on his future.
Right.
Absolutely.
Because, like, for example, say he doesn't make six figures or he's not like where he wants to be sold out his mom's house.
Whatever happened to love him a nigga with a bus pass?
You know, so I'm saying?
Growing with a building with somebody, right?
It's growing and building, right?
Yeah, they're building shit all this.
Exactly, right?
So it's like, you know, you can shame the man for not being rich, but why can he shame me for having a bad past?
A lot of times girls have a hard time, like, seeing it like this.
Like, we want different things in other people, right?
So for me, I'm very big on my woman's past, but she's definitely pretty big on my future.
And that's fair.
I'm like that that's how the world works.
I'm not going to shame any woman for looking at a man's future
because that's what she's supposed to do as a woman.
Yeah.
Yo, speaking of Floyd, there was this story I think came out a couple years ago.
Okay.
So Floyd had a best friend.
Okay.
And his best friend was dating his chick.
His chick or a chick?
No, like just like regular chick.
Oh, random.
Okay.
Yeah, right?
So he was dating this chick and he found out that she had an affair with
Floyd?
Trace.
Songs.
Okay.
Right.
So then he took her back, but then the mental anguish just played on him.
And then he ended up killing her and himself.
So now my question is this, right?
Like, we rarely hear about a female, I guess, killing a dude because she just couldn't get over him cheating.
Why do you feel like men, I guess, just take that more, like more harshly?
You know, so I think the simple other question, I think, why do men take cheating so seriously?
Yeah.
Well, I think it's because men, for a woman to usually, she not all, for the all police out there, all police relax.
For not all, they usually have to have some type of connection with you emotionally, right?
So a man can be out at work, a girl comes in delivering Chick-fil-A, whatever, DoorDash girl, gives him the wink, they have sex.
He can go home and love his wife.
Not all men, but it's, for men, it can be sex is a little bit easier to have without connection.
Whereas the woman tend to have an emotional connection, which kind of, you know, which kind of,
that makes a man go crazy, like the fact that they had an emotional connection first,
usually. Hard for me to speak on going to the nth degree, because for me, I'm an extreme
abundance. Like, a girl can be out with me, go talk to a guy, and I go, have a good night.
I've done it before. Like, I've left a girl out the club for being too flirtatious.
Really? Oh, 100%. I'll tell the whole story.
Real nigger, man.
Yeah. So it's like, so if my girl gets her guts rearranged by Trace songs, there is no going
back from that. I don't care if you buy me a Bugatti, you know.
It don't matter.
Like, you got to go.
So it's hard for me to speak on why men go to the nth degree, which, you know, fatality.
But I know it hurts, but it shouldn't hurt that much.
Because that point, you got some mental illness, and you got to go see a psychiatrist when you're going to kill a chick over that.
Nah, yo, like, that's a fact, man.
Bro, like, even like, you know, like a pastor cheating, man, just like, for example, like they would try to paint.
So there was a couple of school shooters.
No, that's a school school shooters, just like match shooters.
Yeah.
And they blame it on their lack of getting women, right?
Ooh, you know what we, actually, if I talked about that a lot, actually, where me and
I, so I have a Discord, right?
And there's some people my Discord right now who, they show signs of, dude, one more
heartbreaking, they may go buy that, they may go to Arizona.
Oh, the Quarter Paul, these are old folks, bro.
That ass, bro, like, my boys in the back, like, they can agree.
They're in, they're my Discord, they see guys.
Really?
They see guys who are like, they're, like, dude, one more heartbreak and they're buying
the AR-15.
So it's like this, right?
I think no women and lack of a tribe for men can cause men to do insane things.
I'm sorry, give any school shooter a night with Kazumi.
You know Kazumi.
Give her a call, bro.
Say, hey, like, listen, give a night with Kazumi, no more school shooting, bro.
Kazumi should start her own business.
If you're on the verge, if you're on the verge of thinking about to school, do something
to school, give her a call.
Give her a call.
She'll do a podcast with you, just get some views.
Content.
Content.
Yeah.
Listen, she'd save lives.
Yo, Kizumi is like a superhero, man.
Yeah, she is, yeah.
Yo, listen, she just fucked the blind guy who can't see who's obese.
Blind.
Blind, obese fan.
I'm talking about a dude's like, he, he, like, walks with a cane, he's blind.
And she just fucked him.
Wow.
Hey, I'm black.
You feel me?
Right?
Yeah, nice.
Bro.
Good.
Nice.
This blind guy's first piece of ass was Kuzumi.
That's a great way until I start off.
life, right?
Come on now.
Listen, man, it's his first time.
Screw it, bro.
It is what it is.
I love it.
I love how she's willing to give dude to and never get some Poon Tang.
I slice, you know, just a little slice.
You know what I'm saying?
So, hey, I am mad at her.
You know, she's giving me an experience they probably would never get if it wasn't for her.
Yo, how many holes have you and that guy like, you know, like fuck together?
So here's the thing.
Me and my boy, Jay hit five in the back, shouts out full hearts.
You know, is his clothing brand.
You know, we've, we've...
Oh, shit, that's just...
That's him?
Yeah, it's him.
Bro, come on now.
I need some merch, man.
Come on, sir.
No, he's got you.
He's got you.
He's got you.
He's got you.
All, come on.
Did you make 3X?
No.
You see this guy?
Yo, it's a light skin energy, man.
It's that light skin energy, man.
It's that light skin, niggins shit, huh?
I'm too wax, though.
That's true.
So it's like, so me and his...
So what Jared's done, he's gotten so much women.
He's starting to pass the Rockmore.
Yeah.
So he'll get a woman, right?
And you know what?
You have a friend for my friend?
Yeah.
He's always passing the rock.
Really?
Because he has a lot of points.
He's Mr. Bitches.
Yeah, he's Mr. Bitches for sure.
So he has a lot of points, right?
He now is focused on assist, right?
So he's trying to focus on assist right now.
So he's passing me one.
Like there's one I've been seeing consistently for the past four months.
He passed the rock.
So I'm trying to also pass the rock as well.
We're both trying to pass the rock and get some dates together.
You know what I'm saying?
Because you got a, it ain't enough.
Ain't no fun
if the homies can get in it.
I,
here,
here,
right,
so question for you
right?
Yes, sir.
Because I see,
like,
you and a homie right now,
you're both,
you know,
you both look like Mr.
bitches, right?
Yeah,
yeah, for sure.
Do you have,
like, one of the homies
who's, like,
in the squad who gets no holes?
So,
okay,
for my three close friends.
So these are my two close friends.
Yeah.
I have one more.
They are all,
they all get girls.
Like,
like, damn,
effortlessly,
right?
Okay.
Efforlessly.
Like,
like, for example, I'm just going to say it.
There's someone in the back here right now, right?
Where at one point, he was heavier than he was now with braces and like a beat-up
old time of Civic.
Definitely him.
He would get more girls than me.
Really?
Way more.
Like, it was like a weekly thing, right?
He was just that guy, like the charisma, the confidence, more than me.
Yo, listen.
And what makes me jealous, though?
What?
of this guy, right?
Wait, wait, wait, red hat?
No, no, no, him right here, right?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Because I discovered this new porn
porn, like, category, right?
Called Habesha porn.
Get into it.
Habesha.
It's like the Middle Eastern Ethiopian retrans,
like kind of like the A-Rab shit.
Oh, man, they need God.
And like, he's probably an A-Rab or like a Habit.
No, no, no, no, no.
He's not.
Habishi is the women, so he's a Habibi.
He's a Habibi.
So he probably fucks all the habesia chicks, bro.
Bro, that shit is different, man.
No, here, bro.
Wait, wait, the rest.
Okay, so then, like, why do you, like,
discriminate against ugly men and in your crew, man?
Why don't you have ugly friends who gets no bitches?
You know what, man?
I'm only hanging out with fly, confidenties, bro.
And like, your vibe attracts your tribe, right?
So if you're a type of guy that's super confident, super cool,
you get girls, you relate to guys who are attractive,
who are fly, who.
get girls. So all my close friends are just, it's killing the game, all of them.
Man, it's the pussy slayers, man.
Hey, so listen, let's talk about the rap pill, man.
Yeah.
So first off, who's the godfather?
Because I've seen this, this meme, that, like, Rollo posted.
Yeah.
And he had kind of, like, kind of like the Jesus shit out.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And then underneath him, he had like AMAs, fresh and fit.
Yeah, yeah.
Like, he had everybody.
Yeah.
You know, damn near acclaim, I guess, his title as the Godfather.
or as the, you know, as the forcement of the red pill community.
Sure.
So to you, who's the godfather?
Like, who's the guy who, I guess, started all of this?
Right.
So there's a subjective and objective right.
What I think and it actually is.
For me, the God, to me, it's AMS.
Now, that's just my personal opinion.
He's, he subscribed me the red pill.
He was in, like, the white pharmacist, you know, suit.
He was at the pharmacy and hand it to me in a bag and say, take four a day.
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah, take four of these a day.
You should be good.
and you'll be, you'll be,
un-sick or whatever case may be.
But objectively, I think it is Rolo,
because I think he's been in the space the longest,
kicking them, like he was on, he had a form first.
Like, it was like, it was on the internet
when the internet wasn't too popular, you know?
So he had forms talking about this stuff.
And so a lot of people, without knowing,
use his words in his, you know,
his, you know, I'm not sure the word sentence,
whatever his may be,
to describe what's going on in their life
or to their audience.
So I think he's been kicking at the longest.
So I think,
I think I'll give him that title, but in my reality, it's AMS.
So, like, you're saying the niggas are stealing from the white man?
In a way, I think AMS had a thing where it's like he took some things from Rolo, but he
created his own verbiage.
Right, and that's what I'm trying to do.
I'm not trying to copy and paste, copy and paste.
I'm trying to take my own verbiage and my own way of life and giving it to, you know,
trying to positively influence people because I don't want to be a dick writer.
You know, I want to definitely have my own style.
Like, you come to my page because you want to hear a different style.
There's, like, for example, the RP has different flavors.
You want this, you want a white guy giving it to you, want a black guy giving it to, you want an Asian.
Like, there's Asian guys now in the space.
Really?
Yeah, there's an Asian guy.
So it's like, there's different flavors, there's different flavors, man.
Wait, though.
Is it kind of like a 6 foot five jacked Asian guy or like 5 foot three and in a suit?
So this guy, okay, so I've only seen him on TikTok and he's sitting down like a gaming chair.
Yeah.
So he could be anywhere from 58 to 510 maybe, but he does have muscles, though.
So he does have muscles.
Okay, okay, yeah, that's different, right?
Yeah.
Right, because like.
It's not like a skinny, you know, stereotypical.
He's not stereotypical.
He's tattoos.
You know, he's, his muscles.
He's trying to look smacks and look more like a chat if he can.
Getting in the Red Pill community, right?
Yeah.
Now, so right now what's the purpose of the Red Pill, right?
Because, again, like when I think about the Red Pill, I think about self-improvement, self-development.
Yeah.
Now, the recent spaces in, I'll be real.
It's getting kind of scary.
Like, it's now drifting off to a point where it is, fuck bitches.
Fuck these holes, right?
It's getting to that point.
So right now, like, from your perspective, the rare pill community and I'll say, oh, that's
a YouTube, TikTok.
What's the culture of it?
Like, oh, like, what's the mission statement for the Red Puck community right now?
And you mentioned good points, right?
Because I think different creators highlight different things.
Like, shots at my boy, Austin Dunham, right?
On his page, it's style mistakes, dating mistakes.
Okay.
So it's like he's not really saying, F these girls.
like ever like really ever right then you have guys like i think rest in peace i think his name is coach red pill
he was more like the nihilistic like they'll suck you dry they'll take everything you have he died
i think he passed away i think coach red pill right so but how was it i think he was in his 50s god damn right
so i'm not sure how he died but he died anyway the point is there's different flavors right and
and you can get deep deep deeper deeper than black pill right yeah so from how i see is purple pill yeah
yeah exactly right so it's like for me r p to me is more i p to me is more
more so self-improvement that's how i take it yeah now there's different again there's someone who
can easy come on here this just you know channel right now and say no it's about this it's about that okay
that's how you see it of course and that's fair i understand where you're coming from there are content
creators right now as we speak making a youtube video saying uh these girls are this and they're that
and they'll do this to you i don't like to talk about those type of things i'm trying to do things
are positive like on my youtube channel i have videos saying how to make more friends how to build
billip-proof confidence. So it's like, yeah, I will touch on girls, but I'm not trying to speak on
the obvious. We know divorce courts and divorce rates. We know that's bad. I'm trying to basically
build the man up, not gossip about how bad the woman can be. Build the men up, and hopefully when
they build the men up, they can sit on their own. I don't need to say here and complain about
about girls all day. That's annoying. Yeah. Now, like, do you feel like the rep. The community
they have been vilifying women unfairly.
Like, hey some point, right?
Yes, yes, have.
Right?
Because, you know, again, like the whole, like hypergamy, like thing, right?
Yeah.
Bro.
Like, like, like, here, right?
Here, right, for example, right?
Right?
They'll say, yo, like, women are, or like, go diggers.
But, like, aren't women, again, according to them, just naturally hypergamous, right?
Correct.
Correct.
Right?
So, like, what's the difference between a chick who,
is, it just, it's saying, hey, Brad, listen, I'm not building with nobody.
I'm not trying to, like, build.
Listen, I just want a rich nigger.
But then they would say, oh, she is a fucking demon.
But then praise, let's say, Michelle Obama, and who says, say, listen.
Right?
I dated Barack Obama because, yo, listen, and he was smart.
He was in Harvard.
And even though our first day was in like a beat-up car,
I still knew where he was going.
Isn't that also a form of go-digging?
Well, I think women will bet on you.
I think right now, especially here in L.A.,
a lot of people move here with they're trying to become the next something.
Rapper, artists, whatever case may be, fashion designer, right?
So women will see, hey, listen, this guy's not where he wants to be, but he is on his way.
I think women will bet on men more times than none, right?
On Fresh and Fit, though I often ask girls, what is your goal for your man to make money-wise?
And a lot of times they'll say this, money doesn't matter, but I hope he has the ambition to make some.
Right?
And I think they're being genuinely honest about that.
Hell not.
They cap.
No, so you think they're capping.
Okay.
So it's like, okay, I think a girl is thing.
Girls are in a way kind of scared to be labeled as gold diggers, right?
Yeah.
So I think they are.
So I think what they do is like I think if a girl, when she's young, 21, 22, met a guy who's just starting a business and she sees him working 12, 14 hours a day.
She sees him growing.
Like, I think she would bet on it.
Now, question.
Or if mom's probably, true, like, these and bitches, no.
True.
But here's that.
I do think that I was going to say was,
I don't believe my train of thought,
my point was, if a guy had a choice.
Yes.
Between he's there and on his way,
I think majority of them would choose, he's there.
However, if they're attracted to him physically,
they say the vibe is there, they'll love to say,
and he's on his way, I doubt they'll leave him off,
you know, just because he's not there yet.
So, yeah, you're right.
think if they had a choice, they're choosing the guy who's already built, for sure.
But I think there's a good amount of girls who will bet on you as long as you're showing signs of improvement.
Like, there is a time clock, right?
So, for example, girls will say, oh, I was with the guy who was broke?
Where is you now?
I broke up with them.
Exactly.
Right?
So it is a time clock on how long they're willing to put up with you not meeting your, meeting the financial requirement.
So they give you a maybe a year or two, but it won't be long.
Yeah.
So now I feel like women
Yeah
Just just currently
Now they'll probably like give you time
If you're super hot
But that's right
But like that's not really like a time clock
Or any faith that like you would do something
Like like they just want to fuck you
Until they find a guy who can find this
For their lifestyle right now
But you know like I feel like where the issue comes in is
Once we start to attach connotations to it
Right meaning you know we can state the reality of things
Which is yo like
majority of women
ain't trying to build
because again majority of women
don't like don't even see like a quote unquote
again like a guy right
I can come to you
and give you an entire business
plan the fucking future
and you will see the vision in it
most women not seeing no fucking vision
right
but
we like kind of like
we go wrong
when we start to attach connotations like
like yo
them already wanting
a guy who's common who's rich, that's wrong.
But we don't tell men, listen, like, men wouldn't take a chance on a girl who's, let's say,
you know, like she's ugly, but you see, yo, yo, listen, she could probably be a...
Cosmetic surgery.
A dom, right?
After a BBL, right?
Like, so why is it...
I guess, like, it okay for us to say, listen, like, we want a female who's already pretty,
who's already feminine, nurturing, but she...
She can't want a man who's already on.
I think that's where the, you know, so there's logical double standards and there's double
standards.
I don't think that's a logical double standard.
I think with men, if we demand girls to be attractive when we meet them and women and
when they meet them, you know, it's fair for them to say, hey, I want you to be, you know,
built up.
Now, the only thing that sucks about it is I think society accepts men saying, yo, you
have to be hot when I meet you.
I think that's accepted.
No one ever debates that.
there's always a ton of pushback on women wanting a dude already built, built financially.
Now, I know the game, so I'm not mad at them.
I think that's like they're biological, like for their offspring,
wanting a guy who can take care of them and the family.
But I think they get shamed for it.
So it's unfortunate, but I don't, I don't see it changing the culture where we men stop harping on gold diggers.
I just say, like, here's the thing.
It's like, imagine if I was a teacher that I gave you answer to the test.
Yeah.
You know what women want.
You see exactly the, you see exactly,
him the test what to study for.
Show up on the test and get a fucking A.
Absolutely.
Right?
Like if you know what they want, go get an A.
But don't look at the test and go, no, the study guy and go, this is bullshit and toss
and get an F on the test.
Yeah, of course.
Learn it.
So it's like, I know women want some, I'm becoming Thanos right now.
Got the looks.
I'm a fly-ass nigger.
I got the height.
I got the build.
Now I want to get the money.
All the infinity stones.
It's a rap.
It's a rap.
I'm coming for your bitches once the money hits.
Come on.
Watch out.
Watch out.
Yeah, listen, man, I'll be real, right?
Like, now I got no bitches.
Okay.
But one, you feel me?
Right?
Faithful man's got one.
You feel me?
Right?
Wait, here, right?
Here, right?
So, like, here, right?
So, yeah, yeah, yeah.
I think I've seen like Patrice O'Neill say this.
Okay.
Oh, rest in peace.
That men are just better than women.
Like, men are more valuable.
Now, what's your take on that?
Like, who's more valuable?
Men or women?
Well, okay.
So it's hard to say who's more valuable because we're both needed for society, right?
It goes down to the debate of what's more important, the sperm of the egg.
You need sperm to fertilize the egg, but without the egg, there's no, you can't.
So it's like, it's hard to say who's better.
But I think men help society run because I think girls are going to be excited to jump in a sewer and fix that
or jump into a quarry and, you know, mine for things, right?
But women, you know, they help us reproduce.
So without them, we're not going to go past another, you know, you're not going to be able to, you know, populate the country and populate the world.
So I can't say here, I'm not going to say we're better than them because they're better than us at breastfeeding.
They're better than us at nurturing kids.
Well, yeah.
Here, how about this?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Beyond a reproduction argument, right?
Yeah, true, true.
Okay, fair, fair, okay.
Right, like, you know, like men have, you know, sperm, blah, right?
Here, okay, so I'm going to, like, just list out, like, what men do, you know, right?
Sure, sure.
Right?
Absolutely.
And then you tell me, like, what women do, right?
So, again, we're trying to be fair, right?
We are trying to have to not, the most non-in-celled conversation ever, right?
Misogany.
Hit that button back there.
No, right?
So, Chad's going to have the women back, right?
Sure, sure, sure.
Now, men, we provide, we protect.
Okay.
You know, like, we like make more, right?
We do labor.
Right.
Like, we, you know, probably have the majority of the inventions.
True.
That's correct.
Right.
And we lead, again, like we lead countries and societies.
We make laws.
Now, what do women do that can equate to that?
Yeah.
So I think women have an important role where they're going to, so for example, women are more detail-oriented.
That's why a lot of times successful men or people have female assistance, most of the time.
They're better with details, you know, and also women bring organization, you know, for example, like you take a guy's house right now. What does he have? One seat, a TV on the floor, me like three forks and one knife and like a cup, right?
We're bare essentials, very essentials, right? Our girl comes in, how about a couch? How about a rug? How about? So it's like, it adds, it gives life a bit, a bit more organization. So to things you just said,
It's hard for them to label things at the same equal amount.
But I think they help, I think women help civilize men.
You know, if it wasn't for women, I probably wouldn't buy this $400 dollar cologne.
I probably wouldn't buy these $208.
Woo, talking to shit, man.
So it's like, so women kind of make men hustle.
Like, think about, dude, if there's no women around, I don't think men would do work very hard.
Because men, honestly, the back of a man's mouth, when he's working his ass off, damn, they're going to see me when I get this race.
They're going to see me when I get this Rose Royce.
So it's like women in a way motivate men to go hard.
Just think about it like, think about in like a city or back in the day, right, before Instagram.
So there's five hot girls in the entire city.
Yeah.
Men are all competing for those same five girls.
Fargo, North Dakota.
Yeah, right.
Exactly right.
They're all competing for those.
So take out women.
They're like, oh, well, I can just live in this one bedroom and have like, you know, a small bed.
Because like, for what?
Like, why do we need to go hard and have this empire for?
You know, of course, men have ego want to be the greatest.
It's in our DNA to be the degree, you know, to be to conquer as the leaders.
Yeah.
But women definitely motivate men to the end degree.
Yes.
Yeah, right.
So pretty much, essentially, men we hunt the meat.
We like, cut it up.
Yep.
And butcher it, we, you know, right?
And we heat it up.
You feel me?
Yeah.
It, like, comes out simmered, well-oiled, well-gray.
And she put the salt on the pizzazz.
And she gets 50-50 credit.
Yeah, true, man.
As our life is, you feel like that?
We're here, right, here, right?
But speaking of men and women, right?
Yeah.
Now, what's your thoughts on marriage?
Should, yeah, like, should a man get married?
Well, I think a man should get married.
I think it's best to leave the state out of it or the government out of it.
I think it's best that you do it on your own terms and create your own contract.
Because a pre-up, what a pre-up is, I could be wrong, but I'm pretty sure it's, it's,
instead of you doing what the state wants or the government wants, you do what you want.
Now, of course, there's lawyers out there who are legit the best in the business at breaking preempts.
Like, that's their whole job.
But I think it's best to go on with the proper leverage.
And I think it's important to have important conversations early on.
Like they say don't talk about politics and religion on the first date.
Why?
Why not?
Like, so why not find out who she is first date?
You know, I always probe girls on the first day, which starts on girlships.
Oh, I love Miami.
I love going to Vegas.
See ya.
The door hits on the way out.
Right?
So it's like I make sure I'm dealing with a girl that has my similar value.
So I think for man, if you're going to get married, it's important to have basically talk about things.
Like how often, you know, like how often like they talk about all these things because men go into it thinking that, oh, I'm the anomaly.
Mine won't be a sexless marriage.
She won't lose respect for me.
And then it ends up happening to him, right?
So I think if you're going to get married, you got to do it, man, like so much vetting has to go into it.
Really get to know her family.
but I think for most majority of men here's thing
most men want to get married out of necessity
like I got like myself
if I'm going where I'm thinking I'm going to go
I may have a rotation for a while
because I'm in leverage right
but for some guys who are 5 foot eight
maybe like 190 pounds on the chubby spectrum
don't have much clout like they may have to get married
to lock down sex for the rest of their life
whereas the guy like me you know I'm tall
I'm handsome I'm making money I have cloud I'm have status
so it's like I'm able to get away with not having to get
married so soon. But some guys
will have to get married just based
off a necessity, you know, because they won't
be able to reproduce. Like, I think what?
I think 30% of men had never procreated
some like that. So it's like most of me
have to do it just out of necessity.
No, like, and now
it's actually getting worse, right? Yes, it's getting worse, bro.
Yo, here, so
I think like this is a stat like
where it says like there's like
a 70% increase
of men under 30
never having sex, right? Like, it's not high.
I believe it.
I believe it.
I believe it.
Right?
No, but speaking of marriage,
I think like Hafiz made his wife sign a contract again.
I may.
No, he didn't.
No, no.
I may be wrong.
Did not.
He did not make her sign it.
This was on the sauce cast with Adam Sosnik.
And he said, I did not make my wife sign a pre-naut.
No, no, no, no.
For sex.
Oh.
Right?
Okay, okay.
Here's another thing.
Yeah.
When I watched it, he talked about it, like as in, he's, okay, so the question was asked about
about marriage.
He said, if men do it.
There should be contracts in state saying, you know, if this doesn't happen, I can do this.
If this doesn't happen, I can do this.
I'm not sure if there was a sex contract signed with Hoffees.
Yeah.
I'll put words in his mouth.
Yeah.
But he talked about if you're going to get married.
These are some things that you should be open to.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But, man, it's crazy.
I thought that that podcast with Adam Sosnik would kind of slip underneath the rug.
Everyone's on it, bro.
Every time I'm on the YouTube homepage.
Someone's ripping into Hoffie's.
Yo, you see, right?
So, like, okay, so before hot fees, right?
Yeah.
And here's, like, my take on marriage.
Now, yeah, what your take on?
I feel like the red pill has, like, got to a point where they're saying,
don't get married because women are out to get you.
Sure.
Opposed to, again, like, the marriage system, like, don't, like, see gender.
It sees rich.
It sees poor.
Gotcha.
So I feel like we should, like, direct our, like, direct our full.
efforts into telling women, yo, no, sorry, I telling men, bro, like, don't they poor bitches,
right? Because again, like, bro.
It comes down to that, actually. It actually comes down to that. Yeah, you're right.
Because, bro, if you get divorced and she does equally as well as you or she does better than you,
yeah, you can make some money, actually.
You aren't getting fucked, right?
True.
So, like, we tell, again, like, we tell men, yo, they women who are feminine and nurture, blah,
men shouldn't care about her
her like degrees, blah, blah.
And then we openly acknowledge, yo,
that women are practicing hypergmy,
meaning like they are dating up or getting married
to increase their social status, right?
Yeah.
Or hierarchy.
So if women are actively seeking out
the rich men to fuck over and divorces,
then why don't we teach men to just not date poor bitches?
That's such a good point because actually
I was listening to a podcast where a woman,
sorry, a man married to a woman,
and they made almost similar income.
So when they divorced, he wasn't paying alimony
or as a high alimony.
Because it's happening is I'm pretty sure that I'm owning.
Again, I'm not a divorce court person.
But I heard if she's making only 20 grand a year
and you make a couple hundred thousand,
you're going to have to make up the,
basically you're paying for her lifestyle as it was.
Her lifestyle can't go back to 20K.
Has to get to maintain it where you had her at.
So your point, if she makes some money, right?
If you guys get divorced,
it won't be such an ugly fee.
So that's a point people don't talk about
and it should be talked about a lot more
because if you date a girl who's pretty down bad financially
you guys get divorced, you're right.
You're right. You're right. I think that's a point
I should even talk about my TikTok is
a lot of times, you know, I'm not speaking down on them
but like some podcasts will say,
hey, it doesn't matter about her money.
I'll say, hey man, I get what you're saying.
Basically what they're saying is money doesn't make women attractive
but it comes to maybe marriage long term.
You should care about that because her money
if you guys get divorced, then the divorce is a lot smoother.
If she was broke, you're going to have to cough up a little bit more.
Yeah.
Bro, listen, because if men start practicing hypergamy...
True, men start practicing her.
Men for hypergamy, get a fucking t-shirt.
I'm telling you, listen, because if we start dating females who are above all-like pay grade,
then that will force the average woman to start dating men who are probably below their pay grade.
Hence, yo, that whole system might start flipping.
The only problem though with girls who make money is they tend to be masculine.
I know some girls where, you know, they make money and all they do is repost like, you know,
all these, you know, rich pages.
Like, girl, go repost some freaking astrology.
Like, dude, like, like, like, and also it's like when you're with them, they try to, you know,
put their dick on the table too.
Like, so they're trying to be like just like me.
Like, girl, I don't know.
Be a girl.
You know?
So I think a lot of times when girls make money, they tend to be a bit more masculine,
which makes them harder to date.
And also sometimes what happens is the girls make money, they may date down.
You know, Nikki Minaj dated down, Chris Jenner dated down.
Like, they can't find someone on a higher level.
So they date down.
And a lot of times when girls date down, they tend to be the shot caller.
Yeah, absolutely.
Which sometimes men have a problem with dating a woman that's calling the shots.
You know, I think as men, we want to be, you know, the shot collar with the women we're with.
So it's a smart idea, but that girl can be rich and feminine.
Well, then hell yeah, let's push that movement.
They're the rich feminine chicks.
Yo, here, so I heard this argument a bunch.
Yeah.
That women are more masculine nowadays because men are getting more feminine.
I can agree with that.
Right?
Who's the blame then?
Like the feminine men or the masculine women?
So I'll say this, right.
When I got canceled back two years ago, it was bad.
When I say canceled, bro, they came for everything I had.
Damn.
Yeah, so I got canceled, right?
Called jobs and shit?
Yeah, they did.
Yeah.
So I'm self-employed, but they were able to find the business I work
for, no, no, that I own and write like 200 Google reviews on it.
We're getting that later.
But basically, this is what happens.
Guys will see me get canceled for speaking my mind.
And they'll go, oh my God, I can't end up like Chad from Defund Simping because look
what they're doing to is life.
They're coming for everything, mom, dad.
So I'm not going to be this traditionally masculine man because obviously that's being ripped
away.
So let me be what they want.
If they want me passive, sweet, feminine, paint my nails or dresses, I'll do that to make
women like me. Here's thing. The content I make, I openly know when women find out about it,
not all but some, they'll be repulsed by it. I know that. I've lost, I've made at TikTok about
every time. I will lose women in my TikTok all of the time. But I'm willing to put my dating
life on the line to help men out. So back to your point, when men see, when guys see guys like
me, try me traditionally masculine, and they see it being shamed, they run away to the, to the girl's
side, right? For example, a guy will make videos saying, oh, for example, Pastor Poppy Don,
you know who that is? Yes. So, they'll see that content succeeding. Oh, may I be a trick,
maybe to send her a zeal every morning and to make her like him. Bro, here's the thing, man.
Right? So you're saying with him, right? Here's thing with him, right? I don't like saying that
on him just because I only a black man tearing down another black man. Because I know that's
a thing, bro. Yeah, he has. He has, right? But I never made TikToks about it or stitched them,
because even though in a way it's kind of pandering,
and pandering is to people to understand.
It's saying things you don't even believe.
That's pandering, because I could get the word pandering wrong.
But it's like, I don't want to tear him down
because he's another black man.
So it's like, but-
Is he black?
You know what, he could be Dominican or whatever.
But he looks black to me, so I'm not going to tear him down
and talk about his criminal history on him.
But I'm saying is the reason why men are becoming weak
is because women are, it's like this.
They say it one thing, but they respond to another.
Right, they may say, I don't like people like defund simping.
When they sit down, have a conversation, look into these pretty brown eyes, see these curls in 4K.
Now they're a fan.
So they set out loud, you don't like them.
Hey, yo, bro.
Why does light skin nigga think he cute?
Bro, I'm handsome as hell, bro.
I'm a flying nigger, bro.
Why do you think you cute?
Because, bro.
See, the jaw bone, the beard, the curls.
Like, what do you?
Why do you think you cute, Chad?
Because when I walk into a spot, bro, girls are just like, who is he?
The hose is on me, right?
I'm getting the choosing signals from across the bar.
That's fair, that's fair.
You know, I walk into the spot and girls are like, damn, who is he?
And I can't blame them for looking at this beautiful caramel smell specimen.
Oh, listen.
Well, not care.
No, nigga, you light skin.
You light skin, not caramel, you are.
Hold on.
You is waffle colored.
So here's a thing, bro.
Bage.
Here's a thing, here's a thing.
Right.
I used to identify myself as light skin.
Yeah.
my YouTube channel used to be called local light skin.
Okay.
But there's the issue with that.
I realize Steph Curry is light skin.
Blake Griffin is light skin.
Clay Thompson is light skin.
Those are, so a technical light skin to me is your mom is usually white and your dad's dark
skin.
Okay.
For me, I'm like, bro, if I'm in the sun long enough, I could go Acon.
Hell not.
Okay.
So me not Acon, but I can go.
But that's 10.
This is, I can say this is a brown skin.
People say I look like Usher.
Usher's like a brown skin, you know, brown skin brother.
I get Usher and get Russell Wilson.
Usher and Russell Wilson a lot.
Nigger, Usher is dark.
No, I get usher and Russell Wilson a lot.
Russell Wilson?
I get that all.
Every day.
Listen, nah, Chad.
You're not that cringe, bro.
Russell is cringe, my nigga.
So as far as an aesthetic-wise, I say, I look like Russell.
Yeah, I can see that, right?
He's like Hawaiian and shit, though.
You know, as far as the looks-wise, I get that every day on my TikTok.
Like, go, thanks, Russell.
No, thanks, thanks, yeah, all the time.
Wait, though.
You were Russ kind of have like similar backgrounds, right?
I'm from the suburbs.
Yeah.
Yeah, right.
All the things my mom's not white, I think his mom is white.
I think, I think.
Yeah, like white, Hawaiian.
Yeah, exactly.
Yeah.
Right.
Wait, though.
So like, do you date like the hoodb bitches?
Yeah.
It's actually kind of sad too.
I'm not, I think about it.
It's like, girls have told me physically, you're attractive.
But you're aesthetic.
I'm not attracted to.
How you talk, how you walk.
I'm like, all right, bitch, you want to have a Glock in the car
and a criminal history if you don't like me?
Right?
So it's kind of delusional where it's like these girls
and sometimes girls who are not even from the hood
want me to be like a hood dude.
I'm like, sorry, not me.
So I tend to day girls.
I, you know, I deal all types of girls.
But like I've had girls in the past who are bit on the hooder side
want me a bit more oomph and like more tattoos saying thug life
and want me to, you know, maybe have a couple cases on me.
Crazy.
A couple blocks too.
your hair, but like, speak on them.
Like, why did you get canceled?
Okay, so, good topic.
So I was on a run where I went from zero to 50K in like three months.
Okay.
And I legit sometimes do hashtag feminism on my TikToks because I wanted some smoke.
It was all love.
You was asking for it.
I was asking for smoke.
Like every time I post a video, the same facts, bro, facts, speaking facts, speaking truth.
Brose is fluent in facts.
Like, I got no pushback at all.
You're him.
I'm like, yeah, exactly.
All the dick rotter.
Hemethey Duncan.
Yeah.
Duncan.
Like I'm getting all to him, right?
No smoke.
I'm like, dude, like where, I know this is a liberal platform.
Where are they?
I'm in a video stating if, because this is during the pandemic where girls were not getting
attention to the clubs anymore.
So they jumped on to online dating to get that validation back, right?
So I said, guys, if she's not linking with you and she's saying, oh, wait till the vaccine
rolls out.
Oh, wait to this all blows over.
You a matcher, move on.
Some girl saw that video, stitched it and accused me of a grape,
culture. What's grape culture?
R-A-P-E. Oh, okay, okay.
So, yeah, grape culture, right? I'm like, that makes no sense.
But my boy in the back said, Chad, double down. Go, like, like, go even harder than the last one.
Don't apologize. Don't tuck your tail. Like, you go even further, right?
He's the bad influence.
But he's the thing, no, he's right, though. Like, you don't, you don't apologize.
You know, fully don't rat, you know what I'm saying? So I made a video saying, listen, all you
girls who are comments on my page right now. You don't like that I'm exposing the truth.
Because here's the thing. When men have game, it messes up your system. The guy you're texting
every day but you won't link up with, he's going to realize that. The guy you've been on
eight dinner dates with and every single time you have your period every single time,
he's to catch up on that. So when men are naive, women have the upper hand. So now that men
are watching this page, you don't like how men are waking up to the game. Because this is all
a game, in my opinion. So that video, woke up the next day. I have the screenshot.
a thousand comments, 20,000 followers gained.
It was, I'm like, dude, it's like seven in the morning.
Yeah.
And the Liberal Avengers all got together and just beamed on my account.
Yeah.
Where I won't...
Mass reporting, I'm talking.
Here's the thing.
My mom calls me, hey, I was going on.
I'm like, I know what's going on, but like, why would she say that to me?
Someone just came to my job and started talking about your TikTok.
I'm like...
Oh, then, it went far.
Right.
And then I started getting...
My phone starts vibrating.
Google, Google review, Google review.
People were, like, were messing with my business.
I had to change my domain name.
I'm a videographer.
Then they started attacking people who are tagging my Instagram page.
God damn.
Right?
Then others, and now it's from TikTok.
Now Instagram, now their Instagram pages reposting my video.
And I'm getting either make my comments follow only.
You can't comment.
So they're leaving nasty comments.
It was for about two weeks straight.
So in that moment, I thought, is this all worth it?
But then I was like, you know what?
Like, there's a greater purpose to this.
And when there's a breakdown, there's going to be a breakthrough.
And I broke through it.
And now I'm sitting here talking to you, man.
If I quit back in 2020, I wouldn't be here.
So it's a blessing.
Yo, here, bro.
So, like, last two questions, right?
Yeah, of course.
So the first question is, do you feel like there's too many alpha mills with podcasts going on, man?
Because the alpha mill podcast culture is getting kind of redundant and toxic.
So I'll say this, right?
Women always told men to speak your feelings.
Yes.
Tell us how you really feel.
You're holding it all in.
Then they go, okay, and buy this mic, turn the camera on, and they start talking.
Now it's an issue.
But every podcast has that guy.
I get it.
I get it, right?
But here's the thing.
There's The View, Wendy Williams.
There's so many female talk shows where they talk.
And I don't mind it.
I don't mind their talking points.
But here's the thing.
I think now, you know, men are basically watching these podcasts going, damn, I feel you.
I feel, I don't know who this guy is talking, but I relate to him so much.
You know what?
I'm going to start my own where I can vent about how I feel, right?
So now that men have the microphone, girls don't fucking, they don't like it, honestly.
Like when Fresh and Fid got canceled, women were, like, that was the topic of the week, Alpha Male Podcast.
And it's funny.
I think Alpha Male Podcast Contrares, people don't like it, say Alpha more than anybody.
else. I don't hear
Myron and Fresh saying we're alphas. I don't hear
anybody else saying we are alphas that are
speaking on the current dating stage. So I think
a lot of times, this is
our way of venting. Legit. This is our
way of venting. Talking on a camera.
Now here's the thing, they don't like what we're saying.
I get it. Fine. But we
don't like what you say about astrology.
Oh, I'm so mean because I'm an Aquarius
and Alpha, and I'm a Capri son.
And like, we don't care about that.
Yeah. But we don't shame them. We don't care.
Nothing.
It's like, if you don't like what we're saying, don't watch it.
Absolutely.
Just turn it off, right?
And there's a thing.
A lot of times, it's funny, girls will shame guys that watch it.
I guarantee the girls, they're dating guys that have fresh and fit on the loop.
When they get in the car, oh, hey, babe, how was your day?
Like, they know to keep quiet about it.
Of course.
They know watching fresh and fits when you do at night by yourself and, you know, in a corner of a room with headphones on.
But when they're stopped watching it, oh, I'm a good guy.
Oh, I'm liberal.
You know, like, so yeah, I think that's the case.
Here, my question, right?
So now, I want to talk to about Hafiz's war on the red pill.
Yeah.
So first of, like, do you know who just pro the thing is?
I do.
I've actually met her.
Really?
Where?
Here?
I met her out in Newport Beach.
She did a podcast with my friend.
We talked.
She's really cool.
Really insightful, too.
Really smart.
Yo, hey, listen, Pearlie, I'm going to be reaching out tonight, feel me?
Yeah, no.
I can help you get in contact.
Oh, oh, dope, man.
Yeah.
Hey, right.
Okay, so then two things.
What's your thoughts?
or I guess Hafiz wore on the rep Hill
and then like your thoughts on
him going on her podcast
and that interaction.
Yeah, so first Hoffie.
Who took the W and like who took the L?
Gosh, he said Hafiz, man.
I'm not going to lie, I watch his content for a while.
Yeah.
I like Hafiz.
He tries to bring balanced.
Here's the issue though.
He gets mad at other content creators
for not being balanced.
Here's the thing.
If I like watching,
if I'm a huge fan of the Raiders,
I don't need to be balanced.
I don't need to watch the chargers.
I don't care.
I'm a fan of the Raiders.
I don't need to have balance in like everybody else.
So, you know, Gandhi said, be the change you want to see in the world.
So if you want to have balance, you make balance content.
You go over there and make your balanced content.
But don't shame him, him, him, him for not bringing balance.
That's what you should do.
You should go create it.
So that was the issue on the podcast.
He was pointing fingers saying, be balanced, be balanced.
But I'm like, no.
Like, I went through the divorce court, Coach Greg Adams.
I've been through the divorce court.
I've been through it.
You haven't been through it.
Who are to tell me that I'm not balanced?
Yeah, quick.
In my world, I'm balanced.
Right? So as far as the only issue I do have was I don't like how in my opinion
He came up off the red pill that's how he got his rise to fame got to the top
Flip the round flip the bird to the RP community I'm different now he's going off of you
So it's like now man like you kind of came up off of the content from the RP right so here's thing
This is what you should say you know what I came off off off the RP content I get where you guys are coming from but maybe one day when you get married or change your mind
That's it's a great answer
hey I'm not mad at y'all I used to be y'all however I'm married now and I'm in a good place and hopefully one day you can join me
That's a fair honest answer moving on to just pearly things I think he went on here's the thing I don't like how he came out of her
Like man that's a woman she's so nice right she's a woman like so how some more you know I think he should talk to a bit more respect and a lot
Hafis would say a lot
Perley things would say a sentence and you go on another tangent right and I didn't like that I think when you debate with somebody it's I think it's your goal to be
clear and concise. Say four to five sentences and shut up. When you go on too long of a tangent,
it makes the person responding to you too hard. You said this point and this point and this point and
this point. So I think it's important for you clear and concise. In that moment, I think probably
things took the W only because she stayed cool and calm. Hafiz had the vein popping out the side
of the neck. He was throwing his arms around. I think that's a woman's job. Let her get emotional
where you stay more calm and stoic. So that's, I'll say that.
as far as, you know, that whole thing.
Yeah, man.
Like, yeah, honestly, like, I don't know too much about, like, Hafiz.
Yeah.
But, you know, but.
He's Nigerian.
Aren't you Nigerian?
No, a librarian.
Oh, got you.
Right.
No, but I'll definitely dive deeper into his content.
I mean, but I'll reach out to a just prolet thing,
Hafiz, Coach Greg Adams.
Yeah, I've reached out.
I think like MS is supposed to be coming soon.
Hell yeah.
I'm going to watch that show.
That's what you later.
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, man, folks, listen, man, no jumper, quills podcast,
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