No Jumper - Goldie Confronts Flakko About Simping, Kevin Samuels & More

Episode Date: June 24, 2024

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No Jumper coolest podcast in the world, man. Listen, man, we're here with a special guest. You feel me, man. The game got himself, man. No. Goldie, man. How you feeling? Man, I'm feeling amazing.

How you feeling? Yeah, listen, like, you came probably the flyest guest I've had here in a minute, man. Oh, man, appreciate it. You know? You got the Gucci. Now, listen, I'm too embarrassed to even ask, like, what type of shoes those are. Feel me, right? You feel me, right?

You feel me right? Because that's how, like, broke I am. Oh, man. You know, if you can't see the bottom of them right there. Oh, Lou Vuitton. Yeah. Yo, you know, no, listen, so Sharp gave me, listen, Mishan's a sharp, yo. Shout out to Sharp.

He gave me my first pair of Louis Vuittons. Oh, that's what's up. Yesterday. No, two days ago. Oh, yeah, yeah. Yeah, man. Why you do that? He just, your birthday?

No, man. Listen, I came over. Like, we had a pretty big stream. I think, like, we're about to do, like, we're about to do like 60,000 views right now, you know, like the live stream and shit now, you know? Okay. He said, hey, bracing, man. Yo, bud, who's Goldie, man, feel me?

And what is the game god? Well, listen, I'm gonna tell you like this, right? The game god is something they gave me. You know, I get online, I've been, you know, talking my shit. Can I cuss on here? Yeah, of course. Well, after five minutes. Okay, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Okay, so, you know, I've just been online, you know, talking my shit, giving that game. Yeah. And everybody would just comment under my shit, hashtag game guy, so I just adopted it as my moniker. But let's break that down, though. Okay. Game God, game. wisdom, knowledge, understanding, uncommon information, God, supreme being. I'm the supreme being of this game in this space.

See, you've got a lot of people, they get a game about the women. They eat a game about the streets. They eat a game about the, I'm coming from a different angle. I'm encompassing everything. I'm giving people game about everything they need to be successful. You know what I'm saying? So ain't nobody spinning like me. You know, people have different aspects that I got, but ain't nobody coming how I'm coming.

No, facts, man. Now, when we hear game as a civilian, the first thing I hear is is them, right? P. So, yeah, like, speak on that, man. Like, have you ever dabble in the game? No, see, I was never a pimp, you know, and it's a big misconception. Everybody think that I was pimped. No, I wasn't a pimp. I was around a lifestyle because my uncles, they were players, you know what I'm saying? So I got introduced to that lifestyle at around, you know, 16, 17 years old when my uncle came down the street, you know, riding in at the time it was a Hummers, H-2s, you know, had to be 30 in the back, 30-inch rims.

He had the two-door bins. He had the four. He had a woman sitting next to him, three women in the back. You know, and it just changed my paradigm and blew my mind. I said, you know, I'm getting turned on to this shit. But I never jumped into the game per se, but I was around the game. You know, I lived a polygamous lifestyle for over a decade out in Vegas. Oh, dope. So I have four, five, six women, you know, every year for about 10 years.

And, you know, each year it would be a different set of five, six different women. You know, most dudes that have, what, four or five relationships there are a whole life? Yeah, serious relationships. I don't have that times ten. So I got a unique perspective. And a lot of dudes, they be like women. They be like, oh, you hate women? I'm like, no, I love my mom.

I love my auntie. I love my grandma. But check this out. I just understand what a woman is. You know, I don't put her on this undeserved pedestal just because she got a wet spot between her legs. Understand what I'm saying? I'm stripping a woman down.

When I look at a woman, I'm stripping her down from that makeup, that BBL, you know, the silicone she got. And I'm looking at her for what she is. And when you strip her down like that, who she is becomes very important, how she treats you, how she talks to you. Her number, how attractive she is, Like if she's somebody say she attend.

Her attractive number to me is based on what she does for me, how she treats me. So I'm just, you know, that's how I'm kicking it. That's how I'm coming. I'm trying to get this game of self-love. It's always about the woman. The woman's the prize. Happy wife, happy life. Happy king and not a goddamn thing.

You get what I'm saying? I'm trying to put the power back into the man. It's called the great female con, right? Women and society have tricked men into believing that they are more valuable than the man. When if you just look at stats and facts, the man is almost always more valuable. You can always find, real quick. You can always find a bad woman. You say a bad bitch, right?

You can find that anywhere. You can't find too many flakos. You can't find too many goadies. But the woman would have you believe that she is more valuable than her. But what's valuable is what's rare. You're rare. I'm rare.

They're a dime and dozen. So how do you define a bad woman? How I define a bad woman is number one. How much she likes me, right? That's the most important thing. Because depending on how much she likes you, depends on everything else being easier. How much she likes me. How useful she is to me.

Her utility, she can't just be dead waiting, look pretty. You know, how cooperative she is, how much of a pleasing personality she has. And then after that comes, looks. Because looks fade, looks come and go. How could you put so much weight on something that is transitory that's destined to go away? A woman's beauty is going to fade. And once that phase, what's left standing? The character, how she acts, how she treats you, all of these things.

So what's bad to me is how you treat me. If you treat me well, you're attending me. Sure, right? So I guess where my like, like, guess like pushback comes in, right? So for example, so like guys like you, right? Rare, right? You're not right.

You know, right? You know, right? But like, you know, but you know, you're like, you know, like, you know, you're like, you know, rich and in shape, right? So a guy like that is top 1%. Right? So if your definition of bad is a true, chick who is loyal, who cares about you, who can hold it down.

Yeah. And she looks good as well. And then my question is, like, like, like, how come just, for example, just men in general, how can you say that a man is more of a prize than she is when, bro, like, you are the 1%, right? Like, there's still an entire economy of men out here, right? And the other like 90% don't really have millions and ain't really in tip top shape. So like why would the average man be more valuable than the average woman?

Why? Like why? Like, why are we all just the same? I hear where you coming from. And I'm going to tell you why. Because where does a woman derive her value in society? Oh, I don't know. From her looks.

Okay. And I just told you, looks are bound to fade. So if she only has what makes a woman most valuable is her looks. She only has looks until what she's about 30 years old, right? But a man's utility and his value in society comes from what? What he's able to do, his competency, which he could have a competency at 70, 80 years old. That's why you see an 80-year-old with a 20-year-old, but you've never seen a 80-year-old woman with a 20-year-old dude. Well, you might, but they don't really go like that.

So what I'm saying is because a woman's value is predicated on her looks, looks are easy to find. Not only are they easy to find, they're easy to buy. And if something is easy to find or easy to buy and easily accessible, it's not valuable by definition. valuable is something rare. And when you're rare, when you're a man, you could develop habits, you could develop disciplines, you could develop competency,

you could develop things that are merited, it makes you more valuable. Let's put it like this. Let's take you, right? You're more valuable than 99% of women, but you probably don't think that. But guess what? The baddest woman could walk in here.

You can find 10 of her. Where can they find as many flakos doing what you're doing? You worldwide, you well-known, you're on your way to places. But she will treat you as if she's, more valuable than you and you will believe it and treat her like she's more valuable than you when in reality you are more rare than her and that's all I'm doing I'm trying to wake up dudes

and I'm not saying have false value I expect every man to be working on himself go to the gym eat right you need to be better than a woman for her to follow you nobody's going to follow you if you got all the same bad habits if you're on the same level you got to be heavy head his shoulders above a woman for her to follow you so I'm not saying don't work on yourself but I'm saying a man has the potential to be value more valuable than any woman because when woman's value is predicated on something that's destined to go away. No, sure. But if most men will never reach that true potential, right?

So if most men live average lives, there wouldn't most men, you know, be, I guess, just as valuable, if not less valuable than a regular woman? I hear where you're coming from. And I can't push back on that. All I can say to that is a man's potential. Yeah. His potential is farther than the woman's.

So, okay, yeah, she has these looks for a time. But Windows looks fays, what does she have? So I guess you're right. They're equal to a point. But at any time, if that man decides to get on his shit, decides to work out, decides to get on top of his game, that's what I'm saying. Yeah.

Yeah, I'm not going to sit up here and say every dude. Because, yeah, you know, a lot of dudes, they talk about women, they can't catch a woman. That's because she above your league. Yeah, she's above your league, but you could be above her league if you put in that work. No, true. Now, listen, like, like, you know, I seem like a short man of like yours, right?

Where, yo, bro, and I agree, right? is like these in cells, you know, have been fed like this pipe dream of, yo, yo, I deserve the baddest, right? Yo, bro, like, these holes ain't shit when nah, bro, like, chill as all, bro. Like, you're not shit. You feel like, you dirt. Yeah, that's, that's, and I'm heavy on that, you know, because a lot of dudes need that check of reality.

And sometimes they watch some of these red pill podcasts and they get to pumping themselves up. It's like, now, you got to do the work, though. We got to look objection. Like, okay, so in some of my, like, group calls, you know, I asked dudes, they want to have a lot of women and things. I say, well, tell me why you don't feel like you have the women that you should have. You know, they say this, they say that. And I say, the reason is, it's because you're not who you think you are, right?

Because the man who has that is that. And he attracts that. If you're not attracting a bunch of women, it's because you're not the person that deserves to attract that. Because for the guy who is attracting that, it's easy for him because he is that. Most dudes really don't understand what level they really on. And they do need a reality check. But at the same time, these women do too. Of course.

So what defines a woman's value? because it can't just be looks. No, that's what I just said. I mean, what defines a woman value is, you know, subjective. Depends on who you asking them. Some of these dudes, if a woman looked good or got a fat ass, oh, man, she attended. She got a hell of value.

To me, like I said, one is how much she likes me. How much she desires me is going to be the most important thing for me dealing with a woman. I'm not dealing with no woman who don't love my dirty draws. If she ain't ready to die, still kill, go to jail for me. If she's not going to treat me like Drake, if she's not going to treat me like she would treat Chris Brown, then I don't want her. That's number one.

Because once you get that, everything else is easier. Right? Number two, she has to be useful, right? Because like I said, looks fade. And even if looks don't fade, how long is this bad woman going to be bad to you once you have her? Once you didn't have sex with her 100 times? That's neither here nor there anymore. What's left?

She has to be useful. She has to be competent. She has to have a pleasing personality. She has to be able to control her emotions and manage her emotions so she's not giving me a problem. She has to be willing to bow down to me. That's what makes her valuable with me. How I feel is the most important. So if a woman could make me feel great, man, that's where she get her number for me.

That's valuable to me. You ask these other dudes, you know, looks is the only thing, but they got a bad woman and they're going through hell at home. To me, that's not a valuable woman to me. Now, now, would you say that most women are competent in, like, for example, right, do you feel like most women have more to offer than just looks? No, I don't. Why not? I don't feel like most women have more to offer than just looks because they haven't tried to develop other aspects. Not saying all women, but a lot of women have spent their entire lives trying to develop their looks to look good, to put this on.

And because of that, they neglected everything else. They put so much time into the external, they never invested into the internal, their mind, their discipline, their habits, you know, working out, just their character, their integrity. They've never had to develop it. They sit around with most dudes say some stupid shit, off-the-wall shit, that everybody looking like what? A dude's not going to say nothing. They've never gotten an accurate perspective from men because men trying to fuck them all the time. So they don't even know where they're at. They don't know that they're stupid.

They don't know that they shouldn't say that. That's why you meet so many women. You'd be like, this brought us damn near retarded because nobody has ever checked her in her entire life. Now, I'm not saying all women, but a lot of women, you know, when you meet them, you be like, this can't be real. Yeah. You see, right? Like, so, like, what I guess I've noticed, right, is certain environments, right? Like, for example, when, you know, I, like, for example, like, like, uh, you know,

you know, like the clubs in like in, not clubs, but like the scene, let's say in LA. Yeah. Or like Miami, right? Right, right. Like the scenes that I'm a part of because, you know, I'm in, I guess, in entertainment, those women are probably like looks first and nothing else matter. But when you like go to like the majority of. That's real.

Right? That's real. Like, like, you know, Iowa, you know. And like, you know, North Dakota. Right. Like. Hey, I mean, shit. You go to Walmart in the middle.

of nowhere out here, you probably find something. Yeah. Yeah, right. Right? Like, so, like, those women, I think, like, speaks for, like, the majority, right? Yeah, you go. How does shit turn off? You don't come on again.

Yeah, you're good, man. Right, no, right? Right? So, like, so wouldn't you say, though, that the chicks at the Walmart and the Iowa's and the targets, that they represent the majority of women, and not the bad bitches in like Miami? They do represent the majority of the women, but I'm not going to say that they're valuable

just because they're not putting looks first. No, too. I'm not going to say that you go to Iowa and every woman that you meet going to be about a man and catering to a man and have a value. I'm not going to say that either because a lot of these super regular,

deggler women out there are acting the same way, and they're not even bad physically. You know what I'm saying? You'll find a woman working at Walmart thinks she better than you right now. Yeah. Well, here, right?

Well, like, I think that's based on who they're like talking to, right? Like, for example, average dagger bitch from, like, Walmart can probably, like, run game in O'O'O'O'NFlocko, right? But she's probably gonna, like, you know, you know, like, you know, like, you know, like, you know, like die and wine and die and Drake, right?

So, right? So, like, yeah, what do you say, right? That they have, like, something to offer based on who they're talking to. Like, she's probably going to think like, yeah, you feel me, right? Like, you know, I'm too good for that nigga working, you know, nine to five. I'm going to treat him like shit, which is wrong, right? But if she's talking to you, she's probably as smart. She's inquisitive.

She can cook. She can clean. No, I don't work like that. Women try me too. Women, that's what in a woman's nature to try and test a man. They're looking for somebody strong. They want to see, are you, are you who you say you are? And that's why they're always going to give a little pushback.

It's always going to be a little problem. because she got to check again. Let me see if this nigga is still the nigga who he told me he was, right? So no, braw's tried me too. I'm just not going for it. And let me tell you this. They're trying you, and if you wasn't going for it,

they would bow down the same way. It's all a game. It's all a psychological game. Who can I make believe is more valuable? And if you go for her game and make her more valuable, she's going to go for it. But if you stand on your pivot and know who you are and know your value, guess what?

She's going to treat you that way. And guess what? If she does and guess what? If you stand on your pivot like that, you're only going to accept the one that does and guess what, you'll find one. But if you never stand on your value like that, you'll never even give the woman a chance to treat you like that.

She might think you valuable, but if you're going around treating her like she more valuable than you, guess what? You didn't even get a chance for her to treat you like that. Now she feeling like she, you know, that's why I stop it from the gate. I got to let a woman know, we're not going to get confused about who got more value here. Yeah. You know what I'm saying?

So purse first, ass last, man. Purse first, ass last. That's a term, you know, in the game. Yeah. You know, where it means before we have any sex, I need some money. You know, that's what that means. game and I always translate everything to the square world or the regular world. That really just mean is, I need some investment to know you serious before we move forward. Because if you

don't require some investment from a woman, what's easy to get is easy to cast away, easy come, easy go. She's playing with you because you didn't require nothing. If you had some requirements for a woman to deal with you, guess what? She's only going to deal with you if she feels you're valuable. Nobody's going to make an investment in something they don't see value in. And then when she makes that investment into you, she's not so quick to leave. because she's already invested. But see, these dudes, they expect a woman and accept a woman to come however she is.

Don't matter. Accepting anything and everything, as long as she here. We got to start having requirements as men like women have. You can't just be here. Dudes say, okay, she can be here as long as she's not cheating, as long as she, oh, she cooks sometimes, oh, she good.

No, that ain't enough for me. And I'm trying to tell dudes, have some requirements. You can't just be here and not make things worse. You have to be here and be making things better for sure. otherwise you don't need to be here. And what type of investment should a man, like, I guess require first, before fucking a bitch or just taking it serious?

Just taking a serious. I mean, even taking a woman out to eat, listen, this is my thing. You ain't got to go as extreme as this. But if you're going to go on a date with a woman, how many times does a man take a woman on a date and he don't get no pussy, he don't get no action, she don't call him back later? Why? Because she didn't have to make it no investment. She got a free meal.

Well, now, if you told a woman, hey, listen, if you want to go out, you want to go on this day, you want to get to know me, hey, you pay for the meal or you pay for the drinks. Let's see how many women will actually take you up on that. But guess what? It may not be as many, but the ones that do do it, you know, are serious about you and it's going somewhere and she's not wasting your time. It's like a down payment. Nah, listen, I understand that, right? But, like, for example, right, like, if we're trying to, like, court a good woman, right? Again, I'm not talking about like the holes who is, bro, is there for a meal because they're homeless,

homosexuals, hungry bitches, right? No, just good women are probably not going to go for like a man who, see, and that's the problem. See, that's the problem. The rhetoric you're saying right now, a lot of dudes right now feel the same way. They're like, oh, he's full of shit, what women is going for that? Plenty. Though girl of your dreams is coming in my DM's talking like that. But guess what?

It's not just because who I am. I was getting this before I looked like this, before I had money. When I had a two-door mischibis with a rusted light, I had the hit before it came on. I was three deep with three brawls in the back. It's because I still talked like this and acted like this that I attracted those women. But you don't even give a woman a chance to treat you like that if you already got the mindset. Oh, she ain't going for it. Of course she ain't going to go for it because you ain't even going to ask for it because you don't even think she's going to do it for you.

What if you started asking women? What if you started asking, hey, listen, you want to go out? Hey, you're going to pay for it? And just to see what she's say. You'll be surprised. It's like a lot of dudes that be cheating on. ain't women doing this, doing that. Man, you'd be surprised how many women would be into letting you have another woman.

If you told her, that's what it was. But instead of sneaking around, see, dudes don't even give a woman a chance to do what they want to do. That's what I'm all about being you and being what you want. And you know, the woman's going to accept it. No, listen, I definitely like understand, like, for example, right? Like, you have a girlfriend and, you know, and you ask her to pay. But you think that it is appropriate to approach a chick, ask her to take her out and then ask her to pay? No, of course not.

because you approach her. And I'm not saying it's anything wrong with taking a woman out to eat. But at least have it be reciprocal. If I take you out this time, the next time we go out, she should pay. You know, it should be a balanced relationship.

I'm not saying, oh, if I'm going to pursue this woman, then guess what? I ask her out. That's bad manners for me to ask you out and then tell you to pay. That's what women do. I don't have, I have manners. You get what I'm saying?

What I'm saying is this. There's a woman out there who's on your line and y'all talking. And she says she wants to take it further. She wants to go on a date. Then she should pay. That's proper. etiquette. You're the one who wants to take this further. I didn't ask you on a day. You want to get to

know me more. So shouldn't you make the initiative and pay? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, right? Listen, and if a chick is pursuing you, then for sure, right? But more times than not, that's not really like what's going on, right? Right? Like, dudes are the ones who are going out, you feel me, and I guess make an effort for it, right? Yeah. Now, question is this, man. Do you feel like alpha males exist? Or is that like an ageal theory that has you know, pretty much like died out now. I mean, I wouldn't even know what that means, man. It's one of those words like God, man.

It's so convoluted and so construed. And so many people say so many different things. I know a real man exists. And I think that's what everybody should be striving for. That alpha male, I mean, I'm not going to say it because there's a couple of people who didn't say it who I got respect for it. But anybody who got to tell you that alpha male, man, seem like they project and they're trying to be too strong about some shit.

Mm-hmm. Not, man. Now, okay. So, okay, so, like, what's your definition then of a real man? A real man is a man who keeps his word, not only to others, but to himself. If you don't keep your word to yourself, you can't keep your word to others. If somebody don't keep, if somebody say they're going to the gym, don't do it. Say they're going to go on the diet, don't do it.

Say they're going to start a business and they stop it. If they don't keep a word to their self, they'll never keep their word to me. So I think, number one, to be a real man, which means to be a leader, right? You've got to keep your word first to yourself. Then you could keep it to everybody around you. You've got to have your own principles, and I'm not saying what those should be, but you have to have something that you live and you die by. You got to be willing to stand on that. regardless if you take a loss, whether it's money, whether it's relationship,

that's what make you a real man, taking care of your business, handling your business, taking care of your family. I feel like that's what make a real man, having integrity, doing what you say, do when you say to do it. You know what I'm saying? In fact, see, you're like, I feel like that right there is like a concise, articulate message that nobody can really argue with, right? Yeah.

Right? Right. And all men should, bro, you know, should, should be able to provide and protect, right? Now, and you had some controversy, right? I think you said that these chicks want you to provide and protect in all your life and die. Yeah, man, that's what I'm saying.

That's not fair. Why? Man, that's the great female con. They call you a real man when everything you do is to serve and for them. And they call you a sassy or not a real man when you're doing things for yourself. So society TV has made a men prideful in his own enslavement. They want you to get up, go to work all day, work 40 hours, come home, take care of the kids,

take care of the wife, don't drink, don't smoke, don't cheat, cater to your woman, take care of your family, and then one day you wake up and you die. You know what I'm saying? That's so-called being a man, and a lot of dudes have adopted that ideology, and I wonder, like, where does that come from? You're supposed to do everything for everyone but yourself and put yourself last. Fuck that. I say put yourself first.

How can I be any good to anybody if I'm not. putting everybody else before me. My cuff got to overflow it so I could get well. So I got to take care of myself first. I got to put that oxygen ass in a plane on myself before I help everybody else. And that's what a lot of dudes out here is doing. They live in quiet lives of desperation because they put in everybody else first and they hate their life and then they hate their wife and they really don't like their situations. And then they end up doing a whole bunch of shit and this, that, and it comes out in a lot of different ways. You should take care of yourself first because when you are who you're supposed to be, then you can give it from strength.

I, yo, listen. Cold dude, man. That's good. Wait, I looked at it. Okay, look. So you're in an airplane, right? Yeah. It's about to crash, and there's one parachute.

It's you and your bitch with you, man. Are you taking the parachute or are you handing it to her? Man, I'm taking a pair of shoes, grabbing my woman. I'm jumping out with it. Now, hell, no, brother. Right? Well, I can't do that. No, listen.

Now, listen. Listen, it's the weight capacity can't only fit one of y'all, man. And who leaving? Hey, we both... Because I'm taking a pair of shoes. I don't know. Listen, I just told you, I'm taking the pair of shoes, and I'm telling the rapper all around me.

But I ain't going to leave behind trial. I ain't even going to lie to you. If I'm in there with her and this one pair of shoe, we're going to figure it out or we're going to die together. You know what I'm saying? Hey, because let me tell you something. I'm not just accepting any woman. If a woman is sitting next to me, please believe she's doing something for me.

Please believe she's doing something for me. Please believe any woman that I call my woman is really down for me for real. And if she's down for me for real. So this one pair of shit, we're going to figure it out, baby. That's how I'm feeling. Man, facts. Now, T.K.K. Kirkland said that a man should not be dating if he don't have $20,000.

No, sorry. Get the fuck out of here. No, sorry. He said $25,000 in, like, his account. Do you agree with that? I like TK. Kirtland, no. Shout out.

Shout out TK. But, man, come on. Like, that's not even realistic. Like, well, we're supposed to just not have relationships in life? Yeah. I understand the concept of what? he's saying maybe he didn't mean it literally maybe he maybe he maybe after a certain age you know maybe but as far as to just say that a blanket statement you got to have some parameters so you're saying

a 17 year old if he ain't got a 23 year old 24 year old man to me it's like 30 okay 30 years old you ain't got it depends what are your goals in life man let's not act like everybody out here wants to be rich everybody don't want to be rich and successful the majority of people are okay living day job paycheck to paycheck retiring at a certain time so how you're going to put your expectations for your life on everybody else man the man should live however you want to live. Now, if you're trying to succeed in life, then yeah, you should be trying to work on your dreams in the time that you're spending focusing and chasing a woman is going to derail you from that. But if you're just a man out here just living your life like majority

of guys is, it don't matter. Most people don't got more than 3K saved up. No, sure, but I guess, yeah, right? I feel like 20K is probably a bit much, right? But like, I feel like a guy should be in some position to provide and protect, right? When it comes to, like, Like, like, like, if you're 30 and says, yo, I want to date and find a wife now. Yeah. And you are going out and courting and taking girls on multiple dates a week and trying to. Yeah. How do you do that and you are barely getting by, you know?

Man, shit, I wouldn't know. It's been a while since I haven't. Honestly, I don't know how motherfuckers make it with what they're doing right now. And it's a lot more than that. So I can't really speak on that. But what I'm saying is every man should do what he feel like doing. If you're a man and you're on a mission and you want more out of life and you want to be able to provide for a family later than yes. You should focus all your time and energy

and trying to get to that bag. But like I said, majority of people, and that's the thing about the internet. Like when we talk about bad bitches, we talk about this. We're talking about a very small amount of people that we just see all the time because they're on the internet.

The majority of people ain't like that. The majority of people ain't chasing millions. You know, they're okay. And he's going to find a woman who's okay with that because she's working at Walmart. It's his coworker. He's courting a woman who work at Chipotle, a woman who work at Target.

That's who he courting. So why do he need to have all this, money. Of course. Here, right? So now, another person who had a similar, like, philosophy was Kevin Samuels, right? Yeah. Now, I think I, I'm seeing, like, you were talking to somebody, man, and you, like, expressed that you love Kevin Samuels. Yeah, love that very much than he did. You know, like, you had some, like, some, like disagreement or at least one disagreement. Let me tell you, right? And like I said, I love Kevin Samuels and what he did because he was waking a lot of people up when we needed that.

But, you know, I'm my own man. So, you know, I have my own thoughts on things. I don't like his ideology. And I'll say you why. Because it's very dangerous when you say things like, and I'm quoting him, right? I might butcher the quote, but he said this. You pretty much have to buy that woman's respect in so few words. If I pay the bills, if I pay this, if I pay that, she can't say nothing to me.

And my thing is this, if you have to pay for your respect, it ain't respect. If my woman ain't going to bow down, if my woman ain't going to treat me right, If she's not going to talk to me the way I need to be talked to without the money, ain't no way I'm going to pay her to do it because that's all you're doing. Okay, of course. That's self-preservation. Anybody you pay for their entire lifestyle going to do what you say. Why would you want a woman who you buying?

I want a woman who fuck with me for me. And then if she fuck with me for me for me, respect me, respect me, do whatever I ask you to do because she likes me for me and the man that I am. Then okay, then I'll do things for her. But I'm not out here trying to buy no woman's respect because I ain't really respect. As soon as you ain't got that money no more, she ain't respecting you no more. because she only respected the money. It's like dudes who meet a woman in,

they take them on trips, and they're going out to eat, and they're going out to eat, and they're doing this and they're doing that, not ever realizing that that woman don't really like you. She likes the lifestyle. As soon as the lifestyle is gone,

she used to saying, oh, I'm unhappy. She don't even realize that she don't like you. It was the lifestyle that she liked. But you introduced that so fast, you didn't even give her a chance to like you.

So now you ruin the situation for her even liking you. And that's all I'm saying is like when it comes to Kevin Samuels, I like everything he's talking about. He's talking about personal development. You're on top of your shit. But I cannot agree with a man talking about you have to be all of this to have a woman in pocket.

I had women in pocket when I had nothing. But from his perspective and most of these dudes' perspective, they never had women before they was famous. They never had women before they had money. I had women before I was who I was before I had money. So I understand you could have a woman in pocket while you living with her and it's her. You said, oh, don't move in with a woman. When you're the man who you're supposed to be dealing with a woman who you're supposed to be dealing with, You could live with a woman who's paying all the bills and still have the utmost respect like it's your house.

But just because you can't do it don't mean it's not possible. You're not me. You're not the type of man who demands and commands that respect. Of course, man. Man, so I'm just not into paying for my respect. If a woman don't respect me because I ain't got no money, then what type of woman is that? You get what I'm saying? Because I haven't always had money.

My character, my manhood, who I am as a person to me is more valuable than that. When you teach your woman to value money like that, it's always a bigger baller and somebody with a bigger bag. So you really saying she's going to the highest bidder. If all she respect you for is money, then why she's not going to go to the next dude who got more money? Yeah, man. Sure thing, man.

Now, a big part of Kevin Samuels, I guess, philosophy was this high value man and the criteria is to be one, right? Yeah. And he, I think, even said that if you're like, you know, an athlete or a rapper, you don't qualify as a high value man, right? Because it's more than just money, right? It's like the corporate. It's like a, right?

So what's your definition of a high value man? Man, like I said it earlier. A high value man is a man who holds his word first to himself than the others, who has integrity, who has principles, whatever those principles are, but stand on those principles. Whether or not he loses out on money, on a relationship, on business, on friends, he's going stand on what he believes and he's going to be able to stand alone. You know, he takes care of his family. He takes care of his kids. That's what I feel like a high value man. It's somebody with integrity. And, you know, he's saying that you have to have these other things. But to who's

standards, though? Who's standards? See, you teach your woman what to value by what you put in her face. If you putting this money in her face and saying money is king, guess what? You're training her for the man who got more money than you. But if you're putting in her face, man, this money is nothing to me. This money is so little. It's insignificant. I don't talk about money with my woman at all unless we talk about what we're chasing. You know, that means nothing. I teach her character, morals, integrity, growth, uh, having, have an intellect, growing as a person. That's what we value in this household. And when she values that and you teach her to value that, then she values you. And the next man with more money than you doesn't have the same access because she's values

these things. And he doesn't have those. So now it's just another goofy with money. You get what I'm saying? But when you throw this money in a woman's face, guess what? Now anybody with money, she's free grabs because she's loyal to the money. She's not loyal to the money. She's not loyal to you. She's not loyal than nothing else. And it's always going to be somebody with more money than you. Man. So if a guy, so let's just say, you know, and he makes $40,000 a year, but he's a solid dude, a religious man, he's a good man, he keeps his word. Does he still qualify in your book as a high value man? Well, see, I would say this also. But it's not for me to define what value is for the next man. He got to divine that value for himself and the woman that values that in him. Because it's

some people who are religious. So they value that highly in a man who's religious. It's another woman who's not religious. She doesn't see value in that. We can't make a blanket statement about what value is. Value is something different to everybody. Was valuable to me, was valuable to it. And guess what? There's something for everybody. What some woman feels valuable, another woman won't. You know? Some people like big women. That's valuable to them. Some dudes like a woman who ain't got nothing done. That's valuable to them. So I feel like people should start thinking for themselves and defining what manhood what principles what value is to them everybody wants the same thing because what social media has told them to want why don't you sit down

with yourself and figure out what it is you actually like that's what i'm saying uh so what's your definition of success right because because we've seen a very controversial clip i think right like recently where west and uh i think it was like and andrew oh yeah i was there right i was there i was there And the big discussion was what's your value of success? Wes had one. Well, shout out West Watson. Yeah, feel what I mean?

And there was a big hat to head, man. Yeah, yeah. So from your perspective, man, feel what's your definition of success? Success to me ultimately is freedom. You know, when you can have freedom and extend that freedom to your family because of what you didn't do. But also, success is being disciplined, right? Being in control, having clarity of mind, being able to handle your business, you know, and you got to have some wealth.

Because without wealth in this world, man, what do you really have? What can you really do? You really can't help nobody. I mean, people could talk about what they want to do, but the people in the world who have helped the most or the people with the most money because they can affect and enact the most change. So I feel like you got to have wealth. Wealth is a part of it.

But like I said, having discipline because you can't buy that. You know, without that, everything falls apart, having clarity, having freedom. You know, being able to take care of your family, you know, that's success to me. Yeah. Now, now, here, right? So I guess like, for example, right, like, I kind of, I kind of, I kind of heard Wes and Andrew saying the same thing. That's what I'm saying.

They were saying the same thing. But like, I guess it just got lost it, right? Yeah. Right? Here, right? So I guess the only part where I guess Andrew like disagreed, right, was when, so West was like, listen, even if you're in a Rose Royce and you take care of, you know, of your family and everything, if you don't have to discipline and you are a fat fuck, you're not successful.

me. Yeah, straight out. Andrew is saying, hey, listen, if I'm a hardworking man who feeds my family and takes care of them, right? You know, and, you know, and, like, I have love in my life. I feel like, like, I'm successful. So which one of those, I guess, philosophy do you fit in? Well, I mean, like you said, they were saying the same thing. They were just talking about different aspects of course you want to I mean but like I said again it goes back to what do you value some people value other things more than others who values family the most well West values family the most but he was up there talking about being in shape he values that I mean you can't say a man shouldn't value being in shape but at the end of the day hey man if you don't value being

in shape that's cool that's your value whatever your values is whatever they ask what is success to you that's what he says success was to him even though I don't feel like he was being uh you know that wasn't really genuine because if he could snap his fingers and be in shape what he I do what I give it to you. If he could snap his fingers and have some money, would he say, no, I don't want it? So therefore he wants those things, he just doesn't want to put the work in to get it. So he wouldn't come on here and say if he can snap his fingers to have him, he wouldn't have them.

So therefore, he wants them, he just don't want to put the work in. So it's maybe a coping mechanism for him to say, oh, the love of the family. West didn't negate love in the family. He's just saying, I wanted it in all aspects. I wanted in all areas, and that's what I feel like is success. Man, when you can have it in all areas, you can look good, you got the family, you got the money. And why can't you have it all?

you can if you're willing to put the work in for it, but to just try to act like, try to downplay the money because you don't really got it and say lean on his family. Family is important, but family ain't everything. Family is not everything. Life is a multitude of things. So get a little bit of everything. And I'm not saying anyone is right. I feel like having everything is success.

It's true success. Man, like, I feel like Wes has a great message, man. Oh, man, great message. If you approach sometime, like, for example, right, like during like, during like Andrews and West, like back and forth, I think Andrew mentioned something about prison and West says, I'll beat your ass, right? Yeah. Right?

Like, he has a great message in terms of, yo, work hard, be disciplined. But sometimes, man, it's just that approach, man, feel me? You know, I say this today. Right. Most people in life, and I do coaching, right? The biggest losers that I see are the ones who care how something sounds, not the information. My thing is this A smart individual

Doesn't care what it sounds like And how it makes me feel Is it good information or is it bad information So if you can get past With the how he said it Is what he's saying Doesn't make sense Can it help your life?

Grab the gym if it doesn't if it doesn't deny That's all I'm saying Now of course yeah you catch more bees with honey Whatever the saying is But I mean his his stick it works for him Man Yeah man And he has a great deal

Of love for you man So how did y'all even like me. Man, you know, I got on one of his programs back in the day, and, you know, from there, you know, went down to his house, man. And, you know, really when I was making my transition in life, you know, he was one of the people that I saw somebody who, you know, he'd been in the streets. He went to prison.

He came out. And I'm thinking, man, my situation wasn't that bad. So if you had to go to prison for 10 years and you could get out and do all this, man, that's a blueprint I want to follow. And what I really liked about his message was really just, you know, cutting the vice. You know, focusing on the process, being okay with it's going to take some time, but just stay down on it. And, you know, getting on his program and dealing with him and following some of the blueprints has put me in a position. And now I turn around and I teach that with my flavor on top of the things that I've learned from different people.

And I do the same thing now. Wait, so what do you do? Like, you coach? Yeah, I'm a lifestyle coach. Like, what do you teach? So I have a multitude of programs, but pretty much it's like the ultimate man program. You know, we don't just touch on one aspect. We touch on a bunch of different aspects.

A lot of people, they want the money, right? They come in, they want the money. They come in, they want the game. What I'm saying is, man, we're not trying to spray perfume on shit. Let's get down to the base. Because it doesn't matter if I give you the best play if you ain't Tom Brady. It ain't about the play that Tom Brady's running.

It's about that he's Tom Brady. And that's what it is in life. It ain't about the business plan that I give you. It ain't about the game that I put in your mouth. Yeah, you got to talk to talk, but you got to walk to walk first. Let's make you a man discipline with the right habits, who works out daily, who has mental toughness, who has the right, who is consistent.

who can do the hard things even when he doesn't want to. Then when you have those characteristics, now any business plan that you touch is going to be successful. But without those characteristics, it don't matter what plan I give you. It's not going to work. You don't have the habits, the disciplinary consistency to follow that shit through. And that's why I try to tell everybody,

you want all this game. Let's get you right as an individual first. It sound right coming out of my mouth. It ain't going to sound right coming out of your mouth. Once you become right, then when it come out your mouth, you're walking and talking to talk. So that's what I do. We start, you know, we start with fitness, you know, because fitness is the foundation of everything

because it translates to everything. It makes you feel good. It puts you in a high vibrational state, which is everything. It gives you that clarity. When you discipline what you put in your mouth every day with the macros that I give somebody. That is one of the hardest things because drug is one of the biggest food is one of the biggest drugs on earth. You don't realize it.

So when you can discipline what you're putting in your mouth every day, you have conquered one of the biggest most addicting drugs on the planet. Once you have done that, now since you can control inward things, now you're not. you can begin to control outward things and outward life. Motherfuckers think they're going to start this big old multi-million dollar. I'm a big millionaire. Motherfucking, you can't go to the gym for 30 days straight. You think you're going to be able to start and manage a business with hell of moving parts

and you can't even do these simple-ass tasks. You can't even put that twinkie down. It's not going to happen. So what I say is come to me. Let's get your habits right. Let's cut the vices. Everybody want to do this, that, and the third. No, no, no.

You don't start there. You start with a removal process. Let's stop taking back steps first. Let's just cut all the wrong. wrong shit and you'll naturally elevate. Now when you're at baseline, then we can start adding the building blocks, but people want to do this shit backwards. You see, right?

So I do believe that you can change the nigger habits, but I don't think that you can change his mentality, meaning this, right? Like, you can teach a lazy motherfucker to get up and go to the gym and work out. But he's still a lazy motherfucker in his mind, right? Or, for example, right? Like, you can teach a coward and how to fight, but he's still a coward. Right, you feel me, right? No, I don't believe so.

Am I don't believe so because if you teach in a coward, well, define what you think a coward is. See, I'm out of these scary, right? Yes. Okay, so if you're scary and you're a coward, and I teach you to fight and I put you in a couple of fights, every single day you're combating that, you're going up against your deficiency.

And in turn, you will build that into turn it around. So if you end up fighting more time, that cowardice in you is going to get less and less and less. So I feel like you can't change. If you're a lazy motherfucker, There's plenty of people who lost 200 pounds and kept it off the rest of their life. Their habits changed. Okay, yeah, you may be lazy today, but if you go to the gym for 60, 90 days, that's a new habit.

You're rewiring your neurons and your brain. You're rewiring yourself. And after those 90 days, it becomes a habit and you're just going to keep doing it. Now you're a new person. See, you can't get locked into that. And it's a lot of literature on this about, you know, brain plasticity. You know, so you over here spewing blasts me right now. No, that's not true.

Anybody could change. Listen, I like to tell everybody, it's never too late to be everything that you could have been. I don't care if you've been to ain't shit your whole life. Today you can change and I see it all the time. You just have to cut the vices and start building the proper habits. And in due time, those habits take hold and then you're going to be that new person. Yeah, it's going to be hard, but you can't do it.

Don't be telling these people you can't just all the new tricks, man. I like to give people hope. Man, you know, listen, man, so like, okay. So there's like, so the rep Hill movement started all great, right? like 2020. And then after like a couple years of, I'm just niggas wilding out, you know what I'm now being banned, right?

Right? Being banned, being like deep platformed. You know, even fans are now like turning against the rapper movement. Yeah. So what's your take, man? Like, where do you feel like the rapult movement went wrong?

Man, you know, I'll be honest with you, man. I just jumped on the internet, not even really a year ago. Oh, all right. Before that, I wasn't really. you know, paid in, too. But I know, like, the big players in the space. Yeah, like Andrew Tade, Fresh and Fit, Martin.

I mean, you know, I think it's because it went from trying to empower men to bashing women. And, you know, when it gets to a point where you just bashing women over and over again, I mean, it sends the wrong message because a lot of people are watching these things who don't even go outside, you know? And so they're starting to believe that every woman is like this. So it's sending a wrong message to people who haven't even had enough experience with women to even feel that way about women.

You get what I'm saying? So I feel like, you know, if they just pull back on the bashing women, you know, and putting it in their face all the time just bashing women and start bringing it back to the man and understanding that, guess what, it's always going to be these type of women. It always has been. And guess what? It's a certain type of man for those women. But when you're a certain type of man, you get a certain type of activity from a woman.

When you were, listen, I could have a woman that the next man had. She was disrespectful, out of pocket all the time. She get with me, he tried to tell me everything but she used to do. I say, that's not even the same girl. Why? Because I'm the different man. in this situation. When a man is in his rightful position, a woman will naturally be in her rightful position. And a lot of times what they're not saying on these podcasts is these women

are treating dudes with lack of respect who don't deserve respect. If you look at these dudes and they day-to-day habits and the things that they're doing sneaking around like a little bra, lying, cheating, not holding their word, not doing what they say they're going to do. They got drug habits. They, you know, damn near junkies. You know what I'm saying? She talk to you like you ain't shit because you ain't shit. But you want her to treat you better than you treat yourself. You get what I'm saying? I feel like we should take it more. It's not about the women.

Women only act the way dudes except. If we make it about the man, let's get our self right. Let's be a high value, whatever that means to you, individual, top tier in every way, beat to her in every category. I guarantee you when a woman step to you, she's going to come correct. And that's going to be the only woman who stepped to you. So, okay, so, like, you just, like, spoke on, like, you can change a woman or, like, she acts different with you, right?

So can you turn a hole to a high? housewife? Can you turn a hole to a housewife? I believe so. Man, listen, let me tell you this. Before you, she was getting trains right on her. I'm talking about the biggest floor. Let me, let me tell you why you could turn a hole into housewife because most holes and prostitutes, what do you think they are right now? They ain't hoeing at 40, 50 years old. They're married. You know, most of these strippers right now, when they get married, they're not even going to tell their husband that they were ever a stripper. Most prostitutes and holes that I know, they're married right now. And their dude has no idea about their past.

so evil, man. No, no, but I'm just saying, really think about it. All the holes, everybody who didn't dabble this, that, and the third, they're married right now. And all of these dudes are dealing with somebody who used to, you know, what I'm saying? So, yeah, you can't. I mean, I guess the term, of course, no, if a woman is, if a woman is a slut, you know what I'm saying?

Why would you even want to try to turn her into something? Of course. But factually and actually, man, it happens all the time. Man, yo, here, right, here, right? So how did you even, like, get into, like, polygamy? And why would you even want to deal with two women? Man, let me tell you, man, it was more than two women. I'm going to tell you, like I told you, I was 16, 17, you know, first my father died, right?

And so, you know, I'm out here. I'm looking, you know, where to be a man from. My uncle come move up the street. He break my paradigm of, you know, regular life, regular relationships. You know, I got a girlfriend. I'm cheating on her. I just think that's what you're supposed to do. When he showed me, man, he got all of these women.

He living good. They bowing down. They all looking happy from the outside. It broke my paradigm. And I was just so infatuated. I was still a young man looking for things in life, looking for what I wanted to do. and that attracted me. And from there, you know, I jumped head in, got around him, got around his people, got around

the lifestyle. And I started, you know, got my first girl, my second girl, my third girl, and eventually moved to Vegas. And that was just what I did for a long period of time. And at first, it was really, it was glamorous to me. Now when I think back on it now, what I liked about that lifestyle was the manhood about it. It was, man, we don't lie.

We do what we want. When we want, we unapologetic about it. These women know what we're doing. She could either bow down or she could leave. It's by choice, not by force. and I would just love that real man energy that I never saw before that I didn't have to hide who I was

I could be flamboying with my dressing I could do whatever I wanted I know that most people didn't like my lifestyle and was giving me dirty looks but I didn't give a fuck anyway it was something attractive to me about that Wait, so you had what like three at once or four? What's the most you ever had at once

in terms of like actual like we are all like in it together? I would say six I've had more than that but you know sometimes you don't really count them if they stay down long But consistently four. Wait, though. So you all live in the same house? Okay, so this is how my program went.

When I first started, it was all in the same house, you know? And then after a time, you know, I getting a little bit more game. I understood the flaws of that, you know, the dangers of that. And I started moving. So I had a house in a gated community. Then I had a house in a high rise. And, you know, they would have one here, maybe two girls here, two girls here. I had my spot.

One girl at the house. So it would be like that. Yo, I mean, so I feel like my like, like, my like biggest question about that, right? Especially with six women in a house, man, is how do you have time to fuck like all six chicks in a week? Because, listen, bro, I can even imagine having to have sex like more than like twice a week. Yeah, well, it wasn't about sex. Yeah, that's like that's insane. That's the misconception.

And that's why a lot of guys want to do it because they think, oh, this is just going to be a big old freak off. I actually didn't have sex with all of my women at the same time ever. It was always just personal. And, you know, I banned them, you know, from having sex with each other. Because, you know, when you start having sex with each other, then, you know, it's driving. Yeah. Yeah, so it, because it wasn't about sex. They wasn't with me for sex.

Listen, it's one of those things. When you think about a woman, man, she can go and have sex with any man anytime, you know, even the ugliest woman can walk outside and have sex any time she won't. When a woman get with a man like that who got other woman, it's more than sex involved. Otherwise, they wouldn't be there. They could go get sex whenever they want. It was a man that I was. It was the things that I was teaching them. It was the direction we was heading in life. You know, the same thing that I do now as far as building people up is what I did then. I've always been a person, you know, on mindset.

You know, I've just refined my craft. But even then, you know, I had my women in the gym. I had them reading books. You know, I had them listening to Brian Tracy. I had them listening to Bob Proctor. I was building these women up, building their brains, building their minds. And we were building ourselves because, you know, you could do more with a lot than with a little. Just think about it. If you have one, one woman, she bringing in whatever, she's, whatever. you bring it in now think about you got five six women what are the resources now when all of these people are bringing in income and now you have that resources to pull to do things now we can invest together now we can invest in this high rise now we can invest in this uh this fourplex you know it was really about the resources coming together because it take a long time to build up when it's just you and your wife right how long does it take to to get some rental properties then you know

one good year of us trapping together man we over here we investing in this we get her credit fixed now she's getting funded she's getting fun it now they working too huh So, wait, so the girls have jobs, too. Yes, they have, they all had jobs. Wait, how do you convince six women to come together and still work a job, but they are all like with this, like with a lot of women? I don't got to convince them. They got to convince me to even accept them to come.

Oh, damn, okay. Because they see what I'm doing. They want to be part of next to me. They see whatever women I have. They see what they're doing. They see the position that they're in. So it's like, well, I've been doing this on my own. Well, let me get with him

Because it seemed like the people That's next to him Is in position They ride and clean They live in good They look, oh, she's opening up a business She told me her credit score Or let me give up

Oh, and he's a nice looking dude And they have fun And they're going out to every comedy show Every concert They're going on vacation Why would I not want to get down with that? You know, and I get a man Wait, and are they considered

Your girlfriends or wives? My girlfriend I don't like the term girlfriend Or a boyfriend They're not girls and I'm not a boy Those are my women And I'm named man Y'all was a man.

Yeah, man. Wait, all right? So now, like you are out of that lifestyle or you still got it going on? I don't do it. I don't do it heavy like that because it take a whole lot to focus. And when I transitioned from that to these different business ventures, you know, they didn't want to let go of some of the ideologies that, you know, I came up with. But you know, I'm the type of person, you know, I'm growing.

I'm always growing. What I believe today, I may not believe tomorrow. And I just, when I'm trying to transition and do something new, they weren't so accepting of it. You get what I'm saying? way and this is what you train us to be like, now you want to do something different. And you know, a couple of them came along for the ride, but a lot of them they just couldn't get with it.

You know, see, Russell, look, right? Now, listen, some may say you go to you use a cold dude, man, right? Right? So, when y'all all had to like work and put together resources and build, you was down to have them around. Like now you worth millions, you say, hey, bitch, I don't need you no more, babe, for me? No, everybody, everybody had the opportunity. We had the opportunity to transition with me.

Oh, okay, got you. And there's not, man, I ain't gonna say not one. But almost every woman that I've ever had, if I called them up right now, they would say, oh, I'm still running off your program. I'm still running off the things that you taught me. I wish you was around because of discipline that you instilled in me. I'm still reading books. I'm still doing this.

So it's not no bad blood between almost any women. And if there's a woman out there, man, come forward and, you know, forever hold your peace. But I don't feel like it's a woman out there that could ever say that I wasn't the dude, that I said I was it. I left them high and dry, that I did them wrong. No, I'm all about elevations. I was with it with them, and that's why I was so successful,

because women saw that I wasn't selfish. I put the women before me, you know, because I wanted them to be right, because I understood they was my campaign. A lot of dudes put their cell first. Now, you put your woman first because everybody looking at your woman. When she campaigning, she's your billboard for you. So I would put them in position. I would have them riding clean before I was riding clean,

but once they was all in position, then I took care of myself, and they were glad to go hard for me because they seemed, damn, he put me first. He got my body done before. He got his teeth done. You know, he got me the Chanel. He got me this before. He got me to bend.

when he was still riding an old jack you know so do by doing that and showing that you know they turned around and went extra hard for me when it was my time man man bro listen bro like i'm excited man for you know life for your dirty men because it feels like you have like a different message right it's one that holds men accountable yeah opposed to bashing women man it's all about it's all about me man the woman going to do what you allow her to do she's going to respect you if you respectable man, you know, and that's what I'm saying to you too. When you say things like, you know, that might work for you, that won't work for me. I'm trying to get dudes out of that thinking. It's only like that because you think like that. You know, it's three billion

women in this world. You don't feel like, and you don't need them all. You don't think there's a handful out there that's going to love your dirty draws just for who you are right now. So that's what I'm saying, man, go find her. It ain't about who you like. It's about who likes you. I'm going to tell you a quick story, man. When I was 16, 17 years old, I was at this club with my uncle. He used to get me into these older clubs. And I'm looking at this bad, fine, red bone, just my type. all the right places, blind hair, all that, right? You know, I'm looking at her and I'm trying to get to hurry.

He stopped me. He grabbed me on my shoulder. He said, man, stop looking at that woman you won't and start looking at that funny looking broad in the corner that's looking at you. Because that woman over there going to do everything you want. She's going to clean. She's going to cook. She's going to do everything you want.

And that woman right there, she's going to get you hell. You know what I'm saying? And that's how I've been running the rest of my life. And it's a great philosophy. Now, I'm not saying, you know, you got to mess with an ugly woman. What I am saying is deal with the people who like you for you. Then you ain't got to change. If you start chasing her, the situation will always be like that.

You can't switch it around from chasing a woman to now you want her to, no, you're going to be chasing the whole relationship. And if you start out chasing, you know it's the wrong thing because a man's supposed to be a leader. How are you going to lead when you showed the woman off the dribble that you was chasing and following her? But now you want her to turn around and follow you. Don't make sense.

Hey, bro, listen, right? Now listen, like, bro, like you have, listen. So I seen one video, right, where you was like, bro, you know, you was like, bro, you know, You know, and it takes 30K to build a bad bitch, right? Man, let me speak on that, man. No, you're right to write. Here's why, right? So, here, so I had a girl, right?

Yeah. The last five years or so. For the first three and a half years, you know, we were, you know, in school, right? I was broke, right? You know, around 2022, my, like YouTube took off, you feel me? Yeah. And more income, like, started coming in. So, um, my guy, rocked me.

My guy rock star right? Seeing like you know He seemed like like like like our like uh Like cash at right like transactions right? Oh yeah I heard about right Yeah, and he said yo yo like you gave this chick 90,000 in six months probably over a hundred thousand in the last like like year and a half right everybody tripping And he said well right and right now turns out now again but at that time. I know So I'm just taking care of a chick who held it down when I ain't have shit, right?

Wait, wait, wait. When you say held it down, what does she do? Well, she was just there. I say that shit all the time. You don't get no points just because you was there. Was you actively helped me? Just because you were sitting next to me when I was grinding, you don't get no points for that. A lot of dudes, oh, well, I was there for 10 years.

You didn't help me build nothing, though. Just because you was next to me when I didn't have nothing. Don't mean you helped me get it. Don't mean she deserves something when you got it. You get what I'm saying? Yeah, of course. Yeah, me. No, right?

And then, like, turns out, though, you feel what I mean? You know, like the bitch wasn't shit. You feel me? But if I would have taken your philosophy of just... That's what I'm saying. I'm trying to save dudes, right? Because guess what? And when people really get into my message and they get into my courses and they go to my website,

Goldieratio.com, you know, and they understand Young Goldie underscore on Instagram, right? They'll understand my message is coming from a place of really self-love. I'm trying to teach men to have self-love, right? It sound funny. It sound corny, but women have it. People talk about it, man, it's the lack of self-love that you have for yourself that would allow you to put out an almost by a woman, right? But when you have self-love, you're okay with being by yourself. When you're okay with being by yourself, you will never allow somebody be around you who treat you less than you feel like you deserve.

Whether it's a friend, whether it's a significant other, whether it's a family member. When you really have self-love, people got to treat you to a certain standard. And you will never devalue yourself by paying for relationships, by paying for a woman, by paying for friends, when you have self-love. And that self-loves comes from self-worth by the work that you put in every day, by going to the gym, by eating like you're supposed to, by handling your business, by doing the things that make you feel proud and yourself, that gie that self-love. And that's all I'm trying to teach. Work on yourself. Build that self-love. Once you have that self-love, you'll only attract those out there who really love you because you're going to deny anything else because you love yourself so much.

I don't need from you. You know, my cup overflow of now. When your cup don't overflow of, you're going to accept anyone and everyone, even if they're not good for you. But when your cup overflow up, you only bringing somebody in who tries to. treating you right, who treating you the way you treat yourself. But if you treat yourself like shit and you have a low estimation of your own work, then everybody who comes in can have the same low estimation. So would you say that I was simpid by taking care of a girl?

Now, again, she, of example, right? Like, she ain't doing nothing for me, but again, it's just like first out of college. I'm making like 15 bucks an hour. And she was, you know, and she was still there and didn't care about the money. Right? So if having a girl like that who like stayed down when we have shit, now people say that I'm a sip for giving her that much money in light in this time frame. So is that true or they tripping? I would say you was just ill-a-vise.

You was young. You ain't been through it. I mean, everything that TV and society promotes is what you did. So you did what the average man would do, you know, but now I feel like you've learned your lesson about doing that. I mean, we can call it what we won't. a mistake but you know you're gonna be making way more millions in the future so better to get it out the way with that little bit of money learn your lesson so it ain't gonna be millions because it's dudes out here getting lit the same way but multiple millions yeah yeah yeah me like

what's crazy right like it's like for example right is that taught me yo women what i'm sorry some women like the bad ones are the most deceitful cunning like like like like bro bro bro bro bro Let me tell you something, man, because I come from the lifestyle. Like I said, I wasn't in a game, but I was around the game. I had some women, they would dance and things like that. So I would understand it. Man, I know women right now that I'd be like, man, I feel bad for anybody at they would because these women are cold.

They'll play a role for two, three years. They were literally sitting there. Oh, and you'll see on their Instagram, they putting out pictures, they kissing this man all the while. I know them personally. They hate this man guts. And they just waiting for their right opportunity. They milked this man at all he gets.

If that man would go to jail today, I promise you, she's snitching. If he goes to jail today, I promise you she going. I promise you, you know. So what people don't understand is that's what I say, man. Don't teach your kids about life. There's people out here who they're, the only job they have is try to finesse you out your bread. And a lot of these women, that's the only job they had it. And people will be surprised.

I'm giving up the game. Yeah, I'm giving it up. It's a lot of women out here who literally this is their only job. And they will sit with you for one, two, three, four, five years to get the motherfucking job done with a straight fucking face, has sex with you every motherfucker day. You will not be the watch. But let me tell you how you, how you peep that, though. This is the thing.

This is the way that you compete if a woman is playing you or not. You cannot give her anything. The only woman who is going to stick around with you when you don't buy her this, when you don't buy her that, when you don't take care of her bills, when you're not giving her something is a woman who actually likes you for you. If you stop doing those things for her, if you stop taking it, well, I ain't got to take her on vacation or take her out to you. But if you're not giving her money supporting her and she still deals with you, then you know she's there for you. If you stop doing that and she stopped fucking with you, well, then you know what you had on your hand. But these dudes, they leave with the money.

They give her this, they give her that. They're giving her this and giving her that. You are a mark in her eyes. It's like certain prey. You are prey. They understand the difference. And guess what? The dude like me that they come up to, two seconds.

They know, hey, can you do this from me? Now, I'm cool. Oh, they're on to the next. As soon as they see you. And you be like, oh, here you go. They got one. They caught a girl up. Cop me one.

Caught me a big fish. And that's how they talk behind y'all back. Man, yo, bro, when I tell you, bro, like, in terms of, like, cunning characters, You, listen, like, if I tell the story, bro, like, like, like, bro, it's like, listen, it's, it's, it's a Netflix movie, right? Listen. So, long story short, right?

The most foulest, scandalous, scandalous bitch convinced me, right? To wait five years for us to, to, to have sex. Until we're married, for me. Got 100,000, man, for me. And showed, man, she's like the most. conniving, devious, deceitful bitch in the world. Let me tell you, bro. You was just too easy.

That's all that was. She wasn't sharp. She just found the right mark. That's what they call them in the game, right? Because they say one good mark that could pay better than 100 tricks. And you, my friend, were that one good mark. And every, listen, listen, it's one good mark that a braw needed

her whole career that had changed the game. And you was that one. Oh, man. But, listen, like now, though, you know, I try not to let let like like even now bro like I'm not bitter I just feel like relieved now right like you know like yeah for me right like now right like now she's gone right you know but even like that though for me man like won't really allow me to you know like to be sour and treat women differently right this is my thing it ain't about treating women no type of way that's the thing how should I treat

women. You should treat a woman the same way you treat a dude based on his character and how he acting. Motherfugs want to give women all of this. Oh, I'm a treat her like this because she's woman. Man, I ain't treating you like shit, but how you act. You know what I'm saying? I don't care what you look like. It's about how you conduct yourself when you're with me and what your characters. Like, women don't like that. They don't like that. They say, oh, he's such. No, you just ain't fit up here and treat you better than you deserve to be treated. You know, just treat women how they show you. They should be treated. If she come in the door, asking for too much shit, you know what type of character she got it, man, and treat her as such.

That's all I'm saying. And just had that value in you. My thing is this. For a man in your position, right, you have hell of value, you just have to wake up to it. And that's all my message is about. Like, really recognize your value. I don't care how badass bitch walking here. You got more value than her, and you got to know that shit. You got to talk to her like it because that's a fact. No, I'm saying.

How many of you is it? You are in the top 1% in a lot of things, and you know your trajectory is going up. Be a motherfuckers who be treating you like the next Drake around here, right? But she ain't going to treat you like it. If you act less than, she's going to treat you less than. If you put her on a peasant, she's going to look down on you. Your true, right? Nah, bro, like, you know, like, definitely, right?

Like, I feel like now, though, right? Like, for example, like, chicks that I talk to right now, like, I definitely give them that, right? Yeah. Like, when, like, she knew you when, like, you weren't, you know, that guy yet, right? Yeah. You are a tabby soft owner, you feel me? Because, you know, bro, like, she's not here for money.

She's, you know, she's, you know, like, she's... Why she's not here for money? She's always been here, you feel me? But it turned out though, you feel me, man, she was, you know, she was more scandalous than the worst hope, you feel me? Yeah. But, hey, listen to no, man, bro.

Real quick, real quick, because you asked me a question and I, you know, I'll cut you off and just asking about the bad bits, right? Yeah. And we was talking about 30K. Man, this is what I say all the time. Oh, yeah, $30,000 to build one. What is a bad bitch really seeing the game

and lifestyle, man? You learn how to put a wig on a pig. And putting a wig on a pig exactly is, man, it's pretty much essentially saying, man, if you could dress a woman up and she can get some money. It don't matter what she looked like. So that same ideology, you know, I used in my life and in my lifestyle and even for myself, you understand, man, you can make something look good. Most of these women are soft fours and fives, to be honest.

And if you strip them up, the makeup, the wig, the eyelash, the eyeliner, the silicone, the BVL, most of these women look like bad skin having funny looking boys, right? But they want you to treat them like they, Beyonce. I'm not going for it. In my course, right, I teach you every time you look at a woman, mentally strip her down of all of that. And then talk to her, and I bet you it's much easier. I bet you ain't going to be going for all that bullshit she coming with when you really see who she is for real. And then how she treats you becomes way more important.

How she talks to you, what her character like is so much more important when you're not disillusioned by that costume that she's wearing. Of course, man. Man, right? Because brother, like, if I would have found a chick who was, you know, green, you know, who's loyal, blah, blah. Put that 30K into her. Yeah. Man, you can build a bad bitch easily.

Titties, BBL, teeth, you know, if she need a nose job, she probably don't. But just that alone, a BBL, getting her tithies done, getting her teeth done right there, dress her up, put some makeup, give her a chenelle bag, man, that's a bad bitch. Get her hair and her makeup done. That's a bad bitch. That's what these niggas is gawking over, getting licked for. A bitch playing dress-up. Yeah, right.

Because look, Ari, Jada, right? British brook you know all of them you can find like the R a Jada in the hood who's a solid that's what I'm saying that's why I'm saying what she does for me and how she is is if she's attending me and if she's a 10 mentally and does everything I like loves my dirty drawl then I'll go put $30,000 into her because that $100,000 into the woman who love flaco's dirty drawings $100,000 to her man she's a super fucking story and you ain't got nothing to worry about but you got to put you got to put it through a test first you got to are you going to stay down with nothing and if you stay down long and now with nothing, then I know you for real.

But you got to put her through some tests, man. Ain't nobody. These women ain't battle tested. Man, you spoil her if she loyal. You don't spoil her so she loyal. Man, man. Man, bro, listen, man, I 100% agree, man. Yo, listen, so I'm trying to have you tomorrow during the 20v once.

So I'm trying to make that happen, all right? Let's do it, man. I appreciate it. Man, yo, bro, what can they find you, man? Man, Young Goldie underscore on Instagram. That's why I'm active. YouTube game guy Goldie. But if you want to get in contact with me,

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