Nobody Should Believe Me - Jesika Jones Part 2 with Derek Jones (rebroadcast)

Episode Date: December 26, 2025

In the second episode of Andrea’s coverage of the Jesika Jones case, she’s joined by Derek Jones, Jesika’s then-husband. Derek bravely tells the story of how he and Jesika met, their home life, and the decline in their daughter's health. Talking to Derek gives listeners insight into the manipulative nature of perpetrators, not only with their victims, but also with everyone around them, and the mental toll of coming to terms with such a monumental breach of trust. *** Links/Resources:  Listen to Jesika Jones Part 1: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/case-files-06-jesika-jones-part-1-with-detective-mike-weber/id1615637188 Listen to Jesika Jones Part 3: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/case-files-08-jesika-jones-part-3-with-derek-jones/id1615637188 Listen to Jesika Jones Part 4: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/case-files-09-jesika-jones-part-4-with-detective-mike-weber/id1615637188 Preorder Andrea and Mike’s new book The Mother Next Door: Medicine, Deception, and Munchausen by Proxy Click here to view our sponsors. Remember that using our codes helps advertisers know you’re listening and helps us keep making the show! Subscribe on YouTube where we have full episodes and lots of bonus content. Follow Andrea on Instagram for behind-the-scenes photos: @andreadunlop Buy Andrea's books here. To support the show, go to Patreon.com/NobodyShouldBelieveMe or subscribe on Apple Podcasts where you can get all episodes early and ad-free and access exclusive ethical true crime bonus content. For more information and resources on Munchausen by Proxy, please visit MunchausenSupport.com The American Professional Society on the Abuse of Children’s MBP Practice Guidelines can be downloaded here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

True Story Media Hello, it's Andrea Dunlop. Welcome back to Nobody Should Believe Me Case Files. This is part two of our mini-series on the Jessica Jones case. Today is the first half of my interview with Derek Jones, the father of the victims in this case. I so appreciate Derek's candor about his release. relationship with Jessica and just his willingness to share his story with us. Our new season is coming out on January 2nd, and a reminder that if you subscribe on Apple Podcasts or Patreon, you will get the entire season, all eight episodes on the launch date. And I have to tell you, I think you're going to want to binge this one. We are getting these episodes in the can now, and my team has just really knocked it out of the park with this season. subscribing is a great way to support the show, and if monetary support is not an option,

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by tightening our filters. And if you do continue to hear them, please do let us know. In the meantime, I want it to be known that I do not support ICE. I am the daughter of an immigrant. I stand with immigrants. Immigrants make this country great. Derek, thank you so much for being here with us. So we are here today to talk about the Jessica Jones case,

which we have also spoken to Detective Mike Weber about. And we just, I am very anxious to talk to you about your story and just your perspective on this. And so, yeah, can you just start by telling us who you are and how you relate to this case? All right. So my name is Derek Jones. I'm the father of the oldest and the youngest victims in the case. You're also Jessica's ex-husband. Is that right? Well, hopefully soon. Okay. I've been trying for a while.

Oh, boy. Okay, so you're in the process of becoming Jessica's ex-husband. So how did you and Jessica originally meet? We met through Facebook, actually. So when was this? I want to say it was towards the end of 2016. So whereabouts do you live? I live around the Fort Worth area. At the time, I didn't. I lived over in Archer City. which was a good hour and a half from Fort Worth, roughly, I think. Okay. And so you guys were chatting for a couple of months online, and what were your kind of first impressions of her and who she was?

I mean, nothing stood out that was like alarming or anything like that. You know, I was like, hey, this is, you know, I was enjoying the conversation. It's hard because I look back at it now and I have a different perception. And I looked, I was in a dark place back then. And so I don't think that helped with my judgment very well. But I mean, back then I looked at it as I didn't see anything alarming and, you know, this nice girl that had her stuff together. And like I said, I was a single guy.

So I was like, hey, why not? And then did she eventually suggest that you meet up in person and how did that piece of things develop? We both were like talking back and forth about. meeting up in person and then finally I was able to have a free weekend when she had a free weekend and so then we finally just made plans to meet up and like I said it was about three months after we started chatting that we finally met up I came up to Fort Worth and I completely understand where you're at with all of this because it's really hard once you have the kind of revelations that you've had about someone to sort of put yourself back in that

position where you're trying to remember what it was like when you first met them. And I think like one of the things that people sometimes don't understand about what being close to a situation like this does to your brain is that like it kind of splits your life in half. Right. Like I feel like like not only do I sometimes have trouble remembering, you know, because I think you know, you know, I have a sister who's a perpetrator and that's what brings me to this work. And, you know, not only do I have trouble remembering like what she was like before I knew all of this, I have trouble remembering what I was like. I have trouble remembering who I was before all of this happened because it feels like, you know, it feels like the situation sort of broke my brain and I just didn't. look at the same, like I don't look at the world the same way. And so it's sort of like you end up like also questioning yourself a lot, right? Like why did, you know, I think I can hear you

kind of doing some of that. Like, why would I ever, you know, choose a person like this? When reality is like a lot of people, you know, are like, if you're a nice person and you're an honest person and you go through life, like not doing things like this. Like it's not something that you're just on the lookout for, right? A hundred percent. Yeah, it definitely makes you stop and when everything came out and made me and and once I got clearheaded and understanding of everything and I was like where was my judgment at you know um but it also makes you stop and look at it like you said it's like it's hard to remember how I thought back then yeah um because I'm leaps and bounds ahead of where I was even back then and so it's yeah it's it's hard to think about it like to the point of

remembering exactly what were your thoughts because myself nowadays I'd have been like what in the world something's off here but at the same time going through this has also made me heightened my awareness like little things throw you know catch red flag red flag you know and it's it's made me harder to trust people yeah um because it makes you like I said it makes you question your judgment but it also, it's like, you thought you know yourself better than that. But now you're like, now that you've come out on the other side, you're like, before I'd have been just like, oh, yeah, no problem. Like, I believe you.

Now I'm like, yeah, yeah. And then I'm going to take some time and evaluate it and think about it. Yeah. Yeah. And I mean, I think, you know, one of my big hopes with the show is that for other people who are somewhere earlier along in that. that process that by hearing it, you know, they may have that moment earlier and that that's helpful because it's just, you know, if you've never been through it, if you've never been through anything

like it, if you've never heard about it, if you, you know, haven't spent years studying it like I have, then it's like you're not going to, you're not going to see it coming. And I think it's, yeah, it's, that's just, that's just human. So I hope you can also find some, some grace for yourself. But so nonetheless, you guys end up meeting in real life and you start dating and it was a tough moment in your life, which I'm sure also, you know, that's like, I think sometimes people think, oh, this would never happen to me. I would know what was happening. But the reality is that like we all have moments in our life when we're more vulnerable for whatever reason. So it sounds like this was kind of a moment like that for you maybe. What was going on in your life? You had, I think, do you had kids

from a previous marriage also? I had one from a previous marriage. and I was just in that place in life where then I didn't know that I was in a depression and everything and I really didn't learn how deep of a depression I was in until actually all this came out. I didn't realize how far I had had disassociated myself with family and everything else. And so I look back now and, you know, like I said, my judgment wasn't the best and I could, I will put 100% that it wasn't now that I look back. But, you know, we started dating and we started hanging out and she would come up and see me and I would go up there and see her. And it ended up moving really quick.

I want to say it was around April of 2017 that she had called me up to let me know that she was pregnant. So you hadn't been dating for very long and you were still kind of living living into different places and so you were just sort of in that getting to know each other phase and then she calls you and tells you she's pregnant. Yeah, she calls me and tells me she's pregnant and I was like, well, you know, I'll be there. I'm not going nowhere, you know, I'll be there for my kid. We keep dating.

She calls me one day and she goes, hey, I just got back from the doctor and he says there's two of them. And I said, no, you're kidding. And she says, no, I'm not. I'm like, no, this is not funny. Like, you know, all joking aside, how did the appointment go? She's like, really, we're having twins. And I was like, wow, you know. And so I ended up making plans and moving up to Fort Worth with her because I wanted to be here through the pregnancy. I mean, that must have been so overwhelming. So you're going from being like divorced out of one, sounds like, to dating a new woman, now you've got twins on the way. That's like, that's just a lot to figure out. And what do you do for work?

Like, was your work based, I assume, where you live or was it sort of flexible? At the time, my work was where I lived. And then I found the job up in Fort Worth when I moved up here. looking back on it, it should have been an alarm that, hey, she was in transition of houses, so she was staying at her grandmother's house. But she's like, you know, my grandmother said, you can move in here with me. And I said I wasn't in the best mindset. And so I ended up moving in there with her with her grandmother.

And you said earlier that when you first met her via Facebook and sort of your first impressions of her, that it seemed like, you know, she, like, had her stuff together. Like, she had her act together. Like, what did she did, what, what was she doing for work? Like, what, what else did you sort of know about her? What kind of came to light as just maybe even in this period while you were dating and she gets pregnant? She told me she had been a nurse at Cooks, but then she had told me when I had moved in there,

she was working at a nursing home. And then right before, I'm. moved in. She had been working at a nursing home. Once I moved in, pregnancy was getting hard on her and he told me that the doctor said, hey, if I don't start taking it easy, they're going to bed rest, what is it? Bed rest. Bed rest for the rest of the pregnancy. And this was way early on. Me being a young, dumb guy, you know, I didn't know nothing about it. And I fed right into it. because I'm like, okay, you know, there's two. I've only been, you know, my first one was just one.

And so maybe the twin pregnancy is different. Maybe, you know, it's a lot of stuff. I mean, sure enough, they are. Like, they are higher, it is a higher risk pregnancy situation. I mean, that, that much is true. Were you going to any appointments with her during this time? Or was this all kind of what she was reporting to you? This is what she was reporting to me.

I went to one or two when they had the, um, ultrasound. I was actually three or four. It was only when they were doing the ultrasound. Okay. The regular doctor's appointments, I usually didn't make it to. I was working. Yeah, I mean, you have about a billion of them when you're pregnant. So that's not how you go all the time.

Well, and I was the only one working since supposedly she had to take it easy. So it was hard to get off work. You know, I just started this job, didn't have a lot of flexibility of asking a lot of time off. And so time goes on. We get later on in the pregnancy. She starts having more at risk, you know, in and out of the hospital. And they were going to, you know, hey, we might have to keep you just to watch, you know, in case they try to come early. They ended up coming. I want to say it was 37 weeks. So a little bit early, but not too early. They were tiny, tiny though um one was three seven i want to say and the other one was four one oh how if i remember

my numbers correctly um so they were tiny they were at the point i was like i was scared to hold them i'm like i'm going to break them just if i moved wrong you know um i made a couple of the first doctor's appointments when we would go see their pediatrician and um everything was fine And how were you guys kind of settling in as a couple? Like, did she, because she had also some other children from a previous marriage, is that right? Did they live also with her? Or like, what was the, did you meet the ex-husband? Like, what were kind of the family dynamics that were coming together as you were settling in? Yes, they, she had three other ones. They all lived with her. I met the ex-husband, you know, as a, hey, I'm Derek, hey, I'm so-and-so. you know other than that never really chatted um throughout all this she had fed me stuff that put me against him and made him you know oh he's like this and when you're when you're in that situation you're going to support your other half you know and no reason not to believe or

i didn't have any proof against it so um that's about the extent with him you know we didn't really care for each other, you know, I would meet him to drop the kids off or meet him to pick the kids up. But, you know, the oldest one. So you kind of just had the impression that that was not a good, that they hadn't had a very good relationship and they weren't on, like, it sounds like they were on like okay terms, but just a generally sort of negative vibe. Yes, ma'am. You know, I would go or I would help out and watch the kids when she'd have to take the oldest one to her, you know, neurology appointments and stuff. And I would, I tried to make some of those, but the ones that I would make were

few and far between, like I said, I was still new and my job. Yeah. And you said the older one was going to neurology appointments. What was, what was the health, did the oldest child also have health issues? Supposedly had epilepsy. Okay. Apparently had supposedly had epilepsy since I was told by, her one year old since she was year old looking back on reports and stuff it looks like she started

reporting it around like three months okay and and then the middle two did they have any health issues the middle two one had some gastro issues the other one though the oldest one you know like said i was told she had epilepsy you know she'd have she could have seizures and would had had them here and there she was on like she was taking dude i want to say at times It looked, I think it was like anywhere from five to seven pills, you know, I can't remember if it was morning and evening or per day. There's quite a few. We had to pill thing set out for each day.

And so it sounds like so that the eldest lived with y'all full time and then the two middle ones that were from her ex-husband because they were from different dads, is that right? And so the two middle ones, they were sharing custody? Yes. The two middle ones were sharing custody. The oldest one was with her full-time. So as time went on, the girl started getting older. And, you know, they had some speech problems and stuff like that.

And one was always closer to me and one was always closer to her. And are they both girls or boy girl or? Both girls. So it sounds like in the beginning, you know, they're born like a little bit early but not super scary. They're a little on the small side. Probably have some issues because of that. And then so maybe had like a few developmental delays, but like nothing super serious. in the beginning?

Yeah, they, they were just, you know, small. We had to put them on the growth formula to help try to gain weight. They weren't really gaining a lot of weight still to this day. They are tiny. But their speech was behind and stuff like that, but they had a speech therapist that would come out to the house and help out. That was, I think, around two years old, I believe. But other than that, we'd go to the doctor.

They still saw the doctors for, like, trying to, you know, watching growth plates and trying to gain weight and stuff like that. So were they having, like, failure to thrive issues? Kind of, yes. Okay. Not maybe not super. Did they have, like, feeding tubes or anything like that or just sort of more mild? Okay. Well, I believe they said it, you know, failure to thrive.

But it was just no matter what you fed them or how many times you fed them, they just, they didn't, they wouldn't gain weight. I don't know where it went, you know. at least when I was there, they would eat all the time. And it sounds like you were, you were, so you're working full time. Is she a stay-at-home mom at this point? Does she go back to work at any point? Or she's just, she sounds like she's the primary caretaker. She never went back to work.

She was a stay-at-home mom. I was the one working all the time. I want to say when they were around a year and a half, two years old, I got another job. So I'd have been a year and a half, roughly, because in August of 2019, I got a new job, but I started traveling with this job. So, you know, she was at home with them all the time. I'd travel a couple days a week. Sometimes I'd be gone a full week.

As far as I knew, you know, everything was going all right. You know, they were doing their speech and everything. The oldest one was, you know, she was up and down. She'd have her good times and she'd have her bad times. She had behavioral depression. Looking back on it now, I see why, and I don't blame her. You know, taking medicine that you didn't need and all that, I'm sure, played a major role in it. Reproductive care is so important.

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married? Did you get married before the kids came or? Before the kids, she wanted, she was big on being married before the kids were born. So I found out, I want to say it was April, that she was pregnant and we were married in June. So that is, that's a quick, That's a quick trajectory all the way around. Like I said, I look back and I play a part of not being in the right mindset on that because nowadays I would have never done that. But I was right along with, hey, I'll do what, you know, I'm on board. I'm all in. And like I said, so down the road, I started noticing some, you know, things.

Like I said, little things not adding up. We weren't getting along as much. and I noticed that she would lay around. I'd come home and clean the house. I'd come home and cook dinner. I was doing the laundry. And it was the more and more that I was working, the more and more it was frustrating me

because it was like, hey, I'm working. The least you can do is help out around the house, you know. I don't expect you to do it all. Just I'm asking for some help. I'm wore out. And so we started, you know, we were stressed out with each other. and we started arguing more and more.

Around three and a half years old, the youngest one started showing sign, you know, like it was like she was slowing down. She wasn't, she was never really super vocal. She was always the quiet one. But she just was more and more not herself.

And I'm like, maybe she's just having a rough patch, you know. I started noticing things more and more with Jessica. And I'm like, hey, the rougher we got, the more she started almost, like backpedal on to try to find things um like she came up with that she had cancer and like that she had a current cancer diet so so things are things are getting tough with you guys and then

she tells you that she's been diagnosed with cancer okay um what what what like what type of care i mean that must have been that must have been really okay so she says she she tells you she has leukemia I mean, that's very serious, especially as an adult. Actually, I had an adult cousin that died of leukemia. So, I mean, that must have been terrifying. The crazy thing was, is her mom had actually had cancer. And so looking back on it, it was like, you're so messed up because, like, your mom actually had it. And you ended up making up this fake thing of having.

But at the time, she made it real believable because I started noticing more and more bruises on her and it you know she'd wake up with two new bruises and i mean she was covered in bruises head to toe and i'm like something's wrong and then that's when it came out you know hey she went to the doctor and she had leukemia and this is are you still living with her grandmother or had you guys moved out in your own space by then we had we had our own space um and i was like you know, I didn't know a lot about leukemia. I'd never known anybody that had. I knew of leukemia, but I didn't know a lot about it. So I was Googling him, you know, you can get bruise easy and stuff like that. And so it was, she was playing it all to where it was very believable, you know.

I mean, that's, that's really scary. Like, you have two little kids at home. You're already sort of like super stressed just because of stressful. And you have, you know, other kids that are living part time with you and you're working full time and so um i mean did she start treatment like what what happened next she said that they were had caught it on early and they were trying this new um they wanted to try her on this new thing they had for it was like a pill based thing um and supposedly she was taking those like a like a drug trial or something like that yes um before they went to chemo or radiation they wanted to try this and it had gotten so bad that at one point i i think she had like 98 bruises on her i don't know looking back i don't know if she was just because at this time

we still weren't getting along great a lot of time most of time i was sleeping on the couch um and i don't know if she was just hitting herself in the night i i really don't know how how she was making it happen i but it sounds like it was pretty dramatic like she oh it was awful yeah i was scared to go out in public thinking that somebody thought i beat her or something you know like said i'm not when i say head to toe i mean arms chest legs and that or she was taking something to lower maybe ironers i don't know to where she bruised easier because all she all you had to do is barely i mean if somebody walked up and like tapped her to like get to her attention see my bruise there.

Wow. And she had never really been like that before. And so I was, like I said, it played hand in hand and was real believable. I had no reason not to believe it, you know. At that time, I'm like, why would, you know, it never crossed my mind of why would somebody lie about having cancer of all things. Most people, most people wouldn't. But so, yeah, it's not something that you're watching out for, not something that you see coming,

for sure. So time goes on. And the youngest starts, you know, showing more signs and stuff of not being okay. Her health is, you know, lacking some. And I want to say, it was right before, I'm trying to remember when it came out that she didn't have cancer. I want to say it was right before the youngest actually started going to the hospital, really, for, you know, seizure-like symptoms. And it came out that I finally had people pointed out to me. They were like, hey, you're not looking at this right.

Like, where's her paperwork? You know, where's this? Where's that? And every time that she had. So some other people sort of who weren't as close to the situation. Outside the picture. Yeah. We're seeing that.

Yeah. Yeah. Yes. And so during a lot of the reverse for a little bit, she had had me so brainwashed that I'd quit, I quit talking to my side of the family. for, or at least my mother and stepdad. I quit talking to them for year, year and a half. Wow.

What brought that on? She, they had some disagreements and I was backing her, you know. I look back and she had me pretty dang brainwashed. That sounds like it became kind of a like us and them, like, if you're either with me or you're against that, you know, like that kind of thing. and maybe they had some questions about her and she turned you on them, basically. I look back, well, I look back and there was, I should have left a long time ago.

There's things I'm not proud of. The biggest thing that caused the rift between her and my parents was they had a, they had let her bar a handgun one time. and they kept asking for it back and kept asking for it back and welcome to find out she sold it. So he filed a police report that, you know, it was as it turned out as a stolen gun simply because she had sold it and it wasn't hers to sell. So I should have left then, but I can't even remember the whole scenario, but somehow this came out. I want to say right before the twins were born or right after. Somewhere right in that time frame.

And somehow she got me to stay. Well, I mean, we all like to think that we're making these sort of, you know, logical, rational choices where we like evaluate the evidence in front of us and act accordingly, right? But, I mean, the emotional reality there is like you're in this relationship that went from zero to 100 and you either just, you either have brand new babies in the house or you have twins that are about to arrive. That's not, that's, that's a place where you have a lot to lose if you decide to do that, right?

Like, I mean, there's a lot of reasons why you would want to believe whatever her story was about the gun rather than that she just did something that seems dishonest and shady and questionable, right? Yeah. She was, she was a very good liar. I will say that. Yeah, and like, I'm sure even if you do. don't remember exactly what her story was. I can imagine it in my head. I'm sure there was a story of why she had to do it or why it wasn't what it looked like or, you know, some big long explanation about like how she was the victim actually because, you know, your step dead filed that police

report and how could he do that? And, you know, that was so mean to her. And like, it's like, I can really, I can hear the whole thing. It turned out it was so, you know, it's either me or them. I'm like, we're not seen eye to eye, and I had these babies right there. And I'm like, I told my parents, I'm like, it's not what y'all think. You know, and I took her side, exactly what you just said. You know, it's one of those where you look back and you're like, man, if I was somebody else listening to my own story, I'd be like slapping myself up beside the head. Like, what in the world were you thinking, man?

You know, but they're so good at. manipulating you and lying to you, I look back and I'm like, because once this all first came out, I'm a fast forward for saying. When it's all first came out, it was a real hard on it. I took it really hard. About the leukemia? Or once everything came out about what she had done overall, because I was like, I felt like I didn't protect my kids and how could I stick around through all this and what kind of dad was I or man was I? And so looking back, yes, it's like, through everything. So we'll go back to the leukemia. So she says she has leukemia and then it comes

out she don't. You know, started asking for paperwork and stuff. And she's like, I'm waiting on on the email and I kept on and I'm like, okay, you know, something's not adding up. And then finally it came out that she didn't. And did you confront her on this? And what was her explanation for the fake leukemia? She said that he was just in a really dark place and we weren't doing good. and she just, something was off with her, you know, health-wise, and she just, it wasn't the right decision. She knows that, but she wishes she could change it, but she couldn't. So I ended up, I went involved for divorce.

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she says she's going to counseling shows me this counselor she's going to and everything you know she wished she could take it back but she couldn't and she's trying to work on herself and then the the oldest starts getting you know starts having more seizure stuff and everything and i just get i got rope back in i stuck around i looked back now and i know I know why I did it. I did it for the kids. I didn't do it for her. I did it for the kids.

But I was still in such a shaded place that me nowadays, I would have been 100 miles down the road. I don't care if I had a place to live or not. I would have been living in my vehicle. Like I said, when we first met, I was, looking back, I was really depressed. I never got out of that because

of everything we had went through. yeah then you just start piling on like stress or after stress or after stressor and like it's not like it's not like she came out the gate with the leukemia lie right it's like there was like this and this and then and this and this and then the gun then the you know we're like yeah three and a half years in and four years in somewhere along those lines and we're we're on thin ice i still have the paperwork turned into the court i ended up pulling it out and I tell her like, hey, you've really got to show me that you're going to change. Like, I don't want to have another set of my kids growing up in a broken family,

but I can't stick around. You do anything like this again, I can promise you, I'm high-telling. Like, this is your last saving grace. And deep down inside it, I'm just doing it for the kids. The love, I felt this is me being true and honest now. It's the love was already gone. But growing up always. I grew up in a broken family, and I was like, I don't, you know, I already have one kid

with a broken family. I don't want mothers if there's any chance that she can turn her life around, you know, people make me, we're all human, we all make mistakes. I know that, but it was like, that was a pretty big mistake, you know, but I'm like, hey, this is your final shot. So I went back. And then the youngest starts getting sicker. And November 2021, I should be, that's when the youngest went into the hospital the first time for seizure like symptoms. And that's where everything started falling into place of things happening. She started, you know, becoming a kid over the next couple months after that that I didn't recognize. It was, that's my daughter, but she's completely different now.

how so sleeping all the time just less vocal just it's hard to even explain it's as a parent when you see your kid like and you something's off you can tell absolutely knew some was off and it but it was like and that's where by saying like that like it was my kid but it wasn't like it was off like she wasn't her normal self and it just kept getting further and further from her normal self and so she go and, you know, she's back and forth to the hospital and the ER. And did she have, to your knowledge at this point, did she have, like, a diagnosis or just like she's having these symptoms and we don't know what's wrong with her? She was having these symptoms.

They couldn't figure it out, but they wanted her to start. She would send, you know, she'd be like, hey, she's having seizures. I'm going to take her to ER. I need you to come home and stay with the kids. So I'd leave work, come home. And first couple times, they didn't. know so they started telling her like hey when you witness these episodes please record it and send it to us or bring it into her next doctor's appointment so we can view it right because part of the

problem with things like seizure disorders is they can put them on you know the machine you were talking about before with the older child they can put them on an EEG for observation in case they happen to have a seizure during that time but it's very it can be really hard to catch it so it can be hard to sort of get that information which is why they ask parents to record so the doctors can look at look at what the episode actually looks like right so they had done a i want to say i can't remember for it was a 24 or 48 hour at the hospital e g she told me they caught a few little ones but it wasn't enough for them to find you know go off of anything and so they you know they'd moved us over to neurology at cooks to start seeing them so that you know

you see the doctor once or twice while you're in the hospital but they wanted you know where they could get on a more personal level the doctor said hey i want you to video if you see anything so time you know month or two goes on she's getting worse one day i get a video from her and she'd send it to my mom too of this episode and growing up you know never being fully around somebody that had had seizures other than her older sister but I'd only witnessed a very glimpse of that also of the older one. So what I see it on the video, my assumption is, hey, she's shaking and stuff. I think that's a seizure.

I fullheartedly, you know, when your daughter's sitting there like this, you know, I'm thinking she's having a seizure to me. That's what I figured it looks like. Well, and sure enough, there can be a pretty big range of what a seizure looks like, right? Yeah, it's not, hey, one set standard, you know, there, you know. But something, in the video when you saw it, that something was happening. She was laying on the couch shaking.

You know, she was getting to the point where she was having these episodes of peeing on herself more. It was, like I said, her health was declining. And I'm, you get more and more concerned as a parent. You're like, something's got to be done. You know, we need to figure something out. If it's not this, it's got to be something. And a week or two after that video, she ends up having more seizures.

She's like, hey, I called the emergency number. They want me to take her in when you get home because she's had a couple today. And she's real lethargic right now. Okay, I'm rushing home. She takes her up there. They end up admitting her for a day or two to observate her. And then I was like, did you show them the videos? and she's like, yeah, they see it.

You know, they said those are small ones, but she never had one in there. So they ended up, they're like, hey, we're going to send her home and do a 72-hour EEG at home where she's more relaxed, more comfortable, where if, you know, where they've been happening,

so maybe we can catch one there. So here she comes home. She has to keep this backpack on her for three days, has her, you know, all the stuff on her head, all gossed up. They'd even went in and done a MRI, I think, was it an MRI of her brain? They had to put her to sleep and do two tests her while she was asleep.

They put her asleep and everything, which that was hard to witness the first time because she started shaking a little bit, you know, when she went to sleep. And so 72 hours, they go back in, take it all out or take it all off. They say it's going to take like two days to get the full readings of everything. for the doctor to look at it. She calls me when they get it. She said they saw a few little ones on there because we had a button every time we thought we'd see when we had to hit it, you know, we're supposed to hit it.

And she was supposed to, I believe, log it all. Also, every time she thought she saw one in that 72 hours. And supposedly she was doing all that on her phone. Jessica was supposed to do that. Jessica, yes. So I'm thinking, okay, now they know there's a few. she's like, hey, they said they're going to call her and they call in this medicine to put her on to start. They want to start on this low dose of the, I can't even remember what it was called.

And a week or two later, this whole time right before she got caught in June of 2022, May, April May, I'm like, I'm really on her. I'm like, hey, we need to get with these doctors like, I'm losing. I felt like I was losing my daughter. Like, I felt like this kept on. She was going to die. Like, that's how much she was declining. Like, she was just, she was pretty much a vegetable at home most of the time. She wanted to sleep all the time and just having accidents.

Like, we were going backwards, but she just didn't really talk. And she just lay on the couch, you know, and she was just out of it. And I'm like, and she's like around four years old at this point? Yeah, she was four. And so I was like, you know, this is I'm losing my daughter like they got to figure I was starting to get mad I'm like they had to figure something out and so she takes her in at June for more seizures and they admit her she tells me you know that they're they're observing her and they move her up to this room that

where they could have cameras on or watching her you know see how she reacts and stuff like that they're running test I would get a call saying hey she's doing better you know, she's starting to improve. Then I'd get calls saying, hey, she went to, you know, she went to the bathroom and she came back in here. And now it's like, been an hour or two and she's starting to go down. And I'm like, so she's up and down. Like, what are they thinking?

She's like, they're wanting to run more tests. They just came and took more blood. And this is Jessica's reporting this to you from the hospital. Yes, just because she was reporting this to me from the hospital because I went up there once because it was hard for me to go with all the kids. Yeah. I wasn't going to take them into that setting, you know. You could only have like two people in there once.

Anyways, she was in there for four days. I get a call from her or text from her saying, hey, somebody from CPS is about to be calling you or going to be getting in contact with you. And I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. What are you talking about? She's like, they'll explain everything. everything. I'm like, what's going on? Like, that's serious. How do I go from my daughter's up and down? You're in here in the hospital with her to now CPS. Like, what I need? I need some background.

She said, I gave the youngest one too much medicine. And I'm like, what do you mean you gave her too much medicine? I'm going back and forth with a text because she won't answer her phone. So I get a call from CPS. And they're like, hello, is this Mr. Jones? I said, yes, it is. And she's like, has just reached out to you. I said she texted me saying somebody from CPS was going to be reaching out to me. And, you know, I'm trying to figure out what. She just said she gave her too much medicine. She said, she's been giving her medicine when she didn't need it and she's been overdosing her on it. She's been making her have these symptoms. And I'm like, froze and I'm like, whoa. Like, it just caught me off guard. Like, what do you mean? Like, and come to find out, you know, she was,

giving her been a drill. That's all I knew of at that moment. And she's like, she's going to be removed. I need you to come. You're going to need to come up here to the hospital to stay with her, the youngest, so that, you know, she's not, you know, or she'll be here by herself. You know, we'll have, you know, somebody from CPI. I was like, no, I'll find, I'll get somebody to come sit with other kids and I'll be up there.

I mean, what's, what's like going through your mind with this information? because this is, it sounds like they're pretty, like, at least the piece of sort of, like, the connection is fairly clear, right? They're like, she's been giving, she's been over-medicating her. I was in such. Were you just shock in, like, you're not even processing yet? You're just in, like, in it, like, just in sort of crisis mode. Yes, I was in shock. I was in a fog.

I was like, it was like, the one thing you never think you're going to get hit, you know, up until this point, This whole disease, I hadn't ever heard. The only thing I'd ever heard about it was, you know, the Gypsy Rose. And I'd only seen a little bit of that. I'll tell you now, most people don't know much about it at all, if anything. And so I was one of those people. And I'm like, I didn't even know this is what it was really going that way. But so Jessica didn't have a vehicle with her.

So I had to go pick her up. She couldn't be around the other kids either. So she had to go to a hotel room. Her uncle got her in a hotel room. I went and picked her up from cooks and took her over there. The whole way over there, I'm like, I'm like question her. I'm like, what are you? What is like, why?

So at this point when all this happened, we were living with her aunt because we had to be supervised. Really, she had to be supervised because one time when I was out of town for work, we'd been living with her aunt about a year, not even quite a year, eight, seven, eight months. I was out of town. I get a call from her saying, hey, I had to run to Dollar General. We were at the grandmother's house at the time. She said, hey, I had to run down the road to Dollar General. And while I was gone, the youngest got a hold of some of my grandmother's Ambien.

And so we're rushing her to the ER to get her stomach pumped. Well, because of that, the hospital has to report. So CPS is like, hey, since you left her with your grandmother and your grandmother isn't, the best of health, you're not making good judgment, you either were going to take the kids or you can go stay with somebody that we approve that will supervise you. So they, it was like a neglectful supervision type of finding. Okay. So that had happened like a year previous to this. Yes. Maybe a few months less than a year, but somewhere around in there. Okay. So we went and stayed. We moved into the aunt's house so we could be supervised for, I can't

remember how long it had to be for six months to a year or something like that so now fast forward on the ride to that hotel i'm like why and she's like i've been telling you like i just need we need to i need to get out of there i can't stand my aunt like she's on me and i was depressed and this is the only way i knew how to act out and get people's attention and it got me out of the house taking her here and i'm like that's that is no reason at all like that's no excuse So instead, you want to harm your kid to get everybody, to get away? Like, okay, say you need to get away. I watch the kids go.

But, you know, that's all I ever got. He's trying to sort of justify the behavior, which is completely unjustifiable, right? Yeah. It was my fault because I didn't get us out of there. I think six or eight months we had to do it. So our time had, you know, been out for a month or two. I was trying to find a place but we hadn't found one yet

and so I'm like you're not putting this on me you're not you're not putting this on me like never in a million years could I do this never in a million years did I think you would do this like who would harm their kid right and not like not in any universe

a normal like a stress response right to start harming your child so you can get out of the house I've been stressed before but I think the same. Yeah. I never in a million years would go to like thinking about harming my kids. So I go up, get to the hospital and I'm sitting there and she's doing a lot better. My youngest is doing a lot better. She wants to go to the playroom. We go to the playroom. We play. The nurses say she's doing a lot better. The way they found out was they were doing

blood test and it they did one it came back with Benadryl in the system and it came back they did a second just to verify and there was still been a drill if it was like a one you know had given her something before she came in it would have been out of the system for the second one so that's how they knew so they started watching video and every time she would take her to the bathroom she would carry her purse with her so every time they would come out of the bathroom 30 minutes to an hour later is when she'd start declining so my i get her you know so i'm there that night next day the next afternoon we get to leave i get her home and from that point on she just she kept getting better and kept getting better but wasn't on any medicine it was a few days later two days

i had to go up there and meet with i had to take them all up to cooks the three girls had to take them, the oldest and the two youngest, up to folks to meet with, um, it's his doctor they have in there. And she, she's checking them out, making sure, you know, like how they're doing. Oh, like the child abuse pediatrician? Uh, yeah, Dr. Uh, Dr. Kaufman. Kaufman, yes. Um, so go in there. She's talking to them. She's checking them out and she pulls me to the side. We go talk and she's like, starts telling me these things that the video that she had sent me and my mother, she never showed the hospital when she said she did. The actual EEGs didn't show anything.

Come to find out the oldest one, they had never really saw much of anything on any of her test. So at this time, she was 12. So for 11 years, she's had epilepsy that she didn't have. Nobody Should Believe Me Case Files is produced and hosted by me, Andrea Dunlop. Our editor is Greta Stromquist, and our senior producer is Mariah Gossett, administrative support from Nola Karmouche.