Not Gonna Lie with Kylie Kelce - Kylie on How to Talk to Pregnant Women, USWNT Legacy & Retirement Surprise with Alex Morgan | Ep. 5

Episode Date: January 9, 2025

Kylie’s back for another episode of Not Gonna Lie presented by Dunkin’ and starts off the show by thanking all of you for getting the podcast nominated for its first award (1:25)! Kylie then shouts out some NGLers in the mentions for supporting her minivan future and also hating on kids clothes with buttons (2:45). Kylie then talks about how she got “roped into” being the announcer on Jason’s brand new show “They Call It Late Night” on ESPN (6:03). And now that baby girl has “popped,” so has pregnancy commentary, so Kylie shares her Do’s & Don’ts of Talking to Pregnant Women (8:32). After that, U.S. Women’s National Team icon and fellow mother and pregnant person Alex Morgan joins the show (14:38) to talk about her recent retirement from soccer and how her timeline shifted a bit when she found out she was expecting (19:34). Alex and Kylie discuss their pregnancies, the transition from being a mother of one to two kids and how stressful it can be to land on a baby name (16:13). Kylie also asks Alex about playing while pregnant (24:40) and her legacy off the field, highlighting her pivotal role in achieving equal pay for the USWNT (31:55).  Alex also discusses her women's sports media and commerce company, Togethxr, which also created the viral “Everyone Watches Women’s Sports” t-shirts and how she’s feeling about the current state of women’s sports (28:15).  As Kylie mentions, these episodes are capped at 45 minutes so you can find even more exclusive, never-before-seen clips from her conversation with Alex Morgan on YouTube on Monday. Make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss a thing! . . . Support the Show:   DUNKIN’: Try Kylie’s favorite Butter Pecan Iced Coffee at your local Dunkin’! Order in store or order ahead of time on the Dunkin’ app. Support The Alex Morgan Foundation: https://alexmorganfoundation.networkforgood.com/projects/188396-alex-morgan-foundation-general-donations Togethxr’s “Everyone Watches Women’s Sports” Merch: https://www.togethxr.com/collections/all Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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We're a little under the weather in our house this week as you can tell, but that should explain why I have boogers on my shirt right now. They're clearly not mine. Let's get this podcast started. Welcome back to Not Going to Lie, a Wave Original brought to you by Duncan. I'm your host, Kylie Kelsey, former Cabrini Cavalier, RIP, noted doom scroller and I once had a verbal altercation in a parking lot. Yikes. As always, make sure you follow us on social at NGL with Kylie and subscribe to the Not Going to Lie YouTube channel. Coming up on today's episode, like I mentioned last week, baby number four has officially popped. So now that I'm showing,

I figured now's the perfect time to get honest about what not to say to pregnant women. After that, I'm going to be joined by a guest I truly have no business speaking to, Alex Morgan. I'm going to talk to Alex about her retirement, the current state of women's sports, and her motherhood experience as a professional athlete. But before we get to that, we've got some show news. Not sure how this happened, but this show, the one you are currently watching or listening to, not going to lie, with Kylie Kelsey, has received its first award nomination. NGL has been nominated for best emerging podcast at the 2025 iHeart Podcast Awards. So first of all, thank you to the NGLers who have tuned in and have enjoyed the show thus far. You know I'm always going to be honest with you guys. There are a number of podcasts obviously nominated in this category. One of which I have to tell you

in spite of my entire production team shaking their heads while I say this, so true with Caleb Herron. I just can't explain how much I enjoy when those clips pop up on my TikTok feed. I outwardly cackle and often cry. So I have to say it. I think that's where that should be headed. Next up, I want to shout out some of you in our mentions. You guys are being so supportive during this very difficult time of accepting my minivan fate by sharing what you love about your minivans from Stephanie Stewart on Facebook. The sliding doors alone are worth the minivan.

No worries about kids dinging other cars or slamming doors. This is honestly one of the things that has been a driving factor. It's not necessarily the dinging other cars because right now my girls are so young that they know they can't open the door until mom comes around to the door. But the idea of getting to open the door for a car line, like school drop off, and just pressing a button from the front seat sounds lovely. Just it's like release the Kraken. I love that so much. That's what I want to do. And also from my ins and out lists, I was relieved to see you guys are also on board with my Zippered Only Baby Clothes initiative. Shout out specifically to NGL listener, C. Ferry on TikTok who expertly drags buttons. Let me introduce you to the true fucking horror of baby clothes. Buttons. What asshole thought

putting buttons that need to go through a hole especially those stupid loopholes on a feral squirming raging alligator fuck you fuck you sir and i know it's a sir i know it's a sir because only a sir who's never changed who's never changed. A rage demon on a changing table with buttons. Yes. A million times. Yes. Good God. Yes. You nailed that so hard. The idea that people are creating these articles of clothing that have not experienced a child on a changing table and how quickly you are trying to get through that process, yes, it's the only logical explanation. In this same category, a lot of people were in the comments asking if I've used magnetic baby clothes. And although I think the concept is great and has a large following,

I am not part of it. I have found that they are not meant for chubby babies. And I don't love the way that they gap when the babies sit up. So Ellie in particular was our chubbiest baby. She would sit up and bust out of that thing like a can of biscuits, zippies all the way. You guys also left some very nice comments about my appearance on Jason's new show. They call it late night. I especially enjoyed this one. Bacon said, Kylie always looks like she has no idea how she got roped into the next thing. Like, damn it. I did not want to do this. Well, I do enjoy that 14,000 people liked that comment. That brings me to the inaugural podcast edition of something I like to call Places Kylie Has

No Business Being. This past week, I made my debut as the announcer on They Call It Late Night on ESPN. Getting roped into this is the perfect way to express how I ended up as the announcer for this. My husband asked me to participate and being the supportive wife that I am, I said yes, hesitantly. They did put up a sign that I did not know was going to be there. I did not know that it was going to be dubbed Kylie's Corner. I do appreciate that because you guys know how I love to hide in a corner. Although it's not really hiding when you have spotlights and a camera on you. So I might need to discuss that with someone.

Queen Emma wrote, do I get nervous for things like this? Particularly something like this, I did not get nervous for. I do find similarly to our wedding day when I was nervous about walking down the aisle because everyone's eyes were going to be on me. And then the minute I could see Jason, I was like, oh, I'm fine. I can get down the aisle. I'll just focus on him. Similarly to that, since I got to watch Jason do his thing and he is the main focus and all of that, and he's crushing it, I didn't need to get nervous. I had very few lines, luckily. Love that for me. And I also did PA in college for men's lacrosse games. So I had a little bit of experience.

That does it for Places Kylie Has No Business Being. Moving on to the very special time in the episode where I somehow get even more honest than usual. That's right. I'm talking about my segment, Can I Be Honest? This week, baby girl has definitely popped, so there's no more hiding her. stretchy pants are in full force as is commentary from friends, family, and of course perfect strangers. so I figured I'd take this time to give you guys some do's and don't you wish it was a boy?

It'll be a win. First, and this is a big one, don't comment on her size. This includes comments like, you're huge. How much weight have you gained? Are you sure it's not twins? I still can't believe that people think that women who are building a human being want to hear anything about their size.

Newsflash, they don't. Cut that shit out. Do keep your opinion to yourself if someone shares their baby name. That's it. If she chooses to share it with you, feel privileged enough that you get to know that information and then promptly tell them that it's beautiful and move the fuck on. That's it.

Don't ask if we're going to keep trying for a boy. If another person asks me that, I'm warning you right now, you might get drop kicked. I don't need to have a boy. And for some reason, I think that you want me to have one more than I do. Four girls strong. Watch out world. I do not need to have a boy. We were meant to have all girls. Do ask your pregnant friend how she's feeling. Let's be real here. Asking this question implies that you know she definitely feels like shit and you need to make sure that you're prepared to get her honest opinion and be prepared to receive that in an open-minded way. Don't comment on breastfeeding. You know what that is?

None of your fucking business. The whole breast is best nonsense. The only reason you're saying that is to take other women down. Sometimes it's not in the cards, okay? Whether it's a latch issue or maybe mom has her own medical need where she's unable to breastfeed. Let's just mind our damn business.

Don't divulge the details of your own traumatic birth experience unprompted. On this one, I'm going to say do as I say and not as I do, because I'm not going to lie. I do ask for this. Um, I am the person that wants to know every detail of your birth, specifically ones that could be described as traumatic, because if I go through birth and it wasn't as bad as that, calling it a win. And can I be really honest with one bonus do and don't? Do ask for permission before touching her belly. I still can't believe that people reach out and touch another person's midsection without asking permission. Specifically when strangers do it, that shits bananas. Keep your hands to yourself. It's so simple. Don't touch someone unless they have given you permission.

The bonus don't, don't tell me I'm glowing. The glow you think you're seeing is my nausea sweats that you've mistaken for glowing. Okay. So I'm not glowing. Don't tell me that. I am swollen. I am sweating. I am nauseous. Don't tell me I'm glowing. And that does it for my do's and don'ts of talking to pregnant women. Let me know what I missed and what ridiculous things people have felt the need to say to you during your pregnancy at NGL with Kylie. Hi, I'm Kylie Kelsey from Not Going to Lie and you're watching me do a Dunkin' ad. You see what I did there?

Like an old Disney Channel intro. You guys get it. Something else you guys get, my go-to Dunkin' order, which I can't recommend enough to all of you and just about everyone else I interact with in my life. It's a medium, iced coffee, half decaf, extra ice, a little bit of almond milk, and two pumps of that sweet little bit of almond milk, and two pumps of that sweet butter pecan. And if that sweet nectar butter pecan wasn't already enough of a treat,

you can also treat yourself to Dunkin's $5 meal deal, which includes two wake-up wraps and a medium hot or iced coffee for $5. Order in the app ahead of time, like I I do or order in person at your favorite Duncan location. She's a two-time World Cup champion and gold medalist. She's also an entrepreneur, philanthropist, a champion of women's sports and equal pay, and she's also a fellow mom and current pregnant person. Alex Morgan, welcome to Not Gonna Lie. Thanks for having me, Kylie.

No, thank you so much for coming on. I wanna start by touching on something that we're both currently experiencing. Congratulations, you are pregnant with your second. Thank you, and you with your fourth. Yes. Wow. Wow. Wow. Yeah. Amazing. How are you feeling? I'm feeling pretty good right now. I feel like since I got through retirement and I was playing up till I was three months pregnant, that was rough. And now it's like, life is so much less stressful without sports.

Like you can't even, I mean, you probably understand but most people probably couldn't. And it's just so nice just giving my body like the time that it needs. So I'm good. How are you? We're like due very close, like within. Yes. We might. We might. I mean, who knows? Maybe they're born on the same day. Just not April Fools. I don't want

that. No, let's not do that. We could do like March 31st. That'd be cool. Yeah, sure. Your daughter is Charlie. Is that Charlotte or her name is Charlie? Her name's just Charlie. I love that so much. We debated Charlie for our first and then within, I think six months, we had three different friends who named their kid Charlie. This was six years ago.

And Jason and I were like, shoot, no, we can't do Charlie. I know it works out why it is a Wyatt, but I love, I love the name Charlie. Um, do you guys know what name you're going with next? I am not asking what the name is. We have, we have a shortlist. um, and we have a favorite. You're ahead of us. Great. Going on the fourth, it's like a disaster. You've already used them all up. There's all bets are off. Especially for you. Um, I, I believe you've said it's another girl. Correct. So I mean, four girls is really hard to figure out four names that you really like. Yes. I mean, we like we know what we like as women, but we're also kind of indecisive. Don't tell men that. Yes. Because they think that we can, you know,

make decisions on behalf of anyone and everyone, which we do. But we have this like, because we're forced to really, we're forced to. But yeah, that's, that's hard to have four of the same gender to try to come up things. Although Wyatt is such a cute name. And now it's like, we can pick from the boys names, you know, Charlie, right? That's it. We're doing a little crossover action. I feel like we have to lean a little bit towards those sort of gender neutral names for our fourth because we have Wyatt Elliott Bennett. So if we go if we do a full commit to a girly name at this point, it would not sit well with the other three I think eventually they'll be like why why did they get a cute girly name? How are you feeling

about the jump from one to two? I am actually really looking forward to it. I feel so my daughter is four and a half. So she'll be almost five when the next baby is born. So I think she'll be really helpful. Me and my husband just celebrated our 10 year wedding anniversary. So it's kind of weird like having our second child after we've been married for 10 years. That's not typical. So, I think that we are overdue. I will say that my oldest, the way that she's five now, the way she's getting excited for this next baby is very sweet to watch because she's very much in that phase of like, I can

get diapers. I can fill up my own water bottle. I can do these things independently. And so to see her get so excited about getting another baby and her being having the opportunity to help is, is very exciting to watch. So. Which is great. I mean, they just need to have a task and it's perfect. And they feel like they're with you, but then still being helpful. So yes. Now I also wanted to talk to you about your retirement in our house, talked about retirement for quite some time before my husband actually decided to retire. What was that

process like for you making that decision to retire from soccer? So I think that, you know, it really started last off season. Well, actually, let me back up. I. After the last World Cup in 20 in 2019, winning that World Cup, I was like, OK, I'm still pretty young. I still have a lot to give, but I'm happy with where I am. And like I could. And like, I could, you know, not step on the soccer field again, if I'm injured or I don't come back from having a baby and feel myself. So that's when we decided to have a baby. And

then I did feel good and I missed it when I was pregnant. So I came back, played in the Olympics that was delayed a year and then the World Cup in 23. And at that point, I was just like, I don't know that there's much more that I can give. And I don't know that there's much more that I'm going to get. Like I've, I've fulfilled everything I've wanted to do. I'm at a point now where there's a lot of other things that interest me. I'm building businesses off the field. I'm really busy and we're settled in San Diego and we're so happy. So throughout the off season, I was this last off season, I was like, okay, this is going to be my last year, I think. And then me and my husband had two bottles of wine one night. And we just like, I just was super

bottles of wine one night. And we just like, I just was super honest. And I think it was just like an epiphany. I was like, yeah, this is, this is it. Like, this is the last year, like, regardless of what happens, I want to go, of course, I want to try to go to Olympics, I want to try to win a championship, I want to do all the things, but it doesn't really matter what happens throughout the season. I'm done no matter what. So I kind of just made that commitment to myself. And a lot of things didn't go planned.

Baby also being part of that. It's weird to say I got knocked up after being with my husband for 17 years. So that was interesting to have a surprise pregnancy, but it all worked out perfectly. And at the end of the day, I'm just so happy with the way that everything was meant to go down. Now how did that feel to make the decision? Obviously prior to announcing it, but then making that decision and being able to sit with it through the season, did it feel a little bit like you were able to soak in those moments a little bit more and have sort of that more sentimental

feel to what you were experiencing so that you could store those memories more appropriately to feel even more settled in your decision. Yeah, it did definitely feel like I was trying to take in every moment and like remember the small things a little bit more. Um, and it's hard to say enjoy them more because I feel like I was in a constant state of stress and anxiety just with the two teams and not really have having told anyone that I was going to retire. I didn't want to say it too early because then I didn't want it to be this like whole big retirement tour. So it was like this big dark secret in a way, but I was also trying to just take everything

in like one last time, like by myself or with my family that knew. And the plan was always to then announce my retirement. When I did, it was just not to announce my retirement and play my last game like three days later. Because I was three months pregnant, so that was the curve ball in this all. But it was really nice having that time knowing this is the last regardless, and just soaking it all in and knowing that like, this is a lot of what I knew for the last like 15 years, and that a lot of change was coming. And so I

think I did pretty well to like prepare myself for that. But regardless, it was, it was way more emotional than I expected. I'm, I'm not really an emotional person. I don't like cry a lot. I don't like show a lot of emotion. I don't know if that's because of sport or what, but I just feel like for a week I was just like, would break down in the car by myself, just like crying and not like a bad cry, just kind of like. Had to release it. Yeah. Yeah. Now, do you feel like the superhero that it seems that you are considering that when you had Charlie, you came back, was it six months postpartum to play?

I was playing, yeah, after like three. Yeah. And then to play the first three months of your pregnancy this time around, do you feel like... Because I feel like we should bow down to you a little bit at least. Because I always say one of the most twisted things about the beginning of pregnancy is like, you don't say anything to anyone. And so people are like... You're suffering the most, but not telling anyone. And so people are suffering the most. But yeah, like, are you? Yeah, are you good? It's like when someone once asked me my first pregnancy, they were like, you don't look so great. Are you okay? And I said, I'm really not

feeling well. And they backed up and I was like, Nope, can't catch this. It's one of those but like, doing both the postpartum stint, going back and then also playing the beginning of pregnancy. How like, do you feel like the superhero that you are? Because that is seems to me like an outstanding accomplishment. Well, I, you know, just having talked to a lot of other female athletes that I've been through it, we all have our own journeys, you know, birth and complications or not. And then, you know, trying to do everything and wanting to be with your baby, but then also getting back to getting your body back to where it needs to be.

So that was, that was tough for sure. And then the Olympics were delayed and I was like, Oh, I can actually go to the Olympics now that I didn't miss it because of COVID. So then I moved to London when my daughter was four months old because that was the only league that was up and running really during COVID because the U S league wasn't up and running. So my husband regretfully told me you should go just like play some games in England. And I was like, that's such a good idea. I should go do that. And three days later I was on a flight to England and my husband was like, wait, what? I was like, kind of joking. No, I, I went and I let like he was playing too in Florida. And so that was tough.

But this time around, it's like so much different. And I'm really excited for the difference of the two pregnancies and births and just like infant stage, because I actually get to spend way more time with the baby. but going through the first months of pregnancy this time around were so rough because I was getting like crazy migraines, like super nauseous, so tired. And we were like flying to Panama, playing in 95 degree weather where it's like a hundred percent humid. We were going through all these like coaching changes and like, there was so much stress involved outside of this. And then I'm figuring out how I'm going to tell everyone that I'm like retiring and I'm pregnant and I'm done playing soccer for good. Oh, it was

a lot. And I just feel like I would hold it together. The moment I would enter the training facility and the moment I would leave, it was just like, I needed my bed now. I was not a real human at that time. With my daughter, I was just like, mom's tired. Please go with daddy or take your iPad. Yeah. It's like one of those where like, what can we do together while mom's horizontal? That's the activity mom would like to opt into right now. You've sort of shifted gears in another way, making sure that women's sports are appropriately represented. What sort of led you in that direction? Women have been betting on ourselves, especially female athletes, our whole lives. So why not do this as an extension of that?

So building together over like from 2018, 1920, and launching it in 21 was another thing of just like betting on myself and being like, there are incredible stories that female athletes have not told that I want to give a platform to. There's a community of FEMA athletes and fans that want to feel like there's a place that they can call home in that. In that, it's, you know, somewhere that they feel like women's sports is at the forefront. So that's where together was like born out of. And we highlight anything and everything,

not just like the big sports and, you know, soccer and basketball and Olympic sports, but we've done a, you know, girls skating club in New York City, we highlighted, you know, surfers in Hawaii and in Hawaii and female boxers and anyone and everyone that we feel like never really had the platform before. That's what we want to provide to them. And now we're in our fourth year and it's going really well. And I'm very proud of the work that we've done. For anyone who isn't familiar with it, together is the company responsible for the Everyone Watches Women's Sports shirts, which if you have not seen them, you're living under a rock. A rock, literally.

Right. I have seen them everywhere. I mean, it is, and for those of you who might miss the mark, it is in response to people saying no one watches women's sports. And now for a reading of that fictional Duncan inspired short film you definitely asked for. The part of Kylie will be played by me. And the stage direction you're hearing from that just voice will be read by Queen Emma. And action! Interior, Duncan, Cabrini University, 2014. A team of field hockey players led by Kylie McDevitt, tall, destined for podcast stardom, walks through the front door. Kylie looks around in awe. Ah, Duncan really is beautiful this time of year, isn't it? Kylie's teammates nod furiously in agreement. Kylie approaches the register.

Hi, can I please get a medium hot... You know what? Make it a large. I have a Tinder date later and I don't want to fall asleep at the table. How embarrassing would that be? Everyone inside Duncan laughs heartily. Can you imagine? Suddenly Kylie smells something wonderful. Hang on. Is that a new flavor I smell? It's buttery with a hint of... Is that pecan?

The cashier points to a giant sign promoting Duncan's butter pecan iced coffee standing directly next to Kylie. Forget everything I just said. I want one of those. Kylie takes one sip and suddenly the whole world makes sense. That hits. Yeah, this is going to be a good day. End scene. One of your biggest accomplishments in sports, you accomplished off the field. You are a massive advocate for equal pay. Can you tell me a little bit about that process, that journey and what that meant to you?

Yeah, that's probably if someone asks like my greatest achievement. I don't know that like it's my biggest goal I've ever scored or the world cup or the Olympics, like it's achieving equal pay on the international stage and creating that sort of domino effect, or as we like to say, butterfly effect that helped other women and in other countries and in the U S with their leagues and their teams fight for equality in their sport and outside of sport too. It was many years of fighting with our employer, which was weird to show up and be working, playing on behalf of US Soccer

and going and having these meetings. And I was a part of the athletes council. So I would go and I'd see everything. I would see people on other councils step up and say, you guys don't deserve as much as you're getting because, or as much as you're trying to get, you're gonna be taking away from the kids and you're gonna be taking away from these other.

And I'm like, we're not trying to take away from anyone else. We're just trying to get what we deserve. We open the books. We're seeing the revenue that we're bringing in. It's just as much as the men, irregardless, we should still be getting the same contracts, irregardless of that, but seeing the revenue we're like, and we have proof and you're still fighting us, um, without all this investment, without us on prime time, without us like getting on TV as much as the men, um, without FIFA stepping up and compensating the federation for the women's side, as much as they do for the men's side. So all of these things, we had a great argument, um, a great PR team, great legal team and achieved equal pay. Um, finally in 2022. And that was like a moment that it was like, okay, this has changed forever.

And it, you know, it's not just like the ones who were named in the lawsuit and the, you know, us that kind of like follow through with it, but it was also the ones that started it. You know, the Mia Hams, Julie Fowdy, Brandy and Toss, all of them that really went around the country in 99, like selling tickets for the women's world cup, like by themselves to get people into the stadiums to be like, watch us, you'll enjoy this product. Trust me. And fans did. And, and it was incredible. But you know, it started back then. And I feel like it was just like us continuing on that fight. But we got to a point where like it cannot continue on any longer like this. And, and that's where we were able to settle and achieve equal pay and back pay. Now, what do you, how do you see that impacting the players

that are currently playing the players that will step into those roles in the next few years and generations from now? How do you see that impacting them? Like what stressors does that take off of them or what does that say off of them or what does that say to them and their contributions to the team? Yeah. Well, I mean, they just don't have to have the distraction of fighting their employer

over how many coaches are there in comparison to the men. The fact that we used to get commercial flights and sit, like I sat on a middle seat to London in 2012 for the men. The fact that we used to get commercial flights and sit, like I sat on a middle seat to London in 2012 for the Olympics, like the backseat, like the bathroom was behind my back in a middle seat. Um, just like not having to worry about that, uh, is great for these players. And I think that's like what we, some of us like older, more experienced players, um players who were going through this lawsuit and really, really spearheading it like day to day with our legal team realized is like, we're not necessarily going to be the beneficiaries of this lawsuit more than, more than actually

like the 18, 21 year olds that are just coming in because they're going to be the ones that hopefully won't even know a difference between the women's team and the men's team. They won't even really understand that at one point, not only was the pay vastly different, but the treatment and like the flights, the number of people on staff, et cetera, were, the treatment and like the flights, the number of people on staff, et cetera, were, were always, always, always a hot topic for discussion. Um, and always a fight that we had to, had to bring to the table. Like there was nothing ever given. And now for them to step into it and just have to play. I mean, no wonder the quality has just like gone through the roof. Um, which is why it was like easier for me to retire because I was like, I am not the best anymore. And I am fine with that because

there are 21 year olds that, um, that are far better than me and are going to go far more places and going to score far more goals than I do. And that's exactly what I fought for was the opportunity for them to be able to do that and just like worry about playing soccer, not worry about having a fight for making enough money to be able to play soccer. And how bad ass is it that Charlie's mom did that? You know what I mean? Like you, like besides all of the women that you're impacting that are coming onto the team that are benefiting from the push that you and other players have made and that commitment that you guys made to make that change, but you are setting the example for your own daughter

that when things are not acceptable, that you raise your voice and you speak up and stand up in a way that people have to listen. And I just think it's incredible that outside of all of the women that are directly impacted by this in the league, that you also have set that example for your own daughter, that that's how you can sort of advocate for yourself and others.

Yeah. And I think that the fight was always like personal, but when I had a daughter, I was like, okay, it's even more personal now. Like I, this just hits home even more. In the 15 years that you were on the national team, you were such an icon that you even had a Barbie made of you. I did. A Barbie I gave my daughter when she was like five months old and she like bit the head off. Yeah, naturally. Naturally. Do you have a full understanding of how many households you have been a staple in, how

many young women you have been in the lives of and they've been able to watch you and cheer you on in any capacity? Does that fully register with you, especially now that you're retired and it's sort of like looking back on your career? That's a hard question because I want to think that I do, but I feel like it is hard to comprehend because I surround myself with just so much family and friends that I'm just like Alex to them or a mom or I'm a sister or whatever, a wife. So it's really nice that it's just normal with all of them. And so in a way I feel like maybe I don't fully comprehend. When someone's like, oh, my daughter has you all over her wall and this or that. I'm like, oh, that's so awesome. I'm so glad that I could help her in her journey with soccer

or whatever it is. But do I fully comprehend it? Maybe not. I think that to some degree, when you specifically are an athlete and you have come to this place that you have come to through playing your sport and obviously doing all the things that you took it upon yourself to do in conjunction with that. But specifically getting there by playing your sport, I feel like your brain kind of says, like, I was just playing my sport. Like I was playing soccer. What do you mean? And so obviously you were an elite athlete and you were contributing to like massive titles but it's. I think probably and please correct me if I'm wrong but I think that it is one of those things where you're just like why was I was playing soccer.

And that's how we got here with my teammates and so to. I just knowing the way that I have heard people talk about you both my own peers and then people younger than me. And the fact that even to this day, I could bring up your name with my high school athletes and I know for a fact that they would know who you are, which is really saying something because I swear some of them are so disconnected from everything. But I am so grateful to have people like you. I say it all the time, now raising daughters, it makes me hyper aware of the people who have been role models to young women. But I just think it's incredible that you not only went on to just absolutely run shit on the soccer field, but then also off the field, make sure that your impact was not

only long lasting, but benefited women for ever now. Thank you. I really appreciate it. I think having just a strong female figure in my life like I do with my mom, having three girls, she worked during the day, did night school, always made sure to be present for us in all of our sporting events, always had dinner on the table. Like almost feel like did it all. And you're like wondering how, like I'm thinking back to myself thinking I have one child and barely surviving.

How, like how did she do it? I think like helps. Like when I, you know, growing up, I'm like, Oh, I feel like I can do it all too. She did it all. So I think that that that has definitely helped me throughout, throughout my career. I feel like when you're lucky to get one of those moms where you're just like, how'd you do it? We like I am the same way I all the time, I will be like, how did you do that? And how do I do that too? I would like notes please. Please teach me.

Yes. Mom, how do I not mess this up? I cannot thank you enough for popping on today. It has been an absolute pleasure to talk to you. I mean, I just want to say thanks for doing this podcast and make, and just like, it's so amazing to see you just like being really raw and honest and just how that's what people love to hear and need and like resonate with. So I'm just so happy to be on this podcast. No, thank you so much for spending the time with us. And thank you for all the things that you've done for women in sports that you continue to do now. And it has been an absolute pleasure to watch you play and now to continue off the field in all of your accomplishments. So thank you again for coming on Not Going to Lie today. Of course. Thank you so much again to my guest, Alex Morgan, for joining me. Once again, these

episodes are capped at 45 minutes, so you'll be able to find even more exclusive clips on More Shit Monday on my YouTube channel. That does it for episode five of Not Going to Lie. I'll be back next Thursday with a brand new episode. Listen and subscribe wherever you get your podcasts. Follow the show on all social media at NGL with Kylie. Not gonna lie is a wave original brought to you by Duncan. Thank you guys again for tuning in.