Not Skinny But Not Fat - Arielle's Chill Bride Wedding, NYFW, & Ray J's IG Live

Episode Date: September 13, 2022

Hi! I’m back! Quick wedding & vacay recap, plus being a chill bride, NYFW, Ray J’s live, Britney’s posts about her children, Leo & Gigi, and more!  Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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and just feel like you're talking about your best friends in your living room. in New York City, back from three-week vacation slash destination wedding, which I kept on teasing my sister or yell about because I was like, bitch, it's a destination wedding. You're not this like chill bride. Like, no, you're all flying us across the fucking world. It's a destination wedding. So lean right in. But no, honestly, she was a chill bride. So many of you, like, loved her vibe, but which was immaculate she looked so beautiful looking back in my 2015 wedding dress like i would have done what she did today because i did like lace a f we all know i you know kind of regret the lace almost did a headpiece thank god that i didn't do the headpiece that would have not been

timeless you all know that my friend brought me flowers while i was getting ready and the makeup artist hairstylist, whatever. Put the flowers in my hair. Would have fucking not wanted that. But, you know, we all have wedding day regrets. So the ones that I have are manageable and I can sleep at night. It's just like time. Time changes things and you would do things differently. But I do believe that there's a way to do it where it is timeless. And I think that Ariel achieved that. Because it was just like, and I told her, like when she started looking at like lace dresses, I was like, babe, not time. list like don't do the over-the-top boho chic like I did because no literally was beautiful she got her dress at grace loves lace for everyone asking and she was a chilly of bride and a lot of

you were like oh my god that's the vibe I want she's such a chill bride she's such a chill this and I just wanted to make you understand that for Americans listening because I don't know how people do it internationally but like getting married in Israel and Israeli weddings not only are the fucking most fun ever and like it's all about the dancing and the partying and whatever but fucking american weddings but what makes them so like heavy and burdensome is isn't there like a bridal shower an engagement party a rehearsal dinner a bridal party made of honor dress codes like all the shit that's what makes it even the bachelorette party i feel like people don't even do like chill bachelorette parties here. Like with Ariel, we went to like this cool restaurant on the beach and like drank and

ate. So I feel like any American being like, oh, like I love that via the chival. It's like be chill. Like maybe go against the regime. Like maybe don't do all that shit and make your friends fucking hate you for spending all this money and wearing an ugly dress. Like be chill. Maybe it's time to change this thing that everyone hates doing and being a part of. You know what I mean? Because I feel like when I was a bride, like I just wanted people to have fun. I wanted them to come to the wedding in a good vibe with good energy, not feeling like, ugh, this is so annoying. I have to go to this wedding.

Like it's so far. Like it's going to be like expensive. Like, no, I wanted people to come like happy wanting to celebrate us without any negative energy. And I feel like you can achieve that. If you don't make people, jump through hoops, spend all this money, attend all these events, buy all these like outfits no just get married that's what it's about you don't need all the other shit so i'm trying to start a revolution here in america that if you want to achieve the effortless you know bride chic chill that you you all agree that are you all had then you have to go with

the whole thing which is don't be annoying just fucking get married anyway so it was it was really just an amazing amazing wedding and she had so much fun and we literally damn Like, first of all, I've discovered I'm officially old because I used to be able to dance. Like, at any point in time, like, put me in a cafe. A bop comes on, I'll fucking dance. Okay. Here, like Ariel's wedding, before I was forced to take a shot, which ruined my life the next day, because I actually took two. I wasn't able to get myself to move in the dance floor.

I just felt like so stiff, not able to let loose. Only after the shot, I was like, oh my God, this is why people take shots. Like here it is, shot, shot, shots. This is why, because all of a sudden, I'm like, stank face, like, and it's a winner. Honestly, getting sponsored by bass, one of the best sponsorships I've had. I have the base carry-on luggage, and it's just chic. It is spacious. The handle has foam.

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Anyway, aside from the wedding, we just had a great time in Israel, aside from just like schvitzin and sweating because it was so fucking hot. And if you're not in a body of water, you just lean into like a sweat stash to smelling. I mean, not that I smell because, you know, I'm an angel, but very, very hot. But what most of you know, and if not, I'll clarify, I have so many friends in Israel, like more than I have in New York. I grew up there for like half of my life. And those friendships really are the ones that lost at the test of time. That sounded lame.

You know, I go there and I literally am meeting a different friend every night, going out every night. So it's really like a fun social time when we're there. Tel Aviv is so much fun. And it's really nice. It's just a very fucking long flight. So thank God for my partnership with United, which is like the most coveted after partnership.

Like I feel like I have eyes on me of like everyone is like, I want to be a United partner. But like I'm so negative that I just see it like ending. Like I just see the day when they're like, no, we're not sponsoring any more of your flights. Go back to coach, bitch. So anyway, it's an 11-hour flight. It's a doozy.

It does doozy mean what I think it means? I used to think that a doozy meant like a boar, but that's not what it means, right? What does a doozy mean? I feel like people use it wrong. Something outstanding or unique of its kind. Well, see, using it wrong. I knew it. I know it.

Also, about flights, even if I've brought my brain to be chiller about it, because, as you guys know, flights do make me queasy and I try to self-talk like okay turbulence doesn't mean the plane's going down like think about it like bumps on the road as if you're on a bus like I do all that self-talk it also helps me to be with no one like be taking care of Noah because I can't be in my mind and he's my priority but the thing is our bodies can rain over our minds sometimes and even if my mind is like okay this is chill it'll be good blah blah blah my body on its own just goes into some mode where it's not good, just stress, just fucking stress. I want to admit to you guys that every single time I get on a flight, the moment we take

off whatever, if I'm ever constipated, just like get me on a flight because I will go to the bathroom. Literally, if there is ever a situation where I'm like, you guys, I'm so constipated for just book me a flight or I'll book the flight because I get on the flight I'm always the first to use the bathroom and it's not good it's not good for anybody I you know I don't want to be too graphic but what comes out of me because of the stress is abnormal is not suitable for an airplane bathroom I need to flush a lot after I even start transferring water from the sink to like help it go down like I don't want to be too graphic but it's not good and this happens every single time.

So if you see me on a united flight, avoid the bathroom that I'm in. Actually, I have come a long way. I think I talked about this when Aaron Foster was on my podcast when I just had started my podcast and we discovered we had so much in common. You know I'm claustrophobic. Elevators was like number one in the claustrophobic world for me.

Obviously also airplanes, but airplane bathrooms was like insane. Not only are you in an airplane, but you're in this small little stall, locked inside and I had a very big fear of getting locked in there that I remember when I used to fly with my sisters. I used to ask my sister Allison to like hold the door a little bit open and like wait for me. So the fact that I overcame that now I'm like boop to the bathroom, lock that motherfucker door, whatever. I have Wi-Fi. I can text Husp to come save me. We good. Because I also

used to be so cheap about Wi-Fi. It's like, you know those things in life that you're just cheap about, but they don't make sense. It's like, upgrade your Gmail so you don't have to keep erasing emails for $199. And you're like, hell to the motherfucking. Now I'm not paying $199 a year. So I feel like Wi-Fi and flights was one of those things for me. Like it didn't matter. Like I'm not going to pay for that. Now I'm like, charge me. Fucking charge me. I'm doing it. But if there's like not Wi-Fi on the flight for some reason, I don't actually freak out. And that makes me really proud of myself but isn't this funny so i'm on the flight back okay back to new york the other day and i'm waiting for the bathroom and this girl comes up to me and is like i know you have your period like

doesn't even say hi like how are you how is your trip which i love when when you guys say hi but she was just like so weird i know you have your period because i obviously post about my stories do you have a tampon and i was like oh right i do have my period you know that because I blast that on the internet and then I had to tell her and I'll tell you guys now I was like by the way something you guys don't know about me because you know everything like when I fucking bleed I use pads I know this is weird take a moment you're really discovering a lot about me today I use pads I don't know what it is maybe it's because I'm traumatized because when I first got my period before all my friends when I was like 11 it was a little bit before my 12th birthday and we went to the pool and I was like when you can't wear a pad and then one of my like you know an older friend was like use this like push in your vagina if you need help let me know and gives me do you guys remember the OB tampons that didn't have applicators and you just had to like vaseline up your finger and shove it in and somehow get it at the angle that needs to be at so she gave me an OB tampon okay and I shoved it in probably not the fucking right way and it was like walking with

you know a dick hanging out of your vagina the whole pool day and I had to like fix it and it was just bad, but I was like bleeding around it. It was just not good. And I think I'm traumatized from then. Like I've used tampons before, obviously and when I've learned how to use them correctly, but I've never really connected. And I know that's so weird. But I also remember when I was in Spain, I got really drunk and I thought I put two up there and again, had to shove my whole hand up my vagina, search for strings, pulled on things that weren't tampon strings. I know this happened to people, but I guess for me, it's just like also in my mind, it's like, let it, let it bleed and like let it come out let it drain your system like it just feels like the natural

way and you know I'm a natural organic queen so I use pads I know it's not fun on a sweaty day but's what I do so that follower found out and now y'all know but it's just wild to me how everything's from the motherfucking gut you know what I mean everything is the gut like I'm not my mom and I don't watch you know videos all day about how to you know treat your gut but I will say I really, really notice it's all about the gut. Even when I lean in, I eat like shit and I don't feel well or I have anxiety the next day or my heart beats faster or whatever. I'm like, literally, here's the connection. The gut really affects so much of your body that it's crazy. And because I've learned how to listen to my body, sometimes I'll even confuse anxiety with like a tummy ache. And I know that sounds probably random to some of you, but I'm sure some of you can connect. Like, for example, I'll wake up. my stomach will be weird it'll be like radiating kind of up towards my chest and I'll think that I'm going to faint or I'll think that something bad is happening but it's literally just my stomach is on well and it's kind of affecting affecting everything else so really should be better about you know

just our good and shit um health and wellness health and wellness I came back straight to fashion week honey's but you know not a fashion week girlie i'm really not a fashion week girlie like i have no desire i really truly believe that like nobody's having fun like it's not a banger like don't be jealous of all these influencers that you see there or of celebrities like it's not that fun like i promise you it's loads of people who's better than who there are paparazzi's in the front like getty photographers not knowing your name and you have to be like i'm amanda like and And then so they can post your name, but they don't know who you are content creators on every corner. Like if that's your vibe, that's your vibe. But like if you are kind of jealous and you need

a reminder that it's not your vibe, it's not your vibe. Let me tell you. Let me tell you. My thing, and I think I've said this before with like events and going places and this whole crazy world, which I like to be not fully part of because I like that I can pick and choose and I like that I'm doing my own thing. And I feel like I can do that and that's fine. And you can choose. for yourself is really that I know myself. I'm 34. I didn't enter this world at 22, you know, which if I was a 22, I'd probably be like going and, you know, trying to be everywhere and everyone see me. And because I'm like 34, have a family, have a baby. Like I have priorities and I also know what I like and what I don't like. And also my goal isn't to be like just seen. You know what I mean?

Like my goal is to keep doing what I'm doing and and be successful at that and get to do cool shit with that but it's not to just like be at a fashion show and like see you see me you know obviously there are exceptions but i'm just saying in general it's not really for me the way burning man is in for me and the way burning man is in for divina from selling sunset like love her did a podcast with her you should listen to it i think she's really a great cute little person that's misunderstood but like i'm not sure burning man is for her and her post make me lull but love her she's a really nice person but i'm sure you guys see on your feed like just like burning man people at burning man that probably shouldn't be a burning man unless you're like you know kaya gerber

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today that's macy's dot com slash personal stylist but anyway fashion week is homining i remember did i do this last year at fashion week yeah oh my god was that last year i did like the bronx and bonco show with e with e news i got to like go and interview and even though it was cool as like interview a bunch of people and get to do that little thing with e being there made me even like coming as press you guys okay it was like everyone's mean in the fashion world like everyone that is like directing the shows and like telling people where to go because it's so high stress levels that they're like go over here no like room for this like blah and then everyone who's there you know wants to kind of like be at the right I don't know it was not for me so I'm just saying know thyself listen to thyself and enjoy things

from afar the show I would go to would be fendi because let's be honest, that's where everyone was. Sarah Jessica Parker, fucking being Carrie as fuck, sitting next to Kim Kardashian, Naomi Watts. There were so many queens at that Fendi show and it really just looked like a vibe. Like I'd go to the, fine, I'll go to the Fendi show. Fine. No, just kidding. It just really looked. It just really looked good. Things have been really wild this past weekend. There was no time to chill because Ray J decided to talk about the sex tape again. And in his defense, I will say it wasn't out of nowhere. Two of the, like, I feel like maybe it wasn't smart on the first season of Hulu to bring back up like the sex tape. If you guys remember, the first season of

the Kardashians on Hulu. I don't even think we all clearly understood the storyline. We were just kind of like, oh, there might be a second tape. Oh, then Connie got the tapes on this like drinking computer oh that was like nice of him he flew coach cool it's over i feel like we didn't care that much again because the sex tape is kind of like old news they were like oh okay whatever like even the details i don't even really know to to explain like what went down there it's like did ray j's manager said he had a tape wait and then connie got it but there was nothing on there so why are they happy like we didn't really get it but we didn't really care right because it's like again, old news, we don't really care. Ray J cared because it's like, again, kind of bringing him up

in association with the sex tape. Then he did that interview with the Daily Mail. No one really cared about that interview. I think he thought it was going to break the internet. It was going to like shock people. He was saying that like Chris was involved, Kim was involved. Everyone was like, okay, nothing really happened. Now Chris Jenner and Kylie are promoting their newest collab for Kylie's line, which honestly I feel like it's just the best to have Chris collab with you because she just brings she just brings a different energy like I don't know she's holding a martini glass it just looks good looks like a vibe so they're promoting it on James Corden James Corden asks Chris under like a lie detector test if she had any part of leaking the sex tape she said no the polygraph confirmed she was telling the truth. Ray J did not like that. Ray J's in the Dominican Republic and went live and is just you know, saying that they're lying, that the lie detector guy is not even, you know, certified or, you know, he's a crook that, you know, Chris and Kim signed the deal together. He even went as far as to say that Chris watched the tapes, that Chris made them do the second tape in Santa Barbara. Then she chose which one looked better for her daughter. He even says that Kim signed the paperwork for him and it's her handwriting. He then literally shows on a projector his text with Kanye, the Kanye, the Kanye, when Kanye contacted him to get the files, but that again, I don't really understand because it's like, okay, so were there files, were there not files, Kanye went to get them. He also says the Kanye didn't

fly coach, which I'll tell you what, I enjoyed watching the 30 minutes of this because I really found him funny. He literally was in the Dominican Republic with a cigarette in his hand. I'm lit. He's like, I have money. It's no problem. I'm in this huge mansion. I don't even know where I am. This mansion's so big. Pulls up a projector. one of his friends who's like doing the projector he's like yelling at him like scroll faster like you're not doing it right i don't know it was just there were really humorous parts to it and again i don't know what i'm getting from it i think to this day doesn't matter who says what we're kind of like could be that kim and chris were involved could be that they were down to have this go

public so it would boost the career okay i feel like that doesn't shock us or surprise us as much as Ray J hopes that it will. I also, correct me from wrong, don't think, and a few of you wrote this man on Instagram that Ray J was like vilified on the show. I think even on the season of the Kardashians, it was like, Ray J's manager, like whatever. I don't think they were like Ray J, this huge, you know, bad person, even though I do understand that his name, you know, the way Kim's name at the beginning was tarnished because of the sex tape and then she started getting fame. His name was also, you know, associated with a sex tape. And he was kind of like, girls are scared to send me nudes now.

That's annoying. They think I'll do something with it. You know, my kids will forever think that I was involved in something like leaking it and whatever. I just feel like I don't know the facts and the facts are iffy. And we've all kind of accepted this for years, you know? Like it leaked. Someone leaked it. They might have been involved.

They might have not. They might have made money. They might have not. So I just feel like we're not as shocked by Ray J's revelations, even though it is entertaining to watch. He also doesn't forget to plug Raycon, his tech company, I know they make headphones. I've collabed with them in the past, actually, good headphones to be like, visit rayj. Raycon.com. Brittany also is continuing to kind of talk about our kids, you guys.

And you know what? I feel like a lot of you, and I'll say this, like I just feel like a lot of you, do enable, not this behavior, I'll say, but like she'll talk about her kids in a negative manner and comments will be like, you go, Brittany, like speak your truth. And I just feel like they're her kids and they're still kids. It's not like we're talking about like 40 year old adults now. Like she's the adult and I don't think that she should be talking about her kids that way. Even if Jaden spoke out, it's not his fault. Like he was caught in between this. there might have been a case of parental alienation there and she's hurt and I get that she's

hurt but I don't I'm not sure like I know some people will be like oh like he can say shit like she can say shit but she's the mom these are her kids and she's talking about them publicly kind of negatively and free Britney fans are great but some of them could come at her kids and I'm sure she wouldn't want that you know what I mean? and I know she's so hurt and the situation is so fucking complicated. And she also says like when she lost her sons, she feels like a part of her has died. And it's so fucking sad.

But I just feel like she's just hurt. She says she doesn't get how it's so easy for them to cut her off. She says she has no purpose anymore. They were her joy. They were her everything. I mean, it is so sad. I just wish that they talked not, via social media and not via the media in general.

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And it's funny because that's another thing that I posted. I was like, why is, you know, why are all these models there? Like, are they coming to watch the movie? Like, sometimes I just have like really basic questions. And I've always been this person, by the way. Even in college, I was like the girl to raise her hand and ask the dumb question. Nobody wanted to ask. You're welcome.

Rest of the class for being embarrassed. Sometimes I'm naive. Like, even though I'm like semi in this world, I'm like sometimes I'm naive. Like when I pose the question, like, why is Alessandra Brioso there? What is she doing there? Is she part of the movie? Is she producing? Like, and then, you know, a lot of people said, and they're probably right that it has to do with, like, the designers that dress them.

And if they're invited to go by a certain designer or whatever, then fine. Then that makes sense. But I needed, I needed to ask the question. You know what I mean? But for example, like, sometimes I'll ask the question when Anna de Armas was there for the blonde premiere, her Marilyn Monroe, movie and Brad Pitt was standing next to her. I was like, why is Brad Pitt there? And then I was like, oh, he literally is one of the producers on the film. Like, good to know. Like, that's how you find out involvement. Also, I feel like this is the first year for the Venice Film Festival

coverage that we're realizing the importance of standing ovations. One of the first headlines about the Adam Driver film was like a quiet standing ovation. That's bad news, by the way. A quiet standing ovation you don't want, you don't want you to want. What you do want is a 14 fucking minutes standing ovation which the movie Blonde got and is being praised it got over 70% of rotten tomatoes Anna de Armas and the director Andrew Dominique said that they really felt like Marilyn Monroe's spirit there sometimes things would like be thrown across the set like random shit was like I'll believe like I can get down with that and also I'm intrigued also we all know about the don't worry darling drama we were all waiting to see little miss

flow show up to the Venice Film Festival. She showed up with her grandma. It was the cutest fucking thing. She twirled her. They had fun. Lots of tension on the carpet. Olivia and Harry, not making eye contact, not standing next to each other. It's a little over the top. A lot of people feel like they maybe broke up. I don't think they broke up. I think that they're just like, you know, they don't want to like put attention on the relationship. But it's like the world knows you're together. No one said fucking tongue each other like Travis. But like you can. You can stand next to each other, you could give a little friendly hug, you could congratulate each other, what the fuck? This is making it more awkward. Chris Pine and Flo are cute together. He was like

had a little, you're doing amazing, sweetie, Chris Jenner moment. Obviously, there was the spit drama, which I loved to dive into, but like if you ask me, do I really think he like, like spat on him in disgust? Like, no, I could have believed that maybe a little sweat, fit, food, something came flying from Harry's mouth onto Chris Pine, and then he was like, what the fuck is this? Or that there was some sort of prank, like the slap on how I met your mother where they were like getting each other back. I could be convinced of that, but I don't think it was anything like anything with bad intention or anything like that. And then Harry, obviously, being so cute. Everyone's obsessed with him. Addressed it on his tour in one of his concert. He was

concerts he was like yep went to venice and spat on chris pine just got back from doing that anyway so that was a cute little moment also that just gives more drama to surround this motherfucking movie which like some people are like oh that's great for the movie to get all of this publicity but is it because then people are going to watch a movie and be like oh the publicity was much more interesting than the fucking movie which by the way the reviews are in and the reviews are kind of it got 42% of Rotten Tomatoes. A lot of people are saying the flow is amazing, that Harry is

Mep, that he doesn't really, you know, doesn't really bring what she brings because she's like obviously one of the most coveted actresses in the industry right now and he's a musician at the end of the day and he could probably act. He was great in Dunkirk, which was the worst movie I've ever seen. Don't have me.

So fucking boring. Don't at me if you like if you loved it. But yeah, just really, really, really, really dramatic surrounding this movie. I do want to remind people, Olivia directed one of my all-time favorite movies, Book Smart. That was her, I think, directorial debut. If you haven't watched it, see it. And let's give her props. She's such a smart woman. Everything that comes out of her mouth, I told you guys, just sound so smart. But, but there's so much drama surrounding this movie. And it was, it's just really messy. Like on the carpet. Flo literally greeted Nick Krull, like we said, Chris Bine, but didn't come close to Olivia or Harry. Like I said, they were also separated by other cast members. Anyway, Gigi Hadid rolled out a new cashmere brand. It was actually kind of funny because like the way she put it was like, oh, I'm coming out with a new brand. My first brand. And this is just because the reason is I find this interesting.

thing is because I really do think that she was kind of admitting here to me. Like this is subtext that like everybody in the entertainment world feels like they need to have a brand. Like you can't just be a model or just be an actress or just be whatever. Like you need a brand. And I feel like managers and agents and teams are probably really pushing their people to be like, listen, you don't know what's going to happen in this career of yours. You need to have a business. You need to have a brand running. And that's why she was like, you know, she even said it as she spoke about guests in residence, her new brand, that like she's been thinking for years what to do, like, you know, and finally came to this conclusion of doing guests in residence, which is a cashmere clothing, clothing brand. I wonder what people are going to think. I wonder if people are going to buy it.

I mean, cashmere is expensive. She's trying to make a statement here that, you know, cashmere is long lasting and something you kind of past. down and something worth investing in, but it's also more affordable. Listen, it looks like a vibe and she, I don't know why. No one's caring, but like her and Leo are together. Like I'm screaming it for the rooftops. I feel like nobody's listening to me. I constantly get sightings. You know, I don't really post sightings, but constantly people are like, oh, I saw Gigi and Leo. Don't forget that I saw that clip of her singing to him while he's smoking a cigarette at a club. This is really influencer I follow just posted like she was at this event yesterday, I believe it to Priani's and

she was like, oh my God, Gigi and Leo just walked in like, it's happening. Like I don't know why it's so hard for you to believe. What was interesting was that a lot of people think that Kendall and Gigi have beef because, listen, where there's smoke, there's fire and they used to see much closer and they don't seem as close, even though Kendall had just posted guests in residence, either she got a package or a sample or something. But Kendall Haley and Cammy Marone were seen out to dinner the other day.

I mean, even though Cammy does run in the same circles, Leo's now X, it is kind of like, mm-mm-mm-mm-must be Auk. Also, a moment of silence for Queen Elizabeth, who has died at age 96 after literally

reigning for 70 years, okay? What an iconic woman. What a huge part. of history. You know, the British people are mourning. Things are changing up. Titles have changed. Prince Harry and Megan's children. Archie and Lilibet are now Prince and Princess and their other changes as well. Like Charles becoming the freaking king. I don't know. How about that? How about that? Also, everybody is judging Megan and Harry and Kate and William, you know, body language and

and what's going on and who's holding hands and who's not and there's just a lot going on there. It's almost like the set of don't worry, darling. No, I'm just kidding. It's not like the set of don't worry, darling. But I was explained that the reason that Kate and William are not walking hand in hand because it does look a little odd because Megan and Harry are so close in PDAE. But I was explained that that Royals aren't really allowed to show affection in PDA and that William and Kate have also spoken about this at Walthy.

they're at work. And obviously this is like, you know, it's family, but there's also cameras and it's a whole, you know, broadcasted thing. And also that Megan and Harry aren't really acting royals right now so they can do that technically. But also that Megan kind of needs more of this support because of everything that happened, you know, that happened to her within the royal family. So Harry is just being a really good, supportive, loving husp. And it just, you know, makes me really understand. that Husp probably thinks that he's a royal because he walks ahead of me and doesn't really like to hold my hand. So he needs to come back down to earth and stop thinking he's a royal, but it all makes sense now. Anyway, really, really fun guests coming up next week. I'm going to interview her this week. So I'm excited to get back into things, be home, be back in my routine. It's fun to be away, but it's always so fucking fun to get home. Am I right? I'm right.

I know. I know that I'm right. Anyway, love you all. Huge amounts. Huge amounts. More than you know. More than you fucking know. And I'll talk to you.

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