Not Skinny But Not Fat - Don't Worry Darling TEA, Bennifer Wedding & Bethenny's Reels

Episode Date: August 30, 2022

Chatting shit with my besties re: Bennifer’s wedding, Demi Lovato's 30th bday, Addison Rae's mom dating Yung Gravy (+my feelings about age gap dating in general), Bethenny Frankel Vs. The Kardashians, and all the drama surrounding the most anticipated film of our generation: Don’t Worry Darling. Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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with your best friends in your living room. Hi, guys. I'm literally recording from Airbnb in Tel Aviv, Israel. Got to say, your bitch is a little superficial, little superficial bitch. I've been superficial more like whenever I walk into a hotel or Airbnb like I need to be wowed and if I'm not and if the smell of like chlorine or cleaning supplies doesn't enter my nostrils and if I don't see the ding of cleanliness that I want like I get a little bit upset because you never know what to expect with an Airbnb like you see pictures there are obviously pictures

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major tea. This is crazy information that I have to tell you. I heard that Pete Davidson is in the process of getting his Kim tattoos removed. I can't say how I know it, but that's what I'm hearing that he's in the process of getting a tattoo removed. Separately, I heard that he's, He's pretty upset about the breakup. I think we already understood. And I think, did I share that? But she broke up with him? I think I did on the Keep Breakup podcast, which was obvious.

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We had some really exciting weddings lately. We had Benefer 2.0 getting married after 20 years from the first time they were supposed to get married. They got married in Georgia. Ben's estate there is pretty extravagant. It was like a three-day thing. I think the most interesting thing about the wedding isn't that like Ralph Lauren designed three dresses that we don't really hear about? It's that Casey Affleck wasn't there. And they caught Casey Affleck in L.A.

And when they asked him why he's not there, he was like, uh, family stuff, like obligations. And we were like, okay, what does that mean? And then I guess he understood that it was being talked about, that people were, you know, apprehensive and wondering why he didn't make it. So he posted literally a paparazzi pick from like 2007 of Ben, Jen, and him and then wrote like a little thing. What was so wild about it is not even the picture and what he wrote,

but was that his girlfriend, who's 24 years old, commented on the photo writing that he's such a great guy. Wait, let me read it to you. Oh, my God. Where is, oh, my God, where the fuck is his girlfriend's? Oh my God. The girlfriend deleted the comment, you guys. Oh, my God. Alert, alert, alert. The girlfriend fucking deleted the comment because it caused some waves. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. That's so hilarious. No, literally, his girlfriend's comment is gone. It said like, you're such a great person and such a great dad for staying for soccer practice. Who would have helped that kid who broke their arm if not you? You're a great person. Oh my God. And her comment is deleted because it caused the waves. And by waves,

it means I was screaming about it and even, you know, used it as my caption for my latest photo that I wrote that I couldn't, that I almost didn't make it because of soccer practice. Because obviously, you guys, you know, could there be more going on? Could, you know, he be, going through some custody thing, whatever. Could his kid be going through a part-time? Whatever. But like at the end of the day, the girlfriend fucking wrote that he stayed for soccer practice,

and that's fucking weird. Also, don't forget that Casey Affleck has a history of a lot of sexual misconduct allegations from the set of his movie. He actually settled those outside of court and even addressed them, but addressed them in a very like, yeah, it was kind of unprofessional what was going on.

I've done a lot of research and, and exploration and I've since understood what all this is about, meaning, I guess, Me Too vibes. Like, you know, it's a very unprofessional set and unprofessional, but never really, really addressed it. It's wild how those things, you know, it's like we remember them now when Casey Alth becomes like a topic of conversation because he didn't come to the wedding. But it's like, wow, like that's a huge fucking deal.

And yeah, I'm still shocked you guys at his girlfriend delayed the comment because it got too much attention and because he's right what are you doing so anyway and his girlfriend's 24 and he's 47 and let me say this again i've said this about different age gaps in hollywood an age gap isn't a big deal to me age is just a number i could see myself you know falling in love with somebody who's older or younger like it's fine i think that when that happens and it's like cosmic and you fall in love with somebody who they are as a person you know regardless of age or gender or whatever the fuck But I think when it's like literally just what you do and it's constant, Scott Dissick, like Leonardo Caprio, even though Scott Dissick might be dating Kimberly Stewart, which I would

fucking die for because she is 43 years old and they've been long time friends, like very long time friends. And she's also, she was on that show with Courtney, the cattle rich fucking show. So she knows the family. I feel like the family would support this. Could she be a little cuckoo for Cocoa Pops? Oh, show. I mean, she literally had Benicio del Toro's baby.

I'm pretty sure from a one-eight stand or something and kept it. Like, there's some wild story there. But you know what? I still like it. Don't ask me why. I'm really into it. I'm really fucking into it. The same weekend that Ben and Jen got married, Sarah Highland and Wells Adams got married,

which by the way, I'll say this here because again, I feel like no one's listening. Wells Adams, total vibe. Get it. Get why he's a bartender. Get the whole fucking thing. Sarah Highland, I feel like I have really good intuition about these things, guys. I really do. It's like a curse, a blessing and a curse. I don't know if she's faux real. I don't know if she's that, you know, goofy, silly, down to earth, like not into, you know, boogeyness. I don't know if she's that gal. I want to believe she is because Wells is so cute because I didn't really love her in modern family. And, you know, she's had a lot of health issues. And I've always deeply, deeply felt for her for that. Like, wow, what a young, beautiful, person who's so talented, who's working so hard dealing with such a fucking ordeal. But I don't know.

I don't know if I got the vibe from her that I thought I would get. But still, when I did a poll on which wedding would you rather go to Sarah and Wells or J-Lo and Ben, it was literally 80-20, 80 to fucking Sarah and Wells. But what's wild is Sarah's, Sarah and Wells' wedding was literally Bachelor Nation. And it's funny because I don't know if I'd want my wedding to be Bachelor Nation. She married Wells. Does that mean all a Bachelor Nation needs to be there from Nick Vile to fucking Kaelin and Dean to fucking, you know, all these Bachelor Nation, you guys.

It was a Bachelor Nation wedding sprinkled with fucking Jesse Tyler who officiated the wedding, which that's beautiful and he's really sweet. So I want to believe that if he's friends with her and he's really sweet, that she's really sweet. But I don't know. I just thought like she would have a vibe that I would want to vibe with and I'm not sure about that. I will say, though, I did get a message about the Benefer wedding. Someone wrote to me that they have a co-worker that works for the catering company. She worked the full weekend and she came back saying it was a drag.

They were both very self-absorbed. Ben gave an hour and a half speech. I fucking hate wedding speeches. J-Lo performed her entire wedding Saturday night and then played it through twice during brunch on Sunday singing. She also said Matt Damon was super nice and the band that played Friday night performed. Scottie doesn't know and he got on stage and sang it with them. Which I love. I could see this, you guys.

the thing is people are like shipping benefire and are like, oh, that's great. It's a beautiful love story. And I'm in those people. But I'm also like, I don't care that much. And I don't know why I don't care. And I feel bad for not caring. And then I like, but we should care. This is such beautiful. You know, they went through a lifetime. They've had kids. They married different people. All this shit. They're back together. They're each other's person. We should be happy for them. Yet people, like, they got married. And I feel like it should have been the most important fucking headline. And I feel like it wasn't. her dresses should have been the most important thing to come out. And I feel like they weren't. They were also not that exciting. They were kind of boring. And Jen is just

a confusing type because on one hand you're like she's Jenny from the block. Like she's, you know, relatable. She grew up in the Bronx. Like she's a hard worker. She's all these things. But at the same time, we do hear a lot of things about her that are different sometimes that she's not this super nice person that whatever. And Ben, like who the fuck knows what the fuck is up with him, aside from the fact that he drinks Dunkin' Donuts and chain smokes like a motherfucker, which, like, you know I love the occasional seg. You know, I love celebs smoking, but do I love celebs, you know, having a really terrible addiction and, like, picturing his breath, his Duncan Donut coffee cigarette breath?

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She was one of those people. Like, I wanted to be Brittany. I wanted to be Aubrey O'Day. I thought she was so cool. I love their songs. The showstopper. All that fucking shit. I had Danny Kane in my iPod fucking Nano.

Okay? I'm bringing it way back. I listened to their songs. I watched her dance. She had it all. She was like a triple threat to me. And then she went and got a bunch of plastic surgery. I don't know, blew her lips up, blew everything up.

She was on that reality show with Pauley Day, which like, by the way, have I had sexual dreams about Polly Day? Yes. More than once. Yes. Also yes. And it just keeps on kind of getting worse. She's photoshopping herself a whole bunch.

Her recent scandal has been that somebody did a TikTok that they were like, listen, Auburide is literally photoshopping herself into places in the world as if she's traveled to them and visited them, like different monuments, the Maldives, like all these places. And she's getting like literal stock photos. and photoshopping herself on like swings in the air. And then she came out with the statement and was like, you know, I'm an artist, which I didn't get if she was trying to say, yeah, this is all fake. Like I'm an artist.

If she was trying to say like that it just seems like that, I'm not sure. But I'm not also sure that all is well. So that's on Ambriot Day. I don't know. I kind of want to have her on my podcast. I'm just saying. Kind of want to have her on my podcast. Then we have Miss Demi Lovato, who just celebrated.

her 30th birthday. And before you at me, she goes by they, them, and she, her. So relax yourself. So she just had her 30th birthday, which we love. We love when people reach their 30s. It makes me feel better about myself. And it makes me, you know, I just love people in my age bracket. So I just want to say a couple things. A, happy birthday, Demi Lovato. Secondly, Demi Lovato, you can pull off a pixie cut or whatever the fuck that short haircut is called better than like anyone. Put Demi in long hair. not so great. Put Demi in this short pixie cut, amazing. Like, I feel like the short hair looks better on her than any other cut she's had. Not everybody can say that. And that just shows you how gorgeous she is. And I feel like we forget that, that she's so gorgeous and she's just so

talented because she's had so much drama recently. And I feel like I've had animosity towards her recently, even from watching her documentary. And like I said, again, back to my intuitiveness with people, like I kept on feeling like she's lying. I kept on feeling like when she was talking about overdosing or talking about using or being, you know, California sober, all this stuff. We're talking about the different people and their roles in this and what had happened. I was just like, I'm not sure I believe you. That's just how I felt. I felt like something was off. I felt like I'm not a hundo. I don't know if you're a hundo. What actually went down. Your family's kind of weird. That's a telling. Like when families are fucked up,

fuck you up. And all of our families are fucked up, okay, in some way or another. But if you get like unconditional love and support from fucked up parents, you can turn out okay. If you don't and your parents are fucked up and they don't give you the unconditional lover and support, which it didn't seem like her mom was all that involved or was all that there. I feel like these kids are let run rampant. Like even Justin Bieber. Like he posts his dad who like is 25 years old. and he's, I love you, but I feel like his dad is more of, like, his cousin. I don't know that his dad is, like, really parenting him. And I feel like with Britney Spears also, I mean, she fucking hates her parents now.

And I feel like a lot of these kids needed parents to ground them. Look at Addison Ray now with her fucking psycho dad. Marty? Yeah, Marty. Fucking Marty Lopez posting weird-ass TikToks. The mom dating young golf. What's his name? Young Gravy. And she unfollowed Addison.

Oh, my God. These parents need to do a better fucking job, is what I have to say. But Demi Lovato, on that note, is dating. She's dating a musician, and he seems to be really into her. And to me, it seems like they might have been together only for the month just because I saw that she commented on one of his posts. They work together. Jordan Lutz, he's a musician. He has red hair, so he's kind of the vibe of Addison Ray's Omer Fetty boyfriend, which

By the way, Addison Ray was just in Israel before I left. She came with her boyfriend to visit. But anyway, he's 23 years old, but he's super into her. And he wrote her a beautiful birthday caption. Also, he's Canadian. So we know Canadian people are amazing. And he helped produce her album. So that's where I believe that they met.

But anyway, she had a 30th birthday. He was there. Kate Beckinsale was there. Kristen Stewart was there. Paris Hilton was there. Ashley Benson was there. she had a lot of people there and looked fun i wonder if she's still sober i wonder what the fuck is up with that okay don't worry darling is a movie that we've been hearing about for the last

two and a half years okay dwd it even has a fucking shortcut how does that have a shortcut how do people still don't know that nsb and f is not speaking about how does don't worry darling have dwd and people are talking about it like oh dwd like what is going on so this is the movie with the most anticipated release date with the most anticipated just everything like people are dying to see what happens on the screen people are dying to see what happens when it comes out people are dying to see the red carpet with fucking florence harry and olivia like we're dying to know what's going on even though i watched the trailer and i was literally like very confused about what the fuck is going on what's the premise what is this about but as you guys already know lots is going on here especially

because if you go a little bit a little bit back to that first paparazzi picture we got of harry and Olivia at his manager's wedding and we started digging what's the timeline how are they together what happened with her and jason all this shit and you remember me having a little inside scoop and telling you guys listen Olivia is trying to make it seem in the press like her and jason broke up she started this movie met harry fell in love blah blah blah and i was saying listen i have a literal knowledge that she wasn't broken up with jason she was in a bubble filming don't worry darling because it was heavy corona times and her and Harry and fell in love. And she blew up her family, blew up poor life. Is that mean she's a bad person? No, she fell in love. That's fine. I don't want

to vilify her. I literally, I'm literally traumatized because when I post about her, I get a bunch of Harry Stan, his toxic fandom accounts being like, yeah, Olivia's horrible. Burn the bitch. And I'm like, okay, that is not my vibe. I'm just trying to understand the timeline here. I'm also not saying Jason fucking Sadecas is Tel Laso. Like, we don't know that. that. And I agree that we shouldn't be always making women out to be the bad ones. And the guys, oh, poor Ted. Like, Ted. See, I'm doing it. Poor Jason. Like, who knows that he's poor Jason. Who knows what fucking dead. But I am confident in the person that told me. And I want you guys to trust me that that is what happened. Whether Jason and Olivia's relationship was on the

rocks, I don't know. But the fact is that she fell in love with Harry and broke up her family. It's fine. It happens. A man would do it. We would probably. judge that I don't agree with when it's oh if a man did it you know everyone would be like okay no we'd probably judge and fucking hate him and it would be okay we'd be like no it's fine we hate him is a gross man that blow of his family and his wife and his kids I also heard that you do blow up your life for harry's styles that's what you do so we would all fucking do it but obviously there's a lot fucking going on because if it was like amicable and they broke up way before and then you know she just happened to get with harry on the set then jason sedakis wouldn't want to serve her in the

middle of fucking Comic-Con or whatever the fuck that event was that he served her at in front of everybody. And she's so traumatized by that. She's so upset by that. She's saying, pretty much saying that was like intentional and that he wanted, he wanted to do that to embarrass her at her place of work. She just did a variety interview. She did the cover of Variety. It's a writer's name Elizabeth Weigermeister. She's amazing. She's the chief correspondent at Variety. And she's amazing. What's interesting about this article is that, okay, now we're getting into some dramas aside from the Harry and Olivia shit, is that Florence didn't really post about the movie. People have started to wonder, why isn't she posting about the movie? Does she hate Olivia? Rumors started circulating. I have kind of knowledge that she did hook up with Harry before Olivia hooked up with Harry. Could she be salty about that? I don't know. By the way, her and Zach broke up but were her and Zach together when she was filming again kind of iffy right we don't know we're not sure but then rumors are going about that she her saltiness towards olivia was more because she thought

olivia was like unprofessional on set she brought her kids around when she was like with harry or she you know gave preferable treatment to harry and shit like that but anyway this variety article came out i have to say this she is a smart motherfucking talented beautiful woman that like i feel like such a fucking dumbass reading her interview because I'm like I'm dumbass like I as a lot of you love to point out say like a lot I also do get insecure about my vocabulary you know I'm bilingual I grew up in two different places sometimes I do wish I could express myself better and Olivia fucking wild is just amazing and I want to definitely give her that credit I will say that you know again it doesn't seem like things are looking drama free

because Flo declined to be interviewed for this story. Her publicist said she's filming Dune in Budapest, and she couldn't. However, Harry Stiles emailed in his answers to the article. So Flo, pretty sure you could get internet access in Budapest. That makes me think, like we like to say, where there's smoke, there's fire. And it doesn't seem like all is dandy there, though Olivia is super professional. and the way she speaks about flow is super high and mighty. Like, she's amazing.

This is who I wanted for the role. Anyway, a big thing that she said about Jason in this interview is that, you know, about the whole surprising her with the being served in front of everybody, she said, sadly, it was not something that was entirely surprising to me. I mean, there is a reason I left that relationship. Sorry, it was Cinemicon, you guys. It was at Cinemicon, and she's pretty sure it required for. thought because she said that you would have to jump hurdles to get through the badges and the

COVID tests days in advance and the wristbands and all the shit to get there to get on stage. She also denies the pay disparity that were circulating about the difference between Harry and Olivia's salary. And she said there are a lot of, you know, there's a lot of talk going on about this movie, pay disparity, like feuds, shit like that, but she didn't address the feud. She did address the pay disparity and said that that's not true, that as a woman and that's a woman in this industry, she would have never let that happen. Another interesting thing, if you guys don't remember, Shia, LeBuff, whatever the fuck, was supposed to be in this role. This was before the allegations that came out about him by his ex-F-K-A twigs who sued him for sexual battery. So this was before. I

remember I was thinking, oh, that's why he was let go of the film and Harry replaced him. But no, he was fired before. I think, I mean, Olivia says that she, Basically, she was kind of saying that he's on professional and she didn't want him in the film. She also says that Harry was her first choice. So they went back to Harry because it was COVID and he didn't have to tour. But really one of the most important things here to me was that like flowed in right in. Not even a fucking sentence. And Harry did.

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that, you know, she had to fire Shaya LaBeouf because his work ethic didn't match what she was looking for. Shaya denies he was fired from Olivia Wilde. don't worry darling and says i quit her film he literally sent email messages to variety on august 25th denying he was fired instead claiming he quit the film due to lack of rehearsal time he forwarded emails he claims have sent olivia on august 24th and august 25th after the story was published in the emails he wrote you and i both know the reasons for my exit i quit your film because your actors and I couldn't find time to rehearse. He also

includes screenshots of text messages he sent to Olivia in August 2020 where he told her he'd have to back out of Don't worry darling as you know he was cast as a lead actor Jack who is now played by Harry Styles according to the text

Shia and Olivia met in person in L.A. to discuss his exit from the film on August 16th, 2020. Later that night she texted him thanks for letting me in on your thought process. I know that isn't fun. Doesn't feel good to say no to someone and I respect your honesty. I'm honored you were willing to go there with me for me to tell a story with you. I'm gutted because it could have been something special. I want to make clear how much it means to me that you trust me.

That's a gift I will take with me. He also included a video to variety that Olivia sent him on August 19th two days after he claims he quit in the video. Olivia is driving and is saying, not ready to give up on this yet. She also alludes to the tension between Shia and Florence, who stars in the film as Alice, and says, I feel like I'm not ready to give up on this, and I'm too heartbroken. I want to figure this out.

You know, I think this might be a bit of a wake-up call for Ms. Flo. And I want to know if you're open to giving this a shot with me with us, if she really commits, if she really puts her mind and heart into it at this point, and if you guys can make peace, and I respect your point of view. I respect her, but if you guys can do it, what do you think? Is there hopeful you let me know? So the Little Miss Flo, you guys, like, is that a little snark? Is that a little poke-poke?

This is, again, where there's smoke, there's fire. Something went on with flow. It looks like there was tension also between Flo and Shia. It looks like Olivia maybe was kind of like Little Miss Flo. So very, very odd. You also sent another text where Olivia wrote him, you don't have to be in my movies, but don't ever doubt me. We pinky promise that means something in my head.

house. Shaya then goes on to include the email he wrote to Olivia after her variety piece came out. It was really beautiful, but also like literally, Shaya, you just called her out to the fucking masses and you're going to write a sweet email to her. Basically, he was writing that he has an amazing little girl, that he embarked on a journey that feels redemptive. He's sober for 627 days and he wants to make amends. But why he really is writing this email is because as much as he was flattered by her mentioning that he's a great actor and such he doesn't like the narrative that he was fired uh he says you and i both know the reasons for my exit i quit your film because your actors and i couldn't find time to rehearse i have included

as a reminder the screenshots of our text exchange on that day and my text toby so sounds like maybe philoh was the problem like she wouldn't rehearse with him like in his schedule i don't know he wrote i know that you're beginning your press run and that the news of my firing is attractive clickbait, but he doesn't want that. He doesn't want that narrative out there. Firing me never took place Olivia. And while I fully understand I've tracked in this of pushing that story, it is not the truth. And I'm humbly asking as a person with an eye towards making things right, that you correct

the narrative as best you can. I hope none of this negatively affects you and that your film will succeed. You guys, don't worry, darling, doesn't even need a motherfucking press store because of the amount of fucking press and the amount of hype and the amount of, drama surrounding it, which I don't even know if at this point, it's good or bad, honestly. But what I do know is there's a lot of drama. What I also know is that I saw a little clip and don't hate me, Harry fans, but like, I'm not really sure about Harry's performance, but I don't know.

I don't know. But I'm looking forward to seeing this because so far, it's a motherfucking train wreck. Anyway, can't wait to see this movie? Can't we to judge? I feel like, you know, getting high expectations isn't a thing that people would want on their film, but I think if she wanted press for the film, she motherfucking got pressed for the film. Now I want to move on to Bethany Frankel. Do you guys remember, I posted about a month ago, the DM that I found that I wrote to her. It was like, if you can please check out my page in 2017.

I love you. I feel like you have a big mouth like me or whatever. I really did look up to Bethany. I watched her on houses of New York from the beginning. And I always thought that, you know, she's so outspoken. And she reminded me of me in that way that like, you know, my mom always tells me you have such a big mouth, like, for better or for worse. And I felt like Bethany was like that. She has such a big mouth. She says whatever she thinks, what she means, it could get her in trouble, or it could be really fucking awesome. So it was related to that. So I wrote her that message in 2017. Everyone was wondering if I got a reply. I didn't. And it didn't matter. I didn't even get a reply like when I posted an out, which is fine. I really, that wasn't the point of it, which is

funny because I heard, not all the hells wives like her. So, yeah, some of them were like, yeah, of course she didn't answer you. She wouldn't have answered you. That's who she is. So she's not liked by all. If you follow her on TikTok or on Instagram, we notice that she started doing skincare reviews. People are loving it.

I think that she's looking for engagement and looking for things that would get people excited and people get excited for honest reviews of skin care and beauty and whatever the fuck. I could tell from her review of skin by Kim that she fucking hates the Kardashians. because every review she does, she finds something nice to say and like something a little judgmental. With skin, it felt like she was just being judgmental.

And I remember watching it and saying, I really like skin. And I got what she said because she said that it's like not very travel friendly because it's like big. But I was like, hmm, she doesn't like the Kardashians. I have a feeling.

And then she went on to say, you know, TikTok isn't showing her videos, like whatever, she was spinning. Then she posted a video, a reel of her just hating on the Kardashians, being like, you know, I've been silent long enough. No one will say this, so I will.

And it was basically like, how are they role models? And is this what we're putting out to our kids? Like people that look like this and just want, you know, are greedy and want to be rich and want to change themselves and want to be rich. And I don't know what the fuck she was saying. But she was Hayden. She was Hayden for a whole real, for a whole role.

Then after that, she literally posted a reel. Acting is that the Kardashians are the fucking. mafia and saying that like ever since she spoke out against the regime that it's so scary because everyone's telling her to not mess with these people to not screw around that she has too much to lose but she's not scared she doesn't want to be a follower you know she wants to call out people and have an opinion and be honest and straightforward and you know chris jenner wants to take her down and have her videos never show up or whatever she thinks is happening, you know, then be it because she had to speak out

against, you know, the evil. I don't know. I just felt like it was like this is what I think. I think she posted that video about the Kardashians, Hayton, you know, saying all the things she was saying. And I think she got a lot of love and a lot of engagement, whether it was from people that agreed and were like, yeah, they're awful. Or the engagement could have been partially negative. I feel like it's fine if you want to say something. Don't make it like your entire personality, you know? Also, you're not being censored by a corrupt government, like literally. And nobody's censoring you like this is all made up. You're not going to, Chris Jenner doesn't fucking run Instagram. Stop. This is like what? Also, you're acting like everyone in the world likes the Kardashians and you're the only person that doesn't. Like, hello? Do you know what fucking hate they get in the daily basis? You know how every article they get interviewed for, every brand they come out with anything they do. do they get fucking criticized. It's just weird because she's acting like she's the first person to say this and she's the first person to have some fucking balls and she's not. But I just feel like it's kind of cruel. I just don't know. I just feel like what they fucking do to you.

What are you? Like yeah, she has her be strong and she's helping the world and I give her way props for that and but she's not perfect. Like she didn't, I don't know, relax me. Relax. I feel like find your niche. Like whatever you want to be. be if it's skinny girl and then saying you don't work out and don't hit whatever she's doing do I don't know do it do whatever you want to do but I just felt like that was a lot and I just felt like I don't know in my world which is also like bees world don't you want to be cool like she's cool with Paris Hilton you're cool be cool with them do the thing about skin say if you like it or don't like it Kim wouldn't fucking care to just be cruel about them what does that give listen I'll

say this and I'll say it again. They are nice people. They are good to work with. Deal with it. That's the fucking truth. You know what I mean? They're nice to their fans. They recognize their fans. Look at my co-host, Coltie Baby, from Cards Catch Up. He is a super fan and he has just been invited to a couple of their events in L.A. They said hi to him. They posted with them. Kim commented in this photo. Kim literally told me like he's the sweetest thing ever. Like they're nice to their fans. They recognize when people love them and support them. And it's really nice. And literally, I don't think, I don't know. It just, it annoys me and maybe because, you know, of my relationship with them, but also just because I'm like, why? Like, why? It's not like they did something fucked up right now

that that hurt someone. I don't know. I, I didn't really like it. And I heard from a lot of you that you also think that way. And I was a little pissed about it. TBH. I was all pissed about it. But, you know, do you be. Can you know who else is doing him? Nick Cannon. Nick Cannon, you guys, because Nick Cannon fucking is having another baby. Nick Cannon is fucking having another baby, you guys. This is not a false alarm. And let's all just stand by here and pretend like it's normal and pretend like this man doesn't have an issue. He's about to become a father for the 10th time. And I know this is confusing because this is his ninth baby because one of his babies died. you guys. So don't forget that. It's super sad. But it's his 10th child with Britney Bell.

It's his 10th child. And are we saying congratulations? What are we saying at this point? Because obviously it's like weird. Like obviously you have an issue. But let's just pretend like it's okay that you're just like impregnating all these people and having so many baby mamas. I don't know. It freaks me out a little bit. But then again, you're like, okay, Tristan Thompson, everybody fucking hates him for what he did. Do people hate Nick Cannon?

His baby mamas aren't, like, coming together and being like he's an awful father. He's not paying. Maybe he's a good father to all of his babies. Maybe they sign like insane NDAs. Like, what is going on? Like, I must know. I must know.

Anyway, you guys, that's... Frankly, all I have to say today, might have been a little heated, might be the jet lag, might be the line, might be the Airbnb that I'm still warming up to. But I have to say, I miss you guys a lot. And when I get back, we'll definitely convene in some way altogether. I wish I could just call you up and just talk. But anyway, I love you.

Always, always know that I'm with you. I literally got a message this week from a follower saying that she's pregnant. She told me first. is that beautiful, which like I get because think about it, like telling her friends or telling her family is like real, telling a person that will never be able to, you know, do anything without information, just feel safe. And it makes me really happy to be in that position. It makes me happier than anything. Anyway, I love you guys so much. Thank you for tuning in today. I love when we, you know, have a one-way chat. It's really, really fun for all of us. Okay. Rate and review the podcast.

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