Not Skinny But Not Fat - Meeting JLo, Single Selena, and The BIEBERS

Episode Date: January 24, 2023

Hi! Felt like we needed a proper catch-up! I break down my recent 24 hour LA trip where I partnered with Prime Video to interview the cast of Shotgun Wedding (yes that includes Jlo!!) and I give you all the BTS. I also discuss Selena Gomez' recent shenanigans! Her presence on IG, her new intense friendship, and boyfriend? I have some Bieber stuff to get off my chest, and even an Emrata update. Love ya mean it, hate ya kidding! Produced by Dear Media This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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And sometimes we just got a debrief a little like what's going on in our lives because, hello, it's been a lot. I actually just got back from the whirlwind, L.A. 24 hours, I think, but I can't do the math trip, which I thought I would never do. And it's like very Bella Hadid of me. But I did it. And I said this on Instagram. But I am proud of me. Like, whoa, like jet setting isn't in my nature. I call it being traveling. Like being travely even isn't in my nature. Like if you follow a lot of influencers and a lot of celebs, like you see them on planes every day. You see them. them in Miami and like from Miami to Paris and LA and New York and all this shit and it's just like oh they look like it's just easy breezy for them I just as important for you to know that it's not easy breezy for me like nothing is really easy breezy like everything takes a little more from certain people and I'm sure a lot of you can relate but traveling isn't easy for me everything is like slightly anxiety producing nervous and a lot of course when I get an opportunity like this, this time it was to partner with Amazon Prime Video for the new J-Lo

movie Shotgun Wedding. Of course, I'm going to fucking go. Like, I'll, that's the thing about me. Like, all fears included, like, I'll fucking do it. Like, if it's something that I want to do, I'm going to make it happen. I'm going to make it work, even if, like, I'm going to shit myself the entire way. And that's, like, something I can really tap myself on the back for and really say, like, you go, girl, a moment. Like, I'll make it happen. As you know, up until now. I've traveled with Noah and a husband. A lot of times, also my sister came last time my mom came to. And actually up until before the PCA trip, I kind of had to travel with Noah because I was still breastfeeding. And then for the PCAs, like I wanted husband to be my date. And this was

really the first time where I got this opportunity that I knew I wasn't going to refuse, even though it's wild. It's like I was in L.A. just last month. And for me, like going again, it's becoming very frequent like hashtag bless hashtag show off but it's like wow i have to like fly again to la and then it's like of course like to the moon and then both husband i were like wait but like this time you're going to do it like you're just going to do it on your own and it was obvious that that's what made sense at this point it was obvious that no one can handle at this point it was obvious that you know everything it was more about like baby me baby 34 year old me and it's so wild but sometimes i do feel like a child like walking through the airport unsupervised and i know that's like

like fucked up in a way, but that's how I feel. I'm like, who let this bitch? Like, who let this bitch fucking here? You know, I get nervous about traveling. You guys know this. Like, I'm sure there are people that have worse plane anxiety than me, but I'm definitely not like chill and calm on a plane. You guys know me in airplane bathrooms, even though my stomach is so fucked up at this point that it was a different kind of experience. It didn't really know where it was. And that cabin's bathroom thanks me for this time, not fucking it out. Yeah. Anyway, so as you know, I fucking did it. I also always thought, like, no way I could travel like for a short amount of time. Like, that's crazy. Like, you're tired and what? You go and then arrive and then you go straight to the thing you have to do and then you go to sleep and then you wake up and then you come back. Like, what? It's such a schlep and like the cab to the airport and then being at the airport and then checking in and then going on the plane and then coming back. And like I did it. And it really like felt good. And even getting to the hotel like by myself and being in a room and. Most of you know that, like, I have an elevator phobia, so it's like, that's an issue for me when I am by myself.

And really, I just need a lifelong companion to hold my hand. But I was able to make everything work on my own and that felt really good. And it was like, boom, boom, boom. Like, I got their makeup and then hair and then ready and then out to the red carpet. And then that happened and then go to sleep and then wake up and then get in a flight. And it's like, she did it. She worked it. So thank you for supporting me in it.

And I am really proud of myself. And I'm really like just living proof that you can do anything if you set your mind to it. There are things that come easier. There are things that come less easy. And it's really good when you make both of those kind of work. So first of all, I want to talk about this experience going and doing the red carpet for for this movie. And J-Lo, okay, here's what's wild. When I first got this opportunity, I was like, J-Lo movie's so excited.

Then I was like, oh, my God, Jennifer fucking Coolidge is in the movie too. like oh my fucking god like as we all know she's having such a fucking moment so well deserved but it's like if i was her and this is one of the questions i wanted to ask which i didn't get to but it's like if i was her i'd be like welcome to the fucking party i've been around for a hundred years and you guys are just realizing i'm fucking hot shit like too late but maybe my ego is bigger than jkules i mean no they all call her coolidge by the way they call her coolidge isn't that cute but i just feel like if i was her i'd be like yeah great finally getting recognition about fucking time. And also, it almost feels like the not cool thing

to do to be on the cool edge train because everyone is. I almost wish I wasn't obsessed with her, so I wasn't as basic as everybody else. But I did also want to ask her, like, you know, what celeb kind of excited her the most that was into her? Because obviously, all normies are, but also all celebs are. As you saw, she said she wanted to play a dolphin. Olivia Wild was like, I'll make a movie about a dolphin for you. Jennifer Garner posted something about it like everyone i mean it goes without but it's like where have you guys been like why couldn't you have made a dolphin movie for her 10 years ago hmm hmm she's been around i mean she was in french she was in seinfeld she obviously was to flur's mom like she's been around and like she deserves her

moment but if i were her i'd have a little resentment of like why did it take you so long damn amazing and it's wild because i'll give you some bt s like i love to do is that so at the premiere the way it works is like obviously the order of arrival to red carpets are like by importance so first it's like least important people then it's like supporting cast you'll see start rolling in by the way selina tan who was in the movie and i got to interview on the carpet the funniest fucking bitch ever i hope i post the clip that i get because it wasn't in the reel that i put up with amazon but i asked her about uh coolidge and she said that she cured her fear of cats that she's like so afraid of cats And obviously Jennifer Coolidge is obsessed, which just adds up for her.

And she said that they went to a cafe together in the Dominican Republic where they filmed and that she, like, put a cat on Selena and, like, forced her to like cats and it worked. So if Jennifer Coolidge tells you to like cats, like you fucking like cats, but she was so cute and funny. But it was wild just to hear on the carpet how everyone was asking the cast, like all the other news outlets that were there about working with Coolidge, where she's like a very, not very small. part, but she's like a supporting role, whereas, like, J-Lo and Josh are, like, main characters. And this is J-Lo we're talking about, you know, but somehow Coolidge, like, stole the show. And it felt almost bad. Like, if you watched my reel, I wanted to ask Josh how it was working with Jennifer Coolidge, but I was like, how was it working with Jennifer Coolidge and Lopez?

Because I was like, fucking, it's Jennifer Lopez's fucking movie. But another BTS thing I discovered by being on the carpet is that the whole cast lived together in a house while filming, kind of giving White Lotus. vibes. And obviously, Jennifer Coolidge was asked, like, not Jennifer Coolidge, a different actor was asked, like, who was kind of the mom of the house? They said Coolidge. She kind of kept everyone together and, like, it's just obvious that she's so loved and so cool by everyone. And it's really sad that I didn't get to interview her. And that's the thing. You know, when I try to be mysterious and not say things before they happen, that's part of the reason. Because what if they

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people that have worked in the industry were like, good luck. Like, she's a bee, like all this shit. I'm like, oh my God, I'm terrified. She's going to hate me. And I'm scared. And she was the fucking nicest. She was so, nice you can see in the video she like I made her laugh she complimented my suit that matched my eyes and she was just giggly and happy and you know what I think it is I think that she if she happened to be a be in her life or gave that impression first of all it could be a wrong rumor but it also could be that she's just finally fucking happy and she's in love so she's like displaying it and and and just being more vivacious and I love that but honestly none of the energy that people were saying that I was going to get. I was obsessed. I was in love. She was funny and kind and made faces.

And another one of the questions I asked her, I don't know if this was in the video I posted, but, and this was a question that I was excited to ask that I came up with because she was in Monster-in-law and Jennifer Coolidge plays her mother-in-law in this movie. And in Monster-in-law was Jane Fonda. So I was like, who would you rather be your mother-in-law in real life? So it's hard for her to answer. She's like, I don't know. And then she was like, well, maybe like, in the movie, Jennifer Coolidge, because she was nicer to me in the movie, like, as the character. And then she was like, oh, Jane Fonda. She's like, Jane Fonda, don't be mad at me. She was just like so cool and cute about it. Ben was there with her. He didn't work the carpet, but he was there

like holding her hand walking up the stairs in the theater. I'll like to think about because there were some like hot scenes where JLo, who's 50 fucking two, was in her underwear and she's the hottest thing you've ever seen in your life. And she's like being hot with Judge Demel. And I'm like, my God, is Ben turned on? Is he like, I have the hottest fucking bitch in the world? Is he like, why are you doing this? Like, husband would have never been able to be intimate with somebody else on screen. He's literally, like, so primitive. But maybe Ben is, like, more evolved. Also, he's an actor. I just feel like Ben is a type of guy because whenever you talk to people about certain celebs are like, I don't know, is he hot in real life? Like, is he, does he smell like

cigarettes? Like, is he, you know, smells like Duncan and Sigs? And I'm like, I just feel like Ben is a type of guy that like when he walks in the room like it's fucking it when ben walks in a room like you feel the energy and he's tall and like very masculine looking and i just think he's a josh demel very good looking as well by the way he got married which like who really remembered but they were cute together in the movie it's a really cute movie i mean it's on amazon prime so like watch it's fun it's funny the thing is like every moment would jennifer coolid will make you laugh and that's her effect now. She'll be like, hi. And you're like, wait, how does she do her? Hi? I can't do it. Hi. No, that's not it. Okay. Anyway, so, so cute and funny and Jennifer Coolidge moments are honestly iconic. I wonder if J-Lo is

like, why is Jennifer Coolidge getting all like the love where it's like my movie? Anyway, really cool experience. I love doing shit like this. This was my actual dream. I know that I reiterate this a lot, but that's me. Like, I don't just like accept things and move on. I don't know how these like TikTokers get the gazillion followers overnight and like now they're like living this life. I still can't believe the kind of shit that I get to do. And I'm so grateful for it. And I'm very, very aware that I've made my dream come true. It's really hard to say in a sentence because it sounds crazy. But it's like, wow, I made my dream come true. I told husband this today. I was like, it's not like, oh, my dream was to interview celebrities on red carpets and shit. And now I'm interviewing soccer players. No, no, no. I'm

literally doing what I wanted to do. Obviously. I didn't know about Instagram and podcasts and shit, but literally living my dream and I'm really so grateful for every opportunity that I get. And I'm very, very cognizant of like how amazing this is. And obviously to get a little emotional, I just appreciate your support so much and feel like I have the best cheerleaders in the world, like more than my friends. It's so funny. I don't know how you guys feel about this that have like husbands or partners and their families. Like his parents are so cute. but like when he sends the things of me to his parent group and their responses are like

queen emoji like I can't deal with it I'm like stop sending them shit I can't deal that that's their response or like a thumbs up or like a star emoji like that's what you have to say and I'm interviewing JLo like that's like a star emoji but his husband's so cute because he's the kind of person like I'll tell him that I'll be like that's so annoying never send him anything again and then all of a sudden I get a message from his mom like just being like you look so and I'm like did you say something to her? And he's like, well, I just, and I'm like, please don't do that.

I don't need like a fake fucking paragraph. But that's cute of him because he always like understands where I come from. And I'm sure you guys can understand like being a little petty about shit like that. But it's just like doesn't feel good. It's like feels kind of like I don't want to just get an emoji back. But it's also the type of people. They're like 70 years old. They don't really convey emotion.

I know that they love me. I know that they're great, really great people. but they're not the like screaming jump off the table my family type of people. So it's hard for me to just get a fucking star emoji after everything. But that was just a little anecdote. Anyway, that's that. There are other things I wanted to talk to you guys about that I've been thinking about a lot. Let's start with Selena. So Selena Gomez. I've been talking about her a lot lately. Some of you are understand where I'm coming from. Some of you are like, oh my God, do you hate her? Like that's the vibe you're giving. And here's, first of all, the reason I'm talking about her more is because she's back on Instagram. Remember she even posted like, hey guys, I'm back on Instagram. Have you noticed? Yes, Elle. We noticed. You really came back with a boom with this friendship with Nicola Peltz. The Nicola Peltz. First of all, her name is N. P.B. And her husband is B.P.B. Right? Pelt Beckham. Their whole personality is being married. And their PR team is genius because they somehow get them different opportunities every second. They're like in vogue and all the shit. And it's like they have nothing to talk about.

You have nothing to give. Like, it is so mediocre. Like, these personalities are just like a drywall. Like, I don't understand sometimes how these personalities trend. So seeing Selena become really close friends with somebody that I just don't, I obviously don't know much about her, but also haven't seen really like anything too exciting about. And also, after watching Selena's documentary, which let's be honest, didn't give a lot. Like, yeah, there are moments where you feel really bad for Selena.

because she's been through so much health-wise and heartbreak-wise. But also, she didn't give us much to work with in terms of her personality or in terms of treating people well, like she was going to bitch you to those reporters and seemed like she didn't like to do what she was doing. And it was just kind of like, okay, then what's the vibe? So I still don't get the vibe completely. And then add to that, becoming this fast friendship, which, by the way, it was just confirmed to me that it's not like she's had a really long-standing friendship

with Nicola. They literally met in December. So it is a fast friendship where they're getting matching tattoos that say Angel and they're like, I'm obsessed with you. You're my family. Gracie, Selena's sister was at Nicola's birthday party. It's a lot. Selena after the Golden Globes like met up with Brooklyn. It just becomes really quick and we know celebrities do this, but it's a weird thing to see.

So don't be weirded out that like people are judging it and it's like a weird thing because it's fucking weird. I can barely, like, my neighbors barely talk to me. Like, how do you jump so quickly to this kind of relationship? And also, I think just with Selena, like I really do want to like her. I have heard that she's down on earth and heard that she's cool. I just haven't been able to see that side. I kind of put on Selena and Schiff on the plane, too, and it turned it off. Raquel was there and shit, and I was like, I don't trust her.

I don't know. I'm just kind of like, what? It's kind of like with Demi Lovato. I don't also get Demi Lovato after watching that documentary. I'm like, what is really going on? But the California is sober, and then the, all the things, I don't know. Speaking of Selena, Haley Bieber, so there was an OBB event, new OBB studio. OBB, like, does her bathroom show. By the way, she's coming out with a kitchen show.

So if you saw her make a pancake and fucking say what's in it, it's not just because she made a pancake and said what's in it. Like a show about what's in my kitchen is coming. So nothing, nothing in that world happens by mistake or. or spontaneity or randomness. So OPP is like the studio, the production, whatever. It's owned by that ratty guy that is also, I think, part of road. Anyway, they were there and Justin performed with Kid LaRoy. And that clip just literally seeped into my underwear because you hear Justin's fucking amazing voice and you forgot the words.

That song that goes like, I didn't say when I told you that I never could. And he like forgot the words. He's like, I can't even do it. But I was just like, it's so hot even though he forgot the words. And he has such an amazing voice. And he's so talented. And I just feel like recently, I know that he's been through a lot also health-wise and all

this, but he's become kind of like Kaylee Beaver's husband. It's like she's the main event. And he kind of used to be the main event. And I kind of did hear that that's kind of what she wanted in life. Not for him not to be the main event. she's so supportive and I've always said this like I think that she was like an angel that was sent to him like I don't think selina was good for him and haley kind of was like that support willing to be in the first row just like supporting him every show she went to like I could never but I think like now like he's kind of giving her her time to shine and he doesn't give a fuck like he's ready to rest and like being his hyper fucking ballic chamber or whatever he does all day but it was just a moment to be like wow he's like such a fucking talent like he's a superstar and he's so hot and has such a good voice and like, wow, I just really needed to be reminded of that and would love for him to like, oh, God, remember when he was doing the most for two seconds on such a steak

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Do you know what else we never really talked about? We never talked about the Emerita thing. So I went on the Skinny Confidential, Lauren and Michael's podcast, which, by the way, Michael is the owner of Dear Media, so technically like my boss. So super cool episode, people actually really liked it. So if you haven't listened to it, go listen to it. It's different being interviewed. I mean, it's different, but they did a really good job.

So we talked about Amrata. I, like, told them the origin of the, quote, unquote, like, beef, even though it's not really beef for me, but whatever. And then Lauren kind of whispered to me on the side. She's like, she's really insecure. And it, like, all added up. And I'm like, oh. And maybe she did even say that on air, but it all added up.

It's like, okay, that's why she can't take a joke because she's not. not their, like, confidence-wise, even though you think she would be, like, hottest women, right? But the reason it's, like, fighting against this thing is, like, insecurity. The reason she can't take a joke and blocked Celeste Barber. I mean, Celeste Barber is a hilarious comedian that posts these side-by-sides of, like, what models look like doing shit and what she looks like doing the same shit, you know, in a funny way. And Amrata blocked her. And this is before my shit with Emerita even. And I was like, when I found that, I was like, oh, my God, it all makes sense.

But it also makes sense that she's insecure because someone who's secure could take a joke, especially if it's a joke that, like, has to do with how hot you are and isn't taking away from how hot you are. So that's kind of, kind of added up for me. But you know what else is crazy? I was talking to my mom about it at some point. And I'm remembering that my mom also said, like, she's insecure. And I'm like, oh, my God.

And sometimes moms just know. you know what I mean? I also wanted to talk briefly about Tyler Cameron and Kristen Cavalry that on New Year's, it looked like they were on a triple date with Caitlin and Jason and Justin Anderson and scoot is his husband. I at first was like, okay, is this giving friendship vibes? Is this giving hookup vibes? Like, what is it giving? And then I was like, okay, for sure, hookup vibes. And then this is my, these are my thoughts, you guys. And my thoughts are 100% that even if, like, that they're for sure hooking up, right? It's not platonic. But that she can like, I mean, this is a Hebrew saying, but like, eat him without salt is the saying. Meaning like, she's such a woman. She has three kids. She's been around.

He's a dead. And like, as hot as he is, he's a dead. And it's pretty known. I also talked to, like, girls that dated him. And they were like, oh, my God. Like, very confirmed deadness. And also, like, to me, for you to be really hot, like, your personality has to be attractive. So, yes, when he was on Hannah Brown season, I was like, holy hotness.

But the minute he, like, was like, Hannah, like, Queen Anna. I was just, like, over it. Like, you need to be, like, sexy in more ways than one. But I just feel like, she'll spit him out, you know, she'll be like, okay, great, sex, fun. Like, this isn't the long-term vibes. So that's what I think about that. What was hilarious? Obviously, I am very.

to Austin Butler right now, because not only is he really hot, but he also, like, has this, like, really smoldering, like, way that he talks. I mean, yes, he's still sounding like Elvis. We know. I don't care. Like, these are one of the things, like, I don't care. You know what I mean? The same thing about, like, Harry and Megan. Like, are they doing the most? Yes. But I don't care. Like, I'm still okay with them. So, so about Austin, like, do the Elvis. I don't care. You want to stay in character? Stay in fucking character. What I thought was so hilarious is that Ryan Scott on Instagram reposted. I don't know if it's is a really original post or not.

Maybe it is like a bunch of memes. Austin, Butler, Elvis, Axton is genuine might remain forever. His voice coach said. And then a bunch of memes, just making fun of it. And guess who commented crying on the post? Vanessa, motherfucking hudgeons. Can you? even deal. I know. It's so wild. I kind of love it though. Love the shade. Love the shade. Listen,

there are a lot of rumors there. By the way, if you guys want to get into it, there are rumors that they were together for years upon years. And I want to give it to Vanessa because we were sleeping on Austin. We were like, who's that emo kid with the long hair that's walking around with Vanessa Hudgens? And here she was manifesting the Elvis role. Then he goes and tells that story that it was his friend. If you guys don't know, I'll catch you up real quick. The story is Vanessa told this story to Ryan C. Chris years ago when he started filming Elvis and was like, yeah, I actually manifested it. Like, I always told him that he needs to play Elvis and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Flash forward to Austin being interviewed now and saying like, yeah, my friend, like said it. And he

literally says, my friend, my friend. And it's like, no, you can't say my ex-girlfriend, like my girlfriend at the time, like so fucking weird. Anyway, lots of rumors at the break. up there was very not cordial, very not because of busy schedules. Like, apparently he cheated with Olivia DeGange, his co-star and Elvis, cheated on Vanessa with her. So, and then I think maybe the rumor is cheated on her with Kaya, I think. That's the rumor. But back to Selena for a second. She also posted on Instagram. I like being alone too much. And then hashtag, I'm single. So she's basically disputing the rumors, the rumors that came out that she's dating drew from the chain smokers after they were seen at a bowling alley together, apparently making out, pictures actually

came out of them together at the bowling alley, which was weird. I mean, I guess not that weird because like a bystander could have taken them, but like, how do you get to dating from that fucking photo? And he was just dating Eve Jobs. As of New Year's they were together. So that's fucking wild. Yes, Eve Job is Steve Jobs. daughter, like Steve Jobs, like, may you rest in peace, but it is kind of weird that you named your daughter Eve Jobs. Like, was Steve Jobs a basic bitch? Like, I don't even think like a basic bitch would have done that kind of naming. But Eve Jobs, yeah, she's, she's like dates around in Hollywood. Definitely a Nepo. And they were very much together. His episode on Caller Daddy

came out a while ago. And I was told that he said there that he was dating a new girl. And they've been together I think since September or something. So as of that recording, he was with her. And then now of a sudden, like, articles come out that he's looking at with Selena Gomez, was there overlap? Were they on a break, all a Ross and Rachel? Either way, she was not having it because she deactivated her Instagram. Is that not fucking wild? She ain't happy about it. Another funny thing that happened in Hollywood, Dakota Johnson. Oh, is a queen. How does she do it? She had this mix of like mystery and like just coolness that we could never really get to because we're not mysterious and we're not that cool. But she was at Sundance's opening night and she was talking

about the director of Call Me by Her name, which Army Hammer was in with obviously Timmy Salome and the director is Luca Guadaginino, Guadaganino. And she was talking about him and she made an army hammer joke she was like love that movie like loved call call me by her name uh and then she was like i was actually supposed to be in the movie i was supposed to be the peach but then i would have become another girl army hammer eight can you believe that she fucking said that like how hardcore now part of me like yeah so funny so so so funny part of me is like in our society where we're offended by everything. How have the Karens not come out and been like, that's not funny? I don't know. Have they come out? And I haven't seen it. I don't know. I'm not sure. But good for her for being a

little funny button. Kim Kardashian is like really doing up TikTok, like to the point where I'm like, do I need to get a TikTok? No, she's like on there a lot. It just seems like North is really running the TikTok show. North is like, this is where we have to be. Like, this is what's happening. But the Kardashians have been quiet lately. They've been in their quiet girl eras. Like we're getting, oh my God, we're literally getting nothing. We don't know what's going on. Like usually headlines, like they've had enough of the headlines. Here's my theory. My theory is this. Ready? The last season of the Kardashians, people were kind of disappointed. They were like, oh my God, season one was so good. What's happening with season two? Like,

nothing really happened. Or they showed shit that like, like, we knew. happened in real life already. So why are we rewatching it nine months later? So I'm thinking maybe they're quiet because season three is going to come out and like they got kind of directed to share less on social or like share less via paparazzi so that like there's something left for the show. I feel like that could be it. No? I don't know. What do you guys think? That's kind of my intuition. February is going to be such a cool month for Bravo stuff. I know I've been not as committed to Bravo because I've been on like my yellow sewn shit and all these good like Netflix and Hulu shows come out. But I also have never really been a housewives franchise

girly. But definitely this February, we have summer house, real houses of New Jersey and Vanderpump Rules. Did you see the motherfucking trailer for Van der Pump Rules? If you guys have been around for the beginning, you know, Vanderpump Rules was my fucking shit. Vanderpump Rules was my fucking baby. It was my kind of introduction to like this life. I just love Vanderpumperl so much. it really feels like, like this season is going to be like a throwback to season, like, one. You know what I mean? So I'm super, super, super excited about that. Okay, guys, that's it for today. Love you guys so much. Miss talking to you slash talking to myself and just pretending I hear your guys is like, oh my God, no way. Stop. So crazy. Voices back to me. As always, I'll see you next week.

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