Not Skinny But Not Fat - More Scandoval, Taylor & Joe Split, & JLo's De Lola

Episode Date: April 18, 2023

JLo's got a brand new drink even though she doesn't drink, Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn call it quits, and Tom Sandoval goes on Howie Mandel- oy! We discuss all this and more in a solo this week!   Produced by Dear Media This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Tune in every Tuesday and just feel like you're talking about your best friends in your living room. Hi, friends, I miss you guys so much that I even almost was like, ask me a question for the podcast. And then I realize that I hate when people do that, so I don't do that. It's hard sometimes being such a judgmental person because you judge so many things that you can't. do so many things. You know what I mean? Because then I'm also a person that wants to stay true to myself and not be a fucking flipping hypocrite, which I am 89% of the time. So I'm trying to avoid it the other 11% of the time and not flip. But it gets hard. It gets hard to avoid the millions of things that you hate the people do that you can't do because

you said you hate the people do. Anyway, hi, I truly miss you. That's the other thing. It's like when I started and everyone would be like, you're my internet best friend. And I think it was actually in my bio once, like, you're an internet best friend. And that's how I feel a lot of the time. And then every single person on earth says it can't do that either. So no one has a unique thought. Anyway, solo pod time where I pretend that you guys are able to talk back to me. So what's up, everyone? I just got back from Mexico. It was my first time in Mexico, which is like, hmm, kind of crazy, right? Like, I feel like people go to Mexico all the fucking time, or is that just like what you see on social media? And we've never been. I've never been to Mexico. I haven't

even been to the closer Mexico. This time went to Puerto Vallardam, which is on the west side, so longer flight for us East Coast people, short-ass flight for fucking West Coast people, jealous. This was a brand trip for Nix. They do period underwear among other things, but this was actually a swimsuit trip, which when I got the offer, I was like, influencer trip in Mexico, in bathing suits, in a villa, like, what am I revolve around the world? Like, that's how I felt. I felt like it was not me. And I was like, oh my God, like how. And I was also going to be leaving Noah for, for for a few, for a few good days where I only left him for like one day. So it was a hard debate, but I really love the company and I loved the girls that were coming

on the trip. And I found out the girls were coming on the trip. I was like, oh my God, okay, this is better than revolve around the world. No offense. But, you know, Ashley Graham, Steph Shep, Sarah from the Birds Papaya, is like good people. And everything the company stands for, which is like size inclusivity and just fucking female empowerment anyway and they ended up telling me i can bring my family so i was like hell fucking yeah so you know it was such a great time i have to tell you guys being in a bathing suit

and knowing that your picture is going to be taken and you have no fucking control over it and they're going to shoot up your fucking ass and you're not going to be able to like because well i've never edited a photo in my life i don't even have an editing app but you know obviously i'll post photos that i think my body looks good at that it's from an angle that i approve. I'm never fucking shooting up my asshole. So this was freeing because it was like the whole point of this campaign is unretouched, unrevised, like live, which I fucking love. So many campaigns you like come out six months after and you don't even know what you looked like when you did them. And this was like fucking live. So it was so freeing because I just let go. It was like kind of like, shoot, shoot from here,

shoot from there, shoot from anywhere. It's going on up. And they made me feel so. confident I was like it was the weirdest thing because I'm a confident person as you guys know like yeah I'm confident right but but I'm not confident in my body like I feel like well we all know like bodies are a fucking thing right um Ariana Grande just said it but bodies are a thing like everyone has their own relationship with their body their own issues with their body ups and downs it's a roller coaster. It's a constant struggle to accept, to love, to all the things. So I think I've accepted my body, but it's not to say that I like feel the hottest in a bathing suit and prancing around. It's just, it was a lot to let go of that and just be like, I'm prancing around

like a fricking model in a bathing suit. And I have to say it was so empowering. It just felt so freeing to not give a shit and to feel like I look good. And everyone was making you feel like, I was like, you guys are literally making me feel like the most, the hottest thing in the world. Like I can't take it. Like, because I've never, like, again, as confident as I am, I'm not confident in my body. I never think about my body that way. Like, oh, I have a great, you know what I mean? Like, I really would love to meet the person who does. It's such a hard thing. Like, we have such a complicated relationship with it. But this weekend, I felt fucking good about my body. I was like, okay. like she's a model anyway. I was also very proud. Well, not proud, but just, just I think that as an observer when you see people go on trips and travel all the time, like, I'm always like, wow, you're such a carefree bitch. Like, wish I was you.

And that's why it's important to me to tell you guys, like, no carefreeness here. You know what I mean? Like, things don't come easily, which I know it's like, oh, boo-hoo, you fucking flew to Mexico. Yeah, do you, can you believe that I almost like didn't, though? Like, that I almost was like, uh, like. like I didn't want to leave no one. And I felt like too much to go in this trip with people. I don't know.

And being a place that I was never at with people, I don't know. That was like a huge thing for me. And then I knew that there was like this boat excursion, not a huge like mid deep sea person. And it was like, where are we going to be on the boat? I had so many questions. And it ended up just being. Well, that's the thing with me. I also told you guys this.

Like I always expect the worst and then get the fucking best. Like, you know how I'm shrinking there's that guy that says like everything of his works out for me. So I forget what his philosophy was, but mine is just like, expect the fucking worst. I don't want to change that. Like, not even therapy. I remember my therapist wanted to change it. She's like, we should work on that.

I'm like, how about not? Because it ends up really being nice for me. And it was just so empowering to be around all these women and an amazing brand. And actually, they gave me my period. I was like, oh, great, is this a spell? Because it's period underwear. I came only with thongs, brought nothing with me. had no idea I was getting my period.

It said that it was like nine days away when we left. I got it there and thank God they have fucking leakproof underwear because I needed that shit and leakproof bathing suits. But anyway, so yeah, even on the boat, I remember I went to the bathroom on the boat. That's where you get really like fucked. If you, I don't get seasick, but like just get a little like, woo. So when I went to the bathroom and everything was kind of like moving and rocking, I was like, uh-huh.

It was also funny because the night before we did. the boat excursion, I talked to big game. Everyone was like, I'm not going to jump in, like when we kind of anchor. And I was like, oh, my God, why would you jump in? I'm like, I'm going to jump in. Like, didn't jump in. So it's funny, the founder. I was like, oh, my God, I talked such a big game. She's like, you talked medium game. I like that. You talked medium game. I'm a medium game talking kind of gal. Okay. Oh, Thrive Market. You are my I love you, you guys. I'm going to give you the code first, okay?

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Are you doing the most? Like, by the way, I met her. When I did the Amazon Prime, her movie, Red Carpet, and I can't tell you how many people scared me. When I said I was going to interview J-Lo on the Red Carpet, everyone was like, oh, good luck. Like, oh, what a diva. Like, yeah, she's not nice.

And professionals, too, like, hearing makeup people and everyone. I was like, wow, thank you. I am shaking. And she was actually super cool to me. And if you remember, compliments in my green eyes. And I was like, hmm, done, love her. I could tell that she was a real one. She's not going to, like, up her voice and be like, me, me, but I kind of like that.

She felt real. Remember, she was like, I like shit like that. I was like, yeah. So I'm a fan, but I do think that she doesn't have to do the gazillion things she's doing. Like, are there four J-Lo's? Like, how does she have time? So she has this new drink, DeLola, founded by Jennifer Lola Lopez, which was another thing.

I was like, who calls you Lola? But then we went back and we saw that Mark Anthony used to call her Lola. We were to kind of keep that name. around you've been married seven times and also delola is a cocktail like a like a a a cocktail and she doesn't drink so people were very confused because you can go back to interviews and see that jalo kind of says that the reason she has good skin is not only the olive oil but she also attributes it to not drinking and here she is making a drink she has a drink she has has a paloma, Rosa Sprits, Bella Berry Sprits, Lauren Sprits.

I think they're supposed to be, like, lower in sugar, maybe. I wonder, let's see. It's gluten-free, only 110 calories per serving. I don't want to try it now. But people are noting that it's not on brand and that it goes kind of against what she usually stands for and kind of hypocritical to what she attributes her fucking Botox-less skin, too. okay I could agree

I could agree maybe she should have done like a non-alcohol like Katie Perry's doing a non-alcohol and Katie Perry actually just went in an interview and said that she's been sober for a little bit could be working with her brand though wow Katie Perry gets a lot of shit anyway back to Delola Oh no oh my God you guys am so dumb

Oh my God I'm just realizing no I'm not even joking The Delola the name of the crafted cocktails is de lola like by lola like lola as in jlo that's why she's bringing back the nickname i'm dead i'm dead okay sorry you guys i don't always connect the dots those are the dots downed by jennifer lola lopez and that's why it's called de lola anyway aside from that she did a revolve partnership not too long ago i don't know i know i've been kind of shitting on revolve here i don't know i'm not sure i love everything revolve stands for and not only the revolve fes but like all of it i don't know they give me kind of fry festival vibes in general, but her doing revolve, like influencers and should do

revolve. Like you're J-Lo, you're J-Lo. So she did a roll thing. But then people reminded me, she also has a DSW line. Like, she's Jenny from the block. She does it all. So she is fucking one, she is fucking one busy bitch. She also has a new Netflix movie coming out in May called the mother, which I kind of love. It looks like an enough vibe where she's like hardcore, like saving a kid like all this shit i'm excited thank god there are so many jalo's and i have to say i saw the air movie ben afflick's movie first of all i feel like we've been sleeping on ben afflick like yeah we've been like his dunkin memes and shit but he's kind of funny like first of all he played like the nike founder dude and he was really funny in character also i was really

shocked because i love this movie so much and it had zero like hooking up in it and i usually need some sort of like romance vibe and like it's just wild when there's a movie that's so good but it has no mystery no action no romance and it's just a story it's just a good fucking story with good fucking actors so it's really good you should you should see it but anyway yeah jalo acting like she's poor and doing all these things is really like the thing is if i was like milla rich of how rich he is i would be retired you know what i mean And that's just the thought is like all these people doing all these things when they have already so much money. And it's like, why wouldn't you take a moment and chill out?

I also wanted to discuss for a moment podcast that came out two weeks ago. Sarah Shahi was on the podcast. She was the start of sex life, which is officially now canceled. And that headline came out after our podcast. So Sarah was so cool. She did start following me after her ex-husband was on the pod. I was like, okay, hello. And she was so kind to me. I was like, want to come in the pod? She was like, yeah, I was like, is it weird for your ex-hus was on the pod?

She was like, nope, he's an actor. I get it. I was like, okay. And she was just so open. Like, mind you, she came on the Zoom with pajamas and like full face moisturizers. And she told me the whole thing, which I need to remember. I wrote it down because I was like,

your skin is so good. Like, give us the fucking routine. And she was staying in this like really simple little spot. while she's filming her new show. But anyway, she really opened up kind of about the divorce. She also wanted to clarify the timeline, which I admitted to her that I was confused about and I want a bit, I probably was one of the people that attributed to the conversation. There was an overlap.

I was very sure of it. And then when I was kind of doing research for the pod, I was like, oh, my God, I was screaming everywhere that there was an overlap. However, plain and simple, it says in front of me, like, she and Steve filed for divorce in May 2020 and the filming started September 2020. funny like oh my god so there wasn't an overlap but i still think there's a story there that i would love to get maybe when we have our like billy night and wear sparkles but anyway throughout the interview i could kind of tell that when we talked about sex life she wasn't that excited about it

she talked very emotionally about getting the script and feeling like she's billy which like she fucking was iro and connecting to it but the way she was talking about kind of the ending and the second season i was getting the vibe that she's not into it like she would ask me so what yeah you liked it like you so what do you think like did you and I was like where is you getting and then she finally in the episode said that she didn't truly like it and she even said like listen Netflix isn't going to hire me again but like I didn't really like it I thought it was gimmicky like she basically said like in the first season when like the penises were shown and shit like there was a reason kind of and in the second season I mean I feel like we all chose to ignore like

he fucking inflated his dick with his balls like one of the actors in the and the and show like and she was genuinely upset that she didn't get to act alongside her partner as much as she thought she should and also was super sped up i mean it was only six episodes anyway we could all tell by watching the show that this was a series finale like they wrapped it up tightly in a bow after six episodes it didn't feel like there was going to be a season three anyway and we also knew that sarah had already been hired for a new network show that she was filming while we were podcasting. However, Netflix decided to release the statement to the press that the show has been

canceled right after our interview. So the headlines were after Sarah Shahi Shades, Netflix's Sex Life series is canceled. Oh my God, you guys. I was like, fuck. Like I felt so bad. I kept on making sure with her that. like that she still likes me that everything's okay obviously you know the way it works in podcast i'll anytime i guess would want to take something out cut something out of course that's my main

goal is for the guest to be like happy with the show that they would want to come back like i'm not trying to like but that's what happened and i come to making sure with her and kind of was told that no it was not supposed to come back as we all assumed and that i understood the formal answer that I got was that there was a timeline and this was the time that they were going to announce that it's canceled. But to me, it seemed kind of suss that like they would announce it after her interview that seemed like she was quote unquote shading them or that's how the media was portraying it. So to me, as an observer, I'm like, no, Netflix wanted to have the fucking bottom line. They want to be like, you're going to say this publicly. We're going to make it

seem like you lost your job because you talked shit. I don't know. That's how it seemed like to me. I mean, the day of the interview and the day after all these headlines come out about things she said about the show. And I mean, also about her divorce and stuff, by the way, I wonder like how Steve feels, just wondering. But I was like, should I like tell Steve? Like, I get so weird, you guys. I get so invested. Like, I'm like, should I like tell Steve that Sarah's coming on? Like, see if he's okay with that. It's like, he doesn't give a fuck about you. And like it's business like quote unquote but I get like invested like this is life to me so anyway that that's what I think I think that it's not a fucking coincidence and also that the media

is just a prime example of the media like kind of twisting headlines and making it seem like it was canceled because of shit that she said and if I wasn't kind of part of this that's what I would assume would be like oh my god this actress talked shit and this but no like that's not that's not what happened another big piece of news that happened in the last few weeks was that Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn broke up, which again, to me is like, who told the press? Like, did Taylor's team tell the press? Why did Taylor's team tell the press? Like, who was the source? Like, these are the things I want to know now because how did it get out? Like, their relationship is so super private. That's what I was asking kind of Swifties, like,

that were not well when this broke. Like, they were like, love is dead. And I'm like, wait. So, like, happy she's happy. Happy she was happy. And, they were obviously doing well. They were dating for years. But like, what did you guys know about them that made you so obsessed? Like, we didn't really get any taste of their relationship. And the Swifty's answer was kind of like just that you saw like how happy she was and the music she wrote and blah, blah, blah. But we got nothing from him aside from Sean Mendez getting caught in the lie detector saying that he gives that, remember he was like, they were like, do you like him? And he's like, yeah. And they're like lying. And he was like, well, I guess he does give villain vibes. But no one kind of really, like, knew what he's about. There were rumors that they were married or whatever, but apparently they're broken up and we didn't really get a real reason. But listen, Taylor on the prowl, Taylor is single. I'm into like these young girls being single.

You know what I mean? Seeing as I was a child bride. Just kidding. Married a 27 does feel like a child bride, though. Another couple that seems to be going strong, though, is Pete Davidson and Chase Suey, which I actually am really into, and I know some people think that I hate on Pete sometimes. And for people that didn't think that or didn't catch that vibe for me, the main thing, the reason why it might seem like I'm hating, which I don't hate him

at all, is just because I have this like feeling that's screaming inside of me that he's not exactly what he puts out. Doesn't mean he's not a good guy. Doesn't mean he's not a good boyfriend. doesn't mean he's not a good son, none of that. It just means that I have a feeling that he wants to be really famous and that's his play and that he makes it seem in all these ways that he's like, no cameras. That's my thing. That's the only thing I think of Pete. But anyway, I'm kind of into this relationship for him.

He played alongside Chasen, bodies, bodies, bodies. And now they're dating and she's like age apropes. She's, I feel like fame approbes. Like he's not, she's not Mariah Carey. he's dating like a young actress a young up-and-coming actress it just feels right i feel like this is good for him he doesn't need to date these like fucking mega famous people i like it for him recently he was seen visiting bedford where martha stewart lives and actually i thought that we were on to something because martha tagged him she loves she's like fucking katelyn jenner she's like let me tell you who

was here let me show you let me spell the tea and you can't get mad of me i'm literally 100. So, which like gold. Did you guys see she was on this like panel and she was drinking a margarita out of a measuring cup like fucking gold. Also want to move to Bedford. Apparently all the celebs live there. It's like upstate New York. It seems like a vibe. And she tagged the real estate agent like muffin something in that post and I was like, oh my God, our Chase and Pete looking to like buy a place. And then I was told that like no, Martha just like hangs out with her. but Martha did say that she was giving them kind of a tour so I'm like maybe they do want to buy a place maybe he's finally leaving his his mom's basement but anyway his new show bubkus is coming out soon

I believe in May on peacock and it's about his life again we got a little tease teaser about it it's really about his life and I'm like wasn't king of sand island about his life like damn like he's this young kid he's not even 30 all this shit made about his life as if like, I don't know, I don't know, just saying. Also, he's going to host SNL soon, which is really cool and a really big deal. Like, I just, I don't know, I feel like he got very lucky. Do you know what I mean? Like, he's coming back to host SNL.

He worked there for a while. I kind of heard a lot of different stories. I mean, that he wasn't the easiest to work with. But Lauren kind of is obsessed with him, obviously. And they're bringing him back to host. And he also just recently said, and he actually went on a couple podcasts. and not mine, as per my April Fool's. And he said a few things.

One of the things he said was like, I don't understand my people are so fascinated with my dating life. Like, I only dated 10 people in 12 years or 12 people in 10 years. And it's like, dude, it's not how many people you date it's like fucking women you date it. Like, are you being funny right now?

And that he was like kind of upset that on SNL he would be like part of the joke when he was working there. It's like, yeah, dude, you became part of the joke because SNL makes fun of like celebrities. and you're a celebrity now. Like, you wanted to be a celebrity. So, like, now you're a celebrity. We all made, you know, a New Year's resolution at some point, at some time that, you know,

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have with him. But I'm still like into him like everyone else. Okay. I still see the BDE. Like don't you worry. Another thing that really sparked my interest. First of all, I don't know about you, but I follow Eva Mendez on Instagram. She's an interesting little one. I feel like I posted this before. I was like, what is her style? She wears these like floral dresses. She has her own thing going on. She has her own thing going on and I'm interested in it and not just her sponge company, but like her own vibe. Like she's always in these sunflower sun, what do you call it? Sun dresses like chiffon sundresses. Her Instagram presence is interesting and we kind of forget that she was, that she's married to Ryan Glassling and has babies with him. And then

she kind of posted this throwback of them from the movie that they were in. It's called the place between the pines or something a place beyond the pines they're super hot in it and someone wrote like oh my god that's so amazing like something like would love to see you guys together on a red carpet or and she was like listen i have no problem posting old stuff of us that's already out but like you're not going to get new stuff we're super private i know you're going to try to prove me wrong and find like places i did do red carpets with them but those were two times here were the times. That won't happen again. We keep this very private. We don't make appearances together. And I'm like, why though? Like, I don't get it. I don't get it. Like, do you? And I get it. You're

married to, because the parent allegedly they're married. Yeah, one of the most famous is in the world that maybe she doesn't want like a Justin Bieber situation on her hand. Like, maybe she doesn't want people being like, he should be with Rachel McAdams from the notebook. Like, maybe that's why I'm trying to think somebody wrote Eva I want to be honest with you I really hope Barbie will get through the award season just to see you with Ryan and then she said you're the best what a cool moment thank you but we don't do those things together like these photos I've been posting I'm only comfortable posting because it's already out there then she said oh wait for those who may catch me in a lie we only were on the red carpet together once when

promoting this film she said by not comfortable I mean exposing our very, very private life that we value. I'm still dying to do another movie with him, though. I don't know. I'm just like wondering. By the way, they didn't meet on the set of that movie they met before. But yeah, it is an interesting kind of thing because it's like, it's not like you just started dating, like you're married, you have kids.

I wonder like what, I mean, she explained it. I'm like, I wonder, she won't tell it. She just said, like, she wants to keep their lives private, but like, why wouldn't you want to have, like, photos together on a carpet? and maybe they don't want like the chatter like they don't want the chatter of how are they standing like what are they doing they're cute they're not cute like he should be with rachel i mean i'm guilty of throwing it back to the vm a words when he held rachel on his hip oh my god but yeah that was a weird i just feel like it's a little odd i feel like there might be like a peculiar vibe there and

i wonder what it is and yeah i know that i'm in the minority opinion that i'm like kind of like you guys, what the hell with this Bart movie? Like, we're all acting like it's the best movie ever and we're all acting like just obsessed already and not to say that I don't get like really obsessed with things, but I'm just like, you guys, can we wait and lower expectations please? Because like, why did you decide this is going to be the best thing in the world? I don't know. I don't know.

I'm not on the bandwagon just yet. Another development in the Haley Bieber, Selena Gomez. drums, which, like, I do feel strongly about, I know I get fucking, and I get shit for it. Like, Haley, by the way, let me fucking tell you something. Haley doesn't fucking care about me, okay? The Kardashians, people think that I'm like, oh, you're a dream Haley because the Kardashians. They don't fucking care what I say about Haley. Like, what is it?

No, this is my strong-ass internal feeling that I'm screaming because no one else is saying it. and everyone's like team Selena and I'm kind of like okay that's fine but like poor Haley sorry that's how you feel I feel like she's getting so much it I feel like wow it is dangerous the amount of bullying this girl went through on the internet and I don't think that Selena went through the same amount of bullying at fucking all and I think that it's wild that people are still holding on to this like teenage relationship that doesn't exist anymore now there are new conspiracies going around that like Haley forced us and to marry her through Hillsong and like all the shit. Whatever. Anyway, Haley did come out with a new, like the way she has her bathroom show,

who's in my bathroom, that again, doesn't make sense to me. Like, why are you in a bathroom? It's a bathroom set. Why are you eating in a bathroom? I don't even vibe with it. I don't even think she's like, she's kind and sweet and has a lot of famous guests, but like, I'm not sure that's her winning ticket as being a YouTube personality. But she did a who's in my kitchen now. And she did cook with like her mom and grandma and like Selena does have. have the show Home Chef in HBO Max, where she also cooks with, like, her family. And yes, it's very similar.

I want to yell and shake Haley. Why, Haley? You know what they're going to say. You know what they're going to say. They're going to fucking come for you. They're going to say they're copying her. What are you doing? Where is your head? So everyone's like, well, not everyone, but saying like,

oh my God, she came out with this show. She's crazy. She's a stalker. Like, she's trying to be Selena. She got Selena's tattoos. She got her fucking whatever. And it's like, Okay, no, but I do recognize that it's a bad play. Like, where is her team? Where is a discussion to be like, I'm not going to do something that she did. Like, that is literally putting me in war zone.

Like, I'm not as fucking trained as her, right? Like, and I would be like, guys, no, I'm not fucking doing that. That's going to look fucked up. I'd rather do an extreme sports show and jump out of airplanes than do a show that is something that his ex did. that we know what's going to come of it. That's my issue. That's my issue. Not that like she's copying her because like so many people do cooking shows.

And she could have started it before or whatever. But I would put a full stop to it because of what people can say. Like full fucking stop. So that's my thing. That's my thing. Where's her team? Why are you doing this thing that you know is going to cause this shit? like just be a little smarter that's my that's my issue also guys i'm having daisy jones withdrawals

like and when i tell first of all here's the thing about my anxiety i don't like using the word anxiety lately and i know it's easy to like use it and be like oh i was so anxious or so i try to use it really when i mean it and i'm telling you guys so when i have legit panic attacks legit panic attacks where i think i'm like gonna faint have to lay down whatever i put on daisy Jones. Okay. Oh, you can make a good thing bad. I don't know. What's wrong with me? Obsessed with the show, highlighted the show to the world. And I'm dying to get one of them on my show. It hasn't worked yet. And I'm really upset about it. So I'll give you guys posted on that. I'm putting it out in the world, putting out in the stars. And I really also want to know,

I'm like, keep me in the loop. Like, what are you up to? Is it? Is this a tour? Oh, Coachella is now, right? Is it going to be Coachella? Where is it going to be? Who's going to be? Let me know. I'm your biggest fan.

I got Zach Rapp to watch. I got so many people to watch. Give me Riley. Yeah, I'm hurt. I'm butt hurt. I'm kind of butt hurt because it's like I get obsessed with things to the point of really, like on wellness. I get you guys obsessed with things as well.

And I want more. I want to be like more. I'm like put me in. coach. Put me in coach. Anyway, I really hope that we'll be able to get someone on the show at some point maybe before season two. Maybe in 2007, I'll take it whenever you can. I'll take it. I will tell you this though. I haven't had a show and I know talk about a lot of shows that has really stayed with me. The music has stayed with me. The actors have stayed with me. And by actors, I mean Riley. I mean, Riley, you're a fucking star. Like, you're a star. Like, you don't see that kind of star power a lot,

I feel like when a person just like she fucking didn't know how to sing before like didn't never sang and she's just such a fucking talent that I'm like you need to keep going like whatever you do keep going and Camilla who's

like we thought she was Leonardo Caprio's girlfriend just super gorgeous is then also of an amazing fucking actress like hello anyway I fucking love it I need to know your guys's obsession though with Chase Stokes from Outer Banks land because I don't get it. I do not get it. I don't get it. What do you see that I don't see? Was it the character on the, when Johnny Boy, whatever his name was, that I need to know. He, I mean, listen, him and Kelsey Billerini are super cute. I told you guys I saw them when I was at the Rangers game and they were super cute. I love if people were like, are they PR? By the way, let's talk about this PR thing. I will almost never think something's PR.

And that goes, oh, that goes in my next topic. I will almost never think something's PR. Like, I am naive at my core. I am innocent. I love watching reality TV and not thinking about the cameras. Like, I don't want to think that anything is done, not honestly. So I'll never think a couple as a PR couple, even though I was told by industry people that like, fucking Nick Jonas and Priyanka aren't real.

I'm like, don't believe you. They're fucking married and have a baby. Like, they're in love. Goodbye. Why do people not like her? People have a thing with her. And with Sean Mendez and Camilla, so many people, so many times are like, Amanda, are you fucking kidding?

People think that he doesn't like women. I'm like, you know what? Here's my thing. I would never like out a person or would never force someone to out themselves, would never assume something about someone's sexuality without them saying it, just like we're not going to assume people are pregnant without them saying it. And it's like, fucking what? Fucking what?

That he, like, talks gently? You know what I mean? Like, him and Camilla were so fucking cute for so long. He was broken when they broke up, like, unwell. And now they were seen making out a Coachella. I fucking love it. And then people be like, P.R. stunt. I'm like, what?

You think people for years upon years would do PR? Here's a PR stunt I can get behind. Emerada calling the Papps on her date with Pete. that is a, she really is going on the date with P. But could she have tipped off the Papps to get a cute little pick? But I don't think that means they didn't hook up or didn't date. Do you get what I mean? So I'm not a PR stunt girly.

I take it. I take the truth. I take what's presented. And I believe it and I love it. So I ship Shammila and I hope that it was more than just a hooking up with your X thing at Coachella, which I'm sure a lot of people do. And by the way, thank you Instagram algorithm because they have not show me Coachella stuff because I don't want to see

Coachella stuff and I don't think I will ever flip on Gocella because I'm not a festival girly and I don't like it. I don't like it. Okay? But I do like seeing Shamila hook up at Coachella. And I would love to see if Daisy Jones did

perform there. And I would be very upset that I wasn't put in the loop. Anyway, you guys, Scandival is scandavalling Raquel released a statement that it's so funny it's like Raquel's PR like two minutes ago

she was James's ex-fiance that no one cared about that didn't know how to like literally speak and now it's like Raquel's PR team it's like holy fuck what is life so they said that she's checking into a mental health facility and then people were saying

and I don't know where these people got their information but that it's actually checking into Mirval which is apparently more of like a spa and that Sandy is joining her and that it's all bullshit. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know what's real with that. I will say, watching Vanderpump and seeing all the signs and knowing that they had already had sex at this point. And seeing all of it, I'm like, no, this is socio. This is socio. This isn't, oh, oops, I hooked up.

This is like an affair. This is lying all the time. This is sitting with Ariana. By the way, I heard that on the series finale, on the season finale, or towards the end, Ariana has a conversation with Raquel, where she, like, is talking about how she is worried, Sandy's cheating on her. And apparently Raquel looks her in the eye and says, whatever, like, happens, I'm there for you. Fucking hell. Are you kidding me? This is beyond, this is beyond, like, anything.

This is beyond anything. And it's so gross to watch and so crazy to watch that Ariana is sitting there. While Tom Sandoval is being like, Raquel, Raquel, and I think smacking her on the bum, just fucking wild. Anyway, okay, guys, love you. It was good catching up with you. And damn, I'm just, the Vanderpump thing really gets me. It gets me. It gets me.

But you know what? Ariana is living life. She's the hottest fucking thing right now. She's a hot commodity right now, and that's what we have to focus on. Yes, they're fucking gross, but she's living and she could be stuck watching Tom Sandoval and the most extras. Oh my God, his fucking podcast with Howie Mandel that I listened to on the plane for you people, where he, where he literally, I feel like the most repeated line of his was like, yeah, we did it for the optics. Like trying to make it sound like this 10-year relationship with Ariana was for press. That's what he tried to make it seem like, yeah, you know, things weren't good, but like we went on appearances and wanted to keep it up for our brand, like our brand. We had brand deals and optics. And I'm like, are you okay? And then he would throw in and like he would throw in like, and of course what I did was horrible. But he has no remorse. He has no remorse. I feel like he was kind of saying they weren't good. She made him feel like he was stupid and and she wasn't into him. And I could see that, right? Like you could see her.

already rolling her eyes at him on the show. Like, he's annoying. He's cringe. But, you know, that's literally no excuse. And him saying that he tried to break up with her, but she wouldn't let him. Like, are you trying to make this girl look fucking stupid? Like, she was like, no, don't leave me. Don't leave me, Sandy.

That's what he's saying. Together for the optics, she tried to break up with her, but she wouldn't let him. she turned a blind eye he was like there was no way she couldn't have known she turned a blind eye so this guy this is not remorseful this is not a remorseful guy this is a guy

that is trying to get people to understand his actions and excuse his actions and like that just ain't gonna work buddy and you know what I'm team kind of like well Howie Mandel kind of said this but that's kind of like crazy he went in the podcast that like doesn't know the show

but Howie Madel was kind of like so you cheated like people cheat and like it's the deal, but it's not like the hugest deal. So I can get that vibe, which is like, whoa, how did we make this a fucking universal crazy scandal? We're in like, people cheat all the time. How is this? How is this on CNN?

And there's just something extra nasty about this, but still at the end of the day, it's cheating. And he's not going to go to jail. And he's not going to be like canceled. I mean, kind of has canceled. But you know what I mean? And he shouldn't like have his life over because he cheated. You know what I mean? You know what else is wild guys?

and I know you guys think that Lala's like a hypocrite a lot of you because she was like the mistress and whatever, but she fucking knew. She kept insane. Raquel gives me this kind of vibe. She gives me the girl that goes with Randall kind of vibe. And I'm like, damn, is Lala psychic? Also, I'm terrified of her.

Like, she's always nice to me, but like, I would never want to piss her off. So, like, you guys saying, like, you know, that she's a hypocrite and shit, like, she'll just say back to you that, like, she didn't know and she was being lied to that she wasn't. Anyway, you want to keep talking about it? We'll talk about it.

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