Not Skinny But Not Fat - Shocking Celeb Divorces!!

Episode Date: July 25, 2023

It’s time for a little solo !! So much to discuss from shocking celeb breakups to even more shocking reconciliations! I also talk about VPR season 11 filming, the Barbie movie marketing and more!Produced by Dear MediaThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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This is wild. I haven't done a solo pod. And too freaking long. I have missed you guys so much. And I just want to hug you all and kiss you all and... overshare. But, you know, there's too much to talk about. It always happens in when I record a solo pod. There's like a reason to record a solo pod, you know, because there's too much going on. And we need to discuss. First of all, I just want to tell you guys, I am back home. I was away

in Israel for like three weeks. And I missed home. I mean, I missed home. I miss my routine. When you get older, you miss your routine. You know what I mean? You miss your bed. And as much fun as we had, it's like, what do they say about traveling with kids? It's a trip. It's not. a vacation. It's true. It's like every day is still like, so what do we do to entertain Noah? So that's a vacation. What can you do? That's the time away. It's what does Noah do during the day? What do we make happen for Noah? How is he entertained and not too crazy all day in different locations? So that was what's up. So you know what I realized today guys? As I was filming an ad, like I am such a fucking shit influencer. I don't even have a range. I don't even have a

light. I don't even have a phone stand. Okay. I, for the first time in my life today, realize like, oh, wait, my vanity or whatever or my fucking IKEA dresser where I like lean my phone on something, I'm like, that is not even the good direction of the light. Like, this is shit influencers think about. Like, where's the good light? Or not even the good light. Where's the light? I'm filming myself with the sun coming in from my back to fucking scene. And it's like, get a fucking clue. Like, what are you doing? Anyway, let's just start with something to hold my phone.

So I don't have to lean it on a perfume that's going to freaking break. There's so much to discuss, guys. I don't know where to start. Just another personal thing. I just wanted to say, I really, one of my biggest pet peeves, you guys ask me all the time, the number one question is what's your biggest red peeve? And it's when people misuse words, but most. Mostly, my number one is, because I feel like a cute misuse of a word could be cute.

You know what I mean? Like, okay, here's one I love. And this girl I met years ago, actually in Israel, said it. She would be like, that girl is so ambitious. But she didn't mean like career-wise. She meant like, let's say that girl hit on her boyfriend. That's actually the context she used it in. She used it as like she was dating this like hot guy, it's like actor hot guy.

And she was like, and then this girl who wasn't even that great looking, whatever, tried to like hit on him and she's like how ambitious and I was like oh my god I love using that word like out of context so what I'm saying is I actually like use of words misuse of words I don't like the misuse of the word anxiety my anxiety is so bodily like manifest itself in physical in physical ways so like I don't need to hear you being like I'm so anxious I have to back today like are you is your heart beating out of your chest are do you feel like you're going to faint? Like, is your stomach, like, turning?

Are you going to throw up? Do you have to lay down? Or are you just annoyed you have to pack? You know what I mean? So, like, I don't appreciate the use of anxiety, the misuse of the word anxiety. And I know that, like, when I'll even triple think using it myself sometimes out of context where I'm like, bitch, you fucking have anxiety.

How are you going to be like, I'm so anxious about this when like you don't mean that type of anxiety. So I just feel like there needs to be another word, you know, like when you're just, like, freaking out about something or, like, you're overwhelmed with something because, like, anxiety is in a disorder and a mental health condition in which, like, you have physical symptoms and what affects your body really negatively. And I just fucking hate when you're like, I'm so anxious about this or like the anxiety I get from like watching Che on fucking just like that. No. No. anyway, let me know if you agree with me. Let's start from the back. Let's start from the back. Let's start from the back.

I see, this is what happens, you guys. Don't think I'm dumb. When you're bilingual, you fucking mix languages up and translate and whatever. Oh my God. We didn't talk about my cover show on and Israel. First of all, let's talk about the fact that I am so much cooler in Hebrew. So I might need to just like, let's say that's all the podcast. See? How cool. She sounds like she smokes weed. She sounds like she's a good hang. And then in English, I don't know what I become. It's like, oh, my God, see?

It's like the inflection. I don't have that in Hebrew. In Hebrew, it's like more like, blah, blah, blah. Oh my God, if you guys heard when I shared that voice note that I got from a British follower who imitated my Hebrew accent and the way speaking English, die, died. Listen, when you get an unsolicited voice note, I'm like, oh, my God, I must listen to this. Like, and it didn't disappoint. Anyway, it was so cool. They asked me to be on the cover of a really leading entertainment magazine that I used to be obsessed with and, and still get my news from there as

well. When they asked me, I was like, this is so cool. Like, first of all, it's so cool that every time I go, there's like something that I'm able to do there that I'm like, wow, thank you so much for recognizing what I do here. And the fact that I have like an audience there and the fact that, I don't know, it's just so super cool. But being on the cover was really special. I haven't been on any cover of any magazines here. So, and I have to be honest, I was, I had low expectations. I was like, okay, I've been to so many cool things here and had such great hair and makeup people and great styling and whatever.

And it's like, can they compare? Like, I just, my expectations were low. And lo and behold, it was the best photo shoot I ever had, the best photos that I've, you know, the best, the best, the clothes I felt the best in. the hair and makeup was freaking felt great and the photos came out i mean literally so happy with them i don't think i've had photos that look that good and a lot of you guys agreed so whoa whoa chica whoa guess america isn't at the top of abilities with things like that i mean it was so it was very israeli in the sense that i showed up at the photographer's house it was like

literally just i was like oh my god am i going to get killed here and then you know i walk up it's like his cool apartment but like very like very dingy and then he like put up a sheet by himself i was like oh my god he's hammering a sheet into his wall but you can't see that in the photos anyway so that was a super cool experience i mean it's it's just very cool to be able to do things here and do things there which is like a you know a second home to me anyway lots is going on mostly what's at the top of my mind right now is vanderpump rule season 11 is filming as we know. It's been circulated that Raquel is playing hardball with her contract because obviously

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I got cheated on. The world is coming behind me and gathering. I don't know if this is going to stay, how long this is going to stick. She said, I'm going to take every freaking deal and make my mills, help my family. Like, do what I got to do. Anyway, Sandoval is back filming. They're currently, as I'm recording this, they did a

cast trip to Lake Tahoe where Lisa Vanderpump opened a new spot. So that's what the filming is. And listen, Sandoval is there. Ariana doesn't seem to be there. Katie doesn't seem to be there. People are wondering if that's because of this,

something about her opening. I'm wondering if it's just a situation that the Tom's are there. But seeing the cast kind of record about filming, which I kind of like breaking the fourth wall, but Lala was like, oh my God, we're here. And like everyone's in couples, the Tom, the this. And like, then a story Sheena posted, they're walking. You hear Tom Sandoval in the background talking to someone. Like, he's part of the crew. And I know that I'm in the minority opinion, but like Andy Cohen said that on my podcast too. Like we were pro Sandoval. coming back to film. Listen, all of this drama that we had in our lives and all of this great juice has been because of Scandival. So don't pretend to hate it because you fucking loved it.

And it doesn't make you that awful of a person, okay? Because they're all thriving from it. So don't feel that bad. It was an awful thing he did, but the dude cheated and lied and whatever. And so many people do it. And especially on reality TV, no one's virtuous on that show. Katie herself will say that. Okay. So the first that came to mind, I'm like, okay, if they're allowing Sandoval to be in their company and not throwing up at his name anymore and blah, blah, blah, I hope they will do the same to Raquel, the other woman, which is she okay? But then what fucking made everything go dark for me is I see a post. Graham, the dog, seems to be with James right now. And James posted, Graham is back with me where he should be. I didn't think of it. Or none of us really thought.

of it as like something dramatic happened. And then reports started to swirl in that Raquel dropped off Graham at like a shelter because he was like fighting or something. So here's a scoop, you guys. I got the scoop. Here's the scoop. It wasn't Raquel. It was her family, which like shows a lot about where she comes from.

And also James has said negative things about her family. They're probably true because listen, fuck with people. Okay. Fuck with dogs. You're an awful fucking human. So apparently the family dropped Graham off at like a shelter and like they didn't have like room for him or something. So they called Lisa Vanderpump who was like, of course I'll fucking take the dog and not have, I don't know, the shelter and not have room for him. And you know what happens when a shelter doesn't have room for a dog.

This is a golden doodle. Okay. What are you doing? So like Raquel's not okay. The dog is with her family. The family gives up the dog. They call Lisa Vanderpump. Lisa Vanderpump.

I guess gives it to James. There is no world in which this isn't a storyline on the show. And if this is a storyline on the show, Raquel will have to not only move, but like bury herself alive. How is this woman going to go through life if this is a storyline on the show? First of all, I'm happy the dog is okay.

That's first priority. Disgusting the family would do that. Fucking give the dog up. He has like a biting problem. I'm sure he wasn't ravaging people alive. But, oh my God. It's just such a shocking story. I'm thinking if this is on the show. Oh my God. Also, why didn't his, her family call James

fucking the guy who loves this dog and wanted to be with this dog. What's wrong with that fucking family? But anyway, I don't see how now she would agree to come back if this is the storyline because she'll look bad again. You know what I mean? I don't know. You guys, this is, it's just too crazy and it's too messy. But, listen, Listen, season 11 needs to come. Needs to come and needs to come soon. This cannot take a year because God knows what's going to happen until it comes out. It's just wild.

Apparently, Raquel is still hold up in Arizona. And listen, Sheena got upset that people were thinking that she forgave Tom Sandoval because there was a photo that came out of the cast. They apparently took it for this girl's birthday with this fan. And Sheena was standing next to Tom and it looked like she had her hand around him. people were freaking out and then sheena had to go on her story and she was just like oh my god you guys we took a picture calm down and you know what this is what i think and i love sheena is like you kind of made this bed right she did every single podcast episode she did since the scandal

was about how much she hates fucking tom and she made this her fucking personality and livelihood and everything so it's like of course not only is it a big deal stand alone, but it's a big deal having to do with you, even though you're not specifically in the situation, because you made it that. But then Lana and Tina, come on. They're like, you guys, it's a show, like, whatever, blah, blah, blah, blah. And it's like, okay, first of all, love the fourth wall breaking. They're basically telling us we're filming. We have to film with him. But then again, it's like, would she stand next to Raquel? You know what I mean? Is there a double freaking standard? That is, that is the question. But I kind of love the breaking of the fourth wall.

kind of love that they're like going on stories as they're filming we used to not even know if they're filming now it's like hey guys we're filming and and now it's like we're filming our show banner pump rules nominate for an Emmy you know what I mean it's just a lot you guys so much shit happened Jordan and Kylie rekindled their friendship they were seen going to eat at sushi park yes that's a strip mall sushi that I once saw and was like, oh my God, you guys, who eats a strip mall sushi is? And then everyone was like, literally Justin Bieber and Haley, because that's the fanciest best sushi in L.A. And I remember I was like, okay, okay, who would have thought? Only in L.A. Anyway, they went to Sushi Park and their

friendship is back. Listen, I'm D. I'm D. I'm D with it. I'm D with forgiveness. Look at me. I'm such a nice gal. I really am D with forgiveness. We don't know the story there. If they forgave Tristan, they can forgive Jordan and who knows what situation she was in, what condition she was in if she was drunk, if she was high, she was fucked up, how he came on to her, what she thought about where Chloe interests and Sam...

Like, it's fucked up, don't get me wrong, but she was also like a kid. And you know what? I'm really a big believer in everything in life happens for a reason and like she was living in the shadow someone else's dream. And she was such a good friend, right? She was in the King Kylie.

Tara, she was just like all about Kylie. And Kylie was just like, here, Jordan, here's a car. Here's like a makeup day for you. And now she's her own woman. She got brand deals after that. She got a boyfriend, really Q1, Carl Towns. He seems like a gem of a human. So I feel like it's so much better to come back to this friendship for her when she's her own woman and she's no longer Jordan living in the shadow. Do I sound exactly like Ashley Simpson? Like if she could be a singer, I could be a singer. Let's be real. She was the love of my life, by the way. Love of my life. So I'm happy for them. I'm excited to see where this is going to go. I'm excited to see if it's going to be filmed for the show. Kylie has been more of a vibe on the Kardashians this season. She's giving. Maybe she's

getting that Timmy D. That Timmy D. Because I don't know, she's like a little funny. She's like winking. She has like snarky moments. Or maybe that's Kylie and we just never get to see. It only get to see her like butt on Instagram. I want to discuss Taylor, wait for it, Lautner. Hell to the note. You're going to tell us after 20 fucking years. Your name is not Taylor Lautner.

It's Lautner. And now like you're Taylor and Taylor Lautner because you're married to it, Taylor. No, no, no, no, no, no. Sorry, babe. But I will say, even though he's kind of, I feel like people are so intimate. And I'm like, I don't understand why you're everywhere.

I don't understand why you're everywhere. Jacob. Like, love Twilight, you guys, by the way, I was a Twilight girlie to the point that I thought I was a vampire. I was so into the books and the movies that I would, like, literally wake up being like, blood. Like, literally, that's how influence of a person I am. I was literally like, I'm hungry for blood. I was so obsessed. But it's like, okay, team Edward or team Jacob aside. Like, he doesn't have it. Sorry, guys. He doesn't have the it factor of like a celebrity that walks in and lights up a room. He doesn't have that star quality that a lot of celebs have. So it's like, what? He came back with like a podcast with this wife Taylor that's also a little

vanilla. It's like, I'm sure they're so nice, right? They're so nice. They're so nice. That doesn't mean they're cool. And I learned this lesson. I was talking to a friend and I was like, oh, like, who's coming? And she was like, oh, so and so, so and so and so. And I was like, oh, okay, they're nice. They're cool. She's like, are they cool? And I was like, oh, my God. Another Missy you said the word. No, they're not cool. They're nice. They're really fucking nice, but they're not cool. So, like, what's cool? Like a cool person that you'd be like, oh my God, I want to hang out with that person. They're so cool. Anyway, don't think the Lautner's are cool, but Taylor is everywhere and he's getting his moment. He's doing podcast.

He did Taylor Swift's show. She brought him out. They dated. I mean, I feel like that's just like such an important chapter of Taylor Lautner's book is like he dated Taylor Swift. Okay. dated Taylor Swift. I mean, him, John Mayer, Jake Gyllenhaal. Like, that's a really good company to be in. And it's really nice that Taylor Swift was able to stay cool with an ex. You know what I mean? But you know what? He says he was never worried about introducing his wife to Taylor Swift. And listen, he was, he was the inspo of back to December. And he is living for it. I didn't really get that like Spider-Man thing that they, did you guys, but, you know, they're really into Taylor Swift and good for them. Good for the Loudner's. Good for the Loudner's. I just don't get why he's everywhere lately, but he was also in Taylor Swift's music video for I can see you with Joey King. So that's really cool. I mean, listen, moral of the story, it's nice that there can be friendly exes and especially the Taylor Swift can have a friendly ex, but I really don't get, you know, what's happening with Taylor Lautner lately.

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cute for, what's his name, Tarek El Mousa or aunt, aunt, because Aunt also dated Tarek's ex, Christina. But this is cute. I mean, not dated. They were married. She was Christina Anstead now. But anyway, Anne Anstead is a vibe. His kids are cute. And Renee, is there. And listen, she's Renee. She looks just like Renee. Why did we make such a big deal and act like she was like not looking like Renee? I just don't freaking get it. I am so excited that the episode came where each and every makes an appearance because I love each and every deodorant so much and I've been using it. And you know, it's so funny. I saw a meme that was like, girls, it's 95,000 degrees outside. It's 89 gazillion humidity. Like ditch the natural deodorant. You need the aluminum.

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guys send me stuff that this person is always against the woman. And you guys are like, look what she's saying. And I'm like, yeah, of course, he's going to be fucking against the woman. She's always against the woman. Like, she hates all women. So that's not my vibe at all. And my first instinct will always be loyalty to the woman, understanding, compassion, and that. And of course, then two things can be true. Sarah Brady could be telling the truth about Jonah Hill and he was really toxic and he was really narcissistic and manipulative and controlling.

But Sarah Brady could also be looking for. for a moment of fame. Sarah Brady could be looking to get some Instagram followers. Sarah Brady could be happy about the influx of followers from sharing this. You know? So I'm saying two things can be true. It's not like altruistic that she's

sharing this and like just looking out for the next woman. Like she wanted to take him down. But that doesn't mean that it's not true. You know what I mean? So Sarah Brady's text, I feel like we're more incriminating. I mean, you know, Jonah didn't want her in a bathing suit. He didn't want her surfing

with men. He didn't want her. And I was so surprised at how many women DM me and said he's setting boundaries. Like, what's the deal? I was like, okay. And now listen, I have a husband who's also like everything is he's the most understanding, amazing, supportive until it comes to like other men. Like if I'm hanging out with another man and like I'll put my arm on him or something, he'll get jealous. Like still 12 years later. It's like funny at this point. But like thankfully for him, I don't hang out with a lot. of straight people, straight men. But yeah, there are men that are more jealous. So I'm a little bit, maybe I can be a little bit more understanding of it.

Do I hope he wasn't jealous at all? I don't know. I don't know. It might be a little nice to have that. But Jonah's were pretty extreme. I mean, the girl's a surfer. I mean, she can't be in a fucking bathing suit. That is weird.

But I think her point, maybe we weren't fully getting it. Like, what are you trying to say? He does seem controlling. And he does seem like, trying to make her a small fucking woman that has to listen to his fucking rules, which is gross. But I understand people saying, why is she posting it? But here's the other thing.

I don't think Jonah Hill is going to be canceled. I don't think Jonah Hill won't get hired in the next Martin Scorsese phone because of this. This isn't about cancellation, even though maybe she, that's what she was trying to do. The only thing I could probably do is have women not want to date him, but he has a new woman. He has a baby. So anyway, BB Rexa shared a text. from her boyfriend saying, hey, I never said you weren't beautiful and I never said I didn't love you. In fact, I said how beautiful you are and how much I loved you. But I always said I would be

honest with you. And your face was changing. So I told you it was. That was the conversation we were having. And you asked because I care, would you rather I lied to you? You gained 35 pounds. Obviously, you gained weight in your face changes. Should I just pretend it didn't happen? And that's okay. Come on. I gained three pounds and you call me chubs and fat. Doesn't mean you don't love me. If you're trying to find reasons to break up, this makes sense. But it's not the real reason. If you're unhappy with me yourself with life and don't see a future with us, like, let me know, blah, blah, blah. Again, a lot of conflicting opinions about this. So many people didn't see anything wrong with this. Listen, I don't know if she asked him. If she asked

him, does it look like I gained weight? And he said yes, and she actually gained 35 pounds. Like, that's not evil. It's not a horrible person. I also don't think that the way this guy is writing, like I feel like Jonah's writing sounded much more like calculated and manipulative. Like if you don't want to abide by my rules, that's fine. This is very like, I love you. You ask me if your face change, your face change. Like, you gained weight. It's a very factual thing. And I know we take weight. It's such a sensitive subject and such a personal thing. And it goes back generations of like wanting to be lied to about weight gain. And you never talk about people's weight. But like, obviously, like within your family, you can say, hey, did I gain weight? If you didn't

get on the scale and your family can say, yeah. Or, but obviously, I get the intimacy of it. just how vulnerable you are in that situation. But we don't know the history. We don't know if you straight up walked in. It was like, your face is disgusting. You gained a gazillion pounds. Like, we don't know. But from this text, it really sounded like people weren't really understanding why

Bibi shared this and why she got so upset if that's the conversation that we're having. And also people were saying, if she called him chubby and fat for gaining three pounds, then really she doesn't have a leg to stand on him. this is a while ago, but I have it in my notes still from then is like I was so shocked you guys when I saw that Haley Beaver went on the Emily Chang show, which is a podcast. And I was like, okay, she's doing this thing. Emily Chang, she's on Bloomberg news. So obviously more corporate like money things.

But then she brought up Selena and I was just so fucking shocked. I mean, Emily did. which I get, Emily, do what you got to do, girl. But I'm literally shook it that Haley and our team would allow a conversation about Selena again. It's just mind fucking boggling to me. Like, I would assume that there is a no Selena clause, like forever. And I don't know if to think like, wow, it's so chill of Haley that she's like,

okay, whatever questions you want. Okay, hey, it's Selena again. Like, that's going to make the headlines. You really wanted to make the headlines again. And then Selena's going to see it and be like, oh, this fucking shit again, again, pinning us against each other and blah, blah. Listen, it's an awful reality to live. You guys know my fucking opinion on it. It's disgusting.

And I understand that it's like haunting, but I also think like, don't talk about it, babe. Do not talk about it. You know what I mean? Just do not. Another thing that was really dividing the internet was Blake lively. She has that brand, Betty Buzz, Betty Buzz. And then Betty Buzz made sense for her kind of because it was a mixer that could be used for alcoholic drinks, but also for non-alcoholic drinks. There were like tonics in it and all things like that.

And she's a non-drinker, but you know what I wonder? I wonder if she's, do you ever wonder, like, do these Hollywood people, do she not drink like to be healthy and because she doesn't like it or did she have a drinking problem? I don't know if I see Blake as like having a drinking problem. I feel like she just never drink. She's just that girl. So she came out with Betty Booze. So this is, Betty Booze is sparkling cocktails in a can. Listen, here's the thing.

I'm not so much of a canned cocktail girly, okay? Especially not when it says like made with alcohol. What fucking alcohol? What's in this? I'm not 12. I need to know exactly what I'm drinking, but I don't want to wake up like fucking shit. Anyway, so we have enough canned cocktails.

Okay, this is getting to the point of like celebs skincare. But I think, like, the retaliation of she doesn't drink, she shouldn't come out with a canned cocktail. It's literally like, it's a company. I get it. She's the face of it. But she's also Martha Stewart. And she's like, listen, I host people. I obviously have alcoholic options.

Her husband has a gin company. Like, it kind of does make sense. Even though if her husband has a gin company, like, maybe she should have done something else for us helping. Like, if you are Martha Stewart, then like, I don't know, do a baking, do a baking thing or something. So I get, I get both sides because I get if you're, you're the face of something. And this is the example I was giving, even though I'm not sure it's like the correct example. I was giving of like, it's the same way I wouldn't promote a brand or a product that I wouldn't use. So it's like, wait, this is different because she like owns it, but she's also the face of it.

So it's kind of like, why are you doing something that you wouldn't yourself use? Okay, you guys, for the biggest, biggest news of last week. Okay, we have two, not one, but two, cele divorces, okay? Ariana Grande and Dalton Gomez, divorce. Apparently they separated in January. And Sophia Vergara and Joe Mangonello, but who cares about his name because we care about Sophia,

they also divorced. They were a very photogenic, seemingly perfect couple. So regarding Sophia and Joe's split, it was announced that they split, but then Joe filed for divorce two days after a split announcement. Okay. Meanwhile, Sophia posts a really thirsty Instagram post, okay? The day that the split is announced,

like she's in a bathing suit, she's looking hot, and her co-star Julie Bowen wrote, This is what's single and this fire emoji looks like. that kind of sounds like this didn't end on good terms. So again this is mysterious. We don't know what happened. I feel like

maybe from the post it sounds like he fucked up but then why would he file for divorce? They do have a pre-up. Don't worry about the finances you guys. Don't worry. But I'm just thinking like if he filed for divorce but she's posting the thirsty pick

who fucked up? This question. I mean, Ariana Grande and Dalton Gomez, we didn't see so much of them. It came by shock. It ended with shock. Like, it just, we don't know what's going on. I feel like Ariana Grande is also such a mysterious fucking woman. She's one of those. Like she plops on. She's like, here's my beauty. What's it? R.m. I don't think that's going very well. Anyway, she'll be like, here's my eye shadow. Bye. Oh my God. I'm playing Linda. Bye. Hi. I look really different. Bye. Anyway, the first shocking moment was she was at Wimbledon. She came with Ralph Lauren.

And she was sitting next to Andrew Garfield. And I was too focused on this new look of hers. She looked really preppy and really different. But other people were more focused on the fact that, first of all, she was with Jonathan Bailey and people were like, they're dating. And it's like, no, he's gay. But she was without her ring. And people started freaking out.

I don't freak out about non-ring days because it's like, I don't always wear my ring. Like, you take it off when you shower. Maybe you don't put it back on. I would assume that for celebrities, like, a conscious decision because they know they're going to be photographed and blah, blah, blah. But anyway, so people are like, she's without a ring, blah, blah, blah. Fucking two days later, you guys, shocking fucking news. It comes out that Ariana Grande is dating wicked co-star Ethan Slater.

Ethan Slater played SpongeBob SquarePants on the musical. He is married. His Instagram was filled with his wife. He was a wife lover. We know what they say about wife lovers, right? And he had a baby. He had a baby like recently. He had a baby like this year. And he still wished happy Mother's Day to his partner in May. Another thing here is Ariana Grande liked every single one of his photos. I've never seen her name pop up so much. Like, you know, when you follow someone so you see them is like the first like. She was very supportive of Ethan and his relationship. She liked every single photo when it was about his wife, about his baby, every single fucking thing. It's like, what the fuck happened there? And listen, you guys, at the end of the day, where there's smoke, there's fire.

She was seen without a ring. A day later, it's confirmed by multiple sources that she split with Dalton. Then a day later, it comes out that she's dating her co-star. This isn't a mistake. This isn't leaking. This is like a calculated move. People can think that it's for like press for wicked, but like I never, never think that. his like Wikipedia, I mean, he's still married to Lily J. Their son was born in

2022. She's his high school sweetheart. What is happening? And we're not going to talk about his looks, guys. We're not awful people. Arianna goes for personality. Oh my God, one of you DM me. He probably got Mad Chat. In it? He got Mad Chat. I'm obsessed with Love Island. I literally con on odd. So what happened with Dalton Gomez? what happened and is this the quintessential Ariana Grande is on a big movie set she falls in love with the co-star like does this ever not happen like sign me up for a movie with Brad Pitt then okay because oh my God this is such a Hollywood thing it's like the minute you touch Hollywood like the minute you touch it like fucking Jeremy Allen White he was in shameless his whole life on

this on this network show live 10 years with his high school sweetheart like fucking living. Get the big, the big Hollywood gig, the bear, the nominations, boom. We still don't know what happened there. We still don't know. Very hard to understand via Instagram. But Ethan Slater, what the fuck? I mean, did, what did Ariana do to you? What did she do? I mean, I kind of get it. If Ariana Grande falls in love with you, you blow up your life, but you blow it up. Same thing. Olivia Wild for Harry Seiles. You blow it up. You blow it on up. I just don't know if like when you blow up your life for somebody, if it ends up working out. I feel like not so much. I feel like not so much. But this is a wild

coupling. I mean, we thought when she was dating Pete, remember, she has to like defend him to us, be like, he's gorgeous. And now we're like, we know he's gorgeous. And Ethan Slater, maybe he got that BDE. Maybe he is packing. But I think what's more shocking here is obviously they were both in relationships and we don't know when this started. It does sound really suss that it did start during filming. Both of them were in relationships. Now, they're both not in relationships. What the fuck happened there? We want to know. And I doubt that we will know because I feel like she's very, um, mysterious in that way, Ariana. Ariana does her own fucking thing. Another Britney Spears song is out. Mind your business with Will I Am. Will I

am and Britney bit. Kind of sounds like scream and shout out. of will I am to support, still don't know what's going on with Brittany. She posted it to her stories, but it's coming out. I'm recording this on Friday. It's coming out today. I want to see kind of what happens there. Anyway, guys, what else is new? Let me know. Hit me up. Talk to me. I love you. I miss you so much. I really do. Give me lots of kisses. Give me lots of virtual love. I hope everybody has an amazing summer. I hope everyone has at least a friend with like a house. in the Hamptons or with a pool. I really wish that for all of you.

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