Off The Vine with Kaitlyn Bristowe - Canaan Smith

Episode Date: May 29, 2018

Kaitlyn is joined by friend and Country music singer Canaan Smith to talked about how his song "Love You Like That" brought Kaitlyn and Shawn together, Canaan's love for Canada, and his origi...nal 6th grade rock band See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:01:57 Katelyn is creating a space where girls and gents can feel empowered to be themselves. Get ready for lots of laughs tabby topics, unfiltered advice, and wine. Lots of wine. Get ready to shake things up. Here's Caitlin. Welcome to Fyme. I'm your host, Caitlin Bristow. This is my second podcast of the day, so you know what that means.
Starting point is 00:02:20 I'm drunk. You're not drunk. It means I'm going to be even more unprofessional. No, I'm a little buzzed, but that makes for a, there you go. That makes for a good podcast. I feel like it's very on brand for me to be a little drunk on a podcast. You know what I mean? In the studio today, we have country singer and my friend, Canaan Smith.
Starting point is 00:02:42 How many people call you Canon? Everybody, except you. Seriously, I hear it all the time. I always talk about this because I have, I'm known to butcher a few names. Me too. But, I mean, I always made sure from the second that I knew of your song. I'm like, is it Canaan or Cannon because I need to figure this out, which was a long time ago. Thank you for caring.
Starting point is 00:03:01 Because I knew if I ran into you in Nashville, not knowing what the friendship would become, I was like, I need to know how to pronounce his name. Well, funny story, you'll love this because you know my wife, Christy. And so the first time I met her family, and we had been talking seriously, you know, on the phone. I think the understanding was we were definitely dating, right? But she lived in Ohio. I lived in Nashville. and I was on the road and we're doing our long-distance thing. So I didn't immediately meet her family.
Starting point is 00:03:29 But eventually when I did, she introduced me, I swear to God, she introduced me to her family as canon. Yes, she did. And we had been dating for several weeks. And I just looked over at her and I was like, what? What did you just? Did that kind of make you like her a little more? I loved her even more for it.
Starting point is 00:03:47 I promise, I did. I did. She just, uh... I bet. That's funny. It was funny because I wasn't quite used to everybody doing that just yet because I hadn't even released a single yet that had worked at radio. I had released one years before and it went top 40, but I hadn't put Love You like that out yet. Oh, okay.
Starting point is 00:04:08 And so I was still on the road as an opener, acoustic opener, and just playing a few songs, you know, tagging along on the bus of the headliner, actually. Oh, that's cool. I caught a free ride and made some new fans. It was awesome That was with love and theft actually Oh, that's fun And the reason I was on the road with them Was they had a tour
Starting point is 00:04:29 Because of their song Angelize So when I went to Ohio to play This show with them Freeloading on their bus as their opener I met Christy in Ohio That night on this show On this tour Long story short
Starting point is 00:04:44 Basically without that song for them Being a hit Oh, I'm sorry, the missing piece is Her favorite song at the time at that time in her life was was angelized and so her brother her brother bought her tickets she has a twin sister yes her the older brother bought them tickets to go see love and theft no way and that's how you guys met i was on tour with love and theft and that's how we met that song literally brought us together so thanks love and theft wait there's so many full circle moments here
Starting point is 00:05:13 do you know those guys no but your song brought me and sean together that's right that's what you Is that a full circle moment or is that just coincidence? No, it is. Well, I mean, for me, I had never experienced before an actual, this is something I can pinpoint in our story. That same night that we met, there was a massive thunderstorm, or I have a snowstorm in Ohio, like every winter. Yeah. But this one was really bad, and it was bad enough that they almost didn't come to the show. Christie and her sister and friends decided to almost not come to the show.
Starting point is 00:05:48 And so, you know, had they not come, probably wouldn't have. met her and whatever you know that's how the story would go yeah but you know sometimes literally um i feel like god orchestrates a plan so beautifully that you know it takes a song to to make it happen you know they love that song they didn't want to miss a concert they love music christie still loves music yeah and that's one of the things i love about her is just her passion for music because i obviously have the same passion yeah of course but it was really cool that that song really brought us together. And like you said, when you guys were on the show, you on, on, uh, oh, was it the Bachelorette? Yes. Or the Bachelorette. It was your show.
Starting point is 00:06:30 Yes. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. I can't keep track of it. Okay. You're so famous. I don't know which one. Oh, yeah. That's what it is. Yeah. I don't know which one. It was the Bachelorette. It was a bachelor's, which we are huge fans of. And we were, we loved you on that show. We truly did. You were our favorite. Thanks. And Sean was awesome, too. But there was a situation where I was going to fly out and sing that song, right? Yes. Because isn't it just so crazy how you, I mean, you were just saying that meeting somebody and a song bringing you together.
Starting point is 00:07:03 And that is what it was. So when I was The Bachelorette, Sean and I would exchange notes. And there was only one other guy that would slip me notes in the house, but I had zero interest in him. And so Sean's notes, I'd be like, I would read every word. and I would dissect everything, and I would, like, study his writing. And I remember this one part, he said, download, oh, because we couldn't, he couldn't listen to music until a certain point in the show. I could listen to music because, you know, they want you to just get in your own head and not
Starting point is 00:07:35 have anything to, like, you know, music can make you feel grounded and I can, you know, and so they don't want that. But I, as the lead got to listen to music, but I didn't have my phone. So they gave me this silly little iPod, like Sheple. And I had, I mean, there's probably only 10 songs on it. And your song, Love You Like That, was my favorite song on my playlist. No way. And yes.
Starting point is 00:08:00 So was it your own playlist? Yes. No, that's awesome. Yes. Yeah. So you listen to country music. Oh, I love country. Okay.
Starting point is 00:08:07 My other songs on there were like dirt, Florida, Georgia line. Awesome. I love country. And that was actually something that Sean and I bonded over as well was loving country music and so in one of his notes he was telling me like by the way my last name's booth because you don't know that when you meet these people right and he said this is my favorite ninja turtle like it was like so many weird random facts and he said and and my favorite song is love you like that um by canaan smith download it love it and he goes download it love it and i wrote him back
Starting point is 00:08:37 and i said that's my number one song on my playlist right now and so we bonded immediately over that So as soon as, you know, you don't have much alone time with them off camera. But if we had any second that we're like, please, can you just play Love You like that for us? And we would slow dance and just like, like, smell each other. That's so cool. Because we're like, we're like just taking the moment. And we would, you know, just like have the. So I remember being on top of a boat in New York.
Starting point is 00:09:05 And we made them play the song and it was raining. And we just like had 20 seconds to listen to your song. That sounds like it could have been. music video. Should have been. Hey, we can recreate one. We had a blast shoot in the music video. Christy was in my music video.
Starting point is 00:09:20 My wife, that was so cool. It's so beautiful. That was actually the first time she'd ever been on camera at all, and I think she crushed it. Okay, I was going to say, because she's very shy. That's the only reason she's not here today is she is terrified of the thought of hearing her own voice. She's like one of my girlfriends. Yeah, I know. It's just me.
Starting point is 00:09:37 It is not, I know, promise. Don't take it personally. I don't. She adores you. No, she's shy. She just is terrified of the skin. kind of stuff which I just find and she's working and she's working she's so sweet she's honestly Sean and I had this conversation the other day that she's probably the nicest person we've ever met
Starting point is 00:09:52 yeah me too and that's like she really is she was before I knew I loved her she was still the nicest person I met you know what I mean I'm not just saying that because I love her but she's just a sweetheart there's a lot of great people out there but she's she's the greatest she is very special I've ever rolled with yeah yeah she's just such a genuine sweetheart and so so that's funny because knowing that she's in your music video, I can't imagine her in front of the camera. And she crushed it. She did crush it.
Starting point is 00:10:19 She was scared. She was so natural, probably because it's with you. Yeah, we were just trying to just kind of mingle and do our thing the way we would if nobody was around. Yeah. But that's not easy to do. You've got a crew of people around and cameras in your face.
Starting point is 00:10:33 It's not easy to. I still have a hard time with that with photos. A photo shoot? Man, I get the most ridiculous lock jaw kind of looking face. And I think, you know, I'm like... Do you like the Chandler smile? Yeah, yeah, exactly, exactly. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:10:46 It's terrible. And, man, I can't figure it out still to this day. But the ones that are the best are where I just don't, not thinking about it. Yeah, of course. That's what we're trying to do. I mean, that, if anybody hasn't seen the video, go watch it. It's really beautiful and sweet because I love when singers have their, like, wives involved. Because I'm like, yeah, why did you put a random girl in that video?
Starting point is 00:11:06 I mean, if they weren't hot, maybe we'd get another girl. Reconsider. Right. Let's talk about Buffalo Wild Wings at Buffalo Wild Wings. We'll admit that we often go overboard with our limited time offerings. I feel like I'm part of the Buffalo Wild Wings family when I say we. We just can't help ourselves. Take our new signature sampler.
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Starting point is 00:11:58 Have you guys ever done the Enneagram test? No, but everybody's talking about that, and I need to know what that is. Because Russell and Kaylee Dickerson were telling me about it on the last podcast. I love them. We love them. Well, we had such a fun triple date night with them at our house. Oh, my gosh. That was so much fun. We got to talk about that.
Starting point is 00:12:16 Oh, we will. Oh, we will talk about it all. So I'm surprised that didn't come up at the house because they are like big believers in the enneagram. Maddie and Tay were just talking about it. And it's like actually really interesting to know for relationships. Like sometimes people have to do it for even just getting a job just because it's a personality type. And I'm just so curious what you guys would be because. Sean and I are both threes, which that means nothing to you, but we're both achievers.
Starting point is 00:12:45 But there's like Kaylee Dickerson, you know how she's very comforting and like easy to talk to you. And she's a nine. And anyways, it's just so interesting. I was going to ask what you guys were, but get back to me on that one. Yeah, I will. We'll do it. We'll talk about it next time for sure. I'm so curious what you guys would be.
Starting point is 00:13:01 I am too. I mean, she's an Aquarius and I'm a Virgo. Okay. I know nothing about. She's a nurse practitioner and I'm a. artist so there's you know we're definitely um kind of on the opposite i feel like she would be okay wait just remember these numbers i feel like you're going to be a three and i feel like she's going to be a nine okay cool three and nine yeah let me know because if i'm right i'm going to be so happy about it
Starting point is 00:13:26 all right let's know but we were saying this before um the podcast even started with how um we're all so busy and it's so nice to just like spend that quality time with people and and what I was getting at was because Christy has, she went to school when you were with her. Yeah. And so you were on the road. She's going to school. Now she works.
Starting point is 00:13:49 You're still going on the road. Yeah. A lot of people would find it challenging to do the long distance and you guys did it from the start. But we were saying that it's kind of nice to miss each other. Yeah, absolutely. And it's so nice for each person and each individual in a relationship to have their own thing. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:14:06 And do you guys find that? Obviously, it's going to be challenging when you go on the road and when you are doing this long distance. But isn't it so nice to miss somebody and come back to them and just like really appreciate your time? Yeah. I mean, I can relate to that recently because I've been off the roads. I was off the road up until a few weeks ago just to kind of, you know, the first part of the year is usually not heavy touring season. And also I was transitioning between new deals and stuff like that. So I've been off the road the first part of the year.
Starting point is 00:14:35 and I was getting a lot of home time that I'm not used to and even that was sort of in a weird way, an adjustment. Yeah, of course. Yeah, because you're so used to something and then it's a bunch, it's a lot at once. Well, put it this way, we got married
Starting point is 00:14:48 and like a few weeks later I went on radio tour for a love you like that and I was gone for 40 days at a time. And she's in school. And she's in a brand new town from Ohio living in Nashville, no friends, in school. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:14:59 You know, it's just a big transition for us. But I was used to being gone, gone, gone, gone and we kind of got used to that it took about a year for that to be a normal thing for us but we got used to it and then I came off the road most recently um kind of reorganizing before I went back out and in that downtime that was a readjustment period too I love being around her and she loves being around me more than anything obviously but um I I feel that sometimes too where um I can sense in her or she can sense in me maybe we're a little short with each other There's a little frustration maybe because I'm an overachiever, as you know, and I'm always wanting to.
Starting point is 00:15:40 I'm a three. I'm a three. So I feel like in a weird way professionally in the back of my mind, sometimes I struggle with what am I missing out on? What should I be doing right now? And I feel like most recently, God's kind of been rewiring that thought process in me and pulling me back a little further so I can see, you know, basically that. My viewpoint is clear now that what matters most is the stuff that's going to be around forever. Yes. That relationship that must be nourished forever.
Starting point is 00:16:12 You know, music is... That's so important. Music is something that I'm going to do for the rest of my life. Yeah, of course. It's your passion. It's what you're good at. It's your life. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:16:20 But it's also, you know, it's not the one thing I can't live without. Right. You know, and so I think that it's been a cool season for us of learning how to kind of refocus and be re-grounded. I love that. I love when people learn and grow and are able to communicate and talk about these kinds of things. Because I think a lot of people are just like, yeah, I'm on the road, I'm doing that, you know, but like to be able to be so self-aware and aware of what's important and learn and be able to talk about that too.
Starting point is 00:16:52 Well, perspective can get jacked up when you're pursuing, when you're running, run, and you're always trying to get the next goal. I think your perspective can kind of get a little hazy. And so definitely appreciate the times when I can refocus. Yeah. It's been a good thing. That's amazing. Sean's the man. He is the man.
Starting point is 00:17:10 Anyone who talks to him, you guys are so great together. Anyone who talks to Sean for five seconds, I always say this, can tell he is a good man. He is. You can always tell. He's just a good dude through him through. I think he's a great guy. That's, so he, obviously, because we kind of jumped topics, but that's what we do on this podcast, wanted you to come to his hometown date so that you could sing the song.
Starting point is 00:17:35 Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's right. So that I could, because in hometowns on The Bachelor, you go to that person's where they grew up and whatever. And so he wanted you to sing our song there and surprise me. But the Bachelor had other plans. And so we didn't get to do that. You mean you weren't in control of the situation? Shocker, right? Spoiler alert.
Starting point is 00:17:57 The Bachelor and the Bachelor. where I do not have control. You know, I was on the amazing race back in the day. I forgot, yes, I didn't know that. So I know exactly what you're talking about when. Oh, that's so funny. I totally forgot. When you have no control of the situation, I know exactly what you're talking about.
Starting point is 00:18:11 Wait, I cannot believe I forgot about this. It's just something that, I mean, it takes a while, like, I remember having to explain to friends and family for the longest time trying to explain what was really happening behind the scenes versus what they were seeing on TV. and eventually I had you know everyone sort of I answered everybody's questions and it kind of you know now it's just a memory to me and it was a great experience but at the same time I don't think I would do it again no I can't believe that's not in my notes I totally forgot well I forgot to on purpose yeah yeah how long it was a dramatic end what year was that that was uh I don't know what year but I just
Starting point is 00:18:49 I think it was a season 15 whatever that uh whenever that was so were you already involved in the I had a publishing deal as a songwriter, but I didn't have a record. Okay, okay. So I was, and actually, I just signed my first ever publishing deal in like 30 days later, asked if I could go do this show for 30 days and not, not right. Wait, filming was 30 days? So, it was 30 days. How far did you get?
Starting point is 00:19:14 Halfway. But it was a 30-day commitment for, that's the entire period of filming that they do, whether you finish last or first. And so it's a 30-day commitment. How long was your? commitment 12 weeks 12 weeks oh my god yeah it's like where were you the whole time would do it everywhere we were in california we were in texas we were in new york we're in ireland every couple weeks every couple weeks we were in ireland for three weeks which was like aggressive really have you ever
Starting point is 00:19:46 been to i have i love it there um europe in general for me i lived in germany so um i call it the European meltdown after three weeks where it's just like too much of not like what you know. Yes. And I love it for the first few weeks. Something as simple as the plumbing and like the. Yes, exactly. Like I just want to order like a meal that I know. And like, yeah, it was it was definitely like that. And being on camera and dealing with everything in Ireland. Like I was just so thankful that they spoke the same language because I'm like, Germany killed me after seven months. But that's, yeah, I always think about the difference in filming, like, Bachelorette in 30 days?
Starting point is 00:20:28 Could you imagine? That'd be even crazier than it already is. But, like, I guess you need more time than that to fall in love and find your love. I mean, do you, though? Well, actually, I didn't take that long. Yeah, because you don't need that. You're right. No.
Starting point is 00:20:41 Because I think about it. You know when you know, and that's cheesy but true. But that's why I'd say that way is absolutely true. No, that is why I found being Bachelorette so difficult. I thought it was going to be so much. much fun. I found The Bachelor to be a breeze. But it's because that guy wasn't my person. Yeah. And I didn't fall in love right away. I was like convincing myself that I was in love the whole time that by the end I was like, yeah, maybe I am. Where was Sean, I was like,
Starting point is 00:21:05 I knew like that night. Are we allowed to cuss on here? Thank God. I didn't know. I was trying to be all proper. I do all the time. Oh, yeah, yeah. Sorry. Anyhow, that night. Don't be proper. It's me. That night I was like game over. And that's what made it so difficult because number one, the producers do not want you to be in love night one because they need to make a show. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And so it was really challenging for them, for the producers, for me, for the guys. Like, because it was, I mean, I think every guy in the house knew that it was Sean and the producers kept trying to, you know.
Starting point is 00:21:37 Oh, really? Yeah, because obviously you have to keep pursuing different relationships the whole way. Yeah, because that's what you signed up for. Exactly. And you get so confused because you're like, well, I have to keep going with four more relationships and to the end and then two. and you're, like, so confused and just drained by the end. I'm sure.
Starting point is 00:21:57 So it's actually really hard when you do because, like you said, like, you do know sometimes right away. Yeah. And, I mean, not for everybody. Some people can fall in love later and it can work out for them too, but, you know. Absolutely. But then you ended up coming to our date night. That was awesome. That was actually the coolest moment of my life.
Starting point is 00:22:16 It's so cool. Yeah. I loved it, too. I was actually down. the street, we were already having beers down the street when Sean hit me. He had pre-planned it or whatever. But that same night that he booked a surprise date for you, I was just down the street having some beers. And so I came in there feeling pretty loose. I hope it was not a terrible performance. But tell everybody what happened. I don't, I can't. Honestly, it was the best
Starting point is 00:22:49 private performance like where was it was at that uh sips and strokes yes sits and strokes it was like a private um sean had rented out the whole room where this girl gave us a private art lesson and so we were painting the two of us in drinking wine and we painted this picture of a guitar that like he did one half of the guitar and i did the other and when you put the paintings together it's one and so obviously you sing our song and so i thought it was already the most incredible surprise that he booked out this room for us to paint together i was like that's so romantic And so we were done And all of a sudden the door opened
Starting point is 00:23:23 And you walked in with a guitar And started singing our song And I mean I cried And it was so fun And it was just so cool Because you guys were having a good time We had the best time And some whine out
Starting point is 00:23:34 It was so romantic and so fun And it was so different Than any other like date night Yeah And then having you come in And you just sat in front of us With your guitar and did your thing And you know when you like
Starting point is 00:23:46 Hear people on Like your phone or like a, yeah, I was going to say CD. I'm like, is that old school? Yeah, yeah, yeah, CDs. But you know. I know. It's so sad.
Starting point is 00:23:55 But you know when you hear people and then in real life, you are better in real life than like what you could ever imagine. I mean it with all of my being. Like I was like, wow. Thank you. It was moving and it brought me to tears, not just because it was our song, just because it was so incredible. And it was so, I don't know, intimate just to have you sitting there and us and it was our song. And I don't know. That's so cool.
Starting point is 00:24:18 Thanks for saying. It was really, really cool. Well, that's the kind of a moment you deserve, so I'm glad you all. He's created with his dates. I need to step my game up. I feel like. He has to have. Yeah, he's got it down.
Starting point is 00:24:32 Yeah. He had to stand out in a pack of a bunch of dudes. It's true. And then it was like, you know, you come out of a show like The Bachelor and you're like, well, I better make these dates, like, pretty huge. Now we're starting to tone it down a little bit. Just go out for sushi. Yeah, like this birthday. It was just his birthday.
Starting point is 00:24:47 the other day and I'm like, I got him a barbecue and we like went golfing and it was like the best thing ever. Oh, that's awesome. Yeah, yeah. It was really nice. So you guys golf? Oh, yeah. Do you guys golf? I do. Christy does not, but I love golfing. Yeah. Or at least she actually used to work at a golf course. Back in college, she was selling beer to the high school or something. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Making tips,
Starting point is 00:25:08 you know. So she would ride along and help us with the beer. Yeah, of course. Well, that's the best part of golfing, in my opinion. Cheers. Yeah, cheers to that. But we should take her. okay so do you guys know shaline woodley she was on big little eyes i'm a very big fan of that show and her her and sam clapland have come out with an amazing movie a drift is based on the inspiring true story of two free spirits whose chance encounter leads them to love and the adventure of a lifetime a story of two sailors tammy who's played by shaline woodley and richard played by sam claflin who set out on a journey across the pacific however they couldn't anticipate that they would be sailing into one of the most catastrophic hurricanes in history
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Starting point is 00:26:19 Remember we went to a haunted house for Halloween? Yeah, that was fun. A big group of us. It was so much fun. Damn, that was a good one, too. They got me. Remember I punched a guy in the face? Yeah, you did.
Starting point is 00:26:30 Oh, man. Oh, God. If it wasn't you, it was going to be me next. I get so, I get, like, creeped down. I'm surprised they don't, like, make you sign something before you go in there. I feel like they get too close. They get too close. I don't think that I.
Starting point is 00:26:44 I don't feel bad about it. I don't think I signed anything that said, yeah, you can get up in my grill. Yeah, no. And they do. They get really close. I'm surprised they don't, I mean, they probably do get hit all the time. I had one dude at a haunted house just like that. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:26:57 One year I went with, you remember Matt Haynes, our buddy Matt Haynes? We're with Matt Haynes and some friends. And there was this dudes in tidy witties and Roller's case. And he came up and cornered me. I'm literally standing in the corner of this dark room with these crazy, like, strobe lights. And this dude in tidy witties and he's like up. in my space. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:27:16 And I almost punched him like you did. But you went ahead and you went ahead and actually punched somebody. Yeah, I physically punched him right in the face. So you just went in for the kill. Because you probably had time to process that like he's cornering you and that it's like a haunted house or I was just like, go fuck yourself. Like I just got so aggressive because he was right there. And then I, and then he kind of was like, whoa. And I'm like, stay in character, man.
Starting point is 00:27:41 I'm like, wait. And then I felt bad because I realized. I was like, wait, because he backed up and was kind of like, whoa. And then I looked at him and I'm like, oh. It's like you knocked a dude off his horse and then helped him back on it. Yeah, I was like, oh, I'm so sorry, you're really scary. So awesome. I felt really bad.
Starting point is 00:28:00 But on our way home and we stopped through the Taco Bell drive-thru, you said something that I'll never forget. What? We got to eat of cheese? You got to tell him. You got to tell him that. We'll get to that. What did I say? That was not we're out of cheese
Starting point is 00:28:17 I'm so glad you remember that I would have remembered it but right now I didn't have it in my notes and I'm so glad you brought that up Okay so we went through the Taco Bell dried through And we were talking about movies Like what to watch on Netflix or good movies Yeah And you we said something about a rom-com and you're like
Starting point is 00:28:34 Oh we don't like rom-coms and I'm like what And you're like they're not realistic and I was like Oh my God, thank you for seeing that They're not really I mean I know but I love I love that you say that because I never that's such a simple thing that you said that honestly stuck with me because I think a lot of times I expect things to be like a rom-com yeah well everybody does I guess which is sad because I think I like look at Instagram I mean we could go on on about that everybody's
Starting point is 00:29:02 everybody's everything's fake on Instagram no it's so true edited the highlight real 10th take photo yeah that makes you look like your life's better than everybody else's everything and that's what and that's what rom-coms are exactly and rom-coms don't show two years down the road and they don't show real problems and and sometimes except that movie the breakup with Vince oh that was deep and that was just dark but it was real it was it was real you're right it got really dark and I was like damn and then it like hit me and it was all like too real yeah yeah right but that's what I mean it was very real and I think sometimes I like hold Sean to the standard of like well on the bachelorette you know you were super romantic and you told me this and you told me that
Starting point is 00:29:44 And I'm like, you know what? One, that is the honeymoon phase and it's not real life and it is rom-com phase and that doesn't last. It can still happen every now and again, but it's not like, that's not forever. And two, I'm like, I wouldn't want that. No. I wouldn't want, I try and like hold him to this ridiculous standard. And I'm like, if he was like that, I would be like, okay, man, back off. Like, get your own.
Starting point is 00:30:09 Yeah, yeah, yeah. But that's so true. You got to grow together. I think you know, you have to stretch to grow, I think. So if you're not being stressed, you're not going to grow. And that's something that... This is why you're a songwriter. Well, this is why I'm hopefully getting better at marriage by the day, trying to.
Starting point is 00:30:28 If you're growing, you're getting better. That's the truth. I think that, yeah, I don't have any kind of breakdown for you. I just think that's true, that you've got to stretch to grow and it's not comfortable, you know. And sometimes it is. Sometimes you do, you just make memories and that are fun and all that stuff. And other times it's, you know, it's, it's hard work. It's going to bed mad, you know.
Starting point is 00:30:52 And I hate that. Christy knows how much I hate that. And she hates it too. But we do. We go to bed mad sometimes and that's just being real. No, that is like when you keep hitting me where it counts. That is something that I always say is that I think it's actually important to go to bed mat because a lot of times I'll wake up and be like that's not a big deal yeah and I'll let
Starting point is 00:31:16 it go in the morning yeah sure absolutely sometimes that that little lapse of time can help a good snooze can give you some perspective yeah it's usually something stupid anyhow for us but that's what I'm saying that's it's I will go to bed I will go to bed so heated sometimes that my heart's like pounding out on my chest in the morning I'm like that's stupid yeah and so then I'm like I'm really glad I went to bed mad we got we literally got in a fight last night about dishes yes i swear no true story went to bed mad and it all started from dishes yeah and um and then we both both woke up this morning and it was just kind of like well that that doesn't need to happen again you know sorry dude i i've gotten to a point to where sometimes i'll kind of laugh
Starting point is 00:32:00 now yeah for sure you know because i'm like uh like today i almost lost my noodle when i saw the way he made the bed like i was like is this guy serious Wait, so you're the master bedmaker. I'm not even. But he's not even freaking close. I was like he's got it. And to the point where I actually shifted my brain to think that it was cute that he at least tried. Hey, there you go.
Starting point is 00:32:26 So that's gross. That's proactive right there. I need to take a note there because Christy and I, we actually laugh doing it now too. We truly do. It started out where I was just pissing her off because I'm so OCD. Yeah. I truly have things have to be done. way I do them and used to doing it.
Starting point is 00:32:42 It's ridiculous, but true. You all get it, yeah. But now when we're making the bed, it's just, we laugh. It's just like, all right, this is never, this skill is never going to be acquired. Well, I just, I actually found it. I switched to being so full of rage to actually thinking it was kind of adorable because. Oh, for the bed making. Isn't that ridiculous?
Starting point is 00:33:05 Yes. I feel you, though. I totally know what you're talking. Because I'm a little OCD myself. Sounds like you're more than a little, but maybe not. I am. And by a little, I mean, over the top, but OCD. And it's so bizarre to me because I lived by myself for like 10 years.
Starting point is 00:33:21 I was a slob, like an absolute slob. Okay. But now I like appreciate what I have. And back then I was just kind of a degenerate where now I'm like, you know, like, I'm so lucky to have this stuff and to have our room look this way. Your house is beautiful, by the way. And we had someone, you should see our two new rooms, the podcast room. should have had you over there. Which one is it? Where is it? You know, when you walk in the front
Starting point is 00:33:43 door and you go to the left, there's like a guest room right there and another room right here? Yes. We finished the guest room and this room's the podcast room. Awesome. And our room is done. We don't sleep on a mattress on the floor anymore. Nice. You guys have a great house. It's huge too. It's huge. And we've taken our time to like decorate it, but we've made it our little sanctuary. There you go. So that's why when he made the bed this morning. You know what? Your sanctuary was. You know what? Listen to this compromise. Listen to this compromise. The Zen what quickly left the building.
Starting point is 00:34:11 Yes. But listen to this compromise. So we were making, actually this morning I woke up and I looked in the fridge and I was like, there's no fucking eggs in the fridge. Did he really eat the last egg and not replaced? And then I go to make my coffee and he had drank the last of the almond milk. Yep, that's us. And so I'm like, babe, he's upstairs.
Starting point is 00:34:30 What? I'm like, did you not consider me? There are any eggs left? Knowing there's not. And he was like, oh, no. And then I turned the coffee machine. on knowing there's no almond milk and I go hey Ben so he can hear I went hey Ben uh did you drink the last the almond milk and he goes
Starting point is 00:34:52 how about the almond milk and he goes and he goes am I in trouble and I'm like well couldn't you have thought of me last night when you like to and and I was annoyed but then I left and I went to the gym and I came back and I gave him a kiss and he goes oh okay we're good now we're And he had went out and bought almond, milk, and eggs. And so this is, look at the, look at the, look how far we've come. So then he opens the eggs and he goes, do you want eggs? I'm like, I would love some. And then I looked at him and I said, he's in boot camp.
Starting point is 00:35:23 Yeah, I said, do you want to make the eggs or would you like to make the bed? See that? And he goes, I'll attempt making the bed. So the fact that he said attempt makes me realize that he knew he couldn't, you know. Oh, man. I feel you, Sean. I feel you, bro. And so I was like, yeah, okay.
Starting point is 00:35:42 And so I made breakfast, and he made the bed. And so when I went into the bedroom and the bed looked like, I was like, I cannot. Take a picture next time, with you? I should have, because it still looked nice. He got the pillows in the right spot. Nice, nice. For an OCD person, I honestly took a step back and I was like, let the rage go. It's a bed.
Starting point is 00:36:03 He tried. I suggest smoking a little weed. I know. You know, let's change my life. I'm not a pothead, but I honestly, I do enjoy smoking these days. And it also makes me chill out a little bit. Well, there's a reason they're legalizing it everywhere, right? You know, like I think in my mind, smoking is less, like drinking is more dangerous in my mind than smoking a little weed.
Starting point is 00:36:30 For sure. And that's why, like back in the day, I remember telling my mom I smoked weed because in Vancouver, they have the best weed. And so I told her, and she was, like, devastated. And I'm like, Mom, you should be more concerned at how much I consume, like, of alcohol. Like, you should be way more concerned with that than me smoking a little weed. Because if I smoke a little weed, I want to stay home. I want to read a book. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:36:54 I want to have some snacks and read a book and get a good sleep. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know? What's cool about it is all the different strains or strands can put you in different zones. Yeah. There's creative stuff. There's chill stuff. you know because you have a song writing like little room in your house don't you yep i saw it and i was
Starting point is 00:37:11 like yeah i played y'all some songs up there yeah yeah yeah well i honestly could just hang out at your guys's house all day every day we got it christie's been like killing it in the whole decorating realm yeah and it feels pretty speaking of zen it feels pretty zen it feels pretty zen right now it's awesome you should come over we'll do the quiplash thing oh does everybody know have you talked about quip lash okay wait what was the thing we were going to say um about oh cheese Oh, cheese. Oh, yeah, cheese. Well, we were playing at our house.
Starting point is 00:37:42 We had you guys over for game night, and we go to your house sometimes, and we do the same thing. But you were over to our house this night, and we were playing that Amazon Fire Stick game that you control through the phones, and it pops up on the TV. Quiplash. And you guys are the ones that showed us that game. Now we're obsessed. We tell all our friends, and we play it whenever we can. But we had just had a great night doing that, and you all had it out. you hit up that Wendy's over there on Thompson Lane by Powell and Thompson, where the Walmart
Starting point is 00:38:10 is in Berry Hill. Yeah. And you had warned us. We warned you. Exactly. Exactly. That is the worst service. Yep.
Starting point is 00:38:19 In Nashville. And the Taco Bell down the street is the only one that's worse, to be honest. Oh. They're great. Dang. They're actually kind, though. They're kind and sensitive. They're like, they want to make sure that the customer's happy.
Starting point is 00:38:31 They're just slow. Yeah. Bottom line. You're not going to, it's going to, you're going to commit to 20 minutes to because get through the line. And that's not why you go to talk about. No, that's not. But Wendy's, they're slow and they could give a f***.
Starting point is 00:38:42 You know what I mean? And that's like, damn, that's the double combination. To prove my point. All you guys wanted was a bold chili. To prove my point. Christy drove through, rolled her window down in a Jeep and just waits for a second. Nobody says hello or nothing. She didn't know it.
Starting point is 00:38:56 Because, you know, you wait and they say, welcome to Wendy's going to do your order. She's just sitting there for minutes, minutes sitting there. And then finally, on the other end, here's what happens. We're out of cheese We're out of cheese We're out of cheese And Christy goes Christy goes
Starting point is 00:39:17 She waits a second She goes Excuse me The lady goes We're out of cheese And she finally knew what she's saying And she said Are you out of chili?
Starting point is 00:39:28 No Are you out of shredded cheese? No Okay I'll do a chili and some shredded cheese So what you're getting at is you're not out of cheese. And then it's just pull around, you know what I mean? So anyhow, we warned you guys. What happened at customer service?
Starting point is 00:39:43 We warned you about this whole situation. We told you about the cheese story. And then what happened. And then we went through the same drive-thru, and we realized it was the same drive-thru after leaving your house. And we're like, oh, this is the Wendy's. So we just pulled up. And the lady, like, and we, I was obviously record.
Starting point is 00:39:59 I was going to say videotaping because I'm like, apparently really old. And I was recording it. And the lady comes on and Chong goes, you guys out of cheese and what she said she said no and y'all just drove on okay thanks so he was like okay cool
Starting point is 00:40:13 and then we just left got them yes Sean thank you for having our back we're like all we needed was that video content paybacks a bitch Wendy's
Starting point is 00:40:22 paybacks a bitch and they're lucky we didn't put it out into the universe and I love Wendy's you know what I mean I love Wendy's I love those nuggets who doesn't oh you think Wendy's has the best nuggets
Starting point is 00:40:32 that's what I think McDonald's got the cheeseburger market I think Wendy's got the nuggets. Interesting. You can't compete with Taco Bell. No. Jack in the box tries and other people try, but you can't. I've never had Jack in the Box.
Starting point is 00:40:45 That can be my confession. I've had it once or twice, and that probably says enough. Oh, there you go. Arby's. Now we're talking. They have the meats. Hardee's, I don't know. Hardys is too much for me.
Starting point is 00:40:55 Hardies is like a burger that weighs two pounds. Oh, I don't even know what Hardies is. What about Chick-fil-A? I love Chick-fil-A. I think that's the best. Wait, where did you grow up? I grew up in Virginia. Oh, grew up in Virginia.
Starting point is 00:41:06 Did they have Chick-fil-A there? Well, they probably do now. When I was growing up there, they didn't. I moved to Nashville 13 years ago. Oh, okay. But I moved to Florida for a couple before that. So I've been out of Virginia for 15 years. Oh, wow, okay.
Starting point is 00:41:18 Yeah. But I think they have Chick-fil-A's now. Oh, well, they don't in Canada, that's what I'm getting at. Oh. Well, you guys have other stuff up there that we don't have. Like? Well, Tim Hortons is something. Oh, yeah, yeah, Tim Hortons.
Starting point is 00:41:30 But we actually have some of those now. Yeah, you do. New York has Tim Hortons. Yeah. I can't remember what I was. You know, the coldest I've ever been in my life was in Canada. Where? Winnipeg.
Starting point is 00:41:41 Hmm. I knew you're going to ask me. All I know is we walked from, at the time, I was doing a leg of a tour with Kip more. And we were walking from the sprinter van to a Tim Hortons, actually. Yeah, yeah. There was only probably 50 yards away. Yeah. And it was so cold that my camera man, I mean, my sound man.
Starting point is 00:42:04 um almost fainted and we still give him out of his day no really i swear to god we got we i don't know we pulled up we got it i mean we walked into tim horan's and we're all ordering and stuff and then we look around and pat sitting in the corner looking like passed out and like holding his fingers and stuff like what are you doing it and he's like nearly passed out i feel like you pass out from like the heat yeah i don't know what's going on there the cold but it's happened more than once so something's going on it's pat it's pat it's It's just Pat. It's not Canada.
Starting point is 00:42:36 It's Pat. It's definitely Pat. Oh my gosh. I just lost my train of thought. We're talking about Canada, but what were we saying? You're from Vancouver, correct? No. Well, I mean, I lived there for 12 years.
Starting point is 00:42:46 Okay, so one of my favorite trips and favorite places in the world is Vancouver. What were you there touring? I've been twice for, I played a show, twice for shows. And I went once on vacation with my dad and once on vacation with Christy and some friends to Whistler. Oh, I'm going there tomorrow. You're going to Whistler tomorrow? Yeah. What?
Starting point is 00:43:06 Yeah, 5 a.m. Oh, my God. I know. So, have you been before? Oh, yeah, yeah. Numerous times. Yeah. So are you going to ski?
Starting point is 00:43:13 No, well, I wish, but I think it's the snow's melted there. Oh, sure. On my. I'm like, it's my. It's almost June. You dumbies. Just because it's Canada doesn't mean there's snow, you American. Honey?
Starting point is 00:43:27 Hey, babe. Hey, babe. I wish I was going to snowboard, but. No, one of my girlfriends just had a baby, and they have a place up there. She actually had the baby last night, but I've been planning to go there to see the baby. And her first baby was two weeks early, so we assumed me going tomorrow would be plenty of time. But she just had her last night. I know.
Starting point is 00:43:47 But that's okay, because I'm going to see her for the weekend. She's got some exciting babies ready to get out. No, it was late. Oh, late. Yeah, not excited. It's stubborn. I don't follow. I'm not.
Starting point is 00:43:58 We're drunk. Yeah, I'm drunk. No, but I love Vancouver. We did grouse. The Grouse Mountain ground. Oh. And that thing's a mile straight up a hill. And my dad and I did that. You're telling me. It was our first father's son trip we ever did. Oh, that's so nice.
Starting point is 00:44:11 Actually, yeah, I couldn't think of a better spot to do it really for a father's son thing because there's a lot to do there. It's outdoors. Yeah, yeah. Because you. It's nightlife and everything too. Okay, stop. I know you guys are eating your kale, checking out the ingredients on your almond milk and doing all that extra work to make sure you're being healthy. So I just learned that apparently most multivitamins aren't even as clean as a bag of organic potato chips. Seriously. So we care so much about our food, but we don't even know what's in
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Starting point is 00:46:17 And also remember to rate and review. Now back to Off the Vine with Caitlin Bristow. I do my research. I was finding this funny, like, interviewing friends because I'm like, I get to find out a lot. about like friends when I interview them where it would be weird if I like just like bombarded you with questions at dinner but it's cool if I do it here yeah so like so my next question no but that's nice that you got to do a father son trip and that you went to Vancouver yeah because I saw that you like to be outdoors I do I love to be outdoors and your dad's the same way my dad's the same
Starting point is 00:46:50 way yeah I think um I think the whole family likes to be outdoors the grass grinds no joke no honestly and I was so out of shape at that point in my life and I'm still I'm just now getting back actually I need to get up with Sean I'm working out on a regular right now and so I'm feeling pretty good about it but back then I was not and this thing called the grass mountain grind yeah it's a grind is a grind it's straight up it's not even a path no people think it's like it's like it's like going to be a nice hike and then they're like it's not stairs and stuff yeah it's like you're stepping you're climbing on routes and and uh it's like they mark the um like first quarter halfway third quarter end yeah we got to first quarter and you're like, is this a joke? I thought, I might hop the gondola and meet you up there. I know. You're like, is this a sick joke? But it was awesome.
Starting point is 00:47:35 Yeah. And that's so beautiful. Vancouver's like a... So pretty. I mean, yeah, it's a special place. It's really cool. Did you not try the weed while you're out there? That's before I smoked me.
Starting point is 00:47:44 Oh, man, you're missing out. I totally did because my dad smokes now too. Oh, there you go. We could have had a blast, but next time. Well, that just calls for another father-son adventure. Yes, we're overdue. It'll be much different this time. You will not be doing it.
Starting point is 00:47:56 the grouse grind if you take my advice. And weed is legal in all of Canada as of July 1st. Whoa, zers. This coming July? Yeah. Come on. Game changer. Whoa. I know. Recreational. Yeah. The whole Canada-wide. Yeah. Justin Trudeau.
Starting point is 00:48:12 Wow. Another reason to move to Canada. There you go. Just another reason to go. I'm just kidding. But I do love Canada. No. Canada loves here. Proud American era, but love Canada. I have another story actually if it's cool. What? Yeah, of course. I was touring with Brantley Gilbert in Canada And I was playing a song
Starting point is 00:48:31 I have a song called American Muscle Yeah And I played over here You know, crowd loves it and stuff It's about, you know It's just testosterone-driven Song about a few things that America has given the world You know, rock and roll and muscle cars
Starting point is 00:48:45 And that kind of stuff And it's a cool energy song You know, it hypes the crowd And so I just figured I didn't even think twice about it I just figured I'll just play it over there and that'll be cool, you know, and the first night I remember, because at the end of the song, back here in the States, at the end of the song, I take an American flag, and I do, I wave
Starting point is 00:49:03 the flag, you know, over the crowd, and everybody loves that. Yeah, it's a cool moment. Yeah. Over there, I tried it without even thinking twice, and it just obviously didn't go over, you know what I mean, it didn't go over the same way. And there was a couple booze, you know, I was like, oh, man, I was like, I'm direct support for Brantley here. I don't want to, you know, I want to hype the crowd.
Starting point is 00:49:24 I'm all the crowd booing on the last song. And so the next night, I changed it up. And I got a Canadian flag, and I put it side by side. I had somebody. And you were back in. Matt Haynes, again, was working for me at the time. And he went and got this Canadian flag and put it side by side back to back on the same pole as the American flag. Right?
Starting point is 00:49:45 He is the one that tied it all up and handed it to me for Showtime. So I get out there, American Musla, end of the song, waving it around. and I hear booze again I'm like what the heck y'all and later on after the show I find out through Twitter it's like you know it wasn't that bad but it was basically like
Starting point is 00:50:05 you know on the fucks the Canadian flag upside down that's disrespectful oh no God are you kidding me oh no Matt what are you trying to kill my career or what bro so I had an upside down
Starting point is 00:50:17 Canadian flag singing American muscle you know what I mean and then finally I didn't go well finally we found a good rhythm we've got the flag hangar right and it was like exactly you stretch you grow so but i love Canada it's always been one of my favorite places to play actually because people are so passionate about music up there they really are they show up ready and they show up in large numbers it's and they love country music they love country music
Starting point is 00:50:45 and that's what i love that i think you have that duality of being being able to like write a really romantic love song but also like tear it up with the crowd it and you know like that's what i love that's my favorite part of all of it is just yeah i grew up playing rock and roll and so i love i love a show that's high energy yeah that's what it's it's sean would uh relate to you with he likes canada like loves it obviously but he's like so proud to be american awesome speaking of sean that was my segue nice to get to the confession booth Where we confess our sins
Starting point is 00:51:25 And then we wash it away with our wine That sounds amazing Do you have a confession? Were you prepared for this? I wasn't. What? A confession? Am I supposed to have a confession?
Starting point is 00:51:40 Wait, I forget we're friends And we've just talked about podcasting And your people have a confession right now? Yes. Oh my God, really? Are you playing me? I swear I'm not. I swear I'm not.
Starting point is 00:51:51 You never told me about it. text to me, said podcast, I said, sweet. This is so funny. I forget because usually... Unless I dropped the ball, I swear, I did not know about this. I'm sorry. No, I dropped the ball because now that I think about this, I'm like, no, usually the people that book, the people that come on my podcast, tell them ahead of time, think of a confession
Starting point is 00:52:11 that you want to share on my podcast. But I realized that I talked to you because we're friends and I was like, oh, I didn't tell you about having a confession. I have a confession. You do? Yeah. Okay. This is not good.
Starting point is 00:52:22 Oh, that's even better. I'm embarrassed about this one. That's the perfect kind of confession. But... I'm ready. I like to think of it as me being ahead of my time. Okay. Okay, you like my spin on it.
Starting point is 00:52:36 I put myself in a positive life. Spin zone. Yeah. You go to spin zone in the right way. Oh, God, I don't know. I don't know. It's not that bad. It actually is really bad, but it's not... I don't know.
Starting point is 00:52:48 Okay, you just... I don't want people to see me in the wrong way. You just told us to you... like did a upside-down Canadian flag while singing an American song in Canada. Accidentally, accidentally. I wasn't out there on purpose. But, all right, here's what happened. Okay.
Starting point is 00:53:02 This is in college. You can tell me, oh, well, then enough said. It's not even, you're going to hear it and you're going to be like, it's not that bad. Yeah, I know. But to me, as like a man's man, dude thing, this is not one of my proudest moments. But before, okay, back in the day when I was in college, fashion trends were different than they are now. Of course. Okay.
Starting point is 00:53:23 The fashion trend went from comfortable, loose fit to everything's fitted. Everything's fitted and real tight now. Yeah. Which is cool, you know. Back then, I was trying to do something different because I was like, I don't know, you know. Like, I'm an artist. I don't know. I don't know if I was, I guess I was just looking for some kind of fit with some jeans that I could not find.
Starting point is 00:53:50 Yeah. except for girls jeans oh right okay i and this is i found out that there was a girl's cut yeah that was what i was looking for yeah that they didn't make in the guys cut which incidentally is now the guys cut yeah it's basically it was skinny jeans yeah they didn't have that for guys in college when i was in college so now they've got skinny jeans and it's a normal thing but back then I was looking for it no not knowing it I was probably just being a weirdo but I but I was looking for a tighter fit gene at the time didn't have it so I turned to the to the chick eye one time it only happened once and I got rid of them because I was ridiculed
Starting point is 00:54:36 I was honest with my buddies you know I got ridiculed for it and I threw them out but but nowadays it's basically going to you're like you're shopping in the girls section I really wish I kept those jeans literally like you're shopping in the girls sessions these days with guys jeans have you seen Sean's pants Yeah, he looks great. You know, all the guys, it's like the thing to do now. It's no big deal. But back then it was a crazy fight. But Sean likes leggings.
Starting point is 00:54:57 Leggings. Like spandex. Yeah, like there are times where I'm like, we could share a closet. He actually bought a Canadian hoodie the other day in the airport because he was cold. Yeah. And I was like, I mean, I know you like tight clothes, but like that's. And then he was like. Let them breathe a little.
Starting point is 00:55:16 And then he gave me the Canadian hoodie. And it fit me perfect. And that just shows you how... Oh, he likes tight shirts, too. Tight everything. Okay. And I used to make fun of him. Got to show the muscles off.
Starting point is 00:55:28 Yeah, well, exactly. And I used to be like, you just love when people see your muscles, but I realize it's actually an OCD thing for him. Oh, it is? Yeah. So he always says that, because he'll do this thing. It's actually, now I find adorable, he'll pull his left shoulder up and his right bottom of his shirt down, and it's an OCD thing.
Starting point is 00:55:49 But I dug a little deeper, and I talked to his dad. Hey, babe. Hey, babe. Hey, babe's dad. Hey, babe, dad. Why does he do that? And he said that one of his favorite basketball players did that. Oh, no way.
Starting point is 00:56:07 And Shamm won't admit it. But I love it because I think it's so cute. Your next son. Admit it. Just admit it. It's so cute. His favorite basketball player from one of his little pulled a shoulder and pulled down, his jersey. And so now if you look at Sean's shirts, he gets little tiny rips at the bottom right end of the shirt.
Starting point is 00:56:25 And the tops are like crinkled because he pulls them up so often. That's cool. You know that about him. That's cool. That's the little stuff. And honestly, like it annoyed me at first that I thought he just liked his clothes tight. And now I'm like, oh, it's like a comfort thing. And that's really sweet.
Starting point is 00:56:39 Yeah. Yeah. Oh, you guys are so cute. Ah, yeah. We're all cute. Yeah, you're a great couple. We love you guys. We love you guys.
Starting point is 00:56:47 And congrats on this podcast and all you're all you're all. you guys are awesome you know what good things happen to good people like you guys too i believe that i believe that we we i always use this term pump your tires we pump your guys tires all the time okay you guys remember that netflix original film i was telling you about called abiza only available on netflix well it is now available to watch right now this is the girls trip of the summer when harper's two best friends tag along on her work trip to barcelona they find themselves on a crazy wild adventure through the edm scene to find a hot dj in abiza super funny female driven comedy with amazing scenery a look into some of the insane
Starting point is 00:57:24 abiza clubs and features a fun soundtrack featuring some of the top edm artists hilarious performance from gillian jacobs vanessa bayer my favorite and phoebe robinson it also stars richard madden as the hot dj and live interest to harper the film touches upon themes all women can relate to like how to balance a growing career with personal life travel falling in love and relationships with best friends the women take a trip that despite some major mishaps is the trip of a lifetime people admit i'm just totally reverting back this is not even close to the subject whatever but back to the tight-closed thing yeah now it's weird because i feel like the trend has gone back to loose again do you think so well i don't know what for men or women or
Starting point is 00:58:10 both i've always liked to loose clothing are i seeing some baggy your jeans on girls i love baggy jeans yeah see what i'm saying so then you got that And then the dudes are, you know, we're all wearing our shirts baggyer these days. Yeah. Which somebody asked me recently, why have you lost, you've lost so much weight. I haven't lost any weight. Maybe a couple guys. You're like, I'm just wearing bag your clothes.
Starting point is 00:58:27 Yeah, exactly. Maybe that's why people think that about me. Everyone tells me to eat a cheeseburger, but really I'm just wearing a cozy sweatshirt. Yeah. It's comfy, yo. Exactly. Anyhow, random. But your confession's not that bad.
Starting point is 00:58:40 Random thoughts. You don't think so? No. Girls jeans? It's pretty bad. I mean, it's funny, but it was like, eh, college. Yeah. I mean, usually people are telling me.
Starting point is 00:58:48 like they poop their pants so like that oh i've done that for sure as an adult that's not even ashamed of that you can't help that when it's literally you cannot help that shit that's what i'm saying is that's the majority of confessions that people have on my podcast are about pooping their pants and every single time i'm like farting on a plane is that what mattie and tages yeah that wasn't their confession but we but we had talked about farting on planes and how terrible it is don't act like you haven't done it oh midsleep Fully awake. Don't act like you haven't done it on purpose.
Starting point is 00:59:21 I will 100% wake myself up sometimes and I'll look at Sean and I'll grab his arm and go, I thought it. It was me. Because he gets so mad when people fart on planes that sometimes if I do it like mid-sleep on a plane, I'm like, I go to help it. Somehow I do too. I get like so mad that anyone who would have the gall to do that. And then I'm like, I can't do anything about this anymore. There's nothing you can do about it. I'll never forget.
Starting point is 00:59:47 I was on a plane, a very small plane when I was on, not The Bachelorette, when I was one of 25 women on The Bachelor, and we were traveling around. We were on such a small plane going to Iowa. Oh, no. And there was all of us girls like having drinks, having fun. Somebody's letting go. And then one man in front of us. That was it. And you could watch the wave.
Starting point is 01:00:07 How do you know it was the man, though? Because you could watch the wave of people going. It started from him. The face wave. And you could tell it jolted him. and he'll get him up and then you could see the wave of hitting like row
Starting point is 01:00:23 like six, seven, eight, nine all the girls just were like and so you knew it was that guy there was nobody else it could have been plus we all would have admitted it and he was just like sitting there like you know like there's nothing he could do he knew it was him.
Starting point is 01:00:38 I heard a story about somebody recently like some plane had to land because of a fart yeah something was so well no it was somebody took a dump and they had like a disease or something. What?
Starting point is 01:00:48 Literally, the plane smelled so grotesque because of this disease or whatever, that it was actually a health hazard. And they had to land the plane. Like in the air, a health hazard. Did the guy or girl not know? I don't know who, I don't know anything about the story except that. They landed the plane because some dude dropped some nasty. Can you imagine?
Starting point is 01:01:09 Thank God that wasn't my plane. Thank God it wasn't you. Thank God wasn't me. I would never be able to live that down. That actually makes me a little bit. I literally had to land That's so gross Because of a nasty poop
Starting point is 01:01:21 Crazy Now that's a confession That's a big one I should have that person On my podcast Just for the confession Track them down Track them down
Starting point is 01:01:28 I'm putting it out there If anyone knows the guy Who knows the guy Who knows the girl Who whatever Had to land a plane Because of their poop Oh my God
Starting point is 01:01:36 Call me Talk to these people Call me Yes Hey babe Hey babe How bab? Aw
Starting point is 01:01:45 How about? Are about the guy? Leave any milk for me? So how about that almond milk? Oh, no. Okay. Okay. We do that whole thing, too.
Starting point is 01:01:55 It's a learning period. You know, it's like being married and living with someone and getting used to their world. It's an adjustment period. It really is. And I will say for us. Have some mercy. Have some mercy. But for us, it was a little different because we came from much bigger problems.
Starting point is 01:02:14 that to living together became small problems but now that'll get on anybody's nerves so that now I can be like thank God we only fight about the dishes you know like because we came from deep emotions of like dealing with some
Starting point is 01:02:29 I mean anyone would you know if it was the other way around and he had dated all these women I'd still be talking about it to this day right right I just unplugged my headphones oh that happens all the time Back, hey, babe, babe. You want to plug that back again, back?
Starting point is 01:02:45 Babe, one, two. Oh, I'm trying to look. Okay, I also had written down that you started a band in sixth grade. Please tell me the name of your band. Anchor. We were, we were known as Enco. Yeah. Deep.
Starting point is 01:02:58 So deep. And what was the reasoning behind it? Check it out. It was a, we were, we went to a Christian school. Yeah. I'll take another glass. Of course you will. We were in a Christian school.
Starting point is 01:03:09 I grew up going to a Christian school. I grew up going to a Christian school. I'll have some wine, please. Thank you so much So K through eighth grade I was in a private real small Christian school in Virginia And me and my buddies were It was just I think we were 12 years old 11 or 12
Starting point is 01:03:28 And it was just that time in my life Where I needed some distraction You know I was going through a family crisis At that moment and I picked up a guitar basically And that was my distraction actually my getaway. And so me and my dad was a musician, right? He was a musician.
Starting point is 01:03:44 My dad was a singer in a band. Yeah. It's in my love. So I ended up going to my dad's rehearsals and checking out the scene that way. And I really fell in love with music. Yeah, babe. Babe, not now. Not now.
Starting point is 01:04:02 So I went to my dad's rehearsals and I fell in love with music and I decided after this tragedy. I lost my brother in a car accident is what happened. And then so I didn't know that until today, by the way. Oh, really? Yes, I did not know that. So sorry. Well, thank you. And we made it through just like everybody does.
Starting point is 01:04:19 And it was just a tough time. And so music actually helped me get through that. And I play rock and roll with my buddies in the garage, just like, you know, the old school way. Yeah. But we were serious about it at an early age for some reason. Because you did it for a long time with the same group, right? Yeah, we stayed together up until college. That's amazing.
Starting point is 01:04:38 Yeah, all through high school and stuff. That must have been so nice for you to have that. We wrote songs together, and we were young kids trying to do it. And we went on the road. Our parents were driving us around to play these shows. How great are your parents, too, for that? They're awesome. I've never had a shortage of support, you know.
Starting point is 01:04:54 And that's been a really something I've been so grateful for all along. Still am. But, yeah, so I played way back then and fell in love with the whole process of being on the road. I think that's why I love it so much today. You know, stepping on a tour. Because you're like this is a childhood dream. Yeah, it was a childhood. dream and so every time i step on that bus i still feel like i'm living the dream and you probably have
Starting point is 01:05:15 so much gratitude towards it too just from like where it all stemmed from and where it came from that like now you can do that and that that's where it came from that's so sweet and i've actually we had a excuse me we had a falling out right your band we did anchor senior year of high school oh no oh no it was just you know typical band stuff that happens creative differences i guess or whatever and and but i got to experience that in a way that that that drove you me to Nashville. You know, I was, I may have not moved to Nashville and pursued country music had I not gone through that band breakup back in the day.
Starting point is 01:05:49 And so. And then you would not have been opening for. And then I wouldn't have opened for love and theft. And I wouldn't have met my wife. And I wouldn't be hanging out on this podcast. And we wouldn't be here right now. Hey, babe. Hey, babe.
Starting point is 01:06:03 Jot this one down in the memory book. Yeah. Oh my gosh. This is so weird. There's been times through this whole podcast, and actually before this, but today especially, you remind me so much of one of my best buddies from back home. Who is it? His name's Ryan Keller.
Starting point is 01:06:21 What's up, Ryan? And he's probably cooler than me. That's something he would do. Really? What up Ryan? Uh-uh. His name's Ryan Keller. Is he a dork?
Starting point is 01:06:30 I'm like, your answer was yes. Don't act like your answer wasn't. Does he listen to these podcasts? He actually is a musician as well. Okay. And he's really talented and he's really. funny and Sean loves them and you guys kind of have similar like mannerisms and like I don't know what it is your like vibe kind of reminds me of each other but certain things like how we keep bringing
Starting point is 01:06:50 up the hey babe I'm like that is so something he would do sorry I just had to meet right yeah you would really like him he's awesome I like good people he's great people awesome my other question to you was what what got you into country music did you always like country because I feel like I picture you as this more rock and roll guy now that I hear you say about your band anchor I didn't always like country but I didn't always know country either okay you know because my town my town that I grew up in my circle of friends I was with nobody listened to country really my life and that's yeah that just wasn't country music was was for older people see and that's I grew up only listening to country music all my friends listen to country and that's like what we loved but I'm 35 I'm 33 oh okay
Starting point is 01:07:37 well all right so same time period but I think it's just where I grew up like everybody just like we had parties in the bushes and listen to country music and everybody drove trucks and it was like a really small town country so that was a different different vibe I mean we went mudden and stuff like that but it was in a Jeep it wasn't a jacked up truck yeah and it was um we were listening I was an hour from the beach and so there was a you know it was sort of more of like a sublime influence yes chili peppers and all that stuff and then Garth Brooks yeah you know what I'm saying and there would you know so there was one one song that would pop up on everybody's mixtapes, everybody's burnt CDs that they had, you know, now they're called Playlists, but back then we all had a burnt CD of our favorite songs from Napster or Linewire. Yeah. And I would always, I remember it was random
Starting point is 01:08:22 because I had a bunch of my rock and roll stuff and everything that was happening in that scene. And then I would have like a Garth Brooks or a George Strait song on there that made its way. And then eventually, after me and the band broke up in high school, when I moved to college, I realized I could connect to the stories in country music really well.
Starting point is 01:08:40 And I started realizing that I could actually maybe do what I want to do musically but also tell a story like country music does. That's something that felt very natural for me to kind of play the rock and roll thing musically but want to say something that people can connect to. And I found that, you know, and I acts like Dirk's Bentley, his first record
Starting point is 01:09:06 I was a huge fan of and still am and we got to tour together which was a full circle, you know, career moment for me. Yeah, no kidding. And that was awesome. And I just remember there being a longing in my creative self to tell stories
Starting point is 01:09:26 and to also enjoy playing rock and roll at the same time. And that's sort of kind of what I'm, what I've set out to do with my stuff now It's just musically be inspired and then just talk about what's real. Because you're a good storyteller, which translates into your music. And I think that's really cool about country music. And I think that may be why I have always been drawn to country music is because I do feel like there's something about it that's more storytelling than other.
Starting point is 01:09:52 And it's not like sitting around once upon a time. My truck got stolen. No, I'm just talking about, you know, like the words, you're going to hear the words hopefully and be like, oh, yeah, yeah, cool. That's me too. Relatable. You know what I mean? Yeah. I would hope that people would think that about my music.
Starting point is 01:10:09 And I'm not always, I don't always get it right. I know that's for sure. But I'm definitely aiming. That would be weird if you did. Yeah, exactly. But I'm definitely aiming to be myself and connect to people. I think that the music is so powerful and its ability to do that. It really is.
Starting point is 01:10:26 Yeah, it's crazy. And I do think, well, everybody relates differently. I guess just for me, country music has always been that for me. So that's why I relate to it so much more. I'm like, yeah, but country music for me. Like, but other people, you know, they can listen to a rock song or they can listen to a rap song and relate more. But for me, it's country. But I just, I just love it.
Starting point is 01:10:44 I love your, well, obviously, I love you like that because it's my song. But I love all the metaphors. Yeah. I love a good metaphor. Yeah, classic. Yeah, it's really good. And I'm quite smart. Strong as a sip of whiskey.
Starting point is 01:10:59 What is it? It used to be sip of whiskey. That's actually how we wrote it. Oh. And then we changed it to fifth of whiskey. Which is cooler, too. I like that. Yeah, sip of whiskey sounds like girls' jeans.
Starting point is 01:11:11 When I said it, I was like, wait, that wasn't right. I was like, wait, that wasn't right. Hi, Ben. Hey, babe, could you pull up the lyrics? Go, go, I'll love you like that lyrics. Text them to me. Got it on silent now. Do you not disturb.
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Starting point is 01:12:22 so Sean crush in his workouts do you work out with him? Yes and no I love how you just turned this interview around No I don't know I'm no that's good I like it I like it to no I actually actually like that. At the end of some interviews, I actually ask people if they want to ask me anything because I like it. Yeah. When we was talking, we're friends. He's so passionate. I've never
Starting point is 01:12:43 met a guy more passionate about fitness. Like, it's not, it's not, it's not that he just, you know, like, falls into that role because of the world he came from. Like, he is so passionate about health and well-being. So, no, I don't work out with him. It's like, no, I can't keep up. I can't keep up. But I also don't. like my significant other telling me what to do. Hey, babe. Please stop. Drop and give me 20.
Starting point is 01:13:13 Yeah, I'm like, no, no, I won't drop and give you a ton. Until you stop eating my damn eggs. Yeah, yeah, exactly. Make the bed properly. Make the bed right now. And we'll talk about some jumping jack. No, I do once in a while because he is really good and I can't deny that. But yeah, he's just killing it.
Starting point is 01:13:31 He's got an app coming out. His meal plans kill it. He's just, you know, good things happen to good people. You're dang right, they do. You're dang right. And are you, so you're going tomorrow to Vancouver? I am. Dang, on a 5 a.m.?
Starting point is 01:13:42 Is that what you said? Well, I have to be there at 5am. It's at 555, a little bit of an early flight. And it's not a quick trek over there. It's three flights. Oh, man. Yeah. Yeah, it's a long haul.
Starting point is 01:13:55 But, you know, my best friends are like the best people you've ever met. Isn't that so important to have people like that, that you can just, fully be yourself around that's exactly it and they just honestly like I always make time to go home and spend time with my family and friends because I've realized even from I mean I'm sure people realize it's just the older they get but even just being from an industry that I'm in like how quickly friendships can come and go or people want to like drop your friendship or pick it up or whatever I just find that like I've really I now cherish the friendships that I have and so I'm so excited. I'm like, I don't care if I didn't need to take like eight flights to get to see
Starting point is 01:14:35 my new niece. Her name is Rome. How cute is that? Yeah, it's really cute. Rome and they call her Romy. Oh, no way. That's what I call my buddy. Really? Call him Romy. His name's Adam Romaine. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. And I call him Romy. Yeah, that's a cool name. So we're actually thinking about baby names. We're not pregnant. We're not pregnant. We're not pregnant. No, no, not yet. Not yet. But you're not trying. We're not trying. We got names, which is a step. But we are. We got a list. I was going to say. In our five. I was going to say, do you have notes in your phones? We got some good ones.
Starting point is 01:15:04 We actually just found out through Christy's sister that there's a family name that we didn't know existed that we freaking love. Bad ass? Yeah. Don't tell us. I'm not going to tell you. You don't have to. I have so many names. It's awesome.
Starting point is 01:15:16 Do you? Yes. You guys talk about it together? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. We have some favorites at the top? We talk more about babies and baby names than we do about getting married. Nice.
Starting point is 01:15:25 The only time, I say this all the time, but I'm like, yeah, but I'm Canadian. I kind of need a green card. Like, marry me. Right. Oh, yes, right. Yeah. I'm on a work visa. Are you really?
Starting point is 01:15:35 Yeah. Okay. So it's a little challenging. But, I mean, it's fine right now. I'm on a three-year-old visa. How hard are those to get? In your situation, not. In my situation, not hard.
Starting point is 01:15:42 I feel bad for people who actually have to go through, like, difficult times to be together in different countries because holy shit, it can be a huge pain in the ass. But I'm very, very fortunate because I'm in the world of entertainment. And so I have an O-1 entertainment visa. But every single time across the border, the border guy's like, what do you do? I'm like, what? It's like, he's like, he's like, he's like, he's like, he's like, he me yeah i'm like google it bitch yeah exactly but no
Starting point is 01:16:06 every time he's like why they don't just he asked for your ID and you say it's right here yeah you know who this is you're right actually every single time I'm like oh I was on I never want to be like I was the bachelor I'm like I was on a TV show what TV show a reality show what one
Starting point is 01:16:21 bachelor my wife loves that I'm like and then I'm through and then they connect the dots and I'm like man when this visa's up I'm not even going to say I'm just going to drop that they give you their car they say next time you come through you want to quickly yeah yeah it's always a hookup and that's funny how people want to be connected to to energy like that celebrity stardom it blows my mind because certain things like um like even cousins um coming out of the woodwork yeah just like people who maybe i talk to like
Starting point is 01:16:54 but now we're like you know i'm like they're your best friend i'm like i'm the same person I'm the exact same person I always have been my friends will say that about me maybe even just a little more grounded and humble now than I was before I was kind of a cocky shit back in my day like I'm more humble now
Starting point is 01:17:12 and now I find like we work together like two shifts at a restaurant like we're not friends just because I come into Vancouver for two days I want to see my friends and family like what makes you think I'm going to come hang out with you not that I'm above you no way it's just you didn't ask me to hang out
Starting point is 01:17:29 before exactly yeah exactly it has nothing to do with we weren't boys before yeah why now yeah it's so weird oh well it's yeah oh well you know what my favorite saying is that whitney bischoff taught me hey babe so what oh hey babe hey babe hey babe and so what so what that's a good one and and if something like really bothers you if it's a big deal like life changing okay fine but if it's not so what you know what you can spin it too is so what can be so what you know who can cares but it also be so what like so what are you going to do about so so what so what so what so what? So what? So what? So what? So what? Like, like, so what? So what? Like, so what? So what? Like, so what? Yeah. It's like, what are you going to do with this situation? Yes, exactly. Love it. Take it, run with it, run with it. Paint your own picture. I have a few more
Starting point is 01:18:21 questions for you and then we'll wrap it up. Please bring them on. I love this. Who has been your favorite country artist to work with? Artists in general, but that's probably country. Well, It's going to be Florida, Georgia, line. Yeah. For sure. Yeah. We just signed officially. Actually, I just did the press photo today.
Starting point is 01:18:35 We just signed a deal. That's why your hair looks so good. A publishing. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for noticing. And these are men's jeans. They're starting to make them tight.
Starting point is 01:18:45 I wasn't going to bring it up. No, but they just signed me to their publishing company tree vibes as a staff songwriter. And I now have a production deal with them as well. So we're going to be. Why didn't I bring a bottle of champagne? Well, this, you brought a bottle of rosé. Yeah, but it's gone. Well, I'm sure we can.
Starting point is 01:19:04 I know, I'm like, you got, John's on his phone out there. I'm like, John, you want to put it about champagne? Hey, I, hi, I, hey, babe. You got another bottle of wine going on that for us? He's laughing, but he's like, are you serious? Fresh out. Yeah, fresh out. Oh, wow.
Starting point is 01:19:20 Wow, fresh out. Could they hear his voice on the podcast? Yeah, yeah. Oh, nice. I like when he comes in. Say it again. Fresh out. Say fresh out.
Starting point is 01:19:28 Fresh out He's a geekily this time now You gotta say in the I used to work in the restaurant biz And if something was If we were like fresh out of it You called it 86 Oh hey what's going on in the control room
Starting point is 01:19:42 Yeah are we 86 wine? 86 on the wine dog 86 on the wine dog Hey I want a shirt that says that 86 on the wine dog Okay By the way have you got into Puppies make me happy yet
Starting point is 01:19:56 That brand Yes The yoga brand I have a great, I'm like looking at you like you're crazy and I'm like, wait, I have a sweater that says that. Yes, puppies make me happy. It's a yoga clothing brand. Yeah, my wife loves it. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:20:06 I met the dude that runs it out there in California. He's sent us a box of stuff. Oh, amazing. Some of my favorite shirts actually. They're so comfy. They've got great material. It's cool stuff. We do yoga now.
Starting point is 01:20:15 Oh, you do? I don't know if you knew that about it. No? Do you guys do yoga? Okay, we have talked about this for so long because we, I used to love, I used to do yoga every single day. I lived in Newfoundland, Canada, and I used to do yoga every day. day sometimes twice a day wow they were i was going to teach at the studio but um i ended up moving legit um but yeah love yoga sean's always wanted to get into yoga because he loves
Starting point is 01:20:38 the idea of like healthy mind yeah and i mean he's like he can only be healthy so much in his body that he needs to take it to his mind like he's all about wanting to get into yoga so tell us everything sweet where do you go how about spiritual health is he into that too yeah anything that's health related he's he's open love it totally open we do we do you do yoga we did a thing on YouTube just at the house yeah christia and i did this uh it's called yoga with adrian do you do that or something no yeah it's called yoga with adrian and this chick she's really good and simple oh like you just watch it on youtube i thought you were saying you guys did a yoga no we weren't like teaching people no no no what do you call what i'm not a yogi a yogi or sense
Starting point is 01:21:19 or whatever you call them i don't know yogi yogi but we did it we did it on youtube and we really uh kind of started loving it it's super hard It's hard to do, actually. Yeah, it is. Yoga is definitely not an easy thing. We were doing it this morning, actually. That's why it's so rewarding. It is.
Starting point is 01:21:36 It's rewarding. It'll kick your ass, but it also does, you can start to see results. But I like the way it makes me feel when I'm done doing it. You just kind of feel like you got a massage or something because you're all stretched out and relax. Yeah. It's like a deep tissue thing, you know what I mean? But you do the work. Toxins leave your body and you're still.
Starting point is 01:21:53 No, it's true. Yeah. I honestly was like, that's good. That's good. Whatever floats your boat, you know. Thanks. I appreciate people to let me be myself. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:22:05 That's why we're friends. Hey. Hey. Hey. Even your laugh. I got to introduce you to my friend, Ryan. Right. You guys have the same little freaking laugh.
Starting point is 01:22:16 Okay. Last couple questions. Okay. If you could collaborate with anyone dead or alive. Ooh. Who would it be? Oh, man. You know, I just recently thought how freaking cool it would be to do something with a
Starting point is 01:22:28 band like the chili peppers oh they used to be my favorite bad in the whole world bad ass and they're classic chili peppers and nirvana were my favorite nirvana same thing obviously i love those guys but i think chili peppers that whole vibe so unique it's so unique and it's so badass and you just can't replicate it i don't i mean no you cannot and if anybody tried you'd be like stop being the the chili peppers exactly yeah that's so true and i just wish so bad that i could uh you know do something with them because i think that it would be awesome yeah maybe one day that's a that's a good answer i like that um and i had written down here okay so i was i was gonna talk because you have a tour coming up right now yeah i'm actually
Starting point is 01:23:10 on tour right in this room i caught you had a great time this is your you're at sound check right now i'm part you're witnessing the sound check i am the tour you are the tour off the vine is on the back of a shirt yes it's like your tour dates and one is off the vine 2018 love shack studios Nashville, Tennessee. That's right. Yeah, it's got the date in the other day yet. Yes. But, yeah, I'm doing it right now.
Starting point is 01:23:31 Oh, amazing. I'm playing this weekend in Indianapolis. We're doing the Indianapolis 500 with Sam Hunt. Oh, that's cool. It's going to be awesome. Sam Hunt. He just came back with a little jam, didn't he? Yeah, he did.
Starting point is 01:23:43 Downtown's Day. There we go. What was my, oh, I'm going to put, when this comes out, this podcast, if you could send me a link, and then I'll put up the tour dates. Oh, thanks. Yeah, because people need to see you live. Nice. need, it's life-changing, they need to see it.
Starting point is 01:24:01 But I had, this is what I had in my notes. I was like, I'll put up your link to your tour dates because people need to see you live, but you're phenomenal live, but my favorite Canaan might be karaoke canaan. Ah, yes. In a robe. Yes.
Starting point is 01:24:14 All right, so we had, for people that don't know what that reference is, we had a party at our house. My wife and I threw a New Year's Eve party, our first year in our new home, and we'd only been in a couple months. and we just decided to go all out and we invited a bunch of people and we had a theme of pajama party
Starting point is 01:24:33 yeah pajama party so you guys show up looking all cute and awesome we got our onesies on yeah and I'm wearing this and you had your long long hair at the time too this kimono yeah this silky yeah I had long hair what was I doing it looked at it was awesome
Starting point is 01:24:48 it was awesome it was very Kurt Cobain of you it was so Kurt but I was yeah now we were just kind of having a freak show of a night you know everybody's just getting sloshed and having fun but we had set up karaoke in the garage yeah it was so much fun like lyrics i run into machine we had like the when everybody went home i was still going you were still out there singing by yourself yeah yeah sean was like my main audience yeah yeah yes that was so much fun oh here's the best part so why do i keep talking about
Starting point is 01:25:16 matt but remember matt yes he was there that night okay and his big he's like the karaoke god yeah this dude any other time would jumped on the mic and sang until you pulled him off. Yeah. This particular night, he says, no, I don't want to do it. You know, Caitlin has zillions of followers. It's going to end up on social media. I'm going to look like an idiot.
Starting point is 01:25:38 So the best thing is you started recording when he said, because we started chanting, man, man, man, man, man. So I was like, ooh, this is good content. Yeah. So you start recording live on your feet or whatever. And then you tagged him, right? Didn't you tag him at Matt Haynes or whatever. I don't even know. Somebody has told me.
Starting point is 01:25:56 like tag him and I was like cool and then he was like no so what he ended up what he didn't want to have happened ended up happening is that he did look like because he channeled it you know he really put it out into the universe and we got them we got them it was so much
Starting point is 01:26:12 we didn't we sing a karaoke song we didn't know the words we were doing like karaoke roulette where you had to just pick a song and then it came on and it was well we had the book and everything yeah it was legit set up tons of songs and yeah we sang to the Cal came home we had a blast it was so much fun we need to do that again yeah new year's
Starting point is 01:26:30 different no that's too far away maybe hey my birthday's june 19th oh june i see we can pull something together hey babe hi babe are you on tour or uh could you show me the calendar i need a book a couple of things the old sean would have done it ha ha nice yeah sean come on man what's all these 2015 romantic sean yeah that's right let's make it let's make it let's spice it up again man Turn it up. Done. Okay. Wait, what's your other, what's the song?
Starting point is 01:27:00 This is, I'm so random all over the place. What's the song? This night back? No. No. What's the, wait, what's the song? Hell yeah. That's this night back.
Starting point is 01:27:09 Oh, I love that one. Sean and I have that on all the time right now. Sean texted me, actually. Oh, he did? Yeah, when that song came out, he texts. Oh, yeah, he loves it. He texted me, said that y'all were downtown and he had played it on the, on the jukebox or whatever. Yes.
Starting point is 01:27:24 We actually, we played it like, I mean, yesterday and today. It's on his playlist, so we listen to it all the time. But what was the song? I was in my notes from back at the beginning of this podcast, I had written down. Oh, hole in a bottle. Yeah. That's like a party anthem, right?
Starting point is 01:27:40 That was my second single. Yes. Off of Bronco, and it was, yeah, a song I still believe in, and I think it's always... No, it's starting to climb the charts, is it not? Well, no, no, no, we're done working that one. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, yeah, just kidding. It's so good, though.
Starting point is 01:27:55 It did well, you know, it did well. It wasn't a number one, but it did well on radio well enough. And, you know, people know it, and I still love playing it. So it's definitely, whenever you can have a song that makes people want to party. Absolutely. That's a good thing. Hell yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:28:11 It's my favorite part of the song, sorry. We let it all go. It's so good. Okay, well, I had like three more paragraphs, but we have to wrap it up. I also have to pee so bad. Oh, my God. Get out of here. Don't fart on a plane.
Starting point is 01:28:23 Thanks for having me I won't I'll just pee my pants Hey Payne Can you bring me some wipes Gonna pay my pants That's The other day I was in traffic And I'm like
Starting point is 01:28:33 I really had to pee If I did That would be really funny For a podcast confession So I like considered it Just have I didn't do it I didn't do it
Starting point is 01:28:44 That's a confession In and of itself You're right You're right it is The fact that I would even think about it Is kind of embarrassing A little thirsty A little thirsty
Starting point is 01:28:53 Thursday. Anyways. Thank you so much. We'll have to do another date night. Say when. When are you? We'll talk about this after when I'm done recording. Okay.
Starting point is 01:29:04 Yeah. I'm here during the weeks. Tell me where. Okay, everybody listening on me home on the weekdays and I'm out on the weekend. So if y'all want to play quiplash or sing karaoke, hollery on me. Yes, all of the things. Quiplash, fibbage, karaoke and another haunted house. Oh.
Starting point is 01:29:19 And not Wendy's, at least not the one on Thompson Lane. The one that has changed. cheese or the Taco Bell over there where can people find you where can people hit me up on instagram it's at canaan smith c-a-an-a-n-n-smith and then um that double a-a-n will throw you off yeah that double a is on the back half c-a-a-n yeah um and then uh twitter and facebook same thing but uh yeah i'm on tour right now and real excited about the new music i'm making uh at tree vibes and and i just thankful for every day really to be able to get to do what i love and well you're good at it well thank you really good at it and
Starting point is 01:29:53 And you as well. At what? Talking smack and drinking wine. Yeah. Being a star. I'm Kate Lerston. I'll see you next Tuesday. Thanks for listening to Off the Vine with Caitlin Briscoe.
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