Off The Vine with Kaitlyn Bristowe - DM Slides, Dog Co-Parenting & Difficult Times with Amanda Hirsch
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I wanted to start the podcast off by saying thank you because I was off social media when you did that post about my breakup.
Yeah.
And I was like, wow, actually somebody told me I was on my friend's boat for her birthday in Vancouver and somebody was like, not skinny, not that came to your like defense with people.
And I was like, really?
But I was off social media.
So I looked at it in the last couple of days.
I was like, oh, that was really nice of you to stand up for me like that.
Because I knew it was going to happen.
I knew as soon as Jason, I called off an engagement.
I mean, it was already my fault when we weren't posting enough and people were questioning everything.
It was always like, God, you're ruining another good thing.
This is what you do.
I couldn't believe it.
When I saw your stories pre-announcement.
Yeah.
And you were like, you know, let people.
I think, by the way, you're lucky that I'm a, I'm a real life friend.
Yeah.
Because if I was just my gossip queen and we didn't have a relationship.
Yes.
What would you do?
That's what, well, no, but here's the line.
It's like, it was, nothing mean.
Yeah, yeah.
But like, you, you posted something and deleted it.
I forget what it was.
Oh, shit, what I do.
I don't remember what it was.
You post something and deleted it about like, you were like, I think it was that.
You were like enough, like let people do things in their own time.
Like something like that.
Oh, yeah, I do remember that.
Yeah.
And I deleted it.
deleted it.
A-sap.
A-sop.
Because my assistant went, no.
Okay, good.
So I saw it.
So, and this was before announcement.
Oh, yeah.
Could have broke it.
Yeah.
Could have broke it.
But I am loyal.
I'm a loyal-less bitch.
Thank you for being a loyal-ass-bitch.
But about defending you, that wasn't a like, I like Caitlin in real life thing.
That was a watching from the side.
And like, first of all, you've been, you've shared on stories before of like people that come for you,
the Donna's the whatever, right?
The Donnas, yeah.
And like, people in.
never really know like how bad it could be could be like oh you know she has thin skin she's
complaining about one person right yeah but like what i saw on my end of your breakup not and that
wasn't mean right that's not like the meanest thing anybody's ever said to you but it's like
just like the patriarchy which i'm so not that bitch but like i'm getting to be that big
yeah but it's like whoa i was mind blown by like well you know she's just like prefers her career
Yeah, he wants to settle down.
Poor Jason, like, he's been wanting to settle down.
And I really like Jason, too, like, yeah, yeah.
But I was like, how are you all?
Like, like, I'm getting chills.
Like, 85% of you have decided on this narrative to be true.
Yeah.
Like, I love Caitlin, but she's like, you know, likes to drink wine and, you know, like, whatever it was, it was bombarding me.
Yeah.
From your breakup.
And I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa.
Like, this is so.
up. And ever since then, like, I've noticed other things like just fucking blaming the woman
with it. And sometimes the woman's to blame. Like, I definitely will hold myself accountable for
certain things in the relationship. But like, but you're assuming without knowing anything.
Right. Like, they don't know any. You don't know anything, but you're literally 85% of you are like,
poor Jason. Yeah. Caitlin did this. Yeah. She, all the, all the different things that I'm like,
and then you can go into every reason, right? You could be like, okay,
the reason of like her preferring her career which people are saying yeah are you kidding me so she can't
have a career and she can't do her thing it's wild and again i'm going to chills that it's like
seeing that and seeing that so many people believe one thing to be true yeah it scares me a little
so that's why i had to say it but it was also nice to see how many people agreed with that pose
yes i always talk about how the hate and like all that is just so much louder than the kind words
But if you go looking for the kindness or, like, say something, you get a little bit, like,
reassured that the world, the world isn't so bad.
Yes.
But I knew that that was going to happen.
I didn't know.
You knew it before.
That's why I stayed off social media because I was like, I'm going to take a break.
Did I take a long break?
People are like, oh, I thought you were taking a break.
I'm like, it was two weeks, bitch.
That's a long as time for.
I know.
I couldn't do like a day.
That's, it's literally my job.
Oh, you're back?
Yeah.
You're done grieving.
I'm like, unfollow me then.
You pulled us bitch.
Yeah.
You don't even care about your relationship.
I'm like, I'm still, I'm going to grieve that I'm genuinely lost a friend out of this
breakup.
Like, it's, it's just crazy.
I knew it was going to be bad.
I didn't know it was going to be that bad of what people were saying to me.
Well, I'm just like.
Was it mean or was it just assuming that it's your fault?
Both.
A lot of both.
And I feel like, did you want him to defend you publicly?
Yeah, a little bit.
Just because we talked about, like, protecting each other through it because, like,
Of course, when you go through breakups, you want to have your side and someone have their side
and you want to, like, justify it and say all these things.
But we really agreed on protecting each other.
So when he was kind of leaning into that sad, like, like, puppies, yeah.
Yeah, I was like, bro.
I wondered how you felt about the puppies.
Yeah.
Well, it killed me.
The puppies were a lot.
I mean, the, yeah.
Well, because I said that to my sister, actually.
And again, I like Jason.
But same.
Because the message that he made it sound like he was trying to get across was,
like his friend right right and he could have done the friend being there for him in a much
different way in without the dogs yeah the minute you put the dogs that's like everyone like was
worried about the dogs strings and it's the well and it it didn't protect me because it made me
look like I was taking the dogs away from him yeah I did I just said I literally figured I was
like that's because that's like created in the narrative I mean that's adding it added to it and
the messages that I got after that oh my god and and and
he was like, well, I didn't get one message about it.
And I was like, I did.
And it just made me really sad because the dogs are literally our number one priority through
this.
We are both obsessed with them.
And we have made it very clear that we're going to be sharing them.
How are you going to do that forever though, Caitlin?
I don't know.
You're not thinking about forever.
Well, I like to think dogs live forever.
No, not about, oh my God, I'm doing it again.
I had Katie on my podcast.
Yeah.
And I can't believe I'm repeating this.
I'm going to get canceled.
But whatever.
I had Katie Maloney on my podcast.
after um her and schwartz broke out and and i was like when did you last see schwartz and she was
like when um you know we did the dog exchanges and i was like katie like how long is that going
last and she's like and i was like how old are they oh no and she was like well butter is 11 i was like
oh my god people when i say i was but this i don't care about as much because like i know that
it was in a funny way. I have a dog. He's 11. Obviously, I don't want any animals. Like,
animals are more important than humans, okay? But the way that conversation went, like,
there was that timing of like, oh. You're like, he's 11. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. And people were like,
adding me, like, because I ended up posting it as a clip because I'm a thirsty ass bitch. And I'm
like, this is funny. This is going to get some engagement. So it was literally all like, you know,
Katie. And Katie's like a friend. And they were, and she laughed. She was like, you're a horrible
part like it was like funny but they were like Katie you know hates you and you're horrible and you're
like killing animals and you want them to die and I'm like no but I seriously am such a logical
rational person as much as I get it the sharing custody thing I'm also like how is this feasible
oh yeah yeah yeah how is it um yes I know what you mean how can this stay right the situation
I'm not sure yeah I won't even let the dog see me pack a backpack right because they
have severe abandonment ship issues. They came from the streets of China. I will not let them see a
backpack because they get upset. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So to be recording the U-Haul and letting them out
to see the U-Haul and having them look sad and scared, I was like, oh, I was devastated.
So it's already difficult to share the dogs because I'm like, don't do that to them. And what do you do?
And then I get protective. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I mean, no dogs on social media.
It's so hard. Like, don't put our kids on social.
like blur out their faces.
I mean, listen, I look back like my husband bought me, sorry, guys, we were young.
Yeah.
He bought me a dog.
Yeah.
When I was 20, when I turned 25.
Yeah.
And we had been together at that, at that point, we'd been together for a year.
I'm like, how, like, ambitious were you?
Very.
They were going to be together forever.
I was 25 years old.
Yeah.
You bought me a dog.
Yeah.
Like in that moment, I was like,
oh my god but like looking back at it now i was and it's we still have him leo he's been through a lot
with us cross countries and everything but i'm like how you fucking try to lock i mean that's
that's an engagement ring like and but i feel like when you're younger you don't realize it as
much yeah you're like a dog like yeah yeah and he reminds me that i used to talk about when i'm
like i can't believe you got me a dog it's so aggressive um he he he tells me that i don't believe
him, but he says that I used to, like, point out this other couple our age, like, I'm like,
they had, they have a dog, why can't we get a dog? But I was stupid. I'm like, okay, but if I said
that I was 25, I didn't get it. Right. I didn't get that like, what would we do? Yeah.
If we broke up, but thinking about it, now it is a big, but also now I have a baby. Right.
So like, of course. So now, not that I look at animals as less, but it does take a little bit
of a backseat when you have kids. I'm sure it does. Yeah. I mean, I like to pretend I grew ramen
and pinot in my womb. Yeah. But obviously I didn't. I can't even imagine what that love would be like
for a child. Yeah, because you're so obsessed. It's actually bad. Like, I treat them like they are
humans. I've said this a million times, but people will need to check on me when something happens to
them. Like, I'm worried about myself. So is it hard for you to share them, though? Yeah, because I mean,
it's, we both travel so much. Yeah. We have the best dog care in the world. Like, we have two people
that we go between that come to our house, my house now, and, like, watch them and love them
the way that we do. And we, like, they are so spoiled. But I don't ever want to, like, not have
them if I'm home. Have you had to deal with that yet? Not yet. Okay. Because it's been like,
it's going to be, I've been really, you know, keeping myself busy. I had my dad who's, like, if.
The cutest thing ever. He's the cutest thing. He's always there for me. And especially in hard times,
like in good, bad, ugly, but he's always, he'll fly out to me in like a hard time. And we just have
the best conversations, like quality time. And so I keep myself occupied, like with things that make
me feel like, I'm like, okay, don't, don't go party, Caitlin. Don't like go to bars. Go go numb yourself.
Like, spend time with the people that make you feel loved. I was thinking like, are you going to have
a New York era? I might. I'm feeling it from you. I'm feeling like a Shannon Ford.
Yes. Energy. Yes. Like you might get a little getting a little maybe like, yeah. I have
coming out about that because I'm like I love I love New York today it stressed me out a lot
but it's a very busy time here but I love it yeah I love it I could see myself having a moment
here but again the dogs they I'm like I want them to have a yard I want them to like and they
love being at the house and they love the backyard and they're just so particularly like they're just
so yeah I talk about dogs for the whole podcast I know you can't because of the dogs yeah
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Anyways, it's going to get difficult because I'm concerned.
Yeah, me too.
I'm concerned because I'll tell you why.
Like Katie and Schwartz, I don't know.
I feel like Schwartz.
is like not easier, but he's like, I don't know, maybe even their breakup, not yours seems amicable
too, but I don't know, I feel like Schwartz is kind of like a leaf in the wind.
Yes, yes, yes. And like Katie can just kind of control the situation.
Totally.
So I'm not worried about her in the dog thing.
You worry about me in the dog thing. But I'm not, I'm not worried about you in the dog thing.
I'm worried about the dog thing a little bit.
Yeah, me too. I don't know why.
I just, well, I just want them like, I'm just crazy.
I really, like, the dogs are my number one priority and everything.
I'm really having, like, if we can have some humor about this.
Yeah.
I'm having flashbacks to Jason's video.
Oh, God.
And I'm like, was it a Sarah McLaughlin, like.
That's what I said.
I was like, you might as well put, I will remember you.
No, that's what I'm saying.
Like, it was, it was, it was, it was, it was, it was, it was.
I was more, I don't know how he got out of that with you with, with, I haven't let it go.
Like, if he, because he, because.
how do you say like it wasn't on purpose? Like it's a reel. You know, you,
you purposely made a real. Well, what broke my heart too is I was like, I was there crying in
the bedroom. Like you were in. I was in the house. Yeah. And I'm just like, where did you have? Yeah.
Why didn't you have time to put me in there? At least pan to you too. Yeah. Like crying in the
corner with the sad music. Like, let me be a part of that. Because then it just makes me look like
I'm the asshole. God, but it's hard to because I'm, I am a little bit protective over
his heart just because I'm like, but things, of course things are going to annoy me and piss me off. And I'm sure things are annoying him and pissing him off. And he can talk about that on his podcast. Are you hiding each other on Instagram? Or are you following? Oh, fully muted. Oh, muted. Yeah. I do like that you guys didn't delete off grid. I will never. I didn't delete Sean either. He's still like has you pinned. Yeah. Do you know what's weird as Sean still has me pinned on his highlights? No. Yes, somebody brought that up to me not long ago. But regardless, I don't, I'm like, this is all. I'm like, this is all.
also part of my whole life story. Like that was a very large, that was the longest relationship
I've ever had. I definitely thought he was the one that everybody knows it. We didn't prioritize
each other. We started growing apart. We were both, both focused on our careers, not just me.
We both were just, I don't know, not a priority to each other. And that will, you know,
when they say, like, you get little rips. And if you don't repair those little rips, they become
like big tears and you can't repair them after they're too far gone. And that's what it was.
Yeah.
Yeah.
It's sad, though.
It's sad.
It's really sad.
As an observer.
Yeah.
Like, you guys really did seem like such a great couple.
Even in the last year, I feel like everyone was like.
You mean on Instagram?
Yeah.
Yes.
On Instagram?
So stupid.
It's so stupid.
Maybe not on Instagram, but I wasn't thinking about that.
Yeah.
Well, good, because most people do.
Okay.
I want to.
wait what were we going to talk about before it's your pod with your ear piece but remember we
I hide it I keep it on this side so people get at home can't see but I'm cheating I was going
to talk to you about this because you what did flats ever do to you why are you so upset
I don't know I just felt that's what I was asking in my reel but it seemed like everyone
agreed I don't know why I can't do I saw that they were coming back and I started getting
they look adorable but then I got hives I was like I hate them like and I and I wanted to order a pair
that I saw on Katie Holmes because she's so chic. And I was like, why am I so against them?
Yeah. What did they do to me when I was little? Like, why do I have post-traumatic stress?
I know why. I know why for me. Okay. What is it? Because you're like, it's a body thing for me.
Oh, does it make you feel short? It makes me feel like an, like a tornado?
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Oh my God. Tornado. Yes. Exactly. Yes. You got me. I get that for me.
Yeah. 100%. It's like the and I, I try to explain that.
it on Instagram like it's that it's the yeah upside down triangle like yeah from small
because like maybe if you have thighs you can't like I feel like because I have thighs it looks
weird maybe if you have like not thick thighs I don't know for me they look really cute
but then I put them onto it and I was like you know what I think it was like an exaggerated fear
exaggerated you can't wear these these won't look good on you but people hate them for a lot
reasons. People were saying sweating in them, smelling. Oh, God, I don't smell. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know about you, but like, you smell. Um, people are saying blisters, but for me was that.
See, for me, it reminds me of, just superficial the way I look. Flats remind me of my nun Catholic teacher in grade six. Okay, someone else said none. Really? Yeah. Oh, interesting. Yeah. That's what it, that's what I think when I try and wear flats, I go, this just reminds me of my sixth grade teacher, Mrs. Hughes, who was a nun and wore flats.
the time. Huh. Yeah. Do you have a lot of shoes? Not that many. No, me either. We're saying something
before we started. And I was like, wait, let's save that for the podcast. It was some like celebrity
something or you. I know. Jared Leto scaring you on Instagram. Yes. I'm talking about content.
Yes. Okay. So here's how we got there. Yeah. So it's all good job. Thank you.
We got there because I told you I had brief from selling sunset on my pod. Yes. And then I told you
that we didn't talk about Nick that much. Yeah. But then I told you that she does a lot of content with him on
Instagram like collab post vibes and that people are doing a lot of weird things for people lately
have been for so how do you feel about collab posts um I don't love them but it depends okay so
they're doing collab posts and then I was like Jared Leto is one that's freaking me first of all he freaks
me out in general because he's like a vampire alleged cult leader like I feel like I get if you need
help with social content especially if you're like Reese Witherspoon and like you're not getting many
ideas so yeah it's going to be a little bit more cheesy yeah you know
but Jared Leto doing like snack aisles he's doing like that thing where you go to like the
supermarket and you go in the snack aisle but now he's doing other weird things he's like
collabing with this like influence he's collab posting with this you don't need to do that
I know just like be the alleged cult leader vampire that you are do you see he's doing like skits
oh wow yeah he's he's doing like a bit like he's I don't know and you know who else is doing
the most? No, he did not collab with
Hayley Bailey. A lot.
I don't know her. She, what is she?
I only know her because, just like hot and maybe a little bit funny.
Do you know that she actually, Sean got caught.
She called the paparazzi on her and Sean Booth at a beach in Miami, not even that long
ago.
Wait, isn't he have a baby and a baby mama?
Yeah. And I don't know if he was dating that girl at the time, but apparently he
freaked out and left because, and I was like, well, no wonder if he's dating this girl
back home and he got caught with a model.
Instagram by paparazzi, I guess she called the paparazzi on him.
What paparazzi would publish that, though?
Well, I don't think many did.
I think it was like one online and, yeah, it was crazy.
Somebody like tagged me in it.
So how did they, how did Jared Letto start doing content with her?
It's probably, that's what it is.
When I started posting that Jared Letto is doing Instagram things, I was like, who's his social person?
Right.
DM me.
Yeah, like need to know.
Who's this social person?
working for him being like, okay, now we should do your favorite snacks.
Like, maybe just be like a little bit more on brand for him, you know?
Yeah, why?
Do like vampire things.
I wonder why people do that.
Like, I don't want to know what Jared Letto likes to snack on.
No, I don't, I really don't care.
I would like, unless it's blood, then I care.
If he wants to snack on blood, I'd be interested in that content.
And you know who else was doing the most?
Who?
And I made a joke about it when they broke up.
The Jonas brothers.
Yes.
They hired every, and I'm not that they didn't collaborate with me, by the way.
I'm not, people are going to be like, you're just mad.
I'm already prepared.
Like, you're not, you're not, you didn't.
No, but they collabed with so many.
Like, I had a Love Island couple on and they collabed with her too.
What?
And they're like from the UK.
So they did all these like TikTok collabs of like content.
I did see that.
They were doing that.
The most.
Yeah.
So when him and Sophie broke up, I was like, oh my God, did she not like the collab?
Yeah, I wish did the direction, the creative direction he was taking.
Like the content?
Yeah.
You know what else is so funny?
What?
Tell.
So when the Jonas Brothers, all the content and all the, are you a fan?
I'm not like a, what do they call?
Die hard.
Yeah, I'm not die hard.
Do you know, like, songs?
Sure, some.
Okay.
So I don't know why I missed the craze.
Yeah.
Maybe I was living in Israel at the time.
I don't know why.
I missed the craze too.
I missed the craze.
Yeah.
Maybe I was into something, maybe it was in like Marilyn Manson.
Like I had weird phases.
For sure, Rob Zombie.
Me too.
Yeah.
So I wasn't there for some reason.
I also never thought like,
Joe everyone like dies for Joe yeah I like was like okay if anything Nick
Nick for me I was like a petta I felt there was Pettoe oh right yeah but um I was like he's 15
that's not okay maybe that's why people went for Joe you know because he was the acceptable one right
yeah anyway wasn't a huge but yeah doing the most where was I going with this um you thought maybe
you said you want some tea and I said yes okay so you're so add that to your resume I'm a good
circle backer
so they did that big um show i think was it at yankee stadium yeah lots of collabs happened
that night lots of collabs that's where sophie was last seen with him if you remember they
both were matching this was august like 24th okay she walked in with him holding hands yeah she
even kissed his hand in the pick like that's how close they were wow okay what was funny was
that prionka was there yeah and this like thing when
viral of her like going like this and people were like Priyanka's crying to the song blah blah blah
blah and because I'm such a cynical bitch I was like no way she's crying like she's not crying
right like because it was also like right like it wasn't like it was like it seemed like a
yeah something else I was like she's not crying blah blah and then I got it confirmed
by someone in there that she was crying that she wasn't it was sweat she was wiping off
Yeah.
So I'm saying like it's, but, but, but it raised, uh, uh, like sweet spot for me because
I was like, I'm so used to people being haters.
It is kind of nice that people were trying to paint this like really sweet story.
Yeah.
That she was like crying because she loves his music so much.
Yeah.
That bitch is sick of going his shows.
Truly.
She's sick of his music.
She's sick of him doing collabs.
It's.
She for sure is.
Yeah.
All of them.
Yeah.
So I was like, but you know.
What, like, cynicism proved itself.
Like, there was no crying.
No crying.
But it is kind of wild, the Sophie and Joe thing, like, that they, like, what's going on there?
The PR around him taking the kids for lunch after me.
That made me sick.
I was like, it's giving two dogs.
It's giving you all.
In New York, yeah.
It's giving.
And I'm glad because I don't want to call myself the pioneer of this, but I was one of the first
people to say, like, you know, again, I was like, team Sophie.
And I was sure that the media would keep on going, but then the media jumped on.
I know.
And was like, Joe.
Yeah.
You know, what is he doing?
Yes.
And I'm like, wow, like that.
And then I almost felt bad for him in a sense because I was like, he really thought this would.
Yeah.
You know, it's worked in the past.
Right.
But like we are getting somewhere with society that it flipped on him.
Right.
Completely.
He looks like such a loser right now.
Yes.
That's what he tried to do.
He used his fucking kids that he's never shown in his life.
That's so sick to me.
Yeah.
That using your children.
That you never, like, you were so protective of them up until now.
No one has ever seen them in any paparazzi.
Right.
All of a sudden, you're taking them out to lunch.
By yourself.
By herself.
And, like, Sophie was working, same exact narrative as you, right?
Sophie was working.
He had the kids because she was working.
And he, he did the tour with kids on toe.
And I was like, he did the tour with kids with nanny.
Like, you know what I mean?
Like, it's just so.
Sophie Downing Shots and her rap party.
Because what did you think people would be like she's an alcoholic?
Like nobody thought that.
People were like, yeah, she's celebrating her fucking end of her movie.
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It did not work and I love that. I do. I do too because the gender role thing for a mom
and a dad is so crazy to me that like if a dad does one thing he's doing the most but if a woman
like goes to a job and not lunch with her kids.
She is like the worst mother and like and as much as we're trying to like change it,
I still find myself like even though my husband does like equal to me.
But I'll still be like, oh my God, thank you.
And I'm like, you don't fucking think to me.
You know, I'll be like thank you so like, oh my God, thank you.
No.
Like he doesn't thank me.
It's our job.
Right.
And also like people started bringing up things that I used to be like, ugh, but now it's like no change.
changing rooms and in dad's bathrooms right interesting isn't that interesting
dad's can't don't change babies yeah just just in the women's or the family imagine you're
like go change him and he's like I can't because he can't are we going to change this
we are Caitlin you and me against the world for the women I mean it's easy to just accept
things and be like yeah the moms do that whatever but like there are there are things
that are still so antiquated you know in that way
But that has proven to be antiquated what Joe tried to do because it didn't work.
Right.
Because we are at a place where like, no, moms work, moms do it all.
Thank you.
Move on.
Yes.
It's not going to work for you.
I like that.
I saw that because, again, it gave me a little bit of hope because it's, I mean,
I know 98% of my following is women.
So, of course, I'm going to be hated on more by women because that's all that
follows me.
Right.
But you're like, no man is hating on me.
But they would if they were in there because I think I said this on the last five
podcasts.
I've done that on the Barbie movie.
they said like men hate women and women hate women so like men hate women and women yeah that's what they
said yeah also i'm watching the show you need to watch it it's called the other two yeah it's on max
promoting streamers which goes against the sag strike but whatever um i'm not an actor yeah um i'm like
watch this on hbo max um i need a new show okay katelyn you're gonna die so it's this really
funny show it's written by s and l folks oh i'm already in it's a and it's quick like 30 minute
episodes, but they basically make fun of the industry in such a smart way. And one of the last
things was like, there was a breakup of this, like, it's all about this kid that went viral on,
it's basically Justin Bieber, but they don't say it's Justin Bieber. Right. But he starts dating
in Normie and then they decide to break up. And then the PR team is kind of like, and then the girl,
and he's like, no, she'll be fine. And they're like, she's not going to be fine. Like, it's a
girl. Right. The girl always takes a fucking blame. Like, unless you spin it hard. And then they
worked so hard to spin it so she's not hated like he was willing to do that so they tried making him
a bad boy it didn't work they liked him yeah right they tried all these things and it was just in a
smart way showing you like it's the woman's fault yeah even when they tried so hard and they had to
prove that he was like I don't know a serial killer yeah to be like for it to be like it's really
funny but it also is smart in that way because it gets you thinking but we're happy that with
that. I wonder if Sophie, by the way, Sophie follows me. No. I love her. I know me too. It was one of my
most exciting follows. Totally. And she like saw my story. About it. About it. No. So actually,
you know how sometimes you see the face of like a verified person, but not always. Yeah. Yeah. They're not
always first. Right. So I actually only saw her face after I stopped talking about. And I was like,
is she upset with me? I'm not talking about it anymore. Like, like, because like, because I
posted all the good stuff and I didn't see your little face on the bottom. But then, but then, okay,
but okay, here, I want to see if you agree with me. Okay. When media started leaning into it too
much, yes. I was like, I'm done. Yeah. I started this. I was there. I love it. But now the media's
kind of like, oh, everyone likes this. Yeah. Queen of the North, you know? I was just like, okay,
you guys are leaning in because you want to be like liked now. Right. So it's like too much for me.
So that's when I stopped. So then when I saw Sophie was looking, I was like,
I mean, she upset. I'm not Queen of the North thing anymore. Like, oh my God, but I did at the beginning and now I feel like it's excessive. But it's probably the same thing as with me where somebody told me you were doing that. So somebody probably told her how supportive you were. And then she went to watch. Yeah. And she saw that I was over it. Like, yeah. I, but that, I thought that was so weird to how word gets out about the divorce papers and this. But then he's still wearing his ring and she shows up to the concert. But what? Why? Like, because it's not like you want to fool.
us just for 24 hours when the next date like what it i don't know what was that the strategy was very
no so it wasn't her at the concert it wasn't no that was my like i'm i spread that and it wasn't
it looks really like her wasn't her it was you that it was me oh yeah it was you it was you
yeah no it wasn't her so how do you get all these inside scoops they're not inside oh
you just did your research i i i yeah they're not like unknown but yeah i get to things first
could get Sophie on your podcast. I wonder too. She used to like, I used to talk to her like when
she first started following me and it was like about baby stuff. We had like a baby I think at the same
time. But like, yeah. Huh. I'm working the long game. Yeah. Work the long game. Yeah. That's always. Yes.
Like in 20 years, be like, so I have a podcast. Yeah. Because you don't want to like come with the pod.
No, no, no. No. That's, there's so many people I want on the podcast that I,
they're like building it. I refuse. I refuse. I refuse.
to like just go in and be like, hey, I want to come on my podcast.
My producer and my assistant, everyone gets so annoyed at me because they're like, just
go into the DM, like, just ask if they want it. And I'm like, I can't do it. Yeah.
I can't do it. You, if it comes from you, that's fine, but I can't do it. Oh, gotcha. Okay.
I'm too, I don't know. But then you're kind of putting them, but then they'll feel like they have to.
If I do it. Yeah. That's what I mean. I don't want them to feel like they have to. But like, so I'm not
going to do that to Sophie because she's like an A-lister. Right. You could do it to like a, like a
B. You think so? Yeah. I put bees in corners all the time. Do you like a Theo Vaughn? He's got like a mullet and he's
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. I feel like I would like to talk to him on a podcast. Okay. And you want to slide in?
I did. So I slid. Yeah. And I just said, hey, you probably get this question a lot, but like, who's your barber?
Is that funny? That is funny. Okay. It's cute. Wait, are you hitting on him?
Absolutely not. Okay. Maybe. I don't know. I think you might be.
No. Okay. Did he answer? No, he still hasn't seen it. Oh, okay. So, but you know how it is today? Like, you get lost in the, in the request. We know in your top requests when people come in with the blue check marks. Mine will be like ones from 82 weeks ago. No, I know. I have like Marie Kondo trying to send me her new book. She's the organized lady when everyone was like getting organized. And then you'll see like, you'll scroll down. You'll see fucking like Sharon Stone. It's like, show me the good stuff. Yes. I had to scroll for ever.
To see, like, somebody that wrote me a week ago.
And I remember T. Payne?
It was so funny.
Do you remember this?
No.
When the request first came out, like, a little bit after he made this, like, really funny video that was, like, he had missed all these, like, from Mariah Carey, like, want to collab.
Like, he was like, I didn't know about the request box.
And he, like, showed all these, like, really famous people.
I do remember that.
In his request.
And I was like, oh, my God.
And since then, I am kind of traumatized that, like, that.
What if you missed an opportunity?
I know.
You know?
Well, just be on top of it.
I know.
Yeah.
Just fucking be thirsting for those new blue check mark messages.
Yes.
Even though anyone can have a blue check mark now.
I know.
You too for the price of $8 a month.
And you go in and it's like not it.
I don't get why it's good for them.
It's not.
It's a bad look.
It's a bad luck.
It just looks like you paid $8 a month to have a blue check mark.
And then I'm worried about what your priorities are in life.
Yeah.
It's really bad.
It is really bad.
I have a game I want to play with you.
Okay.
Yeah.
It's just a who would you rather.
Okay.
Because then I feel like that leads to like, if I say who'd you rather.
She's discussing with me like the plan for the podcast.
Okay.
You're going to have a story.
She's like, this is why we're doing it.
I have to like justify it.
I'm like, I like to play a game and I know you.
So if I say a name, you'd be like, I have a story about that.
Okay, okay, okay.
Would you rather switch lives with Justin Bieber or Kim Kardashian?
Kim Kardashian one hunt.
Yeah.
Justin Bieber is not happy with his life.
You don't think so.
Oh my God.
No.
Tell me why.
I mean, see, this is what I mean.
Oh, okay.
It's working.
Yeah.
Kim Kardashian.
Did you see that episode where Kylie was like, I wasn't meant to be famous and Kim was like, oh, I know I was?
Yes.
Like, if I was Kim, Amanda might not be able to handle it.
But like, if I was Kim, that girl doesn't have like mental health issues.
No.
She is strong as, she even said when she got robbed, like, thank God it was me.
Yeah.
Anybody else would have some trauma.
Yes.
So, she really is.
Oh, she's a machine.
And she seems sweet.
She's so sweet.
And have you met her?
Yeah.
She was in my podcast, Caitlin.
Kim Kardashian was on your podcast.
I thought Chloe was.
No, I thought Courtney was.
All them were.
Did I know this?
You should.
I really should.
Yeah.
Was it in here?
No, I came to Calabasas.
Alicia just told me I knew it.
I talked about it last time on the podcast.
Wow, that is so sick.
Okay.
Yeah. How can you help me? How do I get good guests like you?
That's a good question.
Like, how did you start getting really good guests?
You got one good one and then they all started coming on?
Because it looked good on the resume?
It might have been that. Yeah. It might have been that.
Well, and you're a good interviewer.
Thank you.
I get why people would want to, but it's a hard thing to get that level of guest on a podcast.
Yeah.
Well, I'm sad that Justin Bieber said.
I'm so, so that was to say, like, I'm so, like,
I'm an anxiety sufferer and to think like he's been so vocal about it and he needs like hyperbolic
chambers and he needs so much yeah to just exist and not even you know and people were making
fun of him at that road event with the hat on top of the hoodie right and that he was like wearing
crocs and I'm like first of all no shade to road like they're great this is a lip gloss yeah at
crispy cream at crispy cream like he's not at the met gala yeah yeah he would wear something nice
in the Met Gala. Yeah. And he's Justin Bieber. He can wear whatever he wants. And like if
Haley doesn't care and she's a queen of fucking fashion, you're going to drag him. But I don't think
that he's, I think he was, he did want this life. But I also think he didn't have the support system.
It's like, I don't know his parents enough, but like when every see a child star or someone that's like
going through it, look back at like the support they had. I know. And he'll see that it wasn't there.
It's heartbreaking. Yeah. And I feel like Haley seems really good for him. I feel like she's like a rock. Yeah.
Yeah.
But I feel like she's also, I feel like maybe he was like, you do your thing, I'm the supportive husband.
Like, he's putting himself in the backseat for now.
I love that.
Yeah.
I love that.
Yeah.
Okay.
Would you rather switch closets with Harry Styles with Harry Stiles or Lady Gaga?
Yeah.
He is a trendy mother.
Like, you know Olivia switched clothes with him.
Yes.
She was, they were wearing each other's clothes.
Yeah.
Okay.
Lady Gaga, I don't feel like we're the same vibe.
No.
Would you rather take a trip with Jim Carrey or Adam Sandler?
Adam Sandler I know oh my god
I've been a diehard Adam Sandler
Did you watch the movie? Which one?
The Ba Mitzvah movie the new one no
Oh my God on Netflix
You're so not invited to my Bambitva
It's Adam Sandler you really are out of the loop woman
I'm so out of the loop
Like so out of the loop
And I just called myself a diehard Adam Sandler fan
And then you're like have you seen this?
I'm like have you seen his number one
It did better than any of his other like
What?
Like something wild
He put his whole family in it
his two daughters, they are, like, it's Nepo babies I approve of, like, they're great
nepo babies.
Really?
Yeah, and he's adorable.
You have to watch it.
It's a very feel good.
I love him.
Were you invited to any bat mitzvahs growing up?
No.
No Jewish people in where you lived?
I don't know the answer to that.
Okay.
But in Europe, but you know.
In my small town of Leduc, Alberta.
Not one bat mitzvah.
Wow.
Yeah.
Would you rather have a child with Chris Pratt or Chris Pine?
Pine.
Pratt gives me creeps.
Yeah, but he never, he never, he might be due lordy.
Chris Pine?
Yeah.
No, Chris, the other one.
Oh, yeah, he's very lordy.
Yeah.
Very lordy.
Yeah.
I went to a golf tournament with him there and he is very attractive in person, but I,
Chris Pratt?
Yes.
Oh, because he's all like, he's tall and like charming and ripped.
Yeah.
He gives me weird vibes aside from the lordiness.
Yes.
And I, of course, it's okay if you're a lordy.
Totally.
Just to be worth lority too.
Super lordy.
Holy, holy.
He doesn't freak me out when he goes things his feet that say like God separated the
sees and oh he posts like really preachy things beber beber too yeah i think my algorithm doesn't like
to see those ones what's your algorithm showing you honestly i i hate my algorithm really it shows me
my ex-boyfriends it shows me bo-tops stuff probably bachelor stuff bo-tox and ex-boyfriends no i'm dying
it's literally what it is that's so funny i'm like how do i get a new algorithm is there a way search
the new things. Dogs. I want dogs. I want hot single men, dogs. Yeah. And I wonder if people
are going to slide into your DMs now that you're kind of offended that nobody has. Oh yeah,
I would be too. I'm offended and I'm married. I'm like, you could try. I know. Don't put like
married in my bio. No, you're no his mom. No, I know. No's mom. That's fine. Yeah.
But I could be, you know, do it on my mom. Yeah. No, it is offensive, you guys. I have to say like,
it is offensive when like the world is so big yeah Instagram is so easy yeah I'd be very offended
Caitlin but Instagram is a great dating app I've understood it is yeah so I guess that it would be one
but I was listening to pin your breakup post could you imagine oh man that so they know well if
they're doing their research yeah they could take some they could put some effort and find out
yeah because Kristen Cavillery was talking about how she wants to be courted
And I was like, I like that.
Like, somebody could try, slide into my DMs.
Yeah.
I might not respond or I might not be interested.
I'm not ready to date yet.
But like, I would like to feel flattered.
Yeah.
I'm sure girls are sliding into Jason's.
You think?
Oh, for sure.
Oh, for sure.
I bet even like supporters of mine are going in there.
How much, how many bachelor nation girlies do you think are sliding in?
Oh, well, he's doing his, he's doing his bachelor nation rounds, though.
like on podcasts no well yes and like going to u.s. open with all bachelor people going to clubs
with bachelor people so yeah i'm sure there's some bachelor girlies in there oh i would
guarantee they're a bachelor girlies they want to be a bachelor nation couple i don't blame
him i'm gonna prepare yourself i feel that kills me my pop culture my pop culture
oh my god do you think he's going to date another bachelor girl i think i don't i'm not saying it's
going to come from him but i definitely think bachelor nation girls are going to try
because, one, they're thirsty.
Yeah.
And, like, it'll be a good look.
Yeah.
Like, it'll be a...
Good storyline.
Good story, yeah.
And he's cute.
And he's like, Jason, you know, but I could so see it.
And I'm sure a lot of regular girlies from Buffalo are sliding in too.
Oh, for sure. Oh, all of them. Yeah. Yeah.
I have another question for you, though, because stupidly, you're not coming on my podcast this time you're in New York.
Yeah. Okay, next time. Okay, interview me. Go.
You're tiny feet.
I can't stop looking at them.
They're so exciting.
Oh, I'm a six and a half.
Mine don't look that small.
Maybe it's the optical illusion of the ankle sock.
Maybe.
So after you broke up,
everyone was, I mean, to me it felt like that.
It was coming out.
Then Nick was having a baby and Sean was having a baby.
Oh, God, I know.
And everyone was like, poor Caitlin.
Did you feel like poor Caitlin?
Only because people were making me feel that way.
Deep down in my soul, no.
Okay.
Because it's unrelated.
to you. I know so much tea about those things, too, where I'm like, you're not like, you're not like,
oh, I'm like, what I could have had. No. Yeah. And there's situations with those two relationships where I'm like,
I would never want that. Yeah. That seems miserable to me. I'm happy that for them, if they want a baby and
that's like a miracle of life, like that's incredible. I just know too much. Yeah. Where I go, no, I don't feel
sad for me at all. I feel like I am like a strong, brave woman who is choosing my own happiness.
First of all you are. Like, I know that deep down. Thank you for confirming. I know that. And so the
noise makes me question that sometimes. And then I have to just take a step back and go, no,
bitch. The timing was interesting because timing is funny. Because timing is like that in life.
But yeah, the narrative of like, poor Caitlin, you know, but were you also like, oh, that's a nice
change from homeworking Caitlin. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm like, wait, are people having sympathy for me?
This is kind of nice. It was, that was crazy though. I'm like, here she goes again, like,
going through a breakup at 38 while her two exes are having babies at the same time. Like,
it's just wild. It's just wild the way life is. Timing is so funny. But again, like, you didn't take it
there. I didn't because, I mean, I wouldn't want to have a baby out of like, just because. You wouldn't
just because of my age because that's where I should be because Jason is on paper so great
and I should be doing this. Like, no, I'm not going to live my life like that. And the people that are so
mad at me for it are the people that aren't brave enough to do it themselves. Yeah. First of all, I,
I know it's a weird reaction to have, but when people break up, I'm not like happy, but I am,
I have the sense of like good for them. Yeah. Because I know that it's hard. I've seen it be hard for
people. I know how many people are in situations that they're in just because they can't take that
step. So to me, when people break up, it's not like, it is sad, but it's also like, I understand
what it takes to do it. So I am sure that it's because they shouldn't be together. Yeah. So then I'm
happy for those two people that they get to like live their lives, you know, didn't Emrata?
Emrata just said that it's so chic to be, you know. Yeah.
Divorce.
Divorced.
Like, yeah.
I'm like pretty, I'm pretty much divorced.
Two failed engagements feels like it equals a divorce.
Oh, yeah.
So I'm chic.
You're so chic, babe.
I'm chic and I, uh, I choose me.
Yeah.
And I'm, I'm excited.
Oh my God.
I was going to ask you to be the best.
I wouldn't.
Oh, my God, Caitlin.
Would I?
I could.
I don't think I could. I don't think there's enough money to pay me.
Do you think you're going to ask you?
No.
You don't think?
I feel like I'm too old for that franchise.
Maybe I'll ask me for the senior.
They had Claire Crawley.
Oh, that's true.
What was she 37 at the time?
She was.
I don't remember.
I'm 38.
I don't remember either.
If they said Caitlin will pay you $10 million, I'd consider it.
But they don't have that budget.
Okay.
And the budget has gone way down with that show.
They'd probably offer me like $200,000.
Not even.
Really?
And I would say a big hard note about that.
Yeah.
You would.
And that sounds really selfish to people out there who are like, that's a
I know that, but to me, that is not worth my sanity to put myself through it again. I know too
much. Even when I was hosting, seen behind the curtain that much more, I was like, I know way too
much. I could never do that to myself again. And if I do, please be worried about me. Because that
means I'm in a very dark place. Okay, I'll check it. I don't need that show to meet guys.
I don't feel like. And that would be a very large step backwards for me. And again, no offense
to anyone that does. It's just where I'm at. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, no offense that people are like 22.
yeah, that would make sense.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And I wouldn't want to meet all these thirsty guys who just want Instagram followers now.
Like, I was on it in the perfect time where that was like just starting to be like,
you didn't even know that's what it could be.
Right.
It was so pure.
Yeah.
Yeah.
My season was so pure.
Yeah, right.
Yeah, right.
I don't even want to play my game anymore because I just like.
I know.
But I have things to tell you, but I'll tell you later.
I have so many things to tell you.
Oh, my God.
Sorry, guys.
The teasing.
The teasing.
I know. I'm like maybe next time I'm in New York, we can talk about the things that, like, it'll be old news by then. And we can be like, this is what we're talking about. But we're going for dinner tonight.
No, by the way, I didn't ask you on my pod because I'm so respectful. And I could have been like, come on my pod and talk about, you know, the breakup and whatever. But I know that it's fresh. And I know that like you're probably pressing it your way. And on your pod where you feel like nobody's listening and you can say whatever you want, except everyone's going to hear this.
I know.
I know.
You guys, just you know, I'm not going with this anywhere, but you're like, no, literally
everyone's hearing that.
Well, I feel like when I go on other people's podcast is when the weird headlines happen,
but when it's on my own, like, they don't care.
I feel like there's some witches out there that can put some voodoo on me and send me down
the toilet.
I know, but there have been so many, like, resurrections, too, of people, you know,
that I've seen, that I've been, like, also like, you know what?
If something happens one day, like, you see that it's kind of not the end of the world.
Yeah.
That's true.
You know, look at Hannah Burner.
Oh, yeah.
I never watched, but she told me all about that.
They were like, they made me look crazy.
What do you mean made her look crazy?
She was so fucking hated that I would post something positive about her and I would get shit.
Like, I remember I met up with her in the city and she's like, are you sure you want to like be seen with me?
It was so sad.
I was like, are you fucking kidding me?
And she fucking came back.
Yeah, she did her own thing.
She's on fire right now.
Like, I just feel like, you know, it's not going to work for you, bitches.
Yeah, that's true.
Yeah.
I like that attitude.
It's not going to work for you, bitches.
It's not going to work for you.
Hmm.
Who else says, maybe Tink says this or somebody says this, like, people that are more successful than you would never do that.
Never.
You know what I mean?
That's so true.
There's a better sentence.
But I know the sentiment.
Yeah.
The vibe, you know, and that's something to remember.
Like, nobody that's, like, doing well like you or doing better than you would ever.
That is a good.
thought. Yeah. So like what kind of people then are, you know, spending this time? That's a good
point. Have you been blocking a lot of people? No, I don't block anyone. What? No. Tell me.
I used to. So part of my reason I used to is because I'd be like, no, let them add to my comments
engagement. And then I was like, I don't actually care about that, but. Wait, now you do block?
No, sorry, I don't block because I just don't, I don't have the time to go blocking. No, but if you
see something. No.
you're maybe i like to so here i you're i'm a little sick yeah i was gonna say
caylin don't you like it a little bit so here's what i my thing is which i can see
i was guessing why you don't do it yeah which you're like keep on watching me yeah
i get it yeah my thing is like and also no one stuff like it's kind of like if you hate me
this much i don't want i don't care about you leaving that i don't care i don't care about you
damning me mean things but like you don't deserve i don't want you to live you to
like watch my things so you can see then have negative thoughts. Yeah. You know what I mean?
I don't watch your like negative energy. Yeah. Towards me. So if I see, I'm sure like how many silent
people are watching and hating. So many. So let them continue. But if you if you have the guts to
outwardly, fucking hate when you know I can see it and you're like this, like I'm going in.
And it deletes like and it blocks anything else they've ever created or will create. Like they're
that's true. They want to follow you. They have to like take their. Someone.
phone and like and like create a new email address yeah so it's like have to be crazy that's true
yeah maybe i'll start blocking yeah start blocking the like really fucking negative ones yeah i don't
well sometimes i'm like we'll just stop looking for it kately stop going looking for it i mean sometimes
they make it easy yeah they do make it easy um well thank you for coming on i'm excited to have dinner
with you tonight oh the tea no i'm just kidding no you're not i'm kately bristow i'll see you next
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