Off The Vine with Kaitlyn Bristowe - Grape Therapy: Brandi and Tish Cyrus

Episode Date: July 22, 2020

Kaitlyn’s guests for Grape Therapy this week are hosts of the Sorry We're Stoned podcast and multi-talented mother-daughter duo, Brandi and Tish Cyrus. The three of them chat about everything from marijuana and music to Miley’s childhood bedroom and cellulite! Later, they answer questions from listeners and share some confessions. GEICO – Go to geico.com , and in fifteen minutes you could be saving 15% or more on car insurance BREYERS – To find out more about Breyers CarbSmart click here: https://www.breyers.com/us/en/products/carbsmart.html   COORS LITE – Reach for the one beer that’s made to chill. CAREFREE – Check it out on Amazon, Walmart.com or at your local grocery story and CVSSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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You can also find at your local grocery store or CBS. We're doing with OTV. Podcast One presents Off the Vine, Great Therapy. Caitlin Bristow is going to answer your questions. Drink to your confessions and hear what you have to say about anything Bachelor. Let's shake it up some more. Here's Caitlin. All right, welcome to Great Therapy.

I'm your host, Caitlin Bristow. Today I have an incredible and talented mother-daughter duo who, if you're a vino or even if you're not, I'm sure you're very familiar with. mom is an actress producer manager daughter is one of my friends who lives right here in Nashville who you may have seen on tour with me as my incredible DJ and they're both podcasters having recently started their own podcast together called sorry or stoned which is hilarious full of family stories design tips listener advice and much more I had the chance to sit down with tish and brandy cyrus so I hope you enjoy the podcast brandy you're obviously at your place in Nashville yep I'm a Nashy okay I know you guys probably talk

about this all the time on the podcast and on social media and everything but like the fact that you cannot what's the last time you saw rye march 9th march 9th okay and then you guys obviously had plans to like be together and all of a sudden this shit happened and so you haven't seen him since are you guys just like going ham on face time like face time dates face time like sleepovers face time everything so i am the absolute worst i i like barely talk to him Really? I'm sorry. They're on a pretty serious time difference.

I know. I know. Okay. So in the beginning, we were talking a lot. Yeah. And, um, and I just, it's gotten so hard, KB. Because having the same conversation every single day. He, and he, I feel bad for him because he truly can not leave the house.

Like, South Africa is locked down. Oh, really? Like, unless you have a special, like, affidavit from the police saying you're traveling for work, you can't really be in the car going somewhere unless you're, you're going in the grocery store. So, like, he really can't leave. So every day, there's like, there's like six activities. He's doing one or multiple of these six activities, sleeping, playing video games, hanging out with his mom and sister, going to the grocery store, smoking hookah or walking the dogs. There's no other activity. That's it. It's hard because you guys

have already done the long distance things. So you've had like the deep conversations and like getting to know each other and you've like traveled the world and like seeing things together and now you're doing like the same six things so the conversation i mean i feel like that's kind hard for most relationships tish do you feel the same way in your in your relationship about just like having the same conversations every day yes we've gotten to the point where like we're texting in the morning and at night and that's about it because i mean it is hard because you get on the phone and it's like what's there to talk about nothing there's like unless it's like sad news there's really nothing to talk about.

You're like, well, I did the same thing today. And weather was great. You find yourself talking to your partner about the weather. It's so true. I mean, I think this has been hard because in the very beginning, because Billy Ray was in Nashville when everything got shut down and I was in California. And so I've been here by myself, you know, the whole entire time. And so at first I was so jealous of all my friends that had their husbands or their

boyfriends that were with them. but honestly I don't think that is good because like most of the people in my life are either getting a divorce or her breaking up with you know it's like it's been I think this has been so hard on relationships I know well Jason my boyfriend I don't know if you know who that is but he had like a thing he did on his Instagram of do you think relationships right now is it's COVID making it or breaking it for them and the majority of people said making it and they like found a study where it's actually the opposite of what we're thinking, but I think this is like a regular time of breakups per year anyways. I think this is like the time. And so maybe we're just noticing

it more because of COVID, but apparently it's the opposite. Wow. Okay. Because I feel like the majority of people around me, it's been really hard. Same. And I feel like every time I go on Instagram or Twitter or scroll, it's like another breakup, it's just, I mean, everything's scrolling right now is I was trying to like look I'm like is there any like anything new going on what's trending on Twitter and the only thing that I saw was something about blue check marks going away on Twitter. Really? That's like what's trending right now. Oh and Tyra Banks named the new host of Dancing with the Stars which I'm so excited about because I'm I mean I hope I'm still going as long as COVID isn't that's amazing I forgot and honestly I love Tyra. Is she just incredible? I feel like

her energy and her presence is just, like, powerful. She's incredible. You know, she was in the Hannah Montana movie with Molly when she was really young. And so, and I've done a few things where I've run into her recently. I did the talk and she was on the talk after or something. And so I got to see her then. But, like, her energy, yes, is so incredible. And she's just, she's just super cool.

Like, I think that that is a great fit for her. Yeah, that's, it made it real for me today because I was watching her interview on Good Morning America. And she said something about how, like, this season is going to be unlike any other season they've ever done. I'm like, well, is that because it's just like not, they're not going to have a live audience or I don't know what it's going to look like. But she was saying that, like, she's had meetings with executive producers. She's going to be a producer on the show and that it's going to be like the craziest season they've ever had. But I also come from the world of The Bachelor where Chris Harrison says every season, it's the most dramatic season. So I'm like, what does it all mean?

I haven't figured it out yet. I know. because I do feel like that I have read that a lot of the reasons that the two hosts that have been hosting aren't going to this year's because they really want to change it up and make it feel fresh and new. So that could be really, I mean, listen, their performances are always so mind-blowing. I'm like, their sets are insane. It's like such an incredible show. And so I can't even imagine it even being bigger than it already is because it's already so incredible. Wait, were you on it? No, but Billy Ray was. Season like three. I was I just knew there was some connection there but okay he's been on three is that we said no he was on I think it was like season three or something maybe maybe it was a little later into it but it was really early on really and how was his experience uh first of all he is not a dancer in any way shape or form and the first day the first one he went on like we he like literally

like threw up on in the car on the way stop because it was just he was like that was the were like scary as thing but but you know what that's just because he truly was not any a dancer at all like he just doesn't dance and so it was just really hard and like such just a like really out of his comfort zone type of thing because you know he he just being out of his comfort zone that much was really hard on him but like as he got into it by like week three even though he wasn't the best dancer, all that kind of went away. And I think he began to have more fun. But it's such an incredible show. Like, I think you're going to have the best time ever. Yeah, I'm excited. That's what I keep hearing. I'm so excited. And I've talked to one of the casting

directors for the last five years because I was supposed to go on five years ago. So she's like, okay, this is going to be so much fun. Like you're coming in at a great time. I'm like, am I? I don't know. It's just also up in the air. But I mean, according to everybody, it's still going on and it's still going to happen. So I'm super pumped and I'm super pumped that Tyra is the host. And I think that's, I mean, I really loved Tom and I loved Aaron, but I think it's an exciting change. And yeah, I can't wait.

But you better eat a lot right now because you are so thin. And Billy Ray lost 17 pounds in the first two weeks. Why? Maybe three weeks, but he lost 17 pounds like that. Oh, that's wild. Okay, so I've been working with a trainer to try and build so much muscle because I've, like all the workouts I do. I'm like usually on my peloton or like, I don't know, like just ones that I'm not really building a lot of muscles.

So I've been working so hard with a trainer to get like so that I don't just waste away when I go on. And I'm like looking forward to that the most of just eating whatever I want the whole time I'm on the show. Oh, you'll be able to for sure because he was so thin. He like it was incredible. Like his whole body just completely changed. It really did. It was mind blowing. Yeah.

I don't think Caitlin is going to have to practice quite as much as dad. Dad was so bad. Caitlin's already a great dancer. Well, that's good. Okay. Here's the thing. Okay. First of all, I feel like that's, I'm going into it where people are going to be like,

oh, she's a dancer. She's going to be so great. But I talked to Hannah last night, and she just won dancing with the stars. And she had grown up dancing. And she said, forget everything you know about dancing. You're going to have to unlearn things because it's such a different ball game. They don't do the same eight counts that you're used to. It's like toe heel for certain moves.

He'll toe for other moves. Like, it's so hard. And I was like, okay. I got this. Oh my gosh. Because, yeah, I mean, like, Billy Ray, like, he could see him. He was so pitiful. He was like, like, do.

Yeah. Like, you could, like, literally see him counting the whole day. It was like, one, two, three. Like, he was like, it was blowing his mind the whole time. That's cool, though. That's fun that he had that experience. Hey, so did you know that right now, Geico is offering an extra 15% credit on car, motorcycle, and RV policies?

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i saw brandy your old place or do you still have that place i do i was actually there today because i'm i was trying to call my mom because i want to make some improvements to it and i needed her advice why are you making improvements because i want to maybe sell it in a few years so i just want to you know okay that's fair that's fair um and brandy was saying when you went up to get your Mary Joana that you're a very DIY kind of lady and I always wish I was that kind of person like do you that painting behind you did you do that so it's a collage actually and she did you do it right mom it did it's a collage of like not even a fourth of every backstage pass I've ever had yeah for all molly and no anybody like they're all backstage passes just and just messed up into a big

frame. Oh, I love that. This is how I function. I just went so off topic. I'm like, your podcast. Is that a painting that you did? I'm the exact same way. Like I'm Bernie and I'll be talking and she'll be like, mom, focus. I'm like, I'm trying. Today I had a voice lesson and my voice and my vocal coach goes, do you know that movie up with the squirrel and he's always like squirrel and he just loses his focus? She's like, that's you. I'm like, I know. Oh, totally me. Okay, so anyways, back to your podcast. How did you guys come up with this idea? Because obviously, you knew that you could work together from your past show.

So what made you think of this podcast? Take it away, Brian. So obviously, KB knows Wells and I have a podcast. We've had for so long. And we, my mom and I have been talking about, like, what are we going to do? Now that the Bravo show is over. We've wanted to do another project. And we've tossed around so many different ideas.

It's not even funny. And I've all told her, like, we should have a podcast. We should have a podcast. And because my mom is so busy, it's been, been so hard to actually get her to commit and make fine time for it. But now that we're all stuck at home, it was actually the perfect time to lock on. So I flew to L.A. in February, thank goodness I got there, like, just before all this stuff happened. And we sat down and recorded our, like, a pilot episode. Yeah. And it was so funny because we were sitting at her office desk and there's a giant sign above it

that says, sorry, we're stoned. And we posted a picture of us recording. And everyone was like, that's the name of the podcast. That's a podcast. And I already thought it would be hilarious for her to smoke while we record because she's so much funnier when she's high. That's fine. Mom, I feel like you need to smoke it up a little more. Right now? Well, I'm not being boring. Okay, okay, okay. Okay, here we go. I'm so jealous right now. Well, that's fun. And then so what kind of guest do you guys have on? And what do you talk about? So it's crazy because, Because originally we weren't really going to have guests right off the bat.

We wanted to really iron out, like, what is this podcast? But then the pandemic hit, and then all these, you know, social issues started coming to light. And the Black Lives Matter movement happened. And obviously, there's an election this year. There's just so many things going on in the world that my mom really wanted to start bringing in guests to talk about specific social issues and really just like what's going on in the world, like different experts and different things. because we were feeling like we wanted to use our platform to talk about those things, but she and I also don't feel like we're the people to speak on it. So we brought on, Mom, you can talk about the first couple of guests we had because,

I mean, most of them are her friends and people that she's met along the way. Yeah, so the first person we had on was a woman named woman, I say, like, honestly, compared to me, she's so young. She's only like, I think 23, 24 years old. and her name's Anita Lucasey, and I have always had a huge heart for the Native American communities, and I started learning more and more about missing and murdered indigenous women in Northern California, and so many girls and women from reservations, really between Northern California all the way up to Canada, to the border in Canada, a lot in Tahoe go missing.

And, you know, they end up being murdered. They're never found and their families have no closure because nothing is being done because there's no accountability or database for these women. And so I met Anita and she was so incredible because literally five years ago she was being sex trafficked. And now she started the first organization that is a database database for the missing and murdered indigenous women. And the thing that this mind-blowing is.

is there's not one. So all these people that are going missing, they're not even accounted for. And then the next person that we had on was a girl named Shirley Raines, and she had been on Miley Show Brought Minded, and her organization is called Beauty to the Streets, and she literally is in downtown LA

within the homeless community every single, I think just about every day, and just serving them in ways that people wouldn't think mattered because it's a lot about beauty and doing their hair and their makeup and getting them clothes and washing them and, you know, just making them feel really good about themselves. And I just thought that was the coolest thing. She was like,

because think about when you get your hair done. Think about when you get your nails done, how that makes you feel. And so that was just so cool to see both of these women who had done all of this on their own. And then I went to high school with one who is now still one of my very best friends. And she was married for like 28 years. And they ended up divorced. And they ended up divorcing, she raised four amazing kids, and she just got so interested in politics. And during the time of like the next two years following her divorce and became so passionate about it that she ran for office in Kentucky and won. Yeah, it's amazing. And she's like 54, maybe 52 years old. And so she has this whole career now after she turned 50 after raising all these kids and like kind of

just doing that and being a mom, which I just think is the coolest thing ever. And then we we've had a couple of my other high school friends on just to talk and talk about fun stuff. So it's been amazing. I love having guests. It makes it go by so quick. And then this week we had on Matt Sanders, who's my favorite interior designer ever. Really?

Oh, really? I'm getting so into interior design just from like owning a home and wanting to move and looking at other people's homes now. Like I'm so into it. But I don't feel like I have the eye for it. I just know that if someone put something together for me, I can say like, okay, I love that, don't like this about it.

I can like go there, but to put something together, I like worship people who can do that. It's pure talent. Well, I think that that's like just the most important thing because some people don't know what they like and what they don't really. Like, that's kind of how I am. Like, I either really like it, really like it or don't like it at all. So it's kind of a very specific design. But I think it's amazing when you do kind of know what you want and you don't.

That it's my favorite thing to do. And so Matt and I have been doing a couple of projects. together. And so he was on our podcast this week. And it was just so much fun to have him on because he's hilarious. Brandy, have you always been into that stuff too? Honestly, no. It's funny because growing up, my mom was like obsessive, compulsive about our home. I told the story before, but we literally had a room in the house called the White Room that nobody was allowed in. Like we weren't she had a doggie gate up and like the kids weren't allowed in the room. She was obsessed about it. Um, and, and then like, I always thought like, oh, it's not my thing. Like, I'm not into that stuff. And then when I became an adult now that I've realized that I'm turning into my mother, I'm like, oh, I do like that. I think it took like, like, like, you're saying too, like, I think it took owning my own house and, and doing, you know, renovating it and wanting to make it feel like my space where I really like learned about my passion for it. But I didn't, I also realized while doing that, um, how much I picked up from my mom over the years just by watching her and just by listening. And just by listening.

to her talk about it because she's renovated her own house over and over and over again probably every five years since I've been alive. So are you in the same house? So we still have the same house. We have a house in Tennessee that's the same as since gosh, Brandy was probably like four years old. And then, yeah, and I've been in my house in L.A. for about 10 years. Okay.

Well, that's so special. I always, I swear to you, when my parents got a divorce, I was like 17 going on 18. and I was like, you can't sell the house, like crying because I just didn't want them to let go of it. And they hung on to it for like way longer than they should have just to like make the kids happy. But I always get so jealous when people still have their house they grew up in because it's so special. Oh, yeah, like Molly. And like, I mean, really all the kids love the house in Tennessee. But I think Molly for sure, because her bedroom is still the same as when she was 12 years old.

Stop. She will not let me change it. And so we haven't touched the house for like 25 years. It's so dated and so awful. Like I can't even stay there when I'm in town most of the time because it's so like I need my space to feel pretty and organized. And like I have, I can't even look at it. But like there's something about when she goes home and it's still the exact same was when she left when she was 12, you know, and it was just starting Hannah Montana that she's just obsessed with it and begs me not to change it.

It's probably like comforting. It's probably like, you know, this comfort. that that's how I felt at least when I moved out of home. I never wanted my mom to change my room either because it was comforting to go back and like you just remember all the innocence that was part of that room. I know. You really do. So but yeah, I love I love the house I mean that I it's just this house is like so special

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You guys have a segment you do on your podcast called Dear MT, right? I'm standing for Mama Tish. We do. And you answer listeners questions. Listeners questions. And Tish, have you always been the go-to in the family when it comes to advice? Always. Yes.

Always. And, like, yeah, it just has worked for us, especially with the girls. But really even brazen, it's crazy. Trace is a little less like that that, like, I'm the first person brazen calls, if there's anything, you know, and the girls too, for sure. So, yeah. And I mean, even their friends, you know. I have a question for you. How do you stay so youthful and beautiful?

It blows my mind every time I see. Oh, my gosh. You are says, I'm not, do you know these roots have not been done since February 3rd and I am losing it? Those are your roots? You're not even gray? You know what? That is kind of crazy, I will say. I do not have one gray hair.

What in the hell? And all of my friends are like, why are your hair not gray? I was like, I don't know. But I've looked because I'm like, surely, I mean, I've had, I'm so stressed to the max. I'm like, where are that, thank goodness, I have not gotten gray hair yet? That's actually mind-blowing. I have like full gray's front and center. I was just cover up with the blonde, and I'm 35, but I feel like I've had them for a couple

years. That's crazy. Yeah. So many of people get it really young. Yeah. I mean, my mom told me she was fully gray in her 30s. And I was like, oh. Yeah, a lot of people are. Billy Ray's mom fully gray by the time she was 30. She and high school, Brandy, her high school photo right here on the front, she had this little swoop and the whole sweep was gray and she was 18. That's insane. Yeah. Oh. Okay. But do you have secret? or are you just like I don't really A lot of marijuana

eat like shit and don't exercise Okay so basically you won the genetic lottery And you just Maybe that's what it is though Maybe it's the simple art of not giving a fuck I think so You know what honestly There's one consistent thing I feel like

That I've always say that I feel like it could be And that I always get eight hours of sleep Like I'm psycho about sleep Like I prefer 10 hours But, like, I literally, I don't care what time it is. I have to be up. I will go to bed. Also, you have never really been a drinker.

You really not. No, never. No, never drank. And I never smoked pot until I was 42. So. Really? Yeah, I've really been just, like, that I eat like a small child. Like, I'm the unhealthiest eater you will ever meet and I don't exercise at all.

but I do have lots of cellulites. Well, okay, same. I'm a tiny human and I have lots of, lots of cellulite. That's also genetic. But were your parents that way? Like, are they super youthful? You know what? I'm adopted.

Oh, you are? I don't know that. I'm adopted. And, but, you know, I do think that it has to be hereditary because, like, I'm so thin and I don't try to be. Like, I just stay thin, even though I eat terribly. but the cellulot is so insane. So I think probably it has, it is hereditary.

Yeah, that makes sense. Or it could be that I eat like crap. Well, no, I do think that it's hereditary. But I mean, that's crazy because I just feel like if I didn't eat it. Okay, I eat like crap twice a week. But if I do that every day of the week, like I can totally see it. And I'm a naturally small person, but I can still like I'll gain weight. But I do think drinking is going to be a huge problem of mine because.

because girlfriend loves her wine. And then, what was I? Oh, Botox is also my best friend. Oh, totally love Botox. Like, Botox is like, I don't dig filler, but Botox all the way. Like, here, here, here. Yeah, I'm for that. It's Botox at all.

So you guys have questions, right, to answer so that we can do your little, your segment? Yeah. So speaking of Dear MT, we do have some questions because this is a joint episode. It's going to be Dear MT and KB. Yay. Amazing. Okay, there's kind of a lot of questions. So I'm just going to go pick the ones I think that are the best. All right. Here we go. This is a question for Trish. I was just wondering, I'm 23 and I've been recently dating older guys. So around 30, 20. And I just kind of had a question as a mom, what is your opinion of that and how do you feel about kind of a bigger age gap? I know I'm in my 20s and I work full time.

So it's not like I'm in college, but I know that you have a slight age difference with your husband. And I know times change, but I just want to know what your opinion on it. Thank you guys. Love you. I love this question. I feel like her age gap, if I'm just. the right math is about the same as you and dad and you know what's crazy is so my parents this is insane my mom and dad met on a monday and got married on a friday and were married for 32 years

and then he passed when and he passed away of throat cancer wow they were so in love and they were he was 13 years older than my mom really and they had the most incredible relationship you know just mentioned that I was adopted and I am so thankful for my parents because you know people all talk about things that you know they feel now is part of you know their childhood that what maybe wasn't so great or I just my parents were so in love and so giving and just I they were so in love with me maybe because I was adopted that they just were like I was a cheerleader I did dance but they were front row and center at everything I ever did and my biggest cheerleader and just gave me such an incredible life so like from my

experience my mom and dad being 13 years apart like it was a beautiful thing and they could not have been more in love I love that I'm older than Reinhardt yeah I'm older than Jason too Really? Four years. Yeah. I'm only a year and a half older than Rye. I don't think like, I mean, if you're like 16 and dating like a really old guy, that's where I could see a problem.

But if you're in your 20s and, I mean, when I was in my 20s, I'd know business dating an older man because I didn't even know who the hell I was. But there's a lot of 20-some-year-old girls out there who really know who they are and feel like, you know, they might be established in who they are, career personally and everything and I think it's like as long as the love is there. Yeah. And I met Billy Ray when I was 23. So, you know, and so yeah. And, you know, he's six years older than me, but like I don't, I mean, like you said, unless it's somebody that's really, really, really young and dating a 40 year old or 30 year old, that's insane. But like, yeah, if you're in your 20s and,

you know, you meet someone that you really like, I mean, I do not have a problem with it at all. Yeah. I agree. Okay, question number two. Hey, Brandy and Tisch the Dish. I'm definitely one of the years from Canada. I'm on a little Peyton. I'm 23. So I'm just calling because I have a health issue that I've been dealing with the past couple years.

So that really stopped me from working and all that. Recently, I've been gotten to go ahead to start working, me and going to school. I feel a little bit behind because I feel like all my friends have, you know, done that already and graduated. I just want advice on, you know, how to get back into, you know, the workforce and, you know, getting back out there because it's been quite a while and I just don't know how to navigate that per se, so I just want to subscribe because that would be awesome.

Anyways, I love you guys and I love the podcast, and I'll be a listening. Thank you. love that she's a wife tier oh yeah um so it's funny because she's saying she got like a late start going to school and stuff um what's so crazy is my best friend olivia who kately knows is 28 years old and she just went back to school um so i feel like now a lot of people are actually doing that right now i mean i think that's incredible and I mean, I mean, maybe more and more people are doing things like that. So maybe she won't feel so alone in that.

I mean, that she's kind of feeling behind. But maybe there's a lot of people, you know, right now that have time on their hands that are kind of going back to school. But I think you just look at it as maybe, you know, you're a little older and really know what you want to do as well. Maybe you aren't that behind. Maybe, you know, I don't know, Randy, I'm stoned. Take it. That's my favorite. I'm spinning. I'm circling. I'm circling. It's like when you do the national anthem and you just can't

clap out where you're out. That's amazing. I feel like Caitlin and I, I feel like can just speak on this a little bit too because I don't know for you, Caitlin, but for me, like I was actually just thinking today, I really didn't like come into my own until I was in my 30s, like really figuring out my shit and getting myself together and knowing like what it is I want to do and where I really think. felt like I was, like, building, like, a brand for myself and really becoming, like, a business woman and taking care of myself. Like, it really took me to get into my 30s to feel like I'm there. Um, so I think feeling like you're a little bit older when you're getting started with everything is totally fine because even if it seems like everyone's ahead of you and if it seems like these younger people have it together, the reality is like your 20s or your 20s, you know what I mean? Nobody really knows who they are. Nobody knows what they're doing. No, it's actually quite impressive that she's even taking that step.

right now because I think she's comparing her journey to her friends and just because her friends have already done that doesn't mean there's a specific age like number you have to be to do what you want to do like I she said she's 23 right yeah yeah yeah that's no I yeah that's incredible she's in my opinion way ahead of the game I think I think especially in this generation the the amount of times people in this day and age switch jobs like that's such a thing in this world where, you know, my parents had the same job for 40 years. And then this generation, they switched jobs like an average of like 10 times in their life. So the fact that she's already going back to school at 23 and knowing what she wants is like way more than I

could have said at that age. Absolutely. Gosh, I literally and, you know, sometimes you just get thrown into things in such weird circumstances like with me. Like I had no idea. Like I was just raising kids. And then when Miley got Hannah Montana and we moved to California, you know, I was the manager, whether I wanted to be or not, I was because, you know, and I didn't really know what to do. So I did. You didn't, I was going to ask you if you, like, had that in your history, if you just kind of fell into that role. You know, I did. It's, it's weird when I think back, though, about my mom and dad, they owned, they, they were just such entrepreneurs and they had a car stereo show. And I loved music. And they had a ticket

Master inside that store where my mom, and that's where I would go to work once I graduated at Ticketmaster. And I loved it because I loved concerts and I loved shows. But my mom and dad were business people. Like that's what they did. They had restaurants and that's all, like I heard all the time with them talking business. And like it's so crazy when I, you know, told you about my mom and dad and their history. My mom didn't even drive a vehicle for like 11 years until they adopted me because they went to work together. They came home together. Like, they did everything together. It was crazy. And so I just worked there right after I graduated and I just, I just loved music always. And then I think I just get the business sense from them. But, you know,

being thrown into it, you just kind of learn as you go and I partnered with someone, learned from them. But it was amazing. But I was like 30, probably six years old, you know. There you go. it's it's I mean I learned so much about women and you know your bodies and when I froze my eggs it was like women's bodies are meant to have babies at like 16 and we have known like from our parents or their parents like you're supposed to have a baby at this young age so now it's like coming out of that where women are just evolving so much that they can figure out their own career and they can decide on when they want to have kids and who they want to be with so it's just like shifting so much that that sometimes people still have this image of what they're supposed to be doing at a certain age when it's just not the case at all. Totally. Agreed. Let's take a quick break.

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Company, Golden, Colorado. All right. This is a great question for Caitlin. Hi, Sister Brandy. My name's Lakin. I have been absolutely loving the podcast. So definitely keep it coming. I is become a staple on my way to work. I'm also a YFTA. year, so I just love everything about this. But my question is kind of for both you guys. So I'm 20, I'm almost 23. I'm about to graduate with my nursing degree in December. And I've been just my boyfriend for a little over two years.

We're in a really good place right now, and I think there's a high possibility we could take that next step after graduation and move in together. I've been trying to approach it lightly, and I've been getting answers from him over the past couple months and just been taking it as small wins because talking about the future kind of scared them. which is fair. You know, we're both in our young 20s, and I get it. Do you think I'm approaching it in the right way,

or do you think it's gotten maybe to the point, you know, it's only a couple months away where we graduate and have to kind of make a decision that I should sit down and kind of talk about it, or do you think approaching it in the way I have, just kind of bringing it up slowly over a few months, every couple months, it's the right way to go about it. Love to hear you guys advice on this,

and Caitlin, since she's a part of this too. so yeah just go ahead and send it my way love the podcast can't wait to keep listening yeah thank you bye so since katelyn currently lives with her boyfriend i feel like she should answer this question because apparently she succeeded exactly i have an answer for this because if you've been dating for two years that's you know that's a commitment and if there should be no other way to do it than just just be able to sit down and have a conversation about it because that's going to tell you a hell of a lot about your relationship if you can communicate and just be able to be like, hey, let's sit down and talk about this. I'm not afraid of what you're going to

say. I just want to know the truth. Like, where are you feeling with moving in after we graduate? Do you need some time? What do you want to do? Like, those should be the boundaries that you're already setting for a relationship, especially if you've been together for two years. So in my opinion, you just sit down and have the conversation and you think with, I always take this from Jason, is you think with logic over emotion and if he isn't ready that doesn't necessarily mean that he's saying he doesn't want to be with you you have to just hear everybody out and just figure it out but communication should be the number one thing in your relationship right now so you should have that conversation straight up oh my gosh I really want to be you right now

the worst at I am the worst communicator really really Ray is the worst we are the two worst communicators that has ever lived I'm so passive aggressive and like but i really believe that that can be true what he's saying like even if i'm not ready then i'm like but is it like where does he really just not you know what i mean like that's where i go and then i get all proudful and like well i'm not asking that i am the worst communicator look do not be me it's hard when you have two people that aren't great communicators but I feel like it's probably why my relationships have actually failed in the past is because I can be a little passive aggressive and I feel like I'm I'm I get like too emotional

in things and I get exactly like a prideful thing where Jason has really calmed me down in that way and taught me like healthy communication so I feel really lucky for that but I mean you guys are obviously doing something right you're still together but it's it's just sometimes it's learning to not communicate well together like you have to just figure out what works best for you guys and i think i'm a little bit like i'd rather just be in denial like i'm not going to ask because if he does says no well that i just don't want to know and that like that is totally like i'm so bad he's bad advice here i mean you're self-aware which is great that is great therapy i mean i'm trying to make myself work with the therapist to get over these things but i literally am just not

get a communication. It's hard. I go every three weeks for different things. I would take KB's advice on this and just bring it up straight to the point, get your answer. Otherwise, you're going to be stressed about it and you're going to wonder. And if you just ask outright, then you get your answer and you move. Yeah. Yeah. But also only if you're ready for the truth. Yeah. That's why I'm saying logic over emotion. Exactly. We'll be right back with more off-divine, great therapy. Coming to Live by Live Thursday, July 30th, Darius Ruckers, Darius and Friends virtual concert benefiting St. Jude's Research Hospital. Catch an exclusive one-time-only performance by Darius Rucker live from the Grand Ole Opry stage, featuring guest appearances by Clint Black and Tracy Lawrence.

All proceeds from the show benefits St. Jude. So get your tickets today at Livexlive.com slash Darius. And tune in July 30th at 8 p.m. Eastern only on Live by Live. You're listening to Off the Vine Race Therapy. The relationship question. Okay, so I recently moved across the country from the East Coast to the West Coast with my significant other of almost five years now. And this is our first time living together. After being together for almost eight months out here, we came to the mutual decision, you know, that we maybe marked the best people for each other.

and I just was seeking like any type of advice for my life moving forward. I'm in a brand new space. I am just craving independence and I thought that the three of you would be the best people to ask whether that's navigating, getting through a heartbreak or anything to do with being single in your early 20s, in the 20s, I don't know, I'm 24, but I am in a brand new place being down somewhere called Sandy Egos and I just wanted some advice whatever you can get would be so appreciated and I love you guys and I hope you're having a beautiful Wednesday.

All right. Love her. Love. She's amazing. Okay, I'm starting. Honestly, at 23 or 20, Brandy is so independent. Do you know Marta? Brandy's been Marta?

yeah i do right yeah i think so okay i'm obsessed with marta and she is so independent as well like she loves traveling alone she loves going to eat alone like she is the coolest person i know really truly and brandy is so similar to that where she is very independent like that i was never like that like up until truly honestly until the pandemic where i was forced to be alone I would that was my biggest fear and I wish at in my 20s I always feel like I needed to be in a relationship even in high school like I just needed to be in a relationship I wish I had taken time then to learn to be okay with just being with myself and being okay with that and being independent and not feeling like I needed someone all the time so I say if this

it seems like the perfect time if you just got out of this long relationship you just moved to the West Coast, which is the best place in the world, and you have the opportunity to just live life and kind of learn to just be with yourself and be okay with that before rushing into another relationship. I wish I would have done that. That's good advice because what she said that stood out to me is she said, I'm craving independence. And so she's already in a good place to, like, empower herself and go forward with that

because she's craving it. And I was kind of like that I didn't get, I didn't have a sense of independence until I was in my 30s. I was kind of the same where I was wanted to be in a relationship or around people or whatever. And I think that's really great that after five years of being with somebody, that's kind of why you move in together sometimes to figure it out if you are the right people for each other. You figured out you're not and how responsible of you to acknowledge that and say you're craving independence. And it's like you said, the West Coast is the best coast. And just like go, go learn about yourself and learn about what it is that you're craving for your own, you know, self-love.

So I think that's great. Yeah, same. It's funny. So she's 24. When I was 24, I wouldn't have admitted it then. But I moved from L.A. to Nashville to be with my boyfriend at the time. And we didn't. We only dated for maybe a little less than a year after I made that move.

And we had the worst breakup ever. was the worst breakup of my entire life. And I was so devastated for so long. But in hindsight, making that move back, even though at the time it had so much to do with him, I'm so thankful for it because it put me where I am now. Like if I hadn't moved back to Nashville, like I wouldn't have anything that I have now. You know what I mean? And who knows like what I'd be doing? Maybe I would have joined another band in L.A. Maybe I wouldn't have this like great career that I have so and it's funny too all of my all of my really good friends that I've had for a very long time I met through him so even though I broke up with him like I gained so many friends out of that and

there really was just like so much to gain from that guy like the breakup was so hard but I just feel like even if like you make a move like that for somebody and it doesn't work out you got to look for the reasons why it happened because there really is like purpose and everything you know if you don't see it at the time like you will eventually I agree with that I agree with that. Great advice, Brandy. Great questions today. Those were great.

And I played, I saw one. Didn't one come through about a barn door? I think we should do one design. I have to do the barn door question. Yeah, because I think we should do one design for a KB. We have a segment called Ha Design because get it high and it's high design. I love that. I can't wait to play my quick game next with you called Hi Hypotheticals.

Oh, yay. Hypothetical. Let's see. Here we go. This question is from Martha. Hi, my name is Martha. I'm from Las Vegas. Are barn doors in or out?

Thank you. Oh my gosh, I love it. She goes straight to the point. Oh, my God, bless Martha. I mean, she was coming in hot with that design question. I love it. I love the excitement. Okay, I love this question because, I mean,

barn doors went through a big trend, And I am all for a barn door, like, in the right space. But barn doors scare me because I've seen so many where the tone of the wood is just awful. And that may be with the flooring or with your countertops. I'm just really picky about the wood tone. What I do love, and I think you can do it in so many ways, is painting a barn door white or painting a barn door black or even, like, I love, I just saw on my, domain, a barn door that was painted a light blue and all the hardware was like a matte black and

it was so pretty. So I think if you're going for a barn door, the safest thing is to do a painted barn door. Either your white, black or some really pretty color that looks good with like a matte black hardware. I don't think you can go wrong. I have a barn door in my house and it's painted dark charcoal and we have matte black hardware and it's very chic. I love that. So barn doors had their moment and they haven't let it go yet. Like, I'm all for a barn door. Oh, me too. And one thing they didn't show on Cyrus versus Cyrus, my favorite thing that we did in one of the houses that we did was a coffee bar and we put barn doors on the top part of the cabinetry. And so you had your little coffee pot and it opened and you had all your coffee station and then you could close it on up so you didn't

see it all the time. And it was just the cutest thing ever, even though no one saw it. So maybe we can put that on our on our Instagram brandy that'll be great great idea um okay well I'm glad we answered Martha's question because she was adorable yeah did okay let's take a minute to talk about self-care and that time of the month yes talking about the old dreaded period well not too dreaded anymore because I've been using carefree breathe and it's really helping me relax even when aunt flow is in town aka Karen carefree breathe offers a line of skin-friendly pads and pantiliners that go beyond leak protection to keep your skin dry and irritation free. It's clinically tested by dermatologists to meet sensitive skin standards. And it's

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looking for a game to play this with because I always play the hypothetical game, but it was somebody, I can't remember who I was having a conversation with somebody else who likes smoking and she was, we came up with the hypotheticals and I was like, oh, I need to make that a segment for somebody who likes to smoke. So here we go. Great. Okay. Well, you both can answer, but I'll switch. So, okay, Tish, if you had to be isolated or quarantined with one member of your family, who would you choose and why? Brandi's just sitting back like, yeah, mom.

It's a hypothetical. I think Brandi, you were going to say that and you know why because like i feel like she is just so grounded and so like reliable that i feel like she could figure anything out and like together we would just we would survive it but i'm not sure about what the others that's fair brandy why are you look surprised i agree i don't be grounded he's insane i feel like you pick me because i'm the most passive that like if like if we need space my mom and I just like go away and don't and then we come back and it's all good even though we've never talked about why we were annoyed and that would just be like that would just be it well but if we're going to be just like stranded together like

I just feel like I'm going to need you to handle something no one else in the family can handle anything I know the only good thing about my like surely to God just pay somebody to come rescue 100%. That's amazing. My niece, my niece called me and she was freaking out because she thought she had COVID because she's young and scared. And she was like, well, I have a tummy ache. And I was like, why don't we just go take some deep breaths? And she's like, see, this is why I call you. Because if I call Emma or my mom, then she's just so dramatic. That is so funny. It was so cute. If you could relive one year of your life thus far, what year would you really? live honestly this past one was probably the best year of my life so probably that one from like from

like november 2018 to november 2019 because november because of our podcast that's yes the pod that one that really made your year i know it um okay if you could create a law that everyone absolutely had to follow what law would you make there's so many there are so many there are so many I'm trying to think of what I would say I'm like a law I honestly don't know there's probably so many other better ones but because of this happened to me today you shouldn't there should be the same punishment for driving under the speed limit you're driving under the speed limit take it do you find that Nashville drivers are the absolute worst or is it just me?

The worst. They are terrible. They are absolutely terrible. I agree with that. Okay, that's your law. You know what? That's it. That and be kind. Well, I was going to say that everybody had to be nice. But I feel like if we made a law that everybody had to smoke weed, then everybody would be nice and that'd be great.

You know what? That's fair. That's very valid. Yeah, it's very valid. Because that's the thing that I love about. smoking pot is that literally like it's just like peace love and happiness yeah it really is everyone should try it um okay if you had to pick one food to eat for breakfast lunch and dinner what would you pick mac and cheese cheesecake adia oh oh mine's like i'm like sushi but that's because i i miss

i lived in vancouver for so long where i had the best sushi of all time and now i'm in nashville where i'm like help oh how i didn't know you were in nashville Yeah, yeah, I'm here. Do you love it there? Yes, I do. We're actually going to look for a new place. I'm like, we're out by the airport right now, which I thought it was just going to be temporary. I thought I was going to rent, but I ended up buying it and doing some renovations and stuff.

So we're actually looking to move in the next, like, year. Fun. Staying in Nashville. Yeah. I'm, like, obsessed with the Forest Hills area. I love it. Favorite area, like in the downtown vicinity for sure. Yeah.

So cool. Yeah. Okay. One more. If you had to replace your hands with any two objects, which would you choose? That's so weird. That is so weird. Mine would be like a wine glass and a claw so I could still like grab things and then drink wine.

So I'm right there with you. You are coffee mug and one for sure. Oh, yeah, definitely. Yeah. You could like to scoop things. That's true. That's true. Yeah.

Like, am I high coming up with these questions? These are the weirdest questions ever. Blame me. I'm like, a joint in one hand. 1,000%. If I'm going to have something weird as hands, I'm going to definitely need to be hot at all times. That's amazing.

Okay, you've been in L.A. for 10 years, how do you still have the best accent ever? I live for a Southern accent. I despise it because I feel like people like that hear me talk immediately. I don't know. I just feel so weird about it that I've been out here 15 years. And yeah, I've been here 15 years and I do not know why it has not gone away. It's ridiculous.

Oh, I absolutely love it. Like I want to have one. My kids hate it. Well, they don't hate it, but they just like, it's so easy for them because everything I say, Noah and Molly say it back in my accent. It's so annoying, especially Molly. She's like, and then mom said, and then she, like, talks on my voice, like, constantly in meetings, all of it.

It's crazy. I think it's cute. I love it. I think it's, like, endearing. I know that some of my, like, Southern girlfriends say that people don't take them as seriously when they hear a Southern accent. So I understand that. One thousand percent, especially, like, and I'm usually on conference call with mostly all men, too.

and I just feel like this accent makes them not take me as seriously or I don't know. It's, I totally agree with that. Which is lame because that's their stupid problem, but I just love it. I like have, well, I used to have the harsh Canadian accent, but I feel like it's kind of gone. I like, I don't think you have an accent really. Yeah. Okay. No.

Well, thank you guys so much for doing this podcast. And I love that you guys started your own podcast because your, your dynamic is so, perfect it's such a it's so like like well balanced and fun and great advice and she keeps me grounded which is great i see like my role with tish is very similar to my role with kately on the podcast tour because katelyn's like the place and i'm like got to keep it in line we got to we got to stay on the agenda we got to stay on track i forgot you guys did that yes it was so much fun but i everybody needs a brandy in their life to keep them grounded so bad so bad it's a great quality brandy we're lucky to have you okay well thanks for having us on no thank you guys so much too and it was

great catching up with you both and congratulations on the podcast and um all good oh wait where can people find the podcast mom's too stone to answer um you can find sorry we're stoned basically anywhere you listen to podcasts, Apple, Spotify, etc. Make sure you subscribe so you don't miss an episode. We also, we do have an Instagram account that we just started, so we're still getting it together, but it's at, sorry, we're stoned. You can follow me at Brandy Cyrus, my mom, at Tish Cyrus. We post more on our individuals than the podcast Insta. Well, I give away Instagram is on most of my podcast, so I'll give one to the sorry we're stoned Instagram. So is it just at sorry we're stone? What is that?

And my mom has the password, so I take no responsibility for what intent gets posted. I don't post anything. She doesn't look at blurry, unfocus. That's perfect. That just makes it more like on brand. Exactly. That's what I'm thinking. That was planned.

Well, thank you ladies so much. We'll chat soon. Awesome. Thanks, Caitlin. Okay. Bye. Bye. Thanks everybody for listening.

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