Off The Vine with Kaitlyn Bristowe - Grape Therapy: Love is in the Blaire with Blaire LaSure

Episode Date: October 18, 2018

Kaitlyn and Blaire LaSure kick off the first date of the Blairette with some Grape Therapy. Join in the fun as Blaire preps for her first blind date, tells us how it went, and even gets on th...e phone with the lucky Jared to hear how he's feeling after their date. Leesa - Go to Leesa.com/VINE for up to $235 off and free shipping Take the #OffTheVine Challenge. Get a LEESA mattress, and then tweet at me about your LEESA, using #OfftheVineChallenge. I’ll call out your twitter handle on my Podcast! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:01:35 answer well you're going to answer some questions with wine i've already drank you've already chugged your glass because you have a very important night ahead of you i forgot we were filming this and uh i'm sitting here just looking like a homeless chic lady yeah it's but that's my vibe yeah homeless chic thanks i don't look homeless chic no you look cute thank you look really cute so where did you shop for your outfit for your dress dress dress dress up dress up in Nashville yeah they hooked me up oh yes they have a Nashville and Brentwood and then a bunch of other locations but I went to the Nashville I'm obsessed with your top um thanks okay so Blair is starting her journey to find love tonight and uh you've got a date set up you don't know
Starting point is 00:02:14 who it's with you don't know the guy I do not I just know what we're doing okay but I'm gonna show up and there it begins oh my gosh I feel like I'm like I'm terrified we need some like romantic bachelor at music you know like when they get out of the limo oh my god is you rolling up in a limo or like an uber because this is a low budget i haven't talked to oh right this is very low budget the blare at is low budget but that's how we do around here um okay so i'm going to ask you some questions we're going to feel this out okay um i just want to know you know how chris harsons sits down with the lead and is like trying to figure out you know like yeah tell us how you feel are you ready yeah so i'm going to ask you these kinds of questions okay
Starting point is 00:02:53 i'm ready to start off i would like to know what are you most excited about during this journey well first of all give me your wine glass let me give you a little splash mine because you went through that yeah i still need i need a little more that's great okay what am i most excited about yeah hopefully the end having a man on my arm oh my gosh because that's the whole purpose of this i can't believe like we're here like we put an idea out there and we really made it happen i know if people have not seen your video they need to go to my do edit page yes watch the IGTV watch your video it's all about me and it's going to be we're taping this taping how old am I 80 um we're recording it in your VCR yeah plug it in plug it in uh be kind rewind um do you even
Starting point is 00:03:40 know what that means yes of course come on right right right we talked about this we did because it was when the final guy had the blockbuster right oh right right all my podcasts sometimes just like mesh together into one. It's okay. Mr. Rogers. Oh, R.B. So wait, what was my other thing I was going to say? Oh, and then you're recording your dates. You're going to do in the moment interviews.
Starting point is 00:04:01 We're going to do ITMs. We're going full like bachelorette style. This is so legit but also like so low budget that it's perfect. My life is low budget. And you guys only have $100 for each date. We have $100 for each day. So we're going to do like an activity followed by ice cream or a drink or seven drinks. You're right.
Starting point is 00:04:18 I'll just get that out of my own podcast. Just. Oh, just kidding. Make the guy pay. Yeah. No, you, you take turns. He buys one, you buy one. Well, it's just one. He buys four, you buy one. Yeah. Yeah. We'll see what happens. Yeah. I'll be like, let's do six shots on you. Yeah. See what you're made of. Um, so you're excited for the end of this because, so is this, the blaret is it ending with a boyfriend? In like, hopefully, maybe. Not a fiance. No. That's a little aggressive. Yeah, that's a little too fast. But boyfriend, I mean, if I really like him. Oh my gosh. I'll see. I. I'm. I. I have such a good feeling about this i weirdly do too i don't know why also i was telling so my friend aaron is filming all of this yeah hey iron and and i was like what if like if this actually works which i kind of a weird feeling i have a weird i have a great feeling then i was like you're gonna give the best speech at my wedding because you were there when we met and we'll play i was like we're gonna play that date at my wedding oh my gosh i mean you can do that too but like i'm gonna officiate your wedding. Yeah, if, yeah. I was going to say if this works, but even if it doesn't, when. When this works.
Starting point is 00:05:23 And, and like, but what if the guy is like, doesn't want to see you with other guys? Well, sorry. Sorry, this is the blare. This is what you signed up for. Yes, that's exactly what you're supposed to say. You signed up for it. Are you nervous about your first one-on-one date tonight? Yeah, of course. Okay, tell me why you're nervous. Because I just hate dates. The unknown. Like, I hate awkward moment. a thing i'm not an awkward person but i feel like if i meet someone who's awkward i like become awkward oh if they're like really outgoing then you become i become like i just i feed off of them so when they're weird and awkward i'm like do you like potatoes like that's all i can think of like that's what you think of that i don't know do i like potatoes because i do cool i like a mashed
Starting point is 00:06:11 i like a mashed how about you a little butter and like on a first date i feel like you can literally ask any question in the world yeah but I feel like I think too much of like oh is that a smooth transition or is he going to think that was awkward like don't overthink see my problem I mean I've been out of the dating game for a while but when I went on dates I was like I don't know I feel like I was just like well I might as well be who I am and like because if they don't like me like they're gonna figure it out pretty quick and I just felt like I just don't over that's kind of something that I like about myself though I don't overthink that kind of stuff I just go for it and I'm like, I don't, I don't think about it after.
Starting point is 00:06:47 I'm like, well, yeah, they're like me or he didn't. Yeah. We'll see. I just don't, I don't go on days often. I get terrified and I'm like, oh, sorry, I have to feed my fish. What if he asks you tonight what your five-year plan is? It's like one of my least favorite questions. I like that question now.
Starting point is 00:07:03 You do? Okay, what's your five-year plan? No, I want to know. Oh, my five-year, well, I haven't actually thought about it. But I like, I like questions that are like deep and like about the future. Okay. But my five-year plan, let's see. How old am I?
Starting point is 00:07:15 24 29 I'd be let's see hopefully I'd be like a producer killing it like boss lady yeah and then be married and maybe like be getting pregnant working on it working on getting pregnant working on it every day every night I'll see you I'll see it okay I think I'd have a baby but yeah I don't know okay well you're putting it out into the universe so let's just say that that that might happen a baby just you know I will be pregnant five years. Very important life-changing message about vitamins. Introducing your delicious new beauty secret, My Bite Beauty for beautifully strong hair, skin, and nails. Get this, one bite of rich, dark, chocolatey bliss filled with nourishing vitamins and nutrients to help you look
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Starting point is 00:09:18 Because I sure hope so. No, on the Blaret. On the Bluette, I hope I can find love. Yeah. Or like I'll meet the guy that I will find love with. Yes. You know, I don't know if I'll find love on like two dates, but you might. I could.
Starting point is 00:09:33 That's crazy. You might fall in love tonight. Yeah. It's freaking weird. That's crazy. I know. I always feel like Chris Harrison says to them, you are the bachelor. You're the bachelor.
Starting point is 00:09:42 You're the bachelor. how does that say to say how does it feel say it out loud hyperventilating over here there's so much pressure on you there's so much pressure on you to find love what was my question oh have you been in love have you been in love so my answer for that is always the same because I definitely think I've been in love I mean at one point I saw I was with a guy that I for sure saw a future with yeah it just our paths were going different ways so it was really tragic but we over it yeah we're over it don't worry it was like four years ago oh you never know yeah imagine he shows up that would be quite the plot twist
Starting point is 00:10:20 golly but i hope that one day when i meet the person that i really am gonna marry that it makes me question if that was even love like be like wow i thought that was love like this is even more like this is way better you will because that felt like this is as good as life can get and so i'm like once i meet the right person it'll be like you know bingo jackpot you might even meet three more people before you meet the right one no because I'm gonna well three more dates and then maybe maybe date four you never know who knows that's every time I've thought I was in love the next time I'm like oh no no no this is love oh no no this is love exactly so that's that's what I'm hoping for okay well I like that answer that you'll question if you
Starting point is 00:11:05 were in love the first time because that's how good your love will be exactly I'll be like I thought that was love So you're very outgoing Well now I'm like Well you're unless you're around shy people Okay you're outgoing Yeah Girl did you see my scrunchy video
Starting point is 00:11:22 You think I'm quiet and reserved No that's why I liked you That's why I picked you That's why you're the Blairette Nobody who's boring can carry a show That's true Yeah you have to have an outgoing personality So is this how you are on dates
Starting point is 00:11:34 We kind of already answered that But I I am okay here's the thing i just this is the only time i get awkward on a date is if i'm like so what do you do and they're like oh i'm an accountant and i'm like okay do you want to tell me more or like they don't ask questions like it has to be like a mutual like them asking about me me but like if it's just me asking questions i'm like okay that's always my that's always my thing with how i can tell if a guy like somebody back is if they ask questions because then they want to
Starting point is 00:12:03 hear from you if they just like end it with a word and you're like oh dang yeah watch for that tonight see how many questions and i'm like don't you want to know about me yeah let me talk about myself yeah that's well don't get me started like i have a podcast love talking about myself um would you say you're really ready to commit to a serious relationship yeah you're 24 let's keep that in mind for some people that's really young i was not ready to commit to a serious relationship at 24 but some people are yeah i definitely am i don't know if i necessarily would say i want to get married like in a week but i definitely want to want like a boyfriend and to like have my person to do fun things with because I feel like
Starting point is 00:12:43 when you're young like right now is the age where I'm like going to concerts all the time and like having fun events with work and like all this stuff and I'm like I just want a boyfriend to come with me yeah just be your little best friend and your lover yeah yeah but I still want to like hang out with my girlfriends all the time yeah kind of have that that balance yes I hear that so I'm definitely ready to commit to a person not necessarily like let's get married tomorrow what But what if, but what if you find? I mean, I could get married tomorrow. What if you find, I have my gown picked out. You do not. I'm just kidding. No, you're not. I mean, you haven't picked out. Girl, I have like a thousand gowns on Pinterest. Really? Is it sad that I don't? Oh, you don't? No. Oh. I mean, I've picked out like a few gowns that I like. Well, yeah, I know like the style. I have baby names in my notes in my phone. Okay, I think every girl does. What are yours? No, I'm not telling you kidding me. I'm not going to broadcast to the world my baby names because they'll get stolen. and then all of a sudden Shniqua will be the number one
Starting point is 00:13:42 So my brother just got married And I call her Shiniqua Really? Oh, that's funny That's my number one baby name guys Chinquah Yeah, go name your kid Shiniqua Well my next question was Are you ready to meet your future husband
Starting point is 00:13:54 But you know, I'm really curious to see If you do fall in love during this Because you're definitely open to it Yep I'm not kidding like At first it was like oh gosh Like when we talked about the Blurrette I was like, this is going to be just, like, funny.
Starting point is 00:14:09 But then as it's gotten here, I'm like, I have a weird, good feeling about this. No, my intuition is telling me that you are actually going to find your guy. And I, I don't know who they are yet. I, like, kind of feel weird saying that because I'm like, what if they're listening and they're like, weirdo? But also, I'm like, hey, they're the weirdos for signing up for a freaking Blairette. Like, just kidding. Why are they weird? Why don't they want to date me?
Starting point is 00:14:32 No, they should, but they just don't know it yet. Yeah, that's true. or they do but like it's this is funny so it's it's 2018 okay you either find your love on the blaret or like you don't tender yeah no not a tinder girl well there's some real tinder love stories out there no yeah i just don't have tinder oh makes sense i know people that have gotten you're more of a blaret guy yeah yeah i'm more of the fine love on a show yeah on like do edit's IGTV kind of girl at do edit follow them i love it everyone thinks it's dude it which i'm totally fine with yeah because it looks like it and it's funny i'm like dude it sure people still are
Starting point is 00:15:11 like oh on dude it and i'm like do edit i know i'm like i don't even work for them but i'm passionate my friends my like close friends are like oh i love the dude it i'm like i just don't say anything i'm like sure whatever dude it's funny too you um speaking of you have a fall collect another fall collection i do have a look at your little promotional skills because i was about to say like I love the fall collection, and then I was like, well, you have another one, too. The next fall collection is even better than this one. Yeah, because you have a color that I want. What is it?
Starting point is 00:15:40 Tell me, which one. Can I? Yeah. Mustard. Oh, yeah. I saw that on your Instagram, and when they said they were, when the yellow is my favorite color. And when they said they were sending me the fall collection, I was like, I'm getting mustard. And then it didn't come.
Starting point is 00:15:53 And I was like, oh, you'll get it the next one. Yeah, well, then I realized you were doing there. I was like, so pumped for one specifically, but that one I'm going to keep a secret. Okay. But the mustard one is, did you say, do you? Debt. Oh, yeah, do dat. Do it. Do it. Do it. You know the, what's the? I did you wop. I always say, um, hootet, who did it? I pooted, pooded it. Oh. I like that better. It didn't good. Put it. Who dat. Oh, Igia. Isn't it? Yeah. Yeah. That's funny. I did you wop. You, uh, you have my sense of humor and I appreciate that. Poo. Thanks. I also have a lot of wine in my sister. Please don't get. Actually, please get blackout tonight.
Starting point is 00:16:32 night and it's like funny because you know how like there's always the drunk person on night one it's going to be me I'm like hey guys welcome so you okay wait no I'll get to that after I get really excited about your date tonight um are you worried at all that some guys might not be here for the right reasons yeah I mean well so here's the thing I feel like most of these guys found out because of their friends who like told them or posted yeah like a lot of my friends posted so they might know them. I don't know. Right.
Starting point is 00:17:04 But so I'm like, okay, hopefully they, like my friends that were like, yeah, you should apply, know that the guy's a good guy. Mm-hmm. But then I'm also like, is someone here just to get some followers? Yeah. Get some insta-fame. They might. They actually might.
Starting point is 00:17:20 You know what? I did some deep creeping on your guys. Tell me all about them. Nope. Guys, I know nothing about them. I love that you know nothing about them. And but let me tell you. I was, like, very impressed by album.
Starting point is 00:17:33 And I did deep creeping on, like, Instagram and, like, certain things. There's one I'm a little concerned about. You have to have one, though. Yeah. But that would be... I'm not telling you. You will figure it out for yourself. You think I will?
Starting point is 00:17:44 What if he's the one that I end up with? Will you tell me? I wouldn't let you do that. Okay, good. No. I'll, like, I'll make you keep him along for the ride because he'll be good TV. Yeah, obviously. But, no.
Starting point is 00:17:56 Okay. He's, and he could turn out to be amazing. His application just seemed a little his... catchy no not even just my like gut is like I don't know about that one okay okay okay just keep that in mind find out yeah but you never know but like help a sister out if I'm like oh my gosh I love him be I will not let you fall in love with a douche canoe thank you okay um are you know that's what I just asked give me your go-to pickup line go to pickup line yeah let's see that's gonna be good. No, it's not because I don't have a pickup. Oh, well, you're like, ahem. I was like, okay, let me clear
Starting point is 00:18:33 my throat. Wicah, wicker, wicker. I usually rap to pick them up. I don't know. The only one I can think of is like when I was 10, I wasn't picking up. I'm like wheeling when you were 10. Like, what? Well, there's one time when I was 10 and I was picking up this dude. Me and my friend had this web show before I Carly. Yeah. And we like, had episodes but one of them we did like a segment of like best pickup lines and i don't know why i still remember it but it was um hey hey are you from outer space your butts out of this world yeah that's good i really like that yeah i don't know why that's only one i remember i don't use pickup lines yeah you don't need to you're the blaret they need to be using the pickup lines on you hey so you all
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Starting point is 00:20:32 The possibilities are beautiful. What is a deal breaker for you? A lot of things. Yeah, I know. I'm like, I'm like, there's probably a lot like a smoker for me, deal breaker. Oh, yeah. I have a lot of, see, here's a thing. Somebody who doesn't want kids deal breaker.
Starting point is 00:20:45 I have really high, like, yeah. My like, what's the word? Not expectations. Yeah. My. Your expectations. Expectations. are really high.
Starting point is 00:20:55 Is that right? This wine. Whispering an angel, it's getting to you. It's good. Yeah, like I have really high expectations. Like I'm like, okay, they have to be this. They have to be this. It's kind of like five things.
Starting point is 00:21:07 And if they don't have all of them, then do you know the five things off the top of your head? Is it the five Fs? Oh. I watch the five F words. Yeah. I thought that was funny. Probably no one else did.
Starting point is 00:21:19 No, it is funny. Is that what it is? Well, yeah, I mean, I kind of. Well, I would say. faith if it's not like similar to mine or if they're not like a family guy they don't want to be a husband they don't want to hey Tucker he's crying Tucker's like that's me I'm a family man big me big family man uh yeah family they have to want to be like a father um I would say funny they have to make me laugh like till I'm picking my pants basically yeah um food I don't need
Starting point is 00:21:53 someone who's like what's for dinner salad like no salad's not for dinner ever you don't make friends with salad you don't make friends with salad you don't make friends is that a thing yeah it is but keep going i'm going to pull this up for you um and then fashion i mean friends they have to yeah they have to be they have to be my best friend yeah i like those those are all great quality you set to look for and then dancing if they like love to get down on the dance floor that's just a bonus like if he doesn't if he's the guy that just wants to stay on the sideline and be like, you go, baby, and like watch me break it down, that's fine.
Starting point is 00:22:26 But I'd rather them join me. You don't win friends with salad. You don't win friends with salad. You don't win French with salad. You don't win French with salad. Hey, you win with mayo chup. Yes, that's what I'm talking about. Oh my gosh.
Starting point is 00:22:42 What if, you know the like whipped cream bikini? What if snow? What? Do I need to pull up another YouTube clip? The Whip cream bikini? blues movie when the girl comes out in a whipped cream bikini for her man sounds like current yeah that's probably where she got the idea and the guys lose their mind over whipped cream bikinis you need to do a mayo chup bikini not really but i don't actually do it yeah don't actually do it but it was a nice thought
Starting point is 00:23:07 yeah it was like a good idea it's a fun fun idea that's the group date there you go put mayo chup everyone's got to wear a mayo chup oh yeah the photos you guys do a mayo chup speedo oh that would be kind Is it early? Get Heinz to sponsor it. Let's make money. I like it. Yeah, speaking of Heinz, I want that Heinz jacket. Yeah, I'm going to show you it after. You can try it on. Okay, great. What do you hope to get out of this besides a boyfriend, of course? Hmm. Besides a boyfriend? A little taste of fame, a little Instagram following. Just some mayo chup. Some free mayo chup. Yeah. Maybe a little journey to find yourself. Yeah. I mean, I really think like, like I said, I hate going on dates. I feel like after this, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:23:50 be like a dating professional. I won't need to be because I'll find my man. But I feel you can give advice to your friends. Yeah. And like mayo chop on the side wouldn't hurt. Oh, girl. Girl, I've got like mayo chub coming on my ears. So you're good. Have you tried it yet? Yes. I'll have you tried yeah. I gave you a bottle. I gave you a bottle. It's good. I, I would like the ratio. Yeah. I tried it on the pizza at your podcast. Yeah. It was like, this is good, but I need to test it with the true mayo chup. Yeah. So I went to Chick-fil-A. That's what I. I had it with. That's what I had it with. It was good. The Chick-fil-A-Waffle cut fries with the and the nugs. Life-changing. Oh, nugs dipped in the mayo chup. Of course. My mouth just watered. I'm so
Starting point is 00:24:30 hungry right now. They just drooled over to your table. You did? No. I did. Okay, just a couple more questions. A couple more questions and then you can go on your date, you little rascal. We can keep talking. You little rascal. What does America not know about Blair? What does America not know about Blair? A lot. Go on. I don't know. Just so much that you can't think of one. Literally. Oh, okay.
Starting point is 00:24:55 One thing they don't know about me. Oh. The one thing that came to my mind is so weird and embarrassing. I was going to say, I have a freckle on my butt crack. Yes, all of America now knows you have a freckle on your butt crack. You and my mom used to sing a song. I don't think it was a real song. Maybe it was.
Starting point is 00:25:14 But it would go, you've got a freckle on your crack. You're pretty. Yeah, that's definitely made up. song. Are you really questioning if that's a real song? Like, you think I'm going to go steal those lyrics and, like, put it in a jam of my own? You know what? Maybe I should, well, we can cut it out if you don't want to say this on the podcast. I had the, I don't know why. It was like 11 p.m. laying in bed and this idea came to me. What? That we should make a music video. Yeah. About scrunchies. Yeah. And here's the tune. Ready? Yeah. Oh my gosh. This came to you at night.
Starting point is 00:25:46 Yeah. And I was like, well, look, it just happened. I think it was after I saw a tweet, you tweeted but it was like uh i got a b b b b e fat bitch energy i got a b b b b b b bch energy people looking at my wrist i'm rapping that scrunchy and then what did it it was like four lines i had hold on i'm speechless uh it was he will keep crying unless you pet him oh it's it's embarrassing like he's so needy Needy A.F. Tucker, I'm trying to wrap. Sorry. No, it's good.
Starting point is 00:26:23 I've remembered the next lines. And I think it was BBE, bad bitch energy. People ask me how I do, but they can't do it like me. Oh. How cool would we look and gangster? I'm so into this. With like our scrunchies and we're just like in thug like 90s clothes. Like Missy, is Missy Elliott night?
Starting point is 00:26:41 Yeah, hell yeah, she is. Okay. Well, she's still relevant now because she's Missy Elliott. Yeah. But like she was very in the night. Like I'm just thinking like Jean, like wouldn't that be cool? I'm into it. I'm really into it.
Starting point is 00:26:51 That can be like, Tucker. Oh my gosh, you's so needy. Okay, I'm into that. Don't ever forget that, by the way.
Starting point is 00:26:59 It better be in your voice notes. I think I did write it down. Good. It's in my notes right below my baby names. Perfect. This is my last question for you before you go on your date. What if Aaron and one of my guys hit it off? No.
Starting point is 00:27:12 Then he's not your guy. Well, I know, but like what if me and Aaron both found love? No. No. It's not going to happen. It's not.
Starting point is 00:27:20 This isn't called the Aeronet. What's that? Yeah. Yeah. Aeronet. Where is the perfect date for you to fall in love? Would you say Nashville? Topgolf is the perfect place to fall in love?
Starting point is 00:27:35 I mean, Topgolf is a great place to fall in love. But if I had to pick like the perfect place, it'd be like Bora Bora in like an overwater bungalow or somewhere. The hut on the water. Yes. That's like, wow. Yeah, but that's like honeymoon. you could yeah you you everybody would that's like bachelor's you're the blaret okay remember our budget you're gonna fall in love at top golf well you didn't say this was where i wanted to find love on the blaret
Starting point is 00:28:01 is where we will send you when you get engaged okay great no yeah my ideal blaret date to fall in love top golf top golf that's one but i think a this is one of my dates okay is we're gonna i don't know who it's with but we're going to go to soar nashville and it's like a ropes climbing course what okay you have like the coolest dates planned yeah i know okay let's talk about that for a second that's where you're gonna fall in love well i don't know if that's where i'm gonna fall in love but that's that would be like my ideal date go be like adventurous and then go like have an ice cream and like talk and get to know each other and be like tell me about your family i can't wait to watch this all go down okay yeah so coming up this season on the blaret good chris harrison thanks i've named
Starting point is 00:28:48 nailed that impression you've been practicing all day i've been doing that for a while um first of all top golf tonight then a drink on the rooftop after yes okay are you a golfer a drink you mean seven right yes yeah well you've already had three so let's go with four i've only had two oh that was quick math katelyn nice work oh yeah no the not good math because i counted three no but that's just you thought that i had had more then what else what other what else is coming up on the blur it um so we've got a date planned at oh we're going to go to goodwill yeah and pick out outfits for one another I love that and that's date too yes okay and I plan on making him look so embarrassing yes okay maybe even like dress him in girls clothing yeah perfect and then we're going to go out
Starting point is 00:29:34 like kind of downtown yeah get a milkshake maybe seeing karaoke that kind of stuff and then I know and then we've got pinewood social I love bowling and then maybe do like some botchie ball and all that outside. I've never been. Oh, you're going to love it. Yeah, I'm excited. And then, and probably like ice cream. Ice cream following every date.
Starting point is 00:29:56 Okay, perfect. And then, so we're Nashville. Yep. Do the ropes course. Yeah. Ice cream. Okay. And then the last one, I don't know because that'll be your two on one.
Starting point is 00:30:07 Well, no, I have one more one on one. So you have all these one-on-ones and then you pick your boyfriend. Mm-hmm. My God. I think Arrington Vineyard. Oh, perfect. the other date. I'm coming to that one. Okay, yeah. Whatever one is the last one. I'm coming to that because I'll be here. The, okay, November like seven. Oh, no, I'll be there for the two on one.
Starting point is 00:30:26 Wait. And at the end, you're handing out scrunchies like tonight, will you say, do you accept this due? Should I? Yeah. I've got one on my wrist. Yeah. I've got two in my car. And he has to accept it. Okay. Okay. What if I don't, what if I'm not feeling it? Do I not? Then you just don't even bring it up and we'll figure that out tomorrow. Because I'm going to have a follow up. Hey, bye. I'm going to have a follow up with you tomorrow. Yeah. Okay, so we're going to figure out how this went for you. And I wish you nothing but the best during this.
Starting point is 00:30:55 Oh, is there another date that you didn't tell me? No. Oh, okay. Then the two on one, which TBD. Yeah, TBD. But I was just going to say, what if they try to kiss me? Any advice? Well, what if I'm, I don't want to kiss me back.
Starting point is 00:31:04 If you don't feel it, just say that, be like, that's so sweet, but I just don't feel like I'm there yet. You have to be honest. That's a good line. But if you find them any way cute or attractive, please kiss him because then you'll know if there's like a. real connection there. Okay. Great. Mom, don't watch. I mean, whatever, whatever, Tucker, whatever makes you feel comfortable. This is our like, go pet him, Aaron. Aaron, what are you doing? You're the
Starting point is 00:31:27 producer. You're the manager. Keep him under control. Okay. Let's wrap this up then. Because he probably has to go to the bathroom. Okay. Just scratch his butt. Yeah. Please keep that in the podcast. Good luck to you. I wish you nothing but all the best. I'm here for you throughout your whole journey. And if you have any questions, call me. You're my go-to. too. Come to me and we're going to recap your date tomorrow and hear all about it. Hopefully it goes well. Yeah. All right. I'm going to take another shot. Bye. Hi, Caitlin. My name is Bethyn and I'm calling because I got the Lisa Beth. And you are right. I freaking love it. I just getting a king size and it's so comfy and so easy to set up.
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Starting point is 00:34:30 Okay, you walked in the door today. We're back with Blair, by the way, from The Blair. Hey, guys. Yeah, it's Blair herself from The Blaret, who went on her first date last night with his name is jared jared what if i said the wrong name i would laugh really hard with jared okay yeah oh my gosh you walked in the door of my house and i was like don't say a word i want this all to be on the podcast yep i need to hear every detail you're hearing it first describe jared in three words before we get started three words okay i would say kind okay caring oh and easygoing that's kind of two words
Starting point is 00:35:09 Easy dash going. Well, that means one thing. Easy going. Okay. Those are all good. Yeah. I was worried you're going to, oh, you're smiling. Okay, wait, tell me everything.
Starting point is 00:35:21 Where did you guys go? What did you do? Wait, no. Do you feel good? Yeah. Okay. I do. Really?
Starting point is 00:35:29 Yeah. Okay, tell me what you did. So we went to Topgall. Okay. We were there for like an hour and a half. Yeah. Maybe more. Is he got food?
Starting point is 00:35:39 um yeah he was pretty good oh wow except i won did you really yeah so we well so here's the thing we made a bet at top golf that the loser had to sing karaoke oh my gosh so he was going to have to sing karaoke but then when we got to the karaoke bar at the end of the night it was like packed like i was like oh no it's going to be there so we ended up riding a mechanical ball instead oh my god that's even better oh my gosh what was the night ended on a mechanical bowl wow what a success yeah okay what happened like when you went to top golf and you met up with him what was it like like were you like waiting at the front and you were like Cinderella at the top of the stairs and he like we kind of like met in the middle like in front of top golf okay yeah and you didn't know what he looked like no and he knew
Starting point is 00:36:24 what you look like so he came up to you and was like well yeah they kind of set it up to like we couldn't see each other and then they're like okay and then we like kind of walked towards each other so it kind of felt weird but it was I mean it was fine my so my first and initial reaction was like okay like he's cute yeah but I was like is this going to be awkward yeah I don't know but then throughout the night like his cuteness like grew on me see I told you that could happen I know I told you that's why I like yeah oh my gosh okay wait okay so you played golf you won you guys ate some food what did he order I feel like you can tell a lot about a guy from what he got chicken casidias perfect mm-hmm okay what did you get I just got chips and guac we kind of got
Starting point is 00:37:08 like two different appetizers did you share uh-huh yeah well you guys we did like lady in the tramp we met in the middle no you didn't oh we did like wow and this is all documented right like there was he nervous on camera yes so he definitely because they weren't filming at all times okay and so as soon as they would like start filming you could tell like he just got like so awkward i mean i got a little more awkward too but like as soon as the camera stopped it was like great conversation like all this stuff and i was like i can't like that's how it always i know i'm like i want people to see this part and like this conversation so that's so crazy how old is he 26 okay oh my gosh mm-hmm good age good age good age and does he meet
Starting point is 00:37:52 all of your like five f's is it five yeah yeah he does he does he so here's the thing did you guys start following each other on social media he followed me after the date that is such a good sign you didn't follow him back i did okay you little rascal i was like kid i do this oh my gosh yeah now you have to follow all of them or they're gonna get okay okay yeah I will otherwise they're gonna know I mean I would I was planning to anyways if they followed me did you after the mechanical bull did you ask him to accept the do mm-hmm and he did yeah did you kiss he said I do uh no we did not kiss oh yeah mom mom I know but I don't know if it was because he was nervous or if I was nervous and didn't like allow him yeah yeah that
Starting point is 00:38:38 that's okay yeah i mean he followed you on instagram yeah that's pretty telling yeah so i guess you could say you're pretty serious and you just had so much fun like as the night went on more and more fun yeah um so conversations were great he was like so sweet like we talked about his family yeah we talked about like some serious things wow but he also was just like really easy going the one thing is i like he is like the ideal guy for me yeah like everything about him yeah but and it's the first date so it's hard to tell but like I don't know if like the chemistry was there like romantically or if it just felt like I was like hanging out with a buddy yeah so I don't know well it's so hard because you've never talked to him before you've never met him yeah I can relate
Starting point is 00:39:26 to that I can understand going on some dates I was like am I like just because you feel the pressure to feel romantic somebody and have that chemistry you're overthinking it yeah and you're like wait it's supposed to be there is it or am I looking too hard for it or or Because we're having a good time. Yeah. Like I would definitely, if this was like not in Blaret world. Yeah. I would definitely go on a second date with him.
Starting point is 00:39:46 Well, that's huge. Yeah. Jared. I know. He's at the bar high. What up? I know. Can wait.
Starting point is 00:39:52 I got to look him up. Okay. Oh, he looks like a fun one. Oh, get this. Oh, yeah, yeah. I crept him. Yeah. Crept him?
Starting point is 00:40:00 Mm-hmm. The past tense. What? Get him what? Get this one. Um, I didn't know this till we got there. Aaron, the girl filming me, knows him.
Starting point is 00:40:11 What? That's how he found out about the blurret was on Aaron's Instagram. Oh, how does she know him? Oh my gosh, did they have that? I actually, no. Okay. I actually don't know how they met. I didn't ask.
Starting point is 00:40:23 Wait, who's this? Who's this girl? Yeah, I don't know. I was asking that same question last night. To him? No, to me. Oh. This is after the date.
Starting point is 00:40:31 Yeah, because I'm like, wait, who's this girl he went to a concert with? It was August, though, so. Okay. that's fine that's fine it could be a sister does he have siblings yes he has two younger brothers and they're twins oh cool and look he likes babies yeah um oh he seems he's a great guy wow yeah oh i'm so into this okay amazing did you guys go over your $100 budget no wow so he actually because the plan was top golf followed by drinks at the bobby on the rooftop yeah well also we went to the bobby and the rooftop was like closed oh it said they were open till 1 a.m and we like go to pull the door
Starting point is 00:41:15 open and it's closed yeah i was like okay so we just sat in a little lounge area but he actually doesn't drink okay because i mean you'll hear it but he something like a liver like he has like a problem with his liver. Oh, so he also can't. Yeah. Well, he said if he wants like every now and then. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But like, he just, he doesn't risk it. He also can't eat chocolate because of it. He can't drink and he can't eat chocolate. I know. Wow. I mean, that's good because he is healthy. Yeah, that's true. Healthy. But I was like, oh, gosh. Wow. I would not be able to do that. That's crazy. Um, so did you continue to drink? Um, no. Oh, that's nice of you. Yeah. that was nice because well because here's the thing so we the plan was top golf and drinks yeah
Starting point is 00:42:03 since he couldn't drink i was like well then let's just get food instead of drinks right and then what okay how did it end like so you did the ball bam so awkward it was awkward it was only awkward because it was everyone's filmed so i'm like uh i had a great time do you accept this do and he's like i do and i was like okay oh my god i was like i guys hug yeah okay and then afterwards he's like okay I'm going to give you a real goodbye and like hug me again, but oh, that's sweet. But I think he likes you. I think I felt so awkward because I was like, okay, if he's going to kiss me, this is when it would be because we're saying bye.
Starting point is 00:42:37 And so I was like, all right, cool. And we're done filming. All right, bye. Oh, my gosh. You totally did not put out the vibe. I know. I didn't. I wonder if he wanted you.
Starting point is 00:42:45 I'm going to ask him on my phone call. Oh, yeah. I forgot we're calling him. Yeah. Well, wait, does he know you're going to be here? I don't want to ask him. Like, why didn't you kiss her if you're sitting right here because that would be uncomfortable. That'd be great.
Starting point is 00:42:56 Okay, perfect. Great rating. I'll do it for the ratings. I'm here for the awkward, except not really. Oh my gosh. Okay. And then now, okay, so now you guys follow each other on social media. Do you have his phone number or just social media?
Starting point is 00:43:09 You're just going to DM it up? The only reason I have his phone number is because they said we were calling him and gave the number. Okay. But I haven't like saved it or anything. Oh, what would you save him under? Jared Blaret? Yeah. Or his last name since I know it.
Starting point is 00:43:24 But Jared Blaret sounds more. fun. Yeah, it does. Okay, should we call him? Mm-hmm. Does he know we're calling him? Well, see. Oh my gosh. Can we do it from your phone? Yeah. I'm like, I don't want to call from my number. You're like, I don't want all these guys having my number. Not that he would like use it and abuse it, but I mean, you never know. But he could. What if he told his friends? Oh, so he, when we were at Top Golf, he was like, so, oh, I'm like searching him in my contacts. He is not. So when we're at Top Golf, he was like, so there's a slight chance my friend. friends could come and I was like uh no and he was like well because I told them but he was like I didn't tell them to like I didn't want them to yeah so the whole so then I'm like looking around I'm
Starting point is 00:44:06 like is that your friends is that your friends did they show up they didn't okay good I would have been mad if his friends crash your date not cool bros no okay did he does he watch the bachelorette like does he no he knows nothing that's so funny he was probably like what the hell's going on he literally he was like I don't really know anything about this all I know is like we're going on date and I was like cool that's about it funny okay okay hello hi Jared it's Caitlin Bristow and Blair calling how's it going good how are you oh good you're on the podcast so don't say anything embarrassing all right thanks for the morning I'm just kidding the more embarrassing the better so I heard
Starting point is 00:44:47 you guys had a pretty fun date night last night I think so yeah well she thinks so too I'm like your you're your guy's middleman right now talking but um yeah blair's here she says hey hey um so you guys went to top golf went for a little mechanical bull action um was it so awkward for you to have like a camera doing like documenting this uh yeah yeah i'd say kind of yeah it's never really had you know camera in my face like that so yeah we'll get used to it do you feel awkward right now yeah are you awkward now uh Not as much, no. You're starting to warm up.
Starting point is 00:45:26 Yeah, you're starting to warm up to this whole Blaret thing. That's so, but did you even know what the hell was going on when she was like, do you accept this due? Like, were you like, what the hell is my life right now? Basically, yes. I didn't know what the heck that meant. But you went with it. To be completely honest, I've probably like only seen a handful of episodes.
Starting point is 00:45:46 I even know if I've seen all the way through of The Bachelorette or The Bachelor. I like that you don't know. I like that you're just like a little naive. coming into this whole crazy world of the Blaret. This is so funny. Okay, so tell us about yourself. How did you figure out to apply for the Blaret and want to go on a date with my girl? So I learned about it from my friend.
Starting point is 00:46:10 You can say it. Her name's Aaron. Aaron. The girl who put the camera in your face, yeah? Yeah, exactly. Yeah. That, yeah, I learned about it from her. She posted something on her Instagram story, I believe.
Starting point is 00:46:23 And so it's like, hey, what's this? She's like, you just go apply for it. And I was like, all right, why not? Why not? What an opportunity, you know? And also, who's the girl on your Instagram that you went to a concert with? Who is she? Oh, gosh.
Starting point is 00:46:41 Oh, that one. Is she going to be mad? Probably not, no. Oh, okay. Sounds hesitant. Yeah, I'm not sure about that. She might not be happy, but she won't be mad. Uh, no, no. I haven't talked to her in a little while, so...
Starting point is 00:46:56 Oh, okay. Okay. Well, that's good then. Just thought I'd ask. I have another awkward question for you. Why didn't you kiss Blair? She's dying right now. Do you get, you don't kiss on the first date? Or maybe you don't kiss and tell. Maybe you guys did, and you guys are both just lying to me. That could very well be the truth, you know? I... Nope. It's part of the whole camera in your face thing, too, you know? Yeah. line the camera, there's also, you know, a person's standing there, too. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:47:24 So it's just. It's awkward. You didn't want to kiss in front of your friend. Yeah. I get it. Yeah. It's weird. Or maybe we did.
Starting point is 00:47:32 And I'm like we said, we're not telling you. I don't know. Well, hey, that's not fair. I'll either, A, see it or I'll get it out of Blair when she drinks wine in front of me. So, um, fun fact about Jared. He loves Nicholas Sparks movies. Oh, gosh. Oh my God.
Starting point is 00:47:49 I love that about you, Jared. are you a little hopeless romantic oh gosh maybe you could say that i guess oh i love that oh my gosh i love movies in general so you do what's your favorite movie of all time we talked about that last night i mean you'd have to break it down into categories um like you know comedy yeah or um also i'll give you my comedy is going to be either wedding crashers or um forgetting sir Marshall. Oh, amazing. Two great ones.
Starting point is 00:48:21 For getting Sarah Marshall is one of my favorites. Yeah. Oh, yeah. Love it. And then I'll go, Nicholas Parks' movie would be either. It's going to be the choice. It's tough. Huh?
Starting point is 00:48:36 Like, I want, it comes down to either the choice. Yeah. Oh, my God, Blair already knows you. The best of me, or why can I not forget? Why can I not remember the name of the third one? Safe Haven? Safe Haven? What?
Starting point is 00:48:53 Safe Haven? No, I'm not Safe Haven. I do love Julianne Huff, though. Oh, yeah, that's a crush. Who doesn't? Julianne Huff and Shania Twain are his crushes. Those are your, what? That's amazing.
Starting point is 00:49:03 Shania Twain, she's Canadian. Yep. Whenever I say, like, you know, I have, Shantuanian, told my celebrity crushes, my mom-wife says, she's twice your age, that's so odd. I'm like, yeah, but I told him last night, my weird, like, weird celebrity crush
Starting point is 00:49:19 is Phil Mickelson. What? I don't know why. That's so funny. Mine is Paul Rudd. Who's that? Paul Rudd, he's so funny. He's in forgetting Sarah Marshall.
Starting point is 00:49:29 Oh, wait, which one? Yes, he is. He's the surf instructor and he goes, when life gives you lemons, just say, fuck it and bail. That's, yeah, Paul Rudd, that's so funny. I actually love that you love romantic movies and that you're a big movie guy.
Starting point is 00:49:41 I too, like, I live my life by movie quotes, and sometimes people, like, don't get it, and then they just think I'm really funny, but I actually am just quoting movies all the time. I do that too. I can quote movies. It's bad. Oh, I will have a movie quote off with you because not right now.
Starting point is 00:49:57 We'll say that for another day when you guys go on maybe like date number two. But I'm going to hit you with some would you rather questions. Are you ready? Oh, gosh. Sure. They're not bad. They're not bad. Would you rather get dumped or dump somebody?
Starting point is 00:50:13 Honestly, I would probably rather get dumped because I don't like being. like hurting people's feelings yeah but then you're going to be heartbroken that's okay he's selfless like that yeah yeah i kind of uh i'll be almost sometimes i'll almost be too nice to a fault points that makes sense i can see that jared i don't i know she hasn't met the other guys yet but you're my number one right now okay would you rather um love and never be loved or be loved and never love somebody. Wow. Both of those just sound kind of careful.
Starting point is 00:50:49 Yeah. I know. I know. Oh, yeah. Those are bad. Love and never be loved. Yeah. Or be loved.
Starting point is 00:50:59 Yep. And never love? Yes. Either way, I feel like that's really lonely. It is. Yeah. I guess I would say love and never be loved. Me too.
Starting point is 00:51:09 Just because at least you're showing other people. that like you care about them and you know didn't i say one of his words was caring yeah i asked her to describe you in three words and one was caring and i feel like you are a very caring soul i mean i'm so into you guys okay um would you rather your crushed date your best friend or your worst enemy yeah that's break and bro code if it's you know that's true your best friend uh hopefully your best friend would do that to you so i'll say your worst enemy yeah that's a good call they're not a very good friend if they do that um okay and would you rather fall in love with the girl of your dreams or have every dream you ever wished for come true um well every wish you ever
Starting point is 00:51:56 came for came true it'd probably be probably be falling in love but oh you found a loophole you find a loophole for all these i like it though but uh i'll say um i'll say just every wish i ever came before it came true because you're going to fall in love with the person you're supposed to fall in love with. So, God. That's probably that's probably not the girl of your dreams as who you think it is
Starting point is 00:52:23 if that makes sense. Yeah, I get it. You are sweet. Okay. And last one, would you rather date a girl who's super awkward or super cocky? Um, wow. I'm going to have to say awkward just because like cockiness is probably like my biggest pet peeve. Yeah. Yeah. It's
Starting point is 00:52:41 super unattractive quality and awkward and quirky is like so endearing well quirky is a lot better to me quirky is a lot better word than awkward yeah i should use that one yeah but awkward just i don't know comparing it to cocky i was like quirky sounds nice and cute so of course he's like i want exactly that's what i'm saying i corky's not bad awkward that's you know that's true that's true okay but you'd rather awkward yeah like when you didn't kiss blair at the end of the night okay So you accepted the due, which means there could possibly be a date number two. So I'm going to be on the very final date. So hopefully, Jared, I really hope I get to meet you because I have a good feeling about this.
Starting point is 00:53:24 Oh, awesome. I would like to meet you too. That only means there's possibly a number two. It's not a sure thing. Oh, no, well, no, because you accepted the due. So yes, it is a sure thing. Okay. you're going to say your words were sorry sorry i'm really i'm really getting in your head now i'm sorry
Starting point is 00:53:41 that's my bad i don't i don't know what's going on i don't either five o'clock somewhere drinking some drinking a little bit today or something something like that yeah something like that um well thank you okay we'll let you go but thank you for being on the podcast and being so open and honest and for being so good to blair last night she said she had a great time awesome i did too even the mechanical bowl Oh, my God. Okay, wait, I'm going to hang up from you and then I'm going to ask her about that. So we'll talk to you soon, Jared.
Starting point is 00:54:09 All right. Okay, bye. Oh, my God, Blair. Caitlin. He is amazing. Wait, I like really like him. Yeah. He's even better in person.
Starting point is 00:54:24 I know. You were questioning the chemistry so much because you felt like it should have been forced. Yeah. I didn't feel like immediately. like giddy or or I wasn't like yeah oh my gosh I can't wait to kiss him I was like oh gosh but maybe if there wasn't cameras I would have felt differently and you were nervous and like it was just you there's the first time you ever met him so I get it but there was definitely like
Starting point is 00:54:46 conversation just flowed there was never an awkward moment and he seemed like I mean he was just on a freaking podcast he doesn't know me I'm asking really uncomfortable questions and he was just like really he like thought about his answers yeah and he admits he likes Nicholas Sparks movies and like I know I told him he was so kind yeah I told you kind Karen And what was my third? Oh, he's going. Easy going. Mm-hmm.
Starting point is 00:55:06 Oh, my gosh. I know. Like, if anything, it just made me, like, that more excited for the rest. Like, he set the bar high. So I'm like, okay. Yeah, like. Let's see what else we got. But yeah.
Starting point is 00:55:19 Okay. Jared's a good one. So excited for you. Me too. Okay, tell me about the mechanical ball. Was it, like, sexy or was it awkward? Oh, well, it wasn't like either. It was just kind of.
Starting point is 00:55:32 Because here's the thing. I like went on a mechanical bowl when they're like, you're really going fast and like, because we gave her like an act like a little bit of a tip. She like let it go for a longer ride. So it was just kind of like little bitty movements. And I was like, okay, come on. Let's like sling him off. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:55:48 Did he open your doors for you? Yes. We actually, he had a conversation because when we were leaving, he opened it. And he was like, what's the best way to open a door for a girl? Like, you know, if it's a push? Yeah. He was like, do you push it and awkwardly stand there? That's what Sean does.
Starting point is 00:56:05 Or do you like push, walk through and hold? No. You push it awkwardly and let them go first. Awkwardly? Yeah. Okay. Yeah, he always let me go first. Even when we were doing like little in the moment interviews, he was like, do you
Starting point is 00:56:16 want to go or do you want me to go? And he's like, ladies first. Okay. And he like, and he talked about his mom on that call. I really like him. Mm-hmm. Like he seems like he would be such a good catch. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:56:27 That's what I'm saying. Like he's like my ideal guy. Wow. Whoa. you just said he's your ideal guy he is oh yeah did that conversation when you just heard make you a little more attracted to him it made me like a little giddy you know like because because i guess because i told you all about him and then he just like proved himself yeah like i was like trying to be cool like and he just was cool from not trying to be cool okay i need to settle down i'm like way too into this
Starting point is 00:56:55 i'm so into it oh my gosh okay so now what now you have another date to night yeah oh i wonder if he's got jealous by the way we were out till 1 a.m no you weren't yeah part of it was because like you know we had to figure camera issues out yeah yeah yeah time went by did you guys like cold hands or anything no that's what i'm saying that's why i don't know if there's like chemistry because we didn't hold hands like you when we're sitting on the couch it was like there's like a foot between us well i mean i get again you'd never met before it was like a weird set up like camera like it's not like the actual show where they're like hey put your hand on her right right right which speaking of i'm pretty sure i looked ratchet by then i looked in a mirror
Starting point is 00:57:41 after i was like oh man this is why this is why they have hair and makeup to constantly make you look good no you look so cute last night i can't believe you have another date tonight yeah i mean neither and who do you know the guy's name tonight no i know nothing oh my gosh hopefully it's as good as last night. I mean, Jared really did set the bar really high. He did. I can't wait to hear about the next one. Yeah. What are you guys doing tonight? Tonight we're going to Goodwill and finding crazy outfits for each other. And then I think we're going to go share a milkshake or get our own. Yeah. Who knows? Yeah. Um, downtown and then maybe karaoke tonight in our outfits. Okay. We'll see. We'll see where the night leads, but we're going downtown, I think. Downtown. Downtown. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:58:27 I always say that when you know that song. Downtown. Okay, well, please send me pictures. Okay. Don't tell me about the date, though, but send me pictures of the Goodwill outfits. Oh, yes, yes, yes. And I'll post it. Do you want me to chop heads off?
Starting point is 00:58:41 Or you could. I'll put a little like emoji over the heads. That was one thing. We forgot to take a picture. You didn't take a picture last night? I forgot. I meant to at Top Golf with our. Did Aaron take any pictures?
Starting point is 00:58:54 No, she took a few, but they're not like. posed no that's kind of cute i like candid yeah there's one of us in the booth and you see me looking at him but it's the back of him so it's like a mystery like who is it send that to me okay wait and he also said did you hear the panic in him when i was like and if there's a date number two he's like wait is there uh isn't there a date number two yeah he was like i accepted the do yeah he was like so concerned oh my god okay okay well jared really set the bar high for your next date can't wait to hear about the next one yeah and uh hope for the best hope for the fingers crossed i know but it definitely gave me good like feeling about this yeah so you're feeling hopeful yeah you could
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