Off The Vine with Kaitlyn Bristowe - Mystic Michaela

Episode Date: August 1, 2019

Today, 4th generation psychic medium who specializes in reading auras and guiding people spiritually to live their most authentic lives, the Mystic Michaela joins Kaitlyn for some Grape Therapy. Michaela reads Kaitlyn's aura and explains what the 5 main colors represent. Kaitlyn and Michaela read Hannah B and all 3 suitors from the Bachelorette finale. And Michaela even reads a lucky listener when Kaitlyn asks all your questions! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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You on the radio? Yeah. Yeah. And various podcasts, she specializes in reading oras and guiding people spiritually to lead their most authentic lives. She's currently based in Florida with her husband and two kids where she performs readings, both in person and virtually. What does that mean virtually, by the way? Like I can read photos. You can?

Yeah. Stop it. I know. I'm so excited to talk to her about her path to becoming a medium and to find out what color my aura is. Probably the color of spayed and sparrows. Is it pink? You're purple, but you have, this is really weird. Okay.

Should we get into it? Let me just say. Okay, keep going. Please welcome to the podcast, Mystic Michaela. Yay. Thank you for having me. What, I'm purple. So, okay, so you're, I see colors around people.

Yeah. And it's really just like your life force and I happen to see in colors. And I've always been able to. But you have this, like, really cool big, big, big purple aura. But what's really crazy about it is you do have, like, flex of pink in it. And I will see this, like, I hardly ever see pink in people's aura. Yeah. So.

Why is that? It's cool. It's just rare for me to see it. I don't know. It's, like, not typical. Like, there's five main aura colors, and pink is not one of them. And you have, like, flex of pink. You can, like, see it?

Yeah, it looks like, it just kind of looks like a light. And then there's just like flex a pink in it. It's like a little sparkles of pink. But it means something. Like the colors mean things. Yeah, let's dive into that because I'm always so curious. Somebody else told me they saw pink. Okay.

But she's not like, she doesn't like really tap into it. Right. She's just like she's starting to really be aware of her, I don't know. Gifts or whatever. Gifts. Yeah. And so she said that, but she's like just getting into it. So that's interesting that you say that.

Okay. tell me tell me first of all explain the basics of what it means to be an or a reader and a psychic medium so we all have like an energy force around us and like you're born with a certain energy combination and just because life can stink it like basically what happens is you'll get all messed up and I can tell like what you're supposed to be and like what's happening to right now versus what's going on wow and I just do it through colors it's like my thing and I've always seen colors. I just didn't know how useful they were until. Actually, I was a Spanish teacher for kids for a long time. So I would like be like, oh yeah, you know, red kids need, um, like red kids need competition. So I'd make like a game for them to learn the Spanish or like that is actually really interesting. That would make you a great teacher. Yeah. Like, and I was like my secret thing, you know, to help them learn and to make sure they didn't like talk too much or their behavioral issues or whatever. So what does, so what does red mean? So red like Jason's red by the way. He is. He's red and blue.

Yeah. Okay. I am so obsessed with this stuff. Okay. So red and blue. So red's like leader, protective, like very into justice. Like will not let something go if he feels like if a red person feels like something's right. And Jason just and the thing is red is red. But then how you wear it is like your own thing. Kind of like if I wore a shirt and you wore a shirt, it would look like different on us or whatever. You know, just so red on Jason for example, like and I've never met him. But he feels like very protective. And, you know, it's kind of somebody who's very concerned with justice and very concerned with making sure that you understand what I'm saying and let's have a conversation about it and things like that. Like, you know, so like leaders, but into competition. That's the thing. Like, they like to win, you know. Yes. And that there's nothing wrong with that, like, healthy competition. So, like, when I would teach the Red Kids Spanish, I had to make it a game.

Otherwise, they don't care, you know. So little things like that. Yeah. So I learned, like, oh, my gosh. like this is, you know, all the traits of the different colors. But then one day it just kind of hit me that it wasn't fulfilling me because it was more than how to teach somebody Spanish. It was, you know, like how to, like parents would come in with the kids and I'd be like,

oh my God, there's like so much going on here. And then I just moved into readings. So that's kind of my evolution. Right. Wait, what's blue then if he's red and blue? So blue's like empath. So feel other people feeling the same as their own. like very compassionate um very much like a healer like so being read he may you know speak up on behalf

but his true intention is to fix things like problem solver like that yes and like care about the like to in your relationship maybe like i don't know why you care so much like that kind of thing but he does you know like he wants to no let me make sure this person understands what i mean like that kind of a thing like you know and so blue people um in general are just feel like You know, like, they need to feel emotionally connected in a relationship. Yeah. So that, like, heart, a lot of heart stuff. Yeah.

Wow. This is so interesting because I'm like, yeah, you're right. Okay. And then so there's blue, red, purple, pink, and yellow. Yeah. So the five, yeah, there's yellow. The five main or colors are blue, purple, pink, yellow, and green. Okay.

And then pink's, like, really rare. Okay. So that's weird that you have it. Yeah. In a good way. Yeah. Okay. So, what is pink?

So you being mostly purple. that's like you know everything that people see like you're creative you know the spotlight finds you like I don't even feel you don't even try like it's just like you're just doing you you know like very authentic what you know all that you speak your mind things like that um performance everything that you do but the pink in there is cool because pink is kind of it's a color that signifies like almost like I'm going to live life the way I want to like I understand there's reality or whatever you guys call that but I'm going to to, like, it's almost, like, unabashedly living the life that you know you want to live.

I often say that, like, pink, if a Disney princess were, like, an aura color, she'd be pink. Yeah. But, like, you know, you'd be, like, maybe you wouldn't be the G-rated. You'd be, like, the edgy princess. Yeah, you'd be, like, edgy, like, kind of like Rapunzel or something, you know. She's like, I want to get out of this place. Yeah. She doesn't wear shoes, you know, like that kind of thing.

But, like, pink is kind of, like, rebelliously romantic. like I'm going to live life this way and whatnot so and and um just very set on the reality that you make is real to you like that kind of thing you know who's Britney Spears has like a ton like way more pink than she probably like a ton of like yeah just to like compare like you're way more purple yeah with some pink but just to compare okay that's so interesting yeah the original reality show is back and streaming now only on Facebook watch MTV's the real world Atlanta is the next true story of seven strangers picked to live in a house and have their hookups, screw-ups, apologies, fights, tears, voices, and lives

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So I'm an empath too. So, like, when I do readings, like, I'll step into somebody's energy and I feel what they feel, like, but very powerfully. And I'll get, like, just kind of broken parts of them that they're trying to hide from themselves. So I do get, like, a lot of trauma on people or patterns or how they were raised and how it affects them today, like, in relationships or career. Because, like, that's what the aura can help you figure out, like, your, what motivates you. Like, you, for example, like, you can't probably, like, 9 to 5 would just suffocate you. I've always said I can't do. I'm not a 9 to 5 guy.

No, I'm just not. You can't. And the way that you just said that you're like, and I'm not going to ever live a life where I have to do that. You know, and that's your reality. You know, but like a lot of purples need freedom. You know, so that's like a motivation thing or like a lot of green people, like they need to work for themselves, you know, things like that.

They need to be in charge. They need to be in control. Like they're visionaries. Every color has its own motivations. If you understand what motivates you, you can make better choices based off that that that make you happier. Yeah. Oh, okay. And I want to get more into the other colors. So we've touched on blue, red, pink, purple. Right. Indigo. Let's talk about green. Okay. Let's talk about yellow people. Okay, yellow. Okay. So yellow. I'm trying to think of somebody that I know. Like, yellow people, like, they're very organized. Okay. So they're kind of like, here's my to-do list. You know, they're the types like they like to coupon. Like, they're very much.

And it's so not me. Yeah, I know, me neither. Like, they're very, you know, ducks in a row. They like a plan. Like, they're, they can handle anything if they have a plan. Okay. So that's like yellow, very direct, very honest. But kind of sometimes they can come off as cold a little bit because they take a second to think.

Yeah, that's yellow. Like, you just had a yellow guest, not Whitney. You just had her, like, she's very yellow. She is. Yeah, like yellow. But she's got the blue. She's the nurse, too, you know, the blue. But she's very yellow.

yellow you know like kind of logical yeah you know spiritual but like in a more like hmm way like that you know you know everything makes sense yes yeah so true I love knowing colors and explanations for people does that have a lot to do with um like their signs too I you know I get that a lot that question but I don't do astrology oh you know we don't no like I believe in it I just don't do it oh whoops I put that out on Instagram that you do I'll tell people too you know what it's like way too much thinking for me. Yeah. It's a lot. Yeah. I love getting my chart read and stuff. I think it's fascinating. It's just like it's so much information. My eyes start to glaze over. I'm like, whoa. It's just a lot. Yeah. That's a lot. And also being a medium, is that related at all to astrology?

Yeah. With the mediumship, so I channeling people who've passed, I'll do that like in sessions, like, because people will come through, but it's interesting the way it works for me because I'm a big person on like, let's get you to the next step. where are you now and let's get you to where you're happy. And I call it spiritual life guidance and like living your most authentic life. And then like instead of grandma coming in to say like, hey, like grandma come in and be like, this is where I was at your age or like you'll get relatives kind of giving you tips or things like that. And I know that's just how it works for me. Like they come in with messages to either provide closure or encouragement or knowledge or information, things like that. Is it hard when people put you on the spot to get into that?

Like, with the aura stuff, I'm fine with it. Because I'm an empathic medium, like, when I do mediumship and I need, like, I look at a photo, I'll start feeling all their feelings the same way. So I'll, like, it really, I'll get sick, like, the way that they got sick, like, or I'll start crying. Wow. I'll look really crazy. But you're not. You're powerful. Right.

But, you know, it looks crazy. Right. So I do mediumship like one on one. But like for like my life this way, I just I keep it to like oras and stuff like that. Okay. Yeah, because I'm always so curious like just in general when somebody's in a room with me, somebody like you, I'm like, what do you feel about me right now? Like what do you see? What do you feel? Because I'm, I don't know if that's just something that you can just feel right now. With you like the way like when you walked in and I met you just the first time like a couple minutes I got like you have I felt you coming down like I felt you coming to the room before you were here. Really? Like, you just have a really, it's a great, awesomely big presence, you know, but it's very large. And you've probably always been this way and never quite understood why other people may have took it the wrong way, too. Because, like, that's the thing with you, like, people can, you have, like, really nice intentions, but sometimes people who don't understand can take it differently or take it the

wrong way. So that might have just followed you here and there during your life. But you've learned to kind of, you know, navigate that already. Yeah. Well, I'll never forget this one time I was in the hospital with my sister. She was giving birth. And I, in situations where people are uncomfortable, I like to make people laugh. And so I was like trying to make my sister laugh in like a time where I be, no, she's probably like, shut up, Caitlin. And the nurse looked at me and she was like, she told me she didn't like from when I walked in the room. And she told me, she goes, yeah, your sister doesn't need a skinny bitch trying to make her laugh. That's awful. And that's how she took me. Like, she just didn't understand my energy in the room where I was just trying to make people happy. She was like, screw you, you little skinny bitch with this pregnant lady.

You're an insecurity person. Like, you're an insecurity trigger. Like, so when people have insecurities, you're, you just happen to be a trigger for them. Interesting. It sucks, you know, because that's not. You don't want to be that person. You don't want to be that person. Yeah.

But unfortunately, that's just, we all have some sort of counteraction to who we are, you know. And that's, but you've learned, you know, and I feel like that's part of your journey to, in spite of that, keep going. Like, you know, understanding that you can't fix it all the time, but you're just going to have to keep, you know, doing you and see what happens. Yeah. I mean, I think in my 20s, I worried about what it did to other people or how I would come off to others, but now not so much. Sure. This is like one of my main questions because I always use it and then go, wait, what does that even mean? Is the mercury retrograde?

Yes. Are we in it right now? We are. What does it mean? And how often does it happen? Because I feel like I'm constantly blaming things on it without having full knowledge just to what it is. It is so fun to blame everything on Mercury Retrograde. It's either Mercury, Retrograde, or my period.

It's those two things that I blame at all times. And that is our right as women. Right. Exactly. Right. Yes. No, it happens like a bunch of times a year. I think it ends like August 2nd or something like that.

But like it basically the way I take it is like let's just reflect. like that's what I take it because it's really truly like a stuck feeling and I know you're supposed to move backwards so I use it as a time to reflect and not like fight against anything and not even like try to make huge changes in my life or release a whole lot or like whatever okay I just like you know what let's just look and see what the issues are and then like got it you know understood you just kind of have to go with the flow with it yeah because like this is a time when like old relationships like your exes will pop up or like the friend you haven't talked to in a while like stuff like that and it's kind of like in your face like

older versions of you will pop up like in the form of like other people or and then you know the age you know of course technology doesn't you know doesn't always go with you and they say not to make big decisions and stuff like that okay so what but what does it actually mean out there like what's happening yeah mercury in retro yeah honestly like because it's planet stuff and I don't do But I know it's like something with the planet. Oh, I don't know. It's in front of some other planet. Right.

But we're in this. I'm going to get like a ton of people being like, this is exactly what it is, Michaela. And I'm like, please explain it to me. Yeah, there you go. Well, let's find out. Yeah. We'll open it up to everyone.

All I know is it's annoying. And wait, how many times did you say it happens a year? I was like like bunch of, like I think almost like eight times or something. It's like a lot. Yeah. And this one lasts till August 2nd? This is August 2nd. Yeah.

Okay. I won't make any big decisions. Even though I have a lot of big decisions. things to be coming up oh no it's true um so what is the difference between different types like psychic and medium is there is that different yeah so psychics are like it's energy stuff and medium is like communication with people that have passed over okay you know so like some people do one and not the other my my thought is if you're a medium you are psychic you know because like you're picking up stuff no matter what yeah um and a lot more people are like do mediumship more than

they think they do just because like all the readings I do I see I'm like you're channeling like a lot of people get like emotional when they think of somebody or something and it's like a lot of people don't understand like you're channeling loved ones who've passed through emotion like if all of a sudden you think of them you start getting choked up or you get upset or whatever like if you follow through with the emotion what's happening is they're going to deliver messages and stuff to you so a lot of people do channel without understanding that they're channeling yeah because I I like to think I can channel some of that kind of Those kinds of things. You can. Oh, you're very intuitive as a purple.

I, yeah. You feel more precognitive. Jason says it to me all the time. He's like, your intuition is crazy. Yeah. You read people well. Yes. That's that purple aura yours.

Like I said, like you felt it precedes you. So it kind of comes into the room, fuels it out, you know, before you even kind of make an entrance. That's what your energy does. But you have unique. Not everyone's like that. Like yours is just really big. Yeah. Like you've got a big field.

yeah like so many times all even when I first started talking to Jason I would like sense things and he would be like how did you know that that's crazy yeah I love it though I wish I could tap into it more and I don't know how to you are it's naturally you okay so it's just like it's how you feel it's your gut emotions and stuff that oh so I just pay attention to my gut emotions yeah so because you're purple yeah mostly purple like the way that spirit communicates to you through your emotions so just kind of even though it's hard because sometimes like we got our period or whatever and we're like a nut case that week or whatever like it is important to like listen like okay where like in its obsessive thoughts are a big spirit indicator like if you keep

thinking about something like over and over and over yeah over and over and over and over and it's like there's a reason for that or like if you ask ask yourself questions like is this going to happen and then be like no it's not like just ask yourself and answer it Like stuff like that. Like, I feel like you're really good like that. And then reading people, you especially should always trust your gut on that. Like if somebody's good or not good or neutral, you got that one. Yeah.

And Jason will listen to you too. Yes. Yes. It's crazy because I try and ignore that sometimes because then I know because then I'm like, I hate not seeing the good in everybody. Oh, I know. And every time I do that and go against it, I end up getting hurt by that person. you know what it is some people are also intuitive but their intentions are off yeah so yeah you can

meet somebody and they it's crazy like they know things about you or they're just like they're really you guys click or like whatever and but you have to pay attention to like that little voice inside because it's telling you what their intention is like sometimes their intention is to manipulate yeah or to use or like they're they're they're I don't know they secretly are insecure and they're going to try to backstab you or whatever I've experienced all of those things which is so crazy I think I think a lot of it, you know, coming into the, or coming out of the world I was in on TV. I think I've felt a lot of, one manipulation from people on TV, but to the using part coming off of it, you know, and people wanting to use me for certain things, which, I mean, we're all in

that industry, too, where I understand that, like, obviously I'm going to reach out to people to come on the podcast who have big following sometimes so that they, you know, I don't consider it using somebody, but I have felt used. They could say no, you know. But the thing with that is that's where you search your self-worth, and that's what you've done. Like you said, like, it's different than it was in your 20s or whatever because now you don't sacrifice your own self-worth to make other people feel okay. That's a huge leap. That's very true.

I don't know when that switched either, but it just did. I don't know. It's just what happens. I honestly do see, like, 30 is a huge turning point for most women. Like, they come into their power a lot. I agree with that. And I like that term coming into your power. Yes.

I think I preach that a lot on this podcast is like turning points in life. And for me, it was 27. And I always say 27 to people. But 30 was really when I've really, like you said, come into my own power. And like it just keeps getting better. Well, with you, I feel like you had to learn to not listen to what other logical people were saying to you that sounded good, but wasn't right for you. So many. Like one of my girlfriends is the most logical person.

And she was like, Caitlin, if you ever want to be a performer or a singer or whatever you want to do and you have to go out and you have to, you know, go start playing open mics and do comedy here and do this. And I said, well, can't I just go on TV once and people will know who I am? And she was like, that's ridiculous. And then I wrote it down on a piece of paper and then it happened. Oh, my gosh. You visualized it. Yeah. But that's your pink too.

That's your like stubbornness to your own. You're like, I'm going to make this happen. I manifest the shit out of it. Yes, and it works for me. Makes me want to, like, really slow clap for you right now. I'm so proud of you. I really do. I was manifesting before I even knew what that word meant.

Yes, because it's natural to you. Yeah. Because it's a natural power you already. And that's what when you were like, I wish I could tap into it more. Like, you already do it. Just keep going with your instincts. Right. Yeah.

Sometimes it scares me how much I can manifest. I'm like, what, like, I'm good right now. I'm happy where I'm mad. I don't need anything more like anything else on my plate. You being so. purple like change is just natural to you which is funny because i'm not good with change but it happens so much of my life i actually i'm i'm like not good with change at all jason lived in this one apartment for a few months and i was so attached to it right that i was sad when he moved in with me

that we didn't have that apartment anymore but i'm like that's such a like special place that was your memory place yeah i hang on to memories a lot that's sweet and yeah i guess like energy of a place yes yeah like the vibe or whatever i loved the vibe of his apartment I don't know why because it wasn't decorated that nicely. It was like his little bro pad, but there's just something in it where I felt like comfortable there. And it's like quintessentially him and it probably just felt so nice. Yeah.

But now you have to like create a you two together and you know and you're doing it. And yeah, see that's that's a tricky thing for us because we live in the house that I moved into with my ex. And that seems so strange and crazy. Right. Like, I think, I think it's, we're just kind of trying to make it our own, but I do feel like we need to move into our own space together. Yeah. And you do sage it, don't you?

Well, I've, I haven't yet, but I've had people over to do it. Okay. And then we just never got around to it because we got so involved in other conversation. Oh, yeah. You should do it together. Yeah, that's a good idea. Yeah. You guys would have, like, probably, like, laugh a lot.

We should totally do an Instagram story about sageing the place. That's actually. a good idea we should how do you get a sage it can you just like get it on amazon it's like amazon yeah it's not fancy like you just get it it stinks but it works i staged the bachelor mansion did you yeah i think i saw that yeah we did it on with it and that was so funny because i was watching i'm like of course they made kaitland do you're staging i know i except i made one joke i was like why are we lighted a big duby in here i knew what it was and i knew what we were doing but they've aired that one line that I said. I was like, oh, okay, of course.

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But that can come and that can go. And when it goes, it feels messy and kind of weird, but it's good. It's a good thing. So how do people, how do people like dive into their true colors if they're trying to wear something else? A lot of it is like what take away all your programming, like what you were taught, what your survival skills were growing up. It's really different for every single person, but what your survival skills were growing up, what you were. taught what your values were growing up things like that and just compare it against like what you want to do and it's hard for some people like it's easier for you to do something like that because

you're purple and purples are naturally more like inquisitive and rebellious and spiritually minded but like for somebody who's a little more rigid or who's nervous that they're not going to be loved if they don't do what dad wants them to do or whatever like that stuff controls people into their like 40s 50 like they do like they do things that they don't want to do because they've equated it over time with being I won't be lovable if I don't do this. It's almost comfortable for them to be uncomfortable. Yes. You nailed it.

Yeah. I think that's what I was really lucky. My family just totally embraced me being me. The you. Yes. And they were like you go, girl. Right. You know, like I never felt like I was disappointing them or not doing the right thing.

They were like, you're going to, they always knew I'd figure it out and do something that I was supposed to do. That's, and that confidence inspired you. Like, you knew any risk you took. Like, they'd love you. Yeah. And you could go home and it would be. fine or whatever yes always yeah not everybody has that and then some and then and then and then what happens i'll see like them finding a spouse or something that like mirrors the same you know

subconscious you know programming yeah that they had growing up and then they create this whole life around that and it's really hard to shatter it or break it yeah until you see it are there colors that are supposed to be together yes okay so you in purples and reds do like awesome like my husband and i that were purple and red like we are yeah so it's like you do awesome like purple and red do well like indigos and or blues and greens do well blues do well with every yeah there's different there's definitely good combos like reds and reds don't mix at all they it's never going to work right yeah that's do you do you know the um anyagram yes yeah do you know what number you are no okay i've never taken the test but i'm aware of the test it's just so crazy because

in my last relationship we were both threes no and when i read and do like Like, when I did serious research on it, I was like, holy crap, this could, it either works so well. Yeah. Or goes horribly. Yeah. And it was just, it felt like, like, we were two, threes, just like, butting heads. Yeah. Well, he's, I don't know if you.

Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah, okay. He was green. Okay. And you're, what does remind me of that? Green's like, yeah. So green people are, and the way that Sean was green, like, the way, and he's green purple, you know, so, like, it's kind of smart. and very like

linear thinking like kind of tunnel vision sometimes and like has emotions but can't really stray from them like this is but this is what it was and it's hard with the evolution or whatever a lot of logic and you grow in change and shift and move and change your mind

and you know and whatnot so that usually I don't see greens and purples working just because greens are so stuck in their own way and their own vision and you kind of need to follow them If you don't follow them, it's not going to work. And the passion sometimes, if it's disconnected, the green might not notice that. And the purple is going to be like, dude. Wow, that makes so much sense.

And it's sad, you know, but, and it's sad because maybe one, you know, I don't, like, maybe the green person didn't understand it. Exactly. But it's still real, you know. So they don't always understand that, like, emotional reality for somebody else may be different than their emotional reality because they, like, lock themselves in. And that's it. And it hasn't changed since then or whatever. So that's kind of what I get. Whereas with a red, he's very, Jason's very like on top of things.

Let's move it around. Passionate. Let's talk. Let's evolve. Yes. All that. And that was something that I was looking for in my next relationship, which I didn't know I was going to find so fast.

But that was exactly what I was looking for. Yeah, you're ready. Somebody that wanted to communicate and evolve and change with me and grow with me and all the support for each other and passion. And different versions of each other are accepted, you know, like, if you change your mind about something tomorrow, like, okay, cool. Like, it's not about me. It's about you. Yeah.

So that's why red and purple is too well. Okay. Yeah. But you both don't like to be told what to do, so that can help too. Oh, my gosh. That's so funny. The other day, what did I say to him? I told him to do something instead of asking.

Oh, yeah. And he looked at me and he said, I do not do well with commands. that was very clear yeah and I was like got it and me too yeah because it's so different because I realized in them when I was like I did tell him instead of ass right you're like okay I got a little bitchy I understand very fair but at least you're open enough with yourself to be like understood like you're not going to be all like nah da da da da da right you're you've grown yeah exactly that's really funny um I have a question so you have some pretty famous clients right yeah can you talk about who those are I saw on your website

actually have some clients from the bachelor world i do okay tell me more okay so i've read a lot of them i'm trying okay all right so chris shalman christina shaw i love her yes she's indigo and she's so sweet yeah um and raven gates i've read her she was very sweet what color is raven oh she's she's purple too yeah yeah she's purple and blue okay purple and boo together she's very sweet yeah and um i think i think adam right he's red yes yeah and then who also those twins Yes, Emily and Haley. Yeah. They're really funny, but they're so different.

Really? Yeah, like, they're both yellow, but then they both have different, like, opposing colors. Interesting. So, like, I love reading twins because one's always bossy. Yeah. And I like to figure out who the bossy one is based on their pictures. It's Haley, right? I have to see their pictures again.

I just remember seeing them in person and I just, I was like, you guys are a walking TV show. Like, it was so entertaining. I think they did have a TV show. They did. I don't know why it didn't last. I know because they looked early. And they do Pilates. and it's so funny they're hilarious they are they're really nice yeah they are and um Vanessa

grandma okay and then um what's Vanessa she's indigo I mean she's working with all those yes right that makes sense that makes a big heart yeah I don't think she likes the spotlight so much you know that yeah um who else Amanda Stanton yeah yeah she's really sweet she's got like yellow and she's with her kids yeah stuff like that yeah and then I can't remember like I've read other ones, but I forget. Who else, like, famous that people would know? Jenny McCarthy. Oh, cool.

Kelly Pickler. Who else? Jenny McCarthy's married, too. This is where my husband's freaking out. Why? Because I always forget who I've read. And he totally. John can chime in and tell.

He freaks out at me. Yeah, tell us. He's jumping around trying to act out who I've read. Okay, I think from the Bachelor, Becca Tilly. Oh, Becca Tilly. Okay, yeah. What is she? She's blue.

Okay. She's got a lot of blue. Okay. Yeah, I can see that. Okay. Who? Yeah, I don't know. Podcast.

Oh, Ashley, Iconetti. Oh, yeah. Ashley I Kennedy. Yeah. Yeah. She's probably purple. She's like all purple, though. Okay.

But what's interesting is, is her, he's green and they work. Yeah, they do work. But they have like a twin flame thing going on. Jared. Yeah. Yeah. They're like, they have like a whole thing going. Like, I did, I do these things on me.

Instagram where I'll, like, do a couple. I keep it very, like, respectful because, like, you know, I don't know you. So I, like, try to keep it very just colorish or whatever. But she contacted me after I did it because, like, they had such, like, a cool twin flame thing going on that you never usually see twin flames together because they just go crazy. Why can I see that? I don't even know what that means. But to me, I'm like, like, if they weren't romantically connected, I would think their brother and sister. That's like, you just described, like, twin flames kind of.

Yeah, because it's. It's like they feel more than a couple. It's kind of like, are you two just like one person, which is like what Twin Flames kind of are. That's crazy. Yeah. So that's interesting that you got that, though. Yeah, I've always felt that. That's crazy.

That gives me chills. Because like that's kind of what it is. It's like a one person. It's like a family without being gross vibe. Right. Yeah. That's exactly what I felt. That's so funny.

See, that makes me want to be like, I need to read people more. You do. I just don't allow myself to go there. You need to have like a session on here, like a segment. yeah where I just like read people what if I'm just so off on everyone yeah they're they're supposed to say yes no matter what you say well I'm not just saying yes everything you're saying I'm like oh my gosh that's so crazy okay I'm gonna flirt with you guys for a second okay honey roasted flavored almonds saracha flavored almonds wasabi and soy sauce flavored almonds do I have your attention why keep

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That's so cute. And do you read them? Yeah. Does that make it easier to be a mom because you, like, can kind of, I shouldn't say easy because I know it's not. Well, you know. Yeah, you've got nie. Don't you have nieces. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

But I mean, like, when it comes to teaching lessons, discipline, having fun, all those things, it's kind of you could tell, you know, what's going to work with. with them i think i parent really funny because like i'm really into like you know someone so really isn't energetically responsible and we have to make sure we're always energetically responsible that's if somebody has like a drama or something like i'll just i'll talk about things in energy and then my 10 year old's like i don't know i don't like this vibe in here and she sees colors too so she like she like she came home from school the other day and she's like oh my god and she's like whatever one of her teacher she's like she's so yellow no and i'm like i know honey like just things like just

Oh, my gosh, I love that. And she doesn't know what it means, but she knows, like, what it feels like a little bit. Yeah. A little bit, like, because that the yellow teacher was like a little too mid, like on top of her, like a little too micromanaging or whatever. And it was bugging her. And I'm like, I get it. That's so funny. So I'm, and so you remember seeing colors from a young age?

Yeah. I just didn't know they were worth any. Like it was useful. You thought it was just normal. Like, I see it like, I see what you're wearing or like your hair color. And I ignore it. I don't notice it. all the time it's kind of like walking in the mall you don't really notice what people are wearing

yeah yeah unless they're wearing something weird yeah now I get in trouble a lot because I'll start like just staring at people sometimes yeah like like if I lock eyes with them it's awkward they're like and then you're like you're like you're like I'm like you're like I feel like that's what I would do if I would want to talk to everybody it's so awkward that's so funny so so does your one daughter that's 10 does she have she has the same kind of gifts as you yeah but she's 10 so like she doesn't really understand that like all the complexities of life or what it means so like and she's like really direct so I have to be careful with her like um we went to get my hair done and she came with me and and she was like to like with my

hairdress she's like she's breaking up with her boyfriend and she didn't know anything about it and like the like the girl was having like a hard time with her boyfriend and you know like they're probably aren't going to make it but my daughter the way that she said it You know what I mean? Yeah. She's like, you're going to pick up with your boyfriend. Like that, like, and it's kind of like, I have to make sure. Like, I don't know how to, that's my parenting issue.

Like, okay, do I tell her to roll it back? Do I tell her be direct? Like, I have to tell her to be nice. But sometimes it just like pops out of her mouth. Yeah. You know, stuff like that. So that, those are my parenting issues. Like, where do I round this out or whatever?

But she's really, like, cut into the core of people. She just goes right. Like, she can, like, make you cry, you know? It's like scary. Yeah. It's like a beautiful, scary thing. Yeah, it's like awesome, but it's also like, I don't want her, like, anybody hating her. No.

So. That's funny. And what color is your daughter? She's purple and red. Okay. Yeah, which is like a tougher combo. Yeah. It's like very, you can imagine. I'm trying to think.

The thoughts don't just come naturally to me where I'm like, oh, yeah, I have to look a thing, but I'm like, wait, what does that mean? So it'd be like you and Jason smushed together into one person. Like, what would that be? Terrifying. Yes. Are you watching The Bachelorette the season? Oh, my God.

Yes. Okay, fascinating. Okay, now tell me about Hannah and her three guys. What vibe are you getting there? Hannah fascinated me because, okay, so before the season started, I saw her pictures like, you know, before filming and then like after filming, you know, so, because this is what I do because I'm weird. So I'm like looking at them.

And before, and even like when she was on last season, like so fuzzy, blue. So when somebody is fuzzy, it's like they're hiding themselves. So it's like I was really trying to like, it was even hard to see like, what the heck is her color even it was just like so fuzzy and there's like all this inauthentic color on top of it and she was so fuzzy and I'm like okay and I looked underneath and I really think she had purple in there but she was too scared to let it out so this season was just we saw somebody kind of crack in their purple out like it was like or a crack in Hannah like just this purple was like cracking out and then like you know just she just like would lose it sometimes I'm like there's

a purple you know and I think this season for me watching it I was like, good job finding yourself because I feel like she really found herself this season, you know, through the plethora of junk they kind of gave her like far as men go. It's true. It was like they gave her a lot of junk. I felt bad for her. Well, they do every season. Yeah, I think, but you do learn a lot about yourself through that show. You really do.

You sit like this with producers and you just dive into your feelings and who you are and why you are the way you are and your childhood and past relationships. and so many things every day for weeks. So you really, really do. So that makes sense that she really, like, came out with her purple because she probably did learn a lot about herself. Yeah. And I see, like, the pictures now, and when she was on the mental law and stuff, it was like, she's a little, yeah, does she come off a bit unhinged?

Yeah. Sure. Yeah. But I think it'll regulate. Yeah. And she'll just be her purple self. Yeah. And like.

And what about her guys? Okay. So Jed. is like I don't like mind game I don't like that like I I feel he's got he's got a lot of green in his aura but it's very like cloudy I was gonna guess green you're kidding good at this I need somebody to help me and you're more than welcome to come no but like he he he's got this like shady kind of shady green yeah call it yeah and it's kind of um like just turning things on her head games I feel like the guys that she kept reflected all her issues yes so like and then there was like the

Pete who's like so sweet and like everybody like a little too nice you know what I mean like this is what I should pick this is who I should have like but almost like it was just over the top for her I don't think she's there yet like it's not going to be a turn on or something like she needs a little edge yep and then Tyler right the Florida one he's um I liked him but like he's he's got a lot he's green and blue and he green people and the bachelor I don't know like I swear to they just like pick a bunch of greens like for casting really yeah it drives me insane like jason's like an anomaly like it drives me he is very rare in that world he really is yeah because like they pick all these greens but tyler he feels a little bit like he'll be fine you know he feels like

i don't he's like the fillin or whatever like i don't robot or something yeah he's perfect yeah he feels like a really nice guy yeah it's polite and then look i mean what you know what you're gonna say he's got like sociopath vibes i mean he's he's he's a little bit off yeah you know the nuts kind of thing but that it's all i look at it it's like a mirror of like all the voices going on in hannah's head right each guy kind of reflects one of those voices do you think that happens every season this more than most i would say just because she's so they got somebody who's really kind of um on that edge on the precipice of like and i did not come in as like a whole more whole person like i feel like she came in do you think that has to do with age because she's young

it could i think she's just this is her personality too she feels like she's very sensitive i feel like she's very fragile you know i i haven't looked into her like home life or anything like that but i do feel like there's there's a lot of like instability there and stuff like that going on but i like i like i really like yeah i think she's interesting to me like when you very interesting like when you were on you felt more yes like god knows like you had your season for sure but you felt more like sure this is who i am yeah You know, like you always kind of held that core. I saw the core in you, always intact. Her core did not feel intact to me or her center or something.

And I feel like she had to find it more. Now, this might be crazy to ask, but did you know I wouldn't work with Sean when we ended up together? I felt like there would be bad communication issues. Of the worst. No. And I liked him, you know, like he's, yeah. And I got the thing with, I did, actually I did a reading like forever ago, like on YouTube. Like, I think when you were in People magazine, I did it on my, like, this is.

Like, this is, like, forever going on my Instagram. Like, before I got any following. Yeah. Just because I really do love doing things like this. And it was just like, oh, he's green, but like the communication, just because I feel like he's so stuck in his head or this or that. And you're very yourself. And you are bigger than, I mean, you're so little, you know, but you're so big, you know.

Like, and like, anybody with you has to understand that you have to be you. You can't be caged up. Like, you've got to do what you're doing. And I felt like he would always take that as. sort of stress or threat or like whatever and it was just holding me back holding me back that's what I got from it with that right um that's god I could talk to you for like 10 million hours but he's like he's also the type like but no you feel this way or no you do this or no this is how you feel or this and it's like okay yeah okay because he makes sense but when you step away from him

for like a little bit you're like oh wait a second yes you know so like it took me being removed to really see clearly. I believe that because he's, and, you know, and the other, I get people to, this is going a little far, I guess, here I go. It's off the vine. We do that here. So I know. Like, I can step into chemistry, you know, and it's so crazy because I'll be reading like a 50-year-old

woman and she's showing me like, you know, a couple suitors. And I'm like, ooh, like I go right into it. Like, he is hot. Yeah. He's good and bad. Or he's like, really? Yeah. It's weird.

Like, I'll feel it or that one now, you know, or whatever. And your chemistry just didn't feel as on as it does now. Yes. Is that creepy? No. I mean, not at all, actually. Okay. Just because I'm so into this stuff.

I'm like, no, I love it. Please tell me more. I love, like, reading chemistry, too. It's so strange to me because it was like I wanted that so badly in my last relationship, but it wasn't there. And I didn't know it could be what it is now, like, where I'm like, oh, it's just there. Yeah. I didn't know you didn't have to work so hard for that.

No, it's easy. Yeah. Like, chemistry is easy. It's owed to you. Yeah. Cool. I love that. Okay, I think I'm finally, after a few years, starting to get used to being on the go, between recording my podcasts, working on my businesses, and prioritizing time with Jason and ramen, it's really easy to forget about the things that I need to stock up on when it comes to beauty. I rather focus on me time. I like the ease. I love it when the products I need come to me. And I also love surprises. That's what I love about Birchbox. It's a monthly box of you time, taking care. care of yourself can be as simple as taking five uninterrupted minutes to yourself in front of the mirror. Your birch box is a monthly reminder that you deserve that you time and should

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I like this. Okay. Are the below statements facts or are they just loads of bullshit? Okay. You can choose which spirits you communicate with when performing a reading. That's true. Really? Well, I don't like to talk to the mean ones.

Okay. Like, or if somebody doesn't, like if I don't. want to talk to somebody i won't like somebody's this little dark but like if somebody like was abused by their father and he's coming through him i'm not talking to him because i don't want to deal like i don't want to be sullied with that energy yes oh i love that um just just because it's all my mind do i have spirits around me you do okay have a lot of like there's female energy really if you have a picture when we're done like i'd love to like go deeper and do it with you okay yeah like mediumship stuff yeah that'd be fun okay um psychics are able to

read the minds of those around them. Energy. Okay. Like, vibe. Like, I can tell, like, if somebody is, like, doesn't like me or something. Really? Yeah. And I used to think I was paranoid, but now that I'm more secure in myself, I know if I'm

right or not. Well, I would not like that. Well, you are already doing it. What do you mean? Well, you know if somebody doesn't like you or not. Yeah, that's true. Yeah. That's true.

I guess I would be afraid of liking somebody who doesn't like me. Because what you do is, like, you notice it more because their vibration's different. So you want to fix it. So, like, you might go up to the most difficult person in the room and try to convince them. Yeah, I would do that. Like, hi. And they're like. And the people that are, like, so into talking to me, I'm like, okay.

You're like, I'm going to go to this meaning. Yeah, yeah. Psychics can predict if something awful is about to happen to someone when doing a reading. The future is, like, very free. well-based so it's kind of like god gave you choices and the choices define you so sometimes i'll get warnings but only i think if you're supposed to get them like people are always like don't tell me anything bad's going to happen right right i'm like a really positive psychic yeah i don't say like negative are there ones out there that tell you those things the negative i don't like that because you reading

fear is very easy yeah like we all have fears it's the easiest thing to read like if a mother like oh you have better watch your child yeah blah blah blah Like, of course, every month, you know, like fear-based readings, I would say stay away from because it's manipulative. Yeah, I get that. Okay. It's possible to test a psychic to tell if they have real abilities or not. I feel like if you, if it resonates with you, then it's for you. If it doesn't resonate, then it's not.

Right. You know, like, it depends what the test is. Like, I mean, the way I, like, the way I work isn't, you know, what's under this cup, you know. Yeah, yeah. Maybe some psychics can do that. That's like not my deal. So I fail that test. Right.

Right. I'm like, what colors my aura? Got it. You know, then I could do it. That makes sense. Yeah. Okay. Psychics are typically people who are born with a natural gift.

I believe that, but I believe there's more people born with it than allow it to develop. Mm-hmm. Because we all have an ability to connect to spirit. Yeah. So I think a lot of people deny themselves the gift, actually. That's so, I mean, I have, I've, I've, have, talked about this on different podcasts, but, like, there's certain times where I can actually just, like, feel a presence around me. Yeah, you're feeling it. Yeah. Like, I will actually,

like, feel footsteps. That's crazy. Yeah, you should start asking them. Like, who are you? How would I, and now how would I know how they answer? And then, like, see what you feel. Really? Yeah, like, do you get a name, like, Amy or something like that? Like, you know, get kind of like a name or like a feeling or something. Are you into crystals? I love crystals. Yeah. You know, some people are like, really. really into them. I'm like moderately into them. I'm, I want to be into them and be more knowledgeable about them, but I just know how they make me feel. Well, yeah, yeah, that's a thing like being attracted to them because they're energy balancers. Yeah. And they can make you feel

safe or whatever. You know, I had this like hematite bracelet and I wore, during a really difficult time of my life. I was wearing it. And it exploded one day. No. Yeah. And then I went, this is when I was like younger and then i went back to the crystal shop and i bought another one and then that exploded like a couple days later and i went back and the lady was like when they explode they're not you're done with them oh my gosh or she just didn't want to like refund me like that's those are the two explanations yeah yeah but i still that's pretty crazy because it the situation got better you know i was i was healing so it was like oh okay like so i i believe that crystals can react to us. Yeah. And do you believe in signs from the universe? Oh, yeah. Numbers. Yeah.

Oh, yeah. Yeah, like feathers. Like, I hear too much stuff and I experience it myself to not believe in it. Because it's synchronicity, which is like when it's too much coincidence to be a coincidence. That's for me, pennies. Oh, that's cool. It's wild how often it happens and where and when. Wow. And I'm like, it's so funny because they discontinued pennies in Canada where I'm from. Oh, did they really? And I was so devastated because and then I lived in the States and now I get to find them all the time. I'm like, yes. Oh, they don't do pennies in Canada?

No, they cancel them. Oh my gosh. They canceled them. And likes on Instagram, I heard. Yes. That's crazy. Yeah. Penny's and likes on Instagram.

I'm going to just ask you a couple questions from listeners because people are just always so fascinated with this. Yeah. Well, we kind of already answer this. Okay. J. Dot Neen says, are we supposed to fight being crazy at the times with the planets or just roll with it?

Roll. I would say roll with it. Don't fight it. Roll with it. Yeah. Just let it come. Like a wave. Okay.

Laura, though, 14 says, do souls stay on earth or do they truly go somewhere with golden gates? Yeah. So the way I feel, it's interesting because when I do medium shit, they'll show me where they, they don't show me a lot, like, because I think there's, you know, rules or whatever, but they do go different places. So sometimes, like, it's very sad. Like, sometimes people who die tragically and weren't ready, there is some sort of, I'll call it therapy or just a place of like love where they go to to heal some people like grandma like she's ready to go you know what I mean and she's right over there with everyone else and she's fine but there is another place but it's interesting because I don't know if it I feel like it's a plane of existence that's parallel to our own or something like that because they can come with a thought like because they're just energy now but there is another place yeah I believe that too and and chronically, Melissa says, is there a connection between Mercury and Retrograde and when you give

birth? A lot of people say that, you know, full moons and, like, planetary situations and stuff like that can assist in, you know, delivering. Yeah. Yeah. But I was never so lucky. They wouldn't leave. Tracy 3 asks, she wants to know how many kids do you think I'll have.

You? Oh, my gosh. I feel like two around you. Yeah. And quick. Yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah.

Super quick. Yep. And a girl. Definitely a girl. Really? Yeah. At least one. And a boy?

I get at least one girl. Okay. That's the strongest thing I get. Oh. I want boys so bad, but I'll obviously be happy no matter what. But I'm like, I do feel like I'm supposed to put a girl on this earth to like make a difference and like be strong. Right. I do.

But I'm like, dang it, I want to be a boy mom. You'll do it. She'll look just like you. And you guys will be like twins. Really? Yeah. that's okay that i like that i like uh miss miss sarah hellies biggest piece of advice right now in your life you would leave for your future 60 year old self oh that's she's deep you stay in the

moment okay yeah yeah what that's so hard to do it's very hard it's very hard to stay like enjoy the moment stay in the moment how do you do that personally you know it's it's a struggle for everybody but um i try to do medit i mean it sounds really corny but i try to do meditations and i try to like put the phone away you know stuff like that yeah you know there's so simple little things that we all say we should do and we if you just do it it works um now i'm just curious i'm like do you know what age i'll be when i have kids it feels like really soon yeah yeah because i i just i mean not to freak out jason but like i no he wants kids no i definitely feel like you guys are getting married and having kids like immediately yeah well good yeah like how old

you it feels like 35 36 i'm 34 yeah i can see that happening really quick okay love it yay i'm not mad at that um and last one so many people ask you about mercury mercury retrograde i know because we all are like dying inside right now it's almost over it's august second everybody yeah it's bad uh okay so cater taut says why do i only feel motivated to kick ass in all areas of my life when saturn is in my sign that is an astrological question but let me see let me see her picture okay because then I can tell you what aura color she is and then that would help me better because usually yeah if she's if she's a blue that would make sense to me but I got to look at her how do I get to her picture if it's not public then I don't know she's she's yeah I can't really tell okay she's in a big wedding dress with burnette hair in a very tiny photo but it's really hard to see i don't know if you can okay so she's blue oh whoa so yeah like she's from what i mean i could tell better if i saw her picture better but she's definitely blue okay and i would say that what happens is that her energy gets really depleted and it only kicks

into motion um like once in a while like blue people have to follow the spurts like they get really fatigued really tired really drained by other people and then they got it like kick started every once in a while they'll feel okay so sometimes planetary stuff can't help with that like if the energy is aligned and you can kind of feel like okay i got more energy today or whatever right but really it's about draining from the other people in your life around you or a job you don't like to do or whatever like her she feels like she's really drained by family and stuff interesting that's crazy you know that you can feel that ah now i want to keep going okay wait Caitlin Oliver wants to know, have you ever been a medium involved with missing people?

Or what's your craziest reading? Yeah. So animals. I, so here's the thing. I suck at location, but I can tell you, I can kind of go into animals really well because they're different than people. So I can go into animals and they'll share space with me. That sounds great. I sound like a crazy person.

No, you do not. Not to me anyways. I had a dog medium read ramen. Yeah, that stuff works because like animals. are easy because you can step into them and they'll share space with you. I should have brought wrong. Oh my gosh. Damn it. Well, if you have a picture that I can do it through a picture. Can you do it right now? Yeah. No way. Yeah, yeah. So with animals, like, people send me their lost cats all the time and I'll be like, okay, and I'll tell you what they see.

And so this actually happened. My neighbor sent me a picture. I have the text. I have proof of, she's like, where is my sister's cat? And this is in California and I'm in Florida. And I'm like, I don't know, but this cat looks like it's under the porch because I was getting like inside, outside, wood, but grass on the bottom. Well, they found the cat under the neighbor's porch, you know, like stuff like, like, I can tell you what the cat's telling me. That's crazy. And if the cat's dead, I can tell you that too.

Because I know, but then I don't like those because, like, I don't like deliver in the avenue. Right, right. So that's when I, like, don't write back. So if you don't write back, then people know. Oh, my gosh. That's crazy, though. Because I don't want to be like, oh, my gosh.

Stop it. That's, what's his name? Raman. Like the noodles. Yep. Okay. Did you know Raman's like litter mates or something? No.

Okay, so this is weird. I get another dog around him, but like close, like almost like a sister or something like that. Yeah, like that he had some sort of buddy or something. And it feels like you, like a pack before you got him or something. Well, he came from like somebody who fosters dogs. Okay. And they had a few. other Goldens.

Okay. But I don't know if it was his brother or sister. I don't think so. Sometimes I can just get like pack energy on that a little bit because I do feel like he was well taken care of there and he liked it. You know what I mean? Like, you know, for dogs don't ask for a lot. Yeah.

He's super happy. I do get this weird thing with, are you like, do you, does one of you get all stressed out about how he goes outside? And this is why. It could be Jason. Because I just get this thing like he doesn't like, there's some ritual with letting him out that like he feels the stress. in the person letting him out and he hates that so he gets like this like he picks up on the panic

or something and he doesn't like the transition of this okay that's maybe because we're trying to train him to ring a bell when he goes outside he doesn't like that so i don't even know if he understands that's what he's trying to be taught he just seems like he's all freaking out when he does it like he hits it like a million times like what do you want me to do so i get and is this like jason's thing like you have to learn how to do this or something like that. It was mine originally, but he's really been... You feel like you'd let it go. Like, eh, he doesn't want to do it. You know, like, so I can see... So it feels more just like he understands he's disappointing somebody and he picks up their anxiety.

Oh, my alarm's going off. Okay. And it picks up his anxiety. He's just picking up on the anxiety. So that's the biggest... That's, I mean, for... That's so interesting. That's probably why he kept having a couple accidents in the house. That's the issue with him right now. His anxiety... Something about the ritual. Okay, I'm ditching the bell. I just don't know if he gets it, you know? He doesn't because he only does it when we put him there. He doesn't, like, go ring it naturally to go outside. I don't think he understands.

But I can't tell when he has to go to the bathroom. Do you have a doggie door? Maybe he could just go. No, because we haven't built a fence yet. We're in the process of building a fence. Yeah, so I feel like with him that's his biggest, one issue and it's like, oh, also, you give him, I don't know how this works. I almost get like two meals a day or something like that, but one feels different. than the other so i don't know if like you give him one and he likes it better than the other

like you cook one or something and then the other one's like more not cooked or something okay well it could be that when he travels with me i bring hard food and when when he's at home there's soft food okay that would make sense i feel like he isn't like he the soft food he likes yeah he loves hard food he's like ugh you like that but that's his dog issues like it's never anything like yeah yeah yeah he's happy does he like flying dog no he's got anxiety i do get he has things he needs like some sort of doggy downer possibly he gets very stressed he's worried that I feel like he gets worried that it's not that he's going to get taken away again or go somewhere else yeah and it's so crazy because I see him with a little boy and I don't know if this

is like your future or this is like the past or something yeah but I'm seeing just this little boy around him which is kind of crazy like boy energy or like another animal or another him you know I bet you will have a boy because I feel I see him with like a five year old boy I just yeah so I get you're gonna he is your forever it's this interesting because it came up when I was talking about if he's gonna be your forever dog or not and then they showed me him with like an older like you know five year old kid or something so he's around for all this but you guys are I feel like you are gonna move again yeah but there's this is like totally not about Raymond anymore but I also feel like you're gonna build or renovate or something like that because I get you guys getting something but then changing a lot of stuff in it well we're about to renovate our kitchen. Oh, right. Yeah. But we're also going to move. It's like you're going to move, though, and renovate that.

Oh, my gosh. That's so interesting. Does he have a past life? Do you know that's the kind of thing? Raymond feels like very new. He's like a new little energy right now. I mean, he's definitely, he's a smart dog. He just feels like he's pure dog.

Yeah. You know, like we always have that one dog and it's like, oh, gosh, you know. Raymond feels like he's a dog. Okay, okay. That's good. That's good. That's good. I like that.

Oh, he's just a little pop. He's like, he's angel. Yeah, that's what I always call him. He's just a little angel. That's weird. I always call him an angel. That's weird. That's all I think he knows that.

No, it makes sense. I'm doing other, I'm doing other podcasts with you because I can't just stop here. I would love that. I have to stop here, but I can't. I would love that. Anytime. Are you based out of here? I'm in Florida.

No, you're in Florida right on to that man. We're driving through. Okay, that's amazing. Thank you so much. Thank you for having me. Is there anything else that, like, I miss that you want people to know. I mean, I'm on Instagram, Mystic, Michaela.

Yeah. You know, come follow me. And I'm just really happy I got to be here because I am a fan. So thank you so much. Well, now I'm a fan too. So thank you. And thank you for being here. And everybody go follow her on Instagram because this, I mean, the whole podcast is why.

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