Off The Vine with Kaitlyn Bristowe - PRIV Talks

Episode Date: January 30, 2018

The boss babes behind PRIVILEGE Clothing (@styleforthepriv) and the lady-centric podcast PRIV Talks joins Kaitlyn in a hotel board room to drink mimosas and talk about their mission to empower women through their businesses, as highly-creative use for Kit Kat Bars, dating horror stories, and their awful experiences in the service industry. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Get ready to shake things up. Here's Caitlin. Welcome to Off the Vine. I am your hostess with the mostest mimosa's. Not yet, actually. Mimosas are on the way. I ordered them. They're not here yet.

I'm Caitlin Bristow, if you guys didn't know. I'm podcasting from Vancouver today. And when I'm here, it's always so quick and I always want to see girlfriends. I want to feel inspired. Oh, those Mimosas are here. Great timing. Great timing. Let's all clap for Mamosa men.

Great time. It's 10.30 a. Yeah. You're late. Mosa's here. Yes. That's perfect. Right there.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you so much. Wait, aren't Mamosas supposed to be at 10.30 in the morning? There's orange juice in it. I would be so offended if somebody drank a mimosa at like midnight. Is there like night? nightcap.

All the momos, I'd be like, no. That's just wrong. You will have a scotch. But I was just saying when I, the valet took my car, they opened my door and a giant bottle of red almost fell out, which makes me respect you so much. Where else would I put it? Yeah. Was it in the driver's side or the passenger side?

It wasn't open though. Oh, well, then it's legal. That's okay. Could have been a gift. It was a gift, actually. For yourself later? But I thought about it. I'm like, I should have brought it in.

It's quite rude that I didn't. Oh, did I? Oh, yeah. they're gifting us the mimoses. I was like, do I have to sign for something? Okay, so podcasting from Vancouver today, and as I was saying, it's always so quick, I want to see girlfriends, I want to feel inspired, I want to laugh, I want to have mimos, and it always feels so rushed. So I thought, let's get two birds stoned at once. That's the saying, right? And call it a day. So I rented this boardroom, and before I get into it, I just have to tell you

guys that Sean and I he's gonna he sometimes hates when I just spill too many secrets but I'm like when we have to go number two we say we have a board meeting I feel like you said this on our last podcast did I think it's our thing really but that's great we always say it we're like oh oh yeah it's at that time got a board meeting and then we like whatever works yeah it's better than saying I got to think I don't totally I got to go 45 minutes I got to go dedicate to a board meeting steer clear safe zone you're fine some people say like I got to go see a man about a horse and I'm like I got a board meeting in five actually scratch that right now board meeting so anytime someone's like oh you need a board room oh board meeting I'm like poop so much are

people with real jobs yes board meetings I don't get it I don't understand so please welcome my girlfriends Bailey Donnie and Katie you ladies aren't just my girlfriends what That's not what I meant to say. We're much more than girlfriend. I like you more than a friend. I actually meant to say you're not just here because you're my girlfriends. This is starting off. Well, we should get the mimosa.

Yeah, I feel like that they're just sitting behind me just shows where my head's at today. I mean, we took one to go, but. That just shows where my head's at. I'm not even getting the mimosa. So what I was saying is you're not just here because you're my girlfriends. You're all hardworking, successful, passionate business. woman aka boss ladies you can i'm going to blush yeah you can blush i'm like you're all just staring at me you should be like thank you thank you that's right thanks kately uh and you also

make me laugh looking at you katie is it the canadian tux it's keeks though it's keats with 17 ekeeks on instagram is k with 18 17 it was the first available handle so keeks is that was the first The first available handle. So Keeks is, that was the first available handle? So there's 16? Yeah. You're lying. She went every, she did, added in need every time until she got the name.

No. Yeah. So 17 E's for Keeks. Great. Try and find it. See, you're funny. People who do really care, though. That's like, you know, they really got a search.

But everyone knows I always style. Caitlin, come on. I always tag Sal for the Prib, State of Grace, everything. So, um, so many outfits I wear. I love your guys. Your romper that you were wearing on Sunday. My romper. I love that romper.

That is, that was. It was so fat. I feel like it all, it looks so much better on you though. I know, she makes everything look so good. What? Well, you're so petite and it's just like, like, I put it on like romper. Like I always have to go size up because there's, you know, the camel toe issue. Long torso problems.

I have camel toe in my lulu's though. Pardon me? My lulu lemon pants. I get camelto in those. But it's a thing now. real problem. Is that a trend? I thought it was. I thought guys were digging it now. Oh, well, good news for Caitlin. Well, isn't that the best news of the day? You heard it here for folks. Camel to go's back. They're back. And I'm all about it. But that romper you were wearing on Sunday at Fleur.

Yes. Was like, was so bomb. I have, I found a picture today that I'm going to post. So I'll obviously tag you guys on it. But I thought we could do a quick introduction since nobody was like. Like, everyone's like, who's in this room right now? You mean you don't know us? No, Keeks was 17 E's in? They know, they know Prib, but they don't know you individually. So tell us who you are, what you do, and how would you describe yourself in one word? Oh, geez.

I know. I hate that question. I'm going to take that last second. We should describe each other in one word. Oh, that's a good. I like that better. Because I could describe you guys in one word. I like that better.

Okay, start with Donnie. Okay. So I'm Donnie. I started privilege 10 years ago. Mm-hmm. And I'm a mom of three. Amazing. You look fab.

I have a few stores. Bailey and I have a couple brands together. Yeah, that's really. She likes a good cat nap. I love to take catnaps. Oh. And cryptocurrency. Super into Bitcoin.

Wait, explain this catnap. How long to you is a cat nap? Well, catnaps. It's long enough to pass out at a table. It happens after a couple of drinks. I'm a good time. I'm a yes girl. I've always said I'm a certified yes girl. I hear you. I don't like to say no. Yeah, terrible. If there's something fun going on, I generally want to be there. Right.

So yeah, I sometimes have a few drinks and sometimes, you know, I had a, I had a nap at the Ritz Carlton in Dallas. Dallas. I did. But does it help you? Is it like a quick 15 and you recharge? It's usually like the people, I just got to go home at that point in time, but it could be like a quick five. Yeah. And I could bounce back. You never really. know sometimes you don't bounce back sometimes it rolls right sometimes it's a risky situation sometimes sometimes you take an l and sometimes you bounce back that's yes those are rap lyrics guys no no that was uh big sean yeah thank you for getting that i knew you did i saw your eyes light up and i was like yes you got it i like i like rap music okay good we're really getting to know you i like a good karaoke oh who doesn't and that's really yeah wow

that's really it yeah we should hang out more I'm different I would definitely I like this whiteboard yeah it's a great whiteboard it's on uh oh I'm like it's on my Instagram story but that will be long gone well when this comes out okay Bailey um well I'm Bailey you are Bailey I am my headphones are coming out that's no you know what you should have done there is um on the the view when Beyonce was on it they're like you are Beyonce she said thank you oh well clearly I'm not Beyonce thank you

You are Bailey. Thank you. Lessons learned. Go on. I've worked at privilege for almost six years, which is crazy. And I got my job by DMing Donnie on Facebook. You slid into her DMs? She slid right in there.

Real profesh. Yeah. But kind of like, I don't really care if you have a job available. But you're going to hire me. Yeah. Wow. Persistent. I'm like, sure.

I like your attitude. Worked out. It's worked out great. Amazing. And yeah, I do social media, PR marketing, all of our affiliate really. relationships and a bunch of other stuff. I don't really know what my title is, but it's great. I'm around.

Your title is, I do a bunch of stuff. Yeah. Katie. Thanks. Kikis. Kikis. You can call me Katie, Kikis, Kikis. Dirtster.

The dirtster. The dirtster. That was born in Nashville. That was a good one. Because you love a dirty martini. Love a dirty martini to start off the night. Just to throw that one word and I was going to describe you as spicy. because that's really what you are.

That's a very accurate word. Spicy. I wish people could see you right now because you are in a full Canadian tuxedo three, like, like, killing it. Well, no, just the top half. I'm wearing gray denim. It's denim or denim. That's the, that's a proper way to do the Canadian tuxedo, though.

Yeah. You got to like do, you can't match denims. It's got to be all different. I thought the denim on the hat was a little bit. You've got different contrasting tones. You've got like the distressed elbow on the denim jacket. Yeah. We're painting.

a very pretty picture of keeks right now. I'll post a selfie today. And you're Donnie's sister, you two are sisters. So I'm Donnie's sister. I'm head of stock management at Privilege. As Donnie's sister, there's a lot of little roles that fall under me as well. Changing diapers sometimes. Of course.

I love my job, though. I like to say that Katie works between 25 minutes and 80 hours in a week. Wow. Anything in between. Wow. as she wishes quite a jump quite a jump yeah i also have a daughter so she is spicy i was showing her videos of her um i'm obsessed with your daughter like she is so sprightly she's so spicy she's an amazing gymnast i know well she does competitive cheer she just had her first individual of the season

last weekend and it was something else like she's seven next month yeah so her dance moves they're still like, wow, that's super cute, but it's like when she starts doing this, when she's 12, I'm going to be like, that's super inappropriate. Like a little less swivel in the hips, tone it down a notch or two. She really has the swivel down. But it just depends, too. Like if you're playing it with her cheer music, it's one thing. If you have it to like Rihanna's lemon, it's a total other dance.

So it's just how you pair it. But it wasn't even, it didn't have anything to do with my parenting. Like, that is, she is, oh, come on. says Ms. Spicey herself. She's got the one dance move where I pop my ass up, okay? The one. And that's the only one I have. Everything else she's done herself.

It is, she is. She gets so into it. And you can just tell she's loving every second. Oh, yeah. Oh, it's totally in the eyes. But it's confidence. It is. And she's going to be a strong woman.

Yeah, she is. She's going to take no BS. She's going to take shit from nobody. Which I love. Oh, can we swear on this? Yeah, of course. I wasn't sure. Okay, well, let's do that.

I don't know what. No, hold them back now. No, swear, do whatever you got to do. I might have given me a warning if we couldn't. Yeah, I would have definitely. I would, I'm setting you up for success here, okay? Babe, we'll share this move also because I want to sit. I was like, did you already slam yours?

You can have it. You can only share. Wait, are we really that short? No, we're not short at all. It's fine. It's sharing. It's fine. Okay, okay.

What was like, oh, now you have to say one word about each other. Quick, Donnie about Bailey. One word. Oh. Diligent? Dilligent. That's like a really responsible word, but she's like really responsible. That's great.

Wow. Nobody would say that about me. We call her Father Bailey. No, it's going to be. Okay. So, Father Bailey. Covenant House sent me male to privilege.

And it came, I guess, because there's like Sister Bailey, if you're a female or Father Bailey for a male. I got Father Bailey. So now they all call me Father Bailey. That's like on friends when he gets the TV guide and it's labeled. Chanadler Bong. Mrs. Chinnallor Bong.

Okay. Bailey about Donnie? One word. Goals. That's really nice. Thank you. That is, thank you. Thank you. There you go. I was going to say late. That was going to be my second. Well, Lee and I were here at 10 after 10. We said we'd be here at 10. And we gave each other a high five. We're like, this is a great success. It is. If she's earlier than 30 minutes late, it's early. For sure. We changed it. I try and make my motto if you're on time, you're late. if you're honest because you should be early i know i know but that's not me i'm always like sometimes i'll tell her like half an hour before it's actually people do that to me all the time i really try to change that but it's so hard well you have three kids i don't have an excuse i've been like this my whole life though honestly it's it's something that i'm like i work i'm very self-aware i will work on things and improve myself i can't i cannot i like for the life of me everybody else i think if it makes

me a selfish asshole i just am i guess okay but you bitch when we were younger my Mom, first of all, we call her J-Bomb. She's pretty awesome. She used to sit in the driveway and just, like, lay on the horn. Super inconsiderate neighbor, waiting for us to come outside. Really? And it would be so bad that she would actually pull away. There was four of us.

She would drive three of us to school, then come back and get Donnie and drive her to school so she didn't make everyone late every single day. God, I love your mom. She said to me, she said, you'll never get anywhere in your life if you don't get this under control. And I remind her about that all the time. You're like, I'll show you. I got somewhere. Look at me go.

I'm on off the vine. We should call J-Bomb on this podcast right now and be like, here you go. Yeah, but you should. Go ahead. Well, last time we were on. Last time we were podcasted with Rick and Donna. Yes. On Priv Talks.

Yeah. We, oh my God. We prank called Leah at the store. And what did we do? You, Sean, pretended that. Well, it was actually a true. store you had a security tag on his pants right yes and he called your store that was like one of the it was a really good episode that was a really funny episode never stopped me from wearing an outfit no i'll

buy something with the security tag oh my well why don't we get it why don't we get into no we need to do keeks one word about keeks spicy spicy you can't top that would you have a better one no i'll take that that's pretty nice spicy is great i would love if somebody explain me in one word okay you guys explain me one word. Ooh. I just spitfire. Yeah. Okay.

You're like tangy. You're like... Tangy. You're also spicy. Yeah. Like you are. Like you just have that kind of like you have a flare. Oh.

Okay. I'll take the tang. I like tangy. I like spitfire. I think that's really accurate. Spitfire. Yeah. Okay.

I come out guns blazing. Yeah. I keep everybody on their toes. Keep the mind guessing. It's okay. I like it. Spitfire. It's not a bad thing

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You are Father Bailey. Yes, we should be confessing to you. Yep. I'm starting it off. Does this mean I get a pass? Hell no. Hell no. Oh, shit. This isn't like real confessions here. Okay. Are you going first? Yes. I had, um, an accident. What kind of accident? So I was in my priv romper, which thank God was red, but unfortunately the couch was white.

So, uh, I was speaking on a panel at Fleur wedding show in Vancouver. And I should, know my body at the age of 32 and when my period starts yeah you see where this is going so i am introduced i'm being introduced and it was actually really nice i stood back there and i was listening to erin um blanking under last in right now sebula i was listening to her introduce everybody and she was like Broadway star and i was like oh god and i kind of forgot to walk out for a second because i was really enjoying my moment and then i walk out and i see all these white couches and i sit down and i was like in that moment the second i sat down on the white couch i felt a little worse no i've had that happened too like thank god your jumpsuit was red but does that really matter if the couch is white

so i was sitting there and you're standing up in front of like a ton of people so many people and i'm i'm just planning my escape i'm like okay i just thought you had a wedgie so you could tell i was well no you were adjusting i was visibly uncomfortable wedge is a real problem in a romper it is very real this was more of a problem and I was like, okay, what do I do? Do I get up and be like, oh, sorry, got to go to the bathroom? Like, do I get up and put my phone down on the spot that's going to be on the couch? But then people be like, you forgot your phone and be like, ah. Like, I didn't know how to do it. Thankfully, everything worked out and it wasn't full long. That's such a real girl problem. So what happened? Like, how did I just

battled. I looked very uncomfortable. I already look uncomfortable when people talk wedding, talk to me. So it really was on brand. Very organic to me. I was uncomfortable and then as soon as it was done I ran to the bathroom and I was like okay this is I managed did you do like a little glance when you stood up absolutely I stood up this I like slid off my chair to look just to be like do I need to carry my chair off with me how how hard was it to focus in the moment like I would have just been thinking about the whole time yeah that happened to Bailey and I when we did a podcast recently and something we got

a really crazy email right before yeah so it just like takes your focus away there was no way we could focus on the podcast and we couldn't even air the podcast it was that bad because we were just like i get it i was like i don't even know what to say they were i don't even remember what she asked me it was i just blacked out oh the poor thing that's awful blacked out so father bailey forgive me uh your sins are washed away keeks got one for us i want to hear this one i do too i understood the idea of confession when i was thinking about it's okay go with it i feel like your mic needs to be closer to your face this is the problem with not having headphones keeks yeah I feel like I get really loud.

That's good. So do I. Meow. Okay. I also have headphones on and that was very loud. Sorry. Sorry about that. Donnie's jaw is going to drop right now.

My confession is that my nickname, I have another nickname. It may be Kit Kat. Okay. Oh my God. Oh my gosh. I'm so excited. How dirty can we get on this thing? Go there.

Go there. I'm like how much I should censor it right now. But in my most recent relationship, my boyfriend really liked Kit Kat. So I had this great idea one day to put a Kit Kat in the freezer for a few hours and then feed him the Kit Kat in the bedroom. Yeah. Not from your mouth. Not from my mouth. Oh, that's very thoughtful of you.

Right? He thought he was like you. The great girlfriend. wow yeah this is the nicest thing someone has ever done for me and the most thoughtful that is I'm like that's romantic I didn't know that chocolate could turn someone on so much but well when it's in the right places where when the kids I thought you're going to say where is the kit cat I'm like I think you can figure it out not home not home honey I need you to help me come find something in the bedroom wait now my question is how did you like

start this. Were you like, was it already in there? It was already in there. Oh, yeah. Poster in there. Did he know it was in there? Did he just like, surprise? Well, he knew it was in there once he went down there, but I didn't give him like a full warning. Like he kind of just like went down there to get things started. And he was like, what is that? I was like, surprise. That's so good. But he was like so on board. He's, he's kind of a foodie too. He's such a foodie. You're really, like, speaking his love language. Bringing the term food porn to a whole new meaning. Like, he actually was, like, enjoying and he didn't just, like, pull it out and gobble it up.

No. Like, nibbled it. Oh, my. All the way to the end. At least it was beneficial for both teams. I wish we finished with this. I know. I don't.

This I'm going to. When you looked at me, I was like, it's a mic drop. No, no. No, I'm going to go ahead and say that's my favorite confession that's ever been on a podcast. I could go on before. So you totally understood it. So I didn't. know the whole story but we have a family chat what did you just say there's a bag at one time

wow that escalated real quick yes she really likes bread he loves bread those carbs the only thing he loves more than a kit cat is bread so that was next I mean it didn't you set the bar really high with a kit cat it was a different scenario it was different than the kick cat situation but it was involved. Oh, you're being serious? Dead serious. I love you. You're like dirtster keeks, but definitely Kit Kat. Yeah, Kit Kat. I thought like it's like my cutest nickname. It is a really nickname. Yeah, I did not see that one coming. No. When you said Kit Kat, I was like, so we have a family chat and I, there have been like a few Kit Kat jokes going around. So I figured there was something to it, but I didn't know. I didn't know what like it for sure, for sure happened. Oh, Mom knew. I thought

everyone knew. You tell your mom these things. It came up, yeah. I think that's great. She's bought, she's like, she bought the Kit Kat for you. She's like, I got you something today and I was like, oh, like, what are the Gucci loafers? And she's like, slides over a Kit Kat. I'm like, fuck you. I actually wanted something. Oh, it's so good. Oh, wow, good for you. I'm really proud of you. I'm not surprised either. No, you should be surprised. No. That's, and then, I hope Sean listens to this and I was like, why don't you do that for me? And I'll be like, you don't eat kick ass, Sean. Totally.

I'd be like quinoa or like a kale salad. On a cheat day. Oh my gosh. I try and like put some quinoa in there. It's like a turkey taco salad or something. A protein shake. There's a protein powder sprinkled on there. Oh my God.

Sean's in for a treat. Please forgive my sins. yeah father bailey washed away do you forgive that one oh i do yeah we encourage it actually totally i'm not promising that i'm not going to do it again oh that's great oh i'm so impressed so good i am so happy donnie follow that one for every boyfriend that ever broke up like you ever ended that relationship like idiots what a loser you missed out on kit cat how do i follow that like i don't know i'm kind of like I don't know. I was like, not first, last.

Definitely, it's a story that needs to go last. Yeah, I should. Maybe we can edit it around so that that one goes last. My confession isn't nearly as good. It can be, it never will be. I'm feeling. Is it a Snickers? Yeah.

Are you kidding me? Three kids I crawled into my bed like every night. There's like nothing exciting. Oh, I'm there right now. Yeah. Well, you could get exciting with a kick cat. Yeah. Go to your sister for some tips.

What would his chocolate bar of? Oh, it would be like some kind of. Some kind of a milk chocolate for sure. I'm sure you freeze. Like a Cadbury. Mini eggs. It's like a yonie egg, but you can have going for a board meeting. You're going to end up in the hospital.

God help any like businessmen knock on the door here and like have an actual meeting. We're like, excuse me. We're super busy again. Yeah, super busy. I don't know if you can see the whiteboard, but we've got something going on here. Okay, so my confession is for you, Caitlin. Oh, yes. Um, father, Caitlin.

Kate, you started the podcast in June. When, yeah, when did you start the podcast? Like how many episodes? Why do I not know this? I feel like it was around June because it was a time of my life that was quite foggy. Okay. And I had a lot going on. It was like very pregnant.

And I remember sending you a message and being like, congratulations on the podcast. And you're like, what do you think? And I'm like, well, I haven't listened yet, but I'm going to go have a listen. Yeah. And I'll let you know, but I'm sure it's amazing. Yeah. And between then and now, I have probably promoted your podcast. podcast five thousand times where I'm like oh my god isn't it a natural fit she's got a podcast it's

so great and you've never listened and I didn't listen until this week oh this week oh so you still got around to it oh I did but like I was I have felt so bad I've been like I need to listen to the podcast I need to like but you've promoted it so really I know the love's still there the love is still there but I hadn't actually listened you had good intentions late to the game late to every game yeah well that was you know classic Donnie you're just living up to your name anyway so But I have, now listen to a couple episodes, and it's as good as a thought. So now you can, like, believe in your words. Exactly.

You're like, ooh. It hasn't taken me. I wasn't lying to everybody. No. Okay, good. Thank God. I forgive you. Father Bailey forgives you.

I thought about it for a second about not forgiving you, but no, I do. I do. Because that one's bad. No. Well, you just nothing can follow Kit Kat. Uh-uh. Yeah, you guys could always redeem yourselves. If you think of something later on, that would blow our mind.

I don't think anything can really top that. Yeah. that's the spice. Bailey, try. You know, mine's also a period confession. I'm going to start off by saying, like, I've had the most scatterbrain, and I think Donnie can attest to this. Like, I don't know what's my head and my ass half the time.

Katie's like, yes, very true. Very valid point. So I went to go change my tampon the other day, and I found out there was not one, but two. Oh, done it twice. I've done it twice. I guess I had forgotten to actually change it the time before. Yeah. So, yeah.

I've done it, I've done that twice. Got to pay more attention. Fair enough. I'm glad I'm not alone. Oh, no, no, no. It could be worse. You could have lost it. Yeah, I had to go to the hospital.

That's, that's, oh, okay. It's been way worse. Yeah. I almost thought I was going to have to go to the hospital yesterday because that damn diva cup got stuck in the end. Didn't learn your lesson, did you? What is a diva cup? Okay, so it's one of those reusable period cups.

I feel like I'm back in the day. It's making a return now. Okay. Anyways, got it stuck once, luckily was with Andrew at the time, and he, like, helped a sister out. Yeah, do you really got a dig out there? But this time I was by myself, I literally was, like, starting to sweat 20 minutes, and I'm, like, can't get, I'm like, am I seriously going to have to go to the doctor, get the fucking duck put in? Yeah, pull out. The duck.

Like, oh, I'm sweating. That, yeah, well, you, but you made it through? We got it out. You're an independent woman. You are so independent. Strong, independent woman, get my own diva cup out. If you can get a Kit Kat out of there, you could sure as hell get a diva cup out of there. Do you think the diva cup is really, like, worthwhile?

Yeah. Honestly, if we're being like open and honest right now, like this is not a sponsored situation. But like this, every about like third period, I get just a rager. And I'm like, what the hell is going on? And that that happened this month. And I literally a tampon just wouldn't do. It wasn't cutting it. It wasn't cutting it.

So I put the cup in golden. Wow. Except for it got... See, my girlfriends always tease me when they find like OB tampons in my purse. Because they're like... Yeah, like I like that they're small. You don't have to like have big tampons. They're so discreet.

The little OB ones without the applicator. Oh. So they're like, you kind of have to like put them in yourself. Yeah. But my friends always tease me about it. So like diva cup is like the OB tampon next level. I just picture this big cup. No, it's not that big.

It's like... It's kind of like... But they have two sizes, remember? So I go to the store. There's two sizes and it like literally says on it. It's like, um, one's for post babies, ones for pre-babies. And then there's two sizes. One's for over 30.

One's for under 30. So I'm like, once for the paper cut vaginas and ones for the like, the babies who come out twirling a cane. Go on. Thinking no, like I'm 29. So definitely going to go for the small. one right not 30 had a kid seven years ago totally going to get the yeah we're good might be why it's getting stuck yeah not buying the bigger one won't do it no not just for your own sanity oh my god

okay well katie definitely won that katy kate wins this whole podcast yeah katy wins the podcast changed the name of the podcast to the kit cat show yep no because nobody can ever live up to that i will never eat a kit cat the same again that's what everyone said yeah yeah absolutely how did you think of it because she's romantic spicy i believe he actually like planted the seed a couple weeks earlier and was like man if you put like a rhesus peanut butter cup up there and i was like well what that got stuck like it didn't seem like it would actually fit properly no oh but a diva cup does that's true yeah solid point kit cat was a solid choice it just get messy It would get messy.

Peanut Buttercup would definitely get messy. Right. Frozen Kit Kat. It's more ergonomically. I don't use big words. I don't like big words. I'm not sure. Well, that was the best thing ever.

I'm like, we could just end the podcast there and call it a day because everyone's probably like, yes, yes. The rest of the podcasts are going to be like, no, back to confession. Keeps the 17 E's. You're going to get a lot of new followers right now and some Kit Kat days. Are you private on Instagram? You might have to be now. I don't know if I am or not.

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that's done tell us about it I just feel like it's so cool there's so many I mean girls of all ages that listen but I feel like this is a good group to inspire other women and that's why have you here I mean we're so like

bab supporting babes I know I love it really like our podcast is about really connecting with women that are doing cool things. Which is called privet talks. And like hearing their stories and sharing ours. But it's, yeah, that's pretty cool. There's so many different stories. But for me, it was, yeah, 10 years ago. And I've always been into clothing. Like when I was little, I was like making, dressing my sister in like paper bags. I would make outfits. And I think I got a sewing machine when I was like five or six

and took lessons. And I was. It was in your blood. Yeah, I was like really, really into that. And so one day I just literally decided, didn't ask any permission. I was like, I'm starting, I'm opening a store. And I opened up this just a little clothing boutique, which is now we own the property where we are. We have like a lot of square footage there. We have our warehouse. And we have like our OG store, which is just basically a bonus. But we do all of our online orders, all of our podcasts, all of our shipping. We have like a bit of an operation there. So it's grown from like a small thing into something more substantial. We've got other stores in mall. as well. I really feel like that's because you guys are such like a woman power. Like you've so many

positivity. Yes. And then so many women support you and you guys support so many women and it's just like blown up. We have a really great community of women. It's like it's like it actually like takes the words away from me because it is a warm community. Yeah. And it wasn't really there 10 years ago. We didn't start it. There's a lot of companies around us that I feel like in our community that have like been just as empowering where we've fed off them or vice versa. But it's pretty special. It really is. How everybody's collaborated and everybody kind of rises up from it. Yeah. So the world needs more of that. Yeah. And 2018 is the year of the woman. Am I right? I think so. I think so. I really do. And I, Chloe Cohansky, who won the voice, was just on my podcast before. And she made it really

I listened to that one. She made such a good point saying like you really know how bad it was if we're like having to celebrate women succeeding? I know it's kind of sad that we weren't there. Right. And now we are, which some men would say, like, why aren't we empowering men in the same way? And the argument is like, well, we do every day. Right. Like you have a man and a woman going for a position and a man will naturally make more than the woman.

And I've never thought of myself as a feminist, but it is like at some level, it's pretty cool. Yeah. No, I love it. I'm inspired. I'm inspired. Like being at Fleur on the week. weekend and seeing what Allie's done. Yeah. In that community and how many. Because women are so creative, you know, and they're so passionate and I'm not saying men aren't either. No. I'm not like a

man. It's our emotions that like we get stereotyped for that, but it's also what drives us and what makes us have empathy with others and makes us super powerful. I think we lead in a different way. Like we lead with compassion. Yeah. Which you don't see a lot of like male oriented companies lead in the same way. So like we've got a team of maybe 25 girls. girls and you get you done and not opposed to like hiring men no no anything at all we've had guys work for us yeah we have but it's like really and really good ones too um who still come to the christmas parties and they do shout out to john yeah love john hey john um but it's pretty it's a pretty special team yeah so it's like maybe i founded it but it's like it's just a cumulative

effect of all of the girls that are here do you think there's ever a time starting a business as a woman that you felt like you were going to get stereotyped, or did you ever feel anything like that? I mean, I think I'm lucky that I'm in a bit of like a, I feel like a female dominated industry. So like when you enter fashion, like there's tons of women. It's like the one industry that has stood true to women. But there's, I think, a lot of times where I didn't know why I was doing things. And now I'm starting to figure out, like, that it was like a passion and it was a project. Yeah.

And now that we connect with these women and we have this following. I understand it a little bit more. Yeah, I didn't ever think of myself as a feminist either. And now I'm like, oh, hell yeah, I am. But you don't even, because I think it's been used in a way where you think it's like a bad thing to be a feminist, like it was wrong, which is so stupid. Because now I'm like, no, I'm totally a feminist. Yeah, I had that same argument about a year ago where I was like, well, I don't think of myself

as a feminist because I didn't really like my stereotype about it. But it's like you kind of, like we are, essentially. And men can be feminist too. Like I think Sean is a bit of a feminist. He said something the other day that it was the sweetest thing. I brought up the thing that Chloe Cohansky said about celebrating women. And he was so confused. And he was like, what?

What do you mean? And he goes, I just feel like I've always celebrated women. I think that's also kind of why some people don't think of themselves as feminist because we're already just naturally feminist. And it's sad that we do have to celebrate it and for that to get recognition because we should just be feminist. I think that is a thing too. Like men can be feminist. Yeah. And a lot of men also.

Yeah, absolutely. And the men that aren't should be. Yes. I know. Amen. Who run the world. Like, girls. Beyonce. Thank you. I think it's a movement for sure. Yeah. It's a big movement right now. And it's, and it's really like really happening. Yeah, it's like all around us. I can't get away from it. Which I love. Where do you guys think all of your empowerment came from? I've met. What do you call her? J-Bomb? Our team. J-Bom. Oh, yeah, like the head of our family. My mom is just like... She totally has encrypted it and asked.

Yeah. She has been like... She's stood up for what's right. And like feminist doesn't have to mean like you're like a boss, babe, running a company or like serious and business. Like you can be a mom. You can be, you know, doing so many different things. It's just like more of a self-respect. Absolutely.

What you expect of yourself. But yeah, my mom is like the center of our family for sure. She's everything. I only met her that one time and I was just like, this is such a strong one. amazing. Oh, she's like, she's a boss. I made her my adoptive mom. She's great. She's like four kids. Yeah. She never really worked. She was a full-time stay-at-home mom. But like probably the best hands-on mom. Probably the most inspiring woman. Yeah. I know. And like has taught me everything I know about being a mom. Like I fought to have the balance between like working mom and and knowing the difference. But yeah, I would say she's totally gold. Shout out. Let's do it.

Toast to Cheers to J-Bob Cheers That's awesome I love hearing that Chiles Yeah there's so many Though the community

My team Like all us girls I feel like I go to work I get so excited to be there Surround yourself with Because you get inspired daily And I think it's just Yeah like the people you surround yourself

Will become your energy It really is I swear by that all the time That was a big thing for me From going on the show And coming off of it And just figuring out who your real friends are and surrounding yourself because I have the best girlfriends here in Vancouver.

And then I moved to Nashville and to make new friends and coming off a show, I've realized that like it's actually really hard to find good people. Really true. Yeah. And then to surround yourself with it, it really, it changed who I was. Through my 20s, I mean, it has a lot to do with who I am. But who I surrounded myself was a big part of how I matured and had respect for myself was the friends that I had.

Oh, yeah. Yeah. We've been talking about that in recent podcast, too. more about like choosing who you surround yourself to because you become them. Yes. So if you want to be successful, like surround yourself with those people. Yeah. And you do essentially become those people, like guiding each other.

Yeah. No, you really do. And I strongly believe in that. That's why you're here surrounding me today. You're welcome. I'm like trying to find my notes now because I'm like, oh, that was a really great combo. Now where are we?

Oh, I thought, okay, let's do some questions. Okay. Questions for Priv girls. Anna, Poplin, Wheaton. Greek. So good. How are you able to separate business and personal life? Sometimes we don't.

We don't. I feel like for me it's so intertwined because I love every single person that I work with. And we all hang outside of work. So it really is just all kind of mesh together. That's probably why you guys are successful. Yeah. And it's so special because I don't think a lot of jobs. have that. I mean, like the people they work with. Yeah, like I love every single person that I work

with. And some of these questions aren't necessarily like work related either. Like Molly Donovan wants to know, how do you overcome moments of doubt and insecurities? Well, you're out of your comfort zone at that point, which is a good place to be. Because you're like, we talked about that yesterday about like living in a realm that sometimes makes you feel uncomfortable. It was Aaron who said it on our podcast. She said something about being uncomfortably because that's when real change happens. Yeah. And I've found that. going through life. I mean, even like your move to Nashville,

like that's like huge life change. Like you're completely out of your comfort zone. Oh, yeah. I'm so far from family and friends, but I'm also like content with where I'm at and happy because I have Sean. And I feel like we live such a like nice normal life when it's just the two of us.

And then we have the privilege to go and do things with like touring. One of my in a band. Traveling. We're your groupies. traveling and like doing all these things that we get to do but we always come back like Nashville's like now our little home base safe spot where it's like quiet and we have our time together and it's like the best thing that's happened even though I was always so crazy I loved being downtown Vancouver and doing this and doing that and now I'm like I want to build a fence

I go the fence and a deck when we went to visit you guys in Nashville um you guys were moving at that point in time and you guys moved out to the burbs and I was like oh I kind of think that's cool because I'm a suburban girl and I like living outside the city but I was like you know you guys don't have kids like you'd think you naturally settle in the city right no that was actually something we really bonded over on the it's like the littlest hammer you I know I'm right above our heads I'm like really right now should see what I'm picturing in my head does it involve kit cats yes it does no because that was something we bonded over on the show was like we both found ourselves being like I really want to live like in the middle of nowhere and just like build a life that isn't in a city and we've both been there done that and partied and done our thing and now we're ready for that next step and we're both like oh cool yeah I want that too oh you like dogs love dogs cool let's just have a home in the middle and there with lots of dogs cool goodbye cool cool story I respect that though I feel like that's on my wavelength I like yeah I love it I like the fast pace fast pace city to some degree

but I like coming back. Yeah, that was like when we went to New York. I'm like, oh, I love it. It's like we saw light at the end of the tunnel. We know we're going back home to our little safe spot, you know, so we really enjoyed the two months while we were there. Cool. Next question. Ashton LaForce, great name. LaForce. Is that made up? How do you deal with the risk involved with becoming an entrepreneur and what made you take the leap? I should have given it more thought because I honestly just like felt so strongly about what I was doing that I didn't even look back. Like I dealt with the challenges as they came, but I was, I didn't really give myself much time to question myself. Like I made the decision and I opened my store like three

months later. This is where my favorite line gets to come in. High risk, high reward. It's my favorite line. I say that all the time on every podcast actually, but I'm going to make it my thing. I think it's like comes down to like what you're supposed to be doing though. It's like you listen to like that little voice inside of yourself and you just know when you're going in the right direction. And I think if you want it enough, you figure it out. That's one thing I will say about, um, Aaron Trelor who was on my podcast for Rob Beauty and she is my health and wellness coach. And I talked to her like weekly. And that was one thing that she said was, um, um, I remember what did you just say? What was your quote that she said? No, no, no, what did you just say? Oh, um,

about like listening to the little voice. Yes. Oh, sorry. Listening to the little voice. I was always confused when she said to me like, oh, listen to your body. I'm like, what the hell does that even mean? She goes, you're overthinking it. Like, it's actually just as simple as sitting back and closing your eyes for two seconds

being like, what do I need? Am I thirsty? Oh, I could actually use glass of water, like certain little things like listening to your body and being like, does this feel right or wrong? Am I passionate about this? Do I want to do this? What are the risks? Like, and actually just trusting in that voice where I always thought that was silly.

I'm like, listen to my body. What do you mean? Every time I listen to my body. my body, I'm usually thirsty. I'm dehydrated again. I think a lot of us also do what we think we should do or what others think we should do. When it's, if you like take that step back, you'll kind of feel what you want to do. Yeah. Or if you're like fighting something that you've just like constantly feel like you should be like, it gives me reassurance that you can kind of sit back and let life take its course. You don't always have

to be actively like taking down the wall to like pave new ground. Like you can you can sit back and listen to yourself and actually just like do what you feel is organic. Yeah. It's usually the right move. I can remember a couple of people in my life telling me like, how do you live so carefree? And I'm like, I just feel like the right thing's going to happen. And I'm just going to be like on the right path to do whatever I want to do. I'm not forcing anything. And I remember I dated one guy when I was like 22 who said to me like, you can't live like that. And I was like, you can't watch me. Like I remember saying what? And he was like, no, you need to like figure it out and and figure out what you want to do and work towards it. And I'm like, no, because I don't really know what I want to do

right now. I'm 22. And now I'm like, I want to say to him. Is this like this story when you were living in Europe and you're like, no, like I have, like you felt like you really had to do something? That was my next one. But that happened to. But yeah, it was another, I honestly, I'm still so close with his parents and, and they always laugh about it because they're like, remember when he like thought you had to, you know, like work so hard to do this? And now I'm like, now I'm like, I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be. Yeah. And it was because. because I didn't listen to my, what are you supposed to be doing? It was what do I want to be doing?

What feels comfortable right now? No pressure. So my baby daddy boyfriend, whatever he is of 13 years, Ev, let's call him that. We used to run a gym together before. Like I was at a university. We owned a gym and we ran it. And it was awful. Like, anybody who knows me that isn't like not at my alley at all.

Like I can kind of see him doing it, but not me. But we used to get in arguments. I'd be, like, up in the office, like, buying and selling on eBay and things like that. I'd be, like, ordering clothes and selling them. Like, I was obviously dabbling with things like that. And I would fight with him and I'd be like, I'm out of here. I'm going to start a clothing store. And he'd be like, you just go do that.

And I'm like, fine, I will. And then you did. And I was like, take me with you. And it was like a little voice that, like, that comes out in, like, the moment that you're not listening to, but it's like there all the time. Yeah. So then one day I just did. That's great. Yeah.

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relate to this it's we're going to do can you not um service industry is that what it is service customer service which is also service from the employee perspective like i worked in a restaurant for a very long time i have a lot of can you not's customer service i'm sure we all have some of those like can you not prank call us and say that you left the tag on your jeans sean booth can you not call the restaurant and say i was hitting on your husband i was not hitting on your oh oh my gosh your husband took his ring off and was hitting on me gosh there was some reaps in i worked at earls for like a long time i did too i will never forget a moment where i was like i need out i was so upset uh there's a guy who always came in he had so much money and

he always sat in my section but he treated me like garbage and i would stand up for myself like i'd be like you can't talk to me like that but i remember this one day he was like talking about what suit he was wearing and he was like it was blah blah and he said some italian name he goes you're so dumb you're probably like I love spaghetti and I was like I'm done I'm done I'm done I looked at him I was like I'm done with you I can't serve you anymore he never came in again his name was Kirk I wish I could remember his last time because I would call him the F out right now he probably came into my section too like he probably just like did the rounds at all he thought he was so hot because he had money he was disgusting and when he said that to me I was like I'm done and I just walked away

and thankfully like Earls is a really great company to work for and they have my back and they're like yeah you do not deserve to be treated like that and I I remember on his way out, I was scrubbing the whiteboard, like, where you do the seating and everything. And he was like, your ass shakes when you do that. And I was like, oh, my God. And I was really, I think I was 20 at that time. And I just went up into a bathroom and cried.

It's for men like that that we need feminists. Yeah. Oh, it makes me, I get like fired up even talking about that. I'm like, oh, disgusting. What a dick. So can you not? Can you not? Kirk, a piece of shit.

We go like customer service. Oh, yeah. Can you not say that's not Eritzia's return policy? Yeah, we're not Eritzia. Oh, everyone, I love Eritzia, but do they say that to you? Yeah. They expect you to have the same return. Like every store has different return policies. Yeah. You're not a Ritza. Can you not? Can you not? Can you not ask for the manager? And then, not believe me when I say I am the manager. Exactly. There's one employee at Langley. Like one manager, one employee. Get what you get, okay? I like it, though, Katie, when you, like, pretend to be me. You're like, hold on a second.

And then you're like, yeah, Donnie here. I am the manager. I think we're both done that. Honestly, I am you half of the time at work. I'll literally be like, on the phone, yep, this is Donnie. And then they'll be like, hey, can I email you? I'll be like, yeah, but could you see my assistant, Katie at Privilegeclothing.com? They're like, yeah, no problem.

And then I'll reply to it. That's amazing. Call Donnie and be like, don't think this is weird when you get this email, but I'm just working on something. It's so resourceful. I love it. It really is. Okay, can you not return your poop stained pajamas?

True story. Someone had a poop stain in their pajamas and they tried to return it. And they're like, I didn't wear them. Shout out to Carly because she opened it up. But you wore them 4,000 times. Oh, yeah. And there was a poop stain. We had to email them and say, we're sorry.

We can't take these back due to a sanitary issue. Due to feces on your pajamas. Who in the world would do that? Like, I can't even. a period stay and I get. I think we've also had that. We get it all the time though where people are like, I haven't even worn it, but yet it's been washed 4,000 times and we're like, how can you even, with like good conscience say

you haven't worn it? Well, that can be my confession to you. One time I wore a dress out. I kept the tags on and I went to take it back the next day. And she went and she went through the pockets. She's like, there's drink tickets and a tampon. I was like, wow, I really should have double check that. idiot can you not Caitlin what about can you not tell me the price is too high i don't make the prices

i just work here something not for you because you guys make the prices but well okay we we've had that before people are like when um can you not ask me when it's going to go on sale and we're like you know what now it's never going to go on sale yeah because we're going to pass it up to the top that this one is never getting marked down that's true because then they want it just because we can't cater to this yeah i like that can you not take 10 items to the change room and leave them on the floor like that's so disrespectful oh yeah i couldn't do that someone someone's gonna buy that item like try it on at least nicely like lay it over right there's so many hangers that you can hang in there yeah yeah can you not can you not uh place an order in the email

five minutes later asking for the tracking number yeah oh do i do that i'm like uh-oh i'm gonna be like guilty of these things you've never done that and it's like a sunday night too like you know no one's in the office. Oh my gosh. That one was for Carly. Can you not make a complaint and take it immediately to social media and tell everybody in the whole world about it? Yelp. I can't handle people's reviews. I'm like no nice person who had a good experience goes on and says something. It's always the assholes who want to. So I don't even trust reviews when I go on Yelp. I read a review. I'm like, I'm going to go see for myself. Because I'm like, I know it was just some dick on there just like annoyed at life. I know like don't really trust the whole.

like system of like using reviews as like a gauging technique because I don't think the right people sorry if I'm insulting people like necessarily leave reviews yeah no no no it's not always on brand you're not you're not insulting anybody this is off the vine nobody gets insulted here um wait what some ashley wilt said can you not in the fitting rooms did someone do that apparently that's crazy Ashley sorry about your bad luck very important can you not that is actually like I'm worried about your health okay well there was a time when I worked at Earls that somebody actually shit in a pumpkin at the front door hard how did they even get away with that like how do you even not get caught pooping in a

pumpkin I don't know wow but it happened that's one of the grossest things I've ever heard and it was in Langley because only those things were happened in Langley uh Langley uh okay oh can you not can you not Can you not ask for a side of ranch right after? I've just come back from getting your friend a side of ranch. I hated when people did that. They'd be like, oh, I'll get ranch. And you come back.

Ooh, I'll get ranch too. I'm like, oh, now I have to make two trips. And you're not. Caesars, which is only Canadian things. I don't know if all your listeners. Like, seizures are something like that. Oh, can I get extra spicy beans? Is that what you're doing?

Well, they're so picky the drink that they're hard to make. Yeah. And once you see some. It's like a bloody Mary. When you kind of everyone wants one, you'll bring one. And then everyone's like, oh, I'll get a Caesar, I'll get a Caesar or Buddy Mary, whatever. Same, same, same. I've probably done that before, sorry, guys.

It's hard not to. There's so many candy nuts that I have that I totally do. Bailey, you're like, can I have a Caesar and a coffee and a water and maybe a tea too? I like to stay hydrated, guys. I don't even like to stay hydrated. I actually hate staying hydrated and hate water, but I love options. Yeah. Like I love having different options in front of me.

What was the one thing I called to have choices? yesterday the other day where I was like my four liter water no she had okay she has like usually like a fresh press juice a kombucha yeah giant water which is like the size of four liters four liters um and then there was like a thing of hot sauce oh I had taco sauce for my salad taco sauce oh I carry hot sauce in my purse I'm all about the sauces yeah I love the sauces um okay I'm gonna switch it up on you okay who's who's talking right now Bailey is that you's in charge here. Father Bailey. Father Bailey in the house. Okay. Um, some of your vinos had questions for you. Okay. This never happens. I'm ex-jacking your podcast. Okay. Um, so Christina Ars, I don't know

Ars. Ars. Ars. I don't know. Ars. I don't know. Ars. Yeah. I'm going with Ars. I'm going with Ars. I'm going with Ars. Sorry, Christina. Um, she wants to hear, uh, any dating horror stories. Been on some really great dates. I did tell one of on my podcast before where a guy took me to a gay bar and ordered potato skins in the middle of the afternoon. Oh. Potato skins are really good though. In the middle of that afternoon, a gay bar?

It's a weird order. It's a weird order. Did you get a sauce with it? I don't remember. I didn't eat them. It was weird. I'm like trying to think of any. We'll come back.

Yeah. I'll think of that. Skin care secrets. KB got that good skin. Oh, Botox. I need some. some um i'm really crazy about my skin because i hate water so i have to i have to like i have to hydrate topically yeah yeah so um i'm all about the skin suiticles um i'm all about

actually i try different things all the time because i sometimes people will send me like a skincare thing so i'll just try that how about your self-made rosy cheeks mask oh that was a boss move so so priv talks podcast um with these girls they do boss or or bust move of the week. So Bailey and I were talking about earlier of what mine would be. And I'm like, I've had a lot of boss moves and a lot of bus this week. Bust, I got my period on a white couch, boss that I went to Lush and made my own cosmetics. Made us a giant bath bombs.

Yeah. You're welcome. Do they make those actually? Were you like, no, I want a giant one. No, they make them. They actually do. Lush is known for their bath bombs. But I've never seen that size.

So I'm pretty impressed. You've seen it all now. Four and one. And it was handmade by yours truly. I'm excited. I'm going to go use that tonight. My alarm. Do you have to be similar?

Am I keeping you? I take my iron pills. Real exciting, guys. Father Bailey. Father Bailey taking her iron pills. Could I have one? I'm spicing it up over here. Sorry.

This is why you're not the spicy one. No, not at all. I'm the what, the diligent. Diligent with your alarm for your. It's amazing. This is why I'm single, guys. Kayla Joyce, what are some books you'd recommend to read? Oh, there is a book I read called You'll Never Make Love in This Town Again.

It's about like, um, I've heard of that. Like, D-list celebrities who like sleep their way through L.A. And like, try and sleep with like, oh, sounds good. It's so juicy and so sad at the same time. But there's some like crazy stories like, there's a story in there about Vanna White. I'm not sure if it's true or not, but you should read it. All right. Oh, I'm going to go get it like today.

Yeah. It's crazy. Other than that. Who inspires you and makes you want to grow as a person? Erin Trelor. You can't help it. She's infectious. I've known since I was 19.

No, maybe 20. We actually dated the same guy. Some of the best friendships are made like that. Yeah. But yeah, she is one of just like such a strong woman and she's been through. a lot to get to where she is and she's like she just I talk to her every week as my health and wellness coach and I like notice a difference in my life if I don't talk to her because she keeps me so grounded and remembering like what's important and she's helped so many women and I just

feel like she should be so much bigger oh got passionate about that one bigger than she is like I'm like I feel like she should have millions and millions of people following this raw beauty account and she should be on Ellen and I just feel like she's changing the world she's so she is changing the world yeah and that is she really inspires me when we podcasted with her I left so inspired yes it was just like it was a it was a mix of being inspired and grounded yes that's exactly how she makes me feel every week and she is a health and wellness coach if you guys need her this is not a plug definitely doesn't pay me she um she her and I were pregnant at the exact same time too we had babies like oh yeah yeah yeah so I always like follow her feet as like you know mom

kind of at the same stage as where I am. Yeah. And no, she's like really solid. She's amazing. I think about that podcast often. Like her words resonate. Yes. And she's so well spoken.

She should be Ellen. She really should. She should be Ellen. Yeah. She should take over for Ellen. And that, but I can like be the comedic relief. So I'll feed her like jokes into her ears. But she's like the good person.

You'll be the DJ. You'll be Twitch. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Great idea. Great idea. I like your idea better.

It should nominate her. Yeah. Like call like, Fire the. NBC I have I've actually reached out to Ellen show like to to get Aaron on before I was even on the show because that's one of your like boss moves would be like getting on. I know you were on Ellen tube. I was on Ellen tube. We're still on this. I've got my toes wet. The old toes in the water with Ellen too. Don't you know? But yeah. You should go on the game of games. I feel like I got to play it cool now though because Ellen now like if she's not go on the game of game. If she's ever. If she's ever. If she's ever. ever heard of me she knows how desperate I am to meet her so now I'm like that's okay if I don't meet her I don't really like yeah right no but she totally doesn't listen hi Ellen hi

you're listening stop Ellen maybe someone at her work does and they tell her Caitlin is so desperate she talks about smelling your hair because I do because I do is there any more questions for me that's all oh oh that's it yeah I'm like I guess I do share too much information on everyone's like I'm pretty sure we know you really well you're an open book um so where can everybody find you guys guys you women uh we're at style for the privy on instagram privilege clothing dot com to shop and maybe we'll make a little off the vine promo code oh do it off the vine 20 you can get 20% off great idea um all capitals so off the vine actually we'll do o tv 20 keep it simple o tv 20 i'll write that yeah write that down do that write that down and then why are you writing

down i'm going to have to make the code i'm going to tell you i'm going to remind you um um And then tune in to our podcast every Tuesday as well. Priv Talks were on iTunes, Google Play, and on the podcast app. Yeah, you guys are funny. I did two podcasts with you guys and I enjoyed every second. They were so good. Highlights. You were our first ever podcast.

Oh, yeah, I was. Our first other, that's a pretty like boss way to kick off a podcast. That was fun. I had a lot of fun on that one. Like if you guys are going to listen. I put you on my shoulders, remember? Oh my God, yes. Your shoulder ride.

I did. Yeah, it's on Instagram. There's proof. It's on the group. that was fun yeah we had wine i got in your shoulders yeah and then we went to nashville and podcasted with rick and donna which was i was gonna say we can't podcast with them now because jonah's not here and then i'm like wait donna doesn't talk there are you know what there's not many things in life i enjoy more than rick and donna really they're they're good they're really

solid i've only heard one person who doesn't like rick and don't know and they're my friend and i don't talk to them anymore i was going to say like that's like one avenue that you probably never get haters. Yes, no, never. No haters. And even if it is, they're like, either they're so gross. And I'm like, that's funny. They are so gross. I'm like not insulted at all. So guys, just a quick sponsor review. Brightsellers, 50% off your first box of four bottles delivered to your door, brightsellers.com slash off the vine. Daily harvest, three free items in your first box. If you go to daily dash harvest.com with promo code vine. Omaze, double your chances of winning while giving back omaze.com slash podcast with code vine and Walt Disney World plan your next getaway

Disneyworld. Disney.com and Amazon keep the podcast free while you shop. Go to Amazon.com slash shop slash Caitlin Bristow. All my favorite stuff's up there and I keep adding to it. So check it out guys. I always try and end my podcast with a joke lately and I'm I wasn't prepared today. I usually have jokes in the back of my head. I'm like Googling, panicking right now and I got nothing. Do you guys have good jokes? Um, I don't. Come on. What do you call Katie?

A Kit Cat. Kit Kat. My mind's in the gutter. Google a Kit Kat joke. Yeah. Oh, okay. Kit. Break me up a piece of that.

That's Kik Kat. Okay, I feel like I should totally agree with a vagina. Bailey, Bailey sends us a text on, was it Saturday or Sunday night when you're like, hey guys, what did you say? How did you, you were like asking us if we could do the podcast today to plan for it? You were trying to coordinate it? I don't think we're thinking about the same thing.

What are you thinking of? I don't know you keep going and then you're like guess what and I was like you're getting married I was like I have a confession but I'm not telling you and you're like you're getting married I'm like no I always joke that Bailey's not going to come up with my boyfriend she's going to be like come and have been also she's going to be married she's getting married any uh any single guys out there I mean I think they're going to go for the kit cat yeah that's true I would too step up my game I would definitely go for the kit cat okay well I got to think of a joke oh knock knock who's there nobody nobody who

I saw got that one from my uh friends three-year-old so take take that and do what you want with it uh yeah drops the mic that's all I got we're definitely ending it on that one thank you for having us oh you're so much thank you thank you for being so inspirational and hilarious and just doing what you do everybody go by Happy to be here. Red Rompers, can get your period in it. I'm Caitlin Bresto.

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