Off The Vine with Kaitlyn Bristowe - Shawn Booth II

Episode Date: June 19, 2017

Kaitlyn's fiance Shawn joins Kaitlyn in the studio for a second round of behind-the-scenes Bachelorette stories. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Now here's Caitlin. Welcome to Off the Vine where I, Caitlin Bristow, drink wine and talk, which, I don't know, I feel like it's a lifestyle and a part of my brand. And overall, just kind of a dream come true, I guess. You can laugh over there. Yeah, so I don't know, I feel like it's a gift that I get to, like, drink wine and talk and, you know, God gave it to me. I signed for it and the world keeps on spinning. That was a family guy joke. Classic.

Classic, Caitlin. Today I had a guest lined up who, unfortunately, backed out on me last minute, but that's totally cool. I'm not mad. Don't worry about it. I'm not worried about it. I'm also extremely flustered and tired

and just got off an airplane, so sorry for my... Actually, I'm not sorry for this voice. It's kind of sexy. Like raspy. But we have the old faithful back in the studio. Back in the saddle. Back in the saddle.

Sean B. back by popular demand, but not really. because I had my guest backed out. Just kidding. Yeah, I didn't realize I was a backup. Backup Bobby. That's what we're going to call you from now on. B-U-B.

Bub. Bob. There it is. That's your new nickname. I like it. Did I ever tell you about my nickname in high school? I think you had a few. The main one that all the guys called me?

Yes. I can't think it off of my head, but I know what it has to do with. Caitlin, no breastos. Yes. Listen, that's great. It's terrible, but it is a good nickname. Hey, I'll take it. That's funny.

thinks these things are big that's okay nobody's nobody's lying i forgot to pour my wine sometimes i just like to hear this sound i'm shaking because i'm not i'm all flustered because i was flying and the plane had to land in kentucky instead and refuel and i love kentucky but i never knew that they had like a big commercial airport there for a plane to land yeah i well i've never that was my first time in kentucky Love Kentucky You really? Yeah Love it

That was my first time I didn't enjoy it so much We gotta go back there Kentucky Derby We gotta go Oh yeah That's okay yes That's on our bucket list

What were we just saying Oh see I'm so flustered I feel like I'm not organized I thought somebody else Was gonna be talking to me In the studio today I'm not prepared for you We have new nicknames I think we've established

My new nickname is Bob And yours is Caitlin no breasto You don't even know how to say Caitlin You can just say no breastos if you want Restos. I'm not even insulted. I dig it.

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and I feel like there's been so much going on in the world, but more importantly in the bachelor world. A little, a little something going on in paradise or not going on anymore in paradise. So we'll get to that later in the show. So, yeah, I've been gone. How is your week? Not that we haven't talked, but how's your week? What happened? Tell me about it.

My week. How was my week? I missed you. I missed you, too. This is the first time I'm seeing her in how many days. I don't know, but it feels like a long time. It was like three. Got her straight from the airport, straight into podcasting.

My week was good. Yeah. Would you do? Actually, no, it wasn't. Did you have a big house party while I was gone? Yes, I did. Just clean up all the beers. We got all the strippers out of there.

Thank you. So the house should be good when you get home. No stripper residue left over? Nope, none. Thank you. Actually, last week was bad. It was a rough week. Oh, it was a rough week for you.

It was. Tucker. It was a rough week for the fam. It was. Our dog was extremely sick. Yeah. And we had to rush him to the vet multiple times. And then we thought he was getting better.

He took a turn for the worse. And it was pretty heartbreaking and terrifying. I was also sick at that time. Yeah. And then... And I was gone, just crying. And you were gone crying. And then I started having some pain in my leg.

Yeah. And it swelled up. Long story short, it was hurting for a few days. I was with my dad. We're like, you should probably get checked out. So I was like, okay, I'm going to get my leg checked out to be on the safe side. And then I go to the doctors. I take x-rays.

And a few hours later, I get a phone call saying, hey, it's doctor so-and-so. I hate to be the bear of bad news, but your leg is broken. Oh, yeah, that was broken, which is so devastating because you're training for an iron man. Yes. And you've put in so much work and time and discipline and effort. For months. To find out that your leg is broken. What's the doctor from the Simpsons name?

Remember when they're like, hi, doctor? I don't know. I'm not a Simpsons guy. Oh, big Simpsons guy, and I can't think of it. But he's a terrible doctor, and that's what I want to call. Yeah, that's what this guy, he should be on the Simpsons because he was terrible. He said my leg was completely broken. One bone was fractured, like five millimeters.

Like, and he's looking at the x-ray. Looking at the x-ray. And then he also said, he could say here. When I was with him, he was like, I'm going to send these to a specialist. And then I'm going to call you after the specialist. So a specialist looked at it. And so like, yep, legs broken. Got to go to orthopedic.

And basically you can't train anymore. And then I'm, you know, upset. We got City Strong. I do personal training. Fitness is my life. We know. Super bummed out about that. Tucker's sick.

You're gone. I'm sick. That's a rough week. Rough week. But then I was like, okay, I'm going to go get this looked at again. Yeah, thank God Two or three days later I have no swelling

My leg is fine And I go to a doctor They take x-rays And they come in the room And they say Just kidding Yeah, they say Come over here

Like who took your x-rays In the first place I was like I don't know Some guy up in Connecticut He goes yeah Check this out No breaks

No fractures Nothing you're good to go Get a load of this All right All right all of a sudden My leg felt great It's like Yeah your mind

Exactly Oh my gosh So I thought I had a broken Leg for a few days And I was limping around I was all upset I was like babe My leg's broken.

Limping. And then all of a sudden, the doctor's telling me it's fine, and I'm, like, running out of the office. It's crazy what your mind does to you. Oh, well, that's a good lesson. You can keep that in mind next time your mind plays tricks on you. That is. Yeah. Poor Tucker.

Oh, man. I'm like, yeah, your leg, yeah, blah, blah, blah. But Tugger. I'm just kidding. He had a rough, rough week. Yeah, well, yeah. That's so sad. And I felt like I was so far away.

Well, I was. You had a bachelor party. Yes. You had a golf tournament, breaking your legs. Yeah, I did it all. Being a single parent to Tucker while he's sick, paying the vet bills. Those ain't cheap. Rough week.

But? For Bub. Is that going to stick? I hope not. It's not the new Sean B. No. No. Yeah, my week was pretty good.

Thanks for asking. Yeah. I was just taking a sip of water. I was going to get to that right after that. How was your week? Tell us. It was pretty good. Where'd you just flying from?

Like, we fly and travel so much. That you don't even know where I'm coming from right now. Like, she just came from the airport, and I'm trying to remember where she was. Toronto. Oh, yeah. Oh, Canada. How was that?

How are the people up in Toronto? They're awesome. I can't believe, like, I always, well, I mean, everyone in Nashville is super friendly, but every time I go back to Canada, I'm like, oh, you little sweet nugget Canadians. But isn't it true that there is a big difference between the East Coast

in the west coast. I'm sure like the U.S., but in Canada, like the Toronto people are... Like Ice Cube and Dr. Dre? More like Biggie Smalls and Tupac. Right, that's what I meant. Yeah. Big rapper guy over here.

Yeah, I can tell. No, but the people in Toronto versus the Vancouver... You're so American. Toronto. Toronto and the Vancouverites. Yeah. Vancouverans. What's the word for Vancouver people?

I should know that. You should know that. Vancouverites. Vancouverites. And the Toronto Tittians. Toronto Tidians. Tarantans Or we're going to

bleep that one out Toronto and Torontoians Yeah Tehranians But isn't it I feel like Is it the West Coast

More super laid back? Yeah Everyone's kind of like Like it's like hustle and bustle In Toronto and everybody's go go And they mean business Where in Vancouver they're like I guess I should walk my dog

And take a yoga class And then head to work Which is in my home Out of my home office And smoke Because every time I'm in Van Gogues Vancouver I smell weed on all the streets yeah that's true yeah no that's they're legalizing weed everywhere in Canada by the way I think they're doing that everywhere guess where

we're moving just kidding yeah you're acting like you're a big weed guy I'm really not big wine guy not a big weed guy yeah but back in my 20s why do I always bring up my 20s do you hate that we don't want to go there every time um okay so we both had good no no you had a bad week I had a good week. Yes. But that only means that things are going to turn around and get better. That's what they say. I'm so positive. Yes, you are. I thought maybe we could play a fun game. I like games. Do you? You don't like games as much as I do. I don't like, I mean, you love card games. I don't love card games. Why? How can you not like a card game? Is it because you have a little bit of ADD? Yes, I think so. I think, I mean, I love playing games, but when I'm sitting there with cards in front of me,

I'm just not really entertained. I just get bored, I think. I think I have to burp. I'm not going to let it out. No, it's okay. Fun fact, she can't burp. She doesn't know how to burp. That is a, is that a fun fact?

That's fun. Weird fact. Yeah, that is. I don't know how to burp, but I make these weird, like, teradactal noises. Try it, let's hear it. It's like a backwards burp goes in instead of out. You got to get one out on this mic right now.

Okay, wait, let me have it. Sip a wine. I'll try and take them. Big swing. But please. talk so you don't hear me swallowing this so right now i'm going to give you a visual kately bristowie is consuming a glass of what do we have over there rosé pinot noir pino noir rosei she just took about four gulps well because i'm trying to give you one of my fake burps oh did you hear that no my throat

just me gosh we are really entertaining nothing but class over here burping in the microphones Would people expect anything else, though? No. Stop drinking your water. You're going to have to pee like you always do. I do. Well, then why don't you fill me up a glass of Pino Noir? Do you really want some?

Sure. What? No, Iron Daddy. You can't. What were we just talking about? A game. Oh, yeah, you don't like card games. That's so bizarre to me.

Growing up... What? No, go ahead. Growing up... Growing up, we always played games. Like, that was our thing, our family vacations, and even, you know, when we even go home to visit anybody, we're playing cards.

Right. I love it. It's like a comforting, happy memory. I just love it. So it blows my mind that you don't. And it kind of makes me sad because I would love to just sit and play cards with you. No, I know. And I love, I do love playing cards, especially with your mom and Rob, which we always do,

her mother and her stepfather. Big card guys. Big card guys. But growing up, I never played cards that much. And especially going to, like, parties and drink. we were more about strip poker yeah yeah strip poker those are cards by the way and uh beer pong oh yeah beer pong beer die and that's fun though because to me that's like i'm moving i'm doing something athletic i just can't sit down in one spot and look at cards well that's really

unfortunate here it is oh no you psyched me out i was gonna do it um tune in to new episodes of little women la on wednesdays at nine eight central on lifetime this This season, we delve into the ashes to see which friendships have emerged unscathed and which ones are still smoldering for our favorite L.A. women, Tara, Tanya, Christy, Brianna, Jasmine, Alanna. With so many changes happening for the women, their lives and relationships are becoming more complicated. The girls are focused on their growing families while forging career paths and making time for themselves and their friendships. It's clear that some of these ladies are doing a better job than others, and that starts to divide the group. As if the

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I was trying to jingle. If I had a nickel, if I had a nickel, if I had a nickel, hey, hey, hey, hey. I think I ripped that off from a little of a whistle. Hey, hey, hey, if I had a nickel, hey, hey, if I had a nickel, hey, then I would have one nickel. What's up? So you're not good at math either. But we did kind of nail that same course. Yeah, how did we both know to say two haze there?

I don't know. Up top. Down low. High five. Air high five. Okay, so the game is, if I had a nickel, we're going to, I'm just going to go back and forth with you. Okay. Off the top of my head, things that people say, and we'll just go back and forth.

And everyone that's listening, if you've ever met us, you're probably like, damn it, I totally said that. Yes. You want to go first? Yeah, I'm going to start. It's my podcast. Just kidding. Duh. Just kidding.

Okay, if I had a nickel. Ew, too skinny. Ooh. That's a rough one. I get it all the time. And the ew. The ew. The ew.

But I'm thinking of more of like what people say to you in public. Oh, I'm thinking everything. Oh, everything. If I had a nickel, you too skinny, I would have a lot of nickels. And there's also a lot of people that say, oh, you're so tiny. Yeah. Is that your next one? No.

My next one is, so I get this a lot. when I'm in public. You look like Ryan Gosling. No, I don't get that. Yeah. I get, Hey, where's Caitlin? Yeah, sorry.

First of all, am I allowed to go out in public without my fiance? Nope. Second of all. Thanks for playing. Yes. Oh, yeah, she's down at ExxonMobil right now

off of Church Street if you want to go say hi. Like, they always ask me, where are you? What are I going to say? Yeah. Oh, she's back at home. Here's the address. Go tell her what's up. Do you get that a lot?

I do, yeah. It's like, where's Caitlin? Oh, yeah, totally. I totally get where's Sean all the time. Yeah. Okay. What's Chris Harrison like in person? Oh, that's a good one.

Yeah. We get that a lot. Yeah. And our answer is always, he's a big beauty. He is. Okay, next. Hey, can you tell Caitlin I said hello? Yes, Cindy, I just met 12 seconds ago.

I'll tell him that Cindy from Baggage Claim 4 just said hello and hope your day is going well. Yeah, but that's, oh, what if Cindy's listening? She's like, oh. I always tell him, I say I'll tell her. And I do. I got a text about 20 minutes ago saying that Blake said hello. Yes. I just made that.

You did. Why Blake? But there are times where I'll go home and I'll joke to her and I'm like, hey, Jennifer. from panera bed said hello i'll be like ah panera jennifer what's up um okay is your dog's name tucker or doodle fun fact his name is tucker doodle actually his last name's dog middle name doodle dog tucker doodle dog it used to be it was his when i first got him i named him romo after tony romo from the dallas cowboys don't tell people that he was that was his name for 24 hours and i saw all the hate and the slurs that he was getting for having the name of Tony Romo.

I was like, I can't. Well, you had a big fan base back then, just letting you know. I can't, I can't do this. The poor guy, so I named him Tucker, and then started calling him Tucker Doodle Dog. Little did you know, there's so many Tucker dogs out there. I know, and I thought it was a unique name. Yeah, well, so did I when I named my dog growing up, Mandy. Okay, you go.

Go for you. Um, here's another one. Okay. I absolutely love Caitlin. You see any trends here? Am I responsible? I swear, this is all the time. Everywhere I go in public.

And I'm like, yeah, I love her too. Oh, I like that. Keep it up, peeps. Keep it up. But I'm, even, okay, when you're alone, that's really funny. It's funny. It's funny. Because, yeah.

And I'll mess around people sometimes, too, when they say, hey, where's Caitlin? I'm like, Caitlin. Who's Caitlin? Oh, you mean my business partner? And then they're like, oh, they must be broken up. Oh, awkward. Somebody commented on my photo the other day. They're like, you haven't posted with Sean in a while.

Are you guys done? I'm like, what? You posted six pictures without me and were broken up. Yeah, that's it. That's how you know these days. Okay. I know this is annoying, but can we take a selfie? I know this is annoying.

I know this is annoying part is so funny because people always start with that. I know this is annoying, but. but you're going to anyways which we don't mind it's just funny that it always starts with I know this is annoying I know this is annoying

my favorite thing to do is when girls are taking sneaky photos because guys don't care girls take sneaky photos and then I'll purposely like oh you can't see me I'll like shift

out of the way and like hide behind someone just so you know that I know that you're taking the photo yeah we always mess with people that too we should start an account called you're not sneaky and post their photos yeah that's the thing there's a lot of

obviously there's phones everywhere and when you're pointing your phone directly straight up but pretending like but also making eye contact with us too nobody texts like that though no unless you're taking a photo that's right okay go for you go for you now are we talking about tweets or anything anything that you hear if you had a nickel If I had a nickel, hey. If I had a nickel, hey, hey, if I had a nickel, hey, then I would have a nickel. What's up? We'll get it.

We'll get it. Oh, another one. I mean, I get this one all the time. Oh, boy. Do you really hate Nick? Oh, gosh. Yes, obviously. You're like, I also hate Jared.

I also hate anyone that kiss my girl. Yeah. It's like, no, I don't actually hate Nick. A. B, why are you talking to me about my fiancé's ex-boyfriend? I know. If I could ask you, we always play with people too, like, how's your ex-boyfriend or how's Yeah. People are like, oh, do you still talk to Nick?

It's like, well, I don't talk to Jared. I don't talk to any of the guys that I dated on the show. Why do we pick up that one? Because it was like the final two. I know. It's like two years later and I still have to hear about my fiance's ex-boyfriends. All the time. Good stuff.

Which is so funny because you only have one ex-girlfriend that, like, you dated for so long, and I never have to hear about it. But if I do, I'm like, al-la-la-la-la, I don't want to hear about it. Exactly. Not very fair, but. Not fair at all, but, hey, that's the world we live in. It is the world we live in. Okay, here's one. My wife would kill me if I didn't get a picture.

That is good. Guys, that's the only time guys ever take a picture or say anything is it's for their wife. And I'm like, don't you lie. You love the show. And we love when dudes come up and take pictures. Like, it is hilarious because as most of you know and probably most of the listeners, it's female. 96% female, right? So whenever there is a guy, like, it's hilarious to me.

Yeah. And they'll come up. And the best ones are the ones who just own it. Like, hey, man, I love the show. Yeah, that's the best. I love when people own it. Are you the best bachelor ever? Can we take a picture?

Like, yeah, hell yeah, awesome. Yeah, I love when people own it. Most of the guys are like, my girlfriend would kill me, my mom would kill me, my sister would kill me. Hashtag, if I had a nickel. If I had a nickel, hey, if I had a nickel, hey, hey, if I had a nickel, hey, then I would have one nickel, what's up? Okay, we got it. All right.

And let's never do it again. Never. Until the next time you're in the podcast studio with me and we play the game. Okay, go for you. Go for you. Oh, is it? Oh, you just did it? No, I just didn't.

You know, a tweet that I see a lot, too? What color is my lipstick? Yes, the hat. Anything that Caitlin's wearing, people want to know. Real fashionista over here. Not. We're going to take a quick break, but before we do, I have something really delicious to talk about. Are you having a girls' night, and you need a little something to pair with your cabernet,

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Do you guys have jobs? Whoa, you guys are still together. My wife makes me watch the show. Relationship goals. Goals. Anything goals. Anything hashtag goals. Eat a cheeseburger.

You are so much better looking in person than you are on TV. Oh, yeah. People say that all the time too. That's a good one. And then I'm like, oh, oh, here's one that I'd like to explain. When people say like that I'm smaller or like, oh she got so skinny i'm like well you know what on the show i go from the bachelor to the bachelorette i am drinking a lot more than i do now no no you know on the show you start

drinking yeah yeah like like 7 a.m sometimes you're like well how am i going to get through this one well i'm going to be sumo wrestling today with 600 pound japanese man so i'm going to start drinking Yeah, you can't do that. Well, I mean you can, but you have drinks. And time just is not a thing in the bachelor world. Right. You don't know what time it is. You don't care.

Go on. You also have a lot of downtime, too, where you're just doing nothing. And it's not like you can go watch TV or have a nap. Yeah. I mean, we can talk about drinking a little bit later. Yeah. But I get what you're saying. Like, you went from taping.

Oh, yeah. Yeah, that's what we were saying. Taping for 12 weeks or 11 because he got dumped. Sorry. No, that's not a touchy stuff. I just acted like I cared. Yeah, that's, I was, you know, you eat whatever is there. In the Bachelor Mansion, there's like jars of candy and Oreos and like terrible food everywhere.

And then there's like, oh, well, let's make margaritas because it's 9 a.m. And it's a Tuesday and Taco Tuesday, which means margaritas, which means. any excuse to drink obviously and for the cooking in the house for the ladies yeah did you take part in that were you like because i was not the cooker which is so crazy because i love cooking ashley s oh boy yeah you guys trusted her with a stove okay she's actually such a good cook and i love i love her to death yeah one of my favorite people i think i've ever come across in my life and she would i remember one time we came home from the zombie date Oh, there it was.

Did we get that? I kind of held back a little, too. Dang, I should have let it. Should have let a rip? Rip. Rip. Always. There it is.

We came back from the zombie date, and, like, if anyone recalls that zombie date, it was pretty entertaining. You had the best line of the season. Which one? Oh, yeah. The noodle? Because we were paintball. Yeah, it was paintball. How do you say that?

We're using paintball. And she just, like, started going in front of everybody and, like, it was actually terrifying because she'd just, like, swing her gun towards us and we're like, no, no, don't shoot. And then I said she shouldn't even be holding a wet noodle. Which is great. Now, did you come up with that? Oh, she just gave me the death stare. Like, you better believe. Because we've had that conversation before.

And I'm like, you don't get me. Like, I know I'm a joke stealer, but I will totally own it. Oh, she's so serious right now. I can feel like a vein in my neck coming out. She's staring at me. Like, she's got her arm. like her fist pumping. Yikes.

Because I really like to take credit for if it's my own line. Right. So we know the producers on the show, a few of them, they'll kind of help with lines. Sometimes. The show is not,

it's not scripted by any means, but they'll help you like with. Not even help. They'll like, be like, it's like this, right? And then you say it and it sounds like your line. So I would be a producer

sitting across from Caitlin. And so an example, what I was thinking might have happened would have been like somebody saying so katelyn do you think that you can't trust ashley enough to even hold a wet noodle and then you would say i can't even trust her enough to hold a wet noodle exactly no but i actually remember being so proud of myself for that one and a few of my one liners on there like i said at one point that i wanted to punch kelsey right in the teeth holder that's a solid one that's not a producer what about the uh didn't you

also say with like the the shark tank one yeah actually i told her i wouldn't be mad if she got her period in a shark tank wow she but that's my humor and she knew it so she wasn't offended she's like good one that is a good one and everybody knew i was joking with all of my turps but um what i was getting at was she was the cook that's actually yes wow little off topic oh yeah that that was bad um but that's so classic every podcast i do i'm like What was I even just talking about? Where are we? What's going on?

She was the cook, but that's what I'm saying. Like, I would just eat for convenience on that show because I was like, oh, it's just such a big job to clean up after everybody and cook for everybody. And so I was all about convenience. So I packed down 10 pounds. I did. I gained 10 pounds from being on The Bachelor and The Bachelorette because you're not on a proper, like, diet.

Not that I like the word diet, but you know what I mean. I'm not eating properly. there's no gym in the mansion you're not working out if you are you're really hardcore you probably found like some sort of yeah me it was uh ben z who's a personal trainer and justin who's a personal trainer and so we would um we all worked out in the backyard yeah see we like jillian on my season was a big workout guy she would always do that but i was like convenience alcohol and like minimal sleep into the bachelor's season which i did the same thing so that's now what's 12 plus 12 just kidding so that's like 24 no more of like just eating and drinking whatever

I want not working out I gain 10 pounds and then I get engaged to Mr. Fitness and start working out and being extremely knowledgeable about nutrition and health and being healthy and then I go back to my like normal weight and everyone's like ugh eat a cheeseburger I'm like no I'm really healthy and I do eat cheeseburgers you feel good I feel great cheeseburgers and you eat cheeseburgers and you eat cheeseburgers and you eat cheese burgers all the time they're my weakness yeah love a good cheeseburger love pizza she eats it all and she still stays fit thank you mom and dad for those genetics exactly yeah it's tough to stay on um a routine a routine especially with the food uh i mean i usually eat six meals a day when i got to that mansion we weren't eating much i don't know what it was like it's stress you

have it's the adrenaline you have so much adrenaline you have so much adrenaline you don't get any sleep like I always say if I had more than four hours of sleep it was a good night and plus in the mansion I was in this tiny tiny the tiniest room in the mansion with six of the biggest guys yeah and they keep you in your beds until you get sent up there you go yes nice up top but they keep you in the mansion with your suitcases until you like you can't switch beds so in my room you kept on giving all of us roses there's something about that room And I was on the top bunk And it was terrible

And I had a room With some pretty brutal people Name names Name names name names No we don't want to do that We don't want to get it Oh yeah just kidding That's stupid

So stupid So stupid So anyways I moved my bedroom Out to the pool I slept on the couch Yeah I did that a couple times too I slept outside every night

And so did Josh Albert He slept on the couch Across the way And it was gorgeous out there Yeah And they'd wake me up every morning by turning the fountain out on the pool. But, baby, you know there's snakes out there.

There is. I saw one. Yeah. I was running in the back and I saw a snake. Yeah. And I almost pooped the old pants. Poop the old pantaloons. I was going to say pantaloons.

I blew it. Get on my level. Get on the same page as me. I love, like, remembering the good, funny, like, little behind the scenes stuff. And someone said, I did, like, an interview with entertainment tonight after I did my last podcast with Spidey and um big time over there well yeah i am thanks thank you for noticing um and they were like are you always going to spill behind the scenes and i'm like well not too much but people enjoy hearing those little fun details and it's not like i'm ruining anything for anyone it's

just so funny like the behind the scenes is the best part i wish there was like a whole other two hours a week just to show like bloopers and funny things that went on because Think about it. You're being filmed for, like, 18 hours a day, seven days a week, and they're only airing like an hour and a half a week. Not even, yeah. So it's, there's so much funny things. Like, what's your funniest memory on the show that they didn't air?

Oh, actually, well, talking about the snakes. Remember the guys were chasing me around the backyard with the snake? Wasn't that on camera? It was somewhere, yeah. But I remember being upset as a season was going on and they were showing mostly serious. Okay, I'm getting too comfortable. I'm getting too comfortable. Yeah, I'll stop.

That's enough. That's enough. Be a lady, Caitlin. Go on. I was getting upset that they weren't showing a lot of funnier clips and like bloopers. And we had so many. They filmed this whole day with me and Ben H. When you were on a group date in Texas.

Me and him were the only guys at the house because that's when you say they're one-on-ones. And we were doing all this crazy, crazy, funny stuff. Yeah, I remember you telling that. Yeah. Like what? What's your crazy story, man? Oh, man. You guys like eating potato chips and cheeseburgers?

We were like doing push-ups and no. Yeah, well, they filmed us like working out. I thought crazy meant you took a day off from push-ups and you actually had a few bruise. Brewskies. Well, we did. Teddy bruskees. And Rick is coming out over there. Only halfway through.

That's fine. Oh, you know what one of my favorite parts was that they didn't. show what when cupcake chris ramburg got eliminated and they knew how close of buddies we were so they had me do this dramatic exit because we had a we were all sitting in the hotel in ireland and then chris harrison walks in and then everybody's like oh my god and it's funny it's so funny because you get like so serious and you're so scared and he's like gentlemen yeah katelyn is taking this very seriously and she has decided to let chris go and then he just like walks out of the room

and everybody's like oh my god and he's like pack his bags up yeah I was like and they're like pack your bag or you have to pack his bags anyways we packed his bags he's a big dentist they had me walk in the room with a thing of floss and like I had to act like I was all upset

and I walked up to his suitcase his room was empty just a suitcase and I like did the sign of the cross and like put his floss on the suitcase and, like, kissed it goodbye and then, like, slowly walked out of the room. Oh, man. I didn't show it, though.

Well, they should have. Even in the bloopers, I'm like, I just wish they could have such a long hour of bloopers. No, longer, like, a week worth of bloopers. They could have a whole other show. Oh, which I think would be hilarious. Yeah. Okay, wait a second.

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get out of here hashtag blessed the sumo date so that's like three weeks in maybe anyways i remember that day as one of the most intense days on the show why because it was like you I didn't, I made you wait. I didn't give you on the first dates, rather dates. So you, that was your first date. So you're probably pretty nervous, hey?

Uh, yeah, very nervous. Yeah, I think what the general, uh, rule of thumb is, if you get the first impression rose,

you usually don't get a date for the next week or so. You're acting like I've done more than the, no, I don't, I don't know. Okay. Well, anyways,

we had these 600 pound Japanese guys, wake us up at eight in the morning with a gong. I was supposed to be there, but I slept in. Yeah, obviously. You are so late to everything. Every date.

That we had... Well, it was stressful. We'd have to... It was like, all right, you gotta hurry up, you gotta get there. And then you'd wait for hours. Well... And it's like our one-on-one date was cut so short. Not because of me.

But it was late because of you. They probably just blamed me. Go on. Go on. So that day, I think the motions were starting to get pretty intense. We did... I mean, because I'm like, where am I? I'm like, where am I?

I'm sumo wrestling right now in a diaper in the middle of L.A. Mm-hmm. we go and we had a great date great date I spent most of the time just talk I was yeah I did I did good that day you did great I couldn't stop talking I actually think I was like wait I need to I need to back off a little bit I'm probably being really rude to everybody else yeah that I mean if you look at it I think you probably were oh that makes me well no I mean well I was just going in hard like when everybody was sitting there and I was loving every second yeah that's what you got to do in that situation when everybody was sitting there

there waiting to wrestle. I mean, I just made sure... He's so fidgety. I know, I get nervous talking about it. I just made sure that I was talking to Caitlin like the whole time and just flirting with her. And then the match ended and I threw her up on my back and walked out of there. Yeah, we've flirted hard.

Yeah. And then that night was... Can we flirt like that again? Yeah, I'll put you on my back on the way out of the studio. Overdone. Outplayed. And then, so I'm like, okay, this is going good. had just sumo wrestled.

I didn't, I kicked cupcakes butt in the ring. Oh, you did. Yeah. And they cut it off because it was, well, thinking about it, you got a bunch of guys. We got cameras on us. I had to go check on him after because you slammed. We were going hard. Yeah, they had to cut it off.

Like, this is over. You guys are going to hurt one another. So then that night was the date at the hotel. Yeah. That was a good night, too. Yeah, except I got super mad. Did they show this? I don't even remember it.

I'm like, well, well, what? I don't even remember my season, but I remember I got mad at somebody and they were rude. And I was like, I got no time for this. And I told you, I'm like, just bear with me a second while I just send these guys back. Yeah. And then we got a little long time. Yeah, I was just saying how intense that day was because that was like, emotions were getting real. And then I was starting to.

And then I was starting to watch you kiss other guys, which is all part of the show, right? But it's like you can't. It's terrible. You can't prepare yourself for that. It's like you're sitting there and you're having a great conversation. And then you turn around. It's like, oh, man, this is show. was nuts. Where am I? And I'm like, I feel so bad because that is part of the show and that's obviously I'm like trying to like date all these people. But I'm like like as much as it was hard for you, I'm like I felt terrible. Yeah. It's not easy for anybody involved. It's just anybody involved. It's it's a lot harder than people think because we're not characters. We're real human beings. Yeah. I feel like we should touch on The Bachelor in Paradise just because it's going on and we're part of. We're part of. We're.

of that world but I just I don't even want to get too much into it because I feel that we don't know we don't know the truth we're only reading what we read in articles like Perez Hilton and who knows like where they get their info from and everybody has a different side to the story and like it's just so sad that this stuff has to happen yeah it's it's really sad for everybody involved Everybody. Especially like you just said, nobody knows what actually happened. And everybody's just jump into conclusions. And you don't want to have sexual assault or whatever it is.

Even with any situation. You don't want to see that with anything. So, I mean, I don't know who's in the right. We don't know who's in the wrong. And we don't want to jump to conclusions. And we don't want to jump to conclusion. But the sad thing is that that's what people do. So this is like serious news too.

It's everywhere. It's everywhere. talking about it and everyone keeps texting us being like what do you know and I'm like don't believe what you read don't just jump to conclusions wait until you hear it straight from the source and even when you do you still don't know what truly happened and only those people will right and I keep reading different things and in my head I'm trying to wrap my head around it and it's like I can see every single side of every story every side of every story I'm like oh I could see that happening Oh, I can see that happening.

Yeah. Well, I would assume that there's a lot of cameras there. There's a lot of cameras. There's a lot of alcohol. There's a lot of sexual tension. There's a lot of everything going on. And I just, I know we both feel the same way that we just hope everyone is like, okay, mentally and physically and emotionally. And it's just such a terrible situation that, I don't know, I'm just sad for everybody.

very sad do you think it takes a hit on the bachelor franchise in a negative way going forward yeah because i think it brings up conversation of when does it go too far and how much alcohol is involved and should people step in and what are people's roles and is it the people's mistake if they drink too much because they should know their limits or should other people be more aware of what's going on in the situation and and step in it's i think it's definitely going to cause a lot more conversation about what goes on in that world. But also I'm like, I always try and see every side and think of every possibility. I'm like, I hope it doesn't ruin it for everybody because you can still find love on that show,

obviously. Right. But also that probably might be a conversation that people need to have and knowing your limits. And maybe that'll make everybody a little more aware and cautious. Yeah. I feel like it could possibly change the format of the show. Imagine they cut out all alcohol from the shows. Well, that's a thing.

That is such a big part of the show. It is. And it's not like we're forced to drink, but it's readily available everywhere you go. Nobody's shoving it down your throat. You should know your limits, but also it's very available and you're vulnerable and you're... You're in a crazy situation. But what about, you know, having time alone now? What do they do about like fantasy sweets going forward?

I was thinking the same thing because then people can... I could say that, hey, I'm not trying to make jokes or like we went in the fancy suite with no cameras. Right. And then somebody could come out there and make a bogus claim. Yeah. It's like, how do they stop that now? Yeah. I know.

It's definitely a game changer. And I think we both just hope the same thing for everyone that everyone's fine and that things can move in a positive direction and everything is fair. But it's probably not. And we'll get sorted out. Yeah. And plus those, those contracts that we signed to. Yeah, that's. I mean, everything's laid out there for it.

Right. Like, I remember signing it being like, you know what? This is all on me and my responsibilities. And, and I agree with the contract. You have to do that. You have to. Um, I think that's enough. Yeah. I don't want to get too deep into it.

I just, we obviously have to touch on it. We're part of that world and the batch of family is. much as before anybody jumps the conclusion it's like i mean i would just keep your opinions to yourself and not try and trash these people because who knows what they're going through and again they're not characters they're real people yeah and i saw their social medias oh it's terrible so bad no it's heartbreaking i wanted to just like lip off everybody and stand up for everybody and miss lippy thank you very much miss lippy okay well good i'm glad we got our two cents out there before we continue i just want to say that sending flowers has always been the best way to show someone you

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Wait, what, isn't it? I don't know. Yeah. Time flies when you're having fun, babe. I guess so. Word on the street. Do you have anything else to say? No.

I feel like you do. Go on. No, I could talk all day. I know. Well, that's, we're probably going to spend a long time together in our life, so you'll be bad. Yes. If you have anything else, other topics you want to talk about, I'm all ears. You just tell me, babe.

This is my favorite when we don't have phones and we're just hanging out. I'm just the replacement guys sent across the room. Bub. You're just bub. Are you taking questions now from fans? Well, I did kicking it with Caitlin, but obviously people just want to know about both of us. My favorite is that you might get so mad at me for this. Why?

Oh, boy. That's an evil laugh. Tara Lee wanted to know, like, when's the right time to get an anniversary gift? Like, do you do it every six months? Do you do it every year? What are your thoughts on anniversary gifts and giving? for let's be honest yeah um i think it should be celebrated annually and what do you mean annually like every year is that what annually means yes that does you learn something new every day

um i'm a little confused about the anniversary especially our anniversary okay there's a lot of this is why i picked this question i'm like i'm nervous over here you're sweating yeah there's a lot of dates that we have it's what the first night we met is it the first is it when we got engaged that night well i think you know the answer is it uh when it was shown when we got engaged is it i wouldn't i would not take our anniversary when we met i well we've celebrated an anniversary is it is it when i said i love you is it no i think it's i think we decided that it was when we got engaged and we're like that'll be our anniversary because that was that was like the true start to our relationship.

Okay. So when we get married... Then we'll have a new anniversary. So you just completely get rid of the old anniversary? This is a thing. We're not the only couple that just goes through these steps. People celebrate now their wedding anniversaries. I mean, that's pretty confusing.

You got one date that you're celebrating for years. You're making excuses. And then you have to do a new date. Let's just put it out there. Sean B is one of the sweetest, most thoughtful. You really are very sweet and you have a very good heart. And you're very thoughtful and sentimental, and you create memory jars for us, and you add so many things. You're very good, but let's be honest.

You forgot our anniversary this year. Well, I mean, if you want to put it that way, I don't know if I'd necessarily word it that way. I've never seen you. I've never seen you. It's so nervous. It's okay. I was a little upset, but you also, you made up for it. You're very busy.

You're training for Iron Man. And I also was like kind of sneaky about it where I was like, I'm not going to bring it up. I'm going to see if he remembers. Oh, man. To be fair, my girlfriend, Kersh was like, Katelyn, don't do that to him. I don't even remember my anniversary and we've been married, blah, blah, blah. And I'm like, oh, yeah, she did stand up for you. But you were so sweet to me all day and you felt so bad.

Tell him how it went down. I'm not going to bleep or can we bleep? I don't know. Your words were funny. So we woke up and it was our anniversary and... And this is weird because usually I'm the first person to wake up and like she, it takes her a while to get going and so... I was like bright-eyed, bushy tail at like 7am.

Hello, you up, you up, yep, yep. Yeah, I think you woke me up and I rolled over and she's like sitting up in bed like completely awake, which I've never, I don't think I've ever seen from you. Okay. And yeah, you can tell the story. I was like, what are your plans today thinking he'd be like, well, it's our anniversary, babe, it's all about

us and spending time. And he goes, I got a five-hour bike ride. I got a run for two hours. Probably got a TikTok, blah, blah, I'm like, okay, well, it's our anniversary. So if you'd like to look to your right, there's presents, blah, blah, blah. And I got like,

framed picture saying like two years, 24 months, all the math. Caitlin and Sean and a card that was really sweet. Yeah, it was pretty heartbreaking because when she first said it's our anniversary, I was still kind of half asleep and I was like, what? I'm like, do I play along? Like, I know that it is.

He was like, babe, I know. I know. I'm like, please, just be honest with me. Yeah, she's like, be honest. Be honest with me. I'm like, and like I roll over and then she's like, hear your presence. And I'm like, oh, my God, she got me present. And then your exact words were.

I don't know if they can bleep or if I just shouldn't say it. I think you can just say it. You said, wow, I am a huge piece of shit. I said that. And I was like, well, as long as you know. But then the whole day you were so sweet and you made it up. And I really didn't give you that heart of a time. Maybe later, like weeks later, I'm like, remember that time?

You forgot our anniversary. I have a good feeling I'm going to be hearing about this for the next 45 years. No, but now you'll never forget an anniversary again. I will not. And you said you're going to make it up to me and I'm still waiting. Okay, next question. I picked this because I liked her name at Becca Doodleton. Solid.

How do you find good respectable guys to date in a city where you don't know many people? I'm like, girl, online dating is a thing. Can't you like Tinder and find guys around you? I've never Tindered I was on Tinder very shortly Like a week Yeah That's okay

Babe I get it That was a long time ago I get it I was never on Tinder So I'm just judging you Yeah and I don't think that that's a good spot To find the relationship Oh you don't

Well my best friend found her husband out of it She did Aren't there other dating apps There's so many dating apps And you can find people in your city And I feel like you can't judge anyone On how they meet anymore like you don't have to find someone in your city even like long distance is kind of a blessing

get to do your own thing hang out once in a while um is that a good answer that's my answer and it's kicking it with kailin so what would kately do i just make up two segments into one um at i never know how to say any tyranny um wants to know how you cut ties with someone you have love for but it's not working out have you ever broken up with somebody Like, I know you had a long-term girlfriend, but like that you were just dating and you, like, how do you say it's not you, it's me? This is kicking it with Caitlin, not kicking it with Sean. I feel like when you just have to be honest. That's the only thing you're going to hurt the person, but you're also going to hurt them if you stick around and you're doing them a disservice to hang out wall.

Why are you looking at me like that? I'm not good at advice. Why did I do this segment? It's great. This is fun to watch. Well, I'm just all about the honesty. Truth bombs, shock value. Hit them where it hurts if you have to.

Just be honest. Next question. Really good. Okay, this is first and last time I do. Marin Loke. I never know. And I feel like I'm... Could be Locke.

Somebody forgot to put the E on my last name at the softball tournament the other day. I was so offended and I can't even pronounce people's names. If you could drink only one type of wine for the rest of... Your life, what would it be? Red. That's it? Yep. Red one.

Stephanie Rose asks what techniques I use for confidence and self-love. I mean techniques, therapists. Those are all the same these days. Same shh. No, I actually highly suggest going to a therapist. I think it's so, well, therapeutic. It's right in the word. I'm not against it.

I think it helps a lot. I think age and just like figuring out who you are, like I say in all of my podcasts, my 20s, I didn't, I mean, I had confidence, but it built up over the years and learning and just trying to be exactly who I was without worrying about what people thought. And that's how I met you. So I feel like, look, it worked out for me. Just be yourself. And that's how you're going to find the person that you love, too, is if you're completely 110% yourself. Exactly. And the only thing that could take your confidence away is other people.

Yeah. Right? So don't listen to outside. That's why social media is so hard is because you can totally take away your confidence by just being on social media. And I've been better about not scrolling because I think it affects every human being out there. But you know what? Kicking out with Kaelin. What a success.

All right. One of my better segments. Well, make sure you don't miss an episode of Off the Vine by going to podcast. Cast 1.com or subscribing to Apple Podcasts, the Podcasts one app, and pretty, pretty please rate this episode and leave your review. We love to hear your feedback because that helps me do a better podcast the next time. You to best. Thanks, Sean. B. If I had a nickel, hey, if I had a nickel, hey, if I had a nickel, hey, then I would have one nickel. What's up? I almost said five cents. Then I would have one. What's up? Okay, I'm Caitlin Bristow.

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