Ologies with Alie Ward - Dolorology (PAIN) with Rachel Zoffness
Episode Date: November 10, 2021PAIN. What is it? Where does it come from? And how can we hurt less? Which hurts more, a kidney stone or heartache? Why does chronic pain persist? Can we turn down our pain dials? To answer these huge... questions, pain psychologist Dr. Rachel Zoffness enthusiastically explains the brain, pain and how to retrain it. She is an unabashed neuronerd and a ray of hope in a field that is misunderstood, neglected and under-explained. A true life-changer of a person. Follow Dr. Rachel Zoffness on Twitter and InstagramHer Pain Management Workbook on Bookshop.org and AmazonHer website, which has a resource page with a ton of free info: zoffness.comA donation was made to The Trevor ProjectMore episode resources & linksSponsors of OlogiesTranscripts & bleeped episodesBecome a patron of Ologies for as little as a buck a monthOlogiesMerch.com has hats, shirts, totes, masks… Follow @ologies on Twitter and InstagramFollow @alieward on Twitter and InstagramSound editing by Jarrett Sleeper of MindJam Media & Steven Ray MorrisTranscripts by Emily White of The WordaryWebsite by Kelly R. Dwyer Â
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Oh, hey, it's that smoothie cup you should have washed yesterday.
Alleyboard, back with an episode of oligies, you will, let's get into it.
Dolorology.
Dolor means pain in Latin.
Dolorology, it's the study of the nature and management of pain.
It's a real thing.
As it turns out, the folks who study it are pretty fired up about talking about it.
And it turns out a lot of listeners are like, I have questions.
So this allergist reached out to me, told me that her mission as a neuroscientist is
to help people feel better.
And I was like, well, how the hell can I turn that down?
So I happened to be in the Bay Area in October following my new husband's new knee surgery.
What's your pain scale on a pit scale, one to 10?
Um, four, three, four, is that bad?
Four?
That's kind of a lot.
Three?
No.
I'm not doubting you.
I'm just saying that sounds painful.
And after we battled some Friday afternoon traffic, we arrived at this allergist's Oakland
office with Los Angeles style punctuality.
And then we settled into our couch to chat pain.
Turns out she knows her stuff.
She has long brown hair.
She was wearing knee-high boots.
She has a very youthful exuberance, but a CV that slaps, metaphorically speaking.
She is a working pain psychologist and assistant clinical professor at the UCSF School of Medicine.
She is on the pain education faculty at Dartmouth.
She's the co-president of the American Association of Pain Psychology.
She's a psychology today columnist about pain and the author of the pain management workbook,
which might be the best $20 you can ever spend other than ski ball, which is also fun.
This might be better.
But we will talk about all of this in a minute, plus questions from the folks at patreon.com.
I have never received so many questions for any episode.
It's great.
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But for $0, you can send this episode to someone.
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That really helps the podcast.
I read a new one each week to prove that I read all of your reviews.
Thank you, Thelma Burrito, for the review you just left that said, I was coming down
from a psychedelic high on Wednesday and I felt like I needed to hear something comforting
while relaxing in my sweats and fuzzy socks.
I put on the episode on sparkletology, fireflies, and I don't know if it was the sparkly imagery
Allie's voice or the sheer fact that I live in a world where someone would make content
just so we can learn about things we would never otherwise learn.
But I cried out of gratefulness.
Thanks Allie.
Thelma Burrito.
Thank you.
Okay, dolerology.
Pain.
What is it?
How much does it hurt?
Why do some people have more pain than others?
How do pain meds work?
Do redheads feel more pain?
How long does it take to change your brain?
How much pain training do doctors have?
And is there a better alternative to that placard of miserable emojis that they have
on the walls in the hospital?
All this and life lessons with pain psychologist, researcher, professor, author, mental health
advocate, and dolerologist, Dr. Rachel Zoffness.
We're only 44 minutes late.
Oh, okay.
Okay, first thing I'm going to make you do is if you can say your first and last name
and your pronouns.
Oh, yeah.
No, go for it.
No, you can sit on the floor.
It's like we're hanging out in a dorm room.
Rachel Zoffness.
Rachel Zoffness.
She-her.
Got it.
Dolerology.
It's a thing.
It's a thing.
Okay.
How long have you known this word?
The honest answer is since I decided I wanted to be on allergies.
I'm not kidding.
I was like, I know there's a word because I do pain psychology, which is an allergy.
But I study pain science and pain neuroscience, which is outside of psychology.
And there's a word for pain science, which is dolerology.
What's the worst pain you've ever been in?
Oh, wow.
The worst pain I've ever been in, I had chronic pain as a kid and I was always, I had like
constant abdominal pain.
But as an adult, I also had a running injury and it lasted for five years and I was like
on the couch for the better part of a year.
So that was probably the worst one.
What do people say hurts the most?
I've heard kidney stones.
I've heard birth.
I've heard shingles.
I've heard bullet ants.
How do psychologists figure it out?
So the honest answer is this.
People are trained to ask people about their pain on all these pain scales and there's
a lot of pain scales out there.
And the most common one is out of 10, what is your pain on a scale of zero to 10?
Yeah, I just did that to Jared outside for probably the 100th time since his surgery
two weeks before.
And the funny thing is, and it's actually not funny at all, sometimes people will say,
my pain is a 10 out of 10 and it will be something that a healthcare provider will think should
not be a 10 out of 10.
So the healthcare provider will say to the patient, well, imagine someone taking off
your arm.
That would be a 10 out of 10.
And now tell me what your pain number is to try and get that person to lower the number,
like sort of suggesting to the patient, like, oh, you're exaggerating.
But in my mind, what's work, like, can you do anything worse to someone who's suffering
than say, like, the number that you gave me is inaccurate?
The answer is the most annoying answer in science, which is it depends.
So for one person, post surgical pain might be a six out of 10 and for someone else it
might be a 10 out of 10.
So I wouldn't say that there's like any one thing that is the worst kind of pain.
That's a good answer.
And when people are studying how sharp pain is, how do you even know?
That is all you have.
There's absolutely no other way to measure pain other than what someone tells you.
So if someone says their pain is 10 out of 10, that's what their pain is.
The end.
I mean, that's also why it's really hard to compare, like you can't compare your pain
to my pain.
Like you break your ankle, I break mine.
But if you're a 10 out of 10 and I'm a five out of 10, it's not like one of us is lying.
Like your pain experience is unique to you.
And as a kid, as someone who experienced chronic abdominal pain, which I cannot imagine is
one and a running injury for five years, were you in a position to choose your career
at that point when you had a running injury where you're like, you know what, I'm going
to change my major.
When did you decide I'm going to crack this code because you are super passionate about
this.
Yeah.
You're like, I looked up the word for this.
I wrote a book about this.
I want to talk about it.
Where does that passion come from?
So when I was in college, I knew I wanted to live at the intersection of a bunch of
things.
Like I was fascinated by neuroscience and psychology and science writing and working
with kids and medicine.
And I just, I wanted to find this thing that would let me live at the intersection of everything.
And I took a course, a neuroscience course in my freshman year at Brown because I was
a nerd.
Like to be clear, I was like a library mouse, had no friends in high school, total, total
nerd.
And in neuro one, which was the best class I ever took, they taught us about pain.
And it was the thing that seemed to live at the intersection of everything.
Because as I'm sure we're going to talk about pain is never purely physical.
It's also emotional and it's not located in the body.
Ultimately, it's produced by the brain.
So pain is in the brain.
Big revelation here, much more on that in a bit.
So and it's this thing that goes across psychology and medicine affects adults, it affects kids,
it had affected me as a kid.
So when I went to do my honors thesis, my mentor, who's a dear human being who recently
actually not so recently passed from cancer said to me, there's this researcher here who
studies pain, you should see if he'll take you on as a mentee.
And he did.
And under his tutelage, I did this long honors thesis on the gate control theory of pain.
And I just thought it was so dynamic and fascinating.
And, you know, everyone has pain at some point in their life, right?
And when you're a college student, you're still young, but as an even younger person,
I had already struggled with pain.
So I was so fascinated by this intersection of all the things.
So Rachel will explain the gate theory of pain in more detail later and how essentially
kissing an awi does a sweet neurological sleight of hand, kind of like a cool bat mitzvah magician.
But in terms of her backstory, doctors off got her bachelors from Brown University in
brain and behavior, two masters, one in psychology and education from Columbia, one in clinical
psychology from San Diego State, and then her PhD in clinical psychology from University
of California, San Diego.
Somewhere in there, she took a year long break to teach science at the Bronx Zoo because
she's rad.
Anyway, she became a doctor and as a postdoc after I got my PhD in psychology.
I did my postdoc in pain management and it was non pharmacological approaches to pain.
And I just went back down that rabbit hole and it was just so interesting to me that
there were all these ways of treating pain that don't really get talked about in medicine
or at all in psychology, like if you're a psychologist, you never learn about what we
call physical pain.
Never and physicians very rarely get talk about talk about the psychological aspect
of pain.
So when I did my postdoc, I started doing trainings on pain.
I just, I wanted to know everything.
I read every book I could get my hand on literally.
I spoke with a million people.
I took a million classes and then I decided that I wanted to start treating pain.
And in particular, I wanted to work with kids living with pain when I first started that
I really, I mean, I was trained in adult and child psychology, but I felt like in particular
teenagers get ignored a lot in medicine.
It's just this really messy, weird age.
They're not quite children.
They're not quite adults.
So I want to focus on them.
So I went to UCSF and I offered to do some trainings for free on these non-farm treatments
for pain and how pain works in the brain.
And in all these departments, for some reason, they let me come and give a talk to their
physicians before I knew it.
My practice was full of kids living with chronic pain.
Yeah, but Ali Ward, the first, like one of the first kids they sent me.
Can I tell you a story?
Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm here for.
One of the first kids they sent me was a kid who had been in bed for like four years with
chronic pain.
Yeah, he had chronic migraine, chronic body pain, like diffuse amplified body pain.
He had been on about 40 medications, including thorazine.
Okay, I want to do like an hour long aside on thorazine, but I'm going to make this snappy
instead. I'm going to put it in bullet points.
Invented by a French doctor in 1952 to help with pre-surgery anesthesia was also used
as an anti-inflammatory.
Now primarily used to manage hallucinations and mania and some symptoms of
schizophrenia, but it's also been prescribed for everything from behavior
problems, ADHD, to barfing, to hiccups.
Now, if you're like, why does thorazine sound like a superhero made out of
electrified muscle?
Well, the lab that marketed thorazine named it after the Norse god of lightning
and hammers, Thor, to reflect the reverberations that would roll across the
medical world as a result of this revolutionary new drug, their president
said. So yes, anyway, thorazine, the thunderbolt of psychiatric drugs,
sometimes striking where it was not needed.
Like knocks them the F out and this is a child and he was on thorazine for his
pain and it would knock him out for days at a time.
So he wasn't going to school.
He wasn't seeing friends.
He wasn't functioning.
It was wild.
He had seen like more than 15 physicians and I had been reading.
There's all these like protocols for treating chronic pain in both adults
and children and I had worked with a number of other patients, but I had
never worked with a kid who had been in bed for four years and I, I almost
called the referring physician to say, I can't do it.
Like if you guys can't do it, I surely can't.
I like, I almost called them to send them back.
But instead, like the kid was so hopeless.
He showed, just to describe him to you, he showed up at my office.
He had like long, unwashed hair.
He was like overweight because he hadn't moved his body in like a number of years
and he was rocking himself back and forth on my couch with the pain.
I asked him if he had given up hope and he said, yes.
So I made the decision to lie to him.
Yes, I know it's a dubious decision.
And I said, I can help you, but you have to do everything I say.
And I knew, I mean, especially as a pain psychologist, nobody wants to go
to a psychologist for pain because pain is sold to us as this purely physical
or physiological problem.
And if you go to a psychologist, the popular thought is, oh, they're saying
it's all in my head or they're saying my pain isn't real or I'm faking it.
Right.
But that's not true.
There's, there's all these treatments that are evidence based for pain
that are non-pharmacological.
So I said to him, I can treat you, but you have to do everything I say.
He said, okay.
And we went through this cognitive behavioral therapy protocol for pain
management, which is now what I live and die by.
And we started out doing very small things.
At first it was like, just stand on your porch in the sunlight every day.
And even that was hard for him.
And we did like a lot of work together.
So then it was like, walked the corner mailbox and mail a letter.
And, you know, and he was doing PT and OT at the same time.
And then it was like, can we get a tutor to help you catch up in school?
It was like small bits of activity, small goals, and really pacing him
to desensitize his brain and body.
Within three months, he was getting back to life.
He was doing jogs around the block.
He did get a tutor.
He caught up with friends.
He eventually went back to school in soccer.
Wow.
Yeah.
And, and the more he did, the more he realized he could do, the more his
brain desensitized, the more his body was able to function and he was able to
get back to life and his pain remitted and his anxiety and depression did too.
And he actually graduated from high school a couple of years ago and he
invited me to come.
Yeah.
So I went to his graduation and this kid, he got on stage and he said, if you
had told me four years ago, I'd be graduating from high school.
I never would have believed you.
We all cried and he went off to college and is like swim captain.
He still has pain episodes, but he knows exactly what to do.
And he's never going to be that kid who's in bed for four years ever again.
No kid ever needs to be the kid that's in bed for four years.
Ever.
The way we mistreat pain just drives me nuts.
So I think that really drives me.
I think I went on a tangent, like maybe a long one.
That's beautiful.
So before we learn how pain psychology works, let's just be, be back it up and
address the fundamental question.
What is pain?
Right.
What is pain?
What is it?
And how much is it?
Yeah, mind, how much is it body?
How much control do we have over it?
Like you're asking amazingly hard and awesome questions and I'm going to answer them.
So you can ask 40 different people and you'll get 40 different answers.
And I'm going to try and squish all the things together and make it as
like digestible as possible.
So if I don't do a good job, I'm going to rely on you to call me out.
So pain is your body's warning system.
By that, I mean it exists to protect you and save your life.
So I remember learning in this dorky neuroscience class that there are people
who are born without the ability to feel pain.
Yes.
And I remember thinking that sounds delightful.
And then our professor said, yeah, and they don't live very long.
Oh, fuck.
Right.
Cause if you imagine you put your hand on a stove and you don't take it off, you
go for a run and you break your leg and you just keep running because pain is
actually your body's danger detection system.
But like every system in the human body, the pain system can fail.
So one of the biggest errors we often make as humans is believing that just
because you have pain, it means necessarily that a body part is damaged or broken.
And that's not always what pain means.
You can actually have pain without damage in a particular body part is what
we've learned.
And that's what chronic pain is, believe it or not.
So pain is also adaptive.
Again, it's this thing that saves your life.
It is also this word that I'm going to use that I've been told I shouldn't use
because it's confusing, but I'm going to do it anyway.
Biosychosocial.
Okay.
Yeah.
What does that mean?
Pain is biopsychosocial.
So what that means is 100% of the time, whether your pain is acute, which means
short term, so any pain, three months or less or chronic pain, which is pain
that's three months or longer or beyond expected healing time, your pain lives
in the middle of these three bubbles or domains that I'm going to call.
So one is biology, biological sources of pain.
One is psychology or psychological sources of pain.
And one is social or sociological.
And I want to say what that means.
So if you imagine a Venn diagram, so there are these three bubbles that overlap.
And in the middle where they overlap, that's where pain lives.
Okay, pay attention.
So doctors off is going to break down the three sources of pain, starting with biological
in the middle of these three things.
So the biological components of pain are the things that you hear about all the time.
So it's genetics and tissue damage and system dysfunction and like immune
functioning and sleep and diet and exercise.
And those are all very important when it comes to pain.
We all know that.
Yeah.
However, if you think about this Venn diagram, if you're only focusing on the
bio component of pain, you're actually missing two thirds of the pain problem
because we know that pain is this biopsychosocial phenomenon.
And I promise I'll explain why.
But then there's this, these, all these psychological components and all these
social or sociological components.
And the problem with pain management is that we focus just on the bio,
which is pills and procedures.
And a lot of people with chronic pain will confirm that it doesn't cure their
pain because it's focusing just on one third of the problem.
So, so here is the second source of pain and also where I freak out in the
psychological domain of pain.
We've got, believe it or not, thoughts because neuroscience tells us that how
you think shockingly affects how you feel.
So, right.
So if you imagine that you have this like, if you imagine you have like this
pain volume that lives in your brain, this pain dial, when you have anxious,
stressed out and depressed thoughts, pain volume actually gets turned up.
So the things you think affect the way your body feels a hundred percent of the
time, then in the psychological bubble, we also have things like trauma.
Because trauma a hundred percent of the time also amplifies pain.
There's these great studies called the ACEs studies, adverse childhood
experiences, and they have shown that kids who have had adverse experiences,
and by the way, adults too, who have trauma, it also amplifies this pain volume,
this pain dial.
So if you are someone who has had pain in childhood or in adulthood, chances
are you're going to be more susceptible to higher pain or end or developing
chronic pain.
And in the psych bubble also, there's memories.
So there's a part of your brain called the hippocampus and it stores all of
your memories and there's a dedicated portion for pain memories.
So the first time you were held down and given an injection as a child,
your hippocampus stores that information.
Why?
It's adaptive to remember the things that are painful because those things
might save your life.
So memories also affect pain.
There's also emotions.
Emotions also affect pain.
That seems not even intuitive, but research also shows that how you
feel emotionally affects how your body feels.
And we all know that, right?
Like when you're depressed, your body feels heavy, your muscles feel sore.
It's just like harder to get off the couch, right?
Cause emotions affect the body too.
And then there's coping behaviors also in the psych bubble.
And coping behaviors just means what are you doing to manage your pain?
When you have pain, what do you do?
So some people, including me, as I mentioned for a year, will stay inside
on their couch, not exercising, not seeing friends, not moving.
But what we know is that that's going to amplify pain also.
Okay.
So those first two bubbles were biological and psychological.
What is the third bubble?
And then there's the social or the sociological bubble.
And that's everything else.
So socioeconomic status and access to care.
I mean, if you're not talking about that, are you really talking about
healthcare at all or pain or disease?
Race and ethnicity and racism in particular.
What does that do to your stress system?
And how does that affect your pain?
There's also friends and family.
Like, do you have a support network?
Do you feel like you're connected socially or are you isolated?
Being isolated or being socially supported affects how you feel all the time also.
So all these things together, as you imagine, like human beings are these
complex animals with all these things going on.
And they interact all of the time to affect your pain system.
That was a long answer to your question.
No, it was great.
It was visual.
Oh, and a fascinating fact.
So the definition of pain has recently been changed to reflect those social
and psychological components.
So a 2020 piece in the Journal of Orthopedic and Sports Physical Therapy explains
that the International Association for the Study of Pain has updated its
definition of pain for the first time in four decades and that the original
definition of pain was, quote, an unpleasant sensory and emotional
experience associated with actual or potential tissue damage, which was
criticized for being too focused on actual tissue injury.
And so the shiny new updated 2020 definition of pain is an unpleasant
sensory and emotional experience associated with or resembling that
associated with actual or potential tissue damage.
So now pain does not need to be associated with actual injury.
So Dr. Zafnis says the new definition leaves much to be desired, but it is
an improvement upon past disco era definitions.
But yes, right in line with her three sources of pain and really different
from this foggy jumbled mess that I thought pain was, which is now painful
to listen back to.
And I never knew that there were three aspects of it.
I would, I picture pain.
I picture you have this nerve that looks like a thread and it has an injury
on it and it sends out electrical pulses that make your cells twitch.
That is what I would think pain was and it's not accurate at all.
Right.
But that, that makes sense.
A and B, like they have done all this research that shows you do have
receptors in your body that respond to things like touch and temperature
and like no, susceptive input, which is like potentially dangerous input.
But what they've discovered is here's like this really cool, really nerdy,
fun fact is that pain can't possibly live exclusively in the body.
But we all think that we all think like, well, if I have back pain, that
means definitely there's something wrong with my back, right?
Or if I have knee pain, that means that the pain lives exclusively in my knee.
But here's how we know that pain does not live exclusively in the body.
There's a condition called phantom limb pain and phantom limb pain is when
someone literally loses a limb, like an arm or a leg, and they continue to
have terrible excruciating pain in the missing body part.
So if you can have excruciating leg pain in a leg that isn't there, that has
to mean that pain is produced somewhere else.
And that somewhere else is the brain.
So you definitely have these receptors in your body that are communicating
messages up to your brain.
And your brain is always sending messages back down to your body.
It's definitely like a two way street.
They're always working together.
But the part of your body ultimately that constructs pain has to be your brain.
And how do you know of those three bubbles?
What is the biggest contributing factor?
Like if you have a slipped disc in your back and that definitely hurts versus
if their x-rays show nothing, but there is chronic pain.
How, how do you know how to start to address it?
Here's the answer.
So the answer is all three things are always contributing all of the time.
And yes, in any given moment, something in any one of those bubbles might be
like activated or up, but they're always, all three are always acting all of the
time.
So there's always this like recipe for pain, whether it's high or low.
And the recipe always a hundred percent of the time includes all three bubbles.
But, but you're right, right?
So with acute pain, which is short term pain, it is usually a message that
there's something going on with your body that you need to check out.
Right.
So like, for example, let's say someone has knee surgery.
There, you bet your ass, your body's going to be giving you all of these messages.
Something's wrong.
Like some, and yes, you, someone has just sliced into your tissue.
Yeah.
And you're healing, but so with acute pain, yes, you want to check that out and
find out what's going on with your body.
It's a little bit different with chronic pain.
And I'm going to tell you why, but to go back to your original question.
If we don't address all three things, we're not ever addressing pain.
So if you imagine there's this like common analogy, if you stub your
toe on a day you get fired, you've just lost your income and you don't know if
you're going to be able to afford your rent.
When you stub your toe, you're going to be cursing and screaming and it's
going to feel awful.
If you stub your toe and you're out with your friends eating ice cream, you're
out in the sun, you're having a lot of fun.
It feels qualitatively different to you.
Your brain interprets the message differently depending on circumstance,
environment, how you're feeling emotionally, where you are, who you're with,
what's happening, how you interpret that, the sensation.
So, so the answer is even with acute pain all the time, all those things are
working in concert.
So like if you go to a children's hospital in the ward, you'll see there's
like murals on the wall and stuffies on the chairs and there's a reason for
that because when you help people feel safe and calm, your pain system is going
to feel better too.
It's going to be like less on alert and that's true with adults also.
So whether acute pain or chronic pain, all the time, all the things are
always working together.
And what about the biological methods that we have right now?
Like how does aspirin work?
How does leave work?
How does ibuprofen work?
How do opiates work?
What are they blocking?
Cause sometimes that absolutely blows my mind that I can take something and a
migraine will go away.
A hundred percent, absolutely.
Yes, that is totally true.
And all the medications work in different ways, but they target receptors in your
brain to block what I'm going to call pain messages.
So yes, chemically, it's pretty complex, but just think of pain relievers
fitting and locking into places and thus just ruining the vibe of the pain
messages, real cock blockers.
But what's really interesting to me about opioids, by the way, and all these
medications, but opioids in particular, cause there's so much talk about opioids
and pain is that opioids work on an endogenous receptor in your brain.
By that, I mean, you already produce a chemical in your brain that opioids
imitate and they're called endorphins.
So when you've heard, if you hear of like a runner's high, after you go for a run,
your brain produces this opioid substance called endorphins.
And so opioids bind to that receptor.
So it's true of all medications.
Whenever you take a medication, it's binding to a receptor in your brain for
a chemical your brain already makes.
And side note, we're going to do a whole episode in the future on
methodology, which is the study of opium and opiates, including the epidemic
of opioid addiction.
But yes, medicines have pluses and minuses depending on their use.
And I also need to be very careful and clear with, so I am in no way anti
medication, like I'm like a person who's like, thank God that opioids and other
analgesics exist for post surgical pain and things like migraine and all the
other horrible things that happen to human beings, like super helpful, super
wonderful and very important.
And simultaneously, because pain is so mistreated in our country and because
there's such poor pain education in medical school, in psychology programs
and nursing programs across the board, we completely and utterly mistreat pain.
And people are told that medications are the only answer.
So people living with chronic pain oftentimes feel really helpless and hopeless
because either their medication is being taken away from them, or there's
like a lot of controversy around it, or, or they feel like they don't have other
options or alternatives.
So, so thank God for medication and it is not the only answer and controversially.
And like, I'm going to get in trouble for saying this, but I'm going to say it anyway.
The problem with opioids for pain.
And by the way, this is not like I didn't make this up.
This is just what research shows.
Over time, opioids sensitize the brain to pain over time.
Yeah, there's a whole, there's, it's a sensitization syndrome.
It's a well known established fact.
Google opioid induced hyperalgesia.
It's like a closet just stuffed with items, but instead of umbrellas and
bowling balls falling onto your face, you're just going to be covered in
studies about pain and opioids.
So doctors off explains.
So actually what happens over time is that your brain gets more and more
tuned in to the sensory messages coming from your body.
So if you ever try and go off, of course, you're going to feel awful and terrible.
And again, I am not anti opioid.
I'm not anti medication, but it seems important for people to know that long
term their brain is going to get extra sensitive.
Now, what about someone who is experiencing pain?
Let's say it's chronic.
Let's say it's ongoing.
Where do you even start that CBT or something that is non pharmacological?
Like, do you just do like a pain check in?
Do you just sit and try and figure out like what hurts where and why?
Can I answer your question in a sort of backwards way?
Yes.
So chronic pain is its own animal.
It's considered its own disease process.
So here's what happens with chronic pain.
So to answer your question, the first thing that I do is I explain how pain works.
And I always ask people who come to my office who have been in pain for like 10 years.
Hey, has anyone ever explained how pain works to you?
And they're like, no, 100% of people say no, which is so wild to me.
Like I've had pain for 10 years.
People will explain how the liver works, but they've never explained how pain works.
That's crazy pants.
So, so we've established that pain is constructed by the brain, of course,
in conjunction with the body.
We've established that acute pain and chronic pain are different.
They work differently.
There's receptors in the body, but the brain is always working with all of the
information to decide whether or not to make pain and how much with chronic pain.
Here's what happens.
So I'm going to ask you a question.
Okay.
Have you ever practiced anything like any skill that you were bad at and you
practiced it and you got good at it?
Absolutely.
Give me a thing.
Ukulele.
Oh, that's the best one.
Yes.
Great.
Great.
Have you noticed with the ukulele, like eventually your fingers sort of know what to do?
Yeah.
Yeah, absolutely.
And I can go faster on a song.
I never have played in front of anyone.
It's just something I do because it's fun to do alone.
You know, if I had known that, I would have demanded that you
brought your ukulele.
No, you can't do it in front of everyone.
But yeah, and I can, and I can think about the song before positioning each finger.
Yeah.
So totally.
Right.
So I'm going to say it back to you a little differently in like the neuroscience nerd way.
Okay.
The pathways in your brain are like the muscles in your body.
The more you use them, the bigger and stronger they get.
So if you said to me, Zofnis, I want huge biceps.
I would say Ali, of course you do.
Go to the gym and lift weights a lot or like actually be isolated at home, whatever.
Yeah.
Lift weights a lot and over time, your biceps will get big and strong.
It's the same with the pathways in your brain.
The more you use them for any particular thing, the bigger and stronger they get.
So the more you practice ukulele, the bigger and stronger the ukulele pathway in your brain gets.
Like you could hear the notes, your fingers know what to do on the strings.
You know how to position them instrument.
And that's with practice over time.
Guess what happens when you inadvertently accidentally practice pain over and over for
weeks and months and years.
Oh, same thing.
The pain pathway in your brain gets really big and strong.
And when that happens, we say that your brain has become sensitive to pain.
What does that mean?
That took me a long time to figure out how do you explain that to someone?
What does that mean that your brain is sensitive to pain?
What it means is that small bits of sensory input from your body are interpreted by a
sensitive brain as very big.
So like dogs are sensitive to smell, right?
Or sense.
So if a dog came in here right now and sniffed around, they would pick up on the sense that
you and I can't even detect because their brain is sensitive to smell.
So with pain, when your brain is sensitive to pain, it means that you might have little
bits of sensory input coming from your body that are not dangerous, that are not dangerous.
But your brain is going to amplify it and tell you that it's dangerous.
And that's what pain is.
It's this big danger response, this big danger warning message that actually is
inaccurate and that's chronic pain.
So the system, one of the systems underlying chronic pain is this process.
It's called central sensitization.
And it doesn't underlie all pain, but it explains a lot of chronic pain.
And to me, it's so fascinating to be able to say to someone, Hey, the chances are really
high that your brain is hypersensitive and it's overreacting.
And it's not your fault, but it's giving you these danger messages when in fact, your
body might not be in danger.
So, so for example, with fibromyalgia, which is a chronic pain condition, you can go for
a picnic with your friends and be sitting outside and be in terrible pain.
But is having a picnic with your friends dangerous?
And the answer is no.
But your brain is producing these danger messages and telling you you should go home
and isolate and be alone and not move and not see your friends.
And that is a big fat lie.
And if you listen to your brain and you do those things and you go and isolate and
you lay on your couch for 40 years, you are not going to get better.
So the treatment for chronic pain is the total opposite of what you think it is.
Your body and your brain are telling you, isolate, stay home, don't move.
And the treatment for chronic pain is like, um, my metaphor is like, if you've
ever been in a dark room and someone opens the blinds a little bit and you're
like, ah, close the blinds.
I can't see because your brain is sensitive to light when you've been in a
dark room.
Yeah.
But if you sit there for two minutes, your brain desensitizes to the light and
then you're fine, right?
And if they open the blinds a little more, you're like, shit, close the blinds.
I can't see.
And then eventually two minutes later, your brain desensitizes, you're fine.
Treatment for chronic pain.
And that's what cognitive behavioral therapy is, by the way, is helping
someone's brain and body desensitize to little bits of stimulation, a little bit
at a time, until like someone who's in a dark room, suddenly you're in a room
full of light, gradually little bits at a time and your brain and body are okay.
So that's the treatment, but you're, you're not going to buy into the
treatment unless you understand the science.
So that's why it's so important to me to always lay that foundation.
And is the amygdala at all involved in this?
Like is anxiety and fear, is that a big part of pain perception?
Yeah.
Ah, had a feeling old Amy up there.
Fucking shit up.
100%.
Yeah.
To help us.
Yeah.
Okay.
So crash course and pain neuroscience, pain, neuroscience one or one.
Here's how it goes.
Ready?
Okay.
I'm so ready.
Let's hear what parts of your head are being a literal pain in your ass.
So there's lots of parts of your brain that contribute to pain with some things.
It's like, oh, there's just one part of your brain, but with pain, it's a
diffuse neurological process.
And what that means is there's lots of parts of your brain that contribute to
this experience we call pain.
So I'm going to tell you a couple of parts of the brain.
Okay.
One is your cerebral cortex.
Okay.
Your cerebral cortex is the part of your brain responsible for thoughts.
Thoughts contribute to pain all the time.
The second part of your brain is your prefrontal cortex.
And that's the part of your brain responsible for executive functioning and
attention, what you're focusing on, what you're thinking about.
And the third part of the brain is your limbic system.
Yes.
Your limbic system and your amygdala is a major part of your brain's limbic system.
And your limbic system by the by is your brain's emotion center.
And here's what this means.
That means that a hundred percent, and I'm not exaggerating, a hundred percent of
the sensory signals that come from your body filter through your emotion center
before they become this experience we call pain.
So people always ask me, do you treat physical pain or emotional pain?
Like, oh, you're a pain psychologist.
That's so weird.
And do you treat physical pain or emotional pain?
And the answer is always necessarily yes.
Yes, because pain is always physical and emotional.
It's filtering through your limbic system.
It's filtering through your emotion center before it becomes this
complex experience we call pain.
So yes.
So now I want you to imagine, we sort of touched on this earlier, that you
have what I'm going to call a pain dial, like the volume knob on your car
stereo, and you can turn it up and down.
And it lives in your central nervous system, your brain and your spinal cord,
which work together to control all the shit, including pain.
Yeah.
So here's how this works.
Lots of things can change pain volume, whether it's acute pain or chronic pain,
whether you've had it for five seconds or 10 years.
Lots of factors change pain volume to turn it up and down.
So three things I want to tell you about one is stress and anxiety.
Always changes pain volume.
Oh, no.
I know, right?
During a pandemic.
During a pandemic.
Chronic pain during the pandemic went through the roof.
Opioid related overdoses went up 40%.
Calls to suicide hotlines went up 8000%.
Oh my God.
Dude, people are suffering.
People are really so people in pain because of all this neuroscience
we're talking about, it makes sense, right?
So stress and anxiety.
Thing two is mood and emotions always change pain volume.
And thing three is attention or what you're focusing on.
So I'm going to tell you specifically how this works.
So, so again, that was stress, emotions and attention.
When stress and anxiety are high and your body and your muscles are tense
and tight, which is what happens when you're stressed and anxious and your
thoughts are worried, your brain sends a message to this pain dial,
turning up pain volume.
So whatever pain you had before, when you're stressed or anxious, like you
just lost your job or it's a pandemic or like whatever you're stressed out
because you're fighting with your partner or whatever, your brain is going
to amplify pain volume.
Pain is going to feel worse when stress and anxiety are high.
And anyone with any chronic pain condition will tell you that stress
and anxiety can be a trigger or an amplifier of pain.
Thing two is mood.
So again, negative emotions.
So when your mood is low and you're miserable and depressed, which ironically
happens when you have pain or emotions are negative in general, or you're
angry or you're very frustrated, your limbic system, including your amygdala,
of course, which is implicated in all the negative, will amplify pain volume.
So pain feels worse when emotions are negative and thing three is attention.
Again, what you're focusing on.
So when you are sitting in bed or laying on your couch and you're focusing
on your body and you're thinking about your pain, that body part that's hurting,
your prefrontal cortex sends a message to that pain dial, raising pain volume.
So pain feels worse when you're thinking about it and when you're
focusing on the body part that hurts.
But the reason this is critically important for those of us who have pain,
which is a hundred percent of us, is that the opposite is also true.
The opposite is also true.
And if you think about the implications for pain management, that's pretty wild.
So let's talk about the opposite.
Yeah.
When stress and anxiety are low, your body and your muscles are relaxed and your
thoughts are calm, your brain sends a message to that pain dial, lowering pain
volume.
So pain feels less bad when you are relaxed and calm.
Thing two is mood emotions.
So when your emotions are positive, you're feeling happy and joyful and
grateful and you're doing fun things with friends, your limbic system lowers pain
volume, pain feels less bad when emotions are positive.
And thing three is attention.
So when you are distracted, when you're so absorbed in some activity, you
briefly forget about your pain.
We've all had that experience.
That is not magic.
That is your brain's pain dial.
So your brain, your prefrontal cortex will lower this pain dial.
When you are absorbed in things and you're not thinking about your body and
you're not thinking about pain.
So that's why when you go to give a child a vaccine, which everyone should do
and get an injection, you give them a screen and they can watch their
favorite show and they're distracted and it hurts less.
So all these things together in my mind help us understand that pain, again, is
this biopsychosocial thing that's regulated by mood and thoughts and what
you're focusing on and where you are and who you're with and your context.
And all those things are going to matter to your brain when it makes this pain
decision, whether or not to make pain and how much.
Oh, and so what are some of the first steps?
If someone doesn't have the privilege of being your specific patient, for example,
or maybe their psychologist or their medical doctors don't have this much
information in their brains about it.
Where do you start with people?
Do you start with just like start meditating, go on the porch?
Where do you even begin?
So I do this treatment called cognitive behavioral therapy.
And there's a lot of misunderstanding and misinformation about what that is
and how it applies to pain.
So what it is, is it's a treatment that was originally developed for anxiety
and depression that does have evidence of effectiveness.
And it also is a treatment, by the way, for sleep and family dysfunction.
And all these other things, by the way, that also contribute to pain, which is
so fascinating to me because all the things are interconnected.
So it makes sense to me that this thing might be useful for pain.
And it teaches us that how you think affects how you feel emotionally,
affects how you feel physically, affects how you behave or act.
So round and round in a circle, what you think affects how you feel,
affects how your body feels, affects how you act.
And I can give you an example of that.
So let's say someone invites you to a party.
OK, they're like, Allie Ward, it's been like a year and a half pandemic.
Come to my house, we're going to have a party in my backyard.
It's going to be really fun.
And you have this thought in your head.
You think to yourself, I am a loser and nobody likes me.
And if I go to the party, no one will talk to me.
I'll just be standing by myself.
At this point, I was feeling depressed and ashamed.
That thought is going to affect your emotions.
How might you feel if you thought that thought?
Oh, depressed and ashamed.
100 percent, yes.
Yeah. Right.
So you're feeling depressed and miserable and ashamed.
So how does depression affect your body?
I think I would have a harder time getting up and getting ready for it.
That's right.
I think I would sink into whatever soft fabric I am sitting on at the moment.
100 percent, yes.
So we know that negative emotions impact the body, right?
And I'd like to say that negative emotions don't just live in your head.
They also come out in your body.
And if you've ever been stressed out or nervous and your palms get sweaty
and your mouth goes dry and your heart races, of course, emotions come out in your body.
Or if you've ever been depressed, you know that you feel heavy
and unmotivated.
So right. So that thought, I'm a loser.
Nobody likes me.
I'm going to have a terrible time.
It's going to trigger negative emotions and that's going to affect your body.
You're going to feel unmotivated and heavy.
So what do you do as a result of those thoughts and feelings?
You already said it perfectly.
You sink into a couch and then I send a text about being on deadline, which is a lie.
Right. Right.
And you like put on your fuzzy pajamas and you get a tub of ice cream
and you binge watch Netflix.
Yeah. Total. Total.
Exactly. Yeah.
But the cycle spins around.
So now you're missing out on the party and you're sitting on your couch
and you're in your pajamas, eating a tub of ice cream.
And what are you thinking to yourself now?
I am a rock star.
Are you thinking I know I am the loser that I thought that I was a hundred percent.
Yes. Yeah.
And that's what we call the cognitive behavioral therapy cycle
of how thoughts affect the brain, affect the body.
Right. But now let me give you the opposite.
Someone says, Ali Ward, come to my house.
We're having a great party.
You can wear whatever dress you want.
Put on your nice to shoes.
Yeah.
And you think to yourself, I am a rock star.
People love me. I'm the life of the party.
I'm going to break dance.
I'm going to pull out my break dancing moves and I'm going to like bake brownies
and like bring them everyone's just going to think.
How does that make you feel?
Oh, I lighter and excited and a little nervous.
Great. Love that constellation of emotions.
Right. Excite. Totally excited, a little nervous.
So how does that affect the body?
Usually when you're excited, you have a lot of energy, you know,
you feel like motivated. Yeah.
And then what's your behavior? What do you do?
Definitely put on lipstick, do some mascara, dig out the liquid liner,
bake some brownies, eat some of the batter if I want to.
Totally. Yeah.
And then and maybe even leave the house on time.
That's right. So you go to the party.
Yeah, that's right.
You show up at the party in your dress and you bring some brownies.
Chances are pretty high.
Some person is going to be talking to you.
And if you're really feeling like if you're thinking I'm a rock star,
I'm going to have fun, chances are high, you probably, you probably will.
You'll attract someone to come talk to you, right?
Right. So, so the things you think affect the things you feel affect how you behave.
Always. That's always true.
And the shit of it is when you're anxious and depressed,
you get stuck in these thought cycles that contribute to the perpetuation of the cycle.
And you can see how that would easily happen.
Yeah.
And it happens with pain also when you have pain,
a lot of the thoughts that I hear are, I'm broken, I'll never get better.
Nothing has helped me.
So nothing is going to help me.
Why bother?
Right.
And that makes you feel anxious and depressed.
And what we already know from pain neuroscience is that that's going to
amplify pain.
So your body's going to feel worse.
And how are you going to act as a result?
You're going to stay inside on your couch with a tub of ice cream in your
snuggie or whatever.
And it's going to be very hard for you to break that pain cycle.
So what we do in cognitive behavioral therapy or CBT is every individual is
unique who comes into my office.
And my job is to educate them about pain in their body, cause no one ever has.
And then to figure out what's that person's unique cycle?
Cause you bet they're thinking their own unique thoughts and feeling their own
unique feeling feelings.
And they are down whatever coping rabbit hole they're down.
And everyone is doing the best they can to manage their pain.
Right.
This is like not a critique.
Everyone is doing the best they can.
And if you really believe that staying on your couch for five weeks is the
answer or five years, that's what you're going to do.
Right.
So it's like, what is your cycle?
How do I help you break it?
And you can break it by going after the thoughts and you can break it by going
after the emotions and you can break it by going after the behaviors.
So what I happen to like to do with my patients, the best is change behaviors
first.
Oh, so you go backwards on the wheel.
So I should have said this, the wheel can go in any direction.
Cause if you think about it, if you just start with the behaviors, you're
laying in bed for five years.
Yeah.
Right.
What are you thinking and how are you feeling?
You can start at that's what I like about the wheel.
Everything affects everything.
It's multi-directional.
Okay.
It's always spinning in every direction.
And what I like about behaviors is like thoughts are really complicated.
It's really hard to challenge your thoughts.
But with behaviors, it's like, okay, what's one thing I can do today that will
get me off the couch?
Like I want to make fudge.
Can I send my, my friend out to help me buy ingredients and like walk to my kitchen.
You know, so what are small little things I can do to break the cycle?
And I find that that's often a good place to start because once you change
a behavior, you can get a little motivation or forward motion going.
So like full circle to the kiddo who had been in bed for four years.
The first thing we had him do was stand on his porch and get a little sunlight.
And like, eventually within a couple of weeks, he like went and got a haircut,
which sounds like a small thing.
Yeah.
But when you have long, long unwashed hair for four years and you look in the
mirror all the time, that's reinforcing the romp.
Like you can't feel so, so great.
When he wanted, went and got a haircut, dude, that kid was a different kid.
It was a small thing, but it really pushed us forward.
I know that sounds really weird when you're talking about pain, but it like
really changes the cycle.
And so do you ever recommend having like an accountability buddy or a journal or
what's a tool that you can use to kind of keep your mind in the CBT other than a
therapist and a workbook?
I love accountability buddies, definitely.
So science shows that social support absolutely always changes the brain and body.
So if you have someone you can do the things with a hundred percent yes.
I do also like journaling.
I think that's very helpful too, because when you write stuff down, you're your
own accountability partner sometimes.
And when you write stuff down, you can track your progress and you can like
see your change.
Like, oh, I did that thing.
And then I felt more of what motivated to do that thing.
I do also think that workbooks are useful for people and they're sometimes
really dorky, but it's like a guided path toward accomplishing a goal.
And it's very hard to know what to do.
Like here I am spouting, like I'm making it sound easy.
It's so hard to live with pain every day.
It's so discouraging.
It's so hard.
So Dr. Zafnus says working with anyone on this can be helpful, whether it's a
friend or a partner, an accountability buddy, or if you can get a physical
therapist or an occupational therapist, any therapist who could maybe go with you
through a workbook, or you could try to find a pain psychologist, which is what?
Exactly.
So what is pain psychology?
Again, I wanted to live at this intersection of neuroscience and medicine and
psychology and helping people in science writing and pain psychology is kind of that.
So pain psychology is how do you put together this complicated thing we call
pain and deliver it to the unique person sitting in front of you in a package that
they can digest and understand that isn't stigmatizing.
Because that's the worst part for me about being a pain psychologist is everyone
who comes to see me believes that their physician has given them this message.
It's all in your head or you're faking it or it's just psychological.
Your pain is just psychological.
Yeah.
And that's never true of pain.
We know pain is always biopsychosocial.
It's always like you said migraines, it's always change in blood pressure, changes
in blood flow, and it's changes in how your brain is working, but it's also
changes in stress and anxiety and what's happening in your environment around you
and your diet and it's all the things working together, right?
Yeah.
So a pain psychologist looks at this complicated picture and tries to figure
out what do we need to do to help your pain and what does your pain recipe look like?
And I want to tell you what a pain recipe is.
Since she explained this to me, I have thought about it every single day since.
So a pain recipe in my mind is like, I don't know why I'm talking so much about
brownies.
I must like just really want them.
But if you're someone who like bakes brownies, you know, there's a recipe for
awesome brownies and it's like, you have to mix these particular ingredients
together and particular amounts of them and you have to put it in the oven for
a particular amount of time.
And if you don't, the brownies are not going to be cooked or they're going to be
burned or they're going to taste really disgusting because you forgot the chocolate.
You know?
So, and it's the same with pain.
There's always a recipe for high pain, like a really bad migraine day.
And there's always a recipe for low pain, like a day I'm feeling awesome.
And if you ask people, they will often know what their high pain recipe is.
Oh, absolutely.
With migraines, I know exactly like not enough sleep, not enough water, stressful
day, and I, and I know that it's got to have those three, usually those three
factors and it's like, Oh, baby, you got it.
Yeah, that's exactly right.
And so, so the trick for me is if we know what the high pain recipe is, how
do we puzzle out with the low pain recipe is.
So you're right, like sleep on the high pain recipe, it's often like this
combination of sleep and I'm not eating well and I'm like fighting with my partner
or there's a lot of stress at work or, you know, whatever, there's like a lot of
other stressors and things going on in my life too.
And I'm not exercising and I'm not taking care of my body.
And so it's like all these biological, psychological and sociological factors
all the time interacting.
So when we think about a pain recipe, I'm looking at all three of those bubbles
as a pain psychologist.
I'm like, okay, what do I pull from this bubble and this bubble and this bubble
to make this person's high pain recipe?
And then what do I need to make a low pain recipe?
And the thing about a low pain recipe is it's just the effing opposite.
So it's like getting a good night's sleep and taking care of my body and managing
my stress and anxiety and staying hydrated and, you know, putting limits on toxic
relationships and saying no, like I have a problem saying no, like I say, people
come to me and they're suffering and dude, it is so hard for me to turn people away
and say no, or like do things where I'm spreading this to me feels so critical.
This information about pain and I have opportunities to do that.
And I want, I want everyone to know and to have power over their bodies.
So anyway, there's all these lines we have to draw in the sand if we want to
have a low pain recipe, like how do we take care of our bodies in any given
moment so that we're going to feel okay.
So that is my like down and dirty.
Like what does a pain psychologist do?
Oh, I love that.
I love that thinking of it as a pain recipe.
A hundred percent.
Yes.
I have so many questions from listeners.
Can I fire them at you?
Oh, you do?
Yeah.
Oh, wow.
Because pain is like, that's the thing.
That that's like exactly why I want to do stuff like this.
It's like pain is this ubiquitous human experience
that no one has been told anything about.
It makes me mad.
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OK, let's start by answering your burning
curiosities about fiery redheads from patrons Mark Hewlett,
Jason Krause, Andrea Marsh, Carly Lowe, first time question askers
Melissa Avignon Redford, Erin Sorenson, Alyssa Benson,
self-identified smoke and hot redhead Nina Giacabe and OK, Nadine says,
I've heard that redheads have a different pain tolerance
than the general population.
Is this true? Nadine is a first time question asker.
Many other gingers ask this as well.
And as someone who is a fake ginger,
I feel like I have like dentists be like, I know redheads.
And I'm like, who are we fooling?
You see my gray roots.
So I am not a real redhead.
But yeah, what's going on genetically with that?
Here's the honest answer.
And by the way, you know a good health care provider
when they give you this answer.
The honest answer is I don't know what the research says.
However, I will tell you this, if you are someone who is sensitive
and I have absolutely no idea if there's any actual data
on whether redheads are more sensitive than any other person.
But if you are someone who is sensitive and by sensitive,
I mean you were a sensitive child, smell and touch
and your senses are heightened or you're emotionally sensitive
and you pick up on things.
That means by the by friends and listeners, your brain is sensitive.
When your brain is sensitive, guess what?
It's more sensitive to sensory input from your body.
Also, why?
Because a sensitive brain is more likely to amplify
warning and danger messages from the body and tell you
that there's danger when there might not be.
So I don't know about the redhead thing, but the sensitivity thing is a thing.
OK, I looked up this flim flam, this weird myth about redheads
and anesthesia because it's so annoying that it persists.
And I found out, get this, it's true.
Research backed.
This is real, y'all.
So you can see the 2004 study in the Journal of Anesthesiology
titled Anesthetic Requirement is increased in redheads.
They're like, here you go.
They found that redheads are more sensitive to pain.
They need significantly, in quotes, more anesthesia
than people with dark hair, but redheads need fewer opiates.
So that was in 2004.
What's changed in 17 years?
Well, we know now why.
So a more recent study found that a certain gene causes melanocytes
in red haired mice to secrete lower levels of this protein.
It's called POMC.
You will not be quizzed, but that protein gets diced up into hormones,
including one that enhances pain perception, so they need more anesthesia
and another that blocks pain, meaning that they need lower opioid doses.
So, Ginger's, your magical mysteries, and I am honored to pose as one of you.
But what if you don't have hair the color of a chestnut horse in the sunset?
Well, you could just be a highly sensitive person, which is not a disorder.
It's an attribute.
It's a trait and highly sensitive individuals up here in all kinds
of species from humans to fruit flies.
Scientists say we're all unique little flowers and some scientists
at the Queen Mary University of London do call us flowers, i.e.
highly sensitive 31 percent of people.
They call orchids a low sensitive group, 29 percent of you called dandelions.
And then a third group at 40 percent who have like medium sensitivity,
which they say are tulips.
I don't know jack shit about botanical robustness,
but I hope that they asked a flower person first or else things could get pretty thorny.
I rose to the occasion.
And is that like a highly sensitive person?
HSP, I've heard of that, but I wasn't sure if that was like a thing that was
recognized by the medical community, you know,
being sensitive is recognized as a predictor of pain and chronic pain,
development of chronic pain.
By the way, trauma makes your brain more sensitive.
Why?
Because trauma, having trauma as a child, your brain needs to be sensitive.
It's adaptive.
Like if something terrible has happened to you, your brain is always scanning the
environment, your internal and external environment.
Like is a bad thing happening?
What about now?
What about now?
Is there danger?
Is there danger?
Yeah.
So if you have had trauma, your brain becomes more sensitive.
Elise van Meerbeek wants to know, is there an observed relationship between
pain, tolerance and genders?
Ooh, that's so interesting.
So what we do know is rates of chronic pain are higher in women.
Okay.
The thing about pain tolerance is I don't exactly know what that word means.
It goes back to that super subjective pain scale, that pain rating measurement
where, you know, you ask two people or 25 people, you know, does this hurt
and how much, and everyone's going to give you a different answer.
So I know that women in general are more prone to developing chronic pain.
And I don't know if that has to do with sensitivity.
That's a really interesting question.
Yeah.
I wonder if they've done studies too on people who are gender nonconforming
and how much trauma that they've experienced too.
I'm sure there's quite a bit of that.
I'm going to guess there's almost no research on that because not enough
research has been done on that.
But should there be?
Definitely.
Yeah.
Uh, I wish that this had a name.
Oh, it does.
It's called the gender pain gap because for many, many hundreds of years, people
who were not men were just not included in research, which.
Hurts and I want to get real spicy about it.
Speaking of.
Emera Kaku says, can we talk about the TRPV one receptor and pain tolerance
with spicy foods?
Is there any relationship between spice tolerance and pain tolerance?
And I have myself, my brother-in-law, Lee, who is also a heavy metal
guitarist, can eat the spiciest foods on earth and none of us understand
how he does it.
What's happening with spice?
Great.
So the answer is, yes, you have receptors in your mouth that respond to
touch and heat and sensation.
So you have sensors on your tongue that pick up on how hot or spicy a food is,
but it doesn't become interpreted as pain until it gets to your brain and your
brain inputs all the other information also.
So people who can eat extremely spicy food, usually are people who have
been doing it for a long time and they started with low to medium and over time
they worked their way up to super spicy and guess what's happening?
Their brain and their tongue are desensitizing over time, like being in
that room, that dark room and it gets a little bit brighter at a time.
So you can develop a really high spice tolerance if you want to using this
graded exposure a little bit at a time.
So fun fact, birds can't taste spicy, but squirrels can, which is why some
bird seed is sold laced with hot sauce.
So squirrels would be like, fuck this, who am I, Paul Rudd?
What is this, a YouTube show about hot wings?
But birders say better just to get a squirrel proof bird feeder and to help
prevent the spread of bird diseases, make sure to clean your bird feeders regularly,
even if it's a headache.
Speaking of headaches, a lot of patrons wrote in about migraines such as Rahala,
Shay, Stempluski, first time question asker, Claire, garden specialist,
Hafer, Brea Plum, turtle, Sarah Carter, Jade Pollard, Paulina Krasinska,
first time question asker, Rachel Shepard, Anne M. Madeline Duke, Kelly
Simone, Sonya Bird, Kelly King, and Colleen Heather, migraine question.
Why do some people like myself and my grandmothers get migraines right before
it rains?
Do you think that's anywhere in a pain recipe?
Barometric pressure?
It's got to be.
I don't know the data.
I mean, these questions are so amazing.
I don't know the data on migraine and rain.
But I have, so for me, I live with chronic leg pain and my chronic leg pain also
changes with weather changes.
So before rain, my leg will also throb.
So I've heard people say that that's like, I hate this phrase, like an old
wives tale, whatever that means.
But I've heard people say that that's not evidence based and I've never looked
into the evidence, but now I'm going to.
And I don't know if there's sufficient data to show, but it would make sense to
me that would be part of a pain recipe because of course there's barometric
pressure at like if the chain environment around you changes, it seems reasonable
that your pain would change too.
I had to look this up and sure enough, there's a 2019 study titled blame it on
the weather, the association between pain and fibromyalgia, relative humidity,
temperature and barometric pressure.
Someone's out there asking these questions.
So the short of it is that lower barometric pressure was associated with
more pain in fibromyalgia patients and arthritis patients and even people with
migraines, but the cause, it sounds like a still murky.
So lower barometric pressure can make tissues expand, which might cause joint
pain and migraine scientists say that blood vessel dilation associated with the
influence of changes in atmospheric pressure can also maybe cause migraines.
And lower barometric pressure reduces the amount of available oxygen in the air,
but it also usually means shitty weather, which contributes to some psychological
factors for some folks and pain hurts more.
So apparently weather accounts for 20% of migraines in Japan.
What else triggers migraines?
Not much, just like oversleeping, sleep deprivation, premenstrual period,
stressful life events, hot weather, cold weather, relaxation after stress,
menstruation, high winds, intense emotions, hunger, bright sunlight, red wine
consumption, food additives, MSG, nitrates, also serotonin changes can open
and constrict blood vessels.
If you've had migraines, you might be chuffed to learn that they're the most
common neurological cause of disability in the world, according to a 2017 study,
which also taught me the ology of migraine pathophysiology.
Yeah, future episode, anyone?
My brain says, hell yes, no question.
Speaking of this next question about emotional pain was asked by 4 million of you.
Scott Sheldon, great question.
Is there chemically a difference between physical and emotional pain?
Oh my God.
That question makes me so deeply happy.
There are these wonderful, wonderful researchers who study social neuroscience.
I'm going to answer your question in a roundabout way.
And they studied the neuroscience of social exclusion and being ostracized.
The science of ostracization, which is a very hard word to pronounce.
Ostracization.
And they found that social and emotional pain maps exactly onto the parts of the brain
that process physical pain.
So is there a difference?
Yes.
Do they overlap and affect each other 100% of the time?
Yes.
Does emotional pain hurt physically?
You know it does.
Like ask anyone who's going through heartbreak how their body feels.
Like you have chest pain when you are heartbroken.
So emotional pain and physical pain always, always, always are connected in the brain.
It's funny because it's like looking at Instagram, you might as well actually be
hitting yourself in the face with a frying pan.
You might as well just do that.
It's amazing.
That was amazing.
It does hurt.
So yes, physical and social pain overlap in an area of the brain called the
anterior cingulate cortex.
And yes, Jade, Balcom Randall and first time question asker, Carrie Anderson,
pain relievers can soothe broken hearts or at least smooth ruffled feathers.
So for more on that, you can see the very directly titled acetaminophen reduces
social pain.
FMRIs showed that acetaminophen reduced neural responses to social rejection.
And I don't know how they tested that, but I hope they were nice to the volunteers.
So yes, pain relievers or better yet, CBT might help when you're feeling
butthurt.
Now, aside from your crack, how about your back?
First time question asker, Jacob Leftwich, Amy Naramatsu, Pixie Muffin, Fuzz
Goddess, Isle Van Meerbeek and Savannah Bigley all have 99 problems and a back is one.
Now, Michael Swords wants to know when it comes to back pain, how can we get
rid of it?
And I feel like I know so many people in various levels of athleticism and age
that have back pain.
What's going on there?
Back pain is one of the most common types of chronic pain.
And the answer to your question is, if you're not treating it in a biopsychosocial
way, your back pain is going to stay exactly the same.
So if you ask every single person you know how they've treated their back pain,
I'm going to bet a bazillion dollars, which I don't have to give you, but I do
have the capacity to receive that they have been told to treat their pain with
medications and potentially surgeries and check this fact out.
Ready?
There is a new syndrome in medicine called failed back surgery syndrome.
That's right.
They've given it a name and in that highlight, beautiful example of when you
treat pain purely biomedically, chronic pain in particular, it is not going to work.
And by the way, that's not to say that back surgery doesn't heal people.
It surely does.
And there's lots of things that can go wrong with the back totally.
But pain, chronic pain is processed by the brain.
So we have to think about the whole person and the whole picture.
So if someone's living with chronic back pain and the pills and the procedures
have not worked, the answer is let's go after the other things in the pain recipe
to figure out what's going on.
Great answer.
Tabitha White wants to know, what do some people hold their breath when
experiencing high levels of pain?
Asking for me.
Love that.
Right.
So if you remember that pain metaphor, we were talking about this volume
knob that operates one of the things that happens when you have pain, believe
it or not, is that stress and anxiety go up.
If you ask human beings in general, what are the biggest stressors on human beings?
Like death of a loved one moving, but pain, pain is one of the biggest stressors
on a human being.
It's so stressful to be in pain.
So we do these things like we clench, even sometimes we don't even know we're
doing it.
So we clench our whole body or the part of the body that hurts and we guard.
And sometimes we limp or we change our posture because pain is miserable and
you're trying to do everything you can not to have it.
So holding your breath is a pain behavior.
It's a clenching, it's often involuntary because pain hurts, which is the most
basic thing I've said all day.
Pain hurts.
So you're clenching and you're trying to fight it off.
And the irony there is, as we know from the pain dial, the more you clench and
the more tense and tight your body is, the higher your pain volume is actually
going to be.
So I know.
So somehow finding a way to help your body relax and become is actually one
of the things that we're going to need to do to help a pain.
And by the way, easier said than done.
I'm not just saying like, oh, be relaxed because that's not the thing.
Like, oh, I hate that when people are like, oh, just relax.
You know, so it's not just that it's more complicated than that.
But the tensing and the tight tightening actually is going to make pain worse.
That makes sense.
Quinn West had a question.
If you take medication that blocks pain signals, is the pain still there?
This is kind of a philosophical question.
Great question.
So I'm going to answer that with another question.
If pain is produced by the brain and you're blocking the messages in the brain,
are you actually blocking the pain messages?
I think the answer has to be yes, because you're blocking the messages that
your brain is interpreting as pain.
So the sensory signals coming from the body are not yet pain.
So the sensory messages coming from the body, whether it's like a broken
foot or a bad back, it's not pain until it gets to the brain.
It's just sensory information.
So when you target the brain in your treatment, yes, you're blocking
the ability of the brain to interpret that message as pain.
Okay.
So a lot of folks such as Roberta Amalia Conti, cheese, Lena Schuster,
Alice Claire, Dory Kaufman, Brent Mephys, Michelle Jacobs, Lila Weller,
Lindsay Mixer, Catalina, first time question askers, Kelly Shaver,
Andrea Cassidy, Edda Rose, Monica Sweet, and Molly had questions about
fibromyalgia, which is a disorder that causes pain and tenderness all over the body.
It also causes sleep problems and fatigue.
In my opinion, it sounds not fun.
Heather Circle wants to know, for those experiencing symptoms of fibromyalgia,
what are some good tests to request from a doctor?
There are no good tests for fibromyalgia.
So diagnosis of fibromyalgia has been a shit show.
There's like lots of different ways of diagnosing.
It's like certain number of body parts has to be in pain, but as everyone
with fibromyalgia knows, different parts of your body hurt in any different
given moment.
So if you only have pain in eight body parts tonight, does that mean you don't
have fibromyalgia?
So there's no real great test is the honest answer.
But if you're living with fibromyalgia, you absolutely have a biopsychosocial
pain recipe and we need to figure out what that is.
And again, I always want to talk about the stigma around recommending psychology
for the treatment of pain.
I live with that stigma every day.
I always recommend psychology for everybody living with chronic pain.
Why?
Cause if you're not targeting the brain, you are not targeting pain.
And psychology really goes down the rabbit hole of what are you thinking?
How are you feeling?
And how are you acting?
So I would honestly, from the bottom of my heart, recommend a pain psychologist
or even any psychologist for people living with fibromyalgia, in addition to
all the other things you're doing.
PT and OT and going for walks with friends and doing fun things and baking brownies.
So some pharmaceutical therapies for fibromyalgia are actually also used for
neurotransmitter balance and the brain's ability to tamp down pain signals.
Researchers have even tried low doses of naltrexone, which is prescribed for
alcohol use disorder and opioid use disorder.
But in many studies, cognitive behavioral therapy provided what researchers
call worthwhile improvement in pain related behavior and coping strategies
and overall physical function.
And they noted that quote, the beneficial effects of CBT can be achieved in 10 to
20 sessions compared with many years required for classical psychoanalysis.
So CBT has also been shown effective for reducing neuropathy pain and improving
pain interference and mental health functioning.
So retraining your actual brain to just tell those pain signals to cool their
fricking jets, please.
And thank you.
And Rachel says, this is so exciting because of neuroplasticity.
So in an email after our interview, she added, the fact that the brain is
always changing means that the brain can change.
And if the brain can change, pain can change, which is good, not only for
pain havers, but for the people who love them, like Megan Stingle, who asked,
when someone tells me about an injury, why do I sometimes feel a vague sense
of pain in that part of my body?
Well, they're telling me a story.
And another patron echoed that Stacey Salovitz asked, is sympathy pain real?
Do twins feel it more?
Or is it more likely for people who consider themselves empaths?
Oh my gosh, these questions are lighting up my brain.
Yes, sympathy pain is real.
So they do these studies in neuroscience where they look at a mother's
brain and a child's brain.
And if the child is suffering and experiencing pain, the mother's brain,
the pain pathways in the brain, light up as if she's in pain, which is why
moms have such a hard time tolerating their children crying, right?
It's just, it triggers you in that way.
So yes, we have mirror neurons in our brain and we do feel other people's
feelings, anxiety contagion and emotional contagion are real.
And yes, if you are someone who is empathic or an empath, I'm going to tell
you what that means.
It means your brain is really, really, really sensitive.
And you pick up, you pick up on things other people can't pick up on.
So you feel other people's emotions when you walk into a room.
And I'm going to bet a lot of money that you're an empath alley word.
Totally.
Right.
Right.
So it means our brains are more sensitive.
So we're more likely to pick on other up on other things people are
feeling emotionally, but the downside of it is that we're also more likely
to experience chronic pain.
A lot of people who I will listen aside, Mariana Hulson, Denay Dryden and
Ashley Holm want to know how touch inhibits pain.
And if scratching or applying pressure helps alleviate pain, what's happening
there?
I want everyone to know I'm doing a dance of joy in my chair.
So I mentioned back in the day when I was a nerdy undergrad that one of the
things that really excited me about pain was this thing called the gait control
theory of pain.
Yeah.
And the gait control theory of pain is just this nerdy neuroscience.
It's like back in 65, these guys came up with this gait control theory of pain
and they forever revolutionized pain science and it's still evolving.
There's the, the neuro matrix theory of pain now and there's all this other
cool pain science.
However, what we know about pain is that touch does actually gait pain.
So back to our metaphor of this pain dial.
So like for me, I remember this really resonated with me.
My professor said, you bash your knee, like you're sitting under the table and
bash your knee.
What's the first thing that you do?
Yeah, you rub your knee.
And the reason you rub your knee is because touch messages get up to the brain
faster than messages that code for the sensory information that codes for pain.
So touch is actually one of the things that can lower your pain volume.
So one of the things that can be on a low pain recipe for people, by the way, is
getting massages and hugging people and sensory things that really make you feel
soothed and calmed, like a snuggy or a really lovely blanket or a dog.
But yes, touch.
So touching the part of the body that hurts will actually help your pain.
So adopt a dog, you got.
Yeah.
Or like rub your bash knee or get massages, back massages or yeah.
Marin Ellis, first time question asker asks, why do we forget pain?
I've had three babies with no meds, but I have forgotten the amount of pain
I was in with each and gladly had the next.
What is happening there with really, really intense pain?
So there is research on childbirth pain, and that is a unique kind of pain.
And the research shows that after giving birth to a baby, you are flooded
with all these wonderful, delightful chemicals.
It's like a bath for your brain.
It's like oxytocin and which makes you feel connected and dopamine, which is
like this reward chemical and serotonin, which makes you feel happy and joyful
and endorphins, which are your brain's endogenous natural pain killers.
And so your brain takes this lovely bath and it feels so good and it connects
you to your baby, but it also changes your memory of childbirth.
But why is that adaptive?
So if childbirth is so aversive or terrible that you never want to do it
again, we might go extinct.
Yeah.
So your brain does this like funny trick, but that is not true for many other
types of terrible, terrible pain.
And you ask anybody who's been in a car accident or like some terrible trauma,
they have not forgotten their pain and their body has not forgotten their pain either.
Yeah.
I guess like with Jared's knee surgery, it's not like his knee is going to
suckle for the next year.
You know what I mean?
In my who knows?
Never know.
Um, I thought this was a great question from Val McKelvey.
How well does Mara Juana work for pain relief as compared to traditional pain
relief medicines, like all of the CBD that's on the market, the THC, things like
that, good for pain, not good for pain, somewhere in the middle.
Here's the complicated answer.
I think the thing that we know now is like with pain, it's always a complicated answer.
So here's the complicated answer.
Research shows that the chemicals in marijuana can actually lower pain volume.
Righteous.
They can.
Here's the problem.
Marijuana, and I am not opposed in any capacity, also can do funny things to
sleep in not a great way that can negatively affect pain.
And the thing that actually is most concerning for me is the patients I'm
working with who are using it as their only pain management strategy and nothing else.
So if you become, if you lean on any one thing, it doesn't matter what the one
thing is, as your primary or only coping strategy for pain, you're targeting
only the bio domain of pain.
And there's a lot of things contributing to anybody's pain recipe.
So if we're just solving it with weed, we're not actually addressing that big
complicated problem that's contributing to the pain.
So the answer is, yes, science shows it can lower pain volume, raises pain
tolerance, whatever that fancy word means.
Um, but there's also a couple of other complicating factors.
I do think it's great for things like cancer pain because people can't eat, but
that's also sort of a problem because with overuse of marijuana, you can stop eating.
There's like an amesis syndrome that develops where your stomach doesn't
want you to eat any more food.
So what is my TLDR?
Um, yes, it can be useful short term, not all day every day and not as your only strategy.
Cool.
Um, last listener question, Danielle Larmann, Aliyah Myers, Lux and REB want to
know in Aliyah Myers words, so, uh, what's up with masochism, asking for a friend?
Perhaps their friend was one of these patrons, Chris Bowman, Piper, Danielle
O'Neill, Lux, REB, Michaela Kwant, who asked, why does it make me so horny?
Or the wonderful Scaloborealis who responded to that.
I spent several minutes trying to type this out in a concise way and saw this
comment and was like, yeah, that's pretty much what I was trying to say.
Also, Danielle Larmann, why do I like pain?
Please tell me why I'm so weird.
Masochism and recreational pain seekers, probably not so weird.
Not weird.
Also such a delightful question.
And I'm so glad we get to touch on it before the end of this.
Cause I really wish I had even said this sooner.
Pain is a subjective experience.
Like when we're talking about the definition of pain, that should have been in there.
It's always subjective.
Um, and like we said, context and environment matter.
If you're choosing it, it's going to change your experience.
If someone punches you in the face and you're not expecting it and they're
stealing your purse, it's going to feel very different or slaps you.
It's going to feel very different than in the context of sex or like you're turned
on, you love your partner, you trust them or whatever, or, or you just, you want it.
So context, environment, all the things are always going to matter when your
brain is interpreting the message.
So yes, pain can be pleasurable.
Of course, that's super normal and human.
It's not weird at all that for some people, some of the time, pain is pleasurable.
And again, back to that thing, like you stub your toe on a really bad day.
When you've been fired, it feels very different than you stub your toe.
You're out with your friends eating ice cream.
So, so always the context in which the messaging happens determines how your,
your brain interprets the signal.
I want to make sure that I make sense.
Did that make sense?
Absolutely.
Sometimes I just, I love the interview so much.
I make sure we're still recording because in my nightmare, we've somehow totally
it's not the batteries of now.
The thing that sucks most about pain, what is it?
What sucks so much about your job?
What sucks about pain?
What's frustrating?
Vent it out.
The thing that sucks most about my job is the stigma associated with psychology
and pain, like that thing where people think you're saying they're mentally ill.
That drives me mad.
The thing that sucks most about pain is the lack of agency and control we feel
like we have over it and we feel that lack of agency and control because no one
has ever explained pain to us.
Why has no one ever, like when I was like a 12 year old kid with
stomach aches, why didn't anyone ever say, by the way, this might be mediated
by anxiety and stress.
And by the way, it was like, I was socially anxious.
No one ever explained to me.
I was like poked and prodded and blah, blah, blah.
No one ever, why?
So that, as you can tell, infuriates me.
It, it, it, it flames, flames, flames on the side of my face.
Who doesn't deserve to understand pain?
It's ubiquitous human experience.
We are all going to have it.
None of you are going to get away with not having pain.
So we might as well know what it is and know what to do about it.
What also infuriates me about pain medicine is the way that nobody gets
educated about it.
So here's a fun statistic.
96% of medical schools in the United States and Canada have zero, and I mean zero,
dedicated compulsory pain education.
So if 96% of our doctors are not learning about pain, who then knows about pain?
So, so of course we have an opioid epidemic.
Of course we're throwing pills at pain.
Like the people who are treating pain aren't being adequately educated.
It's nobody's fault.
It's just a really broken system.
Um, and in psychology programs, we get zero pain education also.
Um, in PT programs and OT programs, a lot of providers will tell you insufficient
pain education and nursing programs.
So it's like, if you think about this as a trickle down phenomenon, like our
providers are the first people we see.
And if no one's ever explained pain to them in this way, where it's a
biopsychosocial phenomenon, how are they ever going to tell us?
So side note, in addition to being a clinical psychologist, Drs.
Offnes is also a researcher and a lecturer at UCSF and she and her
colleagues there conducted a six part pain training with UCSF doctors.
And in a study just published in June, they found that 90% of the physicians
said that the pain curriculum changed the way that they conceptualized and
approached or managed pain.
90% said it changed the way they did it.
So the conclusion, she said, education matters.
Uh, yeah, especially when it comes to doctors, you want them to eat books.
School up.
Thank you so much.
So in my mind, if we're ever going to target the opioid epidemic, if we're
ever going to target effective pain management, we have to start with
education, which is why I chase people like you, because, because how do you
spread the word?
Like, how do you tell people, by the way, there's hope for treating your pain.
We just have to do it differently.
Yeah.
I think you should be the Brené Brown of pain management.
Okay, great.
Um, yeah, I feel like the typical thing we're used to seeing is just a laminated
placard on the wall with a series of emojis.
Yeah, totally.
Like that's, that's, that's pain education for doctors.
You got it.
And so, so what Allie's talking about is it's called the pain scale.
It's actually called the, the faces pain scale.
And you've probably seen it before.
It's like, I think it's zero to 10, not one to 10, but I can't remember, but
it's all these faces that show how much pain are you in?
Um, and have you ever read hyperbole in a half?
Yes.
Allie Broch, am I saying her name?
Right?
I don't love her.
That girl is so brilliant and so talented.
And Allie Broch, you probably listen to this podcast.
I wish I, is that, is it Allie Broch?
Am I saying it right?
Okay.
Or Brosh.
I have no idea.
Okay.
So she, if you Google hyperbole in a half pain scale, you will laugh your ass off.
She revised, I use it in my lectures.
She revised the pain scale.
Yes.
It's, I think it's zero to 20 and 20 is like this face, like the eyeballs are
falling out and blood is coming out of the ears, you know, and she also redos
like this zero to 10 pain scale.
And she's like, this, this is just not accurate.
Like five looks like, you know, I got Ben and Jerry's cookie dough ice cream and
there just isn't enough cookie dough in it.
Yeah.
Like the faces don't adequately convey what the experience of being in pain.
Her pain scale is infinitely better.
Allie Broch, hyperbole in a half pain scale, you will laugh.
And only a pain nerd would really know that there's a better pain scale out
there written by the author of hyperbole in a half.
Well, what about your favorite thing about what you do?
Oh my God.
So, um, absolutely.
This is the most addictive work I've ever done in my life.
And, and I also feel selfish doing it because that kid who had been in bed for
four years, when that kid stood on stage and went off to college, I felt so rad.
And I am not performing magic, you know, this is something I was trained to do.
It exists in books.
The knowledge is out there.
I'm just a conduit for the thing that already exists.
But when, when people get better and they get their lives back, this kid got
asked to prom by two girls, not one, but two.
And it's just like so delightful to see people re-engage in the world, get their
lives back and feel like they have power again over their bodies and their lives.
That is like, I will never do anything else.
It's like the most addictive thing I've ever done.
And like people write me these crazy emails that make me cry.
Just like, yeah, if I start talking about it, I will cry.
It's just crazy.
The work changes lives and it's not, again, it's not me.
I didn't make it up, but like this work changes lives.
And I just want to say the other thing that makes me really
infuriated about pain is that it's not what I do is not affordable to everybody.
A lot of people can't afford pain psychology because insurance doesn't reimburse it.
And that's actually why I stuck everything that I do into a book for 20 bucks
because pain education and pain medicine should be affordable and accessible to everybody.
Why is it only affordable by a few people?
That's crazy pants.
So the pain management workbook, which I gave you literally is intended
to be like, you don't need insurance coverage.
It's $20.
Everything I'm talking about is in there.
Again, it's not magic and it shouldn't be unaffordable for anybody.
Is that the word?
Yeah, absolutely.
It makes me so mad.
You can tell.
I just, I feel like I love it.
Yeah.
Like why is treatment only for people with money?
It's nonsensical.
Finances drive pain management.
How is that?
Okay, bonkers.
Any one piece of advice that you want people to know to keep them going?
Yeah.
Pain is treatable.
You do not need to be alone on a pain journey.
A lot of people are suffering alone.
There's a lot of support available.
Pain psychologists, there's not many of them again, because just psychology
programs don't train us in pain and they should and it's a problem.
So this is a call to action for anybody in the world of psychology and in medicine
to up your game when it comes to pain education.
But a couple of solutions for people who are suffering alone.
You can Google pain psychologist near me.
There might be one.
Psychology today has people on there who list chronic pain as one of, you want
to find out if they're trained in cognitive behavioral therapy.
If you have a therapist you like or you're willing to find a therapist you
like, hand them the pain management workbook or any pain management workbook.
There's others besides mine out there.
It doesn't matter and ask them to go through it with you.
You don't have to go through the journey alone.
It's isolating.
It's miserable.
It's painful and support is available and help is available and change happens.
Pain treatment is totally, totally possible.
Thank you for being on.
Thank you so much for having me.
This is so cool.
Seriously, for a neighbor out of pain.
I'm calling it rad.
Oh, so for God's sake, ask smart people do feet questions because your
brain can learn from the things that their brains learn from other people's
brains.
And I hope that this episode helps anyone with pain get better care, helps
loved ones understand that pain is real and give some hope and maybe some
alternative approaches to turning that pain dial down.
So doctors off sells her workbook for 20 bucks.
It's on Amazon.
It's where we get books.
It's probably in libraries near you and she wants to make it cheap and
accessible for everyone.
You can follow doctors off at doctors offness on Twitter and at the real
docs off on Instagram.
Her website is softness.com.
And those are all be linked in the show notes, as well as links to the
Trevor project and the sponsors you heard about.
We are at allergies on Twitter and Instagram.
I'm Ali Ward with one L on both.
Please say hi.
More links are always up at alleyward.com slash allergies slash dolerology for this one.
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Thank you to new bride Bonnie and Shannon of the podcast.
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Thank you to Emily White of the Wordery who makes our professionally done transcripts.
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They are kids safe, classroom friendly.
Now with kids safe ads as well.
Thank you to Kelly Dwyer for the website.
She's available to make a website for you.
If you like her links in the show notes.
Thank you to Nick Thorburn for the theme music.
Thank you to Jared Sleeper and Steven Ray Morris who endure the biggest pain of all,
which is me and I appreciate them so very much for it.
And if you stick around to the end of the show, you know, I tell you a secret.
And this week's secret is that I like to burn incense sometimes.
And I love when you're burning an incense stick.
And then suddenly you start smelling the burning stick itself like the little bamboo stem.
And you're like, Oh, that marks the end of this incense stick.
Thanks, Nose.
And that unless you're my friend, Micah, who can't smell anything.
Sorry, Micah.
Okay, bye bye.