Omnichannel - Rosalean Batool- How to express yourself elegantly online, and get rid of your self limiting beliefs?

Episode Date: December 14, 2021

Send us a text How to express yourself elegantly online and show up in your marketing? Rosalean is a wealth coach who helps female CEOs conquer burnout transform their lives by her abundance rewiring sessions. In this session, we talked about feminine energy, gender roles, how female entrepreneurs are wired differently than males, and her abundance of rewiring sessions that help conquer disempowering beliefs in under 2-hour sessions instantly.podcast RSSGet a FREE Copy of the High Converting Online Events Book: https://book.dominikalegrand.com/

abundance rewiring that you're doing can you tell me what the hell is that what does it do to us okay so basically so abundance rewiring like hypnosis is amazing but I feel like hypnosis doesn't really um give you the fast results that you want like I work with a lot of women who have ADHD they're high achievers they're very driven by the driven by achieving and performing the high performance right so like sometimes when you go for hypnosis like i've done the inner child work i've done all that trauma work what next so what a monetary requirement is is like is a combination of timeline therapy hope oh no nonopono, NLP, cognitive behavioral therapy, mental emotional release. I'm going to pretend like I know what that means. Okay so yeah neurolinguistic programming

is like when you find out the meaning of like a memory and then you just change the meaning. Cognitive behavioral therapy focuses more on the habit and breaking the habit than focusing on the beliefs timeline therapy is similar to hypnosis but you're just removing memories bad memories from your timeline in your past is about the energy the energy works you know when you do eft tapping um or like when you're changing your energy field like quantum quantum healing that's more to do with that and mental emotional release is about removing the feeling the suppressed emotions that you held with the memories of our memories so basically i combined all that together and what i did is i created a bonus rewiring i was like this is going to be the best formula and i tested it i've tested this formula on like 300 people now

and it's worked every single time yeah they're all alive and living all alive and living and they live in their best lives as well yeah they have moments but they have downfalls but they don't go back to the point where they hit rock bottom that's the key like as well for people who just had hypnosis but they still hit rock bottom and they don't want to go back to that place so what i do with in abundance rewiring is number one i remove the disempowering belief in your subconscious mind so i take it out like it's a weed okay then and then i i install a more powerful belief so for example if your belief is i'm not good enough then i install i install the belief that you are good enough right then the second step is i get you to cleanse your energy

now what happens is this is the reason why hypnosis, this is why sometimes people fall back into bad habits, because you need to clear your energy. What happens is when your subconscious mind has the disempowering belief, it releases toxic energy around. It's like fumes, you know, like, you know, like if something was polluting your mind, you're going to have fumes around you. Right. What happens is those fumes get stagn like you know like if something was polluting your mind you're gonna have fumes around you right what happens is those fumes get um stagnant in your room for women especially it gets um it gets stored in your room and then when you release it it's a power of belief those um that end that toxic waste in your energy will re-trigger your subconscious mind to go back to sabotage yourself so i get to i do some womb therapy on my clients and I clear the shame it's literally shame that comes up so for me mine was I was ashamed to want to have money so if I'm ashamed to have money I'm going to go back to my old sabotaging ways right so I cleanse the womb I cleanse the energy and

then the third step is I connect you to your future self. Now, this is the most beautiful part of abundance rewiring. It's like I reunite you together with your child, your present self and your future self. And you become one big family and you all go together on your journey together. And it's such a beautiful experience. All my clients have gone through it. They're just like, oh, my God, I can see my dreams. I can taste it. I can feel it even more now right welcome everybody you are listening to the only channel podcast a podcast from digital marketers to digital marketers i'm your host dominique

underground and my mission is to help fellow marketers and entrepreneurs to grow their businesses online so buckle up and let's get started. So I'm super happy you're here, honestly. And I think the first question what I wanted to ask you before we get into the meat and potatoes of the subject yeah right is is um like how did you like what i talk with walk me through your origin story like how did you get where you are now and and we can talk more about the mission statement of the burnout pussy power because that's like a different story but like just how to walk me through of like how do you get where you are right now so basically for me I've

been doing a lot of this like mindset stuff since I was young since I was like 13 14 maybe and I remember actually my mom she introduced me to like the world of the mindset of millionaires when I was 14 she gave me a book by David Schwartz the magic of thinking big and that's the book I actually listened to that one that's a really good one that's a good one she gave it to me for my 14th birthday like she was like read this book and because I had this when I was five actually I told my mom that I want to be a millionaire like I want to be really rich that's when I was five and so my mom always knew about me like my my desire to make it big so I remember she gave me that book and she was like listen you want to be a millionaire read this book I think it'll help

you and then when I read the book and I read it like in within a week I read around five books a week so I'm a very fast reader and I remember reading that book I'm thinking wow to become rich it's just the mindset that's it it has nothing to do like with the effort yeah obviously you put effort you have discipline but the main key of the whole millionaire billionaire movement is that you decide that you're never going to give up and that requires your mindset to be at a certain level where you don't play victim you don't blame and you take responsibility right so when I and that's like and I was bullied a lot in school and my mom always had this she always pushed me she was like you know I know you're getting bullied she sympathized with me but she said to me I don't want you to give up like just go back the next

day to school look at these people in the eye and let them know that they can't bring you down so I was always like my mum raised me with this resilience that no matter what you can control the way you respond to a situation and you can either choose to allow people to tell you that you're not good enough or you can choose to believe you're good enough yourself and let everyone else conform to your mindset that's how my mom raised me so that obviously as time went on you know going to relationships that weren't really good for me going to very toxic relationships and then I got to a point in my life when I was like I had a corporate job I was a teacher and then I lost that job um because I took some time

off work when my mom passed away and that's when I realized that wow I don't really mean like the way I see the world is not how people see my world and that's when I that's when a lot of things broke down for me and I was like okay let me go back to what I remember and when I went through hypnosis that's when I realized that oh my gosh I've always wanted to be a millionaire but I ignored that calling to try and please people to try and make other people happy to try and fit in like I was always trying to fit in because I felt like I didn't belong when I went through hypnosis and I started doing the inner inner child work that's when I started living on purpose and I was like oh my god this is who I really am like I'm there's no shame in wanting to be rich always felt ashamed of wanting to be rich always felt like it's bad to want to be rich

and then when I was like when I went through hypnosis I was like nah there's there's nothing wrong with it it's cool it's okay to be rich so that's basically my journey and then obviously like I went to after I did after I did all that inner work I started working on with people with women and I started with weight loss I helped women lose weight then I helped women overcome anxiety then I helped women bounce back after a divorce because I went through a divorce and then recently like two two three years ago is when I became a wealth hypnotist and I started teaching entrepreneurs how to conquer their health so that they can live a life that turns them on tap into their pussy power you know really like have the richness but also have like the lifestyle to match like I call it opulence the definition of opulence is to have affluence wealth and luxury

so that's what I teach now well that's amazing I first of all, your mom was a freaking superhero. Like, yeah, I wish I had a mom like yours, who has me like, read this my child. And like, through my life, I think I'm honestly, I'm not blaming like my mom for being a more simpler person. But I wish I had yours. So she seemed to be an awesome person thank you she was she was really amazing um I guess I don't want to stir this conversation to you to money and wealth too much but um but I think most of most of us were raised with the concept that money is evil money is bad wanting money is greedy greed is bad and I think that's implanted it's almost like our generations were like suffering and like poor and it's like almost like a pride of like being in that um how do I say it it's like stuck but like

and struggling but like struggle is what they know. And so that's their whole identity is tied into struggling. And so I did hypnosis on that as well on the money blocks and really realizing that money is just paper. And like, you need a whole bunch of it to have a very comfortable life and that's different for everyone you know like my conception of wealth and you know yours is different and the third person like we all have different definition of what we think is a lot of money and what you think is is what we desire in our life and and if yours is to have a ton of it like be my guest like that's that's like so like you should be able to do that without being judged without being criticized and and called whatever um so i applaud you for tapping into that

calling and aligning with yourself with that because it's just so important especially with something that is just like that negative connotations are freaking everywhere and it's so hard to to break out of that cycle right that's so true that's so true I want to add to that also that I think that as women, we shame ourselves so much not want to dream big because we have been taught for so long to just be caretakers. And that women are supposed to give and like love and we're supposed to be there to please everyone and put ourselves last. So I feel like as women, we have that negative connotation because we've been raised to be the women that look after everyone and we burn out yeah no i think it's so true and i would add to that is that um dimming dimming your lights and like holding back into what you are is so common just to fit in right like you would think that and i feel that a lot of times when i'm deeming myself around people is that I'm not

hanging out with the right people because if I have to deem myself then it's probably because it's it's not the right people I need to be surrounded by people that I can not deem my light and be myself and still not feel like I'm I'm too much and I feel like that's I don't know if you ever felt like you were too much yes like all the time too much yeah oh oh my gosh girl I'm so glad you touched upon that I've always felt like I'm too much even in school like the things I used to come out with like I'm gonna be famous I used to do autographs and people used to love me like you're too much like but like the way I talk sometimes like you know I'm very passionate about certain things and people like I can't handle your energy I don't know how to handle it and sometimes like if you're not around them like you mentioned

if you're not around the right people they're going to view you as a threat rather than someone that you can ally with yeah and that's so dangerous because you think there's something wrong with you and you might think oh my god i need to hold back because i'm too much but no you're not it's just you're not hanging out with the right people and so that's so important to surround yourself with who you can be your authentic self and like create that circle and just like people will naturally fall out whoever not supposed to be there anyway so that's cool i guess exactly exactly anyhow so let's talk a bit more about this uh mindset reviring abundance reviring that you're doing can you tell me what the hell is that what does it do to us? Okay. So basically, so abundance rewiring,

like hypnosis is amazing, but I feel like hypnosis doesn't really give you the fast results that you want. Like I work with a lot of women who have ADHD, they're high achievers. They're very driven by, they're driven by achieving and performing the high performance right so like sometimes when you go for hypnosis like i've done the inner child work i've done all that trauma work what next so what a monetary programming is is like is a combination of timeline therapy hope for oh no nlp cognitive behavioral therapy mental emotional release i'm gonna pretend like I know what that means. Okay. So yeah, neuro-linguistic programming is like

when you find out the meaning of like a memory and then you just change the meaning. Cognitive behavioral therapy focuses more on the habit and breaking the habit than focusing on the beliefs. Timeline therapy is similar to hypnosis, but you're just removing memories bad memories from your timeline in your past is about the energy the energy works you know when you do eft tapping um or like when you change your energy field like quantum quantum healing that's more to do with

that and mental emotional release is about removing the feeling the suppressed emotions that you held with the memories the bad memories so basically i combined all that together and what i did is i created a wonderful environment i was like this is going to be the best formula and i tested it i've tested this formula on like 300 people now and it's worked every single time yeah they're all alive and living all alive and living and they live in their best lives as well. Yeah, they have moments where they have downfalls, but they don't go back to the point where they hit rock bottom. That's the key.

Like I've worked with people who just had hypnosis, but they still hit rock bottom and they don't want to go back to that place. So what I do in abundance rewiring is, number one, I remove the disempowering belief in your subconscious mind. So I take it out like it's a weed. And then I install a more powerful belief so for example if you're if the belief is i'm not good enough then i install i install the belief that you are good enough right then the second step is i get you to cleanse your energy now what happens is this is the reason why

hypnosis this is why sometimes people fall back into bad habits, because you need to clear your energy. What happens is when your subconscious mind has the disempowering belief, it releases toxic energy around. It's like fumes, you know, like, you know, like if something was polluting your mind, you're going to have fumes around you. Right. What happens is those fumes get um stagnant in your room for women especially it gets um it gets stored in your room and then when you release it it's a power of belief those um that ended that toxic waste in your energy will re-trigger your subconscious mind to go back to sabotage yourself so i get to i do some wound therapy on my clients and i clear the shame it's literally shame that comes up so for me mine was i was ashamed to want to have money I get to, I do some wound therapy on my clients and I clear the shame.

It's literally shame that comes up. So for me, mine was, I was ashamed to want to have money. So if I'm ashamed to have money, I'm going to go back to my old sabotaging ways, right? So I cleanse the wound, I cleanse the energy. And then the third step is, I connect you to your future self. Now, this is the most beautiful part of abundance rewiring.

It's like, I reunite you together with your child, your present you to your future self now this is the most beautiful part of abundance rewiring it's like I reunite you together with your child your present self and your future self and you become one big family and you all go together on your journey together and it's such a beautiful experience all my clients have gone through it they're just like oh my god I can I can see my dreams I can taste it I can feel it even more now right so what I do is like your child when you were younger your child and your higher self were connected that's why no one could tell you no that's why no one could tell you that you dream too big that's why you were fearless because your higher self was guiding your inner child your child. But then what happened is society came along and they told you that you can't do it.

You're not good enough. Go get a job, work nine to five. That's how I'll value you. So then your higher self and your child got disconnected. So what I do is I bring you all together in a little reunion. And that's basically abundance rewiring. Wow, that's so amazing.

You need to get me on that very soon uh listen rosie um there's a few things that came to my mind and i'm going to share it with you because i'm working with a coach right now and she's helping me i'm blocking some of my self-minting beliefs and and what I told her is that when I go and do hypnotherapy I usually go to my safe place and my safe place is my glass house yeah and the wall is like water and I'm like going down touching and hanging out in my house it's very detailed I have a very very detailed description of my how my house looks like in the future and i hang out with my future self and and i and sometimes she's telling me like messages that i but i'm looking for answers she will tell me exactly what to do and i live my life hanging out with my future self all the time and so what I'm working on right now is how can I bring

that into the present moment and and what she told me that because I go and anchor myself into the future that at some degree at some level no matter how much therapy and hypotherapy I'm doing because I've never been there there is going to be that seed of doubt that you've never been there. And what do you think about that? Like, what do you think about anchoring in the future? What do you think about hanging out with your, with your future self? Do you think that's, that's, that's not going to work? Because what she told me is that because it's so far in the future I

never know when I'm gonna get there and and there's no road signs like how far are we and it's just overall not a good thing to do like what do you think about that well I believe that we are looking through our higher self like this is what I believe right now you're in the present moment and your higher self is looking at you through memories that's what I believe and I believe that when you're able to connect to your future self it's about letting go of the how I think that's what a lot of us focus on. So you know how your coach said that we haven't been there? That's because the focus is on the how. As long as you're able,

because this is what stops you from sabotaging, this is what stops you from procrastinating and being a perfectionist, is if you're able to connect to your future vision and you're able to feel it, sense it, taste it, and believe it, no matter what, it's always going to happen. Whatever you want is going to happen. And I'm living proof of it.

Like, I've been through, like, I was sexually abused as a child. I was bullied. I had depression. I was suicidal. I've been through all these events in my life, experiences in my life. And I'm here today with a multi-six-figure business. That's because somehow I attach to my future self somehow when I was in those moments I was still able to sense and feel and taste what it will be like once I get to that moment once I get to the point where I feel

successful and along the way I always felt successful I always felt like I have it all and this is what's required when you attach to your future self you have to feel like you have it and this is the thing right that when you feel like you don't have it that's when you start that's when your subconscious mind will start projecting that into the world and saying that you don't have it so let me prove to you that you don't have it because remember your subconscious mind doesn't know the truth between reality and the truth right it just knows what you tell it so if you tell yourself I'm a millionaire and I feel like it your subconscious mind's gonna be like okay let's go prove that let's go see how

true that is and things will happen in your life that you get opportunities like I'm on a podcast with you today this is an opportunity for me because I keep telling myself I'm an expert I'm a millionaire people listen to me people like want to hear my stuff. I'm not telling myself that maybe not. This is not going to work. And it requires me to always be my future self. This work that I'm doing right now, if I just work on it in the present and tell myself this, the present moment is the only moment I'm going to live in. And I don't want to attach it to something in the future. My subconscious mind is not going to want to move forward. It's going to want to stay here because here feels better than going in the future.

I hope that makes sense. Yeah, no, it absolutely makes sense. I do find comforting that going to hang out with my future self. Like when things are crumbling around me and my circumstances are not what I want them, I literally go there to the safe place and I just hang out and I feel so good in those moments because I know she I know I'm gonna be fine it's like I know it's there it's

just right now it's not I guess and my question is like how do you bridge the gap to embody that in the present moment and what do you personally teach your clients to do and what do you do yourself so the number one thing I do is affirmation so I ask for affirmations why I say why am I rich like why am I rich why am I happy right now why do I always get what I want and then I say to myself of course of course I'm rich of course I'm wealthy of course I'm an expert of course I have everything I want so I ask the why and I follow it up with of course and what wealthy of course I'm an expert of course I have everything I want so I ask the why and I follow it up with of course and what that does is it gets me out of my my stuff my shit like even I'm feeling sorry for myself telling myself woe is me it gets me out of that and it's like my subconscious mind goes to work so the moment you ask yourself why because normally we

say like why me why did this happen to me and then your subconscious mind will reply well because remember that time when you were a little kid and your mom and dad shouted at you right yeah like that's not helpful right right but some people do that right they go back to the past like yeah that's why I remember that time that's why so it gives us a chance to play victim right but when you say to yourself why am i rich why am i always blessed why do i always get what i want why why does money always come my way why do my clients love me when you start asking those questions your subconscious mind will be like well because of this because you know you're really good at what you do like you're really good at asking for what

you want um you know remember that time when you asked for 100k and then your client gave it to you to say yes i'm in so your subconscious mind starts looking for answers just remember your subconscious is a you ask her a question it's going to provide the answer so it's better to ask yourself better questions than to bring yourself down right it's so crazy i think tony robbins said if you ask your mind a lousy question you're gonna get a lousy answer like why am i fat it's because you can't stop stuffing your face that's why like instead of asking how can i build a habit of working out well what you can do you know sign up to the gym and like show up every fucking day and then you will lose so those questions are really important um so just to summarize what you said is that

on those moments in order to embody the future self like the higher self is that you have to ask yourself those questions that are not lousy questions and then have your answers and really embody that whatever you're saying you're gonna get those and and so do you do you have to do anything else besides that like I don't know you can for me it depends on like how you learn so for me I'm very I'm very visual and um it also depends on your love language so if your love language is like words of affirmation yes it is yeah it depends on how you receive love as well because sometimes you'll be doing things because you want to feel loved but you just don't know what makes you feel loved so some people do

meditation some people meditate some people do EFT um journaling I find journaling because I'm really good at writing I love writing journaling for me I'm asking questions in the moment like in the moment for me what works when I'm having like a terrible day or like I feel like I'm going down that road of sabotage asking affirmations works then when I feel like I'm when I feel like I'm about to I can feel it creeping up I journal right so what I would say to people is also don't don't there's not one particular way because I use a I use tons of tools and I teach my clients tons of tools that they can have depending on the moment right because sometimes you'll find right that you're doing EFT tapping right you're tapping you're tapping out the energy and you find that it's not working but then you find journaling in

that moment works go with what works for you in that moment and then you you switch it up you'll find something else that works in that moment well okay so it's it's really specific for for people it's not like a one you go and do now it depends on what is working for you personally okay um so let's talk about um let me just look at the topics here really quickly because I noted all of that I don't want to miss anything so okay what does it mean to tap into your pussy power oh girl okay now we're getting into it okay I love saying the pussy power because I feel like as women we have been so castrated for such a long time I think about it women even when I read this I read recently not recently like a while ago that female entrepreneurs still get paid less than male entrepreneurs can you imagine you are you're an entrepreneur you

came out of the nine to five capitalists you know patriarchal society so you can go make money and you're still earning less so I realized because number one us women when we are in survival mode and we build a business around surviving, we burn out very quickly. What we need around us is things that turn us on. And that's what I mean by tapping into your pussy power, because your biggest turn on is experiencing pleasure as if you would have an orgasm. That's what drives women. What drives us women is having fun fun feeling excited and feeling turned on and if you are building your business like a man would because men can work 24 7 we work around our menstrual cycle we can't work 24 7 it's impossible for us but then we shame ourselves if we can't work like

a man so you need to use your divine pussy power to go and find what turns you on so for me what turns me on is like jet skiing I love jet skiing makes me feel free going for a drive makes me feel free and going for a massage you know spending like 100 pounds or 100 dollars on some food like that's what really turns me on it excites me but the thing is what what women do is when they're building their business they castrate those elements to them because they say no I have to be like a man I have to think like a man being like a man to build this business and that's when I when I work with millionaires I work with female millionaires I have built an amazing business but they are so burnt out they're like why am I doing this anymore I'm not fulfilled that's because you neglected

that part of you you turn that off um and what do you think you said in order to turn it on you need to do things that actually turn you on like your hobbies like whatever you know works for you um i guess my question is uh when it comes to reaching that stage like is this something that you turned on and you go back to your business and you're crushing it? Like what, like how would you connect the two together? Or is it not working 24 seven by doing, letting yourself have those fun experiences at the same time? Exactly. That's what it is. So what we do as women, we shame ourselves for wanting to have fun.

But I know we can't because we're still thinking like a man. We're telling ourselves, no, I have to run this business 24 seven. I have to sacrifice, put 80 hours a week, grind, hustle. That's for the men. That's not for us women. Like, what's her name? Susie Batses. She's the one, do you know what that product called?

Poo Puri, where you spray. Oh yeah, I know. I love the ads. Oh girl. She's a nine figure CEO. You know what she said? She goes, her business became at nine figures because she followed her intuition

and she decided to forget the male standard of doing the business. And she said that she had this idea for Poo Puri, this perfume, when she was in the shower. And she told herself, she said to the, actually to the podcaster, she said, if I had ignored that intuitive moment and just carried on working

and ignored it I wouldn't have a nine-figure business I wouldn't have this amazing business but because I'd used my divine female power of intuition that's what helped me build this business that's where that's where and she did things that she still has a balanced lifestyle she's not working 24 7 she has a team she has people who run her business for her she she was she hired very early she didn't wait until she made money she hired very early because she realized that she can't do it by herself so this is what happens with those women when we want like when we want someone to cook and clean you say no we can't because i'm a woman i should be doing that when we want to go for a massage or get our nails done, we're like, no, I should be working right now.

It's not a very entrepreneurial thing to do. We shame ourselves. So my goal is to help women remove that shame and that guilt so that you can feel the turn on and the pleasure in life. That's so, so important. By the way, just going back to the Poopery, like Harmon Brothers directed their advertisement advertisement on youtube you have to watch it if you haven't seen the ads it's fucking like i'm this like ad person i love it so much

because it's funny it's like core kids just like perfect so um they did a really good job selling their product for sure um so you you mentioned that obviously uh we try to fit it into a society that was that's male dominated right and that's we try to shame ourselves for not being able to uh you know work that much and like even if we do we try to push ourselves into a role it's so funny that you say that because I always said like I used to be that I cook for you I take care of you and I'm like huh we got catering for that like oh yeah cleaning lady can do it for like super cheap I'm like yeah let's get some you know uh in-house people that I can you know do the cleaning cooking like sorry but it's just like and it i get so much shit for that i can't imagine i get so much

shit for that like what the fuck are you talking it's just like you have to know who to share those like visions for because like that's why you have catering and you know what those caterers they love cooking and it's like they're like who am i to if i'm paying for that it's like they should you know help us serve us and and and and you know the cleaning leader is just like is it bad for me to to want that to be done for me so I can enjoy my environment I'm not like I'm like super messy or something but like right but it's something that I thought it's so true right and it's so true that you said that like people don't share that vision I don't think that's crazy like us women should have it hard like come on we bear babies right we we risk we have to lower our standards to get into a

relationship like we have it we're doing ourselves a disservice every single day right like we're trying to fit in so when people say that oh you should be doing everything yourself because there's a belief in society that women should have it hard yeah that's really like it's really interesting that we have that belief it comes from generations ago it comes from so many like famine war whatever happened in the past we are carrying those beliefs in this society right now and now that we live in a society where there's technology is available at the touch of a button why should us women have it hard and just like you said that there's people out in this world who love cooking so you're doing a disservice to someone who loves cooking and you're stopping

them from expressing their gifts and like getting paid for it right exactly right so that's why i'm saying like uh it's so insane and I'm I feel like again I've been hanging out with the wrong people that are like constantly judging me like are you crazy and my dad was like well Domi you I guess you are like not walking anymore you're like floating and as if it's like a bad thing I don't know I don't think there's anything wrong with that but it's just like I see what your point is like even from your own family when you try to express that and if you are a business owner like all that and I remember my dad like telling me how money doesn't grow on trees you have to work hard for it I'm like I really like I guess i don't know like um people seem to appreciate what i do for

them and i don't have to break myself in half to to be able to bring that you know to them so it's just uh i don't know it's i'm so i'm so like sad to see that that's our reality and that's just like i'm so glad for you and for your existence as well into empowering ceos and women ceos to be to be leaving that shame and like even the reading that out of them and so they feel that they are not stupid or like if to even think that they should not be doing all the heavy lifting by themselves so I'm so so glad that you exist we need to thank you so much yeah thank you for recognizing that like I really appreciate that you recognize that that's because that's really like I can't express to you how much of

a mission that is for me because I saw my mom struggle all her life and she and she she had like she had depression at the end of it when she just was felt depressed she was broken after it because that feeling of I'm a woman and I have to take it all on so it's like breaking that generational curse that us women don't have to go through that are we in 2021 now we're not in 1940s where the men went to war and then we're left behind to go clean like no we got things going on now right yeah I'm so so glad for that and it's it's crazy because I still have friends that are just like struggling and like have so many kids.

I'm like, dude, just get yourself a nanny. And like, no, no, my husband doesn't want me, dad, because it's my job to care for the baby. I'm like, okay. Like, I'm not talking to your husband anymore, I guess. Like, no, I'm so not agreeing with that mindset. Anyhow, yeah, that's like, we can talk about it forever it's just like i'm it's infuriating so i do we need to clone you like do you like right i know like it's like science like

how they're doing but we need to clone you somehow thank you i feel so honored right now yeah for real like like a rosy rosy clone plan like how elon musk is doing with neuralink like i i really hope that's like moving along that project because like right we get to leave to cloning you into like i love that honestly it's true though isn't it funny how like like it's not some kind of feminist or like I hate men I'm bashing men but isn't it funny how like for women like everything revolves around what a man feels like and like we're doing things constantly just to please a man like me like my husband he doesn't mind he's happy for me to have a nanny but it took me like 10 relationships to get to this point I'm just thinking in my mind like why did it take me so

long like why I would do so much heartache just to get to this point like I wish I knew all this knowledge that I have now I feel like I wouldn't have gone down that road and I would be like no I'm putting myself first even my boundaries this is what I want I'm not gonna settle for less and I'm done and I'm gonna get what I want right instead of going through the heartache of all this people right with your life and husband life would have been so easy like yeah because you know why because we have that belief that women should have it hard you see you see how this belief of we should have it hard we need to suffer we need to like break our backs to make someone a man especially happy and yes we are responsible

for that because of our belief system we always lower ourselves we tell ourselves that this is a this is as good as i'll get and we tell ourselves that because of me this is what i'm gonna have and i should i'm here to fix a man or i'm his rehab center. And when he's fixed, he's going to love me because he's going to realize I was there for him for all the shit. And he should love me now. That's how you get into a narcissistic relationship, my friend. I'm going to fix you.

I'm going to fix you up so good. You're going to be like, oh my God. Like, fuck off. Like, work on your own problems. Like, fix yourself go get a therapist like i'm i'm not your therapist you need therapy for that like not a marriage or relationship you don't need that you need a therapist exactly and it's not our job to fix a man up like i'm sorry i'm guilty but like I realize that's like a dead end like they have to have that work done

by themselves and it's not exactly right and I know I know us women like we carry wounds and this is what I learned as well that when you have buttons on you like sometimes our triggers are where we display it on our bodies and someone will come and be like she has my triggers I'm going to trigger her and see how she responds and if she responds in a way that makes me feel good about myself i'm going to go for it this is what we both do like in a in a relationship we look at a man we're like oh my god he gives me butterflies those butterflies are traumas girl like you need some traumas that you to heal on like that's not butterflies that the man should make you feel at peace not and calm not chaotic right but we go for the

chaos because of these belief patterns that we have in our subconscious it's so crazy because even i read that like narcissist the reason why you're so addictive is because they keep you on your toes they they always like they have that as if you know when you have like a car accident and you have the trauma and you're so alert and alive they literally keep you in that loop and you're like wow i feel so alive but it's just not healthy for you and anyway we can talk about like toxic relationships forever i know and exhausting topics but i think it all comes back to us reclaiming that power and and not taking shit and not take and not taking um like claiming what we want and even have that very clearly clarified like okay this is what i want and so i'm willing to sit alone in this house

i don't care if i'm alone like even be okay with that but i wait until the right man comes and i'm not going to lower the bar just because i feel like well no one's gonna come but like keeping the standards high and be willing to be alone until that happens and if you go out sit down with someone and you're not hitting those whatever you need like i'm sorry then it's not gonna work next time you know what that's that's the yin and the yang method like for a man being with a woman is gonna make him feel alive and for a woman being able to stand alone and feel great is your power so for a man like men can only build with another person that's how they're innate that's how they are built for us women we can be alone but we will build with someone that's going to bring us calm

and we're going to only build when we feel so powerful being alone like I like I was when I got divorced I was alone for three years and there were guys there was prospects that people wanted to get get with me and I was like nah I'd rather just be alone because if you're not going to bring I'm at peace right now if you're not going to match my peace then I don't want it and then when I was able to like be okay with that that's when things fell into place and that's when I thought met my husband we got married in 10 days we met over Instagram he he DM'd me about my business you slid into the DM's okay oh girl I need to get I need to get that I need to get that because we have a baby now right he's a year old and I need to get that t-shirt where I say you know starting in the dms

and now we're here like that's literally what happened with me and my husband and we've been together for two and a half years and it's been such an it's an amazing relationship there yeah we have our ups and downs we have our arguments but because I'm at peace being alone and he's at peace being with someone like he wants to be with me he don't want to he don't want me to like chase him he wants to build with me that's what makes it a powerful dynamic yeah and you know what it's so important because then no one's happiness it depends on the other person because you are as you are and I think that's so important to be like I'm cool either way single relationship that doesn't

change like I am like that in shape unshakable with within myself I think I think a lot of people like even so fearful of like what would that be if I'm just by myself like I need a partner like that craving that I need someone because like but I think I don't know I think it's a mindset thing like can you of course you can exist without a man of course yeah that choice for that and you can like whatever it's fine you can make it happen let's get a hobby yeah that's what and that's the essence of living a life that turns you on like imagine if I was if my me and my husband I got to be able to divorce or like leave I we would I would be able to like move on with my life and I wouldn't feel like I'd oh my god I'm broken like yeah I

would feel hurt yeah I would be upset but it's like I wouldn't get to a point where I'm so broken I'm so depressed I'm just destroying myself in my grief that's what a lot of women do because they weren't ready to be alone and if you're okay being alone and you see that as something powerful that's when like in your world no one can destroy what's within you. Because remember your internal world is what's reflecting on the outside. If you're constantly looking for someone outside of you to validate you, you will never feel fulfilled inside. You will never be at peace. Yeah. And it's so true. And I think it's, first of all,

it's hard for women to understand that. And it's harder to actually apply that in their life. So what do you think, in your perspective, are ways to empower that, like embody that, that I'm okay? What do you think, what would you suggest for your clients as well to be embodying that?

So I would say to, like, this is what I did. This is my personal journey. I went back and I went through what I overcame so I overcame attempting suicide that's like one of my biggest achievements in life I attempted suicide it didn't go through and there's a reason why because I didn't fulfill my purpose yet so I look at that I always look at that wow if I was able to survive that what makes me think I will not be able to survive anything else like I have something within me I have a gift I have purpose and I'm going to live for that purpose and that's the second thing living for your purpose have a purpose in mind your purpose isn't like a lot of women say I

want to be a homemaker that's great but what purpose is this fulfilled within you is it having a family is it like leaving a legacy is it having generational wealth what is the other purpose behind it and then another thing I will say to women is like ask yourself what's the deeper why you know how Simon Sinek said like find your why yeah start with why yeah start with why but there's a deeper why there's always a deeper why so for me it's like I'm building this business not just for me but for number one for people to see that you can overcome anything. Like it doesn't make you, it doesn't break you. I mean, it doesn't break you, it will make you. And secondly, so I can leave behind generational wealth

for my children, because I never got that. That's my deeper why. So when you, and fourthly, digging into your traumas. Fight, like, this is a big thing. A lot of us seek people to avoid our traumas we seek things like we seek pleasure we seek addictions we seek people to avoid what's going on within so when you're able to look within and realize that you are messing up your own life it's only you it's on you it's on no one else you are messing up your own life with the thoughts

that you have and the beliefs that you have and you're able to go deep within and just excavate like excavate your soul release all that pain that rejection that that betrayal that grief that fear release it all cry it out punch your pillow get mad but then tell yourself I'm gonna get better I'm gonna move on and get better yeah I think that's so powerful um I remember like usually I'm such an independent person in the sense I even pride myself on that that I can I I can cry like a baby I'm like snap out of it like let's go back to work so right I love that I love that and it's it's and it's I thought that was that was me being cold like how can I turn that on and off and is this a problem that I'm able to do that how can I how can I just just like a surgeon like you have a like a patient and you have to be in that mode when you're and I'm working I can't be emotional and think that oh this patient is like my mom or whatever you know so having that ability as to alternate between when I need to be

cold when I need to be like on my game and when I need to let go and so I used to think that's a problem like there's something wrong with me seriously for having that coldness but it's like a part of myself it's like a little darkness that is just like yeah and you know what the most the most crazy thing I mean I know like right now a lot of people are saying about feminine energy like just being your feminine but you know what happens when you're too much in your family you start getting emotional and you start victim becoming a victim start blaming that's too much feminine you need that coldness to carry on you need your masculine that's your healthy masculine

and you have a healthy feminine it sounds like you found your balance like you found the balance like I'm gonna cry but I'm gonna let it go yeah I'm gonna cry I'm gonna feel but then I'm gonna be able to move on because I realize if I stay stuck in this position I'm not going to be able to move and that's the key thing like a lot of us think that feminine energy is being passive let it flow let it go yes you do that but you also have to move that otherwise you stay stagnant yeah some degree so let's talk about uh mindsets and how your mindset and i think that's like the marketing side like let's cover that and after i give rambles like other things but we said like mindset and like your business and marketing is like so important

like why do you think mindset and marketing are coming together and like mindset and like business are coming together and like what what's your take on that like in your experience with your clients like what you've been seeing so far so like for me why I believe marketing is it's like showing people the real you because people need to know who you are and what they're investing in and what they're buying right so the thing is a lot of us don't want to feel vulnerable online we don't want to be authentic we feel like if I'm too real people are going to criticize me they're going to judge me they're going to reject me but the biggest mistake a lot of us do is that we create this fake persona around ourselves I've got my life together it seems great like you've got me on my yacht and then there's nothing wrong with that but also you need to

understand that your your clients want to see the real you they want to see that you go through the same problems as them but then they want to see how you overcome them and this is where your mindset and your marketing comes together and it creates this beautiful powerful experience for your clients because remember there's only way that your clients can experience you through your videos and through your content that's the only way they can experience you way before they buy from you so if you're not giving them an experience but they can relate to you and they don't feel like they like but the best example i can always give is kylie jenner now people are talking about her marketing recently that she created like the swim swimwear it wasn't that great and you know she

didn't really listen to her clients and people are now talking about Kylie cosmetics like she doesn't really reply to her fans like she's just like that type of woman that doesn't hustle like Kim Kardashian now Kim Kardashian she like listens to her client base she's relatable she messes up online she shows her real self Kylie's the opposite so a lot of people are going through that emotion right now and saying like let's cancel Kylie obviously you want to cancel someone like I don't believe in the council culture but a lot of people like calling out Kylie for like who she really is this is what I mean by being relatable you have to be able to connect with your audience you have to be able to connect with them through experiences that tell them what have

you been through what have you gone through what's the darkness that you've gone through that has made you the person you are today and that's what I try to help my clients with like when I help them get rid of those beliefs in their minds that if I'm authentic online then I'll get judged that's what I get rid of I help them get rid of that rid of that belief so they can go online and be vulnerable and will not think a second thought about it that's powerful yeah i think i love that you say that and i think a lot of people including myself have this and i with my coach this morning and she said you know what domi um i know where you're starting out with your coaching but um it seems to me that uh you need to lose the mask.

And I'm like, okay. You got pulled out, you got pulled out, girl. Shit. And then I was like, okay, I guess. But like, I'm so, I think, again, being in this power of yours and and embodying that and like being used to like running your business like take making decisions and uh as your ceo i am a ceo as well of my own business um but being in this mode-7, you kind of lose like where one stops and the real you begins. Ah, yes, that's true.

And so like, what do you think is a good tactic for us to tap into that? Who we are versus what we need to be in our businesses? And where do I begin as me and where do that what does that end and like what are the lines and do we have to separate those two or do we can we somehow bring the two together and be still authentic yeah I believe that your business is your brand but it's not here to solve your problems so the number one thing I tell my clients is before you post this are you looking for validation are you looking for someone to say oh my god i'm so sorry you've gone through that are you looking for consistency are you looking

to play the victim if that's the case you need a therapist or a coach you don't need to be online right now telling people about your business just once what i was saying about okay how do we not blur the lines the way you don't blur the lines is by asking yourself that am I looking to get validation by posting this or by saying this and this is where the inner work comes in because people think the inner work is just about dealing with traumas it's also dealing with beliefs and thoughts that you have right and another thing I always say to my clients is that your business is not here to solve your problems if you are feeling that I want to put this content out there because I want to say that look at me look I'm better than everyone or I want to say that look at me woe is me you need like a coach or a therapist to help you work through those feelings and then another thing with

authenticity is like be authentic but be elegant with it that's that's what we need to do like and elegance is this like okay victimhood is this like look at um I went through this recently and I feel so bad I feel depressed I feel broken does anyone else feel me you're gonna create like a pity party but if you're gonna put content out there right and be like I went through this and this is how I overcame it and I know you can overcome it too that is you being elegantly vulnerable online and that's what people are looking for people are looking for you to be able to express yourself but in a place of empowerment rather than from a place of like victimhood or pity or pity yeah that's a really good uh way to go about it i think that's a really great way um

so i guess um not just like like let's not talk like marketing necessarily but um but that who you are as a person do you help your clients redefine that as well to who they are like that sense of i i don't know who i am anymore like i am i this and i think a lot of times and i'm very very fucking guilty of that because i my brain works in a way where i i seek to understand everything that's happened to me my past so i this is how i gain control over the situation so for me if I had a narcissistic relationship it's because oh cool uh let's see what's happening in my childhood oh yeah that's because of that that's why oh that's codependent empath okay cool so getting all that labels in me like I'm

an introvert I guess that's why I feel so drained when I'm outside and labeling ourselves for me that's like I'm so guilty like as if like I'm boxing myself I'm this I'm outside and labeling ourselves for me that's like I'm so guilty like as if like I'm boxing myself I'm this I'm that and so you get to the point where I guess I understand why I do what I do but I don't want that to be defining who I am right how would you help someone and your clients as well to redefine that who I am I am not my trauma I'm not this I'm not that but then who the fuck am I like how would you do about then helping them as well especially if they are like in your businesses as well all the time that's what I mean like blurring the line of like who I am not just like as well of course of course so number one thing when we were all born

all of us every single one of us was able to ask for what we want right like when you cried you either got fed your nappy got changed when you like pooped in the toilet for the first time your mom and dad like you know did through it did a little dance, like, yay, well done. So who you, right? So who you really are is a very confident, bulletproof to rejection, unstoppable person. That's who you, everyone is like that. Now, the nuance is this, we express it in different ways, right? So I express it through being able to get people out of their bs getting people to see a different side to life different perspectives and getting women especially to get out of their shit and

start start living their best lives that's how I express mine yours is in a different way right now what what I do now this this is this is like what's so beautiful about inner work is when I do like abundance rewiring on my clients, when I go through that three-step process that I spoke about in the beginning, every single person I work with has been like, oh my god, I know who I am now, I'm this person who doesn't back down, I don't quit, I'm able to speak my mind and not fear rejection, that's why every single client of mine has said that, that I know who I am now like after healing that certain trauma especially where and this is what happens when you're a child and you express

yourself your true self and you get shut down that's the part of you that tells you okay I'm not good enough like if my mom really loved me she wouldn't have shut me down and she wouldn't be telling me off for being myself and I found with all my clients is that when they go for the abundance rewiring they become like they're able to like I have clients right now who are charging like 500 pounds and now they're charging 3,000 pounds after a session and they're getting clients because they're not afraid to ask for something to to go back to their to their baby self if that makes sense to their toddler self that was fearless I want I want you to like realize this and everyone listening is that you were born fearless

that's it that's who you really are you are a fearless person and you express in a different way you just have to go deep within and ask yourself when did I believe that I'm not fearless when did I believe that when did I believe that I'm not good enough when did I believe that I'm not fearless? When did I believe that? When did I believe that I'm not good enough? When did I believe that I don't belong here? When did I believe that I'm not important? Or I don't have anything important to say? And when you're able to go to those events and say, tell yourself, no. Like, I'm going to listen to the little girl within.

I'm going to give her what she needs there and then. I'm going to validate her, tell her how much I love her. And I'm going gonna bring her along on my journey that's when you start becoming who you really want to be wow that's amazing so um just to talk about the reviring session because it's really it's i think it's a super powerful tool in your toolbox right now that you use to achieve breakthroughs for your clients uh whoever wants to have that breakthrough uh what are like how the process looks like is it like how long like can you just describe do i have do you have to be like hypnosis like like for someone who's like afraid they're gonna

hack into their brain and like implant something implant something and i'm like oh okay so what it is is a two-hour session and usually two hours is enough to help you just break through a certain behavior so let me give you an example of procrastination let's say i know you're procrastinating on getting a project finished and then you're like why am i procrastinating so what happens is I book you in for the session and then I just basically get you to relax all you do in the whole session is just go to sleep that's it oh you just go to sleep and I do the work it's like you're going for a massage for your brain basically it's like I'm doing all the work for you I'm getting you to I'm finding out where the memory was, what happened when you were a child.

I'm finding out what the belief was. You don't have to do any of the hard work, like journaling or meditating or talking. You don't even do any talking. I ask you a question, you give me the answer. Yeah, it's none of that. Like none of the talk therapy. You just sleep, like literally sleep.

I get you to relax and I do all the work. Freaking amazing. Like book me in yeah so yeah literally girl like let's do it it's so like I remember a client said this to me she goes I was so like anxious that you're gonna ask me personal questions and I won't be able to answer them but she goes literally all I had to do was sleep and you did all the work and I and another thing is you remember some of it but you don't you don't have that feeling like it was traumatizing because I have a few people who say well I was sexually abused as

a child yeah or I went through some severe neglect and I don't want to go past that I don't want to go back to that you won't you won't feel like you've gone back to it because I help you disconnect from the memory and just help you I just help you find the meaning and help you remove the charge the the feeling of shame the feeling of fear abandonment I help you remove that without you being involved in the memory so very simple process sounds complicated but in those two hours I do all of that and you wake up you're like oh my god I feel like so light. I feel so, so happy. I feel so amazing. That's why every client is happy with me. That's amazing.

And is this like, is this something that you do? I think you mentioned you have like a 12-day program as well. Like what's the difference between the program, like the longer program and like the two-hour session? And is it included in the program? Like what are those things for the listeners who like to work with you so um i have a two-hour session the two hour session basically we focus on one behavior so let's say you're procrastinating i help you find a reason why you procrastinate and get rid of it and then help you connect to your future self and get do my three-step process if it's more than that let's say you're you're you're

procrastinating but you feel say you're procrastinating, but you feel like you're not perfect enough. And then you feel like a fake on top. And there's three beliefs that you have in your subconscious mind that require two hour sessions each. So then that would be a longer package. So I offer three months packages one-on-one and I offer six month packages one-on-one.

Now, if it's just a two hour session, you get the two hour session and you get four one-hour coaching calls. So it's a 30-day package, two-hour session you get the two-hour session and you get four one-hour coaching calls so it's a 30-day package two-hour session four one-hour coaching calls and on those coaching calls we focus on I give you I give you very powerful tools that you can use whenever you feel the procrastination creeping back up if you feel the sabotage creeping back up you have these tools that I teach you and it helps you like stay at this new level that you're at and the three-month package the same thing it works into 30-day sectors so you have two-hour session four-hour um four one-hour group coaching

calls and that happens every month and we all in the in the coaching calls we focus on what's coming up in your life your behavior and i teach you a tool so that the 12-week program is a sexy mindset makeover right and basically you're going in a group setting and I find there's people who enjoy the group setting they enjoy being in a group that's why I created the group but you just get the same thing get the two-hour session every month in a group setting and i find that people who love being around other people get deeper healing as well because they just enjoy being in that in that in that environment so yeah that's basically it and like seeing like other people's having those breakthroughs as well i think that has for sure yeah yes definitely well that's amazing um

i love all of that i really hope that thank you really hope that they need to revire their brain. Like, here I am like, okay, guys, I have like a freaking long list of things that I need to work on. It's like a cost. I don't know, 24 hour session for me, like I'm going to be out. I'm going to be like sleeping for 24. I don't even know if be like sleeping for 24 I don't even know if that would be tough like I don't even know where to start and that's you know and that's the beauty of it another thing that technically there's only three disempowering beliefs that we have that I'm not good enough I'm going to fail and I don't belong here once you get rid of all those three beliefs you are going to be like a superhuman that is able to bounce back after

every disappointment, after every failure. That's what, that's the key, right? You want to be able to bounce back. Like you want to feel things, but you don't want to stay there. You don't want to feel depressed. You want to feel the moment. Just like you mentioned, I cry and then I move on. Yeah. Right. And a lot of people sometimes can't do that because they feel like why me why is this happening to me this shouldn't be happening I'm failing I'm a bad person I feel so embarrassed all the spiral into that right and then that's because of your childhood it has nothing to do with what you are right now and you just need to reprogram that wow that's so good I've been just listening to this book called the big leapap. And The Big Leap is basically treating this problem of upper limits, right? Like when you

want to grow and extend into a certain part that's like reaching your upper limit is when you sabotage, right? That's why a a million like whoever won the lotteries they go broke and bankrupt whoever had success they fuck it up somehow and so how to not move into like how can i move past my upper limit and still expand and not you know mess up and sabotage well i think that book itself treated like i think one of them was worthiness like those obstacles that are and one of them was worthiness and i need to pull the last sort of this but i think just like you said i have it in my notebook because i'm noting from every book i'm listening to but uh but i think those are so so important that we need that um maybe i don't need like 24 hour sessions

i need to get yeah the first one is feeling fundamentally flawed um second one is disloyalty and abandonment like if i'm getting into a certain success i'm gonna be abandoned or i'm not going to be like my friend's gonna leave me like all of that right um third is believing more success more burden oh yes that's what i'm going through right now really oh my gosh girl i'm going through that right now like today I had I have another business that I have with my husband it's a car business and like this big thing happened in the business and I was like why does this always happen is it because I'm rich is it because I'm making money like am I supposed to expect these things like if I wasn't rich I wouldn't be going through this like that's how my mind was trying to sabotage itself because I was

telling myself the more successful I become the more responsibility I have to keep things together yeah keep it all together yeah yeah so you need to work through that one and I think the third one is the crime of outshining just basically yes when you feel like like as a child when you were too bright or something you know when you were like showing that you're more than like smart or something and you got you know like bring down like oh my god you're too much right like you're too much yeah like that fear of outshining as if that's a problem when you are not dimming your lights when you are being your authentic self so i think those are the four uh hidden barriers actually they call it

I know what I love that book that book is like I read it every other every month just like I get new nuggets from it it's an amazing book like everyone should read it I think yeah no definitely and not even just like those success and limits and like well like a couple therapy standpoint like i'm taking 100 responsibility for what went wrong and i take 100 responsibility for resolving the issue and like how that is such a shift in like you did this you did that i did that and just like shifting even the blame like dissecting it 90 your fault% I might know instead of like taking both 100% like even for me that was like super like oh yeah that's a good one right so true okay so um how can someone connect with you if they want to have those limiting beliefs weeded out um do you have like

your program that you're doing like is it something that's um do you have like your program that you're doing like is it something that's ongoing do you have like launches like like when can someone jump in or do you like close launches like what like how is the structure right now oh um with a two-hour session i have three slots available uh until december until the end of the year so i have three slots available for the two-hour sessions once those slots get off you mean two slots available sorry girl sorry sorry sorry she called it she called it okay i mean i don't know let's see if i can afford it first and then let's talk about it i think i think i think i think i read like you have like 100,000 coaching and I'm like okay cool is this the one no it's not that one

no that's what like that's what like my clients were making millions it depends on like your and how much you're making as well so my price is not fair like according to that the transformation that you get is so worthy no i know i i respect i respect whoever is putting their prices out and it's just like if you tell me it's 100k i guess you know uh i get to i get to work then because then i need to i need to make 100k for rosie like yeah no problem give me a month i'll get there yes and that's you know what hun that is the type of clients I only work with I only work with clients who because listen I don't need anyone's money I really don't yeah I only want to work with successful people who I know will get a result who I know will be committed that's the reason why I have like very short for

this my one-on-one it's very small I only have a few slots and for my um sacred essential success it runs every three months so I have a launch coming up I'm opening up re-enrollment for the middle of November so around the 15th of November um yeah I'm re-launching sacred essential success and that's where you get the three group of mandatory wiring sessions and you get one hour coaching calls every week until the end of the program so that's that and i have that every three months so i'm launching now in november and then i'll be relaunching in february and those spaces go fast because i only take on 10 women 10 oh okay yeah girls the spaces are super limited here but i love it yeah it's it's it's exclusive even like i think you need to have like a waiting list for someone to come in like

maybe for right and that's i love that i love that i love that again attention is like on that 10 you know yes yeah and the reason why the reason why I make it so small because I just want that intimacy and I know a lot of coaches will say no go big but for me it's not about it's about quality I really I really want quality over quantity so I always pick the people coming to my group programs I pick them and I really weed them out to make sure that they want to be part of a group and they want to thrive as a group and they want to heal collectively as a group that's very important to me so that's why I keep it small yeah it's so good so you're not you are so you're accepting everyone but you have your own

qualification process of course that you like handpick people like this is what I want to work with and this is maybe you know and maybe I can send you to another coach and that would be you know good exactly and I do a lot of that I do a lot I do a lot of referring to other coaches like when people come to me saying that marketing is a bit all over the place I'm like okay I'm not for you I know someone who's really good at that someone comes to me about you know strategy like Facebook and stuff I'm okay go with that person I'm not the one so I'm always referring people and that's why I just don't take everyone on because I want to make sure that I have the right clients around me. And on your end,

you said that you're successful already. So what kind of problems you're experiencing right now that you're helping solve besides, you know, the burnout and all that? So maybe like one of the main things that's come up recently for my clients is their relationships.

So maybe you've recently gone through a breakup and you feel like it's affecting your business or your inner marriage or your relationship which is drying out you're going through a dry spell maybe the sex isn't great you know you have an orgasm for a while you think what's wrong with me is it because i'm fat is it because it doesn't like me anymore you have all these issues in your relationship that really affects your business and another thing with health I work with a lot of women who've had infertility issues who had like painful periods painful menstrual cycles and like maybe you're exhausted all the time you don't you got insomnia anxiety so those are the kind of women I work with the main thing is that right

now you have money but you're not feeling fulfilled like you're thinking like I hope making money is going to make me happy but I don't have the man I don't my health is not great and I don't have the life that really reflects the money money I have so I come along and I help you rewire the beliefs that you created in your mind when you're a child so that you can go and enjoy your money like spend your money feel good spending your money and you know and like hire a team member hire a VA hire people around you so your business can run without you so you can go on holiday and not be on your phone 24 7 trying to figure out like who do I reply to like there's so many people messaging me like you need that to your VA so you can go and you know get naked on the beach drink your like

pina colada and have a great time like that's the whole point that's why you built this business so that's basically the obstacle that most of my clients are going through yeah that's that's very specific as well and i think right yeah a lot of women are guilty of that just like you said like operating from the smell energy and like not being able to tap into their powers and like not feel just feel good about spending time you know not working i think that's a huge thing um okay well thanks so much i think uh let's wrap up so much thank you so much fun honestly i learned so much and and yeah i would love what you do and i i'm here to support as well uh the movement and and and like if you need clients to your way like honestly like i'm gonna be like your walking advocate from now on oh girl i love you i can

you go like a friend for life I love it I love it and you know what I just want to say thank you so much for like reaching out to me I feel so honored to like have had this conversation with you like you really tapped into some parts of me that I really forgot like you just asked me certain questions and it reignited the passion that I have for this for this stuff that I do so thank you so much for that like I deeply deeply appreciate it Thank you.